30 Times ‘Edgy’ People Wanted To Stand Out From ‘The Norm’ But Ended Up Being Called Out In This Online Group (New Pics)
You're single and want to make a stronger first impression than the millions of other people on dating apps. Or you have a private practice — maybe you teach yoga or offer financial advice — and there are also a bunch of folks providing identical services. You need to stand out from the crowd.
But take a step too far and your desperation will land on the subreddit r/NotLikeTheOtherGirls. This online community with 832K members is constantly sharing examples of unique individuals who appear to be thinking that they're better than everyone else.
So to remind ourselves to keep our feet on the ground when our heads are in the clouds, let's take a look at how cringy and desperate you look when you don't — below you will find some of the recent 'stars' of the subreddit.
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That Burn Though
The Whole Package
Not Like Other Grandma's
This Probably Doesn't Fit Here But
The Book I'm Reading Has A Main Character Who Is Like The Other Girls
Definitely Not Like Other Girls
"I'm Not Like Other Girls I'm Sick In The Head"
We may judge this woman based on her tattoo, saying she suffers from poor taste; Dahmer himself, however, may disagree
Not Oc But Still Funny
Im Speechless
I never liked tampons. Never used them. This b***h, ugh... why do they freaking sell pads if "no one" uses them?
You’re Not Quirky
I’m Not Like Other Girls I Make Bone Broth
‘I’m Not Like The Other Girls Because I Believe In Modestyyy’
When I hear about nipples "disrespecting marriage" and can't help but imagine a woman going down the street while her boobs scream " Marriage is a scam! Your husband is a gold-digger! Your wife is a cheater! Wake up! Get a divorce!" at unfortunate strangers, because she forgot to put on her bra that muffles those sounds.
Because Instead Of Educating Them, We Should Make Fun Of Them!
If Everyone Else Wears A Sweater, You Def Gonna Be Freezing Wearing This
How about everyone shows up wearing what they want? Crazy concept, I know ;)
She’s The Best You Guys
How Quirky
I Hold A Ps4 Controller, I’m A Real Gamer Girl™️
Dear all men/women/whoever in general: All games ARE games and whatever you play, you ARE a gamer despite what bozo up there said. You may not play the same games as me, but you all deserve a seat in the great mead hall of Sovngarde nonetheless. I shall see you there down the road.
First Post Here, I Just Hate Book Shaming In General
She's Not Like Other Moms
Yes and without a C-section some people wouldn't survive childbirth. It's a medical procedure it makes no one more or less special for having one.
I had to have one after spending 30 hours of labour because my daughter was so big and got stuck, so it saved both out lives
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Actually, having a c-section is worse, because there’s a lot more healing time needed afterwards.
Yeah, my friend had to have one because of complications and everyone was freaking out because they were so not prepared for it.
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Wow, c-section moms had it so easy! They had themselves cut open, their insides TAKEN OUT and placed somewhere else so their babies could be removed. SO EASY
And then they had to take care of a newborn, instead of recovering from major abdominal surgery with rest and self care.
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Wait wait wait....is this someone shaming women who've had a c-section? What in the actual f....
Let's get one thing straight. A REAL mom isn't created by pushing another individual through their vagina. Neither does a REAL mom pop into being by means of C-section. No. A REAL mom is forged through loving their child (biological, step, foster....). This process might happen when the child is born, but it doesn't always. It might involve cleaning up pooh and vomit. It could include many sleepless nights. However, the one deciding factor is love. That's what makes us REAL.
Tell me you don't understand what a C-section entails... it's not just "stomach cut open" (I mean, it's not even that), it's major trauma where your intestines are lifted out and laid on you so that your womb can then be cut open and a baby removed from it. It is *not* the easy way out.
Yeah, right. The bowel disfunctioning for days, the abdominal pain for weeks... The absolute dream.
I had 2 C-sections and couldn't walk or go to the bathroom for almost a month because of complications. both times. Yeah, piece of cake for a fake mom.
Too bad you became a mom so you can pass on your shït attitude and genes for generations to come. 😒
I watched my first child be born in an emergency C-section, with my wife’s guts sitting on her stomach. F**k you!
My mom spent 42 hours in labor and almost died. I was a ten pound baby but yeah sure your the real mom pushing a baby out of your vagina and my mom almost dying trying to do that.
Hold on a second while I tell my best friend she's not a real mom because she didn't die during birth trying to be a "real mom".
in my country we call our wealthy hospital 'caesar's palace' due to high income women prefering to not do natural childbirth (yes, it's a preference, not a medical necessity. In fact, in my country in the high income area it is the default). "Too posh to push" is the saying. Alarming.
9lb 8oz at 38 weeks. C-section it was! Agreed. Don't start with me!
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We can't know if you're a real mom until we know how much your kids hate themselves in their 30s
Jeez, gatekeeping childbirth. Now I’ve seen everything. And what about adoption? So adoptive parents aren’t real parents? Screw this person
This kind of c**p passes me off. I had my first vaginally and the next 4 births were c-sections. I would give almost anything to go back in time and advocate more strongly for myself with the birth of my twins (first section) or at least for a v-bac after. The vaginal birth was way easier to recover from.
The whole text was so disgusting from the get-go, but the last sentence made it just absolutely revolting! 🤮
You only birthed a single child and not twins? Must be nice to take the easy way out of labor.
I wouldn't have thought it was possible for someone to gatekeep childbirth, but here we are...
Jesus christ some people are annoying. C-sections hurt a lot! and are essential so people dont die sometimes. My mom had 2 C-sections and they were scarring. cutting open your stomach to have a baby is hard. Because all childbirth is hard, no matter how the baby is birthed.
6lb 6oz is nothing. Try 8lb 1 oz. I guess that make me even more of a mom!
Gatekeeping being a "real mom". How low can one be. To all the mom's who never pushed or had a baby cut out of them. You are also real mom's. Step, adopted, guardian, aunty, grandma etc, dad mom's. All of you are ream moms
I’ve done both, I’ve even done med free child birth. Cesarean is NOT easier. It was awful and I STILL have pain two years later. Incidentally, may last baby was sideways and we both would have died.
Great, cervical dilation is now a contest. Let's make a reality show out of it, why don't we? It could be called The Dilation Delusion or somthing. Awards go to the largest diameter, the fastes dilation and for extra points there could be a mini game about who can shoot the baby farthest. If any channel wants to pick up my pitch, give me a call!
🙏🤲 Please, Lord, don't let the Kardashians see this and get any ideas...
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This really makes me angry, was I just supposed to let myself and my children die? I see these ignorant posts all the time, like a section was a choice myself and others like me decided to make. No one in their right mind would choose a section, its a surgery not a day spa.
Umm… that model shows how wide your CERVIX dilates, not your BAGINA.
...she does know that not every c-section is a choice? It's usually an emergency solution so the mother and child don't die???
Being a mom isn't about birth. It's about loving your child unconditionally.
Ah... hehehehehe yeah. C-Section Moms have it easy because they totally do not have their bellies cut open and their insides moved around to have the child taken out, while simultaneously holding on to life for anything else they might've faced during the pregnancy or while in childbirth... yeah. Births are totally something to start a competition over.
Women who have cesarean sections do not have it easier. It is surgery. There are major muscles getting severed. There's the risk of infection. Weakening of the abdominal muscles. Longer recovery. I'm glad cesarean sections are available to mothers who need them, but no one should be flexing about the method you had your child, and no one is more or less of a mother than anyone else.
I had both..2 vaginal births..1 C-section to save my twins lives..people have asked me which way is easier or better or less painful. In my opinion I rather give birth vaginally ANYDAY! I was up in a couple of hours after giving birth. A little sore. When I had the c-section I was stuck in bed. Next day I couldn't stand up straight! It was so painful! So never tell a mother that she's not a real mother because she had c-section!! She knows the pain of birth! There's no easy way out!!
I've done both. C-section with my second was a LOT harder to recover from.
wtf?! now there are moms attempting to shame moms who had c sections? well, i was one of them because, apparently, i like to give birth to babies bordering on the size of small toddlers. and, believe me, it is not the easy way out. sure, you may have torn or1 had an episiotomy and that is so much harder than having 1 to 6 weeks of recovering from surgery and taking care of a newborn. but, you go on with your bad-a*s self and your sitz bath moments.
c sections require even more recovery wtf are you talking about
Me: “The internet is so aggressive these days.” - Friend: “Have you chatted in a new mom group?” - “Me: “No.” - Friend: “Then sweetie, you ain’t seen shït. Not one gyotdanged thing. Go join a mom group and then come talk to me about aggressive”.
You can't say sh*t if you think a C-section is cutting open the "stomach"
having known several people that have had them, recovery from a C section is usually much longer and more difficult.
It is so sad that some people who don't have c-sections think that having one makes you `not a real mum`
My mom had a c-section for my two brothers and me. I have endometriosis and during my second surgery, there were complications and they had to perform the same incision they use for a c-section. It is brutal. I stayed at the hospital for two days and was bedridden most of that time. Right before I was going to be discharged, they had me walk around and I never thought I'd struggle to walk so much after a non-leg/knee/hip related surgery. It was no walk in the park when I got home either. Then, I imagined having to take care of a baby on top of all of that. I don't know if that's how c-sections typically go, but if it's similar enough, these women have my respect. And nothing against vaginal births either. It's just that birth in general takes a great toll on a woman's body, no matter how it's achieved.
1st born never knew was in labour as had back pain on off till 9cm (back labour) 2nd went into distress nearly had c section till she came 10 mins before op covered in poo and cord around neck mate had first child not long ago be emergency c section to save baby and mum we both suffered equally so does it matter as long as mum and baby are safe
After going thru hellish and extended labor and my baby got stuck on the way thru, I thought if be a fake mom and have a c section so my baby wouldn't die. If anyone claimed c section moms weren't real mind to my face, I would bèât them to a blöody fécking pulp, scoop up the pulp with a shovel, and flush it! (Or maybe just knóck them out and walk away
No, you didn't HAVE to. You did it to yourself. Could've not done it. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and stop shaming others.
As a mom who's done BOTH. I can say I prefer the natural birth to c section. C-section recovery was MUCH harder and this is coming from someone who's natural birth was a 9 lb baby. I'm 5'2
"had your stomach cut open..." If the doctors did that to find the baby then they need to go learn some basic anatomy
I've had both. The recovery from the C-section was way longer and more painful then pushing out my 11lb 4oz baby was.
My head would've ruptured my Mum's Vagina if she didn'tget a C-section. I was prematurely born, but my head was overgrown.
So, in the words of the great Stewie Griffin, making love to you is like "throwing a hotdog down a hallway" now?
It takes a lot more time to recover from a c section than it does to recover from a vaginall birth. My sister had a terrible infection after a c section and it took months for her scar to heal properly. Such a moronic thing to say
Two of my babies were 9.5lbs and I still feel bad for csec mums, in my head having surgery to recover from and look after a newborn is so much harder!
I had a vaginal birth and l can only be grateful l had it easy. A C section is major surgery and you do NOT want that.
When on earth did we get the idea that surgery is easier than child birth. You see it sometimes when people choose a c-section, too. But like...if you can give birth safely you will heal way more quickly with fewer potential negative side effects or complications from a vaginal birth (I am not knocking people who get c-sections, just always baffled by this particular logic...)
*looks up apeziotomy* yup, no sweat for all those lucky women. How grateful they must be.
My wife had emergency c-section with both our children. Her stomach muscles collapsed because of it, so she has what she calls a flap, and I call a Battle Scar. She gave up her bikini model body in order to have our babies. She is gorgeous in my eyes. Every delivery is different for various women. What separates mothers from moms are dedication, love, nurturing. I always said any man can be a father but it takes a real man to be a dad. I now state that any women can be a mother, but it takes a real woman to be a mom.
Let's discuss what the C stands for. Caesarean. It's said that Julius Caesar was born via caesarean section. I'm going to have to say get over it, OP.
My daughter was 8lbs 11oz. I gave birth to her naturally, no C-section but that doesn't mean C-section babies are easier. A lot of babies have to be born that way otherwise the life of child or mother is at risk.
Ohhhhh these types of "real mom" people really p*ss me off. C-sections are no joke. I got sliced open from hip to hip TWICE, none of my organs down there are even remotely in the same place they once were and let's not even get into the fact that my intestines were just shoved back in. Thanks to the spinal shot I had, I couldn't feel my legs for HOURS which caused me severe anxiety. I was hospitalized far longer than most regular births due to a c-section being major surgery and my recovery time was far longer. So anyone who says this sh*t immediately gets zero respect from me.
My smallest child was 8#8oz. I had all four kids without medication/ painkillers. This doesn't make me more of a mom than anyone else. It just means that I got lucky and had great support.
"at least I'm a real mom"... I kindly invite you to shove that baby right back up there.
Who's a real mom or not depends on how they raise their children, not on the baby's exit strategy.
Sooo.... the definition of a "real mom" is as simple as pushing a baby through your hoo-hah?
As someone who has had two emergency c-sections this fills me with rage. My babies wouldn't be here if I'd been left to progress naturally.
As we all know, having your torso cut open is super easy. Me and my mates do it every Tuesday night for funsies!
Can We Please Stop With This C**p Already??
Yeah but see... vanilla is a good flavor. If you're out there claiming you're lobster butter pecan walnut raspberry swirl, you're not a forever flavor for most.
On A Facebook Group For "Boys Only"
I’m a girl who prefers pants over dresses but acts a bit girly otherwise. My father thought that I was trying to be a boy and would constantly make fun of me for being a boy which sucks because I don’t think he’d accept if his kids were trans :(
No, It's Embarrassing To Put Down Other Women At A Party
This Girl Always Playing This Victim
Then you should have more empathy and sympathy. Or just, you know, be a normal human being.
Hugging Your Friends Is Weird?
Does This Belong In This Sub? Apparently Being Bi-Curious Isnt A Thing Anymore
Yeah, i mean questionning your own sexuality is great. But i don't get why you would brag about it. But tbf the post is confusing, she says she wouldn't date a girl, not that she doesn't love/ is attracted to girls. She could be closeted for her own reasons (like Compulsory heterosexuality). But it's kinda odd to call yourself straight then :/
Oh No
Title
So you’ve got a guy with an anger problem, who likes to destroy things?
Found In The Wilds Of Tiktok
Guys She's A Tomboyyyy 🤩🤩😜😜🤪
I mean if they are really flopping right out there maybe get a female supervisor to have a quiet word, but the whole “married woman” bit is too much.
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All I see is a bunch of people that were never given enough attention growing up. They want to be noticed. Here's the thing...criminals get noticed...corrupt politicians get noticed...out of control celebrities get notice. Getting noticed isn't always a good thing. Especially if you lack humility and come off as a pompous entitled person because then you get noticed for all the wrong reasons.
From my experience women are the worst enemy of other women. I grew up with a sister, work in a field with a lot of women around - and the majority of the conversations is gossip about how bad some other woman is.
My sister noticed that too. She became an HVAC tech in a field predominately occupied by men. She said men may tell vulgar jokes and can be a little too flirty, but they will never gossip about you or stab you in the back the way female co-workers do.
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BP has had these kinds of post before, and it feels weird that they pretty much just list women being s****y. There are plenty of men trying and failing to appear edgy, maybe mix it up a bit.
Can't we just except that every person is special in their own individual way without putting down anyone else? There's not a limited amount of coolness. Plenty for everyone. Just grab some for yourself and go, you don't need to steal it.
Pointless and nasty material that shrivelled my brain to read. Gave up after about 6 items. If a thread is about putting people down it's neither funny nor fun it's just mean and cruel. Big fail BP.
I had a not like other girls phase and then I realized I was non-binary. And now I’ve learned to accept my more feminine side.
You see this panda? It's actually less panda than other pandas. But you can't really tell, especially when I comment like this.
Waiting for "cover your t*ts girl to visit Ontario. Gonna record her head exploding 🤣
I'm sooooo not like other girls. They inhale THEN exhale but see I exhale THEN inhale. I am so original!
No-one is the same. Everyone is different. Congrats. You don't need to compare yourself to others, you probably have more enjoyable stuff to get on with. So get on with it.
I am not sure what was worse. The "memes" or the comments. This was a rough one.
All I see is a bunch of people that were never given enough attention growing up. They want to be noticed. Here's the thing...criminals get noticed...corrupt politicians get noticed...out of control celebrities get notice. Getting noticed isn't always a good thing. Especially if you lack humility and come off as a pompous entitled person because then you get noticed for all the wrong reasons.
From my experience women are the worst enemy of other women. I grew up with a sister, work in a field with a lot of women around - and the majority of the conversations is gossip about how bad some other woman is.
My sister noticed that too. She became an HVAC tech in a field predominately occupied by men. She said men may tell vulgar jokes and can be a little too flirty, but they will never gossip about you or stab you in the back the way female co-workers do.
Load More Replies... BP has had these kinds of post before, and it feels weird that they pretty much just list women being s****y. There are plenty of men trying and failing to appear edgy, maybe mix it up a bit.
Can't we just except that every person is special in their own individual way without putting down anyone else? There's not a limited amount of coolness. Plenty for everyone. Just grab some for yourself and go, you don't need to steal it.
Pointless and nasty material that shrivelled my brain to read. Gave up after about 6 items. If a thread is about putting people down it's neither funny nor fun it's just mean and cruel. Big fail BP.
I had a not like other girls phase and then I realized I was non-binary. And now I’ve learned to accept my more feminine side.
You see this panda? It's actually less panda than other pandas. But you can't really tell, especially when I comment like this.
Waiting for "cover your t*ts girl to visit Ontario. Gonna record her head exploding 🤣
I'm sooooo not like other girls. They inhale THEN exhale but see I exhale THEN inhale. I am so original!
No-one is the same. Everyone is different. Congrats. You don't need to compare yourself to others, you probably have more enjoyable stuff to get on with. So get on with it.
I am not sure what was worse. The "memes" or the comments. This was a rough one.
