30 Of The Wildest “I Don’t Think This Is Important, But-” Moments, As Shared By Doctors On This Online Thread
Clear and effective communication makes work and life so much simpler when it’s present. When there’s more or less total transparency and everyone’s on the same page, it’s far easier to do whatever it is you aim to do. In some areas, however, communication is far more important than in others. Sometimes, a white lie, a misspoken ‘fact,’ or an inability to mention a single detail can be the difference between life and death, health and illness.
For instance, medical professionals need a lot of information about their patients and their medical histories in order to treat them appropriately. Whether a patient is seriously ill, has been injured, or has come for a run-of-the-mill health checkup, failing to mention something that seems unimportant can have dire consequences.
The doctors of Reddit shared their stories about their very worst ‘I don’t think this is important, but-’ patients. Scroll down and have a read about how failing to disclose something a patient thought was meaningless actually turned out to be very meaningful. If we have any Doctor Pandas in the house today, you can share your own tales about miscommunicating patients in the comments, as a warning.
Bored Panda got in touch with Dr. Andrew Carroll, the CEO/Medical Director of Atembis LLC and Family Physician, for some insights about trust between doctors and their patients, what patients should prioritize communicating to medical professionals, and how experiencing pain differs between individuals.
"When you have a long-term relationship with a physician, it’s easier for there to be a two-way trust relationship. Our patients trust us to be knowledgeable, thorough, non-judgmental, and wise. We trust our patients to be honest, forthright, and open to a conversation. That’s more difficult when you’re seeing someone at an urgent care or emergency room because these are people you don’t typically know. That’s the value of having a Family Physician/Generalist," he explained to us.
"Also, just know that sometimes there’s a detail you may think of that you believe may not be important, but might be crucial to making a diagnosis. Just be honest and tell us."

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Had a male come in with pancreatitis. Asking him some basic history.. "How much do you drink alcohol?" "I don't use alcohol." Ok, well not my first time so.. "Do you drink beer?" "Yeah well after sauna I have some beer." (we are in Finland where sauna and beer go very well and frequently together) "Ok, how many beers you have after sauna?" "A case" (24 cans/case) "And how many times per week you got to sauna?" "3 to 4 times per week" So he doesn't drink any alcohol, but 70-100 cans of beer per week.
Some people call alcohol the hard stuff, or even mixed drinks, excluding beer or wine.
I work in an addiction treatment center. The number of our clients who insist that beer isn't alcohol simply astounds me.
Well, when you come to think of it downplaying alcohol content probably plays a major role in becoming and staying addicted in the first place.
Load More Replies...Beer was considered a soft drink in Russia until 2013. Finland is next door to Russia.
Koln 2005, World Youth day, the german priest: "Italians boys are so good! They don't drink alcohol!". Our priest seeing all of us with a beer in hand...
Honestly at that point it is Darwinism. Let the stupidity end itself.
Holy s**t. I'm also in Finland and my dad also has a sauna 3-4 times a week, with 1-2 cans per session
According to Dr. Carroll, the CEO of Atembis LLC, the information that a patient should prioritize telling their doctor depends on the specific situation.
"What are you concerned about? What is it that got you into the doctor in an urgency? Does your chest pain remind you of when your father had his heart attack? Are you losing weight, but you don’t know why because you haven’t changed anything? Is your period late when you are always on time, no matter what? What has changed, what is different? Then tell us the story," the doctor shared what patients should consider.
Everyone at my company knows the story of the patient who came in for genetic counseling, went through their whole family history with the counselor, and then concluded with "Oh yeah, I was adopted as a baby and don't know who my birth parents are, does that matter?"
To be fair, it should be their first question! As just because they’re adopted, doesn’t mean they won’t know about their biological parents.
Load More Replies...HOW can you not be aware that this is the ONLY thing that matters in genetic couseling?
Maybe they thought that "genetic counseling" means they examine your DNA and then counsel you about it? Wouldn't be an unreasonable mistake to make--although you'd think they'd start to wonder about all of the family history questions.
Load More Replies...i'm adopted. i also have chronic degerative disease which is thought to be genetic. my dad had a tumor taken off his heart on a monday and he recovered so well they released him on wednesday. i made the comment that i must have been in the shallow end of the gene pool and i wanted his genetics. confusion from drs followed.
I was with my daughter when the nurse started to ask family history things. My daughter responded "Mom, granddad had a bad heart right? Did grandma?" The nurse was typing the info in. I looked at my child's beautiful Asian face and said "Honey this doesn't really apply." She looked so shocked "Oh, I forgot." she turned to the nurse and said "I'm adopted." It was such a sweet moment for me.
Intercepted a young woman who was just hit by a car. Her boyfriend was standing with her freaking out. I do a basic physical exam and get a history, and make her comfortable as we wait for the ambulance to arrive.
Once the ambulance arrives they ask for the same information, except this time the boyfriend mentions he was the one who was actually hit by the car and was shielding his girlfriend's body. The entire car's windshield was cracked by the impact of his back. He was just freaking out and worried about her, and was in shock and hadn't begun to feel any pain yet.
Okay but that's kind of sweet that he protected her like that. I think he's a keeper.
Yes, but if SHE was more bothered about herself that she didn't even inform the paramedics that HE was the one who was hit by the car, she's not a keeper.
Load More Replies...Had similar situation. I fell down the stairs while holding my 10 month old. I wrapped him with my body as we fell, and rushed him to the hospital. He had a broken femur. The doctors kept wanting to x-ray me as well, and I wouldn't let them until he was settled first. Poor little guy was in a cast for 4 weeks, just as he was learning to walk. I'm still terrified of stairs with my kids, and that was 15 years ago. I was actually comparatively unscathed. I have three broken ribs, a dislocated shoulder, and fractured wrist.
I would probably have gotten into an argument with my significant other about who was going to push whom out of the way.
My friend was so upset after I fell off a ladder she ran to get my mother. She was still crying and hard to understand when they got out to me. I'm laying on the ground, bloody nose (later we found out my arm was broken) laughing at how freaked out my friend was. My mom was checking her head to toe to figure out where she was hurt.
"It is easier for us as physicians to not ask a ton of questions, but to just let you tell us the story of what happened. Make it descriptive and rich. Start from the beginning or even before the beginning, and don’t stop until the end when you arrived at the doctor’s office. We can fill in any needed details after you’re done telling your story."
Dr. Carroll noted that the pain experience of an individual is very different between people. "There are many factors that go into it: genetics, upbringing, previous pain experience chronic illness (diabetes, heart disease), neurologic injury, substance abuse and addiction, ethnicity, history of mental, physical, and sexual abuse, current medications," he said that this list isn't exhaustive.
As a patient, but this is too fresh not to share. I'm 32 and at work Friday morning (as in 2 days ago) I started having pain in my lower molars around 10:40am. It eventually got so bad I left work and went to urgent care (noon). I thought it was a gum infection and I'd get some antibiotics and ibuprofen and be told to see a dentist or something. I had to keep apologizing to the intake person because I was stumbling over my words, unfocused because of pain. When the urgent care Doc came in (1pm) she talked to me for about 30 seconds before peeping in my mouth and saying my gums were fine, then checking my eyes with a flashlight and calling an ambulance. By the time I got to the hospital (2ish?) I was basically nonverbal and my attempts at texting had become disjointed. My spouse met me in the ER after a CT scan and helped me consent to an IV clot buster (TPA) at about 3pm. I'd had a stroke. For those doing the timeline math at home, YIKES. Good news: the TPA worked very fast and I'm hopefully getting discharged tonight. I owe that urgent care doc a thank you note.
Yes, a lot of people don't have slurred speech until later! I had a stroke two years ago. I walked horse in that morning, went to the dump and threw out garbage (noticed it was weird to throw), got my dogs (4 big dogs) and went back to the farm and went for a hike with my friend and the dogs. I noticed that I couldn't throw a stick for my dog, and was tripping more. Only some hours later started slurring my speech.
Usually TPA is only effective if given within a short time after a stroke occurs (no more than a couple hours.) it’s very lucky that it worked so well after so long. I’m a woman who had a stroke, I had dizziness and tingling fingers hours before the stroke actually hit but no tooth pain. I had TPA within 30 min but still was left mostly paralyzed on one side.
If you think someone has suffered a stroke, ask them to stick out their tongue. Generally, stroke victims can't do that.
My younger brother (about 48 at the time) called me around 10pm on a Sunday night, asking if I could drive him to the ER. That in itself was disconcerting. On the way to the hospital, he suddenly couldn't form a coherent sentence. I told the ER Doc how concerned I was that he had even called me. Turned out he had meningitis & probably would have died if he hadn't gotten medical attention when he did. Scared the sh*t out of me. (He's fine, btw).
Oh my stars and gardens! TIL! I hadn't any idea! I'm glad to have learned this.
I've never heard that strokes can manifest in tooth pain. I'm never not having problems with my teeth but now I'll be paranoid...
As a patient I had a doctor tell me "I don't think this is important". My physio had identified a mole on my back that had changed colours. Being fair skinned, and Australian, I was obviously concerned about melanoma so I went to my doctor for a checkup. He looked at it and said "it's nothing don't worry". I insisted that since I'd made the effort to come in he might as well take a biopsy and get it tested. He was reluctant but I insisted and he eventually removed the mole for testing. A few days later the doctor rang and informed me that I had a very nasty malignant melanoma and needed surgery immediately if not before. Two days later I was in hospital and they removed a lump from my shoulder three inches across and two inches deep. Cancer free now for 8 years but if I had taken the doctor at his word of "it's nothing" I'd most likely be dead now.
My guess is the OP is a woman. Doctors don't believe women. It's a huge problem and leads to higher mortality rates. My wife went to the ER for severe abdominal pain. The doctor told her it was just cramps and sent her home with a Pepcid. She woke the next morning with a belly swollen with blood. I mean she looked six months pregnant overnight. Went to the ER again, and she had a ruptured ovarian cyst, which had been bleeding into her abdomen all night long. My grandmother, similar situation. She was having sever nausea, and kept telling her doctor it wasn't like normal upset stomach. She wanted to go to the ER (she lived in a small village with no hospital, had to be moved by ambulance). After three hours of fighting with the doctor, her son (my uncle) forced them to send an ambulance. She died before the ambulance got there. She had a massive heart attack. Doctor's don't trust women, and women pay the price for it.
Not necessarily. My Dad complained about shoulder pain for years, he got ignored continously. Oh its just a strain, oh it's just your weight, oh it's because you're old etc. He had liver tests for years too. Not once did any fn Dr pick up he had cancer. An intern did. He was diagnosed with stage 4 liver cancer 2 weeks later. He discovered he was dying from a letter asking for feedback about his recent visit to see a 'cancer' nurse. He died an excruciating death 6 months later and basically bled to death, suffocating on his on blood. Not everyone gets preferential treatment because they're male.
Load More Replies...If they work at a hospital or big medical center, the doctors don't do anything, the lawyers do. It's sad and gross and unethical.
Load More Replies...This sounds almost exactly like my story! Had a spot on my nose. GP said, from across his desk, not bothering to check it closely, that it was nothing. I demanded to be sent to see a dermatologist, who said the same thing! I demanded a biopsy and I was right, it was a basal cell carcinoma. This was back in 2011. Next month, I'm getting my 6th surgery, because it keeps coming back, bigger each time. Why? Because the last 3 doctors to operate on it (the initial dermatologist + 2 plastic surgeons, did a sh*t job). I just got a young woman dermatologist who, by her way of working, helped me realize how badly I have been treated previously. She had me see one of her colleagues who confirmed I was not treated correctly in the past. Hopefully, I'll still have some of my nose left once this is all over - if I ever see the end of this.
I'm so sorry, that's terrible. I don't know where you live but you should sue all of them (except your new docs, of course) for everything they're worth. Especially since you have two docs who say how badly you were mistreated. At the very least, and if you are feeling up to it, they should be reported to their superiors and boards, if they are board certified. I hope you are doing well!
Load More Replies...We have to be our own best advocate! Doctors are human/fallible so never be afraid to question a decision, express an opinion and never, ever hesitate to get a second opinion. Thankfully. the patient above insisted!!!
Doctors aren't perfect. First off, everyone thinks they have cancer; but the vast majority of the time it's nothing. Doctors are trained to see the simplest explanation first. "When you hear hooves, you think horses, not zebras."
Had a male in his 50s WALKS into trauma to have his left thigh stitched up. Not an uncommon wound in an agricultural area. Speaking to him while stitching him up he tells me he fell off a ladder while cutting a branch and the machete sliced him on the way down. Told him I was going to write him up for an xray of the entire leg just in case. He kept on saying he was fine, his knee hurt a bit but logically that was from the fall, I agreed, but asked him to go to the xray department just in case.
He reluctantly walk there and back. X-rays showed a helical fracture almost the entire length of his femur! Besides being a dangerous fracture the femur is supposed to be the most painful bone to break and he was walking around.
In the end had to show him the break to get him to sit down on a wheelchair and into the hands of orthopedics. That man's pain tolerance still impresses me.
Farmer's injuries are on another level. I know one who nearly died because his arm got caught in machinery and he nearly bled to death, another had the entire windshield of his combine explode on him (that could have been super bad), and my dad was sprayed in the face with Anhydrous.
You'l get a picture of a broken tíbia and like it Missy ! ( Just kidding of course lol )
Load More Replies...There is a medical condition in which people cannot feel pain at all and it is very, very bad.
Load More Replies...My dad walked around on a broken hip for two months. Took the rear tire of a pick-up running over him to get him to go to the doctor. "Ah, it's just gout." Yeah, right.
Real life might not be like an episode of ‘House,’ but a single detail can change how medical professionals approach your treatment. Patients, especially if they’re ill or hurt, aren’t in the best condition to know what information might be vital for doctors to know and what’s useless, so it’s best to be fully open and honest.
In short, the more information you give your doctor, the more they know about your medical history, the more appropriate and effective the treatment they can give you. What’s more, this can help them diagnose any illnesses you might have, whether hereditary or not.
So it’s best to tell the professionals about your medical history, your family, what surgeries you’ve had, what allergies you have, and what medication you use. And if you’ve had an accident or mysteriously fallen ill, details from the actual incident or preceding days and weeks can help turn the tide in your favor.
“Family medical history is a record of health information about a person’s family, usually including three generations of relatives. Families share genetic makeups, environments, and lifestyle—these factors can provide insight into medical conditions that may run in your family. Noticing concerns in a patient’s health as well as having an understanding patterns of diseases or disorders will make a diagnosis more likely, which is particularly important in catching something harmful early,” writes ‘My GP.’
I was an internal medicine resident who had a patient come to my clinic for “persistent flu”. I had never seen her before, and she was a healthy appearing woman in her 60s. About a month before seeing me, she was seen by her PCP with persistent coughing, and otherwise had no shortness of breath or other infectious symptoms. Just a dry cough. She got tested for flu and was negative, but got tamiflu just incase it was a false negative. She had a chest X-ray which was normal. She came to me a month later because her cough persisted despite completing her therapy. Everything sounded great. Heart, lungs, everything. To be honest I don’t usually do this, but something in my gut told me to feel for lymph nodes. I felt around and found something above her left clavicle. It was hard, round, and she was completely unaware of it. I told her it was probably a reactive lymph node, but just incase, I wanted to get an ultrasound. This cascaded into her getting a biopsy, which showed squamous cell lung cancer. A CT scan showed stage IV lung cancer, not seen on her chest X-ray. All diagnosed because of a lymph node that almost by chance I was lucky enough to find by being thorough. I checked her chart about a year ago, and she was doing well. She got therapy and was in remission after a very long road and many obstacles. I’ll never forget her or her case.
There are. I was in a car wreck, and rushed to the ER. MRI and X-ray both showed nothing wrong, and ER physician wanted to take off the Philadelphia collar and send me home. Neurosurgeon, however, said, "No. He is in far too much pain for it to be nothing, and it's in his NECK. We keep the collar on, we keep him overnight, and we check again in the morning." That next morning, they found the C-4 vertebra had been broken, clear through, and the tension from my neck muscles had been holding everything in place well enough to hide the damage from the diagnostic machines. Bless that neurosurgeon; if I had been sent home the way the ER physician had wanted, there's a 50% chance I would have been dead, the next morning, and a better than 85% chance I would have been permanently crippled, otherwise.
Load More Replies...There is a story about a man who goes into surgery for a brain tumor. The doctors get it all and they are thrilled because it was one of those tumors that just "peels" out. Unfortunately, it is the type of tumor that is secondary to a really, really nasty fast growing lung cancer. But they had x-rayed the man many times. and NO lung cancer. Three months after the brains surgery he is back in the hospital, coughing up blood. They do and X-Ray and there is a huge, incredibly fast growing lung tumor. They pull up the previous X Rays and there, on the film, now that they KNOW that there is a tumor they see a "hint" of a "smudge" of a picture that turns out to be the tumor. NO ONE caught it. Not the neurosurgeons, the oncologists,, the Internists, no one. Those films are now teaching films and even though students KNOW there is something "wrong" on the films NO ONE has caught it. And yes, it was before MRI's.
That is exactly what I thought! Stage 4 is pretty hard to miss & also incredibly rare that someone would be 'doing well' a year after that diagnosis. A bit far fetched for me.
Load More Replies...This is similar to my friend's experience. It was her 12-year-old son, they found a lump on his neck, everything looked right on the x-ray, tests were good, CT was even good (issue was in a slightly different location than the lump I think) but the doc called the children's hospital anyway, they wanted a biopsy and 2 weeks later they get the call that it's cancer, a very rare one in kids over 5. It's been 3 years, he is in remission a second time, still getting specialty treatment across the country every few months. But he is with us.
Thank you for being so thorough! My ob-gyn did an ultrasound to confirm what he felt was an umbilical hernia. He was correct, but the ultrasound showed something on my kidney. After additional testing, I ended up having surgery for renal cell carcinoma. A big thanks to all the providers who are on their toes!
Excuse my ignorance but are there blood tests you can take for confirmation of some cancers? I feel like it should show up somewhere, not just when it's at the 4th stage already. If someone comes in with a persistent cough or any kind of ongoing issue, isn't that a sign they should be doing every test possible to confirm or diagnose the issue? It's not the first time this woman had been to the doctor, clearly. I sometimes feel like docs simply don't want to order additional testing out of a fear of it being paid for or it not being deemed necessary but clearly it is. It's frustrating because I had an ongoing issue I went and saw multiple doctor's about for years and was just told it was in my mind or I had allergies or I was overweight. It took almost 10 years to be diagnosed and it was a pretty simple test that did it. I asked over and over if there was a test. It really affected my life and didn't need to.
No not really. Bloods are a crude tool that can't diagnose everything. The problem is that some things are over'diagnosed. E.g. trials for population wide screening of breast cancer for women of all ages detected lots of cancers. However in the control group (that did not have any treatment for early stage cancers but very regular screening) showed that some forms of breast cancer are extremely slow growing & the treatment might do more damage to your body than the cancer. It's not uncommon for older men to have prostate cancer when they die- not of prostate cancer but something completely different.
Load More Replies...OP-what state are you in. I am pretty sure the patient was my mom
Had a patient come into the ER with some sort of spider/bug bite on her hand that had progressed to a red line running up her arm. She stated she put Benadryl cream on and it was very itchy.
We continued talking and I asked if she had any allergies…”yes, Benadryl.” I thought good lord wtf and I’m sure it was reflected on my face.
We washed the Benadryl cream off her arm and miraculously it stopped itching.
No metion of the red line that is cause for an urgent trip to the ER, spiderbite or not? That is a sign of sepsis where I cone from..
This would be why when a medication is being advertised on TV it goes like this: Name of medication that can be used to treat a certain condition, followed by “Don’t take this medication if you’re allergic to it”.
Are some people really this stupid? Now I know why these prescription drug commercials tell you not to take it if you're allergic to it.
Me "do you have any medical history? Including things like heart attacks, strokes, high blood pressure?"
Patient "no, nothing ever"
Me "so why do you take [list of heart meds]"
Patient "oh I've had multiple cardiac arrests"
Seriously. I work for a bank and I can attest that people really do gloss over things and don't answer questions correctly. But this is the doctor. You've literally taken time out of your life to go see this person regarding an issue and you can't give them the correct information? Even if we give this guy benefit of the doubt by assuming he doesn't know a cardiac arrest is also called a heart attack, the guy in the previous post who was asked if he drinks alcohol and glossed over the 70 beers he drinks a week.... that guy just deserves a punch in the face, seriously.
Load More Replies...I have a notes document on my phone with my entire medical history: surgeries, diagnosed conditions, current medications, allergies, and so on, with dates as appropriate. Honestly, everyone should have a medical card with a chip that has their medical records. Scan the chip and done. Instead, I've had to fill out reams of paperwork listing all this. It's 2022, ffs.
We at least have 'my health record' in Australia now which is an electronic health record that can be accessed by all doctors (lots of people opted out though because they worried about the security) which I think is good, but apparently it relies on the doctors actually uploading stuff, which they don't all do. For the most part my GPs have used it well, but it was still missing some of my vaccination notes. It also doesn't go back beyond when it was introduced, unless your doctor submits the past history you tell them, so my dad's record had nothing before 2015 or so.
Load More Replies...As a nurse, when taking a medical history this is an example of how many proceeded. Me: Have you ever had surgery before? Patient: No, none. Me (whose done this a few times): Do you still have your tonsils? Answer: No. Appendix? Answer: No. Gallbladder? Answer: No. Me: Surgery before. I’ll take these answers as a “yes”.
Knew a guy who was rushed to emerg. Later denied having any heart problems even though at one point the staff used a defibrillator on him.
He may not have had the problem before. Some dangerous arrhythmias can occur without warning. Some may come and go abruptly off and on in an irregular pattern resulting in monitoring periods resulting as normal because the event didn’t occur during the monitoring period.
Load More Replies...I've had loads of patients tell me they don't have blood pressure issues and then I see a bunch of blood pressure meds... like, sir/madam, you don't have high blood pressure BECAUSE YOU TAKE THESE MEDS!! Oy!
Sounds like a very sensible and straightforward solution to the ignorance. Bonus: It likely also flags people who take lots of herbal remedies and dietary supplements. Some of those can cause issues when taken simultaneously with "regular" medication.
Load More Replies..."Oh, it's not a big deal, some dude named Cardiac came and arrested me a bunch of times." Uh-huh. Right.
I was the same way when I had a TIA or mini stroke. Asked if I have high blood pressure? Haven’t seen a doctor in 15yrs. How the hell am I supposed to know.
The story in the OP is different though. Multiple cardiac arrests definitely count as "medical history". And you wouldn't get to prescribe heart medication to yourself - you'd have to go to a doctor to get the prescription, and that *regularly* to get it renewed. Anyone with half a brain in the position of the man in the story should realize that going to the doctor every few months for medication they have to take daily would count as a major thing in their medical history.
Load More Replies...Meanwhile, ‘Web MD’ notes that this information gives your doctor important clues about your health. Many diseases run in families, after all.
“The history also tells your doctor what health issues you may be at risk for in the future. If your doctor learns, for example, that both of your parents have heart disease, they may focus on your heart health when you’re much younger than other patients who don’t have a family history of heart disease.”
Trust can lead to more openness and honesty. According to a study published in 2017, researchers found that the actions that help build trust between doctors and patients included providing reassurance, telling them that it’s fine to ask questions, and showing them their lab results and explaining what they mean.
What’s more, doctors ought to avoid judging their patients through their use of language and their behavior, and should ask the patients what they want in terms of treatment goals and preferences. What patients truly want is to deal with medical staff who are knowledgeable and genuinely care about them.
I had to take out the remainder of this guy's teeth. He was in his 60’s and told us verbally and on his health history that he didn't take any meds. So I took out his last 8 teeth, all easy extractions due to infections and periodontal disease. But I couldn't get him to stop bleeding. I asked him again if he was taking anything. I finally got the clots stabilized, but it took almost an hour and I had to consult our oral surgeon. When he saw the oral surgeon a few months later about placing implants, he told the oral surgeon he was on BP medication and blood thinners. I refused to see him anymore after that.
Wow...like that is a key piece of information. I feel really sorry for the dentist, that must have been very scary.
I initially read BP meds as "Bored Panda medications" rather than blood pressure...
Seriously that opens you up to liability and more than that, the horrible feeling and fear if some guy is bleeding out in your office and dies on you. I don't know why but it reminds me of people who kill themselves by jumping into traffic or something. I understand you might not care but can you at least care for the trauma and shock and possibly even harm you're going to inflict on someone when your body hits their car, or they swerve and crash with their kids in the car or just the sight of something like that being traumatic to a child and the person driving. It's so selfish. Going into a surgery without being honest with the doctor about drug use or any other issues isn't 'not a big deal'.
To be fair to the poor chap, I’m on 9 tablets daily. I had to see my dentist as an emergency who sent me to A&E as she thought I would need intravenous antibiotics. When being triaged I was in so much pain I could not remember all the tablets I was taking. And some doctors dish out tablets without explaining to the patient why they need to take the medicine. What totally gets my goat is the fact that in the UK we have the NHS which is fantastic but it does not have a central computer system to negate the need for poorly patients to remember what we’re taking.
Please call your pharmacy they can give you a list.
Load More Replies...Nerves, mental health conditions, poor memory, poor understanding of the meds they're on. Patients fail to disclose lots of things, more often than not it's not intentional.
Load More Replies...This is part of why I love having Kaiser Permanente, they have full access to all those records because it is all in-house. While I know what I take, my allergies, my kids' issues, I love having that extra laying in case I somehow miss something ( I never have but anxiety makes me worry)
Me: "do you have any chronic diseases like Diabetes or high blood pressure?"
Patients: "no :)))))"
Me: "but you do inject Insulin daily?'
Patients: "yeah :)))"
"What's that for then?"
"oh, for my sugar, ya know"
In some places (in the US) people, especially older generations refer to diabetes as "having the sugar." Depending on patient's age and education level, may have been ignorance of proper term rather than leaving out info.
As I said above, a card with a chip containing a patient's entire medical history would eliminate all this nonsense.
Some people know that they "have sugar" (here in the Netherlands people often call it "suikerziekte", which means "sugar disease", but they don't know the word diabetes.
Had to perform an extraction, took a detailed medical history. Patient said they were a diabetic and a hypertensive. Both a big contraindication in extractions due to uncontrollable bleeding. Unless they're meticulous about their taking their medicines and you stop the blood thinners five days prior to surgery, it's usually a blood bath. I asked the well educated, 50 year old woman a number of times if she took her diabetes medicines on time and if she does at home rapid tests to check her blood sugar. She said she takes them everyday without fail and hasn't missed a day in over two years. She said she's super disciplined about her health and would tell me if she hadn't taken them. I sent her in for a Rapid blood sugar test anyway, as a precaution, and lo and behold her values come back as 282mg. Almost twice as much as the normal value so it wasn't even like she was JUST off the mark. I ask her to explain and she gives a shocked expression and insisted that she took them. I ask her to physically show me her medicines instead of listing them out and she finally says oh I don't have it right now, I make it when I need it. 'make'. She drinks bitter gourd juice on time everyday instead of her diabetic pills because they are too big. And she 100% believed bitter gourd juice was the only medication she needs. She's a high school teacher.
Some kind of alternative medicine thing. I've heard from my mom bitter gourd is good for helping control your blood sugar. Thankfully, she also believes in real medicine.
Load More Replies...Mine on Monday was 19.5mmol. The nurse asked why I was still living! This is after a long battle with me insisting to the diabetic nurse that Metformin wasn’t working and all they did was give me explosive diarrhoea, and I mean REALLY explosive. Now on different medication.
Have had metformin problems off and on for years, but it took me a long time to get my meds changed! They don't like changing anything!
Load More Replies...my aunt cant take her pills cause she can't swallow, she dissolves them and just drinks them down with a lil bit of juice, I myself have throat problems and take tons of meds and have to do that to take them... there are always more ways to take them, if it was just big, cut them in half, Drs will give pill cutters out, and if you don't like to dissolve them, crunch them up and use a lil bit of lard and you can form them back into easy to take pills {i used to do ginger that way in school}
There are often different options available, you can always ask your pharmacist or doctor if the medication is also available in another form. But people, always check the medication's information leaflet, or ask your pharmacist or doctor, to see if it's okay to crush/dissolve this particular medication. Some medication you should never crush/dissolve because they need to give off small amounts over a longer time, or contain something that's damaging for your stomach or throat if it's already dissolved.
Load More Replies...There's a woman in my neighborhood that is an anti-vaxxer, essential oils, all-natural nutcase. She and her husband (who was not like that, when he was alive) are/were M.D.'s. I'm just glad she usually stuck to the business side of their practice, and let him see the patients.
5 year old girl, at a pediatrician visit her mother said she was “acting loopy.” A day later a scan confirmed a massive brain tumor in inoperable real estate. Three weeks later I did her autopsy.
I have a feeling she was acting loopy for a while and the mother didn't mention it.
Would it have changed anything if she had mentioned it? The tumor might have been a deadly one anyway, no matter how early or late it was caught. We know nothing about the little girl‘s tumor and should not blame her mom for anything. I‘m sure she‘s suffering the loss enough already.
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Emergency radiologist here.
I see plenty of people presenting with understated symptoms that turn out to be mind blowing advanced disease.
The saddest one was probably the 4 year old boy who presented with a rigid abdomen for a few months. Was told by their pediatrician it was constipation months ago but his parents never followed up when it didn't resolve. When I imaged his abdomen I found his entire liver was replaced with a mass consistent with hepatoblastoma. I asked the parents why they waited so long to work it up. They said they were satisfied with the diagnosis of constipation. That one left a mark on my soul.
This one breaks my heart. I was diagnosed with retinoblastoma at 6 weeks of age. My Mum noticed my right eye looked " milky" instead of reflective. She showed it to my Grandfather, who told her to take me to a Doctor, NOW. I was seen, flown to another city for a second opinion. My Mum was told I had to have my right eye immediately, or, I would die in two weeks. My right eye was removed. I am now 50 and have so much to be grateful for. If you notice something different, new, unusual, or somthing that does not improve, get it checked. If you are unsure, get it checked. And for the love of bananas, if you are not taken seriously, get a second opinion. Sure, you might think you are a hypochondriac, but, it may also save your life. Stay safe and be well Pandas.
I read a story about how a doctor saw a picture of a young baby on Facebook or something and they way the flash hit the eye revealed something to the doctor. She managed to notify the mother, child was taken to a specialist and the baby was diagnosed with this same thing and surgery saved the child.
Load More Replies...They didn't know whether or not their 4-year-old son was having bowel movements? When my son was 4 I was still wiping his butt for him so, I knew when he did the doodoo.
He/she isn’t at fault. The parents didn’t follow up as instructed.
Load More Replies...I feel so sorry for that little boy. How can any decent parent be OK with their child/children being constipated, particularly for months? Why would they not want to resolve this? Why didn't the pediatrician prescribe some kind of laxative or something to help the kid poop? I bet the kid wasn't satisfied with his parents! I hope he got better, and his parents learned and retained this info!
so tragic. Patients need more provider to patient education. Written instructions and office follow-up would be ideal. As a nurse, I understand your pain.
When I was in my final years of med school (English division of a European University in a country where I speak the native language fluently) we were to do patient interviews and physical examinations on our own and then circle back to our supervisor.
I was translating back and forth between the patient (infectious diseases department) and a fellow classmate whom I was doing the interview with. The patient said "so you guys are coming in on a Saturday to do patient work? Good for you for going the extra mile" (it was a Friday, which I initially brushed off as a mistake)
My classmate asked me to ask the patient if he could tell us the date. I was like "are you sure? He's here for an infection not head trauma, he might think it's a bit degrading". I thought it wasn't important but she insisted so I translated the question.
Patient replies "ah well its 2002, of course!" (it was 2018).
After more questioning we realised all of his replies were all as if it were 2002 (eg. "The last trip I went on was to Africa in the 80's, so about 15 years ago")
As it turns out he had neurosyphilis that went unchecked for many many years.
I always ask my patients if they know the date and where they currently are, even if it is a bit embarrassing with an obviously orientated patient. Better safe than sorry
I used to know what day of the week it was by my favourite (weekly) programme being the night before/2 nights before etc. That show has since been cancelled, and sometimes I really struggle to remember what day it is. (Not elderly or suffering a head injury, just forgetful about certain things...and probably trying to forget how many days of the working week I've left before the weekend.)
I'm 44, but I have a lot of health issues. At my physical last week they did the dementia screening on me for the first time. It includes having the patient draw a clock with the hands telling a specific time. I couldn't remember which hand was hour and which was minute. When the doctor came in I was like, I don't have dementia, I'm dyslexic, I promise!
Me: I know my vision is a bit funny at the moment - I will go and get an eye test soon. Wife, after 4 weeks of me pulling my glasses to the end of my nose: Enough! I'm booking you a test. Optician: Yeah, something isn't right - something is pushing in to your eyes from in your brain. You need to go to hospital. I'll call them now. Phone call from hospital, while I'm in the opticians... Me: Yeah, I can come in - but I'm taking my car in for a service on Weds - will Thursday be okay? Them: Err.. okay? Turns out I had a brain tumour in my Pineal Gland that was blocking the normal exit of brain fluid. Three surgeries and a round of radiotherapy later and it's 90% gone. My wife, the optician and the brain surgeon saved my life, because I was too casual to save it myself.
Okay, that is the cutest phrase I've heard in awhile! ❤️
Load More Replies...My ophthalmologist saved my life like this too. During my annual routine exam, she said my optic never was swollen and wanted me to get an MRI. She called the hospital to say I was on my way. I didn't have any abnormal symptoms. I was diagnosed with a brain tumor that was bigger than a tennis ball. It was successfully removed and it was benign. I spent 7 weeks in the hospital and rehab. After 3 years my brain is doing really well. My ophthalmologist is my favorite doctor.
In fairness, I live in the US. And it takes a LOT to get me into the doctor. It's just too expensive to go to see a doctor for something small, so you wait to see if it'll go away. My new insurance is very good, and we go regularly now. But with my old insurance, a trip to an optician would've been $400. And an X-Ray, at least $1,000. I wouldn't have had that kind of money just laying around. So I didn't see a doctor for 5 years. I know parents who sit in the ER parking lot with their sick kids to see if the fever will go down a little before walking into emergency. Once you step through the door, the doctors are legally required to see you. So you wait in the lot. If the fever goes down, you go home. If not, you get ready to spend $2,500 and hope it's not something serious.
I crashed my motorcycle in 1997 and broke both my wrists. The crash was out in the country, miles from any hospital, but I lived less than a mile from a pretty big hospital. When they loaded me into the ambulance, I asked, "Where are you planning on taking me?" They said, "Probably Ticonderoga," which is a small town with a hospital that's almost more like a clinic. I said, "Can you take me to Glens Falls instead? That way, I can walk home when they let me out." I ended up hospitalized for eight days and out of work for three months. They did take me to Glens Falls, but only because they realized Ticonderoga couldn't handle my injuries.
Erm...optician says you have something pushing into your eyes from your brain, and he thought he could wait before he went to hospital?!? If I heard that from the optician, I would be freaking out.
I had a hole on my optic nerve, which leaked brain fluid into it- it was only picked up because I didn't pass the standard eye test at the start of primary school. Neither I or my parents noticed I had any vision problems.
Am I reading this wrong, or does he seem so proud about his risking his health and others worrying about him? How very “I’m such a badass. Can’t go to the hospital to see what’s between my brain and eyeballs even though it’s been affecting my vision bc my car needs service and I’m too cool to worry 😎” Good lord I hope he learned his lesson and stops relying on others to save his life, I can’t imagine how stressed his wife is.
Had twins in the NICU with a rare genetic defect that was causing serious pulmonary distress….extraordinarily, one of our long time nurses recognized the last name and realized she had taken care of their mom while she was hospitalized on the pediatric unit some years before….the mom never thought to tell us she had the same rare genetic pulmonary insufficiency. Could have saved us about of week of tests.
That is not even good enough for high school biology. It's a child's toy.
Load More Replies...I'd understand the mom not necessarily being away the condition was genetic - that aspect of it might never have been mentioned because she's had the condition from such a young age, particularly if her own parents hadn't wanted to worry her and then passed away before she had kids/before they could warn it was genetic, or if they simply hadn't taken in the genetic aspect when she had been diagnosed because they had her health to worry about - but I don't understand why her own doctor hadn't noticed it on the records when she was pregnant, or why she hadn't said 'oh I have this condition could the babies possibly have it too?'
Could be she wasn't aware he'll my parents never told me about me missing a chunk of my frontal lobe (mom loves drugs and booze) until right before my eldest child was born.
One of my first patients as a medical student, we were asking her about prior medical history bc she was in a waitlist for an intestinal transplant, and we asked her in every possible way if she had any history and she was like "no, I was very healthy before this." Finally we ask her "do you take any medications at home?" and she goes "oh, just the meds I take for the lupus"
I can only imagine that all those people telling their doctors that they weren‘t taking any medicine at all have become so used to it over the years that they don‘t consider themselves „being sick/taking medicine“ but think of it as a normal part of their life. Maybe doctors need to learn to question their patients differently to get the answers they need.
Even if it’s in the records we still ask in such a way to determine what the patient knows/understands because if we get 2 different answers there’s a knowledge issue that needs to seriously be addressed.
Load More Replies...I have lupus. I am NOT healthy and neither was this patient. In fact, I'll wager that they needed a transplant because of lupus. This one blew my mind. It is called the "invisible disease" because you can't look at someone and tell. Your body is attacking itself. Symptoms can look like something as simple as the flu. You have to TELL YOUR DOCTOR when you start seeing a new one. They aren't going to automatically know without a dang blood test.
No, they can't. You have to give permission for a transfer of records to a new doctor. If your doctor told you that, get a new one. That is not legal in any country I can think of. I've experienced the American and British medical systems. Live in America and experienced a lupus related collapsed lung while visiting family in Kent. Neither country plays when it comes to patient privacy.
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I once check in a guy and asked him if he'd had any previous surgery.
"No, never"
When I examined him he had a surgical scar from just above his pubic bone, to just below the sternum.
"What's that then?" I asked.
He stared down at it and said:
"I've never noticed that before"
WTF????
You're missing the point, how did he never notice the scar?
Load More Replies...I actually had confusion over this question. Got asked recently if I’d ever had surgery - said no. Turns out just the act of being put under anesthesia counts as surgery. Now I know.
I didn't know that. I would have assumed if they cared about anesthesia they would ask about anesthesia--I have specifically been asked about prior experiences with anesthesia. Likewise, I would not consider a colonoscopy where they didn't snip anything to be "surgery". In my mind, surgery requires cutting.
Load More Replies...How did the guy never never notice an end-to-end cut across his belly tho?
While pregnant with me, my mom was wrapping up an OB appointment. The GYN had already left the room, mom was gathering herself to leave and mentioned to the nurse her contacts were messing with her - she had spots in her vision.
The nurse stopped and asked her to sit down. Brought back in the GYN, who had her stay and deliver me via emergency c section. Without anyone knowing it, she had spontaneously developed pre-eclampsia and her blood pressure was rocketing sky high.
She was dangerously close to having a seizure and that would've been that if she hadn't mentioned the spots in her vision and just left as the appointment was over, or the nurse didn't listen.
Believe it or not, my first ob gyn didn't check my BP, and thankfully when I changed doctors (for other issue) my second doctor was very surprised and angry, because my BP had significantly increased due to pre-eclampsia.
Load More Replies...They didn't do a BP on a pregnant woman at intake? I'd seriously wonder about this practice.
They checked my blood pressure every time I went in for a prenatal visit. Her BP must have shot up real fast.
Did a bunion & hammertoe surgery on a lady with no allergies. New patient packet, primary care note all had “no known allergies”. I always ask about metal allergy anytime I plan on putting in hardware… Surgery goes great. I’m on call for the practice and receive a phone call for the group 18 hours post op. Her nerve block had worn off and she was in excruciating pain. Give instructions on what to do. Next morning she is in my office before I even arrive. 10/10 pain, sweating profusely, blood pressure elevated, foot is massive. Clearly not faking it. Have to send her to hospital for intractable pain. Blood work indicates elevated eosinophils but everything else normal. No blood clot or infection. Hospitalist convinced its complex regional pain syndrome. I rack my brain and think of WTF could be going on. I am only 5 months out of residency. My butt is puckering so hard. Since eosinophils elevated, ask if she is allergic to jewelry? 🤔🤔 “Yeah, my tongue swelled up when I had it pierced. I had it removed the next day” She had a freaking NICKEL allergy. No allergist will see her to confirm so this is all speculation but makes sense with the hardware I used. Once the hardware is removed and exchanged for titanium, her pain resolved. There was one case in my residency of hardware allergy (1/3000 cases I was first or second assist on). If I did not scrub into that case, I don’t know if I would have figured this out so quickly. Crazy case. Now I always ask: “have you ever had any reactions to jewelry?” A lot of patients won’t tell you about problems with jewelry and may not know they have metal allergies!
Wow, completely missed that phrase until I saw your comment. Had to go back and reread it.
Load More Replies...I'm glad i read this. I have a metal allergy but thought nothing of it until now. I have a bad knee so I know one day I will have to have surgery on it. I'll be sure and mention the metal allergy.
My parents never understood why I would get short-lasting rashes in weird places, especially when wearing denim clothes. Until my ears wouldn’t stop burning, itching and swelling after they got pierced and we made the link with how many metal studs in weird places most denim clothes have. :p
Quite a lot of people are allergic to nickel which is why a lot of jewelry (esp silver) doesn't have it anymore. I've had a nickel allergy all my life and I could only ever wear gold (no nickel) but now most jewelry doesn't have it all all.
I took Charlie in for an ACL repair. The vet was incredible, she did the repair on two of my other dogs, all Brittanys. I asked her if they would have to take out the metal plate and she said and omg I KNEW she shouldn't have said it: she said "Oh, we use a titanium plate there is almost NO chance of a reaction." And I said "you know what you just did, don't you?" And sure enough six weeks later, another surgery to take out the titanium plate.
For those hobbyists with a nickel allergy: most sewing needles are nickel plated. It's not a huge deal when just changing a sewing machine needle, but pinning, safety pinning or hand sewing can cause severe symptoms. Look for brass safety pins and nickel free needles. If you need to use standard needles, try wearing nitrile gloves or silicone "needle grippers" that keep your fingertips covered. I knew I was nickel sensitive, but didn't make the connection to my terribly tender and cracking fingertips and my new hand sewing project until another sewist mentioned it on reddit.
That was a good reminder for me to add possible metal allergy to my ever growing list of allergies! When I had my ears pierced as a kid, they didn't heal and were painful for months but for some reason we just decided to leave them in, until one day my mum said something offhand while in the chemist (a different one to where I got them pierced) and they suggested putting in low allergy hoops. They healed fine after that and I barely recall that it was probably an allergy because I have worn the studs I was pierced with after that with no problem.
Yeah, when I'm asked about allergies, I never say metal, but earrings sure did itch when I had them. Good to keep in mind!
Patients not telling HIV status despite knowing they are positive.
When further asked that why didn't they tell us, they say that they thought its not important.
How can HIV not be important, it changes everything.
Not too long ago if you mentioned you were HIV positive you could kiss goodbye to your long-term job. On some application forms you were asked this question which almost always meant that you wouldn’t be attending an interview. Not only a death sentence in those days but an end of any career and a good life.
Stigma in some healthcare is still there despite modern meds making HIV non-transmissable
Load More Replies...Also just for safety reasons. It's important to take extra sharps precautions with ANYONE with bloodborne illnesses.
I ALWAYS let my PCNAs know about HIV status or hepatitis... I also give this into to other nurses in report... Too many times I learn this from the chart and NOT from being told in report :-|
It’s irresponsible not to disclose that in a medical setting!!! We are exposed to patients’ blood and other secretions quite often. It’s sad and unfortunate that some people - even in the medical community - discriminate ppl with HIV or AIDS. But not telling your care team you’re positive is adjacent to attempted homicide. Notice I said ADJACENT TO. My coworkers & I are exposed to communicable diseases and other illnesses (COVID, flu, RSV, C. difficile, etc) every single day. We deserve to at least know the risks.
That's criminal in the USA now. If you know you have it and don't tell it's attempted murder
Maybe they were on one of those medications that makes it undetectable?
It doesn't just change workplace practices, it can mean diseases are more severe for eg.
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As a student in AE asking a patient who came in with head injury after a fight some questions. At the end he mentions that for the last several months he had been having blackout where he would wake on the floor sore all over or having hurt himself. That and he had woke feeling more tired than before. The dude had untreated epilepsy
My first seizure, grand mal, I was alone with my one month old baby. We were going to meet my husband for lunch and I told him I had a headache so we’d stay home. Baby needed changing, and in the time it took me to walk from the living room, down the hall, and onto the changing table (thank God I got her there) I couldn’t see. Woke up on the floor a few hours later, no idea what had happened. We just figured I was dehydrated. Till it happened again when my husband was home to see it.
I'm a veterinarian. My favorites are foreign bodies (like a dog eating a whole bone, or a sock, or something similar). I get when you don't realize something was eaten, but I have had so many times where the client swears up and down that the dog did not eat anything, could not have eaten anything, and nothing is missing. Then when we remove a whole towel, the owner is like "oh, the kitchen towel? Yes I did see him chewing on that yesterday, and we haven't been able to find it since."
My cat stopped eating, poor guy was super sick. I took him to vet, and they did x-rays, couldn't find what was wrong. Finally, they did an exploratory surgery, and found a raw bean (like black bean), whole and lodged in his intestine. Interestingly, he was not constipated, but he hadn't been eating, so maybe that's why. But his intestines were swollen, and extremely painful. In my defense, I did not notice that we had a missing bean. He's fine now BTW. We make sure to be extra careful with our beans.
My dog had a foreign body about a year ago. The vet was getting annoyed and rude to me for having no clue what my dog swallowed. They were confident it was some form of cloth from the xray. I am sorry, I don't have the ability to have my eyes on him 24 hours a day. Turns out, he swallowed a rope toy whole. It was over 2 feet long. He was soft muzzled for a while after that.
Upvoting because the muzzle when direct supervision isn't possible was the right thing to do!
Load More Replies...My kitty was losing his appetite, and vomiting a bit ( I am guessing he did so a lot more often than I saw, probably outdoors). The veterinarian took x-rays and found a stomach packed full of rubber hair ties and rubber bands. You don't notice missing rubber bands. Surgery to get them all out. Thankfully, none had progressed into his bowels.
ugh so annoying. my cats both like gnawing on plastic. Anytime there's a plastic bag hanging around, or a plastic wrapping/container around something I've bought and open, my cat's are all over it like it's play time. The crunchier the better. I'm always so panicked that they're going to end up choking on a piece of shopping bag. If i didn't actually see them eat it but there was some kind of issue going on with the cat, I would immediately think this was the problem and would tell the vet. These people having to the get the info pulled out of them all through this thread is so annoying.
I had an old English bulldog who would eat all your socks off you pissed him off lol
My (~4F at the time) mom thought that it was weird how I could describe what I see of one part of the environment and not the other especially because according to her I was a happy child and didn’t report any sight issue.
She brings me to the doctor, afraid that I may have an intellectual disability.
Turns out one of my eyes is totally blind.
Well you where luckyer than me then só i have always been diagnosted with myopia, nothing new there, but when i had to go do my " check up " for the mandatory military service One of the soldiers doing me the eye sight test wanted to hit me because i was " f*****g " with him lol, só an officer came Over finished my test and goes, " this man is technically blind from the left eye " ( i have periferal Vision but i only ser blurs from my left eye )
As a kid you just think that everyone is the same as you and can’t see that blackboards clearly. Until we were at the dockside in New Brighton munching my sandwich and staring at an enormous ferry. Stupid me had to ask what it said on it. Next morning dragged to opticians. NHS blue glasses with a jam jar bottom left lens and a slightly thinner right lens. Those in the UK of a certain age will remember the absolutely horrible choice of NHS frames. To those who don’t the choice was pink or blue.
I, and my parents, had no idea I had sight problems until the mandatory eye test at the start of primary school. As you say, you just think it is normal until you learn otherwise.
Load More Replies...Happened to a friend of mine. Was only diagnosed in teenage years, because they couldn't catch any ball thrown to them (distance calculation issue).
My father had that from astigmatism, even with correction. He absolutely could not catch anything (but, somehow, played ping pong at a level that he could have done so competitively) and what really puzzled me was one day I was trying to solder a copper pipe right where it went into the wall, too much heat loss into the brick. Ok, the easiest fix is a second torch, apply the fire until I tell you to move it away. I absolutely could not get him to hold it at the right distance, he insisted on holding it too close which rendered it pretty close to useless. How he could not see that the flame wasn't forming properly I do not know.
Load More Replies...My late uncle used to tell us about being picked on at school because he was "a dummy". The problem wasn't that he was a dummy but rather that he couldn't see the board - congenital cataracts - fortunately his mother (my grandmother) found a doctor that was using a new technique (new for the 1920's) so he didn't end up basically blind.
Not being able to see half of what you're looking at isn't a sight issue?
My young cousin always scooted close to the tv when no one was paying attention to her. Around 4 she started saying she needed glasses. We mentioned it to my Uncle and he said that she was just repeating one of her tv shows. When she started kindergarten, they did the eye test and what do you know! She had glasses by the end of the week!
if your child tells you they think they need glasses, maybe don't assume they are quoting their favourite TV show and take them to an optician!
Load More Replies...My brother hadn't seen a straight line the first 8 years of his live. Several eye exams didn't reveal anything. And then, an eye doctor looked further and discovered he had two left eyes (your eyes are normallyly implanted slightly different to ensure stereoscopic sight or more simply put, depth perception). By that time, he was behind in reading as he could not make out the letters. Turned out he knew the eye charts by heart.
Had a guy in his 50s who had been seeing an acupuncturist for an area of numbness and weakness travelling down his legs. He’d had 2 months of acupuncture for them with no improvement, so very reluctantly booked a routine GP appointment. At that point he’d stared to have issues with his urination too. As soon I started speaking to him it became obvious that the symptoms he presented with were consistent with spinal cord compression - an absolute medical emergency. We got him straight into hospital and imaging showed cancer, with a tumour pressing onto his spinal column. Although he started treatment and steroids that day, by then it was too late. He lost the ability to walk and died a few months later from the cancer. It was enormously sad and frustrating as that constellation of symptoms would have raised an immediate reg flag with anyone with medical training. Had he come in months earlier, maybe his prognosis would’ve been quite different.
Hurt my back and my GP would always ask about my bathroom habits. It was a bit annoying, actually, wish he'd explained the relevance of the questions.
My experience the opposite. My GP missed these symptoms in me being spinal compression. It was osteopath who sent me to A&E with a letter. MRI showed I needed emergency surgery.
Load More Replies...I have a spinal injury and every single time I talk to my doctors about anything they always ask about the feeling in my limbs/ability to go to the loo and stress that if I do feel any numbness or tingling I’m to call 999. If you start to lose the feeling in any part of your body and it doesn’t come back you need emergency medical treatment. Very bad on that acupuncturist for not telling the guy to go to a hospital.
The real danger of 'alternative' therapies is when people think they're a substitute for real medicine. Very sad.
Even if you think an allternate therapy has merits, it should be the last thing you try, not the first.
Load More Replies...I had a secondary tumour in one of my vertebra, which caused it to partially collapse. I have some referred pain due to compression of spinal cord and or the nerves coming from it, which manifests itself as either sciatica or pains in my shins, feet and toes. I was warned to watch out for problems with urination and my bowels. It's been 20 years since treatment, and so far so good, but I do have to be careful what I try to lift.
I had 3 emergency back surgeries in 4 months due to a herniated disk pressing on my spinal cord. Lost control of my bladder and bowels and my right side was paralyzed for 3 months. Thankfully with a ton of physical therapy I’m finally able to walk and use my right side again,
In my circle, the first point of call would be the GP, with acupuncture being the very last, if at all!
I'm permantly disabled from a spinal cord compression. I cannot imagine having the symptoms I had at the beginning and going to an *accupuncturist*.
My dad was like that, refused to go to the doctor for anything. Then he got cancer. He's 4 years in remission but now he goes to the doctor with everything barring the common cold. I'd lol but it's not funny. His sister ignored symptoms for ages, then collapsed and was diagnosed with leukemia. She died two days later, age 62.
Saw a man early 70's who had a knee that was at least 3X its size. He had waited all weekend before going to the ER and went only because his wife insisted. He was kind of pissed. Of course his knee was broken. When they ask what he took for the pain his answer was : *"A couple of Tylenols."*
Apparently wanting to feel young again :) he tried his son's motorcycle and it fell on him. He didn't tell anyone because he was too embarassed.
Ohhhh, a country bless……and bless his heart too!
Load More Replies...Again, I can empathize with this guy. Maybe he was hoping it was just a sprain, and wanted to wait it out, rather than spend $1,000 - $10,000 at a hospital visit that could end up being nothing serious. I went to the ER once worried I was having a hear attack. Sever chest pains, numbness in my arms, the whole nine yards. Turns out it was a panic attack. The $1,500 hospital bill nearly gave me a real heart attack, and definitely caused another panic attack.
Oops, I was the patient. I went in for severe pain in my right eye and reduced vision. Asked me for my family history and I mention everything I thought was relevant. “No immune disorders or anything like that?” “Oh well, my mom has MS but there’s no possible way I have that.” “…” “…” “You’ve got optic neuritis, and probably MS. Sorry.”
Why did they think there was no possible way? What inspires someone who apparently has no medical training and who knows, on some level, that they made no effort whatsoever to learn about a particular topic, to think they understand it well? Whatever it is, it’s much more than an oops.
Because the possibility feels so awful that it feels impossible. There is a protective logic to emotions.
Load More Replies...This 20s guy came into the hospital, he had a lot of conditions where he wouldn't make it past 40 and he currently had some infection. We kept giving him antibiotics which helped, but not as much as we would have liked. After about a week of being in the hospital I walk in and I'm talking to him and he tells me that he got a medically necessary circumcision on his last admission to the hospital. I ask if it's okay if I take a look to make sure it's healing okay. It was black with all kinds of infection. I'm just not sure how a 20s married man (or his wife) never thought to tell anyone about this for the past week.
People will hide issues with their genetalia to the last bitter end. When I was a nursing student a patient didn't tell anyone his s*****m was the double size of normal. The only reason I noticed something was wrong, was that he accidentally brushed it and flinched, and I was able to ask him what was going on. Then he resignedly showed me. He was hospitalized for something else, and hadn't thought to mention it since it wasn't related...
Yes! A college aged young man noticed his testes had begun to swell and did not seek any cares for months as it grew. By the time he came in for surgery, he was found to have testicular cancer and it was the size of a small melon.
Load More Replies...I read of a woman, a rich, educated woman, married to an equally educated man. They loved each other very much. They were in the late 20's. She developed breast cancer, but refused to have it treated i.e. breast removal. One night she came into the hospital, she was admitted and when the nurse asked her to take off her very expensive gown, the woman did so and the nurse was horrified to see that the cancer had not only spread, but ROTTED through the skin and was an open cancerous tumor and yet she and her husband refused to admit she was sick. She died that night.
"My penis looks like it's rotting off, but I'm too embarrassed to mention it." Seriously?
You'd think as much as we seem to like our penis that'd be top priority 😜
Load More Replies...Don't they do a full body check when a person is admitted into the hospital so they can catch worrisome spots prone to bed sores? I know the local hospital here does.
Not common practice where I live, unless you already have a condition that requires a lot of bed rest. If you are not mobile once admitted, then they do checks for bed sores and reposition, but probably wouldn't check genitals.
Load More Replies...FFS. The way Bored Panda censors any word that might offend the delicate snowflakes. At this rate, the site will soon become B***d P***a.
When I was a recent grad while working with the army, a soldier came to er, he had just returned from vacation and complained about severe headache, he had been hit with a beer bottle the previous day, I didn't think much at first because he was conscious and there wasn't anything more in anamnesis, that was until medical examination where I found that he had high blood pressure and bradycardia. Sent him to a larger hospital and surprise, surprise, he had quite the subdural hematoma. I still wonder how that man was walking as if nothing was wrong with him.
So, he disclosed, but the doctor ignored the disclosure until after running tests.
He didn't ignore it. He "held the thought" and continued with the basic examination which included a B/P and a listen to his chest...and with the patient's history, he immediately knew what to suspect so referred him onward then and there. He done right, folks.
Load More Replies...He must have been from Texas or Florida. The only logical explanation.
Couple of years ago, while i was a student - during an exam i had to examine a patient. Talked to him about his medical history: ‘Have you ever had surgery?’ ‘No’ ‘So you were never hospitalized?’ ‘No’ I finish with the history and tell him to remove his shirt to do a physical, first thing i see, a big scar in the middle of the chest.. ‘Sir, how did you aquire this scar?’ ‘Oh, that! Thats from my open heart surgery a few years ago’ …..
I was working in the ER as a paramedic intern. An older man came in with his hand bandaged stating he couldn't get his thumb to stop bleeding. As the nurse unwound the bandage there was a gaping wound oozing blood from where his thumb USED TO BE. The nurse asked him where his thumb was and the old guy asked what day it was. The nurse said Thursday or whatever day it was. The guy said well, I guess the thumb went out with the trash this morning. He'd lost his thumb to his lawn mower three days ago and only now was coming in.
Yup, smear some Vaseline on it and all is good...
Load More Replies...Me: Any prior surgeries? Patient: No Me (examining them): Did you know that you only have one testicle down here? Patient: Oh yeah. I had one cut out. ​ I always asked specifically about gallbladder, appendix, and testicles because patients forget about having A F*****G ORGAN CUT OUT.
I'm in vet school, i hope this counts? Sometimes we have classmates bringing in their own pets for us to train different techniques (for example, how to handle a pet that is aggressive, a pet that for some reason has to be handled a certain way, or that has x condition so we get to see in class what it's like, etc). This girl brought in her two elderly dogs. One of them actually had several health conditions and was blind, the other one was brought along just because they hate being away from each other. Of course we were focused on the dog that had health conditions, but at some moment the "healthy" one made a weird noise with her throat and the girl went "oh, she does that sometimes, i think it's just allergies or something, don't worry". The teacher thought it would be a good idea to train auscultation on the "healthy" dog as well anyways. It was an ugly tracheal collapse, the student hadn't known the signs up until that point, and would never know if our teacher hadn't decided to check anyways out of curiosity.
What happens to a dog with tracheal collapse? Was it treatable?
OP on how to treat tracheal collapse in dogs: I believe there is a difference amongst countries since some medications or methods one country uses might differ from the ones another country uses. Here it depends. If we catch it early on, usually the treatment is done by prescribing anti inflammatory medication to alleviate some symptoms (like the dry cough and irritation) or drugs that will help with breathing, like bronchodilatadors. Worst case scenario, we could recommend a surgery to get an intraluminal stent that will help get the trachea back to its normal diameter, but in my country it is somewhat debated if this surgery is worth it. Some pacients definitely benefit from it, but others not so much, so get a good vet's opinion on it on an appointment if you feel like it's needed.
Load More Replies...Frequently caused by pulling on the collar. Train your dogs not to pull and train yourself not to pull too. Perhaps get an anti-pull harness. They work very well.
I had a headache, and a few hours later noticed that my irises were different sizes. I went reluctantly to the emergency room. Minutes after presenting myself I had neurologists looking at me and I was rushed to get scanned. The artery about an inch and a half below my brain had torn. The Drs were basically just waiting for me to have a stroke. I didn’t. Somehow.
As a patient, I went to the doctor because I had some kind of infection in my mouth. The doctor had a look at me and was like ‘how have you been otherwise?’ A bit tired, but my new sport had lots of 4am starts, so that made sense. That was also why I assumed I’d been losing weight. We talked through a few more things and the doctor said ‘this might be diabetes. Let’s take some blood and meet back up next week.’ A few hours later, the doctor called me at home telling me to go to the ER *right then* because my blood sugar was sitting over 40 mmol and he didn’t think I’d make it through the night without going comatose. The surreal thing was that I felt fine (at least, I felt how I’d been for months) and I was walking around looking healthy enough. When any of the staff asked me what I was in for, the blood drained from their face and they freaked out. Anyway, I have type 1 diabetes now.
Was called to the ER to do a psych consult on a patient that was complaining of GI symptoms but his story was sorta strange and he had no overt abdominal signs or symptoms. He was complaining that he suffered from "Barrett's stomach" (not esophagus) and had been diagnosed by a world famous gastroenterologist. He stated that if he could lose weight that his GI issues would resolve. I spent some time talking with him and, other than this strange fixation on his "Barrett's stomach," he seemed okay. Until...he mentioned that his most recent weight loss method was to shoot himself in the thigh so that the leg would become gangrenous and eventually need to be amputated. This would allow him to quickly lose the 20 or so pounds needed to cure his stomach ailment. The man actually had a self-inflicted gunshot wound to the thigh from several days before. I didn't actually assess the would because I was there for a psych consult but did immediately alert the ER staff. I was all calm and nonchalant like ohh sir, excuse me for a sec - I'm gonna pop out and let another staff member know about this so they can take a look at it for ya! The ER was located in a county that employed a staff of mental health social workers to place psych patients so I had to call one of them out while he was getting (thoroughly physically) assessed. I have no idea what happened to him but I hope he's doing okay.
To be fair, if you lose a leg, you lose some kilos too. But I doubt that the weight he had to lose, in order to solve his stomach problems, was about kilos.
My wife is a mental health social worker. That is one hell of a rough job
I was a Dentist in the Texas Jail System. I had a guy walk in whose lower 4 mandibular incisors were loose. He said they hurt a little. X ray showed there was a perfect semicircle of bone containing those 4 Teeth that was completely fractured. No root canals in jail. Or dentures. I laid a flap and removed one whole piece of bone with all teeth in it. I was certain he’d been in a fight but he said he walked into a pole. There are serious penalties for fighting in the jail. He was really unhappy to lose those teeth. So, a couple days later another guy walked in with his upper centrals broken off at the gums. I figured he walked into the other side of the same pole.
Had a lady that fell once at work. I knew by the way she went down, that her hip had to be broke. My colleagues were just so sure it wasn’t broke and I even went AGAINST the doctor and ordered her X-rays.. all because she wasn’t crying, or saying it hurt.. That pelvis was broke in 3 different places, plus the femur head was also broke. That lady never once complained of pain. Even walked on it.. She had dementia.. I’ve often wondered if some forms of Dementia just cannot feel pain?
I don’t know about dementia but there are people with a condition called CIP (Congenital Insensitivity to Pain), and it can be dangerous for them because they don’t have a way of knowing when something is very wrong with their body.
You are right. I can see how dementia may cause a form of this, as dementia is a damage and/or loss of nerve cell connections in/to the brain.
Load More Replies...I don't understand why Dr's don't realize this. I have a very high tolerance for pain. My mom was a redhead and I am a reddish blonde. I've always been able to "take it" or "suck it up" when I was in pain. However it makes Dr's think there is nothing wrong. Just a few months ago I told the Dr. that the new shots I was taking for my diabetes were making me have stomach aches and vomiting at night. He told me I would get used to them. During an upper ct scan he saw a bunch of gallbladder stones and asked if it had been giving me problems. I said no just the shots make me sick. Well I was one day away from starting my vacation when my gallbladder attack started. I spent my vacation recovering from gallbladder removal surgery where the surgeon said it was the worst one he had ever removed. He said he couldn't understand how I was walking around at all much less eating, why did I wait so long? I told him I thought it was the diabetes shots making me sick and just toughed it out.
Well technically, the hip probably did not have any money. I'll see myself out...
Load More Replies...Annoys me when they assess how bad things can be from how much you're freaking out. Got told I couldn't be in real labour because I would be shouting out. Baby I delivered begs to differ. (Longer version: This was on the phone, apparently I was too calm for labour but because I was pre-term they agreed to examine me. I can practically see the hospital from the house, so we drop round there fast. Good job too. 25 minutes after arriving at the hospital, baby.)
Same thing happened to my friend, even with her husband insisting she has a high pain tolerance and also will suffer in silence. Once they finally actually examined her, the baby was born within 20 minutes.
Load More Replies...Dementia patients frequently forget that they haven't told anyone about the pain, or the fall, or any other problems. And they aren't aware enough to realize they aren't being treated for it.
I remember when I was 8 I had crashed on a mini bike. My dad didn't have parental rights after the divorce and the ER felt since I was only missing some teeth and had a split lip but was not reporting pain or anything there was no emergency and they needed to get a hold of my mom. A couple hours later mom comes and they take me back for X-rays. The X-ray tech looked at the prints and kind of hurried out to get the doctor who got on the phone and started calling for a clear room for surgery and a doctor to be called back. It turned out I had crushed my skull had a tooth in my eye socket fractures in my forehead making a disk of bone that had fallen in and swelling on my brain.
My mother had an epidural for neck/back pain a couple of days before an appointment with her cardiologist. Her cardiologist sent her for a standard chest x-ray (follow up for the quadruple bypass she'd had 9 months prior), then sent us home. A couple of hours later his office called instructing us to go to the ER for a CT scan because something looked off on her chest xray, maybe nothing, better safe than sorry. It turned out her colon had ruptured and was leaking fecal matter into her chest cavity. She didn't feel any pain because of the epidural and had no clue. She'd have been dead within 24 hours if not for that cardiology appointment. Edited to clarify that fecal matter was leaking into her abdominal cavity, not her chest cavity. It was visible at the bottom of the chest x-ray. If memory serves me correctly it looked like a cloudiness where it should have been clear. My apologies.
While I was a psychiatry resident, I did a graded 30 minute interview on front of my attending on a new patient without knowing any previous chart history. I spent 29 minutes collecting high yield medical and psychiatric history, and since I had an extra minute to spare, decided to ask him more about his childhood. "Well, it was pretty shitty after I watched my dad murder my mom and then kill himself." Needless to say, I did not have enough time to unpack that and failed my exam lol.
This is why it's always good to have a look in the patients journal before talking to them. 😅
I’m a midwife. Had a patient who was 4 days postpartum. (She’s the kind of person who never complains about anything - when she was in labour she didn’t want to go to the hospital yet because it “wasn’t bad enough” - she almost gave birth in the elevator!) Anyway, her husband called me and said she had a fever of 39C for 2 days and he was worried. I had to beg her to come into hospital. She ended up needed 3 days of IV antibiotics for endometritis. Even the doctor I called to consult didn’t believe it at first since she didn’t seem to be in pain!
Did an FME (full mouth extraction) on a guy . Half way through he’s bleeding constantly excessively . I was only a dental assistant for about 3 months at the time so I didn’t know much about the health part . Doctor was freaking out and we couldn’t get the guy to stop bleeding . Finally he tells us after 2 hours that he’s on blood thinners . He came back the next day with his son and he was still heavily bleeding everywhere . Had to call ambulance to go to er . I am now ocd and over excessive/cautious about medical history before any procedure because of this .
Both my daughter and I need an FME and implants to replace our teeth...for two totally different reasons. She has had lifelong eczema, and treatment with steroids has destroyed her teeth. I have Sjogren's Syndrome; the dry mouth from the disease has destroyed my teeth.
Load More Replies...Please stop using OCD to describe being very neat/ nitpicky, it is a crippling anxiety disorder. Thank you.
One of my uncles (married to my aunt) has a genetic circulatory disorder he inherited from his mother. Except his mother refuses to acknowledge that she has the disorder herself despite pretty typical symptoms, never had him tested for it, and never mentioned the possibility of him having it until he started having symptoms as an adult and was diagnosed. Such a bad case of denial.
I have an uncle who suddenly became paralysed one day after getting a slight pull in his back. Nobody understood what had happened, doctors struggled with a diagnosis etc. 15 years later and he has some movement and can walk aided for a short while, he finally gets diagnosed with AS. Numerous family members 'Oh yeah, I've got that.', Wow, and they wonder why I don't see that side often!
This is sort of the reverse of the question, but I had a follow-up phone call after an in-person appointment with a pelvic pain specialist. At what was supposed to be the end of the call I asked if she had any ideas as to why I’d been in so much pain for three years at that point. She said it was probably fibromyalgia, which no one including her had ever mentioned before to me. She was literally wrapping up the phone call when I asked, and I had some follow up comments and questions which confirmed I have fibromyalgia. The worst part is if I hadn’t asked her I wouldn’t have known and she wouldn’t have told me.
I've had ME for nearly 30 years for every day of that time I've lived with muscle pain. This year I go to the doctor's as the pain in my hands is so much worse, she looks at my notes and says could it be a worsening of the fibromyalgia? I am on the floor! Like how have they not told me what is causing this pain for so many years, f*****g barstards. She upped a medicine I was already on for another issue that helps Fibro and my hands improved. F*****g Fibro all this time.
I've also got fibromyalgia. Took years of tests, doctors visits and hospital visits. It started when I was in my early 20s. 9 years and I got nowhere. Wasn't until I made yet another appointment with my gp and there was a locum doctor instead of my regular doctor and as soon as I walked through the door he said I know what's wrong with you. You have fibromyalgia. He performed the tender point test and I had 12. Definitely fibromyalgia. I realised that my mother also had it and it was the reason she became an alcoholic, to deal with the pain. When she started getting symptoms there was no fibromyalgia diagnosis available. Back then the pain was all in your head. I've tried numerous meds which don't help and I have a gene defect which means morphine products don't help. 500 times the normal dose of fentanyl does nothing at all. That combined with my bad mental health is why I'm going to die tomorrow. Too tired to fight anymore
No one can diagnose fibromyalgia over the phone. Fibromyalgia is a diagnosis of exclusion, meaning there are loads of tests to go through to rule out other diseases which might be causing your symptoms. I went through x-rays, CT scans, ultrasounds, blood tests, a bone density test, a nerve conduction test, and more. I hope you follow up to ensure you're not suffering from something else that might need urgent care.
it was a follow-up phone call to discuss the results of an in-person appointment with a specialist. they likely saw other specialists before that & they had all narrowed it down to fibro.
Load More Replies...Just a reminder that a worsening unexplainable back pain should be taken very seriously. If you are having worsening back pain for more then like 2 weeks and you don't recall doing anything that could of cause it. Get it assessed. Tumours, cancer, infection can happen and quickly ruin your life if untreated. Remember, report unexplainable pains to your GP and be very honest about how bad the pain is. Saved a young 30yr old from being paralyzed just the other week.
Honestly this is a hard one because as you get older pain just comes in for seemingly no reason sometimes. It's difficult to ascertain if it's a legitimate concern or if you yawned too hard and your entire back cramped up and so now you're sore for 3 days, lol.
While I was interning in my general surgery rotation we received a patient for an emergent exploratory laparotomy (emergent open surgery) from the ER with severe abdominal pain. ER had done an x-ray and saw that he had bowel perforation (you can see a bubble of air that collects underneath the diaphragm on a standing x-ray). The patient history we got from ER was that the patient had felt pain onset 3 days BEFORE checking into the hospital but decided it was nothing and attempted to self medicate with vodka for the pain until it was too unbearable. Here's the kicker - the bowel perforation was caused by acute pancreatitis (too long to explain the how and why) which was likely due to his prior alcohol abuse. So his "self medication" only worsened the state he was in.
My family and I joke about having a wine to stop headaches, but if it was something that serious and lasted for more than one day we would be seeing a doctor. (Also, we wouldn't get trashed on vodka to treat it)
Quite common in Malaysia since some health products escape notice from the government. ‘ I don’t think this is important, but have you been taking supplements for weight loss or do you have an exam coming up?’
Young women coming in with severe palpitations and crazy arrhythmias. Usually healthy, no prior health issues and or usually at the age where they’re in college or university. Initially most people would be thinking thyroid issues and a fair few have been treated this way.
Then I realized they’ve been taking caffeine supplements to help with weight loss/ increase concentration. Specifically some brands off label only put it in between the fine print of the product ingredients. Usually in near lethal quantities lol.
Not exactly an answer, just my experience as a nurse. I had a patient who was on strict input/ output, meaning we had to measure everything going in and …um… coming out. I went to measure his urine output from his urinal and it was dark brown and contained something that looked fibrous. Turns out he’d been using his urinal as a spittoon. Needless to say, I explained what it was really for after a horrified moment.
I hate it when I'm on fluid and output charts, because I currently have all my marbles the doctors ask me to fill in the forms myself. I literally have to wee into a cardboard bedpan then use my phone light to see the tiny markers going up the side to work out the volume. The other output is easier as I know how many MLs my stoma bag holds!
He used chewing tobacco, spittoon is a receptacle to spit in. Brown juice is saliva and fibrous material is tobacco.
Load More Replies...Saw an old lady as a med student with a broken foot. We were chatting a bit and she mentioned a discolouring on her hand she was only mildly worried about. My supervisor wasn't quite sure what it was so we asked a dermatologist. Ended up being melanoma.
Saw a dude in my ER once for a sore throat. He was coughing a bit when I went in. Looked in his throat and his uvula (hanging thingy in the middle) was just a tiny bit swollen but everything else looks ok. I asked about medication and he mentioned that he just started a BP medicine that had a nasty side effect of face and airway swelling. Long story short, we put a scope down his throat and saw swelling around his vocal cords and put in a breathing tube to keep his airway open.
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You missed out spitting beverages all over your phone. And be sure to show your doctor the pictures of cute animals as evidence
Load More Replies...I was having [what I assumed was] severe PMDD for the week of and during my period. I was a danger to myself. I have a long history of ADHD meds, Vyvanse specifically, and I'd been off it for a few years. So I recently started Concerta and when the symptoms started, I thought it was some side effect. Went to the doctor/OBGYN and she just gave me progesterone which made my period start WAY early (for some reason) Anyway, a week later I'm talking to my friend Sarah who's telling me about her unfortunate history with EDs. She mentions offhand that she did some research on it and if you lose enough weight, your cycle starts shutting down. I'm like, WHAT. I go weigh myself immediately and sure enough I'm like 100lbs! ADHD meds all have strong weight loss side effects, and I'd been on them for most of my developmental years. I'm dangerously underweight. I stop the progesterone and work on getting my weight up a little and would ya look at that! Symptoms magically disappear. The kicker is that Sarah is trans! She's never had a period and she just figured out what my cis OBGYN (who knew my weight was a concern) never could!. EDIT for accuracy: it's been pointed out to me that this wasn't PMDD! I've edited this post to reflect that :)
A patient of mine (anaesthetics) neglected to tell us that he had a difficult airway, fortunately we picked up a faded cric scar before induction.
My Wife had high blood pressure, but she could never remember the names of the meds she was taking, so I put a list on my computer, and printed out a little form with name&address, doctor's name&number, and the meds, and contact numbers. Kept it up for years, and she always had a copy in her wallet to show to dentists, etc. Now she's passed on, and I have my own 'ICE' list in my wallet. Seems like a good idea.
I have the same in my wallet and under ICE on my phone, for the same reason. Better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it.
Load More Replies...I'm not a doctor but a few years ago my dad had this really bad stomach pain and he just assumed he pulled a muscle or something, but it kept getting worse. It got so bad he had to take off work one day, and that day my mom forced him to go to the doctor. I remember seeing him walk out of the doctor after like 10 minutes with the most panicked face I've ever seen on him and when he got in the car he told my mom his appendix was about to burst and he needed to go to the hospital now. Driving him to the hospital was awful because he was crying the whole time and talking about how he was going to die. I've never seen him that scared and I hated it so much. We got him to the hospital and my mom called some family friends to come pick my sister and I up. The surgery went fine and he's perfectly fine now, thank goodness. If it wasn't for my mom being super worried, though, he might not have been.
I had a bladder infection a couple of years back and I ignored for 5 weeks because 'it wasn't really that bad and it'll go away on its own if I drink cranberry juice' then one day I got an awful fever which 'it's obviously just the flu coming on' eventually my dad came over and forced me to go to the doctors.. who then blue lighted me all the way to the hospital.. even in the A&E, the doctor asked me when the bladder infection started and I said 'oh about 5 weeks' the shock and horror on his face said it all... , my infection makers were through the roof and I was on IV antibiotics for 4 days, and hooked up to a water drip pumping water into my stupid dehydrated self 3 litre bag after 3 litre bag... Needless to say I didn't ignore the second bladder infection I had
Typically, it's the opposite issue. You give your health history and they ignore it. The number of times I've been misdiagnosed with things because my symptoms and history were dismissed is astounding. "It must be because you're overweight" is a standard chant for incompetent doctors.
I had that for 5 YEARS - but the worst part? It turned out my symptoms weren't caused by being overweight, being overweight was yet another symptom. And all together, it was a textbook case of problem X, an extremely common and well known complication caused by a medical conditoin the doctors blimmin' well knew I had! 5 years to get diagnosed, because they didn't spend two seconds considering that my weight was another symptom, even though my known medical history meant that if they had, the solution would be pratically neon-lit. Oh, and of all the symptoms of problem X, being fat is the most common one.
Load More Replies...i have a degenerative disease that causes all kinds of havoc with my body in regards to pain and fatigue. sometimes when it flares i get a kind of hot flashes as well. i had a procedure for removal of kidneys stones on a monday afternoon. my son, who lives next door, called to check on me tuesday morning. after hanging up the phone he comes over immediately and tells me he's calling an ambulance. i started to argue with him-or so i thought-when he stopped me and said do you realize you are talking gibberish? ambulance it was to the e.r. all i remember after that was seeing them take my blood pressure and then realizing i was in a hospital room. turned out i had developed an infection and it had turned to sepsis. dr told me if i had waited any longer i would have probably been in a coma and died. it taught me that 1. i am no longer a spring chicken; 2. i need to pay attention a little more to when things are 'off'; and 3. thankful that i have a son who pays attention.
Was IC on a wildfire. This was back when we still used "street hires'. First day in camp I notice one guy walking around like he is in a mine field. Go up and ask him what is going on. Tells me he has to be careful as he is allergic to bee stings. note that wildflowers are out and bees are everywhere. So we have the following conversation: "How allergic?" "Oh if I get stung I have to use my epipen and be in emerg within 15 minutes" "OK, where is your epipen?" " I forgot to bring it " "You do realise that even if you get stung in the helicopter with the engine running we are a half hour flight to the nearest hospital. " Anyway, still light enough to get him sent back to town. Also asked him why he hadn't mentioned this to anyone. Said it never crossed his mind.
As an intern during my anesthesiology rotation I was screening patients. There was a woman who needed sedation for a fertility treatment. She was really afraid so it was impossible otherwise. My first question was if she used any medication. She said no. As an intern I wanted to be really sure so I asked casually “ also no vitamins?”. She said “no just a birth control pill.” In the Netherlands it is called anti-inception pill so a bit less obvious and some woman take them for skin or menstrual problems, but still… She never thought she needed to stop taking them and was surprised she couldn’t get pregnant.
My wife was a nurse at a walk-in clinic and would often complain about people listing their sex as how they identify rather than how they are plumbed. Folks, identify however you like, but please be clear with medical professionals what your biological sex is. It often makes a huge difference in diagnostics.
I should stop reading these and scaring myself. I've had a pain in my lower right abdomen off and on for about 5 years now. Started with being present just every few weeks or so but now it's daily. Ovaries look fine on ultrasound so doctors just say "huh well I dunno." I have a female nurse practitioner I'm seeing now who said the same thing, "maybe it's just one of those weird things." A year later I called her again to say I'd had a couple instances were it hurt quite badly and I had to lie down. She seemed surprised I still had the pain (I had told her I'd had it for 4 years though) and started trying to get me a CT scan but my insurance won't approve it because I'm not also vomiting, or have a fever, etc. Had another US, nothing. Had another US of upper abdominal in case the pain is "referring" down low or something. It's been 2 weeks and they haven't given me results yet but I really don't know if they'll find anything anyway or what to do next 😞
My dad had persistent wet cough. He was a stubborn man and waited about 2 months before admitting he felt worse than he should and breathing was a little difficult. Stubborn as he was, he still insisted that it would pass. Well college semester was about to start and I had the tuition check he wrote so I threatened to rip it up, drop out of school and quit my job if he didn't go to a dámn hospital because he looked so sickly at that point; just flat out told him it would be his fault i ruined my life. Knowing his lovely daughter is very much his child, he relents and goes to the hospital that day because he took my threat seriously. Well Dr said had he waited one more day he would've died because he had the flu, pneumonia and tuberculosis; never could do anything simple. But yeah that stubborn jerk nearly died and ended up spending over a month in the hospital.
They pumped so much fluid out of his lungs it was disturbing; never knew the human lungs could hold liters of fluid
Load More Replies...My Wife had high blood pressure, but she could never remember the names of the meds she was taking, so I put a list on my computer, and printed out a little form with name&address, doctor's name&number, and the meds, and contact numbers. Kept it up for years, and she always had a copy in her wallet to show to dentists, etc. Now she's passed on, and I have my own 'ICE' list in my wallet. Seems like a good idea.
I have the same in my wallet and under ICE on my phone, for the same reason. Better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it.
Load More Replies...I'm not a doctor but a few years ago my dad had this really bad stomach pain and he just assumed he pulled a muscle or something, but it kept getting worse. It got so bad he had to take off work one day, and that day my mom forced him to go to the doctor. I remember seeing him walk out of the doctor after like 10 minutes with the most panicked face I've ever seen on him and when he got in the car he told my mom his appendix was about to burst and he needed to go to the hospital now. Driving him to the hospital was awful because he was crying the whole time and talking about how he was going to die. I've never seen him that scared and I hated it so much. We got him to the hospital and my mom called some family friends to come pick my sister and I up. The surgery went fine and he's perfectly fine now, thank goodness. If it wasn't for my mom being super worried, though, he might not have been.
I had a bladder infection a couple of years back and I ignored for 5 weeks because 'it wasn't really that bad and it'll go away on its own if I drink cranberry juice' then one day I got an awful fever which 'it's obviously just the flu coming on' eventually my dad came over and forced me to go to the doctors.. who then blue lighted me all the way to the hospital.. even in the A&E, the doctor asked me when the bladder infection started and I said 'oh about 5 weeks' the shock and horror on his face said it all... , my infection makers were through the roof and I was on IV antibiotics for 4 days, and hooked up to a water drip pumping water into my stupid dehydrated self 3 litre bag after 3 litre bag... Needless to say I didn't ignore the second bladder infection I had
Typically, it's the opposite issue. You give your health history and they ignore it. The number of times I've been misdiagnosed with things because my symptoms and history were dismissed is astounding. "It must be because you're overweight" is a standard chant for incompetent doctors.
I had that for 5 YEARS - but the worst part? It turned out my symptoms weren't caused by being overweight, being overweight was yet another symptom. And all together, it was a textbook case of problem X, an extremely common and well known complication caused by a medical conditoin the doctors blimmin' well knew I had! 5 years to get diagnosed, because they didn't spend two seconds considering that my weight was another symptom, even though my known medical history meant that if they had, the solution would be pratically neon-lit. Oh, and of all the symptoms of problem X, being fat is the most common one.
Load More Replies...i have a degenerative disease that causes all kinds of havoc with my body in regards to pain and fatigue. sometimes when it flares i get a kind of hot flashes as well. i had a procedure for removal of kidneys stones on a monday afternoon. my son, who lives next door, called to check on me tuesday morning. after hanging up the phone he comes over immediately and tells me he's calling an ambulance. i started to argue with him-or so i thought-when he stopped me and said do you realize you are talking gibberish? ambulance it was to the e.r. all i remember after that was seeing them take my blood pressure and then realizing i was in a hospital room. turned out i had developed an infection and it had turned to sepsis. dr told me if i had waited any longer i would have probably been in a coma and died. it taught me that 1. i am no longer a spring chicken; 2. i need to pay attention a little more to when things are 'off'; and 3. thankful that i have a son who pays attention.
Was IC on a wildfire. This was back when we still used "street hires'. First day in camp I notice one guy walking around like he is in a mine field. Go up and ask him what is going on. Tells me he has to be careful as he is allergic to bee stings. note that wildflowers are out and bees are everywhere. So we have the following conversation: "How allergic?" "Oh if I get stung I have to use my epipen and be in emerg within 15 minutes" "OK, where is your epipen?" " I forgot to bring it " "You do realise that even if you get stung in the helicopter with the engine running we are a half hour flight to the nearest hospital. " Anyway, still light enough to get him sent back to town. Also asked him why he hadn't mentioned this to anyone. Said it never crossed his mind.
As an intern during my anesthesiology rotation I was screening patients. There was a woman who needed sedation for a fertility treatment. She was really afraid so it was impossible otherwise. My first question was if she used any medication. She said no. As an intern I wanted to be really sure so I asked casually “ also no vitamins?”. She said “no just a birth control pill.” In the Netherlands it is called anti-inception pill so a bit less obvious and some woman take them for skin or menstrual problems, but still… She never thought she needed to stop taking them and was surprised she couldn’t get pregnant.
My wife was a nurse at a walk-in clinic and would often complain about people listing their sex as how they identify rather than how they are plumbed. Folks, identify however you like, but please be clear with medical professionals what your biological sex is. It often makes a huge difference in diagnostics.
I should stop reading these and scaring myself. I've had a pain in my lower right abdomen off and on for about 5 years now. Started with being present just every few weeks or so but now it's daily. Ovaries look fine on ultrasound so doctors just say "huh well I dunno." I have a female nurse practitioner I'm seeing now who said the same thing, "maybe it's just one of those weird things." A year later I called her again to say I'd had a couple instances were it hurt quite badly and I had to lie down. She seemed surprised I still had the pain (I had told her I'd had it for 4 years though) and started trying to get me a CT scan but my insurance won't approve it because I'm not also vomiting, or have a fever, etc. Had another US, nothing. Had another US of upper abdominal in case the pain is "referring" down low or something. It's been 2 weeks and they haven't given me results yet but I really don't know if they'll find anything anyway or what to do next 😞
My dad had persistent wet cough. He was a stubborn man and waited about 2 months before admitting he felt worse than he should and breathing was a little difficult. Stubborn as he was, he still insisted that it would pass. Well college semester was about to start and I had the tuition check he wrote so I threatened to rip it up, drop out of school and quit my job if he didn't go to a dámn hospital because he looked so sickly at that point; just flat out told him it would be his fault i ruined my life. Knowing his lovely daughter is very much his child, he relents and goes to the hospital that day because he took my threat seriously. Well Dr said had he waited one more day he would've died because he had the flu, pneumonia and tuberculosis; never could do anything simple. But yeah that stubborn jerk nearly died and ended up spending over a month in the hospital.
They pumped so much fluid out of his lungs it was disturbing; never knew the human lungs could hold liters of fluid
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