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If you’re anything like us, dear Pandas, then you’re simply obsessed with reading. We devour books one after the other, speed-read chapters during our coffee breaks, and may or may not literally be reading 8 books at the same time. Physical, digital, imaginary—we don’t care about the format.

Even though we personally enjoy experimenting with various weird works of writing, things are a bit different when you’re a parent. Case in point, some grownups spilled the tea in a r/AskReddit thread about what books they read back in school that they’d never, ever want their own children to read. Scroll down to see their opinions and the reasons behind them.

Bored Panda reached out to redditor u/masterbuildera, the author of the viral thread, and they were kind enough to share their thoughts with us.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read Dianetics, or anything else by L. Ron Hubbard.

Edited to explain why "Dianetics" was read in school: I was a junior in high school. Our AP world history teacher assigned us a project to research a "world religion" outside of the "big 3". Half of the students chose Buddhism, a few chose Hinduism, a few Taoism, a few LDS, etc. But this was '05-'06, and the "Trapped in the Closet" episode of South Park had just come out. Having never before heard of Scientology, I *had* to know if the episode was accurate.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my mom died, my dad took me to that place for "help". I noped after about a year (15). I have received mail and phone calls for 35 years - new phone numbers, new addresses... they still harass me. They are 100% a cult and want money.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read Shakespeare. Not because it is bad but because it's not really meant to be read. It's a performance your supposed to watch it.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You need a good teacher for it too. I had one English teacher who though just reading it to us was an effective teaching strategy, we all failed. We all know the story and main points but he never explained any of the lines but tested us on the lines. Later, I had another teacher who went over Caesar and she was so good, she basically translated line by line and went over everything. She made it really interesting, all while knitting at her desk. I miss her!

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read I don't have or want kids but Flowers In The Attic by V.C. Andrews. I was maybe 11 or 12 when I saw it in my school library and remember my mum mentioned she'd read it in school. Holy hell that was not a book that should have been in a primary school library, the fact it was required reading in my mum's school when she was 14 is even more messed up.

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We got in touch with redditor u/masterbuildera, who started up the viral r/AskReddit thread, and asked them to share a few thoughts. We were curious how they had decided to ask such an unusual and interesting question in the first place.

"I started the thread because I read a book that was not suitable for my age," they opened up to Bored Panda.

They said that they were "traumatized because of it." However, they were unsure if their experience was unique. "So I decided to ask people on Reddit to see if they had read a book like that," u/masterbuildera shared that they were curious how widespread this phenomenon really was.

According to the OP, whether or not banning books makes them more likely to be read by people will depend a lot on the context. The redditor noted that "if the book has strong content," then it wouldn't necessarily be something that others might be very curious about.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read F**k catcher in the rye, holden is a whiny little b***h

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read My 5th grade teacher read the Stephen King short story Survival Type to the class. For those who haven’t read: the narrator / mc is a drug smuggler who crash lands his plane on a deserted island. He ends up doing all the heroin he recovered from the crash and cannibalizes himself. We didn’t know at the time our teacher had early onset dementia..

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly seems like something I'd be interested in, even back then. Definitely not a book for 11 year olds though.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read Go Ask Alice or Jay’s Journal. The “anonymous” person who wrote it was not a young girl or a guy it was a woman named Beatrice Sparks (and probably other who collaborated). She was a conservative and wrote the books based on those ideals in order to “save the children”. Absolute s**t writing and s**t person.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you want the real deal, try We, children from Bahnhof Zoo by Christiane F.

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Bored Panda wanted to get the thread author's opinion on where the line between censorship and protection lies. We were curious where they think the line is between being too strict and wanting to protect children from being traumatized by books, just like they were in their youth.

"From my perspective, schools need to ban books that are meant for adults," the redditor said that books that are clearly marked mature, meant for 18 and over, shouldn't find themselves in the hands of school kids.

Meanwhile, they added that parents should also observe what books their kids read and what reading lists schools have.

However, it's not all doom and gloom. The redditor noted that even though they were traumatized by a book in their past, they've also found some books that had some tips that directly improved their life. 

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read Maybe this isn’t the question, but I read A Child Called ‘It’ as an elementary aged child. I bought it at the school’s Scholastic Book Fair, and was maybe 9 years old. Why on earth they thought that was an appropriate book for small children to be purchasing and reading, I will never know. The 90’s were a trip.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you don't know what this book is about, it is a true first person account by someone who suffered prolonged and extreme physical and emotional abuse at the hands of his mother as a child. Not for the squeamish.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read Hear me out, this is a weird take:

**Cyrano de Bergerac**

Not because it isn't a good story, it is. But because I think high school boys get the wrong message from it and it fuels this incel, neckbeard fantasy of "*I am truly special, and I will pursue this woman until she realizes how special I am. She only likes that other guy because he's cute, it definitely isn't that I'm an a*****e.*" I don't think that's healthy for them, I think a lot of them don't get that it's satire because it's in middle english.

I'm not saying they *can't* read it, but it shouldn't be required as part of the curriculum either (it was for me at least).

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think educators need to frame these works correctly for them to be effective.

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#9

26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison was rough.

As a victim of childhood SA I wish I didn’t have to quietly relive that trauma in a freshman English classroom full of strangers.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had to read a handful of books like that (not really but same topics) like Speak and there was a discreet opt-out option, you had to pick a book from the teacher’s shelf and write an essay on it instead

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Being a parent is tough. When it comes to reading, you have to find the right balance between protecting your kids from extremely unsettling ideas while also allowing them to grow and develop their thinking. You can’t expect them to ever think outside the box if they’re kept firmly within it.

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When it comes to visual media like movies and TV shows, things are slightly simpler: there are age ratings that help guide parents. However, while some books do have recommendations for age groups, it’s not like you can declare that George Orwell’s ‘1984’ is only ‘meant’ for those 18 years old or over. Imagine the outrage!

The desire to limit people’s access to reading material, in order to protect them (or society at large), can quickly devolve into censorship. However, we all know that the road to hell is paved with good intentions. You have to trust that people will be able to deal with the uncomfortable things they read on a page.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read I was in a gifted class and we read 1984...in the fourth grade. Great piece of literature, but maybe a titch intense for nine-year-olds, y'know?

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read Where the Red Fern Grows- I wept like a baby when I read that book. I don’t want to subject my little one (who loves dogs) to that heartbreak.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read this when i was young and loved it so much. Its such a magical story about a boy and the strong bond he has with his two hunting dogs. The ending is upsetting but it's 100% worth reading, even for younger children in my opinion. I dont really see why people feel the need to shelter kids from a book like this one. (obviously some books on this list yes, they sound awful). But this book is great!

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read Lord of the Flies. I hate that s**t.

This isn’t about censorship, if my kid wants to read that dogshit book, of course they can. But I’d never recommend it to anybody, or encourage anyone to read it if they were on the fence.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I tried to read it as a kid. Hated it. Tried to read it as an adult. Loved it. One of my favorite genres is something I like to call 'sunny horror', and so few things qualify.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I liked it as a kid, I liked it as an adult - I think the ending sort of went over my head until I read what the author himself had said of it.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Brilliant book. One or two disturbing aspects, sure, but that's the whole point, Very good reading for 13-14 age group.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

thank god my teacher was amazing, because they did a great job of reminding us that this is not a representation of what happens when humans are left to their own devices. this is what happens when entitled rich white british boys are left to their own devices. this is not applicable to all humanity because those kids did lead very specific and priveledged life before the island. also beauty queens by libba bray does a completely different demographic version of this. i know english teachers who teach these books together to show that even if they're children, they don't arrive in these situations as blank slates. there's context to explain why people behave the way they do

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I suppose the teacher thought it was best to present this material from that point of view. I do not agree the value of this book is to show us the very thin line between civilization and savagery. Especially important in the US today!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had an amazing English teacher so I enjoyed it. But read it as an adult years later and wow did the message about society hit home

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is it about society or is it about British boarding schools of the time?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Part of my reading in English when I was 15. Great book, poor Piggy

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lord of the flies came to mind as soon as I saw the title of this list. I think I read it when I was 12 or 13 and boy, did I cry when Piggy died. It was a shocking scene that disturbed me for days. I haven’t read it as an adult, so I don’t understand the allegorical aspect. I’ll pick it up soon. Hopefully this year.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read it in HS. Only managed to read it one time. It was well written but Piggy's death was terrible. Really most things that happened were terrible in the book. Watched some of the movie, but couldn't finish it.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There was an old Simpsons episode that was in reference to this book that was pretty funny.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

what?? i dont understand what so many people have against this book, I read it when I was, like, 12 and loved it so much and rereading it now, I could really understand the message and loved it even more. its such great writing

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Have to strongly disagree with this. Lord of the Flies is a definite must read,vas a preteen, teenager and adult.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lord of the Flies is not meant to be a nice story, ya know?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought Lord of the Flies was an amazing book and I am glad we read it in school. I was a big wuss until probably my mid 20s and wouldn't have gone near a lot of books if a class hadn't made me.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A brilliant book. It was in our Grade 8 curriculum. Golding said it had to be about boys, because if it had been girls, it would have turned out much differently.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read it in High school because even though it was easy, according to the teacher that's a better age group to understand the themes. Like how the beast is in human nature. And the parallels to the very real war going on at the time, the adults who were supposed to be their saviors were really not so dissimilar. At least that's what I was taught about it.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We studied this in grade 7 along with 1984. And I've reread them since. No issues.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was good, I thought, as a study on human behavior! Perhaps you missed the point.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read that book for school at some point, and while those “classic” books generally aren’t my thing (some are, though), I did like this one.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This book is about how easily people (especially males) can descend into tribalism and how thin the veneer of civilization really is. It is relevant right now .

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Another book that I loved. But I've always been cynical about our species, so it makes sense.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still read this every now and then. It reminds me of my time spent working with some really horrible human creatures.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had to read this about aged 10/11 for school. I liked it, looked around my classroom and thought yeah can relate! I thought the ending meant the ship was sailing away leaving the sailors who would be the new prey for the boys.... I think I was going through some stuff.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I actually liked this one when we read it in HS. But I don't think I understood it in a way I would now.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No it's a pretty good book if you have a pessimistic view of humans as I do.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor Piggy 😢 and Simon. I read this one and watched the movie my senior year. My English teacher prepared us for this one for a week before we read it together as a class (as in, out loud, together, 2 chapters per day).

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was read to us in fifth grade by the school librarian followed by The Cay. My first exposure to non-religious literature.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's really bad, not because it's badly written, but because it is propaganda to support extreme measures to control kids and adults. Fact is that, in the few cases in which kids were left to their own accords, they managed to build a decently functioning and civilized society. Even bullying is rare when there are not adults around to penalize the victims and to protect the bully. Kids have a much better sense of fairness and justice than adults.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had the original massive book version read to me in grade, it goes through literally everything; read the cut down version if you want to read it, 8ts a good book but you done need to ready about every single thing that happened to the kids

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wasn't allowed to study Shakespeare, my grades weren't great. I had to read c**p like this. Got the same grades. Irregardless of what we studied. Teacher: Why do you think the author wrote this character this way? Me: Don't have a clue. And could care less. (Don't get me wrong. I love reading. Read a lot. But the motives behind the author's choices? I'm blank. Jules Verne did a story like this. His was good. I was always very lucky in one thing. My parents didn't believe in censorship and we could read whatever we wanted. Years later, I told my mother what kind of c**p I had to read that year. Because she wouldn't stand up for me to take the Shakespeare course.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had to write essays on how the characters relate to countries in WW2 & which character was which country and why. Then we had to write essays on mob mentality, social dynamics, why anarchic states would never work etc.... hate this book so much!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one is a great book for high schoolers. It takes cliques to the extreme.

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Kate Brooks
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I found it was very disturbing after I had finished reading it and fully processed what it meant. And I was in grade 9.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We chose it in 7th grade as a class to order it from one of those scholastic-type flyers. Don't remember much about the writing, but remember the book and talking a LOT about conflict - which I did NOT understand in 7th grade!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had to read chapters at home and once a week we had to take turns reading outloud in class. Piggy died during an outloud reading day and I started crying. Then I was tormented by quite a few of the boys from that class for months; "oh look, there goes the piggy lover! Hahaha! Oink oink, Piggy lover!"

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This but not because this book is bad, but because people take it as some treatise on human nature, when in reality its scathing criticism of the English hugh classes. The idea isn't lol this is how people are. Not even how boys are. No its specifically about privately educated English lordlings, and the creator literally said so himself

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read lots of books in school, but Lord of the Flies is the one I am still disturbed by at age 63. I HATE that I ever read it.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good book, but extremely f****d up. Which yeah, that's the point but still

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What I like is that a real life version happened and the kids all cooperated and were rescued weeks (months?) later (I read LotF for English class when I was 14)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read it as an adult, I thought it was anticlimactic and boring...imagine that, children going crazy and turning on each other bored me

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, we had to read it in 8th grade. Some of my classmates were wishing they could do that to me.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Didn't read the book in school but they showed the movie in Jr. High. Sorry but that was so utterly depressing and I hated it. They promoted as a special treat for the entire school so I didn't expect them to show something so dark. I think it probably has educational value but I believe that was too young. Also, one book I checked out from the school library in grade school really messed with my head. It had a very graphic depiction of a man who committed suicide by sticking a gun in his mouth. I have no idea why the school thought that was appropriate reading material at that age.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We did this book in grade eleven. I was so horrified and creeped out by its bleak take on human nature, I asked my English english teacher to do a different book. So I did Clockwork Orange instead.

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Nikole
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember reading this my first year of high school. I was so upset and frustrated by the ending I hurled the book to the floor immediately upon finishing it. No comeuppance?? Good book though.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hated that book. I can see some psycho of a preteen getting a lot of really disturbing ideas.

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Cynthia Carter
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depressing, but still a cautionary tale. Read it in high school.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a little girl reading this, I was like "this was clearly written by an adult who forgot what it was like being a kid". It was more obnoxious than anything.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this book. The movie is interesting. I read it in middle school and cried at Piggy's death.. watched the movie for sociology class and cried again. I felt for that kid seriously. We had to come up with an alternative scenario with girls. Mine ended pretty badly cause at some point everyone's PMS synchronized and the claws came out.

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David
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

LOL. First title I thought of when I saw this thread. I read it as an assignment in school.

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Mario Strada
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read this book in Italian first, then in English later. I always thought it was a bit absurd and recently I came across an article about real life kids stranded in an island ( not long after the book was published) that absolutely did not end up like these kids. They collaborated, shared and finally were rescued. That article is probably a google search away, but I need to get back to work.

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Ron Man
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like the OP already knows which way the wind blows if he winds up on an island

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Demosthenes
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, stop teaching metaphor and symbolism. Take a hint from the MCU and realize plot line and character development are secondary to fight scenes and protracted stories about convincing other superheroes to join the good fight for the betterment of humanity.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Golding (the author) considered the book "boring and crude", its language "O-level stuff". Its classic status struck him as "a joke" and he disparaged his income from it as "Monopoly money"."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You motivated me to look into the author and he was something else in general...

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Yvette Desmarais
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My school assigned several books that were of this ilk. Basically about how horrible children can be. I think some teachers had issues with their jobs. Don't blame them but that topic could be avoided.

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Jennifer Norton
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

another book I HATE!!! It's well written but I was for sure traumatized by this book. I was in high school and was not ready for this. I am too sensitive for stories like this..... I told my daughters about it, didn't spoil it for them, just told them that it was a rough book. They are probably going to read it next year and I am worried for them!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was a horrible novel when I had to read it in 7th grade maybe but as I got older, I have learned to appreciate and understand the concept.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had to read this for an honors English class and loathed it. It doesn't help that I had a teacher that felt everything was symbolism and "who's the Jesus figure"

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here. I just wanted to scream at the author, "not everything has to be a symbol!"

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ugh I had to read it twice for school, once in year 10 and again in year 12 (2 different schools).

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just want to let folks know this is based on a true story EXCEPT the children did not harm or bully one another. They banded together and survived until they were rescued.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like the overall message/theory of the book. But there's a scene where they rape a boar with a spear and that haunts me 20+ years later

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read Gone with the Wind. Not because it's offensive (it is) or because it has rape scenes that portray the main character as liking them (it does) or because it depicts slavery from the wrong side of history (it definitely does). No, because it's a 900+ page book that ends and begins without really doing anything, and it doesn't even attempt to show one battle of the Civil War. It's basically Waiting for Godot, but instead of God it's a prissy Southerner who never loved the main character anyways, while the real lover has to rape her to show how much he loves her. It's utter trash.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Margaret Mitchell was born in 1900 in Atlanta, GA, an area in the US still reeling from the Civil War. Her goal was to make a historically accurate depiction of life in the South and the impacts of the War. The book outlines how people were treated, what slavery really was, what it was like to have your property, land completely destroyed because of war, and the attitudes of different plantation owners to slaves. IMO, to judge GWTW by today's standards is to miss the point. The horrors depicted in that book gave me insight to my own prejudices and how to personally combat them.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read The Kite Runner....my dad saw me pick that up at a book store when I was in the 7th grade and he said no, I wasn't allowed to read that till I got older. Me being the rebellious little s**t I was convinced my friend to buy it and we took turns reading it. Yeah that book is not for kids....I learnt some things that day :(

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read My mum used to use The Giving Tree to guilt me. That book is too easily weaponized

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love Shel Silverstein and this book but using any book to guilt your child is such crappy parenting

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read I know it’s weak, but the ending to Of Mice and Men really messed up my 13 year old brain.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I found the ending quite sad- all that work, all the dreams were going to come true, but then it was all ruined.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read I read a book about King Arthur, I think it was just called "Arthur The King". I enjoyed royalty, Knights, and historical fiction, so it looked like a great pick for me for this book project. It was in my teacher's classroom on a list of approved options.

Y'all, I was not READY for the amount of rape and sodomy in there. It was absurd. I think the book was actually meant to be an erotic novel, it's the only reason I can think of for that much adult content. I'm positive the teacher had never read it herself.

I'm all for kids being exposed to a variety of topics, and teens can be exposed to sexuality, and I was sixteen or seventeen at the time. But this was just beyond anything.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read Maia, the main character is sold as a sex slave by her 'mother' after her stepdad seduces her. That book sounds like it has less sexual content and it is 1,000+ pages!

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read "A Day No Pigs Would Die" was pretty rough in 6th grade. Basically Charlotte's web with HAUNTINGLY graphic depictions of animal husbandry and slaughter. I don't remember getting a lot of value out of it at 11 years old, just pig-blood soaked nightmares lol

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read a lot, on one hand I am now curious to read this but also disgusted and afraid.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read Red Badge of Courage was so ungodly boring it almost drove me insane so I would save them that headache

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read The Scarlett Letter that s**t was a grind. I love to read, but I wanted to claw my eyes out so I could stop reading it.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read I'm of the controversial opinion that not many things are truly inappropriate for children if they're capable of actually grasping the subject matter.

But for me, there is one thing I feel was GENUINELY not appropriate and that I regret exposing myself to:

A Million Little Pieces by James Frey. In 7th grade I stole that book from my parents room [the cover was cool and I loved reading edgy YA fiction].
And just... yeah, I ABSOLUTELY didn't need to be consuming that novel as a 12 year old. I was easily old enough to grasp drug abuse and rape, but it was just... a f*****g LOT. I don't recall the experience very fondly.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

James Frey is a con artist and general POS. None of what happens in this supposed autobiography actually happened.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read Les Miserables. Sophomore year. Just too long. I failed English because of it. It was just a basic English class not English Literature.
I read it years later and it is long but, one of the best endings of any novel ever.

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Emily Jones
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read this for fun when I was 14 and loved it, but it took me months. If I knew it was required reading with a time limit on it I would have freaked.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read I was supposed to read Night John in 4th grade. We stopped when parents complained about the vivid description of a slave being ripped apart by dogs. I’d definitely let me kids read it but not in 4th grade.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, I don't agree with this one. Kids need to know the horror of slavery. They need to know why Black people are so angry, even now.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read Heart of Darkness. It's just so f*****g boring and a waste of hours of my life.

The worst part is it has the potential to be exciting and interesting. Cannibals and wild animal attacks. But the God damn main character is more focused on how many bolts and nuts he needs to fix his damn boat.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I tapped out on HoD in high school. That book was so terribly slow. I bought the Cliffs Notes for that book and I was able to pass the quizzes and write a paper. Only time I ever did that.

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26 Books That Parents Read Back In School That They Feel Their Own Children Should Never Read Was given The Things They Carried in HS and had nightmares for weeks because I had a brother overseas in combat at the time. Part of me never wants my kids to read it because of how much it negatively effected me, which I know isn't a good reason. I do think it is a worthwhile book but it will always, always make me uncomfortable.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This book and "All Quiet on the Western Front" should be required reading for all young men aged 17. There's been too much celebration of war in this country over our history. War is not glorious or adventurous, it is absolute hell. All young men need to know the truth about it before some recruiter comes to them in their foolish young age to capture them with the bullsh*t fantasy of "seeing the world" and "being a warrior." These readings will destroy some of the naivete in many young men.

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