No matter how many books you read or videos you watch, you will never be fully prepared for raising your kids before you actually have them. Parenting is very much a “you’ll learn while on the job” kind of situation. However, when you’re neck-deep in diapers, with the Baby Shark song on loop in the background, you might find yourself wishing for a helping hand.
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Genetics For Dummies
They are the Tesco brand super-size but don't tell anyone.
Load More Replies...This is excellent. I've tried to explain to my mil a million times how two blue eyes can still have brown eyed baby when mothers side are all brown eyed. Genetic throw backs happen!!
It's a little confusing but eye color is different then say, inheriting red hair. There are only two eye colors: blue (B) and brown (BR). Green, violet, hazel or other colors are just variations of one or the other. To your point, two blue-eyed parents can't have a brown-eyed child because when you have blue eyes you have to have received a blue-eyed gene from both parents (B-B). However, it IS possible for two brown-eyed parents to have a blue-eyed child if both parents contribute a blue gene. To have brown eyes you can either have BR-BR or BR-B because the gene for brown eyes is dominant and masks the blue. So, it's possible for two brown-eyed parents (BR-B and BR-B) to have one child with brown eyes and one with blue!
Load More Replies...Mendel is only rising from his grave to shake your hand. Just make sure his hand doesn’t come off in yours. Please. And try to put him back in the same condition he rose up in, OK? Or at least close t9 the same…
They actually dug him out recently, to sequence his genome and put him back to his Augustinian tomb with the other abbots.
Load More Replies...And this is just factoring in one item! There is much more to heredity than eye color!
Which is why true siblings can have different looks and even different DNA. MY brothers and I are a perfect example. Mom was half Choctaw and half Chickasaw (full blood Native). Father was Cherokee/Welsh by his father and Scots/Irish by his mother. Brother 1. Dark hair, dark skin, blue eyes and maternal fathers (Choctaw) features) Brother 2. Spitting image of mothers Great grandfather Dark hair, dark eyed and dark skin. Me. Baby sister, mothers features, black eyes, medium skin, and Paternal Grandmother's Red hair. (actually a very dark auburn). Genetics are weird.
I feel the need to point out that I made this picture only as a illustration for our genetic genealogy group (without any text, that someone added later) to show how blocks of genome from grandparents and further ancestors can be transferred differently and you may have more of one grandparent than other, for example. And how some of them may even not be detectable anymore (at least in shared segment context og genetic genealogy). It was not intended to be an universal guide to genetics, as you may see many people do confuse it with a genotype/phenotype rules for traits or anything else. I would't want this to be circulating without the context, but you cannot control your meme once it goes viral ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting: every family's situation is unique. However, there are some common features of good parenting. Among them are important things like transparency, unconditional support, and proper communication.
Essentially, you want your child to understand why you're asking something of them and why it's important. Whether that's brushing their teeth or doing their homework on time. You want to include them in the conversation, instead of making them feel like they're left out. The more clarity you provide around the rules that you set, the better.
The Plural Of Fish
Another intresting but useless fact that will lower my chances at a party. Well Unless I am in a party full of marin biologist.
Plot twist: San is really George Costanza who will pretend to be a marine biologist with this fact at the next marine biologist party.
Load More Replies...*shoves glasses back up bridge of nose* ACtually, fishes is also a verb
This Is What 10cm Dilated Actually Looks Like
PS: ...and I'm so glad I had an (emergency) c-section instead.
Load More Replies...They should have something showing this in ever Ob/Gyn office and waiting room so the Dads can see it too.
They should show this in every high school classroom, as well.
Load More Replies...Men just have no idea—-and they would die if it they were the ones giving birth and dilating like this. No wonder so many “manly men” faint dead away watching their wives give birth.
Mend would probably get a year off of work too......
Load More Replies...Most parents have access to the internet, as well as all of those new and fancy AI chatbots that everyone keeps talking about. However, when you’re exhausted and pressed for time, having a handy and trustworthy chart you can reference is far easier than conducting thorough independent research.
While there will always be subtle nuances and the need to update relevant information, the graphics presented here definitely work as general guidelines. They can get parents up to speed on the most relevant info, from how many diapers they can expect to change per day to what to look out for in their baby’s poop.
As A Kid Getting Lost In The Mall Or Amusement Parks Is No Fun
Stay put. Very important. Just this last weekend my mom took a bunch of grandkids downtown. Getting off Trax (light rail system) my mom wasn't quick enough enough getting off and they were all separated for a bit. Luckily the oldest is 14 and has a phone so mom was able to call, telling them to stay put. Each stop is only a few blocks away so it wasn't long before meeting back up. But they were all traumatized enough that the rest of the weekend they didn't enter/exit anything with an automatic door that one of them didn't block it from closing. All good now.
This is all a pretty good advice but nowadays it wouldnt be surprising to give even a pre-school child a mobile phone or even better .. some sort of lte smartwatch made for kids. Of course these things can fail ( unable to carry and not lose a phone .. unable to answer calls on watch .. most of them still allow to request the location remotely, keep wearing and charging it etc .. yes probably the parent would have to check that daily ) but its another possible step. I think actually slipping an AirTag onto a child (as a parent ofc ) is a valid tactic. Not sure if a normal one or a silenced one would be better. If it beeps and an adult is there to read the airtags info via NFC its a plus .. if the child ends up throwing away the airtag they found .. a silent one might be better.
Why just find a "Mom with kids?" - that's sexist and leaves out other capable of helpful adults to protect the child and look for his/her parent/s. Sheesh.
In stores, go to a 'pay lady'. Always equip children with a metal referee whistle around their neck and teach them how to blow SOS. The whistle is very important in the woods because it will draw help and scare wild animals.
Speaking To Children, And Honestly Adults
When my firstborn was a toddler my mother gave some great advice. Phrase what you're saying in the positive, not the negative. "Stay on the footpath" tells a child what you want them to do instead of "Don't go on the road". More importantly, in some situations like this example, there's a huge difference in understanding if a child takes a moment to tune into what mum is saying. If the child doesn't hear "Stay" at least they'll hear the word "footpath", but not hearing "Don't" (and most likely they've blocked that word out as it's one they are always hearing) leaves you with "go on the road". As I said, a huge difference!! I had to practice it and now it's easy to do. My children are way beyond this stage, but I use the same method at the school where I work, telling young students "walk in the hallway" instead of "Don't run"!
Yep. Telling them what TO do really narrows it down and makes the direction easier to follow. Telling them what NOT to do just leaves too many other possibilities of things TO do, and kids will explore them ALL, believe me.
Load More Replies...I use the 'what questions do you have?' all the time with my nephew. Not that he needs it, he is very curious and always asking questions.
When my mom taught high school English and someone was swearing for obvious attempted shock value she asked them to write the same sentence they just said ten different ways, same intensity, using words that don't include swears. She also accepted it when one student said that she could make it softer, but swears were still appropriate.
I think a stern "We don't talk like that," is far superior to just requesting of the child "Please use kind words" (oh pretty please little one, if you feel like it, if you don't mind, please use kind words - unless you don't want to). You don't have to be mean, but you can be firm.
But children need to learn how to interact with others who don't spare their feelings as well
Apparently having solid self esteem allows for better tolerance of and resilience from such interactions with others, though, and parents not being a good caretaker of their children's feelings isn't supposed to be great for that development of self esteem.
Load More Replies...Er Nurse Here! Here's A Simple Guide On Cpr Technique For Infants, Children, And Adults
During a first aid class, I was taught to shove a hand into the persons armpit and then direct this hand to the middle of the chest at that height. Putting hands between nipples really only works if it's a man of average posture. As soon as it's a woman or someone with extra weight, nipples can be too low or not on the right level. But that's just what I was told.
Yeah, this “using the nipples to measure” business is actually kinda misogynist - treating men as the “standard” from which everyone else deviates. I’m a nurse, and my training is “hand/fingers in lower half of the sternum”
Load More Replies...Feel along the breastbone (sternum). Compressions should be on the lower third of it. Compressions need to be 1/3 the depth of the chest. If you break ribs that can be fixed. Doing the Compressions properly is more likely to preserve life than being too scared to break ribs. DO NOT BEND ELBOWS LIKE YOU SEE ON TV. Proper CPR is a bit brutal. Also, you need to bring the jaw forward to open the airway.
Haven’t broken anyone’s ribs yet, but you can be sure it’s gonna feel like I did when you recover.
Load More Replies...And to keep that rhythm, start singing "Stayin' Alive" by the BeeGees
Ironically, "Another One Bites the Dust" by Queen will also work.
Load More Replies...Well, I"m doomed. My nipples are no longer in the place they used to be.
You’re consider an adolescent and get treated like an adult (unless you’re under 50lbs according to American Red Cross).
Load More Replies...They don't teach compressions on female gendered mannequins, which is resulting in a fear of "touching" a real female and getting sued, which is resulting in MORE females dying due to not getting help from bystanders. This is the same for Paramedics and other professionals. The mannequins need to have breasts that "flop" like real ones to teach people that experience, to get them past that fear so they can really make a difference and improve outcomes.
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What To Do If A Child Discloses Sexual Abuse
Better than the "good old days" when incest was rampant because nobody was willing to listen.
Load More Replies...Showing touches on a doll helps if a child can't express it in words.
The Cousin Explainer
If someone from Alabama is reading this please take a note of it and follow it.
I could have used something like this. For much of my life I thought the parent of any type of cousin was an aunt/uncle. So for a long time I was calling the parents of my first cousins once removed aunt/uncle. Nobody corrected me. Well, until the one, a local country singer, performed at our school and I announced to all, very proudly, "He's my uncle".
This chart only works in England or US. If i call my relative you are once removed he may get offended.
What is the name of my parent's brother's wife's (my aunt but by marrige) mother?
How do I know the difference between the first cousin twice removed and the first cousin twice removed? 🤔
Well one’s 50 years older than you, while the other is 50 years younger.
Load More Replies...What does "once/twice removed" mean? (I'm not a native English speaker)
How Infant Views The World
So basically when I take my glasses off I'm 6 months old. And people out there are buying expensive anti-aging creams, the fools!
I don’t think this is accurate. Newborns have better vision than we thought; they can see sharply up to about 8 inches from their face (ie they can see the face of whoever is holding them)
How did we figure this out. Did some scientist cut open a baby's eye to examine it? The horrorrrrr
I’m sitting at 3 months old I guess. Realized the other day that I can’t put my makeup on in the bathroom anymore cause the distance between me and the mirror, with a sink and counter in the way, is too blurry for me to apply my makeup well. I don’t know how I would function if I didn’t have my glasses. When the end of the world happens I hope that if I survive that my glasses survived with me.
How did they get the babies to tell them what they saw?
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Simple Reminder When Walking Pets Or Barefoot Kids
This would be more useful in a sensible temperature scale. 115F could be anything to 95% of the world.
*cIears throat* aIthough I'm British, I think we can see they are aII reaIIy hot
Load More Replies..."How does this very specific thing not also apply to me and my situation?! WAAAAAHH" - always someone in the comments. Not everything has to pertain to you, FFS.
I’m in Australia and always laugh when I read a label on a cosmetic product saying ‘Store under 24c’. Even the ‘Store under 30c’ provokes a chuckle.
How To Recognize Various Bug Bites
Beware the tick one. It doesn't always present with the bullseye rash!
I know this because it gave me Lyme disease, which gave me Bell's palsy for a bit. With no sign!
Load More Replies...Also try adding a picture of the same in people of color, Cause that s**t is different.
The bed bug bites are similar to mosquito ones before being scratched to blood like in the picture. The important thing is that they often are very numerous and appear in lines.
Good luck with checking every mosquito bite with the doctor, especially if you live in humid area.
Load More Replies...Where are the chiggers? The bed bug looks like a stink bug to me. It's incorrect.
Modelling Disagreement For Children
I love this chart! It prevents kids from feeling fear and helps them to understand how to disagree without yelling. Also, there's an even amount of types of parents. Two double mothers, two double Father, two mothers and fathers. It makes my little heart happy
I was just about to comment that there were gay couples!
Load More Replies...Then there's me "your dad is annoying" - but it's very much said in jest and we very very rarely fight let alone in a way the kids notice - we all just jokingly make fun of each other - our kids are safe in the knowledge they can say anything to us and they won't be shouted down for any reason - sure they'll be told if they take it too far but being able to joke with each other and still feel completely secure works for us as a family
So when a child hears mom/dad call each other by the only name the child knows them as, it's sexist? It's only passive aggressive if the parents talk to each other like this. Otherwise this is just an explanation of the situation without showing any more aggression or disagreement they already witnessed.
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Why Children Need To Read Every Night
We read to our daughter every night. She refuses to go to bed without reading first and we've been doing this since she was a baby and now she's 4.5 yo. She speaks like a grownup and uses big words. It's pretty amusing talking to her sometimes because it's like talking to an old lady trapped in a little kid's body.
Same here and I can confirm that at 10+ the child is superb in language, presenting her arguements, writing/reading and structured arguments. There is a real link between reading as early as before a year old to the child being engaged in reading.
Load More Replies...And that can be figured out only when he is asked to read.
Load More Replies...When I was a child in the 60's, I was in a class where the teacher read to us everyday after lunch. Today, I always have book within reach and I'm reading a often as I can even on the Internet.
Turn subtitles on your TV cartoons and the mute it. Boom! An extra couple hours of reading a day. You’re welcome. -Super mom
...part of the problem, not part of the solution. and so perky about it, gosh..
Load More Replies...The same theory applies to children being late for school. You think 5, 15 or 45 minutes doesn't matter? It adds up to so much learning time lost in one year, let alone over the course of their schooling.
HS Teacher here. Those first few minutes are when I explain what we're doing today, WHY we're doing it, and deadlines. The kids who arrive late only see what we're doing from their classmates. They miss the context, they missed the due dates. My late students are most in danger of failing my classes. Lateness makes a huge difference.
Load More Replies...A love of reading is one of the greatest gifts a child could ever receive
I would expect the child who reads more to be better at reading. For level of knowledge it really isn’t as clear; people have different ways of learning, but if we only talk about knowledge gained from reading then, surely, that depends on what is being read. Someone spending time reading fiction will be just as knowledgeable about what they’ve been reading but it’s not necessarily knowledge about real-world things. Someone spending the same amount of time reading a lot of non-fiction is going to gain more real-world knowledge but will have an equal level of knowledge about what they’ve been reading, assuming both have the same capacity for learning and remembering. In theory the child spending longer reading will be able to write in a greater variety of styles and will have a better knowledge of syntax and vocabulary, but it really depends on what they’ve been reading, e.g. are they reading a wide variety of literary styles? There’s no way to predict which will be most successful
In spite or despite our house being full of gamers, BOTH of our boys was "Word Millionaires" in their school. We installed a love of reading from the very start of their lives.......Edit...."Word Millionaire" means the child has read over a million words that year....mostly from the schools' library
My Body Safety Rules: How To Talk To Your Kids About Safe Touching
"I always call my private parts by their correct names" - which is why here we've used the euphemism "private parts" *facepalm*.
Super important and my favourite example is: if you teach your daughter to call it her cookie. No red flags are raised when she tells someone safe she trusts (like a teacher) that an adult touched her cookie.
Hoohaw, on the other hand is the best way to go. 😉 Adding I would also advise against cherry muffin 😉
Load More Replies...My siblings all do this with my neices and nephews and it's great. I love how confident they are when saying no to adults, something me and my siblings were never allowed to do as kids. My parents really struggled to understand these concepts in the beginning and still occasionally grumble about it, especially when it comes to calling genitals by their real names. (My stepmum especially hates that they say vulva and Penis) They also really struggle with the concept of kids having bodily autonomy and the fact that kids get to say no to hugs or say they don't want to be touched. (They regularly forced us to hug and kiss family members and family friends when we were young even when we hated it and were clearly uncomfortable.) My stepmum gets upset because some of her grandkids refuse to hug her, she takes it really personally which is why she doesn't get to see most of her grandkids often, (we don't want the kids to be guilt tripped into doing something they're uncomfortable with.)
What To Say To Kids Instead Of “Be Careful!”
Basically, focus on the senses: sight, sound, smell, touch, taste.
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Raise A Body Positive Kid
I might get downvoted to infinity. I believe Disney princesses movies and Barbie have crippled a whole generation of women on this area. They are trying to improve lately, but the damage before the 2000s is already done.
I've heard of way more girls getting affected by celebrities than dolls and animated characters
Load More Replies...So their advice to raise a body positive child is to ignore their appearance and body? I get shifting focus from JUST their appearance to include their other amazing attributes but how would they gain confidence in their appearance when it's shunned? That's like saying to avoid teen pregnancy don't talk about sex... that's clearly the wrong path. Body positivity is accepting your body not pretending it doesn't exist.
It says focus on health & wellness and Exercise right there.
Load More Replies...Or just go with the left column like my mom and raise a dysmorphic kid
Pretty dismissive of all the work and study that has been done in the field of psychology.
Load More Replies...15 Life Skills For Kids Before Leaving Home
Maybe number 14 is not a life skill before leaving home but it should be encourager or taught, Never know when it will come in handy. I was self taught so I can swim.
It is a life skill. In my country every child learns how to swim at around 6/7 years old. Teaching them how to swim can save their life!
Load More Replies...Drive safely is not needed everywhere. I never learned to drive (motor skill issues) and I just hope that my bus driver has their license. 😉
13 & 14 are so specific... As for the 'scientists' citing drowning statistics, we should remember how most people who can't swim won't go and hop in the middle of the Amazon, they will stay on the shore. It's usually the opposite: many people who are confident in their swimming will downplay the dangers of currents, rocks etc. that could kill the best swimmer. The few who can't swim and yet jump into dangerous waters have a problem with decision making, not physical abilities; they could learn to swim and they would either go in those waters again, or find another dumb, deadly thing to do.
Uh oh...better move back in with my parents ... although I don't know a lot of these because of them...scratches head...
Baby Feeding Cues
These are only guidelines and every child is different! Get to know each child's signs and needs. When any of my younger siblings or children fussed and turned red, they had pooped and were not hungry, just needed a change!
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A Cool Guide On Common Type Of Bites Problems In Children
I have the second and the fourth problem, but I am unique and have hypodontia. And really great roots on my baby teeth that will never leave. And a grinding problem in the past so I'll need a crown on my top baby tooth with an extremely impressive root structure. I'm 18 and it is still really damn strong.
Load More Replies...Problem, okay I'm going to need someone to explain what the issues are with every type pictured here... Some are more obvious some less...
My dentist called the "excessive spacing" the Ugly Duckling syndrome. He said that my child would have the best teeth without needing braces when his adult teeth came in. And it was true.
Just A Reminder Of This Cool Trick
I just use the rhyme, 30 days has September, April June & November. All the rest have 31 except February.
I learned that when I was 5, except I learned it a bit different. 30 days hath September, April, June and November. All the rest have 31, except February alone which has 4 and 24 'til leap year gives it one day more.
Load More Replies......which I learned of at the ripe age of 25. Why did they skip this in my kindergarten/school? It's so helpful.
I feel ripped off not knowing this till I was about the same as you. I can't not use it now, however. Still can't remember the poem.
Load More Replies...I just use the rhyme, "30 days has September, April, June and November." ("All the rest have 31, except February, which has 28" doesn't rhyme, but listing the 30-day months you can kind of extrapolate from there)
We use it in Italy too, and it actually rhymes! (Trenta dì conta novembre con april, giugno e settembre; di ventotto ce n'è uno, tutti gli altri ne han trentuno)
Load More Replies...in Italy we say: 30 giorni a novembre, con april, giugno e settembre, di 28 ce n'è uno, tutti gli altri fan 31!
One of my first grade students taught this to me years ago, I've used it and taught it since then. I always give credit to one who taught me.
9 Things To Say To Your Anxious Child
As a former anxious child, stop being so f*****g persnickety. If my parents had done those things, my childhood would have been much better.
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Abusive Behaviours Of Narcissistic Parents
What about "belittling the child's achievements?" "Making the child the butt of ' just kidding' moments?"
This is what I suffered - primarily from Mom and even from my grandmother. Also, belittling what books/movies/TV shows/etc. the child likes.
Load More Replies...Yeah, every adult in my family did most of these when I was growing up, it's how they were raised so they thought it was normal. Then they wonder why all their kids grew up struggling with mental health issues, riddled with anxiety and self doubt. So glad people are learning and trying to break that cycle of abuse.
That's my ex husband covered, I spent a lot of time undoing what he did on my daughter's fortnightly visits to him, luckily she's now seen through his bull and ignores him
9 Parenting Practices From Around The World
I have NEVER heard of overnight trips for nursery age children here? Where does that come from? The kindergarten offered a one-night-sleepover for the kids who were going to first grade after the summer, but that was inside the kindergarten and very much optional. No one "packs off" their children anywhere. If anything we have more cases of parents wanting to come along on class trips.
Well - I know some kindergartens which go on a forest-camp with their soon-to-be-schoolkids but it was one night and as you said, optional, and there were a lot of adults with the kids to watch them. I wouldn't call that "nursery-age", though. In my opinion, nursery implies toddlers. Which adult would want to spend a weekend with a bunch of crying toddlers who want their parents in the middle of the night? Not to mention all the diaper-changes! *shudder*
Load More Replies...If that village in Kenya (I assume it's a village since the name is unknown to me) is really avoiding eye contact, that is just as bad as totally ignoring the baby. Sure it gets fed and so on, but eye contact between humans (much LESS mother and child) is a huge bonding thing and an emotional growth NEED.
Korean kids definitely snack, haha. My students brought snacks every day - and rarely were they healthy.
I guess Kenyans don't know that babies can't see their eyes anyways.
Polynesian islands I agree with to a point but it depends on wether there is one older child having to be a mother to a lot of younger ones or a lot of older children helping the young ones because the older children need to have a childhood too. Germany and Kenya I don't agree with
The Germany one isn't a thing in Germany, I have no idea where they got it from.
Load More Replies...The only one I don't understand is Japan. How can sharing a bed instill confidence? Surely it does the opposite.
No, it doesn't. Fulfilled needs go away. My Kids slept with me until they were 6-8 years old, and they are the most Independent kids around
Load More Replies...Guide To Parental Leave Around The World
Yet the country that offers the most, somehow isn't on the list. Romania has a BASE of two years, or to use the scale of the post, 104 weeks. But....that can be extended to 156 weeks in some circumstances. All of it paid, with the minimum amount being equivalent to the minimum wage, but they base the pay scale on the average monthly income over the past 12 months, paying out 80% of up to 10,000 euros per month. And it can be used by EITHER PARENT.
Silly person, we both know that eastern europe isn't real /s
Load More Replies...I think I've been on BP long enough it isn't a surprise.
Load More Replies...United Kingdom is wrong. Maternity leave is 39 weeks (6 weeks at full pay and the remainder at 90% or statutory rate). Also wrong for paternity leave - SPP is two weeks, but the mother's leave can be shared with the father. I'm wondering how old this chart is.
Yeah, the data isn't right or has been rebased somehow for comparability. Goes for at least six countries I know of.
Load More Replies...This is not right at all. In canada, I can't find any source that says the same number but I think it's 35 weeks or over. It can also be shared between mother and father. I searched more and apparently if you are a federal employee you have a year of payed parental leave. It also depends on provinces. In Québec l, you can either have 6 months at a higher rate or a year paid lower.
Yes, 15 weeks maternity leave for the birth parent, followed by up to 61 weeks of parental leave that can be split between either parent. So up to to 76 weeks! This chart is very incorrect.
Load More Replies...Poland data is wrong. You can get overall 61 weeks, that is maternity leave and parental leave, which you can take right after the maternity one, combined.
Croatia is also wrong, you can have up to 52 weeks paid maternity leave + 8 more weeks for father + obligatory 4-6 weeks before birth.
Load More Replies...This list is not up to date for Aus and NZ. Also, leave can be used for either mother or father.
In the Netherlands it's now max 5 weeks for dads since 2020 I believe, but it depends on the employer.
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Teaching Kids About Money
Teach How to write checks in Spain would be like teaching how to use a fax machine.
Same in Australia. Good luck finding anywhere that will still accept a cheque
Load More Replies...They're missing something, parents should also teach their kids how to give their gold to monks living in fortified monasteries so pillagers can't steal it.
Load More Replies...There's no point in teaching a teenager how to write a check. They will (maybe) write one or two in their whole lifetime. Checks are outdated.
Ah, since school obviously isn't fully booked out with teaching the kids how to count, read, history, sciences, geography, biology, creativity, social norms, internet-safety and understanding, how to read a clock, languages and basic sport-abilities, they definitely need to also teach this. I don't know - from how I see it, parents should just pop out the child and give it away to a school and then get it back fully formed at age 18. (in case it gets misunderstood: there's sarcasm involved in my post)
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Keep Ya Kids Safe
Unfortunately it does happen unintentionally more often than you would think, especially when parents change their usual routine and/or are sleep deprived. A sleeping infant or toddler in the back seat, in a rear-facing carseat, at a time and place when they wouldn't usually be in the car with you? We do so much by habit and routine. There are tricks parents use (leave an item in the empty carseat that you have on your person while driving, so you have to think about putting it back) and now technologies to try to prevent these tragedies.
Load More Replies...If you leave your child or your dog in a hot car you are a complete idiot and you should have your "human being" license revoked.
Always leave the window cracked open 10mm to prevent overheating unless there is no living thing in the vehicle.
Meanwhile, the founder had some awesome advice for anyone who wants to post on r/coolguides in the figure. "Go for it! We do try to maintain some content diversity, so don't upload all ten of your favorite ab workout guides at once. If you have the source, be a buddy and list that too in the comments or title to give credit where it's due!"
Baby Teeth Timeline
Both my kids' teething signs began at three months. By seven months they started teething one, sometimes two teeth per month. They fussed a bit, but thank God they didn't get feverish much or anything else.
My son didn't get his first set of teeth until he was 18 months old. That was a very long weekend.
How Your Eye Color Can Help Predict Your Baby's Eyes
My mum has one green eye, one brown, dad's are blue, mine blue with a brown central halo, heterochromia is fun.
This is a complete oversimplification of human genetics. We now know that two brown-eyed parents can have a blue-eyed child. Since eye color is determined by more than one gene(as are many human traits) and how those genes interact with each other it's never this simple. https://udel.edu/~mcdonald/mytheyecolor.html
This doesn't take into account grandparents nor dominant genes. Brown eye gene expression from a set of parents where one has green or blue eyes and the other brown is different from brown eyes where both parents have brown eyes.
According to this list we have birthed a miracle baby. My husband has brown eyes, I have blue and our son has green eyes. Guess it depends on the shades of blue and brown…
What about hazel?? There is so much more to it, go back to genetics in #1. Mum has brown, dad has blue, 2 brothers brown then me with hazel.
My parents both have blue eyes, although my mam has central heterochromia which is light brown. My eyes are green with light brown central heterochromia and dark grey outer edges, and are almost the same as my dad’s mam’s eye colour
Ways To Support Kids Working On Something Tricky
Which of these parenting guides and charts did you find the most useful, Pandas? Were there any tips and pieces of info that were completely new to you? What’s the most important advice that you’d give new parents? Scroll down to the bottom of this post and share your thoughts in the comment section!
The Color Of Baby Poop And What It Means
"Baby's first stool" sounds like a really lousy page in the baby book.
I hope they don't add it to the range of babies first curl and babies first tooth boxes!
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I was bitten by an Alsatian once. It ran up behind me. No warning. Had not even seen it. Totally out of the blue.
How A Child May Describe A Reaction To A Food Allergen
Baby Shoe Sizes: What You Need To Know
It's much easier if you use the original, proper unit of foot size, viz., the barleycorn. Zero to three months would be ten barleycorns. Three to six months, eleven barleycorns. It works out to three barleycorns per inch or, in metric, 8.5 mm per barleycorn.
My daughter is almost four. She now wears size 25. Yes, she also wears clothes for smaller children, but thankfully she is growing healthy and strong, just in the short side. So is my son.
How To Talk With Your Child
I Made A Guide Showing At Which Ages English-Speaking Children Learn Consonantal Sounds
guys can you not understand written sarcasm?!? please upvote the person underneath me so they won't get banned.
A Guide For Parents: How To Keep Your Sanity And A Clean Car Travelling With Kids
my tip is to take a train, then you can play bored games and enjoy the view too. also less traffic.
How To Raise Confidence Levels In Teenagers (For Parents)!
A tip I read somewhere on how to approach older teens (age 15-19): they are basically adults with extremely little life experience (if the parents/carers did a good job). So approach them like adults, but be prepared to explain things that are normal to older people.
Check Your Kids' Sacks That They Only Contain Snacks. Happy Halloween!
True. This also helps if your precious bag of candy and grandma's pill box sorter both fall over and they mix together. Is this grandma's aspirin for her heart, or is this a skittle?
Load More Replies...Who gives loose little sweets away like this? Surely they would be in a packet? And anyway, who wants to waste their medicine on a kid for no reason
Hang on... where are the trans and gay pills in this? They've been omitted! It's the work of the devil!!! /s
How To Dress Your Baby For Sleep
What Are The Most Common Blood Types Of A Child From Any Two Parents?
Free Sites With Kids Study Material
Yeah, cool math games is about as educational as a kangaroo on a slice of cheese
Prodigy saved my life and sanity during lockdowns. They’re great for building basic skills and engaging kids who don’t enjoy math, and also for parents who don’t understand “new math”, or parents who understand math but can’t teach it. My youngest is two years ahead in math, because I had to work remotely during COVID just let him play prodigy as long as he wanted
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The day we learned the heimlich in school, that night, putting my niece to bed, I didn't know she had a penny in her mouth and she started choking. I immediately did the pump version appropriate to her age and quickly got it out. Made the entire nursing tuition worth it for just that. Eerie how it's like it was meant to be.
For All The New Parents Out There
Teaching Kids Problem Solving Skills According To Age
How To Talk So Kids Will Listen And How To Listen So Kids Will Talk
Useful Guide For Making Schedules For Kids With Autism
Child-Friendly World Classification
Likelihood Of Having Twins
My aunt is quite short and lean , and the twin gene runs in her husband's family.
If the chart is correct, it does say the family of THE father has no affect. (As opposed to the same section saying YOUR mother, so I assume it would mean your aunt's husband).
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How To Engage With Kids
10 Ways To Build Relationships With Kids
Let Your Child Do The Work!!
7 Tips For Parents To Protect Their Children Online
How To Support Your Child's Mental Health
Child Neglect Types And Signs
7 Ways To Encourage Your Child To Try New Things
How Do I Know If My Child Needs A Tutor?
I’m sorry-a kid would need a tutor if they excel academically and is far ahead of their peers?
Maybe so that they don't get bored in school and then stop participating and falling behind or so that they can be challenged individually. Edit: Spelling
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The Ultimate Guide To Praising Your Kids
Public Speaking Guide For Kids And Student
This makes me sad, because these are all the things my dad could've said to me growing up. I wish he would've listened to me and tried to understand me. He didn't know how to raise two girls and kept trying to treat me and my sister like we were r******d or something. Sending you other Pandas lots of love, I'm sure some of you guys understand ❤️
Too many things for me to remember and say just right. Remember folks, a parent only has to be "good enough" to raise a healthy child. If this helps you, great. But don't get bogged down in the lie of perfect parenting. You'll give yourself an ulcer and end up with a neurotic kid.
My son is grown up now but these ideas are great for everyone who is ever around children of any age. There were so many things we didn't know when we were raising our own that makes so much sense. Thank you.
This makes me sad, because these are all the things my dad could've said to me growing up. I wish he would've listened to me and tried to understand me. He didn't know how to raise two girls and kept trying to treat me and my sister like we were r******d or something. Sending you other Pandas lots of love, I'm sure some of you guys understand ❤️
Too many things for me to remember and say just right. Remember folks, a parent only has to be "good enough" to raise a healthy child. If this helps you, great. But don't get bogged down in the lie of perfect parenting. You'll give yourself an ulcer and end up with a neurotic kid.
My son is grown up now but these ideas are great for everyone who is ever around children of any age. There were so many things we didn't know when we were raising our own that makes so much sense. Thank you.
