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Contrary to what some from the self-help industry suggest, experiencing negative emotions like anger, sadness, fear, and jealousy is a perfectly normal and even essential part of being human.

So to reclaim this right, writer, creator, and self-described hot mess Dave Tarnowski launched a project called Disappointing Affirmations, where he shares phrases that are less about inspiration and more about honesty.

They might make you cry-laugh instead of leave you motivated, but every once in a while, we need to hear that it’s okay that we’re feeling this way.

More info: DisappointingAffirmations.com | Instagram

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    Potato Vic
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    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, 8 BILLION people on this tiny blue marble....poor planet

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    sbj
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    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly for me it always seems to be the latter

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    Glen Ellyn
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    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But I won't be there to see it. I avoid negative people as best I can.

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    sbj
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    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm good at doing this, I learnt from an early age that most people only care about their own feelings

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    Lotekguy
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    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes, ya just gotta in order to move on with life.

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    #13

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    Susan Reid Smith
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    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I keep looking around for an adult, then remember that I am old enough to have grandkids.

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    #14

    A serene forest path with anti-motivational affirmations about worrying and what people think of you.

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    Absurdist
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    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! I love to tell people, “you’re not that special”. It sounds insulting, but what I mean is that if each of us individually are “special”, then ultimately none of us are “special” or “unique”. And when somebody thinks people around them are thinking or talking badly about them, to remember, that they are not that special. Of all the things those people around them could be thinking about, to assume it’s about yourself is unrealistic. It’s my practical approach to anxiety 😊

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    Lotekguy
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    4 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. Ain't you learned nothin' from all them failures and disappointments yet?

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    Louise
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    3 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okey dokey. Reply all here I come!

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    #23

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    Bewitched One
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    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, great. Thanks for the warning. *Makes note to stop meeting people* Okay! Fixed the issue!

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    Kathy Brooke
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    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's one I felt deeply when I lost my husband. It is oddly helpful in grief when the only way out really is through.

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    Crystalwitch60
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    33 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are all good enough !! to those that matter !!! and to ourselves ,which is all that matters ,n if anyone tells you other wise , then you do not need them in your lives !

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    Louise
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    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then I can come back as a cat. Yes!

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    Absurdist
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    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For real tho, some people need to hear this…..

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    Anti-motivational affirmations about being alone on Valentine's Day with relatable, humorous, and harsh truths.

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    Louise
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    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It'll be ok when I come back as a cat.

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    Lotekguy
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    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The worst part is, you probably won't realize it until it's over.

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    #56

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    Louise
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    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm never alone when I've got chocolate.

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    #58

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    Sally Moen
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    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A cautionary tale. It's being of service to be somebody else's bad example

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