At this point, is there such a thing as a perfectly executed wedding? Sure, there’s the perfect wedding within the minds and aspirations of brides (and some grooms). But once the plan is put into motion, does it turn out perfect?
The answer is no (or it depends, but it’s ultimately still a no). Nothing’s perfect. And judging by the stories circulating online, it’s probably not gonna get any better any time soon.
You can see for yourself by reading on, but Reddit’s r/weddingshaming community has ample reason to believe that weddings just don’t come in the perfect variety. And that’s fine. The key here is to brace for impact and make the best of it because you can still have a blast. Also, humor helps.
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A Guest Filled 7 Tupperware Containers With Food From The Wedding Reception And Gave The Couple 5 USD As A Gift
Oh MAN I would have been SO PISSED no one stopped her. I would have had her charged with theft. Greedy a*****e
4 Weddings And A Cat Party
The more I read this, the larger the group of cats becomes in my mind 😅
Seen On Socials… I Can’t Believe How Entitled People Can Be! Sorry If Already Posted
For a little bit of context, r/weddingshaming is a dedicated subreddit that’s all about shaming wedding themes, brides and grooms, wedding parties, in-laws (and outlaws), guests, vendors, and everyone in-between.
The community is home to over 584,000 members who feel no shame in shaming that which is shame-worthy. It’s important to note that this sub isn’t for asking for advice or judgment calls, so be warned.
Kid Wants To Dress Up As A Lion To Their Wedding. Also Told To Change Their Centrepieces As Kid Doesn’t Like Balloons. Kid Is Op’s Mother’s Best Friend’s Child
With Friends Like These Who Needs Enemies
What a horrible, jealous friend. Tried to destroy your wedding and entire relationship in one go and something bad could have happened to you
Inviting 20 Extra People To A Wedding
Much of the subreddit’s content revolves around a number of main topics that can mostly be categorized under entitlement and family drama. Most days, it’s people disregarding certain dress code taboos, guests getting out of line, or mothers-in-law doing their thing. Other themes include alcohol, cringe, greed, and, of course, memes and satire.
She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous.... Except She’s Not The Bride
Selfish Guests To A Bride With Cancer
"I decline. I would do so respectfully, but as you've made it clear your airfare is more of a priority than my having cancer, I do so gleefully instead. I hope you stub your toe in perpetuity."
Post this message on your facebook page and watch the sparks fly. If anyone has the gall to try to justify this on facebook they're going to get a very rude shock.
Load More Replies...Use the tickets to visit the poor bride who has to cancel her wedding because freaking cancer, selfish cucks!!
I would have taken this chance for a visit to OP or a short vacation if I am not as close. OP's going to need the money for the cancer treatment to save their life. I just feels wrong to ask someone in that kind of situation to refund airline tickets.
I would reply "I am trying to rid myself of several types of cancer. Apparently, you are one of them."
I haven’t been flying in a while, but isn’t it possible to move flights up too? And if not, while I can imagine travelling somewhere that involves flying might not be easy or cheap, I still cannot imagine going “sorry to hear you had to postpone your wedding because you have cancer. But I do want reimbursing for my cancelled flight”.
Some flights don't have refunds or reimbursement if you don't pay extra when you but the tickets. But you should ALWAYS buy the insurance or whatever the airline calls it. It better than losing hundreds of dollars.
Load More Replies...I would be more than happy to provide some kind of blanket email explanation of anyone needs to show it to a boss, a hotel, an airline, etc to back up their attempts at changing their reservations. I know the travel industry can be an immovable object at times, so am happy to help, but will not be up to doing so on an individual basis, so do not bombard me with emailed, texted, or called in requests to talk to the airline, hotel, or boss for you. You’re an adult, you got this. I am a cancer patient, I need to rest.
Surely that's what holiday insurance is for? Even if I fly or even get the train long distances in the UK (more than 60 minutes from my house on high speed trains) I take out the insurance. Served me well as the train one for the train from my home to london is £2 but to drive would take 4+ hours depending on traffic. One night the trains all got cancelled due to flooding, everyone was stranded and yet my £2 insurance got me a hotel for the night and train tickets home the next day. Not everyone could find/ afford a hotel and it would have taken hours for my parents to drive to collect me and then drive us to our homes. If I'm flying internally in the USA (guessing this is there) I am taking out insurance, seen enough shows to see people stranded or stuck with cancellations alone!
Block them, and don't invite them to the future wedding. (hoping OP kicks cancers butt!)
It is sad that they don't need those booked flight to come to a wedding, but this is what the insurance companies would call Force Majeure.
If they care enough to come to your wedding, they should care enough to be offering you money for cancer treatment rather than requesting it for themselves. Good luck with chemo and enjoy your later wedding with a shorter guest list.
If the bridal couple has a new date picked, the invitees shouldn't have to "cancel" their flights, just postpone them to the new date. Kinda sounds like the ones expecting to be reimbursed didn't really want to attend in the first place, and this way they get to whine about how "selfish" the bridal couple are for refusing to "reimburse" the cost of the tickets.
Flights are expensive. If they've paid $1000 for plane tickets, it's understandable that they'd like to be reimbursed.
I'm sure the bride would like to NOT have cancer, too, but we don't all get what we like, do we?
Load More Replies...The Audacity Of This Wedding Guest And Their Mum! Plan Your Own Special Moment, Cheapskates!
So, why are weddings so difficult to pull off? Same reason why there’s a law of sorts in engineering that dictates the more moving parts you have in a machine, the more likely it is to break. Sure, weddings can range from simple to over-elaborate depending on the imagination of the newlyweds-to-be. But even the basics require a lot of time, energy, and, you guessed it, money.
Wow.. Just Wow
"I Just Thought Your Wedding Was The Perfect Place For My Child's Birthday Party"
You haven't seen them because they are the family members that mean absolutely nothing...2nd andv3rd cousins you see sometimes at random gatherings and barely know by name. The audacity is insane
Motb In White! It Literally Looks Like A Double Wedding To Me
Weddings are so problematic that there’s this thing called wedding stress. Just think about it: creating guest lists, finding venues, sending invites, coordinating with vendors, managing budgets, creating your looks, organizing a wedding party, deciding on seating, planning a honeymoon and a million billion other things—can it be anything other than stressful at this point?
Idk How I Would Even Respond To This
"men and girls" Ugh, personal pet peeve is calling women girls. Blech.
What Was The Tought Process Behind This
From Casual UK, An Interesting End To The Night!
Wedding stress involves a number of symptoms, everything from exhaustion to high blood pressure to irritability and depression. But they are all there to tell you to plan, stay organized, set boundaries, anticipate stressors, and, above all else, practice self-care and positivity. At the end of the (wedding) day, it’s a celebration, and you, of all people, should have fun.
Bride Trusts The Wrong Friend And Is Robbed Of Her Wedding
If it's the same med I took for nausea during chemo, I'd say that the so-called friend had an ulterior motive.
Quirky “Girl Best Friend” Ruins Wedding
Lady In The Fur Stole Is The Brides Mum. She Could Have Worn Literally Any Other Colour
Apparently a lot of mothers with sons suffer from a Jocasta complex. These women need therapy.
So, what does the average wedding look like these days? According to the National Wedding Survey that surveyed nearly 2,500 individuals in the UK in 2022, it’s a number of things.
Turns out, today’s average wedding is a $22,382 (£18,400) hit in the wallet. Consider that half(ish), i.e. 47%, of all couples decided to go over their budget, and 63% of them got financial aid from friends, family, and other funders.
Wasn’t Invited But You Meant To Invite Me So I’ll Be There Anyway For Sure
Poor Photographer.. That Said I'd Be Interested To See The Pictures That They Had To Capture While This All Went Down
A Guest Shows Up Drunk (Maybe More) And Grinds On The Groom, Motorboats The Bride
The average wedding is between millennials aged 25 through 34, who likely got engaged in December, and were set to get married in August or September. 26% of them met on online dating apps and 3 in 5 of them bragged about their engagement on social media. A lot of these couples prompted for a first date (86%) and a cake cutting ceremony (79%), but very little went with an alcohol-free wedding (11%).
No, No That's Not The Bride
That Woman On The Left Is Not The Bride
Bride Asks Mil Not To Wear A White Dress, Mil Does Anyways
Their wedding includes 81 guests, 10 vendors, and a honeymoon. Speaking of which, half of them will most definitely be on the beach with a 23% chance of spending more during the honeymoon than previous generations of newlyweds.
Lastly, 1 in 10 couples never lived together before marriage, 1 in 3 were saving for their wedding (as well as house), the same number also had children before marriage, and 1 in 5 went with an eco-friendly wedding option.
“Close Friend” Of The Bride Came Dressed Like This
"Thank You Sooooo Much For Sharing Your Special Day With Us"
Friends Wedding Photos That Will Never See The Light Of Day. She Asked Everyone Not To Wear Cream, White, Or Black. Sadly She Forgot To Mention You Also Couldn’t Wear A Wedding Dress. Sil Showed Up In A ‘Yellow’ Dress….with A Train!! Bride Is On The Left In The Bottom Photo
That is definitely not yellow. It looks more like a 10 year old not taken care of white dress.
For context, the average wedding in the US is pricier by about 20% (i.e. $28,000). Besides that, cakes aren’t a huge priority (sub-$100 in a 3rd of all cases), and wedding trends are a bit different. The most popular one (91%) was the first dance, followed by 79% of couples color-coordinating floral arrangements and wedding colors. Another popular tradition was the flower girl and ring bearer, with nearly 2/3 of couples prompting for it.
Mil In A Lovely “Taupe” Dress (She’d Be Leaving My Wedding In A Hearse)
I Look Good In White, And That’s What Matters At Someone Else’s Wedding
Girl I Rarely Speak To Anymore Asks If She's Invited To Our Wedding. After Telling Her That She Isn't She Tells Me I Should Rethink Marrying My Fiancé
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Wedding Guests, Please Don't Do This. It's Not Funny, And Putting "Just Kidding" Doesn't Make It Better
Step-Mother Of The Groom
Does she want to marry her step-son or something? I'm 75% confident this is some sort of kink... EDIT: It's a kink. Don't ask me how I found out.
My Sister Is Getting Married.. This Is The Dress One Of Her Bridesmaids Bought
Went To A Wedding And The Mil Wore This... Would You Be Okay With It?
I Just Think The Whole “Marriage Is A Trap” Thing Is Tacky And Not Funny
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A little red wine and a clumsy friend ensures all the MILs and moms in white get their just reward. And you get pictures to use as a reminder.
When everyone knows it is taboo to wear white, why do so many people still do it? I don't understand.
Yes.. usually the bride not the guests lol. Glad there are at least 40 exceptions
Load More Replies...At our wedding, we had a coloured theme, pinks, purples and lilacs. My wife wanted the bridesmaids to wear lilac dresses. Nothing more than that, didn't have to match. Her sister in law then went off on one saying we should change the dresses to pink as her daughter wants to wear a pink dress. My wife explained very simply that bridesmaids' dresses are lilac and if SIL's daughter wants to wear a pink dress she is more them welcome to but she will not be a bridesmaid. She wore lilac. Same woman also told us she knew 10 people that wanted to come to the wedding and was it OK to bring them. It was not.
Apparently it’s just me, but I honestly wouldn’t care if others wore a white dress to my wedding. Everyone knows who the bride is, and to me, a wedding is a celebration of love, not the color of someone’s dress. Wear your wedding dress to my wedding, and we’ll do a conga line of brides, past & present 🥳
I wore white to my cousins wedding. I was 13 or 14 and no one told me I shouldn't. I cringe now to think about it, why didn't my mom or older sister tell me to change!!
You were young, and I should h o p e they wouldn’t confuse you with the bride!
Load More Replies...You're allowed to have that opinion. I don't know why you're downvoted. Some of us just come here to be entertained. Fake posts or not.
Load More Replies...Beyond the "red wine" option, you can get your photographer to photoshop a colour onto the offenders' dress.
All the women showing up in white give me an idea for a Hallmark Channel Movies & John Kramer Saw crossover event.
Gosh what is it with people wearing white when its not their day? Like i personally wouldn´t care much if it was my wedding, but they know they shouldn´t do that sh*t. Even if i don´t see the point of gate keeping white, i know not to wear it at someone else ´ s wedding.
I'm female, married, and I truly, truly, have never understood the whole "only the bride can wear white on the big day!" thing. The bride's the one with the veil and the bouquet, and it's a pretty safe bet hers is the only dress with a train, and it'll be more ornate than anything any of the other female guests will be wearing, so who cares if anyone else wants to wear white? There were only a couple of the above pics where I cringed because it actually *did* look like mother/stepmother was trying to upstage the bride, but the vast majority of the "gasp! someone else wore white! how dare they!" pics didn't even remotely resemble what the bride was wearing, so why does the mere color of the dress matter?!
These MILs wearing white, is it bc they lament not having a big wedding when they wed, or are they just a******s?
I'd be more than happy to lend my Photoshop coloring skills to many of these photos. I could easily turn that MIL's white dress into a shade of mauve or puce.
you could make quite the side hustle like this, and it sounds fun
Load More Replies...A little red wine and a clumsy friend ensures all the MILs and moms in white get their just reward. And you get pictures to use as a reminder.
When everyone knows it is taboo to wear white, why do so many people still do it? I don't understand.
Yes.. usually the bride not the guests lol. Glad there are at least 40 exceptions
Load More Replies...At our wedding, we had a coloured theme, pinks, purples and lilacs. My wife wanted the bridesmaids to wear lilac dresses. Nothing more than that, didn't have to match. Her sister in law then went off on one saying we should change the dresses to pink as her daughter wants to wear a pink dress. My wife explained very simply that bridesmaids' dresses are lilac and if SIL's daughter wants to wear a pink dress she is more them welcome to but she will not be a bridesmaid. She wore lilac. Same woman also told us she knew 10 people that wanted to come to the wedding and was it OK to bring them. It was not.
Apparently it’s just me, but I honestly wouldn’t care if others wore a white dress to my wedding. Everyone knows who the bride is, and to me, a wedding is a celebration of love, not the color of someone’s dress. Wear your wedding dress to my wedding, and we’ll do a conga line of brides, past & present 🥳
I wore white to my cousins wedding. I was 13 or 14 and no one told me I shouldn't. I cringe now to think about it, why didn't my mom or older sister tell me to change!!
You were young, and I should h o p e they wouldn’t confuse you with the bride!
Load More Replies...You're allowed to have that opinion. I don't know why you're downvoted. Some of us just come here to be entertained. Fake posts or not.
Load More Replies...Beyond the "red wine" option, you can get your photographer to photoshop a colour onto the offenders' dress.
All the women showing up in white give me an idea for a Hallmark Channel Movies & John Kramer Saw crossover event.
Gosh what is it with people wearing white when its not their day? Like i personally wouldn´t care much if it was my wedding, but they know they shouldn´t do that sh*t. Even if i don´t see the point of gate keeping white, i know not to wear it at someone else ´ s wedding.
I'm female, married, and I truly, truly, have never understood the whole "only the bride can wear white on the big day!" thing. The bride's the one with the veil and the bouquet, and it's a pretty safe bet hers is the only dress with a train, and it'll be more ornate than anything any of the other female guests will be wearing, so who cares if anyone else wants to wear white? There were only a couple of the above pics where I cringed because it actually *did* look like mother/stepmother was trying to upstage the bride, but the vast majority of the "gasp! someone else wore white! how dare they!" pics didn't even remotely resemble what the bride was wearing, so why does the mere color of the dress matter?!
These MILs wearing white, is it bc they lament not having a big wedding when they wed, or are they just a******s?
I'd be more than happy to lend my Photoshop coloring skills to many of these photos. I could easily turn that MIL's white dress into a shade of mauve or puce.
you could make quite the side hustle like this, and it sounds fun
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