After all the heated arguments on everything from technology and social media to work and the economy, who could've predicted that baby boomers and the younger generations would find something in common?
But last month, X (formerly known as Twitter) user Girl Fieri (@realgirl_fieri) asked all the non-boomers on the platform to share their most boomer-esque complaints, and the replies immediately started pouring in.
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So we decided that taking a look at the submissions would be a nice change of pace to the never-ending discourse on intergenerational differences. Or, in this case, similarities!
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this is so true! I'm a teenager and I have a lot of these complaints
Usually, baby boomers are perceived in quite negative ways. Or as Lawrence R. Samuel, Ph.D, who is the founder of AmeriCulture, a consultancy dedicated to translating the emerging cultural landscape into business opportunities, said, they are often seen as dinner guests who’ve eaten and drank pretty much everything set out on the table, leaving only scraps for those who came later to the party.
"Generational hostility is nothing new," Samuel wrote. "There is in fact a long history in America of a younger generation differentiating and distancing itself from their parents’ generation. (It actually goes back to the 18th century.)"
"As a people, we are very much interested in making our own mark, blazing our own trail, and doing things our own way. From this respect, it was inevitable that Gen Xers would set themselves off from baby boomers as a cohort and attempt to carve out their collective identity. The same was and remains true for millennials and Gen Z," he explained.
That's usually a scam anyway, it means the company can donate to charity and get it deducted from taxes.
However, as we can see from these posts, common ground isn't that hard to find.
In fact, Bobby Duffy, Professor of Public Policy at King’s and formerly Head of Public Affairs at Ipsos, argued in his book 'Generations' that cohorts are not as important as most think and that the vast majority of issues and attitudes do not map neatly onto the definitions we have (which themselves are somewhat arbitrary, especially on a global scale).
He suggests that most of the polarizing issues facing the world today split the generations as well, and that the overarching societal shift towards more liberal attitudes on things like gay marriage, female employment, etc. are the result of opinions shifting across all generational groups over the last 30-40 years and are not the byproduct of a sudden influx of liberal youngsters into the voting booths.
A while ago I said something about sitting outside looking at the stars, and was called ableist (because some people can't get outside to do that). Like, i'm sorry about that and all, but we're at the point now where people really CAN'T say just ordinary mundane stuff without being called out.
I've never been to place with a QR menu that couldn't give you a paper menu if you asked. More places went to QR during covid and also to cheap copy paper menus. If they hand you the paper they toss it out if you leave it. If you use a QR menu there is no waste. I don't personally like looking at the menu on my phone screen but I get why many places implemented them.
The idea that the generations have way more in common than has been widely assumed is also supported by Ipsos Global Trustworthiness Monitor data.
Looking at how the different generations prioritize different criteria for judging whether sectors and brands are trustworthy, we can see a huge amount of common ground between the generations and little real division.
Agreed. If you need headlights brighter than a cop then you don't need to be driving in the dark.
Local petrol station is pushing their app super hard. "Pay on the app! Get the app! You can pay on the app!". Yeah, or I can go inside and pay there, without giving you my details.
My worst was when I went buy an SD card at Best Buy, there was no sales staff to help me find the right aisle and when I finally found it myself the first thing the check out asked was how much did I want to tip. Since I helped myself I'll just keep the tip thanks!
I am overwhelmed by the new tipping culture. It was bad enough to begin with, but over the past couple of years it's unbelievable. And if I don't tip it makes me feel guilty. I went to buy a donut the other day and they wanted a tip. Everything I do people want tipped.
Pay workers a living wage! Again, for those in the back: PAY WORKERS A LIVING WAGE!!! Then you don't have to worry about tipping.
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Pay enough to every one to be able to live on without being homeless and/or hungry at the end of the day. It's ridiculous in the richest economy ever people need the benevolence of their slightly better of peers to live with dignity.
Yes, but this isn't going to happen, so it's on us to fend off the tipping culture.
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it makes me angry ,when someones wage depends this much on tips - even more if the company suggest the amount. pay proper wages so everyone can live,even if there are days without customers. it's the risk of the companies not of the employee. And also charity work,that makes any social system staying alive,while politics buying bigger yachts and starting wars so,this is a boomer thing: ranting about general issues in the comment section - I find myself out
The problem is generally serving staff don't want to be paid a "proper wage" because they make more off tips than being paid a fair wage. Even restaurants that have tried it end up going back to tipping because that's what the wait staff want. Even more so now that so many places expect a 50% min tip. Doing self check out at a store and they ask me if I want to tip. I just checked myself out, I'll tip myself.
Load More Replies... Tips are "part of the deal" only for people who conduct independent money transactions: waitstaff, haircutters, taxis, etc. In those instances, if you don't tip, you are a thief. Tips are legally built into their pay structure. I'll give tips as thanks for a few other jobs (cleaning staff, food deliveries, AAA repairmen, etc.), especially when they go beyond the requirements of their job or when they've had to work for me under adverse conditions. That's my choice. Like hell I'll feel obligated to tip a cashier for selling me a candy bar.
In my homecountry tips are only for restaurant staff, and 10% is the standard. Nobody there has money to tip people in anything else but also nobody is allowed to pay their workers less than the minimum wage, which is a monthly wage, not hourly pay.
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I consider actually ASKING for a tip is the height of hubris and bad manners. A tip is an offering from the customer. To actually ask for one leaves me gobsmacked and I will simply not give anything at that point.
There's this wine/coffee house in Berlin by the Alexanderplatz area, when after we asked for the bill, they said (not asked if we could) to leave them a tip. We never went back there again.
Yes agreed, however what most are talking about is not being served by a waiter but waiting in line and just purchasing something like a beverage or coffee - then being asked by a prompt on the register if you'd like to leave a 20%, 25% or 35% tip. That's a helz to the no!
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I went to a donut shop earlier today, I went to a machine where you could order it yourself, and it asked FOR A TIP. THE MACHINE ASKED FOR A TIP.
Start paying servers decent wages and the vital need they have of tips will disappear.
Who actually gets the money from electronic tip prompts? Is it split equally among all staff? Managers included? I do not know. Who gets the tips at self checkout??
I do not know the correct answer but my bet would be Managers/Company
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Went inside a fast food place and ordered on an electronic menu, after I was finished and paid the damn thing added a $2 tip, didn't ask if I wanted to tip just took my money. I was so mad!
If you’re Republican, you brought it on yourself. This is happening because the federal minimum wage is still $7/hour and we all know which side is responsible for that.
im fine with tips. in fact, since the tips are needed for a decent wage, i always tip generously.
Right? Our favorite pizza place got rid of their delivery drivers and now only use GrubHub or DoorDash. I refuse to use these services on the basic principal YOU DON'T GET A TIP BEFORE PROVIDING A SERVICE. Do you tip your hairdresser BEFORE she cuts your hair, do you tip the waiter BEFORE he takes your order? NO, you don't. So I called in our order & drove to the pizza place. The girl at the counter, LITERALLY, took 4 steps to retrieve my pizza and took 4 steps back to hand it to me. Then she turned the payment terminal to me & I clicked NO TIP. She looks like she's about to say something & I was like, "You took a total of 8 steps to give me my pizza - a trained monkey could do that, and there is no way in hell you deserve a tip for doing the absolute minimum that your job entails."
I've written about this tipping " disease " before, so no more to add.
I ordered dinner for my family through the restaurant's website that offered delivery. I tipped through the website....the delivery driver was from a completely different company, texted me and demanded a tip because they were bringing our meal. No one should expect a tip, but also, shame on the restaurant for not communicating they went through a food delivery app.
This must be a US answer. I live in the UK and generally speaking we don't tip. But people in the service industry are subject to a living wage.
" just puts coffee in a cup for me" bish that's a lie they do a lot more than that
Pay your employees a fair wage and stop trying to make believe customers that you need to underpay people to stay in business. If your prices put you out of business, that's your fault, not the workers and not the customers.
I tip for teens working at ice cream shops and for services where I'm supplementing their pay. I don't agree with that second one, but we have to change the whole structure to fix that one. I tend to look at it two ways - did they perform a specialized service that I couldn't do myself (like a hair cut) and do they get paid an actual paycheck (yes I know minimum wage is not enough to live on, but it's different than surviving on tips). If I go to Starbucks for coffee, for example, I'm not tipping. They may not make a ton of money, but it is a job with an actual paycheck (unlike say, being a server in a restaurant).
In New York the minimum wage is $15 an hour. More than double the Federal.
Yes, there is some variance in the strength of feeling that different generations have for different criteria; baby boomers, for example, are far more likely to prioritize reliability and openness/transparency than younger generations, while Gen Z and millennials rate more of the lesser priority issues more highly such as value sharing, intent and the importance of leadership.
I've been against electronics controlling the place I live since I heard the words "I'm afraid I can't do that, Dave."
But despite these differences and variations in the strength of feeling, all four generations regard the same four trust drivers; reliability, openness/transparency, responsibility, and value for the price, as the most important and in the same rank order.
Yes, I talk to everyone. I was a cashier for about 10 years, and the habit of making a bit of conversation with everyone has carried over into the rest of my life.
If we turn our attention to looking at how the different generations judge the trustworthiness of different industry sectors and institutions, again, we see that the usual narrative of younger generations being less trusting isn't the case at all.
The older generations trust most sectors less than millennials or Gen Z.
Yes, they have. And incredibly oblivious to what's going on around them. Does an elderly person need help opening a heavy door ? Oblivious. Did you notice that person looking for their car ? Could care less. Did it occur to you that someone might be behind you while walking through a door ? Eh, not my problem. People today SUCK !
Baby boomers and Gen X are less likely to trust financial services, energy, oil & gas, banking, social media companies, and consumer-packaged goods than those younger than them, with more significant differences between the elder and younger generations in each case.
I'm retired so I make all my appointments around midday so working folks can have the early morning or late afternoon spots.
I'm starting to think turn signals are an optional accessory on new cars...or maybe the car maker just wants a paid subscription to use them.
Or kids playing video games with the volume all the way up cause that is the only way they can sit still and be quiet.
One could be forgiven for expecting that younger generations are less trusting of oil & gas, given the climate crisis facing their futures and the assumptions we often make about how they feel about the environment and sustainability. The same could be said of banking, with many growing up through the financial crash of 2008. But it's the older age groups yet again with the lowest level of trust in these sectors.
Not only do they stand side by side, they also walk with just enough space between them that you can’t squeeze between them but also not enough to get around them.
So, generational divides are not as large or as significant as many would assume.
If you too have boomer complaints (or are a boomer yourself and don't see the youth as morally bankrupt), don't worry. You might be even closer to them than you've been told.
That's partly because lots of them have parents who can't afford houses with backyards. Kids can't just "go play outside" when they live in an apartment and "outside" is a parking lot near a busy street. Screen addition is a problem for people of all ages these days, but let's not ignore that capitalism has made it difficult for many families to have the time and money to just relax in green spaces.
Or live theater too? Every single performance I've seen the last few years has been interrupted by people arriving late and walking in front of me/needing me to stand up so they can squeeze through the otherwise full row of seats just as the show starts - pet peeve for sure!
My students used to talk to me before class. I adored my students and they used to flick me s*** about my college basketball preferences. They also used to call me Professor Chicken because when I got married, if I had hyphenated my name (I didn't), the hyphenated name would have sounded like a chicken clucking. They never got tired of that one. Splendid kids, the lot of 'em.
Yes. Also, I work at a tutoring center and the number of kids 10 and under who insist that they don't need to learn to read or do well in school because they're going to "be a YouTuber" when they grow up is disturbing. You can't pay rent trying to get random strangers to watch you play Fortnite with lame commentary.
All well and good until you have the issue we did in Australia a few weeks ago when Optus had a mass outage for several hours putting electronic payment systems out of action, many businesses had trade impacted.
I still can't get over that my phone doesn't have a headphone jack. Whose terrible idea was this???
Yes! And stop leaving the carts in random parking spaces so cars don't have room!
Teen here, and yeah. We don't want to hear your music or whatever video you're watching. Wear. Headphones. Or. Earbuds. I SWEAR.
I choose the self checkout 100% of the time if it's available. I prefer packing things the way I want them. And it keeps me from feeling judged about what I'm buying. :) One time I had tampons, Advil, and chocolate (among other things) in my basket and when I checked out the cashier said really loud "I put all your period stuff in the same bag for you honey!". LOL!! I know she was just being nice, but it was mortifying.
Camera use in changing rooms where people are naked should be banned.
Yeah seems unsanitary to have one (not a service animal) in a grocery store or a restaurant.
honestly, as a recent Girl Scout, we were taught both of those things
I argue that women need better collared shirt options. I am so sick of blouses, many of which have uncomfortable fabric. I work in IT - wearing a flowy, flowery blouse will just get in the flipping way, and I get sick of polos. Plus, half the “modern” collared shirts and polos for women are made for incredibly flat or athletic figures. I have both decent sized boobs and hips - your moisture wicking, no stretch fabric is annoying af.
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Without the divisiveness ('boomer') this just reads as common-sense complaints about stuff.
And that would be MY complaint!! Why do we have to label everyone as a certain generation, and use it as an insult????
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Adverts on tv are louder than the program. Despite the stations denying it.
I have to keep lowering the sound so it doesn't scare my upstairs neighbor, though I think she might be hearing impaired anyway.
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Customer service call centers outsourcing to somewhere like the Philippines because it's way cheaper. This is not *always* an issue, but it is when you cannot understand what the rep is saying because their accent is so thick. The place I work (a very large corporation) has its help desk in the Philippines, and I dread every time I have to call them, because I end up having to tell the person to repeat themselves at least a half-dozen times, and even after that I'm still not totally sure what they said to me.
Same. The last time I called IT, it was so annoying listening to the rooster crowing in the background.
Load More Replies... Sitting through commercials on the BP app. That's what I could do without.
People seem to be completely unaware of their surroundings. Saw one girl on staring at her phone nearly get killed 3 times at a crossing as she kept stepping into the road while the lights were green and cars were moving. Some idiot on an e-scooter crashed into me from behind because he wasn’t looking where he was going
My number one complain is evrything looks so fuzzy. Bring back days when the word was clear and sharp, not this blurry and foggy like now.
Have you been tested for glaucoma? This is not a joke.
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In the US at least, I agree and would add taking away someone else’s rights or choices due to religious motivation. Just because your religion forbids something, doesn’t mean you should forbid it for others too.
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Not a Boomer. Don't like divisiveness. Many of these are perfectly valid.
Some are valid most are whining or ignoring the societal reasons behind the issue. Not boomer exclusive though
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My complaint - the louder the car, the dumber the driver. Oh, you paid a ridiculously large amount to replace the exhaust on your 2008 sedan? It doesn't sound like a muscle car, it sounds like a weed whacker. And driving around with the stereo volume maxed and windows open doesn't make you look cool, it just announces to the world how terrible your taste in music is.
How about when they keep the windows up and the car just vibrates so badly from the 'music' you think the panels are going to pop off.
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Young people these days don’t seem to have been taught consideration for others. They’re so entitled and think they’re important — they’re not.
Not just young people (being a "boomer", a term which I detest as much as I detest Gen Pi squared or anything else they might come up with, (we are all people, not labels) older people can be just as rude and entitled as a teenager. Good manners should be taught from a very early age. This applies as much to children born and raised during any century as it does to children born in this century. (Be kind to me, I've had a difficult day arguing with a bot on whatsapp just because I wanted to change an email address!!)
Load More Replies... People ( usually younger ones ) of both genders who wear awful strong smelling perfume. God help us, it's disgusting and nausea inducing.
Engine idling. People complain about the cost of fuel and air pollution but they're still prepared to waste it not going anywhere.
I didn't even get into the article itself before I had to come and complain - this OP thinks we take dogs too many places??? We're not allowed to take them pretty much anywhere, not even cafe patios in the US! It's so rare if its allowed, I can't think of anyplace in my city. Screw you, dog-hating OP.
That really varies from City to city and community. I lived in one where they went almost everywhere and finally the health department had to come down and say okay you can take them there but they can't sit at the table and they can't sit on your lap when food is being served I'm serious it came down to that. I don't dislike dogs but I don't like eating dog hair
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I'm sick and tired of boomers whining about everything. “If they would rather die they had better do it and decrease the surplus population”
What planet are you living on? The vast majority of surrogate pregnancies are because the woman can't either get pregnant, or can't bring a pregnancy to full term. I have friends who had to turn to surrogacy, and it's in no way a frivolous decision.
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Without the divisiveness ('boomer') this just reads as common-sense complaints about stuff.
And that would be MY complaint!! Why do we have to label everyone as a certain generation, and use it as an insult????
Load More Replies... Adverts on tv are louder than the program. Despite the stations denying it.
I have to keep lowering the sound so it doesn't scare my upstairs neighbor, though I think she might be hearing impaired anyway.
Load More Replies... Customer service call centers outsourcing to somewhere like the Philippines because it's way cheaper. This is not *always* an issue, but it is when you cannot understand what the rep is saying because their accent is so thick. The place I work (a very large corporation) has its help desk in the Philippines, and I dread every time I have to call them, because I end up having to tell the person to repeat themselves at least a half-dozen times, and even after that I'm still not totally sure what they said to me.
Same. The last time I called IT, it was so annoying listening to the rooster crowing in the background.
Load More Replies... Sitting through commercials on the BP app. That's what I could do without.
People seem to be completely unaware of their surroundings. Saw one girl on staring at her phone nearly get killed 3 times at a crossing as she kept stepping into the road while the lights were green and cars were moving. Some idiot on an e-scooter crashed into me from behind because he wasn’t looking where he was going
My number one complain is evrything looks so fuzzy. Bring back days when the word was clear and sharp, not this blurry and foggy like now.
Have you been tested for glaucoma? This is not a joke.
Load More Replies... In the US at least, I agree and would add taking away someone else’s rights or choices due to religious motivation. Just because your religion forbids something, doesn’t mean you should forbid it for others too.
Load More Replies... Not a Boomer. Don't like divisiveness. Many of these are perfectly valid.
Some are valid most are whining or ignoring the societal reasons behind the issue. Not boomer exclusive though
Load More Replies... My complaint - the louder the car, the dumber the driver. Oh, you paid a ridiculously large amount to replace the exhaust on your 2008 sedan? It doesn't sound like a muscle car, it sounds like a weed whacker. And driving around with the stereo volume maxed and windows open doesn't make you look cool, it just announces to the world how terrible your taste in music is.
How about when they keep the windows up and the car just vibrates so badly from the 'music' you think the panels are going to pop off.
Load More Replies... Young people these days don’t seem to have been taught consideration for others. They’re so entitled and think they’re important — they’re not.
Not just young people (being a "boomer", a term which I detest as much as I detest Gen Pi squared or anything else they might come up with, (we are all people, not labels) older people can be just as rude and entitled as a teenager. Good manners should be taught from a very early age. This applies as much to children born and raised during any century as it does to children born in this century. (Be kind to me, I've had a difficult day arguing with a bot on whatsapp just because I wanted to change an email address!!)
Load More Replies... People ( usually younger ones ) of both genders who wear awful strong smelling perfume. God help us, it's disgusting and nausea inducing.
Engine idling. People complain about the cost of fuel and air pollution but they're still prepared to waste it not going anywhere.
I didn't even get into the article itself before I had to come and complain - this OP thinks we take dogs too many places??? We're not allowed to take them pretty much anywhere, not even cafe patios in the US! It's so rare if its allowed, I can't think of anyplace in my city. Screw you, dog-hating OP.
That really varies from City to city and community. I lived in one where they went almost everywhere and finally the health department had to come down and say okay you can take them there but they can't sit at the table and they can't sit on your lap when food is being served I'm serious it came down to that. I don't dislike dogs but I don't like eating dog hair
Load More Replies... I'm sick and tired of boomers whining about everything. “If they would rather die they had better do it and decrease the surplus population”
What planet are you living on? The vast majority of surrogate pregnancies are because the woman can't either get pregnant, or can't bring a pregnancy to full term. I have friends who had to turn to surrogacy, and it's in no way a frivolous decision.
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