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You can't please everyone. Especially the Internet.
There's a subreddit called r/WeddingShaming and as the name suggests, it's a place where people trash everything from brides and grooms, in-laws and outlaws to venues and menus as well as decor and Uncle Bob's armpit odor.
Of course, it's not all out of spite. Some posts that get a ton of attention are funny and lighthearted. Like the one where a bride shows off her mom's dress, a white gown, way fancier than her own (12,000 upvotes).
But as you might've already noticed in Bored Panda's earlier piece on the subreddit, it's the juicy stuff that gets its 189,000 members riled up. So continue scrolling and join the judging team: upvote the pics that deserve criticism or tell us in the comments if they should be rehabilitated.
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#1
Shaming These Awful Parents, While The Siblings Rock
cat in a tank 4 years ago (edited)
what shitty parents. even if they still had a daughter making them wear a dress is dumb. some people just like pants! but great on him, he must have looked fantastic
Andy Acceber 4 years ago
I'm glad he was comfortable enough to go for it. Props to him and sister!
Lilith the Demon Panda 4 years ago
ok you better start digging because I want to see those pictures!
Night Owl 4 years ago (edited)
I want to see them too. I bet he l looked fabulous :D
Load More Replies... Matthew Daubenmire 4 years ago
I freaking love this! Happy Pride your brother..bite me to your Mom😁
MandaPanda 4 years ago
All I can think of to visualize this is the picture of Batman in the pink dress lol
Manuela Martins 4 years ago (edited)
Amazing sibling chemistry and love! Sometimes you have to partner up against the parents.
An engaged couple makes a lot of big decisions about their special day that not only impact them but also their guests; while they want to stay true to their own desires, they also have to consider what their guests might enjoy. After all, everyone's a part of the ride. "Financial worries are usually forefront for most couples," wedding planner Lisa Burton told Bored Panda.
"The worry is they can't afford the wedding day they want and might have to compromise too much. With the couple's expectations being so high, they worry the reality won't live up to the dream."
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#2
This Is A Whole New Level Of Bridezilla
Teresa Spanics 4 years ago
I feel the same way. People like that are the ones you want to slap so hard in the face as it seems like their brains only work when pain is used.
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Carmen Sandiego 4 years ago
For anyone who missed it part 2 is here: https://www.boredpanda.com/friends-miscarriage-stealing-wedding-attention-bridezilla/ . The groom dumped her.
Christine Rictor 4 years ago
I've read a lot of these "Am I the Asshole" threads, but this one takes the cake by far. This can't be real - can it? These type of people exist, for real? And if they do, how in the hell did you develop a life-long relationship that resulted in you being invited to their wedding - knowing they are the worsssssstttt.
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Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Oh, god, I remember this utter asshole. I'd be tempted to think i t was an exaggeration if I hadn't seen how a few people treated a friend of mine when she lost her baby. Yes, someone actually said to her "it's not like it was a real baby yet." Um, she was a premie who died after birth. Yes, she was.
Leo Domitrix 4 years ago
Three miscarriages, and nobody once acted ike I was even a gonna-be-a-mom. *sigh*
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Daphne Williams 4 years ago
I mean, yes, she genuinely is. She's probably been faking empathy for years and finally let the mask slip.
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Marianne 4 years ago
Apart from how cruel this is, I hate it if a bride wants to make it all about her. Like, you are not marrying alone, are you? Also the idea of a big wedding is to share an important moment with your loved ones, not your loved ones worshipping you for the whole day.
Christine Rictor 4 years ago
Agreed. In a marriage, whole families unite. Narcissism. Period.
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Matthew Daubenmire 4 years ago
I'm sorry for your lost..truly. but dumping that horrid person was wonderful, I would still throw rocks at her house for fun though
Raven Sheridan 4 years ago
If I was the deceased childs parent, I'd send this whole conversation to their fiancee, so they can see what type of person they're about to marry! Run dude. Run!
Carmen Sandiego 4 years ago
He dumped her. Part two is in my above comment.
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Bride Claims “No Masks Allowed” At Her Wedding
earringnut 4 years ago
Why didn't anyone show up to my special day? All I did was risk their lives and the lives of everyone they know for an esthetic.
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Suzanne Haigh 4 years ago
Well, it is her wedding and she makes the rules but she should be prepared for no one turning up.
Samara Morgan 1 year ago
They're scared so much of COVID but so many of them will go to people with a flu, not caring about the risks.
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Audrey Sample 4 years ago
Does she make people not wear masks or do they have an option cause if they don't even have an low she's one messed up bride.
Mickie Shea 4 years ago
Might ruin her pics. Later on she can be proud of so many her dead (Covid) friends
Burton, who has over 14 years of experience throwing weddings abroad, said another worry for her destination wedding couples is that the expectations of the guests — who have spent money flying across the world to attend their wedding — will not be met. "There's a lot of pressure to provide the 'perfect' wedding experience. I try to reassure them that guests are on holiday first and foremost so they are in a more carefree state of mind. Most, if not all guests will not have attended a wedding abroad before, and certainly not at the same venue so they have nothing to compare it to. Even if your day is perfectly simple and intimate they’ll still be experiencing something they’ve never experienced before. This usually helps to calm the bride and groom."
#4
The Audacity Of This Wedding Guest And Their Mum! Plan Your Own Special Moment, Cheapskates!
Eucritta 4 years ago
I can't imagine wanting to propose at a wedding, or indeed any public venue. It doesn't seem romantic to me at all, it's got a coercive element - if you turn me down, it's in front of everyone whose day you'll ruin. Good grief. Or if they already know it'll be a yes, then essentially they've already proposed, and there's no need to grandstand.
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
I'm actually surprised the woman called and asked beforehand instead of putting the bride on the spot at the wedding right before the bouquet toss.
Samantha Robinson 4 years ago
I'm shocked to say that I'm siding with the bride on this one. Proposing at someone else's wedding is a BIG Taboo.
Leona Martin 4 years ago
My sister's ex-husband proposed to her the night before my wedding....I never let her know that it made me mad....
Carol Emory 4 years ago
The last thing you do at someone else's wedding is steal the bride's thunder. By doing a proposal at a wedding, you are doing just that. It's her day, not yours. Propose on your own time and own dime.
Bella, Your Kitty-Loving Queen 4 years ago
You don’t propose at someone else’s wedding, that’s just mean
#5
Newly Engaged Dependa (Not My Story)
Manuela Martins 4 years ago
Do NOT solicit unwanted relationship advice. You manage your marriage, nobody else's. If he f***s up his own life, it's his own decision.
Carol Emory 4 years ago
Is she the first girl he slept with? I've seen this amongst the military. Guys join, get deployed overseas. Are worried about being alone, so they marry the first girl they sleep with in the hope that they will have someone. I also have seen girls that specifically seek out military guys, get pregnant by them so they can force them into marriage or force them into providing child support, all so they can live on the militaries dime and not have to work. I know this sounds harsh, but I met and married my husband when he was a PFC in the Army. I've seen it happen too many times to count.
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Seriously. I grew up in a military town, and this is half the girls I went to high school with.
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Roxy Eastland 4 years ago
Never, never, never make a negative opinion of someone's partner known to the person that's your friend. Never. Sometimes these relationships work out long term and you'll always be the person that insulted one of them. Even if they split up don't say how glad you are because you never liked them. They can get back together again and make it work. Instead, ask the friend how they feel about the relationship. "I was surprised to hear X call your credit card 'our credit card' - are you okay with that?" "X does like telling your stories for you, do you mind?" So if there's a problem you're letting them know that others have seen it too, they're not imagining it or being unreasonable. On the other hand, if it bothers you way more than it ever bothers your friend, then you've asked, they've told you, and you can get over it and stay in a relationship with them. Even if you sneakily think it's to be there when it all goes down the crapper.
Catlady6000 4 years ago (edited)
also ask why they want to marry this individual. what are the qualities that make them think this person will be a good spouse. Ask them both. It gets them started thinking instead of just feeling. I've helped end two ill- fated engagements this way. That sounds horrible, but we all had very serious concerns and the couples were too emotional to see clearly. When they had very little good to say, they realized. There have been a few it didn't matter. On a positive note, I've helped far more cement their desire to be together this way
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LittleMissLotus 4 years ago
It realllllly pisses me off when someone sees their spouse's position, in the military or otherwise, as their position.
John Montgomery 4 years ago
I've never understood it myself. Would these spouses get away with using the rank on a base or other actual military building?
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Two_rolling_black_eyes 4 years ago (edited)
If he's happy, let him be happy. The only opinion that should matter in deciding to get married is the couple. If Taco Bell is their happy place instead of Paris, good for them. However, I also see no harm in his military buddies teasing him during deployment incessantly about his decision. "Dude you proposed to a girl at Taco Bell who won't let you finish your own stories". Point out the red flags and he'll figure it out.
But some things can make the guests leave with bitter memories. "Family dynamics can be hard to balance at a wedding," Lisa Burton said. "It's one of the main things a couple can struggle with, especially if the family doesn't get on."
The seating arrangement, for example, can be enough to set off a conflict. "If a family member ends up being seated next to someone they don't like, it can affect the atmosphere at the reception. We once planned an intimate wedding of 16 people and they had 6 tables at the reception (instead of the usual one or two). This was because family members did not speak and refused to sit next to each other at dinner," Burton recalled.
#6
Bruno Mars Disapproves. Probably
Eslamala 4 years ago
Still don't get what kind of idiot has a wedding in the middle of a pandemic, and what kind of morons actually attend said wedding. They deserve to get Covid, Ebola, Cholera and the Kennedy curse, because they're idiots.
Anne 4 years ago
I went to a mid-covid wedding. It was bride, groom, kids and only super close fam. We all tested before and it was just the town hall and an outside bbq. All very distanced, waved at bride to congratulate etc. So.. you can do it.. if it's about being married to the one you love most and not a wedding.
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Hermien Greeff 4 years ago (edited)
Selfish people feeling victimized by the pandemic, so they proceed with their wedding. Postpone the wedding or get married at court and have a huge wedding party next year.
Viviane 4 years ago (edited)
Years back, a woman was anxious because her husband wouldn't convert to her religion in time for their wedding (it's a longish process). I told her to have the big non-religious wedding, then do a smaller religious one later on. I saw the couple a week later and she was all smiles and happy to have two ceremonies, each special in their own ways.
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Melissa Peck 4 years ago
I continue to be amazed at the number of people who think Covid-19 is a hoax or it is no worse than a cold. These are the ones that have had large weddings and celebrations, family get-togethers, and having house parties.
Audrey Sample 4 years ago
Maybe they could have had a zoom wedding lol. I would like to see the bride walk down the "isle"
Lisa Hoffmeyer 4 years ago
It isn't about anti anything. There are no long term safety studies done yet and it is still in the experimental stages. It isn't approved by the fda,it only has eua,as the drug trials aren't done until 2023-2025. You do know the drug companies have total indemnity, right?
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Mauve Mouse 4 years ago
There is a fascinating article you can read on forbes.com, about a couple who had their wedding anyway, in Maine. It did not end well.
#7
Double-Shame? Moh Knew She Had Been Exposed Before The Pandemic Wedding
Eslamala 4 years ago
Why the fck have a wedding in the middle of a pandemic, though? Just... WHY??
Orange Mountain 4 years ago
Because sometimes it is planned a year ahead, before the pandemic, and everything is paid for and most things are non-refundable. Just saying
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Samantha PandaNotBored 4 years ago
You had the wedding in a pandemic, and didn’t expect anyone to get it . Hmm 🤔
Artime Silk 4 years ago
Are you sure she knew? Honestly? What if she didn't have symptoms and then went and got tested and found out the results? This one seems like mabe the maid of honor is being more responsible
Kat 4 years ago
What do you mean selfish? It's not like she planned it and she definitely had to mention everybody she was in contact with, not saying isn't really an potion...
Sanne H. 4 years ago (edited)
It depends. What was the timing of testing and receiving test results? I.e. did she do her test at a free governmental test location (with time between making the appointment and receiving the result might have taken a few days, in which she should have isolated herself) or wasn’t she feeling well in the morning after the wedding and did she do a fast self-test from the pharmacy, or a fast test at a commercial test location? In the latter two cases she was not selfish, but considerate.
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Katinka Min 4 years ago
Unless the maid of honor KNEW she had Covid and went anyway, the only selfish thing is to have a big wedding in the middle of a pandemic.
Two_rolling_black_eyes 4 years ago
I agree. Insisting on having everyone you know expose themselves for wedding during a global pandemic is the most selfish thing someone can do. If you can't wait to tie the knot, make an appointment at the courthouse and have your big day later. That way one masked person following social distancing is exposed instead of grandma and everyone you know.
According to her, expense is another possible issue. "If a couple is marrying at a luxury venue, this typically means the costs of drinks will be high. If the bride and groom don't offer an open bar then guests may have to 'dig deep' if they want a few rounds of drinks. This can often lead to disgruntled 'sober' guests."
Venue accessibility can also cause a few headaches. "If you know your venues has difficult access or steep entryways then make sure your guests are prepared. Less able guests may need help and negotiating steep cobbled pathways is no fun in stiletto heels!" Burton said.
#8
Just Saw This On Facebook... Eek
Seabeast 4 years ago
That's a nice dress. At least it looks more evening gown-y than bridesmaid-y.
Kathryn Baylis 4 years ago (edited)
At least it’s a pretty enough dress you could get that price for it, and recoup your loss.
Kanga9ine 4 years ago
So what's the story? Groom disappear mysteriously. Getting married used to mean something more than who can one up their friends. And there is no way I would drop 5-25k on a stupid dress. Never could take that leap. As Elayne Boosler once said. "I want a man in my bed, not in my house!"
egracec 4 years ago
Wouldn't shock me in the least to hear the mom or mil to be said no to a few of the bridesmaids based solely on size. I'm huggable and have received the attitude at times that not being slim enough means I need to fade into the background.
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Mónica Elisabeth Sacco 4 years ago
You should attend the wedding in your moh dress and shame the stupid bridezilla
#9
Went To A Wedding And The Mil Wore This... Would You Be Okay With It?
Hilary Mol 4 years ago
I saw a photo similar to this one (with a similar story, no doubt), and the bride actually got sneaky and paid a server to "accidentally" spill wine on the MIL's "not a wedding dress" dress. I gotta say, I'd be tempted to do something like that if someone was that disrespectful at my wedding.
Vlado Sivc 4 years ago
I spilled wine on my sisters mother in law and I made sure she knew it was not an accident! :)
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Anne 4 years ago
Back story: the bride knew the MIL got this dress - super cheap from a thriftstore and it fit (as you can see) and she was so happy with it, the bride approved!
Jus 4 years ago
If it was so, then no problem! If my nice MIL was so child like excited and asked, I would say yes, too.
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Id row 4 years ago
It's an unwritten rule that people who wear white to a wedding who aren't the bride gets red wine dumped on them. Usually one of the bridal party will do it with an 'Oops!'
Channon Doughty 4 years ago
Our wedding had to be "dry", and no one told me about that rule, dang it
Load More Replies... MoodyBlue 4 years ago
"Congratulations on marrying this young man!" - - "Oh, he is your son?" - - "Oh, you're not the bride at all?? Just dressed like a bride? Okay, sorry for confusion, madam."
Easily Excitable Panda 4 years ago
GROSS! GROSS! GROSS! The very visual definition of a doomed marriage.
Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago
I'm tempted to bring a regular dress when i have a wedding so if someone shows up like this I'm like here go change
Event planner, life coach, and author Amanda Hudes thinks that this type of wedding shaming is childish. In her opinion, complete strangers stalking a ceremony via the Internet just to criticize it is akin to talking behind someone's back in high school.
"Shaming comes from a place of insecurity and almost never about the person who is being shamed, but rather the person shaming," Hudes told BRIDES.
#10
Ooooo Yikes
Vic 4 years ago
Florida Woman, giving serious competition to Florida Man .
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Michelle C 4 years ago
TBH...I would've enjoyed watching this much more than those choreographed dances they try to do
Carrot Stick 4 years ago
Why always Florida?? What is compelling people to do this? Is it because of the heat?
H Edwards 4 years ago
From a CNN article: Thanks to Florida's strong public records laws -- also known as Sunshine Laws -- it's easy for journalists to get their hands on police incident reports and churn out attention-grabbing stories. "Florida has got one of the broadest public records laws in the country," says Barbara Petersen, president of Florida's First Amendment Foundation. You can access basic crime information almost in real time, Petersen added. "As soon as that incident report is filed (by law enforcement), we can go and make a public record request and get it."
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Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
I suggest we start using Florida as an adjective which would perfectly describe all that kind of f****d-up s**t.
#11
Spotted On Facebook
Jo Johannsen 4 years ago
The bride needs to conspire with her bridesmaids to stick a "I'm not the bride" sign on the MIL's back.
Full of Giggles 4 years ago
Or pretend to be a bit tipsy while holding a full glass of red wine.
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Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
A cousin wore a white pantsuit to our wedding. It did not look "bridal" in any way. But this trend of someone -- usually the groom's mom or the bride's stepmom -- showing up in a white ballgown that COULD be mistaken for a bridal dress is garbage. No one is going to think "Wow, she looks amazing!" Everyone is going to think "Wow, that is one insecure, sad lady."
A 4 years ago
Someone who shows up at a wedding wearing a white ball gown looks like a fool and everyone will talk about how tacky they are.
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
And there are always pictures, so we all can keep talking about their tackiness for decades, too.
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Leona Martin 4 years ago
What is it with women thinking it's ok to wear a wedding dress to someone else's wedding?!
deanna woods 4 years ago
They want the attention on them instead of the people getting married.
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Nizumi 4 years ago (edited)
All this pressure to for the bride to be the only one wearing white. Send invitation updates telling everyone it'll be a black and white attire wedding. An asshat guest wearing white only draws attention when she's the only guest wearing white. A lot of guests wearing white draws the sting.
DarkAngelNic 4 years ago
Why do people do this? Who the hell wants to wear a white dress if they don't have to anyway!
#12
I Feel So Bad For This Bride (Groom's Family Poses For Photos Without The Bride)
Kat 4 years ago
Sould have never married a man who allows this kind of behaviour towards his bride...
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
A family picture is one thing, but when Momzilla is wearing a white pseudo-wedding dress and posing like she's the bride, that's utter b.s. Seriously, women, when you wear a white gown to someone else's wedding, you only look like a mentally disturbed selfish jerk.
LH25 4 years ago
I agree. It's the white dress that bugs me. I have pics from my wedding of my husband with just his family, and me with mine. And we have pics of both of us with each family. Unless there aren't any of the bride with them, this is fine.
Load More Replies... Full of Giggles 4 years ago
What a bunch of selfish assholes. The groom is the worst for allowing his family to treat his new wife so coldly on their wedding day. Honestly, if I were the bride, I would’ve walked out of the chapel with two middle fingers straight up, and yelled “annulment bitches.”
Al Kenny 4 years ago
Not so much this but as explained by a couple of posters some weddings do take family pictures with the groom and his family and the bride with hers. Then regular pics with everybody. But what is really bad about this pic is without the bride AND MIL dressed in a sort of wedding dress style dress.
Load More Replies... Easily Excitable Panda 4 years ago
Another MIL who thinks she'd marrying her own son.
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Eunice Probert 4 years ago
There's nothing wrong with that. At my wedding my husband's family posed together without me. And then my family posed together without him.
Meredith Glenn 4 years ago
Same, but my mil’s dress was purple, not white
Load More Replies... A 4 years ago
My husband posed for pictures with his parents at our wedding. I posed for pictures with my parents at our wedding. I didn't think this was unusual. There are plenty of pictures of us together with them too. The mother of the groom wearing a wedding dress to the wedding is pretty damn tasteless.
Manuela Martins 4 years ago
Where I come from it is pretty normal to also take family photos without the bride or groom, respectively. Nothing wrong with that. But maybe it has a different meaning in other parts of the world.
Katherine Heasley 4 years ago
The mother's white dress is the real shade here. You do not wear a white dress to a wedding, not if the bride's wearing white.
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#13
Has Any Other Country Had People Wear Their Flag As A Wedding Dress? No? Just... Ew
cookie panda 4 years ago
shame a beautiful shape got wasted on such poor fabric.
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Phil Boswell 4 years ago
Is this legal? Aren't there strict rules about what you can do with the USA flag?
Beverly 4 years ago
You are *not* supposed to wear the flag as clothing. All these people bleating about their patriotism are actually misusing the flag.
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JP 4 years ago
Ummmm, this isn't a flag. It's red/white striped material and starred blue material. It's simply a red, white & blue dress. There's no flag being disrespected here.
Elsie 4 years ago
Great point here. It's patriotic much more than 50 stars and the stripes aren't even just passionate about the USA!!
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I wouldn't wear it. But I wouldn't care if someone else was wearing. Whatever makes you happy.
LuckyL 4 years ago
And it's a really beautiful dress - except for the flag part ;). But if she likes it, it's her day
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Ooooomangos 4 years ago
Ok it’s a nice dress for like 4th of July is you cut it to make it a little shorter but you probably shouldn’t wear this to a wedding.
Leo Domitrix 4 years ago
I even saw a man's suit that was the Australian flag. Never ever googling again. EVER.
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#14
How Dare People Be Offended When I Want A Giant Wedding In So. California Where Someone Dies From Covid Every 6 Minutes! Muh Freedumb Of Speech!
Jen A-Ben 4 years ago
Can we leave people's reproductive rights out of this?
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Manuela Martins 4 years ago (edited)
May the Spirits of Christmas Past, Present and Yet to Come haunt her forever.
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
This is my new favorite insult. It might replace "I hope they have a lifetime of ingrown toenails."
Load More Replies... Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
How can there be people petty, bored and malevolent enough to do that. Mankind seriously sucks.
Nikki Owens 4 years ago
She just requested information. It's not their job to police other people's actions during a pandemic; there are laws and officials to take care of that. If there was a facility hosting weddings, and it was legal, there's no reason for these people to act like a bunch of Notsees and ban her from the group. That's ridiculous.
Valerie Linares 4 years ago
I don't see an issue with her request of simply asking about it. Now, if she was rude about it, then I can understand blocking her. But, how about just answering the question?
Celtic Pirate Queen 4 years ago
"Freedumb" says it all. You know full well she's a Trump supporter.
#15
Man Proposes To Woman After Which She Grabs Her Phone To Upload A Picture On Instagram
Kristie Yuill 4 years ago
I have assume he didn't have a problem with it. If they are this far into their relationship, he MUST know she's that sort of person by now, and if he's not okay with this behaviour, why would he propose to her?
Purbasha Banai 4 years ago
I saw the video few weeks ago. He wasn't okay with it. After a while of sitting down his knees, he threw the phone away from her hand. It wad funny. Absolutely didn't like both of their behaviour
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Aliquid A 4 years ago
If he is ok with it, and she is ok with it... then mind your own business.
Purbasha Banai 4 years ago
I saw the video. He wasn't okay with it. He was sitting down his knee and the woman only kept on tapping on her damn phone. He threw the phone away from her hand. Everyone had I good laugh. But it was sure to throw a shade at the "to be fiance". Didn't like the girls attitude.
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Emperor Shrek 4 years ago
Maybe she just wants a picture to remember this beautiful moment stop being so quick to assume
Purbasha Banai 4 years ago
A video was being taken. Wasn't that enough? Plus she actually took out her phone to and opened IG camera, it was prolly lagging and he threw her phone away from her hand. Lol. Silly girl.
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Sounds Like It’ll Be A Healthy Marriage!
Kno 4 years ago
How people walk into these situations completely conscious is beyond me. This is a walking train wreck.
RaroaRaroa 4 years ago
Desperation to announce an engagement, enjoy the party and presnets, have their "big day", more partying and presents. All about the present thrill and not thinking of the future.
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Linda McGuigan 4 years ago
The universe just called to say GTFOft I honestly would have walked after my OH is passed out drunk OML does she need any more signs this marriage is gone to hell in a hand basket
Eslamala 4 years ago
People who complain about shït they got themselves into, and could get out of, annoy the living shït out of me. Be a fckn grown up!
Lucy Shupe 4 years ago
Call the wedding off. There are multiple red flags here, from groom drinking to telling sons GF, to leave is a sign it’s probably not a good idea to marry.
Joe Reaves 4 years ago
Congratulation, you now know exactly what will happen in any crisis - and if you plan to be together for life crises are inevitable - he will respond by drinking and you will be handling everything on your own. Now, do you REALLY want that to be how things are? Walk away. If he'd been responding to all the mishaps by working with her to solve them it would be fine, the other s**t isn't important, but he's showing her how much help he's going to be for the rest of their loves. None.
#17
Sounds Like A Great Idea To Save A Few Cents! May Save Even More When The Twin And His New Bride Don’t Come To Your Wedding!
Manuela Martins 4 years ago
Look, if you write in your post "I don't want to seem rude" you have already given yourself the answer. Deep inside you know this is not the right thing to do, so don't be an a**.
AzKhaleesi 4 years ago
Give them to a trusted family member to hand out later? That's what I did for a big family gathering. It wasn't a wedding it was a baby shower but I didn't want her day to be about me and FH so I gave them to FMIL and she handed them out at a later time. (and it was invitations not save the dates, so everyone already knows we're getting married lol) But I definitely would NOT pass them out at a wedding that's crazy. That's like proposing or announcing a baby at someone's wedding.
RaroaRaroa 4 years ago
Probably spending thousands on a dress but won't spend $100 on stamps.
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Celtic Pirate Queen 4 years ago
What an asshole. No. A wedding is about the couple getting married. Period. You don't get to take attention away from them for your own gain. A friend of a friend had one of her bridesmaids and the boyfriend REMOVED from the reception the second she saw him starting to kneel down (to propose). It amazes me how many people think that's okay (like basically the wedding reception becomes YOUR engagement party?) I can't imagine anyone I know being that rude, inconsiderate & selfish.
#18
There’s Still Time To Change Your Decor
cat in a tank 4 years ago
i don't get themes like this. i know if i married the love of my life i would do it because i wanted to spend the rest of my life with someone. but these kinds of jokes imply it's more of an obligation by society. you don't even have to marry anyone!
MandaPanda 4 years ago
I hate the cake topper of the bride dragging the groom with his claw marks in the ground. (With that said I do like the one where the groom is trying to pull the bride away from the TARDIS from Dr Who. Amy took Rory with so there is that too lol.)
Load More Replies... Mewton’s Third Paw 4 years ago
Cringy and corny, no matter how jokingly they mean it. It’s still an overused and basic trope. On that basic “live laugh love” font that needs to die.
Pittsburgh rare 4 years ago
Completely sick of the narrative where he's hunt, or has still time to escape, or all those cliche jokes where the bride gets their way on an unwilling groom. I don't know why women tolerate that as a wedding/engaging theme as it is more offensive to them than to anyone. I've never been married because I hate weddings but if I were to be a bride l'd make very clear we both want to be there. And yes, l do have a sense of humour. Just not this one.
Jane Alexander 4 years ago
We got married in levis in my friend, a reverend, s living room then went for pizza. You don't need A WEDDIING to just marry.
Load More Replies... Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
My husband was kind of baffled by this when we got married, some 20-odd years ago. His bachelor party started off with a few of the "ball and chain" and "last days of freedom!" jokes, and he ended up asking a couple of his friends why they would make comments like that when they knew it wasn't true. (And it's really not true, either. That bachelor party turned into an annual guys' trip event that they still do to this day, and COVID was the only thing that broke a 20+ year streak.)
QueenMiri 4 years ago (edited)
Not funny. If you don't want to get married then don't get married. It would hurt me so much if my partner would act like being with me is a nightmare for them. Disgusting. Most of the time men are proposing. You don't want to? Then don't do it. She is not a joke.
Lisa Reuss 4 years ago
This is very misogynistic. Women generally don't make these kinds of "jokes" because brides want their day to be special; they don't want to be the butt of some antiquated joke that implies she is FORCING him to marry her in some way, and he really doesn't want to do it. Why is this even considered funny?
Robert Hughes 4 years ago
My dad had "Help Me" written on his shoes at my parents wedding. My mom's whole family HATED it until my great-grandmother started laughing. Everyone was ok but before that they were furious. 😂😂
#19
Starting Off Marriage By Secretly Going Against Your Fiancé’s Wishes... Yikes
Jon Steensen 4 years ago
Another one who sees it as HER big day, and think that everything should happen according to HER wishes and her wishes alone, not realising that a wedding is couple's party. Let him take care of "his" side of the wedding instead of thinking that you know better. Overruling his opinion is not a good way to start a marriage.
Raven Sheridan 4 years ago
How would the bride feel if he went behind her back and swapped her wedding dress? Coz it's the exact same thing!
DarkAngelNic 4 years ago
Oh well for having a shared special day. I may be over-reacting but if she is willing to go behind his back to do this then I feel like this will be a lifelong issue and with possibly bigger problems than groomsmen.
Marie Sloley-Thompson 4 years ago
Most definitely! If you don't respect his wishes now, the marriage is doomed.
#20
Is It Possible To Get Married To A Cop Without Theming Your Entire Wedding Around His Job? Extra Sensitivity Points For “Stop Resisting” Being Used In Reference To Donuts, Instead As The Usual Excuse To Kill Black People
Carol Emory 4 years ago
I don't agree with the Stop Resisting wall of Donuts. You could have put a sign up that said "Police tactical supplies, require equipment!"
LuckyL 4 years ago
Why not. It's their wedding and if they like to do it I think it's perfectly fine
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Alexei Arntzen 4 years ago
Police brutality and racism are NOT POLITICAL ISSUES, FFS. Vote for people who will fight to reform these systemic problems, but ultimately, the issues are about fairness, respect, and human decency.
abn_gator 4 years ago
While I agree police brutality is an issue, the bride has a right to choose a theme for HER wedding. Just as it is someone else's decision to choose genderless on a birth certificate. It's the great thing about where we live. We have choices in just about anything we do in our lives, regardless if other agree or not. If you don't agree with the bride, move on. If you do, give her ideas. Simple as that.
Rissie 4 years ago
Also, I would appreciate people giving me their point of view, especially if it opposes mine, because you then get a chance to weigh that in. She probably would not have thought it was distasteful and clearly to some it is. Maybe she realizes some of her guests would not appreciate it. Or not. That's up to her. But post your question in a large group (outside this specific world of cops and dispatchers) and expect diverse answers.
Load More Replies... Jus 4 years ago
I'm not American, maybe that's why I see zero problems with resisting donuts sign. I think it's funny. But I have zero context here.
Kristin Ingersoll 4 years ago
There's a lot of context. It goes very deep in the US. I wouldn't expect a non-American to fully grasp it, since a seriously large percentage of actual Americans are completely and willfully ignorant about the issues. If you're interested, I"m sure you can google it and learn why "Stop resisting" is such a loaded term. (PS - it's the "resisting" that's offensive, not the donuts. Although some cops might not think that's funny, either).
Load More Replies... Manuela Martins 4 years ago (edited)
I am sure she understands what he is referring to but managed to reply politely.
#21
Engagement Photo Shaming
tw 72 4 years ago
If these two have similar senses of humor, they might just stay together forever.
Sanne H. 4 years ago
Hahaha yes! Whether one likes the photo or not, these people both sure dare to be different!
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Roxy Eastland 4 years ago
It's fun, if you buy into the idea that men do better staying single and women 'trap' them into marriage for selfish reasons. The stats show that married men live longer than single, and single women live longer than married, so the opposite is actually true.
Hugo Raible 4 years ago
Most of the time, men marry because they feel pressure to do it. And yes, in case of divorce, they are usually on the losing side (custody etc)
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Emperor Shrek 4 years ago
I think it’s cute if it is not your style too bad you mean nothing to them, the important thing is that it is their style
Llama_flower93 4 years ago
I think this is a "live and let live" situation. I hate it, but if they're happy and healthy, that's fine.
#22
Wedding Shaming Myself A Bit... I Would Personally Recommend To Ask Your Pastor/Celebrant To Step To The Side When The Kiss Takes Place. All Personal Preference Ofcourse. Although Hubby’s Hair Does Smell Good
Pittsburgh rare 4 years ago
"Although hubby's hair does smell good" is definitely something I wasn't expecting 🤣🤣
Christina Walker 4 years ago
As a wedding coordinator, I always mention this at the rehearsal! "You don't want to be the head behind the couple kissing."
#23
Even Outdoors, A 500-Person Wedding Feels A Bit Out Of Touch Right Now, Doesn’t It?
cookie panda 4 years ago
even in non pandemic the largest ive been to is 50.
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Eunice Probert 4 years ago
Just have a small wedding at a registry office, then have a big party when the pandemic is over. What is wrong with people?
Question everything 4 years ago
We got married in January 2020, except me and my husband we had his grandparents as witnesses, his brother and my friend as guests. As I'm from abroad, we decided to have the wedding reception with about 50 guests at my home country in July 2020 but postponed it due to covid by two years in hopes there will be vaccines by then. We're already married, that's the most important part. The party can wait.
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Lola 4 years ago
They don’t know them either. But ignorance says, the whole village has to be invited.
Load More Replies... Rissie 4 years ago
It's not because you're Greek that you have many relatives. It's because your Greek that distantly related family is included in a wedding. And it's hardly just a Greek thing. And no matter who invites 500 people to their wedding in these times, you're an idiot and you deserve to get a face hug from a large kalimari.
Lola 4 years ago
That’s why COVID is still around. Some people are just stupid. There’s no other explanation.
DarkAngelNic 4 years ago
F**k Off. You are not that close to 500 people to have them in a wedding during a pandemic. And everyone of them are just as stupid as you if they agree to attend.
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
500?! Assuming each person has the same number of guests, who on earth knows AND does not hate 250 people? A normal person would have their siblings, maybe their parents if they don't hate them, a friend if they are extremely lucky and physically attractive... But that's it.
Vicky Z 4 years ago
Oh we don't know them believe me! In Greece a 500 people wedding is considered medium not even large! They just invite whole villages people they have never seen before but are distant related! Did i mention i hate weddings in my country and avoid them like the plague?
Load More Replies... Celtic Pirate Queen 4 years ago
Get married by a judge and have a wedding later. How f*****g difficult is that? (Hahaha - I know several people who could do this and by the time the wedding rolls around would be filing for divorce)
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
Or else, you can get married by a judge and... That's it. Why do people waste so much money and time for people whom they don't even like?
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Groom’s Mother Hospitalized With Covid And Pneumonia 2 Weeks After Mask-Less Wedding In Florida
Full of Giggles 4 years ago (edited)
The photographer and I were the only two people of 60 that wore a mask at my sister’s wedding. None of events staff wore one. We were in the middle of Arizona’s 3rd wave. My BIL’s family took COVID back to their hometown which had been completely untouched by the virus up to that point. Two people died within the first 10 days the ILs return home. Oh, and BIL’s brother made national news because he was dragged off the plane after refusing to wear his mask on the return flight. Not to mention, my long-COVID (I was not contagious the day of the wedding) became active and I developed pneumonia, again.
Carol Emory 4 years ago
A simple way for her to have solved that "You don't have a mask? We have one for you. You don't want to wear it? Then you can't come in."
Load More Replies... Seabeast 4 years ago
https://www.orlandoweekly.com/Blogs/archives/2021/06/03/anti-vax-florida-pastor-who-said-covid-19-was-gods-punishment-hospitalized-with-covid-19
Liz the Wanderer 4 years ago
Yep. I wonder how many of those things he was guilty of?
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Alexandra Davis 4 years ago
Glad it's not just me seeing and thinking this
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Llama_flower93 4 years ago
Gods timing is perfect?? You mean for you to get your mother hospitalized??
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Aw, and if mom died or developed long-term post-COVID complications like cardiopulmonary disorder, it's just God's perfect timing! *twinkle*
Linda Roy 4 years ago
This could be a win-win, depending on how well the bride and mil get along 😏
Load More Replies... deanna woods 4 years ago
Why is it so hard to understand that you can't get married during a pandemic?
Liz the Wanderer 4 years ago
You can 100% get married during COVID. You just save the party until it's safe.
Load More Replies... Linn Shonta 4 years ago
Wow, just wow!! So sorry people can be so stupid and irresponsible 🤦🏼♀️💔🥀
#25
My Free Photographer Is So Much More Important Than My Sister’s Well-Being And Happiness!
Eslamala 4 years ago
You're telling me none of you would think, to yourselves, something like that?? REALLY?? as long as she doesn't say it out loud, I don't see the problem
von Funnyname 4 years ago
right... but since it's a facebook post that everyone can see...
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Don't Look 4 years ago
Easily one of the biggest mistakes ever. None of the big things should be free or done by family/friends.
Seule Forever 4 years ago
She could just have post " Looking for a photographer for my wedding, not too expensive please" instead of declaring hate against her sister.
Melanie Burlock 4 years ago
If age had left out the “WORST SISTER EVER” part at the beginning this woukd actually be a totally understandable response. No one would shrug off losing their free photographer for their wedding, no matter how supportive they are. It’s a huge expense to add to your budget.
Bonnie Sinclair 4 years ago
Well if people can act like adults maybe you can talk to the ex BF and ask if he would still be willing to do it. Tell him you respect his work. Also maybe you can pay him at a later date.
Leo Domitrix 4 years ago
Best pics of any wedding are always CANDID! Always. Y'know why? That's when you see people as they really are. And that's why wedding pics in my mom's fam are a blast to look at.
Sarah Grape 4 years ago
as long as it's not the first thought, theres no problem here. even if she felt bad for her sister for a week, the problem of a photographer would still come up
Vicki Thill 4 years ago
I had a photographer that I payed for at my wedding, it was on a show boat and we were taking a four hour trip down the river. Well, after we left the boarding dock, I was walking around checking on things, just to be sure everyone was getting drinks and finding places they'd like to sit, and found my photographer sitting in a chair sick as hell. I was so scared for him, but he assured me that he'd be fine and to carry on with my party. I had a hard time leaving him just sit there, and didn't know what to do. He was worried about pictures, I was worried he'd die on the boat, but my mom assured me that he was most likely "sea sick". My mom pulled out seven cameras from her purse! I kid you not, and started passing them out to guests and putting them on tables. In the end, my photographer got about a half dozen crappy photos, but my mom, and her brilliance, was able to get a couple hundred!!! I miss that woman. Oh, the photographer was fine once he was off the boat.
#26
My First In The Wild Spotting! Same Person. I’ll Just Pay Everyone In Experience!
LuckyL 4 years ago
Can we stop calling them influencer and start calling them choosing beggars or something like that
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Lilith the Demon Panda 4 years ago (edited)
that's a lot of words for "I'm a cheap bitch"... not able to provide additional monetary compensation... that sounds almost like when they call an ordinary janitor a "facility floor maintenance manager"
Tiger Pearl 4 years ago
I can see only one way for this to be okay… she has ALL the supplies, grew the flowers herself, but needs help arranging them in a nice bouquet. Doubt that’s what is happening here, but she did say she would provide ALL the supplies
Seabeast 4 years ago (edited)
These flowers are made from strips of sola wood veneer. So making them would actually be even more time consuming than using real flowers.
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V Martinez 4 years ago
I saw at least three grammatical errors. (Or they could just be typos, ok fine.) This person also thinks making bouquets is a new field? I thought florists, artists, crafty people, etc, did stuff like that.
#27
Don’t All Good Wedding Proposals Start With Being Pressured To Continue An Unwanted Pregnancy? But Seriously, This Is A Terrible Thing To Do
K Witmer 4 years ago
He manipulated her. Her feelings didn't matter so now she set a precedent for him to never care about what she wants or says. As long as he gets his way he's fine.
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
I can tell you about fifty different women who were in this same scenario, esp. when the man doesn't want her to abort HIS baby, and it always ends horribly... especially for the child/children.
Ivana 4 years ago
I am glad it worked out, sounds like the biggest concern she had was that she would be financially responsible for a child she knew she couldn't afford with a man she was uncertain she would have a long term relationship with. I am 100% pro-choice but I have never met a woman who thought of it as an easy solution and to feel like that is the only solution because of very real financial concerns is sad. Happy it worked out and it sounds like she is happy.
Otter 4 years ago
I hope you're right, but her description of throwing up, constantly crying, and fighting with Mr. Sperm doesn't sound like someone who's just worried about money.
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Nadine Bamberger 4 years ago
Great, now a perfectly innocent child also gets dragged into this mess and when all things go belly up as they are bound to do it's sure as hell not the guy who will be the single parent.
#28
Another Bride Comparing Her Wedding To Protests
troufaki13 4 years ago
What people must understand, is that arguing with idiots is just pointless...
Raven DeathShade 4 years ago (edited)
Never play chess with a pigeon. They'll s**t on the board and act like they won.
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MandaPanda 4 years ago
" . . . being as happy as the people protesting." Am I really reading that right. I must be reading that wrong.
DarkAngelNic 4 years ago
nope someone actually wrote that people protest because they are happy....and they will probably procreate.
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SlothyK8 4 years ago
The daughter of a coworker undergoing chemo & radiation for a rare & aggressive cancer was infected by her boyfriend, who caught it from his high school hockey teammates after one of THEIR family members attended a maskless wedding. The total outbreak was at least 20 people, and if my coworker had caught it she'd have been gravely at risk. These people piss me right the f_ck off.
Leo Domitrix 4 years ago
People who knowingly infect should be charged with assault and battery or attempted murder. IMHO
Load More Replies... Leo Domitrix 4 years ago
I'm vaccinated and still masking. Not even gonna think about no-masking till maybe a year from now.
Renee Letkiewicz 4 years ago
But. The. People. Protesting..... aren't "happy". That's why it's called a protest
ChloeClementine 4 years ago
I don't understand whats she's saying fully but as a poc I still think the protests during covid were wrong. I'm not talking about the reasoning and I get the anger but a pandemic is still a pandemic and there are health care workers dying to save people. If the health care workers are your family you wouldn't think it's right either.
Kanga9ine 4 years ago
It's about standing for something vs falling for anything. All this grandstanding and bitching about rights and entitlement. Doing the right thing when no ones looking. Not being the hero only when the cameras on. Going to bed at night knowing you didn't intentionally hurt anyone and making amends if someone was. Doing your best today and knowing you'll do better tomorrow. We are human and make mistakes. We learn. Our mistakes are forgive able. Keep repeating them and then think you can show up at heavens gate and say your with the band. God forgives you, but you won't be sitting at the Captains table and sleeping till noon. Welcome to Heaven.
#29
Wedding In Madrid (Spain) Last Week, A City That Most Definitely Do Not Have The Virus Under Control
Iggy 4 years ago
Let's hope it doesn't end up being her burial outfit too. I hope everyone got out of that wedding Covid-free.
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ElenaK 4 years ago
We comment without having info. What if they have been tested before the wedding or are vaccinated?It's not that such a big group of people. If it is 2021 the chances are very high that they have been vaccinated. We do not know .(please downvote freely but this is my opinion).
Rissie 4 years ago
Pretty sure you are the voice of reason here. Context is important.
Load More Replies... Manuela Martins 4 years ago
Dios mio, what a gorgeous couple! Incredible location. Other than that: Irresponsible behaviour.
Wistiti 4 years ago
Hmmm... it's easy to judge by photo, I suppose. Spain has 29% of it's population vaccinated - I'm sure that makes people less stress about big gatherings. Also tests before weddings should be mandatory.
Channon Doughty 4 years ago
29% is not good odd. The wedding party and guests would need to be vaccinated in far higher numbers for such an event to be safe.
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#30
Damn... That Was Pretty Sudden
Chucky Cheezburger 4 years ago
Meh...It can happen. On our first date,I told my (future) wife I was going to marry her, and told her so...Looking back,that's really weird, I know. But here we are 20+ years together closer than ever.
ZombieGirl 4 years ago
That's so sweet, and exactly how my husband and I started too! We met, he told me we were gonna get married, he moved in with me....all in the same night, lmao. We got married weeks later and almost 13 years later, here we are
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Lauren Caswell 4 years ago
I know right! I messed up my birthday years ago when I had a go at making a Facebook page, forgot to put it in M/D/Y, now I get a bunch of happy birthday messages from confused people in the wrong month :D
Load More Replies... Eunice Probert 4 years ago
My husband proposed to me on our second date. A year later we moved in together, two years later got married. It's our 38th anniversary this year.
Lauren Caswell 4 years ago
Sounds like a wonderful match! Congratulations for your upcoming anniversary :)
Load More Replies... Roxy Eastland 4 years ago
For those that don't use the American date system, I've worked it out - 26 days
Kno 4 years ago
Lemme get this straight: they started chatting on the 13th and on the 9th, 4 days EARLIER, they had the wedding? Maybe the american dates are confusing the hell out of me, but I don't know of a 13th month unless we are talking about ancient stuff
Lauren Caswell 4 years ago
Instead of using Day/Month/Year, the standard USA format is Month/Day/Year. It's tricked me before too lol
Load More Replies... Fus 4 years ago
Back in 1986 I met, and dated for 3 months, a girl from the rival high school. Went 23 years without seeing or hearing from her. In 2010 I found her living in Florida. (I'm in Pa) I called her, told her she needed to move back to PA to marry me. September will be our 11th anniversary.
Andy Acceber 4 years ago
Eh, my grandparents got engaged three days after meeting. It was a different time for sure, but they've been married 60+ years now so I won't presume to tell these folks it won't work.
WolfGirl23 4 years ago
My parents were together for 8 months before they got married, and 6 months before they got pregnant with their first child, me. They knew they were right for each other. Now 14 years later, 4 kids later, and 10 pets later, they are still madly in love.
#31
Not Exactly Wedding Shaming But Wtf
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
Step-parents are selfish and cruel... My mother's husband once sold some of MY stuff so he can pay for THEIR honeymoon... People suck. Families suck. Human relationships suck. Life sucks. Everything sucks.
Eslamala 4 years ago
Step parents are like that because actual parents allow them to. I would never let my partner to mistreat my son, nor would I do something like that to their son. Shïtty parents who put their kids in second place don't even deserve to be called parents.
Load More Replies... Jon Steensen 4 years ago
You tell her that her daughter has probably looked forward to this day all year, and does not understand what her birthday has to do with her parent's wedding (since those are two totally unrelated parties). You say that you don't want to disapoint her daughter and therefore want to give her a gift as you care about her happiness. Bonus point if you can find something that makes her happy but is not a toy, like bringing her to a themepark or something similar (when they open again after Covid).
Deborah B 4 years ago
Forward the text to the kid's dad, and tell him that birthday presents for his daughter are not a money grab for his wife. Ask again if there is something the child would like (and make it clear that the gift will be personalised and non-returnable) or should you just make a donation to a children's charity in her name?
Libstak 4 years ago
Does the husband/biological father know about this? This is seriously evil step mother territory...
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Oh, I'm sure he's fine with it, as long as he's got his piece of ___ in bed.
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#32
If You Get The Vaccine Don't Bother Coming To My Wedding
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
That's a whole new level of stupid... People who don't want to postpone their wedding nor to have masks ruining their photos, I can understand although I disagree... But banning vaccinated people... Why? There is absolutely no reason for that, not even a wrong one!
Jon Steensen 4 years ago
I may understand (though i do not condone with) not wanting people to wear mask for the look of a wedding, but why the heck do you want to control if people are vacinnated? You cannot see that on them and it won't spread to other guests. How the heck can you think your ideology is to decide what they do to their own bodies. I can't even follow the logic here.
#33
Found On A Facebook Post About Someone Asking If They Should Ask The Bride Why They’re Not In The Wedding Party
thefaithfulspouse 4 years ago
EXACTLY. i think we know who has the problem.
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Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago (edited)
"Because I have always hated you but I pretended until I graduated so you keep paying my bills" is the answer I will give.
#34
Found In The Wild For Sale
#35
450,000 People And Counting Are Dead, But Go Ahead And Be Cute About The Pandemic!
Kno 4 years ago
I think two brain cells would do fine in this case and still get the right answer
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Vetus Vespertilio 4 years ago
The U.S. death toll is currently more than 600,000. I wonder if there’s some magical tipping point where these people will actually pull their heads out of the sand.
#36
Timeless Favorites
Sleazy Weaver 4 years ago
I actually kinda like the "BLOW ME" caketopper? candles? thing? The rest is pretty gross but at least that one has a sense of humor.
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xXCloudy_PuffXx 4 years ago
I haven't seen many of the husband dragging the bride normally it's other way. Yay for equality ig??
Tiger Pearl 4 years ago
I’m married… no wedding due to my wedding phobia (it’s a thing!) I’d be the woman being dragged to any kind of alter, down any kind of wedding aisle.
#37
Alright, Who’s Moh Is Asking Around For D**k Pics?
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Someone else's d**k is none of your business, you creep. ESPECIALLY in your supposed friend group.
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
"It is... Your boyfriend? -Wrong, it is your father! -Ok now I gotta puke..."
#38
My Stepmom Showed Up In A Lace White Dress To My Wedding
AzKhaleesi 4 years ago
I am the most laid back bride to be there is. Idgaf about much. But there is ONE thing I will turn into a bridezilla in a second over. And it's this. Wear any color I don't care. But do NOT .... I repeat do NOT wear white, cream, or any other variation on my wedding day.
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Don't worry, bride. Everyone else thought she was a tacky mess for doing so.
#39
Bridezilla Wanted Me To Hand-Letter 250 Invites And 250 Save The Date Cards For Free (She Has 500+ Followers On Instagram Dontcha Know!) So I Made This Instead
Seabeast 4 years ago
There are so many fonts that look just like calligraphy. Why do it by hand?
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
Fancier. Upper class étiquette says it is much better, but not compulsory.
Load More Replies... Jon Steensen 4 years ago
A handwritten card shows that you care, and is willing to take the take and endure the cramps associated with making a personalised message for the individual it is adressed to. But if you just outsource the task, what is the point of having it in handwritting then? If its because you like the style of handwritting then just use a computer and print the god damn thing if you are going to fake it anyway by not undertaking the task yourself.
#40
Yes, It Is Definitely In Poor Taste
Fluffy Griffin 4 years ago
You can send "we got married" announcements but NOT registry information.
thefaithfulspouse 4 years ago
Got a wedding invite for the ceremony only, which was at a free venue. A few people were invited to the reception dinner, and then there were separate invitations to show up for dancing but no food. And registry info sent to all.
#41
Guest Shaming
Anne 4 years ago
why is this guest shaming? Doesn't sound like this person is coming to the wedding?
#42
Handcuff Engagement Ring? That's It. I'm Ring Shaming. It Was Recommended To Me On Etsy
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Now we all need to know about the tackiest ring you've seen, please!
Load More Replies... Phil Boswell 4 years ago
Unless one were a professional escape artist, I would think that would disincline one to acquiesce to that request…
Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago
It's cute but makes it sound like a forced wedding on the bride ngl
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
There is no typo. The second "pretty" is an adjective.
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Come To John And Jill's Wedding, Theres A Very Special Guest They Want You To Meet
#44
The Size Of A Facebook Friend's Wedding In Texas (During The Pandemic)
Martin Forbes 4 years ago
Here in the UK, the venue hosts would be fined up to £10,000 or $14,000 for having more than 30 people attend, so it really wouldn't be worth it. I'm guessing its not the same for you over in the US for some reason.
Terry Tobias 4 years ago
Maybe this is what the reception looked like because all of the guests were home sick with COVID...a room full of no-shows.
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
It depends on when everyone is tested. There are plenty of the "But we got tested!" things, but it was two days before the event, and COVID takes 2 weeks, average, to show up. But hey, as long as they got "their special day!" They can enjoy looking back on the photos of everyone who got sick and died or have long-term complications.
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Trashy Reverend's Wife (Not Even A Guest)
Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago (edited)
Okay but the woman in the purple tank is just really really rude
Terry Tobias 4 years ago
That's so tacky! Why is she even there? I once dated a DJ who worked wearing a tux. When I went with him to one of his shows, I always dressed appropriately- especially for a wedding reception. Some people just don't have a clue!
Tiger Pearl 4 years ago
…I think your suggestion is worded rudely and extremely aggressive… no need to body shame people. Obviously the bride didn’t object to her being there…(it does sound like she should have, though)
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More Tame Than Other Photos That Get Posted Here, But Still, Why Grope Your New Spouse In Your Wedding Portraits?
#47
Another Bride Wanting To Cover Up A Family Member’s Body To Fit Her Perfect Day Aesthetic
Nicholas Kraemer 4 years ago
I think the problem is only that they will pull the focus of the picture from the bride to the tats. I actually can't imagine what's wrong with the way this person is asking for advice.
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Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
If you want a "perfect wedding party," hire some dress extras that fit the body type and aesthetic you think is so important. If you want your friends/family to stand and support you, celebrate the fact that they are there, and welcome them in all of their "imperfections."
Tiger Pearl 4 years ago
If she is super nice about it. “I love your tattoos, but unfortunately they outshine in their awesomeness/clash w/ color scheme…what would you be comfortable doing?” IMO, photoshopping probably less messy, though.
Samantha PandaNotBored 4 years ago
Buy her a beautiful shawl for the dress she is wearing . She will understand if you say it with good intentions
xXCloudy_PuffXx 4 years ago
I mean I kinda get this. I love tats and think they're rad as hell and want a few myself, but if they're rlly big and colourful it's probably gonna be a lil distracting and also may not match the dress/theme or whatever
Mewton’s Third Paw 4 years ago
Just have them airbrushed out later and don’t make a big deal out it. Sure it looks terrible but it’s her body and you shouldn’t have her as your maid if you can’t handle how bad she looks. Either airbrush it later or don’t have her. You can’t realistically bother her about this tho.
Manuela Martins 4 years ago
It is so funny to me how people never want to "hurt other's feelings" but behave like absolute jerks.
Nicholas Kraemer 4 years ago
Trying to find a polite way to have YOUR wedding photos turn out how YOU want isn't really being a jerk though.
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"We're Not Doing Any Of That Mask Or Covid Stuff". People Like Her Are Why Facebook Needs An Eye Roll Reaction
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Narrator: "Within two weeks after the wedding, they were, indeed, doing "that covid stuff."
#49
In A Wedding Group On Facebook. This Lady Is Looking For This Cake Topper For Under £100
#50
This Guy Wants To Write A Thoughtful Letter Instead Of Filling A Big Box With Dollar Store Stuff Cricuted To Say Groomsman. Apparently That Makes Him A Jerk?
Becky Samuel 4 years ago
I have no idea what this person is talking about. What proposals? Are people just making up more and more protocol for the sake of it or do they really have more money than sense?
Memere 4 years ago
Yep, it's a thing in the U.S. to make a big production out of asking close friends to be in the bridal party.
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Memere 4 years ago
This is a thing now in the U.S. - it started with just the bride-to-be sending a cute little box of goodies to the ladies she wanted in her bridal party, asking them to be maid of honor/bridesmaids. Apparently now it's extended to the groom, altho I'm guessing that's because it's what the bride wants. And another one that's popular is the "PromPosal" - high school seniors making a big production out of asking their girlfriend/boyfriend to the big dance!
Load More Replies... Roxy Eastland 4 years ago
Is this about asking people to be groomsmen etc at the wedding? Nowadays you can't just . . . ask them?
Candia Lee 4 years ago
It's a bad past tense verb form of Cricut, a machine that uses digital designs to cut various flat materials, like paper, foil applique, screen print stencils. My neighbor uses hers for such as team Ts. I envision lacy cards and lettered picture mats.
Load More Replies... Lauren Caswell 4 years ago
Then he should mail her a dear John. No, but honestly they gotta talk to each other not the internet.
Kate 4 years ago
Sounds like he did talk to her but she's refusing to listen to him.
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Entitled Bridezilla Demands Her Bridesmaids Pay Everything To Look “Pristine” For Photos.
Helen Haley 4 years ago
You think your wedding should cost them money, and they're still friends with you?
Becky Samuel 4 years ago
It seems to be the current trend. At least two 'parties' before the wedding which have the expectation that the guests will not only pay for themselves, but also provide gifts/wedding finance, then pay out to be part of the wedding party, then a gift, often a cash gift, again to pay for their extravagance.
Load More Replies... Stephanie Cunningham 4 years ago
We need to have adult proms or something so these women can dress up and have big parties for themselves and be the center of attention without bringing an actual marriage into it. Might reduce the divorce rate.
Mimi777 4 years ago
I’ve turned down the invite to be a bridesmaid twice in my life I’m sorry but I’m not spending hundreds of dollars on one single day. I’m happy for you and everything but I’m not doing that. The second wedding they wanted the bridesmaids to find the entire bachelorette party which was in a beach town 8 hours away. I also want to mention that both were acquaintances not close friends.
Libstak 4 years ago
Every wedding i have been to the bride and groom have paid for their bridesmaids and groomsmen, this list of demands that have to be out of pocket for the sake of anothers wedding wishes is seriously messed up and a great way to destroy family relationships and friendships. Your wedding, your budget, end of.
Lemonclouds20 4 years ago
It's not too bad to save for . But $90 for make up is too expensive. A MUA can do a good job even if it's cheap materials
Bella, Your Kitty-Loving Queen 4 years ago
Judging by this bride’s attitude, I thought the prices would be $300, $200, $100, and $100 😂
#52
I Googled Seating Chart Ideas And Realized Wow...some People Must Really Hate Their Guests
Jon Steensen 4 years ago (edited)
Though it may seem a bit daunting at first it is actually not a stupid idea. Normally the guest are sorted by their table numbers and not their name, which means that in worst case, your name is the last one on the list. At a big wedding that means a lot of the guests will end up spending a lot of time finding their name on the chart, and hence create a bottleneck when everyone tries to read the same chart at once. In the chart above the names are sorted alphabetically, so finding you name should be faster and you just have to follow a single line to find the table number. Want to know who you'll share the table with? Just work the way backwards along the lines once you have identified the table number. Though it may not be the best way to do things, I don't think it is actually that stupid.
Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago
The only way I'd be able to find my seat is by following my line with my finger.
L.A. Trefry 4 years ago (edited)
I hope no one's been drinking before they try to find which table they are seated at! I wonder if making each table a different color thread would have looked awful. It might have been easier for people to trace their path.
Candia Lee 4 years ago
Each table has 4-6 people, rough count 50. That's not a large crowd, more like two families with a few neighbors and business associates. There may be some plus ones, but "they" know everyone else.
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Why On Earth Do You Need To Open Carry At Your Own Wedding?
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Yes, being prepared to murder people at any moment is so important for a wedding celebration. What a bunch of pathetic, insecure, weak, selfish losers.
Jon Steensen 4 years ago (edited)
Aah what is wedding but an oppotunity to wear a tool ment for killing amongst a lot of people that is your family or friends. Add a serious amount of liquer and now we have a true party. Some Americans are indeed wierd when it comes to firearms, those things are not toys or symbols of liberty, but the cause death and destruction. Hence they should only be carried when need, e.g. hunting for food or defence against bears and the like.
#54
Petty Level Midnight - Charging Bridal Party For Gifts
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
"Pay for the gift" is an oxymoron... And the person who posted that is a moron.
#55
Bride Is Frustrated That NY Governor Wants To Enforce Social Distancing And Won’t Give Her A Timeline For When Covid Will Be Gone
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago (edited)
How sad for her. I was over everything when I was lying in a hospital bed, newly diagnosed with diabetes as a result of COVID treatment, getting messages that my husband had been admitted for COVID too, and unsure if either one of us would live or die, what our quality of life would be, and how to pay all of these hospital bills. But yeah, I'm so sorry about your dream wedding, sweetie.
#56
Finally Gets Engaged After Years Of Crying About It And Immediately Bashes Her Fiancé On Ig Story About How She Did Not Like Her Ring. They Go Out To Get A New One Next Day And...ouch! Embarrassing
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
Yes. Because that's all a boyfriend is about : buying expensive stuff.
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#57
Just Imagine...
Katie Gardner 4 years ago
Who would agree to do this? Unless they are all friend and it’s like a group joke thing.
#58
Groom Is The Red Dot. Can You Guess Who Is The Bride And Who Is The Psycho Mother In Law? Who Does This!?!
Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago
I DONT CARE IF YOU HATE THE COLOR PURPLE GO PUT ON THIS PLUM COLORED WEDDING DRESS AND SIT IN THE BACK THATS NOT HOW YOU SHOW UP TO A WEDDING
Terry Tobias 4 years ago
Another mom who's too close to her son and who doesn't want to give him up to his bride.
Sarah Tate 4 years ago
This seems to be a trend lately. What the hell is wrong with these women? Some kind of sick reverse Oedipus complex? Do they actually think their sons might decide to marry them if they dress like a bride? It's very disturbing.
Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago
The MIL is wearing a wedding dress. That's not ok.
Load More Replies... Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
There is a theory about relationship triangulations. You can 100% bet that when a MiL does this, she is advertising to everyone that she has no appropriate relationships in her life and has made her son her "spouse" emotionally. This is not only a jerk move, it's a sign that she needs therapy.
#59
I Think Proposing At A Wedding Is Not Only Tacky, But Rude
Lemonclouds20 4 years ago
It's like there's a proposal because the guy/girl is drunk thinking yeah this would be nice let's get married. It's not appropriate. A proposal should be between two people, in a place that is meangingful to them. E.g McDonald's or a mountain top
Uncommon Boston 4 years ago
If a member of my family or extremely close friend talked about it with me before the wedding, I could make it work. But I would need to decide when and announce it, "Today is the beginning our marriage, a shared life together (blah blah). We wish the same joy for everyone we love." Then nod to the person. It would not interrupt anything, the guest's attention would be on me then on them, and it could a beautiful ending of a day of family joy. But ask, no big surprise or interruption.
Terry Tobias 4 years ago (edited)
Hopefully the proposal would take place somewhere private and not in the middle of the first dance of husband and wife. Then not tell anybody they're engaged until the next day.
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Couples/families spend a lot of money and time on a wedding. Throw your own party and pay for it yourselves if you want to propose with a bunch of your friends around.
#60
I Wish This Was A Joke, But Some Bride Legit Posted This On Facebook
Terry Tobias 4 years ago
I don't like those fountains. Give me the dessert table at an Italian wedding every time! They have the best goodies and I have to make myself stop going back to it too many times so I don't look like a glutton!
Becky Samuel 4 years ago
Never eat from one of those chocolate fountains. They're so gross. Think about all the people who have coughed or sneezed or dipped their grubby fingers into that lukewarm chocolate. Yummy. They often don't discard the chocolate at fhe end of the day because it's expensive, so added bonus cooties!
Candia Lee 4 years ago
True for buffet restaurant choco fountains, but she wants to buy one.
Load More Replies... Warrior Mama 4 years ago
There's a reality show on Netflix where couples decide to spend their $ on a wedding reception or a mortgage, and the deciding factor for one couple was a ranch fountain the caterer had prepped for them
Jon Steensen 4 years ago
Sound like a way to ruin a lot of really expensive clothes quite fast. Wouldn't want to wear my best suit or tuxedo to that wedding.
#61
What Every Pandemic Wedding Needs A Whole Week Of Events In Three Different States And 4 Custom Wedding Dresses
Hilary Mol 4 years ago
Just, no. This sounds like a nightmare, even if you aren't an introvert.
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
7 days of festivities? Wow... But your wedding is supposed to be a happy event, not a figurative hell!
cookie panda 4 years ago
don't downvote me to oblivion here, but it might have been fun for them, and they probably did precautions or they would have been like "nu covod stoff becus muh fredum" or something.
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
1 woman who cares only about being a princess on her wedding day, and not about, you know, the actual relationship or marriage.
Mewton’s Third Paw 4 years ago
That would be okay if they have money enough for it to be fun. But someone with money probably wouldn’t say “six limos,” so it provably sucked.
#62
Yikes The Saga Continues... I Posted The 2nd Slide Yesterday But Added It For Context
Kristie Yuill 4 years ago
I know they "grow up fast these days" but NO grown-ass man would look at a 13-year-old and not recognize that they are not an adult.
Lulu Lemons 4 years ago
I disagree. I'm just getting diagnosed with mild face blindness and have no idea peoples ages because of it. This is of course assuming he made a genuine mistake and wasn't just a predator.
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AlmightyOne 4 years ago
There is no such thing as a 13 year old who looks like a 19 year old. This guy knew damn well she was underage, trust me. Regardless of whether or not she put herself in that position, what OP's dad did was wrong. It is gross to blame the child, and that dude should NEVER be let out of prison. If I were OP, I would have disowned him as soon as I found out.
#63
12 Bridesmaids During A Pandemic....no Masks In Sight
Kristin Ingersoll 4 years ago
Because being super popular and showing everyone that you have tons of friends is super duper important! (eyeroll)
Load More Replies... Bella, Your Kitty-Loving Queen 4 years ago
I think this is okay as long as they are all vaccinated and recently got tested.
#64
An Australian Couples Wedding Invites, Accompanied With A Poem Requesting Money
MiriPanda 4 years ago
Money instead of gifts is not bad per se, but the 'poem' is awful and cringeworthy.
Load More Replies... Terry Tobias 4 years ago
Visit the ATM?? I think this could have been handled a little differently- maybe saying something like 'in lieu of gifts a monetary donation would be appreciated'...
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Yes, because unless you "pull out your greens," you are clearly unkind and selfish and don't support them or their lurve. **eyeroll**
#65
Spent A Minute Trying To Figure Out What They Meant By “Same Pines Forever”
#66
I Would Be So Annoyed At Receiving A Useless Fan And My Partner Got Delicious Limoncello
If I could I would live under water 4 years ago
At my work my boss (well, his secretary) gets flowers for the female workers and a nice bottle of red wine for the male workers. The flowers are beautiful but I'm always jealous of that (pretty expensive) bottle of wine (I never pay that much for myself). It may be petty but I can't help it, I'd rather have the wine lol :D
Terry Tobias 4 years ago
I'd rather have the limoncello, and after I enjoyed it and the bottle was empty I would save it as a keepsake. They make great bud vases!
Patsy 4 years ago
Honestly, I don't see the issue with the bamboo fans. Depending on where the wedding is being held, it could be a small blessing. I was a bridesmaid for my friend's wedding in Virginia (I'm from Ireland) and the ceremony was at 6pm...I damn near died with the heat and would have LOVED my own fan to have, instead of having to use my place-card.
#67
Groom Gets Wasted So Bad His Mil Has To Feed Him
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Just what every woman wants and needs: a man-child husband whose mommy has to take care of him.
Hugo Raible 4 years ago
At least he didn't pass out - unlike many brides.
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#68
Feeling Insecure From The Flower Girl... A Kid!
Mewton’s Third Paw 4 years ago
Just don’t have kids there at all! They’ll find a way to be obnoxious, which is the last thing an attention seeking bride needs.
Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago
I reverse images searched and a Tiara was bought for her to wear.
Load More Replies... Katie Gardner 4 years ago
My cousin’s fiancé insisted I be flower girl and wear a dress that was very similar to hers (except more appropriate for a little girl). We took adorable pictures!
Nicholas Kraemer 4 years ago
It's interesting how people are so judgemental on when people are "allowed" to feel anxious or insecure, and when they are not.
Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago
I reversed google image searched: a Tiara
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That Woman On The Left Is Not The Bride...
Rus Kus 4 years ago
It seems like a lot of people wear white and bride-like dresses to others' wedding and I don't get why. What are the possible reasons? Like all their wardrobe is like this or they made some kind of promise to gods of white to never wear othee colors? Seriously don't get that and never encountered in life
Jon Steensen 4 years ago
It is normally a mother in law who does not approve on the bride an hence wants to ruing their day by causing a drama. It is very disrespectfull and a childish behaviour, that ought to be shamed out of existance by everybody at the party. It is an indication that the groom has a troublesome relation with his mother, being a mother's boy instead of grown man. He ought to stand up and take the side of the bride by throwing any person other than his wife out of the party when showing up in a white dress (unless it is a poor woman with absolutely no clue about ettiquette who just happened to pick an unfortunate dress by accident, in which case he should educate her in a friendly manor about the mistake)
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Maybe We Should Stop Shaming People’s Comfort Levels During A Global Pandemic
#71
I’m Getting Married In October. Someone Mailed This To Me. No Return Address And My Address Was Typed So I Can’t Identify The Handwriting
BlackPearltheSeaWing/NightWing 4 years ago
The entire town includes his family.
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#72
Nothing Screams Love Like Getting Matching Toe-Tag Tattoos To Commemorate Your Wedding!
#73
A New Take On The Tasteless Cake Topper
ispeak catanese 4 years ago
This response is appropriate for so many scenarios!
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#74
Imagine Ranking Your Friends In Such A Way. Sorry Number 5
Emma Byrne 4 years ago
I had no idea people rank their friends, tell me this isn't a thing, please.
Zenozenobee 4 years ago
This is a thing in my daughter preschool... but even with her 5yo she thinks that it's not cool
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Requiring Masks Is A "Hard No" For This Bride, Doesn't Want To Be Reminded Of This Nightmare Of A Pandemic....while Choosing To Have Her Wedding During A Pandemic
Stephanie Cunningham 4 years ago
Sorry that planning a wedding was such a nightmare for you while hundreds of thousands of people were dying.
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
"The week of the wedding" is the wrong timeframe for testing, anyway. You need two weeks, average.
4 years ago
I understand the problem. I would say it's not impolite to ask as long as you are very kind and polite about it.
#76
When You Have To Put Down Payments On Your Bridesmaid Dress...
LuckyL 4 years ago
Ohhh wow. And 550 for a dress?? We don't have this tradition here. I would think, if someone wants me to wear a special dress that I can't choose, they would pay for it. Or do the bridesmaids always pay for the dress?
MiniMaus 4 years ago
I don't think that's the cost of the wedding dress. It's the deposit of $55 pp for 10 people.
Load More Replies... AzKhaleesi 4 years ago
550 for a bm dress???? My dresses for my girls were like 60 bucks. give me a break.
Terry Tobias 4 years ago (edited)
I was thinking the same thing. I remember seeing my mom's wedding book (My parents got married back in 1959) I think she had about 8 bridesmaids, a flower girl and a ring bearer. The bridesmaids probably paid for their own dresses, and did their own make-up and hair. Mom was thrown a bridal shower by her bridesmaids, which was attended by family and friends. There was probably a registry for gifts but no expectation of people spending hundreds of dollars. There were no other parties that I'm aware of unless there was a small rehearsal dinner. The guest list was of a respectable length- not too small, not too big. The pictures of the wedding party looked amazing! My mom couldn't afford to buy her own dress, so she wore her older sisters wedding dress and looked absolutely beautiful! This is how weddings were; they weren't ostentatious and expensive like they are today. The family came together to pay for everything and it was lovely. I have no patience for people that have to have so much more. In reality, they must have very empty lives.
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#77
A Windy Wedding
Kno 4 years ago
Beans, beans, the musical fruit, the more you eat the more you toot! Ham looks nice.
Memere 4 years ago
The more you toot, the better you feel, so let's have beans at ev'ry meal! Thanks for the childhood memories, Kno!
Load More Replies... Donkey boi 4 years ago
ARE THOSE BACON ROSES!!!!!!!! Feed me the ones that haven't touched the beans!
Hugh Walter 4 years ago
Context? Farming community wedding? You can't shame this without a reason?
Candia Lee 4 years ago
Must be the groom's cake. If white is cream cheese, gastronomic ratio is off - need more biscuits & bacon.
#78
I See Your I Don't Want To Be Married Cake Toppers And Raise You A Gotta Shame My Fiancé Into Proposing Welcome Mat
Roxy Eastland 4 years ago
I just don't get this obsession with the man having to officially propose to the woman, and it be a surprise, in the 21st century. If you want to get married discuss it with him. If he agrees with you, yay, you're engaged and going to get married. If he doesn't then you need to talk further about where the relationship is going. When I hear women twenty or more years younger than me saying 'he says he's going to propose when the time is right, but I'm still waiting' I'm like 'what??? do the two of you want to get married or not?'
Jo Falkinder 4 years ago
I asked my husband, we had a discussion about it, we shared a bottle of wine and homemade pizza. No photoshoot, no drama, no need!
Load More Replies... Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago
Women can propose too. Ask before he decides to propose to someone else!
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
And what if he doesn't want? Oh, right, I forgot that men are not supposed to have feelings nor wills.
Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago
But in like the 1900's men had the most power. I think you're getting it the other way around.
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Perform At My Wedding, I’ll Pay You In Bridesmaids
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Do the bridesmaids know they're being whored out for free photography?
MiriPanda 4 years ago
Yikes! "You have to provide your business for free and I don't take no for an answer" - a groomzillo, that's a new one.
Zenozenobee 4 years ago
Well, from a man who whored out the bridesmaids, I guess "I don't take no as an answer" is not surprising....
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#80
I Feel Bad That Weddings Are Being Cancelled, But I Think In This Case It’s For The Better...
Sleazy Weaver 4 years ago
A kazoo wedding actually sounds really fun... if the kazoos come with earplugs.
Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago
BVRRR BVR BVR BVRRRRRR BVRRR BVR BVR BVRRRRRR BVRRRR BVR BVR BVRRRRRR BVR BVR BVRRRRR BVR BVRRRRRRRRRRR (This is to "here comes the bride")
#81
Bride Plans Wedding In The Middle Of A Pandemic And Then Shames Guests Who Feel Too Uncomfortable To Go To Her Bridal Shower
Roxy Eastland 4 years ago
Maybe if you hadn't invited them to attend 'your intimate shower' more would have come?
MauKini 4 years ago
yes, let me just move the funeral of a loved one... You can move a wedding date, not really the date of a funeral.
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Well, your loved one's death is inconveniencing HER, so how dare you?!
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#83
Came Across This Picture On Ig Explore. His Board Basically Says “I Won’t Change”
Hugh Walter 4 years ago
There seems to be a deal of photoshop involved in both boards! Love to know what they actually said but shaming a fake is silly!
#84
Following Health Guidelines Is Insanity!!
Monika Rhodes 4 years ago
Misusing the world nazi in the situations that are in place to SAVE lives is really f*****g grinding my gears!!!
Vetus Vespertilio 4 years ago
It is nothing like a Nazi establishment, and saying it is just makes people take actual Nazis less seriously.
#85
Found This In My Plant Fb Group, Op Said It Was A 'Joke'
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
I just don't understand how anyone can feel good about having to bully and harass and cajole a partner into proposing. Also, women can propose, too.
Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago
I said it once anand I'll say it again. Women can propose. Either do it now or risk him proposing to someone else.
#86
Groomsmen Are Lame Because They Don’t Want A Picture Of Matching Underwear. “If You Don’t Like The Post Don’t Comment On It”
Jon Steensen 4 years ago
It may be fun if your groomsmen are kind of wild and into that stuff (which were not the case). But being stripped to the underwear is out of the comfort zone of most men, and a way to intimate thing for a bride to ask for. Hence it should only be proposed in a very considered way, leaving them plenty of room to back out without a bad conscience and it must be done in a way that is not putting any pressure on them. Shaming them by calling them boring is not the right thing to do. In general shaming people in order to get things done your way seldom lead to good relations in the long run. In these days you'd never know where a picture ends up, and a picture that was supposed to be fun gag can do a lot of harm when it suddently ends up in the wrong context (E.g. at a potential future employer) due to someone being inconsiderate. For me it would be a NO to such a proposal followed by a bit of education of the bride if she tried to shame me for it afterwards.
#87
I- Why?
cookie panda 4 years ago
if those kids could read they would be very upset. (assuming they cant lol don't downvote me im not good at reading age)
Load More Replies... Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Sexualizing children is just so, so cute. Especially when it's assumed heteronormativity.
xXCloudy_PuffXx 4 years ago
I know right?! I'm sure they'll love looking back at these photos when they're older as well.
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#88
Demoting Bridesmaid For The Sake Of Even Numbers
Kristin Ingersoll 4 years ago
Would have probably been a little less insulting to that bridesmaid to find a new groomsman. How would you feel if you found out you were your friend's last choice for a bridesmaid? That would hurt.
Load More Replies... #89
Because Bubbles Never Hurt Anybody. Covid Wedding
Vetus Vespertilio 4 years ago
Would have been okay if people just waved the bubble wands through the air.
Load More Replies... xXCloudy_PuffXx 4 years ago
I had always wanted bubbles at my wedding but jeebus not during this time.
#90
How Dare Someone Be Pregnant At My Wedding!! I Understand Not Wanting To Host Events, But The Anger At Grandparents Buying Gifts And The Me!!!! Attitude Is So Entitled
I want cake 4 years ago
Yep. My extended family always forgets about my birthday. I can recognise that feeling of wanting the attention just one time. Just this once. I understand that the pregnancy wasn't planned to be just then, but for the sister-in-law to plan her events in the same week as the wedding seems insensitive and I fully understand the bride losing her s**t about that.
Load More Replies... Bella, Your Kitty-Loving Queen 4 years ago
So.. what I’m understanding is the pregnant person is doing her gender reveal AND baby shower the week of her wedding. Wow.
Kristie Yuill 4 years ago
I understand that this is disappointing to the bride, and another added layer of stress, but it's not reasonable to expect people to schedule their own lives around someone else. If they were ready to have a baby, they should not have to plan around someone else's event. It's their life.
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Uncommon Boston 4 years ago
I can imagine this, I can imagine the person in my family who would this do this, how my mother would react, and the incredible pain of being pushed aside for another. This person does this sort of thing all the time, manipulates the situation to her advantage, so I always look like a fool..The selfish, demanding fool., Depending on the situation, this could be a nightmare
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
It looks like the typical toxic relationship of which you should get rid.
Load More Replies... BlackPearltheSeaWing/NightWing 4 years ago
I'm actually not angry at the bride this time. I get that she can't expect everyone to adjust their lives for her wedding, but I get how she would feel with the attention yet again bring taken from her. And she at least realized she was wrong to be so angry.
4 years ago
Not going to lie, I do feel bad for the bride. It would be a different story if the maid of honor didn't schedule everything on the same week.
Terry Tobias 4 years ago
If the sister- in- law is due at the same time as the date of the wedding there was plenty of time for the SIL to have all of her events in the 9 months preceding it. Let the bride have her moment. She sounds like she needs it.
AlmightyOne 4 years ago
I pity her. seems like the burden of a lifetime of feeling unseen and ignored was simply too much to handle. She shouldn't have behaved the way she did, but the mom-to-be was very selfish to ask the bride to host the gender reveal party.
#91
Could You Imagine These Being Your Wedding Photos. Gag Me
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
How can anyone be a conservative but have such poor taste? (Preppy denial)
#92
My Aunt Is Suggesting I Wear This To My Nephews Wedding. It Is Way Whiter Than It Looks In This Pic. For Extra Credit She Is Wearing The Same Dress In Blue
#93
Putting Your Honeyfund & Cashapp On Your Getaway Car (& Sharing In A Public Fb Group)
#94
The Attitude Of Dressing To "Show Everyone Up" On Someone Else's Special Day Is So Toxic
#95
Posting Your Friend’s Personal Info To Find Him A Date
Pilot Chick 4 years ago
My brother was certain I wouldn’t come to his wedding because I didn’t have a date. I don’t understand people that feel like you can’t do anything solo.
Jon Steensen 4 years ago
I really never understood the need to bring a date to a wedding. Why would anyone prefer to pay to have a random stranger at their wedding instead of inviting a friend or some family? (often the number of guests has to be limited due to venue size or for financial reasons etc. and some loved ones has to not be invited) You are perfectly capable of celebrating the love of a another couple even if you do not currently have a partner yourself. Requirering everbody comes in pairs is just putting a lot on unessary stress on the people who have to find a partner in a rush. It often results in a lot of oddwardness. Leave your guests alone, let them come as it suits them, with or without a partner according to what they find most fitting. Some people are perfectly fine being single and would rather show up alone. Don't force your worldview down over their head and interfere with their lovelife, it is none of your business. Thinking everybody should be in a relationship is not resonable.
#96
My Dad Confirmed He And My Mom Are Anti Vaccination By Declining My Wedding Invitation
GFSTaylor 4 years ago
The selfish ones who won't get vaccinated. They are putting themselves at risk, and also anyone they come into contact with.
Load More Replies... Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 4 years ago
If they are 12 or older GET. THEM. VACCINATED. IT WONT GIVE THEM ANY MENTAL ILLNESS AND NO IT DOESN NOT MAKE YOU MAGNETIC. THERE IS NO TRACKING CHIP IN IT. IF YOU THINK IM WRONG THEN GIVE ME PROOF. OR DOES "THe gOvornMeNt ConTrOl thE iNtErNEt aNd I caNt get mY PRoOF" YEA RIGHT
Anne 4 years ago
They are not available for kids (yet) - so she excludes kids? But you can't force someone to get vaccinated. So that's the consequence of your decision. You don't even ask why they decided to not have one.
Roxy Eastland 4 years ago
That confused me too. Also, if the people there that want to be vaccinated are vaccinated, why would they be concerned about someone not vaccinated attending? I feel like both sides gave up too easily here, there's more going on with this family.
Load More Replies... #97
Bridal 90s Inspired Bucket Hats? For $225?? And So Popular That At Least One Is Out Of Stock??? (Lighthearted “Shaming” Here - I Know Everyone’s Style Is Different!)
Sleazy Weaver 4 years ago
The only possible explanation is that someone broke into the warehouse & burned them all.
Load More Replies... Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Anyone familiar with Safiya Nygaard's YouTube channel knows she would have totally done this and done it spectacularly!
#98
Aunt Of The Bride Wore This To A Wedding...
Eslamala 4 years ago
These people are just dumb. If someone were to come to my wedding dressed in white, I'd just ask them to leave. And not in a nice manner. I'd probably even shame them.
Terry Tobias 4 years ago
The off the shoulder look isn't appropriate either, especially for the aunt of the bride.
#99
I Get Liking Sports But God Damn
Stephanie Cunningham 4 years ago
I much prefer this over the "it's MY DAY how dare you not be perfect in every way and pay attention to anyone else" brides in this list.
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Yeah, unlike some of the political- or police-themed weddings, fandom-related weddings rarely hurt anyone.
Jon Steensen 4 years ago
It's tasteless and tacky. But hey, if that is what you want to do, then that is what we'll do. Your day, your decision as long as it does not put a lot of strain on someone else, do as you please. Your happiness should be important to your guest this day, they ought to be able to stretch a little to make your day.
Hugh Walter 4 years ago
Who's shaming this and why, the marriage has already lasted four years and she's still proud of their theme? It worked for them, and whether it was 'just' taste or find a theme, or something deeper, who cares?
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
It looks like the wedding of the prom king and queen after everyone else escaped from their hometown...
#100
When The Bride Shows Her True Colors About Why She's Having A Wedding
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Make sure you have a "welcome back from the honeymoon shower!" and a "six week anniversary shower!" and a "one year anniversary party" so that you can get all of those sweet, sweet presents that are so important to you. Isn't that what getting married is all about, pressies?
Roxy Eastland 4 years ago
Try looking at how all the countries in the world that don't have bridal showers manage it . . . ?
Anne 4 years ago
Wait.. you plan your own shower? Isn't that something your friends/co workers or family (or all if you are nice) do for you?
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago
Bridal showers are not even a real thing... just like friend.
Load More Replies... #101
No, Facebook, I Am Not Planning A Wedding. And Hopefully Will Pay For One Myself When I Do. How Often Does This Happen To Become Automated?
#102
Picking An Engagement Ring Based On Your Mlm...
I want cake 4 years ago (edited)
My parents did herbalife for a bit until they realised itvs basically a pyramid scheme, and when they noped out a bunch of people who were all in stopped talking to them entirely. So culty!
Load More Replies... #103
Self Righteous Bride Of The Year Award Goes To...
Anne 4 years ago
Really? You don't know why.. What if he cheated? what if he diddled the kids? What if he hit her? And you judge her.. she should not be at your wedding, you don't deserve her. (I know this is taken from reddit and over a year old.. I still felt the need to defend sis)
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
Other people's life decisions HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU, you self-centered idiot. Seriously, this is the kind of bint who will whine that if her sister doesn't have kids, she must be "judging" people with them, or that if someone says "No thanks, I'm lactose intolerant" when she surprises everyone at the potluck with a lasagna, they should have been "polite" and eaten it anyway.
#104
Bride Is Upset At Last Minute Cancellations For Her Indoor Wedding, Plus Four Of Her Bridal Party Contracted Covid The Week Of
Jon Steensen 4 years ago (edited)
I do not see any wrong-doing here. Covid sucks, and I understand that this girl is really sad to see her dream crash because of something she has no control over. Sometimes the world is unfair and you just have to went it to feel better ...and it does not seems like she didn't even understand what hit her. Poor girl, I feel sorry for her and her fiancy. But in these times we just have to take what we can get, and accept that the world is not as it used to be for a period.
#105
No Mask Wedding As Requested Per Bride And Groom
Pumpkin Spice 4 years ago
If they were combat boots, I would've liked them!
Load More Replies... Carmen Sandiego 4 years ago (edited)
The footwear could use more work. Style is pretty though. Anyway, are we not gonna talk about the guy wearing a unicorn print shirt?
Load More Replies... #106
Promoting Your Mlm As A Bachelorette Party. Reposted Because The First Image Still Had Infos
Mrs. Jan Glass 4 years ago
It would be double the fun if they could all book some Mary Kay makeovers, too! /s
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago (edited)
"mlm"? I only know "multi level marketing" as a potential meaning, but nothing else, and it does not fit.
#107
Found In A Wedding Group On Facebook. Name Send-Off By Tagging A Live Fish. Wait What?!
Kaisa 4 years ago
I have posted it before and will post it again. It is tacky but does not harm the fish in any way. And in my opinion it is a lot better than sending your name away with balloons.
Carmen Sandiego 4 years ago
If it does not hurt the fish it is fine. Balloons are way worse.
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#108
So Much Wrong With This, I Don't Even Know Where To Begin
K O 4 years ago
I don't get this. Are the mothers not allowed to wear fancy gowns? I thought it was just white wasn't allowed and everyone is expected to dress up
Sleazy Weaver 4 years ago
I think it's the tacky description, high prices, & the unrealistic models that are making people cringe but honestly I'm not entirely sure.
Load More Replies... JP 4 years ago
MOG here, and I was told by the brides family I was expected to "Show Up, Shut Up & Wear Beige". So, I wore a dark chocolate brown, form-fitting dress. Hey...it was a shade of beige...and I got approval from the bride before purchase. She was appalled that her family would tell me that.
W. 5 4 years ago
But why? If my daughter marries one day, I will be MOB, whatever I'll wear will be a MOB dress....
Ryan Deschanel 4 years ago (edited)
"Mother Of Bride" So if she wears a dress, this dress is a MOB dress... Just like a plastic fairy crown becomes a real actual crown if a real actual queen or king wears it once.
Load More Replies... #109
Vendor Meal At A 15hr Wedding Whole Guests Were Having Lobsters With 6 Course Meal
Bettie-Jean Neal 4 years ago
When I got married the first time, I had a vendor table and they were able to chose their meal just like the guests. All I did was ask them not to drink more than one alcoholic beverage. Turn out perfect and I was thanked a lot. I thought it was normal to feed your vendors?!?
K O 4 years ago
Surely if you're working you'd bring your own lunch like most workplaces? Also, are you expecting the 6 course meal too?
Vetus Vespertilio 4 years ago
Daughter’s vendors were invited to brunch along with everyone else. Such a happy day, why spoil it by leaving people hungry and making them feel inferior?
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CanadianaKa 1 year ago
When you keep your vendors happy, they do a better job. Like they are, y'know, people?
Terry Tobias 4 years ago
I mentioned this in previous image but it fits this one as well. I dated a guy that was a DJ who wore a tux for work. He didn't necessarily expect to be fed but usually was. When he worked a wedding, he was almost always invited to have dinner. He sat behind his music equipment unless they specifically invited him to sit with the guests. (He continued to work while eating of course!)
#110
Maybe Consider Your Specific Initials Before You Use Them As A Design Element
K O 4 years ago
They should be allowed to use their own initials without people 'shaming' them. Christ Almighty
Sleazy Weaver 4 years ago
S&M means sadism & masochism, I believe, but why would that be anyone's first thought when obviously it's two people combining their initials? The couples doesn't deserve to be shamed for other people being crude...
Load More Replies... Jon Steensen 4 years ago
...Or just reverse the order so it is M & S. Then you can still use them without changing your name or finding a different partner.
#111
Old Course Mate Who Got Married In August, When UK Rules Were No More Than 30 For A Sit Down Meal Reception With No Dancing...
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Full of Giggles 4 years ago
During our wedding reception, my MIL screeched from the venue lobby in what I can only describe as a drunken banshee trapped inside a Speak and Spell, “You guy’s let faggots marry here. You ruined it. You tainted my baby’s wedding day with your abomination. How could you let them celebrate next to good Christian folks?” She said this as the other couple walking into their reception and being introduced as Husband and Husband. We could hear her crystal clear over our loud music. My husband and I felt humiliated and heartbroken that MIL stole that beautiful moment from the other couple. We ended up sharing our open bar with the other party because they definitely needed a drink.
Raven DeathShade 4 years ago
Oh no, those poor men! It must have been so heartwrenching to have that beautiful moment ruined by such a mean person.
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Hugo A-niro 4 years ago
My father told me of a wedding he went to early 1950s . he was at the fancy reception when the groom's father accused another man of getting freshwith his wife. A fight ensued and soon every one was fighting . my father who was a peaceful man decided there was only one thing he should do.: save the cake. Carefully trying avoid the ruckus s He moved the cake to the floor and shoved it under a table.in corner of room. There. He waited taking small tastes till police came and stopped the fight. The couple were very grateful .
Elem F 4 years ago
That should be a slapstick scene haha. Kudos to your father!
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Leodavinci 4 years ago
If they "don't live in fear", why can't vaccinated people come to their wedding?
Michigan Guy 4 years ago
civil ceremony. a couple friends as witnesses. fifteen, twenty bucks to the county. a lot easier on the wallet and the stress level.
Duncan 4 years ago
Totally agree. That's how i was married. Just a few hundred bucks, some family and less than $1000 on reception, few hundy on photos, no honeymoon. Still together after 14 years.
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Full of Giggles 4 years ago
During our wedding reception, my MIL screeched from the venue lobby in what I can only describe as a drunken banshee trapped inside a Speak and Spell, “You guy’s let faggots marry here. You ruined it. You tainted my baby’s wedding day with your abomination. How could you let them celebrate next to good Christian folks?” She said this as the other couple walking into their reception and being introduced as Husband and Husband. We could hear her crystal clear over our loud music. My husband and I felt humiliated and heartbroken that MIL stole that beautiful moment from the other couple. We ended up sharing our open bar with the other party because they definitely needed a drink.
Raven DeathShade 4 years ago
Oh no, those poor men! It must have been so heartwrenching to have that beautiful moment ruined by such a mean person.
Load More Replies... Hugo A-niro 4 years ago
My father told me of a wedding he went to early 1950s . he was at the fancy reception when the groom's father accused another man of getting freshwith his wife. A fight ensued and soon every one was fighting . my father who was a peaceful man decided there was only one thing he should do.: save the cake. Carefully trying avoid the ruckus s He moved the cake to the floor and shoved it under a table.in corner of room. There. He waited taking small tastes till police came and stopped the fight. The couple were very grateful .
Elem F 4 years ago
That should be a slapstick scene haha. Kudos to your father!
Load More Replies... Leodavinci 4 years ago
If they "don't live in fear", why can't vaccinated people come to their wedding?
Michigan Guy 4 years ago
civil ceremony. a couple friends as witnesses. fifteen, twenty bucks to the county. a lot easier on the wallet and the stress level.
Duncan 4 years ago
Totally agree. That's how i was married. Just a few hundred bucks, some family and less than $1000 on reception, few hundy on photos, no honeymoon. Still together after 14 years.
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