In a moment of frustration or confusion, every mom and dad has said and done things that they later regretted. But that doesn't make them bad. There's a difference between making a mistake and negligence. And the subreddit r/BadParents is trying to find this.
"From naughty moms to drunk-in-public dads, if they are being idiots or crazy irresponsible, we want to see it," the online community writes on its 'About' page, inviting people to share examples of how not to raise kids.
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Stupidity At Its Best
My son hangs out with a neurotypical kid sometimes and I don't want him to start taking after him and becoming neurotypical. How can I nip this problem in the bud? I really don't want him to start asking me about my hobbies.
I find it offensive and I'm not autistic. My Uncle was though.
Load More Replies...My family has 3 members on the spectrum including me, so my heartfelt thanks to the person writing the response and to the pandas commenting here 🤗
i am also on the spectrum also i been diagnosed after 7 yrs, it took 7 yrs for me to be diagnosed on the spectrum
Load More Replies...WTF!!! Where the hell is this person from? Please start reading educational books. The school system burt your a*s to the ground there. I love the response to this.
Omg
A minute of silence and respect for the older brother. In an abusive household older siblings ofter do parent duties
My friend's husband tricked their 10 year old into planting marjauana in their yard.
Love my weed but kids should be kept separate from drugs. I don’t care how much hate I get from this opinion. But kids and drugs don’t mix
Load More Replies...Taking an honest assessment of someone's parenting style isn’t always an easy task. That’s why it’s important to first separate the behavior from the person.
Calling a person a “bad parent” isn’t something to jump to based on a difference in beliefs or parenting style.
Losing your temper every once in a while is not the same as telling your child, "I'm right, you're wrong, and there's nothing you can do about it."
Although people might disagree on what is "good" or "bad" parenting, most parents have both positive and negative parenting traits.
What A Horrible Parent
That is abuse. Don't make this kid not feel like she is not good enough. Also, you are giving her self doubt and negatively. You need to be positive and have self confidence to be successful. That negative s**t is going to cause failure.
Bro o 93% is amazing, it’s not like she didn’t study at all or didn’t pass
tell that to the indian parents. They crib if they a 99% too.
Load More Replies...I excelled in school. Pretty much every class and every subject was easy for me. I had a hard time with my daughter not doing as well. Then I realized: elementary grades don't matter in middle school, middle school grades don't matter in high school, high school grades don't matter in college, and after college the only thing that matters is that you have the degree. I know that's a simplification and that in some instances they do matter. But they matter less than many people think. I tell my daughter now that as long as she does her best, her grade isn't that important.
I got 93% this term too…I hate myself, I’m trying but I can’t do more, but my parents don’t think so. I’m such a s****y daughter
Quora is a garbage website. Its nothing by morons and wanna be edgy turds. I'd sooner read reddit unironically than visit Quora.
There is a LOT of garbage there, but there are also some quality posters that make it worthwhile. I fear it's getting increasingly worse, though.
Load More Replies...Reminds me of the time I waterboarded my son because he only got a 99.99% on his math test. God, obvious trolls.
Not Following Medical Instructions
see this is why doctors must tell patients WHY they are given that instruction.
That's right it has never been part of any pre OP discussion as to the why's......I have covered many pre ops, for mum, dad and myself as I have been their power of attorney for various reasons. I know why, because I asked Google not because Anybody in the health system has ever told me......not once.
Load More Replies...Reminds me of the (US) parents whose little daughter died of rabies, because they denied her the last chance of survival by getting the vaccine post-bat-bite. Reason: she is so afraid of needles and we can't stand seeing her cry.
This is a fake news story. The only child who died of rabies in the last several years died because he had an encounter with a bat and no bite marks were visible. The parents didn't know marks sometimes don't show.
Load More Replies...As a parent, you don't like your child whining "But why?!" But as adults, it's okay to ask a professional their opinion and when they give you answers and directions, expect that the doctor can read your mind that you have a question OR you should petulantly whine, "But why?!" GROW UP and take some responsibility! You can google every stupid thing under the sun but refuse to google a medical question and demand your doctor spoon feed you.
This dad is stupid. This is the reason why they need to put down why you can't eat after midnight. Don't assume everyone has this common knowledge
On the other hand - in Germany we (yes, I'm a doctor myself) still tell patients not to drink for eight hours before surgery, and it's unnecessary. Two hours without water is clearly enough. If medical staff constantly keeps telling the patients compete b******t, they shouldn't act surprised when people just stop listening. I absolutely recommend fact checking every single thing any doctor ever says. I talk to my colleagues. It's not all that great. Medical staff is not that competent.
This does entirely depend in the type of surgery. When you operate inside the bladder, or say a prostata removal, it'll complicate matter a lot if there's a lot of urine to drain, since the patient can't have a cathether in. Also a disadvantage if the cathether bag has to be emptied a lot during surgery, there are more Important things happening. Or some tissue shouln't be hydrated before surgery. Sometimes it's the other way around. Coronar angiography, for example. The patient has to drink a litre one hour before surgery, so the arterys are full and the equipment can fit inside them without causing the patient tremendous pain. It's different for all surgeries. #knowledgable_medical_staff
Load More Replies...sometimes, people should get a stupidity test before following medical (or any) intructions
This would be accurate if the father endangered himself. Not fair to endanger the daughter too
Load More Replies...Guess OP wasn’t paying attention when they blocked out the name, or they would’ve noticed. Just look at it, and you’ll know. Unless they subconsciously wanted to show us what they thought of the father.
To be absolutely sure, the hospital should have the child in overnight before surgery...
Raising Your Child Isn't Something They Have To Earn
Mine as well. "As long as you put your feet under my table..." Like, buddy, I ain't got much of a choice here now, do I?
Load More Replies...I always hated that. And being told I had to 'earn' my place in the house, along with the constant threat of being kicked out if I didn't 'earn my keep' daily.
I got that too. “If you don’t like it, leave.” Or “I’ll kick you out of this house so fast if you don’t do ___.” So I dropped out of high school and left 😅 they didn’t like that so much either haha
Load More Replies...You had me till "doing your laundry." At a certain age, certainly the teen years, you are capable of and should do at least some laundry. That way you will know how to do it yourself when you move out.
Hang on...how old are you? If you're over 18 and still living at home expecting this kind of treatment I think you need to think about that for a minute. If you're not contributing to the household in a positive or financial way, but living there and expecting your parent/s to do it all for you, as well as support you financially, then maybe that's why you feel guilty when your parent calls you out?
I have major existential guilt because of this. I feel like a waste of everything and that was a major part of my depression that started when I was 10 and is still happening.
I never felt guilt from parents saying this. It's true. And what wrong with this? Sometimes kids ask for too much stuff they don't need.
Her profile picture looks like late teens or older. If so she should be pulling her weight at home.
If you can Tweet and you own an iPhone you can do your own laundry at the very least.
Load More Replies...According to Sharron Frederick, LCSW, a psychotherapist at Clarity Health Solutions, kids who have little or no discipline are left to fend for themselves, which can result in injuries and also creates a child who does not understand boundaries.
"Children look to parents to define what boundaries are and the consequences that can occur if the child crosses the boundaries," she told Healthline.
The System Doesn't Help The Child
The mother is a selfish and greedy b***h. No, I don't mince words when it comes to horrible people.
Daughter is old enough to decide with which parent she wants to live, he has good chances to succeed taking her away from that plastic b!tch
Load More Replies...Time for another custody hearing—-but make sure you have solid proof where your money’s going. Plus, your daughter is 14, not 4. She’s old enough to decide which parent she wants to live with. She’ll choose you, and that will cut her mother off from the extra money per month.
I went through this growing up. My mom used the child support to buy herself booze, expensive makeup, clothes, seafood and steak dinners while my brother and I had hand-me-downs and poor quality food which was mostly the generic low-quality, processed brands that are beneath the store brand. If my grandparents hadn't stepped in we would have had next to nothing. If my dad bought anything on top of what he was already paying, my mom took it away and hid it or used it for herself.
I'm sorry you and your brother had to endure that ordeal.
Load More Replies...Ah I think after a certain age kids should have a say in which parents home they wish to have as their main residence
Depends on jurisdiction, but in the uk it’s taken into account.
Load More Replies...as someone who worked in family law it is a sad fact that there are parents who will use the child support as their personal income. support can and should be used to help with food, shelter/rent and personal items such as clothes. however, there is little that one can do to ensure that this actually happens without resorting going back to court to arrange some kind of accounting of expenses which is rare. it always made me very angry when i had these kind of cases.
How Many?
I feel bad for the poor child, having a father who would risk his life for some lousy 'likes'. Hopefully, prison will straighten out his priorities.
This isn't photoshop?!? When I first saw the picture I assumed it was just a joke in poor taste. How can anyone be awful enough to actually hold a child like that?
Crazy, but sadly real. Reported by the BBC https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-40339723
Load More Replies...He should be neutered, barred from being anywhere near children, and thrown in prison—-and I mean gen pop, where other prisoners who have children will make sure justice is served.
If you want someone to be sentenced to being raped, just say so. Prison rape is the same as any other rape - no acceptable and not funny.
Load More Replies...Found This On Gem On Instagram
I'm so sorry. I feel very lucky to have such a great mom, I'm sorry you don't have one too <3
Load More Replies...YES!!!! YYYYYEEEEEESSSSSS!!!! SAY IT LOUDER FOR THOSE IN THE BACK!!!!!! You treat us like sh1t when we're kids/teens, we will make the choice as adults to never have anything to do with you again. You treat us like sh1t as adults, see option 1. And guess what? Once we're not dependant on you to live, you can f#ck right the hell off with all your patronizing, infantilizing nonsense. Too many of us had to run way earlier than we should have to get away from this sort of parent.
yep this is right. You treat kids s**t they will ignore/disown you as an adult.
My father did not learn this until I stayed away for almost two yrs and then he still has crazy issues.
I can’t wait till I get to college and can cut off contacts with my family.
I leaned my mothers lessons. I am super close with my adult daughters.
Unlike parents who enforce little to no discipline, Frederick thinks parents who practice strict or rigid discipline (aka act like autocrats) do not allow their child to explore their world, which often leads to a child who becomes fearful and anxious or rebellious.
The Baby Is In There
How is he even standing on that thing without it tipping over? Stupid b*stard should’ve slipped and fallen on his a*s the moment he tried to get on it
Wanted to get a glimpse of his orange skinned hero at any cost?
The baby probably died sadly, no way he didn't crush the poor thing!
When Your Son Is Smarter Than You Are
I guess Susan forgot she became anti-vaxx because of something she read on the internet.
You mean he read about vaccinations the same way and same place you read about your anti-vaxx b******t? Looks like your son is less gullible and better at filtering out fake c**p on the internet, and finding the truth than you will ever be.
Yea, I’m guessing most of these are trolls or fake, and I’m glad, but I’m still afraid if one of these are real
Load More Replies...At least he's better than his mother and all the other idiot morons who use Facebook as a source of medical information.
Any anti-vaxxers in chat lol? (I thought this post would bring some out I am pleasantly surprised)
This is either fake or is talking about something other than covid. Look at the date.
Sounds more like God was passed out when He gave brains to Susan Smithers.
Load More Replies...This Is Awful
I would much rather have ALL the gay children than ONE bigot parent. This is so sad. I told my son from childhood about what homosexuality was and that if he had feelings for the same sex, that there was nothing to be ashamed of. I encouraged him to come to me if he was confused about his sexuality and I would be a safe person to talk to. Bless this poor kid's heart on this post. His mom deserves the hatred, not the son.
Load More Replies...'You're never going to find happiness.' ... 'I am sick of hearing from others how well you are doing.' 😆 They're getting the best revenge ever on their POS Mom by just living.
That, and anyone that lives with so much hate and judgement is not a happy person. I think it’s sad that people use religion or the Bible to justify how they are better and tell everyone else that they are inferior. Homosexuality never even made it to “God’s Top 10” list. Meanwhile lots of other sins that we would consider silly or insignificant by todays standards carried a penalty of death. A woman who marries without being a virgin. Working on the sabbath. If your Ox kills someone. A child that curses or hits a parent. Anyone who failed to abide by a decision by the court (no appeals?)
Load More Replies...wow, I'd post her name and put her on instagram and share with the queer community and get them to dogpile her. What a piece of s**t.
This was kinda sad so here’s some good news: I came out to my aunt last night. Most of my extended family is homophobic, but it went really well and she ended up coming out to me and were both bi. There’s hope out there and it sucks if this is your situation but you can make it through and find support.
This blows my mind. Like badly written villain territory. I often try to weigh things/arguments from both sides, but Jesus.. I mean, even for a conservative nut job like this, surely having a gay son is a tame outcome compared to other life paths people walk today. For me and my community in Ireland, “gay” is just as mundane and normal as any other relationship. Like we don’t particularly car when straight strangers get married in town, the same goes for gay strangers. Sorry for the ramble! I am just a bit shell shocked there is so much hate for something I/we have literally no opinions about one way or the other!?
“Man shall not sleep with man” stfu that’s not what it says in the Bible, it says “Man shall not sleep with BOY” which mean Pedofilia is wrong not LGBTQA+ (as a atheist, don’t ask me how I know this)
“Ignoring a child is telling them that your love is conditional,” Frederick said, adding that withdrawing affection because a child does not do what they are told causes similar harm.
“These types of behaviors can cause a child to have low self-esteem and low confidence, which can result in a child not expressing their wants and needs,” she said.
Quora Is Filled With S***ty Parents... This Is Just One Out Of Thousands
I know! Pretend you’ll treat them nice then treat them the same once they are there! /s
Load More Replies...Is it me or do the responses just make wild assumptions about both the parent and the child? (Maybe it is a troubled teen and the parent has already been to the police - they aren't always that helpful.)
Ummm...as a child who ran away at 13 and spent two years homeless....let me tell you family dynamics always contribute, but the child's choice is a major factor. There are many other ways to escape a bad situation. Call DPS. Call 911. If things are that bad. If the kid is running away because the parents refused to allow their 13yo child to date a 52 year old man....maybe you should back the parents up on this.
Want help with teen slang, devious mom? OK. Here's some of the latest: "23-skidoo", "the cat's pajamas", "Oh you kid", and "Coo-coo-cachoo!" You'll blend in so well that you'll start to think you're actually a teenager. By the way, if your daughter texts you "WTF", she means "Wait Till Friday".
This is my mom and me only she was pissed at me for being a horrible and severely ungrateful daughter lol. To this day she doesn't understand that she drives people away.
I Wonder Why
Yeah, this was like my whole childhood. I had a horrible panic disorder and an abusive father.
Aww I’m so sorry for you. As someone who’s growing up with good parents, i hope you got new ones <33
Load More Replies...that happened to me. i started crying so hard that i couldn't breathe. just kept hicupping and crying... my father said i was just "faking it to be dramatic". i was six.
Holy Jesus, I've had a few anxiety attacks before and it takes a lot, weather it be from yourself or from there, to trigger one. What did you do?!
These parents should have all four limbs amputated and be denied any form of care.
This happens to me when other people argue I think raised voices are my trigger
Load More Replies...Yeah, because my parents never yelled at me (they used their words, not volume and I responded), I would freak out when any other adult did or yelled at their kids. Like it would really scare the heck out of me.
It scary to think about how much the daughter was yelled at for that to happen
Don't Punish The Dog For Your Terrible Parenting
On the original post on Reddit someone wrote that Javier was adopted by a good family with kids and he only spent few days at the shelter 💚
I hope you're right. If that's the way they punish a child, they need to be reported to Children's Services.
Load More Replies...Like also this kid is going to be traumatized not know if the dog is going to be ok. Like child abuse and animal abuse
Subconsciously this parent never wanted the dog in the first place, or they wouldn’t have pounced on the first fabricated excuse to take Javier to the pound. Such a*****e behavior. Poor Javier and poor kid.
The parents are morons, their child deserves better parents too.
Load More Replies...Poor child does. What a horrible punishment and a way to get rid of the dog ... they should report cases like this .. camera footage straight to child services
Load More Replies...I cannot imagine ever giving up a dog. It would seriously break my heart.
Same.. I was ready to be homeless when I couldn't find an affordable place to rent with my dog.. I moved states where I could afford to buy a house and this was one of the main reasons why. Where I go, my pup goes!
Load More Replies...I feel just as sorry for the kid as I do the dog. He's going to remember when he "forced the evil jerks raising him to give up his dog."
look at the face of the dog, specially his eyes. I can say he is saying something like: What did I do wrong?
As time goes by, according to Frederick, this can lead to co-dependency, in which the child will adapt to how they feel a person wants them to act. "Many times, this can lead to relationships that are abusive," she explained.
Translation: “She Broke My Phone So I Made Her Eat A Hot Pepper”
Holy SH!T. That's child abuse. Poor baby. I'm gonna stop reading bc it's making me very upset.
Yeah, I agree. I can't bear this sort of thing. I'm out.
Load More Replies...straight up child abuse. Especially such a small child does not know what a phone is, or its cost. moreover why are you even giving such a small child a phone to play with?
That's beyond bad parenting that's abuse. Is there any follow up did this monster face consequences?
Looks like it was posted 4 years ago on Bad Parents subreddit, doesn't look like there was any update but I only read the top half of the comments.
Load More Replies...OH MY FÚCKING GOD! THAT POOR BABY! YOU GAVE YOUR MOTHERFÚCKING BABY A PEPPER!? POOR THING! I HOPE THE MOTHER GETS HER KIDNEYS PULLED OUT AND FORCE FEED HER GALLONS OF BEER WHILE KNIFES GO INTO THE SIDES OF HER NECK AND HER TOENAILS GET RIPPED OFF BRUTALLY AS HER EYES ARE PLUCKED OUT BY FÚCKING CROWS!
She's a BABY FFS. No worse than that mom who beat her toddler for getting into her s****y Jeffery Star make up.
Excuse me, this mom did WHAT?! (I can't find a emoji mad enough so show how I'm felling, so just pretend.)
Load More Replies...OP, please give your sweet baby to a loving family, then go eat scrambled eggs before surgery.
This is awful but I just wonder...why is everyone in agreement that this is "horrific child abuse that someone should be tortured to death for" while the trend of giving babies lemons is funny? The reaction to the pepper in this picture is very similar to many of those videos. Also, lemons can irritate the stomachs of babies if they are very young, so if this is child abuse how was that trend on AFV?
Because sourness doesn't hurt, unlike spicyness, and the baby can stop eating it while this baby is forced to.
Load More Replies...Denying Daughter Therapy Because Of Grades. Like As If Mental Health Didn’t Affect Grades In The First Place?
Why do some people just not get it? Like really, who gives a flyingfuck what she gets
Classes can be retaken to improve grades—-it’s why they invented tutors and summer school. But just because there’s a little surface improvement doesn’t mean she’s “cured”. Do NOT take away the one thing that’s actually helping her! Depression can manifest in very deceiving ways, and severely depressed people can look perfectly fine. Additionally, one sign that a depressed person who is also suicidal has decided to finally go through with killing themself is they suddenly look like they’ve “snapped out of it” and are back to normal. They aren’t, and you need to not leave them alone for a second, but call their therapist ASAP and follow their instructions and recommendations for which hospital or clinic you need to get them to right now, or you WILL lose them before the day is done.
Load More Replies...Is it bad that I didn't care that much about my kid's grades on school work? I just saw it as a chance to find where she needs help. But to punish? What's up with that?
This doesn't make since. Also, the whole post should be up. This dad is an idiot. Healing and treatment takes time. It is hard to get good grade with that. You stopped treatment. Not only is that abuse but is going to make everything worse
Ready the whole post, dad did an 180 and let her go to therapie again, also apologized to her and to the other users for being ignorant
Load More Replies...Original Post (as opposed to the edited one linked here) the whole reddit community lays into the father, who is an update says he is talking with his wife and promised to continue to the therapy. https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/hy6m0f/aita_for_cancelling_my_daughters_therapy_because/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
Mine don’t believe in depression so no therapy, school assigned me three therapist, one for each year. All of them have different happy personas of me so no one can figure out I need help
"I Hate Who My Child Is, How Can I Change It To Be Something I Like"
Be happy she’s found her own individual style—-which isn’t wrong just because it’s not the same as your overdone style. Your daughter sounds a lot classier than you are. Her skin will be in better shape for not slapping tons of makeup on it every day, and you evidently never heard what Coco Chanel said about accessories; that you should look in the mirror on your way out of your house, then take off one accessory before going out your door. She said it because some people tend to over accessorize. Simplest is best—-and way more elegant than walking around juggling from wearing way too many extra necklaces or bracelets, having too many rings on your fingers, or earrings that are way too big. Do people not understand the concept of simple elegance? Choose accessories sparingly. Same goes for fabric and styling of clothing, and the ruffles, bows, and other fol-de-rol added to it. Too much is too much. Leave your daughter alone, or she’ll turn 18 and decide to leave you alone. For the rest of your life.
You should be. Some parts of being a girl SUCK.
Load More Replies...My child used to love jewelry and fluffy dresses and then one day just stopped liking any of it. I was a little heart broken as I loved sharing that stuff with her but I understood. Now she has her own style and is confident in herself and I couldn't be more proud. People need to realize there are many ways to be "girly" and they are all okay!
Frederick also said that children who experience overly rigid or strict discipline can have issues with control of others, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and other anxious behaviors, together with the mindset that the world is dangerous.
On the opposite end of the spectrum, there's the rebellious child who fights with their parents, breaks the rules, and engages in negative behaviors.
Using Your Child’s Educational Growth For Views
I'm normally against age-based restrictions (not everything, but some things are not thought through). Increasingly though, I feel that it should be illegal to produce online content with children outside of a professional labour contract and that there needs to be work done on creating internationally binding regulations on child labour in the enterainment industry
There's a massive loophole with child labor laws and YouTube videos. Kids in commercials, TV shows, and movies are protected by federal and state labor laws. Legislation hasn't caught up to vlogging. And maybe I don't understand as a childfree adult, but it seems super weird to make a reaction video about your kid's report card.
Load More Replies...Why do people insist on broadcasting the intimate details of their lives to everyone? Look at me, look at me! Now, go away, and stay off the internet.
Not the intimate details of their lives, but of their children's. Make a fool of yourself, fine. Leave your kids out of it.
Load More Replies...F**k these "parents" and f**k all the people supporting these "parents" uploading these videos to "show parents aren't perfect".
Parents who video their children for likes must’ve been banned from ever procreate. Alas…
I imagine these types of "parents" end up in care homes later on in life because their kids want absolute squat to do with them and you know what, I wouldn't blame them one bit... Smh!!!
Why would you bring in Taylor Laurenz for anytying, she is a so-called journalist with a history of antisemitism, harassing jews on Jewish holidays, fabricating stories (why the NY Times fired her and are being sued over, before WaPo hired her, and now has several lawsuits due to her), as well as doxxing people she disagrees with personal addresses and info, etc. She is a horrible human being, dont give her any attention
Just... Wow
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH
Load More Replies...I always wondered what became of Agatha Trunchbull (Matilda's teacher).
Child pageants may burn in their special little hell, making their children living dolls instead of just letting them be kids
this isnt about pageants but you make a good point so idk why so many people are downvoting you
Load More Replies...Don’t you do Dolores Hargreeves like that
Load More Replies...Yeah And I'll Help Out By Posting This On Reddit
I don't get politics, but why would you take money out of your CHILDS COLLEGE FUND to support a guy? Like, why? It wasn't even your money
Donald Trump is thinking "Great idea. Sounds like something I'd do. Unless there was a children's cancer charity I could siphon it off from. But they already caught me at that."
The fact that you donated to a man who brags about how much money he has, says it all.
So that person took a risk with their daughter's future for someone stupid? You must meet my parents! You are going to love them.
I don't condone kids disowning their parents per se, but I'll make some exceptions. Starting with this Trump-A-Dum-Dum over here... Smh...
It's not a matter why they took the money - it wasn't theirs to take. Once the money goes into the child's fund, it belongs to the child for college. I don't know about legally but morally that's just wrong.
Load More Replies...A 2014 study found that harsh parenting, which includes verbal or physical threats, frequent yelling, and hitting, along with immediate negative consequences for a specific behavior, can lead to children having emotional and behavioral issues, such as aggressiveness and following directions at school.
She Needs To Let Go
Your son is an adult of 25 years old. He can do as he pleases. You need help for your clinginess.
Answer: You Don't!!! And I hope your son sues you for theft as well... Smh!!!
You don't sue someone for theft. It's a criminal, not civil, matter. And a criminal court is where she's headed and where she belongs. It's in civil court where they'll issue the restraining order.
Load More Replies...Welp. I'm no longer a _bored_ panda. Now I'm busy trying to keep my faith in humanity.
you dont - he's older than 21. I hope he takes more than 8000 from you.
I call b.s. A 25 year old no longer 'belongs' to a parent, he is an adult. No way the 'parent' should have access to the 25 year old son's bank account unless he is vulnerable. The court case is probably a criminal case for fraud or theft.
Tf
Excuse me, just because some of us have autism! I am genuinely shocked. I have so much love for that poor kid
Couldn't imagine this. Have to not be a very good parent before the news
Load More Replies...As terrible as this is, some people are not cut out to care for children with different needs. It may be a blessing in disguise for this child, and I guess at least the mother is aware of her shortcomings? I don't know what would be better fot this child, being taken away or staying with a parent who knows thay can't meet the child's needs...
I was thinking the same. As disgusting as the post is, I'd rather see the kid with a loving foster family than a Mother that resents them.
Load More Replies...I am a Grandmother. I will take that poor child in half a heart beat and give him all the love that you evidently can't have for anything but yourself. He will be well taken care of and it will not be in a foster care situation. You do not deserve him. I will adopt him as my child. He will join my other two who are now happy and healthy adults who have grown up, following their dreams.
imagine having a kid, figuring out he has a mental disorder, but before that loving him whole heartedly, suddenly stop loving him. your the reason god made middle fingers. you have more d1ck in your personality than you do in your pants.
Is this who I think it is? These people suck. Such entitlement they think kids are expendable if they don't meet their ideal criteria.
autistic kids are beautiful people i have a friend who is autistic he is so nice! one nicest friends ever.
I hope his siblings eventually abandon this dum-dum in a care home later on as well!!! Smh!!!
May This Person Not Have A Daughter Ever
I want to believe this was written by an angry incel non parent
Load More Replies...Make that all women. Cam we just send all these Incels to a technically habitable island somewhere.
Load More Replies...If this guy has a daughter, alert the Vatican. Tell them there's been another immaculate conception.
Load More Replies...Wouldn't it be neat if thinking or saying things like this instantly turned the person sterile?
Most parents (62%) say that raising a child has been at least somewhat harder than they expected, with about a quarter (26%) saying it’s been a lot harder. This is especially true of mothers, 30% of whom say being a parent has been a lot harder than they expected (compared with 20% of fathers).
Not Sure If It Fits Here, But Here's A Mini Rant About My Mother Not Letting Me Choose How I Want My Hair
Sounds like my ex talking to our son. Wanna guess why we divorced and our son has seen him maybe a total of 6 times in a year with 2 of those times being from running into each other while out on errands and 2 being holidays? Those 6 times add up to around <5 hours. Our son is almost 19 now. I told his father years ago when we left, our son was 7 years old, that he made the difference then but one day our son would get to make it. Guess who regrets being an absolute 🐓🍭 to their only child now? Our son visits him about 2-3 hours every couple of months or so at his choice. I watched him cry as a child having to do court ordered visitation until the court finally allowed it to be no overnight stays about 5 months in. Then his father started skipping visits here and there for being "too tired to watch him" and "the race is on this weekend". Courts then let our son decide if he wanted to visit him and when. So thankful that the system worked for him as it tends to fail a lot of kids.
Love the use of 🐓🍭. You sound like a very good parent :)
Load More Replies...Sounds like my mother. She was so controlling . Among many other things I wasn't allowed to decide on my haircut until i was a teenager. And when I was in college, and died my hair red, she "jokingly" said i better not come home if I choose to look like that. Jokes on her, i cut all contact with her 8 years ago
Pretty much my story too but it's only been 4 yrs since I went NC. I'm so much happier and just better in general since I did that.
Load More Replies...I can't understand parents who think their children don't get to have opinions, purely because they are children. My mum let us choose our hairstyle from about 3, including shaving mohawks for my brothers herself.
Children's opinions always matter, if even if they're wrong. In fact, especially if they're wrong. Informed judgement comes from conversation, not your 18th birthday.
My mom was a Jehovahs witness and tried to force me to live by their rules, for men, long hair was the devil's work. If a man's hair got anywhere near his shoulders he was on the path to evil. I wanted long hair in high school, mom told me she'd shave my head and eyebrows while I slept if I ever said I wanted long hair again.
Letting a child experiment with their hair is one of the least harmful ways they can explore who they are. Whether they color it, shave it, Mohawk it, bleach it, whatever. If it's ridiculous their peers will surely let them know. If it's a little different, or is what they think is stylish, or doesn't work the way they'd hoped with their type of hair, it JUST DOESN'T MATTER. Because it will always grow back.
This happened to me as a kid, but with religion. My mom is Christian, and I am an atheist. I tried to tell her this, but she told me that I was not old enough to decide that kind of thing and that I should wait until I'm 18 and have moved out to make that kind of decision, like wtf??
Took Me 27 Years To Finally Do It, And I Get This In Return As A Reply
Good for them! When I finally did this it was terrifying & cathartic.
My parents divorced when I was 17, but my mother moved back in with my Dad after her last boyfriend beat on her. I'm having a discussion with my Dad telling him I wanted to go back to school and get a degree so I could make some decent money. My mother butts in and say "I never went to school. I stayed at home to raise you kids." I replied with "And how did that work out? You're divorced, living with your ex because you can't hold a job down, your last boyfriend beat you and your kids don't want anything to do with you because of the abuse you heaped on us for years. What makes you think I want to be anything like you?" She just about blew a fuse. My Dad was like "I think you better go...I'll handle this." I left, but I'd never felt so liberated in all my life!
can someone explain to me whats bad about this post pls? i don't understand prob because im still pretty young
The father is telling the (grown) child that he loves them. The child is pointing out with how the father failed to love them. It looks like the parents got divorced and the dad didn't bother to be there for the child in any way.
Load More Replies...Apparently, you were a piece of sh*t as a parent. This surprises you how?
These posts are actually bringing me to the verge of tears. I am a well treated 14yo
I was in the same situation with my mother. Good job for taking a stand and speaking your mind. I know for me, it was hard at first but in the end, it was worth it.
Hey! Sounds like my dad! Last I talked to him though, I told him if I ever got married/had kids etc. That he'd never know it from me and any kids wouldn't know he existed and that he could die in a ditch for all I cared. Jerk started trash talking my mom so I just talked to him like he was a 2yo and hung up.
When Your Dad(50) Gets His 21yo GF Pregnant And Then She Leaves Him. He Can’t Take The Rejection(And The Fact That She Won’t Get Back With Him) So Much So That He Would Rather Not Have Anything To Do With The Kid And Ropes You Into It
However, most parents give themselves high marks for it, with 64% believing they do an excellent or very good job as a parent (32% say they do a good job, while just 4% say they do a fair or poor job as a parent).
Mothers and fathers rate themselves similarly, but there are differences by income and by race and ethnicity (upper-income and Black and White parents are the most likely to say they do an excellent or very good job).
Wow
That was done on purpose so it would be easier to remove him from the pictures. I wonder if dad knows about this.
Load More Replies...When you marry someone with kids, you get the kids too. Don't want step kids? Don't marry someone with kids. I hope her husband saw this and divorced her.
I remember this post and a similar one originally posted in a Facebook group called 2u2 two under two. Luckily she was told how awful it was and admins had to turn comments off. (For parents that have two kids with less than two year age gap) it was mostly Americans and it was shutdown after some horrible racist argument erupted in it. I left at that point so I can't tell you anymore. Sorry to say this but it re-enforced many of the stereo-types that Europeans have of Americans
My mum did something similar to me when she gave birth to my brother. My brother is from my mum and stepdad and she wanted pics just with his kid.
So Now The Animal Must Suffer Bc It Doesn’t “Like Your Daughter The Split Second It Meets Her”??
Yes, for those who don't know me, I'm being extremely sarcastic.
Load More Replies...Oh my gosh that poor hamster! I've had my hamster for almost two years and sometimes he still doesn't like me holding him. That's just how he is. I would never punish him for it.
Humans who purposely try to make animals be their Disney fantasy are the worst hey
Load More Replies...Wtf How Are You Gonna Let Your Daughter Do This
When I was in nursing school we were doing our OB clinical rotation. Got to witness a 14 year old girl give birth. Didn't want an epidural because she was"tough as sh¡t and ain't gonna puss out" (direct quote). Girl was in labor for around 12 hours and was absolutely climbing the walls screaming and crying by the 2nd hour. She had no clue how childbirth happened, never took a class or read a book, no education. The girl couldn't understand that she got pregnant to begin with because she had "rinsed out with water" after sex. Her parents were with her, no baby daddy there (supposedly a 27 year old man). Parents just completely shell shocked the entire time. Girl would scream for her parents to help her, they just stood there dumbfounded looking at us. Pitiful situation all around.
27 year old man? shouldnt the police have been involved at that point, that is rape and the baby's DNA is literally evidence
Load More Replies...If the father in question is a 12 year old boy, it's less a bastard that raped her and more a poor kid whose parents failed him just as much as her parents failed her.
Load More Replies...Kids in school talk about sex early. So, I told my daughter at age 8 of the diseases. Kids at school were taking about it. Plus my kid is really smart for her age. I showed her pictures of the diseases. When she was 10 I let her see what child birth looked like. ALL this stuff about sex it out there. You're damn right I am going to show her the facts that aren't in their face. If Kids are educated on diseases and what it can do to them emotionally they just look at all these "sexy" advertisements and what their friends say and roll with it. I want my child to be educated. Sex isn't just some fling or a casual thing. Kids need to understand that. It is sad that we do have to say this a very young ages. But all this s**t is out there in their faces. You can shelter your kid all day long but the go to school, see advertisements all over. It is just in their face.
Seeing this at age *YOUNG* and cursing my lungs out
Load More Replies...For the most part, kids agree. 67% of them say they get along well, or pretty well, with their parents. What's more, 85% say they have fun with their parents, and 79% of kids also feel close to their folks.
People Like This Just Shouldn't Leave Their House
well I know people who let their pets walk on tables so I see this in the same light. It's gross and unhygenic.
I would be telling that kid to park her keister on the seat and smarten up. Kid's in a public setting so any parenting strangers have to do when the parents refuse should be acceptable. You raise kids to function in society.
omg when i was on vacation some kids where like this and i swear to god they kept looking over the seat and kept climbing on the seat behind us and the parents weren't even paying attention to their kids
Load More Replies...We all know what that little girl's got to grow up to be. Those parents should be ashamed.
This Mom
disable mom's tech in such a way that it looks plausible... and deny any knowledge of it... and let her go pay someone to get it fixed.
Isn’t that…normal? If I don’t finish my homework, two chapters and extra worksheets one day I get one week of no tech, no junk food and no going outside
The Next Brad Mondo Right Here
Congratulations! You just infected your daughter with your own dumb decisions- here’s the dumbass award!
Why Would You Give Ghost Pepper Sauce To 4 Year Olds?!
This moron is annoyed that his young children don't appreciate his ghost pepper sauce.
The good people of Reddit seem to have concluded this one is a joke due to the pfp and surname of the account. I feel like this would have been on more than just Reddit if it had really happened.
I think this might be a joke… it sounds like one of those joke Amazon reviews
I mean, I geuss hes a new parent so he really wouldnt know. ANd plus, you can tell he felt really bad. So rn im not jusging. It was kinda stupid to give four yr olds ghost pepper sauce, but still/
When I was little a adult thought it would be a good idea to put hot sauce on my fingers to get me to stop sucking my fingers. It is fuking child abuse.
Reminds me of a customer who yelled at me cos her 3-4 yr old couldn’t handle how hot our restaurants ‘hot wings’ were, the menu had 4 chillies next to the item to visually show how hot they were. I honestly halted my professionalism that day out of how stupid this situation was, who orders hot wings for a toddler
Question And Answer Found On Quora
I'd like to ask his "well adjusted adult children" how "imperfect" of a father he was...I have a feeling they may disagree with his assessment and level of responsibility regarding it.
Never take medical advice from gibbons, no matter how frank they are.
Well- if he is the father to 5 well adjusted adult children, either their mother was AMAZING, he was absent, and or, they just dodged a MASSIVE bullet!?
What The Hell
Florida man. Not even surprised. . https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/270lb-man-sits-on-son-and-suffocates-him-while-playing-video-game-a6793441.html
The good news is that he got sentenced to 20 years in prison for this.
Load More Replies...I Found This On Instagram
The people in that thread actually telling the kids to behave. Geez.
The people "watching" are funny. Can any of them read? It's a joke people. She can stand outside the door and see them while she smokes. Smh
Those complete strangers on Facebook are doing a much better job at raising these kids than that horrible excuse for a mother is. I applaud them for that.
i hope Dee Jackson went to jail and those kids are getting the care that they deserve!
I assume your name comes from what people say when you come near them.
Load More Replies...For Stealing Food
I hope they live out the remainder of their pathetic existence in the slammer!!! Smh!!!
I used to work for Child Safety, and stuff like this makes me SO MAD!
Free Trampoline... Sure We Have Room For It
Let's calculate the probability that someone using the trampoline will go off the building and perish.
To be fair, I would pretend I was in Bora Bora with a drink on that thing but I would never let my kiddos out on the balcony. I’m a paranoid parent.
They might just want to get to the roof. Or they might be utterly idiots.
Maternal Instinct: -100
I hope your child grows up with loving stepparents and you lead a miserable lonely life without him/her there at all... Smh!!!
Mom Cuts Daughter’s Hair Because Dad Got It Done Without 'Permission'..."I Took My Boys To Get Their Hair Cut And Got My Bby Girl's Hair Done. Look What Her Momma Did Just Because I Got My Bby Hair Did"
Way to punish your kid for the other parents actions. Real parenting right there.
But was the other parent's actions even something to punish?
Load More Replies...Wow. What a waste of money and way to go breaking a child's heart. Incredibly selfish woman.
Why? Just...why?
I think Bugs Bunny had the right idea in sawing off Florida from the rest of the continent...
I'm about ready to dislocate the face that I'm seeing right now >:-( Smh!!!
It's always f*****g Florida. You must be an idiot if you live there.
Just Found This
By letting stupid people breed. Also, the amount of time people spend every day scrolling through the Internet reading "the truth" doesnt help at all. Watch the movie "Idiocracy", seemed like a far fetched comedy when it came out, looks more like a documentary with each passing day now.
Load More Replies...You've never seen your neighbour be taken away to live in an iron lung, or smelled someone who has a grey, rotting lining in her throat from diphtheria, have you?
I hope for your sake that you do not get to attend their funerals.
And I hope the reason is that the parent has already had theirs.
Load More Replies...I work with someone who was brought up by fundamentalist Christians who didn't believe vaccines and immunizations. She went and got them herself now that she's an adult.
So you've decided to let your kids die. What a good parenting choice!
I remember kids with polio before a vaccine was available. Vaccines saved so many from a horrible disease. Vaccines for smallpox, chicken pox, measles, influenza, mumps, HPV, diphtheria , tetanus and other diseases. Ever seen someone with Shingles? My son had it. Horrible blisters all over his body. Vaccine now for that too. Get your kids vaccinations and be grateful you have them and don't live 100 years ago when kids and adults suffered and often died before vaccines were created.
The Elders “Don’t Climb Our Rock” Mother “Lets Climb It Anyway”
I'm glad the day I went to Uluru it was too windy for us to climb because I was too young to understand the significance and make the choice myself at the time.
I’ve never been but all my friends have… apparently it’s a really cool experience, and so is NT in general
Load More Replies...For those who's wondering Uluru is the Aboriginal name for Ayers rock, and you actually can't climb it because it is a sacred place.
I looked up whether it was clear that you shouldn't climb Uluru, and why. I found a web page explaining exactly, "why you shouldn't climb Uluru." At the bottom were numerous ads for tours of Uluru, any of which might otherwise lead someone to presume they included a climb. https://ulurutoursaustralia.com.au/blog/why-you-shouldnt-climb-uluru/
I like the locals reasons better, that covered nothing important to the people other than a the generalisation of the place itself
Load More Replies...I understand no-one is allowed to climb it now, and this is how it should be. You don't ask to climb the outside of the White House, the Eiffel Tower or St Paul's Cathedral.
Those are things people made and own though. Uluru is a completely natural formation so I don't think it belongs in the same category
Load More Replies...I'm an Aussie and I would never EVER climb Uluru. To much of a pússy. Do wanna see the outback tho. Very beautiful
She was lucky. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7576981/Horror-Uluru-girl-12-plunges-30-METRES-slipping-climbing-sacred-rock.html
Load More Replies...First of all, NO ONE should be allowed to climb Uluru. I THINK they finally made that a thing? IDK but that is a sacred place for the indigenous people of "Australia" and watching colonizers climb it has to be horrendous. When will people learn to have some f*****g respect.
"Bubbles" Loses Child To Foster Care Then Posts This Shortly After. Never Getting Child Back According To Fam Svcs
Emotionally, I agree with you. Practically, though, we all know such a process would quickly turn into a political/religious/nationalism test, which would likely result in good people not being able to have children.
Load More Replies...But it's a blessing for the kids, right? I know a lady had a daughter with disabilities. She should have giving her child up long before she did. She'd not change kids diaper for 4/5 hours or more. It's a blessing for all of them. Friends took her kid, so she sees her a few times a year.
It is the child who is receiving the blessing here - its horrible "parent" has been taken away from its life.
This Is What My Dad Says To Me After Being Absolutely Miserable For The Past Week And Still Awaiting My Covid-19 Test Results
“You just need to get out of the house” was my parents go-to solution when I got sick as a kid. Like interacting with my friends would magically reduce a fever or stop me from vomiting.
Well, it would likely magically make your friends start.
Load More Replies...Double edged sword here. Yes, he could have helped. Additionally, getting outside and breathing fresh air significantly lessens cold symptoms and improves how you feel during the cold. And yes ppl, I understand COVID is not just a cold.
Baby Proofing? Nah... Darwin Award Maybe?
On the scale of gross to dangerous, you ask? Well, I'd say somewhere between the #YouFnMoron and #PleaseNeverProcreateAgain level. Smh!!!
With UK sockets... probably fine. But discourage it anyway just in case.
You know how an outlet works right? You have to touch the contacts inside both hole at the same time to complete the circuit. It's very unlikely that would happen.
I Think This Meets The Criteria Of A Bad Parent?
When this happens the baby is born with a nicotine addiction and will cry and cry and there are videos of mothers blowing smoke into babies breathing area and they calm down
Load More Replies...Don´t believe our grandmas were so uninformed and careless overall and that today people are so much better overall. I know my 1920 born grandmas never smoked or drank during their pregnancies and it was already reckonned a pretty bad idea. And still, as off today, a staggering 17% of regular smoking pregnant women still smoke during pregnancy.
Load More Replies...This could be a joke because it looks very intentional. If not… that’s really bad
Pregnancy is about 38 weeks from conception till birth, but since conception dates vary within each woman’s cycle we count from 1st day of last menstrual period, which is about 40 weeks.
Load More Replies...Hmm, Yes, Checks Out
I'm confused about the packaging, why does it say to quit
Load More Replies...Hmm it depends on how old the kid is. If they're 18 then I think it's their choice.
I don't think that matters, why would you ever buy your kids f**s?? Like why?
Load More Replies...The box: WARNING PREMATURE DEATH-The kid: My mom's so nice for getting this for me!!!
This Just Pissed Me Off
This genius has never heard of punctuation. Her skills as a parent leaves much to be desired.
This person is causing GI issues for their kiddo. You only give cereal that early if a doctor advises because you are supposed to give it a specific way.
So when her child has kidney failure because of the amount of salt on the food she's given it, she'll say no-one told her.
You all don't even know what they feed babies when the mother couldn't breast feed in the 50s.
Why Though?
Well, 'cause she's a b***h. No way this could be a "he". Sexism rulez, yeah.
Load More Replies...Well, it would teach him a lot about the value of the parent he's stuck with.
Load More Replies...One Christmas when I was about 11 my then step dad wrapped up a bunch of stuff around the house so it looked like lots of presents under the tree. When I got sad opening Sh..t I already owned he laughed and joked about how it was a "salvation army christmas". I still want to spit when I think about that MF. I wasn't materialistic and didn't need a lot of presents. I just needed to not be lied to. (I think he did it to impress other people visiting the house so it looked like we had money)
My mom always encouraged my gaming hobby. I feel like I need to thank her for not pulling this s**t.
Because too many kiddos are entitled and don’t appreciate what they have plus there is a lot of unexpected c**p kids are exposed to. My kiddos do gaming and stuff with me and my husband as a family. I legit mean as a family too, even our 3 cats are involved. You ever have kiddos glued to a screen because of the game Stray? The cats are also glued to the screen and meowing back at my kiddos, myself and my husband.
Yikes.. How Can You Be Like This?
If you don't give him a PS5 you will give him trust issues for the next 20 years, your choice, really
Well then, you should just tell your child the truth and be thankful if he doesn't eventually drift away and leave your sorry behind alone later on in life. Smh...
Give him the money it would cost, and let him decide for himself what to do with it. That's a double gift - cash and autonomy.
Well This Is A New One
I don’t see anything wrong with this, context is missing. But I don’t think this is neglect or abuse, bizarre and weird maybe, def not socially normal.
When You Don't Have A Lock On Your Door To Hide From Your Dad
I have a table next to my door. I also have a hidden folder on my phone that is password locked. Can't wait for 18!
Hang in there. I know what it feels like. Hugs
Load More Replies...I remember years ago saying to my wife, "When we have kids, they'll have locks on their doors." To which she replied, "When we have kids, they won't need to." (because we'll respect their space and privacy). It was such a eye opener (?paradigm shift) for me, having grown up in an unsafe home with no privacy...
I started knocking on my son's door when he was 4. I usually end up still opening it (after a moment) because he doesn't answer it, but I'm introducing the concept and showing him he can have control within reason.
Load More Replies...My abusive dad tore all the doors off in the house so we couldn't hide from him.
I didn't have a key but I used scissors or a flat screw driver. But then I was safe in my home, I was just an angry kid that wanted privacy.
Dad, you may not trust this kid, but it will be well worth the money to put him through engineering school.
When You're More On Candy Crush Than Your Child
Well the child was trying to communicate with his parents,and they were just ignoring him for like 20 minutes. In fact it was kinda sad/
Phones and SM have been designed to be as addictive as possible. It doesn’t just affect stupid people - we all on BP after all - and you can’t identify which addicts are stupid. There are whole UX depts dedicated to ensuring you don’t put your phone down. These folk (and that kid when his time comes) just don’t stand a chance
I'd be worried about the stroller not being secured properly as well (brake on visible rear wheel doesn't seem to be applied), not all station platforms are level, and a bored kid that size could certainly jerk his body to move it a bit, and a bit more, then suddenly he's at the edge of the platform. Or train comes thundering in and the air pressure blows it over.
Parents get pissed when you tell them how to raise your kids.
Load More Replies...My SIL does this. It makes everyone crazy. Of course she loves her kids, no doubt of that. But sometimes she'll ignore them when they are trying to tell her something because she's too busy scrolling Facebook. I often want to just grab her phone and chuck it out the window. I suspect the kids do too.
I see this at the pool alll the time, and I don’t have kids, I’m a kids entertainer, so I’m watching and damn right I’m judging, so many mums will stay on the phone and not even peep at their child in a public pool area, I say mums directly cos I honestly haven’t seen dads do it yet, only mums, which scares the c**p out of me.
This Guy Hovered Over The Stylist While His Wife Got A Haircut And Ignored His Children, And Told One Of The Boys To Get His Moms Purse From Around His Neck Because He Wasn’t A Little Girl, All While They Misbehaved And Annoyed The F**k Out Of Every Customer
Yeah, I'm getting an abusive partner vibe here. No normal man wants to hang around watching while his partner's hair is cut.
Load More Replies...How else is he supposed to show he loves his woman unless he controls everything down to the hairs cut on her hair? AND he stands over her to make sure it's done right?! This guy is really dedicated to being a total piece of shít.
Wait That's Illegal
Actually not illegal. Letting a kid get drunk is terrible parenting and IS illegal in some states, but this kid may find it cool not to mention that it's only a tiny sip.
At a Sunday family gathering when I was five, an aunt gave me a tiny sip (and it was tiny) from her whiskey sour. Then her sister gave me a tiny one, and so I went around the room getting I don't know (understandably) how many other tiny sips. My mother tells me I came to on Tuesday. No hangover, but I avoided alcohol for the next forty years.
Load More Replies...Here in my state, you’re allowed to drink alcohol underage with the permission of a parent/guardian :P
No Wonder Your Toddler Is In Therapy. You Are A Fucking Gem
I do feel a bit bad for OP. I can see where her phobia stemmed from. But she should’ve gotten therapy before having a child.
I agree that the phobia is not her fault, but she did not handle it well at all. And calling the other women there "stupid sanctimommies"? Incredibly rude and theres no excuse for that.
Load More Replies...As a person with emetophobia, OP should not have had children unless they got therapy. It’s inevitable for children to regurgitate at some point so it’s not smart to have a kid without getting treatment.
Is that a fear of vomiting or seeing others being sick? If so, I've got this, never wanted kids for that reason.
Load More Replies...Turning Your Child Into A Statement
Some rapper who was shot and killed in South Central Los Angeles. That’s literally the long and short of it. He was nothing special. It’s unfortunate that he was murdered, but he was no MLK Jr. or Spike Lee.
Load More Replies...I think that's ok to want to celebrate your own heroes. Whether they are in fact nice people is immaterial; I mean some people go to halloween dressed as zombies, dracula, etc., which aren't nice people either.
If the kid had said "Nipsey Russell" instead of "Nipsey Hussle", I would have respected him more - but I still wouldn't have believed this story.
I think the takeaway here should be that a grown man chose to call himself 'Nipsey' and other people let him!
Where are your "culture" comments on the parents buying their children dip or smoking while pregnant or the other dozens of posts that are far more damaging than a parent pretending a child wanted to be some minor celebrity for Halloween?
Load More Replies...Getting A Newborn Straight Razored!?
Come on guys, if it's cultural or a tradition, no matter how pointless, dangerous, or stupid, we are not to question it. I thought we were all on the same page?!
This, is the best case scenario for chopping something off a baby, as we regularly mutilate our babies even in first world countries
Barbers in Taiwan used to be trained shaving balloons. If that's a real baby, I still wouldn't worry, if the barber is skilled.
I had that too, for a injection in my head bcuz I moved my arms and legs too much
To a newborn? I know shaving rituals but never done to a newborn.
Awful, isn't it? Some parents are under the assumption that a child's hair will grow stronger and thicker if they shave it off.
I know that's a thing in russia, and in many other cultures. And I have to say, I don't see how it harms the child. I would never do it, but I don't see the problem. Talk to me about circumcising babies, and that's another discussion. This is just hair removal.
Load More Replies...I Think I Inadvertently Broke The News To My Friend In The Millitary That Her Mom Doesn't Want Her To Come Home
Does this person not know how to check the weather in their hometown?
I See 5 Issues Here And I Can't Tell Which Is More Converning
Sounds like both of them were morons. The mother for feeding a vegan meat, and the child for believing rice has corona because it's associated with Chinese food.
Sounds like both of them were morons. The mother for giving a vegan person meat, and the child for believing that rice had coronavirus just because it's associated with China.
Why not? Could be a teenager. Definitely not unheard of for teenagers to form their own opinions, particularly about animal welfare.
Load More Replies...He Literally Just Got Suspended For Dipping In School
It’s NASTY stuff. Even when I smoked, I couldn’t handle it, it made me throw up both times I tried it 🤢
Load More Replies...I have never understood this being a thing outside of cowboy movies
My Mum Fucked Up My Brothers Room, It Was Clean Before
My step father would do this, then scream at me to clean it & that I was living in filth. I still don't understand why.
Woke up to my mom yellig at my dad for being lazy and not cleaning. After she left for work, he came into my room and screamed at me and said that mom was mad at me for not doing chores. I just played along because I didn't want to deal with him.
My father used to do cr*p like this a lot! He was an a-hole and abusive and totally spoiled as a child, which I think has something to do with it... being jealous of his kids, etc.
many parents do this, if the kids' room is a mess they come in and chuck stuff all over the floor and say now sort it out properly. I had it happen to me, I've seen my ex do it. It's pretty common. Not saying it is good or right. I've not done it to my kids myself as I think it's unfair.
... I've never heard of this. I think you've been very unfortunate.
Load More Replies...A Mom Talks About Her Parentification Of Her 7 Year Old Daughter. When The Daughter Was 4 She Had A Special Needs Child, A Year And A Half Later She Had Another, And Now She Has Another Baby On The Way
So she basically abuses her 7 years old child as a full nanny, and then still yells at her when she's frustrated? Yikes, guess who won't be visited anymore as an old hag?
My mother was like this after daddy died. Never a single word of encouragement. Only how I was falling her or the family, all day every day. I hate this for this child.
I don't understand is she apologizing? And why to the Internet and not her daughter?
I really respect her since she has to take care of so many siblings at the age of 7, while I only needed to take care of my sister when I was 10. I also really wanted to be a doctor and I'm really glad to find someone else with the same dreams as me. She is literally me but so much braver and stronger. I hope that all her dreams will come true despite her hard childhood. :)
Children are not responsible for raising their siblings. A seven year old should be exploring life, not be responsible for changing diapers, and definetely NOT giving medication, making sure mum gets a break, or babysitting. This is abuse.
Slave. You’re using her as your own personal slave and babysitter… Also. You’re a total piece of sh!+ and you don’t deserve that child, let alone the others you have. They all deserve so much Better. Especially the oldest, whom has gotten used to you screaming at and belittling her, then she’s using what energy she could be putting into school work, to watch your other kids and YOUR responsibility, in the hopes that her mother will one day start being nice to her and give the love she gives to everyone else… even as a child she has most respect and empathy for other than that mother does… I suspect the mother will act surprised and play the victim when that child gets older and cuts contact with her….
Bil Takes His Premature Baby To Beach, Unprotected From The Sun, During A Pandemic, While Hovering Over The Water Wating For A Wave To Hit Them. All Within 10 Days Of Birth, Also No Immune System. But Hey, Cool Picture Right?
I don’t wanna jump to conclusions but from the description they seem like they maybe woo parents into anti vax etc other bits aside, why would you take a vulnerable immune system out in a pandemic anyways.
Load More Replies...Honestly Scared Me To Death Every Time
I too remember being screamed at for not getting off the playground when it’s time to leave 😆 I think most of us have done this
Load More Replies...Childhood Obesity Is Just Body Negativity
and then they'll whine when he has diabetes as a child "I dont know why he got it, god help us etc etc" in a country where diabetes medicine will bankrupt you.
All these parents who talk about how they don't say no to there kids as a way of parenting...it's not true. They say no when it's something that affects them, so that whole parenting style is a lie. As soon as that kid does something that would get them mad or annoy them, I promise you they're saying no.
Mom Has Her Baby In A Child’s Seat In The Back Of This Jeep Going Down The Interstate Without The Doors
People take them off in the summer. It's like the out dated Jean jacket ot stone washed jeans
Load More Replies...How is this legal? Is it legal there? Why? The doors have windows 😂
Why do most jeeps not have doors? It is so unsafe just by itself. The fact that you have a small child in there is just, for lack of a better word, evil.
How Stupid Do You Have To Be?
we've had several cases of bus accidents in our country so actualy I am in favour of seatbelts in them too.
Where I live we don't have school busses most places, but when we do, they are minibuses, so have seatbelts. When busses are used for excursions they are coaches which have seatbelts as well.
Load More Replies...Wait the school buses don't have seatbelts? Just curious because in Hong Kong we have them so...
No, most American school busses either don't have them or don't require them. Don't ask me why. I think it's stupid and dangerous. But that's how it's always been for some reason. US school busses are huge though, so maybe that has something to do with it?
Load More Replies...If a cop pulls you over because you're driving with a five-year-old without the proper safety equipment, you shouldn't be thinking about school busses. You should be thinking about what a crappy parent you are.
Go push a bus up a small incline, then push a compact car up an incline. Tell me which one wears you out more. Buses are heavy and harder to destroy while a compact car hitting another compact car can send a kid through a window. Lost two friends and another one was paralyzed because of such an accident.
My Mom Left My Favorite Plant In The Below Freezing Cold For Three Days After Ripping Off Its Leaves For The Last Few Years
Brilliant
Clearly this parent has never played a single video game in their life... If it's 15 min then there's no point starting the game in the first place.
seems a bit too strict, I'd give them an hour of games OR an hour of tv.
He is also a teenager so I would give them at least 3. Because it will keep him quiet. 😂
Load More Replies...I only have YouTube allowed on my phone for 10 minutes which means I can't even watch a whole video. I get why but I wish it was just a little longer like 20 minutes
At that point you may as well ban them outright. The majority of games - especially social ones - run on cycles that are designed to last about 5 - 20 minutes each. By the time kiddo's booted up the PC/console and the game, he's gonna have about ten minutes left, maybe more if the hardware and the internet's good, maybe left if he's using a potato device. If you wanted to be strict on time, it'd be much better to lump sessions together on the weekends. Then again, the majority of pushback against videogames is fuelled by various forms of generic Parental Rage Against The Youth and cheap news headlines, rather than any knowledge of, say, predatory design elements or toxic game culture...
If you and your spouse limited yourselves to 15 minutes of sex a day, would that be way more than enough? Oh,... I see. Well, I'm sorry to hear that.
Only At Mcdonalds 🤦♀️
And then they think it's hilarious when their child's first word is a dirty word and film it for the world to see. On a side note, once knew someone who's daughter couldn't properly pronounce the word hungry. What she kept saying sounded like "horny" with a thick southern accent. Parent thought it was the funniest thing ever and I'm thinking "yeah, let her say that in public and see what happens."
Trying To Think How Many Parents Have Done This That They Had To Put Up A Sign
This is becoming more and more common. Especially at pokies places.
You would be surprised. "I just had to run in for one thing." Please, it's Walmart. You don't just run in for "one thing" anymore. You end up thinking of everything you "might need" and then have to stop and talk to that one friend you run into for 30 minutes and before you know it you've been at Walmart for two hours. But, you know, the Teslas have pet mode so you don't have to take your dog in so...
How good parents see it: Look before you leave. Make sure children are not left unattended in vehicles. How bad parents see it: Look before you leave. Make sure children are left unattended.
My stepdad’s truck has a reminder every time he takes the key out to “check rear seats for occupants.” It beeps until he clicks a button that says he checked. Tf?
That's a great idea if you have a baby in a car seat. Kids can die in hot climates if they get forgotten in the back of a car. It often happens when they fall asleep and aren't making any noise.
Load More Replies...I think I read that America seems to have a problem with sleep deprived parents accidentally leaving children in cars and the children then die. It isn't on purpose, it's a tragic accident that seems to be driven by overworking parents who can't afford to take parental leave
Hope They Get The Book Thrown At Them Lol
I don't understand this one. It looks like a volcano eruption? What does the caption mean? I mean i can read it, I just don't see how it relates to parents and volcanos?
It's a picture of the beginning of the fire in California that ravaged thousands of acres of land, destroyed hundreds of homes, burned for weeks... all because some family decided to use fireworks or some such to do a gender reveal & the fireworks set fire to the dry grass in the field behind their house.
Load More Replies...Hopefully He'll Get Some F**king Therapy
A Mom Allows Her Kids To Lick The Ground(🤢)!
Nah not a biggie, it boosts the immune system. I eat c**p that i drop off the ground all the time. Never got sick from it. However, prepared food in restaurants I've gotten sick from twice, so....
When I was little I sucked my thumb constantly. I would often play in the dirt with my brother and then forget I had dirt on my hand when I stuck my thumb in my mouth. Dirt tastes pretty nasty. No melted popsicle is worth it.
These Parents Allow Their Child To Crawl Around On The Floor Tearing Up Paper And Possibly Drawing On The Backs Of Chairs
you lost me at "possibly". Sure, I don't let my kids crawl around on the floor at restaurants but "possibly" drawing on the the chairs just sounds like you were looking for reasons to pass judgement.
Yeah... I'd've liked my kid not to be on the floor as much as he does. But he has a neurological disorder which made sitting in a chair uncomfortable and, although ultimately his doctors, therapists and I agree that he can be made to sit in a chair, and sometimes a restaurant is not where you want to have that battle. So yeah, he stood up alot. Sometimes he was on the ground
Load More Replies...Only $34 Per Week?!
They Didn't Have Any Other Sticlera On The Car
I fell out of a van that was moving while holding a jar of jam once. Once.
Holy sh*t these people exist, procreate, and yet I was seen as an undesirable adopter because I was a single atheist.
Where are you from that being religious is a requirement for adoption?
Load More Replies...Some of these sound like my parents. They f****d me up so much growing up that now they wonder why I have a very hard time regulating my own emotions. I was once held over a balcony railing (from the fourth floor) because I disrespected my mother. I got threatened with a knife because my former friend told my parents that I was suicidal. I’m getting dreams of being killed or driven to insanity by my father. I want it all to just end, I’m tired of everything and how my life is going. I’ve been as good as I could be but only bad things keep happening, maybe I should start being the villain from now onwards, maybe then people will actually pay attention
Hey Stardust. I'm so sorry you are in this horrible abusive situation. Don't become like them tho. Do you have someone to talk to? I love you and am sending you an enormous Auntie Caro HUG.
Load More Replies...isnt it crazy how people need a licence to drive a car but not to have children? like to bring a living breathing being into this world.
That pregnant child situation is so tragic, as well as the comments with similar situations! Children should not be having children! Anyone who thinks children being pregnant is a good thing are pedophiles!
Well that's the new Republican platform, that 10-year-old rape victims make good mothers and it's an "opportunity".
Load More Replies...Not sure if my mom is bad but I’m still gonna say it. My mom will usually yell at me 5-7 days each week (because of 2 assignments from the beginning of the school year) and she will call me many names. I usually get anxiety attacks because of this and when that happens I tend to raise my voice on accident. My mom will scream at me then hit me or throw pencils at me saying “youre not allowed to yell at me”. And then she will call me a gaslighter if I ever try to talk about something she says. (One of these include when I told her I did not like the divorce schedule change and she said “your opinion doesnt matter.” Tried to talk to her and she said “I never said that youre a f***ing gaslighter”) this happens all the time. I’m not sure if this makes my mom a bad mom though.
I think you both need to sit down and have a good talk, maybe she's also stressed (since you mention divorcing) but hitting is never ok. Is there someone in school you can talk with, nurse, counselor etc?
Load More Replies...I don’t think my parents are bad. This is normal. It is right? Even if they constantly degrade me, hate on my weight, my looks, never let me go out. Because that’s what parents do right? Like obviously, I’m a teenager, my opinion shouldn’t matter.
This is a generational problem in this country. People learn from their parents and then use the same child rearing tools they had used on them. There are some sick and twisted people out there for sure. This is how child abuse, racism, bigotry, hate and misogyny keep going.
Holy sh*t these people exist, procreate, and yet I was seen as an undesirable adopter because I was a single atheist.
Where are you from that being religious is a requirement for adoption?
Load More Replies...Some of these sound like my parents. They f****d me up so much growing up that now they wonder why I have a very hard time regulating my own emotions. I was once held over a balcony railing (from the fourth floor) because I disrespected my mother. I got threatened with a knife because my former friend told my parents that I was suicidal. I’m getting dreams of being killed or driven to insanity by my father. I want it all to just end, I’m tired of everything and how my life is going. I’ve been as good as I could be but only bad things keep happening, maybe I should start being the villain from now onwards, maybe then people will actually pay attention
Hey Stardust. I'm so sorry you are in this horrible abusive situation. Don't become like them tho. Do you have someone to talk to? I love you and am sending you an enormous Auntie Caro HUG.
Load More Replies...isnt it crazy how people need a licence to drive a car but not to have children? like to bring a living breathing being into this world.
That pregnant child situation is so tragic, as well as the comments with similar situations! Children should not be having children! Anyone who thinks children being pregnant is a good thing are pedophiles!
Well that's the new Republican platform, that 10-year-old rape victims make good mothers and it's an "opportunity".
Load More Replies...Not sure if my mom is bad but I’m still gonna say it. My mom will usually yell at me 5-7 days each week (because of 2 assignments from the beginning of the school year) and she will call me many names. I usually get anxiety attacks because of this and when that happens I tend to raise my voice on accident. My mom will scream at me then hit me or throw pencils at me saying “youre not allowed to yell at me”. And then she will call me a gaslighter if I ever try to talk about something she says. (One of these include when I told her I did not like the divorce schedule change and she said “your opinion doesnt matter.” Tried to talk to her and she said “I never said that youre a f***ing gaslighter”) this happens all the time. I’m not sure if this makes my mom a bad mom though.
I think you both need to sit down and have a good talk, maybe she's also stressed (since you mention divorcing) but hitting is never ok. Is there someone in school you can talk with, nurse, counselor etc?
Load More Replies...I don’t think my parents are bad. This is normal. It is right? Even if they constantly degrade me, hate on my weight, my looks, never let me go out. Because that’s what parents do right? Like obviously, I’m a teenager, my opinion shouldn’t matter.
This is a generational problem in this country. People learn from their parents and then use the same child rearing tools they had used on them. There are some sick and twisted people out there for sure. This is how child abuse, racism, bigotry, hate and misogyny keep going.
