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Did you know that most of us use mind tricks from time to time, even if we are not aware of it? It’s normal and it helps us maneuver through life. Knowing how to properly behave, what to say or simply being able to understand our emotions and ways of acting helps a lot in life. And there’s nothing wrong with that (as long as you don’t use that knowledge for evil purposes).

There are many psychological tips and tricks laying around offering us help to shape our inner psyche. If you can use psychology to your advantage, then why not do so? That’s why we want to share the best psychological insights presented by “Psychology Peers”, an Instagram page spreading knowledge to 118K of its followers.

So, prepare a notebook because, we believe, you’ll find something valuable in here.

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Passerby
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to think that depression is deep sadness. Then I found out that, at least for me, it is actually a lack of joy and pleasure. You barely feel any pleasure from any activity you usually enjoy. Everything is dull and grey. You surprise yourself when you laugh out loud. It is like you are emotionally numb all the time. You don't look forward to anything. You just lie there on your bed, thinking of a lot of things you can do for fun, but end up not doing anything because you couldn't be bothered.

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    Juririn
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can confirm... Discovered that through therapy :)

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    To find out what an expert has to say about these facts and why it is important to learn psychology, Bored Panda reached out to Ronald E. Riggio, a Professor of Leadership and Organizational Psychology at Claremont McKenna College. He is also the author of more than a dozen books and research articles in the areas of leadership, assessment centers, organizational psychology and social psychology.

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    Sar ska
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This includes family members! Even if it’s yo’ mama. If mama is toxic/triggering/detrimental to your wellbeing, then she’s got to go!

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    We first asked the professor why it is important to understand human behavior. R. Riggio explained that the only way we know one another is through our behavior. "We behave in certain ways, and others interpret that and draw conclusions about us — what kind of person we are, whether they want to continue interacting with us, etc. So, we need to better understand our own behavior and how it affects others.

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    It is also critically important to study our own behavior if we are engaging in self-damaging patterns of behavior (e.g., not taking care of ourselves, abusing substances, abusing or using other people for personal gains, the list goes on and on). That is why psychology is such a popular topic and subject of study (psychology is one of the most popular college majors). We all want to understand more about our own, and others', behavior in order to make sense out of our social role and increase our knowledge and effectiveness in life."

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Confidence is not knowing that you'll win. Confidence is knowing that you'll be okay if you don't.

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    OnAFreakingRollercoaster
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do I always want to believe the best of people? And the worst of myself?! 🤯

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    Are you curious about how psychological facts can help us maneuver through life? R. Riggio shared that our perception is inherently biased by our own belief systems, lifetime experiences, and what we have observed. "For example, we are quite protective of our image of ourselves. We like to believe that we are good, smart, and kind and that we possess a host of other positive qualities. We use self-protective biases to help guard our often-fragile egos, and maintain a positive view of ourselves. By studying psychology, we can learn more about these systematic biases and how to not be fooled by them. Psychology helps us to be honest with ourselves: own up to our mistakes. Review and critique our own behavior. Second, we must realize that the situation and our psychological makeup are responsible for our actions and outcomes."

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    Birgit M
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I so wish more people understood this!

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    Isabella
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahh, all the catholics ever - they have to force you into their sky daddy fairytale to not feel like idiots

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    KombatBunni
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did that with my mother, step father and my sister. So much stress gone since then..zero regrets

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    Ronald Riggio is sure that we can become more successful in life by learning about psychology. "We can gain self-insight that can help us to become a better person. In my work in organizational psychology, we use psychological knowledge and methods to make conditions better at work, and by studying and assessing work behavior, we can increase job performance, job satisfaction and engagement of workers, and have huge effects on the organization's functioning and on making organizations better, and more rewarding, places to work."

    If you'd like to learn more about how psychology can benefit your life, check out Riggio's blog posts on Psychology Today here!

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    Helena
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So when people give me crp about being in my 40's and single, I can just tell them it's because I'm too smart? I find this acceptable.

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    Helena
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Come on now, that's not a phobia. That's reality.

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    Hotdogking
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Case in point: MAGA Edit: thanks for the corrections

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    CalicoKitty
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stress is your body assuming you're being stalked by one of those pesky saber-toothed tigers...

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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Take that, parents of toddlers! Listen up, everyone else.

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    KombatBunni
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't make it hurt any less, even if it was the right one :(

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    Arabiata Arabiata
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was caught napping during work-time and explained this to my boss, his response was anything but polite. He wasn't convinced that I was sleeping only for the sake of the company.

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    K. Ayyelos
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The timing! Two volcanoes in Hawaii just erupted!

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    Sar ska
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’d like to see the research study design that supposedly confirmed this correlation.

    Natalie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To grant your wish, here is a study that debunks this correlation quite well: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24821396/

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    nephriter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if you need me i will be in the shower boiling myself alive

    Phill
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Er….right in the nose that one

    LynzCatastrophe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope! I live for my nightly hot baths because its relaxing! I prefer to be left alone from people thank you very much!

    Lorraine
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mmmm... no. Is just cold outside and I have a long routine. During the summer I like my shower colder.

    Haywood Jablome
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm reading this in the tub. The water is scalding, but my tears are cold

    Keri Covington
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not chronically lonely, but I am a loner who gets lonely, and I take my showers as quickly as I can and get out.

    Liv harrison
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I came here to have a good time but now I feel personally attacked

    Kathy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Finally, I have an explanation...

    Stephanie Barr
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do I hate to waste my time in the shower because I have cats?

    Just Jeff
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I need a tankless water heater

    Enlee Jones
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I take boiling hot showers even in the summer time.

    L hill
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Quick showers for me. Conserve water.

    Ghaniyah Verma
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or maybe everything is so cold and it's the middle of f*****g winter and they're used to hot weather.

    Heather
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought I just liked a nice long bath but turns out I'm just a lonely b***h. That checks out.

    Rylee Evergreen🦋
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is totally me, I turn on the water hot as I can stand and then just sit down and think about stuff

    Ash
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone should've told this to my emotionally neglectful parents when they were scolding me for taking long showers....

    Wysteria_Rose
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm tagged in this post and I don't like it.

    Keri Covington
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haywood, if your hand gets wet, your phone is going into the tub. It'll drown.

    Happy Panda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess I am lonely :c Can't really take hot showers though because my bathroom does not have hot water setting so I'm just gonna drench myself in icy cold water. Ah, how cold the world is to me!

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    Mrs Irish Mom
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you dont love yourself, no one else will

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    Sar ska
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This data is skewed because people that tried and failed were still too busy hiding under a blanket in their bed, cringing and kicking the blanket as the thoughts of it all reply in their minds on endless repeat.

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    Firstname Lastname
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That being said, there is something really soothing about a rain storm, but only if I can use it as an excuse to stay under a blanket with a good book all day.

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    Helena
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Higher fish content diets and the constant sound of the ocean drowning out the voices of your enemies. Of course it is better for you.

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    Erdot
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly, I am kinda convinced that people tend to think about others more than of themselves, because thinking about yourself is hard, while judging is easy.

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    CalicoKitty
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Come on, Psychology Peers, you can't just quote Sigmund "Oedipus Complex" Freud and expect us to take it seriously...

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    Kristal
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, that explains doctors' signatures

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    Hotdogking
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have actually noticed that I feel a bit better when I cry my eyes out while listening to my sad song playlist after a long, awful and depressing day

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    ObsidianAce_
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can’t control how others take your words

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    Otter-Popsicle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *Slowly puts seed back* *Walks away* *Waits for 5 min* *Runs back to seed*

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    DC
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love that. Even if the music isn't cheerful, the sheer magnitude of the feelings some simple pressure changes can impose on you is baffling!

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    the shy platypus from nextdoor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me, that's right. Even though I think about my friends every day and I often cry because I don't want them to forget me, I am not able to contact them 😔

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    Hotdogking
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You want a relationship to last, think of your spouse not only as a lover, but as a best friend and teammate. That’s how my parents described it to me. They’ve been happily married for 21 years. I think it’s good advice to live by

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    Helena
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This list keeps trying to tell me I'm smart. I'm not smart. I just have layers of issues like a delicious anxiety cake. With sprinkles.

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    3 Owls In A Coat
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Babies can die if they’re not physically snuggled a little. Makes you wonder what happens to us adults who are lacking hugs and good snuggles.

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    Auntriarch
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't even know there was a word for me

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    Helena
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All of mine are clearly labeled. As they run roughshod over my existence. But at least I know what to call the thing that just mowed me down.

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    Helena
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There aren't enough bananas in the world for this.

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    Marie Dahme
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish my friend Tim would learn this. Sigh. My best friend of over 20 years and has a hard time saying No sometimes…at the expense of his health. And he’s back in Arizona and I’m in Iowa. Damn.

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    Sar ska
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yet it doesn’t make dealing with those other people’s behavior totally ok or not frustrating

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    Ayra
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But helping other before you help yourself is the wrong way!

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    Bored Retsuko
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate this one. Toxic positivity imho. If you're helpless in an unbearable situation, there's not much you can do to improve your response.

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    CalicoKitty
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any kind of stress will weaken your immune system, chronic stress especially so. It also slows healing (for instance, of wounds/bruises, etc.)

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    Mrs Irish Mom
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My singing helps reduce my anxiety but causes my husband and kid to be in bad mood and have earaches 🤷‍♀️

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    Sar ska
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very common in elderly couples who were mates for a long time. If one dies, the other tends to pass soon after for no obvious reason when they were otherwise pretty healthy.

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    CalicoKitty
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, I'm not telling you why I'm dyeing the cat blue. You'll find out when I reach my goal /j

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    Panda Boi
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So that is why all of our group project fail, they are all in love with me!

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    Sar ska
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But it’s not the size of the brain that matters, it’s how you use…never mind.

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    Kristal
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so going to use this excuse if I can't remember an answer in class

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    Auntriarch
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think I'm anything like Frank Zappa though

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    troufaki13
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Attractive people can get away with almost anything.

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    Sar ska
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *symmetrical. They look at more symmetrical faces due to the human ability for facial pattern recognition. Babies don’t have a concept of beauty. *facepalm

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