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The popular internet term nice guy refers to a social stereotype associated with young adult males who think that acting like a caring and empathetic gentleman makes them entitled to women's affection and romantic interest.

However, we would like to show you that such wishful thinking isn't exclusive to just one gender and introduce you to the so-called nice girls. So we invite you to take a look at the content we gathered from a subreddit of the same name, as it perfectly illustrates their peculiar ways.

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Nice Respectable Girl Can't Find A Man

Nice Respectable Girl Can't Find A Man

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"[This subreddit is meant] for all the self-proclaimed 'nice girls,'" the moderators of the online community write in its 'About' section.

"For the women who complain 'guys are only interested in sluts.' For women who complain that men are shallow for not dating overweight women, while also demanding that their man have washboard abs. For the women who hold others to the highest possible standard, but have no standards for themselves."

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Not Sure If This Counts But

Not Sure If This Counts But

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SheamusFanFrom1987
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Suddenly, I feel like running to the bakery for honey buns. And for those who may ask, yes, I will share.

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"This sub is not for female incels," the moderators clarify, adding that, "this place is not for crazy girls," either.

"This subreddit is not a women-hating subreddit," they finish off, warning everyone to refrain from making sexist comments or just being a bigot in general because it will not be tolerated and earn them a ban.

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He Shall Find A Hook-Up

He Shall Find A Hook-Up

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We got in touch with the people taking care of this online community and asked if they believe there are levels to the nice girl syndrome, or is it more like a 'package.'

"It's an honest mix," the moderators told Bored Panda. "Some are extremely immature, some are extremely toxic, and others are just jerks."

But it's not just the nice girls that the members of the subreddit are fed up with. "Repost bots are the current most hated thing. These are generally accounts that have been around 4-6 months; they suddenly come to life and will repost a post from 2-5 years ago, with the exact same title, attempting to farm karma."

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Does This Count?

Does This Count?

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Elizabeth Brown
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mo and Austin are the only things on the list that I think can even be remotely spun as reasonable, and I doubt they are

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Ael
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What did Tyler, Noah, Deven, and Josh do, and how is Austin involved? :D

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neytjie
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

On the upside, if they move in together no girl is ever allowed. Remind her of that and kick her a*s out. Rules are rules

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Petra
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was thinking something similar. Like, aren't most/all of her friends girls? By her own rules, is she not allowed to have her own friends over?

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Emma Goransdottir
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Rules!? If a man put this paper in front of me I would laugh. Then run away as fast as i can

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EarthGrowl
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He cheated and this is her demands to allow him to come back.

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Potato
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That was exactly how I read it after I got to "you can never get mad at me ever again." I'm guessing it went down at Honda and that's why it's the only place she needs to be in attendance.

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MalayDragon
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's a huge NOPE the F**K outta there, so fast there's going to be that cartoon dust cloud shaped like me lingering there for a while.

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Mark
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m just gonna go Honda (what does that even mean?)

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Moo
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you need a rulebook in a relationship, it's not worth it. Create boundaries, of course. But not rules. Your partner is not your child

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Head_on_a_Stick
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She might have a point about Keegan though. He's always trouble.

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Kimberley Fisher
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That red flag is so huge that I’m not even sure if the Blue Angels could carry it.

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Edward Finger Hands
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mmm all the random boxes and commentary makes me think someone tried to make this up for Reddit karma. Like a bad impression of a teenage girl.

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James Ferrer
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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

damn, if that is not the map to a successful relationship, I don't know what is. psycho

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Jaaawn
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is terrifying. And you just know when the relationship ends she'll blame everyone and everything except herself.

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Supertransistor
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those little notes remind me of harley quinn, and even she wasn't this crazy

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KieLeaHar
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one seems like it was written by an almost adult with a child’s brain with such immaturity. Why would anyone put up with this? Some of these are actually annoying me. Might be from personal experience a bit…

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KieLeaHar
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are NOT going to keep your sanity or self esteem long if you stay with this nutcase…

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DetongLhamo
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I couldn’t read all that- I’d dropped her 5 demands in.

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KieLeaHar
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You SHOULD run away- FAST. WTF. Who’d agree to this?? It’s like the guy who signed the gaming contract!! NOBODY is worth your self respect, dignity and free time, energy And peace of mind!!! N O B O D Y! Was in an abusive as hell relationship in the past that scarred me so badly, I’ve not dated seriously since.. and it’s been a decade!

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Drilly_94_YGz!
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

personally me? im outta there and just to be safe heading down to Mexico and hope she doesn't find me

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Bleau
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well here's another one that's going to be dying alone

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Alan Gale
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Umm, d**k, crazy, don't. Add some more words and make an important sentence.

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Kim
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do agree with the ”Jump” part, and then off a bridge.

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Jessica Shookhoff
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Was she cheated on and this was her way of handling it? Cause, girl, you can just leave. And use your extra time for some therapy...

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KrazyChiMama
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She literally said if I say jump you say how high princess?!? Whoa. If this isn't a slap in the face red run for your life flag then I don't know what is!!!

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Isaac Harvey
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“You’re NOT to look at a single girl” even her? And what about married female people?

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quentariel
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe loading an AI-dating-app would work better than a real person who might actually have a life outside of them.

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Aboredpanda
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd make sure to unsubscribe from this newsletter... Really poor content

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Nosirrow
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad my family made me want to be single. I can't hurt a boyfriend if I don't have any.

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Ben
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really want to know the what is going on with Tyler, Noah, Deven, and Josh.

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Apple Jakes
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thanks to Netflix I see Dahmer's everywhere today.

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Lisa Whipp Myhre
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Annnnd let's go hang with Keegan (bullet point #3) because this "woman" needs therapy.

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Mysteria
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know someone named Keegan. I wonder if it’s the same guy in the letter 🤔

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bas moelard
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's cheating and she's a psycho. Run! Run far away and never look back!

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7 months ago

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Wolf Hungry
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

..."how high princess" resumes his personality ,she thinks herself a princess and the guy the lucky plebeian who will cater all his demands.

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PlusUltraNova (She/They)
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*RARELY my friend, not RARLEY, sorry to be that person. Wait, I'm not sorry :)

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ConstantlyJon
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aside from the actual psychopath this person is, they also have horrible grammar and spelling, so that's fantastic. I would take this piece of paper straight to the police FR.

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David Marchisotto
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only way I can get thru the rest of my day is to hope that this list isn't real.

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Tamra
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This person needs to do some serious work on herself. 🙄

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Zedrapazia
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want to slap this woman with a telephone book. Also, what's a Keegan? Is that a name, or a car? I am not familiar with it.

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Potato
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's a name. Like the US actor Keegan Micheal-Key (Key & Peele sketch show).

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Sunny Day
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does he have a say on what color purse she keeps his balls in?

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#11

My Friend Sent Me This Screenshot

My Friend Sent Me This Screenshot

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ah the one that can't take the direct hint...aka the blunt honest truth...

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#12

Physically Cringing

Physically Cringing

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Zedrapazia
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah, so there's also a female version of this. Also, she called him stupid in the end (baka). Why? That's the opposite of what you should say to someone you want to date, disregarding the other weirdness.

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"We'd like to add that you should always read the rules first and foremost before you post," the moderators said.

"Remembering the human is also extremely important." And that goes beyond just reposting.

#13

Hey....can I Ask Why Have You Decided To Unfollow Me?

Hey....can I Ask Why Have You Decided To Unfollow Me?

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#14

Never Thought This Sh*t Would Happen, Like What The F*ck

Never Thought This Sh*t Would Happen, Like What The F*ck

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#15

He Was Genuinely About To Leave The Library To Go See Her Too

He Was Genuinely About To Leave The Library To Go See Her Too

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According to writer Raluca Popescu, the notion that you have to be nice to everyone in order to be loved and accepted is basically a mission impossible and a completely useless task to even try in the first place.

"This idea is based on a deeper one that says 'you are not good enough," Popescu explains. "So you have to do things and be in certain ways to be loved. Things and ways that almost always do not reflect the real you."

"If you are a nice girl how could you say 'no' when a colleague asks for your help with that report that's his responsibility?" Popescu asks rhetorically.

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"You don't have kids waiting for you at home so you spend on two extra hours to help. And he will take credit for it. But you don’t mind, you are so nice, you are happy you could help."

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(Ex)gf Hit Me With A Car And Then Sent This

(Ex)gf Hit Me With A Car And Then Sent This

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#17

I Think This Is Abuse

I Think This Is Abuse

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#18

Her Getting D Tonight Is Ok But I Guess Men Can’t?

Her Getting D Tonight Is Ok But I Guess Men Can’t?

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"If you are a nice girl you are the one who always seems to attract the 'wrong men,'" the writer continues exploring this character. "Only there are no 'wrong men' as there are no 'perfect men' either (I hope you've realized this by now)."

"However, if you look at your past relationships you will find a common thread: they were all based on at least one key factor. This factor assured the impossibility of the relationship to ever turn into a fully committed one."

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My Ex’s Reply When I Told Her I Was Going To Break Up With Her For Cheating On Me

My Ex’s Reply When I Told Her I Was Going To Break Up With Her For Cheating On Me

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This key factor that she talks about can be any a variety of things, from him being married to a huge age difference and him having some type of addiction.

"As a rule of thumb, you choose a man that for some reason is unavailable to fully commit to a relationship. You stay with him as long as that barrier is there so you have something to fight for. This way you hide your own fear and easily 'blame' it on him. The mindset is: 'If he only did this or that...'"

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A Rare Daily Double Of Nice Guy And Girl

A Rare Daily Double Of Nice Guy And Girl

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Zedrapazia
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great, these two searched and found each other: Male incel stumbles over female incel. "I always end up friend zoned!" and "Men are trash!" are a toxic concoction.

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#25

Sounds Like A Really Great Relationship

Sounds Like A Really Great Relationship

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Popescu says she has thought a lot about how women can overcome the nice girl syndrome. She thinks that once they realize that they might be suffering from it, they should consciously choose to act and think differently.

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"Just be curious and open about it," she advises. "Don't take yourself too seriously. Laugh when you catch yourself acting automatically as a nice girl."

"There is a beautiful, authentic you underneath the mask. Do yourself and the world a huge favor and let it shine!"

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Basic Questions And Got Sas Back

Basic Questions And Got Sas Back

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#27

My Ex’s Responses When She Broke Up With Me And I Quit Responding To Her

My Ex’s Responses When She Broke Up With Me And I Quit Responding To Her

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Anonymous
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even though she broke up with you she's acting as if your cheating on her?

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#28

Good Thing She’ll Probably Never Have A Wedding!!

Good Thing She’ll Probably Never Have A Wedding!!

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Zedrapazia
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I absolutely hate women like that. Men have feelings just like everyone else and can cry. Shitheads like her made my fiance never tell me when he feels bad until he becomes miserable!

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Nicegirl Doesn't Know Why Boys Won't Date Her. Gee I Wonder Why?

Nicegirl Doesn't Know Why Boys Won't Date Her. Gee I Wonder Why?

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah yes, tumblr 'feminists'. (Read: misandrists). As a woman I apologise for this lady and would like to assure my fellow pandas that these kinds of people are both delusional and very rare in real life

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#31

And Breaking Worth 40$ Isn't Cruel?

And Breaking Worth 40$ Isn't Cruel?

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't care if we've been dating for 3 weeks or 3 years, you do this to any of my games, it's out the door with you. I won't say I'd prioritize my games over my girl but breaking games is heresy in my book.

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#35

Found One In The Wild On Bumble

Found One In The Wild On Bumble

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#36

I Understand The First Two But Going To The Gym And Having Friends Is Bad?

I Understand The First Two But Going To The Gym And Having Friends Is Bad?

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#37

Ex Gfs Last Message I Ever Read. She Really Went Out Of Her Way To Take A Stab. Never Responded. Blocked Out Identifying Info

Ex Gfs Last Message I Ever Read. She Really Went Out Of Her Way To Take A Stab. Never Responded. Blocked Out Identifying Info

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#39

Coming From A Basic “Alt” Girl On Tiktok

Coming From A Basic “Alt” Girl On Tiktok

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Zedrapazia
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He was a skater boy, she said "See you later, boy", he wasn't good enough for her ... Emo/goth/punk people look great, I totally agree to that, but there's more to love than looking good!

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So Much Easier Than Communicating

So Much Easier Than Communicating

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Nemo
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mom doesn't need attention from dad. Mom needs attention from somebody who can diagnose her

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#42

Aw Yes, Because It Definitely Happened In The Real World The Other Way 'Round. Wasn't A Movie Or Anything

Aw Yes, Because It Definitely Happened In The Real World The Other Way 'Round. Wasn't A Movie Or Anything

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Roxy Eastland
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, this is true and hardly makes the person pointing it out 'toxic'. Fascinating how the bottom of the barrel really needs to be scraped to 'prove' that women are 'as bad as men'.

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#43

Marilyn Didn’t Really Say This But What The Hell. Let’s Roll With It

Marilyn Didn’t Really Say This But What The Hell. Let’s Roll With It

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Another One

Another One

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Roxy Eastland
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are these relationships that are lived so much through a screen lacking the hit of oxytocin that brings true happiness and love? Is this why we're seeing so much of these attempts to dictate how it will play out, rather than genuinely just living it and seeing how it goes?

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