Judging others—it’s something that we all do, all the time. Whether we’re aware of it or entirely subconsciously, we’re constantly evaluating and interpreting the world around us. Making comments about people and situations in our heads. Checking how the world conforms to how we imagine it should be like. And frowning upon anyone who litters!
After being prompted to open up by redditor u/supercoliofy, internet users began sharing the things that make them silently judge people. Taking a deep dive into their comments is enlightening: we’ve judged people for similar things; we’ve done some of the things in this list that deserve judgment.
Read on for some silent judgment-gone-loud, upvote the posts you agree with, and drop on by the comment section to share your opinions, dear Pandas. Do bamboo thieves make you angry? Do you think people give other bears more recognition? We’re very interested to hear what makes you silently judge someone.
Bored Panda reached out to Lee Chambers, a Psychologist and Wellbeing Consultant, to talk about why we judge other people, as well as what role this plays in our lives.
"Judging others is something that we as humans do, both consciously and automatically, and there are a number of reasons why we do it. Comically, we are often told as children not to judge others and have stories shared about how judging others can mean we upset them or lose opportunities to see what really lies behind our perception," he told Bored Panda. Scroll down for our interview with Lee!
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I immediately judge you if you make fun of someone who's trying. I saw someone make fun of an overweight classmate despite the fact that he was doing diets, running, and exercising. He's putting an effort and you have no right to s**t on him.
Psychologist Lee, the founder of Essentialise Workplace Wellbeing and PhenomGames, revealed to Bored Panda some of the reasons why we judge other people.
"Sometimes, we judge others to feel superior ourselves, finding faults in others, highlighting them, and feeling better about ourselves in the process. Sometimes, we use it to work out where we fit in, recognizing how we want to be, where our aspirations lie, and how we don't want to become," he said.
"Sometimes, it's in response to our own flaws, and we attack others for what we don't like or don't see into ourselves. And on other occasions, it's to fit into a wider group who judge something or someone, and we conform and perform with the same judgment."
People who have no awareness of their surroundings when they're out in public.
It doesn't cost anything to wait your turn in a queue, hold a door open for someone, turn on your indicators 10 seconds earlier than you just did, or not block off the entire pavement because you want to hold hands with your husband / wife.
It's so selfish. Drives me mad just thinking about it.
Thank you for the gold, kind stranger.
people who don't say please and thank you.
people who act like a d**k to service staff like cashiers and waiters.
people who generally show a lack of consideration to other people.
one thing my dad always told me: manners cost nothing.
According to Lee, being judgmental can be good and it "does have some benefits when used mindfully," however.
"It can help us to set goals, find alignment with our values, it can help us to build the self-awareness of others and it can boost our self-esteem," he told Bored Panda.
"Add to that it can also help us to make positive social choices, and it's understanding how and why we judge that gives us the ability to use it for our benefits instead of escaping our flaws or pulling others down."
Littering. It hurts to watch, I don't see how people can litter.
Edit: Hey Cloin
I think it is what you are taught in the home this is something that needs to be learned from birth! If I tried it outside - would you do that at home?
I judge people for not washing their hands after using the bathroom
OMG! YES! My OCD spikes out of control for things like this. End up getting panic attacks if I feel surrounded by too much of it😓
Far from everyone makes errors with malicious intent. Quite often, people aren’t even aware that they’re making a mistake. Or they might not think that something that elicits judgment (like parking wrong or being late to meet someone all the friggin’ time) is actually that big of a deal. It’s selfishness and we’ve all got that, just in varying amounts.
We know that being self-aware of our own flaws is difficult. For one, nobody likes thinking that they’re less than perfect. Besides, we don’t have the luxury of seeing our behavior from a different perspective. That’s why it’s important to speak up if you see someone constantly making the same mistakes.
When they have no knowledge of the topic but is still arguing to the person who actually has the knowledge. I mean seriously if you dont know what you're talking about then stfu
People who talk really loud on the phone in quiet public places.
If you don’t hear any criticism about what you do, then it’s only natural to assume you’re ‘perfect’ and ‘flawless.’ If there’s no feedback, how can we expect someone to learn? Overly selfish people don’t change their ways at the drop of a hat. It takes a series of moments of clarity to get them to think that maybe—just maybe—they might need to rethink some things. However, some individuals find it hard to get past the embarrassment that comes from realizing they’ve been making mistakes.
"We spend a lot of time and effort presenting an ideal version of ourselves to other people. When something happens that contrasts with the image we’ve been projecting—when we say or do something that shows we actually aren’t as graceful or as smart as we’d like people to believe—we feel embarrassed," Vanessa Bohns from Cornell University explained to Bored Panda.
People walking toward you that don't put equal effort into avoiding collision. I'll move a bit, but you should do the same. You expect me to walk around you?
This! One time, 3 people were walking towards me side by side, taking up the entire pavement. I would have had to walk in the busy road to avoid them. They did not move over one inch. I just stopped in the pavement and looked at them. They also stopped in front of me until it got awkward and they grew enough social awareness to apologise... 😑
Parents of unruly children
I don't judge silently about this. I give off a very pissed off vibe and looks to the parents. Keep your little buggers away from me and start parenting please.
100% agree unless the parent is genuinely trying but struggling
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I put effort into avoiding judgement until I've done an assessment on the parent. If the parent is clearly struggling to cope, I try to be more generous. If the parent clearly doesn't give a flick, yeah I'm judging loud and clear.
Have to agree with that. For example while I hate having to sit near kids on planes I realize situations can be different. 4-month old crying uncontrollably because planes are loud and scary while their parent is trying the best to keep them calm and distracted? Sucks for me and everyone else including the parent, but well, part of life. 4-year old yelling non-stop at their sibling and watching loud cartoons while the parent is playing candy crush? Get's all the hate from me)
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If your sister is showing is involved and shows effort to help her kiddo around others, she most likely won't be judged by people with any decency.
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When I was pregnant with my son, I was a security officer in a mall (easy money). I remember watching all of the bratty kids who would yell, hit, scream and cuss out their parents and the parents would just take it. I told myself that my child would NEVER act like those little monsters and you know what? He never did! He was well behaved and polite, still is to this day and he is 19 years old. So yeah I judge those parents who won't teach their children manners!
When one is raising a child with severe ADHD this is sometimes impossible to control as doctors usually won’t medicate them until they are school aged. My ex husband and I spent years taking turns doing things because we were judged so many times by people because our child literally could not sit still for more than a minute at a time. Never getting to spend time together ruined our marriage. But she’s been medicated and calm (but still has her amazing personality) for years now and we are great co parents and friends so just remember some people are trying but can’t do anymore than they are doing until the child is older .
Now, in the defence of SOME cases, not all, the child could have some class of disability. My parents were judged all the time when I was younger because both of my siblings are on the spectrum and I have severe ADHD, so we were often unruly. But even then my parents would try to reign us in a bit. What is bad is when the parents do nothing about it, and allow their kid to act the bollocks, that's when it's a problem
I had an old lady tell me I should "beat my 3 yo son's a**" b/c he was cranky at a restaurant. He was on crazy-strong, personality changing steroids after brain surgery for a brain tumor. We were simply trying to feel normal again once he was released from the hospital. People shouldn't judge. You don't always know the story.
I hope your son is ok now and in good health. People are so judgemental and don't know anything of the situation you're in.
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I need to know what you're defining as an unruly child. A 10yo screaming at their mom for not buying the fake nails at Claire's is vastly different from the tantrum-throwing 3yo who hasn't yet learned to control their behavior.
I lucked out with my kids. I think it's the Cherokee. Never one problem. Very proud.
Growing up, I always saw my family as chaotic, unruly. In church every week, they'd whisper and fidget and fight. But every week, my mother would hear "Your kids are so well behaved!" A: it's because we were flat-out terrified of retribution (XD), and B: what kind of lunatic lets their kids run amok during (often) the only quiet time they can get?
I used to be the same, but then I had my firstborn and it totally changed my views on this. He is not a neurologically standard child but you could never guess it just from seeing him for a little while. So sometimes he seems to be an unruly little brat while he is just struggling and trying to deal with e.g. noisy environment or an unexpected situation. I know it is not always the case but please, do not judge parents. Sometimes we have it hard as it is.
Depends on the situation and where you are. If they're being unruly in a park, fair play to them. And if the parent is obviously trying and the kid is obviously in a mood, I'm not going to judge. I'd have to say, though, I am stunned at how many parents let their kids ride their f*****g scooters around a supermarket or shopping centre. Those parents and kids get looks from me!
Parents who aren't paying attention to or trying to discipline unruly kids definitely annoy me but I think completely the opposite is true when a parent is genuinely trying to calm/control their kid and people are giving them dirty looks and nasty comments.
I used to be like this. Until I had an unruly, stubborn and difficult child. Some children are naturally more difficult. Be kind to those people, they have to deal with that child every day, you only have to deal with it for a moment.
There are kids with a stubborn and difficult caracter. 2 of my kids are like that. They behave good 98% of the time. The other 2% are days you can't control them, they won't listen.
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I'm a parent of an unruly child. He's autistic bit looks "normal". Hate all the judgemental looks
The problem with this attitude is that it inherently assumes there is some (magical) way to raise children which results in them being perfectly obedient. Nope. Every living creature has an independent mind. More often than you would think, the fault lies entirely with a child and not parents. Anyone who thinks otherwise has never met an obstinately obdurate child. Parents can do everything right... and still produce a little monster. Most notable in families with a "black sheep" member.
I once saw a lady's kid almost get eaten by an alligator because she was so up the a**e of her phone. Little girl, maybe three, just farting around like kids do, but at a picnic site in Florida. With warning signs. About alligators, and them eating small dogs and such. There was a big one, old gator, doing the thing of pretend to be a log that they do, and was easing up, as this little girl was throwing rocks into the water. I walked over, took the little one by the hand, and led her to her mom, maybe 45 feet away. I let her Have it,. She started to cuss me out for having her kid and judging her, but I told her she needed to either keep watch or plan the kid's funeral. And before anybody says alligators won't, they will eat the dog you are leading on a leash if they have a good chance. I've seen it.
Before I had kids I was super judgey but then I had friends with kids that were on the spectrum and they really can't help it :(
Unless you are a parent with perfectly behaving children, you don’t get to comment. Children are not beings to be controlled, they are little people to be raised. By their parents, by society, and by the norms presented by both. Perhaps the child is unruly just that day. Maybe they have a hidden issue mentally that we don’t see. Children are also pretty terrible at regulating emotions. Don’t blame the parents for that alone, brains are literally still being developed.
Now....I got yelled at for yelling at my kid at a play ground for knocking a toddler over on purpose. She was 4 at the time. The lady yelled at me (I wasn't cussing but repremanding my child's behavior so the other parents of the small toddler knew i didn't think this was okay and I was paying attention) well my smart ass back fired that I would spank her too if she didn't shut up. If someone is correcting their child's behavior in public and not being a d**k about it or harming them unessasarly then MYOB.
This annoys me too, however I always bear in mind that the child could possibly autistic, especially if they look to be having some kind of breakdown
Yes...control your kids or remove them. If you let your kids run wild and bothering others, don't say a damn thing when someone says mean things to them to make the go...away...
Speaking as a single mom of a severely autistic child who has violent behaviors when he gets frustrated or doesn't understand, I really wish you would stop staring. We're both doing the best we can
i work in a coffee shop, and the number of parents of small kids who let them run around the store unsupervised. if the kid runs behind the counter to where we are, there are so many things they could injure themselves on easily. but if the kid does come behind the counter, legally we are not allowed to touch them, in case the parent accuses us of assault or whatever. i've seen myself trying to herd a kid back to the cafe area, the parent will come over and take their kid and sometimes say things like 'oh, aren't they funny' and i'm like 'no. they could have been seriously injured!' i understand that sometimes it's hard to control your kids if they are in a setting that's boring for them, but at the risk of a serious injury...i'd do my best to keep them safe!
This is almost always the parents fault. Kids aren't born with a preconceived notion of how to act. There are always exceptions, but majority of the time they are being unintentionally trained young to only get attention when loud or disruptive. Slow down, listen, spend quality time with your kids.
Parents of unruly children I don't judge... Aggressively supportive parents of unruly children are what get me... you know the type... "How DARE you dislike the fact that my child just destroyed the display that clearly said 'don't touch'? "
Lived in a hippy area and the kids are taught nothing in the ways of the world. Like manners, respect and other basic rules to get on with others.
Well... some kids are just hyperactive, but bad parenting I TOTALLY judge. (Like when they give their kids a standard of perfection- UGH.)
There are autistic children and those with FAS that can't behave. Children always deserve a pass, no matter what they do.
I was in a restaurant where a woman was letting her kids run wild. I looked right at her and said "if they get injured I will testify on behalf of the restaurant" and she corralled her kids really quickly.
I used to stick out my pierced tongue to screaming brats and scare the crap outta them. Or they'd start laughing, either way I win!
People who take that frustration out on the child. It's not the child's fault. Take it up with the parent.
When I was working at a doctors office, the parents that let their children run around or hop all over the seats( while they are on their phones looking at bored panda)
Only if they're not doing anything at all. Otherwise, I give them the "you need some help?" or "I understand" look.
They are developed from unruly parents who don't really give a damn about them!
I went "karen" on a mother whose child was whining loudly about her buying him a toy. He did this for over 30 minutes in a food court. He was about 9 or 10. I had enough and told her to control her child.
Yes. Whenever i encounter a loud, obnoxious child i always, always ask the parent "what's going on, are you beating them?" :::horrified and confused look::: N-N-NO! Of course not! "Have you even tried?"
This! My neighbors grandkids are very loud and my cats are afraid of them.
Some days, especially in during the winter, the grocery store or Walmart is the only chance my 3 yr old gets chance to run off some pent up energy. Our place is small, the pandemic limits her opportunities. I try to take her later in the evening when the stores aren't busy so she doesn't bother anyone, but if it does, well I invite you to kiss my butt. I try to keep her in sight, or at least close enough to hear. I try to keep her from laying on the floor, getting under foot, but I'm also trying to shop and grab what I need while I'm in the aisle. She's really cute (I'm not bragging, I'm told this everywhere we go, literally) so she probably gets a pass from a lot of people. She thinks when I go to catch her that I'm playing a game, squeals and takes off faster. Usually people say they wish they had her energy, then comment how cute she is other parents give me a sympathetic look.
It's called ADHD or is Autism and please don't judge and offer help to the mom who is CLEARLY struggling
I don't have children, but I don't agree with this. Having children, raising children is hard. I certainly will never have children. They randomly throw tantrums, they have energy for days, they don't need as much sleep, they watch ridiculous shows. But we all did that. Everyone has different parenting styles and as long as the child is being cared for (and looks cared for) then it isn't my business. Now its different if the parent is ignoring the child while the child is disturbing people and people have asked the parent to intercede. Then I would be annoyed.
I’m a child. I still do this. I hate children. I will never be a parent.
When they let their children run in the supermarket... why? People are walking there
And old people can be so easy to knock down...
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If I see a parent ignoring their kids bad behaviour and it becomes a nuisance to me I will step in and correct the child.
No! That is wrong on so many levels!!! Grow a pair and correct the parent.
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Don't judge without knowing all the facts about those people's circumstances.
If your child is on the ground kicking and screaming in the middle of Target while you're staring at your phone ignoring the situation, I'm judging HARD.
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I admit it, I've "accidently on purpose" tripped unruly brats running through the restaurant. Not even sorry.
Unless there's a mental disorder, there is no excuse. I taught my two kids early on, even before they set foot into a public place. They understood that going groceries meant food, not trinkets not toys. "We're going to the store, not the jungle". Although, when they saw other kids acting like animals, they would say, "Momma, you lied". Op!
The big metal cover was off in the 'rock-scape' by the offices and two kids were alone. I only said the boy should get up out a there and told little sister to put the big rock down that she was gonna throw down into where her brother should'n'a been. 'In yo face' type mama shows up, running mouth, (except she's only about to my shoulder) Ok, I said, I'll just call CPS next time. (child protective) I don't think she liked me.
I can't stand people who piss on the toilet seat and don't clean it.
How could you just leave your own urine and poop on a public toilet seat with a clear conscience? ಠ▃ಠ
"Discovering you were wrong about something most everyone else around you has long known to be true is one of those moments. In that moment we learn, 'Wait a minute, maybe I haven’t been presenting the image of being smart or worldly that I thought I was presenting all this time,' which is embarrassing."
One powerful way to change for the better is to become kinder, more altruistic, more giving. And there’s an added benefit, too—you’ll become happier while making the world a better place.
Not using a turn signal when driving. It's not that hard, and it's pretty arrogant not to use one
I think I've been the only BMW driver that used their turn signals. I’ve heard tales of others doing the same. But they're probably apocryphal and now lost in time.
I can't stand people who don't pick up their dog's s**t! You're a scumbag!
or those folks who leave doggy poo bags hanging from trees and bushes like weird Christmas decorations... they just can't be bothered to put it in the doggy bin..
Being unjustifiably rude to waiters, sales associates, janitors, etc. (basically anyone who is being paid to perform a service for you)
It is extremely telling of a person's character.
Saw a old, spoiled lady getting her bad character out on a approx. 20 y.o. waiter, because he didn't get the 6 wine glasses at the same filling level on first try. From then on, she always watched him and shook her head and said things like "i would be shamed soo much if i were him". Next morning (it was in a hotel) i overheard from her family that she got a stomach bug and diarrhea and can't make it to breakfast. Well deserved
"The 10 keys to happier living are giving, relating, exercising, awareness, trying out, direction, resilience, emotions, acceptance, and meaning. We are likely to be happier if our lives have direction, meaning, and purpose and if we are part of something bigger than ourselves," Sarah Vero from ‘Action for Happiness’ told Bored Panda.
People who bring children to situations that are not appropriate for children.
Mmm.... define 'appropriate' for children. The picture suggests an office. I don't judge for this. People don't want to bring their kids to offices and the like. If they do it's usually because they don't have any other option and they are doing the best they can with what they have. Bars and genuine inappropriate places and times are a different story.
Even worse are the people who play their music through their speakers on a trail. You're outside its gorgeous there are birds and s**t. Turn off you god damn music you're ruining it for the rest of us.
Finally: "I judge people who complain about politics, but choose not to vote
Unless you can't legally vote. In my country, we have lots of people disenfranchised from voting, often for very petty reasons. If you're politically active and engaged in other ways, I figure you've earned your right to complain -- even if you can't vote.
"Think about how you can reach out and do things for others, help a neighbor or volunteer for a cause, we get happiness high from helping other people. Or start small and simply list three things that you can be grateful for each night before bed. Take it slow and be kind to yourself,” she suggested how people can learn to open up to new experiences and helping others.
Parking.
If you can't get within the lines the first time, it's ok to adjust.
Not paying attention to your screaming kid. Like not even trying.
Throwing others under the bus in the work place for their own personal gain. Especially when they do it in front of a group of people,
I work at a Starbucks in a grocery store and I have two regulars with scrawny, super scraggly kids and they spend $7-$10 on one or two drinks while they yell at their kid for wanting a 75 cent doughnut.
The kicker is that they're paying with food stamps.
So that. I judge that.
I feel sorry when mommy and daddy coming in for lots of beer and stronger stuff, but the kids got nothing.
When you tailgate me when there is a slow car in front of me. What a pointless action and people do it all the time. It accomplishes nothing except making the road even more dangerous than it already is.
People who don't take care of their dogs.
I'm not talking about people who don't feed some super premium dog food, or get them groomed every 2 weeks, or even those people who opt to euthanize because they can't afford a 12K surgery.
I'm talking about doing the bare f**king minimum. Take a brush and brush your dog. Find a food that doesn't give him explosive diarrhea every time he has to take a s**t. Give that little turd factory some discipline so he stops trying to maul toddlers when he inevitably dashes out your front door and across the street. For f**ks sake, run your labs and goldens until they're too tired to move any more. A tired dog is a happy dog.
I judge people who shut down those asking questions and trying to learn more
so religious zealots, obstinate teachers, totalitarian governments - most of society's figures of authority
I'm not always silent about it, but people at my local supermarket who refuse to return their shopping carts, but instead leave them to roll into other cars whenever the next wind gust comes along.
The last lady I confronted about this said some bulls**t that was basically blah blah blah my bad back, but she managed to push it all around the store and then fully loaded out to her car, now she suddenly can't push a now-empty cart a few more feet to the return?? Can't stand those people.
In Belgium we have to put a coin in the trolley to be able to use it. Simple solution.
People who are habitually late to things. It's one of the most inconsiderate things I can thing of and yet it seems so common
Ppl hu typ lyk dis.
Or people who don't use punctuation or at least a damn full stop to break up their god damned sentences. Drives me insane and although I'm not the greatest at punctuation and grammar, I automatically think you're and idiot.
Definitely smoking cigarettes while pregnant. I can't help not judging you for that s**t.
I have a coworker who "only feeds her children bio foods" but she's smoking while breastfeeding...
If you don't like animals....I don't know if I like you.
There's nothing I dislike more than when a husband feels like he has to act like his wife's authority while other people are around. I hate gender roles in relationships
People who have their phones out in a goddamn movie theater. We all payed the same price. I don't care if you don't want to get your money's worth, I do. I am going to yell and you and if you don't stop, throw popcorn at you till you do.
Constantly posting condescending political rants on facebook.
Also those who can't admit that they are wrong, or when they've lost. 🤨
Anyone who adopts a "whatever" policy to being late. I freak out when I'm late for something, and it absolutely blows my mind when people just don't care.
I've seen way too many people who think arriving an hour late to an important event makes them cooler
Being involved in an MLM... Scentsy, Essential Oils, It Works!, etc.
It's not that I don't appreciate the fact that they are trying to better themselves. It's that I assume they are really stupid for getting suckered in the first place.
Crass public behaviour, especially while drunk. If you can't handle your alcohol without being a s**t, don't drink. Hate it.
When partner in a couple is publicly mean to the other partner in the couple, but not in a funny context, purely to put them down kinda context. That's like scratching your own car. You lose my respect instantly. It's just sad.
People that don't let people get out of the metro before going in themselves.
People who bring their children out for a meal at a restaurant and spend their whole time on their phone. It makes me so sad to see a child sitting there, silently eating while their mom or dad ignores them completely. :(
What they name their children. It's a human being that has to walk around for 80 years with that label.
some countries like sweden have naming laws which prevent certain names which could cause offence or discomfort to the child to be approved on certificates
People who post negatively about their SO on social media. I understand getting frustrated with your SO. It shouldn't be aired publically.
People who choose to have kids before they are financially stable enough for that to be a good idea
When 2 people run into each and stop to have a "quick" conversation.....ON THE F**KING STAIRS! Move the f**k out of the way if you want to stop.
I judge people who constantly complain about their S.O. when they're not around. Why can't they just admit that they actually really like the person they are choosing to date?
Or if they don’t like them then work on the relationship or leave
If you have your bag on the seat next to you on a busy bus or train I will silently judge you. If an elderly person gets on and you still don't move them I will judge you out loud and ask you to move your bags.
Upvote for the latter part. Downvote for the former. If the subway/bus is mostly empty, who cares?
People who clearly are not watching their kids. Don't let your two year old walk around a parking lot without at least holding their hand. Don't leave your kid in a shopping cart while you look at something 10 feet away from them. We live in a dangerous world. You have to watch your kids.
Where do you live that being 10 feet/ 3m away from your kid in a supermarket is considered a dangerous distance?
Where they sit in proximity to me on public transport. Especially if the train is relatively empty. If it's empty why sit near me?
I just get up and move - if they are bright enough they may get the hint!
TL; DR: Attention hoes and vegan bros.
My fiancé is a personal trainer so I have met a lot of people through him who are personal trainers, fitness models, wanna be Instagram models, and are generally extremely fit. I don't judge them for that, but I do judge them for the following:
The attention whores. I get the that if your body is you livelihood, you're going to show that off. I have no problem with that. But when you post pictures of yourself in bed, with only your hands covering your dirty bits, and giving the camera "f**k me" face (eye sultry, mouth agape), don't be surprised if one of the thousands of people who follow you says something sexual. I see it all the time. Yesterday one girl posted a photo of her fully nude, except for hooker heels, from behind and giving the camera sex eyes with the caption "Happy Thanksgiving!! " . It had nothing to do with Thanksgiving. Some guy commented on it, "Damn [name]. Your [sic] fine as hell. PM me." Then she always says something like, "Ewww what the hell! Why are guys such pigs/ always hitting on me/ always making comments about my body!!" Well, maybe if you didn't make your Facebook and Instragram account look like a Backpages advertisement and allow anyone and everyone to follow you, you wouldn't have this issue.
The other people who annoy me are the vegan body builders. Take Chad for example. Chad is a vegan bro and personal trainer. Chad is the type of person who yells at people for eating meat around him,, and talks about how people have no respect for animals and mother earth, then talks about how he "f**ked 5 fine ass bitches in one day." Chad is the type of bro who sleeps with his clients. At the same time. Behind each other's backs. Chad is the type of bro who, when my fiancé told him he was going to propose to me, he replied, "Bro, why settle for one pussy the rest of your life, even if she is fine? There's a hundred more like her." Thanks Chad, you've known me for over a year, and I am reduced to a "fine piece of pussy" to you. So much for respecting all living things. The thing I hate the most about the vegan body builders though is how full of s**it they are. They will post pictures of their workout, muscles, etc, with the hashtag #vegangains or some bulls**t like that. They will tell their clients, "Yeah, I got this way by cutting out meat and animal byproducts." They neglect to tell them they are on a boatload of steroids! They are open about their steroid use with other trainers, even bragging about using 3-5 times the recommended dosage a day, while telling their clients they got so big and so strong through a " vegan, clean, organic, and natural diet."
Yeah about the pictures. If you flaunt yourself with open mouth, come to bed eyes then accept someone's going to find it sexy. That's just the way it is.
TALKING LOUDLY ON YOUR PHONE ON THE BUS
I HAVE A NATURALLY LOUD VOICE , I CAN'T HELP IT! Whenever I realize it though I lower my voice.
People who fail to discipline their children in public when they misbehave. I see obnoxious kids, with apathetic parents on nearly every shopping trip. It blows my mind that an adult would consistently choose to tolerate bad conduct, as if ignoring a temper tantrum would accomplish anything other than a reinforcing of bad behavior. Children need guidance and structure, delivered in a loving way, or else they develop into the spoiled adults that everyone finds intolerable. Source- single dad with a 4 year old and two year old.
People who ask for an answer, and then ignore the answer given.
Being rude to their own parents, or laugh about how 'guilty' they feel using daddy's credit card to buy a new pair of $500 shoes.
Well I try to be polite to my parents… but it’s really hard when they’re disrespectful and ignore my opinion :)
When I'm in a bathroom, and I see someone come in, do their business and walk out without even looking at the sink.
People that feel they need to take a picture/video (usually snap chat) of every mundane f**king thing that happens.
Then they make it worse by insisting you look at it while they proceed to act like its the best thing since sliced bread.
When I'm driving down the road and you see me coming but decide at the last opportunity to pull out in front of me then drive significantly slower than traffic, I am judging you as either old, inconsiderate or not maintaining your car enough so that it will GO when you step on the accelerator. Just wait, or go -but don't go slow in front of faster moving vehicles.
People who don't tip waitstaff
Customers at the checkout taking their own sweet time. I always get the damned customer in front of me that's unprepared, starts digging and fumbling for the money at the very last moment, chatting with the cashier while oblivious to the long line of people waiting behind.
This also goes for slow cashiers that go along with it.
At my local Costco, there's one checkout clerk that's super sharp, efficient and fast, I make it a point to spot where he is and get in line there, last time I told him so, that he's really, really good at his job and that I seek him out. He did smile and said "thank you".
Isn't it nice for you to have places to go and people to see. You sound like a twat. For some people they have things on their mind, they may be anxious, not paying attention or just enjoying the company of being out and about. People now have no tolerance for the human conditions and they are often entitled ass hats.
Having long conversations whilst stood blocking a busy walkway or stairwell.
Trying to walk 2 abreast and expecting me to move when walking down a narrow walkway/ staircase.
Not dressing their kids properly in the winter.
If the baby doesn't have a warm coat you shouldn't have a warm coat.
Instead of buying cheap plastic toys that are broken after an hour, get them less stuff but better quality. You don't need your cigarettes, booze and new phone but your kids need pencils and paper, building blocks, lego, sensible stuff. AND warm clothes, good shoes and lots of cuddles.
Fake behavior
When they are lovey dovey and you know they are each banging someone else!
People that take selfies every f**king where. I know this girl in my group of friends that does every time she does anything and it's the most irritating thing to go out with her.
Right? People prefer taking pictures to show where they have been rather than actually living in the moment.
Empty car park. Someone parks next to you
I don't like to judge, even silently... But, I always judge parents whose kids have huge globs of snot running down their face. I have two kids. They get colds all the time... And have never once had huge globs of snot dripping down their face.
I silently think to myself: Wipe your kid's friggen nose, Mom. Help em out! Give them tissues, and teach them to blow/wipe it themselves. Get your s**t together. Gawd.
Moderately sexist comments. When people say something like "you should know how to dress properly, you're a girl" or "men can't do two things at once" I don't speak out because it would annoy people and they'd think I'm making a fuss over not much but I silently strongly disagree.
When a guy tells me that proper women don't cuss, then I am like f**k you pinche pendejo!
Their eyebrows....I know it sounds vain but I can't for the life of me understand why women want their eyebrows to look like big black Nike swoosh symbols :/
Well soooorrrry, I didn't get to choose what eyebrows I would naturally have. I'm not going to waste money and time, waxing them every few weeks lol.
People who don't at least offer to bring a dish / something to a shared meal.
People bringing kids to places/events that aren't appropriate for them.
There should be someone on the door telling this is not an appropriate place for a child!
Chewing with their mouth open/ smacking lips. Yes I notice, yes the noise makes my appetite curve.
When I was young my parents told me that if i chew with my mouth open a fly will get in to try and eat my chewed food. I stopped and never did it again.
I judge people who fail to use their signals... they must be a special kind of stupid huh?
It has become a running joke in my family to sing, "guess where I am going, guess where I am going" whenever we're behind someone like this. (We sing it in a tune similar to the conga music)
How people dress their children ...
If you are dressed to kill in your designer wear with your makeup and hair done, BUT your child is in rags - I am completely judging you. Do you even care about your poor child???
I also hate it when people dress their children up too much, especially little girls. It's creepy how normalized it's become to sexualize girls and babies with their clothing. I don't understand why parents do this.
Waddling and meandering in the middle of the walk way and ignoring me when I call out "behind you" (more often than not sadly) forcing me to go their pace makes me think they are oblivious morons who don't give a s**t about anyone else.
I'll judge you for not wearing shoes in public. That s**t is gross. Put your shoes on
I silently judge parents of pre-teen girls who let their children out in booty shorts. Just. Stop.
Everybody should be able to wear whatever they want. The problem are the people taking this as invitation to oggle or worse.
Closing a loud door by forcing it shut instead of turning the knob to make it silent. Savages.
Opening a door to a room where someone is, and then leaving without closing the door again.
that one guy that brings a guitar to the campus lounge
As a guitarist, I hope you mean someone who can’t play the guitar properly… lol
I judge people who start eating something in their cart while they are still grocery shopping.
People who take too long getting off of an airplane. It's a simple process, anyone taking forever is just the worst
I always feel I have to rush because I don't want to hold anyone up. Or if possible stay put is you are slow If you don't mind being last!
People who leave during the end credits of a Marvel movie
I judge people who cross the street diagonally.
If there is plenty of time and they're not holding anyone up, what is the problem?
People with fat kids. I always feel so bad for the kids...
Nope, I disagree. You have absolutely no idea what goes on behind closed doors. Yes most of the time it is the child's diet and inactivity BUT you don't know if that child suffers from Prader-willi syndrome, hyperthyroidism, cushings, gestational diabetes and even medications. One of my brothers was on the chubbier side as a child due to the high dose and long term use of steroids for his asthma and eczema. You can't tell if a child is overweight/obese due to diet or illness so best not to make judgement.
Comic sans.
Why do people hate Comic sans? It's just another font out of many. I don't get it
People who give disabled people dirty looks. Or shops that don't have access like we need to get in too you know
I have even experienced disabled people giving other disabled people a hard time. Ahhhh humans, what to do.
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People who leave unwanted items scattered all over the store, especially things that need to be frozen and are just sitting in the canned goods or the bread aisle. If you decide you don't want something, give it to the checkout clerk so it can be returned to the right place. Especially do not leave raw meat just sitting around. Also, people who "donate" so-long-past-expiry-that-it's-not-safe food and other unusable items to the Food Bank. The less fortunate do not want your six year old cocktail onions or your opened package of crackers.
As someone who used to work in a grocery store, I totally agree. You don't want something? Just give it to me so I can have someone put it back. Such a waste to find a package of chicken stuffed in between the magazine racks.
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I judge people who wear their mask under their nose and think they're doing it right. I mean come on, we're like 3 years into this thing and you're still half assing the mask.
People who give me weird looks when I dress fancy… dude I can wear a suit on a Wednesday. Or a dress on a Monday. I can do whatever the h-e-double hockey sticks I want.
After the last two years, I have come to judge anyone who says, "I did my own research/vaccines are evil," the way I'd have judged the defendants at Nuremberg. This is unfair of me, I know it, and I'm working on it. Mea culpa.
"did my own research" == "watched bullshit on youtube". I send them this. the-ive-do...5aa1ea.png 
I am going to say something that will probably be controversial. I am seriously judgmental of people who have fertility treatments in order to have children. It costs tens of thousands of dollars for the process, and if your insurance is paying for it that means that everyone else's insurance costs are going up. And this is not about wanting children or a family. There are thousands and thousands of orphans of all ages, colors, nationalities, etc. Out there starving for a home. No. Fertility treatments are about one thing: passing on your precious genes. Making sure your own magical combination of DNA goes on for one more generation. And I think it is an egotistical waste of economic and medical resources.
I don't care if it's controversial, as l agree. And it really bothers me that they talk about parenthood when they mean pregnancy. Two entirely different things
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Interrupters ! People who won't let others finish their sentence, or don't let them finish whatever they're doing ... because they think, they're "more important" than everyone else! It's just being rude and inconsiderate.
I judge people who, without benefit of actually knowing me, attempt to discuss politics with me. In almost EVERY case they misjudge where I stand. Possibly this is because of geography. I don't know. But if you're some rando on a bus or in the checkout line, I'm not interested in your political leanings.
I live in christian trump country. You'd be amazed at how many talk to me assuming I'm christian, republican and racist. I shut it down hard. You assume things with a stranger, I will be happy to provide the consequences you reap.
Load More Replies... There are a lot of people in my city who are politically progressive, generous, pleasant people... but when the topic of homelessness comes up, they just turn incredibly hateful. Homelessness is a massive problem here and it's sometimes frustrating to deal with. But if you can see a confused, elderly, mentally ill person living in a cardboard box under a freeway overpass, and instead of feeling empathy you just complain that they're blocking the sidewalk... there's something wrong with you.
in civilised countries, aka what trump calls 'shitholes', we have social housing.
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unless you are literally blind, there is no reason for this.
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I've known a couple of people like this because they were pathological liars. It's not an excuse, just an explanation. I hate them just the same.
Load More Replies... Poor work ethic. Someone has to cover for you when you’re out. If you don’t want the job, quit and let us get someone who does.
As an employer, I would rather have someone who knows how to show up instead of the guy who knows how to do the job.
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People who are walking about aimlessly buried in their phones expecting you to move out of their way.....no I'm not moving. If you walk into me, drop your phone or whatever then it's your own effin' fault!!
I still, and will continue to, judge people who won't wear a mask to protect others, and those who won't get vaccinated. I've become adept at showing my judginess even while wearing a mask, hat, and sunglasses, and without using any verbal signals.
Just got a t-shirt that reads "I Identify as Vaccinated" I think it is hilarious, because I wasn't born vaccinated.
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I agree with everything but the eating part. If something dies, eat it. What I can’t stand is people who waste meat- let it go expired or cook too much and throw it away. That animal died- have some respect. Especially if it’s a whole animal like a chicken or turkey. If you waste it, it truly died for no reason.
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I will concede the no-vaxxing, but as long as their religiosity is not hurting anyone, no judgment.
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I'm judgemental about influencers. I think 99% are just narcistic people who loves easy money.
“I’m excited to have partnered with [brand]…” NOPE! Unfollow.
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Most of these I wouldn't silently judge...I'd loudly judge. One thing I do silently judge is when people from other countries come here and don't pay attention to laws or safety things, like street signs. I live in an area with a lot of immigration and, I understand yoou may not know the language yet, but pay attention to the behavior of people around you until you figure out certain things. We have people riding their bikes on highways in the area which is against the law and dangerous. A lot of people on bikes with no shirts or shoes on freeways, a lot of uninsured people... We also had a lot of people who work jobs with equipment they aren't licensed to handle because it was cheaper for the contractors to hire undocumented peoples. It's dangerous for them and for others. I know it's not PC to say it but I'm definitely judging those contractors if you put other people in danger because you don't know or care about laws that govern safety.
A lot of time not intended. If you see from where those people come, you'll understand. If you were used to the streets of Mumbai, you will think the streets in Asterdam are 100% safe. People have to learn how to follow rules, because in a lot of countries, people are just doing something.
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Parents who count to three, and then...well,nothing happens. If you're going to count, when you hit three, you better follow through.
I'm noticing that too. I bet the use of the word "hate" on this site has increased greatly in the past few months. But people love to pick sides, maybe it gives them a sense of purpose that's otherwise lacking in their lives.
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I've reached that stage in life where almost everyone pisses me off. I realise that says a lot more about me than anyone else, but fück them all.
I judge people who drive large lifted trucks who adorn them testicles. I like trucks. I drive a truck. Don’t ruin it for me.
It’s so weird and obscene. I’m not shy about the human body and all bodies are beautiful but really?! It’s just unnecessary and Crude.
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These are all too safe and reasonable. I will judge you if you watch reality tv, add at the end when you say the word ‘something’ or ‘anything’, wear Crocs, buy every FIFA game or have scalped a PS5. Nothing exactly wrong with these things by I will automatically think less of you.
Putting their social media accounts everywhere. i.e. 'everyone is an aspiring celebrity' culture. The worst offense I see is in dating profiles, with "follow me" instead of a description, a sure sign of no personality. The dumbest are probably the flashy cars with a social media window sticker, since there are so many cases of cars being stolen because of the details posted on the person's account.
I hate people that proudly announce every chance they get, how smart their kids are, however, they think that kids cannot understand good behavior and never teach them manners or consequences, because "kids are too young to know or to be taught better" I've worked with kids of all ages for 30 years, and let me tell you; Kids know, and they're manipulating you, because they know they can get away with everything around their parents, why do you think they behave differently and better with other adults like teachers, nannies, parents of other children etc. Another adult or caretaker wouldn't discipline your kids, but the kids don't know this so they behave well
Long nails on people who work with food or in health care. How can you really get those clean?
I judge people who choose to live in a country where their native language is not spoken.. and even after years, they have not bothered to learn the local language. There is always a way to learn it... and not doing it is lazy and ignorant in my opinion.
stop sending me youtube link to anti vaccines and vegan clips. please. you do you, i do me.
Wow, did I upvote a bunch of these. (also guilty of a few). Amazing how many of these could be avoided with the "Golden rule"
People who repeat talking points without having any idea what they actually mean. If you try to actually engage, they just spew more talking points. Literally can't carry on a conversation because they have no idea what they're talking about, but they'll roll their eyes, shout at you, and act like YOU are the asshole.
People who lie. People who break basic society rules. I don’t care if the lie didn’t hurt anyone, or if the rule is stupid. Change the rules instead of breaking them. People who constantly lie, can they be honest with themselves? And if they are, do they feel fine lying all the time?
People who habitually talk over others. Why would you interrupt someone answering a question you asked? I work with someone who just does not understand how conversations work.
Nuerotypical people judging nuerodivergent people for not being "normal" F**k those people.
People who walk into my podiatrist with their bare, filthy, smelly feet.
People who can't grasp third grade literacy skills, unless they have a legitimate learning disorder. Being willfully illiterate is trashy.
People that don't follow the rules for their recycling plants/centers. In most plants/centers, they'll simply throw away recyclables that aren't properly cleaned, non-recyclable parts removed, wrong number, etc. Many people don't know this or do this. They just toss anything plastic/glass/paper in the bin and think they're helping when all they're doing is making trash with extra steps.
Religion. Christian Evangelicals, mostly. Why take any responsibility for your personal actions your entire life when you can confess all your sins on your deathbed and get a free pass?
So much of this is petty or ignorant of what other people are working with - makes me very sad about other people. Save yourself some space in your brain for others and assume they're dealing with difficult things, a hard day, kid who is having a hard time, they had kids before becoming poor, they're just living their life - whatever. Trust me, you're no peach yourself.
People who claim to be medically exempt from wearing masks and then actually wear a mask with no problems when you tell them your work doesn't allow mask exemptions. My work doesn't allow exemptions for several reasons, and we are within our right to do so, and I have yet to have someone who claims medical exemption leave. They always take a mask and shockingly, actually have zero issues. There are fully valid reasons why someone can't wear a mask, but if you really had a reason you can't wear one, you would leave instead of taking a mask and wearing it. And so yes, I judge people who fake or exaggerate conditions because they don't want to follow rules in a pandemic because they just make it harder on the people who genuinely have real medical conditions.
People who are nasty on anipal twitter. Who cares if they talk in baby talk or the spellings wrong. We KNOW it’s not really animals typing but it’s fun and there are some fantastic communities on there who offer friendship and support to people who have no one. If you don’t like , move on . Live and let live.
I judge people by their book shelves. And I judge them far more for _not_ having a book shelf than for having cheap and/or trashy books
There is a culture in America. You are paid by the government for each child you have and can't support. You also must have no support of the significant other. So our system encourages it.
Spoken like someone who knows nothing about the US welfare system. First, government doesn't pay you anything unless you pay in and qualify to receive SSI or SSDI due to age/disability. The only cash program is TANFF, which is critically underfunded, distributed through poorly designed programs,when the state isn't hording the money for other stuff. Welfare requires info from both biological parents, and they evaluate your support arrangements if you aren't sharing a household to determine if it meets their income guidelines. If the other parent isn't contributing voluntarily, they hunt down that parent, verify DNA and enforce a support agreement based on their income (& not their actual financial situation which may not actually afford the amount they determine). Then the state will award Medicaid/CHIP, SNAP, WIC, Section 8, none of which is cash. Welfare reform of 90s changed the programs to require contribution from both parents.
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People who give disabled people dirty looks. Or shops that don't have access like we need to get in too you know
I have even experienced disabled people giving other disabled people a hard time. Ahhhh humans, what to do.
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As someone who used to work in a grocery store, I totally agree. You don't want something? Just give it to me so I can have someone put it back. Such a waste to find a package of chicken stuffed in between the magazine racks.
Load More Replies... I judge people who wear their mask under their nose and think they're doing it right. I mean come on, we're like 3 years into this thing and you're still half assing the mask.
People who give me weird looks when I dress fancy… dude I can wear a suit on a Wednesday. Or a dress on a Monday. I can do whatever the h-e-double hockey sticks I want.
After the last two years, I have come to judge anyone who says, "I did my own research/vaccines are evil," the way I'd have judged the defendants at Nuremberg. This is unfair of me, I know it, and I'm working on it. Mea culpa.
"did my own research" == "watched bullshit on youtube". I send them this. the-ive-do...5aa1ea.png
I am going to say something that will probably be controversial. I am seriously judgmental of people who have fertility treatments in order to have children. It costs tens of thousands of dollars for the process, and if your insurance is paying for it that means that everyone else's insurance costs are going up. And this is not about wanting children or a family. There are thousands and thousands of orphans of all ages, colors, nationalities, etc. Out there starving for a home. No. Fertility treatments are about one thing: passing on your precious genes. Making sure your own magical combination of DNA goes on for one more generation. And I think it is an egotistical waste of economic and medical resources.
I don't care if it's controversial, as l agree. And it really bothers me that they talk about parenthood when they mean pregnancy. Two entirely different things
Load More Replies... Interrupters ! People who won't let others finish their sentence, or don't let them finish whatever they're doing ... because they think, they're "more important" than everyone else! It's just being rude and inconsiderate.
I judge people who, without benefit of actually knowing me, attempt to discuss politics with me. In almost EVERY case they misjudge where I stand. Possibly this is because of geography. I don't know. But if you're some rando on a bus or in the checkout line, I'm not interested in your political leanings.
I live in christian trump country. You'd be amazed at how many talk to me assuming I'm christian, republican and racist. I shut it down hard. You assume things with a stranger, I will be happy to provide the consequences you reap.
Load More Replies... There are a lot of people in my city who are politically progressive, generous, pleasant people... but when the topic of homelessness comes up, they just turn incredibly hateful. Homelessness is a massive problem here and it's sometimes frustrating to deal with. But if you can see a confused, elderly, mentally ill person living in a cardboard box under a freeway overpass, and instead of feeling empathy you just complain that they're blocking the sidewalk... there's something wrong with you.
in civilised countries, aka what trump calls 'shitholes', we have social housing.
Load More Replies... Oh, and people who put trash in recycling receptacles--or put recyclable paper in the trash when the the recycle bin is two steps away.
unless you are literally blind, there is no reason for this.
Load More Replies... I've known a couple of people like this because they were pathological liars. It's not an excuse, just an explanation. I hate them just the same.
Load More Replies... Poor work ethic. Someone has to cover for you when you’re out. If you don’t want the job, quit and let us get someone who does.
As an employer, I would rather have someone who knows how to show up instead of the guy who knows how to do the job.
Load More Replies... People who are walking about aimlessly buried in their phones expecting you to move out of their way.....no I'm not moving. If you walk into me, drop your phone or whatever then it's your own effin' fault!!
I still, and will continue to, judge people who won't wear a mask to protect others, and those who won't get vaccinated. I've become adept at showing my judginess even while wearing a mask, hat, and sunglasses, and without using any verbal signals.
Just got a t-shirt that reads "I Identify as Vaccinated" I think it is hilarious, because I wasn't born vaccinated.
Load More Replies... People who treat animals poorly. (e. g. eat meat every day, go to horse races, keep their bunny in a tiny cage.)
I agree with everything but the eating part. If something dies, eat it. What I can’t stand is people who waste meat- let it go expired or cook too much and throw it away. That animal died- have some respect. Especially if it’s a whole animal like a chicken or turkey. If you waste it, it truly died for no reason.
Load More Replies... I will concede the no-vaxxing, but as long as their religiosity is not hurting anyone, no judgment.
Load More Replies... I'm judgemental about influencers. I think 99% are just narcistic people who loves easy money.
“I’m excited to have partnered with [brand]…” NOPE! Unfollow.
Load More Replies... Most of these I wouldn't silently judge...I'd loudly judge. One thing I do silently judge is when people from other countries come here and don't pay attention to laws or safety things, like street signs. I live in an area with a lot of immigration and, I understand yoou may not know the language yet, but pay attention to the behavior of people around you until you figure out certain things. We have people riding their bikes on highways in the area which is against the law and dangerous. A lot of people on bikes with no shirts or shoes on freeways, a lot of uninsured people... We also had a lot of people who work jobs with equipment they aren't licensed to handle because it was cheaper for the contractors to hire undocumented peoples. It's dangerous for them and for others. I know it's not PC to say it but I'm definitely judging those contractors if you put other people in danger because you don't know or care about laws that govern safety.
A lot of time not intended. If you see from where those people come, you'll understand. If you were used to the streets of Mumbai, you will think the streets in Asterdam are 100% safe. People have to learn how to follow rules, because in a lot of countries, people are just doing something.
Load More Replies... Parents who count to three, and then...well,nothing happens. If you're going to count, when you hit three, you better follow through.
I'm noticing that too. I bet the use of the word "hate" on this site has increased greatly in the past few months. But people love to pick sides, maybe it gives them a sense of purpose that's otherwise lacking in their lives.
Load More Replies... People who get rid of animals because they aren’t “convenient” anymore. When you adopt an animal, you adopt it for life. Also, when people use their pets’ reproductive system to make money. The pounds are full of animals with no homes. We don’t need more designer puppies.
I've reached that stage in life where almost everyone pisses me off. I realise that says a lot more about me than anyone else, but fück them all.
I judge people who drive large lifted trucks who adorn them testicles. I like trucks. I drive a truck. Don’t ruin it for me.
It’s so weird and obscene. I’m not shy about the human body and all bodies are beautiful but really?! It’s just unnecessary and Crude.
Load More Replies... These are all too safe and reasonable. I will judge you if you watch reality tv, add at the end when you say the word ‘something’ or ‘anything’, wear Crocs, buy every FIFA game or have scalped a PS5. Nothing exactly wrong with these things by I will automatically think less of you.
Putting their social media accounts everywhere. i.e. 'everyone is an aspiring celebrity' culture. The worst offense I see is in dating profiles, with "follow me" instead of a description, a sure sign of no personality. The dumbest are probably the flashy cars with a social media window sticker, since there are so many cases of cars being stolen because of the details posted on the person's account.
I hate people that proudly announce every chance they get, how smart their kids are, however, they think that kids cannot understand good behavior and never teach them manners or consequences, because "kids are too young to know or to be taught better" I've worked with kids of all ages for 30 years, and let me tell you; Kids know, and they're manipulating you, because they know they can get away with everything around their parents, why do you think they behave differently and better with other adults like teachers, nannies, parents of other children etc. Another adult or caretaker wouldn't discipline your kids, but the kids don't know this so they behave well
Long nails on people who work with food or in health care. How can you really get those clean?
I judge people who choose to live in a country where their native language is not spoken.. and even after years, they have not bothered to learn the local language. There is always a way to learn it... and not doing it is lazy and ignorant in my opinion.
stop sending me youtube link to anti vaccines and vegan clips. please. you do you, i do me.
Wow, did I upvote a bunch of these. (also guilty of a few). Amazing how many of these could be avoided with the "Golden rule"
People who repeat talking points without having any idea what they actually mean. If you try to actually engage, they just spew more talking points. Literally can't carry on a conversation because they have no idea what they're talking about, but they'll roll their eyes, shout at you, and act like YOU are the asshole.
People who lie. People who break basic society rules. I don’t care if the lie didn’t hurt anyone, or if the rule is stupid. Change the rules instead of breaking them. People who constantly lie, can they be honest with themselves? And if they are, do they feel fine lying all the time?
People who habitually talk over others. Why would you interrupt someone answering a question you asked? I work with someone who just does not understand how conversations work.
Nuerotypical people judging nuerodivergent people for not being "normal" F**k those people.
People who walk into my podiatrist with their bare, filthy, smelly feet.
People who can't grasp third grade literacy skills, unless they have a legitimate learning disorder. Being willfully illiterate is trashy.
People that don't follow the rules for their recycling plants/centers. In most plants/centers, they'll simply throw away recyclables that aren't properly cleaned, non-recyclable parts removed, wrong number, etc. Many people don't know this or do this. They just toss anything plastic/glass/paper in the bin and think they're helping when all they're doing is making trash with extra steps.
Religion. Christian Evangelicals, mostly. Why take any responsibility for your personal actions your entire life when you can confess all your sins on your deathbed and get a free pass?
So much of this is petty or ignorant of what other people are working with - makes me very sad about other people. Save yourself some space in your brain for others and assume they're dealing with difficult things, a hard day, kid who is having a hard time, they had kids before becoming poor, they're just living their life - whatever. Trust me, you're no peach yourself.
People who claim to be medically exempt from wearing masks and then actually wear a mask with no problems when you tell them your work doesn't allow mask exemptions. My work doesn't allow exemptions for several reasons, and we are within our right to do so, and I have yet to have someone who claims medical exemption leave. They always take a mask and shockingly, actually have zero issues. There are fully valid reasons why someone can't wear a mask, but if you really had a reason you can't wear one, you would leave instead of taking a mask and wearing it. And so yes, I judge people who fake or exaggerate conditions because they don't want to follow rules in a pandemic because they just make it harder on the people who genuinely have real medical conditions.
People who are nasty on anipal twitter. Who cares if they talk in baby talk or the spellings wrong. We KNOW it’s not really animals typing but it’s fun and there are some fantastic communities on there who offer friendship and support to people who have no one. If you don’t like , move on . Live and let live.
I judge people by their book shelves. And I judge them far more for _not_ having a book shelf than for having cheap and/or trashy books
There is a culture in America. You are paid by the government for each child you have and can't support. You also must have no support of the significant other. So our system encourages it.
Spoken like someone who knows nothing about the US welfare system. First, government doesn't pay you anything unless you pay in and qualify to receive SSI or SSDI due to age/disability. The only cash program is TANFF, which is critically underfunded, distributed through poorly designed programs,when the state isn't hording the money for other stuff. Welfare requires info from both biological parents, and they evaluate your support arrangements if you aren't sharing a household to determine if it meets their income guidelines. If the other parent isn't contributing voluntarily, they hunt down that parent, verify DNA and enforce a support agreement based on their income (& not their actual financial situation which may not actually afford the amount they determine). Then the state will award Medicaid/CHIP, SNAP, WIC, Section 8, none of which is cash. Welfare reform of 90s changed the programs to require contribution from both parents.
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