For the worldly American, the summer Eurotrip is practically a rite of passage. While much connects the US and Europe, the two entities are different enough that American travelers often experience culture shock when they visit different European countries for the first time. One person on Reddit asked American travelers to share what struck them the most when they visited and got a ton of great responses.
The two continents’ histories, both separate and intertwined, make for an interesting opportunitY to compare and contrast how they’ve found different solutions to similar problems. While some of the comments shared were lighthearted and fun, others pointed to interesting differences in perspective.
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Restaurants paying employees a fair wage and not expecting the customer to make up for low wages.
Not in every country, I'm afraid. Ridiculous working hours and low wages in Spain.
The average salary in Spain for a waiter is 1575€ after taxes. That is higher than the average salary for an office worker (1400€) and for the average employee (including both blue collar and white collar jobs, at 1375€). Spanish wages are low, but so is cost of life.
Load More Replies...I am so ready to do away w/ the tipping system. Just pay them a living wage.
The motto of the US should change to "In corporate greed we trust." I know, I'm a US citizen.
I understand your 'anger' but sometimes I want to come to bored panda and just chill away from anger away from nastiness away from life as we see it
I often tip convenience store cashiers. They make peanuts and are appreciate a dollar or two extra.
That would be cultural offensive in some countries.
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Universal healthcare
Can confirm. I have full healthcare and it's paid for automatically via the taxes I pay every paycheck. I never have to make a claim or argue with an insurance representative about coverage. I just go to the doctor/hospital/pharmacy and get what I need. Don't tell me the richest country in ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY cannot afford it too.
The first time I learned healthcare wasn't a universal thing in every country I was shocked. I still don't get why this isn't a thing in the US. Do people like to suffer and have crippling debts? That can't be a choice anyone wants, right?
Load More Replies...It’s crazy. Imagine having a lot of $$$ for medical insurance taken every paycheck, on top of taxes and other deductions. And then be told the procedure you badly needed isn’t going to be covered or they don’t want to pay it. You suffer for months while fighting with them to green light it. If you happen to be hospitalized, you still have to pay like 20% of the total bill, which is in the thousands! The craziest thing is that the majority of the people here who are against universal healthcare are also the ones who’d likely go bankrupt if they suffered a medical catastrophe. They see it as their own money paying for someone else’s medical bills. Tax money that still have to be paid no matter what and we don’t really even have a say on how the government spends it. Also, we shoot each other like we have GD free healthcare!
The Republican party, through use of their radio and TV propaganda outlets, literally *shouted* many times a day, for an entire year, that the ACA (Affordable Care Act/"Obamacare") would implement 'Death Panels' to evaluate, and then cause the death of, elderly and chronically sick patients -- in order to save money. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . "Death Panels" were selected as the, "Lie of the Year" in 2009. ... Since ACA/"Obamacare" is now national policy, Where are the Death Panels?? --> I'm asking lying Fox "news" and lying EIB (radio) broadcasting, and lying Republican politicians. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . SOURCES ... (1) https://www.politifact.com/article/2009/dec/18/politifact-lie-year-death-panels/ . . . . . . . . . (2) https://www.npr.org/2017/01/10/509164679/from-the-start-obama-struggled-with-fallout-from-a-kind-of-fake-news . . . . (3) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_panel . . . . . . . (4) "Google" it for yourself
Yes, we need ppl with platforms to call this out more! The death panels are real and they work at every "inurance" provider.
Load More Replies..."Otto von Bismarck. Bismarck viewed the growing international socialist movement and the non-violent German Social Democratic Party (SDP), in particular, with alarm. Bismarck's idea was to implement welfare programs that were acceptable to conservatives without any socialistic aspects. The social legislation implemented by Bismarck in the 1880s played a key role in the sharp, rapid decline of German emigration to America. Sickness Insurance Law of 1883; Accident Insurance Law of 1884; Old Age and Disability Insurance Law of 1889."
ITALY. 4 years ago my dad faced a severe kidney failure, he has been hospitalised for about 4 weeks, got dialysis and prostate surgery. After that he had to take several kind of medicine for 1 year (only the medicines had a cost of about € 18.000). He paid nothing fortunately, because we had not that money. CONS: our healthcare system is based on public money and here politicians and public functionaries have lot of chances to make whatever they want with that money. Can happens to have not really qualified doctors since is quite easy to be hired in public hospitals if they have some useful connections (high prelates, politicians, high public functionaries, mafia people, etc).
Americans will happily pay into insurance but refuse to pay into universal healthcare. Who wants to tell them....
Earlier today I read an article about how the American funeral director board sued a bunch of monks for providing low cost coffins for victims of Hurricane Katrina, because it potentially could damage their income. (The funeral industry is unbelievably corrupt.) Capitalism is just evil.
I thought this was not only a European thing? How is it in Japan? What about Australia?
I have Medicare (USA) and it still sucks because what I really need is dental and vision, and I don’t have those…
Good bread.
A ban on high fructose corn syrup does wonders for both the food and health of your citizens!
No, you're all wrong. There's just no tradition for or reason to use HFCS in Europe. It's not banned, it's just not used.
Load More Replies...Also, good cheese and good beer. (and before someone claims, for example, 'actually I know a really good microbrewery' I mean these being the standard rather than the bland, inspid stuff that is by far the norm in the US)
not sure but I think we've got a few good wines too
Load More Replies...As someone once commented about the US: there's quite a lot of food in your sugar.
Good food, in general. As a bread-lover you should go to Germany, amazing variety of bread.
I miss German bread....can't find it anywhere where I live.
Load More Replies...A major reason for the difference between American and European bread is the type of wheat used.
Don't go to the bread aisle. Go to the bakery that's in the grocery store (sometimes good) or to an independent baker (always good).
The bread aisle is the bakery in the grocery store, is it not?
Load More Replies...Oh yes, I read somewhere that American bread would be classified as cake in the EU due to the sugar content. Didn't believe it until I went to the US. Yeeurggh!
Northern NJ checking in - our bread is AMAZING. The place I used to work used to ship it to Florida because you can not get good bread there, it all tastes like hot dog rolls.
Hi neighbor! And yeah, the NY/NJ watershed has amazing quality water, and a high density of folks who are great bakers. Having grown up used to amazing fresh bread, I was honestly disappointed in every piece of bread I ate in England and Ireland 🤷
Load More Replies...in the US the "fresh" bread that you get from the bakery at the supermaket is baked with factory-made frozen dough . lol
Europe is a popular enough travel destination for Americans that there’s tons of info out there on the cultural differences. There are tons of travel sites out there that help American tourists understand some of the cultural and practical differences they can expect. Indeed, stats indicate that Europe was the top outbound US tourism destination by continent with 15.8 million visitors.
Walkable towns
We in Europe have mixed cities with businesses and housings being closer together, while US cities have more separated areas resulting in longer distances to travel
In most cities and some towns in the US is "old town", "shopping district" the walkable part of the area. Very expensive to live in but usually the most picturesque part of the area
Load More Replies...If you are measuring time by the invention of the car you'll have to do a lot of math in Europe I'm afraid. I was born in a tiny town in Germany and the older one of our two churches is 1.000 years old. ...Edit: and now I feel like I totally missed your sarcasm and feel stupid
Load More Replies...To clarify, many cities are walkable, but often the real problem is the distances. For example, there are many cities and suburbs where you would have to walk 3 or more kilometers to get from your house to a grocery store. There are very few corner shops that sell groceries, and those that do exist charge easily 50% or more than a real grocery store. Yes, there are often buses, but it can take over 2 hours to get someplace that takes 30 minutes in a car.
My wife and I both drive an hour 1 way to work, have to drive for groceries, eating out, any shopping, haircuts, etc. When we stayed a week in Brooklyn and could get everything we needed in a short walk, it was definitely an eye opener.
You don't have no driving areas in a town/city in America just for people walking?
I've read stories from some tourists - when they tryed to walk in some places, every american around assumed they had their car broken. Even offered help.
UGH american suburb liver i am so jealousssss (liver as in one who lives...... not fava beans)
Americans think 100 years is a long time and Europeans think 100 miles is a long distance.
Actually the Europeans would more likely be like "How long is a mile?"
Coming from Northern Europe where population is small and the land vast, the distances get big. Blows my mind that when I visit a friend on the other side of my country and realize, I would've crossed at least one, if not two borders doing the same trip in middle Europe.
North Europe is a bit of an exeption compared to most of the Europe. Although I think it’s still nothing compared to US distances. As a Finnish kid, living in a 3000 resident town, I went on vacation to US and I was absolutely bored with car rides in there. We drove from SF to Las Vegas. I was used to walking or cycling everywhere, to school, to store, to hobbies, to friends places. Everything was within 2 km distance. Once in a while we went to bigger city 40 km away and once a year to visit some relatives 500 km away.
Load More Replies...this happens all across North and South America I've found, at least in big countries. My brazilian friend thought driving three hours (one way) to spend the day at the beach was a perfectly normal idea. I thought he was mental. Also forests must be as big as your eyes can reach. It's all about perspective.
I once asked a barmaid (in Sussex) if she was local "oh no! I was born in ----borne." Five minutes walk, tops.
And probably her accent was markedly different too
Load More Replies...People who come to the U.S. are usually surprised about how big states are. I'm on Long Island in NY and it takes us 7-8 hours just to travel up to the border of Canada without ever leaving NY.
Bars older than the US
My uncle's cottage isn't just older than the the U.S.A - it's older than the discovery of America.
I owned a thatched cottage in the UK that was built before Columbus *didn't* discover the Americas.
Load More Replies...My son's school was built before the American revolution and we live near Hadrian's Wall. There's literal parts of the wall down the street from an ASDA (Walmart).
USA: "This missionary dates back to 1710!" Europe: "The (middle class) room you just rented for holidays is in a house built in the middle ages with some reused stones that used to be part of the city wall built 13th. B.C." Not kidding, this is what just happend to me on my holidays in Naxos city.
I love History and my family has taken trips to places like Boston, Virginia (Old Williamsburg), Philadelphia and so on....we live in NY. My dream is to go to England, Scotland and Ireland. I love how old Europe is and I really love old churches and castles. Everything here in the U.S. is not old enough!
Common in many European countries is no legal minimum age for drinking alcohol.
Load More Replies...I would love to visit the pubs overseas. So much history and character. I'm American. I hate those sterile, generic sports bars that we have.
A lot of things are older than the US... our danish line of Kings and Queens... over a 1000yo
when I was stationed in Germany there was a Gasthaus in the local town, They called it the "new" Gasthaus because it had replaced the "old" Gasthaus in the early 1700s
I live in a place that has rock art dating back 40,000 years. It's so old that some people's front yards are full of seashells because before the last ice age ended, those parts of town were under the ocean.
One major historical difference is that the USA was born out of a revolution. This gives it quite a distinct cultural legacy and makes it quite young on a historical scale. Some of the answers to this question highlight as much, pointing out that they can visit historical buildings or even working pubs that are older than the entire United States as a political entity.
I think as a whole, it’s there attitude towards work.
The vibe I get when visiting most European countries is most people seem to work only to live. While in the states, it feels we live to work. The most common thing out of an American’s mouth when meeting someone new is what do you do? I did not find this to be the case in Europe, and I am super jealous.
Sadly, this is changing. As with everything greed and profit are the king. Many companies are sucking the life out of most jobs in the UK by paying less, demanding more and no longer care about loyalty.
As long as @%&&ing Capatalism isn't your national religion (like it is here in good ol' Murrica!), you'll probably recover from this trend
Load More Replies...Don't generalize ... european countrys can be so different. The work attitude is totally different if you compare for example scandinavians with mediterranean countrys.
I think it's pretty common conversation starter everywhere I visited.... Even if you work only to live, you end up spending most of your time in work, so obviously your work is big part of you. I've lived in Finland, Holland and England and it's been common to ask what you do in every country. I interact with lots of Asian, African and European people, and that question comes up with them as well. I think it might depend a lot of the context you meet these people. If you are American travelling in Europe, you may get more questions about you travels and America in general and how you find Europe, rather than what you do for living.
I have personally found a subtle difference - when I've met Americans (all have been lovely) when I've asked 'and you are...?' (or variations on that) they give me their job title, whereas most Europeans would give me their name. This has been both in work and social settings. This is not a criticism, just an observation, and is my personal experience. I'm not saying it wouldn't ever happen the other way around.
Load More Replies...I was asked by my UK bf's parents what kind of job I have. It's not just a North American thing. Perhaps the intention of the question might differ. But I'm not sure.
The people who are working for life are at work you don’t see; they are at work 😏
Getting sick without going bankrupt
Man the one time I was hospitalised in the US and they sent me my bill by post, I thought it was some kind of statement of costs to the hospital, “actual value of goods supplied,” or some such thing. I made many guesses before realising it was *a BILL I had to PAY*. [Yes, I also did have to call to confirm—and you can imagine how weird that conversation went!]
I assume you were not a resident at the time? Did your home country’s national healthcare foot the bill?
Load More Replies...I've been on sick leave since January. 100% to being with, working my way back up to 0%. Two weeks ago I got a repayment from NAV, the national welfare agency, because I had reached and gone over my deductable limit of 275 USD. Not even making a dent.
Sadly this is so true. You can pay into good insurance policies only to have the policies cancelled on you for no reason other than have data that shows you could end up sick soon. Tried to get my life insurance policy I had on my late husband increased 5 years before he actually died and all because he was recently diagnosed with a slow terminal disease, they would not allow it. Ended up with a very small policy that the company paid for that barely covered my last month of in facility care and I had to scrape up money to get him cremated.
You got it! Have a story but too kong for here . . . It is unfathomable.
Infrastructure built around walking, bicycles, and busses. Not just exclusively built around personal vehicles.
Seeing that most of these streets were built before cars, that is more likely the reason.
I don’t think so. Lot of “car roads” have been reverted. Roads that we could drive on 50 years ago are now pedestrian-only. Especially inner cities that can be reached by public transport.
Load More Replies...But that's only like that over there because of space issues. I'd rather have the space and not have to cram everything together.
The advantage to “cramming everything together” is that you don’t need a car to survive daily life. I don’t drive so the idea of being able to get what I need when I need it without needing a car is good for me
Load More Replies...Smaller Countries in Europe, so shorter distances. e.g.: England is roughly 300 miles at its widest point and around 837 miles along motorways and minor roads from Land's End to John o'Groats (or 600 miles in a straight line).
There's no place called John O'Groats' in England.
Load More Replies...Though the US is considered by many to be the home of capitalism, one difference in some countries is that travelers can expect is to pay for certain services that are often considered to be gratuities in the US. According to TEFL Worldwide, for example, Americans may be surprised that they will have to pay for water at restaurants unless they ask for tap water and they may also have to pay for public restrooms. Many countries will make shoppers pay for plastic bags, but this is part of an EU-wide effort to move away from disposable plastic and towards reusable bags.
900 year old universities
University of Bologna was founded in 1088 and is the oldest university in continous operation in the world
Load More Replies...I am afraid the University of Copenhagen is rather new. It was not created till 1479.
No college or university claims to be in the business of teaching common sense or ability.
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Everyone is bilingual or multilingual.
The really un-European thing about Americans is, they’re probably the only people in the world (some of them!) who say “speak English like everyone else” or some variant of that phrase. I actually heard a guy in Florida say this.
I am afraid English people can be a bit like this. English people tend to rely on others speaking English.
Load More Replies...It's easy to be multilingual when you already learn 3 different languages in school.
the original reddit poster is wrong, or only visited scandinavia / the netherlands; for instance, english is not so well known even in larger european cities among not so old folks, in poland in many places there is some resistance against learning foreign languages with people saying they live in poland, they are polish and polish is the language spoken here, and will only speak polish.. english is also pretty useless in hungary , so..
Look, I’m Polish and most people who are not great at English just didn’t get to have quality lessons at school and wealthy enough parents to send them to private classes. Unfortunately, the foreign languages education is very uneaven through schools (even within the same city). People who express said resistance also express similar resistance towards maths, because they have a calculator, towards history, because it was in the past, towards physics, because no one needs this in real life - and so on. Basically, they are anti-putting-effort-in-their-education, not anti-english. But the original poser didn’t even mention English. The Polish Grandmas and Grandpas who can speak Russian, because this was the obligatory language at schools in their time, are also bilingual.
Load More Replies...Nope. Everybody I know in the UK can only speak English or drunken English. We know a few words of other languages, like, where is the nearest English bar showing football.
We even do not have the same accent and expressions on a 150 km radius
I wouldn't say bilingual, but basic english is something most people speak as second language
yeah, no. Plenty of people dont even speak their national language, only their local dialect.
Depends on the country. Canada, anyone? Or a number of African countries? Or any other country with a colonial history?
Most African countries are linguistically diverse irrespective of European languages.
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maternity leave
" May 27, 2021 : Parental leave is a hot topic in Europe at the moment. This is because of a new directive on Work-Life Balance for Parents and Carers. The aim of the directive is to promote gender equality. By the 4th of April 2022, all EU member states must offer a minimum of 10 days of paid paternity leave. "
Load More Replies...My neighbour is a private school teacher in the UK. He started his paternity leave at the start of the Covid lockdown. Started his paternity leave for his second child just as Covid slunk off. He’s only just gone back to work.
That’s awesome! Newborns are a disgusting amount of work for something so small. Good to know mum has some support
Load More Replies...The US has mandated maternity and paternity leave, it's just not paid. If your job has PTO or sick leave, then you can use these days as paid maternity leave. I was lucky and had almost 6 months on saved up leave so was able to take 6 months off with most of it paid when my son was born - this is not the norm.
Depends. A cousin of mine married a Swiss guy and now lives there. She said the German conditions concerning maternity leave are much better.
Another significant cause of some significant differences is the European political structure. The European Union enforces certain differences across the entire union, but at the same time, member states have far more independence than the states making up the US. Some cultural differences stretch across the entire EU and others can vary from country to country.
Tiny city streets.
this is true. Also, size. US cities tend to be more sprawling than European ones. US cities that are older and more compact, like Boston, are a lot more set up for walkers and bikers.
Load More Replies...Awwww the "Rappel" sign!!!! As a kid I didn't speak french and every time we came across the sign we had a laugh, cuz it means something different in my language.
If you're talking about the climbing technique, it also means that in French. In a more general way, it means recall, call back. The rappel you're doing in climbing is because you're recalling the rope as you go down.
Load More Replies...The cities in Europe are old and were not built around cars unlike the US. Same thing in Japan.
this can be a nightmare for Americans XDD I remember a family from the US visiting Regensburg in Germany using a rental car - and they got hopelessly lost because the streets in the older cities are kind of chaotic and not in an orderly fashion or in a ninety degree angle. You can't just go right 4 times and end up where you started.
And we prefer cities were you can walk in peace without cars driving past you in a hurry. That doesn't mean that the countryside in Europe isn't spacious. Because oooh, it is
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The sirens that go BEEE booo BEEE booo BEEE booo BEEE booo
Which turn out to be more effective, as they can be heard as twice as far as the US sirens and it's easier to determine their direction as well
I hate when I'm driving and I hear sirens and I can't figure out where it's coming from. I want to get out of the way but I can't until I actually see where they are.
Load More Replies...Whoop whoop... to reinforce what the police will do to you
Load More Replies...They go "nee nah nee nah" in the UK. Guess it's like describing a dog's bark; every language has its own rendition of the sound.
Drinking cappuccino on a cobblestone street outside of a cafe, which is hundreds of years old.
In Italy, here in Germany we don't care about the time for example
Load More Replies...You could, but everyone goes to starbucks while in Europe is a common breakfast eating a cornetto and drinking coffee on old street while looking the statues and the monument (especially in Naples)
Load More Replies...If i want to drink a cappuccino. I will drink it at anytime. I don't care if you should drink it in the morning. I sleep in the morning and get up by noon
And do you also eat spaghetti with a knife and fork?
Load More Replies...There are many differences in terms of money as well. Credit cards aren’t as popular in Europe as in the US, and most countries have moved away from paper checks entirely. Tipping for services is also usually considered to be optional, although very touristy spots that can spot American travelers may try to pressure them into tipping regardless.
Sitting at a restaurant for hours talking. Half an hour of conversation with anybody and I am done. For the month.
Conversation is a lost art. It’s so sad. I love to sit around and visit with people.
Not with the right friends. My wife and I get together with our best friends almost every Sunday, and other than the occasional movie or card game, it’s just food, drink and conversation for four to six hours. We don’t shy away from any topic. I only do this with close friends. Acquaintances? 10 minutes and I’m good. Strangers? I really don’t want any more interaction than exchanging pleasantries.
Load More Replies...Sounds like an introvert vs extrovert thing to me. Also: ever heard of Finns?
Not every Finn is mute, but basically 70% are. 😆 It also depends on the area, I live in the Tavastia area, which is notorious for having unsociable people, especially to strangers. When I was studying in Ostrobothnia area, strangers started talking to me in the bus stop like all the time. Which in my opinion is nice, I like talking, but I’m also socially awkward and talking tires me mentally, because I’m not used to it.
Load More Replies...God, I truly miss this. This was one of the joys about living in Spain.
One of my favorite ways to learn about a different place and culture. Every six or seven hour dinner with various people from all walks if life has provided me a far better education than most of the schooling I ever had.
Eurovision.
As long as they are located in Europe and member of the EBU, they may join. Two exceptions: Israel (due to history) and Australia (because it is huge there, they were invited to celebrate an anniversary and were such nice folks, so they were asked to participate for the -then- next ten years)
Load More Replies...Lordi from Finland, winners of the 2006 ESC with their song "Hard Rock Halleluja"
Finland came second this year with the song cha cha cha by Kääriäinen.
Load More Replies...I love it, but this year my brain just flat out refused. I still haven't managed to watch it 😞
Load More Replies...Good thing for the caption and the microphone otherwise I would have thought it was some creature from a Lord of the Rings movie
Ah, Lordi. Still great. And boy was I frustrated after I learned that monsters won't be on each Eurovision.
Paid time off.
Listen, I love insulting the US as much as the next American, but *most* people get paid time off. The way it happens isn't legally regulated, and some jobs do have a waiting period before you're permitted to use vacation days, but we have contracts and loads of jobs are unionized. And different states *do* mandate certain things like payment for legal holidays and number of sick days and on. We don't work 312 days/yr, though it sounds very dramatic and martyry.
Load More Replies...It depends on your job. Even if you do get time off, you likely only get 2 weeks, maybe 3 weeks after working at the same job for 10 years. EDIT: Sorry I wasn't clear. I was talking about the US.
It used to be (for most companies in the US) that they gave you sick days AND paid personal time. Then they slowly began to merge the two, so now if you're sick, it comes out of your PTO.
I had that at one job. Used it up because I kept getting sick. It was stress. I hated that job.
Honestly I must admit having moved from Canada to UK, Canada most jobs don't have paid time off as was the case with my old job; and while it is nice to have paid time off here, I am only allowed to have a month of time off for the year. I miss having the freedom to come and go however often I pleased so long as I was able to find cover for my time away. Now I feel rather grounded.
I know a lot of American workers get paid time off, but companies don't offer a lot. I work in the UK for a company that also has offices in New York. My role here comes with 35 paid days leave, 6 months sick leave at full pay, and 6 months at 2/3 pay. If I was female I would get 12 months full-paid maternity leave. Someone doing the EXACT same job out of New York gets 18 days paid leave and 20 paid sick days and 6 weeks maternity leave. I briefly line-managed someone in NY office, and I remember both her parents got covid and were hospitalised needing a long recuperation. When I told her 'take as much time as you need, we'll cover you' she actually broke down crying. She told me she was assuming I was going to ask for her resignation!!
My employer: "Oh, so you used all 4 weeks of your paid vacation and all your seniority days? How about we give you 5 more days? It's on the house. Now go get some rest".
I was up to seven weeks after ten years (in the US most companies give full time employees at least four weeks to start, never heard of anybody getting less), and your boss would get reamed if they didn't make sure everybody used their full earned time off, and if you didn't use your time you'd get paid out... I had a coworker get denied a raise and promotion because one of our employees didn't take one of his weeks. But realistically, if you're salaried you can take way more than you've "earned" based on business demands. It really depends, and is very misunderstood by many foreigners - it's not nearly as bad as depicted by many US bashers. My ancestry is Dutch/Danish and it seems I had at least as much time off as my Dutch or Danish cousins, if not a good bit more.
Gothic Architecture
Except the building in the picture is not at all gothic. Come on, you had one job.
Castles
We have castles. They get washed away as the tide comes in, but they're nice while they last.
Used to be able to see Windsor Castle from my primary school. Moved to Japan. Passed Kochi Castle every day on my way too and from work. One of my favourite places in the world. If you'd like to see what it looks like- watch the oft forgotten Studio Ghibli film, Ocean Waves
Electric kettle
Am I a proper grown up if I still can't see an appliance called Smeg without sniggering?
My oven is a Smeg... It's a fantastic oven, chosen with care as I love baking, but it definitely makes me snigger!! Smeeeeegheeaaad (poor Kryten!).
Load More Replies...I agree, I’m on vacation and had to use a microwave to make tea because there is no kettle and it tasted terrible
Load More Replies...I'm genuinely curious - I had never heard of electric kettles until I saw them on a post in Bored Panda. I didn't know they were a real thing and (no offense) thought thought it was bizarre when I first found out about them. Do they really make the tea better? I drink tea most nights but I thought the only way to get hot water was to boil it on the stove or use the microwave. I tried the coffee maker once or twice but got too many coffee grounds. If they actually do make better tea and if I can find one maybe I should try it.
Thanks! Maybe I'll get one and try it out! I drink tea most days.
Load More Replies...How do you manage without a kettle? Putting a saucepan of water on to boil every time you want a cup of tea seems like a faff.
microwave oven. 2 minutes and you have a cup of hot whatever.
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Functional transit, carrying a beer outside at night, and post dinner coffee is super common
A few of my best days/nights as a teen/young adult were spent with a mix of punks, skaters, goths and uhm "preppies"(?) drinking beer on some not so beautiful plazas. Our inner circle was about 6 people but it felt like half of the youth of said town met there. (imagine ca. 100 14-20 year olds of every subculture partying peaceful and even helping the person collecting the bottles )
Sounds a lot like my teenage years/early 20's. I get on with everyone. UK.
Load More Replies...Walked out of a restaurant with my bf, his sister and her bf in Manchester, UK, both the guys still were chugging away on their beers as we were walking down the street like it was the most normal thing. I asked if it was legal and they didn't have a straight answer, so I'm assuming not, but they made it sound like it wasn't some big deal? I've been told by others it's not actually legal there. That whole time I was nervous, being a guest in the country with a couple of law breakers XD. Don't always do what the locals do. Perhaps they got lucky or just don't care. Learn the laws, yourself.
You're right, it's not legal. But they'll only be charged for it if they're causing a nuisance.
Load More Replies...Most U.S. states prohibit you from having an open bottle of alcohol in a public place, like on the streets. 😢 State laws generally also prohibit drivers and passengers from having an open container of alcohol inside of a car.
On Campus PD, I saw a girl get out of a cab and was arrested for public intoxication right outside her house she was about to go into. The USA laws have lopsided priorities.
Load More Replies...That would explain a lot about my paternal grandma’s after-dinner coffee habit!
Public transportation that works and runs at logical times would have been my submission to this thread
We even have a name for it: Wegbier (beer for the way/walk)
Load More Replies...Going for a stroll in somewhere like Northumberland you can pass buildings castles and hill forts covering over three thousand years.
On Yeavering bell (a hill in Northumberland) a circular stone wall is in need of repair. It was knocked down - by the Romans.
This one kind of bothers me because it ignores the fact that the lands that became the US had people living on them for thousands of years before Europeans arrived or the country even existed and many of their structures do still exist today. A lot aren't much more than arcaeological curiosities and they are sadly ignored in the public consciouness, but they do exist and should be recognized much like Europe's ancient forts and castles.
Thank you!! This “no history here” sentiment bothers me massively because it shows the how genocide succeeds… by making everyone forget it happened
Load More Replies...Definitely nothing around here for 3 thousand years except the dirt itself
Load More Replies...THREE thousand years? Not castles, at least. https://www.discoverwalks.com/blog/london/top-10-oldest-castles-in-the-united-kingdom/
Roundabouts.
Roundabouts are quite rare on main roads in the US. I live in Arizona, but after having driven all over in Scotland every day for 3 weeks, I have an appreciation for roundabouts I didn't have before: I rarely had to wait at stoplights. I watched youtube videos about roundabouts before I went and it was very much worthwhile (though it didn't prepare me for the Bannockburn Interchange when I had to reverse direction on the M9 - Edit for those confused by this: By 'reverse direction' I mean I was initially going east on the east-bound side and then I was going west on the west-bound side).
You don't have roundabouts in the USA? The things breed like rabbits over here. Come to think of it, there is a seven-roundabout intersection in England.
Telford has an almost fetish for the things.
Load More Replies...They ate all the rage in my city. Toledo,OH. Roundabouts everywhere. Now people who know how to use a roundabout properly?.....not so much.
Quite a few of them in my area (Charlotte, NC) but only on newer roads. They are much more efficient than traffic lights or stop signs, especially in areas with light traffic.
Same in Chattanooga, but they've been tearing up old intersections too, the deadly ones
Load More Replies...That depends where in the States you are. There are tons of them in the Northeastern part of the country.
I recall the huge one west of Boston on Rt 2. 3 lanes of traffic around it or something.
Load More Replies...Problem is in the UK the standard of driving has dropped so badly that many drivers have trouble driving in a straight line and so roundabout to them are like asking a snail to play the piano.
it amazes me how the hell some of the people on the roads ever passed their tests. I'm fairly confident that at least half of them have very, VERY convincing fake licenses or something.
Load More Replies...More roundabouts are showing up where I live in western US. Loving it! Hate four way stops now.
We have them in Canada but they're referred to as "calming circles" and they're mainly to deter speeding.
They are becoming a lot more common in the US. I live in a small city of 150K and I can think of at least 15 in my town.
Thinking 100 miles is a long distance. I talked a brit once who said they hadn't seen their parents in two years because its a far trip... it was 2 hours away....
That person would not be visiting his parents because they were 2 hours away. There would have be other reasons, perhaps a toxic relationship with the parents.
2 hours (without traffic) to my grandparents house and we visit them every week.
Load More Replies...I'm Italian and almost every month I drive for 4/5 hours to go back in my city, 400Km
I feel a bit ashamed that I haven’t see my mother since 2016 - she’s only a 30 minute flight away too. 😳. However Covid and not the best relationships with other family members play a part in this - before anyone gets too appalled.
I am not appalled by any means but… go see her before it’s too late my friend. ❤️
Load More Replies...Two hours (150km) is what I drive to get to the beach, and I know people who do that for a daily commute
That's insane! I used to drive 10 hours 2x per year to see my parents
That attitude is weird in Europe, some other factors at play.
Load More Replies...Kind of sound made up to me. Yes, 100 miles sounds like a long distance - if you compare it to 100 km. But it's definitely within the range for a day trip.
100 km sounds like a long distance - if you compare it to 100 m.
Load More Replies...I think it's because the US is massive compared to Europe. So distance is relative. Granny lives 4h away. It feels forever for me.
Except thr land area of Europe is larger than the US. However, and this is critical, Europe does not equate to the US as the former is 44 countries whilst the latter is 1.
Load More Replies...I think it depends a lot on context. I've seen "moving house" programmes where people are concerned about relocating to a different town/village because they'll lose touch with their friends - but it is only a 10 minute drive from their current location. On the other hand, people are prepared to take on some long commutes (usually by train) to get to work each day. I suspect this applies particularly to people who work on London but can't afford to live there, or want a different home environment.
Pay to use a restroom.
This is where English and American English differ. There are indeed restrooms (places to rest for a while), although they are often right beside public lavatories (often called 'restrooms' by Americans. 'Bathroom' in English is a room with a bath in it. It might, or might not also have a lavatory. In American English, 'bathroom' is often used to mean a room with a lavatory, whether or not it has an actual bath.
Load More Replies...Usually the paid one's are clean and fully equipped with toilet paper, soap and warm and cold water and paper towels or a blow dryer. If you happen to visit one after some pigs went through, then not. Some even have staff being present, to prevent (or clean up) the mess. This is where the money goes to.
We already discussed this. EU has a pro-capita rate of public toilet that far exceeds US one. Like, the worst country in Europe still has way more public toilets per person than the best US state. EU has an higher percentage of pay-for-use toilets than the US, true, but if we relate the numbers together we see EU have more *free* public toilets than the US has *any* public toilets.
Mind that "public access toilets" and "public toilets" are different things. A free toilet in a McDonald is private but public access. These are comparable in numbers across USA and EU (actually, most establishments in the EU are mandated to have a customer accessible toilet by sanitary laws, while they can have one or not at owners discretion in most US states). The big difference is in public toilets, usually owned and operated by townships. EU has far more.
Load More Replies...This differs a lot. Public toilets in the UK are almost all free, and the minority that do charge, mainly take cards (and it's like 20p or something). Britain is moving towards being cashless and I personally haven't touched cash in years. However just last week I tried to use the loo at Inverness station and needed a 50p coin, so used the loos in the pub next door for free instead. I guess that's a tip if you visit Inverness!
I'm in the UK, and have yet to see (or even hear of) a loo that takes card payment. I use cash to pay for things up to £5 or so, sometimes more, larger amounts I use a card. I know people who only use their card to draw out cash, and then pay cash for everything.
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Men wearing speedos at the beach or in a pool. The ones you do see in the US are usually Europeans on vacation
It's been pretty much universal in France for decades. To turn it around though, why do Americans (and most Brits) have such a hang-up about it? When I was a kid in the UK swimming trunks were always of the type now known as speedos. Wearing shorts to swim in was unheard-of. When, and why, did it change?
Load More Replies...Y'know not to get personal, some guys wear baggier trunks to hide their junk out if politeness. not every guy wants it bulging out. Again not to get personal or y'know nsfw
Those swim shorts are very prudish. However, speedos are dying out. If given the choice, many men prefer less revealing clothes. Just like not every woman is comfortable in a bikini.
This is weird to assume I'm out working on my car or something in my "swim trunks". I don't. They're for swimming. I put them on when I go to the pool and no one can see the outline of my ball sack.
Those baggy swim trunks are a relatively recent trend. Evolved out of the surfing community in California. Prior to that, speedo type suits were the common thing
No ac by choice
It helps when their homes are build super efficient with insulation.
Good insulation also prevents inside of houses cooling rapidly, so not unusual in the summer for the inside to be uncomfortably warm at night.
Load More Replies..." One of the great ironies of climate change is that as the planet warms, the technology that people need to stay cool will only make the climate hotter. By 2050, researchers expect the number of room air conditioners on Earth to quadruple to 4.5 billion, becoming at least as ubiquitous as cell phones are today. By the end of the century, greenhouse gas emissions from air conditioning will account for as much as a 0.5-degree Celsius rise in global temperatures, according to calculations by the World Economic Forum."
" AC companies typically spend more on advertising and aesthetics than they do on research and development, and focus on churning out as many low-efficiency units as they can as cheaply as possible. "
Load More Replies...I despise the heat. If given the choice of giving up the AC in the summer or the heat in the winter I'd gladly give up the heat! I have to be freezing cold when I sleep.
To be fair, it's only in relatively recent years where it's been getting hot enough to consider that AC might start needing to be an option in British homes.
Yep. Traditional British summer is 3 warm days, then a thunderstorm. June is usually nice. Then usually the first few weeks of September. The rest is pretty average
Load More Replies...In Norway it is now starting to become comon with heat-pumps as they save massively on electricity for heating. (Main issue here being it's cold) After getting one this passed winter, I am now lying in a cool living-room whilst it's scorching outside (for a norwegian...), wondering why we didn't get one years ago. But it's worth to note that normally we don't use much electricity at all during the summer months and I have no idea what this will have cost us by the time fall rolls around and heating again becomes an issue. 😅 (But considering the changing climate I think it'll be worth it as a whole!).
Our homes are built to keep in the warmth. With only two weeks of summer in some places why would we need AC?
I would normally agree but the few summer nights when we cannot sleep due to the house functioning like an oven ARE tortorous. And Europe IS heating up.
Load More Replies...In the UK at least, we have maybe 3 weeks a year where it's constantly too hot and we all wish we had AC. The rest of the year it's either fine or cold and we have the heating on (we would not survive without heating) But no body wants to pay to install something so big and or complicated into such old houses that were built before AC existed. We do however have it in our cars.
ACs only postpone the problem. The extra CO2 it generates bites you back the next year.
Unfortunately, climate change is slowing creating the need for A/C in places that never needed it before. Even if it’s only for a week or a month, it’s happening.
€10 flights to nearby countries. The US could never.
Ryanair. v underrated. yes there is barely any legroom but you get it cheap and arrive safely
once you add on all the extras it's really not cheaper than BA anymore.
Load More Replies...i use Ryan Air every now and then and i really wouldnt mind to pay minumum 50 euro per flight. Ive had 12 euro flights to and from the UK so many times, its ridiculous, even your bus to the airport would cost more. Im using Eurostar as much as possible and they're affordable when you book early. Also way easier in any way than flying.
I looked at a flight from Rockford, IL to St. Louis, MO because I didn't want to drive the 4 hour. The 1 hour was quoted for $1,200. The drive wasn't that bad. Granted, Rockford is a small, regional airport. If I flew from O'Hare, it was only $280
Load More Replies...Well, there are only 2 nearby countries and for most Americans they are a long ways away
Complaining about Americans.
More likely complaining about your neighbouring country (ies)
exactly, or our neighbouring town. Not really thinking about americans.
Load More Replies...I find nothing to complain about americans. They amuse me, they surprise me, they baffle me, but I can't really complain. They're not important to me
Same, except some really irritate me. I live in Florida, US. And I dislike US citizens referred to as Americans, since this covers north, central & south America.
Load More Replies...I believe that Europeans do not care about Americans honestly...
I feel the same way! I love hearing about other cultures and you can't help but think about how we do it "back home" like someone said above. Sharing this info is so amazing! I learned a ton going to Europe, about culture and history (two of my favorite things!)... and I'm an introvert!
Load More Replies...Americans bring this on themselves by traveling to other countries and expecting things to be/work the same as in America (Why do y'all do it this way? Back home, we...). I am an American and when I travel, my goal is to study the culture before I go and to not be perceived as a typical American tourist.
Flying into Florida and thinking you can drive to Los Angeles, NYC, and Chicago easily.
Perhaps a few idiots but inaccurate for hundreds of millions of people.
well INTERSTATE 10 takes you "easily" from LA to Jacksonville, Fla, doesn't it ? EASILY doesn't mean quickly.
Load More Replies...Many years ago I had a friend from Scotland tell me she planned to drive from Maryland to San Francisco in two weeks. Well, if you did nothing else but drive...
You could drive that in like 5 longish days. But still 2 weeks wouldn't be enough time to sight see as well.
Load More Replies...Many Americans not much better. Cross the border into Canada and get a couple hundred lies north and wonder where the snow is, do people live in igloos and why don’t all are police wear red coats?
Yeah….. no. As a Floridian I can confirm that if you flew into Miami, you couldn’t even make it to neighboring states without disrupting at least half of your trip if you stayed for two weeks.
In the early 90's i made the drive from Nebraska to NYC to see The Grateful Dead and hopped back in the car and drove straight through to Miami. It was about 36 hours of driving and I don't recommend it.
Titles - Lord Humpty Dump or Countess Beaverhousen who are just related, distantly, to some ancestor who did some favor for a king somewhere.
No, pretty much all of the European countries abolished privileges a long time ago. Only one, the uk, didn’t and is still a caste society with unequal rights, nobility and titles that refer to its empire. (NB: there are other monarchies in Europe but purely symbolic, without aristocrats or remnants from the feudalism).
There remain, as of 2023, twelve sovereign monarchies in Europe. Seven are kingdoms: Denmark, Norway, Sweden, the United Kingdom, Spain, the Netherlands, and Belgium. Andorra, Liechtenstein, and Monaco are principalities, while Luxembourg is a Grand Duchy.
Load More Replies...Also, fun place names, which JK Rowling beautifully parodied with the name of the Weasleys' hometown, Ottery St Catchpole
Nobility is such bs. Inbreds, the lot of them and no better than you and I.
No that's just the UK. If you try to appear important using a nobility title in France, you will most likely get a laugh and nobody will take you seriously.
Not just the UK. For example Belgium has nobility.
Load More Replies...Before the relevant date (I think it was 2005?) in Scotland you would have a 'courtesy title' if you were a landowner. The amount of land owned was never specified. This has been done away with due to the scamming 'Buy a Title' websites but anyone who owns property from before then is still a Lady or Laird/Lord..
Vespas
I want to buy a vintage one and restore it; then convert it to electric and use it for my commute (v short commute) to work
"We rare the Mods, were are the Mods! We are, we are, we are the Mods!"
Calling arkansas arKANSAS
That's just normal unfamiliarity. The pronunciation of Arkansas wasn't settled until 1881. Europe has plenty of places that aren't pronounced the way they are spelled.
Trottiscliffe - pronounced Trozlee. All fun and games!
Load More Replies...Unlike Americans who pronounce everything European correctly.
Essentially the middle "a" is silent and the ending "sas" becomes "saw".
Load More Replies...when you learn how to pronounce british place names properly THEN you can yell at us. Besides, you pronounce Kansas that way, so... xD
" mobile " in the US and " mobile " in Britain . " garage " in US and " garage " in Britain. emoji-648e...ee7680.png
Hard to give the generalized answer, since there’s a lot of differences between the various European nations, as well as every European I’ve met having been more distinct individuals than stock characters. But I do think they take the prospect of war more seriously as I wish we Americans would.
I must have missed it - nobody mentioned smoking? The American colonies gave the world tobacco, but it's been a long time since I've seen anybody walking around with a cigarette. I saw some cigar smokers a couple of weeks ago, but it was at a big festival. How many Europeans can go weeks without seeing a smoker?
I just have to look in the mirror and there he is.
Load More Replies...'One major historical difference is that the USA was born out of a revolution. This gives it quite a distinct cultural legacy and makes it quite young on a historical scale. Some of the answers to this question highlight as much, pointing out that they can visit historical buildings or even working pubs that are older than the entire United States as a political entity.' Such an American cliché. Europe is born, and will always be reborn, through revolutions, too. You had one, we're still on it.
Cue the typical comment about ‘BP is so anti-US’ and ‘BP sucks and should get some original content’ If you don’t like it then don’t get on??? No ones making you look at it
::clears throat:: "Cue the typical comment about ‘I think all Americans are overly-sensitive about the stereotypical mockeries and jabs directed at Americans’ and ‘BP isn't unfair as long as it's posting content that *I* think is funny’ If you don’t like it then don’t comment on it??? No ones making you post comments about what Americans might or might not say" -- there, how do YOU feel about a comment like that when it's directed at YOU?
Load More Replies...Speaking a few languages is because we are taught them at school AND you can throw a blanket over so many different nations when you compare the size of Europe to the U.S.
Hard to give the generalized answer, since there’s a lot of differences between the various European nations, as well as every European I’ve met having been more distinct individuals than stock characters. But I do think they take the prospect of war more seriously as I wish we Americans would.
I must have missed it - nobody mentioned smoking? The American colonies gave the world tobacco, but it's been a long time since I've seen anybody walking around with a cigarette. I saw some cigar smokers a couple of weeks ago, but it was at a big festival. How many Europeans can go weeks without seeing a smoker?
I just have to look in the mirror and there he is.
Load More Replies...'One major historical difference is that the USA was born out of a revolution. This gives it quite a distinct cultural legacy and makes it quite young on a historical scale. Some of the answers to this question highlight as much, pointing out that they can visit historical buildings or even working pubs that are older than the entire United States as a political entity.' Such an American cliché. Europe is born, and will always be reborn, through revolutions, too. You had one, we're still on it.
Cue the typical comment about ‘BP is so anti-US’ and ‘BP sucks and should get some original content’ If you don’t like it then don’t get on??? No ones making you look at it
::clears throat:: "Cue the typical comment about ‘I think all Americans are overly-sensitive about the stereotypical mockeries and jabs directed at Americans’ and ‘BP isn't unfair as long as it's posting content that *I* think is funny’ If you don’t like it then don’t comment on it??? No ones making you post comments about what Americans might or might not say" -- there, how do YOU feel about a comment like that when it's directed at YOU?
Load More Replies...Speaking a few languages is because we are taught them at school AND you can throw a blanket over so many different nations when you compare the size of Europe to the U.S.
