“Invisible Lat Syndrome”: 35 Red Flags That Men See In Other Men, As Shared In This Thread

Amen

Get real ... Democrats and Republicans both suck. They're two different sides of the same filthy coin, and to think otherwise is to expose your own biases. We need the rise of a 3rd party ASAP!

A friend of mine has an embroidered pillow reading "Friends Don't Let Friends Vote Republican".

This is absurd. Both Democrats and Republicans have become the worst thing to America in the last 20 yrs. Both have done nothing but regress the country in almost every way possible. And there’s no apparent end to the bickering. THey need to be divorced and a 3rd Independent party formed.

It's very hard these days, especially with family and friends who champion and share everything these people say. How am I supposed to look them in the eyes when they tell me they are rooting for the people who want to take away my rights? When they want to deny my trans friends the right to exist? What am I supposed to say to you when you vote for a person who thinks a 10 year old who was raped by her father should be forced to carry the child to term?

Unless you are a mathematician, of course.

I was learning Greek, I swear.

The best part? The whole 'alpha' thing is based on incorrect data. The alpha wolf myth was based on studies of wolves IN CAPTIVITY. So it was basically wolf prison behavior. In REAL wolf packs, the alpha is the father. His job is to make sure his pack (which are all family) is fed and safe and happy. So that guy with the waistpack full of snacks making sure his kids and his friends are eating and drinking enough? That is the truest alpha male.

For Andrew Tate, "Alpha" and "Rapey" mean pretty much the same thing...

The guy who coined those terms (refering to wolves) actually took them back. There is no Qlpha, no Beta, etc. I'd get in to more detail but I forgot the other stuff.

this one is top for me. in one of my workplaces it's extremely bad and most guys there act like animals. it's like they get paid to flirt and be perverted. I do my best to be respectful and lead by example, but often I find myself straight up telling them off because it's just too much. It's especially bad when they try to get me to assist and be their wingman. Like, dude, I'm a father of a 16yo daughter, I'm the opposite of your wingman. I will eat you alive, kid. F**k right off with that s**t.

empty vessels make the loudest noise

We all have occasional lustful thoughts (women too). But seriously, NOBODY wants to hear about anybody else's! And that applies equally to gays or straights.

Immaturity

The blame goes right straight to the heart of the 'modern' definition of "dating!' To date is to court , to get to know someone as a person. To find out that persons beliefs, culture, likes and dislikes. To learn all about that person as someone you may want to love, spend your life with to maybe raise a family together ... not a forgettable, one time, sex object. Todays youth are showing great disregard for their own well-being and futures, by using sex as a casual, feel good toy. That shows ignorance, foolishness and a very destructive, dangerous lifestyle. If you want nothing but sex, go buy it! Never make promises of 'love' just to get sex. That's selfish, cruel & heartless.

Well, it's not that women don't like good guys like you. It's simply that they don't like you, period.

Women like good guys who are actually good.

This should be everywhere. I nowadays see a lot of 'good guys' complaining about this in internet. Makes me wonder if they really are 'good guys' cause good guys shouldn't think that women are obliged to date or like them .

GOOD GUYS are often hiding dangerous flaws. Most serial killers are seen as good looking 'Nice Guys.'

My mantra in life: I'm not a bad guy, I'm not a good guy, I'm just THAT guy (To those who know me well enough, they know what it means. For those who don't, be my friend and find out. But beware, you might actually regret finding out what THAT means XP *kidding obviously*)

Well, that d*ckhead just wanted to brag, which is disgusting really.

Yeah, that's an HR violation and should be reported as such

More like, nudes they found on the internet.

Good chance the woman in question never was or is no longer his girlfriend.

Matt Gaetz, anyone? He not only did this, he did on the floor of the Senate, while Congress was in session.

Especially when the jokes they make are just plain mean. My uncle is a prime example. He will mock anyone and everyone over just about anything, but don't you dare make even the slightest joke about him

I think everyone knows at least one of these 😒

Oh yes I know the kind. They can seem laid-back on the surface but deep inside they somehow feel very intense? Like even if you're just chatting with them you feel like you're walking on eggshells and you don't exactly know why?

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And any other gender????

Very few people want to be "fixed". They are how they are because they chose to be that way. A few didn't have better options, and will choose something different if it becomes available, but the majority had those options from the start and already rejected them.

Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.

Maske sure the male in question is a lot younger than you. The last opportunity to actually change a guy is when he's in diapers.

If you feel this about someone that you can change him/her/them then you need to remember you're not a rehab or reform home.

And then if the man is changed enough the girl leaves him because he isn´t the guy anymore she fell for.

We had a guy who brought his dates to our restaurant. He was a barfly that was always there. Anyway, his power move was to complain and send his food back. We would then put it on a new plate and send it back out... he never noticed. What a douchebag.