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You’d think that all medical professionals have your best interests at heart and want to accurately diagnose you. While the world is full of talented, empathetic, and knowledgeable doctors, nurses, surgeons, and specialists, far from everyone is like that. It would be naive to think so. Unfortunately, there are some truly rotten apples in the bunch.

Medical gaslighting is what happens when your doctor dismisses your health concerns. And it’s a serious issue with real-life consequences. The Young Lung Cancer Initiative, a non-profit that empowers young adults in the fight against cancer, recently went viral on Facebook. It asked patients to share their real diagnoses, even though their doctors didn't take them seriously. These professionals attributed symptoms to anxiety, stress, or mental health.

Scroll down for these real-life stories. It’s a reminder to trust your gut and if something feels off, always get a second (or third!) opinion.

Bored Panda reached out to the team at the Young Lung Cancer Initiative, and they were kind enough to answer our questions. You'll find our interview with them below.

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Image credits: Young Lung Cancer Initiative

#1

Young woman touching throat in pain, illustrating health issues and consequences of doctors getting it wrong. Hashimoto's. It took me 4 doctors in large hospitals until I found this doctor in a rural town that took one look at me and was like, "you have a severe thyroid issue. Let's get you some help". He has been a god send. The man is brilliant and he went toe to toe with my insurance for me to be treated properly. I know when his Cuban Spanish starts flowing, he has had enough.

Brandy Anne , photoroyalty / freepik Report

Huddo's sister
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3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so glad I can still see my current GP, even though I moved an hour and a half away, because she has always been so thorough with any issue I've had. Since I have fibromyalgia, I'm at risk of acquiring other autoimmune conditions, so one of the things on my 6 monthly blood tests is a thyroid test. So far so good though.

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According to Bianca and Leah from the Young Lung Cancer Initiative, the Facebook post came from "what we see so often in the young lung cancer community (people diagnosed at 50 or younger)."

"Delayed diagnosis is a major issue. Most are diagnosed at stage 4, and many spend a year or more trying to get answers. For young patients without a smoking history, lung cancer is often the last thing considered. That is not the case for every disease, but in our community, it is a big reason people are diagnosed so late," the representatives explained to Bored Panda in an email.

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They said that they wanted to highlight the reality, as well as to hear from other people. "Medical gaslighting happens in many conditions, not just lung cancer."

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    #2

    A young sick girl in hospital bed with oxygen tube, hugging a stuffed animal, highlighting doctors getting it wrong. Our pediatrician said my baby sister was making herself sick for attention… she had cancer.

    Jillian Caitlin , DC Studio / freepik Report

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doctors said I was lying to get out of school. I was born with horrible IBS, had all the symptoms, but not a single one of them recognized it.

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    #3

    Teen girl sitting on bed holding her stomach in pain, depicting cases where doctors got diagnosis wrong. When I was 14, my doctor diagnosed me with "child who has a parent abroad" syndrome. I had kidney failure lol.

    Cristina Balcan , ashvets / freepik Report

    NapQueen
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to the doctor want because I was finding it hard to breathe. They said that I needed to go home and Google 'yoga,' as I needed to 'calm down.' Refused his answer, immediately saw another doctor after that - bronchitis!

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    The team said that medical gaslighting is "far too common." Especially for younger patients, women, and (with regards to lung cancer) individuals without a smoking history.

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    "It can happen when symptoms do not fit what a doctor expects or when early test results look normal. Time pressures and unconscious bias can make it worse," they said.

    They shared some practical advice for what to do if you feel that you're being gaslit by medical professionals. "Write down your symptoms, when they started, how they have changed, and how they affect your life," they suggested.

    "Ask direct questions like 'What else could this be?' and 'What is the next step if this does not improve?' Do not be afraid to get a second opinion. If a doctor says 'It is not cancer' or 'It is nothing to worry about,' but your symptoms are still there, you deserve a diagnosis. You deserve to know what is happening in your body and you know your body best."

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    They urged patients to trust themselves. "Many young lung cancer patients finally got answers because they kept pushing. That persistence can save your life."

    #4

    Doctor examining brain scans while on phone call, highlighting cases where doctors got diagnoses wrong. Welp I just got told it's a brain tumor yesterday 😅 turns out they were kinda right when they said it was "all in my head."

    Brie Morrison , zinkevych / freepik Report

    amy lee
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the humour that's going to see this person through the worst days. Best of luck and get well soon!!

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    #5

    Stressed female doctor in white coat holding her head, symbolizing medical errors and patients paying the price in healthcare. Almost died. I was in middle of having anaphylactic shock from a chemical in middle of iron infusion that I was allergic to. A nurse said it was just me having panic attack until I was throwing up all over and pooping and rash on body until they gave me allergy medicine. Scariest thing I ever went through. I was near death.

    Bee Joy , wavebreakmedia_micro / freepik Report

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I had my iron infusion, they warned me multiple times I might have an allergic reaction, but would be monitoring closely. They told me to mention any change in feeling as well, and each time they took my blood pressure and heart rate (every ten minutes) they asked if I felt the same, it got a bit boring giving the same answer each time, but I felt fine. I can't believe anyone could miss an anaphylactic reaction, but maybe they are just more thorough here?

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    #6

    Doctor comforting young female patient during a consultation, highlighting cases where doctors got diagnoses wrong. The 4 times I was dismissed by doctors in one month in extreme pain they were all male. Wasn’t until I saw the first female doctor I finally taken seriously and it was stage 4 cancer!

    Jennifer Jaske , freepik Report

    SD
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s why ALL my doctors are women. Male docs are too busy with their God complex.

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    The question shared by the Young Lung Cancer Initiative instantly went viral. At the time of writing, the post has a whopping 3.6 million views, 11.2k comments, and 6.5k likes. It feels validating to know that you’re not alone if you’ve ever felt like your doctor has dismissed your genuine health concerns.

    Medical gaslighting can lead to inaccurate diagnoses and delayed treatment. The result? Your physical and mental health suffer. And, in some cases, you can even lose your life! On top of that, this damages society’s trust in the healthcare system as a whole. It’s bad for everyone.

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    Broadly speaking, some medical ‘professionals’ attribute your symptoms to stress, anxiety, and mental health issues. The underlying assumption that they make is that the patient is overexaggerating their symptoms.

    Some of the main signs that your doctor may be gaslighting you include behaviors like:

    1. Interrupting you
    2. Not listening to you
    3. Diminishing your symptoms
    4. Blaming your symptoms on your age, lifestyle, gender, sexual orientation, or weight
    5. Linking your symptoms to anxiety, depression, or stress
    6. Rushing you through the appointment
    #7

    Young woman examining skin on hand with concern, illustrating cases where doctors got diagnosis wrong. Multiple sclerosis. Told I had health anxiety and I replied 'I've anxiety because no one is f*****g listening to me!'

    Lynsey Mooney , KamranAydinov / freepik Report

    ThePinwormsrock
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. It took 30 years to qualify for an mri due to my "anxiety problem".

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    #8

    Young male patient in hospital gown listening to doctor, highlighting cases where doctors got it wrong and patient suffered. Leukemia, I was "too young to be that sick " so I must be dr shopping.

    Justin Hart , EyeEm / freepik Report

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If anyone was 'too young to be that sick', we wouldn't need children's hospitals

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    #9

    Elderly woman clutching chest in pain, highlighting cases of doctors getting it wrong with serious illness. I was heading into heart failure by the time they listened to me and my PCP who helped sent the first rheumatologist (a male) an envelope of glitter with my diagnosis and lab reports because he had told her I was an overweight female with mental health issues.

    Sarah Peacock , jcomp / freepik Report

    glowworm2
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lOVE that PCP! That rheumatologist deserved that glitter bomb!

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    To be perfectly fair, not all medical gaslighting is intentional. There are situations where it is purely accidental. “The health care provider might have poor communication skills, or have limited time to speak with a patient, or not be medically knowledgeable enough to know what to do,” Dr. Jonathan M. Marron, a physician and director of clinical ethics at the Harvard Medical School Center for Bioethics, told Harvard Business Review.

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    Furthermore, medical gaslighting can be rooted in the lack of medical knowledge. Some illnesses, diseases, and disorders still aren’t understood properly. It can be especially difficult if there’s no clear way to test for a diagnosis.

    That being said, some medical gaslighting is the direct result of (un)conscious biases. “We know there is a significant amount of unconscious bias in the practice of medicine. Studies show that those from marginalized groups, especially women and people of color, are more likely to have their concerns or questions not taken seriously, which can be associated with worse health outcomes," Dr. Marron told HBR.

    #10

    Doctor performing an ultrasound on a young patient illustrating times doctors got it wrong in diagnosis. Bleeding every other week for 8 months: "that just happens sometimes." Eventually switched docs. One investigative ultrasound later and it turned out I have 2 uteruses. Tada.

    Lexy Yohey , user15145147 / freepik Report

    Anthony Elmore
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can confirm, apparently. It does sometimes just happen when you have 2 uteruses. I swear, these doctors have the same skillset as a cheap circus fortune teller.

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    #11

    “Turns Out I Wasn't Just Fat & Lazy”: 47 Times Doctors Got It Wrong — And Patients Paid The Price "Just a headache" and " hahahahahah you can't have a hole in your head, it's a solid bone".... come to find out, I had a 6 inch rotting draining tube in my skull (the bone had started to grow over it) that was left in there from when I was a baby and had surgery.

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    Ginger ninja
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh thats a lawsuit and big payout for OP

    #12

    Young woman looking sick and exhausted during outdoor exercise, highlighting risks of doctors getting diagnosis wrong. Aplastic Anaemia (complete bone marrow failure) told I was probably stressed and running too much and to take a month off. Chemo, radio, and one bone marrow transplant later and the ‘anxiety’ has gone.

    Laura Baker , garetsvisual / freepik Report

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    While it’s impossible to 100% avoid medical gaslighting, there are still things you can do to minimize the chances of this happening. Preparation is key here! As per HBR, when going to your doctor’s appointment, you should do the following:

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    1. Bring a journal where you’ve been tracking your symptoms
    2. Briefly and precisely explain your medical concerns
    3. Have a short list of questions for your doctor
    4. Consider bringing a trusted friend or relative with you so they can support you, take notes, and observe how the doctor interacts with you

    Dr. Marron suggests that if you don’t know what to ask, you could prompt your doctor for help with, “If you were in my shoes, what should I be asking right now?” At the end of the appointment, you need to understand two things: the big-picture plan and the next steps you’ll be taking.

    #13

    Young woman in pain sitting on toilet holding stomach, illustrating cases where doctors got diagnosis wrong. Ulcerative colitis. Turns out, anxiety doesn’t make you s**t blood.

    Karah Stevenson , zinkevych / freepik Report

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely not one of the things on any mental health test I've ever done

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    #14

    Young woman looking shocked while holding a pregnancy test, highlighting cases where doctors got it wrong about patient health. A 400lbs+ provider in the ED on Christmas day told me my abdominal pain and vomiting was because "you need to lay off the greesy food" I was 130lbs at most! 3 days later I had a positive pregnancy test... I now have an amazing almost 9yo son. I was unaware greesy food caused pregnancy. Who knew.

    Angel Strine , user10669693 / freepik Report

    TMTMTMTM
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Greasy food can cause pregnancy if it's sausage and huevos. :-)

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    #15

    Young woman sitting on a sofa holding her stomach in pain, illustrating cases when doctors got diagnosis wrong. Not anxiety, but gas... My apendix burst the next day...

    Ingrid Elin Jakobsen , myoceanstudio / freepik Report

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Add "teenage girls get tummy aches for all sorts of reasons". Said teenage girl nearly died and all the adhesions caused by the infection may have made her infertile.

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    That being said, in some rare circumstances, the doctor is completely in the right, and the patient simply refuses to accept that they’re not sick. Hypochondria, aka illness anxiety disorder or health anxiety, means that a person is preoccupied with the idea that they’re ill, even when they have normal body sensations or minor issues.

    According to the Mayo Clinic, some of the signs and symptoms of hypochondria include:

    1. Being easily alarmed about your health
    2. Not being reassured after visiting the doctor and getting negative test results
    3. Excessively worrying about specific medical conditions
    4. Being so distressed about falling ill that you can’t function properly
    5. Repeatedly checking for signs of disease
    6. Frequently making medical appointments out of fear
    7. Avoiding people, places, and activities
    8. Constantly talking about your health
    9. Frequently checking the internet for illness symptoms

    With this in mind, if you’re worried about your health, you can and should go to a doctor’s appointment for tests. However, if your doctor believes that you may have hypochondria, they might refer you to a mental health professional.

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    So, you need to find a healthy balance between persistence and knowing when to actually trust experts.

    #16

    Young female patient on oxygen support in hospital bed, highlighting cases where doctors got diagnosis wrong. The wildest time they told me I had anxiety was when I went to the ER because I couldn't breathe and my hands were going numb and it was moving up my arms and legs. They literally treated me like an idiot and like they felt sorry for me because I was so ignorant.... It was Aniphilaxis... I have Alpha Gal (allergy to mammal products and by products) it's a miracle I'm still alive at this point. Also, the Dr tried to get me to lay down and go to sleep. He said "it will go away if you just go to sleep" I said, yeah cause I'll be dead... I laugh now but it wasn't so funny at the time.

    Carrie Gossage-Stearns , DC Studio / freepik Report

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    #17

    Young woman outdoors with chest pain, representing patients affected by doctors who got diagnosis wrong. Told me I couldn’t catch my breath and was having chest pains because I was having an anxiety attack (never had an anxiety attack in my life). Had a heart attack in the ER.

    Bridget VeVerka , kues1 / freepik Report

    Dav Carro-Ripalda
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks lone doctors use the anxiety card a lot. Maybe the real problema will be costly for insurance companies in the US?

    #18

    “Turns Out I Wasn't Just Fat & Lazy”: 47 Times Doctors Got It Wrong — And Patients Paid The Price Graves disease. Oh yeah..and 7 weeks solid of heavy bleeding and pain to the point of passing out was also brushed off 4 times as just "normal perimenopausal changes" until they removed a massive pendiculated fibroid from my uterus.

    And when I kept trying to get help for my (then) infant daughter they told me my daughter didn't have any problems and it was just me being an "over anxious first time mother" and actually wrote in hospital records that they thought I was potentially suffering from "paranoid delusions subsequent to post natal depression" because I told them I was sure she had a genetic disorder.. and gee..turned out it wasn't just anxiety or delusions.

    ..she has a rare genetic syndrome.. Kabuki syndrome.

    Also was told I had reflux when. I had gallstones and inflamed pancreas..shall I go on? So many horror stories.

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    BrownEyedGrrl
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend took her baby to the ER multiple times for a high fever (105F) and lethargy. They kept saying she just had the flu that was going around. She had meningitis and died that same night.

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    Has a medical professional ever gaslit you, diminishing your symptoms even though you knew something was wrong? What happened, and what was your actual diagnosis?

    If there are any doctors reading this today, how do you ensure that you don’t medically gaslight your patients? What do you do to accurately diagnose your patients?

    Let us know in the comments at the bottom of this post.

    #19

    “Turns Out I Wasn't Just Fat & Lazy”: 47 Times Doctors Got It Wrong — And Patients Paid The Price A doctor once told me (and documented) he wouldn’t scan my knee because he “didn’t want to feed my delusions”. I left ED in agony, got a private scan and had entirely cracked in half the cartilage in my knee.

    Elisa Flynt , peoplecreations / freepik Report

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My doctor will always send me for scans if I have acute pain or prolonged chronic pain, just in case it isn't a symptom of my fibromyalgia. So far it has found bursitis in one shoulder and osteoarthritis in the other.

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    #20

    Young woman comforting sick friend on couch, illustrating doctors getting it wrong and patients suffering consequences. You’re pregnant….after just telling him I’m a lesbian, turned out to be a tumour.

    Ruth Mortimer , lifestock / freepik Report

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get that many people probably don't expect to be pregnant when they are, but really, how hard is it to believe women when they say there is 0 chance of it? I have always been believed straight away.

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    #21

    Paramedic attending to a patient on a stretcher inside an ambulance, highlighting doctors getting medical diagnoses wrong. My friend had anaphylactic shock episode and the paramedics tried to tell her it was a panic attack - she nearly died

    Nikki Tinsley , fentonroma143 / freepik Report

    Nils Skirnir
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They do present similarly at first

    #22

    Young woman holding her head in pain, illustrating the impact of doctors getting diagnoses wrong on patients. The rarest form of Lung Fibrosis...
    Doctors in the ICU scolded me, called me a lot of bad things and said it was anxiety, I was faking it and so on.

    And last Monday morning paramedics didn't believe that I fell unconscious and had bad convulsions on my kitchen floor even though I bit my tongue and everything... Went to the hospital later and it turned out I DID have convulsions AND I actually also broke my back, sprained my tailbone and pressed at least 8 ribs from the fall.

    So yeah.

    Christina Guddi Gudtmann , namii9 / freepik Report

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    #23

    Young person lying curled up on bed in pain, illustrating the impact of doctors getting diagnoses wrong too young to be that sick. Multiple Sclerosis-my original presentation was “just an anxiety attack.”

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    #24

    Woman sitting on bed with hand on head, looking distressed, illustrating cases where doctors got diagnosis wrong. I gotta lose weight to fix.... extra spinal fluid on my brain. Im sure that'll work.

    Rin Jones-Dawson , EyeEm / freepik Report

    Sarah Belt
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gotta hit the treadmill to lose that extra spinal fluid weight... /s

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    #25

    Young woman in red dress looking thoughtful while sitting on outdoor steps, reflecting on doctors getting it wrong. Pulmonary Hypertension & COPD at 23 (yay me!!) Turns out I wasn't just fat & lazy.

    JacobandLydia Jones , HectorEmilio / freepik Report

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FAO noelle - that is not in fact vaping... or smoking. My sister had it. Mind you, she was/is fat and lazy - but not a smoker.

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    #26

    “Turns Out I Wasn't Just Fat & Lazy”: 47 Times Doctors Got It Wrong — And Patients Paid The Price My daughter: Dr said “POTS, Anxiety, Food allergies, In your head” Actually “Type 1 Diabetic”.

    Sara Schwartz , bokodi / freepik Report

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did they do any testing to come up with that list? All of them are pretty easy to test for, including diabetes.

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    #27

    Teenage girl looking stressed and ill at school lockers illustrating patients too young to be that sick. SVT after being told it was just anxiety and even once after fainting in HS being told "well you know, 16 year old girls 'swoon' all the time."

    Kaitlin Baker , Wavebreak Media / freepik Report

    michael Chock
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SVT is abnormally fast heart rate that doesnt allow full pumps. Can cause issues similar to anxiety but also comes with dizziness and fainting from low blood flow.

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    #28

    Young woman in casual clothes looking distressed, illustrating times doctors got it wrong and patients suffered. Lupus, but it really was me being too stressed and not sleeping enough.

    Sarah Rae , Grinvalds / freepik Report

    Anthony Elmore
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you listen closely, you can hear the quiet pop of Dr. House's Vicodin bottle lid every time someone is diagnosed with Lupus.

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    #29

    Woman wearing mask and gloves using a device to check mold on a wall, highlighting risks of patients being too young to be sick. My husband had 5 doctors say ‘well everything is coming back normal, so it must be anxiety’. We refused to accept that as his diagnosis and found out it was mold toxicity. In an instant, mold changed everything in our lives… never saw that on the bingo card for 2025.

    Krystle Burrows Scroggins , EyeEm / freepik Report

    Admiralu
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was also a famous case on Forensic Files. The family battled the insurance company because they wouldn’t repair the house. Waited too long and the house is a bio hazard. The husband died. Very sad.

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    #30

    Breast Cancer...the shortness of breath and chest pain, just anxiety...oooookay!

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    SchadenFreudian Psychology
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is serious. I know a woman who discovered she had breast cancer at 37. IIRC, they don’t even recommend you start getting mammograms that early. She found it by doing the monthly self-exam and insisted that the doctor take it seriously. You’re never too young. Oh, and men can get breast cancer too.

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    #31

    Young woman holding her head in pain, illustrating times doctors got diagnosis wrong and patient suffering. Chiari malformation, said it was just hormonal headaches. No sir my brain is shoving out of my skull!

    Christina Schlueter Keith , photoroyalty / freepik Report

    #32

    Elderly woman consulting doctor, showing concern about misdiagnosis and serious illness despite being too young to be sick. My mother, after her ‘initial anxiety’ diagnosis. Brain tumour, 9th documented person in the world to have this particular tumour in that spot in her brain. But hey ‘good news it’s not dementia.’

    Morgan McDonald , zinkevych / freepik Report

    Tardis42
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree that in most of these cases, the doctors seem like idiots, but if this is something extremely rare, I don't think it's totally fair to blame the doctors for not getting the diagnosis right away.

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    #33

    My first son…3 years old…”Constipation, give him MiraLAX.”
    Took him to ER that night…Complete Intestinal Malrotation with obstruction. Two big surgeries later and he’s nearly 12.

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    Julia H
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't see that coming. I hope he's okay

    #34

    I ended up with sepsis- went to the ED & the doctor barely looked at me and I was coughing up literal chunks of blood & had a super high fever. He sent me home, within hours I was nearly unresponsive & my mom begged the ER doctor to run more tests but they refused just saying I was being anxious & dramatic.

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    Catherina Thijs
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had sepsis once, nearly died, wouldn't recommend

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    #35

    Graves' disease.
    A regular customer of mine told me while serving him martinis.
    Took one look at me and knew.
    He saved me.

    Nina Aleeah Prince replied:
    its insane that its almost never doctors that figure it out. My most serious issues were figured out by friends or myself. I just asked the right doctors for the right tests, or showed them tests they've already done and missed to get a diagnosis.

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    Lady Eowyn
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Strangely enough that's similar to how I got my autism dx, I kept telling the mental health issues to professionals and they kept giving me different diagnoses, until I was 69 and a psychiatrist took the time to put the pieces together. I explained so incredibly much about my life. I went through a lot I shouldn't have had to. But to be fair, 1, autism wasn't as well understood, and 2, "females don't get autism."

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    #36

    Ambulance crew said "you're just having an anxiety attack." Er Dr diagnosed it as a stroke. Quite a bit different really.

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    Ge Po
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On the one hand, a stroke can cause very different symptoms. It is not always the; can't smile evenly, can't lift right arm, can't use left leg. Sometimes it's for example, loosing all sense of direction, can't find words, can no longer see. But then again, paramedics should know about that and observe, ask, rule out, check.

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    #37

    Pulmonary embolisms, lung cancer. Because apparently if you're 30 those things don't happen...

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    Olive
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How thoughtful of cancer to check your ID ...

    #38

    Young woman holding a pill and glass of water, concerned about illness after doctors got diagnosis wrong. 3 years to get a dx for hypertrophic cardiomyopathy. Given enough Ativan to choke a horse. That was 25 years ago.

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    michael Chock
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oHCM is a thick heart wall, making it harder to pump blood. Ativan is for anxiety.

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    #39

    Secondary bacterial pneumonia with an SpO2 of 88 but I just needed “to calm down and breathe.”

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    #40

    Diagnosed with Complex regional Pain Syndrome after I was told I’m “just dehydrated and need to suck it up.”

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    BlackCatWithWhiteSocks
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband has crps. Took us ages for the right diagnosis. He had heard everything like anxiety, exercise exhaustion etc

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    #41

    Atrial Septal Defect and open heart surgery that week.
    For years it was “🙄 She’s so dramatic when she has to run.”
    Also telling the Dr I thought I had asthma because my lungs burned so bad. “Just because your friend has asthma doesn’t mean you do.”

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    Huddo's sister
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mum dismissed me to start with when I started getting exercise induced asthma, because she didn't know it was a thing and I had been 'cured'/outgrown my asthma by the time I was 5. Doctor diagnosed it straight away, but he was an older doctor, so he didn't know spacers were a standard thing for all asthmatics now, so never told me to get one. First time I used one was when I had my first big asthma attack at a camp. Also found out then that ventolin raises heart rate, so I probably used to much in one go (and without a spacer) and that's why my heart was racing. First time I learned about the '4x4x4' method was years later, when I did asthma training for my teaching degree.

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    #42

    Ankylosis Spondylitis, Fibromyalgia. But “I’m too young to be dealing with pain.”

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    Huddo's sister
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People often have this idea that young people don't get pain, especially chronic pain, but doctors should be different. There is enough information on these conditions they should be understood more.

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    #43

    Vitamin b6 toxicity! My nerves were literally frying. But I was told for weeks to just relax. 2 years later and I’m finally ok!

    Amber Nicole Report

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Vitamin b6 toxicity is on the rise at the moment (at least in Australia) because people are drinking so many energy drinks with it in or taking supplements for energy, without getting blood test to se whether they need it.

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    #44

    Medical professional wearing gloves performing ultrasound scan on a young patient's abdomen showing doctors getting it wrong. Gall bladder stones. They said I was imagining the pain. 😂 They said I was too young at the time to have gall bladder stones hence why they didn’t bother doing an ultrasound and just assumed I was imagining it.

    Selin Hankali , dmitrytph / freepik Report

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similar, I do have anxiety (among other things) and in the ER the doc told my dad "she doesn't seem the type to imagine this" and dear dad smirked and said "she is." Doc took a step forward and - without raising his voice - said, so emphatically that my dad took a step back, "she isn't imagining this." Shortly thereafter I had my gallbladder removed. Not the only time physical issues were missed due to real mental health issues.

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    #45

    Female doctor with stethoscope, looking stressed and tired, representing doctors who got it wrong in patient care. Hyper active, anxiety, and self neglect. Been a nurse 10 years and just needed a vacation blah blah blah. I'm T1D and 1 year diaversary is in Oct. That 900 BG through everyone for a loop.

    Shyanne Thornock , wavebreakmedia_micro / freepik Report

    michael Chock
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Type 1 diabetic, a normal blood glucose (BG) is around 100.

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    #46

    Got told I’m healthy and there is nothing wrong with me, like 3 months later, Lyme disease…2 different types plus found out of a genetic mutation that can cause me to end up in a wheelchair by the time I’m in my 30s…

    Elizabeth Red Report

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    #47

    Severe Mitral Stenosis & Regurgitation. I coded on the table twice after a crna told me I was having a panic attack... and she never gave me Versed so I remember ALL of it.

    Amanda Gibson Report

    Julia H
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A CRNA has no business trying to diagnose anyone.

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    #48

    Allergies, then bronchitis, then atypical pneumonia, then lung cancer.

    Heather Prather Report

    #49

    I had an alergic reaction called esophigitus from an oral medication for my asthma. The paramedics said I was over reacting and it was probably the flu.

    Sarah Marie Report

    #50

    I was told a broken rib was heart burn. 2nd ED visit and another Dr. said if you can put your finger on it, it's a rib.

    Vicky Noviello Report

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    #51

    First it was gas LOL. Then it was a heart attack, then in was a hernia.....6 months later we were on a beach trip on the back of the Harley when the doctors at Myrtle Beach found out it was my gall bladder all along. Such an easy fix!!! Wish it hadn't taken 6 months!!!

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    #52

    I called the GP as i had a big lump under my arm pit. The GP receptionist told me to wait a month as it was nothing and would go. She then told me to wait a further 2 weeks for a phone call. Spoke to the GP she had me at the surgery inaide 30 mins and an urgent referral sent. 6 days later I was diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer, 6 weeks later scans showed I was stage 4. That was almost 4 years ago now and im 45. I hate GP receptionists lol. Don't worry, my GP still doesn't understand my condition and they refuse to do my bloods ordered by oncology so it has to be the health board.

    Michelle Cullen Report

    Huddo's sister
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    3 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is the receptionist deciding whether you need an appointment or not? And if Oncologist ordered blood tests, why does the gp sign off whether to take them or not? Do people not go to pathology place with the blood test form to get blood taken outside of Australia?

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    #53

    Sepsis. . . I was literally dying.

    Amanda Harte Report

    #54

    Anxiety / muscle pain, turned out I had three blood clots in my lungs.

    Giacomo Fitzmaurice Report

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    #55

    Stage 4 endometriosis and a fibroid the size of a melon. “I just needed to lose some weight and eat more spinach to get my iron up.”

    Lisa Dolgoff Peri Report

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    #56

    A stroke. Had a massive headache over weeks, nobody took this seriously. „You‘re only 18, it‘s your anxiety that makes it worse!“

    Sina Katharina Report

    #57

    Bipolar 1 with psychotic features 🤣 they also told me if I lost some weight it would help.

    Jenna Constance Report

    Janet Sparrow
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They ALWAYS say losing weight will help. I weigh 140 pounds.

    #58

    “They said it was ‘just anxiety.’ Turns out it was:
    – Mild TBI (19 head injuries)
    – Central vestibular dysfunction
    – Post-trauma vision syndrome
    – Visual midline shift
    – Sensory processing disorder
    – Hyperacusis
    But sure, let’s keep calling it anxiety.”

    Alena Freeman Report

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    #59

    Gastritis…after probably 8 different doctors suggested anxiety meds - even the gastroenterologist.

    Alisha Gladbach Report

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I probably should have been on antidepressents for my anxiety when I was younger but I think I hid it better then. I did have my paediatrician recognise I had gastritis when I was about 14 and put me on meds for that. I was a bit annoyed that I had to have a gastroscopy only to find out 'gastritis with no known cause'. Thankfully that largely stopped in my 20s and I realised I had IBS, which was probably the cause, so my diet switch means the gastritis has gone completely.

    #60

    Myocarditis, heart failure, and POTS after covid. ER PA wouldn’t even look at me in passing after he found out… He had said that after effects of co vid weren’t a thing anymore. Sad part… I’m an RN and I told him that something felt majorly wrong and requested an echo after an “Normal abnormal EKG”, he didn’t care and refused to order one.

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    #61

    My just "anxiety" ended up being a blood cloth that almost took me out.

    Adela Shikatani Report

    #62

    “You’re just constipated”. Me, 3 weeks later getting emergency surgery because my gallbladder is about to explode.

    Jamie Collins Weidner Report

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    #63

    Cancer. Literally cancer💀 dude still said it was my anxiety with the biopsy results in his hand lmao.

    Montana Renee Alldread Report

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    #64

    Got admitted to the hospital for 5 days, on oxygen for 3, for severe asthma exacerbation--on my 2nd visit to the ER that day. The nurse came in to pass me a medicine cup and said "The doctor ordered Ativan." I pulled my hand back and asked why. She said "to calm me down."

    Atsukobo Athena Report

    #65

    Sudden onset SOB in the mornings less in the afternoons. “Maybe you just need to get in shape you’re not hypoxic”. What about a pulmonologist. “You can if you want to….”

    Allergic asthma to unscented hairspray I’d used for years. Not just out of shape.

    Max Engler Report

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    #66

    Massive heart attack two fully clogged arteries, four stints at 39. Sarcastically got to look at my Dr. And tell him you couldn't diagnose an ear infection.

    Kyle Maus Report

    Tardis42
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same happened to my father. He was 43 and having chest pains. Doctor said it was stress. He kept bugging and finally the doc said, "fine, if you want the test we'll do it just so you can see there's nothing wrong." 4 clogged arteries and the guys says "Oh, what do you know? We'll get you in for surgery in 3 months.." My mother said get a 2nd opinion. 2nd doc looked at his scans and said he wanted my dad in the hospital the next day for surgery.

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    #67

    Soooooo my heart rate taking off while laying on the couch at home was ‘anxiety’.
    Given Xanax script that I ripped up. I actually had Atrioventricular nodal reentrant tachycardia and was properly medicated until successful ablation.

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    #68

    I couldn’t even catch my breath walking around the house and I was told I just had post nasal drip (no runny nose at all). Next doctor sent me for an X-ray and it turns out I had pneumonia.

    Emily Jean Report

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    #69

    AVP-D, previously known as Diabetes Insipidus! I was told I was anxiously drinking 12 litres of water a day, and that it had become a habit.

    Ffion Evans Report

    #70

    My daughter even after fainting and she stopped breathing on THE ER. They said anxiety. It's frikken POTS!

    Jessica Gould Report

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    #71

    Dysautonomia, POTS, Ehlers Danlos, MCAS, ME/CFS, Endometriosis and PCOS
    But just anxiety and need to lose some weight… right?!

    JB Ashley McCoy Report

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    #72

    Passed out while driving (with my kids in the car!!) and said it was just anxiety. SVT.

    Hailey Patterson Report

    #73

    They diagnosed me with Colon Cancer and I had Giardia and E. coli.

    Old School Farms Report

    #74

    Super ventricular tachycardia, oh and a broken back on a separate occasion. The paramedic told me I was being “hysterical”, (wasn’t even crying) and that there was absolutely zero chance my back was broken.

    Jennifer Pass Report

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    #75

    Dr told me that my 4 month old son was refusing his bottle as he could feel my anxiety - after refusing to leave and demanding another dr see him he was diagnosed with cows with protein allergy and bottle aversion, but yeah - it’s was all me!

    Rebecca Powell Report

    #76

    Freakin epilepsy. Turns out I wasn’t just faking it.

    Jasmine Christine Cureton Report

    #77

    Was told im just getting older and literally "welcome to the bad back club"
    turned out i had an L5 fracture, dislocated hip and pelvic area, sclerosing in multiple of my joints (arthritis) and to top it off i have flatback syndrome all while my spine tilts to the left side to compensate for the hips. I should be the poster child for the bad back club.

    Kirstine Wüpper Mikkelsen Report

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    #78

    I had a doctor tell me nothing is wrong I just need to loose weight. PTSP, Major depressive disorder, Anxiety.

    Sissy Forbes Report

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    #79

    A blocked widow maker artery!

    Alison Van Gunten Reed Report

    #80

    Seizures. No, I wasn’t twitching because of anxiety.

    Stephanie Garlick Report

    #81

    POTS and gastroparesis. I was throwing up multiple times a day. When I finally did a gastric emptying test I bombed it completely. Literally 0% of the food had been digested after 4 hours. (But no, I’m just nervous.)

    Emily Schofield Report

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    #82

    Irregular heart rhythm. Finally seen it on holter monitor reading after several times of being put on holter, and years of doctor visits with the same complaint: I literally feel my heart skipping beats, having extra beats, and beating off beat. They kept saying your heart looks normal it's just anxiety.

    Dee Rosario Report

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    #83

    Chronic appendicitis over a 9 months span LOL they almost k**led me, I went to the ER 3 times.

    Bella Camille Report

    RAM31280
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lucky it didn't rupture and cause sepsis.

    #84

    Blood Clot and a mass on my uterus..I kept being told to lose weight..eat less sodium..because that's why my Right leg was non stop swollen for 6 months..lol

    Whitney Hay Report

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    #85

    Endo, PCOS, AU/ADD, perfectionism, CPTSD.... just had radical hysterctomy, thrown into full blown menopause ... welcome to womanhood....😭..."here's another pill... it's just anxiety'...

    Emma-louise Walker Report

    #86

    Liver disease (which, thankfully, I ended up beating).

    Savannah Ballard Report

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    #87

    Severe iron deficiency which was another rabbit hole in itself.

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    #88

    Chronic bronchitis when the ER doctor told me it was "just a cold, go home and eat some chicken soup (yes that was his actual advice... and I was vegan at the time which was also noted in my medical records)".... I'd already had that "cold" for several months, which I HAD ALREADY TOLD HIM. It's been 8 years since then.

    Amanda Lucky Report

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    #89

    I got told if I lost weight my asthma would get better. He was really s****y. Turns out I just needed the cat to die.

    Nicola Owen Report