50 Times People Spotted Such Huge Jerks, They Just Had To Shame Them Online (New Pics)
It's perfectly fine to have disagreements and differences of opinion, but it's important to remember that we're all in this together. Treating others with kindness, even when we don't see eye to eye, is essential for building a sense of community and creating a positive environment for everyone.
When we act like jerks, we not only hurt people, but we also diminish our respect; again, it's okay to have strong beliefs and stand up for what we think is right, but there's no need to belittle or demean others in the process. Compassion not only benefits those around us, but it also brings joy and fulfillment to our own lives.
Sadly, these things are often easier said than done. So, as a reminder that we should strive to make the world a better place for each other, we at Bored Panda put together a list of those who don't. We hope that karma catches up to these inconsiderate weasels.
Continue scrolling to check out the images and don't miss what we learned about empathy from NY-based Licensed Clinical Psychologist and founder of STEPS (Stress & Trauma Evaluation and Psychological Services) Dr. Valentina Stoycheva and Psychologist and Collaborative Divorce Coach Dr. Ann Gold Buscho — their comments are spread between the entries.
(This is a new rendition of an ongoing series. For older publications, follow the links here, here, and here.)
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Stealing From A Grave
Gettting Used To The Fact That Some People Are Just Jerks
According to Dr. Valentina Stoycheva, the author of The Unconscious: Theory, Research, and Clinical Implications, empathy is dependent on having developed a 'Theory of Mind,' which is the ability to understand and share the emotions of others.
"Many factors, such as upbringing and personality disorders (such as narcissism, for example) may result in an inability to experience empathy," Stoycheva told Bored Panda. "In addition, some people may situationally struggle with this if they are in an active state of being traumatized or have significant mental health difficulties. As a result, temporarily, they may have a hard time empathizing with others due to a lack of internal resources to do so."
Teacher Taking A Child’s Hearing Aid As Punishment “Cause She Wasn’t Listening Anyway”
Stop sobbing hysterically, go to the police and report her. That idiot can't be a teacher, or look after anything alive, not even a cactus.
Support Worker Leaves Her Shopping Bags On Top Of The Disabled Man In Her Care As She Takes A Fag Break
"Empathy is hard-wired into our species, some believe, which allowed our species to work in groups, form communities, and prosper," Dr. Ann Gold Buscho, who penned the book The Parent's Guide to Birdnesting, also told Bored Panda.
"They may lack empathy because of trauma in childhood, especially abusive parenting. They are in survival mode and scanning for threats (hypervigilant). Lack of empathy is associated with low intelligence and several mental health disorders, and some people may not have the internal resources necessary for empathy when they are overly stressed, just trying to keep their heads above water."
Neighbour Built A Community Library. Last Night Someone Dumped Chili And Cat Food Inside
Someone Replace This Receptionist
Man I’m Actually Pissed. My Mother Got Rid Of My First Pet Without Warning Me
The good thing is that egoistic behavior can be modified. "Empathy is a part of high EQ (or emotional intelligence)," Dr. Buscho explained. "It is a skill that many people can be taught through therapy and a desire to develop more intimate relationships with friends, families or partners."
However, she said that if someone doesn't recognize their deficit of empathy or isn't motivated to develop it, it will be difficult or even impossible to remedy, even with professional treatment. "Therapy would be helpful, as would coaching and feedback from others, ... [however,] certain personality disorders are so entrenched that the egoistic behavior may not be changed unless the consequences of that behavior are so painful that the person becomes curious or motivated to commit to change."
Someone Send This To Rosie
The Big Family Behind Us At The Food Court When They Left
Big Time Karen Energy
Invite her into the kitchen during this time to eat with the staff. I'm thinking she'll change her mind pretty quickly.
This Was Posted In A Restaurant's Facebook Group
So service staff is expendable or something? This is unbelievably selfish and cruel.
Interestingly, women are better at empathizing with other people than men.
Recently, researchers asked people to look at photos of the area around a person's eyes (the person is making a particular kind of facial expression, and the study participant had to identify what that person is thinking or feeling from a set of possibilities).
To see if cultural differences impacted empathy scores, data was collected from teams around the globe. Merging their results with large samples from different online platforms, the authors of the study were able to capture results from nearly 306,000 people across 57 countries including Argentina, Croatia, Egypt, India, Japan and Norway, and in 36 countries, women scored on average significantly higher in their cognitive empathy scores than men did, while in 21 of the countries, their results were similar.
There wasn’t a single country in which men scored better, on average, than women.
Some Rich Kids In Honduras Thought This Was Cute
Don't Be This Type Of Person
Disgusting. Was du nicht willst was man dir tu, das füg auch keinem anderen zu. Surely: you would not want this to happen to you, so don't do it to others.
Neighbor Parked His Tesla By Blocking The Sidewalk, Someone Threw Red Paint At His Car
The issue here is when you obstruct a walk way, you are forcing pedestrians to walk around the car, placing you in the road, where the chances of you getting hit by another vehicle goes up. So b/c this person is an entitled, lazy a*****e, others lives will be at risk. Completely unacceptable. What a douche.
Plus wheelchair users have to go back and find a drop down piece of pavement and travel a long the road until the next drop down kerb- I had this happen a few weeks ago and had to travel down a busy road at night for like 600-800m all because someone was blocking the pavement and we couldn't find them to move!
Load More Replies...I'm unclear on who the a*****e is in this situation. They're both f*****g awful.
I'm not unclear at all. Change the scenario: imagine a car parked in front of a fire hydrant. (illegal like, everywhere). fire breaks out nearby and the fire dept does exactly what they are trained to do: destroy the car's windows to make room for the hose. We'd all cheer it on. say the paint thrower here was disabled. this Tesla POS parked *on the sidewalk* and person in wheelchair literally cannot go around. PAINT THE CAR
Load More Replies...I think a tow truck would've been appropriate. Vandalizing a vehicle is a twat move
I’m amazed at the number of commenters here cheering thousands of dollars of vandalism (a felony). Proportionate retaliation would have been to remove the valve stems ($10) to cause 4 flat tires that can’t be reinflated without new valve stems (this model car has not even one spare wheel. It also has cameras on all sides that automatically record individuals that come close, so I hope the vandal was identified).
so in your scenario, how would Tire Deflator escape detection, if cameras are all over it? pff, paint is far faster. DBag Tesla Bro parked his car ON THE SIDEWALK. they have insurance. they can now experience that instead of unfettered entitlement.
Load More Replies...I've had people (yes it's happened more than once) park in my driveway and block me in because it was easier than parallel parking on the street. I responded with bird seed on their car. It's less damaging to the car but just as inconvenient to get piles of bird s**t of your car.
Twofer special on vinegar sack moves. Neither person is right here.
Ok the off chance tho that there was an emergency or the driver of car had a medical emergency and car was left like that could you imagine the pain it would cause someone already in crisis? That happened to our landlord's daughter, her child started choking in the backseat on McDonald's food and by the time she pulled car over he was limp already. Ambulance took them both and car was still in the road with doors wide open and when her parents (our landlords) came back to house to get clothes for the mom and child to use at hospital, her dad went to move car and someone had poured a drink all over the front seats and top of dashboard. It wasn't one of their McDonald's drinks either because they were still in car. Her parents had car cleaned up, but someone told her about it and she was really upset.
Probably did and they said get over it or what are you going to do about it
Load More Replies...Good. You're not supposed to park there. It is illegal. That's it. How would a person in a wheelchair get through the street? Hmm? Is it better to endanger and inconvenience a wheelchair-bound person or this lazy a*s that can't be bothered to walk a few more feet by parking somewhere else. Selfish a*****e and I hope they learned their lesson.
What's worse; Blocking the sidewalk when all other parking spots in front of/for the house you living at or visiting are taken or Parking in front of the neighbors house & messing up their view, routine or need for a parking space?
Or here's a thought... parking on the street in front of the house. If you zoom in they is a car parked in the street in the bi
Load More Replies...Something tells me it wasn't the first time he parked like an asshоle...
Red paint is quite a friendly punishment IMHO. Saw one picture where some arrogant douche had parked in front of a hydrant, so the fire dept smashed his windows in to feed the water hose through his car. Perhaps not civilised, but civilised feedback is reserved for civilised citizens, IMHO
What if there was another car parked in front and that's the farthest he could park?
Remember you could tell someone was an ahole driving a BMW and then later a Prius, now it's the Tesla. WTG to the artist.
People park like this all the time where I'm from. It's the way the sidewalk cuts through the bottom of the driveway. I don't like it, but I see it multiple times, everyday. I've never seen anyone get THIS mad though. I hate inconsiderate drivers as much as anyone else, but so many people consider this area an "extension" of their driveways.
Well that paint guy can and will get free beer forever at my place!!:)))
Serves them right - pet hate people parking on footpaths. I just draw 'path' in the dirt on the car though. Nicely passive aggressive.
Perhaps a sternly worded note under the windscreen wiper would have been a more proportionate response. 🤷♀️
Perhaps this isn't the first time he's done this
Load More Replies...You honestly think anyone is jealous of an inconsiderate, Tesla-driving dbag?
Load More Replies...Im confused. Whose supposed to be in the wrong? Tesla dude was an a*s but the tesla prob costs around $50,000.
In the state where I live this would be considered criminal damage to property, a Class A misdemeanor, punishable by a fine of $10000 or up to 9 months in the slammer. The fine for parking on the sidewalk is $30. Two wrongs don't make a right.
Yea what the a*****e who parked on the sidewalk did is much worse.
Load More Replies...Bet the neighbor learned a very powerful lesson on how not to be a d**k after that.
It's a Tesla!! The only way it would look better is if we're crushed into a teeny tiny box! Elon Musk is such a DOUCHE!
Someone specifically went to go buy some paint, which isn’t cheap, and went back to the spot to throw it on the car. Okay then. They could have got revenge more easily by calling a tow truck.
Lots of people have extra paint cans for projects and touch-ups, but go off I guess.
Load More Replies...My Cat Almost Got Stolen Today
Did she know this is someone's cat? Maybe ahe thought it's a stray cat.
“This study clearly demonstrates a largely consistent sex difference across countries, languages, and ages,” study co-author Carrie Allison, who is the director of applied research at the Autism Research Centre at Cambridge University, said in a press statement.
“This raises new questions for future research about the social and biological factors that may contribute to the observed on-average sex difference in cognitive empathy.”
Found A Camera In My Air B&b. It Was Halfway Behind The Painting With Only The Lens Peeking Out
Discovered it because we heard it clicking after me and my girl got out of the shower.
Tourist Scales Ancient Egyptian Antiquities
A Caretaker Stole My Grandpa’s Old Rolex Before He Passed Away. I Was Supposed To Have It
Burned Down Community Book Donation
However, I am willing to bet that many of you, dear Pandas, have had strong reactions browsing through these pictures.
Dr. Valentina Stoycheva highlighted that this happens because most of us have a need for the world to be, at least to a degree, organized and predictable in order to feel safe. "People who act like jerks break social contracts that we all need in order to function in society," she said.
"Even if their behavior does not concern us, we still experience it as possibly dangerous or threatening. If everyone started acting this way, then society as we know it would collapse and that is scary."
This Dude Decided To Park In Front Of My Driveway When The Entire Street Was Free
We See Stuff Like This On A Daily Basis
Mom's Boyfriend Threw Away My 9-Year-Old Collection Of LEGO Because I Didn't Use It For A While. There Are Sets From The 1990s In There And Also Sets In The Harry Potter Series
Poor Dog Left In A Filthy Car
A Mom Left Her 2 Kids, A Child And Baby In A Carseat, Alone While She Went Into Dance Class
Please don't just post pictures of other people's kids, no matter the situation. Do better. If you see kids in distress or in a bad situation with no other adults around call the proper authorities.
My Dad's A Nurse And The Hospital Gave All The Nurses This Bag Because All Nurses Are Women Apparently
Guy Posts Racist "Nice Guy" Post And Then Proceeds To Argue With Everyone Who Tells Him He's A Jerk
TLDR: I harassed a friend and included racist overtones and now they don’t want to be my friend. What did I do wrong?
Friendly Reminder To Call Out Your Family For Bad Behavior
This Jerk’s Parking. Needless To Say There Was No “Disabled” Sticker On The Car
This Guy On The Train Was Putting His Mask Down Every Two Minutes To Sneeze And Played Music On His Phone For One Hour
Whenever someone asks him to stop he got aggressive.
She Wants A Discount In Exchange For A Bottle Of Water (Tap Water, That Is)
A Jerk Blocked My Mom's Driveway, So She Can’t Pick Me Up From A Football Game
Did I mention it’s cold, windy, and rainy... And none of my friends are there so I can’t get a ride from them.
If You're A Parent And Let Your Kids Make A Mess Like This
My Landlord Entered My Apartment Without Notice (Illegal) To Tell Me To Clean My Lint Trap
Somebody Vandalized A Gay Pride Sidewalk In The Town Over From Me
There’s A Package Bandit In My Building And One Of My Neighbors Had Their Medicine Stolen
Call the police. Tampering with mail is a felony, plus pharmaceutical theft carries a hefty charge too
Seen At A Gas Station
Looking at the other signs in this photo, I’m guessing trump supporters own this shop. Update—> seems I hit a nerve, 😂
People Who Leave Perishable Food On Store Shelves
There’s A Limited Amount Of Parking At My Apartments, And This Douchebag Parks Like This Anytime He Can So Nobody Will Hit His Car
The Worst Kind Of People That Shouldn’t Exist
The posts on Quora are often a joke, or someone posing as someone else but making it sound like themselves. It's weird.
I Split Up With My Boyfriend Yesterday. I Fell Asleep While He Was Packing And He Stole My Toilet
There Is An 11-Day Bin Man Strike In Edinburgh And This Is Only Day Two. Most Of The City Is Like This
I Work At A Pet Store. Some Jerk Used A Brush For Sale To Brush His Dog, And Then Just Put It Back. Dude
Letting Your Kid Draw On The Nobel Memorial At The Natural History Museum
Her Friend Didn’t Answer The Phone
Moving Day. Looks Like Drunk Me Left A Note For Future Self. I've Been Sober For 4.5 Years. Man That Guy Was A Jerk
The State My Ex Left My House In After I Went Away For A Week
Owning A Maserati Doesn't Make You Not Trashy. They Just Opened The Door And Set Down Their Litter
Dude Takes His Massive Mastiff On The Bus And Fails To Control The Dog. Dog Is Barking Every 10 Seconds. Bonus Points For The Dude's Cheeks Hanging Out
A Man Disguised As An Old Women In A Wheelchair Threw A Cake At The Mona Lisa Painting In Paris
The frame is not the original, but a replacement from the 1970s when the older frame was found to have insects in it. The glass in the front of it is bulletproof, so all this idiot did was make the cleaners spend an extra 5 minutes of cleaning it and laugh at him getting arrested
Person Behind Me Had Their Lights On So Bright I Couldn't See
Note: this post originally had 115 images. It’s been shortened to the top 50 images based on user votes.
Honestly, humanity sucks! Even more so after this post. I would totally understand if aliens blew up this entire planet, except for animals.
OMG l 100% agree and usually get panned for saying it.
Load More Replies...The article title should be '115 examples of disrespectful people' that don't care about anyone but themselves '
As sad as it is, the worst things done to me were from my own parent. Every day I was told a new way how I am worthless and no one will ever love me. I drank myself nearly to death at 20 before a friend saved my life. We've been married over 10 years now and he tells me everyday how amazing I am.
Unfortunately, parents, and family in general, can be a person's worst nightmare. Some people should not be allowed to have children. Fortunately, you found a person who helped you. I do hope you have nothing to do with that toxic person anymore. You don't owe them anything. You deserve to be happy!
Load More Replies...pls go here so we can get Zara the Squiddy Squid back pls!!!! She is legitmately innocent: https://www.boredpanda.com/?p=4727791&utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic
Oh what happened to her??? I enjoyed reading her comments. P.s. the pages goes to a 404 page error.
Load More Replies...BP is getting as bad as mainstream media with all this doom and gloom. Stop showcasing garbage human beings and give us more of those "awesome woodworking projects" or "human decency" posts.
On the one hand, you are right. This post was really depressing. However, the posts have descriptive titles. The title here is: "50 times people spotted such huge jerks ... " What did you expect????? Nobody forced you to read it. There's a variety of contents in BP, so you can choose. Why the complaint? Go and read something else instead.
Load More Replies...I stopped reading not because I don't care but because this is the type of behavior I see too often. I'm unsure whether people are getting worse or I've just become more aware of how often people are just cruel to each other.
In this new year, we have to not act like these types of people. Being a decent human being will not hurt you, it will show the world that you have the capacity to care for others. We all need to think about other people and not be destructive or petty or rude or inconsiderate. Doing the right thing may require a few extra steps, but at least at the end of the day, you will know that you were not a jerk to someone. If you are sick stay home. If you are in the grocery store and you decide you don't want something, go put it back in its proper place. If you are romantically interested in someone and they don't like you accept it. When you go into a restaurant, don't leave a huge mess. Don't be racist, homophobic, xenophobic misogynistic, or anything else. Now more than ever, we need to be decent to one another.
I sometimes wonder if any of these bozos ever see their posts out on different sites. If so, do they ever take the time to read the comments as well. Then I come back down to reality.
Honestly, humanity sucks! Even more so after this post. I would totally understand if aliens blew up this entire planet, except for animals.
OMG l 100% agree and usually get panned for saying it.
Load More Replies...The article title should be '115 examples of disrespectful people' that don't care about anyone but themselves '
As sad as it is, the worst things done to me were from my own parent. Every day I was told a new way how I am worthless and no one will ever love me. I drank myself nearly to death at 20 before a friend saved my life. We've been married over 10 years now and he tells me everyday how amazing I am.
Unfortunately, parents, and family in general, can be a person's worst nightmare. Some people should not be allowed to have children. Fortunately, you found a person who helped you. I do hope you have nothing to do with that toxic person anymore. You don't owe them anything. You deserve to be happy!
Load More Replies...pls go here so we can get Zara the Squiddy Squid back pls!!!! She is legitmately innocent: https://www.boredpanda.com/?p=4727791&utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic
Oh what happened to her??? I enjoyed reading her comments. P.s. the pages goes to a 404 page error.
Load More Replies...BP is getting as bad as mainstream media with all this doom and gloom. Stop showcasing garbage human beings and give us more of those "awesome woodworking projects" or "human decency" posts.
On the one hand, you are right. This post was really depressing. However, the posts have descriptive titles. The title here is: "50 times people spotted such huge jerks ... " What did you expect????? Nobody forced you to read it. There's a variety of contents in BP, so you can choose. Why the complaint? Go and read something else instead.
Load More Replies...I stopped reading not because I don't care but because this is the type of behavior I see too often. I'm unsure whether people are getting worse or I've just become more aware of how often people are just cruel to each other.
In this new year, we have to not act like these types of people. Being a decent human being will not hurt you, it will show the world that you have the capacity to care for others. We all need to think about other people and not be destructive or petty or rude or inconsiderate. Doing the right thing may require a few extra steps, but at least at the end of the day, you will know that you were not a jerk to someone. If you are sick stay home. If you are in the grocery store and you decide you don't want something, go put it back in its proper place. If you are romantically interested in someone and they don't like you accept it. When you go into a restaurant, don't leave a huge mess. Don't be racist, homophobic, xenophobic misogynistic, or anything else. Now more than ever, we need to be decent to one another.
I sometimes wonder if any of these bozos ever see their posts out on different sites. If so, do they ever take the time to read the comments as well. Then I come back down to reality.