“Forgot To Take My Medication”: 50 Wildest Ways People Justified Their Affairs To Their Partners

He obviously was half a man in the beginning, so you can only throw a quarter to the dog...

More like the other end of that digestive tube.

Honestly what’s more “real” than a woman’s body with childbirth scars? That’s literally the most “real woman” you can get, biologically speaking, considering women are the ones who give birth, bio men can’t get those scars…..(I’m sorry I don’t mean this with any disrespect towards our trans friends and I hope it doesn’t come across that way! Trans women are absolutely real women too, I’m just thinking of what I’d like to yell at this jagoff OP’s talking about)

You must have done a lot of hard work to get to this point! That's completely bragworthy and it's awesome that you've found balance.

I’m so glad you’re feeling stable now, congrats on working hard to get here! 👏 it can’t be an easy thing to deal with, all respect to you :)

Been there, done that. Woke up one morning to realize, much to my complete horror, that a guy I'd known since kindergarten (we were in our mid 20s) who had actively tried to hook up with me for years (I always refused) had spotted my car at a bar, yeah, he stalked me, realized I was kind of inebriated and rufied me on top of that, had taken me home and raped me. He actually had the audacity to ask for a little morning pick me up. Unfortunately this was in 1979 and there was no recourse for me. During the #MeToo era, I tried to find him, but never did. And in response to your statement, I pray it never happens to you. I am totally sincere. It's not a good feeling. You blame yourself, wonder if you sent out vibes that you were finally interested, and all around hate yourself. I now know that I'm 100% not to blame. It took years of therapy and quite a few trials and errors to find the right combo of psych meds to keep me on track.

Actually, the first time I saw this dynamic, it was the woman doing it

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Rules for thee, but not for me...

One of my fave AITA posts was about a guy who wanted an open relationship with his wife at the time. The wife was reluctant, but eventually relented; then the wife started seeing other men, and became far less intimate with the husband. Husband was complaining how his wife hooked up with hot guys, and even started exclusively dating someone, which led to dead bedroom with the husband. Husband can't get any hook-ups, and decides he wants to close the relationship. Wife all but laughs in his face. Husband gets chewed out in the comments, shockingly. They divorced, as you may have guessed....

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And it's fine, why wouldn't it be, all it needs is clear and truthful communication to everyone involved, and safe sеx obviously.

Ok I need to hear that story, what was their justification??

Not only lose their license, but pay the court costs of the divorce, and the alimony and child support of the person who was wronged, the person who was cheated upon.

I went to couples therapy with my then boyfriend. She totally wanted to f**k him. She'd show up places where she knew he'd be taking me (NOT run-of-the-mill, average places - places for my birthday, etc.) He never knew when folks were hitting on him, and said I was projecting... He and I are still friends to this day. YEARS later, he admitted she'd taken her shot. :/

Why didn´t you support her in breaking up with hat man instead and try self-healing instead? I would never recommend someone doing some lying to whoever just to keep up a bad relationship. And hoping for HIM to find out and end the relationship? That could (have) end(ed) with violence or worse (taking in to cosideration that he drinks). What kind of a friend are you? And thank god you are no psychiatrist.

Sounds like YOU found someone better 😊 good for you!

Not at all self-aware, and I swear purposely obtuse too, like most emotionally immature men.

Narcissists, man. They are their own breed. 🙄

My father told me that when my mother died, he would marry a younger woman to take care of him..mhe is 90 years old, going 91 this year.. Besides being narcissistic, misogynistic, racist and homofobic he is disillusioned as well...

Paramedick!

Yes, though only done in full consensus. It's called 'Fallus Pitter-Patter'.. /jk

Oh c**p, it looks like I gotta go to the hospital then....