We bring you a lot of uplifting stories here at Bored Panda. From feelgood happenings that restore your faith in humanity to inspirational people and happy facts, we love sharing examples of humans being kind, thoughtful, altruistic, and just downright awesome to one another.

But there's always the flip side. The times when people were thoughtless, disrespectful, selfish, and mean, the times when rude people were just, well... jerks. Because that's part of being human too.

Compiled into an infuriating list by Bored Panda, these snapshots of appalling social behavior will leave you disappointed with your fellow man; but at the same time, you might realize that in comparison to these jerks, you aren't that bad a person, after all. Scroll down below to check them out for yourself, and don't forget to vote for the human behavior that angered you the most!

#1

Our Dorm Building Only Has One Facilities Person To Clean, She Works So Hard Yet The People On My Floor Are Still Disgusting. I Can't Blame Her For Leaving This Note

Our Dorm Building Only Has One Facilities Person To Clean, She Works So Hard Yet The People On My Floor Are Still Disgusting. I Can't Blame Her For Leaving This Note

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Rue Granger
Community Member
1 year ago

People are disgusting!

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According to the website PsychMechanics, there are some basics about the psychology of selfishness that we all should know:

A selfish person is the one who puts his own needs first. He's primarily concerned with himself and seeks out only those activities that fulfill his own desires and wants. Anything wrong with that? I don’t think so.

Going by that definition, we're all selfish in one way or the other. All of us want to do things that are ultimately for our own good and well-being. This type of selfishness is good and desirable.

So far so good. The problem arises when we do things for ourselves and at the same time ignore the needs of those around us or when we fulfill our needs at the expense of others. When you make life difficult for others to meet your own ends, then that kind of selfishness is the selfishness that you’d like to avoid.

#2

Even Though I Don’t Work Here, The Parents With Their Children In The Photo Made A Mess In The Toy Aisle At A Store. I Feel Sorry For Whoever Would Have To Clean That Up

Even Though I Don’t Work Here, The Parents With Their Children In The Photo Made A Mess In The Toy Aisle At A Store. I Feel Sorry For Whoever Would Have To Clean That Up

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Marc
Community Member
1 year ago

To be honest - As a store owner, I would call the police and let them pay for everything they used. I guess that is the only language people like this speak. What kind of example does a behavior like this give to your children? You can act like an a-hole? This is so bad.

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#3

This Lady Kneeling On Bread While She Looks At Other Bread

This Lady Kneeling On Bread While She Looks At Other Bread

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Marc
Community Member
1 year ago

Sorry, but why didn't you say anything instead of making photos? Don't let people like this get away with sh** like this. The reason they are acting in this way is because they don't care, as no one probably ever told them to stop. Again, this is disrespectful and shouldn't be ignored!

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There are several reasons that could make someone selfish...

A person who holds on to his resources and doesn't give it to the needy can be considered a selfish person and this is the type of selfishness that we commonly refer to when we say that someone is selfish.

When we say that someone is selfish, we usually mean that he doesn't share his resources (money, time, etc.). Now, why won’t a person share his resources, even if it's the best thing to do in a given situation?

The biggest reason is that he thinks he doesn't have enough. A selfish person, therefore, is also likely to be stingy. This insecurity of not having enough motivates a person to hold on to his resources and not share them.

#4

If You Or Your Kids Think That It's A Good Idea To Leave The Cinema Like This, Damn You

If You Or Your Kids Think That It's A Good Idea To Leave The Cinema Like This, Damn You

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Tecolote
Community Member
1 year ago

My mom would have made clean it up! We both had to work hard cleaning up after other people to get where we are in life and I will be damned if I do something like this to some poor hard working soul.

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#5

He/She Saw Nothing Wrong With Parking There

He/She Saw Nothing Wrong With Parking There

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Charlotte Brine
Community Member
1 year ago

People who do this deserve to get their car damaged by the air ambulance crew and their streacher. It's probably the only way they'll learn.

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Another reason is a fear of losing control. If someone has many needs and goals, then he overvalues his resources because he thinks that these resources are going to help him reach his goals. If he loses his resources, he loses his goals and if he loses his goals he feels he has lost control over his life.

For example, a student who doesn't share his study notes with others is the one who has high academic goals and sharing notes could mean losing an important resource that could help him reach his goal. And not being able to reach your goals is a perfect recipe for a feeling of loss of control over your life.

In other cases, the way a person was raised can also make him act in selfish ways. The only child or the child whose every demand was met by his parents (spoilt child) learns to take as much as he can and give very little back.

Such children learn to care only for their needs with little empathy or consideration for others. As children, we were all like that to some extent but gradually we began to learn that other people have emotions too and so developed empathy.

Some people never learn empathy and therefore remain selfish, just like when they were kids.

#6

Urgh...

Urgh...

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Charlotte Brine
Community Member
1 year ago

Gollum???

Patricia HA
Community Member
1 year ago

Haha...that's what I was going to write!

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Monica small
Community Member
1 year ago

That is beyond nasty. I can't believe how rude and disgusting people are. Those feet look like the smell like swampy sewer and ass!

Restless
Community Member
1 year ago

swampass :-) Agree, that is disgusting

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Biljana Malesevic
Community Member
1 year ago

Even sparkly clean feet are gross but this! What the hell man do you even bathe, ever?

Bobert Robertson
Community Member
1 year ago

Legs look shaved so I’m guessing it’s a woman

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N G
Community Member
1 year ago

Don't be disgusted, it's difficult growing potatoes between your toes

Turnip and a Frog
Community Member
1 year ago

🤣🤣🤣

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John
Community Member
1 year ago

I think I would "accidentally" spill my fresh steaming hot cup of coffee on them.

M.A.D.
Community Member
1 year ago

That moment when you spill something on someone, but you're actually doing them a favour.

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Lizanne
Community Member
1 year ago

Ding, ding, ding, ding, DING!! Calling a Flight Attendant for Seat Upgrade or at the very least to bring Clorox wipes to clean that arm rest after those utterly disgusting feet are moved.

danielw
Community Member
1 year ago

I wonder how the jerk would respond if you started wiping down his feet with said bleach-wipes.

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Charlotte
Community Member
1 year ago

I would have broken every one of those nasty ass, hobbit-looking fucking toes. Get those the. Fuck. Away. From. Me. You. Complete. Degenerate. Ugh.

Britt L Free
Community Member
1 year ago

All the LOLz, literally! (Bc you're so right 💯)

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Rob Chapman
Community Member
1 year ago

Ugh. I was eating while I was scrolling through this. I just lost my appetite.

Foxxy
Community Member
1 year ago

🤢🤢🤮🤮 I would find something to stab that foot with.

Lululoohoo
Community Member
1 year ago

Did she go through a swamp to get there? Disgusting

Mariana Schneider
Community Member
1 year ago

I would have sneezed on them.

Jjjane20
Community Member
1 year ago

I would throw up. Disgusting.

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Alexa
Community Member
1 year ago

I've seen this picture before. Like I've said before, I would have superglued their feet to the wall if I had it on me.

HoffLensMetalHedLovesAnimalsUK
Community Member
1 year ago

That is a big no, i would hit them with something sharp until they were out of sight.

Mary Ann Illegit
Community Member
1 year ago

I would have gotten something and wacked those feet down. If the owner complained I would just say I thought they were a dirty rat or something!

Marc
Community Member
1 year ago

I nearly had to throw up... No, just no. Disgusting! I mean, don't you have any self-respect at all?

Eric Mac Fadden
Community Member
1 year ago

If you do, do it there! Now who's more disgusting?

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Valerie Lessard
Community Member
1 year ago

This is why airlines distribute those slippers or socks on long haul flights...use it

Aunt Messy
Community Member
1 year ago

I once "accidentally" spilled hot tea on someone's foot because of this.

Amina Hays
Community Member
1 year ago

That's fucking vile.

Debra Starr Moon
Community Member
1 year ago

How do you go out in public and show those disgusting, unhygienic feet?!

Isabella
Community Member
1 year ago

I just always have toothpicks or a pen with me and stab people who do so. Not even once they had the balls to complain to the staff :P

Steve Cruz
Community Member
1 year ago

Looks like chipped polish on those nails. Strike up a friendly conversation: "Were you held captive for long before you escaped?"

SBW71
Community Member
1 year ago

That's just nasty. I think I would have to "accidentally" slam my elbow on them and play dumb that I didn't realize those skank feet were there. Just trying to use my arm rest.

Mia Cardenas
Community Member
1 year ago

There's no way I'm touching those things.

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Toujin C'Thlu
Community Member
1 year ago

Disgusting...how can some people have so little self-awareness?

Julieta S.
Community Member
1 year ago

I would have poured some water on them. Last time I was in the movies and this jerk in the back row put his feet on the top of the seat beside me, then started snoring. I tied his laces together and then tied those to the seat. Pity I couldn't stay to watch when he woke up.

Philippe Gut
Community Member
1 year ago

Happened to me in First Class from Auckland NZ to San Francisco....told them to move them or they would be moved for them.

Josie Uvlugiayaaq
Community Member
1 year ago

Wtf! I totally would say something. Gross

Katniss Everdeen
Community Member
1 year ago

I would poke them if they weren't so gross...

Iceroyalmilktea
Community Member
1 year ago

wtf, is washing your feet such a chore? that feet looks like it hasn't touch any water for a month

Trin Merrick
Community Member
1 year ago

More than a month!

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Zelda Blue
Community Member
1 year ago

This person would have no option but to wash their nasty ass feet after I threw up on them. People are disgusting.

Wendy
Community Member
1 year ago

That is fucking disgusting

Suzanne Dunne
Community Member
1 year ago

Vile!

Abby
Community Member
1 year ago

Gross. Their feet are gross.

Anar Liddell
Community Member
1 year ago

LOL)))

Laily F. Noor
Community Member
1 year ago

Oh NO!

Marleen
Community Member
1 year ago

Feet in general are not that sexy to me but THAT is SO disgusting!

louis porter
Community Member
1 year ago

Too bad you can't carry a knife in a carry-on bag. Would be useful to give these disgusing feet a good stab.

Fire Chalk
Community Member
1 year ago

Are you kidding

StonedPanda
Community Member
1 year ago

Hippie?!

Rashid Patch
Community Member
1 year ago

An elbow strike can solve that instantly.

birdhouse
Community Member
1 year ago

Nope!

Barbara Budnick
Community Member
1 year ago

I swear I'd break her toe!

Mia Cardenas
Community Member
1 year ago

nope. Not touching those

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Jo Choto
Community Member
1 year ago

I've seen a few of these people who go on some beach-trekking backpacking holiday and think that personal hygiene is optional.

Sophie Klooster, van 't
Community Member
1 year ago

Eeew.... THATS disgusting! Yikes

John Smith
Community Member
1 year ago

You don't take a picture. You tell them to get their fucking feet down. That is all.

Bettina Jansen
Community Member
1 year ago

I'd scream and throw water on it

Kate Swartz
Community Member
1 year ago

Omg no. Just no.

NWB
Community Member
1 year ago

not cool!!!

Jordan W.
Community Member
1 year ago

Did you recline your seat to crush his toe?

Jace
Community Member
1 year ago

Why do so many people do this???

MissPrideGirl
Community Member
1 year ago

That is disgusting 🤢

Joannie Goulet
Community Member
1 year ago

Is this a zombie?

Grumble O'Pug
Community Member
1 year ago

Where’s my hat pin when I need it!!

Give me a beagle any day...
Community Member
1 year ago

OMG I would be so LIVID if someone parked their nasty filthy feet near me like this. There is NO excuse for having feet this dirty, except for mental illness!

Iris Wolfie (づ ◕‿◕ )づ
Community Member
2 months ago

*barfs silently*

ADDYSON DAVIES
Community Member
1 year ago

omg i would turned around and let all hell break loose

Patty Tripp
Community Member
1 year ago

They should be quarantined.

James Pointer
Community Member
1 year ago

Erghh Why does it look like hair between the little toe. such a weird placement if that's hair

Cynthia Cantu
Community Member
1 year ago

Fuck all that! I would’ve said something.

Karin Morris
Community Member
1 year ago

Oh those are some skanky feet, and it's a girl. UGH

Irene Atencio
Community Member
1 year ago

That is disgusting.

Janet Elliott
Community Member
1 year ago

Swamp monster

John Bennick
Community Member
1 year ago

Whoever those feet belong to is just about ready for a double amputation.

OTTER
Community Member
1 year ago

OMG!!!! Oh what I’d do if I saw those feet!!

Britt L Free
Community Member
1 year ago

Y'all if I turned in my seat & saw this I would have screamed "OH MY F*ING GAWD" I'm so serious! Then hit the attendant button while turning around to tell that person if they don't wanna hobble for life GET YOUR FILTHY FEET OFF MY ARMREST! Just all holy hell to the no!

Trevor Hartley
Community Member
1 year ago

This is why we *should* be allowed to tale sharp objects onto flights!

Gina Amesbury
Community Member
1 year ago

What the hell!? Who's feet like like that!!

Marie Lastname
Community Member
1 year ago

You turn around and ask "Is this necessary?" if you dare to do it. Wouldn't dare to do it with one person I occasionally see on the bus loudly talking to someone in his head and in one case spitting (with a lot of phlegm) on the bus floor.

Momo Skarsgård
Community Member
1 year ago

Stab her with a pencil! Lmaooo Disgusting she outta be ashamed of herself.

Kathleen Noble Mahan
Community Member
1 year ago

Hasn’t had their monthly bath yet! 😖

Bob White
Community Member
1 year ago

Ooops! I spilled my hot coffee!

Stanley Yayo
Community Member
1 year ago

Smego/Orcs.

TC
Community Member
1 year ago

I'd do with a sharp knife ...

Dagmar Stojanovic
Community Member
1 year ago

What happens to people to end up dirty and rude like this?

Mihiteruarewa Rangitaawa
Community Member
1 year ago

WTF?? that's just disgusting!!

Marcia Seever
Community Member
1 year ago

So disgusting!

Kim Lorton
Community Member
1 year ago

Filthy! Cow!

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Community Member
1 year ago

I'd be saying something. I'm not ignoring that on a flight.

Lisa LaRae
Community Member
1 year ago

I think I would scream if this were me. Very very bad manners! Goodness!!!!

Jenny Bryl
Community Member
1 year ago

ew

Jennifer Mossey
Community Member
1 year ago

This is not your home, act like you where not born yesterday and hav e a little respect.

Cristina Sacchi
Community Member
1 year ago

Just threw up in my mouth a little. 🤢

Alycia Bell
Community Member
1 year ago

Give em a little tickle!!!! joking - all these comments have me in stitches though!!

Cindy Collins
Community Member
1 year ago

That is fucking gross Wash your feet!

Will Murray
Community Member
1 year ago

How is it possible to have feet like this? I don’t care is this dude looked like The Mountain, I would say something

okpkpkp
Community Member
1 year ago

"Accidently" spill a cola or some other really sticky drink, say sorry and the owner of those disgusting feet will have to go wash them in the toilet or airplane sink. Or call the air marshall and have him shot.

Ana M
Community Member
1 year ago

No, no, I tell the stewardess and in a loud voice.

Xavier HU
Community Member
1 year ago

Unexpected journey by the air.

Chris & Tania Forbes
Community Member
1 year ago

That's wrong on so many leaves & disrespect full to the person in front

Garth Robinson
Community Member
1 year ago

No problem, a good crop of potatoes there...........

Anthony Picco
Community Member
1 year ago

Toes would have been broken by me in 30 seconds if they weren't removed. End of story

Azsha Lindsay
Community Member
1 year ago

😫😫😣😠😷😷😴

Brenda Pereira
Community Member
1 year ago

This is putrid! I would certainly complained to the flight attendant.

Irene Walton
Community Member
1 year ago

OMG . I would freak!

Katinka Min
Community Member
1 year ago

Nope. I would not be tolerating this.

Sue Clifford
Community Member
1 year ago

OMG🤮🤮🤮🤮

Joelyn Kitzmiller
Community Member
1 year ago

🤢🤢🤢

Mark Evans
Community Member
1 year ago

OMFG....

Predrag DC
Community Member
1 year ago

wtf?

Rocky Joe
Community Member
1 year ago

I did this once, because the asshole in the front seat recline his seat so fast when I had meal on my table.

Josey Griffin
Community Member
1 year ago

Yuk, fancy showing how disgusting you are.

Barbar Stewart
Community Member
1 year ago

Oh gross

Bettye McKee
Community Member
1 year ago

Dirty and disgusting!

Nicholas Miller
Community Member
1 year ago

flight attendant may I have a plastic fork.

Mandy Davis
Community Member
1 year ago

Biggest annoyance when flying out and back home to Vegas. The people that feel the plane is their personal toilet.

Rosalind Nelson
Community Member
1 year ago

why didn't the air hostesses say anything? Disgusting

sharron lynn parsons
Community Member
1 year ago

I am stunned, have never seen anything this horrific !!!

Windkissed
Community Member
1 year ago

Part of the problem is that is no doubt a “younger person”...for some reason some of that generation missed out on the lesson on courtesy.

SarcasticGamer
Community Member
1 year ago

Flight to NZ?

Maureen Peters
Community Member
1 year ago

Disgusting and nasty!!!

Gary Graefen
Community Member
1 year ago

I would have smacked there feet with a newspaper or magazine LOL ok-thats-j...e27014.jpg ok-thats-just-gross-5d21014e27014.jpg

Jonny Chevalier
Community Member
1 year ago

always bring disinfectant towels on a plane.

Celtic Pirate Queen
Community Member
1 year ago

Nasty!

Reenie Smith Shaw
Community Member
1 year ago

Eww

Kim Bush
Community Member
1 year ago

That makes me wonder just how bad that person had to smell Ugh

Ashley Wright
Community Member
1 year ago

OMG what a vile pig. Probably one of those travelers abroad who beg for money so they can “see the world”

Belinda Crum
Community Member
1 year ago

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 I would have to tell them to move their nasty ass feet.

Jo B. Ventura Gurule
Community Member
1 year ago

Get your ehffing dirty disgusting feet off my arm rests!!

Lisa Chambers
Community Member
1 year ago

Uh no. Time to roll up that skymall catalog and get to swatting!

Shirley Heyn
Community Member
1 year ago

That looks like a disease waiting to find a new home. . . hopefully you did more than take the photo.

Kiro
Community Member
1 year ago

Try this on me and I'd chop your toe off.

Roberto Durante
Community Member
1 year ago

it's disgusting

KT Trondsen
Community Member
1 year ago

Jesus in a hand basket!!! Why on earth would you do that?? Especially if your feet look like you've waded in a septic tank!

Sharon Madsen
Community Member
1 year ago

OMG

Monica Siciliano
Community Member
1 year ago

I would cut them off....

Sherry Harvey
Community Member
1 year ago

Sorry, but I would sit up in my seat on my knees and tell this disgusting person to get his or her nasty feet off off of my armrest. In those words.

Ms E
Community Member
1 year ago

Someone's been on a warm island for vacation, maybe?

Caprice Percle
Community Member
1 year ago

That is when you call the flight attendant! How disgusting!

Nikki Angulo
Community Member
1 year ago

Elbow down on toes! Then Clorox bleach your elbow!

Fiona Toms-Yarnton
Community Member
1 year ago

Oh dear, I happen to be doing my embroidery, and my eyesight is poor, the (very sharp) needle keeps slipping off the fabric...

Laura Johnston
Community Member
1 year ago

That is disgusting. It's bad enough when people have clean feet, but to put your filthy feet up like that is just gross. Never thought I'd say this but what the hell is wrong with people today?

Karina Andersen
Community Member
1 year ago

disgusting & something I have complained about

Rob Roy Metre
Community Member
1 year ago

this is the moment when carrying a small bottle of bleach could come in handy, or footy

Aryan Aryan
Community Member
1 year ago

Spill some hot tea "accidentally".

BusLady
Community Member
1 year ago

I would be tempted to take a barf bag and put it on these filthy feet.

Louise Stange-Wahl
Community Member
1 year ago

O M G! Makes me want to BARF! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TGPYBb2DRsg

Wendy J Shores
Community Member
1 year ago

What a pig...

Susann Campbell
Community Member
1 year ago

" Stewardess ?" as I turn on my light to get him or her there as fast as I can.

Nyree Williams
Community Member
1 year ago

No. Just no. I woulda emptied the pepper spray and the Lysol on this clown! Ewwwww! Effing post 9/11 rules. No pepper spray or Lysol on planes! I would have been the one making a scene though. Asking why this person with questionable hygiene was on a plane in the first place.

Lona nods
Community Member
1 year ago

naw, why do people think they are at home . that is disgusting and then to just put them on the seat like that as if it's okay. but will get mad when someone call them out.

Šimon Špaček
Community Member
1 year ago

Maybe this is the real reason why knifes are prohibited on planes now?

Michele Main
Community Member
1 year ago

now way!!!! I would stab her damn discusting feet

Vinniegret
Community Member
1 year ago

Raised by wolves.

Theresa Tzitzira
Community Member
1 year ago

Yikes!

Lola
Community Member
1 year ago

Probably one of those who go to the airplane bathroom barefoot.

Mia Cardenas
Community Member
1 year ago

And those are women's feet!!!!!!!!

Mia Cardenas
Community Member
1 year ago

Revolting

TheAnimeGirl
Community Member
1 year ago

OMG THATS DISCUSTING how would they feel if this was them!!!!

Cookie
Community Member
1 year ago

Why bother painting the nails?

Tammy Ralph
Community Member
1 year ago

Ah for gawd's sake, what the fuck?

Jessica Temple
Community Member
1 year ago

oh noooo way.

Tambot
Community Member
1 year ago

This is shocking! Haha

Panda Baller
Community Member
1 year ago

oh man this is just such a treat!

David Redman
Community Member
1 year ago

Flight attendant...flight attendant. Either tell person to put on shoes or move them to another seat.

Vilkas
Community Member
1 year ago

Wash your feet, you fucking pig.

Dre Mosley
Community Member
1 year ago

Disgusting take a bath and get a pedicure, ASAP

Id row
Community Member
1 year ago

No way could I sit with that without saying something. Taking a picture would not be the first thought to come to mind.

Tora Wookiee Macaw
Community Member
1 year ago

Quick stab with a sharp toothpick works wonders.

Chung Mai Thanh
Community Member
1 year ago

It surprise me why not be in his face

Sandy Kavanaugh
Community Member
1 year ago

Oh god, my eyes!!!!!!

Johanna-Nicollette Kidd
Community Member
1 year ago

Eeew

Michelle Muirhead
Community Member
1 year ago

Stick a fork into it, maybe the diseased things will run away!

Lira Mai
Community Member
1 year ago

seeing a feet (even if it is clean and well manicured) in your arm chair is disgusting enough and then this...

Darlene Michuk
Community Member
1 year ago

WHAT IS THAT

Nathalie Hidalgo
Community Member
1 year ago

WTF?! NOOOOOOO! I wouldn't feel bad for asking to take HER feet off -- in fact I'd stand up and turn around to TELL that grubby person to put HER shoes back on !!!

Wendy Rance
Community Member
1 year ago

I would have to say something

AuntyJem
Community Member
1 year ago

Just... why?

María Hermida
Community Member
1 year ago

WHAT IS THAT?????

Sandra Thames
Community Member
1 year ago

Yikes...get the pilot and get this person off the plane!!

Josie Jones
Community Member
1 year ago

Seriously if you can't tell this person off you've no right to complain. I don't understand why people put up with this kinda stuff I'd just tell them off!

Lyop
Community Member
1 year ago

I don't like this.

jo_shortland
Community Member
1 year ago

Gross

Analyn Lahr
Community Member
1 year ago

Ewww!

Daniel
Community Member
1 year ago

Da fuck?!

Woets
Community Member
1 year ago

Order some tea during turbulence?

White Raven
Community Member
1 year ago

This is disgusting

David Brier
Community Member
1 year ago

Looks like the passenger stepped in doodie and wants to share.

Ronel du Plessis
Community Member
1 year ago

WTF???

Jolijn Njamin-Geurts van Kessel
Community Member
1 year ago

This picture literally made me throw up my tea

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Was Told To Post This Here. Woman Stomped All Over The Plants In This Conservatory For Instagram Shots Despite Staff Repeatedly Asking Her To Stop

Was Told To Post This Here. Woman Stomped All Over The Plants In This Conservatory For Instagram Shots Despite Staff Repeatedly Asking Her To Stop

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Toujin C'Thlu
Community Member
1 year ago

I hope she was banned after this.

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The most important thing to do when dealing with a selfish reason is to figure out the reason for his selfishness and then work on eliminating that reason.

All other methods and efforts of dealing with him are going to be in vain. Ask yourselves questions like...Why is he being selfish? What is he feeling so insecure about? Are you making unrealistic demands of him? Is he really in a position to meet your demands?

We are often too quick to label someone ‘selfish’ instead of admitting that we failed to persuade them or that our demands are unreasonable.

But what if they are really being selfish and you're not just falsely labeling them?

Well then, help them get rid of their insecurity. Show them that they're not going to lose anything by giving you what you want. Or better yet, show them how they may benefit by helping you if there's a possibility of a win-win situation.

#8

Letting Your Kid Watch A Movie On Full Volume In A Restaurant

Letting Your Kid Watch A Movie On Full Volume In A Restaurant

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Laura Zappenduster
Community Member
1 year ago

But otherwise they would have actually to CARE for their child.

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#9

This Lady Resting On The Apples At Walmart

This Lady Resting On The Apples At Walmart

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Daria B
Community Member
1 year ago

See? This is why you have to wash your fruit before eating it.

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#10

This Person Throwing Pistachio Shells On The Floor Of An Airplane

This Person Throwing Pistachio Shells On The Floor Of An Airplane

bluecornersackofcrap Report

Marc
Community Member
1 year ago

Filthy person, she really is. This is nothing but disrespectful to the people who work there, who have to clean the mess afterwards, and to other passengers as well. I would call her out if I'd see that and I hope others did.

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#11

This Mother...

This Mother...

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Pseudo Puppy
Community Member
1 year ago

as a waitress, I've truly enjoyed telling these parents to pick up their (literally) shitty child & go to the bathrooms. Then blatantly got super-strong disinfectant and cleaned the table while their companions were still there.... and had to deal with the odours of the chemicals. "But madam, I must do this, due to the Health Hazard caused by you / your friend. And no, we can't move you to another table, as they're reserved. May I get you some dessert?" :D :D :D

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#12

Looks Like Some People Had A Celebration And Left All These Plastic Petals Behind, Which Were Being Blown Into The River. It Took Me A Half Hour To Clean The Damn Mess

Looks Like Some People Had A Celebration And Left All These Plastic Petals Behind, Which Were Being Blown Into The River. It Took Me A Half Hour To Clean The Damn Mess

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Foxxy
Community Member
1 year ago

Wtf, why use plastic petals in the first place. Use real petals or for a cheaper and environmentally friendly alternative hole punch a whole load of leaves and have leaf confetti.

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#13

This Woman Licked The Top Of A Blue Bell Tub Of Ice Cream, Put The Lid Back On And Placed It Back In The Store’s Freezer

This Woman Licked The Top Of A Blue Bell Tub Of Ice Cream, Put The Lid Back On And Placed It Back In The Store’s Freezer

BlindDensetsu Report

Pseudo Puppy
Community Member
1 year ago

if my friend did this... we'd no longer be friends. Jeez!!!!

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#14

My Neighborhood Has A Soccer Field And A Baseball Field, Which We Pay To Maintain For The Kids. Some ******* Decided It Would Be Fun To Do Donuts With His Truck, And Destroy The Entire Field For Everyone

My Neighborhood Has A Soccer Field And A Baseball Field, Which We Pay To Maintain For The Kids. Some ******* Decided It Would Be Fun To Do Donuts With His Truck, And Destroy The Entire Field For Everyone

moby323 Report

Toujin C'Thlu
Community Member
1 year ago

I absolutely hate people who destroy things just for fun.

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#15

Throwing The Community Electric Scooters Into The Water

Throwing The Community Electric Scooters Into The Water

iGrantastic Report

Toujin C'Thlu
Community Member
1 year ago

These people need to be arrested. This is right up there with the people who tore up that sports field.

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#16

There Was A Trash Can Literally Four Feet Away

There Was A Trash Can Literally Four Feet Away

NorseCelt137 Report

Ryo Bakura
Community Member
1 year ago

No excuse.

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#17

I Pay $125 A Month To Park In My Parking Spot. I’m 111B. This ******* Is My Neighbor

I Pay $125 A Month To Park In My Parking Spot. I’m 111B. This ******* Is My Neighbor

badbicth06 Report

Pseudo Puppy
Community Member
1 year ago

I'd regularly be deflating their tyres on my parking spot (without puncturing them)

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#18

Using The Only Fan In A Crowded, Warm Waiting Room To Cool Off Your Hot Box

Using The Only Fan In A Crowded, Warm Waiting Room To Cool Off Your Hot Box

Willoughbeatz Report

Charlotte Brine
Community Member
1 year ago

Ewww! Seriously woman, why the hell would you think this was ok to do?!

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#19

Man Tosses His Food Garbage In The Aisle Of A Plane When He’s Finished Eating

Man Tosses His Food Garbage In The Aisle Of A Plane When He’s Finished Eating

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Heins Zhammer
Community Member
1 year ago

where the flight crew at?

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#20

These Girls Taking Up 2 Seats Each While Other People Have To Stand

These Girls Taking Up 2 Seats Each While Other People Have To Stand

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Gabrielle Daylano
Community Member
1 year ago

When I was heavily pregnant, I had tot ride a really busy bus. Just one seat was free so I went to sit there. The whole bus was full of students. One stop later a old lady with a walking cane came in. No one stood up for her. So I did. That made me so angry. A whole bus full of healthy young people and the only one who is getting up and have to stand is a 7 month pregnant women.

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#21

People Hoping To Skip Queues By Standing Like This And Trying To Slip In

People Hoping To Skip Queues By Standing Like This And Trying To Slip In

MellOhCee Report

Annabell
Community Member
1 year ago

Last week I stood with my little son in a long, long line to buy an ice cream. I myself am obviously very pregnant and we stood there already for 15 minutes in the heat when a woman did just that. I walked around her with my son while my huge baby bump touched her and explained to my little boy loud and clear that you did not behave that way in lines, like this young woman did.

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#22

This Grown Man Throwing His Candy Wrappers For Me To Sweep Up During Work

This Grown Man Throwing His Candy Wrappers For Me To Sweep Up During Work

turtlesurvivalclub Report

Marc
Community Member
1 year ago (edited)

No, just no. I would've called the manager or my boss or whoever and have him pick it up by himself. What is wrong with those people? Do they behave the same at their homes? Have no one ever set bounds to him?

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#23

This Lady Has Been On The Phone Since She Sat Down, While Her Kid Is Running Around Doing This To The Salt Shakers

This Lady Has Been On The Phone Since She Sat Down, While Her Kid Is Running Around Doing This To The Salt Shakers

Dog-On-The-Moon Report

Charlotte Brine
Community Member
1 year ago

What the ACTUAL FUCK?!? I don't know who I would be more angry at, the parent for not watching their child or whoever took this photo for not stepping in and informing the parent that their child is essentially killing themselves!

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#24

Another Arrow To The House From A Neighbor

Another Arrow To The House From A Neighbor

SolarMatter Report

Panda Kicki
Community Member
1 year ago

This was more like assult then rude, call the police!

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#25

Parents Who Raise Their Kids Saying It's Okay To Leave A Library Like This

Parents Who Raise Their Kids Saying It's Okay To Leave A Library Like This

Starman45FTW Report

Ryo Bakura
Community Member
1 year ago

It's not okay to leave anywhere like this. Unless you visited a trash dump.

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#26

These Kind Of People

These Kind Of People

Infector101 Report

Pseudo Puppy
Community Member
1 year ago

because conception entitles a human to literally do anything to anyone they want.... (sarcasm to the extreme in this statement)

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#27

I Sat Through 2 Sets Of Green Lights Like This

I Sat Through 2 Sets Of Green Lights Like This

rwatkinsGA Report

Kusotare
Community Member
1 year ago

In California, blocking an intersection like that will get you a ticket. Unfortunately, it's not considered a moving violation, so no points on your record.

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#28

Plastic Confetti Left Behind By A Gender Reveal Party In A Public Park

Plastic Confetti Left Behind By A Gender Reveal Party In A Public Park

f1rstman Report

Ryo Bakura
Community Member
1 year ago

Litterers should be shot.

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#29

Imagine Going To A Baseball Game And Having Feet Beside Your Face

Imagine Going To A Baseball Game And Having Feet Beside Your Face

dylan658 Report

Marc
Community Member
1 year ago

Once again - Call them out. Let them know. What's wrong with the father (?) of the girl? I wouldn't let my girl just sit there with someone's feed in her face. Disgusting.