First off, let’s start with a big round of applause for our mother-in-laws, and dad-in-laws, for that matter, who continually give fresh perspectives on our marriages. They’re a gift, usually unasked, that keeps on giving. And having in mind what a controversial image in the cultural folklore they often carry, it’s only fair to say how much happiness it brings if we truly get along. (Clapping continues.)
But in some not-so-fortunate instances, mother-in-laws can become somewhat of a burden. With all the respect to our precious husbands and wives, some moms are just too much. Call it a mere coincidence, a cursed destiny, or pure evil manifesting itself in the form of this lady you’d much rather avoid if it wasn’t for your significant other, but some particular cases scream family drama big time.
So let’s see what people had to say about their shaky relationship with their MILs, and be sure not to jump to conclusions, since nobody really knows the full picture.
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Mil Stole My Chemo
Right now I have a lot of problems going on with my MIL on top of them. I’m fighting cancer for the second time in my life. I was first diagnosed when I was 14, fought it and won. I lived a happy and peaceful life until recently when I had my health checked for job necessities and surprise! – I’m 30 years old and I’ve cancer again. This is secondary cancer, different organ, nothing to do with the first one. Fortunately, stage 2 only, however my oncologist warned that it’s aggressive, grows and spreads fast and I could be stage 3 or more in a short period of time so we had to act fast. Hearing that you have cancer is always devastating but to me, it feels like something wants me dead very much. I was distraught that I’ll have to go through this again. It’s a very hard fight, both physically and mentally, any current or former cancer patient will agree on that.
I had a surgery and now it’s time for chemotherapy. The doctors decided on oral chemo that I can take at home and only have to go to a hospital to do blood tests and scans every few weeks, which is very good, I wouldn’t have the strength to go there every day. I’m on a sick leave from work now and because of the treatment, I’m quite weak, I’ve lost a lot of weight. Before that my wife and I, we both had an equal share of household chores. Some days I feel better than others, however directly after every receive of chemo even the simplest chores are often a physical impossibility for me. I try to do as much as I can but my wife has been amazing, she doesn’t care at all that I don’t help around the house as much as I did. She’s like “Your only obligation now is not to die.”
The other day MIL came over to visit (she knows about my diagnosis). I was on the couch reading and my wife was doing something around the house. MIL walked over to me and was like ”Look at that! Lying on that couch as if you’re on the beach! Aren’t you ashamed of yourself – a grown man and lying down in the middle of a day while your poor wife is working as a slave!”
I said, “I just had chemo, I have a headache, I’m nauseous, I don’t feel good.”
She was like “A young man like you and cannot beat some silly cancer! You cannot cure yourself with those chemicals! Nature products only!”
Later that day MIL was talking to my wife in the kitchen. I didn’t mean to listen, but I heard their conversation anyway. MIL was like “You really shouldn’t let him take that poison he’s taking or he will die. It’s poison otherwise he wouldn’t feel so bad. Doctors nowadays are totally stupid, you should seek herbal treatments instead!” As all of that came from someone without any medical education and tries to be smarter than she actually is, my wife shut her up quickly and told her to stay away from things she understands nothing about.
The next day I was going to take my chemo, as I’m scheduled. I’ve to take it once a day and I prefer to do it in the morning because then I feel better in the evening and I can sleep better. But, as I walked into the bathroom and opened the cabinet, there was no trace of my chemo bottles. They were gone, completely. I asked my wife if she moved them by any chance and she said no. We looked around but realized it’s pointless because they couldn’t fall out of the cabinet and there’s also no need to hide the chemo, we don’t have children or pets who could accidentally swallow it. Then my wife remembered that just before leaving the day before, MIL asked to use the bathroom. She could have easily taken the bottles with her, considering her words about the toxicity of chemo.
My wife turned into a dragon. She was literally almost spitting fire as she got dressed and stormed out to go to MIL’s house, I had never seen her so mad before. She came back a half an hour later or so and told me that she demanded my medication from MIL and MIL admitted she took my chemo indeed and when she left our house, she threw it out. Obviously, it’s gone, we cannot search through every garbage bin the city but just the fact that she did it, blew my mind. My wife and MIL had a huge argument and MIL really thinks she did me a favor. She was like “Don’t you see he’s dying, don’t you see how fragile he’s become? It’s not cancer that’s killing him, it’s those pills! I got rid of them, I saved your husband and that’s how you thank me, by insulting me? Better go and buy him some herbal teas!”
Because of MIL, I missed a dose of chemo which is very bad and I had to see my oncologist immediately. When I told him I need more chemo, he was surprised and said “What happened to the chemo I gave you a short time ago? You couldn’t have used it all already.” and I was like “ Well, you see, doctor, my MIL stole my chemo”. He looked totally baffled as if the fact that someone would steal someone’s else chemo is ridiculously stupid.
He prescribed me new bottles of chemo and a new schedule on how I’m supposed to take it and now I keep it in a cabinet with a lock. Even though my wife swore to me MIL will never set her foot in our house again.
Mil Burned Down Our House And Got Arrested
I’m posting for the second time now. I didn’t see that coming. We made a big mistake when we didn’t take MIL’s threats seriously enough. We thought that she’s like a dog that barks but doesn’t bite. Speaking of dogs, the only hero in this story is actually our dog, heavens bless our dog. It happened at night. My husband and me, we’re heavy sleepers, we were dreaming sweet dreams and didn’t notice anything. If our dog hadn’t jumped on our bed and barked, waking us up, we would probably both be dead now. I’m a firefighter myself and I realized that the fire was too big already, we couldn’t put it out by ourselves. We escaped through the window, fortunately unharmed. Somebody had called the firefighters who happened to be my colleagues, which was a weird situation, it was the first time they had to work on their buddy’s house. They tried to work as fast and as efficiently as they could but our house is damaged beyond repair, we can’t live in it anymore.
MIL got caught and basically dug her own grave because she herself said that she was hoping till the last minute that her son would come to his senses, break up with me and start to date women but he didn’t and she felt ashamed that she has created such a deformed human being, so she decided that it is better to have no son than gay son. She basically said she wanted to kill him. So even though at first what happened was classified as ”arson with the intent to damage the property” which would mean softer sentence, after those words it became ”arson with the intend to endanger life” and that means much more severe punishment, even up to life imprisonment. Our lawyer said that most likely she will not receive the maximum sentence because no one has died but she will receive at least a couple years behind bars. And there’s not much her lawyer can help her because she confessed.
And she said such a stupid thing ”Well but my son’s faggot husband is a firefighter, why didn’t he save his house?”
In the middle of the night, just awoken, no gear, no tools, no equipment, caught completely unaware by the fire. Are you serious, MIL? You think that just because I’m a firefighter means I can put the fire out with my bare hands? Many people think that housefire is like they see in the movies – flames and light but actually it is a complete darkness. The smoke makes the room so dark within minutes that you can’t even see your own hands. Housefire is always like a dark night.
Now we’re living with our friends while we find another place to live. Our clothing, our documents, passports, marriage certificate, everything is gone but of course, those are just things, we can buy them again. We’re alive, that’s the most important thing. My husband is done with her. He's so very upset that his own mother wished him dead just because he's gay. If before this he still hoped that their relationship could be fixed, now he doesn’t want to hear a single word about her no more. Her homophobic hate almost killed us. And it is our own fault as well because we didn't give her actions and words the seriousness they deserved. We know some gay people who also have homophobic parents but they have never tried actually killing their children. I guess that's why we didn't think that it might happen to us.
My Mil Just Threw Out All Of My Groceries. Grocery Stores Are Out Of Stock And I'm Losing My Mind
Due to reasons, my MIL had to move in with my husband and I for a while. I'm South Asian, my husband is white.
Indian food is what I was raised eating and I love it to this day. Due to stay at home orders I suddenly have a lot more time to cook than I did before. I stocked my kitchen with rice, different spices and whatever else I would need to make what I wanted.
My husband doesn't mind and enjoys the food. My MIL on the other hand, does not. She's never liked me. Some stuff she says include "what kind of people use their hands to eat? Just use a knife and spoon like normal people". My husband has stuck up for me on all those occasions before, but having to live with her 24/7 is wearing him down.
After she moved in, she immediately started complaining. "Why does that smell so strong? It'll cling to the walls. Stop that." or "God, are you really feeding my son that crap? Just eat normal American food."
I know quarantine is taking its toll on everyone, so I decided to stay quiet. My husband did try to talk to her once, but that fell on deaf ears. Like always.
I woke up yesterday morning, go downstairs. Chat with husband and MIL for a while. Go into the kitchen, open my pantry, and there. is. nothing. My rice, spices, flour everything has been cleaned out. I had a rice dispensing machine that I got a few years back and that was missing too.
I go to the fridge, and besides milk, bread, butter, jam and eggs there was nothing. I get my husband and ask him what happened to the food. He looks in confusion until MIL pipes up and says that she threw everything out. When asked why, she simply says "My child isn't used to eating your types of food. Just make him what Americans eat" And heck did that piss me off. She has this insane thing about not acknowledging that I am American, or when she does she tells people that I got my citizenship through marriage.
Wrong on all accounts. I was born here and so were the last 4 generations of my family. I go grocery shopping and they were out of stock on basically everything. I come home and she still has the audacity to ask why I'm not cooking like I usually do.
To find out more about navigating through the complex dynamics of a relationship with your mother-in-law, Bored Panda talked to Jane Parker, a Strategic Intervention Advanced Relationship Coach who coaches clients to have successful, fulfilling, and healthy relationships.
Jane told us that “There are often issues with mother-in-laws because women are used to having a say in how things are done and how children are raised. They are accustomed to influencing their 'child' and now someone else is doing that. This can be hard for some mothers.”
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My Mil Everybody...
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Moreover, “Women love to contribute and sometimes it is hard not to say your opinion, especially if the subject means so much to you. Hence why MILs have a bad reputation for interfering or criticizing,” the relationship coach explained.
Another reason why the problems with MILs arise often has to do with the fact that since they “love their children very much, it is hard to let go of that instinct to influence them.” Plus, “they love to spend time with their ‘child’ and it can be hurtful to them when this fades due to their marriage or relationship.”
My Mil To My Spouse
Mother In Law
Charge her by the hour, it will pay for all your children’s educations.
My Paranoid MIL
It turns out that “the relationship with your mother-in-law can drastically affect your relationship, especially if your spouse does not understand or empathize with your feelings on the matter.” Jane explained that in some severe cases, “the effect can be so intense that it can change the way we feel about our spouse.”
In case you find yourself struggling with similar feelings, Jane suggests “Expressing to your spouse that your marriage is your absolute priority and that you want to make sure that you are a team at all times, even when dealing with their mother.”
My Mother-In-Law Is Why You Can't Find Paper Goods. This Is Only One Of Four Rooms
What was this obsession with toilet paper? Are you shitting that much during lockdown? and is toilet paper really the most important thing you could buy? I'll give you all an African tip, if you rub a newspaper together for a minute, it becomes soft enough to use. (incase of emergency)
My [19] Girlfriend's [20] Mother [48] Is In Love/Obsessed With Me
![My [19] Girlfriend's [20] Mother [48] Is In Love/Obsessed With Me](https://static.boredpanda.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/irritating-mother-in-laws-7-6070574b1d828__700.jpg "My [19] Girlfriend's [20] Mother [48] Is In Love/Obsessed With Me")
So, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now. Around 1 year and a half ago, she introduced me to her mother, I went to her house, and tried my best to give a good introduction. Talked to her a lot, acted friendly, etc etc, I wanted good first impressions.
However, my girlfriend gave her my number for something, and since then, she messages me every 2-3 days wanting to talk to me, sends lots of x's, sometimes love hearts. I told my girlfriend I was uncomfortable with it but she said it is her mum just being friendly and I should have a conversation back. (She genuinely thought this at the time, that everything was okay and normal)
Okay, this is where it gets messed up. One time her mum said to me "I want to tell you something although I don't think you'll like it maybe", she won't tell me at first, my girlfriend is with me at this point reading the chat with me, eventually, her mum admits she is in love with me, and wants to know if I feel the same, my girlfriend feels physically sick at this point and I feel beyond uncomfortable.
I tell her I love her daughter and it can never happen, and she flips the f*ck out, saying she hates me, I am a bastard, everything. She thinks her daughter has no clue of the situation. Later that night, her daughter comes home, and her mother tells her "I spoke to [me] earlier, I can't say what about, I just want to say that he is creepy as [hell], you shouldn't go near him, he seems like those predators you find on tv" what, the, [hell]
My girlfriend and I lose our sh*t, but she cannot admit to her mother she knows that she loves me because literally, her mum will throw her out into the streets the second she does with nowhere to go.
Anyway, ever since then up until this point. Her mum buys be gifts every week which is usually tobacco (since I smoke a lot) and gives me free money every week. I tell her I do not want it, but if I say no, she blames my girlfriend for me not taking it and goes crazy at her. If I say anything she doesn't like, she takes it out on my girlfriend.
She has tried to kiss me before, said shes thinking about me in bed, sent me texts saying she loves me, thinks I should be with her instead of her daughter, she will not take no for an answer. If I tell her no, she makes her daughter choose between me, or her, because if she can't have me, her daughter can't either. She seriously wants me and my girlfriend to break up and choose her instead.
Seriously reddit, the [hell] do I do here?
Extra Information: She hides her texts from her daughter so her daughter cannot find her texting me with these kinds of texts. She wants her daughter to break up with me, she has made up lies before about me to force her too. She will kick her out if she stands up to her.
More information: One time, my girlfriend came home smelling of sex (We had sex 10-15 minutes beforehand and had no time to washup, the plan was to go home and quickly shower) her mum saw her before she did, realized, and threw her out and didn't give her a reason, just screamed at her to leave. Then asked her to come home 2 days later.
UPDATE: I found out literally 5 minutes ago, my girlfriend checked her mums search history and found
"How to steal boy from girl"
"How to make him love you"
"How to turn a guy on"
04:40 UPDATE: CHAT LOGS : Back story, I was at her house seeing my girlfriend, I wanted to leave because mum made me uncomfortable, she realized, snapped at my girlfriend, I told her she is staying with me for a couple days for things to calm down. Also, the replies on my end are my girlfriend typing in my place. I would have been much worse back. https://imgur.com/a/KiGJu This is more on the worse side of issues that has happened with her, I could show AT LEAST 30+ chat logs of disturbing content from her. Also, I am not sure why the log jumps from 4th of August to the 13th. This is all 100% the same night.
TL:DR, girlfriends mum is in love/obsessed with me, wont leave me alone, if I tell her I don't feel the same or reject her, she takes it out on my girlfriend and I don't want that, help
My Drunk Mil Ate All Of The Skin And A Leg Off Of The Fried Turkey Before It Was Served
Bride Shares Pic Of Her Mother-In-Law Barging In And Interrupting Her First Dance With Husband
Mother-In-Law Just Served Me This Piece Of Cake...
My Mother In Law..
Hahaha... Mexican cannibas? because if you want to scare Americans, you just add the word Mexican
Dihydrogen monoxide is the term used to describe water when mocking these sorts of people. So definitely satire.
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I think that's my favorite part :D That's what 100% convinced me it was supposed to be a parody
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Ok the person who originally made that graphic was 100% trolling. that is the funniest thing I've seen all day. But I'm disappointed that someone out there actually took this seriously... who would believe this?
No, it's totally toxic hemp chemicals. Trust me, I saw it in a picture on the internet, so I think I would know.
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Oh good grief. The fact there are people who believe this crap is shocking.
This one is really sad to me,. It proves that no matter how silly and pathetic these types of posts are on social media, they can still reach and affect their victims. Whether it's stupid stuff about tattoos, fake news, anti-vaxxers or whatever, it really needs to stop. My parents were very nervous about getting the covid vaccine because of some of these types of posts.
lol tattoo ink isn't even dangerous to touch, it's about as dangerous as a sharpie outside of a tattoo gun.
Water can be deadly, but we're talking drinking 4+ L and you'll be feeling pretty ill before.
oh my. not that deadly dihydrogen monoxoide stuff again ('bodily fluids of Mexican cannibas manufacturers' omfg that's awsome)
Even if you didn't know that Dihydrogen monoxide is just water and even if you didn't think all of the others were a bit much to be true you surely can't think of "pure Sin" being some kind of an ingredient of anything?!
This was clearly a joke image and the MIL isn't educated enough to catch that. Particularly they have "dihydrogen monoxide" on here which is just water. Not to mention how ridiculous the other "ingredients" are
you have got to be shitting me... is this the same person forcing people to go vegan?
That dihydrogen monoxide though, that's truly deadly. It kills thousands of people every year and no one is doing anything about it...
Ha, I've seen this and shared it on Facebook to get a good laugh. I've also tagged my tattoo artists :D We laughed and laughed
THIS HAS GOT TO BE A TROLL. I mean, Rubella virus??? How do you see that there?? Bodily fluids of Mexican cannibals? 91.5% pure Sin????? Mold????????????? *visible confusion*
Well dang I didn’t know you could buy sin in a bottle! I’ll have to stock up! 🤣
Are we just going to ignore the fact that someone thinks THC stands for "Toxic Hemp Chemicals" and not "TetraHydroCannibinol".
So..... dihydrogen Monoxide is WATER! Di means 2+hydrogen and Mono mean 1.... H2O 🤣
"Hey, Mark? Does your ink from this batch look a little... off?" "Yeah, man. There was a note with it saying viper venom isn't currently available so they had to substitute badger spit." "Dude, we've got to switch suppliers. LAST month they subbed out glass shards for fiberglass. It just doesn't cut the same."
And of course, a evil ghostie which will haunt your toes...
Viper venom... hahahaha wow these people are good with cool words...
If this had even half this s**t in here you'd be sick and suffering and tattoos would probably kill at least a decent portion of the population, and last I checked Sin was not a numerically measurable thing and thus can't have a percentage of it. Also thought it was all or nothing either something is a sin or it isn't. Someone asking if this is true needs serious help understanding a lot of things.
Damn, well I have every single one then, multiple doses. Must say I seem to be doing alright all things considered.
"91.5% of PURE SIN" is something I totally want on my skin (If ya couldn't already tell)
Wow. STUPOID. Tattoos are only made of ink that get injected into the first few layers of skin. For clarification, I just googled it and I am right.
Brought to you by the same people that believe vaccines cause Autism and that gay is a choice. *SMH!
Well if it's 91.5% pure SIN, that leaves 8.5% for all that other stuff. Also, I dont think THC stands for 'Toxic Hemp Chemicals'.
Rat poison, "tear gas"? Mexican cannabis?! 91.5% pure skin?!? Wtf? Just straight up addiction?! Rubella virus?!
Mother-In-Law "Put Away" The Cookies We Left Out To Cool
My Mother-In-Law Was Complaining That She Couldn't Get The Coffee Grinder To Work. This Is A Pencil Sharpener
How My Mil Loaded My Dishwasher. How Does Someone Like This Even Function As An Adult?
My Mother In Law Eats One Bite Of A New Banana Every Morning And Leaves The Rest On The Counter "In Case Anyone Wants One"
Well, My Mother-In-Law Put The Rice Cooker In The Oven. And Didn't Tell Anyone. Pre-Heated To 450
This is a deep sin. Rip rice cooker, the matriarch of all the kitchen accessories.
Mother In Law From Hell!
How Mil Communicates My Profession In Her Annual Holiday Letter
Reply with "Happy to read that you're still the same useless conniving witch you have been for ages. "
My Mother-In-Law Has Visited...
The Way My Mother In Law Cut The Cake
My Mother In Law Drives Me Crazy Eats The Crust Off Every Pizza That’s Comes To The House Doesn’t Touch The Actual Part With Toppings... Curse You Soulless Demons That Do This
My Mother-In-Law Tried To Bake Some Round Sugar Cookies While Drunk
My Mother In Law Stopped By And Fed The Dog
I can't stop laughing about this one. I imagine the dog is still inside the bag, finishing it off.
How My Mother-In-Law Takes Butter From The Tray
Compared to a good few of the others, this is harmless. A little annoying maybe, but nothing worse.
My Mother-In-Law Is Staying With Us For A Couple Weeks. This Is How She Cuts Brownies
Why did she leave the edge? That's the best part! I would gladly share brownies with her. 😂
I'm not quite sure how to feel while reading this article. Are we seriously comparing MILs who put a house on fire and stole live-saving medication, with MILs who don't know how to use a pencil sharpener or how to cut cake?
The people who compile this stuff are so bad at it.
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Why do people put up with these morons is beyond me. I barely take crap from people Iike... I have never, and will never tolerate a disrespectful fúćker, no matter who they are. Even less so if they're not even related to me. My MIL learned that the hard way last year. She yelled at me, I talked back, firmly, but calmly, told her some VERY harsh truths in the nicest tone, and off she went, never to fùck with me again.
How perfect is your life when your biggest problem is how someone cuts butter/brownies. And then you actually take the time to snap a pic and post it online? Grow up.
Some of these are funny (the pencil sharpener and drunk cookie baking are my faves). That might be why people share. I've shared funny stories about my husband. He's a brilliant man, but has his lapses (as do I). However, I realize that not everyone has a sense of humour about little human foibles. Hence, what is funny to me might be offensive to you.
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My sister's MIL asked her how many wedding invitations MIL would get to send her friends. My sister nicely told her "none" since it will be a small ceremony and reception for close friends and family only. MIL went out and commissioned her own invitations and invited all of her friends without my sister's knowledge nor consent. Needless to say, there were a lot of tears that day and not enough food.
I hope you have little or not contact with her. Maybe she'll catch something serious and use herbal remedies instead of proper mainstream medicine.
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Some of these MILs are totally out of their minds. How on earth are they not in jail at this if that's how they treat family?
My son was diagnosed with autism 2 years ago. We started speech therapy and they wanted to teach him communication from pictures. I’m not the type to ask for help but I needed it. I needed two ppl to help teach him my husband worked 7am-7pm 6 days a week sometimes. So I asked her to stop by after work for 15 mins at least once a week since it was on the way home for her. Never stopped. The family was having a party at my sister in laws. Failed to tell us pool was open so every other kid except ours were in so my son was throwing a fit. Was trying to show her his book and explain how important it was. Completely brushed me off so I me and my son walked home. I had to resort to my 5 yr old helping me teach him to communicate. Now for two years she says I have post pardem depression because I don’t want to go to any family events anymore. Says there is nothing wrong with my son he is smart he put that puzzle together no problem. He will talk when he wants to.
My mom was super mistreated by her MIL, my grandma too. Even now. Like grandma would set her duties before she even married into the family literally like “u have to sweep the front porch every morning” o_O that was back in the days in Asia.
If you beleave the internet, this is/ was normal in Asia. But is/ was it?
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I think some were posted for laughs (drunk cookies). Two are tragic and horrible in that they could cause deaths. In between are the MILs who cause tensions in relationships.
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Many of there are pretty harmless and it's the son or daughter-in-law who's got the real problem. I mean... tp roll on wrong... very small deal.
For my mom, it wasn't her mother in law, it was her sisters in law. My one aunt especially was a problem. She got mad at my mom because my agreed to drive her to another town in exchange for gas money and she didn't like the amount my mom needed. It was fifteen dollars. My other aunt mistreated me while I was her home health aide. So she essentially hurt my mom through her kid.
My MIL (RIP) was at a family gathering at my house. Grandkids running everywhere, my parents, brother in law, etc. There's one of those momentary lulls in the conversation and into the silence MIL interjects loudly "I hate children!"
My ex mother-in-law cleaned her gas oven with petrol and then immediately struck a match to start it. Another time she put an electric bar radiator in the freezer section of the fridge to defrost it. Just two of her many stunts.
Good thing she's your ex, but I hope she wrote her will. Not that she'll have much to leave if she blows up her place.
Load More Replies... My mother-in-law babysits for us and for unknown reasons has been compelled to rearrange our entire house to the point where we can't find our own belongings in our own home. Last week my husband discovered she threw out his comic books and other keepsakes from his childhood. He thought he had hidden them well. I don't know wtf is going on.
My mother-in-law adopted 2 children because she couldn't get pregnant, and then got rid of them once she had "her own" children. This is by far the worst thing she's done, but just one of many reasons we don't speak to her anymore.
Having a MIL from hell is terrible enough, but when, on top of that, you have a partner that don't stand up to her, or worst, side with her... it becomes unlivable.
I’m so thankful my mother in law is normal and although my mom is nosey and can be controlling at times she’s nowhere near this. Just fear when baby arrives later this year that might all change
Wow, I'm lucky to have a nice MIL who I have always got on with, some of this is just disgusting.
I didn't realize it 'till after but my face was sorta stuck like this the entire time Lol: 144-144357...97-png.jpg 
What's with the MIL articles? Make one of FILs. Mine ruined a wedding.
I know one horror story about the FIL from hell. DIL got suspicious because he "dropped by to say hi", when he was normally disagreeable to her. After his unusually friendly visit, she searched the house and found the listening device he had installed there.
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I always thought that mh MIL liked me. I dated my partner for four years and lived twonwith him before we registered as a couple. The only comment that she had over that is to tell my partner to "check if she can steal your house if you ever split up". It hurt me so much. I never thought that she saw me as a golddiger that would leave my partner homeless. I havent veen able to trust her since.
Some months ago my partner told her that I am appliying for disability help since I am too ill to go to work. She got angry and told him that "I should focus on getting better and not asking for money". She is a nurse but apparently she is blaming me for not improving in my chronic illneses. I really wonder if she reacts this way because I am a migrant or why does she see me as a lazy woman set on stealing money from people :(
Load More Replies... Why always single out MIL? Father in laws can be horrible too. My father in law is a nightmare and a pain to deal with.
Maybe you can suggest that to Bored Panda at https://www.boredpanda.com/contact-us/ You can also post an article and ask for Father-in-law stories. Click on Add Post to get started.
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MILF is used in other context besides porno.
Load More Replies... I'm not quite sure how to feel while reading this article. Are we seriously comparing MILs who put a house on fire and stole live-saving medication, with MILs who don't know how to use a pencil sharpener or how to cut cake?
The people who compile this stuff are so bad at it.
Load More Replies... Why do people put up with these morons is beyond me. I barely take crap from people Iike... I have never, and will never tolerate a disrespectful fúćker, no matter who they are. Even less so if they're not even related to me. My MIL learned that the hard way last year. She yelled at me, I talked back, firmly, but calmly, told her some VERY harsh truths in the nicest tone, and off she went, never to fùck with me again.
How perfect is your life when your biggest problem is how someone cuts butter/brownies. And then you actually take the time to snap a pic and post it online? Grow up.
Some of these are funny (the pencil sharpener and drunk cookie baking are my faves). That might be why people share. I've shared funny stories about my husband. He's a brilliant man, but has his lapses (as do I). However, I realize that not everyone has a sense of humour about little human foibles. Hence, what is funny to me might be offensive to you.
Load More Replies... My sister's MIL asked her how many wedding invitations MIL would get to send her friends. My sister nicely told her "none" since it will be a small ceremony and reception for close friends and family only. MIL went out and commissioned her own invitations and invited all of her friends without my sister's knowledge nor consent. Needless to say, there were a lot of tears that day and not enough food.
I hope you have little or not contact with her. Maybe she'll catch something serious and use herbal remedies instead of proper mainstream medicine.
Load More Replies... Some of these MILs are totally out of their minds. How on earth are they not in jail at this if that's how they treat family?
My son was diagnosed with autism 2 years ago. We started speech therapy and they wanted to teach him communication from pictures. I’m not the type to ask for help but I needed it. I needed two ppl to help teach him my husband worked 7am-7pm 6 days a week sometimes. So I asked her to stop by after work for 15 mins at least once a week since it was on the way home for her. Never stopped. The family was having a party at my sister in laws. Failed to tell us pool was open so every other kid except ours were in so my son was throwing a fit. Was trying to show her his book and explain how important it was. Completely brushed me off so I me and my son walked home. I had to resort to my 5 yr old helping me teach him to communicate. Now for two years she says I have post pardem depression because I don’t want to go to any family events anymore. Says there is nothing wrong with my son he is smart he put that puzzle together no problem. He will talk when he wants to.
My mom was super mistreated by her MIL, my grandma too. Even now. Like grandma would set her duties before she even married into the family literally like “u have to sweep the front porch every morning” o_O that was back in the days in Asia.
If you beleave the internet, this is/ was normal in Asia. But is/ was it?
Load More Replies... I think some were posted for laughs (drunk cookies). Two are tragic and horrible in that they could cause deaths. In between are the MILs who cause tensions in relationships.
Load More Replies... Many of there are pretty harmless and it's the son or daughter-in-law who's got the real problem. I mean... tp roll on wrong... very small deal.
For my mom, it wasn't her mother in law, it was her sisters in law. My one aunt especially was a problem. She got mad at my mom because my agreed to drive her to another town in exchange for gas money and she didn't like the amount my mom needed. It was fifteen dollars. My other aunt mistreated me while I was her home health aide. So she essentially hurt my mom through her kid.
My MIL (RIP) was at a family gathering at my house. Grandkids running everywhere, my parents, brother in law, etc. There's one of those momentary lulls in the conversation and into the silence MIL interjects loudly "I hate children!"
My ex mother-in-law cleaned her gas oven with petrol and then immediately struck a match to start it. Another time she put an electric bar radiator in the freezer section of the fridge to defrost it. Just two of her many stunts.
Good thing she's your ex, but I hope she wrote her will. Not that she'll have much to leave if she blows up her place.
Load More Replies... My mother-in-law babysits for us and for unknown reasons has been compelled to rearrange our entire house to the point where we can't find our own belongings in our own home. Last week my husband discovered she threw out his comic books and other keepsakes from his childhood. He thought he had hidden them well. I don't know wtf is going on.
My mother-in-law adopted 2 children because she couldn't get pregnant, and then got rid of them once she had "her own" children. This is by far the worst thing she's done, but just one of many reasons we don't speak to her anymore.
Having a MIL from hell is terrible enough, but when, on top of that, you have a partner that don't stand up to her, or worst, side with her... it becomes unlivable.
I’m so thankful my mother in law is normal and although my mom is nosey and can be controlling at times she’s nowhere near this. Just fear when baby arrives later this year that might all change
Wow, I'm lucky to have a nice MIL who I have always got on with, some of this is just disgusting.
I didn't realize it 'till after but my face was sorta stuck like this the entire time Lol: 144-144357...97-png.jpg
What's with the MIL articles? Make one of FILs. Mine ruined a wedding.
I know one horror story about the FIL from hell. DIL got suspicious because he "dropped by to say hi", when he was normally disagreeable to her. After his unusually friendly visit, she searched the house and found the listening device he had installed there.
Load More Replies... I always thought that mh MIL liked me. I dated my partner for four years and lived twonwith him before we registered as a couple. The only comment that she had over that is to tell my partner to "check if she can steal your house if you ever split up". It hurt me so much. I never thought that she saw me as a golddiger that would leave my partner homeless. I havent veen able to trust her since.
Some months ago my partner told her that I am appliying for disability help since I am too ill to go to work. She got angry and told him that "I should focus on getting better and not asking for money". She is a nurse but apparently she is blaming me for not improving in my chronic illneses. I really wonder if she reacts this way because I am a migrant or why does she see me as a lazy woman set on stealing money from people :(
Load More Replies... Why always single out MIL? Father in laws can be horrible too. My father in law is a nightmare and a pain to deal with.
Maybe you can suggest that to Bored Panda at https://www.boredpanda.com/contact-us/ You can also post an article and ask for Father-in-law stories. Click on Add Post to get started.
Load More Replies... MILF is used in other context besides porno.
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