The United States upholds its status as the major global power through economic strength, technological innovation, military capabilities, and diplomatic influence.
As the leader of the free world, the country remains relevant to virtually everyone abroad, too. However, people's perception of it can vary dramatically, and due to factors such as media bias, political agenda, and historical context, misleading information can find its way into these talks as well.
So when Reddit user PW6YLenen made a post on the platform, asking others to share the lies about America that they're sick and tired of hearing, many had things to say.
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The American dream, anyone can start homeless and become a billionaire just through hard work, ingenuity, and good ol' American bootstraps.
It's b******t. America is something like 27th for economic mobility.
I think it was George carlin who said something like "It's called the American dream because you have to be asleep to believe it".
It's also so easy to go the other way and become homeless due to the sheer lack of social care.
The American "Dream" is just a BS fairy tale that the capitalists feed us workers to keep us divided and from raising up together to create democracy in the workplace!!!
The person who came up with the expression "Pull yourself up by your own bootstraps" was making fun of this economic self-reliance myth, but it has appropriated by the 1% and their well-paid minions to preach the reverse.
Great indication of the current mentality - I need to become a billionaire. One huge difference between the current generation and past was that the emphasis was on different sources of happiness. People didn't need to be fabulously wealthy to have a good, happy life. Today the mentality is increasingly depression and despair because "I don't have what that person has". Social media is a big part of the issue. In America, it is not difficult to live a healthy, happy, safe life. Most of the issues that prohibit this stem from poor personal choices (often drug use or poor choice in life partner) or life trauma (loss of spouse, mental or physical illness, etc.). We need to wake and see that a major factor in societies decline is rampant hedonism.
That sounds like a grossly inflated version of "the American dream". In the 60s it was more about you can be safe and happy. What we might call middle class. And about how you could have just about any job you wanted. (legally, doesn't mean you will get that job). It was in comparison to countries that did/do not have these freedoms. Now, INB4 - I get it - just trying to own a home is not realistic for many these days. But the basic concept of the American dream used to be true for many immigrants compared to the countries they came from. And still 'sort of' true today though obviously with major qualifiers. In the USA I'm kind of poor but I still have it much better than some folks I have visited in other countries. The 'any job" part of it is actually more true now than it was in the 60s. Black president, women flying fighter jets / commanding ships and so on.
I can only speak for myself, but I was homeless in 1993 even though I had a job ($5/hr). I lived in my car until I got an apartment with a roommate. I switched to a sales job (wholesale floral). I bought my house in 1999 and I will pay it off this year. No one gave me anything. However, I don't know if that is possible today.
I think it would be more difficult with housing costs out of control now. Even rents are crazy.
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That we are all the screaming, loudmouth, karen tourists that visit other countries and yell "why don't you speak english." Believe me we hate those people too.
Oh god no it’s a world wide problem. Just look at all the UK package tourists in Spain “oi Pedro bleedin egg and chips…”
German Karens don't scream. Because Germans in general rarely scream. Source: 15 years in customer service and the most you get it a stern talking to. Screaming happens, but it is truly rare and in the few cases I experienced it the people were honestly desperate. But German Karens have a tongue as sharp as a katana. They can destroy your soul with what they say in their nasty, condescending way that you sit there shivering and crying and wishing that the world might end tomorrow. I'm not sure that's better just because it's not so loud.
I'm curious; what are Karens called in European countries?
Load More Replies...I live in Europe. The Americans we get here are usually either upper middle class educated high-end tourists, or harmless retired seniors. Sometimes families on a trip to celebrate the parents' anniversary or something. On the other hand, other Europeans... Jesus Christ. Stupid drunk Brits. Drunk Belgian, French, Dutch, German, etc. students who just come for the booze and destroy everything in their paths. They're a nightmare. So yeah anyone who ever complains about American tourists has never seen a group of drunk Brits on bachelor/bachelorette party pub crawl.
Generally speaking, we haven't even been classified as the "worst tourists" for a long while and are now considered mostly loud and clueless but generally nice and friendly for the most part. We still have issues but I think our prior reputation makes us "the worst" by default in some cases. But look up any list of "worst tourists", while we can be annoying, others are really despised these days.
The rest of the world is lucky. You get to deal with that Karen for one week because that's all the vacation time their job gives them. That Karen behaves the same way the other 51 weeks of the year back home to everyone they meet. I'm a pacifist but at least once a day I meet someone I wish I could just duct tape their mouth because they honestly believe their opinions are facts.
I mean, in Japan I used to pretend I'm American so people wouldn't think I'm Russian (which I am, and my compatriots are known to have done seriously disgusting things abroad)
I'm American and when I travel abroad, when people ask, I tell them I'm Canadian. Sorry Canada xx
Load More Replies...Here in Hungary we have a lot of negative experiences with American tourists. I also frequently fly intercontinental flights and see the mess what the 'murican travelers leave behind in all the planes. I'm sure most Americans behave normally abroad, but those who don't are spectacularly not.
Have you ever been on a plane full of Spaniards?
Load More Replies...I used to work at an upscale international hotel chain, here in the US. I have seen many loud, obnoxious foreigners…one of which rode the elevator down to the lobby clad only in his UNDERWEAR to yell at the front desk because they left the wrong kind of champagne in his room. I also worked there with many people from other countries, some of which were my favorite coworkers. A lot of them were loud AF. There are definitely loud people all over the world. ☮️
That we dip most things in ranch and we are all addicted to fentanyl which is a LIE. I can’t stand ranch and I dip EVERYTHING in fentanyl.
I'm American and I only like nacho cheese or BBQ sauce for a dip. Raw veggies I eat naked (them, not me).
You should eat them with you naked just to compare.
Load More Replies...Although US has the most morbidly obese and most drug addicts per capita and in toto among the ‘developed’ countries
I don't have receipts but I'm guessing that relatively speaking - not that many people are addicted to fentanyl. The vase majority of 'newsworthy' stories are about overdose, not addiction - which stems from the extremely small doses needed to kill you and the "labs" making street pills lacking the ability to accurately dose the pills. LD50 for fentanyl is 2mg. For comparison - the average aspirin tablet weighs about 300mg.
I love ranch.. but I don't smother my food in it. I'll put a little bit on my salad 😁
I'm American, I dislike all dips in general. Maybe I'm just weird?
How racist it is. I'm Egyptian and you can tell I'm Arab just by my appearance. There's way more racism in my homeland AND in surrounding region than the west in general tbh.
Apart from a comment here or there, mostly from some inebriated youths, I haven't had a racial experience. (I live in the south). All are friendly and sweet and also soooo polite. They seem to take a genuine interest in where I am from etc.
USA actually has discriminatory and anti racism laws. America is a fabulous country and I'm glad to be an American today.
There's a difference between public racism and being racist in your home and voting for racist policies. You don't have to call every dark skinned person the n word, or every Arab a terrorist to be a racist. You just have to think it and vote for it.
While this is true, it's not true that America is some racist hellhole and everyone else is totally fine. There's a lot of racism and nationalism flying around in Britain or France or Germany.
Load More Replies...About six years ago, there was an incident on the MAX, our local light rail, where a young muslim girl was attacked by a woman who ripped off her Hijab and yelled "THIS IS DONALD TRUMP'S AMERICA NOW!". OP is lucky. Or more likely the picture (stock photo) is misleading and OP is actually MALE.
Sadly, people like this exist all over the world. Being an assh*le isnt cultural trait
Load More Replies...There are a lot of racist idiots. There are also a lot of people who can't distinguish the acts of a few from the acts of the many. The idiots, being idiotic, squeak louder, and so get the grease.
In the US we systematized our racism long ago. Now, all you have to do is buy a product or swipe a credit card to support a system that uses these financial resources to systematically create a more racially divided America. Most overt racism was on the decline until about ten years ago when our political system discovered that racism could be financed by small political donations facilitated via Social Media. Now, in some parts of the US where a racial slur might have gotten you fired from your job, it is being treated as "political speech protected by the 1st Amendment."
Unfortunately the US became more outward in its racism after Dump took office 😑 May the gods save us if he is allowed to run again
I don’t think the US is more racist than most other countries — it’s just the hypocrisy of calling itself a free country and yet letting what racism they have continue that is upsetting. EDIT: or to put it more succinctly, the difference between what the US IS and what it aspires to be can be disappointing.
Americans are fat because they’re lazy and can’t control themselves. In truth, the available food is garbage. You have to go out of your way to choose health, and even the things that claim to be healthy are mostly advertising loopholes. “Low fat” means “high sugar.”
Corporate America food standards are extremely low. I hardly go out to eat anymore. I can afford to, just don't want to put all those chemicals and fillers in my body. Not to mention risking bacterial infections from under prepared food.
As someone recovering from Chipotle food poisoning this weekend, I give you an upvote!
Load More Replies...Also, food poverty is a huge thing. Ultra-processed food is a) cheaper to buy than unprocessed meat/fish and vegetables/salad, b) is cheaper to store and lasts a lot longer, c) if often easier and quicker to obtain, and d) often takes less time and energy (both the sort you pay for, and mental/physical) to prepare - c and d both being a factor if you're having to work multiple jobs to stay afloat. There is a very strong correlation between income and obesity.
And the existence of food deserts, forcing people to shop for groceries no more than once a month. Which of course means a minimal amount of fresh food.
Load More Replies...Plus it's so expensive. It's absolutely true that healthy meals cost more than fattening ones. Sure I can buy a bag of apples for 5 or 6 bucks but that won't sustain you. It's not a meal. I can buy 10 cans of pasta and sauce for the cost of 3 bell peppers. I could eat out every day and it still be less expensive than my grocery bill. When your rent is 2500K a month, you're stretching your food budget so you're going to choose fattier meals that feed more people and fill you up because they're cheaper. So, no, it's not always as black and white. Yes, some people really do overeat and are lazy but it's a very broad generalization. A lot of people grew up eating like this. They've practically been forced to become drug addicts and now everyone doesn't like how they look so they give them sh!t. And the same people won't even acknowledge the problem or that there is one, because 'you're just lazy'.
Can (second-handedly) attest to that, a girl in my uni group went there on a work-and-travel program and came back three sizes bigger. She did have healthy eating habits and was a perfect weight, but, according to her, it had been very much either time or money consuming to stick to those habits in the US.
A lot of people in Eastern Europe think that Americans are all rich. Meanwhile, the Americans are trying to budget for toast and trim their own toenail infection to avoid going to the hospital.
Americans who can afford to visit Europe, East, West, whatever, ARE RICH. The rest of us are poor AF.
No, I'm not rich. I stock shelves in a grocery store and my husband waits tables....we just don't have children, we don't drive the newest cars, we don't buy new clothing until it's actually needed, we cook at home, we budget. We both grew up incredibly poor and have money trauma so our broken psyche really helps unfortunately...and not having kids is how we can afford to travel.....those fùckers will bleed you dry and eat your soul.
Load More Replies...A lot of people in Eastern Europe (and other places) think people from the West in general are rich
Bc a lot of new things after the II. WW was for us unacccessible, from new autos to lady stockings, chocolate, bananas, oranges, material for clothing etc, scarcity was in everyday things. At end of war all Europe was poverished. US troops has had some things for uns completely new and unaccessible, i.e. envied - chowgummi, nylons, all things new and splendid - we thought all American have all things new and fantastic.- they all must be rich as Rotchild.
Load More Replies...The only thing preventing us moving to the USA, which we love, is the cost of healthcare, as its free in Australia.
Trust me, as an American who got the f*** out of the US, lives happily in the EU now, and who's been to your amazing country, Australia, STAY THERE! You live in near paradise! Unless you are RICH, the US is not a country to move to!
Load More Replies...I don't think people in America can begin to grasp just how much less people in other parts of the world have. When you have 3 kids to a bed and 2 sleeping on your bedroom floor, when you eat a bland diet of potatoes, dumplings and cabbage, when your tv is 20 years old and your house is something that your family built from cinderblocks and a tin roof, then of course you look at Americans and find their0 nlevel of consumption outrageous.
I would blame the American tv shows for that impression. Every American show, the characters are all slim and gorgeous, everyone has their own bedroom, they all dress to the nines and none of the poor hardworking characters look rundown or tired. And the mothers look more like older sisters and fathers look like older brothers to their kids. That's why I stopped watching American shows, they're too flawless and pretentious.
Not just in eastern Europe. The rest of the world sees Americans who treat globetrotting the same way most people take a bus downtown, & especially on social media we see lots of Americans who seem to view therapy as just an everyday/weekly mundane event like taking the bins out, even though it costs a couple of hundred dollars a time - for most people in the world, more especially in a country with no decent state healthcare system, that's rich-person behaviour. That's where the cliches come from.
Hellls bells I can't afford to drive 3 hours to go to Dallas and enjoy a decent meal in a big city. I dream of going to the Caribbean and dipping my toes in cyan blue water.
That it’s a meritocracy. Talent, skill, and hard work make a difference, but not as big a difference as wealth and connections especially when combined with a willingness to exploit
That is a meritocracy. The lie of meritocracy is that is you work hard and earn it, you will be better, but the meritocracy concept is a lie that doesn’t account the difference in circumstances people star with. It doesn’t account that a rich kid will go to better schools and had to only study while a poor kid will go to crappy schools, and will either have to work or help around the house taking time from studies, that malnutrition has effects ln studying children, etc. The other lie of meritocracy is claiming “he failed a hundred times and just kept trying, and then bill gates made microsoft”, except only a rich kid can fail a million times and keep trying. Regular people need to work to eat and get a home. Regular kids don’t have parents that gives them hundread of thousands in loans and have contacts The lie of meritocracy is claiming that if you make it, it is solely on your hard work and not on a lot of external factors to the person, like the money and connections they had.
I don't know if the numbers are still true, but it used to be that the economic class you end up in is 70% due to the economic class you were born in.
Yes. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socioeconomic_mobility_in_the_United_States
Load More Replies...This is ironic, yeah, we're like a meritocracy, but forget the reward part. (Edit: I meant to include the last part, but I seemed to have hit the comment button too soon, which I guess I can blame this damn mousepad for.)
We are not a meritocracy at all. You could work hard all your life and still be poor. It is a myth fed to you by capitalists to keep you working hard for them.
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Not from the US but have lived there. Mine would be that people are only surface nice but nothing beyond that and then become rude.
Very untrue - my family was met with a lot of genuine kindness from the beginning and a lot of people went above and beyond providing help and expected nothing in return. Just sweet, helpful and nice people in thr local community.
And yet whenever I mention that it's normal to take in a package for our neighbours, or even to get to know them in the UK, I'm met with downvotes and derision.
Stuff like taking packages is very geographical in the USA. (IMO) Even down to neighborhood. I have a long time friend who has her packages delivered to me. My house is very secluded. Just three other houses in my immediate "neighborhood" (more down the road) and we look out for each other. My friend lives about 10 miles away in a housing tract and has had packages stolen off her porch. She knows her next door neighbor a tiny bit but for the most part does not know her neighbors. Also on the road our family farm was on neighbors helped each other out a lot. My point being the reaction you get from people might have a lot to do with where they live in the USA.
Load More Replies...These are personal choices, not American choices. IS it really that hard to understand or can there be no personal accountability on BP anymore?
Because we know how manipulative and selfish and a**holeish some of our neighbors can be.
That we have no concept of the metric system.
Look, we know it exists. We learn about it in school. And it’s used exclusively in medical and scientific applications.
But it’s just not what we use in our day to day lives.
Uk here....we measure ourselves in ft and inches,our weight in stones and lbs,distance in miles and yards but in building works I use metric
On second thought, the UK is a silly place. Let us not go there. *bangs 🥥 🥥 together rhythmically*
Load More Replies...We know that God gave us bananas for a reason, and we are loathe to defy the Deity.
In France, the only thing that's measured in "pouces" (inches) is the size of TV or computer screens, and darn if I know why!
The US has been swarming with imported cars for fifty years. We couldn't function if mechanics weren't fluent in metric
Oh I use it in my day to day life...converting lbs to kgs then figuring out drug doses listed in mg/kg. So much easier when the cat weights 11 lbs and the dog 44 lbs
That American has no culture.
For starters, American food is so much more than hamburgers & fries. The South has particularly delicious food with jambalaya & gumbo from LA, shrimp & grits, key lime pie, & lowcountry boil from the lowcountry of GA & SC, barbecue from NC & TN, biscuits & gravy from Appalachia, & soul food from the deep south. American food is actually amazing.
The US is also home to music genres like jazz, country, & rock. We have unique dances like Appalachian flatfooting & American contra dance.
There is SO much more to the US than what the world sees in media!
Never mind that US movie, TV, and music is consumed all over the world.
Ikr? I could live on Tex Mex, been trying to master cooking it for years
Load More Replies...My band director always said jazz is the only true American music :) (and yes country and rock but those stem from jazz, if you look close enough you can see the connections especially in country)
That we're all intellectually disabled, morbidly obese larda**es who binge reality TV all day while munching on butter sticks and guzzling alfredo sauce.
Harsh! I don’t think anyone suggested ALL Americans are that way. Just 40% or so
Yes! And I only guzzle it for breakfast, never lunch or dinner.
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This one seems silly but.. For some reason, people think we are the only country with those cheaply made public bathroom stall doors etc - the metal ones with the cracks that you can kind of see into, etc. I’ve used bathrooms that have these in three different countries just this year.
Not sure why so many people run with this one, when they don't seem to realize that everything about them is done that way for a reason. The cracks/gaps? Gotta be there or the doors won't swing or latch right. The gap at the bottom? ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act) requirement. To facilitate quick entry in the event of a medical emergency.
Still beats squatting over a hole in the floor like some countries I have been to.
Although it's not comfortable, it's more healthy to do it while squatting.
Load More Replies...I'd rather have these than the toilet I had to use at a rest stop in Tibet. No doors, short 'walls' as dividers, it was situated over a high cliff so splashback was from the wind blowing up the hole you're doing your business in, AND you had to pay to use it. People try to avoid looking through those cracks in the stalls so it's not as bad as unavoidable eye contact.
Not so much a lie as a misconception. I've seen a few English bloggers remark about how hard it is to get vegetables in US grocery stores, and remarking that the only things available are pre-made salads and the like.
My guess is that they walked into a Texaco expecting it to be like Tesco, and we're understandably disappointed. 7-11, Walgreens, and CVS aren't grocery stores either. Look for an Aldi, Publix, Winn-Dixie, Sweetbay, or a Walmart Neighborhood Market. If you don't care about money, you can check out Sprouts or Whole Foods.
I travel all over the USA and visit supermarkets to buy things for my lunches and dinners, and regardless of the time of year or the place, there is always a huge variety of fresh vegetables available.
I have never been to the US, so I have no idea of what it is really like there, but I have heard from a lot of US Americans themselves that it is hard to get decent vegetables. Or at the very least, very expensive and not affordable for a lot of people (and another addition to this topic confirms that the food in the US is c**p). So, honestly, you can't really blame people for believing this stereotype if US Americans are confirming it themselves.
Yeah, I have no idea what this post is talking about. This is wholly dependent on where in the US you live. Food deserts are a thing. If you live in a small town and it has one grocery store, and the prices are expensive as hell, well, you aren't eating vegetables. There are many circumstances that lead to ridiculous food prices or availability.
Load More Replies...The thing is, if you come into a grocery store in Europe, the first thing you see are huge aisles of veggies and fruit. Often it's the very first department you come through, even before you see anything else. And it is indeed huge. Aldi or Lidl are relatively small stores in Germany and called 'discounters' which means they're supposed to be cheaper and have less quality. Yet they still have this huge veggie and fruit aisle right up front. I don't know if it's true, but I've read that Aldi is considered a regular grocery store in the US or even a better one. It's confusing if you get told to look especially for an Aldi to find better quality or healthier foods, when here it's considered lower quality.
Same here... Our local is the exact same thing, don't get me started on Whole Foods, even after the amazon thing.. Lots available, even in Nowaresville AZ. 60 mi east of phoenix..
Load More Replies...uhm....farmer's market people? plenty of veggies and fruit, cheap, easy, just gotta go there....
They must not be going to actual grocery stores because actual grocery stores not having vegetables is absurd. Sure, there may not be a grocery store in an area (food desert) but that's different than stores not stocking vegetables. If I go to a grocery store in a different region it'll most likely have all the vegetables I'm used to plus ones I've never even seen. How would that be possible if veggies were so "hard to get"?
I've never been in a grocery store in the US that didn't have fresh vegetables, and they aren't that expensive. The quality may vary. We have a store in my hometown that's part of a small chain, and we joke that the fresh produce is no longer fresh as soon as we get home with it. However, there's much better produce at another store ten miles down the road.
A lot comes down to the area. Food deserts definitely have that issue, while areas like the Pacific Northwest are ripe with farming and have easy access to a wide array of fruits and vegetables.
Our local village store, that serves no more than a few hundred households, has more than 20 different fruits and veggies at all times. Even some of our local petrol garages has a dozen or so fresh produce items to choose from. I've seen Americans complaining at paying $6 for a cabbage that would cost about 70p over in the UK.
Where did these English bloggers travel to? Within walking distance, I could easily get fresh, quality veggies and fruits from Costco, Aldi, Asian and Eastern European supermarkets, and mom & pop fresh produce shops.
One of the stranger myths I see repeated about America by foreigners is about food. Usually it's something like "American [beer/cheese/chocolate/bread/etc.] is all crappy and terrible." No, you just picked the cheapest version from a chain grocery store and then acted like it's the only one we have. It's like if I went to the UK and s**ttalked British food because all I ate was sausage rolls from Greggs.
I work in a food plant that makes some of the best charcuterie meats in the country. Come to Portland, OR and have a bite to eat. We know what we're doing here.
Get you some aged Tillamook cheddar if you want to see what a really good American cheese is like. Bliss!
Brand name American chocolate is shite though. I'm sure there are smaller companies or artisan chocolate makers who make a decent product, but the likes of Hershey are absolutely woeful.
Hey, don't knock sausage rolls, they are delicious. (Haven't tried ones from Gregg's though, so can't vouch for their goodness)
USA chocolate has an additive that tastes like vomit to the rest of the world, butyric acid , look it up
Not all of it. Yes, mass produced stuff like Herseys. We have a couple of local chocolate makers that make WONDERFUL stuff. Too much of this list seems to be focusing on the worst stuff here like it's all we have//eat/do.
Load More Replies...I would say the bread, chocolate, etc that is readily available isn't of the same quality as what you would find in Europe. I'm in a major city and even at a full grocery store I can't find decent fresh bread. Everything on the shelves and in the bakery are packed full of c**p. I have to specifically go to a bakery to get good bread.
I think it's generally the mass produced stuff. I find American bread to taste really sweet, and the chocolate is very sickly tasting. But I imagine if I went to the US and went to an actual bakers or chocolatier it would be very different.
As an American, this is a bad example. I love sausage rolls from Greggs.
I got so tired of hearing from foreign exchange students that America has no culture. Like b***h, you’ve visited one f*****g state, you can’t just decide the whole country is absent of culture.
Most places in the US don't have that "ancient" feel. Take pretty much any town in Europe and you'll find ancient buildings, narrow alleys or even prehistoric artefacts. I think that's where a lot of that "no culture" thing comes from. That said: it's pretty stupid to tell someone you're visiting that their country sucks (because that's what you're doing)
no it comes from lack or intelligence and ignorance. ancient feel means nothing about culture. If you think any country in europe has the same culture they did before 1000AD, you are wrong. they may have parts of it, but it has evolved and changed. Those ancient buildings have nothing to do with culture.
Load More Replies...Cultures do not exist for the sake of entertaining visitors. What they are looking for are tourist traps.
Not true. Visitors, stay for a few decades and we'll appropriate your culture, too.
This feels like a straw man. Thanks to Hollywood, the USA oozes "Culture". And that's just one example. We have plenty of "culture".
I guess they just haven't visited any indigenous historical sites? There aren't many European-style buildings from 1400 C.E. here for obvious reasons (It's not Europe, and most Europeans didn't know it existed.), but there's definitely culture--many of them, actually. https://www.nps.gov/subjects/tellingallamericansstories/indigenousplaces.htm
It's probably because America feels so much more modern. And it is. And whilst maybe culture isn't as deeply rooted as it is in Europe or Asia etc, it's still there. The US is also a melting pot of people of all different heritages and nationalities, so of COURSE culture exists.
It seems there is a lot of bitterness and confusion about this "culture" thing, as if everyone understands and agrees what it is that constitutes culture. If you connect it (diachronically) to history, then modern America is definitely to be found wanting - "cultures" of immigrants, not being unified etc. do not count as "American culture". If you connect it to achievements (synchronically) in (for example), art, or to different social habits and practices.... this is where the debate begins!
Depends if you mean culture like yogurt or culture like symphony orchestras, fine dining, etc.
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That we are all rich or doing good in life. This is false. A staggering amount of people live paycheck to paycheck. Most Americans can not afford a 1,000$ emergency expense and there are people in this country who starve to death or die due to lack of medical care.
The people who enjoy prosperity do so precisely because of those who suffer from want. And vice versa. It's a system.
You mean feudalism??? Oh wait, we don't call it THAT anymore lol It capitalism now 🫠
Load More Replies...I think Breaking Bad made it clear to the world that our health insurance is so bad, we're constantly starting drug empires to pay our bills
I have congestive heart failure with only 10 percent heart function. All I needed for years was basic health insurance to get to get my blood pressure down. I'm sitting here without the pacemaker the wanted to stick in my 3 years ago. Every day I wonder if today's the day my heart starts defibrillating and I hit the ground and never get up😭 I'm so scared every minute of every day
I am sorry to learn of your troubles. Our health-care system is fùcked and I wish they wouldn't make it so hard. I sincerely wish you peace and that you can get taken care of soon
Load More Replies...I'm quite comfortable, but I'd be lying if I didn't say much of it was due to dumb luck.
More fortunes are won in hospital delivery rooms than in casinos or stock markets.
Load More Replies...Says the ignoramus that’s never spent ANY time in the average residential area of a 3rd world country. Naw man, comparatively a poor person in the US is generally way better off than most people in 3rd world countries. Try bee bopping around the favela’s of the 60 million residents of São Paulo and get back with me.
But we are the first to run out and buy those fancy shoes when we can't afford our rent!
There are a lot more important ones, but I constantly hear that we all wear shoes in the house. No one I know hangs around the house in shoes.
I think this misconception has been created by the movies, where no one ever takes their shoes off when they enter an apartment, they never go to the toilet, and they never say goodbye to the other person at the end of a phone call.
I'm barefoot from them moment I enter my home. I hate the feeling of shoes.
I wear shoes in my house. Most everyone I know wears shoes in their house. Most of the people I know are also farm or animal people. The first are in and out of the house all day everyday, and no one is changing shoes that often, and the second, you never know what will show up on your floor with animals, and no one is trying to step in it.
I have to, because I have severe lymphoedema. Without proper shoes on, my feet swell to amazing proportions.
No one I know takes their shoes off at home. Especially if you have dogs.
Based on my experience and the comments, I think this one is split based on whether people grew up in a major city or in a rural area. City people are much more likely to take their shoes off at home, while people who grew up in rural areas are more likely to keep their shoes on.
Some people do, some people don't. Whenever I go to someone else's house I always ask.
I only know one person in America who asks guests to take off their shoes. She has a shag carpet in her living room that is pure white, and she intends to keep it that way.
Well I hope she has a foot bath for everyone to use before walking on the carpet because skin oils will certainly stain a carpet.
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I do think it’s funny when these 95% white European nations that are really hard to move to and gain citizenship as opposed to the US, call us racist.
As a non-German living in Germany, I think not handing out citizenship easily and racism are two completely different things, and cannot (should not) be compared to each other
The USA deserves to be called racist. FFS we were one of the last nations to abolish chattel slavery. It's a scarlet letter we will always wear. Also, if you haven't been paying attention, racism is alive and well here. I'm thinking back to an incident on our local rail system where a 14yo Muslim girl had her hijab ripped off by a woman who screamed "This is DONALD TRUMP'S AMERICA" into her face. So yes we will bear that mark for now.
Well technically chattel slavery is alive and well in the Arab region and North Africa. But since it's mostly Indian, Sri Lankan and Sub-Saharan Africans that are enslaved, the western world doesn't care that much.
Load More Replies...It was significantly more difficult for my brother to move to the USA from South Africa than it was for me to move to Belgium from South Africa. EU is much more open than the US for immigration.
I don’t know how to explain to you that I can call the US, Europe AND my own country racist.
Well yes, but no. You can't equate easiness of gaining citizenship with a measure of racism per se. The USA is probably the only country that's under 300 years old and pracitcally startet by mass migration - and of course -sadly- forced migration from other parts of the world than Europe as well. America is so absolutely diverse as a result of that and has had "to arrange" itself with that truth. Until Nationalism became big however, there was a lot of mixing and washed out borders in Europe too. Of course, you had the Lords of the Lands, but they mostly didn't care about who lived where, as long as they got their taxes. But then everyone became a patriot (Nationalism yay) and the country as well as it's people had to be secured and not just anyone can be a part of it. This mindset endures to this day. This is the European "Us and them" What many simply mean when they say "US racist" is: Why are you hyping up the differences so much? Why do you have "Us and them" along skin colour?
I actually wanted to add but forgot: The last question I wrote is of course a mighty rich one if you don't live in the US. We can't imagine how it is today with all the racism still around combined with resentments for slavery, systematic discimination and so on. I wouldn't be surprised and could understand it, if some traditionally discriminated people do absolutely not want to be in the same "in-group" as their oppressors. From the outside however, please understand how it looks to the very uneducated eye: Almost like US-Americans generally want to have their different cultures defined by skin colors or so and that - without any context - just sounds like the most racist thing ever. But that's just cause over here in Europe, we see integration and mixing as a sign of non-racism. I believe, what you call cultural appropriation and is a bad thing to you, is to us (mostly) a sign of appreciation and solidarization.
Load More Replies...You can move and work freely within the EU. The EU takes in hundreds of thousands of refugees every year, mainly from Africa and the Middle East. It is hard to believe America is any less racist than European countries in the light of the Black Lives Matter movement.
"America has no history". Blatantly untrue and offensive, to say the least.
Nobody denies that the US has history, no idea where you got that idea from. It's just relatively recent history compared with that of lots of other parts of the world, is all. ETA: I cannot believe that so many people are apparently unable to read. Hint: "US History".
Really tell that to my Navajo great grandmother.
Load More Replies...WOW! Just from the picture! EFF this post! A picture carved into the sacred mountains of the people who were here before the white people came? Was this thread written by a Floridiot?
If you think this from a Floridiot then you must be from here since most Floridiots are from other states.
Load More Replies...Can you explain how is this "untrue and offensive", when it is said about the modern state of the USA?
So much of our history is made up, like Columbus discovering America. And we were taught he was searching for a new route to India. There was no country called India in 1492. The British didn't start calling it that until 1757. It was called Bharat before then
Never heard this / seems misstated. A version I HAVE heard - which I actually agree with - is along the lines of how some Americans talk like we are the greatest country and the whole world should learn from us even though at a bit under 250 years we are a much younger country than many we might try to 'school'. So it is true to say we have MUCH LESS history than many other countries.
When people say we "have no history" they're not being literal. Not sure why that has to be explained but people in the comments are taking it that way. They say we "have no history" as a way to be dismissive of it because it's relatively short and relatively uncomplicated. That because our country is "only" a few hundred years old we can't talk about our history with reverence or pride because we didn't have 100 kings or fight the Romans or whatever. That what it means when people say "America has no history" and just because you've never heard that or choose not to believe it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
That we are all as divided as the media (or social media) would have us to believe. Most people are actually good people. You see the extremes online and in the news. There is an exhausted majority who isn’t filled with extremist hate.
Really? Cause I'm a liberal living in a red state. The conversations around me are hate filled and ugly. I can't wait to move.
If you do happen to engage, I am left of center in a deep red area, and you will find that you will get agreement on MOST issues. It's the remedy that needs some work. A former police officer and I debated the George Floyd issue when it was raging. I asked him a coupe simple questions: "Did he deserve to die for trying to pass a bogus $20 bill?".. "no"..."when you were in training, did they tell you if you kneeled on a guy's neck too long it would kill them?"...(looks down).."yes"..."and Chauvin was a training officer?"...(looks down again) "yes"
Load More Replies...I won't lie. I detest the Republican "conservative values" I hear in the media. I do believe racism is systemic and deeply rooted in many parts of American society. The wealthy should pay (a lot) more in taxes which should be used to assist the disadvantaged. Abortion should be available to any woman who wants one up to the end of the first trimester and later if her life or health is in danger. These are just my "non negotiable" political beliefs, but they are fighting words to Republicans. So yes, we are VERY divided.
Due to people who think as you do. Congratulations on making the stereotype a reality.
Load More Replies...Yea... about that... my HUGE family has been split thanks to Führer Trump and his GOPnazis. I HOPE the rift is healing, but the right is only getting more and more extreme so who knows what the future holds...
This one is true. We've got modern day Nazis in Florida, proud boys and wannabe proud boys on the West Coast, New Yorkers harassing immigrants by banging pipes, playing loud music and shining bright lights in the windows where they sleep, trumpsters all over the country that wants him back in this country to destroy it even more. Approximately 3% of the nation who are transgender fighting to just exist as a human being, and homeless people being harassed, assaulted murdered and being told that they deserve it because they're homeless..... Oh and that all homeless people are lazy no good chose to be homeless it's a lifestyle their addicts alcoholics and we should all be killed off. The extreme hatred is online, the actions are very much happening in person
It's true that most people in the US are not extreme in their political beliefs, nor are they mean or rude to people with opposite beliefs. It's also true that the American media is doing everything they can to try to divide people and make them think that people who think differently than them are their mortal enemies. The media and most politicians.
I'm sorry, but that "exhausted majority" opened the door for Trump to get into the white house by not voting against extremism. I was shocked to hear that the highest ever turnout for an election was only 66% of the voter eligible population. Why didn't Americans turn out to vote for Clinton in 2016? It was a clear choice of the better politician...
I wouldn't say the better politician... I'd say she was the less of two bad choices. Although at the time, people might have still held the hope that Tump wouldn't be as bad as he sounded. NOW though, there's absolutely no excuse. If he says he's going to be a Dictator (only for the first day! yeah... Until he changed all the laws accordingly...), we better believe that's going to be his goal.
Load More Replies...I'm game. Why do you think that's the case? What is the left doing to divide? By being inclusive?
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Mistake number 1: referring to America as a monolith. Virtually all of these comments are both true and false to varying degrees depending on the part of the country you’re in. The US is a f*****g massive country, and a lot of folks, especially Europeans don’t seem to get just how truly gargantuan it is. Their countries are more comparable to individual states than the US as a whole.
I’m assuming you extend the same courtesy when talking about China, Russia and India?
Yeah, I do. I have Chinese and Indian friends. I can't remember ever meeting a Russian, though.
Load More Replies...Mistake number 2: This poster seems to not know what irony is, when telling not to lump Americans together, before lumping Europeans together.
The irony of being told to not think of American as the same all over while lumping Europeans into one group is hilarious
Comparing Germany to just one state of the USA is also a mistake. We are small, yes, but we have states, which we call "Bundesländer", with their regions, different cultures and dialects. The same goes for France or the UK. So if you refer to my country as a monolith, I could do the same with yours.
There are also a lot more regional cultural differences in any EU Country than there are in any USA State. American culture is more homogeneous at both State and Federal level, having developed at the same time, over a short time span, in an age where mass media helped share culture quickly, and (apart from a few exception) from the same original culture and language. Most EU states are made by regions that have been independent for centuries and characterized by unique traits in an age where cross-border communication were slow or even nonexistent due to war, cultural or geographical limitations. There are more cultural differences between two contiguous regions of most EU countries than between two counties at the opposite edge of any Midwest state.
Load More Replies...Well ... see, but if you go into the car and drive for 10 hrs straight, you're still in the same country with the same language spoken. If you drive 10 hrs in Europe, you might not understand the language anymore and customs change drastically (depending on the direction of travel). Holidays vary, too, or religion and sometimes even currency. I'd say the US IS a monolith and OP just confirmed it with their own post.
the USA is almost the size of most of mainland Europe. Though European countries are not comparable to states though, as small as they are compared to the US, each one is unique in its culture, language, etc.
That's true even for some people in the US. We had clients here (southeast Texas) a few years ago from one of the northern states. They had a day when they didn't have anything scheduled, so they started naming all the tourist attractions, all in Texas, that they planned to visit. Someone finally pointed out to them that in order to do that they'd spend about 12 hours in the car, with 15 minutes to spend at each one.
It seems that people the world over don't appreciate having their lives, their families, their culture, their history being boiled away and reduced to the stereotypical continental landmass where they happen to live. Almost as if being simplified to a caricature is insulting. That's a lot to think about for Americans, and who wants to think? I want to bask in my ignorance as I polish my gun collection. I hope all of the continental landmass cartoons understand that.
I live overseas and one of my Chinese friends always asks me about gun violence and how scary America must be.
I found out recently she's from Xinjiang, aka the place where Uighurs are being sent to concentration camps.
So basically she’s the Chinese equivalent of an American who has a lot to say about third world countries but not the atrocities in their own country?
I won the Diversity Visa Lottery but didn't ask for the Green Card because of the mass shootings in the US. The last few years have forever erased my will to move to America with my 3 kiddos.
The Uighur problem is shameful and inexcusable, but I don't think many people are walking around a school or a mall and suddenly concentration-camped out of nowhere
This is more of a presentation problem than a perception problem. I live in California and my family lives in Florida. When we talk on the phone, we routinely have to ask each other if hell has opened up where they live or is that just the news we are exposed to. We laugh about how media sucks and move on with our lives.
Not gonna lie, I would never move to America on this basis alone. I never have to think about guns in any way. I couldn't live somewhere knowing my kid could be shot just going to school
Rural America is not all BS, guns and racism. Mostly we're all just getting by like everyone else, trying to be good people and want everyone to be nice.
My right wing neighborhood is nicey nice to The Right People too. It’s just when brown people do ~uppity~ things like running for mayor that they start drawing swastikas.
That is such a little minority, like in credibly little percent. I live in rural America no one is drawing swastikas, no one is freaking out about a minority running for office, because we aren't racist we don't believe every white person is racist. We believe in judging a person by their character it doesn't matter your race if your an a*****e I won't like you.
Load More Replies...I am a South American who lived in West Virginia for a little while. My neighbors did not know where I came from, yet they were very kind and welcoming to me. I never felt discriminated against.
I'm actively calling BS on this one. That is exactly my experience of rural america. Throw in a thick layer of religion and hypocrisy.
"Wanting everyone to be nice" isn't the same as "wanting to meet you where you're at"
This was not my experience, at all. I was shunned and threatened because I wouldn't go along with their racism
The thing about the rural midwest is that they SEEM very friendly. But behind closed doors, they're not at all. My family is from the rural midwest. They're all raging racists (as are almost everyone I know from my hometown), but you'd never know it if you weren't from the area and you ran into them. My grandparents did a weekly luncheon thing with an Asian guy. They seemed like best friends. I'm sure that guy thought they were. But at home they said horrible things about Asians, including him. I went to community college in our small town. The few black people in town were students. I was a cheerleader and became good friends with one of the basketball players who happened to be black. I sometimes took friends home for lunch because my grandma always made a big lunch. She made sure I knew that none of my black friends were allowed in the house. My family were so friendly, and just the nicest people around their hispanic neighbors, but the things said behind closed doors...
Just traveled 80 west at thanksgiving. Had to stop for gas in Bumfuck Iowa, No gas by highway and town was 5 mi away. Had 8 mi left, anyway, We got weird looks just because we had CO plates.. So, Yes Rural America has issues.
Iowa is like this. I've had this same experience just stopping for gas too and I'm talking HARD looks that really made me uncomfortable being in 1 place for too long and I'm quiet and very polite in public.
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Americans being ignorant about foreign languages and monolingual. It’s a true stereotype, but not about Americans. It’s true to native English speakers- as UK & Australia have similar rates of monolingualism.
There are also many states in the United States where that just simply isn’t as true as they think it is, like LA county, southern Arizona, Texas, southern Florida etc.
If English weren’t the lingua franca in many places, English speakers would be far more multilingual
As a Belgian who lived in the US for a year, I also believe that some people just don't necessarily need it. My native language is Dutch. There are about 25-30 million people in the world who speak Dutch so we need to learn different languages just to be able to communicate with people. For Americans who live far from a border with Mexico or French Canada, it isn't as important since they literally have to drive days to meet someone who doesn't speak English, while I have to drive for 30 min. (I am a linguist and encourage people to learn multiple languages, but I also get understand that it's less of a priority for some)
I worked in Vegas for 10 years in hospitality and customer service. It has been told to me by more than one visitor/tourist that Europeans travel more freely to other countries because 1. Countries are smaller, 2. Trains are better and, 3. People are encouraged to travel more when they are younger so they're more comfortable doing it regularly. And because they are more likely to travel, they learn more languages, even if it's just enough to be a tourist for a few days. Whereas in the US, we usually have 1-3 language options in high school offered (Spanish, French, and "rotating third option"). And high school isn't a great age to START learning a language. We're at a disadvantage to a point. It's not encouraged overall, and unless your first language is "not English" you probably aren't expected to be bilingual. Also, we can travel 2000 miles and never need a second language.
Technology is solving this problem that has existed since the first human said "ugh." Quality, accurate translation in real time is no longer science fiction.
I started learning Spanish in high school because my home town had a huge Latino community and it seemed the most useful language to learn.
Not sure why they specified LA county when most of California qualifies. lmao
Imagine if everyone in all of Europe spoke the same language, including Eastern Europe and Scandinavia. Would you go out of your way to learn a language spoken by a small country in Africa or South America? Why? Most (I assume) Canadians can speak English. Look at the size of Canada plus the US; all those people speak English. Why would we have a need to learn another language, unless we just want to? And even then, we won't have much opportunity to use it in everyday conversation except in small(ish) communities in a few states. In other parts of the world, you can drive a couple of hours and be in a place where most everyone speaks another language; that doesn't happen in the US.
It's true and it's totally okay to not speak different languages. What I don't like (and that's not unique to the US so please don't take it as US-bashing) is when English-speakers get angry when there's other languages spoken in their country. Or even stranger to me, when they live in Spain, have lived there for several years and don't speak a single. word. Spanish. Just baffles me
Load More Replies...Almost everyone within a thousand miles of where I live in the US speaks my language. Where in Europe could someone say that?
That we are fat and lazy.
I’m not fat…
I'd much rather sit on my couch and knit than walk anywhere. I'd consider that lazy, but some people don't.
So you consider a 100-ish pound middle schooler fat? Whom does athletics, football, and wrestling Vera?
I’m not necessarily sick of hearing it, but when I went to Europe I had TWO separate people ask me why American men like fat girls so much. I said, “What do you mean?” They said, “I see pictures of American women and they’re all fat. So, your men must like that?”
I was so caught off guard I just laughed.
Oh yeah, because only reason why women exist is to be appreciated by man 🥴
well they were talking to a guy from the "country of europe" so its not like it might be totally made up.
Load More Replies...We have an obesity problem but most of that is regional and cultural and not really national . If you look at obesity rates by state, pretty easily recognizable pattern of the distribution.
I've never been to a country where Taylor Swift would be called fat, and she's probably the most famous American woman in the world right now
TWO separate people? And they said American women are fat based off of pictures. Oh no, it's a trend. Oh wait. It's just a coincidence based on a limited experience with a bunch unknown elements. Who were these people? Where in Europe? What was the context of the conversation? Were the conversations friendly? This sounds vaguely unbelievable either through myopic experience or unreliable narration.
There is a stereotype that Americans are fat. I had a Swedish BF and his family thought he'd come back fat from our terrible food. My family ate exclusively fast food (stereotypes often come from somewhere), and my BF lost weight bc he was so disgusted by it. His family was shocked when they saw him. They were also shocked into silence when I verified what we ate. The fast food eating, fat American is a real stereotype that's out there.
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How terrible it is - as told by people who’ve never been there or have never been anywhere else.
Americans who are so poor that they’ve “never been anywhere else” are in the best position to criticise the US.
and yet you know the least about the US with your constant xenophobic brain vomit.
Load More Replies...I have three irrefutable objections to America. 1. It created Donald Trump. 2. It elected him President. 3. F**k me, they might do it again.
To be fair, we have unpredictable EXTREME weather, more wildlife than a lot of Europe has seen, and random shootings.
US is the tornado capital of the world! I seriously have never seen a news report about serious tornado damage outside of the US.
Load More Replies...Americans do this about their own cities. Example: see some of the dumbfucks making comments about blue cities because that's what Fox News told them to. They're all "violent" and yet won't due the minimum due diligence of looking up the list of actually violent cities and see that, in reality, it's a mixed. But what do you expect from people who support noted intellectual giant, Trump. LMAO
I read this and raise you one "Eurotrash" expression that gets thrown around a lot in the US when it comes to literally anything European.
That we're all dumb. I had several men in England come up to me and tell me that, and surprisingly, later expect me to go home with them.
We don't think that about the Americans, you just came across some awful men it would seem....
That Americans aren't "well traveled" for having never been out of the country.
B***h, it is 2,791 miles from NYC to LA. It is 286 miles from London to Paris. It would take less than ,10 miles to travel from Portugal to Finland than crossing the entire Continental US. You can travel so far in the US without crossing the border, entering into multiple biomes/climates.
Just bc Americans may not leave the US doesn't mean they aren't well traveled, and that's excluding Hawaii, Alaska, Puerto Rico, and Guam.
To me "well travelled" means having been to different countries and experienced different cultures, languages, cuisines etc. "Well travelled" doesn't mean "covered a lot of miles". I can do that just going around the block a couple thousand times
Then we are, in fact, "well traveled". Each state has their own culture, dialect, and cuisine. Sometimes even each city has its own culture (I drove 13 hours southwest and couldn't understand anything the nice people there were trying to tell me. I even called my mom and told them I didn't feel safe because everyone was "suspiciously friendly" and called me "honey.")
Load More Replies...I get the feeling you don't really understand the term "well travelled". It's not about the distance you travel from point to point, it's the different cultures, different people and different languages you encounter on your travels. Staying in one country that is effectively the same (people, language, environment) as the point you departed from - is NOT "well travelled".
I think, for many people, the main hindrance to world travel is lack of money. My husband and I had saved for quite some time so we could visit Germany. The trip would have cost around $7,000. Two emergencies later and that money was gone. We were both pretty disappointed, but feel very fortunate to even be in a position of being able to save. Many people aren't that fortunate.
Exactly! - we're similar size (contiguous US: 7.66 million km2 - Australia 7.68 million km2) and we're really isolated but are comparatively well travelled - it's not size of the country or the distance - it their sucky employment conditions where they either don't get annual leave or if they do they're discouraged from taking it.
Load More Replies...It also costs thousands of dollars to travel outside of the country, with the exception of going to Mexico or Canada....you could drive I suppose although that would take a huge amount of time and we don't get a lot of vacation time so we don't want to waste it with travel time. A flight to Rome, for instance, costs about 1200 minimum. I've seen it go up to 12K and not for expensive seats, either. I just checked travelocity and did a search for Boston to Rome for an "economy lite" seat for one person and the cheapest flight was about 1500 dollars. You aren't allowed to have luggage or you have to pay a thousand dollars. And it's an 18 hour flight overnight. If I -like literally almost everyone- want to bring a bag, then the cheapest round trip i could find was almost 4K. That's for one person. So you're talking 8k for a couple, just for the flight, to most places in Europe. It's crazy.
Maybe you are travelling a lot in your country. but you just slightly expperiance cultural differences. You are still basically at home, understanding the language and mostly the culture. you share the same history You may encounter differences between US-states, but you are inf act at home. Now, imagine, that you are driving just 1 hour, and you are in a very different country with a very different language history, customs and laws! Well-traveled doesn't mean how many miles you drive. It means, how many different cultures you meet on your journey.
Roadtripping around the USA and Eastern Canada is a blast. We have an amazing country and continent.
Many of us won't even have traveled to the opposite coast, let along visit every state in our own country. We're so large that most people won't even visit the only two countries that border us. In the amount of distance it would take me to fly to Canada, you could visit at least 6 countries in Europe. Let along the sheet distance/time and expense for us to even travel across the Pacific and Atlantic Ocean when you can take a train or a cheap flight to get around Europe. Are there some of us uninterested in travel abroad? Of course. But most of us can't even afford to travel in our own country, let alone fly to visit Europe,. Asia, or the Americas. People are so "smart" criticizing us for not traveling and yet can't fathom the obviousness of our situation about why we don't travel.
In the continental USA, I have driven cross country from one coast to the other 3 times and never once left my comfort zone. That is the travel equivalency of masturbation. Nothing to be ashamed for, but nothing you want to brag about either.
The US is one of the most racially and culturally tolerant nation. Don't get me wrong, we have plenty of issues, but we call it out, we're trying to change it. Almost every other nation in the world is a homogenous culture/genetic group dealing with immigration as if it's a novel concept that humans move, when humans have been moving for thousands of years. Further countries that have diverse native populations, there's the issue of erasing those cultural differences. China had like a dozen distinctrregional cultures like a century ago, and they're being homogenized. The US is not the only nation to genocide indigenous peoples.
As an American I can tell you that the people are generally friendly and tolerant. Our major problem is that many institutions enforce this more covert version of bigotry and discrimination though "gatekeeping" practices. We have a cultural saying for politics here when someone lets something along these lines slip: "You said the quiet part out-loud."
There are a lot of friendly tolerant loving people in the USA. The problem is that we have way too many hateful people who are very loud and love to hear the sound of their voice spewing all of their hate and finding others who also hate with them. Same is true for online. Hateful people love to see how many people agree with their hate
Oh, holy s**t, there is so much wrong in this post I can't even! Where does this poster think all those travelling people come from who immigrate to the US? Europe (continent) had folks roaming about before the US as a state even existed! I'm just completely baffled that someone would say this.
That we are any more stupid than the people of any country. Stupidity doesn’t discriminate, America just has the camera pointed at them 24/7. (Edit: I’m not trying to imply we are smart)
I wouldn't say stupid but uneducated. And I know it doesn't mean all Americans but a big part of your school system sucks.
There is not one school system in the United States. There are thousands of school systems. Some are better than others, due to the way they are funded. And yes, that’s a problem too. But you should get your facts straight so that your criticism is both accurate and useful.
Load More Replies...50 years ago we went to the moon and back MULTIPLE times. Today, after 40+ years of Trickledown "economics" and an anti-democracy GOP stripping our public education system and other social programs to the bone and you have a nation of paranoid idiots...
stupid as in unintelligent, perhaps not, but there are two sides to the coin: intelligence and knowledge. Being smart is of no good, if you are basing your decisions on some false premises. Gabage in results in garbage out, no matter how smart you are, and if you don't get a propper education, but instead is e.g. told an edited version of history that glorifies your country (you alone saved the world in WWII) and leaves out the not so nice parts (like the extend of the slavery) , then you are bound act in a way that is out of line with how the world actually operates and repeat the mistakes of the past. So I think a lot of the issue is a lack of education rather than intellect, and that that makes you vulnerable to exploitation. ...and the diet you are served by the news does not make things any better, as it is highly politicized and not a clean presentation of facts.
America is the only country that points the camera at *itself* and then complains that other people are looking.
Something that surprises me a lot is that there are people who really believe the U.S. has absolutely no gun restrictions or regulations. We actually have a lot, but like many things, it's a very complicated issue that there is no simple or easy solution for. No, we can't just order a gun off the internet and have it delivered straight to our homes with no method of verification or background checks. No, we can't buy fully automatic guns right off the shelves. No, you can't legally purchase or own a gun if you're a convicted felon (or convicted of misdemeanor Domestic Abuse). There's also very little risk you'll go anywhere that you'll encounter gun violence of any kind. That being said, there are things that absolutely could be done better that would help with the issues we do have. Like everything else, it's more complicated than the stereotypical discussion. Guns in America is the equivalent of the jokes about *everything* in Australia trying to kill you.
But everything in Australia *is* trying to kill you. You might think our bunny rabbits are cute and cuddly but they actually model themselves on the Killer Rabbit of Caerbannog
Private sales do not require background checks. I can legally acquire any gun with a background check, decide I don't want it, and sell it to anyone who ponies up the cash. We need to outlaw private sales as it's a perfectly legal loophole.
Absolutely. My grandmother had a gun we were trying to get rid of. The sheriff's office told us to just give it to someone. No paperwork, no background check, nothing.
Load More Replies...Okay no, my fellow American OP is incredibly wrong and misinformed.
Lol references Australia whilst saying there is no simple or easy solution to guns.
My thought exactly! I visited Port Arthur last week for the first time, and the main thing I went to see was the memorial to the people who died in the massacre.
Load More Replies...Sean Strickland, the MMA fighter, is literally a convicted felon and owns multiple legal firearms. OP is being disingenuous and most likely talking about certain states like New York. That is not universal.
I can throw an argument back in the face of OP here. If guns are so carefully regulated in the US then why are there so many guns in the hands of criminals?
“We don’t have ZERO gun laws! They’re just loose enough that there are orders of magnitude more mass shootings than other wealthy countries and people lobby to keep them that way!”
We had a guy in our town, a dentist with a weekend house, who was approved for a special permit to own a 50 cal weapon that is used exclusively in combat, tripod and all. He set up, had a proper backstops, and was blessed by the local sherrif's dept. to use it. He used it. 2 miles away(downrange), was an event at the local fairgrounds, where more than a few RV's had 50 cal holes punched in them, no injuries thank God. He was unfamiliar with the weapon, as it will randomly discharge when hot and when at rest. Random rounds launched downrange. Me and a local gun dealer got into a heated argument when the guy was charged by the DA with "careless discharge" and lost the permit.
If you have a country where owning most guns is illegal, at least you know that anyone with a gun is a 'baddie'.
Every American is brash, loud, and dumb. I also often hear from people in second/third world countries that Americans have such a great life and should be grateful because they never experienced "True hardship". Difference is, many of us and our ancestors fought for the "great life" that you claim we have. I'm still fighting and struggling; s**t is only getting more hard and more expensive. Sure I'm not living on less than a dollar a day, but comparing my issues to yours are not helping anyone.
Americans are seen as being brash, loud, and dumb because the one who fit that description are the ones who call attention to themselves.
"..often hear from people in second/third world countries..." That doesn't sound like a respectable conversation to me. That really sounds like you are arguing with people online, making assumptions and being defensive.
Jeeezus. Please let that person get into a face-to-face debate with someone who's just fled across the Mediterranean in a rickety boat after traveling through a desert and been stuffed in some refugee-camp in Syria. Well ... actually, I don't think it would be a debate since that other person would just blink and walk away because what can you actually say to such bs?
There is proof that we are dumb, as you are still calling them third/second-world countries, and assuming that no non-American has ever had struggles.
It's funny because the way some people think about the US is how a lot of people in the US think about our politicians. They're brilliant masterminds and the dumbest idiots of all time. They can't be trusted with secrets but also have evolved huge complicated conspiracies. They're idiots but we also have some of the best schools in the world. Everyone is so rich but also it's a dystopian nightmare and you might be murdered everywhere you go. Nothing is all one thing. There are some bad neighborhoods. You probably have some, too. That's because there are a lot of sh!tty people out there, no matter what color they are or what language they speak. @ssholes exist everywhere. Your government sucks? Yeah mine, too. Our media is trash. So is yours most likely. They all lie to us. And then they sit back and laugh because we argue about stupid stuff like amongst each other instead of looking at the real problems. Like our leaders and big corp's getting away with murder.
that we are all Yankees. really tired of explaining the civil war to people.
Unfortunately, that's even for US Citizens who don't even know their history.
Even presidential candidates. Nikki Haley said the Civil War was NOT about slavery in a recent debate. And the orange one is too afraid to debate.
Load More Replies...Hmm, to Aussies you're all 'yanks' not because we don't understand the civil war (we do), just like our cousins from NZ are all Kiwis (yes, we know they're not birds) and those from the UK are Poms.
Yep same in the UK all Americans are Yanks but the British in America are limey's and obviously poms in Australia and probably in Scotland, Wales and Ireland those bastard English! But what you gonna do about it.
Load More Replies...speaking as someone in the UK, I just thought "yanks" or "yankees" was a slang nickname for an American person,.... i don't know if its intended to be insulting in any way. If it is, I'm sorry that I've used it for so long and had no idea, I just thought of it as a generic thing.
It is apparently only people from a certain part of the US who are Yanks (within their country) but we call all Americans Yanks in Australia too, and it is definitely not an insult, it is just a collective name for people from the US.
Load More Replies...Yankee has little to do with the Civil War. Yankees are people from the Northeast and New England - Pennsylvania to Maine. Illinois and Maryland were both part of the North in the Civil War, but aren't Yankees. It's derived from an Algonquin word, and that's the area the Algonquin lived in. It would be a bit like calling all Europeans Deutch or all Africans Swahili.
Proud to be a descendent of a union civil war soldier (New England Yankee)
"Yankee" is a common generic for US citizens abroad. No, they don't care how it's used locally.
Not even the Civil War. Yankees are from New England. I'm from California, don't call me a Yankee.
That it's crazy dangerous, just like every other country don't go to the crappy areas other than that it's very safe.
Yes, all countries have lower quality areas with much more crime, some countries have more, we have a lot based on sheer volume
Load More Replies...No. Every other countries don't have dangerous areas. . We don't have areas where we tell people to not go to in denmark....
Well, while in Denmark I'd stay away from Castle Elsinore if you've got a brother who has designs on your wife and throne. And don't let that old geezer Polonius trap you in a corner. What a talker that guy is! (Fencing duel advice - check the sword tips.)
Load More Replies...In the UK we don't have the need for active shooter drills in our schools...
Britain is nearly as bad as the US in most other respects though, certainly plenty of "unsafe" areas in most towns and knife crime is a very real problem among school-age children.
Load More Replies..."Don't go to the crappy areas." Do you mean the many, many places where people live if their families have been historically discriminated against, red-lined or forced out of the 'uncrappy' areas because richer people oppose building affordable housing? That's how you fix the problem of dangerous crime?
The problem is the violence happens in areas that aren't crappy too so it's a bit unpredictable. We just cover up that stuff a lot.
Oh, the list goes on, Americans are stupid, Americans are racist, Americans don't know anything about the world. I once had a German foreign exchange student tell me we were just a bunch of cowboys who liked to shoot things up and wallpaper our culture over whatever was left who knew nothing about the world and most of us thought Australia was the only country in Oceania. I named 10 off the top of my head and asked him to do the same for South America. Dude started with Florida
It depends on the person, and that’s sad i even have to say that. Because no one should be racist/stupid.
No Americans don't think Australia's the only country in the Oceana because a lot them have absolutely no idea where Australia is - you named 10/14 countries? - yeah -nah, unless you studied the region formally, I call BS.
Maybe, like me, they were a huge fan of animaniacs. 🎶🎶 "United States, Canada, Mexico, Panama, Haiti, Jamaica, Peru; Republic Dominican, Cuba, Caribbean, Greenland, El Salvador too!" 🎶🎶 Yakko's World - https://youtu.be/V1508wboZXk?
Load More Replies...Definitely lacking in the use of the English language, especially, apostrophes, commas and proper sentence structure!
That we don't know geography. A British friend of mine was somehow shocked that I can name and point to every country in Europe (capital cities as well) on a map, as well as every country in Southwest Asia except Kuwait. "But you're American." What gave it away, the good dental hygiene?????
Pretty sure they were doing that on purpose as a joke.
Load More Replies...Hmm, trying to debunk a mean and false US stereotype with a mean and false British stereotype - not cool. The last part was unnecessary and demonstrates pure ignorance, just saying.
This American with bad teeth agrees with you.
Load More Replies...Please remember that just because one individual can do a certain thing it doesn't mean this is normal across the population. "The National Geographic–Roper 2002 Global Geographic Literacy Survey polled more than 3,000 18- to 24-year-olds in Canada, France, Germany, Great Britain, Italy, Japan, Mexico, Sweden and the United States. Sweden scored highest; Mexico, lowest. The U.S. was next to last." "About 11 percent of young citizens of the U.S. couldn't even locate the U.S. on a map." https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/geography-survey-illiteracy
Actually, America is 9th in the world rankings for dental health where as the UK is 4th. Drop the dental stereotyping before I point out why our dental health is better than Americas
And here I thought it was 90s cartoons - https://youtu.be/V1508wboZXk
Load More Replies...American beer is watered down. Addressing the alcohol content, the average American beer has roughly the same alcohol content as a European beer. This is such a ridiculous myth and takes 2 minutes of Googling to disprove. As far as tasting watered down, WTF do they expect when Europe is getting our cheapest, most mass produced c**p? People don't buy Miller Light because it tastes good. They buy it because it's cheap. I'd rather just not drink beer than drink those beers. Similarly, the best selling beer in Europe is Heineken, which tastes awful. There are a billion good breweries in the US. You can't just judge us on the mass produced stuff that makes it overseas. Just like I know I can't judge Europe on Heineken. One of the best beers I've had was a Dutch beer in Aruba. I once asked a bartender in Dublin if anybody ever orders the Coors Light he had on tap, as I noticed all the pubs had Coors Light. He said he usually can't keep it in stock as he pulled the handle and nothing came out. This whole rant probably applies to food and candy, as well.
Okay you do know that those "American" beers like Budweiser and Coors that are for sale in the UK and Ireland are actually made in the UK and Ireland? They're not shipped overseas. Ditto for all of the popular "Mexican" beers, too. Next time have a look at where it's made at. My ex would drink Budweiser in the UK because it was cheaper, but he couldn't stand the Budweiser in the US.
Not commenting on the quality of American beers, but Coors light is generally cheaper than everything else here. Plus it's a light beer, something we don't really do. If people want a low calorie beer, it's kinda their only option.
It is my understanding that when Coors started distributing McKillian's Red here in the US, it had to be toned down a bit, as the original McKillian's was a tad strong.
Being from the country of original Budweiser and Pilsner, I must tel you your beer is real c**p.
That we have bad health care. We have bad health insurance options for some people.
Um hard to agree here. The number 1 cause of bankruptcy in America is healthcare debt
I think, just guessing though, that they mean the health CARE is good, so when you can actually get it, it is good. But the best food in the world wouldn't save a starving man if he wasn't allowed to eat it so...
Load More Replies...“We don’t have bad healthcare; we just don’t let the poor have any healthcare!”
Are you kidding? The poor get the best and most healthcare because of Medicaid. Then you earn a *little more money* be sure you took on that third job, you lose your Medicaid and have to pay for insurance, usually through your job, which costs a ridiculous amount compared to what you earn, now your third job is paying for your insurance AND you can't afford the co-pays or the deductible.
Load More Replies...Our health care is NOT bad..it's expensive. The more you pay, the better coverage. We feel paying thousands of private companies to cover us is better than paying one entity. Not my choice, and I work hard to counter it, but there ya go.
We have some of the best health care in the world! *Only for the 1% that is. The top 9% gets good health care and the rest of the 90% gets to go bankrupt and 💀
Obviously, when people talk about "health-care", they do not doubt the competency of the doctors, but exactly what the options are for the average citizen to take advantage of these competency!
That it costs everyone like $50k to have a baby. There was this woman on Instagram who broke down her costs after insurance and it was $6k from conception to discharging from the hospital. Half the comments were Europeans losing their s**t that it costed anything, and the other half were people who didn’t believe her (very real) numbers because they assumed all births cost more than that here. I get it that our healthcare system needs some work and some people have complications and / or s****y insurance, but *average* insurance will cover an *average* birth for $6k easily. This goes for injuries too. For every “I went bankrupt over a broken foot” there are a dozen “it was a few thousand but I got a decent payment plan with the hospital” stories. You just never hear about those. And when you try to tell them everyone just flips out because they think you’re saying our system is perfect. It’s not perfect. It’s just not as s****y as Reddit would have to believe.
Yeah...free healthcare is such a complicated beast the only 49 of the world's top 50 economies have managed to make it work
Somebody has to pay the medical professional for their time and expertise. Either the person needing the service pays themselves, or everyone pays (through government taxation).
Load More Replies...And US have the highest rate of death and severe injury for mother and child in childbirth in all western countries...
“We don’t take a POUND of flesh from new mothers! It’s only four ounces!”
Only 6 grand??? Does this person have any idea how much 6 grand can do for a family with a new baby? That's like 2 month's wages on average.
YOU HAD TO PAY 6K!?! Don't try to make that OK or normal. The insurance companies are the issue, full stop.
Another article that pulls out the anti-Americans. Writing from France it honestly looks like jealousy or insecurity. I come here to read fun articles, see some funny things, and look at cute animal pix. Between the anti-American feelings of so many readers and possibly BP itself, this is getting too predictable.
BoredPanda has become such a nasty and negative place anymore. From their rampant censorship to creating divides against readers to drive traffic to their site, I'm suprised if this site is going to last any longer. I keep on holding out thinking that they wil get better, but sadly they just seem to be continually ignoring their readers and fostering hate and xenophobia. It's actually pretty darn disturbing. I just saw another reader comment that their comments were deleted when they provided a suggestion on an listicle and pointed out something that needed to be corrected.
Load More Replies...Hey quick question I live in the US and why does a lot of people elsewhere not focus on other stereotypes about other countries and only on the US?
Because BoredPanda likes to create divides against their readers in order to drive traffic to their site. They know that listicles like this are going to get their U.S. readers riled up and that the comment section is going to be filled to the gills with comments. It's a pretty pittiful and sad tactic to increase site traffic. I have family in the United Kingdom, U.S. and Denmark and their are sadly problems in all countries. There is no denying that the United States is experiencing a very disturbing rise in nationalism and fascism, however, BoredPanda never addresses its American readers who are pushing back against the hatred in their country. It never mentions the American readers who are fighting for positive change like standing up for LGBTQIA+ rights and women's rights.
Load More Replies...Every country has bad people and the occasional bad leader, but the American ones affect the rest of the world more than most.
I feel like all the people in the comments need to read the title of this again. It's not a list of things that Americans think are great about here; it's misconceptions about the US. Do we have guns...yes, does everyone have a gun...no, do we feel unsafe here...no but there are unsafe areas. But you have active shooter drills at school? Sure but it never made me feel unsafe because we did the drill. Just like I don't feel unsafe when I'm watching the safety presentation on a plane.
But wouldn't you rather live in a country where active shooter drills were unnecessary? You sound a bit desensitised to it tbh...
Load More Replies...If you don't like me cause I'm an American, I don't care. If you don't like me because I'm an a**hole, OK. I still don't care much. To let it bother me requires that I give you power over me, and I simply refuse.
I think because America is so big you will always get extremes. If only 10% of Americans are obese that can still work out to be more people than live in some European countries. So of course you get the trope that "All Americans are obese" or "All Americans are stupid". It's just that there are so damn many of them!
In before the dozens of anti-American comments...from American Bored Panda members.
Hey Carl, non-American here. I've been on this site since it started about eight years ago, and I find the amount of American bashing on BoredPanda pretty darn disturbing and tiring. They have a really nasty trend of writing listicles bashing U.S. readers and the United States every week. It may have been silly at first, but now it's just turned into this rather creepy form of xenophia. Furthermore, it creates a divide against readers. BoredPanda treats all people from the United States as a monolith, when they are not. The United States has an incredible amount of problems, but BoredPanda fails to acknowledge the people in the United States that are standing up for positive change and pushing back against the rise of nationalism. BoredPanda fails to recognise that countries are not monliths! Stereotypes are cruel in any shape or form, and it's pretty damn pittiful that BoredPanda keeps on perpetuating them.
Load More Replies...Unlike some people, I don’t take it too personally when there are comments that are negative towards Americans. We’re the dominant power in the world; that’s always going to put a target on your back. And, quite frankly, power should be held to account; it’s okay to hold up a mirror to the strong and ask them to reflect on what they do with that power. Most of it is just ignorant stuff or stereotypes and, hey, this is the internet so there’s a lot of that in case you hadn’t noticed. Ultimately, I either ignore it or find a way to politely educate the person(s) making the comment if I think it is error. Bottom line, though, is that it just isn’t worth getting worked up over and has no effect on my life; if a few anonymous folks want to take a swing, have at it because it won’t change a thing.
Another article that pulls out the anti-Americans. Writing from France it honestly looks like jealousy or insecurity. I come here to read fun articles, see some funny things, and look at cute animal pix. Between the anti-American feelings of so many readers and possibly BP itself, this is getting too predictable.
BoredPanda has become such a nasty and negative place anymore. From their rampant censorship to creating divides against readers to drive traffic to their site, I'm suprised if this site is going to last any longer. I keep on holding out thinking that they wil get better, but sadly they just seem to be continually ignoring their readers and fostering hate and xenophobia. It's actually pretty darn disturbing. I just saw another reader comment that their comments were deleted when they provided a suggestion on an listicle and pointed out something that needed to be corrected.
Load More Replies...Hey quick question I live in the US and why does a lot of people elsewhere not focus on other stereotypes about other countries and only on the US?
Because BoredPanda likes to create divides against their readers in order to drive traffic to their site. They know that listicles like this are going to get their U.S. readers riled up and that the comment section is going to be filled to the gills with comments. It's a pretty pittiful and sad tactic to increase site traffic. I have family in the United Kingdom, U.S. and Denmark and their are sadly problems in all countries. There is no denying that the United States is experiencing a very disturbing rise in nationalism and fascism, however, BoredPanda never addresses its American readers who are pushing back against the hatred in their country. It never mentions the American readers who are fighting for positive change like standing up for LGBTQIA+ rights and women's rights.
Load More Replies...Every country has bad people and the occasional bad leader, but the American ones affect the rest of the world more than most.
I feel like all the people in the comments need to read the title of this again. It's not a list of things that Americans think are great about here; it's misconceptions about the US. Do we have guns...yes, does everyone have a gun...no, do we feel unsafe here...no but there are unsafe areas. But you have active shooter drills at school? Sure but it never made me feel unsafe because we did the drill. Just like I don't feel unsafe when I'm watching the safety presentation on a plane.
But wouldn't you rather live in a country where active shooter drills were unnecessary? You sound a bit desensitised to it tbh...
Load More Replies...If you don't like me cause I'm an American, I don't care. If you don't like me because I'm an a**hole, OK. I still don't care much. To let it bother me requires that I give you power over me, and I simply refuse.
I think because America is so big you will always get extremes. If only 10% of Americans are obese that can still work out to be more people than live in some European countries. So of course you get the trope that "All Americans are obese" or "All Americans are stupid". It's just that there are so damn many of them!
In before the dozens of anti-American comments...from American Bored Panda members.
Hey Carl, non-American here. I've been on this site since it started about eight years ago, and I find the amount of American bashing on BoredPanda pretty darn disturbing and tiring. They have a really nasty trend of writing listicles bashing U.S. readers and the United States every week. It may have been silly at first, but now it's just turned into this rather creepy form of xenophia. Furthermore, it creates a divide against readers. BoredPanda treats all people from the United States as a monolith, when they are not. The United States has an incredible amount of problems, but BoredPanda fails to acknowledge the people in the United States that are standing up for positive change and pushing back against the rise of nationalism. BoredPanda fails to recognise that countries are not monliths! Stereotypes are cruel in any shape or form, and it's pretty damn pittiful that BoredPanda keeps on perpetuating them.
Load More Replies...Unlike some people, I don’t take it too personally when there are comments that are negative towards Americans. We’re the dominant power in the world; that’s always going to put a target on your back. And, quite frankly, power should be held to account; it’s okay to hold up a mirror to the strong and ask them to reflect on what they do with that power. Most of it is just ignorant stuff or stereotypes and, hey, this is the internet so there’s a lot of that in case you hadn’t noticed. Ultimately, I either ignore it or find a way to politely educate the person(s) making the comment if I think it is error. Bottom line, though, is that it just isn’t worth getting worked up over and has no effect on my life; if a few anonymous folks want to take a swing, have at it because it won’t change a thing.
