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Men struggle to give themselves a pat on the back from time to time. No, not because their big muscles can’t reach behind them. We mean appreciating themselves for what they’ve achieved.

A change is needed and thankfully, ‘Dudes Posting Their W’s’ on Twitter is here to show us how. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of accomplishment and it should be shared with the world. The feeling not only boosts you but makes others feel warm and fuzzy inside too.

That’s why Bored Panda has collected the most wholesome W’s (a.k.a. wins) shared by men from the account. We love to see another brother succeed and we hope you do too, but check out wins for the ladies here too. Vote for your favorites to spread the good vibes.

Being a guy can be tough, that’s why it’s important to reflect on the positives in life. With over 1.2M followers of @DudesPostingWs, it’s clear that many feel the same way. The page shares wins from men of all ages and walks of life. Whether it’s a little everyday one or a massive accomplishment, they’re all worth celebrating.

But it can be difficult for men to do this sometimes. It’s not that they don’t feel anything—men simply struggle to put their thoughts into words. Talking about emotions (good ones or bad ones) can seem like an effort and many refuse to open up.

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    Although it seems like a stereotype that men just can’t talk about their feelings, we need to look into why this is. After all, stereotypes come from people perpetuating the same belief over and over again. Many researchers and psychologists have made it their study to find out why this idea is so ingrained in our culture. 

    On this, the psychotherapist and author Daphne Rose Kingma said, "We've dismissed men as the feelingless gender—we've given up on them. Because of the way boys are socialized, their ability to deal with emotions has been systematically undermined. Men are taught, point-by-point, not to feel, not to cry, and not to find words to express themselves."

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    Chucky Cheezburger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hell yeah man.Good for this dude. Man shouldnt be punished his whole damn life after hes done his time.

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    It is learned behavior, not something that is natural to men, or any person for that matter. In fact, research was completed looking at men’s emotional capability whilst still in infancy. Their results found that men are just as capable of expressing themselves emotionally, if not more so than women (at least in their early years). 

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    And boys are shaped from very early on in life about what it means to be a “man”. How many times have we heard that “big boys don’t cry”, or the expression “man up”. The word itself has become loaded with connotations of being unwavering and unflinching—showing no emotions or weaknesses.

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    Men are not some Terminator-type of machines, incapable of feeling anything. Their emotions are as deep as a river but we can only see what’s on the surface, not into their depths. That’s why it seems like a dam bursting when men finally open up about how they’re feeling, and often not in a good way.

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    Samantha Lomb
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's adorable. When I was small all the neighborhood boys would come over and ask if "Mr. Ray" ( my dad) could come out and play football with them. My brother would play too. Unfortunately I got banned from football once I grew boobs, which I always felt was slightly unfair

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    Samantha Lomb
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate these kinds of exams. They don't really test a student's academic capabilities and often require expensive prep courses to do well, which just weeds out the poorer people

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    Eva the Egg
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WTF. THIS KID IS A LITERALLY SUPERHERO. UPVOTE X1000000000

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    Sue Lynn Chan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe we can teach children to treat everyone like friends.

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    Sue Lynn Chan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hah! Serve the a$$hole for taking the shoes.....

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    Chucky Cheezburger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww hell... I'd wanna play with soooo bad but be so afraid to break them...the AGONYYYYYYYYY.....

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    Hermione
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A basic car you earned yourself is far superior to a flash car paid for by someone else.

    James016
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It does the job. On my first car, the passenger door wouldn't open from the inside.

    Kendra Miller
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Partner on a date: Gosh he's a keeper, he always opens my door for me when we get to a restaurant. You: If I didn't, I'd be eating alone and you would be trapped in the car.

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember when I bought my first car, after scrimping and saving for months. I was 19, and incredibly proud. I remember thinking that I finally felt like a grownup.

    QueenMiri
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, this is literally what a car is meant to do so good job!

    Linziaj
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well done and it makes all the difference that all your money alone bought it.

    Orionpax75
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mist important no car payments!!

    秋也 篠原
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If only more people had this attitude for everything in life in general. Like people complaining how small houses are. And here I am, content that I have a warm bed and a roof over my head. That's really all that matters. But people aren't content and always want more and more.

    Denny Cwiek
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Check out Philippians 4:11. It's wonderful attitude to develop with the help of the Holy Spirit.

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    denzoren
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My first car was a 99 Civic and that took me to work and back home almost 200km per day. Almost 6 hours of commuting and traffic daily and it never broke down while driving to work. I had it for five years. We all have to start somewhere and build from there. I'm very happy for you! I remember the feeling when I first got mine.

    Eglė Bukauskaitė
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is wholesome, congrats! But i cannot to not point out that his last name is "junk" 🙈

    RaineHanC
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The car is not like any modern fancy looking cars, but as long as it is working it could make anybody happy

    Tonya Wallace
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My first car was an old Crown Vic that was an old cop car in my town. It cost 175$ and fit all of my friends in it. Fast as hell too.

    Vivian Orr
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You set a goal and reached it. You SHOULD be proud, very proud. 👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    matilda
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your car is yours, as you paid for it. I don't even own my car yet, as it's on finance. So we'll done!!!

    Cybele Spanjaard
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My daughter did this too. Well done he will have a great future as has she..

    Lauren A
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Think that bike behind would beat your a to b whip

    Carole Reid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good job. When you want transportation and not a relationship.

    Jade Birdsong
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is something to be extremely proud of

    InfectedVoice
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Brand new nice cars are a waste of money anyway.

    Lolliegag
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Congratulations to you Sir!!

    Jennifer Gould
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Congratulations! Tough to save, you should be proud!

    George-Florin Constantin
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seems to be a Honda. "Not the most fancy", but it will outlast most modern ones.

    M O'Connell
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a 5th generation Accord (1993-1997)

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    Seán Baron
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a Honda! You go dude!

    Eric Mac Fadden
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Months of savings" - here it takes YEARS and thousands of bucks. I never had a car or learn to drive in 40 years because it is expensive. The gas prices are plummeting and it's like have another son, a more expensive one. Never come to Brazil, this is a nightmarish place one day I'll leave

    EVERLEIGH
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just hope it lasts for awhile. Those cars don't usually last. Just saying...

    oddkiddo
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like the kinda car that pollutes a lot. You should have gotten a bicycle.

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    I guess this comes from an American culture where it seems a lot of kids have their car bought for them. So good for this kid. He will appreciate it and take care of it well.

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    its called being an average adult..nothing special

    chi-wei shen
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    Too many men treat their cars as penis extensions.

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    Eva the Egg
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BAHAAHAHAAHAAH 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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    I' Gomez & Morticia's kid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes you gotta praised yourself for your hard work. 😌

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    ThoughtsAreNotFacts
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Grandmas are the BEST! She put a lot of heart into making this!

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    Eva the Egg
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aw good on him! Stuff like this makes me so happy~

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    Otter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who said the course of true love never ran smooth!

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    Chucky Cheezburger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dang,why yall gotts show stuff like this. Im gonna be goin to work lookin all weepy.

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    Eva the Egg
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg I watch his videos!!! He is absolutely hilarious. I had no idea he had lost his job

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    Lee Macro
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Little man has some swagger going on there

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    Kurtz Frausun
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you’ve been there, you probably don’t know truly how much this means.

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    Chucky Cheezburger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Congrats to this guy. It aint easy. I went from size 48 to 33. Nothing like this cat has done.

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    Allan Breum
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being kind and generous just because it "seemed like something fun to do." Man, you rock kid.

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    James016
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate ties but this video will be handy for when I need to wear one next

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    Dorothy Parker
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Estimated to have saved the lives of 2.4 million babies. Really astounding.

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    Chucky Cheezburger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Awesomely great. Why cant every be cool like these 2 cats?

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    denzoren
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd definitely get two llamas...some sheep...rabbits...fish. Lol

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    Mary Rose Kent
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The left photo is the man standing on the outside ledge of the Golden Gate Bridge, which spans the Gate between the Pacific Ocean and San Francisco Bay. It’s a favored place for suicides. I’m glad they talked him down.

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    Couch potato
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clever, I should bring mirrors everywhere everyone can be in the photos

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    Otter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So who's the adult standing there taking pictures???

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    kasa alex
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The whale was probably like 'ewww gross what's in my mouth'

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    Dorothy Parker
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now that's a great dad/daughter relationship.

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    Lucky
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How could a 7year old be homeless? Is there nobody who cares?

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    Alexandra Davis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *sigh* we're not wheelchair bound we're wheelchair users! I'm not bound to my chair, I use it because my legs don't work. I can get out of it to sleep etc

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    Couch potato
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are there SO MANY ABANDONED PLAYING CARDS

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    Mark Melton
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fail him.... Just for his lack of taste in music.

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    Katie Lutesinger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ouch! That bruising looks just awful. Poor guy.

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    Chucky Cheezburger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good lord...this kids an animal...in a good way,but still. 👍

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    Jihana
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It says: A teacher at an elementary school in SC wanted to help little boys with no dad at home so he started an “Gentlemen’s Club” where these littleguys dress up and learn to shake hands, make eye contact, etc. He even has extra jackets and ties for boys who can’t afford them.

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    Noel Benavente
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guy wanted to trade a yellow hood for a white or black one, someone in similar situation answered, cause he had a yellow truck with a white hood.

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    Aleksandra
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just don't get that 'success' to so many Americans means teenage models in bikini on a yacht 🙄

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    Jack Corbyn
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's great when you crop something so much it becomes unintelligible.

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