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Article created by: Mantas Kačerauskas

When a man hesitates to hug male friends in public or sweats at the mere thought of carrying a female friend’s purse for her, it makes you wonder how come this is such a big deal. But while we all bear different perspectives on the world around us, some of these unexplainable behaviors can reveal a way bigger picture.

People say it has to do with some men being insecure about their masculinity. How come? Well, it’s the fear of losing one's status as a “real man” in other people’s eyes, which makes the guy think he would be looked at as tenuous. There’s an old-fashioned belief that a man has to earn his status through proof of action, or a test of some sort, that makes him the man he really is. And although many men are aware of the fact that this is not how gender works, some still follow this ancient notion of manhood.

So when a TikToker @richtiktoxic asked people “What is something that men do that lets you know their insecure about their masculinity?” his video went viral with 1.1M views. “I’ll go first. As soon as a man refers to himself as an alpha, you know he’s insecure,” said Rich and passed the baton onto other people on social media who had a lot to say on the topic.

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    Bacon Tentacles
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That has got to be one of the dumbest things I have ever read on this site. "Let me spend your money for you, babe." What an absolute t**t.

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    Bacon Tentacles
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Well, I can see that total ain't gonna go up with you around."

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    Bacon Tentacles
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Real men don't do X." "Listen up, precious. A true Real Man does whatever he d**n well pleases."

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    Bacon Tentacles
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    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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