When Hilary Clinton uttered the words, “My campaign is not going to let Donald Trump try to normalize himself,” she started a wave of "normalization” worldwide. The term has become so mainstream that it’s used every time something calls for social reform.
Normalize not folding clothes. Normalize gatekeeping. Normalize marriage.
However, people started noticing that some of the modern norms that we’re so familiar with are starting to cause concern. Like redditor Former-Session6405 who called out Brazilian butt lifts for pushing natural bodies out of style.
In agreement, members of the GenZ subreddit began sharing their opinions on everything from children addicted to technology to credit card debt. You can find more of their controversial takes on things we should stop normalizing down below.
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Standing around and recording while someone's life is in danger.
People thinking it’s socially acceptable to play music/videos out loud on their phones in public. Ain’t nobody wanna hear that s**t.
Subscription based everything.
I'm tired of having to subscribe (even for free) to every newspaper, online news service, magazine just to read an article forwarded to me by friend. It's just a way of getting my email so that they can bombard me with ads.
Since Trump’s election in 2016, research has found that people have used the word “normalize” twice as much online. However, they’re using it differently than they used to. According to Merriam-Webster, it now refers to the "redefinition of modern discourse to allow extreme views to be considered normal.”
While standardizing new things can be powerful, freeing, and positive, it also has the potential to be damaging to society. We’ve rejected and created a lot of “normal” ideas over the years, mainly because creating societal norms helps us navigate interactions with others and allows us to thrive together as a collective.
This biggest thing of all; refusal to accept other opinions, also people be taking opinions as facts.
Depends. We can have different opinions on pineapple pizza or Star Wars movies. But arguing whether, like, queer people deserve basic rights? That's not an "opinion".
I think just looking absolutely perfect on social media. We’ve been so accustomed to filtered faces with 10lbs of makeup on, that we forget things like dark circles and fine lines are perfectly normal. I mean, I saw this 28-year-old woman on TikTok get torn apart for looking like a 28-year-old woman and there’s kids as young as 10 investing in skincare?? Why are 10-year-olds afraid of aging? It’s like we don’t even want to look human anymore, and we have to cover up every little flaw whether it be with makeup or a filter and I’m sick of it.
Tipping.
If you kids want to restructure the entire service industry economy of the USA I'm down to help. But I'm a bit busy right now trying to keep a fascist bastard from turning the entire country into the worst version of Handmaid's Tale. After Mango Menace is gone I'm totally down.
Even though a lot of these “normalize” posts we see online are jokes, there are also a lot of them that aren’t. This blurred line between sarcasm and genuine beliefs about societal norms creates a way to lure people into accepting concerning standards.
Working 50-60 hours multiple jobs just to get by.
Across multiple jobs because nobody wants to pay overtime anymore.
Shaming short men for their height.
People acting like the world revolves around them.
Main Character Syndrome. Sort of a proto narcissism. Met a few over the years and definitely predates Gen-Z. Although that's what they named it and it's a good name. I appreciate that.
Another danger that follows normalization is complacency, a sort of calm satisfaction with the situation we’re in. Once something becomes standard, we are no longer opposed to it, no matter what the thing is.
Let’s use Trump as an example again. Many people didn’t like that he became president, and some even threatened to move if he got elected. Those who said that obviously didn't, and the rest got used to the idea of such a person running the US, subsidizing their resistance and protests.
Selfishness and the whole idea of "I don't owe anyone anything" attitude.
Yes look out for yourself but people have become quite dismissive of others and then we end up in a loneliness epidemic...
Can go the complete opposite direction for some major empathetic people who always overdo taking care of others though (like my Mom who is a nurse). For them, they could use a little be more of a dose of taking care of themselves a bit before others (like oxygen masks on an airplane).
Over consumption, fast fasion, factory farming, rampant homo-/transphobia or bigotry in general.
The idea that companies or economies should produce more each year when we are rapidly consuming every natural resource.
Journalist Evan Hecht warns that if we agree to normalize everything, it desensitizes people to real problems around a certain topic. He urges us to think about words like “gaslight” and "trigger,” which both describe bad things that happen to people. Their overuse or misuse takes away the importance of what they communicate. Throwing this word around can hurt people in the long run, as they might not realize they’re in a situation where these things are happening.
Smoking/vaping. I understand cigarettes were a big thing in the past but now I see a lot more people vaping or casually smoking weeeds. Everything’s got pretty colors and fun flavors to appeal to younger and younger people. If I’m remembering correctly I saw an article somewhere that cigarette smoke is at an all time low while also mentioning vaping is at record highs.
The constant dehumanization that everybody seems to do to the people they don't like.
Children obsessed with retinol products and thinking that 20 year olds look “old”.
OK this needs to stop! This is horrible quack medicine. Rubbing Vitamin A into your skin doesn't prevent wrinkles. Not only that but you can overdose on retinol supplements. Rubbing it on your skin is safe enough but some people are ODing from direct ingestion. You want to look younger, wear normal foundation. The way some of this is actually dangerous.
He proposes that we should learn to embrace how to destigmatize things over normalizing. When you stigmatize something, you remove the association of shame or guilt from certain actions or behaviors. He further explains, “To destigmatize taboo things, such as sex work, creates an environment that can still acknowledge the benefits and consequences of the action while making it something widely accepted. Normalization simply removes the idea of consequences, as the act is now considered “normal.”
Credit card debt.
Credit cards have their place, especially if you live in the US, where credit scores are important. An example: my husband and I have both worked really hard to attain and keep a very good credit score. We just recently paid off our house and have no car payments. Now, our credit score is going down because we don't have a monthly payment. Enter a credit card. We purchase groceries and gas on the card, and pay the card off twice per month, which maintains the credit score. I find the whole thing irritating as hell, but it's what we've got to work with here. 🙄
Loss of biodiversity. It's in your own back yard and nobody does anything. Every new project is a loss of ecosystem that many animals relied on.
Speaking of biodiversity in your own backyard....just this morning I watched 3 deer, one fox, 8 wild turkeys and a flock of geese in around the field in my backyard!
College tuition.
If college costs are so high that only the rich can afford them, who does that benefit, I wonder?
But the question is: why is it so easy for us to normalize even the worst kinds of behavior and events? Well, the rationalization of morally bad things usually aligns with whatever society deems acceptable at the time. A good example is greenwashing, where a company makes its product seem as environmentally friendly as possible without making any changes to it. They do so because they’re aware that people care about the earth they live on, or at least pretend to.
Alcohol. Period.
Cracks beer. Sorry not giving that one up. Not downvoting either BYW. I don't tell you what to do with your body, you don't tell me what to do with mine OK?
Children being obsessed with technology. sure as kids a lot of us were on the internet but i was never on it literally all the time. kids nowadays have actual meltdowns if they can’t be on their ipad rotting away their brains for 2 seconds.
u/nobearpineapples:
My youngest is brother 8 and if he’s not on the VR he’s on his computer, and he’s not on either it’s because he’s eating at the table with his tablet/ipad
Sorry but nobearpineapple’s parents are to blame for that situation. They should have restricted time on the iPad. Especially an 8 year old. A tablet can be a great creative and educational device. Just put the right apps on it and block the internet.
Absolutely, when I was a kid it was wanting to read a book or a little later wanting to watch TV. It was my parents job to tell me "we're at the dinner table just focus on your dinner and the people at the table". It's not different now, only the distraction has changed.
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"I'm a 21st century digital boy, I don't know how to read but I've got a lot of toys"
Unpopular opinion: If this is the way that our society is going and will be when these kids grow up (way too quickly I'm sure), then isn't in their best interest to be obsessed with this technology to be able to succeed, grow and work in that new insanely futuristic environment?
Knowing the technology and being obsessed with it are two very different things. Some kind of balance between indulging in tech and taking care of your body and mind would be preferable, I think.
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It is a behaviour that sneaked into our communities and families. Everybody, children and adults alike, IS Not able to live without digital devices for some quality time. We are at the table for dinner... the phone is nearby. We go out for a coffee with a friend... the phone is sitting on the table or in our hands. We are watching a movie in cinema... phones everywhere. And this behaviour is given to our children because they are watching their parents. It is normal so they just want to do the same.
How about an app that parents control that stalls out what their kids are doing at dinner time so actual, real face to face communication is used.
Parents let technology parent. Car ride, oh dear here is a DVD player. Grocery shopping, play with my phone. They have been giving kids technology since they could sit up. ENGAGE with your children. Car rides can and should be a time to talk and laugh and explore. If the kids are arguing in the backseat, what a great time to teach them about getting along. Grocery stores - ask your child for help, they can pick up things, they can check and compare prices and expiration dates. STOP HANDING THEM A DISTRACTION!
Exactly!! My niece has a no screen of any kind rule for her kids until they are 7 or 8. No TV, no ipad, no playing on mom's phone, no video games, nothing! If they go to a house and the TV is on, she will take her kids to another room to play. It's hard on a stay at home mom not to have screens as babysitters but it will make for smarter, more imaginative kids!
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Thats propably a problem of the surroundings you live in
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Children have always been obsessed with technology and they always will be.
It's practically a form of brain damage these days. I'm hardly ever off a screen myself and I'm middle aged, so how a child can be expected to cope when they've never known anything else and their brain is still forming I've no idea.
YES I have a cousin that is 6 (I'm late Gen z so decent age difference but not insane) and he is so annoying with his iPad... can't even eat without it and his mom does nothing. Almost no discipline with that kid either, yet the other two older siblings had to sit with their faces in a tree for ten minutes for swearing (teen years). Favorite child with no screen limits... I'm scared for him.
i think we should stop normalizing telling people to "go outside" when the weather is garbage 90% of the time because climate change.
Yeah, my niece is home schooled and the amount of time she spends looking at tik tok is awful. Her head is so full of bs facts that she is convinced is correct is nauseating. Trying to set her straight is just not worth the effort anymore. She is in for a huge reality check one of these days.
Things have changed a lot kids cant go a short card ride without electronics
*me who literally texts my sister when she’s right beside me*: yup couldn’t be me
Very high tipping percents, like 20-25%. It will eventually get to a point where people protest due to the high prices. Hell, there are even some people doing custom 0% now!
The backlash against tipping is growing. So, SO many people are asking for tips now, expecting them, during a time when people are working full time jobs and still living in their cars. So many situations are at a boiling point right now, at least in my country (US), and tipping is one of them.
It might not be an easy pill to swallow, but we’ve also normalized things that shouldn’t have been in the first place. Like racism or ableism, for example. The US still doesn’t make free healthcare or accessible architecture a given, and disabled people don’t have the same opportunities as able people. And when a black person gets shot or abused by a white policeman, we care for a while and might even think, “Something has to change.” But after some time, we move on, and everything remains the same until we see another victim on the news.
Developing parasocial relationships with celebrities.
Which is funny, considering all the celeb posts here at Bored Panda today and yesterday.
After all, normalization is partly normal, even biologically. Emotions come from our brains, and the mind wants to be happy in order to be productive. And it can’t be content and productive if they are forced to feel grief for everything that happens to strangers. So to adequately function, we "normalize.” But the media takes advantage of the brain’s coping and survival tactics, so people accept the way things are and remain nonchalant.
Going out in public and upset or annoyed at benign small talk or social interactions. I get it, we don’t necessarily feel social every time we are forced yo leave the house, but we’ve made it far to normal to react with disgust to simple friendliness.
Male customers recording me making their coffee at work.
Alcohol. At the least, in the sense people think they NEED to drink to "fit in."
Cosmetic Surgery. People need to embrace their natural looks, IMO it's mostly fueled by insecurity. It shouldn't be "fixed," it should be addressed.
Hook-up Culture. At the least, people need to stop being tricked into 'you need to have sex,' instead of just waiting for the right person.
If you "need" alcohol, you have a drinking problem. From one who has been in recovery for 23 years.
Sustained hopelessness in our generation's online activities and meme culture. I know we have it tough, but not enough of us seem to be operating on the principle that the human organism is a beautifully hardy thing that has historically weathered worse circumstances. Meditation is a great, free resource that channels the mystical properties of your imagination into a more comfortable internal projection of the world we live in.
I find this so sad, my 15 year old daughter came to me and said that she felt behind already because she doesn't have a job yet. She is already concerned that she will never have a house or be able to prosper because she isn't saving money already. I have reassured her as best I could, but I never felt that way at 15 and it makes me so sad for this generation.
It is not normal to be in the prime of your life and spending almost all of your free time alone, indoors, and addicted to video games and computers. That would be considered extraordinarily abnormal, worrying behavior in previous generations, a sign someone was extremely broken and depressed. Today it is the defacto norm for a *huge* swath of people.
Excuse me? Just because not everyone is a social butterfly and extrovert doesn't mean they should get called out like this. I just happen to be happiest at home and seeing as few people as possible. And no, I'm not addicted to video games and computers.
Bored Panda Staff: "Let's post this list every week. It's easier than finding new content."
Nonono, they have *brand new* celebrity tabloid stuff! I swear they do everything *except* what the users want.
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I don't like how sweeping generalizations and busybody moralism are "normalized", and yet here we are...
Acting like you don't like generalizations, but this list consists mostly of those generalizations. The scary part is that nobody can see that.
If you think Gen Z is annoyed by these things, ask a few boomers how they feel about it.
"We need to stop doing all the bad things...now." K...I'll add that to my list...thx.
Not my generation but I have one: Combatting an opinion you find offensive by making personal remarks/mocking the person. Eg. incel type makes a misogynist comment and people respond by saying something like “this coming from someone with a short d**k living in his mum’s basement”. What?! Making fun of someone’s physical attributes and economic status DOES NOT make you better. In fact, it’s just as bad. Be smart, be better. Address these things with robust, reasoned arguments - not insults. Grow up.
Bored Panda Staff: "Let's post this list every week. It's easier than finding new content."
Nonono, they have *brand new* celebrity tabloid stuff! I swear they do everything *except* what the users want.
Load More Replies... I don't like how sweeping generalizations and busybody moralism are "normalized", and yet here we are...
Acting like you don't like generalizations, but this list consists mostly of those generalizations. The scary part is that nobody can see that.
If you think Gen Z is annoyed by these things, ask a few boomers how they feel about it.
"We need to stop doing all the bad things...now." K...I'll add that to my list...thx.
Not my generation but I have one: Combatting an opinion you find offensive by making personal remarks/mocking the person. Eg. incel type makes a misogynist comment and people respond by saying something like “this coming from someone with a short d**k living in his mum’s basement”. What?! Making fun of someone’s physical attributes and economic status DOES NOT make you better. In fact, it’s just as bad. Be smart, be better. Address these things with robust, reasoned arguments - not insults. Grow up.
