After all the heated arguments on everything from technology and social media to work and the economy, who could've predicted that baby boomers and the younger generations would find something in common?
But last month, X (formerly known as Twitter) user Girl Fieri (@realgirl_fieri) asked all the non-boomers on the platform to share their most boomer-esque complaints, and the replies immediately started pouring in.
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So we decided that taking a look at the submissions would be a nice change of pace to the never-ending discourse on intergenerational differences. Or, in this case, similarities!
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And the contrast between show audio volume compared to advertising audio volume. Having your ad loud will not make me buy your product. It will p**s me off and make me avoid you.
Too bad movies are not like the better modern video games where under audio settings you have different volume sliders for Master, Music, Dialog, Sound Effects.
That's a brilliant idea! I really think streaming sites should implement that!
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You know, I'll try this with Tenet. I couldn't hear one sentence in that movie. Thanks fish!
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And can we please broadcast TV with two sound tracks - dialogue and background so that we can adjust the volumes independently.
If you watch something on a normal tv or anything without a 5.1 surround system, you need to "change language" by selecting the same actual language but without 5.1. It's an audio track problem. 5.1 audio tracks send voices to the central speaker, but when there is none, this is split between the available ones (usually two) overlapped with everything else, basically just messing with the mixing.
I came looking for this or adding this if it wasn't there. But it's still ridiculous that 5.1 is too often the standard setting although rarely anyone has a surround system. I'm glad we have a smart TV that automatically adjusts the audio so I don't have to constantly change tracks. Also sometimes they don't bother adding the normal track and 5.1 is the only track available. If you don't have a TV able to autodjust to clear voice, you will not hear the dialogue properly. It is so annoying.
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especially in Amazon Prime. So much acting and photography wasted!
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Just tried watching a movie like this. You could not hear the dialogue over any background noise. I turned it off after about 10 minutes. I thought maybe it would get better over time but, it didn't. We should be able to down vote movies like this and explain why.
Yes....I agree but I also can't stand how dark some scenes are in movies and shows. I literally can't tell what's going on sometimes. Don't the directors realize the scenes are too dark???
This grinds my gears, too. I think it's just a thing nowadays - make it dark and moody. 🙄
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While you're at it, equalize the volume. Turn it up to hear a conversation, be deafened by an explosion. Also, stop making every movie so dark that we can't see wtf is going on!
That goes for TV programs too. And why are commercials so loud? They say that is not true, but it is just another lie.
I wanted to use subtitles so I could understand the movie - only subtitles available were Thai and Korean - dvd sold in USA
in this same vein, can we PLEASE stop making some movie scenes so f****n DARK?! GoT was notorious for this. some of the scenes, the fight scenes especially, were so dark, you literally couldn't tell what was happening. that pissed me off over the course of that entire series! *shakes fist at sky*
A corollary to this is that the music and effects boom like thunder and screech like the furies of Hades, but the conversation sounds like it's coming from three blocks away and around the corner. British films and TV shows are especially bad at this, but it's almost as bad in USA films. And actors bloody MUMBLE. Don't they teach diction in acting school any more? Maggie Smith can still speak clearly....
I thought it was my hearing, glad other people have the same symptoms.
Agreed. Sometimes I've missed entirely what the character said because the music has been simply too loud.
Too true! Also, eliminate the commercials, and at least half of the (also noisy) previews . I paid to watch a MOVIE.
Yes! I have to turn my brand new tv up to almost 100% when people are talking then turn it down to about 25% when its an action scene so it doesn't blast my earholes out and scare the cats. Figure it out.
Yes, yes, yes!! Some audio sounds like it's been recorded underwater and others spoken by drunks with badly fitting false teeth. So many movies I haven't watched because either there are no subtitles, or the dialogue is too quiet in comparison to the "noises off." There are some programmes where the subtitles are so bad, I just want to send the writers back to school.
I couldn't have said it better myself. It has got to the point where it is ridiculous.
We can still communicate with a spacecraft sent out of the solar system but our TV's lack the technology to adjust the level of the background music separately from the dialogue.
1. Movie-goer tastes have evolved to the point that movies must have a wall-of-sound atmosphere, or they are considered substandard. This makes it more difficult to maintain a dynamic range (ie. an explosion should sound much louder than a person's voice) 2. Movie sound is often engineered to the standards of the best theaters that have a 128 channels of sound. To be released in a format that can be played by a theater 5.1 Dolby or stereo sound, or played by your televsion, all of that information must be compressed into fewer channels.
The audio mixing is something they have complete control over. They make it that way on purpose.
We had to remove the subwoofer from our surround sound system because we share a common wall with our neighbors and it was apparently shaking their floor. No problem, we live in a condo (HOA) so we pretty much had to acquiesce. They're nice people, but they do have 2 young children, so we get it. "Top Gun, Maverick" has never been the same, though.
Spot on. I have to crank up volume to hear dialogue, but get blasted by the other stuff. Why do the actors have to whisper ?
If only your television came with a manual that told you precisely how to do this exact thing. Menu > Audio > Profile, then check them each to see which suits what you're watching. R T F M
I watched a beautiful film the other day that had no intrusive music at all. Mind you, it was French...
100% agree!! Not just movies but local casting as well AND commercials! Then there's when the audio/visual don't sync up Argh!
this is so true! I'm a teenager and I have a lot of these complaints
Usually, baby boomers are perceived in quite negative ways. Or as Lawrence R. Samuel, Ph.D, who is the founder of AmeriCulture, a consultancy dedicated to translating the emerging cultural landscape into business opportunities, said, they are often seen as dinner guests who’ve eaten and drank pretty much everything set out on the table, leaving only scraps for those who came later to the party.
"Generational hostility is nothing new," Samuel wrote. "There is in fact a long history in America of a younger generation differentiating and distancing itself from their parents’ generation. (It actually goes back to the 18th century.)"
"As a people, we are very much interested in making our own mark, blazing our own trail, and doing things our own way. From this respect, it was inevitable that Gen Xers would set themselves off from baby boomers as a cohort and attempt to carve out their collective identity. The same was and remains true for millennials and Gen Z," he explained.
That's usually a scam anyway, it means the company can donate to charity and get it deducted from taxes.
However, as we can see from these posts, common ground isn't that hard to find.
In fact, Bobby Duffy, Professor of Public Policy at King’s and formerly Head of Public Affairs at Ipsos, argued in his book 'Generations' that cohorts are not as important as most think and that the vast majority of issues and attitudes do not map neatly onto the definitions we have (which themselves are somewhat arbitrary, especially on a global scale).
He suggests that most of the polarizing issues facing the world today split the generations as well, and that the overarching societal shift towards more liberal attitudes on things like gay marriage, female employment, etc. are the result of opinions shifting across all generational groups over the last 30-40 years and are not the byproduct of a sudden influx of liberal youngsters into the voting booths.
A while ago I said something about sitting outside looking at the stars, and was called ableist (because some people can't get outside to do that). Like, i'm sorry about that and all, but we're at the point now where people really CAN'T say just ordinary mundane stuff without being called out.
I've never been to place with a QR menu that couldn't give you a paper menu if you asked. More places went to QR during covid and also to cheap copy paper menus. If they hand you the paper they toss it out if you leave it. If you use a QR menu there is no waste. I don't personally like looking at the menu on my phone screen but I get why many places implemented them.
The idea that the generations have way more in common than has been widely assumed is also supported by Ipsos Global Trustworthiness Monitor data.
Looking at how the different generations prioritize different criteria for judging whether sectors and brands are trustworthy, we can see a huge amount of common ground between the generations and little real division.
Agreed. If you need headlights brighter than a cop then you don't need to be driving in the dark.
Local petrol station is pushing their app super hard. "Pay on the app! Get the app! You can pay on the app!". Yeah, or I can go inside and pay there, without giving you my details.
Yes, there is some variance in the strength of feeling that different generations have for different criteria; baby boomers, for example, are far more likely to prioritize reliability and openness/transparency than younger generations, while Gen Z and millennials rate more of the lesser priority issues more highly such as value sharing, intent and the importance of leadership.
I've been against electronics controlling the place I live since I heard the words "I'm afraid I can't do that, Dave."
But despite these differences and variations in the strength of feeling, all four generations regard the same four trust drivers; reliability, openness/transparency, responsibility, and value for the price, as the most important and in the same rank order.
Yes, I talk to everyone. I was a cashier for about 10 years, and the habit of making a bit of conversation with everyone has carried over into the rest of my life.
If we turn our attention to looking at how the different generations judge the trustworthiness of different industry sectors and institutions, again, we see that the usual narrative of younger generations being less trusting isn't the case at all.
The older generations trust most sectors less than millennials or Gen Z.
Yes, they have. And incredibly oblivious to what's going on around them. Does an elderly person need help opening a heavy door ? Oblivious. Did you notice that person looking for their car ? Could care less. Did it occur to you that someone might be behind you while walking through a door ? Eh, not my problem. People today SUCK !
Baby boomers and Gen X are less likely to trust financial services, energy, oil & gas, banking, social media companies, and consumer-packaged goods than those younger than them, with more significant differences between the elder and younger generations in each case.
I'm retired so I make all my appointments around midday so working folks can have the early morning or late afternoon spots.
I'm starting to think turn signals are an optional accessory on new cars...or maybe the car maker just wants a paid subscription to use them.
Or kids playing video games with the volume all the way up cause that is the only way they can sit still and be quiet.
One could be forgiven for expecting that younger generations are less trusting of oil & gas, given the climate crisis facing their futures and the assumptions we often make about how they feel about the environment and sustainability. The same could be said of banking, with many growing up through the financial crash of 2008. But it's the older age groups yet again with the lowest level of trust in these sectors.
Not only do they stand side by side, they also walk with just enough space between them that you can’t squeeze between them but also not enough to get around them.
So, generational divides are not as large or as significant as many would assume.
If you too have boomer complaints (or are a boomer yourself and don't see the youth as morally bankrupt), don't worry. You might be even closer to them than you've been told.
That's partly because lots of them have parents who can't afford houses with backyards. Kids can't just "go play outside" when they live in an apartment and "outside" is a parking lot near a busy street. Screen addition is a problem for people of all ages these days, but let's not ignore that capitalism has made it difficult for many families to have the time and money to just relax in green spaces.
Or live theater too? Every single performance I've seen the last few years has been interrupted by people arriving late and walking in front of me/needing me to stand up so they can squeeze through the otherwise full row of seats just as the show starts - pet peeve for sure!
My students used to talk to me before class. I adored my students and they used to flick me s*** about my college basketball preferences. They also used to call me Professor Chicken because when I got married, if I had hyphenated my name (I didn't), the hyphenated name would have sounded like a chicken clucking. They never got tired of that one. Splendid kids, the lot of 'em.
Yes. Also, I work at a tutoring center and the number of kids 10 and under who insist that they don't need to learn to read or do well in school because they're going to "be a YouTuber" when they grow up is disturbing. You can't pay rent trying to get random strangers to watch you play Fortnite with lame commentary.
All well and good until you have the issue we did in Australia a few weeks ago when Optus had a mass outage for several hours putting electronic payment systems out of action, many businesses had trade impacted.
I still can't get over that my phone doesn't have a headphone jack. Whose terrible idea was this???
Yes! And stop leaving the carts in random parking spaces so cars don't have room!
Teen here, and yeah. We don't want to hear your music or whatever video you're watching. Wear. Headphones. Or. Earbuds. I SWEAR.
I choose the self checkout 100% of the time if it's available. I prefer packing things the way I want them. And it keeps me from feeling judged about what I'm buying. :) One time I had tampons, Advil, and chocolate (among other things) in my basket and when I checked out the cashier said really loud "I put all your period stuff in the same bag for you honey!". LOL!! I know she was just being nice, but it was mortifying.
Camera use in changing rooms where people are naked should be banned.
Yeah seems unsanitary to have one (not a service animal) in a grocery store or a restaurant.
honestly, as a recent Girl Scout, we were taught both of those things
I argue that women need better collared shirt options. I am so sick of blouses, many of which have uncomfortable fabric. I work in IT - wearing a flowy, flowery blouse will just get in the flipping way, and I get sick of polos. Plus, half the “modern” collared shirts and polos for women are made for incredibly flat or athletic figures. I have both decent sized boobs and hips - your moisture wicking, no stretch fabric is annoying af.
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Without the divisiveness ('boomer') this just reads as common-sense complaints about stuff.
And that would be MY complaint!! Why do we have to label everyone as a certain generation, and use it as an insult????
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Adverts on tv are louder than the program. Despite the stations denying it.
I have to keep lowering the sound so it doesn't scare my upstairs neighbor, though I think she might be hearing impaired anyway.
Load More Replies... Customer service call centers outsourcing to somewhere like the Philippines because it's way cheaper. This is not *always* an issue, but it is when you cannot understand what the rep is saying because their accent is so thick. The place I work (a very large corporation) has its help desk in the Philippines, and I dread every time I have to call them, because I end up having to tell the person to repeat themselves at least a half-dozen times, and even after that I'm still not totally sure what they said to me.
Same. The last time I called IT, it was so annoying listening to the rooster crowing in the background.
Load More Replies... Sitting through commercials on the BP app. That's what I could do without.
People seem to be completely unaware of their surroundings. Saw one girl on staring at her phone nearly get killed 3 times at a crossing as she kept stepping into the road while the lights were green and cars were moving. Some idiot on an e-scooter crashed into me from behind because he wasn’t looking where he was going
My number one complain is evrything looks so fuzzy. Bring back days when the word was clear and sharp, not this blurry and foggy like now.
Have you been tested for glaucoma? This is not a joke.
Load More Replies... In the US at least, I agree and would add taking away someone else’s rights or choices due to religious motivation. Just because your religion forbids something, doesn’t mean you should forbid it for others too.
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Not a Boomer. Don't like divisiveness. Many of these are perfectly valid.
Some are valid most are whining or ignoring the societal reasons behind the issue. Not boomer exclusive though
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My complaint - the louder the car, the dumber the driver. Oh, you paid a ridiculously large amount to replace the exhaust on your 2008 sedan? It doesn't sound like a muscle car, it sounds like a weed whacker. And driving around with the stereo volume maxed and windows open doesn't make you look cool, it just announces to the world how terrible your taste in music is.
How about when they keep the windows up and the car just vibrates so badly from the 'music' you think the panels are going to pop off.
Load More Replies... Young people these days don’t seem to have been taught consideration for others. They’re so entitled and think they’re important — they’re not.
Not just young people (being a "boomer", a term which I detest as much as I detest Gen Pi squared or anything else they might come up with, (we are all people, not labels) older people can be just as rude and entitled as a teenager. Good manners should be taught from a very early age. This applies as much to children born and raised during any century as it does to children born in this century. (Be kind to me, I've had a difficult day arguing with a bot on whatsapp just because I wanted to change an email address!!)
Load More Replies... People ( usually younger ones ) of both genders who wear awful strong smelling perfume. God help us, it's disgusting and nausea inducing.
Engine idling. People complain about the cost of fuel and air pollution but they're still prepared to waste it not going anywhere.
I didn't even get into the article itself before I had to come and complain - this OP thinks we take dogs too many places??? We're not allowed to take them pretty much anywhere, not even cafe patios in the US! It's so rare if its allowed, I can't think of anyplace in my city. Screw you, dog-hating OP.
That really varies from City to city and community. I lived in one where they went almost everywhere and finally the health department had to come down and say okay you can take them there but they can't sit at the table and they can't sit on your lap when food is being served I'm serious it came down to that. I don't dislike dogs but I don't like eating dog hair
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I'm sick and tired of boomers whining about everything. “If they would rather die they had better do it and decrease the surplus population”
What planet are you living on? The vast majority of surrogate pregnancies are because the woman can't either get pregnant, or can't bring a pregnancy to full term. I have friends who had to turn to surrogacy, and it's in no way a frivolous decision.
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Without the divisiveness ('boomer') this just reads as common-sense complaints about stuff.
And that would be MY complaint!! Why do we have to label everyone as a certain generation, and use it as an insult????
Load More Replies... Adverts on tv are louder than the program. Despite the stations denying it.
I have to keep lowering the sound so it doesn't scare my upstairs neighbor, though I think she might be hearing impaired anyway.
Load More Replies... Customer service call centers outsourcing to somewhere like the Philippines because it's way cheaper. This is not *always* an issue, but it is when you cannot understand what the rep is saying because their accent is so thick. The place I work (a very large corporation) has its help desk in the Philippines, and I dread every time I have to call them, because I end up having to tell the person to repeat themselves at least a half-dozen times, and even after that I'm still not totally sure what they said to me.
Same. The last time I called IT, it was so annoying listening to the rooster crowing in the background.
Load More Replies... Sitting through commercials on the BP app. That's what I could do without.
People seem to be completely unaware of their surroundings. Saw one girl on staring at her phone nearly get killed 3 times at a crossing as she kept stepping into the road while the lights were green and cars were moving. Some idiot on an e-scooter crashed into me from behind because he wasn’t looking where he was going
My number one complain is evrything looks so fuzzy. Bring back days when the word was clear and sharp, not this blurry and foggy like now.
Have you been tested for glaucoma? This is not a joke.
Load More Replies... In the US at least, I agree and would add taking away someone else’s rights or choices due to religious motivation. Just because your religion forbids something, doesn’t mean you should forbid it for others too.
Load More Replies... Not a Boomer. Don't like divisiveness. Many of these are perfectly valid.
Some are valid most are whining or ignoring the societal reasons behind the issue. Not boomer exclusive though
Load More Replies... My complaint - the louder the car, the dumber the driver. Oh, you paid a ridiculously large amount to replace the exhaust on your 2008 sedan? It doesn't sound like a muscle car, it sounds like a weed whacker. And driving around with the stereo volume maxed and windows open doesn't make you look cool, it just announces to the world how terrible your taste in music is.
How about when they keep the windows up and the car just vibrates so badly from the 'music' you think the panels are going to pop off.
Load More Replies... Young people these days don’t seem to have been taught consideration for others. They’re so entitled and think they’re important — they’re not.
Not just young people (being a "boomer", a term which I detest as much as I detest Gen Pi squared or anything else they might come up with, (we are all people, not labels) older people can be just as rude and entitled as a teenager. Good manners should be taught from a very early age. This applies as much to children born and raised during any century as it does to children born in this century. (Be kind to me, I've had a difficult day arguing with a bot on whatsapp just because I wanted to change an email address!!)
Load More Replies... People ( usually younger ones ) of both genders who wear awful strong smelling perfume. God help us, it's disgusting and nausea inducing.
Engine idling. People complain about the cost of fuel and air pollution but they're still prepared to waste it not going anywhere.
I didn't even get into the article itself before I had to come and complain - this OP thinks we take dogs too many places??? We're not allowed to take them pretty much anywhere, not even cafe patios in the US! It's so rare if its allowed, I can't think of anyplace in my city. Screw you, dog-hating OP.
That really varies from City to city and community. I lived in one where they went almost everywhere and finally the health department had to come down and say okay you can take them there but they can't sit at the table and they can't sit on your lap when food is being served I'm serious it came down to that. I don't dislike dogs but I don't like eating dog hair
Load More Replies... I'm sick and tired of boomers whining about everything. “If they would rather die they had better do it and decrease the surplus population”
What planet are you living on? The vast majority of surrogate pregnancies are because the woman can't either get pregnant, or can't bring a pregnancy to full term. I have friends who had to turn to surrogacy, and it's in no way a frivolous decision.
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