“Not Sure If It Was A Joke, A Statement, Or What”: 40 Biggest Cultural Shocks, As Shared By The Bored Panda Community
Traveling is a great way to learn and really soak up all the cultures, customs, traditions, etc. that differ from one country to another. It broadens one's horizons and teaches us more about the world we live in. However, sometimes what one experiences in a new place can cause a mild shock due to too much of a difference from their home.
I got curious about what our pandas found surprising while traveling, so I asked our community to share some cultural shocks they've had when visiting another country, and oh boy, they delivered. Scroll down to read all those answers! What cultural shocks have you experienced?
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The first time I visited Ireland with my wife to visit her family, I was surprised that in Irish culture, it's accepted that family and friends can just drop by without any advance notice. And they are sooo hospitable. Unless they have terribly urgent, pressing business, they will go out of their way to be welcoming.
A great example is that we visited her uncle in Dublin. We drove clear across Ireland to go see him - without calling. We surprised him and his wife early in the morning. He took the day off from work, and drove us around to several local points of interest, and we stayed the night.
Ireland is a beautiful country, and their people are just as wonderful.
You should, if you can. It's worth it, such a beautiful little country
Load More Replies...I don't like people dropping by unannounced. I need time to straighten up. And put on pants.
I just need time to put on pants too. I'm not kidding. I sit around in long t-shirts but, I keep a pair of shorts next to me. I hate wearing pants anymore now that I don't work. Those and shoes. When it's cold out though, I am fully dressed.
Load More Replies...We would even make sure we buy things we don't like/use just in case. Eg. I don't drink tea, but I always have a variety of teas at home in case one of family come round.
I think this is changing now. I'd never visit someone without checking with them first and I'd be very annoyed (and surprised) if someone came to my house without letting me know. I like to have time to give the house a bit of a tidy-up first.
I did a coach tour of Ireland a few years back and a couple of the stops were at farms where the family just invited the group of 30 or so tourists into their homes and cooked meals.
Its the same in India. There's even a sanskrit quote saying "Aditi devo bhavah". It means treat your guest like God.
I live in Ireland and it it not very common come unnanounced.Mabe only people living in the villages or most friendly city in Ireland Galway can do ....
Living in ireland, never noticed that. Me and the people I know would be very annoyed if that happened- probably wouldn't say anything, but kind of show whoever that it's not appreciated, you know, to be polite
Went to Quebec, Canada. Everything was so quiet!
Here in Mexico we've got so damn much noise pollution (from vehicles, street vendors, people talking loudly, stores and homes blasting music so freaking loud), everything seems to scream at you!
I absolutely loved the silence, more than anything!
Did a big tour of Canada a few years ago, Quebec was such a pleasant suprise, beautiful City, lovely friendly people.
Researchers at Yale University and Columbia University collaborated with the World Economic Forum to measure the cleanliness and environmental friendliness of over 180 countries around the world. This index is calculated by taking 32 different parameters into account. Environment specialists calculate this index with the information available on national and international organizations. , EPI stands for Environment Performance Index. Cleanest Countries in the World 2021 : 1. Denmark (82.5) 2. Luxembourg (82.3) 3. Switzerland (81.5) 4. United Kingdom (81.3) 5. France (80.0) 6. Austria (79.6) 7. Finland (78.9) 8. Sweden (78.7) 9. Norway (77.7) 10. Germany (77.2) 11. Netherlands (75.3) 12. Japan (75.1) 13. Australia (74.9) 14. Spain (74.3) 15. Belgium (73.3) 16. Ireland (72.8) 17. Iceland (72.3) 18. Slovenia (72.0) 19. New Zealand (71.3) 20. Canada, Czech Republic & Italy (71.0) 24. USA (69.3)
Load More Replies...I'm proud of Québec. But this sounds pretty much like this in ALL Canada!
Old joke: "I live next to a loud, boisterous, scary neighbor. Now I know how Canada feels."
I'm from Vancouver, which is one of the biggest, most populated, loudest cities in Canada. I was on vacation recently, I went to 4 big American cities on the east coast (Boston, New York, Philadelphia, and Washington) and everything is SO LOUD!! I don't know whether it's the population difference and the fact that there are just less people in Canada to create noise, or whether Canadians are just unnaturally quiet. Either way, it's a huge culture shock
Enjoy the silence. (Finland is quiet too, especially in the winter if we manage to get decent snowfall.)
This is why we get called snobs in our 1/2 acre block suburb. We don’t like selling, we make sure any new developments don’t exceed a certain number of houses. We like our quiet in our heritage listed bush suburb 15 minutes from the ocean and city CDB
I am German and live in the French speaking part of Switzerland. Both countries are typically considered rather orderly and clean, but I was completely smitten with the Japanese trash culture. The streets are super clean, and there are no trash bins anywhere except at the train/metro stations and at the hotel (not on the street, not in a museum, not at a department store). Everybody just carries their trash with them. Once in the town of Uji I went past three small pearly white truck serviced by white-clad gentlemen—that was the garbage collection for the neighborhood, without any noise, smell, or dirt. First thing I noticed after I landed in Frankfurt: trash bins in the middle of the walkway every 5 meters, it was strangely disturbing to look at all that prominently displayed garbage.
Japanese people are so respectful of their environment and one another. I was dazzled by the cleanliness of Tokyo and how helpful they were, even with a language barrier. Amazing place, amazing people. Would love to go again some day.
In Pakistan you won't find a single location that's 100% neat or clean. Except malls and privately owned areas of course.
I was suprised in Germany how works garbage collecting. In the middle of old city (AFAIR Bielefield) there was a big pile of garbage bags, because restaurants put all of that in the night and garbage tuck will come at 1P.M.; smell, birds, and very ugly view... and I am from Poland, the country usually less cleaner than Germany
Your lies are exposed easily, nobody has been to Bielefeld
Load More Replies...Researchers at Yale University and Columbia University collaborated with the World Economic Forum to measure the cleanliness and environmental friendliness of over 180 countries around the world. This index is calculated by taking 32 different parameters into account. Environment specialists calculate this index with the information available on national and international organizations. , EPI stands for Environment Performance Index. Cleanest Countries in the World 2021 : 1. Denmark (82.5) 2. Luxembourg (82.3) 3. Switzerland (81.5) 4. United Kingdom (81.3) 5. France (80.0) 6. Austria (79.6) 7. Finland (78.9) 8. Sweden (78.7) 9. Norway (77.7) 10. Germany (77.2) 11. Netherlands (75.3) 12. Japan (75.1) 13. Australia (74.9) 14. Spain (74.3) 15. Belgium (73.3) 16. Ireland (72.8) 17. Iceland (72.3) 18. Slovenia (72.0) 19. New Zealand (71.3) 20. Canada, Czech Republic & Italy (71.0) 24. USA (69.3)
Children in Cairo playing in the dirtiest water in the Nile but waving and smiling like crazy at the tourist buses going by, not for money but they were just so excited to see people waving back.
I'm glad you visited us! We're a resilient people if nothing else.
Load More Replies...In Djakarta, Indonesia 1972 - the main drain through the middle of town was basically an open sewer full of rotting fruit and vegetables and the occasional dead animal. A guy standing in the middle cleaning his teeth.
It's muddy, not filth. Kids & wild animals love to lark-around in muddy eaters
Same thing in Lilongwe malawi- but not just the kids everyone. Tourism is rarer there since it’s in such deep poverty, but the peoples joy and friendliness was infectious when they saw our bus pulling into the refugee camp every day.
In the Gambia, if your husband dies, you are supposed to marry his brother. Found this out the day after my Gambian husband died. Luckily it turned out not to be mandatory but to help widows who have no means of survival without a husband.
This is not uncommon in many African cultures, particularly as land (wealth) passes down through the male line. My grandfather "married" his late brother's wife (not formally) and adopted his kids after his brother died. This allowed them to stay in the homestead, for the kids to inherit land, and to still have family ties. All happened many, many years ago, long before I was born.
Can't imagine what it's like losing a spouse. Hope you are doing ok, and very sorry for your loss.
Thanks! It was 10 years ago.... you get used to it.
Load More Replies...I think it's worthwhile to mention that polygamous unions are legally recognized in the Gambia. So you could end up sharing a husband with his other wives.
I was just wondering what if the brother is already married? This answers that I guess.
Load More Replies...This is indeed biblical, and an old Jewish custom, fortunately not usually practiced today. But of course it's sexist. The word still used today for 'husband' in Hebrew is literally 'owner', making more and more women refuse to use it.
in jewish tradition this will take place if the couple had no kids....
Load More Replies...While the thought is great (widows this way have means to live), the origins are unfortunately sexist (women having fewer rights than men). Unfortunately a problem in many countries in the region (...and not only there)
My grandmother mother also did marry her husband's brother, it was back then survival costume in iran too.
Dunno why the downvotes! While the thought seems positive (providing means for the widow), it unfortunately is a sign of deeply ingrained sexism (with women not being able to own, inherit land or not having job opportunities)
Load More Replies...This actually makes sense in a culture where it's hard for women to earn a living independently.
Went to Mexico and the moment I left the tourist area the prices went down, like really down. My dad and I got a meal with tacos and drinks for $3.50 US dollars for the both of us. For a broke teenager it was heaven!!
Try going to Bangkok where are you can get a tiny bowl of wonton min in a back alley in Chinatown for under a dollar.
And can get an apartment for less than $100 per month. (note, very basic apartment, but still quite livable)
Load More Replies...Pro tip: This is the case with all places, get out of the turist trap and things will be more authentic and much cheaper.
I've been to over 30 countries and lived in 9 more. They are all like that. It's always a better experience away from the tourist traps... and the tourists:)
Wow, as someone who lives vicariously through other people's adventures, I would read your book
Load More Replies...$3.5 USD is still a bit high tho! We have something called "comida corrida" that is a salad, main dish with a side of something (usually rice or beans), a little dessert and your "agua fresca" (a beverage), and also that includes free tortillas and salsas. On average that costs $60 Mexican pesos or $2,80 USD
Go two or three blocks from any city centre and watch the prices drop like a stone..
in some places you just can't go further, since it becomes dangerous; obviously, Mexico is not among them.
Load More Replies...As someone who visits Mexico every year (My grandparents are from there and i love visiting them) You find out that things get really expensive in all the popular places where all the tourist go. But the community and culture is beautiful.
I went to college in Cuernavaca. Now granted, this was 1977 but I could get a full meal and a beer for lunch. It was basically the equivalent of five cents us.
The lack of billboards when I visited Wales. It was wonderful to view the gorgeous countryside without obstruction. Billboards are everywhere in the U.S.
I live in the Mid Atlantic US and rarely see billboards in scenic rural areas.
I live on the complete opposite side of the country. And I agree with you.
Load More Replies...Billboards were banned along most highways in the 1960s - it was Lady Bird Johnson's pet project.
It was part of Lady Bird's Beautification project which advocated for the creation of National Park Service units, lobbied for the passage of environmental legislation, and campaigned for the improvement of the character of the nation’s highway system. My favorite part is her initiative to ensure wildflowers are allowed to bloom and go to seed on Texas highways before being mowed down. Now, however, Texas is extremely polluted with billboards.
Load More Replies...There are no billboards in the state of Maine!! They were outlawed decades ago.
This is because most Welsh place names are too long to fit on billboards. :)
In California, certain highways are designated "scenic" and no billboards are allowed. Besides the lack of billboards, there's a sign with a poppy designating the roadway as scenic.
Living on the coast billboards are every freaking where. And to make it worse, most of the signs are repeats of the same sign with the distance decreasing as you get closer to the business. It kills the vibe of the area when you're seeing eagles or wings signs every 100 yards or so. Anyone that lives where those two businesses are located knows that the signs are useless considering one or the other is on almost every street corner here.
USA - everything is HUGE. You have to drive 9 hours to get from one side of Texas and still end up in Texas. Do you know how many countries I could drive through in Europe in that time? Food portions, buildings, roads...your nature is awesome btw and also huge
I live in western Australia. We drove for 16 hours and only went about halfway up the state.
Interstate Highway 10 goes from Santa Monica, California to Jacksonville, Florida, 2460.34 miles (3959.53 km). Texas's portion is 881 miles (1417.83 km). The sun is riz, the sun is set, and you is still in Texas yet.
There are only 5 states smaller than mine (Massachusetts), and it still takes 4 hours to drive from the westernmost point to the easternmost point, and 4 hours to drive from the northernmost point to the southernmost.
Years ago I was stationed in Texas and told my friends that it took a day to drive out of Texas
In 9 hours, you could hit all six of the New England states and then some.
So you took the second largest state to compare it with the smallest countries in Europe eventhough the largest state is about half the size of the biggest european country?
Probably because most of Alaska is like northern Canada or Greenland. The only way to travel is by plane unless you are near the coast.
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As a little child, my parents took the family to Jamaica. Apparently, it's normal there for shopkeepers to grab your child (in this case, my sister) and run off into their store as a ploy to get you inside their store. I guess you get your child back and then decide to buy something?
And then I would burn down their business and, you know.
Load More Replies...I hope they don't do this now. They would take a big chance on a parent running in and going at them for taking their child. Thats just the way things are these days.
Ah the good ol days, when you could snatch up a child and somehow nobody would care???????????
Load More Replies...I would go mental if that happened to any of my family. It must be so traumatic for the child!!!
Damn! Those folks just runnin around tryin to die. Not the best business tactic to pull on tourists from the United States or most any other country. I'd hate to catch a charge while on vacation.
I haven't been to any countries abroad but i had friends coming to Turkey from other countries and they are usually surprised with how much we insist on nearly everything. Like, eat this try that, buy this buy that, go this place or never go that place.. We are trying to be kind and helpful but i see that other people may find it overwhelming
I was visiting Turkey 1st time this year, and yeah, kinda overwhelming mate. People are pushy, but gooddamn, best dressing salesmen that i ever saw.
My family visited Istanbul many years ago. The merchants could be aggressive, hollering at passers-by - especially tourists. One man said, "I am not a cannibal!" At least, that's what I recall.
If I'm in another country I'm purposely lookin to find someone local that looks "trustworthy" enough to help me out. Maybe not the best idea but at least it'll get you heading in the right direction.
It's just how different cultures speak. Germans are perceived as blunt and the English..
In the US, different regions speak differently - the northeast tends to speak very directly and quickly, for example. Other regions find directness to be rude.
Load More Replies...I think every intelligent person knows its just enthusiasm for their own country, history and food.
My experiences in Turkey are unfortunately more on the negative side. I was there with a few friends and remember how one of our friends - who was German but spoke fluent Turkish - got up in the middle of a conversation with some Turkish guys and said it's time to go now. Next morning he told us that the other guys where talking what they would do with us if those "G*y F***ers" (our boyfriends) would not be with us....
Went to rural India for three months. Discovered that a LOT of people have never seen a white person and wanted to touch me and talk to me. It was very weird to be the foreigner for once. I learned a lot.
True, happened to me in a number of larger cities - including New Delhi. I think a significant part of it is also that I'm 6'3" (and VERY white) 😋
Load More Replies...Can someone please explain to me why some of these comments are 10 MONTHS OLD????
At least they aren't screaming "get out of my country" like a-holes. 🙄 It's really bad here in the US, ironic because the land never even belonged to whites.
that's why we love fairness creams... you have to see some idiots in the city trying to take photos with foreigners (read white people).. its mostly men trying to take photos with women.. if anyone is coming to India and anyone tries to take such photo, please refuse and leave... its shady and you do not know. If you dont take such photos while travelling in other places, then you shouldnt do it here too.
Here in Pakistan they do it with east asian and black people too. It's so weird and yeah you're right, tourists shouldn't give in.
Load More Replies...When I was a kid, too many decades ago, my whole family went to India for a visit, including my two year old sister who had long platinum-blonde hair. She quickly got hysterical with all the people in the street running their fingers through her hair. Mum said she had to wash her hair 3 times a day.
I'm "colourless" (= typical milk white nordic person) as my indian husband says and with brown hair and gray eyes, I was mistaken for an Indian from Goa in Kerala because I was with family and in Indian clothes. When I dressed in western clothing everyone thought I was a foreigner. People in Munnar (Indian tourists) wanted to touch and take pictures and wanted to come under my umbrella. I was almost swept away by the crowd because suddenly everyone looked the same from the back and I was just one or two steps back from my family.
The first time one of my white friends and I went to India, everybody recognized me as Indian, but not her. They kept asking me to translate, asking her if she was a ghost. Lmaoooo it was so funny to see the look on her face...
Damn! A country where white folks are a rarity. I'm white and can honestly say I get tired of seeing white folks constantly. The u.s. needs more variety. But I can see why so many people from other countries only visit.
I had this in total parts of Tunisia. I have freckles and blue eyes. They liked touching my blond hair, even though i told them it is dyed.
Spent a few years of my childhood in a hill station in Tamil Nadu, then pastas Kerala and final all the way up to Meghalaya. The latter we were often the only white people and frequently encountered people who’ve never seen us, too. This was way before the internet so many hadn’t even seen pictures or telly of white people.
Egyptians don't usually form lines. I found this out at a government building, where my host family started encouraging me to "push, push!" As I was slowly being squeezed out by adamant lil old ladies.
same, I'd be awkwardly standing there until everyone else had left :/
Load More Replies...Same happens in businesses near Chinatown in Boston. If you "wait your turn", it will never come. Wayyy out of my comfort zone (I'm a "wait your turn" kind of person).
Load More Replies...My anxiety is spiking reading this. I like uniformity like straight lines, and things in their exact place. I guess I can strike Egypt off my travel list.
Saw that in Tunisia too. Just run inside when the doors open and hope the best
The hot chocolates in Italy are thick. Almost as if they got some chocolate shoved it in the microwave and put it in a glass along with some sweet butter (the thick cream). But hey I’m not complaining it was delicious
It isn't - they have liquid hot chocolate and that thick one, which has corn starch and is a bit more like a pudding
Load More Replies...if you do cioccolata calda in italy you literally use cioccolate and milk that's it We use a bit of bitter cioccolate and a bit of the sweet one to not make it ridiculously sweet (bleah) and the thing on top is actually panna montata (homemade whipped cream)
It's also thick in Spain but l think generally liquid elsewhere.
Load More Replies...They are amazing, some like hot pudding. Absolutely essential in those cold winter months! BTW, you can fake it at home by thickening your hot chocolate with a bit of correctly utilized corn starch ( mix it in cold water first, so it does it's magic)
That's exactly what they are, and that's how they make them thick - corn starch or other thickeners like that. Still amazing though. First time I tried hot chocolate in Spain I was like, I'm going to only eat this for the rest of my life. My dad's method when I was growing up also added a lot of spices - nutmeg, cinnamon, star anise, cardamom to name a few.
Load More Replies...Loved in Italy for three years, LOVED the hot Cocoa, came back to America, tasted more like water with residue chocolate from a mug or sum, now I just pour cocoa in half the mug lol
People in Denmark find it rude to tip the waiter because they actually get paid well unlike in America where waiters have to depend on strangers to pay rent
...you know Europe's not a monoculture right?
Load More Replies...To everyone in the comments that says this isn't true, I visited Denmark with someone who has lived there his entire life and he explained this to me I'm not sure if this is true in all parts of Dennmark but in my experience it is. but maybe don't quote me on what I said because it seems like I was partially wrong :)
And in America we have idiots with their Venmo account painted on their car window. I had a baby give me money. I graduated give me money. Going too Vegas give me money. I’ve seen them all.
We don't tip in Australia, either. That said, tips are mostly welcome surprises. Many restaurants will have a tip jar near the register - though how that will work in the horrible hyped-up cashless economy, I don't know.
No, it's not considered rude. At all. Yes, the tip is included BUT if the service has been great you tip the waiter some more. It's actually considered rude NOT to tip them extra.
It's not rude to not tip the server. If you want to tip: then tip. But they don't get mad or sad if you don't. In some restaurants, they pool all the tips together and spread the amount equally to all the employees.
Load More Replies...Yup. Same here all. over Europe. Very glad to know that servers are paid a living wage.
Lived on the island of Malta for a bit over 2 years. Lovely place but far too noisy! A typical thing there is for people to just shout at each other through their balconies. Oh its 7 am on a Saturday? I don't care, "Ma! HEY MAAA, I FORGOT MY KEYS!..Forgot whaaat?..MY KEEEEYSS!". Yes, there are doorbells and phones, but what fun is that.
Also the fireworks. Wonderful sight if you just arrived, but when you get woken up by an explosion at 8 am every...single....day, it gets to you. Also every evening for several months there are fireworks until midnight, due to most villages celebrating their patron saints on different days. It becomes maddening after a month or so, just pray that you have proper doors/windows and AC so you can close yourself inside.
I have been to Malta 2 times now. Second time we stayed for a month. The fireworks are amazing, true. Malta is a weird place, it's noisy, quite expensive, food quality in shops is poor, better and cheaper to eat out etc. And when you leave, you already miss back there.
Yes, indeed. Even though I was glad to leave, I wish I could go back for a short holiday. Its nice for a quick visit, but just wasn't the place I wanted to settle in.
Load More Replies...Never noticed the fireworks, but the rush-hour traffic was horrendous. It seemed like everybody on one side of the island works on the other, and those on the other side work on the side we were on, and they all got stuck in the middle. We also got rear-ended by a (thankfully empty) school bus, right in front of a traffic policeman. Lovely island and I had a wonderful time working there.
The Maltese sure are crazy about their fireworks. To be fair, I love them too, but when I was in Malta I found it to be a bit much, especially during the daytime when you can't see the wonderful colours. I always wondered why they don't wait until it gets dark to appreciate them more.
I lived there for seven years, and love the place. What would I do for a Pastizzi, a Kinnie ir a Cisk?
Yummy! A Pastizzi and a Cisk would go down nicely now, not a Kinnie though, I didn’t like it personally, I guess it's an acquired taste.
Load More Replies...This isn't just Malta. Happens in my country too ie shouting up at windows. Also 'windae hinging' The act of leaning of the sill with the window opened in your close to speak to someone across the street without either of you leaving the house - cup of tea and a smoke is optional..
I retired to Malta a year ago from Canada (no snow in Malta) I love it ,it's a mad country but fun, fruit and veg is always fresh and cheap.Just go with the flow and enjoy!
Back in the '90's I spent 10 weeks on holiday there. They diluted the milk when more people wanted it. And there are no free flying songbirds. They were all in cages. Not sure if it's changed now... I'd go back there just for the history, scenery and people any time
Had a fry up in America. There was sugar in the sausages!
Or worse, high-fructose corn syrup. It's a crime, but apparently that's what many people like, sweetness in everything.
I live in the US and am disgusted at how are food is over here compared to Europe. I think the majority of Amercian's would prefer simpler ingredients, but the food companies here are not concerned.
Load More Replies...It has to be. I can't think of any other explanation for "sugar" in a sausage, and even then, it isn't sugar.
Load More Replies...I’ve lived in America all my long life and have never had sugar in any sausages unless they were made sweet for a dessert. But then I’m not sure what you mean by a fry up??
Fry up is British area term for breakfast that might include fried eggs and sausage and their version of bacon, which is basically really thin cut pork chop. It doesn't have the fat on it like our bacon. As for the sugar in the sausages, I've had breakfast sausages before that were maple flavored and had sugary stuff added. It wasn't completely sweet like candy - it just tastes like you poured pancake syrup on your sausage.
Load More Replies...For most Americans most of the foods here are gradually not sitting well with them. The food has gradually basically poisoned people with all the additives causing all kinds of physical ailments making them have to choose healthier lifestyles because of it.
Sweet and savory combinations can be quite tasty. Maple-infused sausage, fried chicken and waffles, etc. It sounds weird, and very American, but it's a simple and common palate combination.
Breakfast sausages here do sometimes include maple syrup. The sweet-salty contrast is amazing. Not sugar, though.
"America: We put the 'die' in 'dieabetes'. What do you mean that's not how it's spelled?"
Sugar? Dude, they have liquid butter taps in cinemas so you can put as much of it on your popcorn as you like.
The only sweet sausage I know is Italian sweet sausage. The sausage I eat is usually salty as f**k. Either way it's unhealthy and delicious.
I think they had maple sausages. That is in the "sweet" breakfast sausage that would make sense in this scenario.
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I visited India twice in the 1990s. And both times my culture shock happened when I returned to the US. In the US, I missed the sound of people singing at all times of the day. I missed the amazing smells of food, incense, etc in the streets. I missed the openness of people toward one another. I missed the proliferation of bright colors in clothing and decorations everywhere.
I remember coming back from India the first time, it was on a Sunday morning during Easter in Germany. It was as if the whole town was asleep and me and the taxi driver were the only people in the world. Total silence, barely any people on the streets.
I came back to the US after a year in India and it took a long time to not walk in the middle of the street when noone was around. Everything just felt so empty all of the time. You get used to having 30 people within 5 feet of you at all times when out in public and it is weird when they are no longer there all the time.
India is amazing. I actually do the dance shown in the pic^ bharathnatayam idk
Actually I found this to be true as well. Culture shock comes when you get HOME
I was really surprised at all the trash/litter along the rural coastal highways of Peru.
Marocco, twenty years ago, was also shocking: plastic bags everywhere along the roads.
Honduras was really dirty and was a culture shock for me but was beautiful
When I came to the UK I was absolutely shocked to find out people refuse to drink their tea without milk, I've had people ask me what kind of tea is green tea and why would you drink it without milk.
My daughter drinks green tea without milk. It is not a universal thing in the UK to want milk in everything.
.... you don't put milk in green tea though... because it's herbal tea. So this doesn't really say much. The tea that you put milk in is referred to as "English Breakfast" or "builders" tea also sometimes Earl Grey, with brands such as PG tips, typhoo, twinnings, etc. We don't put milk in things like camomile or raspberry tea, or green tea, or anything like that. Also... tea in the UK is probably about 90% hot English breakfast tea with milk... it is not cold ice tea flavoured with fruit or filled with sugar. It's just a totally different thing. Hope this helps a bit!!
Load More Replies...Seriously? I don't think I know anyone who DOESNT know what green tea is in the UK, we're not living in the Stone Age here!
What part of the UK did you go to?? Green teas and herbal teas are very common, it’s not unusual for people to drink tea without milk. I think you may be generalising just a touch...
Talking crap. A lot of people in the UK drink green tea, herbal tea etc. We only use milk in black tea.
I drink black tea, so does my daughter . Not green tea. PG tips darling
I don't know which idiots they've been speaking to but what they're describing is incredibly inaccurate. Of course we know what green tea is, for goodness' sake.
Erm I don't know any Brit who has never heard of green tea! It's very common (my local smallish supermarket sells about 5-6 different varieties of green tea!) and herbal tea is a massive thing here that is drunk without milk. Plus myself and a few other people drink their tea black. This sounds like a very generalised story or people were pulling your leg!
we have green tea here we know what it is and that you dont put milk in it that would be gross
In Tokyo, I saw a Christmas tree decorated with crucifixes.
I agree - I kind of like this idea and may be adopting it this Christmas!
Load More Replies...Most bizarre to have an instrument of torture and murder so readily on display. What do they do on other holidays? Guillotines? Mustard gas? Amputated fingers?
I went to the USA. I was surprised how loud people are, in the restaurants, on the street, in the hotels, everybody is always shouting.
True. You see it especially with pickup truck drivers. In the city they'll cut you off for going 10 over the speed limit. In rural areas they'll let you go when it's thier turn at a stop sign.
Load More Replies...Definitely an urban thing. As an American who grew up in podunk countryside, and who now lives in a major metro, it is irritating how loud some Americans can be. It is rude. No one else wants to know what you had for dinner. I just wish foreigners would stop generalizing that to be an American thing. Because we aren't all like that. That being said, I have heard lots of Italian loud arguments.
to me the biggest surprise was that the "sub zero temperatures" inside due to AC like it was snow outside and the AC was still on in every restaurant, mall etc. in Europe we go inside to get warm.
Where were you where there was snow outside and air conditioning on inside?! I live in the northeast US and we have the heat on when it's cold!
Load More Replies...That depends on the restaurant, There are many places where people are pretty quiet, thhank the gods. Not a fan of noise…
Depends on the place and the people. The US has many different types of cultures within it, not everywhere is the same.
Visiting Aruba for the summer. Found out they keep their milk outside of refrigerators. Which is strange for my family and myself.
It's probably UHT milk. Plenty of countries drink more UHT thank fresh milk.
Milk can usually be outside the fridge without going bad for a day. At least around 20C (UHT milk has a shelflife of 6 months outside a fridge)
Im guessing this is long life milk which can be kept outside of refrigerators
I have friends & family in Europe who have tiny fridges, & they keep everything on the counter. Peanut butter, jam, mustard, catsup, butter, etc. They act like I’m crazy to worry but on all those things it says REFRIGERATE AFTER OPENING.
So far none of the things you mentioned need refrigeration.
Load More Replies...Apparently they didn't spoil. They didn't have chemicals like in USA.
Load More Replies...I found the lack of water heaters in Aruba hard to get used to. The milk was different mostly canned or from goats.
Clean air! I live in the US near the mills. Spent like 2 weeks in Costa Rica. 2 weeks it took to get used to the clean air. Get home n step outside the air port and broke into a fit of coughing n gagging from the air. And had bad allergy flare ups for a week.
When my wife and I arrived in Costa Rica and got to our Hotel to check-in, the guy behind the counter said (after finding out we live near London) said, 'You will snore heavily tonight!... But tomorrow, you will snore not once!'. He was right, my wife didn't snore past the first night!
Miss that clear air to this day 😔
Load More Replies...Where I was raised it used to look like what China is now, extremely polluted, constant smog and the buildings covered in soot. Not only could you smell the air, you could taste it. If you put your washing outside to dry it would smell bad. Now we can see the sun and what I thought was fog is rarely seen..
When i was 16 i was luckily enough to spend a summer in New Zealand. It was like magic. My allergies and breathing problems were gone. I didn't need to use my inhaler ONCE. I came back to the US and stepped out of the plane and immediately got a nose bleed. Had an asthma attack when we left the airport and my allergies came flooding back. Oof.
My brother spent a year and a half in Malaysia. Returned to the UD and developed a chronic degenerative lung disease. Maybe a coincidence but we get some bad air around here.
Not another country but a different part of the U.S. . I'm a city girl from the southwest. When I married (my now ex husband) he had just gotten out of the military and wanted to move back to his home state in the rural upper midwest. Nothing prepared me for the culture shock. I come from not only a very diverse family, but a very diverse area, where people are simply people. Up there though wow...I honestly didn't know racism still existed in America until we moved there. There were a lot of wannabe skinheads who just had so much hate for everyone who wasn't just like them. Needless to say I didn't fit in (I made a few good friends 3 total) but other than that it was the worst 7 years of my life. I finally packed up and left and I couldn't be happier.
You must have had an extremely sheltered life to think racism was a thing of the past.
Honestly, this stems from a generational ideology. People that never leave their home towns and explore other cultures will hold to the beliefs of their parents, grandparents, and so on. The skin heads wouldn't last very long in Houston.
I guess you haven't been to Texas recently...their running the state... Just don't actually shave their heads...
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Load More Replies...Man can I identify with you. It’s shameful the amount of racism that still exists. And so very sad.
there is racism in EVERY part of the u.s....just ask the blacks, asians and latinos you know when you go back home...
I wouldn't have lasted 7 minutes around skinhead kkk wannabes, nevermind 7 years...
I don't think I spent even 2 min around anyone like that. I kept to myself and the friends I made. I simply saw the skinheads.
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Went to one of the Mayan sites in Belize, near the border with Guatamala. At first glance it looked similar any Canadian national park as far as washrooms and signs went. Then I saw the armed soldiers standing guard everywhere. That was a bit of a shock.
Xunantunich. We went to Caracol as well on that trip, but it was pretty much deserted.
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The big gaps around toilet cubicle doors in the US so that people can see you having a wee! Us Brits tend to prefer a bit more privacy. (Absolutely love America though)
Apparently the gap is an ADA(Americans with disabilities act) thing, at least partially. Wheel chair accessible stalls can be smaller if there is a gap for the foot rest. Since the doors are all the same though it's cheaper to put those on all the stalls instead of ordering two sizes. This is the only legal reason I've found for this, everything else seems to come down to don't be homeless and sleep in my bathroom
Load More Replies...And sometimes the lock mechanisms don't line up right so you try to one arm the door so it doesn't open like a saloon door!
?? I live in California and not once have I ever been able to "see" through these supposedly large gaps unless you're literally trying very hard to. Where are these large-gapped stalls of which you all speak?!
I agree, to see anything other than the vague darkness that tells you there's somebody in there, you would have to actually put your eye up to the gap, which nobody in their right mind would ever do. What DOES bother me about US restrooms is when they don't have a coathook/pursehook on the back of the stall door...
Load More Replies...So when I was in the UK and saw all those signs reminding me to "Mind the gap", they were talking about something else? I wish my barrister had known about this at the trial.
We prefer privacy too but places with public bathrooms are too cheap to care what we prefer
i don't understand the big deal...this is a constant complaint...nobody actually looks in at you...if they did, they wouldn't see much anyway...and if they did, who cares?...we all poop and pee...we all have the same basic parts...you see people naked in the lockerroom, but a glance through a small opening when you're peeing is too much?!...i don't get it
As an American, I read about this every few days on Bored Panda, and have no idea what people mean by this. There are gaps above and below, but unless you want to lie on a pissy floor, I can't imagine anyone watching you. (I have seen some poorly fit doors, and back at my U, they took the doors off.)
I don't think they mean the top and bottom. They mean where the stall door hinges or where it meets to latch. There's usually a gap of a few inches where people can look in if they're outside the stall. In the UK the fittings are tighter or they use an added on piece so that when the stall door is closed you can't see in any gaps. It's better for people with shy bladders.
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Seeing a Santa Claus figure attached to a cross at a store in Japan. Not sure if it was a joke, a statement about the commercialization of Christmas, or what. I thought it was hilarious.
Yeah, like KFC for the holiday meal. Although that sounds great if you're not in the mood to cook.
Load More Replies...In Japan they are not into and/or aware of the religious aspect of Christmas like in the WEST. They see things in movies and TV and think that is how it is celebrated. Also, KFC is really huge and busy during Christmas there and it is more of a couples holiday. It is bigger than valentines day.
I have heard about the crucified Santa, and apparently it is an urban legend. I have, however, seen pictures of robotic Santas in Japanese stores.
I would assume that it is a combination of 2 random Christian symbols combined by someone who has very little direct exposure to Christian culture.
I live in the US, and when I rode the train home from work near Christmas time, I saw a nativity scene, but alongside Mary and Joseph, and the donkeys and sheep, there were reindeer, and angels and Santa. It was very cringey IMHO.
It’s mostly a kids holiday. Sadly we don’t get the day off.
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I live in Spain now, so my biggest culture shock going home to the US is and has always been the hugging, as a greeting and goodbye to people you don’t know well or have just met. So weird to me now. I do miss the friendliness of Americans, just not that friendly bit.
I think it depends on your family and personal preference, it's not necessarily a cultural difference. I hug plenty of people outside my family.
Load More Replies...This is not a USA thing. This is a regional, maybe family tradition or personal choice. If you don't like it, simply say no thank you. No one is required to hug people whether they are family, spouses, friends, and especially people you don't know well or have just met.
Everything in the US is regional. What's common in Michigan probably isn't going to be common in Hawaii or Alabama. Even Colorado and Wyoming are going to have giant cultural differences. Nothing is a US thing.
Load More Replies...In Spain you greet people with two kisses on the cheeks, in more formal settings it's a handshake. Hugging is for family, partners or really close friends. I'm sorry, but IMO hugging everyone makes the hug lose its meaning and become something trivial. Having said that, l also like how friendly Americans are.
Well you will happy to know now since Covid there is very little hugging as a way of greeting whether it be someone you know or a stranger. I miss it.
everyone else said the opposite; maybe if you go out more...
Load More Replies...This isn't a thing. We don't hug people we've just met in the US, or people we barely know. Family and close friends, yes.
I’ve lived in the US for my whole life and people regularly avoid talking to each other, much less hugging.
everyone else said the opposite, on all articles. are you based on mars?
Load More Replies...This is totally dependent on the type of person, not everyone here is touchy-feely.
England, 20 years ago, in a hostel: two faucets, one with scorching hot water, other with really cold. Bed with sort of sewn up sheet instead of a single cover with a really scratchy and heavy blanket on top. Bread for breakfast so SOFT it had to be toasted to be able to smear butter on it. Saying "hello" instead of "good morning" in a shop. Tube being so unbelievably small inside. It was a time when most information about the country were given by my teachers, internet was not that common. So yes, I was shocked in many ways.
In the UK scorching hot water has been common since outbreaks of Legionnaires disease in the mid 1980's, the water is kept that hot to kill bacteria
The point isn't the scorching hot water, but the fact that there are two taps and there's no way to control the temperature like in other countries where water comes from one tap
Load More Replies...This isn’t just a UK or Continental European thing, though they may have held onto it longer. All faucets, even in the US, used to be separate hot and cold water. You merely plugged the sink and mixed the two to a comfortable temperature to wash or shave. If you don’t believe me, just watch some old movies where someone goes into the bathroom to shave or wash up. Plumbing like that was phased out and replaced by the single faucet by mid-to-late 20th century, though much older homes still retained them in lesser used bathrooms for a while after. I’m 61, and we had the separate faucets in a few of the places we lived, including older homes we lived in right up to the 1980s.
I mean...that's a hostel.....does that mean it's like that everywhere in England?
No, it's not like that everywhere in England unless you are renting a slum house. Mixer taps are extremely common in kitchens and bathrooms and have been for quite some time. We are up with the times on most things for £1500 you can have a tap that does instant boiling water and filtered cold water, even waste disposal units are purchasable but not fashionable because of how bad they are for the environment.
Load More Replies...What's wrong with hot and cold running water? If it's too hot, add some cold.
In the US, it's common for the hot and cold to mix together and come out 1 tap. You can use it while it's running and there's no need to fill the basin
Load More Replies...I think you might mean 40 years ago. Most hotels have moved over to duvets and mixer taps. Oddly enough my bath tap looks exactly like that, but then it's supposed to look victorian, and it still works as a mixer tap - I think you are referring to having completely separate taps for hot and cold and the only way to use these is to put the plug in and run some into the basin - they are really really old fashioned!
In old British houses with separate hot and cold, it's because of the danger over contaminated hot water it was made law to keep the two separate. Cold water would come in from the watermains, it would be divided between cold, which would run directly to the taps and hot, which will be pumped to an attic water heater. Unfortunately old fashioned water heaters weren't animal proof and would frequently have dead rats and more floating around. It is then pumped to the hot water taps. Hense cold was for drinking and hot was only ever for washing.
You've never seen a sink with separate faucets for hot and cold? I'm American and my house was built in 1867. The wonderful 1904 pedestal sink in my bathroom has separate faucets.
Many older houses in the UK hot water was heated in a cistern, and was not drinkable. The cold water tap came directly from the water main. It is what we are used to now anyway. And since the tap water here can be drunk, it is better if it isn't mixed with hot water because that tastes horrible.
Hot water in UK used to be from a separate tank rather than heated mains water. It was cheaper, or perceived to be. Now it's not that way but culturally many are used to having two taps. No all bread is soft. Pan bread is soft, especially cheap brands, but plain bread is more dense and hard. Tastes different too, great for soup! The tube is awful, primarily because it's full of Londoners but also entitled backpackers who will keep their backpacks on and sideswipe you when they turn round. Also the women who insist their bag deserves a seat on a busy train. If you come across this just sit on their bag. If they move it in time all to the good..
Love hotels in Japan, they rent rooms by the hour, I thought I was staying in a rough part of Tokyo. Turns out they're everywhere and it's a pretty normal thing in Japan.
I wish that this would be normal in europe in decent hotels. Sometimes I just need a place where to rest or take a nap.
Japanese homes are very small, and also the mom usually sleeps with the kids so dad can rest up to go to work. Yeah, it's aggravating as a woman, and it's changing, but slowly. Anyway, so if they want to have some fun, it's easier to go to a love hotel than to try to find a way to do it away from the kids in a tiny apartment.
Its really sad how advanced Japan is in some ways and how backwards they are in others like feminism
Load More Replies...The connotations associated with renting rooms by the hour are hard to overcome, though.
They are in Korea too. Many families live in multi-generational homes, so newlyweds might take advantage of these places.
That is true of cheap hotels near airports in the US...for a different reason.
Married a Peruvian, so I have been there often...love the country, epecially the Andes but Lima is not my favorite place. It reminds me of LA but dirtier, people litter all the time, the roads are torn up with no safety cones and the people drive like lunatics. We were being driven on one of the few freeways in Lima when the driver passed the exit we needed. They stopped in the lane and backed up to get back to the exit. We were sure we were dead... Also, its frowned upon to burp in public yet, walking in the financial district and a well dressed man walking down the sidewalk stops, whips it out and pees on the wall of the building we were walking by. The disparity between those with money and the poor is saddening. My American friend married a well to do Peruvian and had an amazing home in a gated community, with guards with machine guns at the gates. She loved her home but felt like she had a target on her back every time she left home. There are also guards with machine guns outside banks...its just a little unnerving.
I have never seen such a dirty city as Lima. Did not notice too much trash compared to other big cities, but the grime and dust everywhere due to lack of rain. Inches of dust, grime and goop on everything, esp. around the main highway. Never realized how much good the rain does and I now appreciate we get so much of it in UK.
@2x4...i asked about the dust in lima...b/c it's even the beaches...dust, not sand or dry soil...i assumed that it was caused by a combination of overcultivation and drought...but, when i asked about this, i was shown pictures from the late 1800s and early 1900s and told that the soil has been that way for well over 100 years...
Load More Replies...love the chifa, especially the won ton soup with quail eggs, tho most chifa is Cantonese & I really love Szechuan. It's funny how the poorer homes down in SA are built up the hillsides and the rich aren't while here in CA, the more expensive homes are usually up where the views are best
Load More Replies...Guess we got lucky since we only spent a day and a half in Lima before our flight home. This was in 2018 and our kids were 6, 8, and 10 at the time. The hotel we stayed in was great and a few blocks from the center of town (the place where the huge colorful statue of the bull is). Then we walked everywhere. Stopped at a great place for ice cream. Walked past some amazing homes. Took lots of pictures. Peru was absolutely amazing. We would go back every year if we could.
Greece. Amazingly beautiful country with astonishing nature and historical sites but trash everywhere. Around roads, in the forests, seashore, even near archelogical monuments there was a trash dump. Like seriously, Greece, whats the matter? No recycling, everything goes to the same dumpster. Also you have to throw toilet paper into the the trash can and not to the toilet. And the traffic... abyssmal. Otherwise really nice place with friendly and warm people, and the sea is surprisingly clean taken how much trash is everywhere else.
My similar experience to Sicily. Paid roads, flowers arte trimmed, a painting of the view almost anywhere on the road. Yet it's a dumpster, literally.
Okay, I'm with you on the rubbish thing. You'll often see it on twisty mountain roads with stuff (including cars) just dumped over the edge. The toilet paper thing is down to the plumbing - like Scotty's engines on the Enterprise, it just cannae take it. The people are lovely and particularly the elderly respond well to those who take the time to learn a few words of Greek. The number of times we have been given stuff or shown round houses just because we could muster a Kalimera.
Yeah, we do have a trash problem. I am always mindful of putting any trash in bins but other people are not. I think it's one of those things that has to be enforced with strict laws and education, so it becomes second nature. Also, we don't have a bicycle culture here (not enough space probably and a lot of hills and mountainous terrain), and although many people do use the metro and the bus, too many people still go to work with car.
And lizards, when I went on holiday there I woke up every day to lizards in the room, it wasn't a big deal really just something different.
And centipedes! When we left shoes outside they were full of them in the morning... but it's just funny and different, nothing bad :-)
Load More Replies...Yes the trash is a lot but this is due to lots of tourist that visit Greece every year
I've been to Sicily, Italy at the beginning of May. Barely any tourists, café owners literally dragged us to their establishments to attract other clients. Of those few tourists even smaller amount drove on tolled highways. Garbage was on every god damned kilometer. We saw by far too few stops for truckers so that might be a reason, but there were times when we literally climber over trash to take a picture of amazing landscape (with smart angling)
Load More Replies...In Greece you also order a group meal in more rural parts instead of choosing your own meal
Soweto, South Africa. Under the bridge there were men cooking the donated food for the poor in barrels and such. Also the difference between the housing in Soweto, I never realized that there could be million dollar villas in Soweto smack bang next to a shack. I loved it there though, the people are fantastic.
First time I visited Soweto as well I was astonished to learn that it's a whole city on its own. The media depicts it as a homogenous slum, but no, it has very affluent suburbs as well as less well off areas.
And most of the shacks have satellite dishes on the outside of them! People in South Africa are really friendly, though. When I visited London I was very put off by how people basically ignore each other (no eye contact). In Jozi you make eye contact with everybody.
I'm french and i've recently gone to Guadeloupe, which is also french. But i had the feeling to be in Africa. And i found it full of charm personnally. lot of things were cooler than in the metropolis. like people selling coco water right in the middle of the road, or chicken roaming the town centers. it was really cool
UK: I was surprised that you can have breakfast, lunch or dinner in the pubs and there are even those specialized in pizza. In the country where I am from pubs are just places to drink and maybe have some nibbles such as crisps, nuts. Maybe if smoking wouldn't be allowed then it would be possible in "our" pubs too.
The pubs in the UK have always served food, even when smoking was permitted.
Yes, I remember being asked "Smoking or non-smoking?" when eating in pubs and restaurants before the smoking ban.
Load More Replies...In America, home - unless it is a weekend and you can go for brunch. Although you will occasionally find a bar that is open early that caters to 3rd-shift workers who get off work @ 7AM.
Load More Replies...We still have our 'spit and sawdust' pubs that barely sell peanuts, my local only does a roast on a Sunday and doesn't do meals any other day.
This is a thing in Australia also. Not sure about breakfast, but eating lunch or dinner at a pub is pretty common, even with kids.
We have some in the US, but they're usually marketed specifically as "English" or "Irish" pubs. Of course we also have "sports bars," which are really restaurants that serve alcohol and greasy food, and have loads of tvs tuned to ESPN.
Load More Replies...I always love trying the local specialties (food and ale) in pubs; waitstaff are often surprised that an American will do that. My wife & I wish we could have a real UK-style local in our town.
This is only something that's happened fairly recently with chain pubs like Wetherspoons becoming popular. I was a kid in the 90s and back then you didn't go to a pub for food and they weren't family friendly. They were places you went for a drink and the only food you'd be able to get was crisps or pork scratchings. Those 'traditional' pubs still exist but the big chain pubs that serve food all day are more common now.
In sweden, any place that sells alchohol (bar/pub/nightclub/etc) have to by law, also serve food. However, there is no regulation to what is served other than it has to be a "meal" or even the price. The nightclub I worked at got around this by offering a $2 meat pie (price at shop, found in frozen foods) then would microwave it if someone wanted it. Nobody did.. Why? because we charged $30 for it.
When I was a kid, pub grub wasn’t really a thing. You be able to get crisp, nuts (even pepperami at our local pub!!). Our local pub now and again would serve a roast for the die hard locals who didn’t have a meal for them at home. To me, it seems when the smoking ban came in, more pubs opened up to the idea of serving food
Pubs have been forced to diversify in the last 20 or so years. People are staying at home to watch tv, play computer games etc. and supermarkets sell booze so cheaply now, pubs have to do more to compete. Hence, pubs have become more family friendly and started serving more food.
Load More Replies...The weather is so abysmal in the UK that pubs are a good place to go any time.
Had been in Rishikesh, India. It’s not aloud to eat meat there and forbidden to use plastic bags and straws. I was really surprised by it because the common expactation is that Indias Environment ist the worst.
My parents lived in South India (Madurai in Tamil Nadu State) for five years in the 1950s, and in those days there was almost no refrigeration, so they became vegetarians by choice so they wouldn't get poisoned by bad meat!
We do have issues and the carelessness mostly. The govt. and many organisations are working towards going green. Regarding the meat thing, Rishikesh and some other popular places nearby are holy places for Hindus. Meat eating is not accepted as such in these areas. It is low and will be found in places catering to foreigners or richer Indians. or you need to go to outskirts. Of course, many things most Indians are vegetarians. We do love our meat. But the consumption is very low compared to other countries.
Yes. And to elaborate more, Hindus usually avoid eating beef, since cows are considered sacred. (prob a well-known fact, just putting it out there).
Load More Replies...When I went to Germany if there were three tellers people would wait in 3 lines instead of one common line for the first available teller
In Minnesota, USA, we actually call having just one line a "bank line". That's how banks always were. (And it's the best way to prevent someone having to wait a really long time.)
Load More Replies...Yes, and the other line is always faster!! It was an eye opener when I first went to the US and saw people forming one single line - much better!
Used to be that way in the US and in many businesses still is. But more and more it’s become one line and when a teller/cashier finishes with their customer the next person in the one line goes forward. Really much more fair this way.
Also in Germany — where people are usually generous and fair — if there’s a long line at the store and a new cashier opens up, people just randomly run over to be first. In America the clerk will ask who’s next and the people moving over will try to stay in order.
Never seen that in the US. They usually rope off for one line.
Load More Replies...Yeah it's the same where I'm from, regardless whether it's bank tellers, cashiers at a clothing store, customer service, etc, it's always just one line and you wait for the first one that becomes available. The only exception I can think of is grocery store cashier's, but I'm pretty sure that's the same everywhere
Prague. 14 yeas ago quite well dressed retired loving people wandering along would casually look into even bin. I assume to see if anything worth selling for recycling
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Load More Replies...Elderly gentleman who lived 2 houses down went to nursing home a year ago. House now for sale. Crappy auction company sorted his possessions. Took what they considered sellable. Due to yet another insane trend in the u.s. 'brown wood' furniture is out of fashion. Tossed 100+yr old furniture into a dumpster. I had no way to make contact to ask permission & assumed since it was destined for a landfill no one would mind us rescuing it. As we are extracting a solid oak mission desk(1917)the woman in charge of his estate pulls up screaming that its a federal offense & she is going to call the cops. Long story short- they shamed her so bad over begrudging someone what she considers TRASH that we were given permission to take whatever we wanted. I have no room & didn't need the desk, a dresser(1915)and a small bookshelf (1880s)and they could use refinished. But we saved them from the dump. Sadly several other pieces (1920s veneered) were ruined by 36hrs of rain. THAT should be the CRIME!
Oh how sad. Not to mention wasteful. I and several and I do mean several would love to have those pieces. Terrible.
Load More Replies...Haha no. (living in Czech Republic myself) They did not do it because of they would SELL anything that they would find - some elderly people just peek inside trash cans to see if there is something interesting. Or they often discuss what are people actually binning. They don't have to be that poor to do that. It is not done by majority though, but it can happen from time to time. Also sometimes people leave something just outside the trash can (if it's usable) for others to look at it in case someone would like to take it.
Living in Czechia myself, they probably were simply curious to see what people throw out.
Despite being one of the countries with quite good health care accessible for everybody, our federal retirement fonds are being screwed by the government for years (decades) which results that some elderly are forced to check the streets / trash bins for empty bottles (which you get a deposit in return, 25 cents a piece, when returning them to the stores). It's heartbreaking to look at and sometimes hard to believe that this is happening in one of the most economically powerful countries in the world (Germany).
Visiting Rome, Italy and discovering that you can actually get a pizza with Nutella (chocolate spread).
Will never understand what's this obsession with Nutella. In Amsterdam nowadays there are dozens of Nutella shops, all catering to tourists. To us locals it's just something you put on bread and mostly for kids. It's sooo unhealthy!
It’s just a treat! I absolutely love Nutella :) their marketing totally does try to push it as a wholesome food, but if you think of it just like candy/cake/cookies, it’s really just a chocolate-hazelnut-flavoured treat, just as unhealthy as other sugary treats.
Load More Replies...It's a dessert type, if you like it. The first use of the Nutella is with bread.
I tried Nutella for the first time awhile back. It was delicious out of the jar but but I can't think of anything I'd put it on. Definitely not bread. Maybe frosting for cookies?
That sounds yummy. Where can one buy dark roast PB?
Load More Replies...I don't get the Nutella craze, either. I'm not that crazy about hazelnuts, and can honestly take chocolate or leave it. I'd rather have yogurt or a sandwich than a candy bar.
I'm surprised by this, considering having pineapple on pizza in Italy is a taboo.
Chocolate and hazelnut are not an uncommon combination in Italian desserts :)
Load More Replies...In Tanzania a room was used as showers for the campground during the day and urinals for the bar in the evening.
I went to Krakow,Poland on a surprise trip from my family for my 60th birthday to visit Auschwitz/Birkenau. I was very humbled and also heartbroken by what I seen. The little boutique hotel I stayed in was beautiful and nothing was too much trouble. There was no kettle in the rooms but one would be supplied if you ask, the people are so friendly but they do warn visitors who are driving to be careful of the police as they have been known to pull people over , give them spot fines but pocket the money! I don’t know if this is true. Beautiful town with lots of history. Heartbreaking to see the poorer parts. The synagogues were amazing and the Jewish people very very respectful, also in the cafes and restaurants, the waiting staff cannot do enough for you and you practically have to force them to accept a tip, well I got used to one certain little cafe and the young lad that served me was so pleasant and helpful and it was him that I had to force tips on. It got to the point where I just left it under the plate for him and he would always smile and thank me. I was sad to leave. Can’t wait to go back. The roads can be a bit dangerous though as they drive extremely fast.
Americans should realize that giving someone a tip can be interpreted as "I think you are poor, here take money." Giving good service is part of the job.
That's why it's always good to brush up on customs and culture before traveling.
Load More Replies...I'm a little confused what you mean about the Jewish people being very respectful, what did you mean?
Nothing was too much trouble for them for their visitors. They go above and beyond their duties to make sure everything is alright and they treat every single person that comes through their doors like visiting royalty .
Load More Replies...Krakow is one of my favourite towns in Europe. Planning another trip there right now. And then also Zakopane again, it's about 100 km from Krakow.
Thank you. I think Krakow will be my go to place in future. Such a beautiful place
Load More Replies...A positive shock were the prices in Poland and the quality of food you get when shopping. They might produce lower grade products formall Europe, but obviously produce better quality stufd for themselves. And if you get off the highway, it's a wonderful country with diverse nature. Fell in love with Krakow and Zakopane. Been there many times now and plan to go back this winter. Malta is a recent thing. People are noisy and sometimes seem even rude. There's dog s**t on streets and traffic is pretty mad. Also the quality of food in the shops is not the best kind. Better to eat out - cheaper and better food. Also I'm a huge coffee fan and it isn't a big thing there. But this place grows on you so bad that you want to go back there again and again... Crystal blue waters, Valletta, smaller fishing villages, the taste of really ripe fruits, fireworks... Wonderful place.
yeah, polish export crap is as good as chinese... Maybe the latter is even better quality than the former...
Friend of my parents had a Malaysian delegation for dinner back when we lived in Kuala Lumpur, including a sitting minister. Apparently all went well until the amuse was served -- melon wrapped in parmaham -- and the host toasted his guests with a glass of champagne. As you might imagine, pork and alcohol did not go down well with the staunchly muslim minister, and he had the whole table cleared.
Wow the host was extremely rude to not study their guest preference especially to host some VIP. Furthermore you lived there...gosh so much ignorant.
I was staying in Boston with some friends of friends, when I was 16, and I went to Concord to visit Louisa May Alcott's house. There was a thunderstorm, and I thought, "Wow! Even their thunderstorms are bigger!"
I’m from the United States. When I visited England there were a few things that caught me off guard. 1. No ice in water. 2. McDonald’s did not serve sodas in the morning. Only water, juice, or tea/coffee. And 3. The no taxes on groceries and paying what was on the price tag.
Taxes are usually included in the price tag. You always pay what's on the price tag
There are taxes on foodstuffs, but not on all of them, and it would be included in the ticket price anyway, as it is in the whole of the sane world. Also, I don't know how long ago this was, but you always get ice in drinks in McDonald's, Burger King, etc, unless you ask otherwise. And why would anyone want soda in the morning with breakfast?
Texas doesn't have taxes on food items (only non food) and 5 other States have no sales tax at all: Oregon, Alaska, New Hampshire, Delaware and Montana.
I'm just curious...where in the US do you pay taxes on groceries? Where I live in NYS, food in grocery stores isn't taxed.
Restroom hygiene habits in the US. 1- (Generally) those who present as male tend to stand when using a sit down lavatory, no matter whose restroom they are using. 2- no bidet or washing. My understanding is that the only (generally) use tp.
In the USA everyone uses toilet paper. Then washes their hands afterwards.
thats not really just a US thing most people who have a penis stand up to pee
I'm from the US and I went to Jamaica for a week. The amount of people who ask for money blew me away. Constantly being approached to buy necklaces, drugs, help with your bags, taking your pictures. It was so abrasive, when we flew back into the US it was almost a shock that people weren't constantly coming up to us. Also how beautiful the country is, but how it's not taken care of.
That's because living in Jamaica when you're not rich is very difficult. Same thing happens in a lot of other places where poverty meets tourism. Bumsters are everywhere, they are attracted by tourists like flies to sugar. But as soon as you get out of the touristy areas it stops and you get to meet normal people. Also, Jamaican people are very vocal and have a way with words that might sound intimidating if you're not used to it. But yeah very annoying.
Traveled to China 25 years ago to adopt my daughter. Get off the plane and there are guards in the airport with machine guns! Knew we were no longer in Kansas....
Saw this in France. People in army uniforms with large machine guns around the touristy areas. Wasn't too put off because we get that in certain areas in South Africa too.
this is Texas for you here ! gun-62fa07...7a6b29.jpg
I mean, post 9/11 there were tons of armed soldiers posted inside airports in the US.
this is TEXAS and the dude is not a cop !! lol gun-62fa07...38df11.jpg
UK: That crisps have small packages inside packages or you can just buy small package separately. It is not common in the country where I am from at all.
In my country it is sometimes possible to find these snackpack sized chips (crisps) but they are usually very expensive, they contain a 1/10th of the big bag, and cost almost half. Just buy a big bag and don't stuff yourself.
The pollution in some European cities. Coming from North America, and having been to places like LA and New York that are notorious, I was kind of surprised to find that places like Paris, Rome, and Athens surpass them in a number of ways. Usually not garbage on the ground, but air quality, graffiti, etc. One major Western European city smells like urine year round and is literally sticky everywhere.
Researchers at Yale University and Columbia University collaborated with the World Economic Forum to measure the cleanliness and environmental friendliness of over 180 countries around the world. Cleanest Countries in the World 2021 : 1. Denmark 2. Luxembourg 3. Switzerland 4. United Kingdom 5. France 6. Austria 7. Finland 8. Sweden 9. Norway 10. Germany 24. USA !!!
Switzerland was super expensive. We were charged 3 Swiss Francs (3$) for a glass of tap water. A resort restaurant menu bragged about a 50 Francs Hamburger. Nope. Hotels very expensive, so we stayed in budget hotels that had no amenities but charged 150 Fr. We put our food outside the window in a bag. ( cold in early May). Still incredibly beautiful though
Yes, it's expensive to eat out here, but in 20+ years I've never been charged for tap water, although I've seen this mentioned on the internet quite a few times. There are some (not many) mountain restaurants that don't have piped water, so all drinking water is bottled or has to be brought up specially, in which case it seems reasonable to charge for it.
The first time i went to Mexico when i was around 8/7 and i was surprised by how they did everything there. How they washed their clothes, how my dad had friends everywhere from when he grew up there. I loved it. I go there every year now for around a week or so.
Like what exactly? This post is so general it doesn't actually say anything
The use of latrines in China. I was there for work and had a terrible time balancing while wearing heels. Having dinner between 5 and 6 pm while at uni in the US. I usually have dinner between 8.30 and 10 pm. It took a while to get used to it.
I also found the Chinese toilets some of the worst (while streets are actually clean - I don't get it) The dinner thing I tend to have the other way around: we eat 6-7 p m. Spanish people eat at like 10 or 11?! I'm starved by then
I'm not spanish but from my trips to Spain, you can get dinner until 10 pm. I was scared of losing my balance and falling in the latrine lol
Load More Replies...They're not latrines - they're squatting toilets. As for me, I LOVE them - they're way more hygienical - you don't have to touch anything that was touched by or peed on by anyone else. In public places I much prefer those to regular toilets
I’ve never been outside of the U.S. but my dad lived in England. So I’ll tell you what surprised me from his stories of 1980’s England. 1. You have to hold your knife and fork a certain way. Even if you were left handed. 2. You ate peas with forks. How do you stab a small spherical pea? 3. Ditches that were big enough to fit my uncles lower half. He was abt 4’ 6” when that happened.
1. yes, that's why the fork is on the left side of the plate and the knife on the right. Alternatively they are both on the right side, but the fork is still to the left. 2. You don't stab, you use the fork and knife together to push them onto the fork. I was surprised in the US that people would cut up their food and then put away the knife, and eat with the fork in the right hand.
I live in the U.K., and my old man was in the army. He was so so strict about us holding cutlery “the right way” (fork in left, knife in right). However I busted my left wrist when I was 13, so it’s weak. I still struggle to have my fork in my right hand, so I hold my cutlery “the wrong way” (fork in right hand, knife in left hand). My old man would scream and shout at me for struggling! I scoop my peas on to my fork with my knife Ditches over here freak me out with how deep they are!
My mum often complained about my siblings and I using our cutlery the 'wrong' way and we had to set the table with it the right way. We all use our knife in the left hand and the fork and spoon in the right, unless spreading something on bread, and then we swap the knife to our right. It was only when we were in our late teens that we noticed our grandma did this too! Mum didn't mention it after that.
Load More Replies...Most people I know (German) use both hands: knife in the right hand, fork in the left. Cut a piece of meat, use ýour knife to push some veggies and potato/rice/... on the fork and eat it.
Load More Replies...The knife and fork thing was something I learned a few weeks ago. American's use them completely differently. I was shocked as it wasn't something I noticed when I was there. There was a "mind blown" moment when I watched this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlpLwdzC8n0
You use knife to push peas onto fork, and no-one actually cares how you hold your knife and fork unless you're a toff obsessed with social etiquette nonsense.
I live in the UK, and I've heard stories that those who were left handed were actually forced to write with their right hand. :/
Nicely-dressed guy in London, walking along the street, take out container in one hand, fork in the other, eating as he walked.
What state are you in never seen it and I've gone to half of them •_•
Load More Replies...I have to say that a lot are not really culture "shocks" just differences and quirky funny things.
Yeah the title was kind of a hyperbole, now that I look back on it.
Load More Replies...Why has this popped back up, marked an hour ago, when it still has comments from nearly a year ago? Find new content, srsly.
Hey BP, if you think we didn’t notice that you just recycled a 10 month old post, your wrong! We can see that the comments are either less than 24 hours old, or 10 months old. Lazy much?
Within the US? The Midwest. Once the corn/soy belt is entered, it's terrifyingly insular, parochial, find a word ----- and I was assumed to be part n-word b/c, and I quote that old bat, "You have SUCH DARK EYES!"... The state I was in had KKK rallies on the stat capitol's lawn annually and *nobody even blinked*. WTF?! I expected lawsuits, rallies, protests, b/c that's what happened where I grew up, and we were mostly white too. Weird AF vibe. Just... no.
Going to Thailand, I was suppressed how prominently featured their monarch was in everyday life.
In Thailand it's illegal to insult royalty.
Load More Replies...For the foreseeable future I’m done traveling outside the US. But I’m looking forward to going back to HK…
I have to say that a lot are not really culture "shocks" just differences and quirky funny things.
Yeah the title was kind of a hyperbole, now that I look back on it.
Load More Replies...Why has this popped back up, marked an hour ago, when it still has comments from nearly a year ago? Find new content, srsly.
Hey BP, if you think we didn’t notice that you just recycled a 10 month old post, your wrong! We can see that the comments are either less than 24 hours old, or 10 months old. Lazy much?
Within the US? The Midwest. Once the corn/soy belt is entered, it's terrifyingly insular, parochial, find a word ----- and I was assumed to be part n-word b/c, and I quote that old bat, "You have SUCH DARK EYES!"... The state I was in had KKK rallies on the stat capitol's lawn annually and *nobody even blinked*. WTF?! I expected lawsuits, rallies, protests, b/c that's what happened where I grew up, and we were mostly white too. Weird AF vibe. Just... no.
Going to Thailand, I was suppressed how prominently featured their monarch was in everyday life.
In Thailand it's illegal to insult royalty.
Load More Replies...For the foreseeable future I’m done traveling outside the US. But I’m looking forward to going back to HK…
