Introverts feel more comfortable focusing on their inner thoughts and ideas, rather than what's happening externally. They enjoy spending time with just a few close people, rather than a large group or crowds, and these folks make up an estimated 25% to 40% of the population.
However, misconceptions about this personality type are still plentiful. For example, many think that being an introvert automatically makes you socially anxious or shy, which is not always the case!
So let's try and get a better understanding of this unique bunch, shall we? For that, we at Bored Panda suggest taking a look at the Instagram meme account 'QUIET.' Its relatable content is like an introvert's virtual diary.
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Yep, I prefer no conflict, but I can get very mean if you irritate me enough
Load More Replies...Actually it’s healthy, mentally and emotionally, to cut off people who hurt you and don’t admit, or even recognize, that they did it. Why continually subject yourself to that? F**k that. Hurt me and don’t acknowledge and apologize for it? Then you become persona non grata to me.
Please don't barrage me for this comment, but I absolutely hate people that do this. I care a lot about people and it hurts like hell when they start avoiding you and pull away without telling you what they're thinking. I'm left there wondering what I did to chase off the people I love while these people that refuse to communicate just try to disappear. Obviously this doesn't apply if someone did something absolutely horrendous and refuses to apologize, but it doesn't make you funny or quirky or introverted to do this, it just makes you a terrible friend.
Depends on how they hurt me...a betrayal will not be taken so lightly, revenge is a dish best served cold
Or you get blocked before you can say “Don’t let the door hit you in the @$$ on your way out, Cindy and Brian”.
11. I can come and go as I please, with no one asking where I’m going or where I’ve been, or bitching about when I leave or get home. Total autonomy.
Curtains or closed blinds are a godsend for doing #1. But in my case, it's more being topless instead of completely naked (because sitting on the couch would be kinda ew)
Load More Replies...All true!! And SLEEP when and where you want, wearing what you want or nothing. love it
American writer, journalist, and introvert Jonathan Rauch thinks that extroverts are relatively easy for introverts to understand because they spend so much of their time working out who they are in voluble, and frequently inescapable, interaction with other people. Rauch says they are as inscrutable as puppy dogs.
On the other hand, he believes that extroverts have little or no grasp of introversion. "They assume that company, especially their own, is always welcome. They cannot imagine why someone would need to be alone; indeed, they often take umbrage at the suggestion," Rauch writes. "As often as I have tried to explain the matter to extroverts, I have never sensed that any of them really understood. They listen for a moment and then go back to barking and yipping."
And that, he claims, is the reason why introverts are so often misunderstood compared to their more social peers.
Ya gotta know when to hold 'em; know when to fold 'em. Distance from people who are not a good match is life-saving.
Keep the good ones close, let the bad ones go.
Load More Replies...But even nuns interact with other nuns and people within the religious community...
Load More Replies...Actually my bed is falling apart. I always dread leaving my boyfriend's place.
It’s perfectly fine to be self-aware. In fact, it’s a quality that’s sorely missing in grown adults these days. The problem comes when you start dwelling and ruminating on the things you are aware of in yourself that you think are bad (and may not be bad, but maybe someone said something not so nice about it once—-people can be real s**t sometimes, btw)
Omg, yes thank you. I have "OCD with insight" which is worse IMO then if I didn't know the things I do weren't normal.
I also think gaining self-awareness is part of our task as humans. But I know many people - with very little self-awareness- who clearly disagree!
This is why cognitive therapy doesn't work on a lot of people with autism and ADHD
Furthermore, Rauch says that introverts are, in a way, oppressed. "For one thing, extroverts are overrepresented in politics, a profession in which only the garrulous are really comfortable."
"Look at George W. Bush. Look at Bill Clinton. They seem to come fully to life only around other people. To think of the few introverts who did rise to the top in politics—Calvin Coolidge, Richard Nixon—is merely to drive home the point. With the possible exception of Ronald Reagan, whose fabled aloofness and privateness were probably signs of a deep introverted streak (many actors, I've read, are introverts, and many introverts, when socializing, feel like actors), introverts are not considered 'naturals' in politics."
What I like about texts and emails is that I can decide when to answer, and can even rehearse what I’m going to say, especially if it’s important. With a call, if I can’t just let it go to voicemail, then I am forced to have to answer and deal with it right then and there, with little to no preparation. I hate that, unless it’s someone I really want to talk to.
Always say that if it’s important enough, they will call and leave a voicemail
I've got that box set, special edition with director's commentary....
Well what else is it supposed to replay when you're trying to fall asleep? That's prime cringe countdown hours!
The brain wants sleep, but keeps us awake . . .
Load More Replies...The reason one gets happier when you get to old age is that you can't remember how bad your youth was.
That's a future doctor right there! Holding the first prescription she wrote (Xanax for her mom, if I am reading it correctly).
You made my day happy . You are a crack , for God sake still laughing at street XDDDDD
Load More Replies...Since extroverts dominate public and social life, they are also the ones who set the expectations. "In our extrovertist society, being outgoing is considered normal and therefore desirable, a mark of happiness, confidence, leadership. Extroverts are seen as bighearted, vibrant, warm, empathic. 'People person' is a compliment."
"Introverts are described with words like 'guarded,' 'loner,' 'reserved,' 'taciturn,' 'self-contained,' 'private'—narrow, ungenerous words, words that suggest emotional parsimony and smallness of personality," Rauch explains.
Hang in there. Happiness tends to be highest in childhood *and old age* for some reason which just seems to have something to do with brain chemistry or something. Get past middle age, and you'll be good.
I like to think it's related to how much one cares about what other people think... true happiness when you stop caring so much about it, which usually happens during childhood and old age...
Load More Replies...25 is too old according the teenagers. Any adult will tell you that your life really just begins at 25. Before that you are just a grown child.
My school years/teens were the worst days of my life. I was told repeatedly that I'd look back on them fondly. No, I f'ng well don't.
Your teen years are when your hormones go crazy, your brain rewires itself, and its a mix of Big Feelings, lack of executive function, empathy swinging between "haha that old woman fell under a car" and crying because baby looks sad, swinging between thinking that people are gross and crushing on half the human race, while dealing with classes that are being ramped up in vigor daily. No, being a teen is not fun at all. You 20s are for fun.
My wallpaper is a picture of me dancing a specific role that I'm really proud of, become or makes me really happy to see....
Load More Replies...Don't know why, maybe they like the makeup they did that day. Either way, it makes them happy. Best not to judge.
I try not to, but I have always found someone needing to have a picture of themselves on their phone's wallpaper to be very off-putting to say the least. If it's a family pic with them in it, that's fine. But a selfie as their wallpaper, just seems extremely self-centered IMO.
Load More Replies...That's the last thing I'd want to see every time I turned my phone on.
or dogs! My wallpaper is my four fuzzbutts! It's like an album cover lol only one is looking at the camera, the other three are all looking away, off into the distance.
Load More Replies...My Bestie in the whole world says it is HER reminder that she’s NOT as ugly as she feels.. (she’ struggles with depression as do I) We are in our early 40s and although I personally wouldn’t do it , completely respect and understand it from a different perspective. So I TRY not to judge others when I see themselves as their wallpapers…
Maybe if it was on the lock screen, but the wallpaper is only visible once it is unlocked.
Load More Replies...I have a pic of myself as my wallpaper. I read somewhere that this is a good idea because if you are ever in an accident with multiple people (like a car crash, etc.) and get separated from your phone, that first responders can more easily match it to your (presumably unconscious/injured) body and can more easily notify your ICE contact (In Case of Emergency). And you do have an ICE number in your phone, right?
I just used this image to reply to an idiot and he, in all seriousness, thanked me
However, it's worth mentioning that a few studies have found support for some connections between introversion and depression.
For example, this research suggests introversion may play a part in the development of the condition when people also have a greater sensitivity to feelings and emotions as well as neuroticism, a personality trait linked to a tendency toward negative or distressing feelings.
Not really! Bosses and HR often judge employees based on their participation in work social/team events. As a highly sensitive person, my MO is to show up relatively early, be seen by boss/HR, participate for a reasonable (IMO) time, and leave. If pressed, one can always find a reason for early departure.
Load More Replies...Organization had good intentions. Mandatory status suggests autocratic management. These events can be a trap for people with different personalities, preferences, or an addiction problem.
Load More Replies...This! I'm coming to work to... eh... work?! Of course I will try to get along and have a good time with my colleagues. But I don't feel like spending time with them like they are my friends, especially not after work hours. I need my alone time, and rather keep my socializing time for the people that are closest to me.
oops...did I say that out loud? I meant to say "that's too bad," (not really haha WOOHOO!!!)
Load More Replies...Older and wiser introverts are pickier about who they make plans with.
My friend when she was in an abusive relationship...thank God she got away and met a fabulous man and that spark began coming back!
Yep. My ex would get irritated with me when I got excited and call me a b***h if I talked too much. So I learned to confine my commentary to a few words. Maybe a sentence here and there. One of many reasons he's ex.
🎶 "And sometimes I hear my voice, I hear my voice, and I've been here... silent all these years." 🎶
I woke up this morning to do my very long assignment, and well, it isn't going to be due until next week? Better just start commenting on boredpanda, chilling...
Some weekends I need to sleep from Friday night until Sunday morning, just so I can get up early on Sunday to do laundry.
However, it's interesting that another piece of research, which explored the connection between social anxiety and personality traits, suggests that the highest overall levels of social anxiety appears in people with moderate to high extroversion, described by the researchers as "anxious extroverts."
A single tiny bird? Lucky you! My mind is more like a flock of screaming geese...
Mine is filled with AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Also works when you’re in a foreign country and isn’t that fluent in the local language. Currently studying abroad and not good with the local language so when people talk to me I just smile and nod hoping they’re not expecting a response from me. If a long silence follows, I know I messed up.
On my first time in England as a teen I bought chips and the man asked me if I wanted vinegar with my chips. Not knowing what vinegar was I smiled and nodded. I learned 3 things that day: Vinegar means Essig in German, I do not like it on chips and smiling and nodding is not always the best response.
Load More Replies...me with kids - all the time whilst cooking in the kitchen and they try to talk to me from their rooms
I wish I didn't get tired of songs. I wish songs just always hit like the first times you hear them
A trick I use is to take them off my playlist for awhile (usually a few months for me). When I add them back, it seems to make them hit again. Not as good as the first time, but what ever is?
Load More Replies...and then you have that one person who make a ruined memory in your life while you were recently thinking of them with this song everyday...the song is then ruined forever
I’ve been running the same songs in my head for the last, like, three years
me and every my chem song in existence but i still love them <333333
When messages from others imply that introversion is a negative trait, you might worry there’s something wrong with you and try to change this part of yourself.
But scientific findings show a complex relationship between personality and mental health symptoms — and that's before you even begin to consider any external factors. Therefore, it's difficult to draw a definitive conclusion from them.
Personality generally isn't something you can mold as easy as clay. Forcing yourself into frequent interactions without taking the time you need to rest and recharge your emotional reserves will probably just leave you feeling unhappier.
Hey in my defense it does have a weird shape and can't hold cereal very well!
The one that tried to go down the garbage disposal and it now has sharp gouges around it that make you cringe when they hit your teeth.
OMG!!! hahahahahha i have one spoon that has a thick handle and everytime i pull it out of the draw i always ask myself why don't i just get rid of it because i hate using it - and yet i can't. it's like family now
OR...you have one favorite spoon and you hide it so no one else will use it.
My husband brought silverware I hate into our marriage it's a weird random set pieced together exactly as you'd expect a bachelor to gather together. But that's not why I hate them. Yesterday he went to hand me a fork and I turned 3 down before I went to grab the one I wanted. He was like "what's wrong with the ones I offered???" It's the balance. All the ones he had had larger, heavier handles. They don't feel right in my hand. He doesn't have a sensory processing disorder so he doesn't get it, but my oldest does
It’s like having a FAVORITE burner and nobody talks about this!
Absolutely. By taking care of hygiene you're looking out for yourself and everyone around you.
Load More Replies...Sometimes just making it out of bed in the morning is an achievement that seems like the equivalent of competing in the Olympics. I'm proud of everyone who made it out of bed today, and if you didn't, you will get there. There's hope and you're worthy of it.
Cut people like that out of your life if you can! We all need support, not judgement
I have ME (chronic fatigue) so this is a huge achievement for me on some days
My (in)sanity needs my immediate attention.../j
Load More Replies...This weekend: My friend: "Wanna come to the carnival?" Me: "Nah...I'm okay." My friend: "WHY NOT????? IMMA VOICECALL YOU" Me: no-not the voice call-FINE I'LL GO
Nonono, you Never reply "No, why?" it's "Why, what's up?" Save yourself so much trouble that way :D
There was this meme here awhile ago that said to answer the phone/video call every time by saying, "hello, my battery is low" or something like that. That way you can just hang up whenever you want and blame it on your phone's battery. Best advice ever IMO.
I will never understand why people call me to reply to the text I sent. I realize it's easier for some (fat fingers, poor writing skills, dyslexia, etc)...but none of my friends have those issues. WTH.
That's a learning experience. When you learn to let go of more attachments.
Load More Replies...That's not entirely true, it takes larger things to blast thru the old hide.
Load More Replies...Most of this thread isn't about introverts. It's just confusing depression, self-loathing, and apathy with my an introvert...
Load More Replies...There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being an introvert, and spending time alone doesn't mean you've given up on life. Plenty of other factors play a part, regardless of where you fall on the introvert-extrovert spectrum, so if you want to just chill on the sofa and laugh at a few memes instead of going out, scroll away!
Popular saying: "Even a broken clock is right twice a day." The clock:
Ah yes! Had a broken 1 in my food truck, and everytime a customer told me it was wrong, I said "it's right twice a day!"
Load More Replies...I have a watch with a flamingo on the face, I keep reading the legs of the flamingo instead of the hands of the watch
I am embarrassed by everything I do, WHY do I always have to be awkward at everything when I try to be nice? Now I have cringe memories inside my mind forever.
I'm pretty good at listening to both, which is weird because I think I have auditory processing issues
Idk how anyone can do that. Frequently at work I've got someone speaking to me on the phone and my boss speaking loudly at me on the other side and I cannot understand either of them until one of them shuts up.
Load More Replies...My dad and I could have 2 separate conversations at the same time. Between the 2 of us.
people, people people...they're laughing at a joke 'whitey' just told them.
I was able to use this recently. To tell the one I didn't want to listen to to shut up, without being rude. Try it.
I keep my aura of mysticism by rambling so much that people forget most of the details
Cats can get away with that kind of thing. If only....
Load More Replies...if I didn't believe it was serious, why are we talking about it? Don't belittle my thoughts
Let me have my first cup of coffee in silence. Maybe two cups. Then we can talk...maybe.
dude i have to remind my partner of this all the time - like i can't be spoken to , i can't listen to you, I don't like anything or anyone and my brain is on snooze - understand this or prepare yourself to meet Dr Jekyll
The last kitten can still fit on top of his head if he gives them a boost :)
I could do without the nagging of the register, however. "Scan item, put in bagging area. Bag the items. Take the items with out." I overheard an elderly man snap at his register, "If I wanted to be nagged this much, I would have brought my wife!"
Load More Replies...Except when it calls for the attendant, which is 100 x worse than a manned checkout!
This post when my finger slipped and hit post I'm going back to bed
Load More Replies...If only I could buy my booze from them, my trip would be tolerable.
15 or less items, why wait behind someone with an over flowing cart?
I avoid self checkouts because the embarrassment having an "unexpected item in bagging area" stresses me the f out. The item us no there or its my frickin reuseable bag jeez.
I consider them a blessing of the Lord, and I'm not even religious :D
I'm an introvert but I hate self checkouts. It's always beeping saying I did something wrong and it super stresses me out.
Dude my sister...she always apologizes even when a person literally pushes her.
I have a coworker who apologies constantly. We all love her dearly, but someone pointed out that "drink whenever (name) says sorry" would be a great drinking game. We'd all be in a coma.
SVTFOE!!!!! I LOVE THAT SHOW!!!! MY FAVORITE SHOW!!!!!!!!!!! REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Me and my bestie. Nonstop. All day, every day. I hit the jackpot in the friendship department 😁😁
I found a man who likes me and listens to me. I thought he’s an extrovert and “normal”, like, the opposite of me. Turns out he’s also weirdo, but on the other side of the introvert spectrum.
Well, when I am in school, I wait for the class period to end in five minutes, but five minutes feel like HALF AN HOUR.
If it's really good it can become the comfort show that gets put on for background noise
Load More Replies...Me when I finished watching Howl's Moving Castle for the first time.
And then it takes you ages to find something else you want to watch
When you beat a game and there's no sequel:
Load More Replies...Well it's just time to watch Star vs The Forces of Evil aGaIn!!!
One time I bought new boots at old navy and wore them to a party with my jeans tucked into them. This guy pointed and scream laughed at them and shouted "those are the ugliest f*****g boots I've ever seen in my life!!" And so I spent the rest of party hiding and never wore boots again.
If you are not sure wear it as a joke. If it looks good then you look good even in something you wear as a joke. If it doesn't look good then you are too cool to care and brave enough to wear it as a joke. Make both outcomes to be a win for you and you will never lose again ;)
NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONOOOOOOOOOOO
Load More Replies...You want to hear my intrusive thoughts and dance with my demons? This will be cute. Let me make some popcorn first...
huh............well im going to jail WHY CANT I STOP THINKING AAAAAAAHHH edit:spelling
Yeah, I’d definitely be going to jail if they knew my thoughts… I think way too much about death and other things
Load More Replies...the battery would die out on my device very quickly. I think a lot.
Also free-flowing thinking is very jumbled and nonsensical. Or is that just my ADD brain? Either way, good luck trying to find anything of worth in all that mess.
Load More Replies...I am so sorry you feel this way :( my heart goes out to you and everyone else who for any reason has to pretend they are someone they are not
Load More Replies...Not stupid, friends are the most dangerous of all. Strangers you can ghost. Enemies can't stab you in the back.
Having anxiety is stupid, but it has nothing to do with introversion.
you can be an introvert and have anxiety. Anxiety can in fact contribute to being an introvert. It's not explicitly an introvert thing, but it's also possible for it to be an introvert thing.
Load More Replies...Generalized anxiety is typically illogical. And typically you know it's illogical. Doesn't ever make it better though.
I’m scared of hanging out with anyone, I have way too much paranoia about dying
Omg and it's like I attract these kinds of people too! There have been countless times that I have been stopped in stores by complete strangers that tell me their life stories. Why? I am not a people person at all but they just seem to be drawn to me.
I was kind of friends with a girl that was in the same business class as I was in 10th grade. One day she saw me before school and started talking to me about this sexual experience she just had within the week Even if we were best friends I would never want to hear that, especially from a 15/16 yr old
Oh yeah. The number of times I've had people tell me "I've never told anyone else this before, and I really don't know why I'm telling you..."
Me too, I have had people tell me some pretty wild stuff. I think it's because I don't gossip though. They just need to get something off their chest and know I won't spread it around.
Load More Replies...People always do that to me. I don't mind, I'm always ready with a "that sounds rough"
My daughter is a "friend to randoms". They just stop her anywhere and start talking, spilling the beans. It's truly unbelievable.
I use sea of stars and cassette beasts as an excuse to be an introverted extrovert
to solve this problem, stay to the very end of the credits, until after the house lights come up, after the ushers kindly ask me to leave, and cinema security has been called
Good call. That way you can avoid all the other people leaving.
Load More Replies...I have a person in my life like this who fills the void by asking question after question after question after question after question after question after question after quest...
My little second cousin! Why, why, why, why, why....? Luckily my cousin say my eyes glazing over and rescued me
Load More Replies...It looks like that tripod is sticking out of the side of his head like strange hair
That moment of panic when the nap started during the day and it's dark now...
Load More Replies...Me: I'll try to talk to people today Also me: *is only talking about garl* My new philosophy:
Does anyone know the story behind this photo?? Just curious. The hole is not filled in before the attendees have departed, in my experience.
It's not real, It's a set. The grave is of the fictional DC character The Green Arrow, and the Flash is giving the V sign for some reason.
Load More Replies...Who designed that slide? Finally work up the courage to slide down and don't realize the worst part is crashing into another rider just before plunging into the water. Sounds about right
Not me being both (and at 11) (I’m not 11 anymore tho)
Haha...yeah...looks over as Asian mom kidnaps, beats, and buries my dreams.
And then provides you with "parent-approved" new dreams that you must accept.
Load More Replies...My mother (Not Asian...W.T.) crushed mine under her heel like one of her cigarette butts.
it's from the dust ferries. Because honestly, I don't know how that much dust and dirt gets stuck on a fan that never stops.
Yeah, dust faeries. Leave it at that. You don't want to know what dust actually is.
Load More Replies...Try owning a golden retriever. They shed golden fibres of joy that coat every surface until you can't notice the dust.
And, why, cheezus, do I have to choose what to eat every. damn. day. ???
Why on earth do you let a unannouced visit to even enter?? Yell through the mail box or open a window.
"If the state of my place offends you, feel free to come clean it yourself." My Mom did that to a Fussy Friend, right after we had moved. Fussy Friend came over, spent all day cleaning, and it was still a disaster. That was the last time Fussy Friend criticized my Mom's housekeeping.
Ponder this :What if animals are more technologically advanced than humans and we’re too dumb to notice?
Load More Replies...That would probably explain why it is significantly easier to fall asleep in the early mornings than when it's bedtime
Oh, so it's not my husband snoring that keeps me awake, it's the busy signal from the sleep server.
Then make one. You'll never use it, but make one anyway.
Load More Replies...me upset that Netflix hasn't any more variety of Meme's! I'm tired of being Alex of "Orange is the New Black". She so fits me ...but I need a change.
“Hello, I would like to get this for my brother and this for my dad and this for my friend…” “right, and for you?” “Uhhhhhhhhh” *sprints out the door*
Had a postie come to the open kitchen door while I am chopping vegies for spag bol and belting out Faith No More "falling to pieces". He just left the parcel on the doorstep and I only saw it when I turned to the fridge to get out mince.
i wa swatching a show with my mom and I brother cave in like 7 times throwout and every time there was deprissong song an and he commented about it every time...help
Yes, hear it so often and yet look at some of the most horrendous crimes committed and they were social, outgoing people.
Wait, is this an actual thing? 'Cause I'd totally watch that for hours on end!
See, this is when you lower your expectations. A delicious pastry with your morning coffee? Hell yeah. Cat being extra cute? Snap a pic. Dig up your favorite pair of socks and wear them. However small the source of even the most fleeting speckle of joy, hang onto it and make it a big deal.
This was one of the best pieces of advice my therapist had ever given me. Wish I’d remembered to use it.
Load More Replies...Also, I'd rather perform on a stage than be in a crown, or heaven forfend I have to network.
I absolutely agree. I taught speech in college during my grad program and teaching and making speeches or presenting was never an issue for me. Put me in a room and ask me to network or small talk and I would rather have a root canal.
Load More Replies...I had to touch my screen to make sure it wasn't me🤔
Load More Replies...Win. We should not get together and do that some time.
Load More Replies...I may not be attractive but I'm not Hapsbourg level of unattractive.
"breakfastlunchdinner" - finally, a name for the meal that starts at morning tea time and continues until I go to bed
im overthinking my overthinking why do i overthink i need to stop overthinking my overthinking!!!!!
Yes! And several other mental problems. Introversion is not a "problem".
Load More Replies...Kinda crazy how 'introvert memes' are always like 95% self hate. I mean, I'm not a great example, but I'm pretty sure there's happy introverts on earth, right? Right?
I am an introvert in person, online I'm fine but out in public I suddenly feel as if I am a proctologist and forever dealing as a******s.
Introvert means someone who gets energy from alone time, and can enjoy peaceful quiet time alone. Not depression and self-hate, that's legit mental illness that needs to be addressed by professionals rather than being 'relatable' memes.
BoredPanda, do you even bother to read what you copy-and-paste from Reddit? You are confusing depression and social anxiety with being an introvert. Introverts can love being active and hanging out with friends, however, they just need some time to recharge. Introvert does not equal depression and isolation! Do better, BoredPanda...
The confusion over the meaning of introvert has its roots in people are actually are not an introvert but want to use that as an excuse to get out of something. Or more likely, they want attention.
That would be an ambivert: https://www.forbes.com/sites/travisbradberry/2016/04/26/9-signs-that-youre-an-ambivert/?sh=1e295cf3145b
Load More Replies...Complete this sentence: I am an introvert because ... I don't want people to know that I suffer from demonic possession.
Yes! And several other mental problems. Introversion is not a "problem".
Load More Replies...Kinda crazy how 'introvert memes' are always like 95% self hate. I mean, I'm not a great example, but I'm pretty sure there's happy introverts on earth, right? Right?
I am an introvert in person, online I'm fine but out in public I suddenly feel as if I am a proctologist and forever dealing as a******s.
Introvert means someone who gets energy from alone time, and can enjoy peaceful quiet time alone. Not depression and self-hate, that's legit mental illness that needs to be addressed by professionals rather than being 'relatable' memes.
BoredPanda, do you even bother to read what you copy-and-paste from Reddit? You are confusing depression and social anxiety with being an introvert. Introverts can love being active and hanging out with friends, however, they just need some time to recharge. Introvert does not equal depression and isolation! Do better, BoredPanda...
The confusion over the meaning of introvert has its roots in people are actually are not an introvert but want to use that as an excuse to get out of something. Or more likely, they want attention.
That would be an ambivert: https://www.forbes.com/sites/travisbradberry/2016/04/26/9-signs-that-youre-an-ambivert/?sh=1e295cf3145b
Load More Replies...Complete this sentence: I am an introvert because ... I don't want people to know that I suffer from demonic possession.
