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No one ever expects their partner to be unfaithful, but it happens—and surprisingly often. According to a new YouGov survey, more than half (53%) of Americans say they were cheated on.

To better understand these situations, Reddit user BlushyBunnyBop asked people to share their worst stories about infidelity, whether they had experienced the heartbreak themselves or witnessed someone else.

The responses were raw, shocking, and sometimes even darkly humorous. Here are the ones that stood out the most.

#1

Two young men outdoors, one wearing a plaid shirt and cap, representing stories of exposing cheating partners. Dated a girl for four years. We lived together, discussed marriage, had a shared credit card and bank account, I helped her lease a nice Chevy, etc. All rainbows and flowers. I come home from work early from a business trip in Grand Rapids (I’m in Michigan). I was home pretty much two days early because there was an outbreak of COVID at the conference so it was canceled. I go upstairs to my bedroom to sleep after a 3 hour drive only to find the “love of my life” in bed having s*x with my “best friend” since 1st grade. This is someone I traded Pokémon cards with, had sleepovers with, we played basketball in my driveway, would later go to bars…..just absolutely destroyed me. Being betrayed by the two most important people in my adult life k****d me. I’m not proud of this part, but I pulled Carlos (my bff) off my fiancé and beat him within an inch of his life. The worst part? He didn’t resist or fight back. I could feel the guilt and shame leaking out of him. He left my house barely dressed and I told my fiancé to go get dressed and get a hotel for a couple nights with literal tears streaming down my face. She left and within the week had moved back in with her parents again. Her dad and brother who I was always cool with (we’d go bowling, watch football, go to Detroit Tigers games together, etc) moved her stuff out in a U-Haul. Her dad shook my hand and her brother hugged me and said they were gonna miss me and were sorry that his daughter threw away a great thing. This was 2021 and I haven’t even gone on a date since. Focused on work rn. Got a promotion and love my staff. I’ve hired a ton of Detroit natives that don’t get a shot and it’s worked out SO well. Detroit Mercy graduates are top notch. If you read this whole sob story thank you. If you were cheated on I’m sorry. The world can be cold, but guess what? We are the warmth! Carry on and keep fighting. You’ve only lost when you give up. God bless you all.

Lizard_State2500 , Lia Bekyan / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

Emily Unicorn
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6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry that you had to go through that, betrayal sucks 💜💜

That tired person
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6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

that rly sucks but at least the dad and brother were nice!

Pandaroo
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6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why are humans like this? Like, sometimes, I just wonder why

Marcin
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6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was at university I went out with this girl who was previously cheated on. She couldn’t move past it in spite of passage of time. She always suspected me of cheating with any woman I mentioned or looked at. She never had cause in my case and I couldn’t bear the constant distrust and suspicion. She was a great girl but I broke it off and we went separate ways.

Rigor Moreno
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6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You deserve someone better Dude...

Amanda Reinstatler
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6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"We ARE the warmth"....what a beautiful sentiment from a beautiful soul. You really did not deserve that. I bet they both regret it every day. I am so sorry

Veronica Jean
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6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have never cheated on a partner. Not emotionally. Not physically. Not a drop. I love the person I'm with even when they are hard to be with. I've been cheated on by every partner I've ever had except one (possibly two). It's honestly my own fault, they were crappy guys and I should have left them. I wasted a lot of time being loyal to people, and now I'm too old to find someone. That's ok. I found me. She's worth it.

TheForrestGreene (he/they/it)
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6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

sounds like the father and brother were truly great people, that were sorry for their daughters actions and wished that it hadn't ended like this. always breaks my heart when this kind of thing happens

Billo66
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6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Somehow the lying hurts worse than the cheating. imo

urbeinghunted 25
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6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ur girlfriend was s**t. u deserve better! Stay strong and I hope you find somebody who cares about you and wouldn't betray you 💪

Bookworm
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While this is awful it doesn't excuse OP's violence. He's lucky he wasn't charged with a$sault or anything else. Remember kids two wrongs don't make a right.

Sobri Kate
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The description of the excessive violence makes me wonder about the girl's reasons when he can dysregulate to such an extent. I don't think this relationship was going as well as he thought it was. Also, they both betrayed him, but hers was the deepest betrayal of trust. Transferring that much violent rage to the other person never made sense to me.

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    #2

    Three women outdoors with one turning to look back, illustrating stories about exposing cheating partners and betrayal. My ex husband slept with two of my sisters.

    iSubjugate , Meg Aghamyan / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #3

    Young man in a dimly lit room looking at his phone, symbolizing how people reveal cheating partners online. Wife called to say she won’t be home because she drank too much & didn’t want to drive (yet she’s never been a drinker!). Turned off her phone location & was evasive to my texts. Refused to let me come get her & didn’t care that her kids were concerned. After an hour of texting she stopped replying. In the morning I was getting warnings of attempts on a credit card to get cash from an ATM because none of my cards allow that. Ran to the bank at opening time to remove all cash only to find money was drained from it 10 minutes earlier across town. Fast forward days later I find phone evidence that the bf & her have been discussing where they’ll live & where they’ll have the kids go to school. I could go on but it’s the typical didn’t-see-it-coming-from-this-person scenario. It’s terrible that someone can hurt their spouse & kids so badly but it happens every day. Fortunately if you work hard at it, life can be 1000 times better years later without that person.

    TheLawOfDuh , Eddy Billard / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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    #4

    Man with glasses and long hair sitting thoughtfully on a couch reflecting on cheating partners and relationship betrayal. Heard this from a date:

    She was dating a rich Chinese kid. Well, the girl had been busy with med school or residency and she had been with him for 10 or so years. Families and friends were all intertwined. She thought she would marry him.

    She rather emotionless and expressionless. But, a week before her board exams she wanted to go visit him in Chicago. On the flight, she had WiFi and a friend messaged her saying she found photos of her boyfriend in another condo and there appears to be another girl. Turns out that he was playing house with another girl as if they were married and whenever this girl went over to visit, he would go to the other condo. Turns out, the rich Chinese kid had two condos.

    She broke down on the plane.

    But, she made it a point that she passed her board exams.

    Cantdrownafish , Sylvester Poh / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Craig Reynolds
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife is Chinese, and men cheating is a cultural norm there, and divorce over it is frowned upon. Women are just supposed to accept it. If a woman cheats, the reverse is not true; that is a face-losing moment for the man and a green hat moment as well. If you wear a green hat in China, it means you were cheated on.

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    #5

    Woman with red painted nails covering her face, expressing emotions related to cheating partners and exposing betrayal. My friend found out his wife cheated cause he got chlamydia. When he confronted her she lied and said it was ra*e. The husband convinced her to take it to court and charge him. She started to but her story stopped making sense when the police investigated and she had to admit she lied and got charged with lying to the police.

    silly_sosidg , Jeison Higuita / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Alexandra
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really, really hate women who lie about being r***d because this will impact real r**e victims.

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    #6

    Close-up of a distressed woman covering her mouth, reflecting the emotional impact of cheating partners being exposed. I was 20, my BF was 21, my best friend was 22.

    She hated the man, always up and down complaining about how I could do better, how she just didn’t get it, etc.

    He knocked me up, I was still pretty religious at the time, and wanted to keep the baby, he and my best friend were the only ones I told. He was very anti-have the baby. She said “I’ll support you no matter what you choose but you should listen to him”.

    I had an abortion, I had complications and was bed-bound for a week and some change, just bleeding profusely and in a lot of pain and having internal war because I figured Jesus hated me now.

    That whole time? Crickets from either of them. No calls, no visits, no nothing.

    By the time I’m up and at em’ again, I’m seeing weird stuff on his social media. Pictures taken of him in his home with captions she always put on her own pics.

    Her sister finally lets me know, they’re together right now. So I went over and caught them in the act.

    Worst part? She was wearing MY lingerie which she’d taken from my room, didn’t even fit her t**s. I said “what the f**k is this” and she stood up, finger waves in my face and says “listen here b***h”

    I decked her, one punch straight up to the jaw and she crumpled on the floor crying (all talk no tough) and then he pinned me to the wall and then his roomies came in and separated us all.

    Found out later she’d told him I was cheating on him and the kid wasn’t his (not true), and she admitted this to me. She said “you don’t even deserve him” so her hatred of him the whole time we dated was apparently just jealousy

    Melina - I have never forgotten, you rotten f*****g human. You ruined my life, you broke my heart, you caused irreparable damage, you soulless c*nt.

    DefinitelyN0tAM0th , Getty Images / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Chuck
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That last paragraph was the "pretty religious" part.

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    #7

    Group of people sitting around a campfire at night sharing stories about exposing cheating partners and revealing secrets. Teenage Summer Camp (so not really that important)

    Long time GF went to the week-long camp. Many of my friends went. I couldn’t go due to my job.

    GF openly making out with another guy during the week.

    When I picked her up on the last day, only one of my friends told me about it. That hurt much more than the cheating.

    gachunt , Mike Erskine / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Craig Reynolds
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, you found out you only had one true friend.

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    #8

    Man with glasses and beard, wearing a striped shirt, talking on the phone while exposing cheating partners at home. I didn't know she was married until I got a death threat from the husband.

    owbilli , sarah b / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    BeesEelsAndPups
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oof. Had something similar happen to me. I didn't know she was married until her best friend told me. Luckily I didn't have to hear from her husband. That sh*t messed with me for a long time.

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    #9

    Man sitting in front of computer holding his head, showing stress and emotions related to exposing cheating partners. A close friend of mine went through something absolutely brutal a while ago. He was in a relationship with a woman, and they had a three-year-old son together.



    After their son was born, she was diagnosed with postpartum depression. She was on sick leave and stayed home all the time. My friend worked full-time and took care of their son whenever he wasn’t at work. He did his best to hold everything together.



    One day, he found a memory card in their bathroom. Out of curiosity, he checked what was on it. What he found completely shattered him.



    It was filled with explicit photos and videos of her with other men – not just random stuff, but full-on setups with lighting and multiple men involved. And it was all filmed in their bedroom. On their bed.



    The files were timestamped. He went through a few and noticed one date that hit him especially hard.



    It was the day of their son’s third birthday.



    That day, she had told him she was “too sick” to come to the birthday party at his parents’ place. So he took their son alone. Meanwhile, she stayed home.



    And apparently, invited one (or more) of those men over to film a s*x tape in their shared bedroom.



    Needless to say, he was crushed. It wasn’t just the cheating – it was the coldness, the lies, and the fact that she could do that on their kid’s birthday.

    DemoHassan , LARAM / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #10

    Couple lying closely together in bed, illustrating themes of cheating partners and relationship betrayal exposure. Ex wife and I had a pretty perfect relationship, never really fought/worked as a team to better ourselves all that good s**t.

    After about 5 years together she out of the blue wanted kids, ok, we tried pretty much everything (hrt/vitamins/trackers and apps/diets) but just couldn't conceive. After her second round of hrt we had back to back miscarriages, she withdrew and we slowly stopped having s*x. After 14 months of just constantly trying to figure out how to fix something she didn't want to fix I caught her f*****g someone else. 10 years down the drain oof.

    So divorced and thought I could do better than that, few bad relationships led me to therapy in 2020. 2 years of that and I met someone, let her move in after 9 months exclusive. About 6 months after that she accidentally put up vids of her f*****g someone in my bed to her snap.

    So that was that for me and finding love lol.

    anon , Claudia Love / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Beth Wheeler
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG nooooo. So sorry that happened to you

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    #11

    Young man sitting alone in dim light, appearing thoughtful and regretful about cheating partners and exposed secrets. I’ve only done it once.

    I was in my 20s. I felt so bad about it that I broke up with my girlfriend two days later.

    I learned a lesson from the immense guilt - ALWAYS break up with your partner FIRST before you let anything get that far. It’s not necessarily easy but it’s the right thing to do.

    I could never bring myself to cheat again.

    Rich-Contribution-84 , Jakob Owens / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    BeesEelsAndPups
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think this should be the lesson here. I think a better lesson should be, don't hurt people you care about. If you can't control your behavior, maybe don't enter into relationships where there is an expectation of fidelity.

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    #12

    Couple embracing outdoors on a terrace, symbolizing trust and emotions in stories about cheating partners revealed. I have two

    My first girlfriend f****d like 15 guys behind my back while we were dating, and had the audacity to bring one over to a fire we had one night. I got weird vibes so I was overly flirtatious/touchy with her and he threatened to beat my a*s (he didn't know we were together either). She also f****d her "gay marine friend" who when I approached to find out, offered to f**k me too.

    And the worst one, my ex fiance (together for 9 years) and I broke up, I went back to my hometown for the weekend to get my mind off it but came back a day early. She had a guy over and freaked out when I came home early. I told her it is what it is I'll be moved out asap. She then f****d him while I was staying in the guest room directly next to her room, and then brought him back over again the day before I moved out.

    Snake_-_Eater , Candice Picard / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Beth Wheeler
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are literally bed hopping whores and you are much better off without them

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    #13

    Man with stressed expression holding his head, reflecting emotions of betrayal and cheating partners exposure. I met this beautiful girl (she was out of my league) who was working at a KMart. I thought I was pretty suave and flirted with her. I asked her out for that night and she agreed. I asked her where she lived and she said she’d meet me at the mini-mart.

    I pick her up and we spend the evening hitting various house parties. I only knew a few of the people at the parties. We were getting pretty drunk and she would sit on my lap and kiss me.

    Some people were staring at us, but I figured they were either jealous or wondering why she was with me. I took her over to my house and we sc**wed for a while.

    It was getting late and I took her home. She had told me she was divorced. When I was driving into her neighborhood, she said that she was separated, not divorced. As I pulled up close to her house, she said, “You better stop here, my husband is home.”

    I said that I thought she was separated and she said that they were going to be, but that they still lived together. I let her out of the car a few houses away from her house.

    I know, I know, alarm bells should have been going off, but I was a fairly inexperienced 18 year old and I was flying h**h after my evening with her.

    I went home and went to sleep. The next day, a friend of mine comes up to me and says her heard about me taking her around town. I smile proudly and said, “yeah, I had a great time.”

    He looks at me and says “You remember when someone shot holes in Jay’s Mustang last week with a deer rifle? That was her husband; he’s crazy and so is she!”

    I said “ she told me she was divorced.” He looked at me with a grin and said he hoped her husband didn’t find out where I lived or what car I drove.

    I spent the next few months, wondering if someone was going to take a shot at me. Nothing ever happened, but I learned a lot about cheating from my experience.

    Moopigpie , Siavash Ghanbari / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #14

    Young woman in car showing confident expression after exposing cheating partner, highlighting infidelity and betrayal themes. My friend and his wife have two kids and are set to go on a Disney cruise. They've been planning it for months with his family. Two weeks before the cruise, she gets a promotion at work and is set to travel on a work trip, so she will miss the cruise.

    Cruise day comes and he flies himself, and his two kids (one is 4 and one is 2) to the cruise ship. They spend the night in a hotel the night before, then go to the cruise ship.

    He gets on the ship and once it's about to be underway, too late for him to get back off the boat, she texts him and says that she wants a divorce and that when he comes home, she'll have all his stuff packed up. He calls me and says that he has limited Internet access, please drive by his house. I go over there and her vehicle is gone. I start driving by likely friends' houses (they lived in a small town about two hours from me) and I find her car parked in some guy's driveway. I take some pictures and go back a few days later and the car is still there in the middle of the night.

    He's stuck on this trip with his family and two kids under 5 on a Disney cruise while his wife is getting railed by the town drunk.

    It doesn't end there. When he came back, she'd called the sheriff and said she knew he was coming home and was going to beat her up so he gets there and the sheriff has him drop of his kids and tells him he needs to find a different place to stay for a few nights because she's called in a DV complaint **even though he was on the cruise!**

    It took him a couple of years to get it all sorted in the court system. Despite the s**t she did, including being the town bop and having their kids spending the night at different guys' houses, the court gave them joint custody. F*****g Alabama dude.

    001235 , Getty Images / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    BeesEelsAndPups
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not just Alabama. It's really hard for a parent to get sole custody unless the other parent doesn't contest, or is provably a*****e.

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    #15

    Man wearing a cap and plaid shirt climbing into a blue truck, illustrating exposure of cheating partners stories. A friend of mine was a truck driver in a 2-man crew. His partner bragged to him of his wife's sexual prowess... in great detail, on a daily basis.

    The newly wedded friend decided he needed to check that out... destroying 2 families, several friendships, a softball team, and the company.

    Luthiefer , Wesley Tingey / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Gavin Johnson
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But no report on the sexual prowess? Surely she should be credited for her skills?

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    #16

    Dimly lit hospital corridor with water fountain, bulletin board, and restroom signs along the walls at night. My ex-wife pretended to be admitted to a mental health ward for long term treatment while actually staying with her new man and cheating on me.

    w0fIvHv034Ei , Jose Fabula / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    BeesEelsAndPups
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex wife pretended to be at late night study sessions with her law-school classmates. They all lied for her too, so I guess they were loyal. Anyways, that was 17 years ago. I've had a whole other divorce since then, lol.

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    #17

    Silhouetted man sitting near window in low light, reflecting on trust and cheating partners in a dim room. Bought a house with my girlfriend (a dream of mine for over 10 years). She gaslit me when I had suspicions about a coworker, not long after she cheated and left me for him before we even got to move into the house and 2 months before I was going to propose. It destroyed me.

    Had to list my house for sale before I even got to move into it. During this time I had to stay in touch with her until the house sold. Once in a while she would text me apologizing or saying how much she loved me. Even called me crying to comfort her after her dog died.

    Well the coworker she left me for cheated on his ex of 9 years to be with my ex. Guess he never really left his ex and continued seeing her. He was apparently emotionally a*****e to my ex and they fought all the time, she got in dangerous situations, cops had to be called a few times and he became a stalker. She had to get a job elsewhere to get away from him.

    This strained her relationship with her parents a lot as they were really disappointed in her as she kept making bad decisions.

    When the house sold she owed me over $20k, she asked for some Taylor swift tickets of hers that she had told me to keep months earlier to make up for the cheating. When I did not return them she refused to give me the money. I could’ve went to court but I just sold the tickets for nearly 20k and I’ll just take the loss rather than have her in my life anymore.

    That last I heard of her was she was f*****g a bunch of different guys to restore her faith in men or something. So she lost a house, lost her reputation, lost her job, and lost a man that wanted to build a life with her and loved her more than anything.

    Chrispy_Crunch_ , Richard Stachmann / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #18

    Young man in black jacket and cap texting on phone outdoors, capturing the moment of exposing cheating partners. I was in a long distance relationship at the time. I got a message from her friend out of the blue saying she was out with another boy. Received photos and videos from her as evidence too.
    I asked my missus at the time what she was doing,
    "Just helping mum with baking"
    Immediately sent her all the evidence her friend sent me, told her that we were done and blocked her number.

    Mello_Boy1401 , Štefan Štefančík / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #19

    A couple lying closely in bed, symbolizing relationships and revealing cheating partners in intimate settings. We’d just had s*x it was a Friday night I asked her what she was doing for the weekend she told me she was getting married.

    Late_Mixture2448 , Toa Heftiba / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    urbeinghunted 25
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    she never said who! it could be she was proposing to you!

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    #20

    Woman investigating cheating partners at desk with documents and laptop in dimly lit room, focused on discovery. Caught my ex cheating while I was helping her study for her finals and covering her rent because she’d lost her job. Found out through a friend that she was going on “study breaks” with another guy. What stung the most wasn’t even the cheating—it was realizing how much I’d ignored the red flags because I cared too much. Lesson learned: if you’re doing more for someone than they’d ever do for you, you’re not in love, you’re being used.

    justagirllarissa , Elena Helade / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Amanda Reinstatler
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have spent years purging parasites just like that from my life.....relationships are not supposed to be one sided - one does all the giving and the other does ALL the taking

    #21

    Young woman in a cozy sweater smiling while talking on the phone, symbolizing how people exposed cheating partners. We were 2 years into a relationship and up until this point she was madly in love with me, called me a trillion times a day, always wanted to be with me, etc.

    It was around the time she was helping her sister plan the sister's wedding. Her calls became less frequent per day. When I called her she usually wasn't available and I just assumed it was because of the wedding. Our dates became less frequent as well and I naively believed again it was because of the wedding.

    About 1-2 months later I get a call from her other sister during work and it caught me by surprise. She told me she had something to tell me and somehow I just instantly knew what it was about. "My sister's been cheating on you."

    It was with her soon-to-be married sister's fiancé's brother. They had all been going out at night because of the circumstances around the wedding. My ex found it fun and found his existence to be some kind of "sign from God." Like a movie/fairytale.

    She continued to lie to me about it for weeks even though I already knew the truth. Her sister eventually forced her to "break up" with me and even during that moment, during that conversation, she didn't have the decency to tell me she was with someone else. I feigned a smile saying I always knew we weren't going to end up together and let her be on her way.

    After our official break up, I still wanted her and kept trying to convince her to break up with him and come back to me. She continued to either deny the relationship; that she cheated; or would tell me that they stopped talking. This period of time gave me immense grief and I could physically feel that sinking feeling in my body every day & every night. This all accumulated to an intense pain in my abdomen that caused me to not be able to sleep at night until I was too exhausted to stay awake.

    I begged her to stay or at least visit me over the Christmas holidays. She promised me that she would and then told me she had to be with her family last minute. I found out she actually took that time to take a solo flight to go see the other guy for the entire holiday.

    I was in and out of the hospital for the pain for a while. My mom, not knowing that we broke up, called her to tell her I was in the hospital. She was upset but never came to visit even once. When it was time for surgery (my gallbladder was infected), guess who showed up to see me? Not her. Not once. Her sister did though.

    My ex and her new boyfriend only lasted about a year. Turns out he was physically and emotionally abusing her. And neither of them was smart enough to know how to save money so they were both broke as well.

    ThornyPost , Brooke Cagle / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #22

    Young man in a hoodie sitting on dry grass, holding his head, representing emotions after exposing cheating partners. 2013. I started dating this girl who was from a small town. She stayed over at my place or me at her place 3-4 nights a week. I came up with some reason why I was gonna stay at my place alone and left. I went to the bar and ran into this chick from HS. Things escalated and I took her home and had s*x with her. Next morning dropped her off at her car. She fell out of my truck and broke her ankle. 2 nights later me and my gf went to a friends house party. That girl was there and knew my gf from friends of friends and they got to talking about her ankle. Let’s just say I got caught in a bad way in front of everyone. I am fully aware I am wrong and am a piece of s**t. I am a faithful married man now.

    Byers0614 , Roman Holoschchuk / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Lyoness
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice to read an exception to the "once a cheater..." trope.

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    #23

    Man with hands covering face in emotional distress, symbolizing pain of discovering cheating partners and betrayal. After we got back together, because we broke up due to my insecurities of her cheating, her and her sister went out to the club on her 21st bday. I didn’t go and was fine with this for a few reasons.

    1 - we were only dating again for a couple of months

    2 - it was just her and her sister, her, her friends and I were gonna go clubbing the next day.

    Anyways, we go out to eat with her family prior to that. We have a good time and I go home and don’t think about it.

    Randomly around midnight, my heart just sinks and I just start getting really panicky. I start freaking out and for some reason get this deep intense feeling I’m being cheated on. On some stalker s**t, I googled how to check recent followers on IG and saw she in fact followed 3 men that night. My heart sank and it felt like all of my suspicions and insecurities were just true.

    So I decide to sleep and in the morning go to work out to clear my mind. Ultimately, I text her and tell her I’d like to see her and ask her to come over. She does and we go sit down and I just flat out say “I don’t have romantic feelings for you” because I wanted to keep it blunt and quick. She freaks out and we argue, eventually I drop the fact she followed 3 guys and I know about it and that she did something.

    Immediately starts calling me insecure, weird for stalking follower count, stuff like that. I agreed and immediately regret everything I did and said because just like our last relationship, I’m letting insecurities get in the way. So once I start to apologize and back track, I get called a piece of s**t and that I’m not a real man of God (we both are saved by Christ) because I wouldn’t be accusing her of doing such a thing, she’s a woman of God / been cheated on before.

    She leaves and I text her I’m sorry and ask her to come back. A few hours later she says she doesn’t want it to be over but needs the weekend, where she went up her to her grandparents (which I knew about prior).

    When she comes over, my initial plan was for things to be completely over then and there because it was clearly just a toxic relationship. After enough screaming at me, where I gave no response to it, she breaks down crying and starts saying stuff like I never loved her obviously because I’m not fighting for her, stuff like that. This literally k****d me to hear and I fell back in. We do work things out eventually but I just have an itch that I couldn’t scratch and kept that moment in mind and waited until I could get confirmation.

    One night, I get into a bad accident and go to the hospital, and we plan for her to stay with me for the weekend as I could barely move. Well, we were just laying on my couch talking and cuddling when she eventually fell asleep. This was my perfect opportune as I had recently learned her phone passcode and I go through the phone and go straight to her birthday.

    Sure enough, I see some texts. I won’t go too much into detail but ya I found out did in fact cheat. Beyond that, she invited him out after we broke up. Beyond that, she invited him out not even 2 hours after coming back to my house and making up with me. Beyond that, she was actively chasing him while he was turning down the invites. She actually tries to talk and hang out for more than a week after we get back together.

    At this point, I needed to see more. I search my name into the bar and scroll through. Holy s**t. I don’t understand to this day why she ever started to talk to me again. One of last texts I saw before I couldn’t keep my composure was sent during our first break up, something along the lines of “I’m gonna go break his(my) heart I’m not mad about it haha feel a lil bad though” and her friend saying something along the lines of “he wants to be with you so bad but he doesn’t even deserve to breath the same air”.

    This was after I wrote her a letter telling her how sorry I was for my “insecurities” and letting them get in the way of something good, and that I will do everything to better myself. Basically a letter saying I wanna get back together.

    I got hit with pretty much every cheating trope/stereotype there is.

    AlwysProgressing , Pablo Merchán Montes / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #24

    Two men with serious expressions outdoors in casual clothing, illustrating themes of cheating partners and exposure. I know two separate stories.

    #1. Someone I know was I a long-term relationship (h**h school sweetheart) then f****d his dad, got caught, they broke up, but she's back with the sweetheart and now they all have family dinner like nothing happened.

    #2. Girl dated twin 1 and cheated with twin 2 and got pregnant and switched teams. Also has kids with twin 1.

    sunflower8731 , atiyeh fathi / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #25

    Man placing a pink rose corsage on a woman’s wrist, illustrating themes of cheating partners and betrayal in relationships. My girlfriend at the time cheated on me THEN dumped me on my prom night. She also danced the last dance (which she said was one of our songs) with the guy.

    nhgaudreau , Tai's Captures / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #26

    Two men embracing each other in a crowd, symbolizing trust and revealing cheating partners in relationships. Caught my old boyfriend on Craigslist with an ad for "getting double d**ked down DL masc4masc with femboy". I was very naive and madly in love at the time that I accepted his excuse. "I just only get off on REAL p**n." Followed by him, leaving periodically at super late hours to go meet a "long-time old gay friend" who had a major crush on him. He would never admit to it fully, but all the signs were there. He even threatened to break up weekly because he felt like "everything was rushed" and "I want to explore." I asked him point blank. "You just want to f**k around?" And it was a "well, yeah. ".

    Lexail , Andrew Keymaster / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Svenne O'Lotta
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you basically pressured him into monogamy when he straight up told you he wasn't into that

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    #27

    Young woman enjoying a slice of pizza at night, wearing colorful jacket, representing people who exposed cheating partners. Caught my ex texting someone saved in their phone as pizza hut. Thought they were just really into takeout… turns out, they were just really into someone else.

    tastieraqwerty99 , tabitha turner / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #28

    Two women dressed in black holding hands and flowers, standing beside a gray coffin at a funeral. We were at a friend's relative's funeral. Turns out both of his girlfriends came to show support. It was a big occasion, hundreds of people there. The deceased was beloved in the community.

    Anyways, he asked our friend group keep his girlfriends away from him and from meeting each other. There were so many people there that it wasn't too difficult.

    canyoudigholes , Pablo Merchán Montes / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #29

    Young woman using a smartphone near a window, reflecting on how she exposed her cheating partner. It was our wedding day he left for a few hours to take my niece home. He came back talked on his phone the entire time didn’t do anything with me. I watched the nun in a super expensive location while eating crackers. Went a head a took an ambien and just hung out.That should have been my first sign this marriage wasn’t going to work! But no I ignored it. He acted a fool one day screaming being his narcissist self. I had enough and went to my moms I got an alert on the camera and he was grabbing this b**ches a*s. Needless to say I filed for divorce the next day we were married 6 months.

    Old-Check-5938 , Keren Levand / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is baffling; it’s as if sentences were taken from lotsa random paragraphs. Most baffling, however, is “I watched the nun in a super expensive location while eating crackers.” I can’t even begin to guess where that sentence was taken from and what the hell it refers to!

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