Whether it’s some rare invention or a thing that happened to you, some things, no matter how real, might appear as if they’re straight out of fiction.
There are times when it can be very exhausting to try to convince someone else to believe in something that you’re sure is true. So, when someone online asked what those things are, people flooded the comment section with the answers, and you can read them all below!
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How depression can make it impossible to do things. I once made a custom knife for a friend, wrapped and boxed it, then let it sit there for well over a month before I was finally able to mail it. Intellectually I know that it’s a very simple task to tape on an address label and drive it five minutes to the post office, but I absolutely COULD NOT DO IT. I would get irrationally mad at myself for being unable to complete such a mundane and simple task, and yet I still couldn’t do it. That kind of mental roadblock was impossible for me to understand myself, let alone anyone who hasn’t experienced it.
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Load More Replies...It's horrible to be trapped in this kind of paralysis. It makes zero sense. I thought I was the only one that runs into this kind of block. I know it's part of my depression but didn't realize others are affected this way too.
It’s so helpful to not feel alone in this :) hope you’re doing better ❤️
Load More Replies...Yes. Struggle with it every other day. And it gets worse.
Load More Replies...There is depression so devastating that just breathing feels like an accomplishment. I've had many serious illnesses and surgeries, but none can compare to the pain of my untreated clinical depression. I have finally found medication that works...it's a miracle. For the suffering people out there, do not give up hope.
This is my daily reality. I miss deadlines and appointments and sometimes a phone call is impossible to make, no matter how important it is. My family has no idea.
I understand you. A simple phone call to my cousin I had to do in the begining september and still I have to do it. Each day I think about it, but it's too much for me to have a phone conversation. I wish you well.
Load More Replies..."Well, just cheer up, then!" Yeah, thanks, that's real helpful.
Load More Replies...This, especially when you get hit with anxiety at the same time. Takes all my willpower to barely function. I tend to get snappy at this point. Got fired from a job because of it.
When it got to the point where one corner of the little hammock in the rat cage became detached and the simple task of fixing it was suddenly as impossible as climbing Mt Everest in an old timey diving suit stuffed full of angry ferrets, that was when I realised it was time I got some help.
I was lazy and stupid my entire life. But now I finally learned that I have AHDH, PTSD and chronic depression (at the age of FIFTY! ) So now I am trying to learn that I am actually smart ad
Load More Replies...I pay so much more cause I also get paralyzed just thinking about a task.
How crippling the pain from menstrual cramps can be. I have endometriosis and it's absolute hell. My sister does too. I'm child free but she told me that when she was in labor the first time, she didn't even realize because it wasn't as painful as her period cramps on endo. She asked the nurse when it would start and the nurse looked at her with raised eyebrows and was like "ummm like an hour ago." And yet I've had an actual doctor laugh in my face at the idea of getting medicine to help with the pain for my cramps.
Nobody takes it seriously. It really, really sucks. I f*****g dread my periods bc I can pretty much count on there being one or two days out of every ~29 or 30 when I can barely even stand up. I have to save any sick time or time off for those days if they fall during the work week. But everyone is so dismissive about it.
Edit: wow so many supportive comments and information about treatment strategies! I feel more validated than I ever have for this suffering. Thank you everyone and anyone else reading this who suffers like this, there are so many really helpful and validating comments below.
I had terrible pain from endometriosis. My female gyno told me to "woman up", it couldn't possibly be that bad during my period, I was such a wimp. I changed doctors and my male doctor said, "sounds like endometriosis, let's do laparoscopic surgery to find the outlying bleeders, and put you on hormonal birth control to help". Both things helped tremendously. Then later, I had four kids, and being pregnant helped, and when I was done with that, I got an IUD and haven't had a period since. Glorious! You just need a doctor that believes you and knows how to help!
This! I went though this from not just a female gyno.. but also, female workplace bosses, co-workers... once even had an CNA while i was in hospital for 30 day physical therapy say 'you need to let them cure that, its no excuse to lay in bed, it cant be that bad". Like.. just cure it already?!? Like the pain was a choice, and i just wanted what? Not to get better? Some people are just dingledinks and unless they've experienced it, it can be that bad... i mean, 1 out of 7 women must be making it up or just want sympathy right? (Sarcasum) idiots... Edited just to add: i had to take FMLA to protect my job and have had trouble before litterly keeping a job due to calling out during probationary periods because of periods.. its really no joke and is life effecting.
Load More Replies...Much sympathy. When still in school and university I'd always miss at least 1 day/month, and the same at every job. Hysterectomy was the only relief.
Same, I ended up with uterus cancer. Everyone thought the hysterectomy was such a sad thing. It was a damned relief.
Load More Replies...I ended up having a hysterectomy in my 20s, but it took a long time for anyone to take me seriously. Nobody was laughing though when it took 2 days of transfusions for me to have enough blood for the doctor to even perform the surgery. It's probably difficult for some people to reconcile, when feminine hygiene commercials show women windsurfing and playing tennis like everything's just peachy thanks to this cute little pink plug👐 In reality, for a lot of women, it's like being simultaneously kicked in the spine, punched in the ovaries, and stabbed in your uterus, coupled with bleeding so much that you seriously question how you are still alive. The commercials should just be women yelling "FUUUUUUCK!
Was that a hard choice b/c of future fertility, or was that not an issue due to wanting to be child-free? Just wondering, and you don't need to answer if you don't want to share. And I'm glad you were able to finally be free of the suffering!
Load More Replies...I wonder if that doctor would still be laughing with a knife in his nuts....If the doctor was a man, that is.
You could say knife in the uterus for a female provider.
Load More Replies...Tbf, labour is different for different women. Mine was unbearably excruciating. That doesn't mean I have never felt bad pain since then. The worst period cramps happened after I got back on treating my prolactinoma and went on a higher dose of Bromocriptine. If I had a job at the time I would have been calling in sick and sticking it to them if the boss tried coercing me to come in. I was on the bed reeling. Something I did notice that just really bugs me is there's this belief that once you've given birth to a baby, suddenly other pain you experience afterwards is supposed to just be a mere tickle. Why does there have to even be this competition or gate-keeping of pain and pain tolerance, or there lack of? It should be understandable and deserving of sympathy for someone in immense pain no matter the cause.
I want to add. Labour is also different each time you give birth. And thank god you are high on hormones, the midwifes say it would be unbearable otherwise. That being said I don't understand this pain tolerance competition either. Maybe it has just something to do with everything being a competition in us humans.
Load More Replies...Also this! when i was like 14 or so i was told labor was gonna be worse. They were actually wrong, my labor was like 12 hours after induced.. i practically slept though most of it, right up until i had to push. I was so used to the pain i didnt even realize i was ready until they told me, and by then it was to late for an epidural...
Load More Replies...It IS a sign, though, that you need to get checked out. Supposedly - can't relate since I, too, have a case of broketycrotch - it's not supposed to be wholly debilitating. Always get your junk checked. The pain is absolutely horrifying and scary and you deserve to know if it means there's something going on.
Sadly, this is also barring that you can find a doctor that'll take you seriously. Don't be afraid to ask around if you are one of our vagina having pandas to find one that'll listen (one thing that helps is there are lists of LGBTQIA+ friendly doctors and they tend to listen a lot better).
Load More Replies...To all the female bored pandas...the following is not meant to be sexist, mysogynistic or anything in between...but......are there the side wings of a ♀️ sanitary pad depicted in the stock photo???
I think so! Applause to the photo team for accuracy :)
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Turn signals. They work on my car; surely they MUST work on other cars.
I saw a BMW use its turn signal once. I went home and hid under my bed.
I think it's an optional upgrade on BMWs. I've recently seen a few, so it must be a new addition.
Mental health issues. It's amazing to me how many people think the brain, the most complicated structure in the known universe, is the only organ that's *not* capable of malfunctioning.
So, their malfunctioning weak brain doesn't believe brains malfunction? /j
Load More Replies...It's worse than that, they judge the person as being lacking somehow as a decent human being because of the mental disorder. They don't do that if it's another organ. You don't hear "stay away from, they have kidney disease" but they will say "stay away from them, they have mental problems".
I find this with addictions too. So much stigma in mental illnesses that many people don’t even realize they’re making into a bigger problem by their own small actions and judgments.
Load More Replies...It's illness like any other. You wouldn't (ideally anyway) hesitate to go get a broken arm checked out, nor would someone generally feel shame about that. So there's no shame in making sure your headmeat is functioning properly. Anyone who says that it is a shameful thing to pursue mental health cold sucks a fat one and does not deserve to have a say in your life. Be well, pandaroos.
Really? Lol as someone with both epilepsy and OCD, I can definitely say that the brain is quite capable of malfunctioning 😆
I LOVE how people think if you do more exercise and walk out in the sunlight, you are going to magically feel perfectly fine all of a sudden.
I mean it is proven to help improve overall general mental health, but some issues have more serious underlying causes that should be looked into. Like I get seasonal depression during the winter because I don’t get enough sunlight, so I need a sun lamp during the mornings. But I was also depressed during COVID because I couldn’t go see my friends or do anything. And sometimes I get depressed if I lay down in the same spot all day, so exercising and moving can help. But it isn’t a cure for everything, which I think you’re trying to point out. But just clarifying.
Load More Replies...people do not understand that mental illness stems from chemical imbalances and, just b/c they are no accurate diagnostic tests for these imbalances, that these imbalances are diseases like diabetes...nobody would fault or disbeleive a diabetic about their imbalance...
Incurable diseases. I have multiple sclerosis and I hear a lot of things day to day like "You're just too dedicated to your diagnosis", or "have you tried the Wahls diet" or "have you taken magnesium supplements" or "you need to be more positive" or my favorite "It's OK, god has a plan".
Having experienced the actual thing degrading my brain for eight years, done high dose chemo and a bone marrow transplant, and poisoned my immune system over 200 separate times... I can definitively say that some processes (death, degenerative neurological diseases, autoimmunity, etc) are unavoidable and something people don't always actually have the power to beat regardless of the amount of positive thinking, dieting, or exercise one does.
EDIT: I just want to point out how multiple people have replied back to try to convince me that my condition is curable, or recommending treatments that I have already done and failed. Quite literally proving my point. 😆
EDIT: One person has interpreted my comments in this thread as me saying that any attempt to treat a chronic illness is hopeless or meaningless. This is not what I was intending to say (hopefully that is obvious). I am merely stating that many people have health conditions they can't fix or control despite best efforts, and that this experience is real and they deserve to have that experience respected.
Autoimmune sufferer, I completely feel this. OP is absolutely right - there are days you simply. Can. Not. Function. and "mood" and "attitude" have NOTHING to do with what is physically happening, and yet people... and that's all I'm going to say. People.
People who don't know what they are talking about shouldn't pass judgment on others! I hate the do gooders who just can't deal with the reality that life sucks for alot of people for no good reason.
Load More Replies...People don't want to admit there might not be anything one can do when someone is "sick" because then they have to admit that it could happen to them as well. Makes it too real.
Not entirely fair, there's another explanation. Men in particular are preprogrammed to fix things. When men see a problem they want to get out the toolkit, bish bash bosh and it's fixed and they don't have to worry about any more. But there are things that can't be fixed, which is agonising especially for us buttoned up, tight a*s types who find it so hard to express sympathy when we know we should.
Load More Replies...People who think incurable diseases don't exist are afraid of not having control over everything in their life. If only they knew how little control they really have...
Indeed - sadly, there are no cures for many autoimmune problems.
Also have MS. Have been told its because I dont accept Jesus as my personal savior. (Im Jewish.)
He never calls, he never writes. Impersonal savior. At best.
Load More Replies...Fibromyalgia, arthritis, degenerative disc disease, spinal stenosis, sciatica, diabetes and CIPN (chemotherapy induced peripheral neuropathy), in remission from breast cancer. "You're too young to be that sick ", "you don't look sick ", "the pain can't be that bad " (I'm allowed 6 Norco 10 a day), "just get up move around more " (can't walk or stand more than 10 minutes w/o pain). All of my medical issues are "invisible" and started when I was about 45. I've actually been yelled at in the grocery store for using the scooters. I once lifted my shirt to show my mastectomy to prove I wasn't faking, was still mostly bald from chemo, looked like c**p. First outing after Dr's OK. Nothing will cure my issues, ever. Don't presume to know what I need to do to get better. And don't judge unless you have the same problems. Be glad you don't.
I had a friend who turned paraplegic after an accident and someone asked her what sin she had done to be like that. Yes, well, it must be a great one for sure.
The obvious answer to which is, 'I made judgemental personal comments to someone who was struggling.'
Load More Replies...God does have a plan. He plans for each and every one of us to die. And He's quite serious about it, too.
Oh my god that is so spot on! I have DCM and LBBB (Chronic/Severe) and I have been asked how long it will take for me to 'get better'. Never. I will never get better. In fact I will get worse. I have reached to point in my condition where my joints ache, my memory is starting to fail and I can barely walk more than 15 metres. I had someone ask what would fix my heart and I asked what blood type they were and do they do extreme sports or ride a motorbike
That people living in the late stages of dementia are still people with valid feelings and deserve to be treated with respect and dignity .
This must be my thread today… I’ve taken care of people with Alzheimer’s in their home and in the nursing home and I’ll tell you a little secret that works for me with well over half of patients and residents I just stop what I’m doing and I sit down and tell them I’m sorry and I bet I was moving to fast and I’ll do better I promise. You get immediate change. Respect goes far even when your so sick.
Thank you Elizabeth. Maybe you could do a post about it? I bet you know loads of things to make things easier for the carers and the cared for
Load More Replies...Yes! Absolutely agree! My Nan would always cry when I left because apparently I was the only one who talked to her like an adult and treated her the same as I did when she was healthy and fine and not a r*tarded child
Gosh!! What is that stuffed animal doing framed above his head!
Restless Leg Syndrome.
People think it's just being a little uncomfortable and not finding a good position to sleep in. It's actually an uncontrollable urge to move your legs that feels almost like muscle spasms and it is absolutely maddening.
Weirdly, if my cat is sleeping on my bed, I can pat him and it makes it stop. I have no idea why.
Because cats are magical creatures worthy of worship. But seriously their purr is at s vibration believed to have calming properties, this is why a cat in pain or under stress will sometimes purr.
Purring also helps bones heal faster. I think there are a few medical researchers looking into creating some type of mechanism that will mimic a cats purr. Of course, it may well help but nothing beats a real cat.
Load More Replies...Best description I've ever got close to describing the feeling of RLS is that it feels like you have carbonation in your blood in the affected area. The urge part for me is close to the sensation of needing to breathe after being underwater a tad bit too long. It's not like I feel like I have insomnia or I want attention so I'll have to kick my legs at the Kees for several hours. Not taken seriously enough imho
Yep. I used to tense and stretch my legs over and over to try and shake the feeling to no avail.
Load More Replies...My husband has had this and been medicated for it for ten years. He felt like a drug addict when begging the neurologist on multiple occasions to give him enough medicine to be able to control it. His GP refused to change his meds for several years stating that other people have it worse than him and he shouldn't complain about only sleeping two or three hours a night. I myself didn't fully appreciate what he went through until.... I started to develop restless legs too. I'm in those early days where it's sporadic. It seems to get worse with time.
It does. I use weed gummies, which *usually* helps. A weighted blanket can help, too, but lately I've started having nights when nothing seems to work.
Load More Replies...My ex-partner had restless leg syndrome (we called it the nightly jigs). Then our cat decided she liked sleeping between his legs, and it stopped until she got mad at him for something and switched to my legs.
I tried explaining to my doctor what it felt like, and the best I could come up with is this: My body is relaxed on the couch, but my legs are trying to take me out for a marathon run...
Sometimes I get restless arms as well as my legs. I stopped taking antihistamines and it's much less frequent, but if I take magnesium it gets worse.
I had it for 12 years. Started taking potassium supplement for another reason and 3 days later restless legs were fine. Only comes back if I forget my supplements for more than 3 days.
You can't get autism, it's a neurodevelopment disorder, you are either born with it or you don't have it. Vaccines can't give you autism, medicaments won't give you or your baby autism, however genetics will, bang an autistic person and you will likely have autistic babies. When the baby has it, likely someone else in the family has it as well.
So weird how we can thoroughly debunk something and it still takes YEARS for the less-intelligent amongst us to catch up.
Load More Replies...There are a lot of people who have Autism and don't know it. But they will go through life feeling like something is wrong with other people or themselves and be misunderstood frequently.
What really annoys me is that the people who scream this the loudest are the ones who conveniently forget that they were also vaccinated as children with no "autistic side effects." I'm autistic and no that DTaP series did not alter my neuro connectivity, but it sure as s**t kept me from dying of an easily preventable disease.
I still enjoy asking anti-vaxxers if they would take a vaccine that prevents autism
Unfortunately it first starts to become noticeable at about the same age as you get your first vaccination shots. Even my very intelligent scientist mother said she had doubts for a little while. But then again I also had really bad ear infections as a small child, so you might as well say the medicinal eardrops caused it.
I'm convinced that I at least have Asperger's (I know it falls under Autism now). But I cannot for the life of me find a person/place/institution in my country that can help me get diagnosed one way or the other. I guess I'll just have to live with being "the weird relative" for the rest of my life.
You say "The weird relative" like it's a bad thing. I find being the wacky relative rather empowering...
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Corporate greed. People saying costs are up because they are forced to pay better than slave wages, but still making record profits
❌ The wages are stagnant even though corporations report record profits. ✅ The wages are stagnant BECAUSE corporations report record profits.
Corporations don’t consider themselves successful unless they GROW their profits year-over-year. They NEED better profit margins than last year, no matter what. Every year. This model is, of course, unsustainable, but contributes to a LOT of issues in many societies.
Load More Replies...I recently saw a news article that talked about layoffs being necessary to improve stockholder outcomes. AYFKM??? Madness.
Not only madness. Infuriating. This is just end level gangster
Load More Replies...Yeah, prices don't have to change; billionaire CEO's would just have to take less for themselves (which we all know they wouldn't be willing to do).
UAW member here... when the crash of 2008 happened, the Big Three were begging for their own workers to sacrifice to save their employers' butts, with the promises of compensation for those sacrifices. Fifteen years later, after not receiving aforesaid compensation (and record profits), the workers have finally had enough. Our wages haven't kept up with inflation, we lost huge chunks of our 401k investments in the various economic collapses, so a lot of us senior workers have to work longer to make up for those...
ten figure profits and staff on minimum wage. Those two facts should not be applicable to the same company.
Petroleum companies just touting record profits again and in the same sentence put up fuel prices just because?
Put the costs up, less people buy your product so put the costs up even more to cover the loss in profits. Pricegouging
Being unable to force myself to do something with adhd. It is like I'm physically restrained when I try to force myself to do something at times.
I've always heard "if you just put your mind to do it, you can"... pi****d me off everytime and my mother was notorious for it.
Load More Replies...I wish my husband would understand this. he thinks I just don't feel like cleaning. I can't, I physically cannot begin cleaning because my brain won't let me, and he just doesn't get it.
Oh yes. I'm dealing with that and currently at a severe low point in shame and bashing myself for not being better. Alternating with panics about what the consequences will be for what i wasnt good enough to be able to get done. Then sticking my head in then and about those consequences, since i cant bear knowing right now, but not knowing will probably.lead to me missing yet another deadline (I'd miss it even if I knew, lets be real) and worse consequnxes.
Load More Replies...Omg this! The sheer volume of unfinished projects, and failed job interviews is staggering, I just want to lay in bed.
i heard somewhere its called adhd paralysis, i have adhd (diagnosed) and can agree, it feels like being stuck in a paralysis
This. I likely have ADHD, getting tested at some point. If I do have ADHD, I basically got the triple threat of mental disorders (anxiety, depression and ADHD) and it is awful. I should be doing school work right now. I should be able to do 7 simple tasks easily. This comment shouldn't have taken over 15 minutes to write. I can't even think of anything else to write here, I have so many ideas that don't make sense to write and I'm probably overthinking this. I've rewritten things so many times. Help.
Hey I have all of those too! I think that making a list of everything you have to do (definitely have a planner if you don’t have one already, write when stuff is due too), and identifying the first task or first step you need to do is really helpful. So is medication, if you find one that works for you. I’m not sure if this is true for everyone, but I get like numb episodes where I don’t care about anything, including grades, so it’s important to make a habit of doing homework so the habit kind of carries over through the numb periods. But the most important thing that’s made so much of a difference to me is a quiet, non-distracting work environment. There is no guarantee I’ll be able to focus at all if there is noise. But at the library there is no one but me and my homework. Also, cut yourself some slack. ADHD, anxiety, and depression can be hard to handle. Especially since they all kind of work against each other. It’s taken me a long time to get to this point and learn how to manage my ADHD, and even I still have a ways to go (I’m procrastinating right now lol). I still struggle with self-esteem issues thinking that I’m lazy because I can’t get done the things that I want to get done. I know it might feel like it, but you’re not alone in your struggles *digital hug*
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Human contribution to climate change. I worked in a lab for a couple years for my undergrad in geophysics. Most of the data was brought back by a team of professors and grad students who took yearly trips to Antarctica. Climate change turning into a political issue is a sin I can never forgive humanity for.
Ignored by successive governments worldwide, actions substituted by lipservice, sorry kids you inherit a burnt out husk
Actually warming was first proved in 1857 and 1859
Load More Replies...“All our environmental problems become easier to solve with fewer people, and harder – and ultimately impossible – to solve with ever more people.” Sir David Attenborough
And they misplace the blame. In my country, instead of going after the filthy rich, who contribute most with their private jets and c**p, they blame farting cows and people who can't afford electric cars -_- oh, not to mention recycling companies who won't take many recyclables. For instance, they'll take cardboard, but they won't take glass. OP is absolutely right. Reducing pollution should not be politicized.
It is political though, because it couldn't be changed without massive redistribution.
Load More Replies...What science suggests here requires a lot of political change though.
Load More Replies...The absolute worst is when people say, "The climate is always changing. It has changed in the past!" I feel like grabbing these people and saying, "Yeah, no s**t. Everyone knows that. It's not a secret. Why do you keep saying it??? Do you honestly believe that the people who study climate change are unaware of that fact???"
It is a known scientific fact that carbon dioxide is a greenhouse gas, and that the more of it there is, the more heat will be kept in the atmosphere. It is also a known fact that humans produce carbon dioxide through things like burning fossil fuels such gasoline in their cars or jet fuel in their airplanes. We can and do actually measure this. So why is it such a big leap to, "humans are contributing to climate change" is beyond me.
Yet when acid rain was a worry when I was growing up, governments actually did something about it, and now it’s not a concern! Why can’t we do this again for climate change?!
We have to STOP calling it climate change and call it “pollution.” No one likes a trashy neighborhood, ocean, air quality… solved. Just call it what IT IS. Political parties be damned.
But it is political, we need the government who are supposed to act on our behalf to make laws that reduce climate change impacts. It's unfortunately inevitable that the greedy, the short sighted and the selfish and ignorant want governments to act in their personal interests too. It is overall a humanity lacking moral honour and integrity problem that infects every part of society.
Unions are good for workers.
An onion a day keeps the bosses away! Maybe that’s the key to being allowed to work from home :D
Load More Replies...The fact that they're actually NEEDED to prevent workers from getting screwed over is the sad part.
And the why of it is proving itself all over the world today.
Load More Replies...Employee is employee, whether you are someone who operate machine in the factory or someone who write codes in an office. Unionize!
And they are good for employers as well. At least in my country. Because you don't need to haggle with every employee. You can lift problems out of the personal and just follow whatever the union agreement says. If you, or you boss are not sure whats what, you just go to the union agreement and look it up.
Bosses hate them because it means they can get away with exploiting workers
I can't imagine living in a place where unions aren't common place.
That when you chase the validation of others, the only thing you get is tired.
Another thing is that people act like it’s so easy to just stop seeking validation or worrying about what others think of you. It’s. Not. F*****g. Easy
It should be recognized as normal to feel the need for praise and approval. It's not about wanting attention all the time, nor needing an ego-boost. Sometimes people want to know they are making others happy and comfortable. It's like working in customer service and someone gives you a compliment on the service and perhaps how presentable you are, and that makes them satisfied. So, you feel happy knowing you made their day.
Load More Replies...Agree with you LA Murphy.. Validation isn't something that I looked for; if I received any feedback on my work it was a surprise but it never happened much.
Load More Replies...I found that getting old helped. Oh l like it when I get it, but I can carry on perfectly well without it
Facts. Sometimes you don't know what they are, then you do. There are facts you know and others don't. And facts others know and you don't. That's ok. Be willing to learn and teach.
There are facts right now that NO human knows. Someday we'll learn what some of them are.
And even if you don't like them, that doesn't make them not-facts, or opinions.
Reality is what it is, whether or not you're willing to admit it.
I like this :) it’s like - if we wanted to prove the sky was blue, how would we go about doing that? We’d run an experiment (say, a bunch of people looking at the sky and recording what colour they see). Then we’d share the details (guess what, everyone saw blue!) and come to a conclusion (the sky is probably blue). And there would still be people fighting it and saying “why would you blindly trust science like that you idiots” and all sorts of cringy stuff. Maybe someday we’ll find out the sky is actually Blorange and we just don’t have the eye receptors to see Blorange. Stay open-minded and always be willing to learn and change your mind! Blorange is still Blorange whether you believe in it or not.
But how do you know that what you call blue because everyone else is calling it that, is the same colour that they are seeing? Things are not always as easy as we would like to make them. And history should tell us that what we think is certain today could be viewed as completely ridiculous in a generation or two. A real scientist is never 100% certain. They do the best with what data they have, but are open to the fact that sometimes the paradigm can shift completely.
Load More Replies...This statement has been so politicised by both sides that I refuse to agree to it until I hear the facts of the situation about which this statement is being uttered.
Load More Replies..."Facts are stubborn things." - John Adams, at Boston Massacre trial.
My brother's motto, "Never think you're the smartest person in the room. And if by some chance you are, get up and change rooms".
Commenters here at bored Panda need to learn that just because someone has a differing opinion than them, doesn't mean they need to be sterilized. 🙄🙄
The utter meaninglessness of humans in the overall fabric of the universe.
Why is it depressing that there's no "meaning" to life? We create our own meaning.
Exactly. I find that there being ‘no meaning’ is very freeing.
Load More Replies...Saying we’re trying to save the planet is c**p. We’re trying to save ourselves. If we all disappeared the planet would renew and regenerate without us. Maybe better.
...and it showed us that during C-vid. Water got cleaner, air cleared, etc. during shutdown.
Load More Replies...Considering the way we treat each other, the other inhabitants of the planet, and the planet itself, it's probably a good thing we're meaningless to the universe.
My husband and I have always joked that Earth is the comedy channel of the Universe. Everytime we get buzzed by U.F.O's it's Aliens doing a fly by for comic relief.
The amount of people that don't know narwhals are actual animals
It is a unicorn fish... it is where the myth of the unicorn come from. Narwhales horns made people believe in this mytic animal. When all the nordic people and iniuts did- was to carch narwhales and show there beautiful horns/teeth...
Load More Replies...Lol seriously? There are people that think they aren't real? 😂
Yea, one of the teachers at my school doesn't believe they are real.
Load More Replies...I'd never heard of one until I saw one in a cartoon well into adulthood. Ignorance is not stupidity.
I absolutely agree. It's not wrong to not know something as long as you are willing to learn. The only time my dad had ever seen a narwhal was the stop motion one in the movie Elf. I had to tell him they were actually real. No one person can know everything.
Load More Replies...Causing a commotion cuz they are so awesome
Load More Replies...AKA my sister in law! LOL, she'd only seen one in the movie Elf so therefore thought they were made up creatures. :)
Increasing taxes on a higher tax bracket doesn’t mean 100% of your income is taxed at that rate the second you enter it.
Yes, one can always tell people who've never been in the higher tax bracket - they worry about being worse off if they get a raise.
Exactly, I used to be that person. I got a raise 2 years ago and entered a higher tax bracket, but it’s only my last $8,000 that is taxed at that higher bracket. The rest of my income for the year is taxed at the lower bracket. Was very happy when I learned that. Financial literacy is important!
Load More Replies...I would mind paying higher taxes if it meant better education free health care better roads but all I see it politicians giving themselves raises and a housing crisis
Other than reading, schools do nothing to prepare kids for adulthood.
Sometimes this is an issue with a non accountant doing payroll, cutting your checks. They often use "chart tables" instead of percentage calculation and you get a raise and suddenly you go up one box on the table, get your whole raise taken away in taxes, but then you get it back at the end of the year. I used to do bookkeeping, and we were required to use the chart table, so that the deductions were predictable per hour of pay based on the general hourly rate per group of people. So everyone who make $12-12.49 an hour gets $4 off per hour to taxes, $12.50 - 13 get 4.50 off to taxes per hour. So you get people at 12.45 go up to 12.50, and suddenly are down 45¢ per hour on their paychecks. But, they get it back at year end if they do their taxes, so long as they only have the one job, it is extra money. Bad payroll charts do not take enough off and everyone owes money to the government at the end of the year. Good ones means everyone pays at least the minimum taxes and never owe.
Most people complain like they pay major taxes while in fact they pay a minimum amount.
I say taxes should be a percentage of income with no deductions or other voodooery. The only people who will complain are the rich because they will have to pay more actual taxes compared to their peasant workers. However, a percentage tax is about as fair as it will ever get.
Every time this comes up, the well-actuallys come in and describe things other than tax brackets.
As they should; these things are real concerns for the poor and if you haven’t been in that situation, you should count your blessings.
Load More Replies...I see this more as a failure of the education system and people being conditioned to believe that you can never get ahead in life no matter what you do, how hard you work, or what you try. It's sad, not ignorant. Making fun of them seems to be all the rage lately but...people aren't (in general) stupid, they are just afraid and taught that life never lets you win.
The government is not spying on you, but you are giving away way more information than the government cares about to advertisers and loyalty programs so you can save $.50 on Doritos...cool ranch of course
Most of us are don't have an interesting enough life to be spied on all the time. What will they see, honestly?
This, you wanna spy on me? Well welcome to to being utterly bored.
Load More Replies...Edward Snowden released thousands of documents showing in great detail how our governments are spying on us, and our telecommunications providers are colluding with them. Police departments all over the US deploy fake cell towers to track and record every device which come into their range. And license plate readers which do the same thing for every vehicle on the streets. But sure, they aren't spying on us. We're just paranoid.
Only two types of people think the government is watching them: people who are always doing stuff they shouldn't and people who think the government is always doing stuff they shouldn't.
The government IS always doing stuff they shouldn't
Load More Replies...Yeah..."I don't want the gummint spying on me, but Facebook is ok"....REALLY!?!?
I love when people say things like the government using face scanners at airports in the US is a way to get their face on file. Did they not show their driver's license at the security checkpoint, which had their face on it. The government has your face already. They don't need to set up face scanners in airports to get it.
Right! Think how much paperwork we all fill out for things from getting social security id, going to public school etc, etc 🤣
Load More Replies...People still don't seem to realize that for free email, social media, gaming, etc. YOU are the product, not the customer.
That's not entirely true. I was freaked out when registering for a govt website and had to do the whole "establish my identity" thing that the year and make of my first car was one of the answer options. 50 year old information is in a database somewhere! Chew on that for a while. I don't typically give much weight to the Chicken Little folks screeching about the government's overreach, but this gives one (or should) pause.
OMG the DMV keeps records? Who would've thought?!? How dare they!
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OCD can be a lot more debilitating than people realize.
And OCD isn't just organizing your room ten times a day. I have frequent problems like when I twitch one foot I must twitch the other, and I also try to avoid certain words like "just". Also I don't ever want to clean my room because I know where everything is, even though it's messy.
Yeah, it is a really complicated illness that manifests itself in many different ways. That's why I wasn't diagnosed until my early 20s.
Load More Replies...People misuse the term OCD a lot because they think it's "quirky". "Oh look at this image with one incorrectly placed floor tile, my OCD is going crazy aaah". That is not OCD.
I get so sick of people throwing around OCD like it is cute. I was venting about this to my current therapist, and she said this: If a person is wiping down a counter three times because 'OCD, I must be clean' then they are picky and maybe quirky, if a person is wiping down a counter exactly three times so that everyone they love doesn't die in an explosion of fire and gas, then that person has OCD. I am the second type of OCD. The rituals and the ticks keep the intrusive thoughts at bay.
Load More Replies...Yep. When you really don't want to do something but you literally have to or you'll have a panic attack. It's not pleasant to live with and you can't just switch it off
Imagine having to relock your door ten times and counting that before you feel secure enough to leave knowing your house is locked.
Not to mention the Intrusive Thoughts part of OCD where you won't necessarily have a compulsion to do anything, but you can't stop thinking about something, usually something traumatic. You won't clean, or touch something a certain amount of times or avoid stepping somewhere, you just can't make your mind stop thinking certain things.
This!!! I think that I might have OCD and that part of it really goes bad with my anxiety and then I get caught in the spiral and have a panic attack 😞
Load More Replies...For me, it’s checking the door and window numerous times a night, and making sure everything is in perfect order. If I’m playing cards, they can’t be disorganized, they have to be lined up perfectly. My welcome mat has to be lined up with my door just perfectly with the lines of the linoleum in the hallway. Everything has to have order. I learned that it’s because I have so much disorder in my life, I do this so I have an area of my life where there is perfect order. This part of my life I have order and control. When I heard that, it made sense.
Be thankful you don't have the related disorder, CDO, which is the same as OCD, but the letters are in the correct order AS THEY SHOULD BE.
You probably have to experience it to know that it's the intrusive thoughts that are the real issue.
Most Americans already pay for other people’s medical care through their health insurance policy, yet a lot seem to think that being taxed is what will cause them to pay for other people.
“Our taxes will go way, way, way up if we offer universal health care!!” In many countries, including Canada, citizens pay only a couple percentage points more than US citizens for health care and we still save thousands a year. For context, for my tax bracket it’s something like 18% in the US vs 20% in Canada, and in my entire life I’ve gotten over $50,000 worth of free surgeries alone. That’s without markup - in the US it would easily be $300,000+. I’m actually just going to pick up my free IUD tomorrow and book my free appointment to insert it, and also my free covid and flu vaccine and honestly just a full physical because I’m due for one - which will also be free, including blood tests. Worth an extra 2% a year, and also glad my mum was able to get free cancer treatment and is now cancer free. Quality/availability of health care is a huge indicator of how free a country’s citizens really are.
Load More Replies...I love how people decry universal health care as, "I don't want the gub'mint making decisions on my health", but have no problem with for-profit corporate entities doing so.
For real. American right wingers called Jacinda Ardern an evil communist but I got sick while she was in charge and I faced a hellll of a lot less red tape than Americans get from their insurance companies.
Load More Replies...Insurance was the worst idea ever. It's basically putting your wellbeing in the hands of the mafia. And I say this as an American. I love my country, but I don't like the way these greedy, rich thugs run it. They're the reason other countries think we're just a nation of violent, dumb hillbillies.
So many people fail to understand that tax revenues pay for public services, like roads and bridges, they pay to keep our National Parks from becoming landfills, they pay for police and fire departments, they pay for disaster relief, they pay for social safety net services for those in need. If you happen to use any of those services, then damn it, help pay for them! Now, of course, I am not advocating getting screwed over by the government taking your tax money and misusing it. No way. But that money is necessary to keep the country running—-believe me, privatizing everything is definitely not the answer. No individual or corporation would run the country any better, because they would be profit-driven and consider the population to be nothing but a drain on their bottom line. You really want to live under the same conditions you have been working under for the last 40+ years? So just pay your fair share of taxes, one-per enters, ffs. If you don’t want to, then don’t go walking on the sidewalks MY money, and that of the other people who do pay their fair share of taxes, bought and paid for. Stay off the roads WE paid to fix. Don’t you dare go over any of OUR bridges. You better have your own private security and fire details on hand, because you better not call OURS. Are you getting my drift?
And it costs them more to do it through private insurance than it would if they had a national health service
The number of people who don't know what 'insurance' means is shocking, or not.
I thought it was funny how some people were willing to support the Affordable Care Act but hated “Obamacare”, which is the same thing. 😂
And all the glories of private insurance instead of "socialized" medicine like in Canada... I STILL have to wait 3 months for an appointment.
The sensation of deja vu, whether real or not.
I get these sometimes, particularly from dreams. One I remember was when I was around 10, I had a dream where I walk into my backyard. There was a table full of items. I reach into an open shoebox, and pull out a business card for a shoe store. I remember as a kid I found the dream to be weird, and that dream stuck with me for awhile. I would occasionally remember it. A few years later, there was a major earthquake. There was an inspector going through our house check for damages, so we had to move stuff out of the house. I was bored, so I was walking the house, and I went into the backyard. Déjà vu. Really freaked me out. Apparently that shoebox was originally stored in my dad's closet for years, from his old job he hadn't worked for a decade.
YUP! hasn't happened for a while, but most of my deja vu's are caused by foretelling places or unfamiliar people I would see in dreams
Load More Replies...It occurs because your senses are storing the same information in your short term and long term memories at the same time - hence, your short term memory (of about 8 seconds, based on what your senses are recording) sees that it's in your long-term memory and concludes that you've seen/heard/smelled it before. It is not really a repeat, sorry folks.
I suffer from reja vu. I get the feeling that I'm going to make the same mistake again
i get it all the time but i don’t remember having dreams about the situation. i’ll just have a feeling like i’ve done what im doing before. it really freaks me out
idk I had a really weird and meaningless dream once about my mom taking me to a fair that was happening the next week and her losing her keys and then finding them next to a red car. Guess what happened at the fair! And she never dropped her keys before in public and had to look for them! It was likely a huge coincidence, but if I am psychic, why can't it be about something larger? Still, this way we were able to get home.
What the helllll! I hit enter and my mom came in asking if I've seen her car keys. Insert X Files theme.
Load More Replies...When I was younger I used to dream of what movies years in the future would be like and sure enough the movies I dreamed were pretty much the exact same
I have celiac disease. This one really gets me because I have every medical test under the sun to prove it. Yet I still deal with constant comments, "Why is everyone allergic to gluten all of a sudden?" "Oh it's so trendy to not eat gluten."
There are always (unnecessary) trends, and not all of them need to keep away from gluten? And when they cheat/change the diet people start to wonder? Or just the ordinary story of haters, "I'm not celiac, so neigher are you!" or "No one was celiac when I was little, so there can't be no advancement in healtcare/understanding of the human body after 1960!", or, "everybode have problem with gluten, man up"... 🤷♂️
Drives me nuts, my best friend has celiac so I’m used to working around that. BUT I also used to be a server and I remember the gluten-free “trend.” I remember people asking for “no croutons - but I can have the dressing even though it has gluten in it, it’s fine” which was so damaging. Shane on anyone who participated in that trend.
Load More Replies...My niece in law-nephews wife, is coeliacs. When she joined the family, suddenly my sister is all about gluten free is the way to live. She jumps on every bandwagon, it brings the attention to her in her mind because "oh check out my knowledge of what's best in health, I'm such an expert on this, trust me, I'll tell all about it repeatedly for the next 6 months. Don't scream and run, this is important, why are you screaming?". Anyway, poor niece in law, who was diagnosed as a child knows nothing according to sis who can lecture her ad nauseum. THIS is why poor coeliacs have such a hard time, people thinking it's some cool new health fad when the actual sufferer would give their right arm just to have a common slice of wheat goodness filled bread.
If I found I had 24 hrs left to live, I would spend a good portion of it just stuffing my face with fluffy cinnamon buns and airy pastries made of wheat. For real. It could potentially make my very last hours super hellish if I timed it wrong and the symptoms got to me before death did, but it would still be worth it. I feel like crying just thinking about cinnamon rolls. Without gluten, its just absolutely impossible to ever reach that fluffy texture no matter how much you try. Sometimes I wish I'd been diagnosed much earlier than a decade too late just because I'm now so very aware of what I can't have. All the other stuff, like still not being able to properly process all the nutrients even though, with gluten free diet, my intestines healed? Inconvenient. Not fun. But the true emotional anguish comes from not being able to bite into a delicious, warm, soft, cushy pastry, ever. Having to settle for an always harder, always drier, always inferior gluten free variant.
Load More Replies...People who want to be "in" think it's cool to avoid gluten or think it will make them skinny to do so. Ozempic is for diabetics yet people are getting it to lose weight. This is why is hard to be taken seriously when you have an actual medical condition.
We get a lot of swelling in our belly. I was asked this year when boarding a plane, if I was pregnant. I am 50.
Load More Replies...There is a difference between allergies and intolerance. Intolerance makes you sick. Allergies can kill you. I hate it when people say they are allergic to gluten because they "feel a little weird." Celiac disease is real. My friend has it, and they tell me it is excruciating, with the stomach pains and diarrhea.
Cramps, gas, bloating, thousands of little knives clawing and moving along your insides... absolutely sucks.
Load More Replies...Probably has to do with so many people turning medically necessary diets (in this case no gluten) and turning it into fad diets, which makes the people around them less likely to believe when someone actually needs to be gluten free (or on the keto diet, or lactose free) because so many people do it essentially "for funsies"
People are always going to do this with all medical-related things. You've been properly diagnosed, and you're not treating it like some hobby or trend. Forget everyone else. At least you're honest with your health.
A friend of mine had celiac and loves that it became such a trend to avoid gluten because now there are so many gluten-free versions of things.
Double edged sword to that... its also so expensive because it is 'trendy'. My groceries can be so expensive if i wanna eat more then 1 meal a day... or worse.. if i dont want it always to be the same thing everyday. There is so many things that have gluten thats hidden in the labels.. or the product is still made in a facility that produces other products that contain. Its soo crappy, i dont know why anyone would choose this?
Load More Replies...Celiac is life threatening. So sorry that people say stupid things.
That a bird once flew through the open windows of my car, straight through and out the other side, while I was driving at highway speeds. I was alone in the car and I swear it happened.
My reaction, "Did that just happen?"
With a bit of luck, you may be accompanied by ducks and geese on the country roads where I live, taking advantage of the slipstream of the cars...imagine, looking out of your side windows, gently startled by 'em...you don't need to panic because they won't hit your car or something ...👍🏼...it must be like swimming with dolphins, I suppose...
Pelicans do this on longer bridges in Florida. I LOVE it!
Load More Replies...Pictures or it didn't happen, and in this day and age with AI I still won't believe it even if you have pics.
That much of what we “remember” isn’t real. The brain is a sieve, losing memories. It fills in holes of knowledge with assumptions, interpolations, & justifications.
I once described my memory like a library card file, but the library is on fire so all I have is the idea of the memory.
Yes, I've been noticing this happening to me more and more lately. I call them false memories.
This might off the vein a little but my answer is:
Bad things can happen to your child as a direct result of your negligence. People truly don't believe that their child could be internally decapitated, mangled, or die of internal injuries because you didn't enforce the right kind of car seat or even a seat belt. Children 3-8 are the largest demographic I've seen that are injured in car accidents as a direct result of being improperly restrained. And people don't believe it. They don't believe that not doing any child restraint research, and lacking in their own due diligence can lead to their child's death.
Source: paramedic.
In Canada, the rules are now that no matter what your child's age is they must be in a booster seat if they are min. 4'9" or at least 9 years old. All kids under 6 years old, and under 40lbs have to be in a car seat. The biggest struggle is convincing older family members who refuse to update their knowledge of child safety because "back in the good ol' days we rode in the box of the truck and we survived."
They forget all the people who didn’t survive riding in the box of the truck, or who were launched through the windshield along with the person whose lap they were sitting in—-with no seat belt—-or the babies in flimsy, unattached car seats flying around bouncing off the walls, floor, and ceiling of the car during an accident. All those incidents became the reason for better car seats, for seat belts, for air bags, for all the safety laws and improvements in automobiles. It’s too bad the news only published yearly statistics on those incidents, instead of reporting on every single accident that occurred and resulted in unnecessary and downright grisly deaths. THAT might have hammered the point into people’s heads.
Load More Replies...I get sick of explaining to inlaws and others why my son has needed a rear facing carseat age 18mths (we live in Europe and it's the law, they live in our home country with an awful road toll) and yes still at 8 as he's small he still needs a booster seat until he's a certain height! And still not to sit in the front seat!
EMT of 25+ years here. Bicycle helmets are a MUST for kids. Their heads are not proportional to their bodies, so when they fall off their bike, that’s what tends to hit the ground first. I’ve seen toddlers with devastating head injuries from tumbling off tricycles or riding into car bumpers. And if a helmet is used in a fall, replace it! Same with car seats after an accident. Minuscule cracks mean the safety device stands a good chance of failing the next time.
I used to land on my face a lot when I was learning to ride my bike. Training wheels barely prevented that from happening.
Load More Replies...A lot of people don't realize the car itself contributes a lot to this as well. The 3 point seatbelt had been found to be the safest, and obviously air bags help a lot too. But the biggest contributer are the crush zones. Old cars just don't have them, new cars do. So many people say "I'm gonna get the old car because it survived the accident and was barely dented. The new car was mangled to heck". Ya because the new car took the force of the impact so the occupants didn't, it becomes its own giant air bag.
"Now Iet's sue the manufacturer for a million bucks!"
Load More Replies...Wow. I'm really proud of my brother and sister-in-law for following the rules of the road regarding children to a T, for my niece! I'm sure she'll thank them someday as well as carry on with doing the same in her future.
This is so validating! I argue with everyone about why I kept my child rear facing for so long, why I kept him in the five point restraint so long, and now, why I have a backed booster rather than backless. I look at the maximum age/weight/height not the minimum and quickest to make him less safe because A) I’ve researched the hell out of it B) I’m a terrible driver and in my mind it’s more like “when” we get in an accident rather than “if” C) I love my kid!!!
It always shocks me that so many people don't properly restrain their pets in a car. Don't they care.
When I was a kid, I stood on the hump in between the two front seats with my chin resting on the dashboard.
That nuclear energy is actually the cleanest most powerful way to power a community. People hear the word “nuclear” and freak out. They think that somehow they have a bomb sitting in their community. They think Chernobyl is the norm. In reality, there were a lot of things that led up to the Chernobyl disaster that would not happen in any of the modern nuclear reactors that provide power to much of the world. With good regulation, safety, standards and upgrades, nuclear power is clean, plentiful, cheap, and efficient. But people get so freaked out by the word “nuclear” they assume it’s bad and they’ll put oil in the furnace instead😑
Yes, nuclear power is clean, plentiful, cheap, and efficient. What is NOT clean, cheap, and efficient is the thousands of tons of nuclear waste sitting around because we don’t know what to do with it. But nuclear waste is indeed plentiful.
That's just it, we DO know what to do with it. Bury it. Deep. Well below any water table, deeper than any mine has gone before. So deep that even if the storage were to rupture in any way, it would be impossible for the radiation to reach the surface. So deep that even if civilization collapses and humans forget what we did with all that waste, no one will ever stumble across it. But that's not just an engineering challenge, thanks to nuclear misinformation, it's a huge NIMBY problem. Thanks to decades of nuclear misinformation, no one is willing to do what we need to do.
Load More Replies...What the pro-nuclear crowd still doesn't get is that plenty of us understand perfectly well it's "clean." It's the risk that makes many of us uncomfortable. If a wind turbine fails, that sucks but it can be fixed/replaced. Nuclear reactors aren't magic; they can and DO break. And I'd still like one of them to tell me why, if it's so safe, the nuclear material cannot be removed from San Onofre.
Modern nuclear reactors can break, just like any machine, but do you know what happens when they do break? They turn off. Reactors are designed so their default state is off and it takes active work to keep them on. In past, reactors were basically designed in a way that it took work to keep them under control. We long ago realized that was stupid, altered our thinking on it and came up with better designs. As for the waste, specifically San Onofre, it can't be moved because 1. It takes at least 5 years for the waste to "cool" enough to be transferred to dry storage and 2. The anti-nuclear lobby has scuttled every plan for a long term storage solution so there is no place to send it. As it is, the storage they are using is so safe you could walk right up to the dry storage and actually get more radiation exposure from the sun than it. The wet storage ("cooling" pool) is a different story. Don't go swimming there and you'll be fine.
Load More Replies...This is a VERY simplistic overview of an enormously complex problem.
With this few words, most anything would be simplifying things? But, yeah, lots of things are complicadet. But we should not get feelings lead us do/not do things like this?
Load More Replies...The chief danger with nuclear power plants is they are designed, constructed, and run by human beings.
If they mean nuclear fusion instead of fission, then yes. I heard they're making a lot of breakthroughs with fusion, which is supposed to be totally safe and produces no dangerous waste. If that's true, I'm really excited about it. If it's not true, I'll be sad...and embarrassed for being tricked into believing it lol
Concrete Boats. Rare, but they do exist.
Everyone I tell thinks I'm winding them up
Holdup lemme google… … …Concrete boats are in fact real. Bizarre.
Yeah. There was a story about them being used during WW2 to block access to waterways by enemy boats and submarines on either the History or Discovery channel.
Load More Replies...As long as it displaces enough water and is water tight it can be made into a boat.
Right! Why could there be steel ships but not concrete ships??
Load More Replies...Not just ships, I have seen smaller pleasure boats with concrete hills.
The concrete fleet of WW2: https://warfarehistorynetwork.com/article/the-concrete-fleet-of-wwii/
Just as Archimedes found out some time ago, just as long as you have more volume than the total weight of the water that is pushed away, then will it float. Or something similar :P
As they said on I'm Sorry I Haven't a Clue - he stepped into the bath and the water level rose. The filthy beast!
Load More Replies...Ferro-cement boats were pretty popular back in the 60s and 70s because you could build them yourself relatively cheaply. We had a renter who built a 45 foot (14 metre) sailboat in the back yard. When he moved out we discovered that the hull had to cure for at least 2 years before being moved. It made selling the house a real challenge. "Oh, just ignore that giant boat hull in the back yard in the shed made of scrap lumber and decaying plastic tarps."
There is (or was) a pretty large concrete boat that floated around the San Diego harbor. I don't know if it ever went out to sea but I assume so.
Me when I tell people I have Aphantasia (I cant picture things in my head) and vice versa when people tell me they can picture things in their heads
One of my kids has this. I don't know if there is duch thing as hyperphantasia but if there is I lean that way. I find is so asy to picture things to the smell, taste etc that I feel like I am there or am holding something.
Same! I have a very vivid and intense internal mind’s eye :) also have synesthesia so I can often entertain myself just by closing my eyes in, say, an airport, and watching what comes up.
Load More Replies...I have the opposite. I picture everything in my head. I can build entire stories in my head, and they are as real as if they actually happened. Reading a book, it's more like watching a movie, I don't even remember actually reading.
I have it as well. I can sort of vaguely imagine shapes moving across the black screen but that's it. But I do have an internal monologue. I've always wondered if there's a correlation. You don't get the visual but you get the words.
I can see a word briefly but not a picture. For example if I'm told to think of an apple I will see the word apple for about half a second and then black.
Load More Replies...My family thinks it's weird that the only voice I hear in my head is my own. I can't do accents or hear them repeated in my brain. Reading a book is entirely in my own voice.
I'm the same. Glad to hear that I'm not the only one.
Load More Replies...My wife can actually picture things in her head at the level of what you see in a dream - an actual clear picture that she can rotate and change. The really interesting part is that it actually makes her memories of things that she saw a lot less reliable. The image that she pictured in her head is just as vivid in her memory as what she actually saw.
I may have a toe in this pool. On the one hand my brain is always making mental cartoons out of things. But on the other hand I have trouble picturing details clearly. I don't remember faces unless I've been around you a lot. If I want to draw a tree I can't remember the way the branches go. I just saw an example card showing four levels of detail that people experience with 1 being realistic and 4 being a pretty basic outline like a poorly drawn cartoon and it looked like I'm about a 3. But I'm really good at remembering words / audio.
Gotta say this is understandable. I have an image of the Eiffel Tower in my head, if I'm shown a picture of it, a comparison is made, this is indeed a picture of the Tower. But if you can't picture it, how you know what it is? And if you can't do that, how do you know what anything is? Presumably, it doesn't work this way, but it's hard to get your head around.
I never knew I had Aphantasia until I read about here on Bored Panda. I didn't know people could see pictures of things in their heads. I literally don't see a thing in my head if I try to picture or think of an object.
lucid dreams
I finally had one where I became aware I was dreaming. I knew I could wake up easily so I had to be careful to stay in the dream state, Everything around me was psychedelically colorful and I could feel the ground beneath my feet. Then I was like, "I can do anything! What should I do?" So I tried flying because it was the first thing that came to my mind, but struggled with going forward. Then I lost it and I guess went back into normal sleep. I haven't managed to repeat the experience. Wish I had thought of something better than flying
My most recent was me walking down the stairs of my home to see all my dead relatives—as they were when they were alive—-in my living room, just talking and greeting each other, and all looking over at me as I entered and greeting me with hugs. There was just the warmest and happiest feeling over the whole thing. It was lovely, and I didn’t want to stop dreaming it, but it ended up fading anyway, because it was just a dream.
Load More Replies...My nightmares are lucid... It's awful. The ONLY way to get out is to scream(shout). It scares my Wife or she ends up waking me, knowing I'm trying to get out. She then spends the rest of the night sleeping lightly with her hand on my chest or back because she knows I'll go right back in to the same dream! I'm so thankful for her.
Don’t know why but almost all my dreams are lucid especially the nightmares and sometimes it helps me to close your eyes in the dream
Load More Replies...I've had a few lucid dreams. It usually comes when I'm having a very realistic dream where I'm in my own or my parents place, and something feels wrong. I usually check if the lights work (they don't in my dreams) and how my hands look. My hands ALWAYS look wrong in my dreams, this usually works for most people. Then I realize I'm dreaming, and usually fly away to get to a new environment. If my brain refuses to make me fly because I shouldn't be able to, I always try to call out for something like a dragon to fly away on. This often works haha! Then when flying everything around me changes and I will have an adventure.
I used to fly in my dreams. Then it went to taking long, leaping strides. Now I don't dream about either and I want to fly again.
Rare, but realistic. I hope the one about meeting a Founding Father was real!
I used to have these every night when I was a kid. I still have them, but less rarely. I’m never completely lucid, but always have some level of control over my dreams. If I don’t like what’s going on, I change the storyline or wake myself up, even if I don’t fully understand I’m dreaming. It’s very rare for me to have a dream where I’m being dragged along and I can’t control it. Those scare me
I'm like that too. I can wake up from a nightmare, change my dreams like shuffling through TV shows. I don't know man...dreams are weird.
Load More Replies...Extraterrestrial Life exists. We haven’t met them yet, but they are out there.
If you were looking at this planet from a distance, you'd give a big swerve if you were in the neighborhood.
Chances are if they are observing earth from a distance we won't exist to them yet
Load More Replies...Or as Richard Dawkins wrote (and i try to explain it as i remember it): is there life possible in this universe? Yes, we, a life form, exist. So its plausible life exists too somewhere else in this universe
Oh, it's almost certain. Now, it's INTELLIGENT life that's much less likely to exist.
Load More Replies...With all the was space in the universe, we could not be alone in all of this? With 100 - 400 billions stars, just in the Milky Way alone!
I believe it's ignorant and narrow-minded to not acknowledge that there is far too many places in the universe that have not been explored, and that there's more than likely many worlds out there with beings who don't believe Earthlings exist. We're not as special as we want to think.
Or the prehistoric level, complex creatures big or small but no technology.
Load More Replies...At this stage, we can only say "almost certainly" exists, we don't yet have proof. As someone once said though, either we are the only planet with life on it, or we're not - either way, it's a mind-blowing thought.
There are big hurdles in finding other life. Currently we would only know if we picked up some signals, and also recognise them as a message. Plus we have to be close enough and advanced enough at roughly the same time to have a chance of discovering each other.
Load More Replies...We're not alone. Life exists in all of its permutations at different levels.
At this moment in time on a planet in a solar system in another galaxy there are a bunch of aliens on a forum on a site on their version of the interet, wondering about whether there is intelligent life on other planets...
1. They can have been here, we’ve no idea how intelligent they are, if we are even on their scale of intelligence or if we have the ability to observe them. 2. If they’ve watched us there’s no reason to believe they’ve avoided us, we might be doing a half decent job compared to other life forms around the universe. By our own standards we ain’t behaving very well but they might be saying ‘hey this lot are better than the last lot we observed’. 3. We have no concept of how smart / intelligent we are compared to life forms outside of our own small world. Ain’t it a bit arrogant to think we are an intelligent life form ? Yep we outsmart the animals on our planet but to expand that beyond our little planet is to be a tad optimistic.
Sleep paralysis
Oh god I hate it. Can't even make a peep or move - And I am totally awake and aware that I'm experiencing it.
I remember my alarm going off as usual and I wanted to sit up in the bed to turn it off but...I couldn't move...I thought that this must be what a stroke feels like...then I started panicking and I kept on trying to move...after what felt like maybe three minutes I actually woke up, but I didn't notice the transition in between...that was a great start into a working day, I can tell you...
Load More Replies...So scary. I used to have horrible sleep paralysis. Or at least I think that's what it was.
I'm sure it was...I experienced sleep paralysis on my own and it was more terrifying than any nightmare I've ever had...🙋🏽
Load More Replies...It happens so seldom it's like seeing a ghost--hard to believe, but it happens.
My wife had this. Try sleeping in different positions or getting a different pillow. She hardly ever has it any more.
I believe most people aren't actually working in offices and we're all sitting here trying to fake eachother out with the goal of seeming necessary.
Most people could do their days work in a few hours. Then just look at cat videos to kill time.
Being an adult is being a kid in an adults body pretending to adult better than everyone else
The only times I worked in an office were to pop in and look up history on missing freight, which would usually take 10-15 minutes, and then I'd get on a forklift or cherry picker and get the freight. I've worked in offices for less than a week, and worked 9 to 5 for less than three years, and I'm 56. Everything I've been paid to do is very tangible
Yeah, I did that for 27 years, work maybe an hour and socialize for the rest of the day.
I don't know about "most people" in offices but when I was working IT I worked all day. You finished with a support call and you looked at the database of folks waiting for a callback and you called the next person. I did look at things online at times but it was while I was on the phone with a customer waiting for them to reboot or for some program or update to load or stuff like that. Once in a while the call queue would be all caught up but that was not the norm and I would often use that time to review docs / clean up my hard drive of old notes / write training instructions /learn about new tech and so on. I loved my job and it was only rarely stressful but I definitely was not sitting there "trying to fake it".
I get paid extremely well for 30-40 minutes of work in an eight hour day, but part of job requires that I be ready for certain tasks at any time during the day. These tasks ensure nearly 100% job security, so it's like essentially being paid to be on standby the rest of the time. I volunteer to do a lot of other things to pass the time.
The tangible and intangible benefits of exercise.
Why is she doing her yoga on the floor next to the spare yoga mat?
Correlation doesn't imply causation. It could be that healthy people exercise more.
Energy. When someone is looking at you, you somehow sense it and look back no matter how far they are from you.
Someone watching you can even wake you from a sound sleep. 😳
I always called this our 6th sense lol always knowing if someone is looking at you, even if they're staring at the back of your head.
My personal opinion is that this 6th sense is actually hearing. When someone concentrates then they change their breathing pattern, and human hearing is sensitive enough to detect the change.
Load More Replies...The average human can also apparently determine an area is unsafe to be in even if they can't figure out why. Hence the gut feeling that you should get out of there immediately and why you should listen to that gut feeling. I've read a lot of stories of people who lived through disasters because they listened. Imagine booking an airline flight only to get a dreadful feeling at the last moment and decide not to get on the plane, then find out it later crashed and you would have died had you got on it.
Fighter pilots were taught to not stare at their quarry. If you’ve spotted an enemy, keep them in you vision but don’t stare, make your manoeuvres, only once they’ve spotted you should you stare at them. Read A Sense of Being Stared At, it’s a lot of pseudoscience babble but there’s some interesting stuff in there, however un/believable you think it is!. Alternatively watch The Men Who Stared At Goats, it’s funny.
It does not exist. You look at a person's direction and realize that they are just looking at you, and you jump to the assumption that a.) you looked BECAUSE they looked; and b.) it happens every time when someone looks at you. More often than not, it is because one party detects movement at the corner of their eyes (peripheral visual field) and this causes a reflex movement of the eye and often the head, getting the moving thing into the center of visual field.
How absolutely weird this universe is. Like I'm not religious but the universe actually just doesn't make any sense. What the hell are quantum physics? Why is there so much mass? What is Dark energy? Why do things just seem to work completely different when you go to atomic levels? Like every single aspect of physics is a deep rabbit hole of weirdness and contrivances. We have to keep coming up with isoteric rules and equations to come close to describing the weird phenomena we see. Yet... without these weird quantum mechanics interactions, without gravity just oddly being weaker then the other three forces, without all the constants being finely tuned the way they are, without the rules of physics just coming up out of nowhere after the big bang.... there wouldn't be life. That's before even getting into the really weird s**t like the fact our meat computers are conscious. Like that didn't have to happen. It is reasonable to expect that even if life came about, humans could just be philisophical zombies and nothing would change. But we aren't. And that's before all the other really weird stuff like dreams and near death experiences etc. And weirdest of all: Why does it exist at all? This all leads me to believe that there is something more to all of this. All arguments against this don't hold any water imo. I think the anthropic principle is bogus as well. But nobody seems to care to talk about any of this or just pretend like nothing is weird about existence.
This is why I believe in God. Many of these reasons and many more past these. The science part can be deviated forever ( which I will happily do with anyone for any amount of time because I love talking bout this and all the strange hinge of universe). However, one cannot assume meaning ( individual or collective) without also assuming a God. Just like how money needs precious metal to back it up, meaning needs some authority behind it to be worth something. Otherwise meaning is simply an implied feature that has no effect on anything outside our perceived reality. So if you believe in meaning and purpose then you believe in some type of intelligent design. This doesn’t have to be a certain religion but it does mean you believe in some time of intelligent starts and sentient plan to the universe.
For some of us, we can't just start believing in something just becuase it would be useful. If you're not a scientist, the "God answer" is sufficient, because you now have an answer to where the universe came from. But for scientists... God just doesn't fit into equations very well. We don't have any properties that we can test. ... BUT ... That's OK. Until we have all the answers, we will still have areas to research, to find out more about how this amazing universe works, and perhaps how it came to be.
Load More Replies...There doesn’t need to be a why. It just does. No god, no higher authority, no need for a reason at all. We exist, it’s just how the universe works. The need for a who or why or whatever is a construction of the human mind. God/s come and go like buses, don’t like this one? Wait a few hundred years and another one will be along soon enough. The current crop of gods are pretty poor, humans have used and abused them to kill, destroy, harm and control. Move on, accept that the universe is to be explored but not necessarily understood and get working on making this little corner of it a nicer place to be. Accept it is what it is and it doesn’t need a purpose or a creator, our frailties don’t need to be accommodated.
Lol just funny fr Really good points. First of all I won’t be accepting gods are bad because people do bad things in their name. Yeah people could do terrible things in my name but I’m no the problem. If you haven’t noticed people are f****d up. So yeah. Why so many religions? Amazing question. Most religions say that they were separated at some point which led to different Memories or ideas of the first god. I’m Christian, and we have the Tower of Babel. I can’t argue the why, that is a personal question. Augments above were based to people who believed in meaning without a god. Meaning is a personal thing and I can’t argue that.There are many theories and ideas to state that it does need a creator and quantum physics show us that the universe needs consciousness to work properly. Fine tuning and the incredible “ luck” of life and the lack of an explanation to the jump from life to non life to life are only a few things that might need an intelligent designer.
Load More Replies...I've always kind of hoped that when we die there is some form of consciousness remaining that would get answers to all that. Not likely, but one could hope.
Theoretically consciousness is just your brain filled with a certain amount, and certain kind of electrical signals with its own individual exact information, so it’s completely possible that after death this is extracted by a form of higher consciousness, and taken to a new realm, and this is where we get the idea of an afterlife, there’s not much hope without some type of higher consciousness, or God, because there is nothing to hold the consciousness or soul of a human together, so most likely, if there is no forms of higher consciousness, or a God, then death is the end however, if higher consciousness exists, or if the universe is a form of intelligent design, created by a god, then most likely an afterlife does exist
Load More Replies...Absolutely. This needs to be upvoted higher. Quantum weirdness and General Relativity weirdness are both extreme, and they don't even agree with one another. I have an idea that the split between QM and GR occurred in the early universe as a result of the split between time and temperature. I also have an idea that Quantum weirdness isn't so weird, we're just using the wrong (Cantor) definition of infinity instead of the correct (Conway) definition. As for where all this weirdness came from, evolution seems to be the simplest answer. Complicated universes evolve from simpler ones.
The fact that you ask questions about existence shows that as a race, we are still learning. Each time we get an answer to a question it raises more questions. The universe is infinite and time as a constant is infinite. Each discovery made shifts the universe in imperceivably subtle ways that causes new paths to growth and more discoveries to an extent that old theories and discoveries will be no longer relevant or correct. It's quite mind boggling when you think about the possibilities of one decision in your life and how it affects everyone and everything
I find it fascinating to talk about. One of my personal theories is we have the laws of physics all wrong. Everything obeys the laws until it gets near a black hole, then the laws cease to exist?... The ancient Greeks believing that the earth was the center of the solar system made a formula that explained the movement of the planets. We know now it wasn't correct, but it answered the question they had & made sense to them.
The Greeks developed a system of epicycles that explained the motions of the Sun, Moon and planets. It worked very well for around 2000 years. I'm not even convinced that it's "wrong", but it's making calculations with the assumption that Earth is fixed in space. This is a valid choice of reference frame, but it certainly makes some calculations much harder. I'm curious if some of our current problems will require a similar "change of reference frame" to find solutions that more readily handle our observations. We will look back and wonder how we could have ever come up with such stupid answers :p
Load More Replies...Yes, it's the argument from incredulity, a known fallacy.
Load More Replies...We're "blessed" and cursed in our search for meaning. I got overwhelmed with these concepts too, but instead of turning to an omniscient, omnipotent, and omnipresent imaginary friend to soothe my insecurities, I realized much smarter people could explain things, in a simplistic way, so I could wrap my head around them. These people can turn complex concepts into rational cause and effect scenarios that made it okay for me not to know the finer points, because I can count on someone else to grasp reality, when things become too large (so where's the end) and too small (so where's the beginning). Brian C*x and Neil deGrasse Tyson are good at this. I think believing in intelligent design is a cop out and truly cheapens the wonder and circumstances that enabled existence, and if we always used intelligent design when real answers are difficult to find, we wouldn't solve any problems because people are vein/hopeful enough to believe there's divine providence, there's not, and that's okay...
This argument assumes that this is the only universe that has ever existed or will ever exist.
Yes it does. Most physicists agree that despite what modern media tells you that a multiverse is unlikely and currently we have no way to prove it and no evidence of one.
Load More Replies...For me, God exists because I can't explain love. How can I love someone to the point of even being willing to die for them? That is, the brain and instinct would lead to survival without any second thoughts, and instead....
Love exists to engender a more stable/advantageous environment for offspring, thus increasing their chance of survival.
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My husband and I saw Richard Clark forcibly kissing a young ingenue on his New Year's Eve show. We both saw it, even though they cut quickly away. Nobody believes us.
Richard Dawson kissed every female contestant on Family Feud. I can't imagine that they all wanted him to.
Richard? I'm thinking no one ever called him Richard except his mother, when she was mad at him.
Richard Clark? Nobody has ever called him that. His name was D**k Clark.
I've never heard him referenced as Richard Clark before now. Interesting. I believe your story, however.
Basic Economics.
This should be much higher. I believe they ended compulsory economics studies from public schools in the US so people would no longer be able to understand what those in power are doing...and it's lead to conspiracy theories to fill holes where knowledge should be.
Same goes for Civics and Geography. If you don’t know how your government works, how will you recognize when it’s doing wrong? If you can’t even find your own country in a map, WTF? The saddest part is we (the US—-though we are not the only one) now have people elected to powerful positions in our government (they’re more likely to be conservative that liberal, as conservatives hate progress) who lack that same knowledge, and are making a disgusting mess of our countries.
Load More Replies...This is another statement that is so heavily politicised that I won’t agree to it unless you spell out the stance you are taking.
The myth is that government budgets should balance. Governments own a printing press to generate as much money as they like. Their income can't and shouldn't match their expenditure. I studied economics in high school. Stopped after I understood the law of decreasing marginal utility.
The power of a large amount of people to get together to make a positive change.
Most people think you can’t change things, or even gather people together for one purpose for that matter.
But I think you could, if you **really** wanted to. Only issue is nobody is SOO motivated that they motivate others nowadays.
Even motivational speakers need motivational speakers nowadays. And it shows when we watch them. Nobody can just simply take pride in who or what they are anymore, it has all become a unending competition of “who is best”.
The Conservatives have tried their level best to ban the right of protest in the UK.
Hopefully entering the last year of their power though. There is still a lot of damage these repulsive scumbags can cause however.
Load More Replies...I learned about this in a class about the civil rights movement in the U.S. So much of history talks about a few people like MLK or Rosa Parks but rarely explains how many people it took to really make change happen. This makes people think "Well I'm not an amazing person like MLK or Rosa Parks so I can't make a difference." So they don't try. When in reality it took hundreds and thousands of people to make a change, not just one. So be one of those hundreds of people!
You don't need a large crowd following. Just go out somewhere, out of the way of people and don't do anything illegal. Just hold a sign of what you want changed.
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has. - Margaret Mead
Load More Replies...Almost every country has some kind of uprising in their past that they're really proud of but which they'd be horrified by today.
Another thing is it's easier to b***h about it than take the time to go out an do something about it.So, you complain about another demonstration on the news. Maybe a PEACEFUL sit down on the Capitol mall? Who knows, Where are the ten thousand well behaved folks gonna come from? Is the better question.
The jus stop oil protestors would be more effective if they poured their energy into finding alternatives that are cheaper, cleaner and more readily available to replace the current resources. Instead they annoy everyone and expect someone else to do the hard work or for us all to go back to the dark ages
Scientists are doing that as we speak. Today I translated a document for international talks about a well known form of renewable energy. What we need is for certain entities and people to stop obstructing it, and that’s what Just Stop Oil are trying to accomplish.
Load More Replies...A lot of these were either wrong or fallacies, or are a more nuanced situation then just yes or no.
Most of these are spot on correct. In contrast to other similar lists where a 50% correct rate is common.
Load More Replies...A lot of these were either wrong or fallacies, or are a more nuanced situation then just yes or no.
Most of these are spot on correct. In contrast to other similar lists where a 50% correct rate is common.
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