50 Times People Spotted Such Huge Jerks, They Just Had To Shame Them Online (New Pics)
It's perfectly fine to have disagreements and differences of opinion, but it's important to remember that we're all in this together. Treating others with kindness, even when we don't see eye to eye, is essential for building a sense of community and creating a positive environment for everyone.
When we act like jerks, we not only hurt people, but we also diminish our respect; again, it's okay to have strong beliefs and stand up for what we think is right, but there's no need to belittle or demean others in the process. Compassion not only benefits those around us, but it also brings joy and fulfillment to our own lives.
Sadly, these things are often easier said than done. So, as a reminder that we should strive to make the world a better place for each other, we at Bored Panda put together a list of those who don't. We hope that karma catches up to these inconsiderate weasels.
Continue scrolling to check out the images and don't miss what we learned about empathy from NY-based Licensed Clinical Psychologist and founder of STEPS (Stress & Trauma Evaluation and Psychological Services) Dr. Valentina Stoycheva and Psychologist and Collaborative Divorce Coach Dr. Ann Gold Buscho — their comments are spread between the entries.
(This is a new rendition of an ongoing series. For older publications, follow the links here, here, and here.)
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Stealing From A Grave
Gettting Used To The Fact That Some People Are Just Jerks
According to Dr. Valentina Stoycheva, the author of The Unconscious: Theory, Research, and Clinical Implications, empathy is dependent on having developed a 'Theory of Mind,' which is the ability to understand and share the emotions of others.
"Many factors, such as upbringing and personality disorders (such as narcissism, for example) may result in an inability to experience empathy," Stoycheva told Bored Panda. "In addition, some people may situationally struggle with this if they are in an active state of being traumatized or have significant mental health difficulties. As a result, temporarily, they may have a hard time empathizing with others due to a lack of internal resources to do so."
Teacher Taking A Child’s Hearing Aid As Punishment “Cause She Wasn’t Listening Anyway”
Stop sobbing hysterically, go to the police and report her. That idiot can't be a teacher, or look after anything alive, not even a cactus.
Support Worker Leaves Her Shopping Bags On Top Of The Disabled Man In Her Care As She Takes A Fag Break
"Empathy is hard-wired into our species, some believe, which allowed our species to work in groups, form communities, and prosper," Dr. Ann Gold Buscho, who penned the book The Parent's Guide to Birdnesting, also told Bored Panda.
"They may lack empathy because of trauma in childhood, especially abusive parenting. They are in survival mode and scanning for threats (hypervigilant). Lack of empathy is associated with low intelligence and several mental health disorders, and some people may not have the internal resources necessary for empathy when they are overly stressed, just trying to keep their heads above water."
Neighbour Built A Community Library. Last Night Someone Dumped Chili And Cat Food Inside
Someone Replace This Receptionist
Man I’m Actually Pissed. My Mother Got Rid Of My First Pet Without Warning Me
The good thing is that egoistic behavior can be modified. "Empathy is a part of high EQ (or emotional intelligence)," Dr. Buscho explained. "It is a skill that many people can be taught through therapy and a desire to develop more intimate relationships with friends, families or partners."
However, she said that if someone doesn't recognize their deficit of empathy or isn't motivated to develop it, it will be difficult or even impossible to remedy, even with professional treatment. "Therapy would be helpful, as would coaching and feedback from others, ... [however,] certain personality disorders are so entrenched that the egoistic behavior may not be changed unless the consequences of that behavior are so painful that the person becomes curious or motivated to commit to change."
Someone Send This To Rosie
The Big Family Behind Us At The Food Court When They Left
Big Time Karen Energy
Invite her into the kitchen during this time to eat with the staff. I'm thinking she'll change her mind pretty quickly.
This Was Posted In A Restaurant's Facebook Group
So service staff is expendable or something? This is unbelievably selfish and cruel.
Interestingly, women are better at empathizing with other people than men.
Recently, researchers asked people to look at photos of the area around a person's eyes (the person is making a particular kind of facial expression, and the study participant had to identify what that person is thinking or feeling from a set of possibilities).
To see if cultural differences impacted empathy scores, data was collected from teams around the globe. Merging their results with large samples from different online platforms, the authors of the study were able to capture results from nearly 306,000 people across 57 countries including Argentina, Croatia, Egypt, India, Japan and Norway, and in 36 countries, women scored on average significantly higher in their cognitive empathy scores than men did, while in 21 of the countries, their results were similar.
There wasn’t a single country in which men scored better, on average, than women.
Some Rich Kids In Honduras Thought This Was Cute
Don't Be This Type Of Person
Disgusting. Was du nicht willst was man dir tu, das füg auch keinem anderen zu. Surely: you would not want this to happen to you, so don't do it to others.
Neighbor Parked His Tesla By Blocking The Sidewalk, Someone Threw Red Paint At His Car
My Cat Almost Got Stolen Today
Did she know this is someone's cat? Maybe ahe thought it's a stray cat.
“This study clearly demonstrates a largely consistent sex difference across countries, languages, and ages,” study co-author Carrie Allison, who is the director of applied research at the Autism Research Centre at Cambridge University, said in a press statement.
“This raises new questions for future research about the social and biological factors that may contribute to the observed on-average sex difference in cognitive empathy.”
Found A Camera In My Air B&b. It Was Halfway Behind The Painting With Only The Lens Peeking Out
Discovered it because we heard it clicking after me and my girl got out of the shower.
Tourist Scales Ancient Egyptian Antiquities
A Caretaker Stole My Grandpa’s Old Rolex Before He Passed Away. I Was Supposed To Have It
Burned Down Community Book Donation
However, I am willing to bet that many of you, dear Pandas, have had strong reactions browsing through these pictures.
Dr. Valentina Stoycheva highlighted that this happens because most of us have a need for the world to be, at least to a degree, organized and predictable in order to feel safe. "People who act like jerks break social contracts that we all need in order to function in society," she said.
"Even if their behavior does not concern us, we still experience it as possibly dangerous or threatening. If everyone started acting this way, then society as we know it would collapse and that is scary."
This Dude Decided To Park In Front Of My Driveway When The Entire Street Was Free
We See Stuff Like This On A Daily Basis
Mom's Boyfriend Threw Away My 9-Year-Old Collection Of LEGO Because I Didn't Use It For A While. There Are Sets From The 1990s In There And Also Sets In The Harry Potter Series
Poor Dog Left In A Filthy Car
A Mom Left Her 2 Kids, A Child And Baby In A Carseat, Alone While She Went Into Dance Class
Please don't just post pictures of other people's kids, no matter the situation. Do better. If you see kids in distress or in a bad situation with no other adults around call the proper authorities.
My Dad's A Nurse And The Hospital Gave All The Nurses This Bag Because All Nurses Are Women Apparently
Guy Posts Racist "Nice Guy" Post And Then Proceeds To Argue With Everyone Who Tells Him He's A Jerk
TLDR: I harassed a friend and included racist overtones and now they don’t want to be my friend. What did I do wrong?
Friendly Reminder To Call Out Your Family For Bad Behavior
This Jerk’s Parking. Needless To Say There Was No “Disabled” Sticker On The Car
This Guy On The Train Was Putting His Mask Down Every Two Minutes To Sneeze And Played Music On His Phone For One Hour
Whenever someone asks him to stop he got aggressive.
She Wants A Discount In Exchange For A Bottle Of Water (Tap Water, That Is)
A Jerk Blocked My Mom's Driveway, So She Can’t Pick Me Up From A Football Game
Did I mention it’s cold, windy, and rainy... And none of my friends are there so I can’t get a ride from them.
If You're A Parent And Let Your Kids Make A Mess Like This
My Landlord Entered My Apartment Without Notice (Illegal) To Tell Me To Clean My Lint Trap
Somebody Vandalized A Gay Pride Sidewalk In The Town Over From Me
holy s**t...by their logic (not yours, purple)...PRIESTS ARE GAY!
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its always fantastic to see a group of people that belong to organisations that are literally famous (or infamous) for centuries of child abuse and associated cover ups, claiming that others are grooming children.
I was thinking of a way of saying what you have just said without actually saying "churches" and "priests". That's it. Perfect post. These people are either incredibly blind and stupid, or incredibly hypocritical. Or both.
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This idiot can't even spell. From what I know its: Genesis, not Genisis. Go back to school!
I was googling 'genisis 19:24', and even I wrote "genesis 19:24" withoute realising it.. so can't be that difficult to get the right spelling
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"gays groom kids" well yeah, somebody has to keep your neglected kid's hair clean! it isn't you, since you're obviously off twisting the words of god for your own purposes. hell, little Billy deserves better than you. also i'm 14 and asexual, calm down
Genesis 19:24, ESV: Then the Lord rained on Sodom and Gomorrah sulfur and fire from the Lord out of heaven. Yeah, i dunno how this relates to the alphabet soup community either.
Some Christian extremists equate the debauchery of Sodom and Gomorrah with anything they see as sexual deviance and they see the "alphabet soup community" as sexual deviance. It's a stretch, but stretch they do.
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The irony of "gays groom kids" and "pedophiles" coming from someone also vandalizing with bible quotes (also the fact they can't even spell *GENESIS*) is too much. We all know what those priests are up to.
Gay parents do groom kids. The 100% groom them. It's well known by anyone educated that gays parents can groom kids to be happy and kind. They groom them to be tolerant and understanding. Exactly like good straight parents groom their kids. Since gay parents usually have to adopt, they are held to higher standards that straight couples.
Gays don't groom kids; conservatives do. And they're clearly not liberals because we can spell Genesis.
Funny, all the pedos that sexually assaulted me, my sister, and my cousins were all STRAIGHT. It's almost like the orientation doesn't matter.
I just read Genesis 19:24 and homosexuality, pedophilia, nor grooming were even mentioned
That's the thing...you actually have to read "Genisis" 19:24...it's a completely different thing about how hurricanes are caused by same-sex marriage.
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Mix of lower case and upper case letters, and unable to spell Genesis. It's almost as if there's a correlation between homophobia and stupidity.
Wow… i have never in my life been religious, nor my parents. I have even used more pages out of my bible “the great book of filters” as i call it for smoking weed then pages ive actually read. But damn even i know its GENESIS, not genisis.. Religion makes some people stupid and ignorant..
People were defacing the LGBTQ crosswalks in Atlanta as well. Pretty sure it wasn't a hate thing, more like a dumbass, small d**k thing
The man that assaulted my mom wasn't gay, he was her mother's husband. The other man that hurt her was a church deacon.
I had a lesbian teacher in highschool (she had a girlfriend and everything!) and I somehow still turned out asexual. Go figure. She must not have gotten the Gay Agenda(tm) memo because all she did was teach us science!
Well, and she also bit the head off one kid who called a classmate "gay" as an insult. Serves him right.
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I happen to love these crosswalks; there's at least one my city, Coquitlam. This is disgusting.
God dam, Im nonbinary and queer and I will say this, they are going to hell as well.
Guess what homophobic asses if your so called god will not except them leave them alone more room for you in your fake a*s heaven yes? Being straight is different than them should they start attacking all straight people?!?! I will say again PEOPLE SUCK and religious nuts are the absolute worst they're the most judgemental the first to say their way is the only way and believe in taking away people's rights to their own sexuality, their own love and their own bodies. Maybe religion is what's wrong with this dumbass world
but… but its the church thats infamous for that, grown adults being in love and wanting to get married or be partners has absolutely nothing to do with children wtf
And it's "Genesis" , you morons!! Just goes to show how smart you are.
lol I like how those morons couldn't even spell "genesis" right
And they can't spell "Genesis". Kind of negates their whole stance.
The fact that they used a bible verse but spelled Genesis incorrectly makes this comical because it solidifies how stupid these people are. Also many many religious zealots are the worst pedophiles.
Someone should write the scriptures that talk about how we don't judge and to love one another, right on top of it.
I do believe in a higher power, but I do not believe that higher power is vengeful. The bible is subject to interpretation, but the interpretation of this particular bible quote is: "The most obvious answer is found in this very chapter, as every man in the city gathered to homosexually rape two strangers in town (Genesis 19:5–7). Indeed, the modern word "sodomize" comes from its association with this ancient doomed city." Therefore, God did not condemn homosexuality, God condemned the severe brutality against other human beings. How convenient that others choose a bible verse that they believe supports their beliefs when, in fact, it absolutely does not.
They care SO much about the bible, but can't even spell 'Genesis' right?
Im Christain, I agree its wrong, but you should never, never, never treat someone like that unless needed, I have gay friends, I treat them as anyone else, homophobic people need to stop.
I'd really like to know what pedophiles have to do with being gay. That is just horrid.
Hopefully karma will hit him in the face and give him a kick in the butt
Yeah, it's the gays who are pedophiles and grooming kids. Got nothing whatsoever to do with the Catholic Church.
This whole article is about to be too much. Who are these people with all this cruelty and bad will?
THIS is grooming your child to be a school shooter, rapist, mass shooter. groomer-63...a00589.jpg 
I am heterosexual and this pisses me off, too! Just for the record, gays do not "groom" kids. That is something straight ministers and priests do.
I don't agree with sidewalks and especially crosswalks being painted any way other than they should be. They painted a crosswalk in a town close to me and people were driving across it because they didn't know what it was. What's gay got to do with crosswalks? Not a homophobe.
im not for it or against it. People have rights to choose what they want. im not gay or trans, but people have choices in their lives.
Just quit putting it in my face. I don't advertise that I'm straight. We are all just PEOPLE.
Why not just paint over it? Then go put rainbows in all the crosswalks in town! (But, you should get permission, of course! Don’t vandalize the town’s crosswalks. That would be just as bad as what the homophobic person did.)
Ironic use of a Bible verse "Then i the LORD rained on Sodom and Gomorrah sulfur and fire from the LORD out of heaven." There is an argument that Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed not due to 'sexual immorality' but due to inhospitality ... which is on display here.
If you're that bl@@dy obsessed with the Bible a. Read it and b. Learn to spell "Genesis"
Most of my friend group is trans and/or bi/gay/pan/asexual/ something other than straight. (I'm bisexual) This is completely wrong and these people don't deserve to live
Lol quite the opposite, Christians involvement in pedophilia etc... As long as they repent every Sunday is all good for them hypocrites
I’m late, but this made me start crying. What did we ever do to deserve any of this?
They can't even spell the book of the Bible they're quoting, and they think THEY'RE the ones who interpreted it correctly?
Idiot! And, the accepted interpretation of Genesis 19:24 was that God had sent two angels disguised as men to Sodom to test if the residents would show proper hospitality. It turns out the men of Sodom threaten to rape them - not an act of hospitality and certainly not an act of homosexuality because these men were married to women.
Bloody homophobes so stupid that they can’t even spell the name of part of the book most of them are taking as law.
Ugh, I wish people like this wouldn't make all people who believe in God look like terrible people. It's like the Undertale fanbase...the bad people are just very loud.
𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭'𝐬 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐟𝐚𝐧𝐛𝐚𝐬𝐞. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐄𝐝𝐝𝐬𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨𝐦𝐓𝐨𝐫𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐢 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐦𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞. 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐈 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐭.
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Gen 19:24 : Then the LORD rained down burning sulfur on Sodom and Gomorrah—from the LORD out of the heavens.
How come your god, who seems to be so worried about the sexual lives of consenting adults, never ever rained down burning sulphur over the paedophile priests and the bishops, pope's, etc, who knew a did nothing?
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"As long as it doesn't affect me or my family" That's the problem here because this attitude is what allowed so many atrocities to happen throughout history. Do you know that one of your family members might be LGBTQ and need your support? Please take this all into consideration.
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Do you know why we need pride? Because I was a suicidal 8 year old because I thought something was wrong with me for not being a girl or boy. Because my best friend attempted suicide because her parents hate her for being gay. Because when lgbtq kids are bullied in school no one does anything. I aim for a day when it’s not necessary, but for now it’s a great way to help lgbtq people be normalized and accepted and for kids to be educated on the fact that men can love men and women can love women. That there is more than just male and female.
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I hope someday you experience the mental agony that is being LGBTQ+ in this world. People like you are why so many queer people are homeless, impoverished, depressed, and suicidal.
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There’s A Package Bandit In My Building And One Of My Neighbors Had Their Medicine Stolen
Call the police. Tampering with mail is a felony, plus pharmaceutical theft carries a hefty charge too
Seen At A Gas Station
Looking at the other signs in this photo, I’m guessing trump supporters own this shop. Update—> seems I hit a nerve, 😂
People Who Leave Perishable Food On Store Shelves
There’s A Limited Amount Of Parking At My Apartments, And This Douchebag Parks Like This Anytime He Can So Nobody Will Hit His Car
The Worst Kind Of People That Shouldn’t Exist
The posts on Quora are often a joke, or someone posing as someone else but making it sound like themselves. It's weird.
I Split Up With My Boyfriend Yesterday. I Fell Asleep While He Was Packing And He Stole My Toilet
There Is An 11-Day Bin Man Strike In Edinburgh And This Is Only Day Two. Most Of The City Is Like This
I Work At A Pet Store. Some Jerk Used A Brush For Sale To Brush His Dog, And Then Just Put It Back. Dude
Letting Your Kid Draw On The Nobel Memorial At The Natural History Museum
Her Friend Didn’t Answer The Phone
Moving Day. Looks Like Drunk Me Left A Note For Future Self. I've Been Sober For 4.5 Years. Man That Guy Was A Jerk
The State My Ex Left My House In After I Went Away For A Week
Owning A Maserati Doesn't Make You Not Trashy. They Just Opened The Door And Set Down Their Litter
Dude Takes His Massive Mastiff On The Bus And Fails To Control The Dog. Dog Is Barking Every 10 Seconds. Bonus Points For The Dude's Cheeks Hanging Out
A Man Disguised As An Old Women In A Wheelchair Threw A Cake At The Mona Lisa Painting In Paris
The frame is not the original, but a replacement from the 1970s when the older frame was found to have insects in it. The glass in the front of it is bulletproof, so all this idiot did was make the cleaners spend an extra 5 minutes of cleaning it and laugh at him getting arrested
Person Behind Me Had Their Lights On So Bright I Couldn't See
Note: this post originally had 115 images. It’s been shortened to the top 50 images based on user votes.
Honestly, humanity sucks! Even more so after this post. I would totally understand if aliens blew up this entire planet, except for animals.
OMG l 100% agree and usually get panned for saying it.
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The article title should be '115 examples of disrespectful people' that don't care about anyone but themselves '
As sad as it is, the worst things done to me were from my own parent. Every day I was told a new way how I am worthless and no one will ever love me. I drank myself nearly to death at 20 before a friend saved my life. We've been married over 10 years now and he tells me everyday how amazing I am.
Unfortunately, parents, and family in general, can be a person's worst nightmare. Some people should not be allowed to have children. Fortunately, you found a person who helped you. I do hope you have nothing to do with that toxic person anymore. You don't owe them anything. You deserve to be happy!
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pls go here so we can get Zara the Squiddy Squid back pls!!!! She is legitmately innocent: https://www.boredpanda.com/?p=4727791&utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic
Oh what happened to her??? I enjoyed reading her comments. P.s. the pages goes to a 404 page error.
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BP is getting as bad as mainstream media with all this doom and gloom. Stop showcasing garbage human beings and give us more of those "awesome woodworking projects" or "human decency" posts.
On the one hand, you are right. This post was really depressing. However, the posts have descriptive titles. The title here is: "50 times people spotted such huge jerks ... " What did you expect????? Nobody forced you to read it. There's a variety of contents in BP, so you can choose. Why the complaint? Go and read something else instead.
Load More Replies... I stopped reading not because I don't care but because this is the type of behavior I see too often. I'm unsure whether people are getting worse or I've just become more aware of how often people are just cruel to each other.
In this new year, we have to not act like these types of people. Being a decent human being will not hurt you, it will show the world that you have the capacity to care for others. We all need to think about other people and not be destructive or petty or rude or inconsiderate. Doing the right thing may require a few extra steps, but at least at the end of the day, you will know that you were not a jerk to someone. If you are sick stay home. If you are in the grocery store and you decide you don't want something, go put it back in its proper place. If you are romantically interested in someone and they don't like you accept it. When you go into a restaurant, don't leave a huge mess. Don't be racist, homophobic, xenophobic misogynistic, or anything else. Now more than ever, we need to be decent to one another.
I sometimes wonder if any of these bozos ever see their posts out on different sites. If so, do they ever take the time to read the comments as well. Then I come back down to reality.
Honestly, humanity sucks! Even more so after this post. I would totally understand if aliens blew up this entire planet, except for animals.
OMG l 100% agree and usually get panned for saying it.
Load More Replies... The article title should be '115 examples of disrespectful people' that don't care about anyone but themselves '
As sad as it is, the worst things done to me were from my own parent. Every day I was told a new way how I am worthless and no one will ever love me. I drank myself nearly to death at 20 before a friend saved my life. We've been married over 10 years now and he tells me everyday how amazing I am.
Unfortunately, parents, and family in general, can be a person's worst nightmare. Some people should not be allowed to have children. Fortunately, you found a person who helped you. I do hope you have nothing to do with that toxic person anymore. You don't owe them anything. You deserve to be happy!
Load More Replies... pls go here so we can get Zara the Squiddy Squid back pls!!!! She is legitmately innocent: https://www.boredpanda.com/?p=4727791&utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic
Oh what happened to her??? I enjoyed reading her comments. P.s. the pages goes to a 404 page error.
Load More Replies... BP is getting as bad as mainstream media with all this doom and gloom. Stop showcasing garbage human beings and give us more of those "awesome woodworking projects" or "human decency" posts.
On the one hand, you are right. This post was really depressing. However, the posts have descriptive titles. The title here is: "50 times people spotted such huge jerks ... " What did you expect????? Nobody forced you to read it. There's a variety of contents in BP, so you can choose. Why the complaint? Go and read something else instead.
Load More Replies... I stopped reading not because I don't care but because this is the type of behavior I see too often. I'm unsure whether people are getting worse or I've just become more aware of how often people are just cruel to each other.
In this new year, we have to not act like these types of people. Being a decent human being will not hurt you, it will show the world that you have the capacity to care for others. We all need to think about other people and not be destructive or petty or rude or inconsiderate. Doing the right thing may require a few extra steps, but at least at the end of the day, you will know that you were not a jerk to someone. If you are sick stay home. If you are in the grocery store and you decide you don't want something, go put it back in its proper place. If you are romantically interested in someone and they don't like you accept it. When you go into a restaurant, don't leave a huge mess. Don't be racist, homophobic, xenophobic misogynistic, or anything else. Now more than ever, we need to be decent to one another.
I sometimes wonder if any of these bozos ever see their posts out on different sites. If so, do they ever take the time to read the comments as well. Then I come back down to reality.
