A wedding dress not only makes the bride look and feel pretty. It’s a chance to express individuality, creativity and sometimes even to pay homage to family tradition. Some brides opt for DIY wedding dresses – it’s cheap, personal and definitely unique. Thrifty brides know where and how to find unconventional wedding gowns without breaking the bank.
Some brides on this list even decided to trade a wedding dress for a wedding suit. However, what ties all of these pictures together is that all of the looks are in some way unconventional. Be it color, shape or style. So, dear pandas, upvote your favorite unique dresses and leave a comment under those that left the biggest impression. And check out our interview with the Rock n Roll Bride magazine editor Kat Williams to learn more about unconventional wedding dresses!
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A Part Of Me Was Worried I Would Regret Not Wearing A Dress For Our Wedding. Needless To Say Once We Got The Photos Back I No Longer Cared About The Dress
They do look stunning, handsome, beautiful and cool. They also look like the coolest kids in school waiting to be let into the principals Office 😄
A gorgeous photo - so elegant. I hope you are both happy! The photo looks a little sad somehow.
It may sound cheesy to some, but a wedding is an important day in one’s life. There’s nothing inherently wrong with wanting to make it a little bit more special. At the risk of sounding pretentious, I’ll say that a non-conventional wedding can be more interesting than a traditional one.
The Knot even declared the most popular bridal aesthetic of the year 2023 to be non-traditional wedding dresses. According to them, extravagant celebrations and maximalist fashion are the result of the post-lockdown era. Many to-be-weds had to postpone or cancel their wedding plans altogether. Now that they can finally plan their celebration, it’s extravagance and uniqueness galore.
To find out more about the world of unconventional weddings, Bored Panda reached out to Kat Williams. She is the editor and founder of the Rock n Roll Bride magazine. She is also an Amazon #1 bestselling author of the book Rock n Roll Bride: The Ultimate Guide For Alternative Brides. Kat is a specialist in non-traditional weddings and unique bridal looks and kindly agreed to share her expertise with us.
Decided To Photobomb My Wife During Our Wedding Photoshoot Last Month
This looks like a poster for a hilarious Bollywood comedy. All it needs is the text.
Floral Wedding Dress: What Bouquet Should I Get?
With a dress like this, keep any flowers incredibly simple. A few white flowers, and lots of trailing foliage would look stunning.
I was thinking the same. Maybe some white calla lilies, as they are not only white, but they have a simple yet elegant shape.
Load More Replies...You don't need one! Keep your hands free for other stuff, knowing that your dress is doing the bouquet for you!
Lambs ear, moss, all kinds of greenery and maybe some queen Anne's lace. Gorgeous gown!!!
The magazine was born out of lack of inclusivity in the industry. Its creator Kat Williams decided to start Rock n Roll Bride when she was planning her own wedding. “If you didn’t have a big budget, if you didn’t want something traditional and if you didn’t fit into the straight, white, able-bodied bridal mold, there was nothing for you!”
Their mission statement reads: “You don’t have to be wacky; you don’t have to be offbeat and you certainly don’t have to be intentionally ‘different’ – you just have to be you.”
Heard Such Kind And Helpful Thoughts When I Posted About Wanting To Wear A Red Dress. Here’s How It Turned Out
great dress! Is it such a big thing to get married in red in some countries?
Yep! In China, it's tradition to get married in red as it's supposed to bring good luck. White is taboo though cuz white means death in China
Load More Replies...My Wedding Dress Didn’t Arrive In Time So I Wore My Mom’s 1960s Wedding Dress And It Was Perfect For Our Backyard Ceremony
I’m So Excited About My Wedding Dress, I Feel Like A Fairy
We asked Kat what she considers a wedding outfit that is truly different. “Of course, there's the more obvious things like going to something that isn't white, or is an unusual, more fashion-forward cut,” Kat says. “But I think accessories can really make or break a bridal look too. You can take the most traditional ivory dress and really make it your own with a statement shoe, jackets, belts, gloves and your jewelry choices.”
Traditional Wedding Of A British-Ghanaian Couple In London
They both are! But I do love that it looks like she's looking directly into the camera just to say "yes he is, and yes he's mine!" 😁
Load More Replies...I like how colorful it is. It looks so happy and frolicking, much more than a regular white dress
My Colorful Wedding Dress. Fabric From Ghana, Dress Custom-Made In Kenya
I love how the crown echoes the acacia bushes of the landscape! This is beautiful!
Me too. I would love to learn more about them. I know that some of them from the past can be used as historical documents because there is so much local information woven into them in the weaves and symbols. Absolutely fascinating!
Load More Replies...Beautiful! Would have loved to see her closer by though, that crown is amazing
My Green "Wedding" Dress. Don’t Let Anyone Tell You What To Do - Do You With Your Wedding
She looks like she could be on the cover of those historical romance novels about being swept of your feet by a highlander or a viking warrior.
Well said! Remember, tradition is just peer pressure from dead people...according to the book Fangs for Nothing! :)
There’s a reason why more and more people opt to have non-conventional weddings. “These days couples want their wedding to be a reflection of them more than ever,” Kat explains. “It’s not about blindly following tradition or trying to 'keep up with the Joneses' anymore. The modern couple want a day that is unique and will make people go ‘wow.’ This will, of course, extend to what they choose to wear too.”
Wedding Dress With Gold-Work Embroidery
This is actually an example of a traditional Circassian wedding dress. Go look them up, the wedding gown style is gorgeous and they are a little-known ethnic group.
Also known as Black Dutch. It's a really interesting culture!
Load More Replies...Black Wedding Dress
My Mother (The Sewing Queen) And My Mother-In-Law (The Crochet Queen) Made My Wedding Dress
There’s also no denying people want to share their special day on the internet. “Social media has a huge part to play in this as well, as people are posting their weddings on TikTok in particular and going viral more easily than ever,” Kate acknowledges.
Traditional Slay: Bridal Attire Of The Fulani Women, West Africa
Wow. Every single bride here, is simply gorgeous, regardless of the wedding dress 💙
What beautiful ladies you are. And the colour of those dresses - wow!!!
My Totally Non-Traditional Totally Awesome Dress. The Giant Purple Skirt Was Removable For Dancing, Underneath Was A Silk Sheath With Short Mermaid Train
Tie-Dye Wedding Dress
very cleaver idea to dye the bottom in dark, a white wedding dress, at the end of the day it’s chaos
Similar but not identical. Different sleeves and cleavage.
Load More Replies...During her years as an alternative bridal magazine editor and creative director behind bridal photo shoots, Kat has seen her fair share of stunning dresses. Although it’s almost impossible to choose just one, she names the DiDomenico Design rainbow dress as her current favorite. The Lucy Can't Dance's Phoenix gown is one that also caught her attention during last year’s 2023 New York Bridal Week.
I Designed It, And My Mom Made It. I Couldn't Be Happier With The Way My Unconventional Dress Turned Out
Does their house have one long staircase just going up, one even longer coming down, and one more leading nowhere (just for show)?
Load More Replies...I Finally Got The Pictures Back From My Wedding A Few Months Ago And Just Wanted To Share My Non-Traditional Wedding Dress
She looks like an Iris fairy lost in a winter wonderland. 😍
I got married in pink! It was a sort of "ashes of roses", a dusty violet pink. It's such a pretty colour.
Oooo you look like a Disney princess and it goes so well with your hair
Bride In India
If those are henna tattoos on her hands, I can't imagine how much work went into their application. The entire outfit is amazing & the bride is beautiful
Actually when applied by professionals this is done so quickly that you won't believe. The henna( or mehndi as we call it) artists have mastered this art through practice and experience. If I apply such designs it would take me quite some time.
Load More Replies...Beautiful bride. But this is how most North Indian brides dress up as.
The Rock n Roll Bride magazine features a variety of non-traditional bridal looks: from punk to multicultural, from Barbie to Halloween themes – you can find a wide assortment of dresses. Some looks ditch the dress altogether – it’s 2023, women can wear a pantsuit or a jumpsuit to their wedding and look just as fabulous.
Our Super Mario And Rainbow Unicorn Wedding. We Decided To Have Some Fun With Our Wedding Reception. Our Wedding Party Was All In Rainbows Too
Husband looks very happy. Please stop with the negative comments.
Load More Replies...Ghana, West Africa. Ghanaian Weddings Are Famous For Their Colorfulness
Right? Your heart goes straight to "celebrate the joy!" Mode. ❤
Load More Replies...Interesting that in this one and the other Ghanain wedding pictured the bride and groom are wearing the same cloth but worn at 90 degrees, one with the pattern vertical and one horizontal. Is this just coincidence, based on the width of the cloth or of some traditional significance?
I think it's just the way the kente is tied that results in the different direction of the pattern. The man starts with a single piece of cloth over his shoulders and tucks/folds it twice (I think). The woman has one piece of cloth wrapped around as a skirt and then another draped and tucked over the top. The wedding dress here is a more stylised and tailored version of that (I think - any Ghanaians, please correct me!!).
Load More Replies...Lucky To Witness One Of Two Japanese Wedding. This One In Particular Appeared Right Before Me
This will probably be at Itsukushima Shrine. We saw a beautiful traditional Japanese wedding ceremony there too, as almost all visitors will. It is a holy spot for Shinto and very popular for weddings.
You can find weddings happening at lots of shrines. This one was taken at Meiji Shrine. Itsukushima is actually pretty inconvenient because of the ferry situation and all the tourists 😅
Load More Replies...My husband (Japanese) and I did not have a shrine wedding but we did get a full wedding package photoshoot in Osaka, so I have photos of us together in formal kimono. The photographer was so enthusiastic and the experience was very special. When we got married in the UK we wore traditional Western garb, but my mum made my dress from Japanese satin patterned with traditional asanoha pattern, and for the garden party I wore a yellow kimono.
The idea is not that world-shattering or particularly new. “Consider alternatives such as a jumpsuit, a matching top and pant set, or something a bit bolder like a colorful wedding dress or even a black dress," Alicia Lloyd told Brides.
"A traditional white wedding gown is not for everyone, and I always encourage clients to choose something that will make them feel their most confident and showcase who they are on their big day."
My Custom Dress Is Ready. Can't Wait To Try It On
Stunning dress...not sure if I see it as a wedding dress! But gorgeous.
I Made A Non-Traditional Wedding Dress
I love love love that all the bridesmaids are in white, that is a confident bride🧡
Gorgeous! Like a fountain of gold wrapped around you and pooling beautifully at your feet!
My Photos Finally Came Back. This Is Me And My Best Friend Since We Were Toddlers
Ha, started watching Wednesday last week so I get the reference which I wouldn't have because I have not seen the movie(s).
Load More Replies...Are they both brides, or is the lady in black a bridesmaid/matron of honour? Not important really, they both look great.
The one wearing black is her best friend. Her spouse is a man.
Load More Replies...Lol I thought the flower arrangement on the wooden arc thing was the brides head attire
Bespoke Bride also offers some tips and ideas on how to make your wedding dress stand out. They advise ditching the usual neck accessories and going with a back necklace. It’s not as bold as usual jewelry, but still eye-catching enough. It’s a great way to complement a strapless or an open-back dress.
My Dream Wedding Dress
The amount of work that must have gone into this is just as amazing as the result!
I was looking at all the details and could have sworn there was a bag of wavy potato chips laying there.
Load More Replies...My Pakistani Wedding Back In May
Interesting that the top picture from this article is of two women at their wedding in suits looking very serious (and stunning) and nobody said they look unhappy. But a Pakistani couple has to be unhappy if they're not giggling in photos.
Load More Replies...Weird comments on the facial expressions. Smiling in photos is a relatively recent change anyway, but like... let people enjoy having the photos they love.
What a beautiful couple, it's almost hard to imagine this isn't out of a movie.
It's just one photo out of dozens. It's weird to judge people's state of mind based on how they're posing for photographs.
Load More Replies...Just Had To Share My Dress. Wish I Could Wear It Every Day
mazeltov ! it is in the Jewish religion that one breaks a glass with the foot at his marriage? and I do not know why ?
No this one is my favorite...I am now certain I do not want a traditional dress
Thought that was a puppy under your train! Anyway, dress is really beautiful!
Ombre is everywhere these days. Hoodies, hair – even wedding dresses can be dyed that way! It’s a great choice for a wedding that’s less formal than usual. The length of the ombre effect depends on the person.
For a subtle look, tip-dyeing is the perfect choice. But for more fearless and adventure-seeking brides, Bespoke Bride suggests starting the ombre effect from the top of the bodice and finishing with a bold color at the hemline.
Photos From My Winter Wedding In Teuta Matoshi Dress
If you are thinking of getting a non-white dress trust me you won't regret it! I was anxious at first but once I had the dress I selected the color palette to work around it and it all fell into place so well!
The dress is from Teuta Matoshi, I did the custom sizing and it was a perfect fit, the only alteration needed was the length (too long). They even did some customization to the dress for no extra cost, like adding a modesty panel to the corseted back and making my husband a pocket square that we didn't end up using. Would definitely recommend buying from them.
We Did It
I love a short wedding dress, possibly because I know I’d trip over a long one!
My SIL wore a tea length dress and it was gorgeous!
Load More Replies...Traditional Wedding Dress Of North Caucasian People. It Was Heavy And Very Beautiful
Would it be wrong for someone of a different culture to wear a similar dress?
No why? Because of cultural appropriation? Cultures have always borrowed customs, religions and language from each other. No culture exists in a vacuum.
Load More Replies...How can I purchase this style of gown?! I'm in love with the circassian dresses but I can't find them anywhere
It's also rather expensive if done traditionally: the belt and the hooks of the bodice were gold for rich people, and silver for not quite so rich ones. They came as a set and were often given to a young girl as a gift.
“Traditional” does not only mean a white wedding dress. Dresses from other cultures also fall into this category. We’ve covered what traditional wedding dresses from around the world look like before.
Generally, it’s the wedding looks featuring something outside of the conventional Western white-adjacent gowns. They can be colorful, include lots of intricate accessories and, in some cases, even face painting and decorating.
Our Gothic Queen Katie Looking Stunning In Her Bespoke Charcoal And Slate Grey Gown
Relax, ladies, this looks like fake fur. Going to keep this idea! Love the couple’s outfits.
My Wedding Dress
By far my biggest dye project. Rit dye on pure silk chiffon and then hand-dyed opals to sew on the said dress (rit again) looked so good in the sunlight and I love how it turned out. Thanks heap for your advice over the past 2 years.
If you can't say something nice, please don't say anything at all. No one is interested in your negativity.
Load More Replies...Ordos-Style Mongolian Wedding Head-Dress
Please Excuse My Messy House, But My Custom Black Wedding Dress Came In The Mail Today. I Can’t Wait For My Fiancé To See It, So I Had To Share It Somewhere
Stunning and you can see from her home in the background how it suits her personality
Traditional Style Of Bride Dress In Takasuda
I love seeing the wedding attire from different cultures on this thread! Stunning!
This couple look almost unreal. Both of them are so perfect. Beautiful.
I Crocheted My Own Wedding Dress. 21 Days, 121 Hours, 79,000+ Stitches
Found My Indian Wedding Dress! It Was The Most Sparkly Outfit They Had In The Store
I'm having a severe bout of ADOS > Attention Deficit Oh Sparkles!
Cracking up at the ADOS 😂 I'm using that at work today!
Load More Replies...Update On The Grey/Blue Dress: Got Married
Halloween Wedding. Under 10k. Who Says You Can't Have Creepy, Cheap And Nice Things?
That's a bit rude! Not every bride can have conventional good looks.
Load More Replies...I really wanted a Halloween wedding, but my husband's ex got married on Halloween and he didn't want to jinx us. We ended up just going to the courthouse (3rd time for each of us) I wore black palazzo pants and a paisley printed v-neck top in shades of pink & black. It wasn't until we looked at the pictures that I realized it was the same outfit I had worn to my Dad's memorial service. I guess in a way he was with us after all.
Something A Little Different, My Modern Cheongsam, A Traditional Chinese Wedding Dress, That I'll Be Wearing Down The Aisle
Gorgeous! I've always thought cheongsams were/are beautiful pieces of clothing, and yours makes me fall in love with them all over again!
My Unconventional Wedding Dress, I Seriously Love The Train
If I had the figure and the man, and the desire to get married, I would totally pick this dress!
I Got To Go To A Traditional Korean Wedding Today At The House Of Changwon
Said Yes To The Red Dress
An Unconventional Wedding For An Unconventional Couple. We Got Married 11 Days Ago And It's Been Amazing So Far
That is by far my favorite shade of blue, and this just so happens to be my favorite dress on the list!
I'm not really a fan of dresses, but even I might wear something like this!
Black Wedding Dress Is The Move. So Happy In Love With My Metal Man
Looks more dark blue than black to me, but still gorgeous, whatever the colour!
Full Moon Union Under The Blue Moon Of All Hallows’ Eve
All hallow's eve is the Catholic name for Halloween. It was originally called that and the point of the holiday was to dress up to scare away demons before All Saint's day, which is November 1st :)
I don't know how to put it in words but I feel like these two came out of a fantasy t.v show as the millennium old Wiccan couple known for practicing the old ways, hearing whispers from the trees they'd come out of their hidden grotto and scry for the protagonist to help them find the tools to defeat the greatest evil the world has ever known.
I Was Set On A Green Dress, And I Am So Thrilled With The Choice I Made
I Found My Dress! Not Your Typical Wedding Dress But I’m Getting Married In Southern Germany So Why Not
As far as I can tell from the picture, those are wool socks. Therefore, it would be accurate :) The socks could also go as high up as the knee ;) I also live in South Germany, and getting married in a Dirndl or wearing one as a guest is pretty common here.
Load More Replies...Er, they try not to use that word nowadays - it has connotations with er . . . ladies of negotiable affection.
Load More Replies...Isn’t that a barmaid costume? Shouldn’t she be double fisted serving mugs of beer at Oktoberfest? No shade on the dress, she looks great and happy, I’m seriously curious but not enough to take the effort to look it up lol
My Dream Dress
Awww her smile says it all,,,, probably dreamt about this dress since she was a child.
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The Black Wedding Gown And A Matching Bat Veil I Made For My Friend's Halloween Wedding
I love everything about this! Her joy is precious, and that smile is absolutely adorable.
We Got Tired Of Postponing So My Dad Married Us In His Backyard With My Siblings Still In Their Pajamas On Christmas Morning
It was a team effort and only cost us around $300. Not what we had dreamed about, but it was perfect for us.
Black Wedding Dress. I Thought I'd Share A Different Dress Approach
I Saw This Dress As An Ad, And Haven’t Been Able To Shake It From My Mind. I Ordered It When It Went On Sale And Burst Into Tears When I Put It On
Not traditional, but the only one for me.
Any Ideas What Bridesmaids' Dress Color Should Fit To This Wedding Dress?
My Wedding Dress Came In Today And I Truly Could Not Be Any Happier With It. I’m So In Love
Just Wanted To Show Off My Dress From My My Wedding Inspired By Harry Potter. Can You Guess What House I’m In?
This Is A Sign For You To Get A Colorful Wedding Dress. 2 Years On, I Still Can't Imagine A Better Dress On Me
These are all my least favourite colours and I still think it looks amazing!
Said Yes To This For My Indian Wedding Ceremony
Just Wanted To Share My Wedding Veil With You All
It’s lovely. Why did you put the Jurassic Park theme on it tho? >.>
Is that what it is?? I don't read music but was intrigued!!
Load More Replies...Absolutely Thrilled With My Pink Dress
We Did The Damn Thing! $6700 Micro Wedding. Dress, Boa, And Earrings $800 (I Used Shoes From My Closet, Hemmed The Dress Myself)
$6700 doesn’t sound that micro to me, my whole wedding was less than £1500 and I thought that was a lot!
Mine was about $1000 (Canadian) and that included a new digital camera for someone to take pictures for us! Got my wedding dress at a yard sale (never worn) for $20.
Load More Replies...Being a plus sized bride in the early 80's I couldn't find a dress in my town and I wasn't willing to go to the big city (St. Louis). I ordered one from JCP but it was still to small. I had the good fortune to find a German tailor, she was classified as such. Wonderful lady. She took elements from the JCP dress and a pattern. It was totally unique and wonderful. I spent a total of $300.00. That was fabric and her work. I invited her to the wedding as a guest and she fixed A few snags in the bridal parties dresses. I still have the dress, trying to decide if I should donate it or sell it. Any comments?
Fiber Optic Wedding Dress
My Fun, Unconventional Wedding Dress
My Pale Blue Dress For Our Outdoor Wedding
Finally Posting My Vintage Pink Silk Butterfly Kimono Dress
I Wanted Color, And Fell In Love With This Chotronette Couture Dress. Some HOA Found A Veil In The Exact Shade Of Champagne As The Bodice
My Very Non-Traditional Dress
Rainbow Wedding Dress
*squeals* It’s a good thing this was at the end of the list when I read it because if I got any more excited I’d probably have a heart attack. But seriously I want this dress, I’ll just wear it to work, no marriage needed.
We Did It
now THIS is different :-D not my thing but i love it ! Bonuspoints for the shoe-dress combo
Found My Black Wedding Dress. Strike Bridal Bar In Milwaukee. Studio Levana
Our First Anniversary Is Coming Up, So I Wanted To Share My Unconventional Pink Dress From Fairy Tong London
We Got Our Dream Halloween/Black Dress Wedding
It's Accidentally Giving Brandy Cinderella
Time For The Longest Of Naps
The traditional dresses from other countries aren't different in those countries
So many beautiful dresses worn by people expressing their individuality. No need to follow the original influencer, Queen Victoria, who started this trend.
Sigh. I wish I had been more adventurous when I got married or that I could get married again (to the same guy of course).
This Saturday i was guest at a Vietnamese wedding (16th september) and was wearing my traditional Greenlandic Inuit Formal attire .. but it got really really hot at the reception, so i changed to a black shirt with a red tie. The grooms brother didn't recognize me and was giving me the evil eye (they look very much alike) .. he approached me with a "you don't belong here" look in his eyes .. me thinking quick asked "so, you're the younger or older brother to (grooms name)?"
The traditional dresses from other countries aren't different in those countries
So many beautiful dresses worn by people expressing their individuality. No need to follow the original influencer, Queen Victoria, who started this trend.
Sigh. I wish I had been more adventurous when I got married or that I could get married again (to the same guy of course).
This Saturday i was guest at a Vietnamese wedding (16th september) and was wearing my traditional Greenlandic Inuit Formal attire .. but it got really really hot at the reception, so i changed to a black shirt with a red tie. The grooms brother didn't recognize me and was giving me the evil eye (they look very much alike) .. he approached me with a "you don't belong here" look in his eyes .. me thinking quick asked "so, you're the younger or older brother to (grooms name)?"
