Needless to say, no two pregnancies are the same. While some women get to enjoy only the glow and all the beautiful things it entails, others might have to deal with quite a few unpleasantries, such as fatigue or morning sickness.
But these two are just a couple examples—and rather common ones, too—of things that soon-to-be-moms have to endure. Apparently, the pregnancy can also affect their vision, breathing, even shoe size, as members of the ‘Ask Women’ subreddit pointed out. They shared their insight after one user asked the mothers in the group what side effects of pregnancies don't get talked about the most that surprised them. Scroll down to find the rest of their answers on the list below, where you will also find some of the OP's thoughts that she shared during a recent interview with Bored Panda.

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Lightning crotch.
Due to the relaxin hormones opening the hips, I had EXCRUCIATING pubic symphysis starting in 2nd trimester. SHOOTING nerve pains throughout the vaginal/pubic bone area. Impossible to get comfortable.
I told my OB in tears and his response was to laugh.
You're rather naive if you think that fixes anything
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What happens in the days/weeks after birth. Everyone is so excited to teach you about the actual birth and how to raise a newborn, but zero on how to care for a mother’s body after birth. Maybe it’s because I’m surrounded by aging women who don’t speak about bodily functions, but I was horrified to find that I was incontinent for the first time ever. When my nurse had to literally kneel next to the toilet to check things out while I urinated and help me prep my diaper. My first shower when I felt my deflated stomach. The liberal amount of blood, sweat, and tears shed (the sweating was really bad for me). How through all of that you have to keep yourself nourished enough to keep a tiny human alive. And in time, my body wished to do it all over again.
The uterus going back to its normal size and shape in 3-4 days, midwives measuring it every day, the abdominal cramps during the process...
And sneezing or coughing f#cking hurts and you gush of blood and or pee isn't fun
Load More Replies...There's this culture in Eastern Nigeria called omugwo. Basically, your mum or your partner's mum comes from wherever she is to spend time with you. She takes care of the baby-- bath, clothing, cooing, e.t.c so the only thing you do is breastfeed the baby and have time to heal yourself. You're still spending quality time with your newborn but mum's doing the work and also helping you take care of your body.
No one ever talked to me about what my body would be like post partum. For me, it was a terrible shock. The pain, the leaking, swelling, hormonal dips and surges...and piled on top of that the sheer exhaustion of caring for a newborn. It was a vulnerable, terrifying time and I wish I'd been more prepared.
…,That the first poop you take after giving birth is about as bad as giving birth.
The absolute fear of that first poo afterwards when you feel like your insides will drop out!
Stupid guy question: what happens to the stretched skin? I always assumed it was reabsorbed but would like an answer from someone who has been there and done that
Saggy and then can get to normal after a while
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Being so out of breath during third trimester. Everyone talks about baby pressing on your bladder but it was her taking up all my lung space that got me. Shivering uncontrollably a few days after birth. I think it was the amount of blood I lost/my iron levels. It was crazy and scary!
Shivering is your body in shock from pain only woman face that amount of pain it's not normal for humans to experience that much pain so we shake durning and sometimes days after labor I shook for almost a week
Or months and have PTSD which I did with my eldest!
Load More Replies...I was pregnant with twins in the summer and I had only gained 12lbs but I looked like I was nine months pregnant at only six months and I was out of breath often. I was constantly sighing too...I guess it was my brain's way of saying..."I need more oxygen"....lol. I was happy when my water broke at 36 weeks and my girls were fine....no NICU time at all. They weighed 6.9lbs and 6.3lbs.
My mom said I used to stick my foot up in her ribs and she’d have to poke me/make me move in order to hunch over lol. Sorry mom…
The 22-year-old redditor told Bored Panda that she started the thread after having a conversation with her grandmother. “That day I was out with grandma and she was asking me if I'm still sticking to my plan of having kids by the age of 30 and I said I moved it to 31 or 32 to put my career and financial independence first,” she shared.
“I started thinking about what my mom told me she went through as she got pregnant with me at a young age and other things I have noticed during her pregnancy with my brothers. My grandma would also tell me her own story and I noticed there were differences other than those side effects you would normally relate to the generational gap.”
“I also thought, doctors have their own opinions on pregnancy other than the normal, traditionally heard of experiences,” she added. “I wanted to know other women's experiences since I didn't have friends who are currently or were pregnant. I knew the best way to ask was anonymously through Reddit.”
People talk about cravings but no one talks about the food you used to love that you now can’t stand. I used to love everything Italian and now it’s a foggy memory.
Tomatoes! It was a loooong 9+ months, no pizza, spaghetti, ketchup, I couldn't even look at a tomato without being nauseous (luckily it went away after baby was born!)
Oh man I feel this one! My youngest is 19 now and I still have a hard time with "red sauces". I'm okay with ketchup but I don't really like pasta sauce and when I order pizza, I always ask for light on the sauce.
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I had no food cravings at all when I was pregnant both times. I did eat a cereal bar for the first time in the beginning of my first pregnancy and it made me so sick. I still can't look at them in the supermarket without dry heaving....lol There was nothing that I did like before pregnancy that I hated while pregnant.
i love DQ ice cream. while i was pregnant it burned my tongue like acid. after i gave birth i went to a DQ and asked to just try the chocolate ice cream to see if I could have it yet. It was amazing and I cried I was so happy. i ordered a large blizzard and a large cone
It was spiced food for me. Not spicy as in hot, but with a lot of herbs and spices. I ate bland. Just a bit of salt.
That your immune system is lowered so you catch every cold known to man. Also because of this, I got a bunch of warts and I’ve never had them any other time in my life. They were gone quickly after giving birth.
Other bodily changes like hair/nails being stronger (but weaker after birth), skin tags, darker skin patches and more freckles, swollen and bleeding gums, larger feet, sweating, heartburn, snoring, back pain, muscle cramps. Your body changes so much, it’s insane!
Oh the feet! Throw out all your old shoes cuz those babies ain't ever going back to the way they were.
Your eyeballs swell so your vision changes. I also got the”mask of pregnancy”. It was pretty noticeable,
“A lot of the responses surprised me and some even got me second guessing my ideas on getting pregnant myself,” the OP admitted, discussing the response she received from the online community.
“There were a lot of things there that I have never heard of. Feet growing, hating food you used to love, eyesight getting worse, and the worst out of all of them… pubic symphysis. These are the things my mom and grandma never experienced, or didn't bother telling me.”
The redditor pointed out that there were some common side effects among the redditors’ responses, too. That might come as no surprise considering how many women have to deal with the common ones, such as nausea and vomiting, for instance, affecting roughly 70–80% of pregnant women.
“Others were more personal, or something that just entirely depended on the person and their body,” the netizen said. “This helped put my mind at ease, but I must say that even with these negative side effects, I still can't wait for the day a little bundle calls me mom.”
Milk Fissure. My boobs swelled up in the last week or two of pregnancy. They started to leak some. All of a sudden my shirt was soaked. I ran to the bathroom and discovered a hole in the side of my boob about 2 inches away from my nipple. I stuck a kotex pad in my bra. It filled up. I switched to an overnight kotex pad. Explaining that to my doctor was fun. He sent me to a breast surgeon who diagnosed me with a milk fissure. He said the pressure was so great that my body found a way to get rid of the fluid (i.e like a boob volcano). I thought for sure I’d be an awesome baby feeder but alas, I struggled to breast feed.
This is absolutely horrifying. A bodily fluid getting overproduced to the extent that it RIPS OPEN holes in your skin in order to flow out to reduce the internal pressure >_<
You're right, The amount of milk doesn't really relate to ease of feeding sadly.
This is why you have to milk dairy cows regularly until they stop lactating.
It's not just morning sickness. It's all-the-time 40 weeks of sickness.
The morning after my first child was born my first thought was, "Oh my...I don't feel sick!!" It was wonderful. I had it with all four pregnancies, and it was dreadful,
This was me ,Hyperemesis so tiring .Within 48 hrs of her birth I was great . I carried a bucket everywhere.
That’s an actual thing, I forget the name but prince williams wife has it and my sister has it and it’s the most god awful thing, the whole time you’re not “yay a new baby is on the way” - instead, it’s “please don’t let my little sister die”.
Oh yes, I had the morning sickness on steroids known as hyperemesis too. Never been so ill in my life. In and out of hospital, having to take medications to stay alive that may or may not have an effect on the baby. The instant relief after giving birth was amazing. Oh and don't beleive any midwife or doctor who says it'll be easier the second time around!
My first wife was still barfing on the way to the hospital to deliver the oldest kid. She had been sick everyday since she conceived and it ended like magic as soon as the birth happened.
Try Sea Bands: no chemicals, just chinese pressure points so no drugs to worry about. They kept me from being sea sick on cruises and ocean fishing boats and I am very prone to motion sickness. Also never got nauseous from chemotherapy.
My wife had evening sickness and "stay out of my sight" mornings. It was not fun, but the results were worth it.
Increased shoe size.
Edit: For those wondering, the hormone that gets released in your body to spread your bones apart and shift things around to make space for baby, it doesn’t just target your torso to work. It gets released throughout your whole body. So your pelvis and ribs spread, then settle back to normal, because there’s no pressure on them now that baby is out.
Meanwhile, the bones in your feet spread apart because they’re carrying your entire hundred to two hundred plus pounds around all day, but they keep doing that after pregnancy too. It’s not like you stop walking around after baby is born, so the size increase is generally permanent, and usually happens again with more pregnancies. I went up a half size with each kid. Once you get to 3 or 4 it seems like the bones don’t spread any further apart. I know one lady who had 15 kids and her feet grew a size and a half, then quit.
I went from a size 5 to a size 9 with my pregnancy. I'm so glad my feet shrunk back again.
During pregnancy, changed from a 38 EU to 39 EU, and It was like this for more or less a year after giving birth
The OP told Bored Panda that even considering the possible side effects, she finds the entire journey of pregnancy an intriguing experience. She also shared that one of the things she finds interesting about this time in a woman’s life is the hormone activity, especially that relating to forgetting the pain of childbirth.
However, the thing she was referring to is known to be a popular myth. The idea that women are biologically programmed to forget all about the pain of giving birth is not true, but many moms say that holding their child for the first time does make them forget about the hardships they went through before that moment.
How suddenly complete strangers are now your doctor and tell you that you shouldn’t be drinking that one latte you treat yourself to a week lol
I'd tell them not to worry about the caffeine as the vodka dilutes it. XD People really should mind their own business.
Hemoroids
Yes, yes, a million times yes! They were very unexpected the first time round and even worse with my second. They were so unpleasant that the stitches I had seemed like nothing.
Didn’t have any haemorrhoids at all until my first pregnancy, nor sciatica. Lucky me still deals with them decades later. 😬
I ate off a chair while kneeling on the floor because I couldn't sit. Horrible
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I had a superhuman sense of smell. One day I came home from work and my husband had already starting making a stew. I asked him, “Why did you decided not to peel the carrots?” They were already in the pot and I couldn’t see them. How did I know they weren’t peeled?!?
Another time I was at the extreme opposite end of the house from the kitchen — up the stairs, through a door, and across a large room — and I could tell he was slicing a cucumber.
I have a superb sense of smell already. It became award winning while pregnant. I used to cry through the supermarket, I swear if a person hadn't showered I could smell them 3 rows over. This set off my morning, noon and night sickness too. Fish dear God no, still can't stand the smell. My husband would cook, the smell of everything was horrendous.
Yep, the super human sense of smell was horrific. Taking the tram home from work was traumatic. Multiple occasions I had to leap off the tram early and vomit in the nearest trash can due to the smell of people. I had to avoid crowds of people due to BO and/or too much body spray. Couldn't go anywhere near a florist. Cooking pork is among one of the most disgusting smells ever. One of my colleagues, several offices away over had a vanilla lip balm. I would have to cover my nose every time she took the lid off that thing.
I called the gas company because I could smell gas when I came in from outside. His normal meter didn’t detect it. I said it’s the front right burner on the stove. He painted it with soap and there were tiny bubbles. He said “There’s no way you could have smelled that.” I said “I’m pregnant.” “Oh”
I could not tolerate the smell of frying oil. Once my (then) husband fried something for breakfast, and I begged him to not do it again or to order out the same thing, because the frying oil turned my stomach. I went to work one day, was gone for about 8 hours and when I came home and walked through the door - I gagged, cried and vomited from the smell. My (then) husband said something like “how can you even smell that?? I fried oil right after you left and kept the windows open all day!”
I had this too, my daughter opened the fridge and squashed some raspberries I could smell them from the living room!
I ended up with something similar when I was sick with what I guess was walking pneumonia earlier this year. Someone walking by my desk, wearing perfume, was enough to give me coughing fits.
This happened to me! And I *still* have a super smeller! My baby is now 22 years old lol
“I'm pretty sure the sample I got from my post wasn't even a sliver of the population of mothers but they were very interesting and insightful,” the OP said, adding that she hopes those taking care of moms-to-be raise awareness for these body-altering side effects, as they can be heavy both mentally and emotionally.
To start with, my vision is terrible under normal circumstances, but during my pregnancy, I had to go to a retinologist every month and a half or so. I started seeing glowy things in my peripheral vision, and iirc he said that the pregnancy put extra pressure on my eyes, and my retinas were already at higher risk of tearing due to my eyeball shape. Once my son was born, things went back to normal.
It was my optometrist who made that referral. My OB had never heard of nor seen it, and none of the pregnancy books brought it up.
I’m pretty sure my rib cage is wider.
Yes, I definitely experienced this. Also, I think my rib cage lowered by a centimeter or so? I went back to my pre-pregnancy weight but some form-fitting clothes don't fit the same!
Oh god yes, mine went from in the front only being 2 inches apart to now, after two pregnancie, they space between them in the front is 8 incbes, That's why older women look 'matronly'. Not mucb we can do about it expect many costly tummy tucks with a plastic surgeon.
How even perfectly normal, uncomplicated, “easy” pregnancies can absolutely f*****g SUCK. I have 2 kids and I love them endlessly, but being pregnant just f*****g SUCKED. I was always crying, barfing, hungry, aching, burping fire, about to pee on myself, waking up every half hour—at any given point during my pregnancies, something just sucked.
And them people tell you: "You are not sick, you are just pregnant", as if that makes it better...
Well, when you are sick, you get a long night sleep and you are better. Or spend a week in bed with hot tea and chicken soup. Pregnancy lasts few months (I know, 9, but not everyone gets all the symptoms on day one, some women have two bad months, some have 8 bad months) and you cannot just sleep it off.
Load More Replies...When I found out I was pregnant with my last, I was VERY upset. I was angry, frightened and miserable. My husband was upset with me because he thought I didn't "want" this baby. Not at all. I just didn't want to be pregnant. I hated pregnancy. My second last pregnancy was not a good time. All I did was barf and pass out. Couldn't even bathe alone because if the water was even slightly too warm, I'd get vertigo, barf and black out. Love all my children, did not love pregnancy.
I'm sorry you went through that! I had an opposite experience. I felt better than i had ever felt, no morning sickness, maybe my feet grew a half size. Our family has trouble getting the babies out, so my body got torn up doing that, but then they were over 10 lbs each!
Reading some of these makes my heart hurt for all of you that had such a horrible pregnancy. I had no clue your symptoms were so traumatizing. I must have been one of the few that LOVED being pregnant. No negative symptoms, small weight gain. Jogged every day until my 9th month. I didn't want it to end. It was the best I ever felt. I'm so sorry so many of you had the opposite reaction.
I hated being pregnant, but what threw me was that I hated the maternity leave even more. I'm generally not that fond of babies/toddlers. Kids aren't interesting to me before they start to get curious about the world. But maternity leave... Being stuck with with a baby as your only source for conversation for hours on end... That damned near left us with only one child. And I couldn't just skip the maternity leave either, because at the time the leave was earmarked for the mother + allergies in both my kids meant that breast feeding was the only option until they were old enough to start on solids.
That you don't get stretch marks until AFTER the baby is born. Like shrinkage marks.
That is not entirely true, many women are different. My stretch marks appeared durning my first pregnancy, with my other pregnancies the same ones just stretched out again. My mum had four of us and does not have one stretch mark in sight. I think it's just down to skin type. My sister has none after having her son last year. My mum would tell me that having stretch marks was a sign that you were not fit enough. She's an odd one for sure
I wonder how she’d explain my son’s stretch marks on his back when he shot up in height. It was the first time I’d ever seen that happen to anyone.
Load More Replies...Genetics influence a lot on this, I didn't get any and my mom either and I didn't moisturize my skin at all nor massages or anything, it is all about a good diet too
This is incorrect. They appear as they are created. Some disappear completely, others remain as silvery lines. I believe they are more apparent on darker skin tones.
I “got” stretch marks after I had my first kid. Welp, I just cldnt see them on the underside of my stomach when I was pregnant so didn’t think I had any. I was shocked after I had the baby and voila! They appear. I showed my husband. He said, ya, they’ve always been there, he just don’t want to bring them up.
Look after your teeth!
I lost 2 of them, they just shattered. The cavities were invisible. No pain.
My mom had never had cavities in her life but after having my brother(he was number 4) she all of a sudden got like 10 all in one dental visit. She got really bad morning sickness when she was pregnant. It's insane.
Good advice for everyone, not just pregnant people XD
I was about 3 months pregnant and my tooth shattered on a cheese sandwich! It broke right down into the gums. I couldn't repair it during pregnancy (no X-rays or injectable anesthesia), so my dentist removed shards and temporarily capped the hole. By the time my baby was born and I could get it properly fixed I had a abscess that tunneled along my jaw under several teeth. I had no idea pregnancy is so hard on our teeth!!
THE INSOMNIA
Oh yes. You want to rest before having your baby and you just can't, whatever you try.
Breathlessness, especially after eating. In later pregnancy I felt like my lungs were compressed which they obviously were. Had to talk myself down from so many panic attacks because I thought I couldn’t breathe.
All of these are making me think of the rise in abortion bans. These are all terrible for those choosing to have a baby, I can only imagine how it must feel for those women forced to carry a baby to term.
Thanks to controlling Christian fascists hypocrites it's disgusting what this country is allowing religious maggots into government
Load More Replies...Everyone warned me this would happen, and as a french horn player, i imagine i'd have to hang it up for a few months, but i had no trouble breathing (and he was a big boy). Finally one day he got tired of hearing me play and kicked the bell of my horn while i was in the middle of a loud note, on national TV. The mouthpiece was pushed away from my mouth changing my note to a big pfffffft!
Nobody really told me that I was going to be living off of Tums because of the heartburn.
The vivid a*s nightmares!! The whole time I was pregnant I was constantly having nightmares about my home being broken into or someone was trying to [hurt] me.
I always dreamt my teeth fell out! Or just crumbled in my mouth. It was awful
Freud would say that a house usually represents your sense of self, so OP is alarmed that someone else is in herself.
I kept having nightmares my babies was chestbusters like from the alien films
Eats the calcium out of teeth, more body hair, one side of your belly hangs more than the other. The drooling. Hemorrhoids,
omg the drooling..... currently pregnant and just got into my third trimester. Plus pregnancy induced carpal tunnel 😖 my hands are simultaneously numb, tingly, painful, swollen and itchy. It really affects my ability to sleep because I can't sleep on my back so I have to constantly turn over to give each arm a break. Just gotta make it a little longer 🫠
I got Carpal tunnel in the last month of my pregnancy. I used to sleep with gloves on because I'd wake up and I'd be crying for half an hour because of the pain in my hands. I couldn't move a muscle in my hands without it being an excruciating pain. The warmth of the gloves helped a bit
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My surprise was becoming itchy all over. And I don’t mean itchy around my expanding belly, I mean itchy EVERYWHERE. Stretching barely helped and it was so bad that it used to wake me up at night.
I had cholestasis. It's due to your liver not processing bile correctly, as I understand it. Random itching in different spots all the time. I scratched till I bled. I got up in the middle of the night to soak in oatmeal baths. People kept telling me it was dry skin.
You're absolutely right, I thought about it at the beginning of my symptoms, fortunately I just had dry itching skin.
Load More Replies...If you're itching during pregnancy, talk to your provider right away. It very likely is cholestasis which needs to be monitored closely.
ah c**p I may be experiencing that. Putting the symptoms together it makes sense, though my obgyn only asked about my hands and feet. I didn't mention my body itching because she didn't ask and I didn't think it was pregnancy related. I guess I will be making a call tomorrow
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Lack of iron causing bizzare cravings, I craved ice like there was no tomorrow, kept eating like entire bags of ice every day, mentioned it in passing to my midwife and she panicked and rushed to take my blood, turns out my iron was like insanely low
What is the connection? Low iron = eat ice? I know that body is sometimes weird (my favorite, if mint tea tastes like iron/copper, you might have toxic mold at home. Not in the mint, but the intoxication changes how some things taste.) I would understand that your body will want liver and eggs,... you know, iron rich food, but ice?
I have chronic low iron anemia. I chew ice constantly. When I get my treatment and my iron goes up... no ice chewing. It's very well documented.
Load More Replies...This was me too! I ended needing an infusion. I craved ice in every pregnancy and have since been dx with pernicious anaemia, and still flag as iron deficient too despite injections and tablets.
I was craving raw fish. So much! And I wasn't allowed to eat any. Oh, the rage!
Now you can eat raw meat if it had been properly frozen before. I love raw fish and meat, I love rare steacks, but I just couldn't be in the same room as raw meat while pregnant.
Load More Replies...I craved ice suddenly from before not even wanting it in my drinks. Cracked a tooth, showed wear on the other teeth the dentist thought was night time grinding of my teeth. Tuned out it was just iron defenciency - bad!! As soon as I started iron supplements the ice craving went away. Dentists should KNOW this, but seems most don't.
Oh yes. The ice. I randomly mentioned to my doc that I wld roll down my window during my commute to eat ice that accumulated on my car. Low iron.
The things that grew on my skin from pregnancy that have never gone away.
I have a single hair that grew on my chin when I was pregnant with my first. I plucked it throughout my pregnancy and it didn't return after my son was born. It re-appeared when I was pregnant with my second child only this time I was not so lucky. The bloody thing keeps coming back.
Nose bleeds. I thought everything was messed up but it seems like a normal occurrence
The nose bleeds were awful with my first child. I was glad it didn't come back for my second.
In third trimester, when baby is head down and it feels they they are scraping their fingernails across your cervix. Yeeeoocchhh!
Also, my tailbone clicked every time I took a step in the last month.
My eldest spend the last 8 weeks with a butt cheek on either side of my ribs. It ended up permanently bending them. + The last 5 weeks inside (and 3 weeks after she was born) she had hiccups, jolting into my bladder every single time, and making sleep damn near impossible.
Maybe not an awful side effect, but I developed this one patch of hair on the back of my head that went waaaay curly, when before all I had was regular, wavy hair. It’s never gone away, and my daughter just turned 24.
Oh wow, reading that reminded me that I had that too, I just forgot and it went away a few years after my last child. I had a massive, ferral looking Spot in the Back of my head, couldn't brush it, nothing helped, it looked Like a single Dreadlocks until I cut my hair real short and oiled it every couple of days. That caused other problems but well. Thanks for the reminder.
I think that is quite common in many drastic hormone changes, not only pregnancy. My hair used to be straight, so straight that I looked like I was licked down by a cow, my mom would put rollers to get it to be fluffier. Then when I hit puberty and got my period, my hair started getting wavy, and by adulthood I have several strands of hair around my head that are full on ring curls. But the rest of it is still wavy - I won't lie, it's pretty annoying to have such inconsistent hair :P
severe hyperemesis, your hips turning into jello at the end and the pigment changes in unwelcome regions
In case anyone doesn't know, emesis is vomiting. So hyperemesis is like that Family Guy episode where they took an emetic as a contest. Most of y'all know that I guess, but for the other guys who read this...
I could feel my pelvis basically split open near the end, ended up sitting a lot on a heating pad and wrapping it around the front like a hot diaper lol
Nothing like that feeling that your legs are just attached to the rest of you with a couple of bandaids
Stuffy nose. I had all pregnancy and found out I need treatment after. For some it goes away on its on.
I had so much snot the last month of my pregnancy! And it was all clear, no sickness, and our house was clean and free of dust/I have no allergies. It was so annoying. My nose was like a faucet!
- rib and pelvic pain are a******s
- you pee every other minute. Everyone told me to enjoy sleeping before the baby was born but how could I sleep if I was peeing 5 times during the night.
- my míope got worse, it increase a whole degree. I’ve had to change all my glasses and it never came back.
The awful motion sickness. I struggled to ride in vehicles while pregnant as I’d get sick. I commuted to work via the bus and I had to carry a barf bag
Lightning crotch for sure! Not just your feet growing but your nose.
Your nose? You're lying! (Well, that would be one explanation...)
Irrational phobia. With my first child I saw a fish at a pet shop and had a full on panic attack. Ever since, I've been horribly scared of fish. Never had another panic attack, but I get very uncomfortable, faint, sick, heart racing, throat closes, suffocation and shaking. It only applies to living fish and unfortunately applies to anything fish like, including whales and dolphins. I never had a problem before pregnancy.
Carpal tunnel. Went away as soon as my baby was born. Didn't even have it at all in my 2nd pregnancy.
Oh I was looking for this in the list! I developed carpal tunnel in the last 2mo of my pregnancy and it hurt like hell. I used to sleep with gloves on to keep my wrists warm, and it took half an hour each morning for the pain to go away and for me to be able to move my fingers again with no pain. Edit to add - it just vanished the day I gave birth
No one talks about needing to spit all the time because saliva and mucus just builds up but swallowing it makes you puke so you just are constantly spitting. Its a beautiful time.
I have terrible posture and my ribs were always in a lot of pain, my boy would kick a lot too, so he would kick me in the ribs a bunch lol
Absolutely adored being pregnant. I wish people would tell you if you don't like your midwife - change immediately. I didn't listen to my gut and she almost killed my baby and I because she was a lazy cow missed signs of eclampsia. I now tell people to avoid her like the plague. My friend had her too and she ended up with 4th degree tears inside and out because the midwife insisted she push when she wasn't ready. Met my friend after she gave birth or I would have said avoid this one.
You don't get a choice in many countries. In the UK you get whichever midwife is available and it could be multiple different people on different visits.
Load More Replies...Here's a 'fun' post c-section thing no one mentions. There can be quite a lot of nerve damage from the surgery leaving numbness around your scar. The real surprise is several months later the nerve damage sometimes starts to heal which causes INTENSE itching, which you can not scratch because the skin surface is still numb. This can go on for months.
Oh yes !! This, exactly this. Like a phantom limb, but it's under your belly skin. Also my scar is still healing 2 years after.
Load More Replies...My wife had to have her gall bladder removed after our first child and we discovered later that it was very common after childbirth. We have had many family and friends experience the same thing. This would have been good for the doctors to recognize because they kept telling my wife it was probably just heart burn due to the pregnancy. After the child was born she was still having issues and it was really bad. I finally made her go to the emergency room and they said had we waited another day she could have died because it had turned into full blown pancreatitis. She was admitted and had to wait a couple days so they could get that under control to perform the surgery.
YES, this one. Nobody EVER mentions this one, until it happens then they tell you, "Oh , it's super common." I ended up in the ER because of my gall bladder when my 1st baby was 5 weeks old. I had been having symptoms for weeks,, but had no idea that's what it was.
Load More Replies...I want to add- domestic violence. Of course there are warning signs and red flags earlier on, but often the real abuse starts once you're "trapped".
Getting a better understanding of motherhood ang pregnancy, so as to be a better ally to your pregnant partner if you find yourself in that situation. Kudos to you !
Load More Replies...Yet people want to ban abortion since it's just "9 months of mild discomfort and a bad day." Giving a a baby that was forced upon your body up for adoption isn't a solution.
I experienced nearly all of these and much more (4 months without any drinks/liquids, high-risk pregnancy, pre-eclampsy, c-section and premature birth), but I loved being pregnant and the (relative) pain was balanced by the magical feeling of growing a little human and interacting with him inside the belly. Just the end really sucked and post-partum hormones drop is terrible, but I knew I would recover and I stayed positive. Important point: I was prepared to all of this beforehand, it helps a lot!
Absolutely adored being pregnant. I wish people would tell you if you don't like your midwife - change immediately. I didn't listen to my gut and she almost killed my baby and I because she was a lazy cow missed signs of eclampsia. I now tell people to avoid her like the plague. My friend had her too and she ended up with 4th degree tears inside and out because the midwife insisted she push when she wasn't ready. Met my friend after she gave birth or I would have said avoid this one.
You don't get a choice in many countries. In the UK you get whichever midwife is available and it could be multiple different people on different visits.
Load More Replies...Here's a 'fun' post c-section thing no one mentions. There can be quite a lot of nerve damage from the surgery leaving numbness around your scar. The real surprise is several months later the nerve damage sometimes starts to heal which causes INTENSE itching, which you can not scratch because the skin surface is still numb. This can go on for months.
Oh yes !! This, exactly this. Like a phantom limb, but it's under your belly skin. Also my scar is still healing 2 years after.
Load More Replies...My wife had to have her gall bladder removed after our first child and we discovered later that it was very common after childbirth. We have had many family and friends experience the same thing. This would have been good for the doctors to recognize because they kept telling my wife it was probably just heart burn due to the pregnancy. After the child was born she was still having issues and it was really bad. I finally made her go to the emergency room and they said had we waited another day she could have died because it had turned into full blown pancreatitis. She was admitted and had to wait a couple days so they could get that under control to perform the surgery.
YES, this one. Nobody EVER mentions this one, until it happens then they tell you, "Oh , it's super common." I ended up in the ER because of my gall bladder when my 1st baby was 5 weeks old. I had been having symptoms for weeks,, but had no idea that's what it was.
Load More Replies...I want to add- domestic violence. Of course there are warning signs and red flags earlier on, but often the real abuse starts once you're "trapped".
Getting a better understanding of motherhood ang pregnancy, so as to be a better ally to your pregnant partner if you find yourself in that situation. Kudos to you !
Load More Replies...Yet people want to ban abortion since it's just "9 months of mild discomfort and a bad day." Giving a a baby that was forced upon your body up for adoption isn't a solution.
I experienced nearly all of these and much more (4 months without any drinks/liquids, high-risk pregnancy, pre-eclampsy, c-section and premature birth), but I loved being pregnant and the (relative) pain was balanced by the magical feeling of growing a little human and interacting with him inside the belly. Just the end really sucked and post-partum hormones drop is terrible, but I knew I would recover and I stayed positive. Important point: I was prepared to all of this beforehand, it helps a lot!
