50 Things That Are Obvious To People In Certain Professions, But The General Public Often Fails To Grasp
Often, people without knowledge of a certain field are the first to talk about it. Their unfounded statements can become a danger to those who fall for them unconditionally. Especially at the time of social media where rumors spread like wildfire. That is how myths are born, and that is why you should take everything with a grain of salt.
These legends range from absurd to pretty believable, so they have to be debunked by a professional. Thankfully, representatives of different careers often share valuable insight into their industries. Here at Bored Panda, we have combed through Reddit and compiled a list of their statements. Scroll through and feel free to disparage any misconceptions about your job in the comments section.
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Do Not Resuscitate does not mean I am going to kill MaMaw. It means that if it is her time to die, as evidenced by her lack of a pulse or breathing, I do not break all her ribs in an attempt to keep her alive which will, likely fail because she is 30kg and demented with stage IV lung CA with mets to her bones and brain.
💯 Also pumping people full of morphine and other drugs when they're coming towards the end of their life does not kill them quicker. It means the person gets to pass away comfortably and without pain or agitation.
100% and at a persons end of life - do not worry about them becoming addicted to the pain meds.
Load More Replies...Nowadays people are too removed from death and suffering so they have unlearned how to deal with it. Death is part of being alive. It's unavoidable. And there ARE things worse than death. It's better to die with dignity at a reasonable time then suffering slowly and inhumanly until you are an artificial inflating piece of meat that's only semi-alive on a technicality.
It can be a difficult subject to discuss, but it’s important!! Talk to your spouse or loved ones about what you want if you become a “vegetable”, so at what point enough is enough for you. Because when the time comes, you may not be able to voice your wishes.
Don't just talk to them . Get it in writing, what you do or do not want done. Get it Notorized. Make it legal , binding. No wiggle room. My Aunt didn't do this , my cousin did what she wanted . Get it in a legal document, can't stree this enough. Would have saved so much anger,pain.
Load More Replies...I broke my Grandad's ribs trying to resuscitate him. He wasn't sick or fail, it was a heart attack. And I would do it again if it would bring him back, but the sound and that feeling as I was pushing on his chest is the most disturbing thing of my life.
Yeah, it's not like on TV. If you're doing it right, broken ribs are very possible.
Load More Replies...Glad this is #1. DNR means just that. If I stop breathing you don't initiate steps to get me to breathe again. At a point resuscitation could do more harm than good (IMO). Shattered ribs, brain damage, etc. It doesn't mean euthanasia or assisted suicide. Think of like saying, "If I die, allow me to stay dead."
Also, at least in the USA, DNR is something the patient chose. Or in some cases the guardian.
Well stated. I'm a retired 30 yr fire paramedic and I hated when families didn't get this taken care of prior to a loved one passing. We break every bone in their chest, fill them full of chemicals and shove tubes in their throat and veins. It is horrible when we lose a loved one, it's even worse when we know nothing will change their outcome and family wants nothing less than "Do everything you can " Sometimes the greatest treatment is none at all!
Vaccines prevent diseases. - a nurse
Could be because they lack education and understanding of basic facts re. viruses, diseases and vaccines. However, their mind needs answers. But instead of going to reliable sources, they watch s****y antivaxx videos on youtube. It's easier than studying molecular biology.
Load More Replies...Exactly. I notice he left out how they help protect other people, too.
Load More Replies...100% agree. And I'm saying that with a 102F fever after getting my 4th booster today. Whatever's in the vaccine, my body reacts very strongly to it. I still get it anyway. Better to feel like c**p for a day than die or feel like c**p for a lifetime.
The fever is evidence of your immune system creating an appropriate response.
Load More Replies..."And no vaccine works 100% of the time forever because viruses are constantly mutating. You can still fatally infect a fully vaccinated person if you catch and pass on a new version of the virus to them."
Yes. Thank you. So many people don't even know how vaccines work in the first place, then question vaccines, as if they are some kind of an expert. The covid vaccine unquestionably prevents serious illness. Take me and my ex-husband. Both close to the same age, mid 40s. Neither of us had any serious health problems before catching covid. I was vaccinated, and barely got sick. He's unvaccinated, spent five days in the hospital, and now has long covid. These are not similar outcomes, but vaccine deniers love to act like we both came out of it OK, because we are both alive. It is a stunning level of ignorance I hope to never see again in my life.
Load More Replies...And yet, every year there's an issue with nurses that won't get their flu vac.
Do they really? People say, "Oh, I have the flu," but they don't. The real flu is orders of magnitude worse than "the flu" .
Load More Replies...That is not actually accurate. A vaccine, if it works correctly, is the equivalent of dipping your toe in water to test the temperature. It does not prevent disease. It stimulates your immune system in preparation for full immersion (infection) so it is prepared. You still get infected but you are ready for it. Knowing the water is cold doean't mean it is suddenly warm when you jump in, you are just ready for it. For others who don't understand, flu viruses are the most highly adaptable and mutatable viruses on the planet. Every time a flu virus encounters an obstacle it runs the chance of mutating. Over vaccinating and over medicating both cause mutations. There is no more efdective way of slowing mutation than natural immunity.
Oceanographer here. Climate change is a thing, and we are causing it. We can see the effects. I have literally gone to coral reefs that have bleached and the reason is because the ocean has become more acidic. We did that.
Respectfully, get your heads out of your asses.
And yet the people who can actually do something don’t because they can’t see through their stacks of money.
They can see, but they don't care, which is even worse.
Load More Replies...How about starting to put the blame where it ACTUALLY belongs. It is not the family down the street that uses plastic straws... it is the corporations that are dumping TONNES of c**p into our environment then blaming the gum wrapper on the sidewalk.
Why is this getting downvoted? UPVOTE THIS PERSON.
Load More Replies...Get them out and start fighting back against the almost comedically evil corporations causing the overwhelming majority of pollution. Even if every single person on Earth were singularly carbon neutral it would not stop hardly any actual pollution. Personal responsibility is a great step, but don't allow corporations to make you think you're responsible for stopping pollution individually. Industry is, was, and always has been the greatest polluter. Maybe I'm a terrible optimist, but I still believe we can come together and make a difference.
I think most people deep down do believe it they just don't want to admit it because a- it means they have caused it, b- they need to make changes to the way they live prevent it and c- they don't think they will make a difference on their own so no point but fail to remember that everyone is thinking that and if we all made changes together they would have an impact.
True... unfortunately overpopulation is still not seen as one of the biggest causes for that... think this one through for once please.
Dogs understand Always and Never. If you have a rule that they can't beg for table scraps, get on the couch or jump on people but you let them do it occasionally, they will never understand why you correct or yell at them. Also, if you hire a dog trainer please remember that about 80% of the training is directed toward the owner and 20% toward the dog. We just tend to say it in a way so as not to offend you. Some people just cannot fathom that THEY need the training and that dogs will simply follow suit.
And dogs need constant training. Don't send them to obedience school for 2 weeks and expect them to never misbehave again. It's constant reinforcement.
Yep, it is ongoing. You never stop. I have a very messed up rescue and it's taken me years to get to the point where he can be walked normally around the village, some need slow steps. He was that damaged. We also got attacked by dogs on two separate incidences which prolonged things. So don't give up on them either, they will get there but they can be traumatised too. Training shows on TV can make it look simpler than it really is (most shows pick the ones where they know it's the humans who are messing up - makes better TV).
Load More Replies...This makes me think of Jackson Galaxy and 'My Cat From Hell'. The majority of the training is for the cats' parents. Most of it is common sense but the people involved are clueless. The cats are just responding to the behavior of their parents.
And sometimes it's even simpler, just a change in the environment, a new litter box, a few more hiding spots, a scratching tree that's actually designed for zhe cat's needs and not just for looks... But that's still educating the owner I guess
Load More Replies...Dogs understand much more than always and never. Dogs get patterns and a wide variety of rules. My dog can jump on me almost anytime. The one time she can't is when I'm dressed for work in the morning. Dressed for work in the afternoon is free game, I don't care anymore. She never makes a mistake there. And I don't even yell, let alone any other punishment if she did make a mistake, she's not afraid of me. She also doesn't jump on others, especially not on my kid. So many other examples of patterns, even including dogs who aren't mine (we dog sit), and who know very well what works differently with different people.
Dogs do recognise clothes, I've found. Mine know the ones I tend to wear when going for a walk and get very excited. Totally agree with you about yelling. Speaking firmly is fine, you don't need to shout and scare them or punish them. Reward good behaviour and ignore bad. Dogs love us and want to please us.
Load More Replies...I think one big problem is that people interpret their dogs behaviour with a human in mind. They attribute a lot of their own feelings to their dog and instead of learning what their fogs behaviour actually means they interpret it in their own way. Too many dog owners still think their dogs barking at them and jumping at them means excitement and happiness. They interpret it as enthusiastic greeting when in reality it's frustration and anger because the human doesn't do what the dog wants them to do. I once saw a documentary about a family that runs a huge cat and dog pension. And the woman was a veterinarian and pet psychologist. They also offered courses for fog and cat owners. And she said that many dogs don't even have a close connection to their owners because those owners don't really work with them. So as soon as they see the group of other dogs, the owner is forgotten. But many cats have very close relationships with their owners and really suffer when they're gone.
Honestly, I feel this way about all animals. Every single scientist out there judges the animals they're studying by human standards, and I'll never get over how stupid that is. I swear, acting like humans are the baseline standard for everything is going to bite us in the a*s in the future.
Load More Replies...My fur babies. Even if caught in the act (that I don't like), I can't be mad for more than 3 seconds. ☺️
To be fair. Consequenes should be fast and after that you have to train for the future. There is no sense in being mad for something for a long time since punishment needs to be connected to the act.
Load More Replies...We humans need to learn how to communicate our wants in a way dogs understand and most will then do their best to comply. We also need to learn how to communicate our wants to our feline owners and why it's something they want to do so they might comply.
Re: Cats. I've heard that even if you discourage a behavior the vast majority of the time, if a cat "gets away" with something (even a few times), s/he will test that boundary forever to see if they can get away with it again. Interesting ...
Cats are far more trainable than most people believe. It's not easy and requires a lot more nuance and persistence than dog training, and some cats are just pure stubborn, but it can be done. I can't bear the people who allow cats to walk all over their kitchen surfaces. Blech.
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If the service you're receiving is free, then you are the product.
They need to be told repeatedly because they either don't know or have forgotten.
Load More Replies...True, but don't care. Not when it is stuff like listening to / viewing an ad. This has been the norm since old timey sponsored radio shows. Just don't be stupid about giving out a ton of extra information in exchange for a few pennies.
Ads are fine, I agree, (especially since they tend to bounce off my skull like pebbles). The biggest thing to watch out for nowadays is data harvesting, which is a thing with most social media. TikTok has copped a lot of flak for sending vast amounts of data to China, but the truth is the vast majority of social media apps are quietly harvesting everything from keystrokes to location data and sending it to agencies and advertisers alike.
Load More Replies...Sorry, I don't get the Princess Bride thing. Can someone help me out?
Load More Replies...As a CNA caregiver for the elderly, I'm not just responsible for your loved one, but likely 10 or so others. Im sorry if you or your mom had to wait 15 minutes for me to come, but that doesn't mean I was slacking. I was with another person or maybe 5 that called before you. We are underpaid and under staffed, I'm trying my best to help everyone, -not- just one person. Im not a personal caregiver. Just wish people knew, they get mad and I understand, but I work my butt off and sometimes don't even take my break to help and then get told why'd it take so long.
Thank you so much for performing a difficult job! My mom had the best CNAs, they really cared and did a great job caring for her. Unfortunately when her short term memory started going, she began complaining about waiting an hour or more after she pushed her button for someone to come help her. At first we thought it was due to the worker shortage, but I made a point of spending full days in her apartment and watching how things worked, and the longest mom waited was 16 minutes. I was sooooo glad I didn't complain to anyone before evaluating the issue.
That's something for everyone to remember, when someone has dementia their perceptions get skewed. They also lose abstract concepts like time and distance. So you need to look into their complaints to verify the truth before taking action.
Load More Replies...More power to you, support workers/care givers and nurses are run ragged with little to no thanks. My husbands a support worker, it can take a toll on him mentally, for Christmas he had a £10 Amazon gift voucher, his brother makes pastry in a large factory he got a food/meat hamper worth over £200 and a £100 bonus. People in your profession are under staffed and underpaid. Also you are on the frontline so get all the hassle from people. I was once at the hospital with one of my children I can't remember what for now it was some years back, we were in the waiting area our daughter was on the soft play mat sleeping using one of our jumpers as a pillow, another man who's child had a room and was tucked up in bed asleep kept coming and harassing the nurse at the paediatric reception he started getting Meaner and meaner and this poor nurse just broke down in tears. I was on the edge of my seat ready to kick off but my husband was begging me not to. I thank you for your service.
God Bless CNAs!! A nurse is only as good as their CNA. They definitely do not get the respect or the pay they deserve.
Came here to say this! CNA pay where I live is atrocious
Load More Replies...Nearby care home had so much trouble with staffing that local tech school bought them out... now staffed by pros and students in nursing programs. All dedicated to giving quality care. Not enough words to adequately express my appreciation for CNAs. Y'all rock.
Being a CNA or PCA is HARD. Physically, mentally, and emotionally. Some carers do become jaded, and yes some are out right evil, but most got into the profession to help others. Imagine being in a position where most people you take care of is going to die, and you're likely to be getting screamed at by their family at the same time. It. Is. So. Hard. Source: I was a PCA for 6 years.
I've never forgotten the first time I showed up to a client's home for the day and had to call the medical examiner's office to come and get them. And it never got easier.
Load More Replies...This is so sad, but reflects on selfish we are as a society. It happens to everybody: waiters, shopkeepers, flight attendants, plumbers, IT service desk, any service desk and call centre really. And what saddens me it that we are not teaching our children that it's OK to wait, it's normal and expectable, people do not have to be at our beck and call.
When I worked as a CNA there was 20 residents to a floor and 2 CNA's with an LPN or TMA for meds, it was awful
As a retired RN I must say I have dearly LOVED many CNAs or nurse asssistants.They often perform a thankless job, very physically demanding and underpaid. Plus they must care for the sick and infirm, which can be emotionally draining. I support any legislation to increase minimum wage!!
The ones that looks after my mother were saints. She was a nasty mean person all her life but as she got old she got vicious and aggressive
Turning it off and on again actually does fix a great deal of problems.
If you work for a company with a dedicated in house IT department you will get a better response time if they know you have already unplugged and restarted everything before you contact them. Bonus points for whacking the back of the janky printer. My one office mate could never understand why IT responded to my calls immediately but left her hanging for days when a program wouldn't load properly. (Hint: having 15 open Internet Explorer browsers might be slowing your shlt down and IT is not there to teach you how to close them for the umpteenth time)
Usually. But then I've had IT tell me to restart, and I have to respond, "Look at my original email, I already restarted it, and have tried x, y, and z." Really iratates me when people don't read, and the answer to their question has already been said
Load More Replies...Same goes for people. The saying "never go to sleep mad" is straight BS. If you are able to fall asleep the next day you are less fired up and able to process an issue more logically.
Definitely. Once you sleep on something that gets you mad, it normally loses its potency. Case in point, whenever my partner says something that riles me up, I sleep on it. Oh so mad about it but I keep my mouth shut. 9/10 times it doesn't even matter the next day. Glad I stopped believing in that saying!
Load More Replies...Love this. Let's not overthink and overcomplicate this. Let it be exactly what it is; it applies for so many things.
Keep it simple stupid, and quickly get to the point. Never give too much information to the person helping fix things.
Load More Replies...I trained as a broadcast / electronics engineer. A basic lesson was, if it's not working, give it a whack. This dislodges dust, resets connections, etc.. Nice and easy,
In the case of Windows PCs, you need to restart, rather than switch off and on. Restarting clears caches and reloads files which doesn't (always) happen with a turn off and on.
Fast Startup (Windows 8 and above) is able to be turned off in user settings. You have to manually turn it off.
Load More Replies...True for trains too! Though then again modern trains have a lot of computers in them.
I'm in forestry: more trees does not make a healthier forest. Healthy, well spaced trees with inconsistencies make a healthy forest. Yes, it's necessary to remove trees to improve the quality of habitat and lower risk of wildfire. No, we are not all money hungry tree murderers.
I really like the phrase “I’m in forestry”. Specific enough to let me know what they deal with, but slightly vague enough to make me hope that they’re a level 10 half-elf Druid who can shape change into a dire bear at any given moment
There's a school of Forestry at Northern Arizona University.
Load More Replies...This is so true, especially after years of incorrectly thinking we needed to stamp out every wildfire as quickly as possible. The resulting forests no longer have their natural resistance to super-hot fires which are impossible to stop and kill everything in their wake.
Really? Not stopping a forest fire is better For the forest?
Load More Replies...Speaking of good quality habitat, controlled burns are in fact a good thing! Been used in farming for ages. Not all fires are a bad thing.
Yes ! A lot of forest grows better after a recovery from the forest fire.
Load More Replies...I don't think this is true. Forests have existed long time before humans arrived (for example in North America as late as 15-30 thousand years ago) and forests have been doing just fine without us. In general, nature doesn't need our help for anything. Forests left to themselves have dead trees and branches. Birds nest in the holes, insects live in the dead wood, mushrooms break down the wood over time so everything is recycled. Forestry is a business in many places and sustainable foresting means you plant trees to replace the ones you fell (unlike mindlessly wiping out rain forests). In some cases managed forests provide poor ecosystems for animals. In more advanced foresting, you take into account restoring the ecosystem, so you take and give back.
Thanks Fox, well said. This is one of those systems that humans think is easy to figure out, but its a system much bigger than the minds of a few scientists. True fact: the climax species in our Redwood forests is Hemlock. If that forest is left to itself for over a thousand years or so, it becomes a Hemlock forest. Hemlock saplings can live under a canopy of Redwood, but not the other way around. Anyway, nature takes care of itself completely naturally if left alone. Forestry serves to achieve its specific goals, which is fine, but we shouldn't think those goals are to try to strictly adhere to those of Mother Nature.
Load More Replies...Also, SOME wildfires are essential for forest growth. It cleans debris, helps smaller trees have more sunlight to grow, and can help the soil. But only CONTROLLED man-made fires are okay when there's no wildfires. You can't be less careful with camp/bonefires because it helps, because it doesn't unless it's controlled.
The Native American's would do controlled burns to clear away forestry to prevent forest fires. Meanwhile California today refuses to allow that, which is why they get massive forest fires from all the woodland debris and high density of trees.
Not just California. Fires up here in Washington are getting worse too
Load More Replies...Tree thinning is important but maintaining diversity is equally important. Forestry unfortunately are motivated to plant what they consider to be useful trees and this ruins the biodiversity. For an interesting take on this, look up Suzanne Simard. She started in foresty then became a botanist and mycologist. She has made some mind boggling discoveries about the interactions of trees and fungi
Everything is a chemical. No, natural does not mean it's safe or better
I roll my eyes when I see a commercial says, "And it's all natural so you know it has to be good!" Horse poop is all natural.
Let's not forget "non GMO modified". Little do most folks know but that's been happening for over a hundred years.
Load More Replies..."I only eat things that grow naturally from the earth." [Tops salad with death cap mushrooms.]
Toss in some deadly nightshade, hemlock and poison oak and you got a great sandwich from Morticia Addams.
Load More Replies...Anything natural can be toxic. Skunk spray is natural, but I wouldn't wanna wear it as perfume.
I wish my dogs had that attitude about the skunks...
Load More Replies...This is what I tell my mom every time she frets about something having a "chemical" that is manmade.
When someone says it's natural/organic, I always reply "so is hemlock"
Lol so true. When people ask me what’s the cleanest makeup 🤦🏼♀️basically none, clean is a marketing word in the US
There is absolutely no aspect of shoeing a horse that hurts it. We’ve been shoeing horses for around 2000 years now and providing I do everything correctly (which is why we have a 4 year apprenticeship in Britain) our dear quadrupeds won’t feel a thing.
Horseshoes are also available with corrective fit, just like human orthotics, so many horses actually are able to live longer and much more pain-free lives thanks to the shoer.
Indeed. My parent's horse lived to the grand old age of 37, at least in part because of special shoes which stopped him from regularly tripping over his own feet and hurting himself. RIP Boysie - you were a truly special horse in every sense!
Load More Replies...I didn't think orthopaedic shoes would work for me, but I stand corrected.
Load More Replies...Not a horse or a farrier but I was a horse owner and have stood by while the farrier did his job. The horse was absolutely fine with it and I loved my horse dearly. Also - when it comes to cruelty the opposite can be true. With so many places paved these days, riding WITHOUT horse shoes can be hard on their hooves. Can chips them up / damage them.
yes, i was raised with horses and always interacted with our farriers and so much of the time the horse would nod off,leaning waaay too much on the gent! then a firm elbow to the gut woke them up!! ☺so,yeah, no pain at all, mostly boredom for the animal.
Load More Replies...It’s hilarious that people out there throw a fuss about this. Watch the hoofers. They don’t restrain the horse or use a crush like is used for cows. If the horse was hurt by this process, the hoofer is the one at risk to get seriously hurt.
I don't know much about horses, but my recollection is the horse kinda gives his hoof to the farrier and chills out. I would imagine a fearful horse could easily kick everyone in the vicinity to death.
Load More Replies...I wish more people would understand this. I keep seeing comments on horseshoeing videos like "poor horse" and "omg. I'm going to call SPCA on you for burning that horse with a hot iron." Horses are very strong and weigh a ton or two, or more if they're drafts. If they really are in pain a farrier is not going to be able to keep a horse from kicking and bolting. It's not the same as branding, which I absolutely despise. When a farrier takes that red hot shoe it's to make sure the hoof is molded to fit the shoe. If anything is off the horse will not feel balanced with the shoes on and can cause injuries or the shoe eventually falling off. The hoof is basically a large, very thick nail. There's no feeling there. It would be like us getting our nails clipped.
You know how much weight a ton is right? Even the largest draft horse in recorded history wasn't 2 tons.
Load More Replies...If someone pounded nails into my foot it would hurt, therefore nails in a horse’s hoof must hurt him. /s, /sarcasm, @joke just happened, @Iwaskidding.
That's exactly how many people think with, pretty much everything. Proof that not all empathy is good
Load More Replies...My mare always fell asleep when she got shod lol. It's good to go barefoot when you can, but it's not hurting them to have shoes. And a good farrier is worth their weight in gold when you've got a horse with problem feet. Those special shoes may well be the only thing keeping that horse comfortable - and therefore alive. No foot, no horse.
I find it so interesting, also I'm sure if the horses where in pain they wouldn't be so chill while getting their new kicks
It's not always the case, but I have worked long enough in the service industry to know that if you’re somebody that typically gets bad customer service, you're probably a bad customer.
My MIL loved going out to eat. For someone who went to weekly lunches with her old school friends you would think she would have learned how to behave in a restaurant. I hated going to restaurants with her. Between giving the look of "I'm so sorry" to the staff and trying to sneak an extra large tip as we left I was always too anxious to enjoy a meal.
I always tell people: If you want good customer service, you need to know how to be a good customer. Very rarely have I had a bad customer experience. If I am upset, I convey this to the person politely and when they apologize I tell them I know it isn't them but that the situation is frustrating. Almost always I get more than I wanted in return because they appreciate my attitude.
Bad customers get bad service everywhere. If you only get bad customer service at one place, the customer service is likely the problem!
I have been in tech customer service for over 40 years and have seen the quality of customer service/support decline. Recently my DSL phone line went dead. Two different customer support reps at Brightspeed/CenturyLink berated me about having too many wireless devices connected and excessive bandwidth use (all untrue) before even verifying there was a phone line problem. When I finally talked to a rep that noticed there really was a problem it was three days later. It took a lineman half a day to repair the bad phone lines.
My parents live in a rural area, and had this issue. Then a repairman who was very knowledgeable came out and fixed the problem that was in a junction box 5 miles away.
Load More Replies...If it's consistently all the time, maybe a good self-reflection is the remedy.
If you give bad customer service, you're probably a bad customer servicer.
This seems to be getting more common these days too
Load More Replies...I agree and disagree : there’s times where I’ve received bad service, not because I’m a bad customer but purely because the service was bad. Yes there are people that are bad customers that complain over nothing too.
But…as per the statement, do you *typically* get bad service? That’s the point. Bad service happens now and then. If it’s always (typically) happening to you, you’re the problem, not the service.
Load More Replies...I’m a nurse not a servant
Bingo, bingo, bingo! Nurses are like sergeants; unsung leaders who make everybody else look good.
As a nurse for 20+ years I love this description. So true!!
Load More Replies...I've been in the hospital several times and I can say one thing for certain: nurses make things happen. From getting the doctor's attention, making sure you're receiving proper care, to getting you discharged...all of it. Those men and women are in it knee-deep, and yet still have to battle through being under staffed and under paid. It boggles my mind at how so many vital workers in our country (US) are continually overlooked when it comes to pay and support.
If they like you enough, behind the scenes they will fiercely advocate in your behalf. I have seen nurses challenge a doctor’s order and would go around loopholes just to get you the best quality of care and service one can get. Healthcare is a business and also mired with politics. If you are a decent human being your health care team will help you navigate the system which benefits you in the long term. Example, you need to go to long term care. There are open beds from 3 facilities that is offered to you. If you treat your care workers terribly they will not guide you which among them is the best choice. If you are decent, there will be ‘hints’ dropped. In my experience, new and manicured gardens and decor is not indicative of the quality of skills, quantity of supplies and availability of services/ equipment.
Load More Replies...Yes but you also need to help the patients who can NOT help themselves. Husband 24hrs no pain meds/ no water/ no meals (severe aphasia, not able to communicate) stuck him in room and forgot about him. I had to call the administrator to finally get him a meal schedule and I had to "sneak in" his pain meds " we don't have his regular medications for 24-48 hrs" No matter how sick I am ... I will not let that happen again.
I’m so sorry this happened. There are no excuses for this. Bad nurses exist, just like bad doctors, bad police officers, bad accountants, etc. but, I promise you that there are far more that are good-great. We have worked hard to earn our place in society and tend to self regulate. Those that don’t treat their patients well get pushed to do better or out of the profession or to the periphery. Unfortunately, due to shortages, some facilities resort to hiring any warm body with a nursing license.
Load More Replies...Yeah, they aren't the maid, butler, waiter, or anyone the other things that some folks think. Their priority is patient care, not fluffing your pillows (again) when you're perfectly able to do it yourself.
Totally agree. But I can remember getting growled at by a nurse for waiting 2 hours or so for her to come in to check on me after I'd dropped my glasses. (Bed bound after surgery) I didn't think she should have to chase after me when she could be dealing with someone who really needed her help.
We did away with the servant position. (Good thing too). However you still get alot of people who think others are thier servants. Especially waitresses, nurses, cashiers, and house keepers.
Radiographer. People get x-rayed in order of need. Just because you were first in line with your broken pinky doesnt mean that you get served before the skull fracture
Thankfully so! I gladly wait in the ER because I know I’m not that bad, and that someone else who needs it more is getting due attention.
Load More Replies...Went to the ER for bleeding during pregnancy, woman before me loudly let everyone know she was there to try to get her a prescription for Valium because she "might be nervous at some point in the future". She flipped her freaking mind when they took me in before her. 🙄
I was suffering from a kidney stone, waiting to be x-rayed. The radiologist told me they were going to just move me into the hallway for a few minutes because they needed to look at a car crash victim who was hurt pretty badly. I was so doped up they could have rolled me into the gift shop and it would've been ok but even if I was not I understand priorities. I shouted something like, "sure. Hallway sounds good. I'll be right here if you need me."
Many ER/urgent patients are usually in some sort of protective or panic mode and fail to remember or at least digest the concept of triage. My mom went to ER for TPA & there were a few people there before here. Some dude with a broken arm or something like that was throwing a shît fit that he’d been waiting over an hour while two others, including my mom, were taken back before him and shortly after they arrived. He glared at me when I was called back to her bedside. I smiled at him and said, “that lady with chest pains and my mom’s stroke trump your fracture dude. They can’t wait.” He diverted his eyes & silenced himself when he realized what an āss he was being.
I never knew people bitched that much about waiting on X-rays. Frankly, I don't recall having to wait a long time to be concerned about it enough to feel the need to check in.
Realizing that there are often needs greater than your own is something we all need to learn and practice.
People go to the er for broken fingers? Just get a splint. If nothing is sticking out they can't do much else for you anyways...
Former ambulance jockey here. The local hospitals took-em as we brought-em. I didn't track their follow-up reports, but I heard no complaints.
Unless you are taking about my former physician's office. Those bloody people wanted an X-ray when I was perfectly healthy.
How else were they going to bleed your wallet dry?
Load More Replies...Defibrillators don't shock a dead heart back to life like you see in the movies. They shock a irregular BUT STILL BEATING heart into a normal rhythm.
And CPR rarely revives without the defib. You do CPR to pump oxygen around the body until a defibrillator can shock the heart into a normal rhythm.
I beg to differ. #17 statement holds true. Defibrillators try to re set an irregular rhythm to normalcy, together with some pharmacologic interventions.
Load More Replies...Defibbing a person actually stops their heart for a brief moment to get it back into a normal rhythm. Compressions keep blood flowing hoping to get blood and oxygen to the brain long enough for the EMTs and Medics to get there. There are pharmaceutical ways of trying, including epinephrine which is infused via an IV or IO. Good quality chest compressions gives the person a better chance than not. Please learn CPR and how to use an AED, you could very well be the reason someone does survive
As an MD, please let me tell you this right now: If it's gone beeeeeep flatline? After injections, CPR and defib are tried? The heart is not coming back. The muscle is damaged, deprived of oxygen, ditto brain, so please, don't expect the miracles. In real life, it doesn't save people like that.
And unlike on TV, asystole (flatline) cannot be shocked into beating again without some epinephrine being injected, pumped around by CPR, get squiggly lines of activity and then (hopefully) shock it back. But even that, not too likely. Actually, it’s rather unusual to be brought back from a flatline.
Load More Replies...They're basically trying to shock a confused heart back awake, as it were. A stopped heart is whole other can of worms.
Yeah, we decided not to do this to my dad after his cardiac arrest. He was still awake on life support. But more like a child and wanted to hold our hands. The offer to jolt him again with the defib would have given his massive pain and just a few minutes extra. They made him comfortable and slowly took him off support.
I had to explain this to my bonus dad today. I'm not sure he believed me.
I see this factoid being shared everywhere these days and don't understand why they continue to misuse it in movies and TV shows.
Museum security. No I don’t have a gun, I’m here to tell you where the bathrooms are not take a bullet for the monet. No, no one tries to steal the artwork I have to be here because you absolutely will try to touch that million dollar painting with your greasy hands.
Actually, some people DO try to steal the artwork or artifacts. I used to work in a paleontology museum and all the exhibits were reproductions because people constantly stole things. The real bones were safely locked away. And of course, the Mona Lisa has a long history of people stealing it.
True on the Mona Lisa. It likely wouldn't be so famous if it weren't for art theives
Load More Replies...Or they just throw soup and potatoes at the paintings 😒 obviously the general public can only be around prints
I can't believe how horrible some people are. Destroying what other people come to enjoy.
Load More Replies...I was in the Louvre 12 years ago, and parents lifted their 3 year old up to TOUCH a 14th century flemish portrait. Before I could gasp--the security were on it--those things are WIRED people. I just...why?
I used to work in a major London museum and our own guards were not armed, but we had a direct radio link to the local police station who were able to get an armed team on the premises within minutes in the event of a serious security incident. Really huge museums (the ones that are major tourist attractions) are major terrorist targets. You wouldn't believe the amount of anti-terrorism security that goes on in museums. There's a ton of high tech security stuff going on behind the scenes.
Then again, some dumb f***s will try to throw paint on exhibits to "raise awareness". All they do is raise our awareness of what idiots they are.
Those people should go away. Maybe the bottom of the ocean?
Load More Replies...A family I knew took their kids to the Louvre. Someone tried to steal something from the gift shop. The older girl (I think about 8 or 9 year old) asked what the problem was - surely everything there was stolen already. Father found it very funny, but slightly worried who taught them that.
But that painting has a clue which will lead to another clue which could unlock a National Treasure 😆
Anesthesiology: if you eat before your surgery, the chances of you dying or getting badly hurt increase exponentially. Anesthesia makes you more likely to vomit and since you're unconscious you can't prevent your acidic throw up from going into your lungs.
Any vomit in your lungs is a bad thing. There's a reason why you are trained in Red Cross first aid classes to roll an unconscious person on their side, to prevent aspiration of vomit should they begin doing that.
Load More Replies...My mom is a nurse anesthetist. The number of times she has caught people lying about stuff that would literally KILL them if anesthesia were to be given. Lying about fake teeth (could fall out and block airway), lying about drug use (sometimes my mom orders a drug panel and it comes back positive for crazy s**t), lying about eating (literally will kill you). Lying about Rx drugs bc they don’t want the team to know that they’re addicted to pain killers. Y’all. If you go in for surgery nothing is a secret. If you have an addiction, use this as an opportunity to come clean and ask for help.
All of the above are so common. People are embarrassed but the truth is, we really don't judge. Our job is to keep you alive and fix you. There's vert little we haven't heard or seen before!
Load More Replies...Aspiration pneumonia is extremely serious. Yes, even the "tiny" sip of water you had can cause a problem.
Have seen people die from aspiration pneumonia after what would have otherwise been a successful surgery.
It is also why the instructions for women in labor is not to eat. It isn't because having a fully stomach is bad for labor or delivery but in the event you need to get a c-section.
PLEASE take this seriously. People do die because they didn't think they really had to skip breakfast. Seen that funeral.
This is why they usually won't give you anything to drink or eat in the ER. Unfortunately I have had some emergencies and know the protocol. When they are allowed to bring you ginger ale and saltines you know you are good and going home soon.
But people who come to ER from an accident may have eaten before. How do they act to prevent vomiting in a surgery then?
Load More Replies...Same goes for animals. Giving Fido 'a few treats" on the morning of surgery is the same. Don't get mad at us when we postpone the surgery: it's for the reasons above. ~ a veterinarian
Antibiotics are not a treatment for common cold/flu
A cold (primary infection) can cause a secondary infection - think sinus or chest infection - that secondary infection is generally bacterial and you need to see your primary health provider to see if you need a course of antibiotics.
Load More Replies...And if you (or your child) have a common cold/flu and not feeling well, stay at home. You won't be more productive if you drag yourself to work while struggling with fever, cough and headache.
Yes please. I am recovering from a really grotty cold courtesy of my sister visiting me on Boxing day at the height of her cold (and lying about it). I am not grateful.
Load More Replies...THIS!! So many people run to the Dr. wanting antibiotics for a cold. A Cold is caused by a virus, antibiotics will do nothing for a cold!!!
That would be because antibiotics treat bacterial infections not viral infections.
I had so many doctors prescribe me antibiotics before I had a family doctor instead of looking into the problem. Fastforward to 3 years to a horrible infection I had that was antibiotic resistant to the antibiotics I was prescribed (it eventually got fixed) due to the antibiotics I was given, that I didn't need. This scares me.
And Google is not a doctor... Otherwise I am pregnant with menopause even though I am male over 60... 😂
Let's clarify that: ANTI-BACTERIALS (also anti biotic) are not treatment for common cold / flu like illnesses.
Correct, but antibiotics are a treatment for secondary bacterial infections that can build up in mucus caused by the primary viral infection.
Load More Replies...I just lived this. I had Influenza A and Pneumonia over the holidays and it was the worst! Antibiotics did NOTHING so it was all me fighting and beating it. Very grateful to be home and healing.
Waiter/cashier here. I understand your food is taking a long time, and I genuinely feel bad about it, but theres literally nothing I can do. Sometimes orders get backed up, sometimes we have cooks in training, sometimes managers just leave during a big rush and we have to play shorthanded. Getting pissed off at me cant make the new guy cook any faster
Being mean to any front line worker is always pointless, and only proves your own pettiness.
Load More Replies...I had an overworked waitress at a big brewery who took a bit of time to bring our drinks. She was working two levels and just overwhelmed. When we finally cashed out, our bill was about $20 but it should have been $80. I said there was a mistake and she said she comped a bunch of our stuff for the slow service. When she came back, I paid our full bill plus a nice tip. I told her that she was running herself ragged to serve everyone and doing an exceptional job; if anyone was complaining it was because they were terrible people. We were sitting at a shared table and other people chimed in that they agreed and she was awesome. The poor lady broke down in tears... I really think some people should be banned from dining out.
Agree. But this one time in Olive Garden lol true story. Ordered food. Waited forever. Server didn't even check on us or anything. I was patient but finally I flagged down another server and asked her to have our server talk to us / check on our order. She checks and comes back to inform me our server got off shift and went home. Apparently no one else was assigned to take over our table. Once our order actually got given to the kitchen it didn't take too long. We laughed.
Or cashiers. I worked retail and our computers were older than me. They were prone to crashing and freezing. You got tired of being yelled at for the computer freezing as if it was all your fault. I found it easier to entertain the customer by insulting my computer. By naming it and joking about all the grief it gave me, it helped keep the customers from getting too frustraited.
I work for a giant tech company and we have the worst computers on the planet. Basically we don't have systems that can process quickly everything we ask of them. So I'm also constantly apologizing the truck drivers that my system is slow loading and I'm sorry it's taking so long. Most are so gracious, and we get laughing about it.
Load More Replies...I totally agree, but don’t disappear on the customer. Keep them updated and they will understand.
Yes, a good waiter would go around to customers and explain the situation before customers wait an hour with no feedback.
Though sometimes the waiter forgot to put an order in, so I have to say something. While sitting at the table waiting for food, it's hard to tell what the issue really is. Some transparency helps. If you know we've been waiting a while, and you know why, just tell us the real reason.
I have walked out on more than one first date because the guy was rude to our server. One date was so patronizing/condescending I just looked at him like he had sprouted a second head and said, "Oh, HELL no." Picked up my purse and walked out. Absolutely no tolerance for a$$holes like that.
Historian: "Truth" is always relative, dependent of the perspective of the truth-teller and always constructed in some capacity. Every source must be subject to critical assessment.
I think I remember hearing once that there are four versions of the truth: 'his/one' side of it; 'her/the other' side of it; what really happened; and the totality of all three comprising a complete truth.
I am reminded of a very interesting episode of Star Trek: The Next Generation called A Matter of Perspective. It deals quite blatantly with this exact principle, right on down to the complete truth being radically different than any one version presented during the episode!
Load More Replies...A popular saying, but not as true, as it might seem. Victory usually isn't absolute and the victorious won't usually be capable to control the loosing side's narrative. Usually history is written by both sides and can be quite different.
Load More Replies...There are facts and then there is truth. One is based on objective evidence, the other on subjective experience. The truth should contain facts but the facts cannot tell the whole truth in many cases.
Yet there are some things that are objective historical facts, which some people will try to deny anyway. The Holocaust, the Armenian genocide, Christopher Columbus being a murderous a**hole, etc.
Don't forget that all history books were written by the victors. The other side had something they were fighting for, too.
To quote the renown Historian and Eygptologist Barbara Mertz; “History is not a series of facts, it is a series of opinion and theories, some more solidly based, some sheer nonsense, most more or less probably. Unless a historian who is writing a book confines himself to a particular problem within a limited area of history, he cannot possibly explain all the evidence, pro and con, or give all the variant theories for every debatable problem. There usually are too many debatable problems! Yet it is important to remember how flimsy some of our historical reconstructions are, and it is interesting to see how some of them have developed”
i love her, but i came to her writings through her fiction under her pen-name Barbara Michaels. She loved referencing Egyptology AND the occult in her books.
Load More Replies...I agree religion is all subjective to the scribe, but why is Bored Panda using a picture of the Torah when stating this?
maybe because, like the KJV Bible and litetally every religious manuscript ever, it is a compilation that resonates with certain groups but not with others. Religion primarily deals in truth, not fact. and ancient Hebrew manuscripts are not any more factual than are other religions' histories.
Load More Replies...🎶A man’s called a traitor, or liberator. A rich man’s a thief, or philanthropist. Is one a crusader, or ruthless invader? I depends upon which lable, is able to persist!🎶
Hospitals are a workplace for some of us. We also need to take lunch breaks and want to leave work on time.
Humans man hospitals, with human needs and affairs. Much appreciated, frontliners. 🥰
We all know about the affairs at hospitals, we've watched Grey's Anatomy!
Load More Replies...Your critical lifechanging emergency situation is hospital staff's every day. You can be in crisis - the hospital, or the entire healthcare sector, can be in crisis; nurses and other frontline staff still need to take breaks, and work reasonable hours, and get time off, and get a living wage. No one can operate on "crisis mode" continuously without burnout.
If I'm in the hospital, I want those taking care of me to be alert, well rested, and at their best.
Nurses passing out b/c they didn't take lunch cannot treat you. ---- I'm an MD, Mom was a registered nurse 40-plus years. She did in fact pass out from not eating a meal during shift.
Not exactly the same but as a cashier I had a lady complain when she saw firemen shopping for groceries. I had to explain they were buying food for the firehouse and they were on duty. she still did not get it
However hard it is to find parking - DO NOT park in hospital staff parking. If you do, really really think before you complain how long shift change overs take.
If you can't feed and take care of yourself, you cannot feed and take care of others.
ART IS HARD AND TAKES TIME
This only applies to some art. Have you seen some of that c**p that’s being sold on Etsy? Ridiculous
Ah yes. As an artist, I like to call that Fartwork.
Load More Replies...I paint miniature models. Even though they're tiny, each one takes me no less than a few days, depending on a lot of factors, like size, amount of detail, how much layering I do, and my overall attention span at any given time. Most recently, I painted 6 games pieces for my brother's friend. They were just miniature people, each one no more than 1 1/2 inches tall. It took me 3 weeks to do them. Never rush art, unless you genuinely don't care about quality.
Sticking a banana on a wall with duct tape is is not hard and takes hardly any time. Then to be paid a ridiculously large amount of money for it is obscene.
The value of any piece of artwork is exactly equal to and defined by what someone is willing to pay for it. Nothing more and nothing less.
Not true, I only need maybe a minute to tape a banana to a wall! /s
Our national art gallery has one canvas that is an even matt black. No brush strokes or texture, just plain matt black. If that took more than five minutes with a paint roller I'd be surprised. And that includes time to stir the paint.
Rollers leave texture. Brushes leave brush strokes. It's a lot harder to get perfectly smooth paint than you may think.
Load More Replies...Well, if you look at some of the modern "art" sold nowadays. A white canvas with just a thick blue line going down the middle for example selling for thousands. and don´t get me started on jackson pollock...
I got a couple:
As 911 I still do not have your exact location unless you call me from a landline. I have a general area but when I ask you to verify an address just do it. It helps us get to you quicker.
I cannot get an ambulance to you in 2 minutes. Surprisingly there are other people with emergencies as well.
I can not give you medical advice when you call 911. I can help you with certain things like CPR and EPI pen usage but not much else.
You cussing at me and calling me stupid because you’re speaking too fast for me to hear your address is not helping.
I cannot tell my crews to go in without lights and sirens. You called 911 they’re most likely comin in hot.
At the same time, when I was screaming in pain after getting hit by a car, it was not appropriate for an emergency line operative to scold me for saying "s**t, s**t, s**t, my f*****g foot, holy f*****g s**t".
First of all that you. Next, I am sorry, I was one of those dumbnuts that called 911 from my cel phone when I found my mom collapsed on her bathroom floor. I had been to her place 1 million times but I couldnt even remember the street name. And bless EHS when I was begging them to run with everything they were carrying with them, because I couldnt help my mom .Seconds were minutes, minutes were hours, usually those calling 911 are at our worst.
911 operators are very under-appreciated, they have a very stressful job
911 don't give medical advice? In the UK 999 call handlers can and do tell people how to give CPR, help birth babies, put someone into the recovery position, apply pressure and wound care for large cuts/ stab wounds/ gun shots, if it's safe to administer OTC pain medications etc! I was giving CPR to someone we found (I was highly first aid trained) and asked the other person nearby to phone 999 and the call handler started to talk them through CPR- which doesn't delay the ambulance- until they found out I was already doing it and knew how. When we phoned one for my friend who was having a fit (only called for him after he didn't stop after 30 seconds as per his doctors instructions etc) they gave advice on what to/ not to do etc too. Also when I call an ambulance (sadly very often because I have multiple health issues) I/ who ever is phoning for me, is given advice on what to/ not to do too. Does this not happen in the USA?
It happens in the USA. Most 911 operators are trained to give basic immediate lifesaving advice and they’re 100% protected as part of Good Samaritan laws. Stabilizing a patient isn’t the same as instructing them in a treatment plan for their injury. There’s an overwhelming abundance of case law that supports this and anytime a 911 operator has been charged with criminal neglect, it’s due to actual neglect. Americans tend to forget the difference with criminal and civil law. Yes, some have tried to sue in civil court, but legal precedent almost always prevails on behalf of the defendant in these frivolous situations. And typically only a crappy attorney would file such a case.
Load More Replies...The free app What3Words can pinpoint your location within a few meters, and is used by a lot of first responding agencies. (Very useful if you are hiking or in an unfamiliar city, for example.)
Pro tip: Always keep an eye on house numbers/mile markers/intersections so the EMS can reach you faster. "The last street I saw was Maple Avenue" can shave a minute or two off arrival times.
And that's why many domestic violence victims learned to "order pizza". Because coming in hot is going to get them killed. Honestly, this entry reads like someone who shouldn't be in their job, since they are falling to understand that people in emergencies do not act rationally or logically.
Load More Replies...As a paramedic they can ABSOLUTELY tell us not to come in lights and sirens. At that point only amateur idiots will use them. County cannot force them to not use lights and sirens, but if the person is requesting it that basically proves that your driver is an imbecile who likes the wee-woo's too much.
For real. This whole post was basically, "don't call 911 in an emergency."
Load More Replies...Well, I think it's understandable to cuss a lot and speak fast if something really distressing just happened. If you, like the top comment person, have been hit by a car - I guarantee that the call won't be calm haha
I was in Times Square NYC and saw a Hot (Lights) Ambulance take 8 Minutes to go one block. Traffic had nowhere to go to get out of the way
Work at a credit union:
I'm not asking for your ID to personally offend you or imply that I have authority over you. I'm asking for it because *I will get fired if I don't*.
Same at a liquor store / bar. Even if you look 80 years old, you're still required to show proof of age. It is the law
Probably varies some by location. I have not been carded for alcohol in ages but I"m in my 60s. I seem to recall seeing a sign saying something about carding you if you appear under 40 or something. Weirdly, the state laws seem a bit split. Alcohol I'm usually not carded any more. Marijuana stores they card you every time because the regulators are on them about it.
Load More Replies...Imagine not wanting an institution that handles your money to verify that the person who’s trying to access your account is authorized to do so 🤦
this is the same when you visit your doctor....when I ask for your ID/insurance card, it is not just to p**s you off. I do need it and will ALSO get fired if I don't. PS: fill out the required paperwork without complaining, it just makes you look like an idiot.
I was a bank teller for 7 years so I got a lot of grief over this. More than once I told a client in the most kind and professional manner possible that just as they have rules to follow at their job, I have rules to follow at my job. 99% of customers are great, but there are always problem children ready to make a scene. Oh, and please do not complain to your teller about the rotten interest rates. We have no control over any of that.
Hi Kim Shannon, if someone wants to be a bank teller, what are the most important skills a person should have? Can you direct me to good sites that tell about doing the job of bank teller? Is there a good site that lists all the normal jobs a person can transition into after being a bank teller for one to three years? Thank you for any help you can give.
Load More Replies...You are asking for my ID so no one else messes with my money. I would give my favorite color, shoe size, and possibly my weight, to protect what little I have.
In accountancy as well. I have to ask and keep a copy of id and address. I'll be fined and prevented from work if I don't. "but my previous accountant didn't ask for it" - that's because they're dodgy, not me!
I work at the front desk of a hotel. I don't understand why people get mad a room is not ready at 8am when we were sold out the previous night! I constantly have to explain that check out time is at 11, and that check in time is at 4!! I cannot kick a guest out of a room that they are entitled to for the next 3 hours!
And being kind has a better chance of getting you what you want. I've never asked to check in a half day early but a few times over the years I've asked nicely about checking in early if the room is ready or checking out a bit after checkout time. One was attending the last morning of a convention but not wanting to have my luggage with me. They were very nice about it.
If my room isn't ready when I arrive, I let them know I understand. I can sit and read, or head to the lobby bar (if there is one) for a brewski or two. Or go for a walk around the premises.
Load More Replies...Most hotels offer to check in the incoming guest's bags for them, That way the guest can often go do exactly what they would have done if a room had been available.
Yeah, I've had that too. Put them in the back office for a while or whatever. I think one time like that was one of the early checkins. I asked about holding my bags and they were like, "You know, room X just flagged as being ready. Would you like to just check in now?". So that time I ended up just putting them in my room early.
Load More Replies...we arrived in our hotel once at maybe 7am or so because we just got from the night ferry. Check in was at 2PM but we needed breakfast and asked how much it would cost (as we didnt have a room yet) We were very polite (as always) also asked if it was possible to pay so we could store our luggage because after breakfast we would be going into town. So after we had breakfast and walked trhough the lobby the woman waved at us and said she would have a room ready at noon already if we were interested at no extra costs. Ofcourse we were! You get so much further with staying friendly and polite :-)
Maybe they could be told that they can leave their bags there until it's check in time. They could ask for this service.
or guest gets mad when you tell them that you are sold out and ask why.
isnt that common sense?? Also who askes/demands for a room at 8 AM???
No, I can't diagnose you or tell whether you have naughty thoughts by looking at your brain scan. Also, if you were only using 10% of your brain, you'd be pretty much dead.
Then theres quite a few people who should be long gone by now
I had a scan once. All they saw was a sign saying' Vacant space for rent' ;o)
You only actively use a smallish part of your brain, but that doesn't mean the rest isn't used. The vast majority of the brain is occupied with just keeping you alive. A single, mostly unconscious move of your hand requires lots of brain power to happen. The body has lots of muscles that need to be directed and controlled. The whole brain is active and in use.
He's not auditioning for 'America's Got Talent".
Load More Replies...If they're worried about naughty thoughts, they're having naughty thoughts.
When you're dead, it only hurts others... same as when you're stupid.
Also, even though anyone who's worked in these fields long enough knows exactly what they're looking at, they still can't legally tell the patient if they see a problem. I know it's very frustrating for patients when your doctor tells you it could be a few days to get the results, and you're standing in front of someone who already knows.
It is not a teacher's job to potty train your child. You need to work on that at home before they're ready to start school. Some classes have 30+ kids, we just can't take the time to work on things like that with your kid when there's 29 other kids who also need attention.
So true. Also other stuff like basic hygiene. My best friend was a kindergarten teacher years ago (she's retired). Some kids would come to school filthy, clothes smelling of p**s and they probably slept in them. She did the best she could but she had 30 kids in her room. I think it got so bad with a couple (brother / sister) that she ended up keeping some spare clothes in a backpack and would rotate them out and wash them. It's the parent's job but she loved the kids and tried to do right by them.
In the U.S. they would be obligated to report the neglect. Teachers are obligated reporters of suspected abuse of children (so are healthcare workers). And neglect is abuse.
Load More Replies...I have a kid (now adult) who has a developmental/intellectual disability and she ended up being a bit late on figuring out the whole idea of going to the bathroom on a toilet. She didn't like sitting on the potty, and we all tried to work on it for a few years. The summer just before she started pre-K she finally said "I'm going to try using the toilet." like a lightbulb just clicked on in her head. We had a Baby First Home Visitor, public health nurse and other therapists helping us find ways to help her catch up with her milestones. So, we're grateful we had those supports and she didn't have to start school late. So, if you're a parent really struggling with potty training, it's okay and advisable to seek out help with professionals in early childhood development.
I'm not sure about that; in my country kids go to school when they are 6.5 years or above, before that they go to kindergarten which doesn't have teachers but something that can literally be only translated to "raisers" or "the ones raising"; numerous times have they told us that yes, ofcourse, parental raising is primary and most important, but they raise the kids as well.
Load More Replies...I really believe that this is a 'modern' problem. Before comfortable disposables, the kid was wet and unhappy if they weren't changed straight away. Knowing what it was like to be uncomfortable helped the child to see the benefit of toilet training. Now, nappies are so comfy even when soaked, there is no impetus for either the parent or the child, particularly if the parent is lackadaisical anyway.
Have things changed because it used to be your child had to be potty trained to start kindergarten in the US. Yes, accidents happen at that age so you might have to deal with that sometimes. I don't have have kids but my friends/family have kids and they are all potty trained by 4 years old at the latest.
Most preschools in the US won’t take children unless they are potty trained, it has to do with their licensing as a school and not a daycare. Also just makes sense. Problem is when you have a child with special needs and they are almost five and still in diapers and everyone judges you for it but we literally have no idea if he can even feel that he needs to go. It is a lot.
Load More Replies...I'm 33 and I still remember that kid in junior infants (4-5yo) calling the teacher from the toilet saying "teacher, will you come wipe my bum".
Some kids do have trouble getting back there at that age though. That's no super uncommon.
Load More Replies...My father taught at and inner city schools as an LDDH teacher. We made care packages every year with socks, underwear, T shirts and basic toiletries. He would also pay for a field trip to the local amusement park for them. Teachers are superheroes!
How is your child nor potty trained by five years old? (It's understandable if they are special needs, but a regular child not being potty trained?) Most parents start potty training as soon as possible so they don't have to keep buying diapers and changing dirty bottoms.
Pets need dental care. Also the fact that they are still eating and not making noise does not mean infected teeth don’t hurt.
I brush my boy cat's teeth. He has cat toothpaste and a kid's mickey mouse toothbrush. Makes a huge difference in gum health
Load More Replies...this is so true. My poor old dog can't eat his food because his teeth hurt so bad, but we can't afford fancy food or the surgery/cleaning.
Lil Potato : I made an account just so I could reach you. I saw you are only 13. I’m so sorry your dog is having a hard time eating. Please tell your parents that there are a lot of organizations out there that help pay for surgeries for dog care that’s expensive. Tell them to reach out to Red Rover. They are a non profit out of California that help people pay for vet surgeries! Also, if you wanted to start a go fundme, I’m sure everyone here here on Bored Panda would LOVE to HELP your pup feel better! Take care!!
Load More Replies...Very true! My vet recommends daily dental chews for my cat since teeth brushing is next to impossible for him.
I had to do that too because our one cat would twist herself and slam her head on the floor to get away from the brushing. The vet said her teeth weren't in bad shape and if we could just get her to let us rub a little toothpaste on her front teeth the licking would help distribute it. She only needed to go under once for a cleaning and extraction of 2 teeth. Her brother luckily had perfect teeth because he had other health issues that made a cleaning not possible.
Load More Replies...We adopted a kitty who had horrific breath and one of the first things I did was take her in and have a vet check her out since I know that usually meant dental issues. They said she was fine, just a stinky girl. It took 3.5 years and many vets at multiple offices to finally find one who acknowledged there was a problem. By the time that happened, half her mouth was rotted out. She had to get 10 teeth removed and her xrays shows massive pockets of jaw bone that are just gone. Over all that time, she didn't show any sign of pain. She ate through it all, and only started to show some slight discomfort signs like the few days before her procedure date. Humans are absolute wusses about pain, we wear it on our sleeves. I wish more people understood that most other species don't do that. If your pet is showing signs of pain, then they are very likely in a LOT of it.
1000 bucks to clean teeth?? It may not be a scam but 20.years ago it was unheard of. The whole idea twists pet owners with guilt if they can't afford it.
It's the general anaesthesia that bumps the cost up. And if you have a breed that's prone to bad teeth, you had better start them early on tooth brushing . Edit: it's nowhere near that price where I live, but it's still more than human dentistry.
Load More Replies...We have a farm dog. So along with regular dog food, he gets scraps and when it's hunting season he gets deer bones to gnaw on. When we took him to the vet they ask if he ever got to chew on bones because he had the cleanest teeth they had ever seen.
Gum disease causes heart problems in dogs, the same is true for humans.
Upvote this 1000x! Their only other option is to not eat and die. Dental pain is VERY common- 85% of dogs and cats have some degree of dental disease by age 3 1/2! Please don't ignore your pet's dental health and put off the recommended dental cleaning.
And good dental care will add two years to their life expectancy, on average.
Load More Replies...Pets are also really good at hiding pain. It's part of the survival to suck it up and not show weakness because you will be easily picked of by predators or members of your own group. Cats will act like nothing is wrong even though they have broken bones. Dogs will act like everything is fine until they are so lethargic they can't move. Be aware of your pets normal behavior. If you see that Fido is not acting like himself or that Muffins is constantly hiding away from you under the couch or bed...chances are they are sick or injured and need a trip to the vet.
A good bakery will have fresh products every day. If you come in the late afternoon, they will probably be sold out of many of your favorites. Also, if you come early and buy all of the chocolate chip cookies no one else will get any that day. The remedy to both of these problems is ordering in advance.
You are thoughtful. Smart thinking. Not sure why I ever thought of this. But it's simple planning.
Well, cookie-monstering-sprees are very hard to plan in advance... We're talking superpower here
Load More Replies...This also applies to donut chains, or any fast food place. If you're expecting to make a large order, like 2, 3, 4+ boxes of goods, order in advance to make sure everyone else can get something that morning.
I worked both in a bakery and a supermarket with a baked goods aisle - you want something, you pre-order to make sure you get it
We've got a family owned bakery here, they actually offer to put in orders for the next business day if they are out. Lovely people and wonderful bakers :)
We used to have a restaurant who would come in and buy all our French bread when they were out. They had the bakery in fits because it was one of their most popular items and they couldn't just quickly get another batch out.
Right? We had an amazing bakery in Seattle and I always got the Red Velvet w/Cream Cheese frosting for the holidays. I was advised to place my order NO LESS than 2 weeks in advance. They have to plan for bakers, ingredients, etc., which I honestly never even considered. Also, if you go in close to closing you can usually get whatever's left for at least 1/2 off, sometimes even free.
Don't try and guess the letters on the eye test chart.
The whole point of the exam is for us to give you the best vision possible, surprisingly enough that relies on us knowing what you can't see.
I’m pretty sure they know when we’re guessing. I get pretty confused and hesitant when I have trouble seeing certain letters.
I have given so many eye tests in my work life, that I know every version of every chart, plus can recite the reading passages by heart. I have difficulty when I go for MY eye test because I know what it's supposed to be, whether I can see it or not. I once jokingly turned my back on the chart and read it from the eye in the back of my head.
Load More Replies...I'm dyslexic. There's a good chance that even when I can see it clearly I'll get some of it wrong. I always specify that "I am dyslexic" on my forms and somehow it always takes the examiner by surprise. I want to say "hello, you are a vision professional. You are in a building full of eyeglasses. Did you read my chart? I cannot tell if that is a q or a g because my brain is a mess, not because I can't see it!"
Look around for a better optician. It's taken me a bit of time, but really really worth it. I'm in UK, any decent one has at least a child dyslexic friendly test which has pictures and symbols as well as letters. I struggle with a lot of fonts (shame on all people hating on comic sans which is one of the easiest) and black on white. Harsh lighting also effects my reading but not seeing. Also, even if I can clearly see a letter and recognise it, the time taken to say what it is sounds like I'm guessing. Nowadays, I'm also quite short sighted. So it is really really worth the effort to check out if an optician is experienced in this before booking an easy test. Good luck
Load More Replies...For some reason I can’t see any of the letters the first time but the second time I can. Nobody believes me so my glasses have been getting thicker each visit
I see my opthalmologist often enough that I've memorized parts of the eyechart. My exams are often along the lines of "L-E-F-D-P-Z, but I can only read it because I know what it says" or "I know that's an E but it looks like a Z."
Just want to brag here that my vision has not changed in 2 years! I'm 39 and been wearing glasses since I was about 8; my vision usually gets worse every year. Whenever I do the eye test and I'm not sure of a letter I just say "maybe" and then the letter. You can't just try and guess; wrong rx can seriously worsen your eyes plus give you headaches from straining to see through a wrong rx
Good memory and them never updating the charts. Just sit down and read with eyes closed, this usually means i get the circle chart for the remainder of the test. ¢
A scientific paper/journal article does not necessarily prove anything, especially on its own. Lots of poor quality science gets published, and even good experiments are part of the wider research and don't mean the clickbaity headline is true. Journalists and people who argue on the internet take note.
And even then, we usually use phrases like “these results support our hypothesis”, we almost never say the word “prove” because everything in research is probability based.
Exactly! It's very quantum mechanics that way. Can I say with certainty X subset willl develop Long Covid? No. I can analyze data that supports a hypothesis (or trashes it completely). Double blind randomized with a good sample size is what a researcher (in health at least) aims for. (BTW, current hypothesis I have is not in agreement with the folks who are higher up, but we'll find out in three-five years. And that's another thing. Quality takes time. Covid vax tech had been in research for over a decade. Nobody did that "overnight". We wish!)
Load More Replies...Not only did he not prove anything, he faked his results.
Load More Replies...In grad school, we had to go through scientific papers for a project and pick out discrepancies, useless science, etc
This is something that should be taught in high school, frankly. To help kids learn how to spot BS in every area.
Load More Replies...As a research methodologist myself, just because there are many papers published that say something also does not mean that the very premise under which they are operating cannot be completely baseless and incorrect. Sometimes conclusions are made relative to base assumptions that are later shown to be totally nonsensical.
The positive effect of environmental regulation on the air quality in the US over the last 30 years is so great and has so much data to support it that it should be impossible to argue against these same environmental regulations in a political arena.
You go tell it to china. I'm sure they won't listen to me.
Load More Replies...They think! They think about how much money they receive from special interest groups & stock purchases.
Load More Replies...I am so fed up with climate denying, money grabbing, US politicians, that I wish we could run them out of politics forever. They have no business representing people. Politicians do what is the best for their own political careers, and their own bank accounts. Take Mike Pence, who was the governor of my state before he became vice president. He took a stance that cigarette smoking was not harmful to your health. He said the science "just wasn't clear" on cigarette smoking and received thousands of dollars from the tobacco lobby. Everyone who heard him knew he was full of it, yet there will be some idiot quoting Mike Pence, as if he is some kind of an authority on health or tobacco. That's a HUGE problem in my country. People listening to idiots, who are no more qualified to speak on a topic than an average, uneducated person. Your feelings are not the same as facts, and people need to stop pretending they are.
If you want to uncover the source of a problem, find out who profits from it.
The improvements have been so good that people have forgotten the LA smog and the rivers on fire. Now corporate greed wants to cut back because " we don't need it, and it costs us too much".
The effectiveness of regulations is not cause and effect. Yes, air quality has improved but global.pollution has only gotten worse. The actual effect was industry moving to contries with no regulations where they are producing more pollution than they were before.
Water too! Remember, the Cuyahoga River BURNED three times! Same goes for RCRA (solid easte, haz waste, underground storage)
Wait…a river caught fire?! I just googled this, oh my god!
Load More Replies...True, but... the clean water and clean air acts get 'improved' all the time. Some regulations put the Maximum Contaminant Level (MCL) at the detection limit of current science. That means it is either pass or fail. But you need to monitor a contaminant to see if your improved process really works. That is what some of the political smack is about. Another popular one is one concerning heavy metals in rivers. That makes sense until you look at the natural seams of something like copper. The seam has been there forever and so has the river. The river is high in copper and supports no life for several hundred yards downstream. regulators want a downstream plant to actually clean up the river by having a copper level of less than the detection limit so that the stream is cleaner than nature-made it. The argument is why should the plant be forced to take responsibility for cleaning up the river for something that they did not do and get no profit from?
This is true - air quality has improved greatly in the last 30 years, and nobody is fighting the regulations that created this improvement. They are fighting all the NEW rules with thin or nonexistent justification for being implemented. The reason that past air regulations were implemented across the board is that the evidence was clear and experiments to replicate them was made available and confirmed. Today's regulations are backed by science that says Just Trust Me model. Just because your computer says it is a fact does not create proof - show us the source code that delivered those results. In the past scientists were not afraid to do this. So, go back to science and not political activism and we will take you seriously again.
Never write an email you don’t want read back to you in a deposition.
Never say anything bad in writing. I’m a lawyer who does primarily white collar and commercial/securities litigation.
Even if your email is not relevant or admitting wrongdoing, someone somewhere is eventually going to read it. For example, the other day I read 5 Valentine’s Day emails from the same guy to 5 different coworkers... c’mon man.
Never write anything that can be used as exhibit "A". Advice to live by.
My mom used to say: “never put anything in writing that you wouldn’t want to see on the front page of The New York Times.” I’m old…
I'm old too. My mom used to say "never put anything in writing you wouldn't want to have read from the roof top."
Load More Replies...On the other side, make sure you do get everything your boss wants and says in writing before you implement it. Always.
I used to get negative feedback on emails I sent at work until my supervisor suggested I count to 10 before I started to compose. Sometimes I had to count to 37 before I felt ok to compose. Once she came over to my cube to ask a question...I was staring at my computer screen. She asked what I was doing. "Counting," I replied. She said she'd come back later.
I email my boss with the title "please put this in politespeak for me"
Load More Replies...I write vday emails to my coworkers... more than 5 and it's all friendly. Love friendship not romantic. If this is 5 romances in an office there is some huge items being overlooked. And if it's overlooked in the office I can't imagine what is overlooked at the work itself.
People tend to forget that you can have platonic friend / humanity love.
Load More Replies...I work as a USDOJ interpreter/translator. I do text messages and email extraction files all day long. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS DELETED. Someone still has access to every edit or delete you have ever made and if the court asks, the court gets.
Also, don't write anything or do anything on the job that you would not want discussed by a news reporter on broadcast. You may think something falls into a legal/ethical/moral gray area, but do you really want that debated in the court of public opinion?
Similarly, if you say something good in writing, someone will eventually sue you for not keeping your word.
Lawyer. The biggest issue I see with the general public, and within my client company, is that just because you're mad, doesn't mean you're right. More specifically, just because you're mad, doesn't mean you have a legal basis to take action. Telling me your feelings about fairness, inequality, etc. isn't the same thing as actually stating a claim.
My last employer stole $10k of wages from me (And several other teachers). I can't get a lawyer to help because the amount is too small and they won't do it pro bono because the amount is too big.
Load More Replies...We have a client who tries to sue anyone who utters anything against her for defamation. In her most recent suit we tried to advise against it, but she was adamant we should sue, so we instituted legal proceedings and we will try our best, while looking like fools, to argue her case and if we lose, we won't be surprised. It's not that we want to lose, but it is a losing case and the client doesn't give a flying fig, she is a very trigger-happy litigant.
The banes of our legal system. Frivolous lawsuits should get called out more quickly and more often.
Load More Replies...And never lie to your lawyer....I actually had to abide by my own rule once. My lawyer asked me did I? And as hard as it was, I told him the truth. He then said, well it doesn't make a difference. Then I didn't have to worry about it anymore, as he knew. Much easier than dealing with the possible repercussions.
I once saw a lawyer in a neighboring small town whose slogan was "Just because you did it doesn't mean you're guilty!"
For medical malpractice - if they did not die, or have severe permanent damage - it is not worth talking about
Also, getting a lawyer does not make you guilty. It makes you safe(r) from jail.
The horrific amount of plastic we go through in science. Also not all research is about curing cancer or other diseases (which contributes regularly to my existential crisis but I digress)
I don't know about research facility's, but just in the general public if people could use reusable containers instead of plastic bags even though they are recyclable, humans could cut down on the amount of plastic we use. Quite a few years ago Krogers was selling reusable totes. Bought 2. I cut down on the amount of plastic bags I have to buy.
Some of those reusable totes are made from recycled disposable bags. Most disposable grocery bags were made from recycled plastics as well. The problem has never been that they can't be recycled, it's that people didn't take time to recycle them.
Load More Replies...I'm more horrified at the amount of plastic we go through in other places. Like packaging. You get an item, wrapped in plastic, put in a box, which is then wrapped in more plastic.
I tried to save a bit of plastic by changing from disposable plastic pens for my work, to better quality pens that can take a refill. But the refills are made of plastic, have a micro-plastic bead covering the ballpoint end, are individually wrapped in plastic sheaths, then boxed in cardboard that's - you guessed it - wrapped in plastic. And I'll swear that the refills only contain about half the ink a disposable pen has, so I go through more refills than I did disposable pens. What a nightmare!
Load More Replies...The time spent in a lab cleaning, wrapping and autoclaving glass ware to get it completely sterile was probably what prompted at least peti dishes to be mainly plastic. Also, autoclaving does not kill all know life - back when mad cow disease was a worry, a lot of medical procedures had to dispose of everything after to be safe. A huge amount of the waste in labs though is because of food regulations, and I do like my food to be safe.
There was a huge problem a few years ago when they realised that almost all human cell lines being used in research either consisted completely of HeLa cells or were contaminated with HeLa cells. For those of you unfamiliar with the cell line derived from Henrietta Lacks there is a fabulous book about it that I highly recommmend.
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Call center employees really do not have the option to transfer you to the President/Owner/CEO of the company, no matter how hard you complain. You're lucky if you even manage to get transferred out of the room they are in.
As a former Executive Complaints rep, I can assure you this is true.
Yup. At best I can get you my team lead. Which is who it goes to anyway when you ask to speak to the manager.
Load More Replies...I remember someone posting years ago about how they were annoyed with something they'd ordered when it arrived, rang the Company & demanded to speak to the Manager. The person who answered obtained details of the caller's complaint & said "Thank you, please hold & I'll transfer you". Unfortunately, they didn't mute the phone properly & the caller heard them ask "OK, who wants to be Manager today?"
Can confirm this happens. Worked Business Broadband Tech Support for 3 years. I was the "manager" a few times.
Load More Replies...In the stone age of the internet, my uncle was the head of a research center and could get access to many corporate CEOs. There was an error on his Gulf credit card that customer service could not or would not resolve. So he he used his industrial contact resources to look up the home phone number of the president of Gulf Oil. My uncle phoned him, and the president listened quite politely and said it would be taken care of. The next morning my uncle got a call from customer service and was assured that everything was fixed. And customer service added, "Sir, if there's ever a problem in the future, PLEASE don't call the company president!" Well, he never had to ever again.
I made a claim against a large nation-wide appliance firm for destroying my kitchen floor when they were installing my new washing machine (in the UK it's normal to have the washer in the kitchen). It took months and I had to jump through so many hoops - all the while the wooden floor under the laminate was rotting and I couldn't get it fixed or they wouldn't pay me out. They wanted three quotes that they could choose from and that part of the process took ages. I eventually just went with the cheapest quote and got it done but then they were stalling and refusing to pay. I was so furious by then that I raised a complaint against them - and cc'd the CEO, whose email address I found online. I was paid out in full within 24 hours and had an apology from the CEO's PA. I don't often go full Karen-mode but that time it was justified.
Load More Replies...I once called the cable company years ago, just used the regular number like I was supposed to, and ended up talking to the CEO. We were both equally confused.
Call center employee here for several years - I was in the Quality Assurance (complaint) dept. We had a lot of discretion to solve a customer's complaint. I can tell you that if you come in to the phone call hot (yelling, cursing, etc.), I will not go out of my way to resolve your issue. I could tell in the first 15 seconds of my interaction with you how hard I was going to work make it right for you. If you start off by calling me a piece of sh*t, you can be sure I'm just going to recite the terms and conditions to you and tell you you missed the deadline to cancel. Also, there's absolutely NOTHING I can do to speed up the amount of time your banking institution takes to post a refund to your account. If I tell you that it takes 3-5 business days, it's because that's how long your bank generally takes to process and post your refund. My job is to try and resolve your issue, not take abuse.
Call center workers select a different person on each team to be the "supervisor" for the day and be extra solicitous towards customers.
I'm a supervisor where I work and love it when someone who's been talking to me like I'm stupid and asks for the supervisor... they get silent when I tell them that's me lol
Load More Replies...the most common thing i hate is when you tell them something they don't like and their response is "can i speak to your supervisor" only for them to tell them the same thing which they then accept like dude seriously i just spent 20 minutes telling you that
They won't even have ever met the President/Owner/CEO, and they're likely in a different part of the world. The most you'll get is the Team Leader. If a Manager pops on, the employee likely f****d up big time enough to warrant the attention of a Manager. But the TLs are the ones that deal with the difficult and usually abusive customers who are not letting up on the initial employee, making their job impossible, etc. Other than that, if all is going well, but the employee is just not authorized to provide the information needed, then a transfer to another department is needed.
Esthetician here. Biggest misconception I'm facing right now is the need for exfoliation. Y'all exfoliate way too much. Most people only will need to exfoliate once a week, twice ONLY if you have an extreme sebaceous output and even then it's a big maybe. I get so many clients with a ton of constant breakouts saying, "But I wash and exfoliate every day!" Well, there's your problem. Your skin thinks it's not producing enough oil because you keep removing it, so it over-produces. That's why you're breaking out. Also I want to add, there's a big difference between dry skin and dehydrated skin. Dry skin is usually genetic, and has to do with your sebaceous glands not being able to produce enough oil so that oil needs to be supplemented. You can be a dry skin type and still be oily. Dehydration is just that there's not enough water content in your skin, and really you just need to be drinking more water. A lot of people get some dehydration like in the winter and start treating their skin as "dry skin" and end up with more problems when really they just need more water.
Ii read that as "Electrician here" and thought dammmmmn, apprenticeships cover a LOT of ground now. (So be positive)
I guess, as an electrician, is way better to be negative or even neutral than positive (I'll check myself out)
Load More Replies...Thank you. I have a genetic skin disorder that does cause flaky skin, but it still does get some oiliness. I've had misinformed, but good-intentioned, people tell me my skin is so dry and should "use lotion", which I use daily, when needed. I exfoliate no more than the average person, or less. Even in the ichthyosis community people think they need to exfoliate with harsh skin care routines because of the rapid build up, but our skin isn't that different enough. If anything we have to be more careful with how we treat our skin due to sensitivities, aptness to irritations and splits and lesions from the thick scaling and tightness.
This is true. I broke out when I was exfoliating every day. When I stopped the breakouts stopped. Overall, my skin is better when. I leave it alone and don't use any sort of meticulous skin care routine.
I have oily skin and it gets dry and flaky, especially if I'm dehydrated or use a product that is too drying. It's a struggle. I bought an exfoliating glove that I use once a week with a mild sulfur soap. I just did an Aztec mud treatment to clean my pores. I stopped wearing makeup. When I was in my 20s I was so worried about my looks and mild acne. Now I just prefer to have healthy skin. My husband met me when I used more makeup, he prefers me without it.
The strength of alcohol when measured Alcohol by Volume (ABV %).
You switched from a 4% beer to a 5% beer?
"It's only 1% increase, *right*?"
**Wrong.**
4% -> 5% = a 25% increase in strength. You're getting 25% more pissed.
In Hong Kong - first day off the ship (no alcohol in ages). I got a dark beer with a lunch. I was surprised at how buzzed I felt from one can. Read can - 13%. Wow Mr. Beer. For a beer you don't mess around.
Oh no.... I had similar once, a Croatian dark beer 13%, it was even worse on the way back up (I'd already had a few!)
Load More Replies...This is something I've never thought of. I'm an engineer and was an alcoholic, so I'd buy based on percentage, and yeah, this is accurate.
So its calculated on molarity or something?I'll be 18 soon, and need to know these right away.else I am screwed.
Forget ABV, molarity, etc.; it's not that complicated. If you have two drinks of, say, 100 ml each, and one is 4% (4 ml) alcohol and the other is 5% (5 ml) alcohol, the second drink has 25% more alcohol than the first, since 5 ml is 25% more than 4 ml. Happy Birthday!
Load More Replies...I don’t understand this one. 🙈 How can it be 25% more when it’s only increasing by 1%? What would that make wine at 13% then?
4% is the same as 1 + 1 + 1 +1 / 100 and 5% is the same as 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 / 100. That's 25% more +1's .
Load More Replies...If I change 0.5% to 1% its 100% more but it doesn't mean I will get wasted, so the OP exaggerates
Just because I'm an engineer doesn't mean I can fix and understand everything. There are 40+ different types of engineering degrees. A chemical engineer may not know how a bridge works. A mechanical engineer cannot clone you. A biological engineer cannot tell you how many cats you can fit in your house without the floor collapsing.
Depends. Are we talking orange tabby, bobcat, or lion?
Load More Replies...Just curious... what's the formula for cats per square foot before the floor collapses? Asking for a friend.
200 purr square foot. Some will always be interdimensional.
Load More Replies...But deep down you're all scientists right? So when Gozilla and Mothra come you'll get together and figure it out right? I've seen the movies. Everyone with a white lab coat is sure of what to do.
Most engineers don't wear white lab coats, so they'd obviously be completely useless fighting Godzilla.
Load More Replies...However, I would trust a chemical engineer for structural design calcs before I would ever trust an architect
but then, which engineer CAN tell me how many cats I can fit in my house withoutthe floor collapsing?
I've heard this lots growing up. It might be a Canadian thing to have a Iron Ring. But engineers I've met never give advice out of their specialty
My dad was a hydraulic engineer. Never stopped him giving me advice on how to change a car tyre.
Load More Replies...My grandfather was an engineer in a factory. As a kid I had no concept of what engineer meant so I told everyone that he drove a train. :) I was seriously disappointed when I found out his job had nothing to do with trains.
Now i want to know how many cats it takes to collapse my floor
Work in a hospital. There will ALWAYS be a wait time to be seen in the ER. A three hour wait is typical. There are always going to be patients who need to be seen before you because their needs are more urgent. Also, EMS is most likely bringing patients in that you can’t see while you’re sitting in the lobby, so those people will also be ahead of you.
My nurse friends always say "You really don't want to be the patient that gets put at the front of that line" since that means you've won the current poll on who is the closest to death. Also, here in the US, we need to figure out a better way to deal with chronic emergency room users (edited to change this from incorrect term "abusers"). So many use the hospital rather than an immediate care facility because the emergency room won't ask for an up-front copay.
ER abusers??? They're people who can't afford insurance -- they don't have other options.
Load More Replies...I'm a routine front liner due to severe asthma. I know everyone in the ER needs help but if I'm not seen immediately I will die. I'm already suffocating when I arrive, so I'm very appreciative of the prompt care I'm given.
ER people deserve love for the BS they endure. Few months back drove a friend to ER for chest pains. She fine now but while there I ended sitting in the ER waiting room for 3+ hours from roughly midnight to 3. The stuff that comes through the door is either sad (young child or old lady in great pain) or cringe - druggies and such who you can tell are "frequent flyers". Edit: I mean the later were coming to ER in hopes of getting drugs (pain complaints etc) but the front desk knew them by name and had to deal with their anger at having to wait.
Just because you come by ambulance, doesn’t mean you’ll get seen quicker. You will be taken straight to the waiting room on a stretcher and look like an idiot because you called 911 for “wrist pain” and demanded the ambulance take you instead of driving one of the 7 cars at your house
In the 'old days' (NHS) anyone who came in by ambulance was automatically seen first - hey they needed an ambulance so they must be sicker than someone who just walked in, right? However they are now wise to this and ambulance patients are triaged in the same way as those walk ins. Yes, most get seen before the walk ins because their need is greater, but not all.
This goes for many health care situations. When I was in hospital while pregnant, a room mate of mine had her induction of labour pushed back more than 24 hours, because so many spontaneous births kept arriving. Yes, it's annoying, but you're lucky if waiting is the worst thing going on for you.
Safari Guide - dangerous animals can literally be anywhere, including right next to the vehicle and you may not be able to see them. Don't think that you can walk around unsupervised because you can honestly be attacked if you don't know what to do.
People are so safe everyday, that they have lost their natural understanding of the wild. They have never seen a lion before, therefore it must be a cute house cat, because animals aren't dangerous to them in their everyday life
Some people have this fantasy they could be animal whisperers and have this "special" bond with all creatures.
Load More Replies...My Darwin Awards approach means YOU can do whatever you want. I’ll gladly sit and watch as nature takes its course and removes another dolt from the gene pool. You are helping humanity by making it stronger, go ahead and see which apex predators have you on their menu today, it’s science in action folks!
So true - and not only on safaris. There is literally more or less only one venomous snake in Germany (the 'Kreuzotter') - which is not even deadly if you don't happen to be allergic to the venom. I remember reading some years ago about a (very stupid) woman, who took a stroll with her kids through a touristy but natural area and got bitten several times. What happened: she saw a bunch of these snakes, which had woken up from hibernation and were warming in the spring-sun and she wanted to show them to her children. So she picked them up and got bitten multiple times while doing so - landing eventually in hospital, because of the swollen bites. She then wanted to sue the city/tourist office. Not for covering the hospital bill (mind you that is covered in Germany) but for them not putting warning signs up to warn her about the snake, because she didn't know that there were venomous/poisonous animals living in Germany. (Plot: She was German and lived her whole live in Germany - and even if she hadn't... who picks up a random snake?). (Edit: worst spelling mistakes).
Yellowstone and other wild places lose visitors every year because they want to pet the buffalo or feed the moose or take a selfie with a Grizzly. I call it cleaning up our gene pool.
Also just because an animal is a herbivore doesn’t mean it isn’t dangerous
I say if you're dumb enough to leave the safety of the vehicle and get eaten by a lion, it's natural selection at work. 😁
Common sense is being bred out of us. A caveman wouldn't go pet that cute fluffy at Yellowstone. He knows he will end up as a cave "selfie" about Ogg getting gored.
I have a civil arrangement with wild animals. There are to be no visits - either way - without a written invitation.
When arc welding, you must protect all your skin from the light, not just your eyes. The light is the real danger, not the heat. Welding unprotected is like putting your face right in front of a tanning bed of steroids
This goes for mig and tig welding too. On a related note, if you're welding galvanised steel and you start feeling dizzy and nauseous, you have zinc fever. Drink milk. No idea why this works but it does.
Milk is an 'over the counter' chelation therapy. It binds with the zinc and helps excrete it from the body. Heavy metals need a more intensive therapy administered by doctors or specialist trained nurses.
Load More Replies...Our Super Troopers ...powerful long-throw stage spotlights ...were carbon arc. So were the 60", 800,00,000 candlepower anti-aircraft searchlights we use for events. Every single outing, someone would hold up their kid to see the carbon arc up close. Unbelievable.
I remember Super Troopers, and when PAR-64’s were the mainstays of light shows. Ancient times.
Load More Replies...Back in the 90's, I saw Tanning Bed of Steroids downtown. Pretty hot back then.
They played the Crusty Munge near me. Three cracked skulls, four fights, and I found a tooth!
Load More Replies...My husband is a Boilermaker, & some of his scars are so deep from molten metal burning right through every layer.
Never ever get welding flash kids..it hurts like hell and you can’t ever do it again. Felt like I had sand in my eyes for weeks.
I'm so well- trained that I look away and recoil even when I see welding on TV ;)
I been welding 20 years an I constantly have to tell people this . Had one guy say he couldn't help it cause the light was pretty I said when u wake up with flash burn it won't be so pretty anymore. For reference flash burn is like having sand an glass in your eyes
I'm a translator. Sure, maybe you don't like my rates, but I assure you that your relative who spent a semester as an exchange student in Spain will not deliver quality work. Maybe you know a second language, but translation involves techniques more complex than knowing how to order a beer in Spanish.
Ask the Swedish people about their translation of the Lord of the Rings and you'll know this is true! That translation was utter rubbish and they had to wait till 2017 until they got a proper one
The translator needs to more than just the words; he/she also needs to know cultural context.
To say nothing of knowing slang and idioms
Load More Replies...My cousin translated for the E.U. many moons ago, she spoke six languages fluently but would only translate at E.U. meetings or when doing legal work from English to French or German, or vice versa. Too many complexities that required very deep knowledge of languages and you don’t want a botched legal document or two countries at loggerheads over the minutiae that is contained in differences between languages. She will order you a beer though 😂
Personally, I consider this easier than translating fiction, as legal language doesn't care about readability; only about accuracy. With the caveat that the accuracy must be high, no mistakes allowed. Also, I can translate a book but it would be hard for me to interpret at a meeting; that requires the ability to listen and speak at the same time, which I lack. I can read aloud in a different language, though.
Load More Replies...People knew that my mom had minored in Spanish in college, and so asked her to translate documents in Spanish for them. The trouble was that she had studied Medieval Spanish, not modern. If you got a letter from El Cid, she could help you. Otherwise, it was like asking a Latin scholar to translate an Italian newspaper.
I'm a translator. If your translator is not translating into his/her mother tongue, you may be in for an unpleasant surprise. How about neglecting to note that a 'New German' term for 'rucksack' might not go over well in your Xmas package to a client: 'We are pleased to present you with this body bag'
People ask me all the time why I don't translate from my native English into my second language, rather than the other way around. If you think about it for just two seconds you would realize that you can explain meaning clearly and understandably a million times better in a language you've spoken in every possible context all your life.
Load More Replies...Kinda unfair. His translater spoke a ridiculously large number of langues already and was used to translating out of polished instead of into polished.
Load More Replies...I remember President Carter giving a speech in Poland. He had hired a translator instead of having the State Department do it. When the Prez said that he loved the Polish people, the translator used the form of the word love which means lust after. Big blowback and shock wave there!
This is so true. When I charge 150 euros for a restaurant menu there is years of experience, not just about English and Spanish but food. What I'm not sure about I check. I've seen thinks like "Rape on the hotplate" ==> "Rape a la plancha" . You have to know enough to know what you don't know. Water with gas that's another favourite.
Don't get me started. I am Dutch, live in Italy, and fluent in English and Italian. The menus often are a horror show, but THE absolute worst are the public service announcements on trains etc. The way they pronounce Italian cities in English ..... nails on the blackboard 🥴
Load More Replies...Read any book in translation and you can tell quality work from hack work. I studied languages but I’m not a translator. But i get it enough to understand, I think, that translators often need to do their job twice: once for the straight translation into the second language, and then again Into something that reads more naturally. I’ve dumped books for clunky translation! (Example, from a YA book: “i pity the children” - correct and probably direct translation but not typically a phrase a young character might say. Should have been tweaked to “I feel sorry for the kids.”)
Yes. I generally take 2-3 weeks (if the deadline permits) so I could re-read my text after forgetting the original. Because after looking at English text for a long time, you may make mistakes. Keep the fixed word order - my language can order the words freely, that has to be made use of! English frowns on use of said-bookisms - my language frowns on NOT using them. And you need to know conotation and denotation! Many times I use a word that doesn't perhaps mean the same thing, but gives the same FEELING as the original. Plus, there is a continuum between translation that reads nice and translation that's accurate. Often, you must shaft the accuracy for readability or vice versa and this is always a case-by-case decision.
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If you leave any door open or don't clean you will eventually get pests. I regularly go to factories that have every garage door open and they wonder why they have mice. I also go to bars that have inches of syrupy goodness underneath all the appliances and they can't understand why they keep getting fruit flies. Exclusion and sanitation is the main form of pest control.
I compost my garbage (food) a ways out in my woods because I read that rats will range about 300 feet from their homes. In other words, I want that food source more than 300 feet from my house.
I heard mice don't go more than 100 feet... According to the pest control guy.
Load More Replies...Roaches and ants were getting inside through my dryer vent! Nothing is sacred!
a little tip...my dryer vent exits into our garage and the cars were getting covered in lint! so i got a 1 gal. size paint filter bag, cheap enuff and since it is nylon with an elastic opening i put it on the vent opening by tucking the top under the plastic edging...works great, is easily cleaned out by vaccuum.. ..i am pretty sure it would keep out insects too.! try it..simple enuff
Load More Replies...In late autumn, the mice will actively try to get in. One literally ran in the door with me once. So I'll add even pretty clean places can get critters too, because warm and cozy places are desirable.
Cleaning out my mom's old house I found a mouse nest in every nook and cranny. That was normal because she lived in the woods and refused to have a pet cat. What was funny is how they would have empty seed hulls and acorn hulls piled up around them. They would bring groceries home!
Load More Replies...I’m surprised that the pest control guy thinks it’s fruit flies in bars. While he absolutely has a point about the syrupy goodness being a pest magnet, bars get *drain* flies, not fruit flies. A bar sink is mostly used to dump the dregs of glasses into. All but very small bars have a glass-washing machine, and health codes require a separate hand-washing sink. Without regular “washing” with soap and/or hot water, the insides of the pipes of bar sinks develop this slimy coating where drain flies breed. They lay their eggs in the gunk, and they hatch there, too. Regular use of a chemical drain opener keeps them at bay; so does pouring a pot of boiling water down the drain once a week or so. Source: used to sell commercial bar equipment.
And let's not forget that roaches love cardboard so you can literally do everything perfect to keep your place clean and pest free and still end up with them because of shipments you receive. This is a constant concern at ny job so whenever we receive cardboard in of any kind it gets thoroughly inspected and disposed of quickly when necessary. I'm in a non food industry too but we can't take risks with the raw materials we manufacture and sell
When I temporarily moved to Floriduh I was shocked at how common roaches are in restaurants. I worked in one that hosed down the bar floor every night and capped all the liquor. Bug guy came every Saturday/Sunday and there were still roaches. I won't even get started about the fire ants that are bad enough outside but will invade a car that has coffee with sugar...
I buy a box of those sticky mouse pads/traps and keep one under every piece of furniture. I don't have any real pests but I'm always surprised by the number of spiders. I moved into a new place and one of those traps caught a SNAKE.
Those sticky pads are horrific torture devices. The animals trapped in them die horrible deaths. If used in places where there is any possibility of vertebrate animals getting trapped they need to be checked *at least* once a day, preferably twice.
Load More Replies...I keep my place very clean. My downstairs neighbor does not. He let's garbage pile up through his place including old food.. Because of that, pests from his place find their way into my place. He has been ordered to clean up but no follow up has been done to make sure he did so the pests keep coming in.
put it in wriiting...give it to the management company. if they dont follow up , call the health dept. thats b.s. letting disgusting people get away with that shiit.
Load More Replies...I work in a company that makes shampoo and conditioner plus other skin care products. During the summer time we have to keep all the overhead doors closed or screened off otherwise the scents from the chemicals will attract insects and they can get into the products. Who wants to get a bottle of shampoo or conditioner with a insect inside it?
but the reverse is not true; you cannot get rid of cockroaches (specifically) by denying them food, because A/ they are able to lie dormant for long periods and B/ you can't in practical terms deny them food, because they can eat the paper from the back side of your drywall or the glue that binds together your desk.
All that white "smoke" you're seeing from the local industrial plant is water vapour.
I assumed it meant the industrial plant elected a new industrial pope
We call the big plants with those big chimneys "Wolkenfabrik" (cloud factory) because everybody knows that the clouds are produced there. 😎
They even grant you a warranty about when, where, how much rain it will drop. Regengarantie, not to play around with - we takes this germanly serious, hahahahaha ... ha ... hahahaha - damned, I'm not even in the basement right now. :-(
Load More Replies...This. I'm tired seeing in almost every photo about industrial pollution some version of these cooling towers cooling-towers.jpg
because they look impressive. It's just water vapor...
I also think that one of the reasons they are perceived like that is because of an atomic plant phobia, because when they show you a picture of a nuclear plant they are the 1st thing you notice
Load More Replies...We had people protesting against a sugar factory because of the billowing clouds. That really was just water from boiling the molasses into sugar. But people are stupid and ignorant and don't know how their day to day groceries are produced. Most dangerous chemicals either emit grey clouds or are colourless.
That therapist have their s**t figured out and don't need therapy (we don't and we do and most of us have our own therapists and would be lost without them)
Let's say every therapist has a therapist, does that mean if I followed them around long enough, I could find the Alpha Therapist? The Therapist of all the Therapists. The Therabest if you will.
Hahaha. There are probably a lot more circles than pyramids.
Load More Replies...I thought that it was mandatory for any qualified therapist to have their own therapist. It can be traumatising listening to others woes (and some horrendous histories) all the time.
If I remember right (from Psych 101) it WAS standard practice for Freudian psychotherapists to be psychoanalyzed themselves before going into practice, and therapists would proudly trace their "therapeutic lineage" back to Sigmund Freud.
Load More Replies...No, not at all, unless you think all professions are MLM. They're just human. Dentists go to the dentist, doctors need a doctor, and therapists need therapy. Just like waitresses go dining or cashiers do grocery shopping.
Load More Replies...I yell at the TV "what the hell are you doing? Just ask her out!" And I can't watch sad movies. I think it I were a therapist, my career would be very short!
Most therapists don't like churches because their work is done faster and cheaper by clergy. If you don't like church, you probably need counselling! Go to a minister to get straightened out. Ironic, but true. God has the answers, even if you don't like the answers. Face the music and become honest; you'll live better.
Therapist: I've got enough problems of my own. What do I need with yours?
Graphic Designer here: We need a **vector** version of your logo, or at the very least a **large** image of it. No, we can't "blow up" that tiny pixalated one you use in your email.
I have asked this SO may times over the last couple of decades 🤣 No, we don’t have that magical enhance tool that they use on CSI!
What do you mean you cant zoom that 480p security video 20x and enhance it to look like 4K image after the zoom to read that product code label that is not even visible in the original video?
Load More Replies...Also photos for print need to be high resolution, at least 300dpi. If they're small dimensionally, even that's not high enough to keep them from blurring out if you stretch them out larger on the page than they're supposed to be.
This right here!! 33-year career of asking/clarifying/begging for this every week!
We're hiring you to create a vector version of our logo. I don't own a copy of Adobe Illustrator so I hired you. If I had a vector version of my logo, I would be sending it to the sign maker without contacting you first.
Yeah maybe you are, IF that's what you've asked for and what you're paying for. What the OP is describing is the common problem where the client would think they don't need to pay to have that work done because someone at the company paid someone else to create a logo (the original of which is likely now lost) ten years ago.
Load More Replies...Graphic designer here. I'm currently working at a sign company: it is in fact sometimes possible to blow up a low resolution image. We did it a couple of weeks ago with a 72 dpi image blown up to a 1 x 2 meter banner using special software, but of course it would have been better and cheaper (because of the time spent on the proces) to just have the vector version sent to us. I have recently seen new software that can blow up images from pixelated thumbnails (based on AI, I think). Can't wait to get my hands on that technology! :-)
Creative Director here: I cannot upvote this enough. Also stock is not a solution for custom locations or specific story telling. iStock is not going to have tons of pictures of your hometown. Yes you have to pay a local photographer. No, you can't use what you found on Google. No I cannot find you an entire 3-minute commercial stories worth of stock depicting several generations of family members who all look similar spanning over 40 years of time. Yes All of these examples are based on actual client requests/arguments.
Patient Transporter for a hospital here. If you have any kind of fall risk like possible stroke or whatever, we have to put a gait belt on you and make you use bed/chair alarms unless you sign a waiver. Otherwise, if you fall, and that gait belt isn't on, we are instantly very fired. Quit making my life miserable and let me just put the damn belt on. Providing for my fam overshadows your stubbornness. Where I work, if you are wearing a yellow armband, you will be wearing a gait belt. Men are the worst when it comes to this.
The 1 time I had to have a gait belt I had the guy cracking up taking about how I must have Karate Kid skills because he gave me the belt. I crack jokes when under stress and a lot of medical people seem to appreciate it. Like the guy trying to put the ECG stickers on me and my boob was in the way. I told him he could just toss it back over my shoulder and he lost it.
I do the same. I would rather make their day rather than ruin it no matter the situation.
Load More Replies...Just an idea, put a big chrome buckle on that gait belt. Maybe the guys will like it more.
Maybe some rhinestones and metal studs too.
Load More Replies...I second this... carers deserve appreciation and support. ,
Load More Replies...I’m sorry you have to go through this. One thing I’d ask you to consider is that there’s often a lot of pride involved, and potentially cognitive issues, and that can make people who are otherwise not, appear to be, or be jerks. It’s extremely confronting to the patient who often in these case is getting a insight to their mortality, or potentially a massive change to their lives as they know them, or they may just really be confused. Just maybe keeping this in mind might help it frustrate you less (maybe). ETA would correct my spelling but correcting it for me seems to be giving PattyK something to do in their spare time so…
Or being in pain can put people on their less-than-best behavior.
Load More Replies...I'm guessing they're also too stubborn to sign the waiver. I feel people know the game they're playing. How can close can I be "independent and free" while still being able to blame and sue others? Nothing screams entitled more than this behavior. Learn personal responsibilities. If you don't want help sign off on it, if you want help don't be a b***h and just take the help. Knowing when you need assistance is strength.
When I came to a care facility of my own accord for needing a wheelchair, I didn't give the world permission to treat me like a helpless idiot. Knock off the lawsuit phobia and let people live!
Load More Replies...I had a male patient who didn't want to put a patient gown on. He was fine being naked from the waist up! I (female physician) was not fine with it and finally had to be rude to him to get him to wear one.
I respectfully ask you why do hospital staff ask the same questions over and over and over again?
I'm not sure I've ever had a gait belt and I have been a fall risk. But it's usually because I can get easily dehydrated so maybe I just don't remember. They usually just stress for me to stay in bed and call if I need to get up. And the bed alarm, of course, because I don't always follow instructions.
They should refuse the yellow armband then. Problem solved (or rather, moved up the ladder)😉
That shouldn't be an option. An armband to alert staff members to a fall risk is simply intraoffice communication. A gait belt, on the other hand, is a direct, physical component of your care, so it (fortunately or not) falls under the heading of "optional". Someone please correct me if I'm misinterpreting.
Load More Replies...Just because you signed up on the organ donor registry does not mean a team will run in when you die and take your organs. In fact, there is only a remote chance that you will die in the rare criteria necessary for donation to take place.
Then even if you do die in the right circumstances your organs are likely rubbish and can't be used
It's worth the try. When my older brother died suddenly, the doctor told us later his donations saved 64 lives. Tissue, blood, skin, kidneys, bones, marrow, eyes, lungs, heart, liver, experimentation, veins, arteries, muscles, tendons, -----God only knows what else. He never drank or smoked, was fairly athletic.
Load More Replies...Me too! I have the donor heart on my license, it's stated in my will, and Hubby knows to give away any part that can be used.
Load More Replies...I don't like this one. We all put ourselves on the donor list with the fairytale wish that we will help/save someone else upon our passing. I am a donor and when die, I hope I help you!
I am on the donor register, and when I die I hope i'm so old and decrepit, they have to pick me up carefully so I won't fall apart.
Load More Replies...I'm not in the greatest health, but if what's left over of me can help others, go ahead and reuse it.
It won't cost the donor's family a cent.
Load More Replies...This isn't exactly true. If you do fit the criteria, a ghoulish man will come in while your loved one is laying there brain dead, and as you are still trying to fathom how the hell your whole life was just ripped away from you and the most important person in the world to you will never open his eyes again, the ghoul will tell you how great all his organs are, in fact at 48, his organs are in the condition of a healthy 25 year old, how lucky that is, and continue to try to talk you into letting them take everything, literally like he's a car being stripped for parts, down to his penis and face. All of this, when just 2 days ago, you were lying in bed, happily looking forward to his next 4 days off because he just worked 9 graveyard shifts in a row of what was supposed to be a part time job. At least this was my experience.
omg, i am so,very, sorry for your devastating loss.
Load More Replies...However, corneal donation can be done up to 24 hours after death, and the gift of sight is life changing for someone else.
What's wrong with that? The body farm at the University of Tennessee helps the good guys figure out what happens to humans after they die. All the information that they learn helps them catch the bad guys and bring them to justice. I know some people who have already set it up so their bodies go there after they die.
Load More Replies...My ex didn't want to declare as an organ donor on his driver's license. He felt that if the hospital knew, they would not save him because they wanted his organs.
Oh, and in the US, the patients family will get the bill for the transplant team to remove the organs of their loved one. The recipient gets the organs and another bill. The donors family gets nothing at all
That's rubbish! If you donate it should be just that a donation
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I am a grave digger. No, I don't dig the grave with a shovel.
Okay, no shovel. But you DO dig it at midnight while holding an old timey lantern right?
Grave digger, when you dig my grave, can you make it shallow, so that I can feel the rain?
If you can feel the rain, your burial was premature.
Load More Replies...Many of us dig our own graves. And no, we don't use a shovel, either.
Why do people need toget the graves of their deceased acquaintances dug? (I'm Hindu,so we really don't have the concept of burying the dead)
In the US when someone dies, we typically bury them in a coffin in the ground. Most of the time these plots of land will hold entire families. We call the place where they are buried a cemetery. Living loved ones often visit and talk with their deceased relatives. Please keep in mind that not everyone is buried. My mother was cremated and we placed her ashes in a local river spot called the Brazos de Dios (her choice). I hope this helped 🙂
Load More Replies...Where I grew up it was dynamite and a backhoe. The soil was maybe 6 to 12 inches deep on top of a hill. Great place for a church, terrible place for the cemetary.
I can't make the damn milky coffee any hotter because then it boils and when you boil milk with a steamer it either curdles or burns, and then you complain and I have to give you your money back and/or make you another coffee that you will INSIST I boil
So much trauma from being a barista in my early 20s. If people wanted extra hot milk, the highest I could steam it without messing up my machine was about 183 degrees and that’s with a small amount of milk. Once it hits that level of hot, milk starts spewing out the pitcher like lava and thats not worth the burn marks or broken multi thousand dollar machine. And that’s just regular 2%. But it will still happen. I’ve still seen satan dressed as a woman pop the lid right off and gulp that down immediately. People are wild.
Satan dressed as a woman popped the lid off and drank it…. I love this. Hilarious
Load More Replies...People want coffee that is 212 F ?? Internet says health damage starts at about 140 F
I was a barista at an artisanal coffee shop and people would ask for the drinks super hot... like they were trying to sue us lol.. i asked a customer why she does this.. she says its cause shes talking and she wants her coffee to stay warm as long as possible... but then they complain cause it "tastes burnt".. hell yeah...you ordered and paid me to burn it for you.
I don't get why people want such dangerously hot drinks. They cannot possibly be drinking it at that temperature, and it's a liability waiting to happen.
It depends. When my stomach decides I'm evil and need to be punished the only thing that helps is to drink tea made with water that was boiling only minutes before
Load More Replies...I get mine At 130-140 that's it. I despise super hot coffee. I want to enjoy it now not 5 hours later when it cools down to a drinkable temperature
I get mine child temperature and even that’s too hot for me.
Load More Replies...You add milk and/or cream to cool a hot coffee off. What is even wrong with some people?!..
I thought the point of adding milk was to cool it to a drinkable temperature
If you just exercise regularly you can prevent a majority of physical, psychological, and physiological issues. Source: am a physical therapist.
Just for the first week or two until you get stretched out and used to the activity. I hate the first couple weeks of nice weather as I have to start on my bicycling. I just take it easy and do a little more each day.
Load More Replies...More accurately, you can reduce the chances of having issues and the severity of many issues you do have/get. It does not actually prevent most issues. But the benefits of healthy living are still worth it.
Thanks for the balanced perspective among the hysteria.
Load More Replies...This is a load of bs. This smells like those kinds of people who say that you don't need medication for x illness, just go for a jog. Doesn't always work that way!
Exercise does NOT prevent the "majority of psychological issues". Jeez dude, you are not a psychiatrist or psychologist, you have no basis for saying that.
So true. I exercise regularly and still suffer from anxiety and mild depression. Sure, staying active helps provide some relief (well, for me it does, everyone is different) but mental health and psychological issues are much more complex.
Load More Replies...If I just didn't have a reactive lung disease I could exercise and cook...like I did for years. Check your privilege!
Saying "just exercise" is extremely dismissive of those of us who'd love to still be able to do so, though. Nothing is "just" so simple.
'If you just....' often leads to judgment. Be cautious with those words (general advice here)
Agreed. It's very belittling of a person and whatever the person's issue is. Not to mention oversimplifying and arrogant.
Load More Replies...Um, physical therapist, can you explain to my 2nd orthopedic surgeon why my years of exercising (paid trainers and yoga dvds) caused a calcium cyst and a bone spur in my ankle? And why he had to find me a different physical therapist because the first one was giving me improper advice?
Astronomer here! We don’t actually just sit up all night looking at stars. No one actually has that job. Instead, like most things these days, I download data from telescopes off the internet that an observer takes for me and analyze them in my office. I have literally published papers using data taken by telescopes I’ve never seen. There are definitely still some telescopes you need to visit to take data, but they are fewer and fewer these days.
Sad. I'd rather think you are looking at the stars instead of a computer screen.
The really cool telescopes like James Webb are not only inaccessible to visitors, you have to convince a whole bunch of people where to point them to get your data. There are plenty of amateur astronomers looking up at the starts at night in their back yard but the ones getting paid to look at the skies need more powerful tools to observe what they want and that means it ends up on a computer.
Not every person diagnosed with Autism is f*****g Rain Man. Also, I cannot make your child magically talk in a few months. Speech is not a behaviour that can be changed through behaviour modification. Note: This is toooooootally just my personal opinion from working in the public sector. I’m sure there are a lot of wonderfully qualified individuals who have the time and skill to teach it as a behaviour. Most publicly funded places do not and I’m speaking to that.
I'm autistic and I'm sure as hell not brilliant with numbers. Mind you, I'm also very good at talking. Not every autistic person is nonverbal.
My son has autism and talking is his favourite thing. Unfortunately he talks AT you, not to you.
Load More Replies...I know someone who complained her kid wasn't speaking by 4, she doesn't talk to the kid. He hears screaming, yelling and demands. Did speech language therapy and wonder why her kid didn't magically pick it up without input from her.
I knpw of one with autisme, he have learned the busplans for those buses he uses, so now passengers ask him about the arrival to different stops, instead of the driver.
I knew a guy who was autistic and incredibly obsessed with planes. If you went outside with him and any plane flew over, he could tell you what number it was, what airport it had come from, where it was going, and the exact arrival and departure times. So when it was time to sort out my flight home and dealing with frustrating airport bureaucracy, I think you can guess who I asked for help. He sorted it out in five minutes, and in returned asked me to get the kosher meal and take pictures for his collection, which I of course did. (On the way over, I had also stolen some airsickness bags for him. Tit for tat!).
Load More Replies...My son is on the spectrum and his school's Speech Pathologist at school had him talking within months. By the time he was in high school, he could engage in a 2 sided conversation. If it was your topic, maybe talk for 2-3 minutes. If it was his topic, you almost couldn't get him to shut up. And I say that with love and gratitude.
It can be both. Ideally, it should always involve a multidisciplinary team to specialize in each of the person’s concrete and individual needs, but sadly this is out of reach for most families.
Load More Replies...And then there are 'healthy' people that don't have the temperament or social skills needed to work in the public sector, never mind with those who have developmental problems.
Mechanical engineers are not mechanics.
That's obvious if you've ever tried to do the slightest bit of work on a newer car. Replace headlight: Step 1) Loosen motor mounts.
... that sure is an issue... I've recently changed a headlight's bulb. Had to take a wheel off to gain access to the backside of the light unit, which was another ridiculous mess by itself. But, tbh, most times engineers want things to be practical, to be easy to fix, to generally be good and well thought ... but some penny pinchers above us in hierarchy want cars to be in the workshop rather than anything done at home ... and there is, kind of, a tendency to joyfully accuse us of being "unable to do any phyiscal task", "only good in theory", and so on. No, we're not. We don't decide that efficiency is only relevant within the standard driving cycles ... higher ups want that, shareholder value as only target whatsoever supports such dumb decisions like using a turbocharger only able to take 950°C instead of the 1050°C version on cars having a six figure price in Euro or USD ... we're not that bad. But still, some of us are downright stupid, of course ... but ... not in general.
Load More Replies...No, but they can be! My Dad had an electrical engineering degree. He could not only design intricate electrical systems, he could also install them and keep them working. Today's engineering students are missing that practical application skill.
It's the engineers job to make things impossible for mechanics to repair. It's the mechanics job to repair it anyway to make the engineers try harder. And cycle goes on and on and on...its the circle of machinery.
Pharmacy assistant. Run out of your prescription for prescription only medication that you'll die without? We can't help you. We are not Doctors. Maybe ask for your prescription earlier next time? Don't leave it until the last minute and then scream at me for your error?
Problem is when your doctor says he sent it in and the pharmacy says they didn't get it and you go back and forth for 3 weeks trying to get it refilled and ran out 2 days ago, what do you do?
Ask the damned Dr for a printed, signed and stamped script and take that in, along with a phone call from the Dr stating they're sending you in with said prescription. My pharmacist will ring the Dr and ask then get them to resend it. But knowing they've had a few issues with that system, my Dr has sent me in with the printed script, just in case.
Load More Replies...Hard to get a prescription filled when the pharmacy won't fill it until the last minute. I've gotten so much B.S. from pharmacies about prescriptions over the years... If I can get mine refilled on the day its supposed to without any.pushback from the pharmacy, it gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside.
Sorry mate, it's not your pharmacies fault, it's your insurance company's. There are literally so many issues that people blame on pharmacies which they unfortunately have 0 control over. Your insurance will not pay for your medicine claim until 3-5 days before you finish your 30 day supply of medicine ~10-14 days before you finish your 90 day supply of medicine. You're welcome to pay cash and I'll give you as much medicine as you can afford / your prescription allows for.
Load More Replies...In Australia (or at least in my state. God damnit poisons regulations why are you all different), from a legal standpoint, pharmacists can dispense three days of emergency supply in a, well, emergency. Pharmacy assistants have even less room to wiggle because they're technically not pharmacists at all and can really only hand out certain medications anyway. Staff will, of course, do their best to chase up your doctor if the script is wrong/missing/etc., but when push comes to shove there is nothing that can be done. People have lost their certifications and ended up in court over less, and an illegal script medication from a pharmacy assistant would probably take out the entire staff due to the whole chain of command and liability.
There is a Nicholas Cage movie where he is in a pharmacy cutting to the front of a long line, and he threatens to beat any complainers until they pee blood. He needs to read what this angry pharmacy assistant has to say.
There are many reasons why prescriptions from doctors get delayed and most are not the patient's. Also some elderly or sick clients can get the timing of prescriptions confused. If my pharmacist had this kind of attitude he/she would be out of business quickly.
Agree with you. Compassion is so important. It runs both ways so try to have compassion for those who work in the pharmacy also because they are caught in the middle of doctors, insurance companies, and patients. The pharmacies get blamed a lot, but all they do is follow your doctor's orders, charge you what your own insurance company says to charge you, and listen to people's verbal abuse with patience - it gets to you after a while.
Load More Replies...Or the doctor fir not instantly dropping everything to write your prescription.
It’s not always the patient’s error. I had a pharmacy flat out lie to my face multiple times that my son’s doctor had not sent in his prescription refill just cus it was a compound med and they didn’t feel like making it.
It's usually not the patient's fault, but even though you may not want to believe this about your doctor, it's probably their office's fault. Pharmacies are required by law to keep accurate records, have your pharmacy show you the original prescription and check the date on the prescription, you may be surprised that it was in fact sent in late by the doctor's office.
Load More Replies...I used a pharmacy that would tell me I was out of refills but my pill bottle said I had refills left. Got tired of it and switched pharmacies.
When you take out a loan to purchase something, then you return it, sell it, cancel it, or whatever.... You kinda still need to pay off your loan. It doesn't go away when what you bought with it does.
They are saying if you took out a car loan for $4000 and crashed the car, the insurance company gives you a check for $4000 (being generous). You need to put the $4000 towards the original loan. People often don't do that.
Load More Replies...Especially true with homes! If it burns down, your insurance money first goes to your mortgage holder. What money is left is yours to use on rebuilding. Always make sure your insurance is going to pay what your item is worth! That is why they sell 'gap' insurance on cars.
We paid for gap insurance on my daughter's first car, the car was written off when someone smashed into it while it was parked and it was a nightmare trying to get the gap insurance to pay up. We knew they had to as we had read all the policy documents but they tried everything to not.
Load More Replies...Like student loans? If you can't pay it back maybe just don't get it to buy a new Playstation.
I wish I didn't believe there are people that don't understand this, but I do...
Bud Lite spent a lot of ad time during the Superbowl shaming Miller for having corn adjuncts. Well, Bud uses rice adjuncts, and both corn and rice do little to flavor. They're meant to boost alcohol so that neither company spends much money on malt, which is where most flavor is derived from. That's the real reason they taste so s****y. Bud lite also shamed mead. F**k you, mead is amazing. It's the drink of the hero! It's probably as old as beer is, too. It's not a drink for wimps, it's a drink for Vikings. You should all know there's better booze out there than factory beer.
In Germany beer is strictly regulated. No ne of those corn or rice adjuncts allowed. But I work for a very international company and it's very funny to see an American drinking German beer for the first time.
Mr. Bud, Mr. Miller and Mr. Tuborg went to a bar. Mr. Bud ordered a Bud, Mr. Miller ordered a Miller, and Mr Tuborg ordered a Perrier. Bud asks him, "what, no Tuborg?". Says Mr. Tuborg, "if you guys are drinking water so am I".
This is why I don't drink mainstream domestic beer anymore. I stick to small or craft breweries or imports. I don't drink for the buzz, I drink for the flavor. Guinness Extra Stout FTW
Once I discovered craft beer, I haven't been able to go back to megabrews. Shouldn't have said I would drink a PBR when the Cubs won the World Series!
Load More Replies...I've been very drunk on mead several times and it's a really different experience than getting drunk on beer or cider. No hangover though which is always a good thing.
Don’t buy that bland excuse for a beer. Buy Budvar or Czechvar or Budweiser Budvar, depending on which country you are in! Even better, find a local microbrewery, sample their wares and find the perfect beer for you, support local handmade breweries and enjoy the rich variety of beer that’s out there. Bud is just a marketing colossus, it’s better at advertising than making quality, flavourful beer.
I don't drink at all, so I'm not actually effected by this particular one.
I work in the financial sector. Yes you do need to provide proof of your income. No-one will lend you huge sums of money without knowing whether you have the means to repay it. Should have made it clear I am in the UK
Borrowing money should be a last resort except for really large purchases such as a house. Only use a credit card if you can pay it off each month. The price you pay for something goes up almost exponentially the longer it takes you to pay your bill in full. Carrying a balance will make you broke & your banker/credit card company/lender rich.
It is hugely important to shop for cards by looking at interest rates and extra fees. The best card I found is the one from my credit union. I have been with this credit union since 1986 and plan on never leaving.
Load More Replies...There was a horrid high street retailer called Brighthouse (UK) who sold things like sofas, washing machines and fancy Sony TVs etc. to people with poor credit ratings, on a weekly payment basis. They charged 69.9% - 99.9% APR and were basically just fleecing the poor and the less well-off. The banks were saying 'no, we can't give you a £400 loan for a new washing machine because we don't think you have the means to repay it', but Brighthouse was saying 'come to us, we'll lend you £400 for this shiny new washer, but it's gonna cost you £1200 over three years and if you miss a payment we'll keep your money and repossess the washer'. Absolute predatory scum. They went under in 2020. Too bad, so sad.
Banks always will give you a loan as soon as you can prove you're rich enough not to need one
The "deals" you see, particularly in a flyer or Holiday Event, are most likely pre-planned deals. Some of these items are also bought specifically for that flyer or event, meaning the advertised price is the just the base price. You're not savings as much as you think.
Still cheaper than buying on a normal day, so, yeah I'm saving money. Yorkshire teabags, reduced from £8 to £5. "Planned deal"... ok, but I'm still not paying £8 for it, so.... saving.
When a company has a going out of business sale, much of the merchandise is ordered specifically for the sale (my b.i.l. does this for a living) not just to get rid of what they had
Yep, we have a nearby sportswear company nearby that goes out of business 2 or 3 times a year. Always has lots of stock.
Load More Replies...When I changed from menstrual pads to a mooncup a friend once pointed out to me how the pads were on sale and how much I could have saved if I still used them. I said, yeah, but now I save even more when O don't have to buy them at all! Savings on shopping are relative. And rest assured, no matter how much you can 'save' the company is still making a pretty profit! The only way to really save money is to buy reusable and durable things that make it so you don't have to buy again
You're still saving if you're not buying them on the higher price (and in case you really need them). You're not saving if you buy it just because it is on promotion.
I worked food retail for a while and companies will change the price to a cent lower and say its a sale and people will buy it. Always pay attention to the actual prices of things.
And as this flyer for the sale is printed, set up in what can be 3 or even 4 months out, doesn't mean there'll be plenty of items available. Sometimes items have almost sold out before hand, so you could be out of luck on sale day.
No matter the base price, I still pay less, so I am saving. Obviously the company must profit to exist and that's why sales are sales only for customers
And the "customer loyalty card" is the bane of my existence. Used to be you go to the store, grab what you want and pay for it. Do you really think if I dutifully carry your card I'll visit your specific grocery more often? Do people really think the store is sacrificing a few dollars to offer deals only on their card? They raised prices a tiny bit across the board to drop prices on specific items using the card.
Your tax refund is not a mini lottery. Excluding certain credits, you cant get back more than you had withheld.
If you're getting a huge amount back you're having too much withheld and letting the government use it interest free.
Absolutely correct. You want it as close to zero, as possible.
Load More Replies...People who enjoy getting a large tax refund need to understand that they just let someone use their money for free. I know interest rates are low right now but even 1% is better than nothing.
And that money sitting with the government could be available to you for emergency situations.
Load More Replies...I worked phones for the IRS and had one caller who regularly owed one dollar in taxes every year - s/he (or their accountant) was really good at this
If you live on a fixed income (large or small), make quarterly tax payments, and don't itemize, this is not that difficult to do, if you really want to.
Load More Replies...I had a "friend" who refused to enter her donations for tax credit " I am not having the government pay for my donations" I could not get her to understand that she was just getting the money back she GAVE the government. I finally convinced her to re-donate all the money she got back... and then take it off her tax's to do it again.
I am a tech support. We are not gods. user: "My mail server is down" Me: "We are aware of it. Its a general issue, one server is down. We escalated the issue to the people in charge of server and they are working on a fix." User: "BUT I NEED IT NOW, FIX IT"
Important PSA: Do NOT send the helpdesk the link that gave your computer a virus. Do not email them to report that your email is not working. Thank you.
That would be like pushing the doctor off the cliff that broke your arm
Load More Replies...Oh, I long for tech support that will actually admit there is a problem.
Luckily, where I work, the IT Department has the first and last say. You want to send me a mouthy emails, or have a go at me when I pop into your office? Good luck. I work in infrastructure, not client support. And I'm sorry Susan, but I have the skillset and knowledge to manage the network of an entire University Campus, including all of the cyber security and firewalls, and with an averag of 5000 student in during term time, and you put numbers in an excel sheet. I'm not better than you in any way, but one of us is easier to replace.
Yet, I have run into tech support where they do think they are gods. Once I walked in on a manager in tears from the way the tech was treating her on the phone. I looked over the issue and picked up the phone. The tech started on me, but I talked over him, told him the steps taken and results. His response was "Oh. We will send someone out right away." Another time, same company, my BOSS was on the phone with a tech and he asked if there was a male manager available. I wish she would have filed a complaint...
Paramedic. We’re not “ambulance drivers” who turn up and take your relatives to hospital no questions asked. Nor are we here just to check your child over because they grazed their knee. Stop and think: am I likely to die if I don’t have this ambulance? If the answer is no, then you don’t need the ambulance.
Or just "Am I in any condition to operate a motor vehicle." Broken leg probably won't cause immediate death, but may make braking difficult.
But that could easily evolve into a life threatening injury, so ... after all, we just skip some steps, you know ... don't brake another limb, or bruise our entire chest by non airbag, unworn seatbelt, rearending somebody else, ...
Load More Replies...I wasn't going to die from a shattered pelvis, but I was definitely not gonna drive or be driven to the ER sitting in a vehicle! Bonus: When the ambulance arrived, they hit my car with the gurney I was on.
I get the idea. But if gramma or pawpaw falls "I", meaning everybody, can't just load them into their car or (worse) truck and get them to the e.r. Even if they claim they can. The ambulance isn't a taxi. But a taxi for those who need the extra help.
Sorry, no, this is dangerous advice and makes the assumption people know the difference. In reality the average person wouldn’t know the difference between life threatening or not, each can look like the other very easily. Heart attacks are often written off as other things and people “don’t want to bother” medical professionals. If a person is medically unwell or physically injured, and they need assistance to get to hospital or potential on site treatment, they need an ambulance. Full stop. Additionally the on-site treatment alone when the ambo arrives could be the difference between life and death. I am sorry for the a******s who call for scraped knees, that’s not ok. But don’t scare others off because of them, this message could literally cause a death.
This particular paramedic seems myopic and cynical for the type of job he is doing. As many have mentioned broken or damaged anything can prevent a person from driving or being able to be safely transported in a car. Then there is the back injuries that could lead to paralysis, the disabled and elderly that cannot move safely on their own steam even to be a passenger in a car, well you get it, this guy is a douche to say this like it's a sensible rule of thumb at all.
Ambulances in USA is a business. So if they are called they will charge you. In civilized countries are a public service. And even if you are not likely to die, they will take your broken bone to ER. At no price.
Just because we can do it well, doesn't mean it's easy and you can just pay less or worse, demand it free.
Wow, what is this even about? Brain surgery? Rug cleaning? Gun for hire?
Usually artists and craftsmen. "Hey, it only took you 2 hours, give it to me for free and make another one."
Load More Replies...Wait, I thought you enjoyed doing it! I just want to give you exposure!
The whole "exposure" thing cracks me up. Unless you are a direct friend/family member, how did you find me? I'm already exposed enough if the likes of you twerps can locate my contact info.
Load More Replies...Just because you make it look easy, same with any musical instrument. Nobody just picks up a guitar and starts playing. It takes years of playing and practising. The likes of Duane Allman or Jimmy Page worked and session musicians. BB king played in the streat for years.
This. People don't realize that your paying for the fact that they have spent hours learning the trader to be able to figure out the problem in a shorter time
Hours? Years, more like. And the more experience, the higher the price should be.
Load More Replies...Don't have ANY water contact when wearing your lenses. Especially swimming. I get you can't see, but no, this isn't a valid excuse for threatening your sight by swimming in lenses. I'm not doing this to be difficult! And no, just because you've done it for years without any problems, doesn't make it okay!
Don't wear contact lenses when using any sort of electrical welder. They will literally fuse to your corneas
I didn't know that wearing contact lenses and water were bad, is this common knowledge? Had to look it up, it can cause eye infections, irritation and corneal ulcers (what are those?! sounds awful!)
Additional advice: don't eat hot peppers with your bare hands while wearing contacts. Learned that one the hard way...
I wear prescription goggles for swimming, but if I just want a gentle swim I wear a pair if glasses that are one or two prescriptions behind my current one. They aren't good enough to wear for general everyday tasks but they're good enough to stop be bumping into the sides of the pool or other swimmers.
I wear glasses and no if I went swimming I would not wear glasses just because I can't see. Wouldn't that be the same with contact lenses?
If you lose a contact while skiing, do not bother grovelling around in the snow to find it. Been there, done that for an hour.
What about glasses? You know...when you want to look stylish while doing the backstroke.
Hairstylist. There is no such thing as a “regular haircut” or “typical little boy haircut” or things like that. These phrases mean absolutely nothing to us. What one person thinks is a regular cut another person may think is not. Please don’t treat us like we have no idea what we’re doing when we politely try to get you to expand a bit on these phrases, so you don’t have a haircut you hate. There is no such thing as good, quality box dye so please quit asking for suggestions on that. The ingredients and level of control a stylist has with professional hair color will always out weigh any box dye. In the same token, don’t expect to have healthy, beautiful hair and long lasting color if you’re using Pantene. Quit asking for my suggestions for “good drugstore shampoo for colored hair”. It doesn’t exist. We’re not just trying to sell you product when we say this. Hell, I’ll send my clients to Ulta for their crazy sales on professional shampoo just so I know they’re using good stuff. Oh, also, you’re always taking a risk when you buy salon-only brands at drug stores or amazon. It’s completely possible it’s not even the same product, just a re-used bottle. Or expired. I’ve seen professional products on grocery store shelves this year that were discontinued 5 years ago.
Not true on box colours, if it’s a brand that makes professional hair colour then the box products will usually be reliable and of good quality, as they usually use older formulas that were previously salon only before new formulas were released. It will not be AS good as the salon colour, but it is still good quality. It’s the user that makes the mistakes, in either application, or thinking that they understand colour theory etc. And there are good “drugstore” shampoos for coloured hair, they’re just few and far between and may not work for everyone. A sulphate free shampoo of any brand will help. Agree Pantene is truly awful and damaging, but we need to stop being snobs and recognise that a person may not be able to afford salon products. Too many hairdressers are indoctrinated by the brands, it’s frustrating.
And here's something I wish people knew; if your hair is unhealthy nothing you use will make it look like it's not unhealthy, even those swanky salon brands.
Load More Replies...TIL I'm a boring old man. Saying "regular men's cut" has worked fine for me for years and at multiple barbers. I agree there can be some variants what regular means but for older men it's a basic classic military haircut. Mind you, I'm talking older barbers, not hair stylists. Their focus was on the basics for men.
That's because they probably just shorten your cut that's still visible. But if you'd get lost on an island and came back with a bush man's beard and Jesus locks, I guarantee you they'd ask you to elaborate what you mean. This is about people who have really outgrown hair and ask for such stuff when no hairstyle is recognizable anymore.
Load More Replies...Alot of this is BS. Chemically they're remarkably the same. This person has swallowed their industry's Kool-Aid.
I worked in a salon for years and know that this is not true all of the time.
Funny how if you take an aspirin at home, your doctor won't blink, but use a box dye even just once and your hairdresser just goes right off...
As part of continuing education for my Ohio cosmetology license I took a coloring class. The instructor demonstrated and explained how box colors can be used to create beautiful color if you know what you're doing. If people used common sense and realized that you can't take your dark brown hair to blonde with a box of L'Oréal or dye your grey red and expect it not to be pink or wash out....just spend the $150 twice a year and get a pro to do your hair.
Not evert one can afford the salon shampoos. Most of us are stuck with what we can afford.
The first ones like walking into a new McDonald's (or any at all) and asking for the usual
A few years I hit on the trick of keeping, on my phone, a photo of my head in the desired post-hair-operation state, makes life a lot easier as I don't speak Hairsylist Language and my attempts to describe what I want invariably ended up as an expression of the hairstylist's own interpretation.
Zookeeper. It's a lot of cleaning, patience, and physical effort. Not cuddling animals all day.
Yes, worked at a small fauna park in Australia, and it's mainly cleaning up dung..... And the unholy truth of it, all those cute lambs and goats in the petting zoos?... They don't retire to a farm when they grow up, they usually become food for the carnivores... My rude awakening to that fact was when I cleared the remains of my favorite goat out of the eagles cage!!
Load More Replies...Human Stool Technician here. So you flush a gajillion tampons and condoms down your toilet and then call me out to snake your sewer? Guess what. It’s going to take a lot more than talk to bring about world peace. “Plumbers: we’re deeper than you think.”
And grease, "flushable" wipes, cleaning pads, maxi- pads, money, credit/debit cards, drivers licenses, toy cars, bouncy balls...the list goes on and.on and on.
Load More Replies...Callcenter agents don't sit around and wait for calls. It's one of the most active professions in the world. You have calls back on back, as soon as you end one call, the next comes in. There's rarely ever any downtime. If you work in a callcenter you'll have 100% work. The only time you're not working is when you're going to the toilet or on a break. That's one of the reasons why it's such hard work and people are burning out so often. It's very straining and grossly underpaid. Also when you work in customer service most other departments will think you're less important than them. My boss once gave the whole CS department three days off and made the other departments do our job besides their own to teach them more respect. After that they begrudgingly admitted that our department was just as important as theirs because no one would get any work done if we wouldn't be there to shield them from the customers constant demands while getting them the information they need to do their job.
Then they implemented that virtual hold c**p, where the customer could hang-up, but keep their place in the queue - basically the system would automatically call them back and "push" them to an available agent when they answered. Then there were callbacks for various other issues too. So no real downtime at all. Yeah, was a call center sup for over 14 years - the job is no joke.
Load More Replies...Teacher from South Africa (government school). Screaming at the teacher because your child failed is not going to do anything. There are specific procedures that teachers have to follow when your child isn't passing. The department has to approve the retention and they will take everything into account. No, your child didn't fall because "the teacher hates him".
MD here. That one about exercise needs its own caveat: One program does not fit all, and physiotherapists (physical therapists in the US) have told me outright they LLOVE that myth. It keeps them in business. In fact. Crossfit is their favorite ever exercise program, and they'll promote it knowing people will end up coming back in need of therapy. Much as we hate it, old injuries and DNA do affect how we can/should exercise, as does age. So... If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. No pain does not equal no gain. No pain equals... no pain. You *can* go gentle.
I don't work in Air transport but I would assume If the pilots do not receive clearance from ATC, they cannot do much about it. It's not always the airline's fault either, and particularly it's not the pilot nor flight attendants' fault. I believe it bugs them just as much as the passengers. You shouting at them won't make the plane take off. (had terrible experiences with obnoxious passengers going crazy after the crew).
Broadcast Camera-operator here, Yes I need to stand precisely here and no, I don't know when the game/ concert/ show will air ;-)
Surgeons don't put their arms up all the time and they don't drop metallic objects with a clink onto a metal basin, like in the movies.
If a surgeon drops their hands below their waist then they have broken sterile procedures and have to go repeat the process from the beginning. A metal basin is not considered sterile, so again, if the surgeon touches it they have broken sterile protocols. If you work with surgeons that are ignoring these protocols then you are killing patients.
Load More Replies...One thing I always wish people knew is that you can flush a toilet if it won't fill with water. If you have a bucket and a water source, you can make it flush, but you do have to pour a bunch in at once. Just good to know. Just don't waste your potable water if you need it for drinking
I think most of these things are obvious to the rest of us too. Also, there's a difference between not caring and not knowing (though they often coincide).
Zookeeper. It's a lot of cleaning, patience, and physical effort. Not cuddling animals all day.
Yes, worked at a small fauna park in Australia, and it's mainly cleaning up dung..... And the unholy truth of it, all those cute lambs and goats in the petting zoos?... They don't retire to a farm when they grow up, they usually become food for the carnivores... My rude awakening to that fact was when I cleared the remains of my favorite goat out of the eagles cage!!
Load More Replies...Human Stool Technician here. So you flush a gajillion tampons and condoms down your toilet and then call me out to snake your sewer? Guess what. It’s going to take a lot more than talk to bring about world peace. “Plumbers: we’re deeper than you think.”
And grease, "flushable" wipes, cleaning pads, maxi- pads, money, credit/debit cards, drivers licenses, toy cars, bouncy balls...the list goes on and.on and on.
Load More Replies...Callcenter agents don't sit around and wait for calls. It's one of the most active professions in the world. You have calls back on back, as soon as you end one call, the next comes in. There's rarely ever any downtime. If you work in a callcenter you'll have 100% work. The only time you're not working is when you're going to the toilet or on a break. That's one of the reasons why it's such hard work and people are burning out so often. It's very straining and grossly underpaid. Also when you work in customer service most other departments will think you're less important than them. My boss once gave the whole CS department three days off and made the other departments do our job besides their own to teach them more respect. After that they begrudgingly admitted that our department was just as important as theirs because no one would get any work done if we wouldn't be there to shield them from the customers constant demands while getting them the information they need to do their job.
Then they implemented that virtual hold c**p, where the customer could hang-up, but keep their place in the queue - basically the system would automatically call them back and "push" them to an available agent when they answered. Then there were callbacks for various other issues too. So no real downtime at all. Yeah, was a call center sup for over 14 years - the job is no joke.
Load More Replies...Teacher from South Africa (government school). Screaming at the teacher because your child failed is not going to do anything. There are specific procedures that teachers have to follow when your child isn't passing. The department has to approve the retention and they will take everything into account. No, your child didn't fall because "the teacher hates him".
MD here. That one about exercise needs its own caveat: One program does not fit all, and physiotherapists (physical therapists in the US) have told me outright they LLOVE that myth. It keeps them in business. In fact. Crossfit is their favorite ever exercise program, and they'll promote it knowing people will end up coming back in need of therapy. Much as we hate it, old injuries and DNA do affect how we can/should exercise, as does age. So... If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. No pain does not equal no gain. No pain equals... no pain. You *can* go gentle.
I don't work in Air transport but I would assume If the pilots do not receive clearance from ATC, they cannot do much about it. It's not always the airline's fault either, and particularly it's not the pilot nor flight attendants' fault. I believe it bugs them just as much as the passengers. You shouting at them won't make the plane take off. (had terrible experiences with obnoxious passengers going crazy after the crew).
Broadcast Camera-operator here, Yes I need to stand precisely here and no, I don't know when the game/ concert/ show will air ;-)
Surgeons don't put their arms up all the time and they don't drop metallic objects with a clink onto a metal basin, like in the movies.
If a surgeon drops their hands below their waist then they have broken sterile procedures and have to go repeat the process from the beginning. A metal basin is not considered sterile, so again, if the surgeon touches it they have broken sterile protocols. If you work with surgeons that are ignoring these protocols then you are killing patients.
Load More Replies...One thing I always wish people knew is that you can flush a toilet if it won't fill with water. If you have a bucket and a water source, you can make it flush, but you do have to pour a bunch in at once. Just good to know. Just don't waste your potable water if you need it for drinking
I think most of these things are obvious to the rest of us too. Also, there's a difference between not caring and not knowing (though they often coincide).
