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30 Soon-To-Be Married People Exposed For Their Sense Of Entitlement (New Pics)
Interview With Expert
Every bride and groom wants a perfect wedding. It ideally only happens once in a lifetime, and wanting the event to turn out exactly how they envisioned it is understandable.
However, some would step on other people’s toes just to let things fall into place, which is unacceptable. Thankfully, we have the internet to expose such entitled behavior.
Scroll through to find screenshots showing ridiculous requirements, self-serving actions that put other guests in potential danger, and monetary gift requests to fund a honeymoon. Hopefully, you have never experienced any of these.
You will also find our interview with Kaitlin Shea, a Colorado-based wedding planner. She was kind enough to share her insights on entitled clients.
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#2
This Literally Just Happened - "I Want My Own Wedding Year"
YOU GET ONE DAY. ONE. NOT THE WHOLE YEAR.
#3
“Lose Weight If You Want To Be My Maid Of Honour”
Wedding planners like Kaitlin regularly deal with demanding clients. As she told Bored Panda, such behavior usually comes from people close to the couple, like parents, siblings, and entourage members. They usually have unwelcome opinions, which Kaitlin says frustrates the couple and makes them feel stifled.
“Your wedding opinions will absolutely matter when planning your own wedding, but when your job is to support another bride or groom, kindly put those opinions to the side,” she said.
#4
Just When You Think The Bridezilla Requests Can't Get Any More Ridiculous
I'm a maid of honor in my friends wedding. She goes by her middle name which is Rachel... My first name is Rachel. I am honestly unsure how to answer. Like ma'am I'm not changing my name for your wedding.
#5
Not Invited To The Wedding, But Still Pay For It
Joanne Mendonza-Earle 1 year ago
If there is one thing I have noticed about high school classmate 'mean/snobby girls' on social media, it's that they really haven't changed with age.
#6
I Had A Bad Feeling About Her. Run Bro
Wang Zhuang 1 year ago (edited)
If you have to quit your job to plan your wedding, your wedding is out of control. Edit: I wrote this before I go to the $80,000 part. Yeah, way out of control
Wedding ceremonies are monumental life events, and Katilin says its magnitude is likely why people can act unreasonably. However, you can prevent such tense moments from arising, and here’s her advice.
“Have plans in place for everything, so that if someone tries to throw a wrench in the works, you have a backup,” Kaitlin said.
#7
Pay For My Historic Wedding, Y'all!
#8
She'll Marry In An Empty Church
#9
My Mum Is An Artificial Florist And Had An ‘Influencer’ With 70k Followers Ask For Free Wedding Flowers For Exposure
Like people in customer service, handling difficult people is part of the job description of being a wedding planner. Kaitlin has her own method of handling these personalities: setting clear boundaries.
“Their own personal drama is NOT your personal drama, even if they try to make it so,” she explained. You can care deeply without sacrificing your sanity for what, at the end of the day, is still a job.”
#10
Hey, I Know That I've Given My Wedding No Thought But I Want You Dedicate The Next 48 Hours Of Your Life To It
Tucker Cahooter 1 year ago
OP presumably also thinks all murders can be solved in 60 to 90 minutes
#11
Oh Yeah, That Guy Jon Is Coming Too
#12
Entitled Bride To Be
Miss Tinker 1 year ago
Let’s hope your finance comes to his senses & dumps your cruel, shallow a*s.
For many people, living in the internet age means wanting to look good for the ‘gram. Because of this, Carson says people are now heavily focused on turning their weddings into fashion events.
As he points out, some guests may feel hassled by outfit requirements, adding to the already hefty cost of attending a wedding. Therefore, brides and grooms should expect some attendees to “go rogue” and ignore the guidelines.
#13
How About No
Rachel Parker 1 year ago
I’m looking for a supermarket that will refund my food bills if I throw up.
#15
How Dare Someone Be Pregnant At My Wedding!! I Understand Not Wanting To Host Events, But The Anger At Grandparents Buying Gifts And The Me!!!! Attitude Is So Entitled
Cronecast AtTheRisingMoon 1 year ago
Wow, one where both parties are being sort of awful because the mom to be (nothing wrong with being pregnant as it’s her freaking life and choice) tells the woman to host two events for her? It’s like dueling narcissists. How are people this self involved with no awareness of boundaries?
We’d like to hear from you, readers. Have you experienced entitled behaviors from brides and grooms? How did you handle them? Share your stories in the comments!
#16
Watch Out For Bridezilla Karen
#17
Bride Is Expecting Everyone To Spend $400 Or More On Her Wedding Gifts
#18
We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money
Setting unrealistic expectations could be a sign of pre-wedding stress. It’s likely a result of the hyperfocus on making things “perfect” and running according to plan. According to psychologist Dr. Paulette Kouffman Sherman, managing expectations could relieve stress.
In an interview with Brides, Dr. Sherman suggests aiming for excellence rather than perfection to help manage expectations
#19
Bride Mad Moh Is Pregnant And Is "Ruining" Bachelorette
#20
Yikes
#21
God Forbid Her Sister Getting A Tattoo Before The Wedding!
You may read screenshots of people posting their Venmo accounts as a request for a cash gift. A 2023 registry study by The Knot revealed that 74% of wedding registry creators prefer to receive money from guests instead of traditional utensils and other home starters.
Some couples use the cash to fund their honeymoons or shoulder expenses for their first homes.
#22
Ah Yes. Someone Potentially Dying At Your Wedding Is A Much Better Idea Than Simply Not Having Seafood For One Day
#23
This Is As Tacky As It Gets.... Not Even A "Buy The Bride A Drink" Just $$$ Pls
SnootWaggling Fox 1 year ago
I always wonder if these things are intended for the wedding guests and just haven't been erased yet or are targeting randos? Tacky either way, but the former seems far less bad IMHO
#24
Not As Bad As Some, But Definitely Up There
Janissary35680 1 year ago (edited)
Re: "No Apple watches" What's your policy on longcase clocks?
According to events director Bryce Carson, this trend has occurred over the past decade. But as he told Fortune in an interview, it isn’t always a cash grab.
“Couples are getting married a little bit older in life. They’re already combining their homes,” he explained. “They do not need two sets of everything.”
#25
How Dare Someone Else Get Married During A Covid Bride’s Wedding Year!!!
María Hermida 1 year ago
Some years ago, it was *my* day; now, it's *my* year. Soon, this flock of imbeciles will demand *my* decade. The biggest problem, in my opinion, is this trend is growing because people are paying too much attention to their invented dramas. If we just told them to f-off the moment they start with their unhinged demands, they would stop. No, I couldn't care less about your wedding, your dress or what colour you sister in law's dress is. Nobody cares. Really. We couldn't care less.
#26
The Entitlement
#27
Another Gem In A Wedding Group With A Greedy Bride
#28
Almost Kicks Out Entire Bridal Party For Not Responding When She Told Them Only To Respond If They Wouldn’t Adhere To Her Demands
LonelyLittleLeafSheep 1 year ago
"You're right, I know longer want to be in your wedding party. Or a guest either."
#29
Groom Says Fiancé’s Sister Is Too Fat To Be A Bridesmaid
Tenay Douglas 1 year ago
You not being close to her and saying you don't feel comfortable with her in the party for that reason is valid! However you fat shaming her and dismissing her for your supposed "aesthetic" is weirdo behavior
#30
The Sense Of Entitlement Is Strong Here, Even With A Significant Portion Of Their Expenses Paid For By Family
#31
Bride Posting Anonymously Wants To Know If It’s ‘Bradzilla’ To Pressure Bridesmaids Into Getting Drunk So They Don’t Have ‘Old Grandma Energy’ At Her Bachelorette Party
Child of the Stars 1 year ago
If being an alcoholic in recovery gives me "old grandma type of energy," I'm okay with that 🤷♀️
#32
Bride Doesn’t Want Her Great Aunt’s Nurse To Attend The Wedding
#33
Bride Steals 30k Of Wedding Donations And Then Asks For More
#34
Bride Seeks Dj For Her Day
Gosh, I wonder why she can’t find an affordable DJ y’all
Michael Largey 1 year ago
It's hard to afford a DJ when you can't even afford punctuation marks.
#35
Another Bride Wanting To Cover Up A Family Member’s Body To Fit Her Perfect Day Aesthetic
#36
You Must Go Into Debt To Be In My Wedding
Yikes on several bikes
I’d buy something else and show the bride and groom on their wedding day what I got for that amount. Crazy.
#37
This Dude Ordering Women How To Act At His Wedding 🙄
#38
Bride Writes To The New York Times, Confused About Why Her Best Friend Wants A Plus One To Her Destination Wedding
#39
How Dare My 30yo Bridesmaid Have Some Grey Hair!!
I’ve been in the wedding industry for nearly 10 years and this is without a doubt one of the most unhinged posts I’ve seen on a brides group.
Comments are all absolutely slaying her and she’s not replying
Am I naive for hoping it’s a joke?!
#40
Ep Thinks Someone Should Not Celebrate Their Wedding Because Ep Got Married 17 Years That Same Day. Apparently Eternal Dibs Was Called
Bananaramamama 1 year ago
My cousin and I got married on the same day just 10 years apart. To be honest it was like date night for me and my husband at their wedding reception (we had a sitter for the kids so we could just enjoy) and we all thought it was wonderful that in such a large family it would be one less extra day our family had to remember 😂
#41
Bride Will Be The Only One Not Wearing Glasses And Isn’t Sure How To ‘Overcome This Issue’… Comments Were Asking If She Was Serious
#42
I’ve Never Seen This Before! I Wonder If Anyone Actually Sends Them Money
SheamusFanFrom1987 1 year ago
Send some love? NAH... How about just "Congratulations, now please move ahead!" instead...
#43
She Sounds Nice
María Hermida 1 year ago (edited)
I *can* spare the money, but I *don't want* to. Just elope. Forever. Nobody cares.
#44
Bride And Groom Ask Friends For Free Labor And Food And Then Demand That They Buy Special Clothing To Wear At The Wedding
#46
Hot Tip - Save Money On Your Wedding By Defrauding Your Employer
Michael Largey 1 year ago
I'm thinking conspiracy to defraud. And they'll try to cheat the photographer too.
#47
Found On A Facebook Post About Someone Asking If They Should Ask The Bride Why They’re Not In The Wedding Party
#48
If I’m Not In Your Bridal Party Then I’m Not Going
#49
Sounds Like A Great Idea To Save A Few Cents! May Save Even More When The Twin And His New Bride Don’t Come To Your Wedding!
Michael Largey 1 year ago
Yep, the best way to be sure people remember an important future date is to hand them a piece of paper when they're dancing around roaring drunk.
#50
Entitled Bridezilla Demands Her Bridesmaids Pay Everything To Look “Pristine” For Photos
#51
I Can’t Imagine Being So Demanding Over Gifts. Are Loved Ones’ Presence Not Enough Of A Gift
Was naive of me to think joining bridal groups would actually help me in any way. All it’s done is either make me panic over my upcoming wedding or provide me with eye roll moments such as this that at least make me laugh. I feel like we’re in a small minority, especially after this post but we specifically said no gifts
#52
Cb Asks To People Pay To Be In Her Wedding
#53
Bride Looking For Cheap Photographer/Videographer That Meets All Her Demands…
#54
The Entitlement Is Strong With This One
María Hermida 1 year ago
Yes, you are wrong. A present is offered willingly, whatever a person wants to give you, not something you demand as if it were your right.
#55
Bride Asks If It's Tacky For Her Future Sil To Get Engaged Two Months Before The Most Important Day Of All Their Lives
#56
Beggar Bride Asks Stranger To Be Bridesmaid Because She Gives Expensive Gifts - From Wedding Shaming Fb Page
I just... I met this woman once at a wedding where we were both bridesmaids. Apparently the bride told her my gift was "generous" so she wanted me to be her bridesmaid too to cash in? That's a hard pass. I'm wondering now why her other bridesmaid dropped out.
#57
Since When Was It Ok For The Couple To Dictate What People Wear
The comments were surprisingly supportive of her.
María Hermida 1 year ago
I wouldn't wear a dress in that colour even at gunpoint, let alone buy one. It's f-ugly.
#58
Bride Wants Bridal Party And Friends To Pay For Her Solo Spa Weekend Instead Of Having A Bachelorette Party
#59
Help Provide A Very Detailed Wedding For A Needy Couple On The Fly
#60
Saw This Today In One Of The Wedding Groups I’m In And Sprinted To This Sub
Child of the Stars 1 year ago
I don't get these kinds of bachelorette parties. Mine was just my best friend (who was my only bridesmaid) and me watching the original Star Wars trilogy.
#61
Definitely Not Me. But I Couldn't Resist Running To Here When I Saw It
General Stukov 1 year ago
You're 2 months in planning and this is how you've planned so far? Sweet. Good news, you'll probably be tricking someone else to marry you after you're divorced
#62
A Bride Is Insisting Her Bridesmaid All Wear Converse Sneakers, Even The Ones Who Physically Can't
María Hermida 1 year ago
Easy, tell her you won't attend the wedding. Stop letting people people treat you like rubbish.
#63
Not Me But A Text Invite My Friend Got
Child of the Stars 1 year ago
I don't get the problem. They want a formal event and are simply asking for the money instead of physical gifts they don't need or won't use; they're not even asking for an absurd minimum amount.
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Mauve Mouse 1 year ago
Anyone who thinks these aren’t real has never worked with the public.
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Debby Keir 1 year ago
I'd far rather have a perfect marriage than a perfect wedding, and save up money for a house deposit rather than spending a bomb on just one day.
Apatheist Account2 1 year ago
Since we've moved on from when men and women didn't leave home until they married, and only he worked, I'm amazed that weddings still appear to be so important for people. We spent £120 on ours. I would have thought that the younger generation weren't so obsessed with showing off that they've bagged a husband...and they moan about not having enough money to buy a house, but spend 25k or more on a party. Absurd.
Mauve Mouse 1 year ago
Anyone who thinks these aren’t real has never worked with the public.
Load More Replies... Debby Keir 1 year ago
I'd far rather have a perfect marriage than a perfect wedding, and save up money for a house deposit rather than spending a bomb on just one day.
Apatheist Account2 1 year ago
Since we've moved on from when men and women didn't leave home until they married, and only he worked, I'm amazed that weddings still appear to be so important for people. We spent £120 on ours. I would have thought that the younger generation weren't so obsessed with showing off that they've bagged a husband...and they moan about not having enough money to buy a house, but spend 25k or more on a party. Absurd.
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