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21 Parents Open Up About Playdates That Went So Bad No One Could’ve Predicted It
Article created by: Rūta Zumbrickaitė
When you are a parent, you have a lot of responsibilities of many kinds. One of them is to make sure your kid is growing up properly in all areas, including their physical and emotional development.
There are plenty of ways to ensure that – for example, by organizing playdates. Sounds like a fun thing to do, doesn't it? Well, it can be until it's not... And that's what we're discussing today. So, without further ado, let's jump in, shall we?
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#1
A child lured my elderly dog over with a pizza crust and then smacked her in the face.
I had this child back at her own house in about 10 minutes.
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#2
Called by a stranger to pick oldest DD up from her friends house 5am one Sunday morning.
They'd been raided by the police for money laundering.
#3
Worst playdate was dd's friend who pulled every piece of clothing off all hangers and out of drawers. She also emptied every single box she could find e.g. game boxes and boxes of stuff, in the middle of the bedroom floor. When her mum came upstairs she just smiled and said that, it was nice they were having a good time?!!! I said there was a big mess and could they both help put some back? They suddenly had to leave! Never invited them back again!
#4
My daughter was at her friend's and their dog jumped up and clawed her tummy and chest and pushed her over. The dad said it's the dog's house not hers so he can do what he wants.
Needless to say she never went back.
#5
The worst one, for the child, I ever had was a child with recently separated parents who came to ours for a play date after school. Mum said dad would collect her at 6.30. At 7pm I rang dad and he said he was in hospital having had minor surgery and mum knew this. Rang mum to be told "it's dad's weekend, ring him". We ended up with an impromptu sleepover and Dad's parents (who lived 4 hours away) collected her in the morning. Mum finally apologised about 6 weeks later after she told her sister what had happened and her sister lambasted her for putting her child, and us, in the middle of the squabble.
#6
At 6 my DS had a playdate in which the little friend bit me on the hand. It wasn't a hard bite; just enough to scrape my hand. The father of the child stood by and did nothing, even as he was being kicked. He wasn't invited back.
#7
When our eldest was at primary a friend from her class came to our house straight from school. Mum was due to collect Her at 7.30.
By 8.00 when Mum hadn’t collected her she said
“ oh she’s probably gone in town with vodka in her bag!
By 10 we hadn’t managed to contact her Mum. Didn’t want her to just stay over without any bedtime stuff or permission.
Whilst we were deciding what to do my DH realised he knew her dad from a sport they both played
( unusual surname)
Mum and dad weren’t together and dad didn’t sound surprised at all. Came to pick her up when we rang him. He was so apologetic.
Your poor son OP that’s grim!
#8
Play date where the Mum tried to sell me a MLM. Very pushy.
Something to do with Aloe Vera. Forever Living? Can’t remember properly.
She practically took me hostage!
#9
Dunno, could be the bucket of water they threw down my stairs, the one child who ate so much food she proceeded to vomit or the one who insisted on chasing my child around spitting food at them. Not the same child. All three had their parents called and never came back.
#11
At about age four, DS1 was invited to a playdate with a set of boy/girl twins the same age. I didn't know the family well, but liked the mum so thought it'd be nice to get the DC together. DS and the boy twin hit it off and played beautifully together. Unfortunately, girl twin got very jealous about this. Firstly she threw sand in DS's face, which might or mightn't have been an accident and could've been nasty but luckily DS wasn't too bothered. Then a bit later she shoved DS into the garden shed and locked him in! He was only stuck in there for a couple of minutes, but I decided enough was enough at that stage and we went home. That friendship never did progress.
#12
Best friend came round with her then 2 year old (I had a 1 year old for context). She refused to disicipline him. In the 45 minutes they were here the child had pulled my living room voiles down (fixed with a tension rod), broke my husbands brand new Alexa, ate 2 chunks out of my candles, grabbed my rabbit and tried to pick her up by her ears and broke some of my sons toys. Needless to say, we only have outdoor play dates now.
#13
When my eldest DD was around 10 years old, she was invited to her friends house to play for the day. When DD got home, she announced she was starving - so I asked what she had eaten whilst she was at her friends.....
"Nothing" she replied.
Friends mum had made lunch, and left DD upstairs whilst the friend and mum and dad all ate downstairs. They didn't even ask if she wanted a flaming biscuit. 🙄
#14
Went to a kids party (I thin it was a 3rd) where the birthday girl “had an accident” (#2) on the floor and another kid walked through it and spread it halfway down the hallway. Grim
#15
I don't know if this counts cos i was (almost) an adult when it happened. I had ben invited to a pool party of a school friend, she was very odd girl but i kept giving her the benefit of the doubt. not long after arriving at the party, having a drink and a swim, without my knowledge she went into my bag and using my phone called my mother and told her i was blind drunk and could she came at get me, my Mum walked into the garden and could tell just by looking at me that i was completely sober (I had had half a bottle of light beer) so left. Later on the hostess pushed me into the pool with my clothes on, yelled at me for petting her dog. I got stuck in the bathroom and had to climb out the window. I haven't seen nor contacted or been contacted by that girl since.
#16
Not me, but a friends daughter had a play date, aged about 7/8. She told me she'd left the 2 girls playing upstairs, and they made her a lovely collage by cutting up all the photos out of a photo album 😱
#17
One kid who I can’t even remember now (I’ve blocked it out) who came for a loooonnnggg 2 hours after school and basically didn’t want to do anything with my son. He just kept coming to me and asking me to play with him, or asking dumb questions or asking for food and drinks (they'd already got snacks and drinks and I was busy preparing tea and he just wanted to be in everything I was doing).
He wasn’t interested in anything my son was doing or playing, or the tv, or the garden, he just basically needed constant attention - only from me.
He never got invited back.
#18
The worst ones we’ve had involved a child scribbling all over the wall in ds’s room while I answered the door to his mum. The same child also mixed up the play dough in to one homogenous lump of brown.
#19
Worse one was when dd friend came over then proceeded to tell everyone at school our house was tiny and untidy. Never had that with any of her three older siblings. Made worse by the fact that playdate child lives down the road in a almost identical house.
When ds was a baby we had a NCT meet up for lunch where one mum bought her sick baby and almost everyone ( except me and ds) caught noro virus. Nothing that's been totally horrendous luckily.
#20
Had an after school play date where the nice boy’s younger brother was also left with us, no warning. Younger brother (age 6 or 7) just followed me around, then looked up at me and asked “Why ARE you so fat?” NB I’m not huge. It had clearly been a topic of conversation he’d heard.
School friend refused to eat anything but meat, so they eventually had the steak we were planning to have that evening. The mum (rich, not nice school gate Queen Bee) arrived to pick up, plonked herself down at out table like it was her house and did a smarmy- judgemental she’s-better-than-me chat.
Thank God she didn’t have the class to offer a return play date.
#21
Picked up my daughter and her friend form Pre school. As it was a sunny day and the friend was complaining of a headache we decided to stop pat the park first to blow off the cobwebs. After a few minutes the friend came up to me and said she didn't feel well so I told her to sit on the bench while I got my baby out of the swing. My daughter went and sat with her then I heard screaming and my daughter ran over to me crying. Her friend had projectile vomited all over herself and my daughter's leg! I have emetophobia so went into panic mode. Thankfully the mum (also a close friend) lived 30 seconds from the park, so I walked her home to her mum, then took my kid home and bleached them both from head to toe! (read bathed).
Just glad she did it at the park and not in my house!
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