While we already allow ourselves to live more freely knowing that the pandemic is more or less controlled, we can still feel its effects. Even though this phenomenon hit us differently, it still made an impact on each and every one of us. While some lost their loved ones, were laid off, or had to say goodbye to their dreams, others might’ve been lucky to get out of it with less painful consequences. Having this in mind, Reddit user u/blancheneige37 asked others online “What did the pandemic ruin more than we realize?” The question that received more than 42k upvotes encouraged people to share their insights on what changed during the pandemic and hasn’t come back to its previous state.
Soon Reddit users started sharing what they’d noticed since the beginning of Covid-19, revealing how much our relationships with one another have changed and how kids and youth were robbed of getting an opportunity to socialize and now might struggle with their emotions and anxiety. Others also noticed that the way they see money has changed as now many things are much more expensive, and even having a takeout is considered a luxury. Not to mention the number of rising businesses that had to be closed due to the inability to adapt to this sudden change. What are some of the things that you have noticed to be different than before? Don’t forget to leave your thoughts in the comments down below!
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It ruined me on traffic, for one glorious year, as an "essential worker" I had the roads almost entirely to myself, it was beautiful.
I feel like everyone forgot how to behave in public! Most seem to be acting like two year olds, can't control their emotions and always throwing tantrums!
Load More Replies...Oh, I hate that we’re back to the daily traffic jams. As far as I’m concerned, everyone who is able to work from home should be allowed to if they choose. Think of all the gas and pollution that would be saved! Getting a glimpse of how things could be, and them going back to the way they were, was just a taunt.
I was able to get home in half the time it took normally, which was awesome :)
This. I got to work within 25 minutes. Now I'm back to a minimum of 45 minutes to about an hour.
Same. Had to cross Liege - Belgium to go to Luxembourgh, normally 40 min with traffic everyware and lots of people . Did it in 15, saw 1 Lorry, and 1 Street cleaner....
Leaving the house.
Goes to Subway - I can make a better sandwhich at home.
Goes to a nail salon - I can paint my nails better than this lady.
Goes to a hair salon - I’ve been cutting my hair solo for 2 years now, I’m a pro.
Goes to work - I can do all of this more efficiently at home.
Goes to Applebees - I can provide myself with mediocre service at home.
Goes to Walmart - I can order all of this online.
Why did I leave the house again…?
I don't ever want to work from home again. I love to move about and stretch my horizons. I've cut my own hair and I do not like my scissor work. I much prefer going to a store, seeing and analyzing what I'm getting and not having to pay a delivery fee on top. Things cost enough these days as is.
As somebody who is often housebound, the lockdown did not change my way of life that much. I don't like to be touched so I colour my hair myself and I learn to do my own nails. I like individual person's not people so I certainly didn't miss social contact. The only thing I didn't enjoy it was having to queue in the freezing cold waiting to enter the supermarket and also not being able to order food online (delivery slots always full)
The waiting outside in -40C with the wind chill was unnecessarily brutal.
Load More Replies...Just read an article that, based on statistical research, not just an opinion, that Cyber Monday has now become the new Black Friday. I known I attributed to the statistic today because I happily bought the few things I wanted on sale today from the comfort of my home because the thought of leaving the house to be around crowds of potentially obnoxious people is my worst nightmare.
Humans are social animals. If you never want to leave the house that's entirely your choice, and I respect it. But dang...hermit much?
I was in an apartment with no private outdoor space when we shut down for COVID. I had my dog and cat but almost zero personal interaction, outside of my job, which I love but is very stressful, and grocery delivery. I'm now sharing a home with family and am starting to regain my sanity. I enjoy my alone time - everyone in this house enjoys alone time, as well - but zero social interaction was definitely driving me slowly insane, especially when I was unable to hang out outside, other than walking my dog. It's wonderful to have someone else around to cook and clean with, and to be able to hang out on the deck watching the dogs play and enjoying good conversation. That said, I'm very grateful that my job is now permanently remote, other than court hearings. I'd be perfectly happy to never enter a store again for the rest of my days, but it would be nice to feel safe going out to eat, maybe see a show. Between COVID, RSV, and the flu, I'm not comfortable being in large groups yet.
Load More Replies...I love this one, though I got to say I enjoy browsing the actual good's at an actual store. Also working at home is a lot harder , possibly impossible, if you have kids. especially young kids.
My ability to tolerate people and their b******t.
What world do you live in? Definitely decreased. If somebody's increased I want to speak to the manager and would like a refund.
Load More Replies...i always new that 99.99999% of people were full of it, but since the pandemic and even before that when orange-faced apocalypse man took the White House, I was inundated with the exact level, consistency, and odor of what more than half of the people are full of. It got so deep I could almost taste it. And it is getting ever deeper.
It’s a bit strange, I seem to have this protective bubble around me and the folks I interact with tend to treat me kindly. I have been practicing loving kindness and gratitude for some years now (ten? Maybe 15?) and I believe that may have something to do with it. Another factor I’m sure is that I don’t interact with great number of people. Probably a bit of pretty privilege too, though I think that was a bigger factor in my youth. All that said I do notice more frazzled people, sometimes I’m one of them, and when in that state it is exceedingly difficult to be on one’s best behaviour so please everyone take care of yourselves and each other as best as you can. May we all find peace in this uncertain world.
mine is irreversibly increased and now i'm a total pushover Y'ALL WANT MONEY WELL YOU BETTER ASK NOW BEFORE I USE IT TO BUY D R U G S
The belief that Americans are able to come together in a crisis and be willing to make sacrifices for the greater good.
We’ll never trust each other again.
I honestly blame the leadership at the time. Trump divided people by going against science, forcing states to one-up each other in return for federal aid ("be nice to me", remember that quote?), refused to consider national policies so states were on their own, the last goes on and on. Trump was never, ever a leader. He was a dictator-by-election wannabe who thought driving attention to himself by any means possible meant he was "popular".
Did you know that there was a pandemic response team before Trump was president? He dismissed them all, and then look what happened right after he did that?
Load More Replies...this was based on how Americans acted during WWII, days like that are over. Americans in general are way to self involved to sacrifice the way they used to.
I wholeheartedly agree with this! American individualism has turned into toxic self-centeredness and borderline narcissism.
Load More Replies...I remember watching back when Japan had the tsunami and the people waited patiently in lines for aid....and then when the pandemic hit here (USA) people were crazed animals over toilet paper. I think Americans might need a bit more sense of shame.
Believe me, I am very ashamed of our country. I’m moving out of here the second I can. We are a dying country where those that have the money make the rules and we can’t even go against them because they can just bribe everyone to vote for them instead. And yet we are brainwashed into thinking that this is the greatest country where we make the decisions and we can achieve our dreams if we work hard enough.
Load More Replies...Politics turning everyone far left and far right has a lot to do with this
The health system is wrecked. Way too many nurses got burnt out and left the profession.
They lost a bunch of nurses who wouldn't vaccinate as well - shameful. Buh-bye, morons!
There wasn't enough excess hospital capacity to begin with. I hope something is done about that.
I have bad news for you. Smaller hospitals, which sometimes are the only health care for entire counties, are still being closed throughout the Southeast.
Load More Replies...As a cancer patient, I learned that not all hospital and medical staff are scientifically knowledgeable and aren't to be trusted with my or anyone's health
Maybe stop having people like nurses work 12 hr shifts just a thought
I feel like everyone is more bitter now. Like we all saw through the sham of society. Time feels different now. Things just feel off compared to pre 2020
isn't that good though? the curtain fell, it doesn't make me happy, but now progess can start?
I hope so, but people went through all of this in the 1920s too, with the same results.
Load More Replies...As someone who experienced high school through the lense of the pandemic, I am unsure how much of my new perspective is from growing up in general, and how much is the 2020- forward journey. However, something I am sure about is that I don't think kids are supposed to be this terrified about their futures
Probably not, but we spent the 60s under the threat of nuclear war, so there was that. The feeling of complete powerlessness and anger at the adults involved. Well not much has changed.
Load More Replies...Things have been off since 9/11. Everything changed then, and not for the better.
This and 2008 and now the pandemic. I feel like us early and mid 90s millenials got the short end of the stick.
Load More Replies...Probably bitter because there are those who want to immediately go back to the way it was before, especially employers who have been so used to exploiting employees, refuse to change to get with the new zeitgeist, and just can’t understand why they can’t get staff. Dumbasses, it’s because we aren’t going to stand for your same old b******t going forward. Either evolve or go extinct. Your choice.
In a way it's starting to feel the same. I already saw through people's BS many years ago.
I had little hope for the good of humans before the pandemic and now I have absolutely none.
i was around 13 when it started, my development is ruined duck you trump this is all your fault
Worker/employee relationships. A lot of people woke up to how s****y a deal we have it in the united states. Wealthiest country in the world. No guarantied sick leave, no paternal/maternal leave. We gave big business bailouts AND they still raised prices and fired workers.
I realized that i was being walked all over for all of my working life. Never again.
Load More Replies...Its crazy that you have no maternity leave in the US, its 6 months paid leave in Ireland and 6 months unpaid if you want to take it
US citizens, go on strike. All of you. Until you get decent parental leave, sick pay, paid holidays etc. All of you. Do it.
Many workers can't, police, teacher/schoolworkers, army, etc. Not sure what happens if they do, I was just told they cant
Load More Replies...For me its the employer/employee dynamic. Pre pandemic employers had all the power, better yet, we gave them all their power. Now its the employee who has the power. I (46M) now know my worth. I will never let another employer lord it over me like I owe them for working there. Employers realized they need us far more than we need them. The pandemic did wonders for my mental health.
based on what criteria are the US suppossed to be the wealthiest country in the world? 😃
I don't think enough people have woken up. please say this again but louder. So much of this stuff needs to stop/change.
The cost of living is pretty f****d
I'm nauseous every week trying to budget now...my anxiety so high....
I hear you. It is so outrageously expensive anymore and my field (linguistics) does not make much to begin with despite working long hours and being extremely educated. I feel sick to my stomach every day and feel guilty when I buy something as simple as a nice meal.
Load More Replies...I have removed certain things from my diet in order to not raise the grocery budget. I miss eggs.
No oversight, few regulation, little to no accountability. Artificial price inflation showing us that profit was/is more important than people. Housing is a need not a want, what is happening even today should be illegal. It leaves people with full time jobs homeless and is completely poisonous for our economy In the long run.
Everything has gone up in price with the exception of my wages. I am tired of waking up and constantly worrying about money.
Pretty soon bread will be a million bucks and we will have to decorate with dollars as wallpaper!!
Yet, we saw one of the greatest wealth transfers in history. Interesting.
People are trying hard to make adjustments here and there, but the anxiety keeps catching up.
I know there were a lot of factors in the crazy inflation currently happening but I want to upvote this a million times. Saw a Walmart commercial last night and they were advertising that their prices haven’t gone up that much since last year by price comparing a typical American thanksgiving meal. Ridiculous.
Family relations. Vaxxed vs antivax, mask vs no mask, covid deniers vs lockdown advocates... Fractured a lot of my family and many others.
Did they? Is that who we are, or is it the product of our media diets? A diet that is increasingly curated for us by social media algorithms, driving more and more extreme ideologies
Load More Replies...This. Holy moley my family is still not talking to certain antivaxxer/conspiracy theory members. This Christmas is supposed to be the first time since it started we all are going to be together in one room. I hope it goes well.
I thought my family being politically divided was tough... then CoV-19 tore us into tiny pieces.
This is very true. My husband is immunocompromised and we learned quickly who could come over and who couldn't. Plus we have family that won't speak to us because "Covid isn't a real thing"
Any 'friends' I lost due to having different political opinions on the above issues, were not 'friends' to begin with. I am not willing to throw away the benefits of having a relationship with someone because we disagree on a few issues. That's childish behavior like taking your ball and going home.
I have no problem with this division. It showed who believes I’m science and decency and who I don’t need to be around anymore
I ended up losing several peoples contact details when my old phone died during the 2nd uk lockdown
Load More Replies...You better believe there are. There are articles written by exasperated ER doctors treating Covid patients who were denying it's Covid even as they were dying.
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"essential" versus "non essential" employees, better known as those who HAD to show up physically in person, and those allowed to stay home. Biggest division in the workplace. Mentally it will never be the same in the workplace.
March 2020, I learned that I was essential. I did not want to be essential. I quit my 22 yr. career December 2021. The pandemic changed ME.
God I feel the same, haven't quit but really on the verge
Load More Replies...I had just gotten my first “real” job working at a grocery store, right BEFORE the pandemic started. I had elderly parents at home, plus my dad was disabled. Scariest 2 years of my life. I live in a very anti-vax/anti-mask area. I was convinced I’d catch covid and pass it to my parents, who would die of it.
Basically, the ones who are essential are the ones underpaid. They got the exposure towards covid but no compensation. Here in germany companies got subventions to make homeoffice possible... I got covid twice and a one time payment for about 300 € (190 € after taxes) Everyone who could, ran from their jobs, especially in the health sector and we're even worse of than before.
I hated that whole heroes complex that was thrown about on employees who worked out of the home. Like, no one else in society is as important to the world and all these "heroes" are volunteering their time for the sake of their communities. Pfft. These were people who were ordered to show up or be fired. That's not heroic. That's intimidated and obliged.
I was an "essential worker" at a convenience store because we sold gas. They could have closed the store and just left the pumps on for credit cards but they wouldn't do it. Nobody paid attention to the stay at home rules, everybody still came in for cigarettes and Coke, and several of the employees ended up with Covid. There were several customers I knew that didn't have to go to work at their jobs, but none of them ever stayed home and they kept putting the rest of us who did have to work at risk. I finally reached a point where I would rather be broke than continue to risk myself and my family, especially since we have underlying health issues, and I quit that horrible, horrible job.
I agree totally, work place never be the same, people will always remember being essential or non essential
We learned that the MOST essential workers were those who were LEAST paid!! And that our societies would grind to a halt if they didn't or couldn't show up! If we paid them what they really are worth, and stopped paying those who's work doesn't even get noticed, there would be a lot of happy nurses and garbage handlers, and some very sad former billionaires.
Grocery Shopping at 2:00am was the best thing ever. Now I have to shop with the rest of you hooligans and it f*****g sucks.
Nooooo... you're a HEADLESS roach. Give yourself some credit!
Load More Replies...I did a couple of after midnight shopping trips because I couldn't sleep due to insomnia. The only other people in the shop were parents with babies that wouldn't settle-I got the distinct impression they'd taken the baby for a drive to try and lull it into sleep, then decided to multi-task and popped into the supermarket.
Where I lived, the supermarket shop became family outings. Kids seeing other kids went crazy. It was stressful, but understandable.
Load More Replies...Oh so much this. Pre-pandemic, I used to shop for everything except fresh meat and veg at 2AM. It was glorious. Now the stores close at 11 and I have to shop with regular people. It is awful.
My perception on money. I worked so hard to pay off debt, save up for a new house, get promotions. Now with the rise of housing costs and inflation I feel like money is literally such a made-up thing and I have no control over anything even with all the right decisions.
money is a made up thing that you have no control of (unless you are a huge company CEO or smth) :/
Yup because a cost of living adjustment will only make EVERYTHING go up in price. So it doesn't matter.
Load More Replies...Same. I had managed to scrimp and save for 7 years to put together a downpayment. Pandemic hit and suddenly, I needed more than DOUBLE the amount I managed to save. So SO mad. Also pissed that corporations bought up all the affordable realestate in my area to rent out. Rent on my tiny apartment is more than double my parents mortgage on their 5 bedroom house.
But… if you no longer have any use for those made up things… I could get rid of them for you.
Load More Replies...Most inflation is avoidable. With good oversight and accountability we could/should check and balance the market to prevent abuse and predatory actions we see today. Also no rental property should be allowed to charge what the market will bare. Profit, okay, but not at the expense of the people/ economy.
The elitists control the $$$$$. We are just Wallets to the government, elitists, and corporations (big pharma at the top).
..and with the threat of gutting of Medicare and Social Security looming in the next few years, it will be impossible for nearly anyone to retire. Even those of us who've saved will never be able afford out of pocket insurance premiums. And the majority of US workers still live paycheck to paycheck.
As a teacher, I can say that it’s definitely affected kids in a way people don’t realize. Kids who had their first year of school (or even second) during the pandemic act quite different than kids who had a normal introduction to school. Many of them seem to have fewer social skills and higher anxiety than kids from previous years.
My son started primary school the September before the pandemic hit. Then it was home schooling but being so young there was no live lessons. He is in year 3 now (7-8 years old). I’m not sure how it affected him as he has speech and language issues from being autistic, but he and his classmates seemed to roll with it. However when school reopened, he was very happy to see his friends.
Definitely agree, I graduated junior high and started high school during the first year of the pandemic, it was really hard socially, and I already struggled socially. Now I tend to wear a mask in most public settings and I've actually been made fun of for it, even though I just find it more comfortable
This is exactly what my brother, who is a 1st grade teacher in an intercity school, just told me. He said this year's class has been the most challenging because as K they had virtual all year and so this being their first year attending school in person, the majority are having major behavioral difficulties.
The pandemic really screwed up my social skills. If I had not been adopted by an extrovert last year and had a supportive and patient friend group I would be in quite a bad spot right now. And yet I still can’t get into a serious fight irl without barely keeping it together. My social anxiety comes and goes with my stress level.
I'm sorry you are in this situation but I appreciate your thoughts as I didn't understand why young people have anxiety as a result of covid. My thinking was young people didn't cause covid or its repcusions. To me it was just another 'roll with the punches' situation
Load More Replies...On the flip side working in a school, it’s a much nicer play to work with only a handful of children to look after. But was glad to see the little rascals when they came back. Including the little boy who burst into tears because he had missed me.
In some cases I found it harder with less kids, especially as they were three year olds, so most only did independent or side by side play. The sessions felt like they dragged on! At the same time, I did bond with some children more than I might have otherwise, because they flew under the radar in a larger group.
Load More Replies...i personally have been in therapy on and off since i was 6 years old because of anxiety and self harming desires. it is a huge struggle in my daily life, this is a problem that needs to be addressed.
Well addressing that there is a problem is the first step towards fixing it. I’m sorry that you’ve had to go through all that, and I hope it gets better. I’m proud that you’ve made it this far, and just know that no bad time lasts forever, even if it seems that way sometimes :)
Load More Replies...My students (age 15-25) have become extremely disappointed in the older generations. They feel robbed of their future and feel they are blamed for everything, especially Covid (because they were, openly, by their own government). They have a disturbingly bleak view of the future.
This might just be local, but where I live, a S**T ton of businesses closed. I mean, half of them were closed. Not just because of the shutdown, they were closed permanantly.
It’s not on the edge to be forced to close for a year. This really hurt small business and caused a lot of unemployment. Nothing should have been closed. If you are uncomfortable going out, don’t. That is totally fine! If you want to wear a mask, please do so. But there was no reason to hurt society as we did and more and more studies are showing this. Covid is awful, and now we have to live with it, but we shouldn’t stick our heads in the sand and not be critical of the things that don’t work or the governments being tyrannical.
Load More Replies...Yup. My favorite mom and pop coffee shop, several indy clothes stores, just so many we lost from no business.
Unfortunately this is WAY not local... it effected businesses (mostly small but even some bigger ones) all over the world. Double suck is that Walmart and Amazon made a quadzillion more dollars because trampling on peoples backs is still a great business model...
A lot of decades old businesses have closed recently, and some are not blaming the pandemic, but inevitable circumstances that were happening before the pandemic or regardless.
Covid for some businesses simply accelerated the process. A business that was leaking money that may have closed in a few years instead closed now.
Load More Replies...A lot of Mom and Pop restaurants especially. It saddens me greatly how many great places to eat shut down because they could not afford the pressure of the pandemic.
Increased polarisation of people politically, socially, economically.
I'd agree with this, and I think it started with the mask/anti-mask, vax/anti-vax thing. It was just so heated. It is NOT a political party thing, regardless of what the media tells you. It's an a*****e thing.
This is all just because of social media. Social media personally curates your feed so the things you see are only things that align with your beliefs. This increases narrow-mindedness, and doesn’t even make you t consider the other opinions, even if backed by science.
Load More Replies...In this country, it started with Brexit and was accentuated by the lockdown.
There is a chance that I will get downvoted and banned again, but I have to say this. I strongly believe that this is part of the hybrid war led by Russia. Polarise society, create as many issues and fights as possbille, just to make sure that people will distrust each other.
Humans who have too much power will do terrible things :/
Load More Replies...Yes and it exhausting having to listen to it all the time. Like i don't give a s**t about that stuff so why do you have to bring up all the time. Where I live people still show up on Sundays at a major intersection to protest mandatory vaccines when that doesn't even exist anymore. In the square at the place I work at people show up on Saturdays to loud speak about God and their religion. When I got to train martial arts and people try to bring up s**t like this I am like no I am here to learn martial arts, you want to talk about this stuff do it on your free time not here. ( Literally had someone tell me how there shouldn't be politicals in the world cup after litterly asking if I have been following the politicals about the world cup and after the told someone that they haven't watched a single game and don't follow football that much anymore so I told them hey then why are you doing that right now?
I'm not sure if anyone else feels the same way but my perception of time hasn't really returned back to normal since then
My ability to put up with being around people has not returned…
I feel like I am just moving through the months. Sometimes I think about how it is 2022 (almost 2023) and I don't understand how.
I feel like like I'm just watching time go by. I look at Christmas decorations all over my town and think about how it was just Halloween and then before that it was summer. I have no perception of time. If I wasn't so involved and busy, I think I could easily just checked out mentally. It's scary
I feel like time is still going by *too* fast sometimes and even more so with the end of the pandemic.
2020 and 2021 have sort of merged in my memory, I have no idea what happened when.
I honestly don't think the majority of Americans especially truly understand just how f****d the healthcare system is and is going to be.
Not just staff burnout, but we have nationwide backorders on some really key medications and even things like blood and albumin shortages.
There have been times that we've literally just not had the supplies available to give a blood transfusion and have had to resort to alternative treatments for things like seizures because we simply do not have the normal medications available.
We have major equipment shortages too, there were several months that we couldn't consistently get Foley catheter kits and we're having to Frankenstein things together. Currently the only a-line kits my facility has are the double port ones that we use for swanz. Bariatric beds? Good luck finding one!
Entire supply chains and productions lines have ground to a hault.
Add staff burnout, staffing shortages, increased patient loads, deceased equipment, and it's just a domino tower.
But most people?
Not a single f*****g clue.
Being on the receiving end of a “Frankensteined” urinary catheter is my new worst nightmare.
And now, with the troubles in China, expect even more supply issues. We should have never gotten so dependent on overseas suppliers.
As soon as I can, I'm gonna start donating blood. It's the least I can do.
I honestly haven't donated since 2019. The idea of sitting in a small room for an hour full of people. But it sounds like i really need to.
And complaining patients who don't understand that (or simply don't care)
Tell me about it! Hubby had a stroke in October and I'm still not getting his disability! Medical takes forever to fill out paperwork, then has to redo it..... all while we have NO income because there simply aren't enough staff to help us out
1 nurse to 5, 6, 7, even 8 patients... it's just plain not safe. 3 patients to a nurse in ICU? F*****g disaster waiting to happen.
Printed menus… call me snarky but scrolling through your phone at dinner, whether with family or on a date, is s****y
THIS. EVERYTHING DOESNT HAVE TO BE F_CKING DIGITAL. I DONT WANT TO DEPEND ON THESE F_CKING THINGS. I USE EM A LOT. THEY'RE GOOD FOR FUN. BUT WHEN I GO TO SCHOOL I HAVE TO STARE AT A SCREEN ALL DAY. THEN I HAVE HOMEWORK, SO I DO THAT ALL EVENING. THEN I WATCH TV WITH MY FAMILY OVER DINNER AND IF I DONT, I'M VIEWED AS ALOOF. THEN BECAUSE I WAS TOO BUSY DOING SCHOOLWORK ALL DAY, I STAY UP ON MY PHONE DOING THINGS I WANTED TO DO. MY EYES HURT. I FEEL SICK. I'M DEPRESSED. I'M APATHETIC. I'M NEARLY ANHEDONIC. I CAN'T SLEEP. MY HEAD HURTS. I'M BRAINWASHED. I'VE HAD ENOUGH. i'll be back tomorrow y'all :D i'll be sure to read all your comments and like all your posts :D yup i'll be an active user for a very very very long time :DDD im really raging against the machine amirite? :D
You got this Shrimp Whisperer! Get yourself a sketchbook, a couple of colored pencils, and do one sketch a night, the only digital thing present should be music.
Load More Replies...Using a phone sends messages or gives others the idea that you don’t want to be with them or have better things to do.
Any joint that only has a menu that you have to download as an ap is getting a big freaking NOPE out of me.
Q codes. Not everyone has the app on their phone. Not everyone feels like using data to look up your menu online. Just print the menu. Or at least have that option
I don't think this is as bad in Australia as the US, but maybe I just don't eat out enough, but the only places I noticed QR menus were pub bistros and you still had the option of a printed one. Good thing, since I didn't get a smart phone until last year :)
Where I live and the resturants I frequent have printed menus. Never been asked to down load their menu. This is semi new to me. Seen other post where people mention that you had to down load a resturant menu.
**view on people, their hygiene, and their mental capacity.** I started to notice that people cough and sneeze without using their hand/arm and just do it into the open, into a room or hallway full of people, directly at people, when they wear a mask they would remove the mask before sneezing or coughing into the open - all without any remorse or understanding why this would be bad or generally why it would be disgusting, no matter if it’s during a pandemic or not. this still happens, daily I see someone doing it. it’s mind blowing to me, absolutely mind blowing, considering what we all went through and why.
Absolutely! People are coming to work sick and don't seem to care about their co-workers. I'm just getting over my second severe upper respiratory infection in six months because people come to work and infect others. This year I missed Thanksgiving because of it.
We did too. My daughter had pneumonia. Kid came to her karate hacking up his lungs, not wearing a mask. I wanted them to send him home. These kids are all touching each other and the equipment. Wear a damn mask. On my last train to New York, everybody's in masks, except the one lady coughing her head off. WTF lady?!?
Load More Replies...It's oppositional defiance basically "You can't tell me what to do, you're not the boss of me!" They take great pride in not doing what others are doing, and not doing what's expected of them. To them, its a sign of their superior free thinking and makes them think they are special. Toddlers usually go through a phase like this about aged 2, but eventually grow out of it. These anti-vaxx, anti-mask morons have essentially not evolved beyond toddlerhood.
I physically cringe when people cough or sneeze openly near me, now. I still wear a mask publicly as I have an elderly parent (my dad died last year, for those who read my other comment - but his death was not Covid related). I can’t believe other people still think it’s acceptable to NOT cover their mouth/nose. Covid aside, doing that will help prevent the spread of other illnesses as well!
As a 67 year old, I had upper respiratory infections and bronchitis every winter of my life until COVID hit and I started wearing a mask. For the two years of wearing a mask in public stores I have not had a single cold, flu or COVID. Last week, my first week of winter and I failed to wear a mask. Headcold suffering hits again. A mask all winter is my new norm.
Isn’t that biological warfare and an act of terrorism? (I know I exaggerate. )
Load More Replies...Big time this. Also in movies too. When I see things like parties in shows I get anxious. Too many people, too close together.
Yeah, I really lost respect for a co-worker, who, in the autumn of 2020, was all pro-vax and protective measures, but when I went to the company bathroom seconds after her, I heard unmistakable proof that she did not actually wash her hands after coming out of the stall... Like, she turned on the water for 2s, tops, and then went out the door. That's nasty even when there's no pandemic.
Gross. I am now much more aware of things like that as well. Even though I am known to be one of those people that complains about my comfort level when having to wear a mask, of course I still do because I'm not an a*****e, and now realize the importance of wearing a mask in public if I have a cold or the flu. I'm not wearing one when I get my spring allergies though, that is just me sneezing because my nose itches!
I noticed that too and more lol. I was talking to a neighbor outside, thankfully art a distance, but the way the light hit I could clearly see just how much he would spit when talking. I'm talking rain here, now I'm very aware of people's mouths😅
the lockdowns happened during my last semester of university. I've never had an in person job, only work from home, which I realize is a blessing but also makes it feel like... idk like it's not real. I have no work friends, have never met my supervisor in person, I do all my work from my desk in my room. It feels like pretend.
Is it? After working from home for almost 3 years, I kind of hate having my job in my house. I feel like pre-pandemic people always talked about having a work/life balance, but now my work is ALWAYS in my home, there is no escape. If I move I'll need to find a place that has a space for an office. I have to use my phone as a work phone, pay more for electricity, water, to heat/cool my home, buy my own office supplies... I dunno, it's not all it's cracked up to be. No commute is great, though.
Load More Replies...Here in the Netherlands - I work from home 3 out of 5 days. It's good, I like working from home but when I am at work (physically there) it is also good, as I chat with other collegues who are not in my direct team. It's good for social interactions, to broaden your horizon, and to know what is going on in other teams.
It was great at first and then it became awful. I started getting 0 real support and guidance from the supervisors. Calls and chat messages were getting ignored. Managers would change their status to busy the moment I asked for assistance. I would get interrogated about waiting too long for someone and how many times I tried to get a hold of someone. No. Never again.
I must be strange because I loathe working from home. I feel like I work longer hours and that that there is less of a work-life balance. It get really lonely and I feel like people have more difficulty socializing and being present anymore. I feel like I spend so much of my life in front of a cold sterile screen anymore and that it is taking a toll on my mental health.
You should watch "Black Mirror" - there's an episode very similar to this.
And if you ever get a job where WFH is not possible, you will very likely have trouble fitting in IF you even get hired. No matter what technology advances are made, there will always be jobs that require physical presence. Remember, if your job can be done from home, then it's just a matter of time before they realize it can be done by someone in another country...FOR LESS.
I've been working for my entire adult life, and even to me it feels pretend when working from home.
Everything just feels off, people are rude, no parties or overnight hangouts, most people nowadays keep themselves busy on their phones and tiktok. My mental health also took a hit. The time before 2020 feels like a colourful fantasy while the present one feels like a dystopian world
Kind of agree. Pre 2020 felt like a dystopian world. The present feels like a less-fun dystopian world.
So are people more sucky or is your perspective skewed by depression, or both?
We have been living in a dystopian world...the plandemic just made more people aware of what's been going on at the top levels and how it filters down. Many people live in a bubble of non-reality.
I agree but I am starting to find pockets of normality now. There appears to be a lot more creative talent around, more local arts and music and that that community is taking an interest in what each other is doing. Crowds for local gigs are bigger and people seem more willing to talk to to each other. Beyond the arts scene I still think things are just a bit wrong.
Right before the shut down, i was hospitalized for suicide then took a month to go back to work. I got back (as cna in nursing home) only to be bombarded by all this s**t. Mentally I've not been ths same. My anxiety has gotten much worse
My waistline, and my mental well being. It's my own fault, but I was about six months sober and working out daily before covid. A few days later, half my department and my co-manager are laid off.
I'm suddenly working 14-hour days in extremely stressful conditions.
Walking my dog and working out took a back seat to a shot or two of Jack to calm my nerves and whatever comfort food I could get from grubhub.
Life is better now, but I haven't quite kicked all the bad habits I gained from those days.
Stress affects me differently, and I'm a lot more sensitive to it than I used to be.
i have anxeity and use twisted tea to calm my nerves i noticed during lockdown i drank less. my anxeity is social strangers scare me, confrontation good or bad, i feel judged constantly wen in public etc. i also have general anxeity so leaving the house in general scared me. i just played my video games and i was fine. if i had to go out as long as my husband was with me i was fine. covid made my situation worse honestly. i drank more in the beginning but now i save it for the weekends and if i have a panic attack. i cant work bc of my anxeity so i cant relate on that part but i can understand being stressed all the time. im naturally like that due to my anxeity disorder. if someone like me an epileptic covid can give me seizures anxeity disorder stressed out 32 year old girl with arthritis can make it thru this u can too. u just have to fine ur rock to keep u grounded and focused. i have alot of issues ya but ive got my husband, my dog and in laws to helps. if u have a pet hug them or snuggle with them next time u feel stressed it helps.
Kushisabishii---"Eating when not hungry because the mouth is Lonely" (Japanese)
darkest before the dawn :) you're strong enough i can see from how you described your experience
i have gad (generalized anxiety disorder) so theres a lot of ups and downs so if i can do it you can too lol
I'd been making weight loss progress before lockdown,but being isolated plus being prescribed some different meds for anxiety and depression, I gained 10 stone in just over a year. It's taken me 10 months to lose half of what I put on. It's not easy and it completely sucks
Some are more broken than others, sadly. Everybody has some level of this. I used to thrive in a stressful career. Then I started breaking without quite realising it. Now I just don't want to see emails, answer the phone, or deal with people like I used to be able to years ago.
Same. I'm constantly more stressed and anxious as well, despite leaving a stressful job. I kept exercising but I can't do as much. I just don't feel as good physically (never got COVID) and don't feel as positive about the future or my society. I don't know how to get back to "normal".
When you combine social media with a global pandemic it forced all of us to realize people don't suffer equally. In the age before social media, we could rely on tradition or culture to justify sacrificing to come together. Nowadays we must be guarded to not be exploited.
Yeah, a lot of the Ritch showed that they could go on a 2 year long vacation with little issue where everyone else was forced to live Day to day in a very real fear of homelessness and death.
My mouth dropped open in outrage and disgust... I wish I had NEVER watched that video
Load More Replies...Faith in humanity.
Nah, i have available faith in humanity. Faith that we will happily kill our neighbors to avoid a little inconvenience. I'm writing this in bed with insomnia at 3AM, just after my dog farted, so my mood isn't at it's best.
don't let your fear and anger turn to hate <3 you are the solution.
exactly! anger is only a gift if it turns into incentive to make a change
Load More Replies...There are Many good people in the world! The issue is that the bad ones are at the top levels, and only care about themselves. The others are criminals, being boosted up by the elitists, and allowed to hurt humanity in many ways...sad we allow this to happen
Feels like it’s a more ‘to each their own’ sense of living. People don’t appear to be as connected as before the pandemic.
I think the pandemic just expedites what was happening already before in this aspect
i feel like my world is slowly disappearing n i wasnt even alive to live in it
Load More Replies...Yup. I didn't used to be this way, but the pandemic has shown me that no one cares if my high-risk family members live or die. Like literally, they can't be bothered to put on a mask to protect my family member from literal death. Just a few minutes with a piece of cloth on their face is apparently too much to ask. And now I'm supposed to care about those people? Screw them.
I want to upvote this sooooo many times. My family, my own flesh and blood, couldn’t be bothered taking any precautionary steps, they all got covid, and still demanded to be around my high risk child for the holidays. I said no and they had the audacity to be offended.
Load More Replies...I've become a jerk. And I'm kinda proud of it. I used to be one of those ppl who hated to say no and did all I could to help others. Pandemic happened...NO ONE I EVER HELPED ever called, or text to see if I was ok unless they wanted more more more. So now I'm a Jerk, and I'm ok with that. It's my money and I work hard to pay my bills and help my family, so the heck with everyone else. I'm sad and ok with this at the same time.
What drives me mad is the fact that in the first few months of the pandemic it seemed as it would be exactly the opposite. People helped each other out (when rules allowed), there was positive and friendly social interaction when possible, a lot of respect for the people keeping things running (healthcare, public transport, cashiers etc.)... And now..... They behave even more selfish, egoistic... In general we thought: "Hey, maybe that will help human mankknd to evolve in regards to so many things. Like traffic, consumption etc.)" Ffs, turns out: not a single piece of development...
It should have been the other way around. We all went through something together.And most of us don't live in luxury or have the privilege to live like nothing happened.It affected us in various ways.
People's driving is so out of wack, my only concern is to make it home in 1 piece.
and if the toddler is a better driver... then you should stay at home
Load More Replies...Yes! It's like the lack of vehicles on the road during a lockdown made drivers think that things like stop signs and red lights were there just for the fun of it.
As an essential employee driving to work every day 80mph in a 45 zone was a highlight for me. No one on the road…just me…radio up, wind in my hair. The 10 minute commute was my sacred time before dealing with idiots..I mean customers.
Load More Replies...And if you ARE going to wear a mask driving alone in your car, PLEASE wear it properly...not half-covering your eyes. I'm tired of getting merged into and run out of my lane.
Price of eating out
gotta pass along those "huge" pay increases / sarc...
Load More Replies...My work meal per diem for overnight travel used to be on the low side but passable. Now I can’t even afford fast food for what they give us.
honestly its not just the price of food. my aunt went to a restaurant with a friend, her first time out in awhile and she got covid. so its food prices and health risk. there r ppl out there like me wen i had it who r asymptomatic. i had no idea i had it or for how long until it triggered my epilepsy and i had a seizure. its bc of that that im afraid of eating out now not just the ridiculous prices.
A number of restaurants in my town are now delivery or pick-up only so the already expensive food is even more expensive...or cold by the time I eat it
I miss it too, but I hope that a part of the price increase is going to paying the service employees a living wage with out reallying on tips.
Here in South Africa the cost of eating out has also increased drastically. Have to think twice about a night out
So true. Especially since Putin started a war with Ukraine. Price of gas went up and that caused prices on everything else to go up.
Niche retail There was this cool place that sold vintage chanel, hermes, 70's pieces They needed the exploratory foot traffic to survive. Covid killed em
My local outdoorsy everyday carry knife pen and gadget store went for the same reason, it was impulse buy central but nothing you needed. I miss it
I agree 1000%. I miss my small, local shops, My local vintage shop didn't make through the pandemic and now they are putting a mattress store in its place.
At the same time you have more people starting online/home businesses who now do local markets which is cool.
I’m in my 40’s, but the pandemic really cut the list of friends I socialized with in half. We got out of the habit of seeing one another, and now that things are back to “normal”, we just made a habit out of not having dinner dates and stuff like that. When I realized this was happening, it made me look back and realize that I was the one who used to plan things and reach out. I made the conscious decision to stop being the one who always reached out, called and texted and I now see that I’m only in touch with half the people that I used to be.
EDIT: I am not talking about socially awkward, depressed, introverted people. If anything, I’m the introvert, and I still always made a point to reach out. I’m referring to people who still go out, celebrate holidays and birthdays and socialize. Just not with me anymore apparently. There are only so many times I can try and make plans with people who don’t do the same with me. I cannot be the one putting 100% into a friendship.
Some might say you may not be an introvert if you were always “the one to plan things and reach out.” 😀
Not true. I'm an introvert, I love being alone, but there is also a sense that I fail as a person if I don't socialize or make friends. This means I have to put conscious effort into planning things, especially since the people worth hanging out with, the ones who don't drain me horrendously, tend to to forget or can't plan well
Load More Replies...As an introvert my life didn’t really change during the pandemic except that I was allowed to not be around people. No fake enjoying social gatherings, people in the grocery store had to stay a respectful distance from my personal space, very limited people-ing in general. That part was great for my mental health;I got to be my true self for the first time. It’s hard that people now expect the fake version where I have to be outside my comfort zone all the time to make them happy.
I used to meet for coffee once a week before COVID. I organized "virtual coffee" during lockdown. The nice thing about that was friends who had moved away could join us. We have gone back to in-person gathering but still do our Zoom meetings once a month. It's been great to reconnect with friends I haven't seen in over 20 years.
People seem so much shi**ier in large group public situations now. I don't know what it is, but etiquette in places like a movie theater use to be standard, but every experience I've had lately has been horrible. People talking, sitting there on their phones, and other just generally bad things.
I've heard the same about concerts, but haven't been to as many myself. I've heard from others where people used to be polite (help each other up in pits and stuff and so on), they now just don't give a f**k.
It's like people are just more rude now for some reason. I'm really interested to know if this is happening everywhere or if I just live in a s****y rude a*s place.
Not experiencing that at all. I went to a postponed concert last night, and everyone was in a good mood and friendly and chatty, as we've all been waiting for this for 3 years. Then again, metal concerts are usually friendly :)
damn i wanna go to a metal concert now if i could just remember to make a plan to go there IM LOOKING AT YOU CHRONIC APATHY
Load More Replies...Supermarkets around here have become some of the rudest places imaginable. Nobody is polite. They just jump in front of you to grab something off of the shelf. They block aisles with their carts on one side and them standing on the other. It's crazy.
i had a woman yell at me for wearing a mask. she assumed i was wearing it bc i had covid. kept screaming ew and get away from me. someone from the store came up to me asking wat happened so i told them and also mentioned how im immune compromised and covid can cause me to have seizures so im extra careful. the guy then proceeded to tell the woman i didnt have covid but i can get it easily so im being careful. she looked at me and said "u shouldve just said that." i looked her dead in the eye and said "u didnt give me the chance to bc of all ur screaming" now i have an anxeity disorder too and i hate confrontation so that was a nightmare for me and my husband was doing shopping elsewhere in the store at the time. thankfully the cold cuts were ready so i took them thanked the store worker for helping break up the situation and went to find my husband. that wasnt the only time tho. weve had ppl run into us with their cart, have the me first attittude, carts everywhere in the parking lot and my personal favorite talking on the phone while shopping with it on speaker cuz u kno the whole store definitely has to hear y becky broke up with her boyfriend or watever. once it was even facetime while shopping and it was an arguement like lady save the call for home no one wants to hear u bad mouthing ur mom or ur mom calling u names. i hate food shopping so much. i didnt used to care but now bc of how some ppl r i cant stand it.
Load More Replies...trump Made name-calling and being Sh****y in general the norm
I’m sorry that that’s what you’re experiencing. I live in Florida and we’re pretty damn back to normal actually.
Well.... glad it's not my imagination. Perhaps the mental toll social isolation took? I myself am feeling more irritable. But really trying to be more patient!!!
Went to Santana and Earth Wind and Fire August 2022 Great music, great crowd, all ages, people Wonderful time Jones Beach N.Y.
I do not know about theatre, but I went to three live concerts (Kendrick Lamar, Macy Gray, Kid Cudi) in the past months and they both were the exact opposite - full of energy, good mood, party. It was amazing. Like the official end for the covid sadness.
Used car market is completely f****d, as are flight prices
Story Time. I bought a brand new 2023 Honda HRV and was anxious about the payments as they are $550 a month. I haven't had a car payment in five years and it was for a car 1/3 the value of my new car. The day after buying I contemplated returning it to buy a used 2019 base model HRV - However, I learned my payments would only be $50 a month cheaper and wouldn't have nearly the amount of features I have with the brand new car. It is wild.
Also welcome to Europe. Used cars available......sure. Fossile fuel driven cars are going to be banned from many places, hence their sales are reducing. Used electric cars are not popular due to the extreme high priced new batteries or spare parts. They all want us to go with clean energy, by any means, but the infrastructure lacks on many levels. Wether it be public transport or the hardly sufficient powergrid. I am not against it but a forced implementation before the people and/or the system is ready is a huge failure for economics and peoples motivation.
I drive an 11 year old, barebones pickup. Every time I look at used vehicle prices, I decide it’s best to keep the truck. It’s crazy when you see a used vehicle with 100k miles and they still want 35k for it.
That program was more than a decade ago, the market had more than adjusted since then. The big issue even now is the supply chain for microchips.
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Children's education, mental health, coping skills, and socialization. My wife is an elementary educator, and it's shocking how far kids regressed during the pandemic. By almost every measure, this generation of kids is in big trouble. I'm optimistic that the trend will right itself over time, but it's really sad to see.
Don't blame that on the pandemic. The pandemic certainly didn't help, but children's education, mental health, coping skills, and socialization were all HORRIBLE BEFORE the pandemic. It amplified problems that were already there. Unfortunately, it would require a pandemic at least twice as bad plus some recovery time for people to realize these things are issues.
The pandemic has shown just how little time parents get to spend actually parenting. When both parents work the crushing full-time job hours that are expected of them, who's actually raising the kids? And what do families do when those institutions aren't there and you've got nowhere to institutionalize your kids?
Have y’all seen those uber sad videos of animals who have been caged their whole lives seeing grass for the first time? Heartbreaking, right? Yeah, my first set of post-pandemic Kindergartners seemed feral compared to pre-pandemic. And you’d think, “Well, at least the pandemic didn’t mess up their education!” And you’d be wrong. Think about why… they didn’t get to socialize in pre-school or daycare like most kids entering kindergarten. They didn’t have play dates. They didn’t go to family gatherings. In this sense… it DOES take a village to raise a child… and during the pandemic, our children… even the youngest ones… didn’t have access to that village. It’s not my kinder babies fault they need more socializing. And I’m super glad they’re able to get it and be in a classroom with their peers now. :) Teaching has always been a tough profession, but the pandemic made it even more challenging.
To be fair, some things are actually good in this regard: Many schools have finally adopted digital media instead of outdated methods (the pros and cons are debatable) and many workplaces have finally made working from home a viable option, so I, for example, have 2 hours more in my day than if I'd have to go to the office. That means that my husband and I can combine 2 full time jobs with full time daycare for our twin toddlers (7:30 to 15:00-16:30) and actually still spend time with them AND have money to feed us all. That we HAVE to both work full time to afford 2 children is another matter, but I'm incredibly glad that our jobs make it possible to still feel like good parents.
as someone who wasn't done developing during the pandemic and is PAINFULLY self aware, i can confirm that this is true
Night shift people lives. Nothing is ever open late anymore
I'm not night shift anymore but I was for many a year and places open late were a godsend.
Flip side, I work very early mornings and things open all night were great if I needed to stop by the store on the way to work. Not an option any more.
My social/work life, after living like a hermit for 2 years and working from home, it's taking me a long time to go out like before.
Ahhh yes. The pandemic was such a glorious time of no pants. Now I gotta wear "fancy" pants. Life is so hard😔
It takes a lot for me to go out because all I can think about is what if there is a shooting.
Young people's desire to go into healthcare. We won't realize it for a generation or so, but healthcare in America was already chronically understaffed. The pandemic burning out medical professionals and discouraging young people from going into healthcare is going to have a negative effect on the quality of healthcare, not only in the United States, but other hard-hit countries, too.
i don't know anyone who plans to go into healthcare except kids whos' parents are forcing them haha
I wanted to be a nurse growing up, but had to give up that dream when, among other things, I was diagnosed with depression and realized I absolutely couldn't sustain a career that demanding.
Load More Replies...Nursing and healthcare are still pretty popular programs at my community college but the nursing cohort is 25 seats, we have trouble getting faculty, we can't produce enough to make up the deficit. We're adding a second cohort but that will take a couple of years and millions of grant $s
Education, too. It baffles me already that any new teachers are entering the field as it is. I'm getting TF out.
Every holiday for 2020 was on a weekend, except Cinco de mayo , that was going to be on a Tuesday "taco Tuesday"... it was going to be the best party year ever.
Instead, a week before st Patrick's day, the world shut down.
Honestly, I don't think we've ever reached closure from it, and I don't know that we ever will.
I read in a psychology magazine that the human brain changed in 2 years what our brains traditionally change in 10 years..
This posts answers verify that
Children’s education, attitude, and manners. As a teacher, there is definitely a noticeable difference after covid in these things. The attitudes and blatant disrespect is unbelievable. I don’t take any of it personally so it doesn’t wear on me so much, but I can absolutely see why some teachers are burnt out because of it.
not the kids fault but their parents. (we still gotta deal with it though!!)
Anxiety and poor mental health, desperately seeking connection... It doesn't always look like asking for help. Kids turn into jerks when they have these needs (makes no sense to adults, but it's true). We need to scrap the tests and standards, and teach kids how to connect and love life again.
People's life plans. We lost almost TWO YEARS of our lives. I should have been in a much different place by now but Covid ruined my opportunities and now I feel like I'm behind two years.
If I've learned anything, it's that 2 years matter either not at all (I've "lost" 2 years before when I dropped out of college etc.) or very much (my twins turn 2 in a month). But in this particular case, we've all lost opportunities, AND had an excellent opportunity to get to know ourselves better. I wouldn't be surprised if, in future job interviews, one question would be "how did you handle the Covid-pandemic?", cause that actually says more about you than "where do you see yourself in 5 years?".
A friend of mine was intending to emigrate from UK to Australia, all planned out and ready to roll. Three months before kick-off everything went into lock-down and she couldn't go, and by the time everything relaxed again she was outside the upper age limit and told she would no longer be accepted.
I feel this. I was up for a promotion right before lockdown and my agency halted all promotions and new hires. Almost three years later, I’m not where I had hoped to be. Just grateful to still have a job at this point, and my motivation to better my position is pretty much gone.
Independent/smaller/DIY music venues never really recovered
small businesses were just brutally destroyed these last few years.
I feel this. I am trying to get my clients back in the studio to work out, we were thriving before Covid. Now it’s month to month. I am bringing back all the sense of community, fun events in addition to working out, but once you break a habit for this long it’s hard. I have 6 employees, all moms who rely on my flexible scheduling and our supportive work environment. I stopped paying myself, so my family is struggling. People just don’t understand how concretely devastating this has been.
Load More Replies...I owned a music electronics repair shop. Suddenly all my musician customers were out of work, all the churches that hired them were closed, all clubs that they played in were closed. My entire customer based vanished. Good thing I was old enough to collect Social Security so I retired.
People’s ability to drive. Drivers are far more aggressive post-COVID, and even fewer people are using their signals.
I went to go get Taco Bell at 10:00 and it was closed
All of the fast food places near me close by 8pm on weekdays. Even McDonalds. No late night snacks for me unless I make them myself. Probably a good thing tbh.
Seriously. My parents met working Starbucks. Talked often about being open 24/7, starting shifts at 2am. One day I have a gig at 4am, so I stop at Starbucks. THEY WERE CLOSED SINCE 9
No school on snow days
Snow days with no school were the biggest dopamine hit in my life.
to the good people who developed zoom: yOU DONT UNDERSTAND THE HORROR YOU HAVE CREATED I WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOU YOU BASTARDS
I feel so sorry for today’s kids. They’ll never know the rush!
Yep. Got an email from the kid's the beginning of this school year stating that on any snow days they will have school virtually. We used to be excited for those snow days because we would end up going sledding or be outside building snow forts etc.
I’m so glad our kids’ school still allows for real snow days. They will have online work if they go over a certain amount of snow days, like 6 or 8 or something?
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weddings too not just dating. alot of ppl had to reschedule or replan. i replanned mine. i got married in 2020 instead of 175 ppl we had 92, no dancing except the important ones like first dance, mother son and father daughter, our buffet style idea went out the window and we had no honeymoon we did 4 days at a nice hotel in a near by town instead.
It pushed people away from social gatherings with friends and family and mostly replaced that with screen time. It f****d us up socially, we are more alone than ever.
This answer annoys me. I see this everywhere, and all I can think is that these people don't even know what tech is for if they can't use it to talk to their friends.
The problem is thinking that tech replaces human contact 1-to-1. They aren't even remotely the same.
Load More Replies...im bout to start literally raging against the machine upvote if you agree
Everyone seems so much more gloomy and pessimistic these days. And I've noticed that I myself have become curiously numbed to bad news. Nothing seems to shock me much any more. My friend has cancer? Well s**t. Local woman drowns both of her kids and then herself and they don't find the second kid's body until the next day? That sucks. It's not that I have *no* reaction - I feel sad and I feel sympathy. I just don't feel shocked.
The response now is, "who had San Francisco using murder robots on their 2022 apocalypse bingo card?" instead of ,"holy s**t, murder robots? Who ok'd this atrocitity!?"
Load More Replies...My faith in humanity was never quite ironclad. But, people zealously refusing to do the bare minimum to help one another out completely depleted it for me.
Food for thought: Were all these changes caused by the pandemic or by the omnipresence of social media in all aspects of life now?
The pandemic. A freind of mine has this huge tomb of a book about the history of plagues. A substantial percentage of humans have always gone batshit crazy during plagues. The denial, the conspiracy theories - you find them at every plague in history. Many people simply cannot cope with this kind of desaster.
Load More Replies...Lots unrelated to covid has happened these past years, and they had a big influence on my life. People value time a lot more now, value family/home time. It enabled working from home more. I think it also (together with short supplies due to wars etc) recycling and reuising is more and more on the agenda. No more one use products - those are meant for profit of an organisation. Reusable items don't generate as much money as single use. The economy is changing. Workers are stirring - the employee shortage shows a change. Maybe a more positive post would be how the pandemic Changed things (for better or worse). It is the start of a new era. What will this period be referred to later in the history books? Will these be the years of change, with the pandemic as catalyst. The anti-abortion laws, the employee shortage, the wages, shortage of items/base materials. The future is not as clear as it was before.
The assumption that most, at least well over half of people are good-hearted. The pandemic and the surrounding political climate taught me that if people don't feel safe or are unable to understand something they double down and dig in with aggressive, selfish stupidity, violence and hate.
I believed that my stodgy, burocratic home country (Germany) was slow and old-fashioed but at least well organized, full of respobisble adults and could react to a serious crisis. ... ... Never in a million years would I have believed that my country is chockful of infantile cry-babies and run by incompetent people who avoid responsibility like the plague. For me, the pandemic had some psoitive effects but the loss of trust in my government and especially in the administration is not one of them.
Not one mentioned losing their loved ones and I feel a bit more bitter. My life was turned upside down with the loss of both of my parents and other people in my life. Covid took my life without even infecting me once. Funny how that works out
It's ruined people for me. I never was a people person, I've worked retail my entire adult life, but it seemed to bring out the entitlement of people, entitlement they did nothing to earn or deserve, yet act as if they are the most important thing in the world.
Everyone seems so much more gloomy and pessimistic these days. And I've noticed that I myself have become curiously numbed to bad news. Nothing seems to shock me much any more. My friend has cancer? Well s**t. Local woman drowns both of her kids and then herself and they don't find the second kid's body until the next day? That sucks. It's not that I have *no* reaction - I feel sad and I feel sympathy. I just don't feel shocked.
The response now is, "who had San Francisco using murder robots on their 2022 apocalypse bingo card?" instead of ,"holy s**t, murder robots? Who ok'd this atrocitity!?"
Load More Replies...My faith in humanity was never quite ironclad. But, people zealously refusing to do the bare minimum to help one another out completely depleted it for me.
Food for thought: Were all these changes caused by the pandemic or by the omnipresence of social media in all aspects of life now?
The pandemic. A freind of mine has this huge tomb of a book about the history of plagues. A substantial percentage of humans have always gone batshit crazy during plagues. The denial, the conspiracy theories - you find them at every plague in history. Many people simply cannot cope with this kind of desaster.
Load More Replies...Lots unrelated to covid has happened these past years, and they had a big influence on my life. People value time a lot more now, value family/home time. It enabled working from home more. I think it also (together with short supplies due to wars etc) recycling and reuising is more and more on the agenda. No more one use products - those are meant for profit of an organisation. Reusable items don't generate as much money as single use. The economy is changing. Workers are stirring - the employee shortage shows a change. Maybe a more positive post would be how the pandemic Changed things (for better or worse). It is the start of a new era. What will this period be referred to later in the history books? Will these be the years of change, with the pandemic as catalyst. The anti-abortion laws, the employee shortage, the wages, shortage of items/base materials. The future is not as clear as it was before.
The assumption that most, at least well over half of people are good-hearted. The pandemic and the surrounding political climate taught me that if people don't feel safe or are unable to understand something they double down and dig in with aggressive, selfish stupidity, violence and hate.
I believed that my stodgy, burocratic home country (Germany) was slow and old-fashioed but at least well organized, full of respobisble adults and could react to a serious crisis. ... ... Never in a million years would I have believed that my country is chockful of infantile cry-babies and run by incompetent people who avoid responsibility like the plague. For me, the pandemic had some psoitive effects but the loss of trust in my government and especially in the administration is not one of them.
Not one mentioned losing their loved ones and I feel a bit more bitter. My life was turned upside down with the loss of both of my parents and other people in my life. Covid took my life without even infecting me once. Funny how that works out
It's ruined people for me. I never was a people person, I've worked retail my entire adult life, but it seemed to bring out the entitlement of people, entitlement they did nothing to earn or deserve, yet act as if they are the most important thing in the world.
