Someone Asks Older People “What Is Something Today’s Youth Would Never Understand” And 35 People Deliver
There's a term called the generation gap and it refers to the differences in experiences, opinions, habits, and behavior that separate age groups.
To learn more about this phenomenon, Reddit user MatsGry decided to look at it from another perspective. One that is often neglected and ridiculed on the internet. Baby boomers. So they made a post on the platform, asking the elders: "What's something today's youth would never understand?"
People immediately started sending in their replies, listing all the things that millennials and zoomers — in their opinion — can't wrap their minds around. Of course, some of them are up for debate, but that made the comment section even more interesting.

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History Channel, Discovery Channel, The Learning Channel, and a bunch of other cable networks that are now dedicated to absolutely bottom-tier garbage reality TV shows used to be amazing nonstop documentary TV.
I grew up on just the three channels. Channel 4 came later for us. And it was ok. There was good original content rather than all the trashy reality and repeat shows. Saturday night was a family occasion in front of the TV because there was always something good to watch that had a broad appeal from Grandma down to Grandkids. Hardly watch TV these days, it all seems a bit low-budget compared to the likes of Only Fools & Horses, Porridge, Monty Python, Fawlty Towers etc.
Load More Replies...Yup. I remember those times when everything you watched on History Channel was real. Now it's all about ancient aliens and mermaids, and they still act like it's real, confusing whole generations. This is where normal people start becoming conspiracy theorists and eventually anti-vaxxers and the likes. Fiction presented as fact.
ABC, CBS AND NBC, THAN THE PUBLIC CHANNEL. THAT IS ALL WE HAD WHEN I GREW UP! AND MOSTLY A SMALL BLACK AND WHITE TV. THE COLOR TV WAS IN THE LIVING ROOM.
I grew up with NED1, NED2 and later on we had NED3 (Netherlands). Yes, our first TV was black/white.
I remember when A&E had broadway plays and ballet and opera. Thanks writers strike. You opened the reality floodgate.
All science-based channels devolve from "check out these funny lizards from guatemala" to "the ancient egyptian aliens are driving their trucks across the whole of alaska to this pawnbroker shop run by the mermaid kardashians so they can sell nazi moon base damascus steel swords" in about 15 years.
People could not always get a hold of you and it was a good thing.
No work calls at ungodly hours because you were expected to sleep with your phone on the pillow.
Um Millenials had this too. Remember Millenials are 1980-1995 born. We very much remember this
Hate to break it to you but when reddit refers to oldies most millennials are included.
Load More Replies...The expectation that I always have to be available to speak to (at everyone elses convenience) is the reason my phone is permanently on "do not disturb".
One of the main reasons I've never owned a cell phone. I have a land line with an answering machine and I delete most messages without returning calls. My phone is so I can bother you, not the other way around.
It's harder to get ahold of people these days. No one wants to answer a phone anymore. And have you heard some of these voicemail greetings? "Omg. why are you bitches calling me. You know I only text."
I really like having a cellphone because you can check up on people easily. However, the whole picture and video of everything. I've never understood it as a millennial...sure it's good when it's needed but you don't have to document every single thing.
How old do Boomers think Millennials are? We remember what that was like.
Indeed. It was great not being expected to always have your phone handy at all times.
Memorizing phone numbers.
I used to know about 20 telephone numbers off by heart...now I know mine and thats about it!
I don't know even that one, I let the phone do the remembering for me.
Load More Replies...We had the type where you slid a tab up and down and stopped at a letter. When you pressed the release bar, it popped open, revealing all the names starting with that chosen letter...and we liked it!
Load More Replies...i still remember my old house landline, grandparents and mom's work numbers from 30-25 years ago
... And we never worried about a "virus" being on the nasty keys and mouthpiece of public phones! (Which were 10¢ in my day, but if you were adept, you could hold a nickel in the slot and as soon as you release it, hit the coin return and talk for a nickel.)
Okokokokok. So. You're proud of being unhygienic? Proud of not worrying about your/others health? Like, pay phones aren't insane, but just throwing health out the window isn't.
Load More Replies...And all those damn long numbers trying to call someone across the globe.
Needing to do a report on a topic. No internet. No encyclopedia on CD. Going to the actual library to find someone in your class already grabbed the one book on the subject.
Again, Encarta95 was only a thing from about 1993 onwards. Gen X definitely had to do reports from an actual library. Older Millennial's may have had to do the same (born in 1980, doing reports at age 11 - yup, well before the Encarta CDs).
As if everyone born in 1980 had access to a computer at age 11 ...
Load More Replies...I was born in mid-80s, and it was like that for me throughout my entire B.A. and M.A., but often the case in secondary school and high-school too. Info available on the Internet was pretty limited back then and insufficient to write a good paper...
And having to check the publication date to make sure it was the most up to date information.
Ugh, I remember having to do a report on Renaissance art and had to include a slide show. Oh so much fun taking pictures of artwork from a book then getting slides made. So much hassle.
Yes, and using the Dewey Decimal System... what fun! Don't forget, using the set(s) of encyclopedias your parents bought, just for you.
Waiting for your favorite song to come on the radio
Naturally, when your song finally came on, the DJ would not shut up.
Load More Replies...I doubt this is something you can count as Millennials not understanding...the majority of us are in our 30s, we had the radio too.
Nonononononononono! We ONLY had the radio. There wasn't any really hip tv channel or record shop where I grew up. As teens, we were completely cut off from most of the good music. The record shops stocked what their ancient staff deemed 'in'. You'd have to totally rely on friends of friends who'd heard something good or ... the radio. Where you'd spend hours waiting for any song that interested you - which you'd then tape - and then, because the radio djs would have yakked along it but not given you any useful info about the song itself, you'd have to wait for it to be played again. Someday. Somewhere. Within earshot.
Load More Replies...Yep, or calling the radio station to request they play it and standing by with your tape ready and STILL not getting the whole song because the DJ talks over the beginning!
Opening up the newspaper to look at the TV guide to see what was on that night.
Going to the bathroom during a commercial break and hearing the dreaded “IT’S ON!!” when you’re not done.
No rewinding or FF, either. If you missed it, that's it.
Load More Replies...The number of and length of commercials now is gonna be the end of me. It drives me absolutely crazy and i hate it.
The relationship between audio cassettes and Bic pens (or pencils).
When they became available and the player affordable it was the pencil!
Load More Replies...So this isn't only to pull the tape (strip) back into the casing when it got mangled/eaten by the player. It was also to do a faster rewind or a batteryless rewind. On walkmans in particular the batteries would go flat fast (AA) so to save battery you'd rewind the tape with bic/pencil. The trick was to push it through the hole and hold both ends of the pen/pencil and spin the casing really fast with centrifugal motion.
Yes, the fun and agony of using pencils and pens just to get to the top of the tape. Was I so happy when the auto-reverse tape came along. It was like magic, where you can listen to your music continuously without rewinding or fast forwarding.😆
Yeah no. I’m gen z but very much know how annoying this is. My friggin mixtapes man!
My father had this humongous cassette player and a whole bunch of album cassettes!
omg smoking EVERYWHERE! In theaters, planes, offices, hospitals, trains, restaurants, schools... just everywhere (and the outrage when it was finally banned lol)
This is one thing I really don't miss. I used to hate going out for a night out and coming back stinking like packet of cigarettes (FFS BP I want to say f**s.)
... in germany, smoking on trains wasn't banned until 2008 or so ... and I loved it for several reasons. One even nonsmokers may agree is you could open the actual windows on trains, in both the smokers and nonsmokers sections ... which was a lot better than the aircon they use nowadays ... imagine someone who is rotting away inside takes a dump on the train throne ... and you could just open a window and breathe! Today, no. Basically, smelling someone else's poop, as this requires poop particles inside your nose, means that someone shat into your nostrils. Disgusting? Sure! Worse than smoking? Sure! Doubted only by people who have yet to experience the worst of smells a human's insides may provide...
Worse than smoking, NO. S**t only smells bad; smoke is all of noxious, toxic, and carcinogenic. As a cancer survivor I would rather ride past ten sewage treatment plants than share the air with a single smoking person.
Load More Replies...I'm so old I actually smoked on an airplane!! Really. Not that I miss it now. And I worked in a kindergarten and we smoked along the kids. And that was just in the 90ties. (10 years ago according to my memory)
Just this morning, someone on the radio said 1990 was thirty years ago, and you could have knocked me over with a feather
Load More Replies...I remember just general buses having the smoking section right at the back lol It's very weird now to think that was a thing
I was so glad when it was banned. Still worried about what affects that had on my body.
I do miss "the old days" EXCEPT for this. Smoking was universal and inescapable.
That was disgusting. Thank goodness for the smoking ban law that came in effect.
The excitement of going to a video rental store on the weekends to get to pick out a movie.
Actually picking one out was just as exciting as watching the movie.
So, the title of this article will ultimately change and make this comment a bit pointless, but at the time of writing the title is something along the lines of "Boomers list things that Gen X and Millennials won't understand" and I have to point out that Blockbuster only ceased to be a thing well into a Millennial's teenhood. Millennials have experience of picking out rental movies. Gen X certainly did.
Post millienial teehood. Millenials were born between 1980 and 1995, meaning many were able to buy alcohol before this went out of vogue
Load More Replies...Another joy not mentioned in the text above - those gems you find wandering around the Blockbuster or Hollywood Video, while looking for the movie you actually came in for.
Only did this when my friend's family got a video player. We only had a portable black and white tv til the mid 80s, and no video til the 90s
Or grabbing the case of the shelf only for there to be no more copies behind it.
Oh your VHighnesS, these times I really miss. Beginning in the 80s going with my stepdad and brother to the local video rental store, then in the 90s doing this by myself, chatting with the clerks about all kinda movie related stuff - and being a small town German dude, always looking for "exotics" and uncut versions (first time I saw the uncut version of Woo's Hard-Boiled, D A M N!!! Or Raimi's Evil Dead - HAIL ASH! Both films were heavily cut by our censors...)
Calling the movie theatre to hear the recording with the movie times on it.
How about calling POPCORN to get the time? (maybe only a USA thing).
Ours was not automated at first - Went like this Hi Gracey what's on when? Thanks! Bye!
When you left work you left work. There is an emergency? Oh well, I guess we can solve that problem tomorrow.
I used to work as a pressman (operator) for a printing company. Practically another lifetime ago. Anyway, all over the plant, were photocopied signs which said, "Poor planning on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part". Didn't really sink in with management though. I swear, we (workers) put out several "fires" every week.
Load More Replies...I've adopted this attitude just couple of months ago, after years of hard work, no appreciation or promotion that ended up in a burnout. Guess what? All problems can indeed wait till tomorrow
Right?! Pagers were still a thing even in the 80's.
Load More Replies...Most medical staff I imagine... If someone has an emergency and can't make it, the shift still has to be covered particularly if the hospital/whatever is already short staffed
Load More Replies...I live still like that, when I finished working I have finished working, all my bosses know if they want to call me after hours they will have to pay for that, if I am not payed for accepting work related calls I won't do it, but hey in my country we don't have at- will employment.
Right? I've mentioned to more than one employer that "we're not exactly curing cancer here and that can wait until tomorrow." Had one guy demand that I come in early for a meeting that had nothing to do with me. I said no. He said he'd fire me. I said, in that case I quit - and grabbed my purse. Never seen a guy backpedal so fast in my life. No I didn't leave or get fired. And yes - he was pretty much my b*tch after that.
When mom and dad were finished work they were done came home had supper watched TV then to bed to get ready for another day!
Still happens at my work. They just send an email and you deal with it in the morning
The sheer joy of receiving a handwritten letter from someone you haven't seen in a long time. I really miss the days when I had a nice stationery set, and I would write long letters to friends and relatives.
You still can, people really appreciate a handwritten letter, it means you care.
Only writing with a pen for me now is my shopping list. Or filling out paper forms.
I'm the same with postcards. Sadly, not so much with greeting cards, though. I should start again.
Load More Replies...I hate that invitations are sent out over Facebook. If you want me to come a baby shower, bridal shower, birthday party, I need a invitation sent in the mail. If I don't get, I probably won't go, unless I really really like the person. If I don't want to go I just always say, I don't get on Facebook much, you need to send me an invitation through the mail
Ah, young love... in the mid 70's, I hand wrote a 100 page letter to my darling (at the time) girlfriend! Complete with little drawings on the sides... etc. It took me about 2 weeks. Then she got pissed at me and ripped it to shreds. No, we did not last long after that. LOL!
Taking photos using those little rolls of film and having to take them into a shop for processing. You often wouldn't know if any of the photos were good until a couple of months later.
You also had to manually wind on the camera after every shot.
For my sixtieth I bought a canon eos 650 analogue and together we make great pictures.
These were great cameras and you can still find them for fairly reasonable. Film cameras were great and I say better than these iPhone etc cameras. For this reason, my wife has all these photos that live on the phone and will never see the light of day. I miss photo albums.
Load More Replies...Months? It could take days to get film developed. In the 80s you could get it in 24 hours. Months? What, like in the 20s??
Sorry I usually don't do this because my english is terrible too but this just bothers me too much. A. Photos are developed not processed B. It never took months to develop them maybe you or your family took their sweet time deliver them to the shop but after that a few days and the photos would be done C. I know with winding the camera you load the next empty film, but as far as I know it's still called "wind up" not wind on. Ps.: Sorry, it just bothered me too much
I still have my Dad's old Voigtländer 35mm camera. Completely manual, fixed lens, no zoom, used a separate light meter to work out exposure. It took a decent photograph. Nowadays, I don't even take a camera with me unless it is for something special, as my phone camera takes better pictures than all but my latest digital camera.
To me, the most awful thing about having to wait to see if your pictures turned out, was when they didn't! You go to an amazing place, take a fabulous trip, have your picture taken with a celebrity only to find out once the pictures come back that someone had their eyes closed, got their head cut out of the picture, someone had their thumb in front of the lens, on and on!
And the pain when you found out in the shop that the film was faulty and no photos could have been recovered...
Picking up or saying goodbye to airline passengers right at the gate
It’s 9/11 or September 11, 2001, not September 911.
Load More Replies...God I miss that. You could grab lunch on a layover with a friend that was passing through. It was so pleasant. Now I've got to sit on a hard chair for half an hour after they get off the plane at the baggage claim.
And running in between flights with a pocket full of change or a calling card to use a pay phone to let the person that dropped you off at the gate know you made it to the next destination.
We lived near a major airport when I was a child, and I remember going to visit relatives that were coming through on layovers. We would pack up the family in the station wagon and go have dinner with 'uncle joe' or whomever at the airport restaurant while they waited to fly out again.
I miss this so much! I LOVED doing this as a child and young adult!
Watching a draft lottery to see if your number would be low enough that you will be drafted to fight in a war in Asia
This one should be higher, it's the first one that actually fits the title, in that it happened to (US) boomers and it is almost unimaginable for most people in the west today. Most of the others would fit better in a list of 'things which people at the younger end of Millennial might not have known, but will have no problem understanding once told'.
That is not the title anymore, it's "Someone Asks Older People “What Is Something Today’s Youth Would Never Understand” And 51 People Deliver". I hate this ever changing crap on BP you can't even have a conversation with someone on a thread because the post you commented probably got cut from the original post.
Load More Replies...Imagine getting killed in the prime of your life for dumb a**e politicians. How did people back then even tolerate that s**t from their elected officials.
Well in our country if you didn't show up for the draft you were accused of being a communist and put in jail for five years, so there was that.
Load More Replies...Nowadays, with our all-volunteer Army, we just send the children of America's poor off to die in exotic locales when all they want is opportunity and education.
Yep, we had a draft as well, but it was not a lottery, it was 100% if you were white male. It only stopped in *1994*, thanks to Mandela and co.
Magonelson Mandela, my favourite revolutionary catapult?
Load More Replies...My mom would tell us that in college she had a bunch of professors who said the a variation of the same thing before every test "Girls, if you fail a boy can take the spot you've stolen from them. Boys, if you fail you're off to Vietnam." My dad said at his COMPLEATLY different university across the country he used to hear that statement too. Failing a class meant your deferment was canceled.
Hovering over your stereo with your fingers ready to hit play and record simultaneously while the radio DJ intros the song you've been dying to hear. Recording movies straight off the TV onto VHS tapes and having the dedication to stop the recording to cut out the ads.
I was pro at doing the cuttings, I should have been a video editor!
Yeah me too, the second the black and white rolling tape effect box appeared in the corner of the screen I got ready to hit pause.
Load More Replies...And then spacing out and forgetting to restart at the end of a commerncial break and ruining the entire thing.
Yes, those dang DJs, who would talk right into the moment when the vocals kick-in, or right before it ends. Speaking of DJs, anyone remember Casey Kasem and his weekly Top 40 hits? Love that radio show.
...and then the DJ talks over the song intro and only stops when the lyrics begin, or (take your pick) cuts the song off 30 seconds early to start talking again!
Home recording? Waiting for the movie to come to town again at the cheap theater.
There must have been some type of deal made between tv and the makers of dvd players that we were never able to record directly from tv onto a dvd like we did with tapes. I always found that odd.
You could, but you needed a computer as the DVD player, and this has a very easy explanation, for writing a DVD first you needed all the information you want to write on the DVD, not like the VHS tapes.
Load More Replies...My dad recorded the first man walking on the moon with a tape recorder because that's the only way he could it.
Sometimes, don't remember the reason, a radio station would play. like the top 100 songs and i would sit there with my little recorder for hours to catch the ones I wanted
I used to spend my Summers recording music videos off MTV so I could always just put them on. A bit like youtube... but on VHS instead 😎
Be kind rewind.
Smoking or nonsmoking
I left a message but I think the tape cut out.
So when should I call?
Get off the line!
I got to swing by and drop off some film.
I tried calling but I think he's online right now.
Everything glass is brown and that's normal.
Erm, don't upvote this guy, I think he's a Psycho, probably American, and doing some sit-ups as we speak!
Load More Replies...I remember Mom telling me of the time she received a call from her older sister and they both realized that someone was listening to them because they switched from English to Hungarian and they both heard a click.
Load More Replies...Older glass was fluorescent green and radioactive. Google "Uranium Glass" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uranium_glass
Man I need $20.00 to buy 8 D size batteries. So my friends,and I can Rock out the Boom-Box for 90 minutes.
I have either seen or own 100+ year old glass items in colors and clear. "Depression glass" was usually green.
Watching Saturday morning cartoons with cereal.
Rocky and Bullwinkle came on right after the farm report at 6AM. Your day is now booked until noon. It was wonderful.
It was so sad when grown up shows came on late morning.
Load More Replies...In my country we had something called Snurre Snups Søndagsklub (Bugs Bunny's Sunday-club) and I would be absolutely devastated if I missed it because I slept too long. Lol. The whole world could come to an end around me, I wouldn't notice if I was watching my show.
The Karens of the 70's/80's made Saturday Morning TV what it is today: DEAD! Thankfully, a lot of our cartoons are on streaming platforms, where the Karens and the idiot network execs aren't around to ruin things anymore.
TV Channels signing off for the night.
Color? You had COLOR? Showoff. I actually remember Groucho Marx' TV program, Sing Along With Mitch (and that dang dot/ball). Ted Mack's Original Amateur Hour.
Load More Replies...The New Zealand one had a little Kiwi and the tune was Hine e Hine, which Hayley Westenra signs beautifully.
In true US fashion we ended with The Star Spangled Banner played over photos featuring majestic eagles, the US flag, and the occasional church followed by white noise/static and a test pattern that looked like a gun sight.
Load More Replies...Channel 7 Sydney station identification at the end of the day's programming. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qXWgiHmt2po
oh in Germany as far as I know Kika (the kids channel) signs out and then replays the same short episode of Bernd das Brot (Bernd the bread) over and over again until morning. Peak German comedy
Ooohhhh...... there was a local TV-channel in my country that would switch over to soft pXrn after midnight. It's something ppl my age still laugh about from time to time.
Making plans ahead of time (meet you in front of the theater at 8:25, okay?) and if said friend was late to show up, you had no idea what happened to them. No changing plans last minute, no finding out where they were, just you standing in the meeting place, wondering how long to wait, if you should just tell the ticket seller to let your friend know you’ll be inside etc... (we all had one of those friends).
The title is "younger people" not millennials. Please calm down.
Load More Replies...Especially bad for first dates in towns you just moved to, and weren't sure you were at the right place.
Getting a free toy inside a box of Breakfast cereal.
I miss this. Was always a bit of excitment when you got to open a new box. Now it's just a relief that you have finished the dust in the bottom of the old one!
Me too! My brother and I would try to wake up earlier than each other to see who could get the toy first.
Load More Replies...When computers got bigger at the turn of the century, they gave out computer games in the boxes like Yahtzee and Operation, but man, I would have loved an actual toy.
A couple years back ( 2017-18??) I bought a box of Frosted Flakes, which I do not like (too sweet, too mushy) just because it had a blue Tony the Tiger spoon/straw in it. I miss those free toys from childhood.
Not the cheap ones though. If a visitor decided to buy "posh" stuff, they would let us kids have the toy...and fight over it til mum took it away.
It was always at the bottom, and Mom wouldn't let you empty any cereal out to get it, even if you PROMISED to put it all back.
Buying a home at 3-6 times your annual salary and being able to get by on a single income
1980 Mercedes Benz 450sl, nice car to drive. Rust in the front lower guard, common problem. Also V8 engine is very thirsty.
Were the 450 the only model sold in the US? Over here, these were sold as 280 (Straight 6 DOHC - nicest engine in this model), 350 (V8) and 450 (V8), later (changing 1982 and 1985), the newer engines were 300 (Straight 6) and 420, 500 (V8), all if not mentioned otherwise SOHC engines. Also, there was the very rare 450 SLC 5.0, the Coupe-version that first had the alu V8 that later models had (the 350 and 450, and all six cylinders, were cast iron with alu head).
Load More Replies...Forget it! Having your own house and being able to afford it, it’s one of the greatest luxuries of today’s America.
Load More Replies...... and actually purchasing a nice vehicle, like an R107 as shown above. But also, speaking of vehicles - anyone else so stunned that multivalve cylinder heads got forgotten after the war and just reemerged some time between 1960 and 2000 (meaning, the first new ones of significance were introduced in the early sixties, and in the late nineties, they for the first time outnumbered twovalves i new vehicles), caused - in europe - by a single book of a very respected guy who opposed the use of more than needed valves due to some misinterpretation of numbers? I can't imagine that happening todays, with each and every aspect known and investigated and published ... something that every qulity of the product benefits from, getting forgotten for a few decades is, even just with Wikipedia and none else, unthinkable today!
Huh? The rule was always no more than 3 times your annual salary, including at the banks, especially since interest rates were higher.
The rule was for a mortgage. When I bought my place you could borrow up to 3.5 times your salary. What was left you had to pay upfront.
Load More Replies...Damn we never could buy until I got a job too so that was 3 incomes!
Never had that experience. Both parents had to work during and after WWII in CA.
I was a cook in a University hall of residence kitchen, I supported my husband doing his PHd, purchased a house, car, motorcycle, AND we went on overseas vacations.
"Insert disk 2"
But if your discs flop, how will you get them into the disc drive?
Load More Replies...... and then you find disk 30 is corrupted ... aaargh ;o)
Load More Replies...I used to play a game on Amiga that had 14 floppy disks. When changing disks it would always ask for a random disk number to insert and usually had to go through 4-5 disk changes before loading the actual one required lol
My first couple of computers had cassettes for games. Some of them would take 30 mins or more to load. That's a BBC Micro and a Dragon 32. I did eventually get a disk drive for the BBC
Spectrum ZX. My favourite game was Cauldron (or something) and the instructions were a poem: 'Now play a game of high adventure; type LOAD"" and then press ENTER'
Load More Replies...S**t, yes... Monkey Island 2 (or so) must have been first game when I finally decided that I need another (or more) external disk reader for my Amiga 500... Put in Disk 2, loading a couple of seconds only to be told to put in Disk 4, another couple of seconds / minutes maybe, to put in Disk 1 again... you know the drill hehe
Was it Monkey Island 2 or 3 that featured the Easter Egg of "Insert disk 42?"
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Asking for and writing down directions to somewhere, or even looking up and following directions on a map.
This I was really good at, I don't think I have ever been lost in my life.
My daughter can't fold a map. I showed her how and it literally blew her mind how quick I can do it. Let the folds work for you.
I still use paper maps, Google is not really great in my neck of the woods, it will take you miles off course
Yes, my late husband was once directed to a bridge that had washed out a few years before.
Load More Replies...I still look at maps over sat nav , it's always a sensible idea to know roughly where you are and where you're going even if technology *should* get you there without a problem
Boomers nowadays: DON'T FIDDLE WITH YOUR PHONE WHILE DRIVING!! also boomers: Lemme just put this open mapbook on my passenger seat and I will look at it while I am driving to my destination, dunno, might turn the page if I hit the edge of the page and see which page I need to go to for the next map square...
On the job training. Actually being promoted for working hard.
When I got my first job in 2016, a lot of the people that were there, were already in their 40's, they had been working at the company since 1999-2000 and their salaries were like a million times that of mine. But it wasn't because of the amount of time they had there, most of them got to that salary within the first two to three years working there, just doing trainings and completing courses. But by around 2010 all of that stopped, so no one that started working from then on ever achieved the salaries of those early workers. I quit in 2020 and by then I was barely paid 10% more than my entry pay.
Every nurse knows what on the job training is first time on the floors you are scared shitless!
If you were a woman, you could be fired for being engaged to marry or for being pregnant. Happened to me. The bank didn't want to spend money training me if I was engaged because, they said, I will just quit to have babies, eventually.
Never had training, promotion or pay rises. Just changed jobs a lot from 1986
Your friends used to just show up unannounced, and you'd have to hang out with them. It was called a pop in, and it was totally normal.
MOMS KICKING ALL US KIDS OUT OF THE HOUSE ON ANY GIVEN DAY; EXPECIALLY SATURDAYS, AND YOU WOULD BE GONE TILL THE ONE SIBLING WHO CAME HOME FIRST WAS SENT OUT ON THEIR BIKE TO FIND EVERYONE ELSE AND TOLD TO COME HOME IT'S TIME TO EAT! AHHHH THOSE WERE THE DAYS.
At my house, it was customary for you to return to yours as soon as possible though...
Knowing where all your friends were hanging out by all the bikes in the front yard.
Yeah! and you usually had some other plans - that is why I no longer have a welcome mat!
My friend Anna did it all the time, and she almost always brought at least one mutual friend with her.
If there were 2 shows on tv at the same time and day you had to make a choice. No dvr no vcr no on demand
Im 47 and we got our first VCR in the third grade, 1983. It could be set to record a different channle than the one you were watching. That alone was amazing.
Yep. And if you were rich (or had a friend who was) and had two TVs with cable AND VCRs on both, you could record one and they could record the other
Lining up the carbon paper so you could get two copies of the document you were writing in the typewriter. And then how annoying it was if you made a mistake and had to break out the Twink.
...or 'Danke' - considering the presence of umlauts (Ä, Ö and Ü) this looks pretty much like a German typewriter to me.
Load More Replies...Agh! I'd never get on with that keyboard. Y and Z are the opposite way round to what I'm used to. Still not as bad as AZERTY though.
Nah, you get used to it. In Croatia, QWERTZ is the standard. Then I moved to Korea, where the standard for Roman writing is QUERTY, and sometimes I accidentally press the Roman/한글 toggle key accidentally and my messages look like mysterious ancient writing in Pokemon or some code breaking material for secret spies.
Load More Replies...Mimeograph machines and car phones that fit in this huge case in the car.
I still can't type properly use the hunt peck and cuss method or spell!
And sometimes you;'d forget the Golden Carbon Rule: "Shiny side away!"
Suitcases never used to have wheels
This is one of the confounding developments of civilization. Why did it take until the 20th century for humanity to think of this? We used to have collapsible carts that fit inside the suitcase that was just two wheels, a handle, and a bungie cord. Why didn't someone in 100 BC think of just adding a rudimentary axle to the bottom of a box and a handle?
They also have hard sides - we had soft sided zipper ones thought a that time you could get more in them!
Wheelies were invented by a retiring Northwest airlines pilot. He had a few made for his crew, who went crazy for them, so he went on to found the Travel pro luggage co. Four-wheel bagsare extremely common now but they cause problems. They won't stzay still on trains or busses--you have to 'lock' them in place with your foot. A Lufthansa hostess told me that when on a European airport--where you sometimes have to go outside and board by stairs--"never let go of your bag or the wind will blow it down the tarmac.' She was right. Also 4-wheelrs give a bumpier 'ride' and a harder 'pull.' Got 2 big wheels if you can!
My grandma bungeed her case to the frame of a shopping trolley in the late 70s, so she had luggage on wheels. She travelled a lot on public transport by herself and didn't like to carry the weight
didn't they invent that a year after the moon landing? I remember reading that somewhere, maybe a Ripleys believe it or not book.
How kids at one point were just everywhere with no supervision. Hell, when I was little it wasn't uncommon for a group of us under the age of 12 to just disappear into the forest/woods/desert for the entire goddamn day. As long as you were back before the streetlights turned on and didn't come back injured your parents just did not give a f**k so long as you were out of the house and out of their way.
Also, and this is definitely a guy thing, but every friend group had that friend with an older brother who at a certain point would bequeath their entire porn collection onto the younger kids, usually by telling them where it was hidden. I've seen hollowed out trees with hidden trap doors that had entire libraries of ancient playboy, hustler, and misc porno mags in them. Now if a kid wants to look at porn and their parents don't lock everything down, they just go to any of the millions of available sites for it.
THIS. We played outside until someone got beaned by the ball because it was too dark to see
We would dissappear to the sand dunes for the entire day in Florida. We knew about stranger danger and always traveled in no more or less than 3 of us. Cousins always lived close and your best friend was less than two streets away. The old folks on the block kept an eye on us and had all the kids house phone numbers.
Load More Replies...except for the porn part, I do identify with going everywhere without our parents knowing. At age 6 I would jump in one of those 4 wheels motorcycles, driven by either the 13 year old neighbor, or the 11 year old one, and we would go several blocks away from where I live, while parents sat at home watching tv thinking we were just hanging out at our neighbor's patio. Growing up with two older siblings, with just a couple years of difference, I also miss that feeling of being the first to come back home after playing outside, and just listening to the silence, that feeling of calm and peace, and the smell of my house, or should I say, lack thereof because it didn't smell like nothing to me, compared to the smell of other houses, or just the outside world with the smoke of the cars, or other stuff.
A propos - I remember when Playboy was hot stuff - really Over-the-Top porno. My Dad bought it and actually read the articles, monthly Interview, and good short fiction. He asked the (one and only) Library if they could stock it in with Time and Newsweek, etc, and they frosted him right out the door. So, he bought a subscription in the name of the Library, then asked at a City Council meeting why his donation wasn't presented in the racks? Gutsy.
Of course I appreciated the pictures, but Playboy used to have a lot of really good articles. There were many issues in which I read every article.
Load More Replies...I still try to do this with my kids. When they go out, I just ask them to keep their phone on. I don't care if they call. I just want for them to be available. Other than that, they can go where they want. They're tough kids. I don't worry.
my district was like it's own village, so i grew up unsupervised outside exploring and not feeling in danger
I wish the first thing would come back, people are to overbearing now days. The second thing going away was a good thing.
During the summer, when I was a kid, we'd be told "in or out". This was before the age of AC and homes were built to trap cold air in/warm air out (fan in the attic, fan in the basement, drapes, etc. You then chose a side of the screendoor - outside or stay in the house. The screendoor was then locked until lunch. If you needed a drink, you used the hose. If you needed the bathroom, you knocked and mom/dad let you in but you were stuck until lunch. If you chose "out", you hung out with the neighborhood kids with not a parent caring what you did until someone's parent yelled out a doorway a meal was ready or you had to go get someone for a broken bone/skinned,knee/bicycle stuck in a tree. Our kidnap prevention was 8 kids between the age of 3-14 telling them to go away.
Oh! How I loved it when we can go anywhere as kids. We would usually ride our bikes exploring our village. On a good day, we would bring a lot of food in our backpacks and climb the village wall that leads to a vast farm land. We would walk and sing feeling like we're Tom Sawyer and Huck Finn! We climbed trees, crossed creeks and found new friends! We just needed to make sure that we're all back by dinner and our parents wouldnt mind. They actually encouraged going out to play even when we had playstations and gameboys. One of our friend got his gameboy whacked by his father just because he got addicted playing and won't go out to play with us. lol
I think youth do understand mundane things like landline phones and B/W TVs, but I don't think they understand how different the life felt back then. I'd say mobile phones and Internet caused the change somewhere in 2000-2005. We went from unconnected to always connected.
The world back then felt much slower. The days that were simply boring and nothing to do were super common. Today? I can't remember when I was previously really bored. Everything is so available and entertaining.
I also remember how small the world felt. Like, there's your family, guys at work, relatives and that's about it. Someone might have had a pen pal. You couldn't follow your idols, instead you just imagined how they were through their work and perhaps a poster.
Personally I'm super glad that I got the change to see both worlds.
Boredom is good though, it stimulates the brain to be more creative. We need more boredom these days. The constant stream of stimulation shortens your attention span and has other negative effects. I was born in 1990 and would give anything to go back to the days we were not constantly connected to everyone and everything. I want the slow days back. That peace was something else.
I think us millenials are lucky in a sense that we are the last generation that got to experience the life and world before the internet but also were there from the beginning of it and have seen its evolution. I think the technology has never advanced as quickly and probably never will again (quantum computers might prove me wrong)
My parents had a rule - "if you say you're bored, I'll find something to do." It was always a nasty irregular chore like clean the gutters. If you were just laying around staring at the ceiling, same thing happened. If you could explain what you are thinking about, things were cool. Flights of fancy like what it would feel like to become a frog were fine. If you didn't have a good explanation, off to wash the dog. Taught us to have busy hands and busy minds. A 20 minute mental journey across the 7 seas saved you from cleaning grout because you said "Nothing". The sneaky thing - it taught me think about other things when doing mundane tasks. I worked out how to ask out my first date over mowing lawns and had the eureka for my thesis while helping a friend paint a bedroom. My favorite tasks are ones that challenge me both physically and mentally at the same time.
I would personally like to go back to that slower friendly world - we seem to be afraid of everything now days. We had people we knew by name who had keys to our houses come in and read meters put your milk in the fridge! you do that now and you are asking for trouble!
Never bored? Wait until you are really old and your world shrinks to four walls....especially in a lockdown pandemic world.
Didn't know that The Wizard of Oz started and ended in black and white, but was colour in the middle until 1987
I was previously very bored yesterday. All it did was make me anxious that I couldn't find anything to do.
People had hobbies more often, things that people get made fun of for now. I have so many hobbies that I never am bored.
Getting in your vehicle and driving to your friends house to see if they were home. No cell phones, gas was cheap. Driving was freedom.
I had to walk uphill both ways. In the snow.
Load More Replies...You could have still called them on a rotary phone to find out if they were home.
We walked. No cars or bikes couldn't afford a bike and only three cars in the avenue of sixty houses
I miss not knowing where anyone was on a Friday night. You just had to drive around to all the regular spots looking for your friends. You didn't always find them but sometimes you met other cool people and had other adventures. There's less chance for serendipity when everyone knows where everyone is 24/7.
When I was a teen in the mid 90s growing up in NW London, whatever we were doing, everyone would end up at a particular bakery as it was the only one open at 2am to get beigels. Then we would see all the other people we know. It was a mass gathering every Saturday night. Was a lot of fun
For me, the hobby shop was the big hang-out. They sold bicycles, too.
Load More Replies...That was the best! Cruising around And looking for parties.
We used to congregate at the roller drome then mosey on down to the tasty treat to meet friends who went other places then we would compare notes!
I get the sentiment. But my friends and I always said where to meet up before school ended on Friday.
Having to call your best friend on a landline and the ensuing anxiety that:
A. Their mom might answer. B. They might not be home and who the hell knows where they are?! C. Nobody answers and how long do I wait to call back???
The worst is when you called a landline looking for a friend and mum answered. "Is Jim there?", you ask. "No, he told me he was out with you today. I wonder where he's gone and who he's with?". You instantly know you're friend is about to be grounded forever the second he returns home. Sorry, dude.
I had a single rotary-dial landline until 1980. Then pushbutton! Wow! No portable phones.
Girl: "Hello! Is Bob there?" Voice: "Yes!" Girl: "Oh my I can't wait to see you tonight! Imagine all the things I'm gonna do to you!!" Voice: "I think you want my son..." Dad & I are both named Bob and oddly enough, I sounded like my Dad even at 16! LOL Talk about a red-faced girlfriend!
You call your best friend and they are already on the line because they just happened to call you at the same time; no ring or dial tone is heard on either end!
Or you talk to your friend on the only house phone so long the operator has to cut in and tell you to open the line!
Hehe, we, my older brother and I, had another thing going on when our friends (different gangs as he is 3 years my senior) called - our voices, to this day, sound very, very similar so it happened often that one of us picked up the phone, saying "Hi", and the friend would start to rant out / talk about whatever was going on at school, with the girls etc. just to be interrupted, "Sorry, that's a nice story, but I guess you want to talk to my bro". Good and sometimes awkward way to find out what was going on in our lives.
Calling your bestfriend was ok because parents knew you. Imagine to call THAT girl that you met just a couple of time and she gave her phone number. And of course could only be her home phone number - and you can bet your a** that her parents would respond and you had to explain them who you was and why you wanted to talk to her daugher...
When I was a wee lass, you were a stalker or needy if you called someone you liked more than twice in the same day. Now, if you get someone's voicemail or text them and they don't reply in a timely manner, you think they hate you.
Putting the empty glass milkbottles outside your door at night to have the new ones delivered in the morning.
we used to have weird plastic coins to pay for these, and they came on a plastic stick. The idea is that the coins can only be used for that. Also, the lid was a thin aluminium that birds sometimes pecked through to get the cream.
Don't forget the fabric softener lids so the birds didn't eat the cream off the new milk in the morning!!
This is a lovely memory, but also one where I first understood the need for change. I grew up in a very hot city, and in summer, by the time we retrieved the bottles from the front porch, they were often sour. Milk in cartons in the supermarket was a huge change societally, but a positive one for us.
Putting out the billy can (metal container with a tight fitting lid) to have it filled and the coins to pay for it.
Leaving school and having absolutely no idea what happened to school friends. No idea what they looked like now, where they lived, what they did for a living, whether they were married, whether they had kids. Nothing at all. After leaving school it was 20+ years later before I knew any of this stuff.
You saw them once every 10 years, if you and they went to your school reunion.
All the Christmas specials were on once a year and if you missed them, you didn’t see them for a year.
Better than repeating the SAME special for 7699886453745 times until your sick of seeing the special-
Dad recorded all the ones he could find on a 6-hr VHS tape, so we pulled that out once a year and could watch specials whenever we wanted during the holiday season.
When a tv show new season started around back to school and ended around the start of summer break; unlike the 3 month seasons of today. Around back to school was a Sunday night special that gave intro's and clips of all the tv shows for the new season. We kids waited anxiously for the cartoon section of the show
Driving down the road and seeing the sparkling brown innards of a cassette tape that had been eaten by someone's tape deck in their car strung at least two blocks long. God, I hated ejecting my cassette and seeing the tape still inside.
You got that right, and there's nothing more irritating.
Load More Replies...I remember my dad carefully, painstakingly fixing tapes. He might have to take out a song, but at least the rest was intact.
I was only little but I remember the cassette player eating my favourite story tape of Noggin the Nog 😭
Summer was summer and winter was winter.
So true. As a kid we could count on the first rainfall by October 31st, usually after midnight. Could count on all the ski resorts being open by Thanksgiving with at least a 3’ powder base. Mountains with snow covered peaks 365, people now just don’t realize how bad it has gotten, it’s why a sense of place is so important
Allow 4-6 weeks for delivery
And having to fill out forms by hand, and mail them to the company to place an order!
How much you would argue with your friends about facts that you couldn't easily Google.
I used to love the days of Bullshit stories in the pub from everyone. So entertaining 😆
I always debate clean of browsers. even online and it's so much more fun when you know about a topic to know that someone has an enormous database at their fingertips. I've outwitted people who literally try and back up their claims with their phones in their hands and won, it's so satisfying
If no one in the room knew the answer, you shrugged and moved on.
Being stuck on a toilet for a little bit and reading the shampoo bottles, packages on bars of soap, and whatever else might be within grabbing distance of the toilet.
Not possible when the loo is in it's own little room with a tiny sink and nothing apart from loo roll
A phone book where the names are listed in alphabetical order…by last name. Before plastic bottles took off for beer and soda pop everything was bottled in glass. There was broken glass everywhere. Moms wee always yelling about watching out for broken glass.
You could take glass bottles back for money, always good for pocket cash!
And glass bottles are better for the environment to, glass breaks down back to sand, plastic breaks down to micro plastics that slowly poison us all.
And there was an entire industry about returning and recycling those bottles. My school had fund-raisers about gathering old Coke bottles, and heated controversy about whether Beer Bottles were suitable for children to gather.
In a bar or on a party you could dance on the table, piss drunk, pants on you knees, helicoptering your wiener. The next morning categorically deny that it ever happened and no one, absolutely no one could ever show you video on their phone that it did happen... Damn...those were the days.
... helicoptering your wiener was a thing back then? Man, and I thought I am a weirdo ... I'm just outdated, that's all.
I think that's been a thing ever since pèníses...
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Drive-in restaurants with car hops. A line of parking places under a canopy. Each had a speaker. They brought the food on a tray that attached to the driver’s open window. Dad ate off the tray. Mom opened the glove box and used the door for a tray. It had little indentations for cups. The kids just ate off their laps.
We could have eaten inside, sitting at a table, or taken the food home, but this was more fun.
I don't think to was a thing in Australia, but I might be wrong if anyone knows better.
Only seen this on tv and films. Even if we'd had them, we wouldn't have gone...cost money
Having people have no idea where you are or what you are doing.
I'd say it won't be the same as back then it was totally ok and no one expected otherwise. That's something i miss.
Load More Replies..."Forget" the cellphone at home and disappear for a couple of hours. I do that sometimes.
When I lived with parents and used their Honda C50 (and later my Kawasaki GT550) I would call my mum to let her know if I would be out after 10pm. Also when going camping, phone to say I'd arrived and when I was leaving. I was laughed at when 16, but I was the only one of my group with transport, trust and freedom.
When you didn’t want to pause the movie for too long because you were worried about the tape getting ruined. “Be kind. Rewind” Simply being limited to what is on the radio or your tape/cd collection
A few things I remember as a kid in the 70's: getting our first microwave getting a VHS player and actually being able to watch movies at home. getting an Atari 2600 and being able to play games at home We had a party line. Would not recommend. 411 for directory assistance Having a number to call for time and temp we only had an antenna and could get 3 channels (NBC, ABC and a fuzzy CBS, if the weather was okay)
Seriously, a microwave, VCR, and Atari in the 70s?!? We could never.
Load More Replies...And telephone "party lines." You shared phone service with other families so if you lifted the receiver to make a call, chances are there was already someone using the line.
I hated that. Our first party line had two or three teenagers, and I was still a grade schooler. On days when I need to call one of my friends about a homework/project - sure enough, they're on the phone. So I had to ask my Mom to talk to them so I can use the phone (I was a very painfully shy little girl). The second one we had were much better.
Load More Replies..."Kid in the 70s" means you're Gen X not Boomer! That's it, I'm out. This list is stupidly titled.
Someone born in 1959 would be a boomer, yes? They also would be 13 years old (a kid) in 1972 ("the 70s), yes? Math is hard :-P
Load More Replies...I still remember our time and weather phone! 407-646-3131! That’s the Orlando area. You can still call it.
And the airport in O'do only had 8 gates.
Load More Replies...I think in the sense that, it did not exist to that point.
Load More Replies...Getting booted off the internet if someone picked up the extension in another room, and maaaaybe you could reconnect right away, if it wasn't at peak time, and by "right away" I mean at least five minutes later, probably longer. If your sibling made you mad earlier in the day, it was a revenge best served cold.
It took an hour to download an mp3.
Still did for me til a couple of months ago. The up to 19, but more likely 4 speed, was 2 on a good day and down to 0.2 for most of the last few months with that service.
Lol. I remember it taking 3 days to get an episode of Buffy from DC++
Do any of these people even know how old millennials are? We grew up with most of these things.
I think the "Boomers" they asked about this are the same people that see teenagers loitering around and shout about how "those bloody lazy Millennials are on my lawn again!", not realizing we've been adults for over a decade.
Load More Replies...As an older millennial, I recognise the majority of these from my childhood. This is a "Gen X and Millenial" list. If it was boomers it would be more like "I remember steam trains and getting messages by telegram".
I'm a younger millennial entering my 30's but I remember most of these... My brother is younger millenial and he does too...
Load More Replies...FIX THE ARTICLE TITLE. I only made it five down the list before realising I really need a shortcut button for "Gen X and Millennial's also did this because the thing that replaced it came out in the 1990s!". Even the thumbnail - Gen X definitely had to rewind tapes with a pencil because that was still a thing long into the late 80s when CDs came along, which means older Millennials will at least have SEEN it being done in their early childhood. PLEASE for the love of sanity, learn to define the generational gaps correctly.
Or better yet - stop these articles about generational issues completely. Everything is changing, constantly, all the time, for the better or the worse - there is next to nothing one generation could really "claim" solely for themselves. And what is the purpose of it anyway? If you want to get into a nostalgic mood, why do not name these lists "Who else also remembers these things?" or something like that - why do we always have to put certain groups of people up against each other?
Load More Replies...Fix the title, millennials are in their 30s now. We grew up with most of these things.
It seems some people still think Millennials were born in 2000. The name and birth years of the generation are defined by when they reach adulthood (18-21), not by when they are born. Millennials were born between 1981 and 1996. They grew up with most of the stuff on this list.
I, uhm, still think 2000 was ten years ago. Actually, the late 90s were 10 years ago.
Load More Replies...GenXer here, born in 67. All but two of these are things we went through, not just Boomers.
Don't take this the wrong way - I think they might be including you in the "older people" bit. *cringe. I wouldn't but gen z isn't the newest generation on the planet anymore...
Load More Replies...There is literally nothing on this list that Generation X doesn't understand.
Do any of these people even know how old millennials are? We grew up with most of these things.
I think the "Boomers" they asked about this are the same people that see teenagers loitering around and shout about how "those bloody lazy Millennials are on my lawn again!", not realizing we've been adults for over a decade.
Load More Replies...As an older millennial, I recognise the majority of these from my childhood. This is a "Gen X and Millenial" list. If it was boomers it would be more like "I remember steam trains and getting messages by telegram".
I'm a younger millennial entering my 30's but I remember most of these... My brother is younger millenial and he does too...
Load More Replies...FIX THE ARTICLE TITLE. I only made it five down the list before realising I really need a shortcut button for "Gen X and Millennial's also did this because the thing that replaced it came out in the 1990s!". Even the thumbnail - Gen X definitely had to rewind tapes with a pencil because that was still a thing long into the late 80s when CDs came along, which means older Millennials will at least have SEEN it being done in their early childhood. PLEASE for the love of sanity, learn to define the generational gaps correctly.
Or better yet - stop these articles about generational issues completely. Everything is changing, constantly, all the time, for the better or the worse - there is next to nothing one generation could really "claim" solely for themselves. And what is the purpose of it anyway? If you want to get into a nostalgic mood, why do not name these lists "Who else also remembers these things?" or something like that - why do we always have to put certain groups of people up against each other?
Load More Replies...Fix the title, millennials are in their 30s now. We grew up with most of these things.
It seems some people still think Millennials were born in 2000. The name and birth years of the generation are defined by when they reach adulthood (18-21), not by when they are born. Millennials were born between 1981 and 1996. They grew up with most of the stuff on this list.
I, uhm, still think 2000 was ten years ago. Actually, the late 90s were 10 years ago.
Load More Replies...GenXer here, born in 67. All but two of these are things we went through, not just Boomers.
Don't take this the wrong way - I think they might be including you in the "older people" bit. *cringe. I wouldn't but gen z isn't the newest generation on the planet anymore...
Load More Replies...There is literally nothing on this list that Generation X doesn't understand.
