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It’s no secret that the trope of creepiness is usually assigned to men. Catcalling on the streets, unsolicited touching at bars, not taking no for an answer—women indeed had their fair share of uncomfortable encounters with the opposite sex. 

However, to be truly equal, we have to admit that women can be scary too. Recently, men proved this by sharing the creepy things ladies have done or said to them. From proudly declaring they’re crazy to showcasing their stalking abilities, scroll down to find the most bizarre stories where women frightened men and not vice versa.

#1

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I don’t get creeped out, because I’m not overly sensitive and not much worries me in general.

That said, the thing that annoys me lately is more about word choice. It seems lately that (mostly women) are using (or misusing) quasi technical terms related to psychological or social issues in order to lend a bit more authority to whatever it is they’re saying.

So instead of “my colleague acted like a douchebag and she left me feeling annoyed” they’ll offer “my colleague is a toxic narcissist and her abuse has left me with trauma”.

On the one hand it’s just a dumb trend, but on the other hand those words actually do have real use for people experiencing actual (diagnosed) psychological issues or abuse, and throwing the terms around devalues the currency of the words for people who might really need them.

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#2

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Bunch of moms staring at highschool boys swimming and comment on how hot they are. Non stop leering. I can't imagine how they would have acted if there were dads looking at girls that way.

flyingduck33 , ShotPot / pexels Report

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#3

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men When they say “I have no filter.” - this always translates to me, I’m a cow and arrogant. Everyone has a filter, you’re just an a*sehole.

jezr74 , Karolina Grabowska / pexels Report

Even though we've been describing people as creepy for some time, there was no science to help us understand it—that is, until 2016, when Francis McAndrew and Sara Koehnke of Knox College in Illinois published the first empirical study on the subject, wanting to better understand this difficult concept.

"Creepiness is all about not being able to figure out whether there is a threat,” explained McAndrew, professor of psychology and author of the study. 

#4

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men When I was an Uber driver, I’d sometimes get a car full of girls say something like “You’re not gonna k*ll us, are you?”. I started replying with “Nah. When you’re as good at it as I am - you don’t do it for free.”

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#5

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I got approached by a woman at my friend’s birthday party. This woman was mid 50’s and I was 40 at the time. She is married with an adult daughter who was there. She approached me and said I was attractive and I thanked her. She proceeded to continue to hit on me and then commented on my pecs and grabbed them. I took a step back and she saw the disgust in my face. She was offended I didn’t want her touching me. She then got loud and made a scene making me look like the a*****e, all I wanted was to hang out with my friends and not be harassed. Women think they can get away with it because all guys want sex, but when they get denied it’s our fault.

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#6

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I’ve actually heard a couple women say, “If you can’t take me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.”

Thanks for making the red flag so obvious, much appreciated.

iamthemosin , Matej Simko / pexels Report

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The research concluded that people 'detect' creepiness when they encounter something unpredictable or outside the norm, like a person acting strangely, having an unusual physical appearance, or over- or under-expressing their emotions.

The most common characteristics of a creepy person as rated by the participants in the study were:

  • The person stood too close to your friend.
  • The person was dressed oddly.
  • The person licked his or her lips frequently.
  • The person laughed at unpredictable times.
  • The person steered the conversation towards one topic.

They also indicated certain professions they deemed more offsetting than others. A clown, taxidermist, sex shop owner, and funeral director were rated highest on the creepiness scale. Meanwhile, the meteorologist's occupation evoked the most positive associations.

#7

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men A woman I dated not only said but also had a fridge magnet with the phrase:

"If I'm not happy, no one else will be."

I first thought it was a darkly humorous little trinket.

Dear reader, it really, really wasn't.

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#8

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men A girl once tried to seduce me with the immortal words "I'm as smooth down there as a 4-year-old". This was almost 20 years ago and to this day I just can't even.

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#9

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Some lady I worked with once touched my stomach and asked me when I’m due. If the situation would have been reversed, I would have been fired.

MontrealInTexas , Towfiqu barbhuiya / pexels Report

#10

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men "I want a gay best friend"

No, I'm not a f*****g accessory.

MarsNirgal , Anete Lusina / pexels Report

#11

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men "Can I touch your beard" and proceeding to do so without waiting for an answer. Unless you're my wife or one of my kid nieces the answer is no by the way.

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#12

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men “You’re well trained” whenever they see me do dishes, vacuum or laundy. Like I‘ve been trained as some manservant or they just expect husbands to be another child.

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#13

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Here's a tip: Asking a man what he has under his kilt is just as bad as asking a woman if she's wearing anything under her skirt. Even worse are the women who feel entitled to *check*. Hasn't happened to me, thankfully, but fellow kilt wearers have had pretty bad encounters before.

 
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Women asking me "ohh what's under your kilt?" to which I reply "my wifey's best friend" or "a perch for 8 golden eagles". it usually ends there.

honestly tho its mostly dudes who ask to which i say: "why is it always men who wanna know" and it usually ends there.

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#14

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men This is kinda specific to me and those in my situation, but I share the last name of a famous serial killer (VERY distantly related). some women get waaaaay to excited when they find out. The amount of true crime fans who ask me on a date/said yes when I asked because of that has meant I literally have taken it off facebook and don't tell people at first. Even a few months in Ive gotten 'haha lol I only dated you cause it would be wild to be Mrs serial killer'. Its creepy, it makes me feel worthless and yes, I know EVERY DETAIL of what he did, because of course I do everyone sends me the link anytime there is a new doco out. Please don't add my last name to your FB just cause we are dating. No I wont f**k you while we watch a doco on him. Special shout out to women in psych 101.

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#15

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I don’t know about “women” but I had a female manager interviewing me for a job telling me they were PRO sexual harassment at the workplace, wink wink, nudge nudge. I was…22? She was 50, easily.

That f*****g sucked.

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#16

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I’m bald, and was the only man who worked a front facing position at a local clinic in a town with an aging population. The older/elderly women constantly wanted to rub my head, or be very inappropriate in general when speaking to me. The women in the office laughed about it until I pointed out how I would always step in and cover for them or drive off the creepy guys for them, and this was no different. Don’t get me wrong, the creepy men said and did far worse things to those women than the old women ever did/said to me, but they still made me uncomfortable. Last year or so I was there they started helping me hide from the worst of the harassment. That was nice.

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#17

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Me and a date making out in a dark parking lot at night. Girl - starts laughing Me - what's funny? Girl - It's just that, if I were to call the police and tell them you sexually assaulted me right now, there's not much you can do to prove you're innocent. I'm a cute, white, tiny German girl, and you are a big, mean looking, medium dark skinned American man. You'd be screwed. Me - huh, yeah... Guess you're right.

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ThisIsMyDisplayName
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5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, what's really creepy is that she's 100% correct and thinks it's funny - like "I could use systemic societal racism to wreck your life, lulz". Creepy and deranged.

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BWC
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I left a woman that threatened me with that one evening. Moved out the next day.

BoredPossum
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well done! Get as far away from people like that as you can. If they get mad and it is serious, you never know what they'll do. Or, live somewhere where racism isn't as systemic. If there is such a place left in our insane world.

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RedRose
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thanks for the red hot, on fire flag of what life with you will be

Lea S.
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have an enemy who took this approach with a male friend of mine. It got to the point where she was beating him and he was so lost he didn't know how to even begin to get out of it. His physical appearance was very intimidating (he's a teddy bear) and she always had him convinced he'd be the one in trouble. F**k girls who think this is okay or funny.

Riley Quinn
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Little does she know that her cute little pre-sex chatter has negative consequences for every girl and woman who really is being sexually assaulted.

Norman Yenney
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

🚩 Massive red flag 🚩 anyone? Once back in view of other people (witnesses), I'd haul a*s outa there & BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK! 😲🚩

KnightOwl
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5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reminds me of the time a friend set me up with a guy on a night out partying, he pulled me into a field away from everyone, grabbed me in a tight hug and forcibly kissed me and then whispered 'if I raped you right now, would you tell anyone?' In a weird creepy baby voice. I shouted yes, kicked him in the privates and pushed him away before running back to my friends, none of them believed me 😡 so I went home and refused to speak to any of them ever again. I just hope he never actually did it to anyone else. Hopefully this person did the same thing. Never let people away with this type of stuff, you never know where it could lead.

Valek Fermiga
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't " upvote " your comment because it's so disgusting, on so many levels - especially your " friends " not believing you, that's just wrong, I can't begin to understand what that was like for you, I hope you're doing as well as you can now....

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SirWriteALot
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

me - Oh, dang, I forgot I have to hand in a paper tomorrow. Sorry, bye.

Pittsburgh rare
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope. Time to exit the car and call her an Uber. I'm a woman and l'm thinking all the ways this could go south for him, better safe than sorry. I don't quite get tho why she thought it was funny.

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Sophia L.
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband is a foreigner. We were having a conversation and I said "If we were to ever get divorced, I could easily take everything from you (not that we have much) and keep our daughter away from you, just because I am a woman and (local). I h8 that."

SkippityBoppityBoo
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate females like this on so many levels. I've had two male friends, who aren't white, have similar experiences. First of all even falsely claiming SA or r*pe? You're making a LOT harder for those who legitimately have been to be believed. Even in court, if it ever gets to court. Secondly, little "defenceless" White Girl? God forbid you ever actually ARE attacked? Do you think anyone is going to believe you if you've a history of Crying Wolf?

ZuriLovesYou
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope you got outta there and cut all ties with that monster!

Katie Lutesinger
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For some reason this made me think of an historic anecdote about how one day Emperor Caligula suddenly burst out laughing and when asked why he said "I just realised that if I wanted to I could have you all killed on the spot!"

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Hidari
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet that killed the mood and there was making out no more.

Gabriel Sbárbaro
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is really terrifying, and worst thing is that she's 100% right... any women can report any man for abuse or r*pe and they will take the guy to jail automatically... I even heard of cases where the guy could prove he wasn't even near the woman who accuse them at the time of the supposed attack but they were jailed anyway... Not to mention all the cases where a man actually spent months or years in jail only for the woman later confess that she made up the whole story... It's infuriating...

Lama
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2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then again, you're a tiny thing alone with a big man in a underground parking. My money on him

Gypsy Lee
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The world “Girl” should be a clue. Don’t waste time with immature people. Next time make out with a woman. And for her part- are you insane?-! What level of witch does this?-! Unacceptable. Every time.

amy harvey
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope at the end they never see each other again, that went too far

Doctor Strange
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had a girl develop an obssession on myself and a friend. He lived closer, so she started stalking him. Threatened to accuse him of rape if he didn't sleep with her.

Bgray450
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Horrible. We're all just going to have to take live webcams on our bodies wherever we go now.

Argle Bargle
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5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's about when I turn on my phone, or come back with, "yes, and no one would know what happened to you when they find you in various parts of the country"

Daggie_style
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My response would be "well if I'm going to get charged anyway"!

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Then she proceeded to mount him while holding a switchblade to his throat.

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#18

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Using the word "Daddy", or "Baby".

I get that some people like it, but man.. not everyone does.

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#19

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Bragging about how proficient they are at stalking people on social media. It’s creepy af.

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#20

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Anything done in baby talk.

FallenRadish , Polina Zimmerman / pexels Report

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#21

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men When they proudly say they are crazy and want a guy who can handle that.

Yeah, there is nothing okay about being proud of that and they should seriously consider getting help if they legitimately think they are unstable. There is too much liability being affiliated with a woman like this.

mrtzjam , Andrea Piacquadio / pexels Report

#22

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men "Can you still get it up" like f**k you! This is the equivalent of a man asking a woman if she is tight or still gets wet.

FuckYoCouch2023 , Tima Miroshnichenko / pexels Report

#23

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Talking about how a young or infant boy is gonna be sexy or a ladies man. Like you seriously sound like a creep and I’m being polite by using creep. Once while waiting tables, another server wrapped her arms around my neck, stared into my eyes, and said, “is it bad that I want to f**k someone besides my boyfriend?” Like what in every hell.

Ksammy33 , Anna Shvets / pexels Report

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#24

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men “You should smile more” followed by a touch, wink or giggle. Yes females do that s**t too and yes it’s just as creepy.

soiledsanchez , Mwabonje Ringa / pexels Report

#25

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I was bartending and there was a hen party who's challenge in their game was to kiss the bartender. I said ok as long as it was on the cheek and turn my head, but she woman grabbed my face and tried to kiss me on the lips.

Had to walk away and tell them I wouldn't be serving them and all they could say was "aww come on don't be frigid, you know you want to"

Cyanide_Revolver , Ertuğrul Akcaba / pexels Report

#26

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Happy wife, happy life. No b***h it’s not only about you.

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#27

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men My arms are heavily tattooed. Women will often say, “can I see your tattoos?” and then immediately start touching them. I have some pretty obvious self-harm scars on my forearms, so it’s super embarrassing and always makes me really uncomfortable. I know I have my own blame in the situation, but yeah— not a fan.

PermaBanTogether , Ralph Rabago / pexels Report

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#28

My aunt kissed me on the lips when I was a teenager. I said no. She didn't care I hated it then. I still hate it now.

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#29

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men To "man up" when all you're trying to do is chill.

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#30

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I worked in an elementary school for many years and the amount of female teachers who openly talk about how "cute" the boys are or how they will be "total heartbreakers" was foul.

Gymteacher88 , Anastasia Shuraeva / pexels Report

#31

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men “Don’t throw the condom in the toilet. Don't worry I won’t go fish it out of the trash hahaha.” I get from a plumbing standpoint why you want it in the trash, but once you add the second part…

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#32

As a boy who looked 19 at the age of 14, the number of women who have casually laughed off hitting on me and turned it into “come see me when you turn 18” (again while I’m 14) is a bit much.

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#33

Is it true what they say about Mexican d**k?

Thay we don't give it to ugly bitches? Sure is. Sorry.

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#34

Not something said, but when I worked at a cafe for a bit, the accountant for the cafe pat me on the a*s and called me cutie. None of the owners saw, but customers and co workers saw.

When I talked to the owners, the accountant was told to apologize and instead she said it was meant to be endearing and tbh how quickly it was let slide was 100% disturbing

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#35

I've had women in the workplace (I was 21, they were 23-33) very openly speculate about my sex life in front of me or comment about my (visible and clothed, or hypothesized) anatomy. I'm comfortable with my body because it does look good and I'm very nicely endowed, what I'm really not comfortable with is people I'm not f*****g trying to discuss it with me or other people especially while I'm in the room.

That was the first time I was sexually harassed in the workplace. The second time was when I was working at a summer camp. I usually took my hour long break in my on-site dorm room because it was a 3 minute walk, I could sit on my bed and listen to a podcast, get some nicotine in my system, and walk back refreshed. Woman who was my supervisor was randomly showering around noonish (very, very weird for her, I hadn't bumped into her or anyone else there ever before during the day, and she was on the wrong floor for the women's showers). Saw her walking around the corner in a towel and to be polite and let there not be any room for misunderstanding, I covered my eyes completely and averted my head toward the ceiling. As I walked past her she kept telling me to "take a look" and taunting with "I know you want to", and as much as I said "No thanks, I'm good!", she kept pushing the issue and I finally let out a "I'm REALLY, REALLY not interested in looking at you" and made a bee-line back to my room to attempt to enjoy the remaining part of my break. I reported it to her supervisor and his supervisor, and essentially nothing happened but she repeatedly spent that summer and the following summer trying to retaliate against me. I loved that job but never worked there again and never will because they let her stay on payroll.

I've had similar things happen outside the workplace. I'm happily married, I don't watch porn, never have watched porn, I've got a healthy sex drive that I laser focus onto the love of my life. The insistence (often communicated in an angry and accusatory way) that I'm simultaneously, just because I'm a man, some kind of endlessly horny animal (and if I'm not I'm somehow lesser of a man or sexual being) f*****g sucks. I love looking at, loving, and f*****g my sexy wife, it's not that weird.

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#36

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Not that all women are like this, but I’m concerned for the women that talk about the healing powers of crystals bought from Esty.

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#37

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men If only I were 20 years younger...

2_alarm_chili:

I got this all the time when I worked food service at a hospital. It was really creepy when it was said in an elevator that was notorious for getting stuck for long periods of time.

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#38

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I have large hands ring finger size is 16 and I had a lady tell me once that I had sausage fingers and that she wanted to sit on them.

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#39

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Was in a bar. A girl comes up to me and asks if she could feel the size of my penis; I'm pretty tall so I get it a lot.

What confuses me to this day is that it was in front of her boyfriend.

Abysskitten , Tima Miroshnichenko / pexels Report

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#40

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men "I'm on birth control, we don't need to use condoms."

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