50 Times People Spotted Such Huge Jerks, They Just Had To Shame Them Online (New Pics)
It's perfectly fine to have disagreements and differences of opinion, but it's important to remember that we're all in this together. Treating others with kindness, even when we don't see eye to eye, is essential for building a sense of community and creating a positive environment for everyone.
When we act like jerks, we not only hurt people, but we also diminish our respect; again, it's okay to have strong beliefs and stand up for what we think is right, but there's no need to belittle or demean others in the process. Compassion not only benefits those around us, but it also brings joy and fulfillment to our own lives.
Sadly, these things are often easier said than done. So, as a reminder that we should strive to make the world a better place for each other, we at Bored Panda put together a list of those who don't. We hope that karma catches up to these inconsiderate weasels.
Continue scrolling to check out the images and don't miss what we learned about empathy from NY-based Licensed Clinical Psychologist and founder of STEPS (Stress & Trauma Evaluation and Psychological Services) Dr. Valentina Stoycheva and Psychologist and Collaborative Divorce Coach Dr. Ann Gold Buscho — their comments are spread between the entries.
(This is a new rendition of an ongoing series. For older publications, follow the links here, here, and here.)
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Stealing From A Grave
Gettting Used To The Fact That Some People Are Just Jerks
According to Dr. Valentina Stoycheva, the author of The Unconscious: Theory, Research, and Clinical Implications, empathy is dependent on having developed a 'Theory of Mind,' which is the ability to understand and share the emotions of others.
"Many factors, such as upbringing and personality disorders (such as narcissism, for example) may result in an inability to experience empathy," Stoycheva told Bored Panda. "In addition, some people may situationally struggle with this if they are in an active state of being traumatized or have significant mental health difficulties. As a result, temporarily, they may have a hard time empathizing with others due to a lack of internal resources to do so."
Teacher Taking A Child’s Hearing Aid As Punishment “Cause She Wasn’t Listening Anyway”
Stop sobbing hysterically, go to the police and report her. That idiot can't be a teacher, or look after anything alive, not even a cactus.
Support Worker Leaves Her Shopping Bags On Top Of The Disabled Man In Her Care As She Takes A Fag Break
"Empathy is hard-wired into our species, some believe, which allowed our species to work in groups, form communities, and prosper," Dr. Ann Gold Buscho, who penned the book The Parent's Guide to Birdnesting, also told Bored Panda.
"They may lack empathy because of trauma in childhood, especially abusive parenting. They are in survival mode and scanning for threats (hypervigilant). Lack of empathy is associated with low intelligence and several mental health disorders, and some people may not have the internal resources necessary for empathy when they are overly stressed, just trying to keep their heads above water."
Neighbour Built A Community Library. Last Night Someone Dumped Chili And Cat Food Inside
Someone Replace This Receptionist
Man I’m Actually Pissed. My Mother Got Rid Of My First Pet Without Warning Me
The good thing is that egoistic behavior can be modified. "Empathy is a part of high EQ (or emotional intelligence)," Dr. Buscho explained. "It is a skill that many people can be taught through therapy and a desire to develop more intimate relationships with friends, families or partners."
However, she said that if someone doesn't recognize their deficit of empathy or isn't motivated to develop it, it will be difficult or even impossible to remedy, even with professional treatment. "Therapy would be helpful, as would coaching and feedback from others, ... [however,] certain personality disorders are so entrenched that the egoistic behavior may not be changed unless the consequences of that behavior are so painful that the person becomes curious or motivated to commit to change."
Someone Send This To Rosie
The Big Family Behind Us At The Food Court When They Left
Big Time Karen Energy
Invite her into the kitchen during this time to eat with the staff. I'm thinking she'll change her mind pretty quickly.
This Was Posted In A Restaurant's Facebook Group
So service staff is expendable or something? This is unbelievably selfish and cruel.
Interestingly, women are better at empathizing with other people than men.
Recently, researchers asked people to look at photos of the area around a person's eyes (the person is making a particular kind of facial expression, and the study participant had to identify what that person is thinking or feeling from a set of possibilities).
To see if cultural differences impacted empathy scores, data was collected from teams around the globe. Merging their results with large samples from different online platforms, the authors of the study were able to capture results from nearly 306,000 people across 57 countries including Argentina, Croatia, Egypt, India, Japan and Norway, and in 36 countries, women scored on average significantly higher in their cognitive empathy scores than men did, while in 21 of the countries, their results were similar.
There wasn’t a single country in which men scored better, on average, than women.
Some Rich Kids In Honduras Thought This Was Cute
Don't Be This Type Of Person
Disgusting. Was du nicht willst was man dir tu, das füg auch keinem anderen zu. Surely: you would not want this to happen to you, so don't do it to others.
Neighbor Parked His Tesla By Blocking The Sidewalk, Someone Threw Red Paint At His Car
My Cat Almost Got Stolen Today
Did she know this is someone's cat? Maybe ahe thought it's a stray cat.
“This study clearly demonstrates a largely consistent sex difference across countries, languages, and ages,” study co-author Carrie Allison, who is the director of applied research at the Autism Research Centre at Cambridge University, said in a press statement.
“This raises new questions for future research about the social and biological factors that may contribute to the observed on-average sex difference in cognitive empathy.”
Found A Camera In My Air B&b. It Was Halfway Behind The Painting With Only The Lens Peeking Out
Discovered it because we heard it clicking after me and my girl got out of the shower.
Tourist Scales Ancient Egyptian Antiquities
A Caretaker Stole My Grandpa’s Old Rolex Before He Passed Away. I Was Supposed To Have It
Burned Down Community Book Donation
However, I am willing to bet that many of you, dear Pandas, have had strong reactions browsing through these pictures.
Dr. Valentina Stoycheva highlighted that this happens because most of us have a need for the world to be, at least to a degree, organized and predictable in order to feel safe. "People who act like jerks break social contracts that we all need in order to function in society," she said.
"Even if their behavior does not concern us, we still experience it as possibly dangerous or threatening. If everyone started acting this way, then society as we know it would collapse and that is scary."
This Dude Decided To Park In Front Of My Driveway When The Entire Street Was Free
We See Stuff Like This On A Daily Basis
Mom's Boyfriend Threw Away My 9-Year-Old Collection Of LEGO Because I Didn't Use It For A While. There Are Sets From The 1990s In There And Also Sets In The Harry Potter Series
Poor Dog Left In A Filthy Car
A Mom Left Her 2 Kids, A Child And Baby In A Carseat, Alone While She Went Into Dance Class
Please don't just post pictures of other people's kids, no matter the situation. Do better. If you see kids in distress or in a bad situation with no other adults around call the proper authorities.
My Dad's A Nurse And The Hospital Gave All The Nurses This Bag Because All Nurses Are Women Apparently
Guy Posts Racist "Nice Guy" Post And Then Proceeds To Argue With Everyone Who Tells Him He's A Jerk
TLDR: I harassed a friend and included racist overtones and now they don’t want to be my friend. What did I do wrong?
Friendly Reminder To Call Out Your Family For Bad Behavior
This Jerk’s Parking. Needless To Say There Was No “Disabled” Sticker On The Car
This Guy On The Train Was Putting His Mask Down Every Two Minutes To Sneeze And Played Music On His Phone For One Hour
Whenever someone asks him to stop he got aggressive.
People who blast music/videos from their phones in public are not fit for civil society and should be shipped off to a remote island where they can only annoy each other. They can come back once they achieve basic self awareness.
Just like the people who talk loudly on their phones or speakerphone when they're standing in a line or ordering coffee
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People say to sneeze into the crook of your arm. Well when you fold your arms a lot of folks tuck their hands on the crook of their arms so now it's on your hands. I personally sneeze down my shirt. I don't generally put my hand down the front of my shirt!! Thissneezing and coughing on people and on people's food has never been okay. But they put a name to it and suddenly I should be able to cough all other anyone I want too?!!
You would be surprised on how many people dont understand that you sneez into your arm.. Have a very nice lady working in the store by me, she was sitting at the register handling everyone stuff. She sneezed right into her palms of her hands, and then back to handling all the groceries again. After that i try my best to not choose the register she is at
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people are so stupid, why do they think its okay to take down your mask to sneeze?
ikr...that's exactly why you WEAR it. I mean, I can understand the music (I was once in a pinch and had to practice a dance on the train [busking experience so I could kinda balance but it was still a mess] and my earbuds were dead), but the mask thing is ridiculous
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The next time he sneezes, aim a portable fan at him and see how he likes it. Smh...
I saw someone pull their mask down to sneeze in the supermarket. facepalm moment
Why wear the mask if you're not going to use it for what it's supposed to be used for?
On a flight from Heathrow to Barcelona last November, they gave everyone masks as they boarded. I was stuck in the window seat (on a full flight so I couldn't switch seats) and the twatwaffle next to me spent the entire 2.5 hr flight coughing and sneezing while holding the mask in his hand. I wore my mask + and N95 and still caught his cold. My first week there was almost ruined because I was so sick.
I really hate antisocial twats like this one. He should have been thrown out of the train. Period!
What??!! Where did you hear this? That's part of the whole purpose of the mask. It won't kill you if you cough or sneeze into it. But it might kill someone else if you take it off. PLEASE educate yourself and don't take your mask off when you cough or sneeze!
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A Jerk Blocked My Mom's Driveway, So She Can’t Pick Me Up From A Football Game
Did I mention it’s cold, windy, and rainy... And none of my friends are there so I can’t get a ride from them.
If You're A Parent And Let Your Kids Make A Mess Like This
My Landlord Entered My Apartment Without Notice (Illegal) To Tell Me To Clean My Lint Trap
Somebody Vandalized A Gay Pride Sidewalk In The Town Over From Me
There’s A Package Bandit In My Building And One Of My Neighbors Had Their Medicine Stolen
Call the police. Tampering with mail is a felony, plus pharmaceutical theft carries a hefty charge too
Seen At A Gas Station
Looking at the other signs in this photo, I’m guessing trump supporters own this shop. Update—> seems I hit a nerve, 😂
People Who Leave Perishable Food On Store Shelves
There’s A Limited Amount Of Parking At My Apartments, And This Douchebag Parks Like This Anytime He Can So Nobody Will Hit His Car
The Worst Kind Of People That Shouldn’t Exist
The posts on Quora are often a joke, or someone posing as someone else but making it sound like themselves. It's weird.
I Split Up With My Boyfriend Yesterday. I Fell Asleep While He Was Packing And He Stole My Toilet
There Is An 11-Day Bin Man Strike In Edinburgh And This Is Only Day Two. Most Of The City Is Like This
I Work At A Pet Store. Some Jerk Used A Brush For Sale To Brush His Dog, And Then Just Put It Back. Dude
Letting Your Kid Draw On The Nobel Memorial At The Natural History Museum
Her Friend Didn’t Answer The Phone
Moving Day. Looks Like Drunk Me Left A Note For Future Self. I've Been Sober For 4.5 Years. Man That Guy Was A Jerk
The State My Ex Left My House In After I Went Away For A Week
Owning A Maserati Doesn't Make You Not Trashy. They Just Opened The Door And Set Down Their Litter
Dude Takes His Massive Mastiff On The Bus And Fails To Control The Dog. Dog Is Barking Every 10 Seconds. Bonus Points For The Dude's Cheeks Hanging Out
A Man Disguised As An Old Women In A Wheelchair Threw A Cake At The Mona Lisa Painting In Paris
The frame is not the original, but a replacement from the 1970s when the older frame was found to have insects in it. The glass in the front of it is bulletproof, so all this idiot did was make the cleaners spend an extra 5 minutes of cleaning it and laugh at him getting arrested
Person Behind Me Had Their Lights On So Bright I Couldn't See
Sign On A First-Floor Apartment Of My Building. The Fact That The Owner Had To Write This Out Angers Me
Whoever Made This Sign Necessary
The amount of broken glass I encounter on walks with my dog infuriates me. The icing on the cake took place while camping and she ran out of a lake with bloody paws. A quick look and I found broken bottles actually planted in the sand to stick up and step on. To say I was angry is an understatement and I wish I had found who did it. It's one thing to be a jerk by throwing bottles to break and make a mess because you enjoy it, but to deliberately put broken bottles in the sand like that to intentionally hurt someone?
There Are People Standing, Even Elderly People, At The Gate And This Girl Thinks It’s Ok To Take Up Four Whole Chairs
Person Asks For A Reward After Witnessing Hit & Run
This Woman Brought Her Own Bell With Her To Get Her Server’s Attention
People Who Leave Their Lights Off In The Rain
Seize The Means Of Production. Don’t Have Someone Take The Credit
I Posted These Photos On Facebook From A Gala I Went To Last Weekend And This Is The Dm My Dad Received
Someone Vandalized My Local Unitarian Universalist Church
Security Had To Reprimand These Tourists For Pushing Emergency Stop On The Rosslyn Metro Escalator To Take A Group Photo During Rush Hour
Using Loaves Of Bread As An Armrest In The Checkout Line
Publix But Strong Walmart Vibes
Guy should be billed for all the food he spoiled, a clean up fee and banned from the store 🤮
Some Douchebags Stole My iPhone And It’s Now Across The World In China
imagine if they could fit them with a device so they could burn out remotely
FYI Codes For Point Boosters In That Game Are Located Under The Caps. Screw Whoever Did This
This Guy On My Bus To Work Sat Like This In The Elderly/Disabled Priority Section And Was Playing His Lousy Music On Speaker
These people anger me and scare me at the same time. They're usually aggressive and know full well what they are doing. People in my city have gotten attacked with knives and bear spray for trying to set idiots like this straight.
Elephant Race. The Act Of Semis Passing Each Other With Minimal Differences In Speed
I Was At The Grocery Store Buying One Item When This "Guy" With A Full Shopping Cart Cut Me Off So He Could Get In Line In Front Of Me. In The Express Lane
Instead of all that stuff on his shirt, it would mean the same thing if it just said "I am an a**hole"
Matching With A Girl On A Dating App Whose Bio Says "I Don't Date Outside My Race" Went About As You'd Expect It To
Doing This At A Cinema
The Person Who Stole My AirPods Off My Flight Is Staying In A Hotel Two Blocks Away From Me
When You Take The Right Wing Culture War Too Far
How My Ex-Roommate Left Her Bathroom After Moving Out
Someone Shot My Car On The Highway
Landlord Suggests We Move Instead Of Repairing Leaky Ceilings
The Way Betis Fans (Football Team) Reduced And Left Piazza Del Popolo, Rome, Just Hours Before A Match
Is it the Japanese fans (and players) who clean the stadiums after events?...... I admire and respect that greatly.
My Neighbor Shoveling His Backyard Into Mine
People Took All The Keys From This Keyboard At Walmart
The People That Went Out Of Their Way To Steal Our Bike Seats While At The Beach
Had someone gank my tail light when I stopped in at the pub for a pint. After dark so lack of taillight on the way home could have literally killed me. What gets me is there were people at the picnic table standing right there who didn't see it. It wasn't them BTW. I never thought it was. But to just walk by and voop off with someone else's gear is so insulting.
If You Think Blinding-LED Headlights Are Bad, Get A Load Of This Idiot. I Had To Switch Lanes It Was So Bright
Left On My Sister’s Windshield. Who Is From Asheville, But Has South Carolina Plates. Stay Classy Asheville
Asheville is a great city.with freindly people. I encourage all to visit it...
This Douche On My Flight
These People Who Had Two Carts Full Of Items In A 12 Item Or Less Self Scan
This Douche Blasting Heavy Window Rattling Bass For The Past 2 Hours At 1 Am
An Extended Family Member Broke The Toilet Seat While At A Gathering And Left Without Mentioning It To Anyone
no, that's just a terrible family member.. plus it takes a lot to break a toilet seat
My Last Job Sent Me My Check Exactly 6 Months Later So It'd Be Void And I Couldn't Cash It
Report this. And they have to hold your money anyway and eventually hand it over to unclaimed funds.
Returned To My Car To Find This Jerk Blocking My Driver's Door
By the scrapes on bronze vehicle, this probably wasn’t the first time this person has had trouble parking.
Looks Like I'll Be Late To Work Today
I literally don't understand why people do stuff like this
This Was How A 4-Hour Flight Went Today. I Am A 5’8” Female
I Let My Sister Borrow My Laptop Last Night, Woke Up To This
This Jerk Whose Smokestack Put Off Such Toxic Fumes That I Had To Drive A Half Mile Behind Him Or Get Choked Out Of My Own Car
Damn and thats from my state. Not a proud moment for me as a Michigander. But my local PD and County PD have started going after these trucks for EPA violations, smog i think. And the places that sell the stuff to make it this way are getting heavily fined from the state and EPA. Its Diffblue or something. Not sure.
Whoever Made This Sign Necessary
These Jerks Pushed And Shoved Their Way Toward The Front, And Got Aggressive When Others Wouldn’t Let Them Through (Security Did Remove Them)
You want to be up front? Should have got their earlier. First come first serve.
People Who Do This On Crowded Public Transport
This is so common. People don't take their bags off the next seat until people have to start standing and even then some will not move their bags. Sometimes I have 3 of my belongings piled up on my lap and it gets squishy, and we have something leaning on our neighbour, but that's the hard-knock, public transit life.
Guy Took My Carry-On Bag Thinking It Was His… He Pried It Open, Broke The Locks, And Brought It Back To Delta Like This The Next Day With No Note Or Anything
Backwards Facing Leds
Found In Houston, Texas
And The Baby Mama Of The Year Award Goes To
Was Traveling On Rayanair And This Guy Kept Touching Me With His Bare Feet
The Jerks Who Block Intersections During Rush Hour Because They Couldn’t Wait At A Yellow Light
I see this every day. Oh traffic is bumper to bumper but I need that next 15ft.
Car Broke Down So I Left It Unlocked Knowing I Had Nothing Worth Stealing. Still Came Back To This
back when I used to drive, I never locked my doors. There's nothing to steal. Nothing worth more than the window at least.
Can Only Imagine The Homes Of People Who Do This
This Jerk Leaving A Tip
I used to work at a brunch place that was popular with the local xtians. Saw a lot of these.
You Know This Was Only Put Up Because There Has Been Instances
I worked in a large office and we had some people come to do our annual audit. Out of the four of them, at least two, wrapped their faeces in tissue and put it in the waste bin. Our cleaners refused to clean the toilets after a few days and HR got me, the post room guy, to clear it. Born lucky me.
My Boss Wouldn’t Let Me Go Turn Off My Headlights, Even Though You Can See They’re On From The Window
This Guy's Amount Of Items In The Express Lane Right Before Dropping The 6 Pack Of Diet Coke All Over The Floor
I think express lanes should add an automatic surcharge for every item above the limit.
I Watched A Parent Sit On The Phone While 2 Kids Made Volcanoes At A Jersey Mike's And Then Just Leave
Anyone Need A Priority Seat In A Packed Airport Lounge?
Manager Glued The Volume Button On The Phone So We Can’t Change It
My Wife’s First Trip On A Plane And This Was The View Out Her Window
Not keen on flying on a plane that has windows that look like a 10yr old city bus.
Everytime They Repair It Some Jerk Do This
My Father Set A Password. To The Freakin' Thermostat
Not going to lie, I would do this. Especially if people that didn't pay for the heating/cooling kept cranking it up.
Kids On Dirt-Bikes Decided To Give My Car A New Paint Job
This Guy Has Been Trying To Scam Me From My Steam Account For The Past Year Now
Look At This Jerk On My Flight Back Home
Wife Made Cupcakes, 8-Year-Old Ate The Frosting
I have a nine-year-old brother, and even when he was six he probably wouldn't have done that. I know that different people do different things, but this seems ridiculous and really mean, honestly. If I made cupcakes, I wouldn't want people ruining them, and if my parents made cupcakes, I would want some! It just seems...cruel.
Honestly, humanity sucks! Even more so after this post. I would totally understand if aliens blew up this entire planet, except for animals.
OMG l 100% agree and usually get panned for saying it.
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The article title should be '115 examples of disrespectful people' that don't care about anyone but themselves '
As sad as it is, the worst things done to me were from my own parent. Every day I was told a new way how I am worthless and no one will ever love me. I drank myself nearly to death at 20 before a friend saved my life. We've been married over 10 years now and he tells me everyday how amazing I am.
Unfortunately, parents, and family in general, can be a person's worst nightmare. Some people should not be allowed to have children. Fortunately, you found a person who helped you. I do hope you have nothing to do with that toxic person anymore. You don't owe them anything. You deserve to be happy!
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pls go here so we can get Zara the Squiddy Squid back pls!!!! She is legitmately innocent: https://www.boredpanda.com/?p=4727791&utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic
Oh what happened to her??? I enjoyed reading her comments. P.s. the pages goes to a 404 page error.
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BP is getting as bad as mainstream media with all this doom and gloom. Stop showcasing garbage human beings and give us more of those "awesome woodworking projects" or "human decency" posts.
On the one hand, you are right. This post was really depressing. However, the posts have descriptive titles. The title here is: "50 times people spotted such huge jerks ... " What did you expect????? Nobody forced you to read it. There's a variety of contents in BP, so you can choose. Why the complaint? Go and read something else instead.
Load More Replies... I stopped reading not because I don't care but because this is the type of behavior I see too often. I'm unsure whether people are getting worse or I've just become more aware of how often people are just cruel to each other.
In this new year, we have to not act like these types of people. Being a decent human being will not hurt you, it will show the world that you have the capacity to care for others. We all need to think about other people and not be destructive or petty or rude or inconsiderate. Doing the right thing may require a few extra steps, but at least at the end of the day, you will know that you were not a jerk to someone. If you are sick stay home. If you are in the grocery store and you decide you don't want something, go put it back in its proper place. If you are romantically interested in someone and they don't like you accept it. When you go into a restaurant, don't leave a huge mess. Don't be racist, homophobic, xenophobic misogynistic, or anything else. Now more than ever, we need to be decent to one another.
I sometimes wonder if any of these bozos ever see their posts out on different sites. If so, do they ever take the time to read the comments as well. Then I come back down to reality.
Honestly, humanity sucks! Even more so after this post. I would totally understand if aliens blew up this entire planet, except for animals.
OMG l 100% agree and usually get panned for saying it.
Load More Replies... The article title should be '115 examples of disrespectful people' that don't care about anyone but themselves '
As sad as it is, the worst things done to me were from my own parent. Every day I was told a new way how I am worthless and no one will ever love me. I drank myself nearly to death at 20 before a friend saved my life. We've been married over 10 years now and he tells me everyday how amazing I am.
Unfortunately, parents, and family in general, can be a person's worst nightmare. Some people should not be allowed to have children. Fortunately, you found a person who helped you. I do hope you have nothing to do with that toxic person anymore. You don't owe them anything. You deserve to be happy!
Load More Replies... pls go here so we can get Zara the Squiddy Squid back pls!!!! She is legitmately innocent: https://www.boredpanda.com/?p=4727791&utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic
Oh what happened to her??? I enjoyed reading her comments. P.s. the pages goes to a 404 page error.
Load More Replies... BP is getting as bad as mainstream media with all this doom and gloom. Stop showcasing garbage human beings and give us more of those "awesome woodworking projects" or "human decency" posts.
On the one hand, you are right. This post was really depressing. However, the posts have descriptive titles. The title here is: "50 times people spotted such huge jerks ... " What did you expect????? Nobody forced you to read it. There's a variety of contents in BP, so you can choose. Why the complaint? Go and read something else instead.
Load More Replies... I stopped reading not because I don't care but because this is the type of behavior I see too often. I'm unsure whether people are getting worse or I've just become more aware of how often people are just cruel to each other.
In this new year, we have to not act like these types of people. Being a decent human being will not hurt you, it will show the world that you have the capacity to care for others. We all need to think about other people and not be destructive or petty or rude or inconsiderate. Doing the right thing may require a few extra steps, but at least at the end of the day, you will know that you were not a jerk to someone. If you are sick stay home. If you are in the grocery store and you decide you don't want something, go put it back in its proper place. If you are romantically interested in someone and they don't like you accept it. When you go into a restaurant, don't leave a huge mess. Don't be racist, homophobic, xenophobic misogynistic, or anything else. Now more than ever, we need to be decent to one another.
I sometimes wonder if any of these bozos ever see their posts out on different sites. If so, do they ever take the time to read the comments as well. Then I come back down to reality.
