(Don’t) mess around and find out. Life is chock-full of important lessons that we have to learn, both large and small. It’s usually best to save your time, energy, health, and nerves by learning from the blunders your friends, family, and peers have made. However, there will inevitably be moments where you massively mess up yourself.
Well, some of the members of the r/AskReddit community wanted to pass on their wisdom to others. In a viral online thread, they spilled the tea about the times they messed around with something, only to find out that their actions had very negative consequences. Scroll down for their top life advice and safety concerns.
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Just because you climbed up something doesn't mean you can climb down.
Cats can go down any tree they go up to. They scream and scream until the humans come and get them down. Perfect system, really.
Load More Replies...Ah, the neighbour's English Bull terrier never worked that out. Used to just sit in the tree whining until he was fetched down
Definitely. I've noped a few rocks because I didn't feel I could come back down safety. It's much harder to see where to put your feet when you're going down.
Gosh this makes so much sense and I never even thought about cats. Here I was thinking it’s because I’m afraid of hights. I can get up ok because I look up. Down is a problem though.
HR, Human Resources. I'll never trust them again.
or whatever cause we all must pretend to obey.
Load More Replies...And if there is any type of conflict between two employees, the popular, more "well-liked" by more people, one wins. Ask me how I know.
I worked in HR. The art is to use the system regardless of HR, it really is easily done! (UK)
People expect HR to be able to help them when they keep no evidence and don't have the faintest understanding of their rights. Record everything. Even just jotting down in a notebook the times and a basic outline of events after they happen gives you some form of proof. Use written communications, especially emails, for anything that could come back to bite you or that is outside your contracted role.
Load More Replies...It's because they literally look at humans as resources, like a chair or a computer. You many need servicing from time to time but you're always replaceable.
To be clear, I meant servicing like upgrading software (training), not the other kind of servicing bc ew.
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Do not attach two very active dogs to the handle of a Razor scooter because you want to see if they'd be good sled dogs. .
I suspect more like: "Hold my Happy Meal and I'll show you how it's done."
Load More Replies...Do NOT grab the leash trailing after a runaway dog with your bare hands. You will get rope burns on your fingers. (typed with my non dominant hand)
Did similar at around 10 or 12 years old. Looped my young bird dog's leash around my bike handlebars. Going down a steep hill (steep back then- when I drive by 30 years later it seems like more of a mild slope!) the predicted happens. Bird dog sees a bird, bird dog goes after bird, kid goes flying over handlebars. 7 chin stitches and $700 later (obvs in good ol America)... Dog was unhurt, did not catch her a bird though.
My miniature pinscher loved chasing squirrels. If he was pulling hard enough, we just let go of the leash, to keep him from straining too hard. We would do this knowing the squirrel would get up the tree before the dog got to the squirrel.
Did this once to my dog when I wore rollerblades, back when I was 14. She saw a squirrel. I deliberately crashed to get her to stop, otherwise I may have ended up flattened against a tree.
Accident waiting to happen; (hey yall watch this , is the statement of the day here)
Also do not chase the very large dog around the dinning room table. The razor scooter has a tendency to shoot out from under the rider during sharp turns. Dog had a blast. I had to explain my injured shoulder to my health insurance company.
reminds me of "go bwah girl" https://youtu.be/o4mFzz3hIFg?si=H9Gh3BoUPckQR3b6
Research shows that fear and anxiety reduce our likelihood of taking risks. However, the exact strength of this relationship is in question. One meta-analytic review from 2020 noticed that scientific studies with clinically anxious samples showed greater risk aversion on average. Furthermore, studies using tangible rewards also showed greater effects of fear on risk aversion. Aside from those, fear seems to have a small to moderate average effect on the willingness to take risks.
Inc. magazine points out that risks can help us grow stronger and become better by challenging us. However, these risks should be calculated, not reckless ones. First, you should try to evaluate the actual risk you’re facing and consider how you’d handle things if they didn’t go as planned. You should also take whatever steps you can to increase your chances of success.
Driving through standing water. Just because the car in front of you makes it through doesn’t mean you will.
This car is also driving way too fast. If the driver slowed down to a crawl, they might — MIGHT — just make it.
Yep! What you can see splashing up outside, is splashing up inside the engine compartment.
Load More Replies...Even if you make it your car may be irreparably damaged. Drove home through flood today... call someone to take your metallic lump of C..p away the next day!
How do you suppose a car that drove away from driving through a flood would be irreparably damaged? Be specific.
Load More Replies...Yep. The street by my work floods pretty badly during intense rain. I saw a big Hummer cruise through the 2 foot water no trouble. Then a little Mini Cooper came along. Made it halfway down the street and then came merrily floating back the way it came. I felt bad laughing.
I am going to say it; "Turn around don't drown", just a small amount of water will float a small car like a feather in water. Common sense people!!
Just because you race through standing water doesn't mean you will make it. Slow down and don't create a bow wake ahead of your vehicle.
water is heavy, and it hits hard, if you are going at any significant speed.... plus there is the risk of aquaplaning, and sliding of the road.
I had a Triumph Spitfire and came to a flooded intersection. Detour was about thirty miles. I got out, and with my ratty sneakers on waded to find the depth. Then, because it was a Triumph Spitfire, and the engine air intakes were up on top of the engine, I drove slowly, and carefully across, where I changed back into my good sneakers, and dried my legs. As I was getting ready to go on, another car came down the hill toward me, and I signaled for them to stop, but no, the car sped up, got halfway across in a terrific spray of water, and stalled. 1972. No cell phones. Miles to service. I drove away.
Don't work full time and go to school full time.
I was like meh. I can do whatever I put my mind to. It broke my brain. I repressed my stress but my brain and body didn't care. Started waking up in middle night with panic attacks thinking I was dying. Got agoraphobia. Places like airports and malls I would get vertigo. Dizzy and lightheaded and feel like I was floating which would trigger what is wrong with me panic attack. Rinse repeat.
I went to dr and he was like you are doing way too much. Stop doing that. And he was right.
So you actually can do too much. And even if you can brute force it, your brain and body will eventually rebel against you.
This is actually important. There's a lot you can do in 12 hours, a whole lot. But if you never take a day off it causes actual physical and psychological damage. Some groups bank on this outcome as a way to break people, so they are tok tired to even consider alternatives.
I went back to school when I was 36 and have a son and bills to pay, so I had to work throughout most of school.
Load More Replies...I did this for 3 degrees - 2 AS, and a BS. It was hell. The worst was actually my first AS as the ol’ ‘however many hours of class you have, double that to account for homework” didn’t compute correctly for a photography degree, especially when it was still film. I has 12 hours of class, and an additional 16-20 hours outside of class foe homework, shoot multiple rolls of film, processing said film, printing X number of pictures, and sometimes matting the pictures. Plus any digital work and printing. And I worked a minimum of 30 hours a week. I basically got 1-2 hours of sleep a night, and hung out at my job a lot so I could reduce travel. Thankfully it was a retail job with a cafe.
Yep, I tried that. Worked Monday thru Friday just under full time, starting my day at 7am to take my kid to school also. Then had to go to school from 545pm to 1045pm. Also had to find time to do homework, housework, and spend time with my kid. So glad my husband was there to take on a lot of the load, and eventually made me quit my job to just focus on school. Especially during my medical coding classes, those were rough.
Have you gone through a nursing degree program or talked to anyone who has? It is brutal! And when I did it, I worked a full-time job at night and went to school (and to clinical training) during the day.
I admire you! My friend was a teen mom who got her GED, then got her nursing degree while also working full time. She has been a surgical nurse for a number of years. Kuddos to nurses!
Load More Replies...Living and supporting myself when I was 17. I was working full time (waitressing), also working 12 hours a week for the school district, going to high school full time, and my counselor assigned me 2 extra classes so I could graduate in June instead of the next semester. Regular semester is 30 units - I did 50 units in one semester. Any woman who tells me I won't know tired until I have a kid will be backhanded by me personally.
I'm doing this right now and it is wreaking havoc on my already-disabled body. I'm taking this entry as divine intervention and making a change.
"You can do anything but not everything", is a much better mantra than "you can do what you want". I, and probably a lot of other people, have a tendency to just look at what others have achieved without realising how many hours and how much effort they have put into it, and hence we wrongfully conclude that we could do that too... and while that is kind of true, we tend to forget that there is also a lot other going on in your lives that we have to attend to, so a very important question to ask yourself, is if you have the hours to do that thing that you want.
Hiking alone in Iceland being a confident hiker. Paraphrasing: the most dangerous hiker is a confident hiker.
I got lost, didnt pack enough food and got caught on the side of a mountain. 20 people had to rescue me. Never again.
Every year in India in my state, we hear cases of hikers getting lost and dying.. A few years back, a chap from Delhi who had no clue of hiking had come down near a hill station, got lost, sent a good bye message and was later found of cops dead.. please dont be ignorant or over confident
The only place I'd ever hike alone is in my tiny homecountry where you literally cannot get lost.
There are no high mountains in Iceland. Didn't pack enough food? Sounds like you you forgot to pack a compass. Experience counts 10000000 more times than 'confidence' or 'stupidity. (yes I have been there off season, hiking alone... - there is a network of safety cabins.) ... 20 people! .... Did you pay them for their time?
Sure our highest mountain is only just over 2km but we still have dangerous terrain. You can easly get lost and we thankfully have a search and rescue units all over the country with great volunteers. There are plenty of people that have gotten lost and some that lost their life sadly
Load More Replies...Not carrying enough food and not carrying a GPS device to find your way back sounds like they did not think this through at all.
As with most things in life, there’s a balance to be found when it comes to your personal safety. On the one hand, your survival is paramount. You want to make sure that you’re as healthy and capable as you can be in order to get the most out of life. In short, you don’t want to be reckless.
On the other hand, you don’t want to go overboard with safety concerns to the point that you’re constantly anxious, hiding in your metaphorical comfort zone, scared to take the opportunities that life keeps throwing at you.
Motorcycles.
It does not matter how good of a driver you are, there are other cars on the road and some of those cars are driven by idiots.
“ watch out for the idiots on the road” is a common expression. Personally, I watch out for everyone. We are human and as humans we all make mistakes.
My dad said if you ride a motorcycle "it's not if you crash, it's when you crash." prepare for the accident not the ride.
Young men on motorcycles are oftier organ donors.
Load More Replies...My favorite is the bumper stickers that say something like "Save a life, motorcycles are everywhere." Yeah, because it's your own life you are saving. I am amazed at how poorly motorcyclists drive and how they feel the rules of the road don't apply to them. I drive on the interstate regularly and it's a common occurrence to see a motorcyclist drive right between lanes in bumper-to-bumper traffic just because they can fit.
It’s called lane-splitting - it terrifies me too, but my bf is a motorcycle rider and mechanic and he says there are situations where that actually makes them safer on the road. He also says medical workers tend to call motorcycles “donor-cycles” because of the high fatality rate (a nod to organ donation)
Load More Replies...And in the area I live in they often are. Weaving through traffic at 25mph over the speed limit, whenever I see this behavior all I can think is "they clearly haven't gotten in a wreck yet and I really hope they don't while pulling a stunt like that!".
Load More Replies...No matter how good a driver you are, you too can make a mistake. When I do (luckily I've never hit anthing) I try to show that I apologise for it.
In my much, much younger days, I road a motorcycle in Papua New Guinea dressed in T-shirt, short & thongs. Looking back now, what was I thinking?
In your younger days. Nuff said. When you’re young, you’re ten foot tall and bullet proof
Load More Replies...The reason for helmets, leather jackets, gloves, pants, and boots. To some, it's overkill. To others, it's not getting killed.
Load More Replies..."...and MOST of those cars are driven by idiots." There, fixed it for you.
Regular check ups and screenings. Get the damn colonoscopy on schedule, get the skin check yearly. Get your prostate exam or pap smear. If you smoked or are high risk get scans for lung cancer regularly. Talk to your doctor, find out what you should get and when and follow the schedule. I have lung cancer, one of the 20% of people with lung cancer that never smoked, and the difference between the outcomes from stage 1 to stage 4 is literally life and death. Do not wait for symptoms, do not put off getting that weird mole checked.
It seems like as soon as I hit 50, I was invited to all sorts of examinations. Took each and every one seriously and so far, so good. Found out I am diabetic type 2, high blood pressure and slightly high cholesterol...got my meds and have reduced my numbers by half. Was one hell of a wake-up call. Please make sure you get screenings as you age, it may just save your life.
It makes me sad that they only screened you for those issues at 50. Every one of those is something they should evaluate you for on an annual basis from your mid-30s on. My only guess is that you are otherwise very healthy looking because sometimes they don't screen you if you look healthy.
Load More Replies...Yea... lack of affordable healthcare in the US is preventing me from that. I am supposed to get yearly MRI's on my head for chronic migraines and a lesion on my brain, but that ain't gonna happen now that I lost Medicaid. I am between making to much money and actually being able to afford insurance.
Amen! Even if the doctors find a problem, I would rather hear, "I'm glad you came to me when you did," instead of, "I wish you had come to me sooner." My cancer was at Stage 3 when it was detected. At Stage 4, I'd probably be in hospice care.
Pap smears saved my life. I know they’re awkward and uncomfortable but please get them. Please.
I just had a follow up one done… I had previously tested positive for HPV about six months ago and they performed a cervical biopsy (yay!) that thankfully didn’t show any cancer. I was so nervous about getting retested, but everything was fine this time. Tests or regrets.
Load More Replies...Same goes for breast checks and Pap smears! Free for eligible women ages 25-74 in my state. They can save your life. If the doctor who did you last one was horrible, find a different one, go to a women’s clinic, ask for recommendations - just do the damn thing! I work in women’s health and it is incredible to me the number of women who have regularly seen GP’s, obstetricians, antenatal clinical, birthed at hospital and have never had one done or even offered (again, free in my state).
Especially if your last gynecologist had all the sensitivity of a meat packer.
Load More Replies...Totally agree. Just had my colonoscopy and endoscopy. Now take meds for stomach ulcers. Sigh. Annual bloods next month.
We are not going to live forever but you can add years to your life by doing all the above, so what if it's a little uncomfortable, not like the doctors havent seen it before.
Seems like I have a million moles and every one is asymmetrical, different colors, changes size, etc, etc, and all the doctor does is go "OK". I've been pleading for an all-body skin exam for years. And before you tell me to change doctors, why don't YOU find one within 75 miles of me who takes Medicare.
Don’t fry bacon when you’re naked.
...and don't do cartwheels, if you are a unicorn. https://preview.redd.it/unicorn-cartwheels-v0-1xc3hv6eh3xa1.jpg?auto=webp&s=ef02d375e867456e2352ebeb9254277155c4c1d6
Load More Replies...Or even when your feet are naked, or maybe even worse with only socks on. Poured hot grease on my foot (with sockets) when I was a kid. Third degree burn.
Remember seeing an interview with a nudist and they were asked 'what is the one thing you won't do naked?' This was the answer.
Hey bacon makes a good morning snack after…..”a workout” 😅 the lil burn scar on my underboob can confirm
Load More Replies...Oh heck no, why would you in the first place, that will will just lead to having dessert first thing in the morning instead of breakfast (not that it's a bad thing mind you), LOL, plus you may burn your sausage also!!
Many of us know the basics of staying safe and healthy. Look both ways before crossing the street. Know what to do in case of a fire. Don’t eat food that smells like it’s gone off. Don’t interact with random wild animals that might have God only knows what illnesses. Don’t speed when you’re behind the wheel of a car. Exercise, eat well, get plenty of sleep, have an active social life, and avoid nicotine, alcohol, and chronic stress. The list goes on and on.
The fact of the matter is that there’s only so much we can do to prevent getting hurt. We can prepare to avoid the most common risks. However, we can’t see the future. We can’t predict random accidents that might end up with us getting hurt. But this shouldn’t be a reason to lock yourself away from the world. If anything, it’s a reminder to take care of yourself while also trying to live life to the fullest. With courage and conviction.
First responder here. Garage door springs. Let a pro fix them.
Garage doors can become dangerous, do not try to tension them unless you know what you're doing
A guy came to do my door and he showed me scars on his arm where surgeons had sewn his skin back on where a spring had ripped the skin off his forearm.
Load More Replies...I do DIY stuff all the time around my house. Plumbing, electrical, framing, I do it all. That is, I do everything EXCEPT mess with garage door springs. I've seen those things fail before. I've seen the damage they can do. I will happily pay someone to do that job every day of the week.
Mine failed when we were all inside. Shook the house. Repairman said if somebody had been in the garage when it blew, they’d have been dead
My husband and I went through this last year. Our garage door was acting up and I called someone to repair it because I just had a gut feeling my husband would get hurt trying. The repairman took one look and went white as a sheet. The idiots who installed our garage door (and every one on the street) installed one with enough tension to raise and 18 foot tall door... not an 8 foot tall one like we had. The man was incredibly surprised that the door hadn't flown off and that we were both still alive.
Load More Replies...Yep , take this advice to heart people, those things are under great tension and will hurt you badly!!
I'm sure there's a reason garage doors use springs and not counterweights. I'm just not sure what that reason might be.
Not wearing hearing-protection when necessary. Tinnitus sucks.
BTW, one other cause can be attributed to driving with the window down. Not a major cause, but if you are already susceptible, it IS a thing.
I worked at a popular mall store (known for Lava Lamps and black light posters) in college; district manager insisted we play the store radio at high volume. I still suffer mild tinnitus 30 years later and I am convinced this is the cause.
Yes it does. However, loud sounds are only one cause, and there is more than one type of tinnitus. There is a form where the sound appears external, caused by external hearing damage; and one where the sound appears internal, caused by illness or stress. I have the latter, stress-induced internal ringing. I had never been near a loud music venue, or ever wore headphones when I got mine, and I don't have any known hearing damage.
Yup. I have no ear abuse in my past but I did have a lot of ear infections when I was little. No idea exactly when it started, it's just one day I realized "Hey, this isn't cicada season and this isn't cicada country." No idea how long I had been tuning out the "cicadas". (I grew up in cicada country, my brain learned to tune them out pretty well.)
Load More Replies...I foolishly went with some friends in the 70s to the movie "Tommy". The tag line was "Your senses will never be the same again". Well they got that right
Alcohol, 22 years drunk, 18 months sober.
You got this! What helps keep me on the sober track is appreciating all the good that has happened since getting sober while never forgetting the awful things I did and way I felt while using. A safe, stable life is better than any high.
Well done is right to op...super achievement. but do BP just copy and paste these without reading them because alcohol is already on the list. It always irks me when they put in the same thing from different people a few times. There's another one here also repeated.
I do not mind the dupe posts when they're about something like this. Second or third one may be the trigger to seek help.
Load More Replies...What are the hardest life lessons you’ve learned due to sheer bad luck, dear Pandas? What advice would you give everyone to help keep them safe(r) every day?
Feel free to share your opinions and experiences in the comments at the bottom of this post.
Considering coworkers true friends lmao.... whenever money or power is involved, human beings are two-faced.
Change your definition of “true friends.” I have coworkers I consider friends - we enjoy each others company, go to lunch together, even occasionally hang outside of work, but I know we’d forget about each other if one of us changed jobs. Then I have some real, truly good friends that I’ve met through work and have my back no matter what.
Load More Replies...No, do not confide in co-workers unless you know them very well!!! Mine bit me in the a*s hard. Lesson well learned!
So true. I was backstabbed by my “friend” at work. We’d worked together for 5 years. I got a written warning and she got promotion.
Which should be an added caution, your boss will NOT back you up if the person you are in conflict with is his "pet". Even if the person in question gives 30% pull while you give 70%.
Load More Replies...When every person is paid the same wage, back stabbing is much rarer. Every person knows what other people gets, and only things to get a raise is to work a certain amount of years, or getting promotion as a shift manager. Shift managers get paid more, but they have more responsibilities and their job is harder. Most people don't even want to be promoted because of that, and you have to officially apply anyway. Other thing that promotes co-operation is shared goals. We get paid more if we do well. Only making yourself look good does nothing, but working together well gets you more money.
Doing everything right & being a conscientious employee gets you nothing but more work with no benefits for your efforts. It's called corporate greed.
Load More Replies...I disagree with this one. Some of my life's coworkers became great friends. Where one meets a new potential friend has nothing to do with how good a friend they might be.
This is my approach. Even if they're not the greedy type, people will prioritize themselves if they have to choose between you and them in a situation.
Customs officers. They have no sense of humor, don't ask me how I know.
My awkward friend and I were flying somewhere. We must have been looking suspicious because when we got on the plane a certain gentleman sat next to us. We must have been more awkward and just ridiculous sounding and acting that the guy got up and left. He went and sat in the last row. We weren't sure if it was somebody who sat next to us as security, or just some poor schmuck who realized we were too crazy to sit next to.
They've just probably heard the same jokes about a thousand times and can't even crack a smile for them anymore.
Yep, and it probably wasn't even funny the first time.
Load More Replies...Sometimes they do. But not in the US. I had to travel there with my school choir as part of a competition and a girl had her hair tie ripped out of her hair (with a load of hair still attached) because she forgot to take it off before the scanner. We were school kids, and this was pre-9/11! Then I was too honest and ticked the box on the landing card declaring that I had an object worth over a certain amount (my flute). Caused a right palaver and the guy seemed to think I was saying I was bringing *fruit* into the country, not a *flute*. I had to mime to him what a flute was and he got cross. Eejits.
Pretty sure they do even in the US. Just not all of them. As long as you're not joking about bombs/d***s/terrorism in general you're probably ok. Had a few crack a joke themselves. They're just people, at work. So some of them are having a good day, some a bad day. Some are dour to start with and some are naturally happy.
Load More Replies..."Hey random TSA agent, don't you think my shoes are da bomb?" That was it, right?
yeah, don't say "bomb" in an airport, if you don't want to miss your flight.
what if i'm talking about "the Bomb" as in part of the court of shadows? (might get the reference, might not)
Load More Replies...My friend was bringing a bath bomb for Christmas and the scanner picked up something round and dense, so when they asked him what it was...yeah.
Depression, it f***s you hard.
Not seeking help for an issue you may not realize you have or refuse help.
Load More Replies...Exactly. I read some quote that was like “even if I could go back, I wouldn’t belong there anymore.”
Load More Replies...I once heard that if you have depression and are still alive, you're not struggling with depression. Depression is struggling with you. Depressed pandas, keep that in mind
I find depression so hard to deal with. I'm not sure I'm going to survive this.
You will be okay. It’s not gonna be like this forever. And the world is a much better place with you in it. Please accept virtual hugs from an internet stranger
Load More Replies... Texting and driving. I was around 27, driving out of my neighborhood around 3pm and remembered I forgot to text a friend about an assignment for grad school. I looked down and within 5-10 seconds, ran up onto the sidewalk. I was so mortified that I could have killed someone, kids, a woman with a stroller, etc. Never did it again.
It’s been a few years and I still think about that stupid choice that could have ended horribly.
Someone backed one of those enormous mobility scooters into me a while ago. I was standing by the bus stop and was nowhere near her, she had driven up and turned so she could reverse onto her bus when it came - there were no buses anywhere near. She had no mirrors attached, was actually moving pretty quickly and was clearly not looking - she backed into me, smashed my face against the bus stop pole and the back wheel of the scooter rode halfway up my calf before she finally started moving the thing forward. Those things can actually move pretty quick and are really heavy. I had bruising to my face, back and leg, hurt for a while. Would have been worse if I'd not been wearing a backpack I think. All I could think about for a few days though was what if that had been a small child, an elderly person or someone's dog.
Yes, my 90-year old mother has a mobility chair. Luckily, it’s slower than her old scooter was and for some reason has slowed down. She has some dementia and has come close to hitting people and tipping over a curb. She broke her toes going too fast and slammed into a shelf. Fast being about 5 mph. So thanks for the reminder to watch for children when we are out.
Load More Replies...It wasn't particularly the texting. It was not looking up for 5 to 10 seconds.
27 & you were texting while driving? By that age you didn't know better?
You’d be surprised how many people of all ages text and drive. At least OP learned their lesson before something bad happened.
Load More Replies...An old friend totaled her car from texting. She was never a good driver, or very bright in general.
Why is it not illegal (like in the UK) to use your phone whilst driving?
USE your right to remain silent. Don’t be an idiot and yap.
"I invoke my right to a lawyer, I invoke my right to remain silent", then keep your trap shut. Engage with nothing, not even if the conversation sounds casual, it's not.
So many people think that a phrase like "I think I need a lawyer" will provide them protection. It won't. The request needs to be expressed as a clear and direct statement. Once you have requested a lawyer nothing you say can be legally used against you, but once the police have information they will stop at nothing to find evidence to back it up.
Load More Replies...Never ever talk to the police. They're there to arrest someone, not protect your rights. If you have information you absolutely must share, do it via a lawyer.
You don't even have to be 'in trouble' for this to be good advice. The Police and lawyers are professionals and understand the significance of what is happening - you aren't and probably don't. Have a lawyer advise you (even if you don't take their advice in the end).
And, their worldview can be skewed by all the real filth they wade through. Something you say that is innocent may be misconstrued.
Load More Replies...And there is no expectation of privacy in a squad car. There are cameras in those vehicles.
And there are cameras in those rooms. They're on and recording. And they can hear everything you say and that will also be used against you. Zip it.
You don't exactly have a right to remain silent in the UK... Or technically you do, "but it may harm your defence if you do not mention now something that you later rely on in court."
But you can mention stuff after you've spoken to a legal rep, but before you get to court. You just don't need to say anything in the street
Load More Replies...Key word right there ids "Idiot" alot of that around these days especially with everyone wanting to be Tiktok famous!!
I was in the ocean with my then wife. We'd gotten out to the sand bar, and were just chilling... she was on a beach raft sunning and I was just gently pushing us around. I had my back to the shore, and I saw something go by. it was sofa-sized, and it went by pretty fast. I had this immediate understanding of what was going on... I'm standing in chest deep water in prime shark attack territory. I said, "Hey, let's go in," and started pushing towards shore. it went by between us and the shore. then there were two of them. then three. we still had to cross the ditch, and I was realizing that we really might not make it.
but it turned out to be dolphins, not sharks.
I'm quite a bit more cautious in the ocean now.
People don't seem to understand that this their domain, not ours. I got news for you, the sharks have no problem with shallow water, that is a myth. Have a look at some aerial photos of some beaches some time, and you will see in some places where sharks are swimming right in between the beach goers, and they have no clue.
I have this article from two years ago bookmarked; it's pretty much exactly what you're saying, that we have this idea of some artificial boundary between Us and Nature, but the sharks were there first (before we crashed their populations), and now thanks to environmental protection efforts, rebounding populations will have to be balanced somehow with the popularity of swimming beaches. https://slate.com/technology/2022/09/shark-attacks-new-york-east-coast-reasons-science-risk.html
Load More Replies...Sharks don't immediately swim at you with a "let me eat you" mentality. It's more "what are you". They see the shapes of boats and surfboards from below and if this overlaps with shapes they categorize as "food" they tend to get closer to investigate. Dolphins on the other hand are not always as harmless as they are made out to be. They shove other fish around to play with them like toys - and they do the same to humans, which can be really dangerous.
Theyre also rather notorious for trying to take the odd finger as a snack..
Load More Replies...This. This right here is why I don't swim in the ocean, thanks to the discovery and animal planet channels. There are too many things in there that can and will kill you.
Just finished my watch list from this year's Shark Week. Lots of tagging Great Whites this year; even on TV they're awe-inspiring animals, and yeah, it's definitely a reminder that a person is not even close to the top of the food chain in the ocean.
Load More Replies...You are more likely to die from a vending machine falling on you, than you are from a shark attack.... Sharks aren't really as bad as "Jaws" have made them out to be.
Most of us pass vending machines daily...only a few go in the ocean. Falling out of bed is indeed more likely to kill you ..like 8 billion / amount of ocean goers - times....but here's the deal...you multiply that same amount with your chances once you actually step into that water...
Load More Replies...Or swim after doing the deed or when Aunt Flo is visiting. The pheromones attract sharks.
Load More Replies...Depending on the type of dolphin they can get a lot bigger than people think. Bottlenose are over 2m long, that's longer than our sofa.
Load More Replies...dolphins will bite also I have read, they are all wild animals and we are in their stomping grounds when we play in the water
Me too. Unless something is distinctly "food shaped" (boats, surfboards etc) or you are bleeding out into the water, sharks usually stay away from people. Dolphins on the other hand are super nosy and like to push around and play with whatever they are interested in.
Load More Replies...Geez, i was genuinely panicking for OP...until the reveal. But that whole scenario is scary AF. Nope.
Private student loans. No Ivy is worth it. Take the spot that offers you the most funding. Undergrad, grad and professional.
The interest should be illegal and the terms are insane.
For some, even death doesn’t release you from the obligation. Permanent disability? They don’t care.
Just don’t do it….
It is beyond wrong that higher education in some countries is so expensive.
*shrug* Maybe the US will learn something when all their infrastructure and other things that depend on taxes go belly up. I mean, generally a college job will get a person a higher salary which means higher taxes collected for the state, county, and country. With fewer and fewer high paid people in a state and county, that means less and less taxes collected at a base level for the community and also less spending money for people to support community businesses.
Load More Replies...In Switzerland where I live, we have some of the best universities in Europe, even the world in certain fields. The price is between $1,000 and $1,600 per year, which is within anyone's reach.
That sounds amazing! Here in my part of the US, it's $20,000 - $30,000 a year and that's not even one of the expensive schools! And it doesn't include the cost of books (easily $2000 per year). Plus there are almost no scholarships for a masters degree, which can cost up to $2000 per class depending on the degree. I didn't realize until it was too late that going to college was going to mean being stuck with a high intetest loan until well after my 100th birthday.
Load More Replies...Education should be free, this is not a gift or charity, it should be a right for everyone. Higher education is not only for getting a moneymaker career, it's an important part of individual and collective development in society. To know more and different things, to develop critical thinking and to be an active and participative citizen.
Actually, in the US, if you are on permanent disability, SSDI, you can apply for student loan forgiveness. There are certain terms you need to agree to, such as you will not apply for any other student loan, or if you do, you will then have to pay back the forgiveness, or you won't go back to work full-time, but again, if you do, you have to pay back the forgiveness. I had about $70K in loans from Grad School when I became permanently disabled (only 3 years after I finished Grad School). I got it all forgiven, free and clear. That was 13 years ago, and I've never gotten a single letter or phone call about them. I encourage everyone in the USA who is disabled and has student loans to look into this!
All very true, but if you take this route be prepared for the government to take their share IMMEDIATELY! You will be taxed on the amount forgiven as if it were a gift. Approximately 5% of the amount will be due in April with your taxes. And they do not take a payment plan.
Load More Replies...also consider your future salary versus the loan amount. it's not worth going to a school that will cost $300,000 by the time you graduate to be a middle school teacher.
Well, I knew not to f**k around with it, but Covid kicked my a*s so hard I went from climbing and 6 mile hikes with a kid on my back to walking with a cane. Additionally I have cognitive problems, ended up with a stent for kidney stones for 2(!) months so now I might have some internal scarring, made my asthma SO much worse and because of exercise intolerance I developed type 2 diabetes.
Good news is, I'm a mother fracking cockroach so after 3 years I'm slowly kicking it's a*s.
Good lord, I hope you are nearly recovered now. I have got covid for the fourth time just now (most people with little kids have had it at least twice; my husband has still yet to get it!). So far, it's been fine. But I totally understand that I am one of the lucky ones, as my sister was hospitalised with it and other friends have been hit with long Covid. It's a trickster.
I had it for a month & it kicked my a*s physically. Fortunately, I had no really serious effects.
Load More Replies...I am loving the statement of "I'm a mother fracking cockroach"! That is how I feel. Several years with long covid. I keep figuring out more and more things that help me. Every time I the depression creeps in on a bad day/week and tells me I am now useless, I remind myself of how far I have come.
I cheer you on on your long way to recovery fellow panda❤️🩹. I’m dealing with fatigue since I got Covid in early 2020 and just very slowly I’m improving my stamina to do simple chores. Just recently I managed to go shopping for a short time. Just last year I was unable to empty the dishwasher in one take. 🙂
Load More Replies...I had covid February 2023. I went from being active to barely being able to do housework without breathing being hard and my heart racing. The cardiologist said it is either long-covid or POTS, but my insurance ran out before I could get the tests I need done, so just having to deal with whatever it is for now till I get insurance again. I also avoid stairs as much as possible because I have to take a break after walking up them. F**k covid and anyone who thinks it wasn't serious. It sucks. I can't go outside and play with my kid anymore because I get to tired and out of breath and feel like my heart is going to beat out of my chest.
And many in America still believe COVID was a Democratic fake story! Like all those millions of people who died in the first wave were fake news. Or just because most who died were elderly that somehow made the virus not important to get the vaccine?
I had similar experience, I was healthy, caught Covid and spend next two months in hospital, and next two years using crutches.I was pretty horrified when my doctor showed me rtg of my lungs with covid, full of white spots. No wonder I couldn't breathe.
My husband died from Covid / Covid jab, he was 38 and fit and healthy, I fully blame Astra Zenica and the uk government forcing key workers to have the jab knowing it wasn’t safe for people under 40
I'm so sorry for your loss. It must be heartbreaking that your husband was the 1 in over a million who had a fatal reaction. I sympathise as our son is a 1 in 500 million case of a rare generic disorder, so in case anyone thought I was being sarcastic, no, I'm not.
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In ground yellow jackets.
Pay the dude with the bee suit and the right s**t to kill them safely.
It is easy to critizise the pictures, until you realise that the poster has to find pictures to every one of these. For our entertaimnent and no profit
Load More Replies...When I was five my friend and I found a hole in the ground and thought 'let's stick a garden hose in that and turn it on' We were very lucky we could run back to his house and get inside, we did get stung a lot though. God we were dumb
And equally lucky you weren't allergic to insect venom.
Load More Replies...I became aware of ground dwelling yellow jackets while weeding the garden. I really cheesed them off by pulling the roof off their home . I'm sure my neighbors were surprised to see this 55yo, overweight woman running full speed down the driveway screaming as my husband chased me with a broom to brush them off.
Once again I am thankful for how docile and almost friendly our local wasps are here in Germany. They basically just look. They get very close to you, but they are not aggressive. Once my family had breakfast outside and several wasps flew around the food. To have peace while eating, we put a few tiny pieces of bacon on an extra plate away from the rest of the food - and the wasps went for it, cut the bacon into even tinier pieces (they really worked hard on that) and flew off with it. It was almost cute to watch them try to fly off with the bigger pieces at first but drop back down from the weight xD
Protein in the early summer, sugar in the late summer. That's what wasps go for, and what will work as lures. I'm glad you have peaceful wasps. I have a phobia that I've been working on all my life and it makes late summer very difficult for me. So far, this summer doesn't seem too bad so maybe progress is finally being made!
Load More Replies...One time lived out in the country. Had a push mower at the time. I was mowing my lawn. Didn't know there was a yellow jacket hive in the ground. Ran over the hive. They came out after me. Got stung. After that when I would mow that area, I would do it real fast. After 3 or 4 times I think I destroyed them because I didn't have any more problems with them.
I did the same thing, and got stung many times. I'm not ashamed to say I ran away shrieking like a little girl.
Load More Replies...My husbands aunt lives on a road in the country at the end of which is a ground wasp nest in the middle of a wild blueberry patch. She always reminds people not to step on the nest when they’re picking blueberries. And they’re the best damn blueberries I’ve ever eaten. 1 for the basket, 3 for me
Wasps are a$sholes! If you really wanna mess around, do it right. Wait until dusk when they're all in the nest. Get one of those wasp killer sprays that have like, a 14 foot range. Have an escape route planned. Spray that nest down from like 10 feet away and soak that sucker. Run immediately! Next day, I checked and no wasps. Bagged hive and removed it.
It's a lot easier to get lost in the woods than you think. I wandered away from our campsite a little tipsy because I love looking for mushrooms. I kept going in just a little further until one time when I looked back I couldn't see my wife and friend back at the site. A few big steps to the left to reorient myself, wait... maybe a few steps over in this direction… Oh s**t.
I yelled for help but the sound doesn't carry. The sun was just setting when I went in but it gets dark a lot faster in the thick of the forest. I panicked. I ran. I cursed at myself. I yelled for help over and over. I tried to stay calm but also decided to keep moving because it was getting dark and cold and I knew I was in very deep s**t if I didn't get out before nightfall. I spent about an hour and a half totally lost, the longest 90 minutes of my life. Finally, I heard a truck rumbling in the distance and sprinted towards it. I almost cried when I saw the clearing and popped out on a gravel road 3 km west of our campsite. Looking at a map after, had I gone any other direction it was just forest with no end in sight. My wife and friend said they went in to the forest yelling my name, of course I was probably too far at that point and heard nothing. I don't know what would've happened if that truck hadn't been going for a late evening drive along the service road. I thought I was going to die.
It's pretty hard to stay put in such circumstances, but I understand why it's advised, especially in very big foresty regions. In germany it's likley to find civilisation in every direction... US not so much. x.x A very true horrostory to get lost in the woods.
Look up Geraldine Largay. She was an experienced hiker, doing the Appalachian Trail. She leaves the trail and goes into the woods to go to the bathroom, gets disoriented and disappears. They found her body in her tent months later. Terrifying.
When I was like 7 I got lost in the woods while camping and in all of my hatchet and my side of the mountain glory I just decided to build a lean to. Thankfully my dad found me in a half hour but I was absolutely certain that I'd spend the rest of my life in the woods and I was perfectly chill with that. My dad was not chill about my plan.
When I was a kid, my brother and I were hiking through the woods at a state park. We decided to turn back, but I wasn't sure we would find the way back to where the picnic area. He insisted he would get us back ok I wasn't sure, but I saw wires above us, so I just wanted to follow them straight up to the top, where there were buildings, and thus people. I got back quite quickly. My parents asked where my brother was,, he got back a long time after I did. I followed signs of human activity in a straight line, and never left a well-marked trail again.
Also, if you have a compass with you, TRUST it. I got turned around in the Northern Alberta wilderness and thought I knew the way back but the compass disagreed with me. I spent the next 90 minutes going the way I thought was right before smacking myself and trusting the compass. It was only 60 minutes going the right way going back to camp from there.
I'm (64f) a former Search and Rescue K9 handler. We went to schools and taught the class Hug-A-Tree-And-Survive. 2 things to carry when outdoors in a wilderness area. A whistle and a large lawn and leaf trash bag. Whistles are louder than voices and the trash bag makes a good rain poncho and or sleeping bag for emergencies. And do not stay near flowing water. The sound will drown out the rescuer's calls and the sound of engines.
didn't go into the woods tipsy. (that's also probably a bad time to be looking for mushrooms as well )
Story from the local newspaper Thunder Bay ONT 1975: man and wife out picking berries in the forest. She looks up and he's GONE. She calls, she sounds the car horn - nothing. She tied a scarf to a bush and drove off in search of help. By this time - it's late fall - it's too late to search or put a chopper up. First light the chopper goes up and the search party arrives. Pilot sees a thin pencil of smoke rising and directs the search party. The husband had seen some lovely berries over there, more over there and . . before he knew it he was lost. Heard the car horn but couldn't figure out which direction to walk. So he hunkered down in the shelter of a rock and a fallen tree, made a fire and ate the berries. He ended up walking over a mile and a half through thick forest away from the track where the car was parked. The lessons learned were 1 - don't do it 2 - if you do then stay put 3 - carry fire lighting equipment (be careful) 4 - carry a loud whistle 5 - did we say don't do it?
Inverted Storm Surge.
This happens as a hurricane approaches a coastline. If you search, you'll find pictures of people walking around in shallow, empty stretches of beach. The storm gets close enough and the low pressure within the eye basically sucks up millions of gallons, pulling it away from shore. It can go for miles sometimes, depending on the strength.
Anyway, that water comes back. With prejudice.
I grew up on the Alabama Gulf Coast. Walked down to the beach as a hurricane was approaching. I was in middle school, and had no idea you couldn't "see" a hurricane the same way you can a tornado. Anyway, the beach was drained entirely. Not knowing any better, I walked out to the end of the public fishing pier that would normally be about 8-9 feet deep. A few minutes passed, I was satisfied with this excursion, so I turned around. About 2/3rds of the way back to the shore, I felt the ground rumble, and I instinctively hauled a*s as fast as I could. I'd say I finally got to about 20 feet from a jetty (rocks piled up to mitigate erosion) and got hit from behind by a wall of water. It actually carried me up and onto the very top of the jetty, and slammed me down. I could feel that my sandals left my feet, and by pure luck, they floated up and gently settled right by my hands where I was holding on to the rocks. The water receded slightly, enough for me to get over the jetty and away from the beach. I was so embarrassed that I never told my mom about it, and snuck into my house to get a shower and changed.
Fast forward to 2017 when I was living on the Florida Gulf Coast, a bunch of people walked down into Tampa Bay right as Hurricane Irma was rolling in. I legit got anxiety watching the footage from the local TV station. Needless to say, I've never gone anywhere near the water ahead of a hurricane again.
BP's "guesses" at what is a relevant photo is terrible.
Load More Replies...If you ever see the ocean recede like this, hurricane or not, RUN. This also happens right before a tsunami.
Yeah. I hadn't heard of inverted storm surge before, but I would be running from the tsunami.
Load More Replies...I hate to admit this, but some people from the West Coast are a little dumb when it comes to tornadoes and hurricanes. (Myself included.) But at least I know enough to haul it when the weather turns nasty. I can't believe that some people see them as spectator events.
Californian here. First time at an East Coast beach (Nags Head, NC) my dumb self and my dumb brother walking on the beach during a thunderstorm. We were in our 20s. Ive lived in Georgia now for 25 years now and it still blows me away we didn't know that was a bad idea.
Load More Replies...Hurricanes actually can and do cause tornados, I forget which side but one side of the hurricane is prone to lots of tornados varying in size and intensity.
Indeed. They most often produce short-lived tornadoes in the front-right quadrant. Happened in NC recently during Tropical Storm Debbie, which sadly ended a man's life.
Load More Replies...Like the comedian said; "It's not that the wind is blowing", but it's "What" the wind is blowing that will kill you!! It amazes me all the people on a beach while a bad storm is closing in!!
I’m very curious as to what non-lawyers think “with prejudice” means. Do you think it means like “angrily” or something?
If an older man has a "saddle nose deformity" or cauliflower ears, let them be. A saddle nose deformity nose is also called a "boxer's nose".
An old man with training will f*****g kill you. That's how they got to be old.
How about just don’t pick fights with people full stop?
Cauliform ear is linked to physical trauma, but the saddle nose can be caused by many other conditions. For example, a saddle nose can be caused by infections like leprosy and syphilis (not to mention covid, though very rarely) and the autoimmune disease relapsing polychondritis.
The kind of people who would heed that warning don't NEED that warning, IMO.
This reads like "pick your victims with care, bully only those DEFINITELY weaker than yourself".
Nah - I'd love those "alphas" to pick a fight with Cauliflower-Ear Jack or ole Tom Saddle Nose.
Load More Replies... Pitbulls.
My family has always had and loved dogs. Thought the breed was fine and just got a bad rep.
My dad brought a puppy home, we had her for 6 years. Loved her, house trained, no behavior issues, we thought.
Came home one day and she had killed our old boxer, who had been with her everyday that we had her and also was so old she had no teeth, and was chewing on her severed leg like a chicken bone.
Never again. And it makes me want to puke when people have their children crawling around with these dogs.
There's been a lot of reports of XL pitbull attacks and deaths of children and elderly people in the UK. I understand that any dog can turn on a dime, but will never get why people would buy breeds that are/were specifically bred for dog fighting.
I 100% agree with the OP and Boo. It's all about the risk. If it's your own life you're risking, than sure, get a pit. But do not risk kids/neighbors/delivery workers etc. when the statistics show a definite trend. (Will not change my mind -- my stepdaughters's head was filleted by her mom's "docile" pit. Just stitches in her scalp, and she's not traumatized for life, but could have been so much worse...)
Load More Replies...People saying any dog breed can do that, this is not true. It is rare for a dog to kill another dog or attack humans. Pitbulls are notorious for killing other dogs. It is bred into them as they are fighting dogs. Do not ignore this. If you are one of those saying your pitbull is ok because you trained it well, you are delusional.
Pit bulls are involved in about 50% of all dog bite/attack incidents in the USA yearly. The numbers don't lie, yes there are really bad owners out there, but u must also remember that the way these dogs bite is not the same as other dogs and cause massive damage. It is not worth the risk.
Yup. These dogs are overbred. I am so pro euthanasia on this. I know of one who did the same to a lab who was an old friend of the dog.
I was the victim of an unprovoked pitbull attack when I was in second grade and I am with you 100%
Load More Replies...To all those saying it can happen with any breed - you are, of course, correct. But the difference is in the power and weight of pitbull breeds. All you have to do is look at the statistics for fatal bites and these breeds consistently outstrip others by a country mile. Do I think well-trained pitbulls can be great companions? Absolutely. But no one apart from the owner can know if their pitbull is well trained (and owners are likely to overestimate their training abilities), and that's the problem when pitbulls are out and about anyway.
Agree. There's just so many dogs that are far less risky. Why get breeds of dog that were specifically bred to fight and attack? Like when's the last time you heard someone killed by a cocker spaniel or Yorkie? Just not worth the risk.
The most especially dangerous thing about a pit bull is its PSI in the bite. It bites with WAY more force than any other breed. I've worked with dogs for 20 years and yes I know there are some sweet pits but a breed I would never trust!
Nope ... that is false. The Rottweiler has the top bite force.
Load More Replies...Thankfully these dogs are now banned in the UK. If you do own one it has to be registered, chipped, leashed and muzzled when out in public. Breeding too is banned.
Tens of thousands of innocent animals were destroyed because of this rushed ban. It won't prevent anyone from getting a powerful dog, they'll just move on to the next breed on the list. Vets were overwhelmed with having to euthanize perfectly healthy animals, including entire litters of pups. Since he passing of the Dangerous Dogs Acts around 30 years ago - which is when breed specific legislation was first introduced in the UK - the rate of dog attacks and fatalities has risen year on year. So it clearly isn't working. Not only that, but these dogs now have no chance at normal socialisation or play, so are likely to become frustrated, anxious and fearful, and there's a much higher chance of them reacting aggressively or lashing out as a consequence.
Load More Replies...I concur. It's not a problem until it is. I got 49 stitches saving my neighbor from her pit bull who attacked her after killing their shepherd mix. It's just too much of a risk.
Overwork and exhaustion can be a potential killer.
When I was in my late teens I spent a few years working 80-100 hours per week. I found out that at a certain point, your body just... stops.
I woke up in a hospital bed and it took me 6 months before I started to feel semi-normal again.
Yep, definitely this. I remember in the early 2000's I had two jobs and was working 7 days a week, with only a couple of afternoons as breaks, that I used to do housework/shopping etc. After only six months of this, I was driving my wife to Coles to do some shopping, as they were open late. I remember trying to park and not being able to, as I could no longer see the road, I was just so tired. No one thanks you for working that hard - there is no reward. Just DON'T do it
Spent a decade doing it just trying to get by financially. Ended up with a pulmonary embolism and triple heart attack at age 34 and permanent disability
When you ate you g you think you can do it all. You think you are invincible. But your body will eventually say no, I am shutting down and you have no say over it.
As a child i learned, Geese are the crowned prince of a******s of the bird world .
Up here in the Great White North, we call Canada Geese "Cobra Chickens". Like winged anger on steroids.
My parents used to live across from a pond and one of the geese basically adopted my dad. It would come up on the porch and look in the window for him. Sometimes when he'd mow the lawn it would follow him up and down. It was pretty cool. I've also always had good experiences with geese so I have a soft spot for them.
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Pedestrian safety. Was hit by a car crossing the street. After cpr onsite and coma in hospital had to learn to walk and talk all over again. I triple check both ways. Even when I have the right of way.
In the UK 1970s we children were taught by The Green Cross Code Man, to "look right, look left, look right again!" And "stop, look, listen, think!" - by non other than Darth Vader! (David Prose). Edited for wrong way round🤦
I thought in the UK you had to look right first (and last)?
Load More Replies...I don't step onto a pedestrian crossing until the cars have actually stopped. I don't expect everyone to either know or obey the rules of the road, or even be aware of their surroundings
Ditto. Same reason why I don't drive. There are too many hot heads that have terrible emotional control (including anger).
Load More Replies...I recall when I got hit by a car on a pedestrian crossing, the vehicle illegally went around another vehicle that had stopped at the crossing to let me over, luckily it was going slow enough that I only got bruises. The response that I got afterwards...man, everything but actually listening to what happened. "We're you looking" Well yes, but it passed on the opposite side of the road illegally, I didn't stop in the middle of the road to check if someone was illegally passing. "But that road has tons of zebra crossings" I know, I was hit on one. "You should have seen and heard it coming" I probably would have if the vehicle that had stopped for me wasn't a lorry, I don't have x-ray vision. Do everything right, still get hit, and you get a heckton of victim blaming.
What the actual....?! YOU got hit by a car while in the crosswalk, and YOU got blamed for it?!
Load More Replies...pedestrians and bicyclists who don't exercise caution boggle my mind. just because you have the right of way doesn't mean you'll win.
I was hit by a car crossing the street. Fortunately it was very slow, but I was pounding on this old guys hood before he finally saw me. Some people should not have a license
Yep same here! A car didn't stop at a stop sign and hit us into a farmers field I had a fractured pelvis and couldn't move! Especially when I wanted to get out and hurt the person who did it! I had 3 kids in the car! My son! My baby daughter and a baby in my belly! Part of my driving was to look up ahead and scan my speed, mirrors all within a couple seconds! I noticed the car coming from the right wasn't stopping and so did my son! He said there not stopping!!! and I will forever hear him saying that and the sounds of the car hitting us going over 80km!!! The next time I drove I went around the corner maybe 10 seconds and had a 30 mins anxiety attack!!! I still don't drive and if I'm in a car I don't look out the window!! When we stopped I was pissed and just wanted to kill someone so kept trying to get out! Anyways my point was when I go to cross the road I'll press the arrow to lbutton and
I'll press the button! Wait until then the guy comes up then check to make sure all the cars have stopped and check again while I'm walking to make sure no one is coming!
Load More Replies...I saw a video from Ontario, where a pedestrian was crossing the street. A truck ran the red light, while the pedestrian was still in the crosswalk. What happened next defies explanation. He didn't run or was pushed out of the way. He JUMPED out of the way, then had to jump out of the way of the car that the truck hit. Had he been in Australia, they would have made him an honorary 'roo. His guardian angel probably took the week off.
People are such bad drivers these days I look both ways before crossing a one-way street.
Road rage, I was chased by a guy threatening me to shoot me, that was the last time I yelled at somebody while driving.
I try to avoid clipping people off our telling at other drivers, mainly because I always think they could be the person interviewing me for a job one day or end up being my daughter's teacher or something. Lol.
I avoid it because everyone and their brother carries a gun anymore.
Load More Replies...Oi I took my turn at a 4 way stop sign once & some guy who wanted to run it but couldn't because I was already halfway through the intersection went mental on me & road raged. Started following me, fortunately I was on my way home, we live waaaaaay out in the country with no close neighbors, & my husband was home & a believer in the 2nd amendment. That dumbarse followed me all the way home, I called my husband & he was waiting at the edge of our property with his rifle. We held him for the sheriff & lol he was crying & begging us to let him go towards the end because this would be his 3rd strike. Fk that. But anyway sometimes people will rage on you for no reason at all
I know it sounds silly, but I recommend a rubber chicken. Whenever I feel like road raging, I grab the chicken and shake it at the offending driver. It releases stress and frustration and stops you from making rude gestures that could get you in trouble.
Horn on my car had broken the previous day and I had a women cut me off in a merge section. Flipped her off and went on to the next light. A different car pulls up beside me and this guy is yelling "Why did you flip off my girlfriend?" I responded "Horn's broke", he nodded and went on his way...
Just don't even make eye contact with other drivers unless necessary. Too many nutjobs out there that are one twitch away from crazy and you have no idea what will set them off.
My husband tried to get road rage with people while the kids and I are in the car and it makes me so angry. I shut that s**t down. It is usually someone that cuts him off. Oh you mean the nothing that happened except you had to apply your brakes a wee bit, get real. He will say what are they gonna do? Shoot at us. Uh, ya maybe they will babe.
So true - you don’t know what kind of person is in that car next to you. I did a silly thing once: a car cut me off, but then ended up right next to me a few metres further down at the traffic lights. I was singing and being silly with my kids, at the time, and faced the driver and made a silly face in her direction as I sang along to the song (no swearing, middle fingers, waving my fists - just a silly face).This woman then followed me for the next half hour tailgating me, going right in front of me and break checking me, throwing things at my car, swerving into my lane - it was terrifying and I wasn’t able to get away. Never again.
I ask myself rhetorical questions. "Why did that idiot do that?" No temper.
The same with giving someone the finger now. You don't know if they Have a gun or not..
Don't f**k with the ocean, I got swept away by a wave while stupidly sitting on a rock too close to the water. I thought I was a goner and never to be found again but then it got tired of me and thew me back towards some rocks like a used intimate hygiene tissue.
I won't go any further than my ankles into the ocean. It took one bad experience, courtesy of my brother, never again.
Every year people in our region die cuz they try to go swimming in the river during spring runoff. Just cuz it is hot enough to go swimming does not mean the water is safe for it.
Same experience with a riptide. One minute I was on my back floating near the shore, the next I was almost a kilometre away. Good thing I knew what to do.
Please add the solution next time - swim parallel to the shore until you're out of the tide, then head for shore on an angle. : https://www.businessinsider.com/what-to-do-rip-current-how-escape-survive?op=1
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Shared housing with people you've just met. I did it out of necessity for many years, now that I have my own place I finally feel free.
Yep, I’m lucky enough to have my own apartment now but I’ve shared before and honestly hated it. There was always tension over something, whether it was dishes or cleanliness or bills. I didn’t have the best roommates I guess. Much happier with me and two cats (although they suck at paying bills and doing dishes too. I forgive them cause they’re cute.)
Yeah, but sharing a house with people you know could easily end up as people you severely dislike.
I was just about to post that - living with friends can be the fastest way to make them ex-friends.
Load More Replies...Finally, at 63, I moved into my own apartment. No piles of dishes, no loud music blasting through the walls, no double standards. The cabinets and refrigerator are stocked with the foods I like to eat, without worrying about if it will still be there when I want it. My belongings are safe. This is living.
When I was 19, I moved to another state 500 miles from home to an apartment I'd never seen and a roommate I'd never met. My friend had found the apartment for me and off I went. I met some of the best people living in that apartment. A couple of which I'm still friends with today. That was 1999.
So far I’ve been lucky in my housing. Never knew either before living together, but the most tension is my cat and her dog getting along 😅
Chainsaws.
I don’t even like the sound anymore.
I had an accident with one and cut up my leg.
My dad almost cut off his thumb with a chainsaw and just casually walked into the bathroom, held it underwater (wrong thing to do, I know) and silently called for my mother. I was still a kid, but to this day I remember how scared he sounded.
Not quite the same, just dad stuff, when I was 12 I was helping dad put up roof trim when he attached his left hand to our garage..he calmly backed the (2in.) drill bit out of his thumb/hand webbing and told me to go in and get the stiptic pencil..he needed stitches probably
Load More Replies...A neighbour helped me use a chainsaw to cut down a tree near his fence. I was kitted out in safety mask, safety shoes, thick jacket etc. He was in shorts and T-shirt. Nope mate, you take that risk, I'm not
And to think that chainsaws were invented to assist with childbirth ............ yikes
Yup. If you're interested you can read about it here: https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/medical/why-were-chainsaws-invented-doctors-used-them-to-help-with-childbirth/ar-AA1oJUb2
Load More Replies...Chainsaw Chaps are your friend. $100+/- is a LOT cheaper than a medical bill to put your leg back together.
I saw these on This Old House and was amazed. Absolutely agree anyone who uses a chainsaw should have them.
Load More Replies...Dad chipped his shin bone with the chainsaw when fencing. Couldn't be bothered jumping the fence to the other side so just used the back of the blade. It kicked back.He spent 2 days in hospital because they were worried he would get a bone infection. He insisted on having a shower before going to hospital.
When I was young and very stupid, I would start a chain saw with a 36in bar by lifting it and dropping it while holding the pull cord; it would start right up and the chain would start up so I had to turn slightly to keep the chain from cutting my leg. I was training to be a feller and did not like bending over the saw. Didn't damage myself or any one else but damn I was stupid back then
My dad worked for the city here in Colorado for 39 years and he was in a high ranger doing tree work after a big storm. Seen his truck pull in the drive way very early from when he usually got home from work. He walked in with his jeans cut into shorts amd he ended up almost taking his leg off with a chainsaw. He had I believe like 100 stitches and my dad being who he is wasn't even concerned about the injury he was so mad he wore his favorite jeans to work that day lol that's all he was worried about.
My uncle was cutting trees on his property, he put the chainsaw down on the ground and somehow tripped and fell onto it. He put his hand out to stop himself and the saw lacerated his hand so bad he almost lost it. He recovered fine, but he was very lucky he wasn't hurt worse!
Dehydration and overheating. Being covered in ice in an ambulance and pissing black pee will change your perspective.
Edit: one thing I have never really explained to anyone is how big of a personal victory it was for me when I regained the ability to workout hard and push myself. the experience i described below took a huge amount of recovery physically and psychologically and when I got back to a healthy state of going hard, not being afraid of my heart getting up into the cardio zones, etc. was like regrowing a cutoff limb and wining the lottery and coming back from the darkest inner fears and I don't know if I could ever communicate how big a deal it was for me.
I get real worried about my husband getting long term damage from exposure to high heat at work. He is an underground driller and temps reach up to 145 degrees. They ventilate the shafts but it is still way too hot for the human body. He rarely complains but I worry everyday.
I've never gotten over the 1 time I got close to heat stroke.I have very little tolerance to getting too not. It takes me a day to recover and I feel like total c**p the whole time.
Sleep deprivation.
Damn near died in a car accident (round 1), then went mildly psychotic and paranoid (round 2).
Just dumb. There are better paths to adrenaline-fueled euphoria.
Experienced this during menopause and the doctors wouldn't help me! I was actually hallucinating and vomitting from lack of sleep!
I never knew that menopause-related insomnia was a thing until this year when it hit me. So grateful for friends who pointed it out and for meds and the NHS.
Load More Replies...Insomnia is no joke. Went through this for ~5 months during one of the rounds of long covid. You stop feeling like you are in the world. You forget everything (lots of post-it notes reminding me to do things like take out the trash and take a shower). I almost ran a red light because my brain told me it was a stop sign.
Medical concerns.
That bump on my testicle I just wanted to ignore? I didn't. And it was a tumor that I caught early.
The terrible pain in my abdomen causing me to throw up even though I didn't have any food in me? I didn't wait for it to go away. I went to an urgent care clinic and they sent me to an ER where they found that my appendix was necrotic and ready to burst.
Ignoring medical warning signs and waiting for them to pass is not being "tough". Get yourself checked out.
The hardest thing is when doctors don't believe you. Medical gaslighting is a thing. Trust your gut, people.
Especially for women. It's either PMS, stress, anxiety, or depression. Cause Goddess forbid, we can't have REAL medical problems. I got told for YEARS that my massive cramps and severe blood loss during my period was normal.. turns out I have endometriosis.
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Load More Replies...I had a collapsed lung years ago. It took me about a week of being in so much pain and breathing troubles for someone insisted I go to emergency room. I had pulled a muscle stretching. That was when the pain started, so once I was told what it was, I was feeling so stupid for putting up with the pain for so long. My recovery took longer than it would have if I hadn't waited so long..
GHB. No hangover! Makes you more social! Like booze but better! Like Molly but better! No calories! You feel great about yourself! You are more empathetic! You can score it for super cheap! You never have to feel bad again! You can use it to manage your sleep! You can use it to manage everything you don’t like! You can do it every day and feel great! You can use it to sleep because you can’t anymore because you’re so addicted! You can use it 24/7 so that you don’t go into DT’s! You can use it after you have a seizure from doing it so much! You can use it to forget about that fact that you ended up in a hospital because of it! You can use it to forget about that fact that no one wants to hang out with you anymore because you’re high key crazy and out of control! You can use it to try to end your life because you ruined it by doing g constantly! You can detox and have the worst few weeks of your life and still crave it! You can spend 4 years in treatment and recovery and have to completely rebuild your life from scratch and still crave it all these years later! You can go through your life sober for years but knowing that if you ever have another drop of it you will binge until you’re very shortly thereafter dead! Are we still having fun?
That was a wonderfully worded psa against d**g use. Congrats on sobriety. Keep it up.
Gamma-Hydroxybutyric acid, a naturally occurring neurotransmitter and a depressant d**g.
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Taking sleep meds (ambian) and laxatives (myralax) within the same 24hrs. What a nightmare!
Sorry but this one made me laugh. I imagine the nightmare started when you woke up.
It started when they *didn't* wake up. It just took a bit longer for them to find out!
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Appendixes!!
My mother thought it was just stomach cramps. She holed herself up for days until finally my dad begged her to go to the doctor. They told her if she hadn’t listened to him and waited one more day it could have killed her.
A year or so later mine burst while stretching so I thought it was just a pulled muscle. I waited over a week before going to the ER. They said the ONLY reason I didn’t die was because by some miraculous event that they had never witnessed before, my body sent a swarm of white blood cells to form a ball around the pus. I should have been dead and I was only 13 years old.
This happened to me, too. My parents didn't believe me - I had appendicitis for a year. It burst while I was watching Neighbours aged 10. Incredible pain, blacking out pain. I begged the doctors to cut me open to have a look and find what looked wrong because they weren't sure. Had sepsis afterwards and very nearly died. Luckily, a specialist surgeon flew back from visiting family in Greece to operate first thing after a child who was badly injured in a car accident was moved to a different hospital - Christmas 1991. Thank you, Greek surgeon. And I hope to god that the child from the car accident made a full recovery.
"My parents didn't believe me" - wait, what?!? How could they not believe you? What child fakes such a pain, for such a long time? Sorry you went through this :(
Load More Replies...A friend's daughter was complaining about stomach pains, but commonly had tummy aches, so her mom didn't think anything of it. But three days later it was still going on, so they went to the hospital and found her appendix had ruptured and he immune system did roughly the same thing. Her mother was so surprised and sorry that she didn't believe her daughter at first.
Got that beat. 2012, presented at the ER with self-diagnosed appendicitis. (I was an EMT. Doctor was impressed, actually.) But during surgery to remove it, they found a golf-ball sized tumor that was Stage III colon cancer. Formed atop my appendix and blocked it, prompting the appendicitis. Took out a third of my colon during the procedure, but "surgically cured" it. Still did six months of chemo. Twelve years later, still clean!
That's not really a miracle, it's a walled-off abscess with fibrous tissue around the pus. Not uncommon.
Thinking you can skip the bathroom before you leave the restaurant for an hour drive home because “I can hold it” 🥸.
Especially if you forgot to take your lactase pills and consumed dairy. Just to share some humiliation, it happened on Halloween. I waited in my car until all of the Trick-or-Treating was done. I'm just at least glad that I had the presence of mind to cover my seat with a waterproof rain coat, so that my car seat did not suffer consequenses.
Similarly, not using the bathroom before leaving the house because "you didn't have to go then".
Every time I leave the house, I say "hang on, gotta pee." I swear that's gonna be on my headstone.
Always have a preventative wee. The tablespoon you eject before you leave might be the tablespoon that breaks the camel's bladder in half an hour.
Wasp nest. They're not chill like bees. They are very aggressive and will attack you and they don't die when they sting you they just keep stinging, and it feels like getting hit with a red hot spike.
Bees are very chill as long as you leave them alone.
Load More Replies...They're a******* with wings. Hit a dead stump with a weed whacker, home to wasps. Got stung four times on the ankle, twice on one elbow, another on the left. Luckily, wife tells me I have a high pain threshold and no allergy. That many stings could be VERY not-good to a normal person.
Yup. I used to line dry all my laundry. A wasp got into a pair of jeans. My hip took the first strike, and I had 5 or 6 subsequent stings down my leg as I hurriedly got the jeans off. Then I had to fight the thing off as it buzzed around me. It was 40 years ago and the memory is still vivid. Don't mess with wasps or hornets.
Note to self: don't hang laundry outside. Use basement or bathroom.
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Paying my taxes. Worked for myself through college and didn't have a penny to spare so I just didn't file for three years figuring I'd pay it off when I was done and working.
Ironically, my first job after graduating was for the state tax and rev dept. They figured it out lickety split and gave me a month to make good. Paid some pretty serious interest and penalties and learned to never do that again.
It seems so crazy to me that you have to work out what you owe and pay it yourself. In the UK, tax is taken from our wages and self-employed people are given very strict rules. In the US, people are expected to calculate the tax the owe before they are considered old enough to drink alcohol.
In the US, taxes are taken from your paycheck through the employer. I don't know where you got the idea this isn't the way it is. Once a year, we file income taxes using forms provided by the employer.
Load More Replies...Only two things are inevitable, death and taxes. (Unless you have a good accountant, it is always the little man they go after).
Weathermen.
Heard one on TV say, "If you're within the sound of my voice, get to your tornado place NOW!"
I was a little jaded due to the many times I'd heard this before. Still, I told my son to get in the hallway then went outside to get our Beagles. And I saw the f*****g thing. A 400m wide F4 coming down our road. I got in the hallway with just a couple big couch cushions, pulled my son into my lap, hunched over him, and held the pillows over us.
He was unhurt. I had a dislocated shoulder with torn ligaments, tendons and muscle, splintered ball, torn rotator cuff, and so on. I was in so much pain from that once all the pieces stopped moving that I didn't even realize I had hundreds of pieces of rock, splinters and glass embedded in my skin, mainly in my back. Not a single thing even scratched my son.
Had I gotten moving the moment he said that on the TV, we would have been sandwiched between two matresses. We lived, both of us, both dogs and our cat. It seems like we were all huddled under those two cushions. One of the dogs had a single glass shard in his beck left side. It fell out when he started walking. Me, I had pieces of stuff being pushed out of my skin for the next month.
The house? Nothing much left. Of a $290k house it took $273k to rebuild it. The foundation and much of the framing were OK.
Edit: This was the Enterprise, AL tornado on March 1, 2007. There were 8 students killed at the high school and one elderly woman just down the road from the school. 50+ were injured from this in the area.
Our daughter was at the school. It took 4-5 hours to find her. She was badly traumatized from the experience, but luckily, only light injuries. This experience affected our family mentally for years, if not a lifetime. There are so many others who are as well.
We did not have a shelter and did not put one in. Basements are not common for that area. I was stationed at Ft Rucker with two years to go until retirement. Tornadoes of that kind were not common to that area of the US. With climate change, they are now.
Insurance paid for most of the repairs and replacement of our house and stuff. "Non-recoverable depreciation" took a big chunk out of our savings, though. This is something so few people realize will financially affect them in a large loss like this.
We currently live in Florida. We've been through a few hurricanes turned tropical storms, but not a direct hit. We care for my mother in law who is 83 and has dementia. Once she passes, we are moving, likely to Tennesse near our daughter. I would take a tornado over a hurricane. We were 18 miles west of the damage path of Hurricane Michael. What we saw of the damage from that during recovery efforts was staggering. I have been to war in the Middle East. While those experiences helped me process that one, the sheer destruction visited upon Florida was mind-numbing. Two years ago, we spent 8 hours in a strong tropical storm with 70mph winds and gusts to 90. The tornado lasted less than two minutes from when I first saw it to when I was stepping outside to survey the area. Except for the minor intrusion of water from our pool, we didn't have a single bit of flooding from the tornado. With my combat experience, very little scares me these days. There was surprisingly little fear during the tornado considering. Most of it came after while trying to find our daughter. That tropical storm? The length of time, the wind and the amount of rain? That was scary.
My injuries were more extensive than just the shoulder and cuts/bruises. Due to a TBI from an explosion in Iraq, I suffered a secondary TBI from the tornado as well. My shoulder was put back in place by EMT's in the area, and surgery didn't happen until after we moved back in. Too much to do. The TBI wasn't recognized or treated until after we had moved back in. Honestly, I knew I had another TBI, but my family needed me to be strong for them. Especially our kids. Once things settled down, I started getting regular headaches. Next thing you know, I'm at the Shepherd Center in Atlanta for four months and also two months of hyperbaric treatments in New Orleans.
We are all doing well these days. When we are all together, we often talk about that day. It is as much a part of our family history as any other significant event.
Thanks for the awards!
I've read that "Tornado Alley" is shifting toward the southeast U.S. That's a real problem because a lot of the homes and businesses in the southeast don't have tornado shelters.
The water table is too close to the surface to have basements in these areas (I live in coastal Mississippi). Interior rooms are about the best we can do unless we build some kind of concrete safe room.
Load More Replies...Just come back from Orlando and we were in the edge of hurricane Debby a couple of weeks ago. Where we were there was a lot of wind and rain. We did get the emergency alert on our phones to get into a basement or shelter, we didn't have either of those so we just stayed in our 4th floor apartment and by 4pm it had eased up.
Oral health. Brush your damn teeth or you’ll sorely regret it later
Edit: brushing is often times not enough, I brushed regularly and still got cavities in between my teeth from not flossing. At least once a day do a full routine of flossing, brushing, tongue scraper, and mouthwash. I usually just brush in the morning and do the full shabang at night. Would’ve saved me thousands of dollars if I had started this earlier.
People keep talking about brushing teeth and flossing - sure this is important and you should do it but the main root cause for oral problems is sugar consumption and diet. these control the types of bacteria in your mouth - eating a bad diet will let bad bacteria reproduce and damage your teeth. Seriously think about this and do it.
Do I only need to brush my damn teeth? Are my blessed teeth will be fine anyway?
If you brush your damned teeth, they will then be blessed
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Women who warn you that they are crazy... She is indeed crazy.
When people tell you the truth about themselves, you should listen.
Moose. If they decide they don’t like you, they can f**k you up. Only orcas get to mess with them.
Now I'm trying to imagine the set of circumstances that would result in moose v orca.
Moose like to swim, orcas like to chase and eat moose.
Load More Replies...not to mention if you hit them with a car. The legs just buckle, while the bulk slams through the windshield and flies right into you.
Mental health. Neglect it, and it'll wreck you faster than anything else. People think they can tough it out or push it aside, but that’s a losing game. Once you’ve seen the damage it can do, you realize it’s not something to take lightly.
I unfortunately can relate to this. Was suïcidal pre-teens and then went through my teens knowingly suffering from severe depression. I knew I needed help but absolutely refused to speak out and seek help for several reasons. Convinced myself that I can fix myself. Come university years and I was actively suicïdal again. Then suffered a sort of mental breakdown in my final year last year. Finally started meds and then therapy this year and I’ve now been officially diagnosed with a total of at least 5 issues (depression, CPTSD, etc) and it’s an enormous struggle trying to fix it all. It’s not easy to take the leap to get help, but if it’s even remotely possible, please do!
Growing up in the '60's, so little was known about mental health! I am still fighting the results.
Load More Replies...Sunburns will in fact lead to skin cancer.
All these youths thinking they need fancy skincare routines. I told my teen niece the only thing she should do is apply sunscreen and use a moisturizer. My MIL has always cared for her skin with sunscreen and a good moisturizer since she was young. She is almost 70 and has the skin of someone in their 40s. It really is magnificent.
My 14 year old niece started using retinol. I showed her an article I found that was titled something like “why do Millennials look younger than Gen Z?” And it was about how many of them are using harsh skincare treatments too early, causing premature skin damage. I managed to convince her to wait a few years for the retinol lmao.
Load More Replies...Sunburns are radiation burns, wear the highest factor you can, always
Cars in snow. You ever seen a video where someone does a 360 in the snow and hits something? I did that and got lucky the thing I hit was a curb.
Your tires means lot.... Learned that last winter, when the first snow fell before anticipated, and I hadn't changed to winter tires before then. I though I was an experienced driver, who had been through a lot of winters and could handle a bit of snow.... But no, when you drive towards a bigger road in a T, and you put on the brakes lightly and the car just keeps going at the same speed, it is not any fun at all.
Meh. We're used to it up here. I imagine this is more for places that don't get 2 metres of snow a month in the winter. Many of us did/do our road test and driving education in the snow 😅
What a callous thing to say. “Meh.” We’re “used to” hurricanes in the South. Doesn’t mean they don’t kill people and cause irreparable damage.
Load More Replies...Chains are for traction, not for stopping. You'll still slide your a*s across an intersection if you drive too fast.
Load More Replies...Being a cheater. Ruined my entire life. Definitely got what I deserved and more.
I had an extremely close friend for years and they were always SOO nice to me, went above and beyond all the time and I felt so appreciated and loved as a friend. This was years mind you too. One thing that was red flag that I ignored and I mentioned to my partner that was concerning was that this friend was really horrible to people they didn’t like or felt somehow wronged or slighted by. I remember saying I just need to make sure I’m never in their bad side. Well, long story short, always judge someone’s character to include how they treat people even if they don’t necessarily like them. If they talk badly, spread rumors, etc about others they will likely at some time do it to you.
Edit to add: I also co-owned a business with this “best friend” and so my second advice would be DONT ever go into business with a friend. Even if they have no red flags! Don’t do it!
Made my kidneys bleed by drinking too many energy drinks while severely dehydrated.
So two things,
Easy on the energy drinks
Drink more water.
Sleep apnea. Had it my whole life and didn’t get it fixed until I was 31. The first night I used a CPAP machine I woke up and felt like I was touched by Jesus. I cannot believe how s****y I felt for my whole life and didn’t even know that everyone else didn’t feel that way.
I'm not sure I want to be touched by Jesus in my sleep. He would need my consent first.
My whole personality changed once I got my CPAP. Went from angry all the time and struggling with simple tasks and feeling overwhelmed, to chill, happy and wondering why I was finding it hard to cope as everything was easy. Don't underestimate sleep deprivation.
I'm pretty sure that I lost two jobs because of sleep apnea. I'd never even heard of it until my Doctor just casually asked if I slept well. Gave him the wrong answer, and he sent me off for the sleep test. VERY educational; changed my whole life.
Flipping the bird at a driver. It's been 40 years since I tried. On that particular adventure I was on a 4-lane road, 2 in each direction (Rte 29 through Virginia). I was going maybe 5 mph over the speed limit to pass a slow car when a car came up on my tail. The road wasn't limited access and had a lot of blind driveways. Going more than 55 really wasn't safe. The highway, named Dixie Highway, has also been referred to as Dixie Die-Way.
Anyway, I passed the slow car as quickly as I could safely do so then pulled over to the right as soon as I was safely in front of the slow vehicle. The guy who'd been riding my tail passed me at a high rate of speed and I held up the third finger as he passed. Ooops. The driver obviously saw it as he pulled in front of me the instant he was past me and jammed on his brakes. I was so relieved that I didn't lose control of the car. Since then I avoid anything that might induce a road rage incident. The satisfaction of displaying your annoyance from the comfort of your car isn't worth the consequences.
When I get the urge to tell another driver how I think about his behaviour, I always give a thumps up with a bright smile.
Oh man, when I was a young new driver I accidentally cut someone off and felt so bad - he switched lanes and came up beside me and gave me the biggest most sarcastic smile and thumbs up. I FELT SO GUILTY 😂 it would have been better if he’d given me the finger. It was like he was saying “I’m not mad, just disappointed at your stupidity,” which I deserved. Hahaha
Load More Replies...Pain. Basically, just because you can tolerate a lot of pain doesn't mean you should. Listen to your body; you are feeling pain for a reason, so don't push yourself just because you "can handle it.".
True - but if you're like me (mid 70s and arthritic) you haven't too many options, Just painkillers when it's really bad; other than that, live with it.
Hurricanes. Stayed in New Orleans for Katrina. When they say to leave, leave.
Portuguese Man O' War jellyfish.
If you think you see someone's lost floaty toy out in the ocean, just leave it.
Camping on Windward (East) side of Oahu, HI during a full moon, lots of Man O' War out. Repeatedly told a friend NOT to walk in the surf at night because of them.... he did anyways and got stung. The tentacle wrapped around his leg. He had a mark for days from it.
Domt f**k around with a mandolin! Use the guard , you can lose a fingertip …. I didnt… but came close damn its sharp!!
Count me as a member of that dumb group cause I thought that as well
Load More Replies...I use those cut proof gloves - I can still cut myself with the guard - I don't know how, but I used to end u bleeding
We cut veggies with mandoline and are required to wear cut proof gloves. But I think everyone has thought in one point or other that they don't need them because there's only a little cutting to do. You might survive few times, but there will be a moment when you cut yourself. And then you realise again why you should always wear the damn gloves.
Load More Replies...I'm not allowed to use ours! I have a bad habit of cutting myself whenever I'm chopping in the kitchen!
Cults and MLM. Plan and simple. Stay away from them and keep your money and sanity intact.
Repressing emotions. Grief. Anger. Anxiety. Sadness. Because if I don't process them, they manifest with some sort of physical suffering, illness, injury, etc.
Yup. Finally dealing with stuff from 60 years ago. It's all still there, waiting...
Keep on, keeping on. Best wishes in dealing with past trash.
Load More Replies... An infection. Killed my mother because the doctor f****d around. She was in the hospital and did everything the doctor told her, but he didn't want to come in during vacation time and he f****d around and it killed my mother.
I tell people this all of the time, any time you get an infection, please do not mess around with it. Seek care immediately and get it stamped out ASAP.
This question pops up here a lot and "The Wu-Tang Clan" is never the top answer and it makes me question humanity.
It's a song - "”Wu-Tang Clan Ain't Nuthing Ta F' Wit."
Load More Replies... Chipmunks.
All I was trying to do was feed the little bastard and he took a chunk out of my finger. Little bastards can starve now.
Also squirrels: we took a half-day bus tour in Vancouver years ago & one of the stopping points was Victoria Park. The driver told us to be wary of squirrels as one had, in his terms, "danced a fandango" on a previous passenger's head & result was unpleasantly painful & bloody
Lithium batteries. I’m a curious fellow who likes to take stuff apart to see how they work. Had a camera battery go dead and thought I’d take a look see on what makes them tick. Go to work on it with a knife…Well what happens is that even “dead” batteries will f*****g explode in your hands, burn said hands, and couch, rug and carpet. I now choose much more carefully as to what I dismantle.
Don’t let laptop lithium batteries go fully dead. You run a serious risk of the forbidden capris sun. We had a battery go from fine to exploding in our kitchen sink two hours later. Didn’t realize the battery had hit rock bottom, and trying to charge it caused it to short and swell. Happened at midnight, and it was only by chance the laptop was close enough to us we heard the plastic popping as the battery swelled up, and could get it to a sink where it wouldn’t burn down the house. Still came close, as the flames were over 3 feet high.
year don't mess with them... as soon as they rupture, there is going to be a long flame shooting out of it.
I was taking a bath while my phone was charging. I picked it up to use it. I was promptly electrocuted. I will not do that again.
Edit; I have been proctored on my word use- because I am still alive, it seems that I was not “electrocuted”; rather, I was “shocked”. It was, despite the wording, still really intense. When it happened, I tried to drop the phone and it was like, stuck to my hand. It took several attempts of me trying to THROW the phone to break the connection between the circuit and myself.
In the UK we are not allowed plug sockets in the bathroom unless they can be installed at least 3 metres from the bath or shower. Exception is the socket for a shaver
We don't even have a shaver outlet in our bathroom, and I intend to keep it that way.
Load More Replies...Who designs a house where the outlets are close enough for this. That outlet shouldn't have been anywhere close to a bathtub!
it may not have been close; it may have been a long charging cord. Bathroom will have an outlet for an electric shaver, hair dryer, etc, no??
Load More Replies... Heat in the house during winter.
Although I still blame the governments “Only heat the rooms you use!” Guidance during the cost of living crisis, I completely took for granted how my house was different from my apartment when it came to keeping it heated during winter. That my house is much older and draughtier compared to the small apartment in the shared building.
Resulting in a frozen pipe and - ultimately - a burst pipe.
Homeowners - it’s better to just grit your teeth and pay the large gas/heating bills during winter. Water can do a LOT of damage to a property.
Edit: while it’s still fresh in my mind: make sure you all know where your stop-c**k valves are in your property!!
Not to mention the climate in those unheated rooms can suffer. Especially in a lot of older, poorly insulated houses, when it gets too cold in a room, condense will form on the windows, and run down from there into the window ledge. If that is made of wood, it can cause issues with rot, or the room can become infected with poisonous fungi, creating a health risk. So just lower the temperature a reasonable amount (10C or so) instead of turning the heat of completely.
Non-medical forms of birth control.
It's always the ijits that seem to breed the most too because of non med birth control
My "un-planned" daughter is actually glad that my "birth control" method (non-medical, non-barrier) was ineffective.
Kidney stones!
Woke up from a dead sleep SCREAMING it hurt so bad. Ambulance ride later, best they could do was some dilation meds or something because pain killers did not help.
Was super sore and uncomfortable for days… was told based on the tests & scans I had like 10 more. Never cut out so much soda / teas / chocolate so fast and increased water intake like it was my job.
Must have worked, almost 10 years later and no issues so far 🤞.
I'm in the "genetics hates you" category. My Mom has had 130+, I'm on #35 with 5 more in each kidney. Doesn't matter what I eat or drink. The doctors give us meds to keep the stones small enough to pass, but they can't stop them from forming.
Sugar free gummy bears....
If you're feeling dizzy, don't stand up and try to find a comfier spot. Sit down on the ground where you are and wait for it to pass.
I didn't, and I planted my face into the sidewalk from full standing height.
Also that was two days ago, on vacation in a foreign country.
Oof this happened me once on a packed train. There was barely standing room...that's actually what saved me from a bad fall because I passed out and literally was propped up by the people around me!! Very embarrassing all the same!
I once blacked out for a second while rock climbing it was a weird experience since I don't remember the impact of hitting the ground it felt like I blinked and I was lying on the pads instead of clinging to the wall.
Steers. One slammed me into the side of the barn once, out of absolutely nowhere, and I was alone. Bovines are not to be trusted.
I feel this one. Grew up on a farm and even when practicing all farm safety accidents can and do happen.
Mentally unstable women. Or mentally unstable people in general. No, I can not f*****g fix her. If they don‘t do therapy they will drag you down deeper than you can imagine.
Don't compromise on your values and boundaries—stick to what matters most to you.
Most politicians do stick to what matters most to them: power and money.
Alcohol and credit cards.
Electricity.
This is currently #37 out of 92 - who is upvoting a single word? Where is the story? How did you fück around and what did you find out? BP - why did you even include this in your list?
Road Rage is real. Beeped at a guy being an a*****e, riding the wrong lane and cut me off. Not even a middle finger or curse, just a beep. Four dudes hopped out at the next light with guns. Luckily they were just trying to scare me and yell and got back in but I am much more forgiving while driving and generally just get out of an a******s way if I see them being reckless.
This is the third time I read some sort of this in this thread. Maybe "road rage" isn't the problem but letting every idiot possess and carry guns? If you mess up driving in Germany, people will give you a thumbs up and that's it. If someone really "road rages" you report them to the police and let a state prosecutor handle it.
Yeah a car should really come with two horns! One signaling: "You are an idiot and is about to cause a crash, so do something now!" and one for "Excuse me, but I think you have missed the fact that there is a green swing right arrow. Could you please do us all a favor and start driving now, if it isn't too much of a hazel? Thank you."
Cooked rice is to be consumed hot and refrigerated IMMEDIATELY, reheated only once, and thrown away in a few days if not eaten by then.
Had me butt naked in my tub sweating and shaking coming out of both ends. Couldn't eat anything but toast for 2 weeks after that. I no longer play with rice 🙅🏾♀️.
Often grossly exaggerated these days as a result of one case where someone died after eating pasta that had been cooked then left out, unrefrigerated and uncovered, for five days before being eaten. Leaving it (covered) for an hour or three before refrigerating is absolutely fine.
That is not true of rice - it should always be cooled immediately after cooking if you're not going to eat it all as it can contain something (bacteria/virus - can't remember) that will really multiply fast in warm conditions.
Load More Replies...Walking home alone late on a Sunday night in a dodgy neighborhood.
Depending where you live and work, sometimes it can’t be helped.
Load More Replies...Wolves. They’re way smarter than you’d think.
Health bro, everything else is either expandable or manageable….
People don't understand how true this is until they become ill.
Don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone. (They paved paradise, put up a parking lot 🎶)
Load More Replies...Water. It’ll kill you with no warning, even the strongest swimmers.
Well, it depends on the body of water. I think the bath is pretty OK, as long as you don't fall asleep in it. Drinking a glass of it is positively good for you.
Not leaving at least one sense open/aware of your surroundings in public. I got suckerpunched knocked out by a methhead in broad daylight in hollywood because I looked at my phone to check bus times for 5 seconds.
I had a phone once that at night kept pinging me to tell me to be aware of my surroundings as I was mobile in area with high crime rate. Like chill out phone...I just went from one room to another in my apartment lol. Took me ages to figure out how to turn off theat setting. Funny thing was it was a decent enough area but I guess one side of my apartment was deemed to be within the zone of a neighbouring not so nice area!
Skunks. Paper boy experience.
It's actually kind of hard to get sprayed by a Skunk unless it is young. The younger ones are still dumb and can't controll themselves like the older ones. I have a family of skunks e ery year at my house and they're kind of like cats I can get close enough to pet them since they eat the cat food I put out for the strays but never once has one gotten even a little puffed out and angry with me lol
Park. Had a "friend" slam my car into park while we were cruising down interstate! Terrifying, but thankfully no injuries.
Would that be like slamming on the brakes at speed or more like gear slipping out?
It's vaguely like slamming into a brick wall, except the brick is inside your transmission. Depending on how fast you are going, it could do anything from causing mild damage to your transmission to literally ripping the entire drivetrain out of your vehicle. Plus you will likely immediately lose steering control.
Load More Replies...Not checking online if a skin product causes acne. Had to endure 5+ months of horrible acne and then scarring after years of clear skin for using a specific face sunscreen. Too much money/time spent on fixing it. Never again.
I know a lot of these replies are serious, so I'll take it one step further: pre-ordering AAA games. Never again. Been clean for seven years now.
Please, never pick up any metal things you find lying around anywhere there ever was a war in the last century. Also warn your kids abut it, again and again! Our extended family lost a nine year old boy to a found grenade in Croatia.
I've heard of grenades specifically designed for children to handle. Sick, absolutely sick
Load More Replies...Table saws. Neighbor noticed his saw was getting stuck on a piece of wood. His response? Push harder. Lost his thumb and his index finger right in front of his 9 yr old grandson. Fun times.
There's about a dozen that give genuine examples of stuff that they shouldn't have messed with, the rest are nearly all just common sense things or stuff people have read somewhere else and decided to repeat as if they've learned the hard way.
Common sense has become very uncommon these days. No matter how or why, the message gets out.
Load More Replies...I messed around and found out one time while going through customs at JFK (coming from Heathrow). I had brought alot of candy with me that was wrapped in plastic bags. When the officer asked me what it was I said "d***s". (I was young and stupid). The look he gave me is permnently etched to the back of my brain! He went through the bags and then said "I will let you go this time because I can tell you were being silly but if you EVER want to have problems, do this again". Yes, Sir! I mean, NO, SIR!
I was once made quite uncomfortable flying into San Fransisco on a business trip. They asked me what I was there for and who I worked for, which was a major Pharmaceutical company. then said Ah, so you're a drüg dealer, right? Now I was 99.9% sure the guy wasn't trying to trip me up, he was laughing when he said it, but I was still cautious in my reply to not actually say yes.
Load More Replies...How many times do we have to hear about children dying in hot cars? Are people really that stupid?
Yes. It's easy to lose track of time, whether shopping, or in one case, gaming, while your child is slowly dying.
Load More Replies...Illnesses, if you don't look after yourself when your sick it will come back to haunt you. Long term side affects from some Illnesses can cause major problems for the rest of your life. Eg, sore throat can cause serious heart damage
I had to open the full list and read all the way down to find it after this comment. Yep - funny, and I'm disappointed in the BP community for downvoting it.
Load More Replies...Please, never pick up any metal things you find lying around anywhere there ever was a war in the last century. Also warn your kids abut it, again and again! Our extended family lost a nine year old boy to a found grenade in Croatia.
I've heard of grenades specifically designed for children to handle. Sick, absolutely sick
Load More Replies...Table saws. Neighbor noticed his saw was getting stuck on a piece of wood. His response? Push harder. Lost his thumb and his index finger right in front of his 9 yr old grandson. Fun times.
There's about a dozen that give genuine examples of stuff that they shouldn't have messed with, the rest are nearly all just common sense things or stuff people have read somewhere else and decided to repeat as if they've learned the hard way.
Common sense has become very uncommon these days. No matter how or why, the message gets out.
Load More Replies...I messed around and found out one time while going through customs at JFK (coming from Heathrow). I had brought alot of candy with me that was wrapped in plastic bags. When the officer asked me what it was I said "d***s". (I was young and stupid). The look he gave me is permnently etched to the back of my brain! He went through the bags and then said "I will let you go this time because I can tell you were being silly but if you EVER want to have problems, do this again". Yes, Sir! I mean, NO, SIR!
I was once made quite uncomfortable flying into San Fransisco on a business trip. They asked me what I was there for and who I worked for, which was a major Pharmaceutical company. then said Ah, so you're a drüg dealer, right? Now I was 99.9% sure the guy wasn't trying to trip me up, he was laughing when he said it, but I was still cautious in my reply to not actually say yes.
Load More Replies...How many times do we have to hear about children dying in hot cars? Are people really that stupid?
Yes. It's easy to lose track of time, whether shopping, or in one case, gaming, while your child is slowly dying.
Load More Replies...Illnesses, if you don't look after yourself when your sick it will come back to haunt you. Long term side affects from some Illnesses can cause major problems for the rest of your life. Eg, sore throat can cause serious heart damage
I had to open the full list and read all the way down to find it after this comment. Yep - funny, and I'm disappointed in the BP community for downvoting it.
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