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Convincing someone you’re right is all about confidence. If you fake it, you’ll make it, right? R-right? Having bucketloads of confidence is great (and certainly dramatic), however, it’s never enough in isolation… especially if you’re just plain wrong and everyone around you knows it.

Being direct. Looking assured. Feeling unwavering and braver than Braveheart—these are all wonderful qualities to have, but without other substantial things to back it up, it’s all just bravado without the bite. And darn it if it isn’t entertaining as heck to watch!

We’re not the only ones to think so. In fact, that’s why the ‘Confidently Incorrect’ subreddit, with over 404k members, exists. Their community is built around poking fun at people who are chock full of confidence but get deflated the moment someone with an ounce of logic and common sense chimes in. There’s plenty of facepalm moments waiting for you, so get scrolling and upvoting your fave pics. Remember to visit the r/confidentlyincorrect community if you like their stuff!

Bored Panda interviewed the creator of the subreddit, redditor ShadowAlchemy. Read on for what they told us about how the community started and got popular, as well as for their thoughts about to what extent confidence is important in real life and what we should do if we ever find ourselves to be confidently incorrect.

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The ‘Confidently Incorrect’ subreddit has been growing by leaps and bounds. Created just over a year ago, in January 2020, they’re continuing to provide awesome content that keeps us humble. (And it’s a gentle reminder to double and triple-check even facts that we’re completely sure about.)

ShadowAlchemy told Bored Panda that they founded the 'Confidently Incorrect' subreddit "on a whim" just over a year ago. "Someone posted a video of Conan interviewing Jennifer Garner to another subreddit called r/WatchPeopleDieInside. I scrolled through the comments and saw someone who thought stuff like that would make a great community of its own. It was super late at night when I saw that, so I made a subreddit really quick for no reason, posted a video or two, then went to bed."

But what ShadowAlchemy couldn't foresee was how quickly the subreddit went viral. They woke up to see a huge surprise. "I wake up with probably 1,000 or so notifications, apparently the sub had blown up overnight! Tons of people were talking about the ridiculously fast growth of the sub, I think we got around 30k members in our first day. It was super popular its first week, and its growth died down a bit after that. We've been on a steady increase ever since. We just hit 400k members, actually!" the founder shared their joy.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Twice an idiot in the span of two statements. That is impressive.

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In ShadowAlchemy's opinion, confidence is "an incredibly important" part of our personalities. "Without confidence, we're nothing. Confidence is what gets us out of bed, what gets us out the door to face life. People definitely listen to those who show confidence,"

The founder told Bored Panda that we don't have to look far to see the vital role confidence plays in our lives. "Just look at politics. Politicians are probably some of the most confident people on the planet, and a pretty large amount of people just listen to what they say. Our sub is probably 75-80% politics. It's people parroting what they've heard their favorite politicians say, and they parrot it because they believe those politicians. They believe that confidence."

They added, "No one's gonna listen to a shy person with all the facts."

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People like this make me see absolute—-and out of character—-blood red. Anyone who would defend a man, who not only molested underage girls himself, but also procured them, through lies, trickery, coercion, or or types of manipulation, to “give” them to his wealthy friends, IS definitely fuccked up himself. That person needs to be picked up and put in a soundproof room by themselves. Then any of the parents of Epstein’s victims—-or the victims themselves if so inclined—-can grab a Louisville Slugger and have five minutes alone. No phones, no cameras, no recording devices. Just a tight knit and tight lipped group of helpers.

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Cara Kelly
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I dont think the original poster should have their name blocked out

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Potato
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Especially if they posted with a public account. Let them stand by their statement.

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Tabitha L
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This kind of gotcha "logic" is insane. A child can be smart. And have good ideas. Children are valuable members of society. But they are CHILDREN. Ffs.

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Flora Endebez
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was just talking to my mom about how teachers always expect me and other "advanced" students to be more mature. Bruh we're just smarter

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Christopher Walkies
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Not even being provocative"... What are they like when they are being provocative?

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WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How come conservatives have such extremely perverted trains of thought? If you really want a good read try finding the "Republican Party Rape Advisory Chart" reps-on-ra...2ed525.jpg reps-on-rape-60196412ed525.jpg

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NoodleBear
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m a conservative and I don’t condone rape in the least, it’s disgusting and should NEVER be tolerated

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tuzdayschild
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure about that logic. Is he looking for loopholes or what?

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AlmightyOne
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because there are no laws saying that we can't try to defend our planet while there are several laws preventing you from doing... that to us

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Colin Mochrie At Its Finest
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Time for the FBI to investigate this person who clearly thinks it is OK to have sex with minors.

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Just another bot
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's not provocative, it's the sick reasoning of another paedophile

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Bacony Cakes
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

well clearly your name is false advertising, because you too found the fact the person is a sick b*stard who should be gunned down like an emu.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Someone alert the authorities, this idiots outing himself as a pedo. Testing the waters for his depravity.

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Thom Schlevens
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Not even being provocative..." Narrator: He likes defending adults f***ing minors.

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Requiem
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe hes from a State or Province where the age of majority is 16. I know my province went from 14 to 16. Having it at 14 since the dawn of time was messed up.

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Sasha Kuleshov
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you can't differentiate between maturity and sexual development :I

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Myriam Ickx
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Grown-ups with that mentality should not be allowed to breed. In fat, I am for castration in their case.

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Billy Maguire
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not being provocative?? You have a somewhat imperfect understanding of the concept of provocation, methinks!

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Debbie Lavender
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

‘not even being provocative’ gets a time out in the chair in the corner of the basement. ta.

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Rukkia
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am completely and totally horrified by the implications of this one. What is WRONG with people?

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Susan Widomski
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some of these just make me soooo tired, or I am becoming really old.

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Daniel Taggart
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well 16 is legal in most European countries, as is prostitution in some of them. The legal age of consent in Sweden is 15. Paying for sex is legal in Sweden, but not selling your body for sex. Meaning that if Epstein had paid a 16 yo for sex in Sweden, the country Gretta is from, then he would not have been charged with a crime. So this one actually has a very valid point.

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Sharon Ingram
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What does being a conservative have to do with it? Allegedly all of the predators with Epstein were not conservatives......Hollywood and dems.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As I puke in my mouth... SMDH. I'm actually APPALLED THAT BORED PANDA POSTED / APPROVED THIS! Really ?!?!? WTF. JFC, actually... sick.

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Id row
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is both funny and tragic in how apt the analogy is.

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Samantha Watson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's like condoning a dad doing it with his daughter. DISGUSTING.

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Shull GaRett
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never knew that "conservatives" was a synonimie of "ped***lia" but hey. This world is getting weirder every day

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It’s not, I’m a conservative and I will never condone rape, but people always try to find ways to make conservatives look like terrible people

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Bacony Cakes
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hello yes is this the hazardous environment combat unit i have a possible sighting of gordon freeman please send your artillery shells and osprey helicopters and literally everything else

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, I'm with the OP on this one. It makes no sense that a 16yr old can be a force in global policy. It becomes clear when you consider that it's gross for a grown man to have sex with a 16 yr old. I think the analogy is spot on.

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Huh? Why equate being a conservative to a pedo like Epstein

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Marlowe Fitzpatrik
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But Epstein a) didn't pay the children b) wasn't Swedish or lived in Sweden c) didn't care about consent

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Have these people ever met a conservative? I've never met one that would approve statutory rape.

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3 years ago

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So pedophiles don’t even try to hide themselves anymore. This is why the 2nd amendment needs to stay

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Good argument, bad comparison to choose

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The founder of the sub also had some spot-on advice for anyone who's been confidently incorrect in their lives. And it all starts with openly admitting that you're wrong (both to others and to yourself). "If someone corrects you and they're right, you've just gotta accept it right then and there. Insisting that you're correct is what makes you look like a dumbass, and what makes you remember it for years and years. Nobody wants to be confidently incorrect, but if you are, you've gotta admit it. You've gotta admit that you're wrong."

ShadowAlchemy said that nothing would be possible without the incredibly supportive members and moderators that make up the r/confidentlyincorrect subreddit. "Thanks to all the people who've brought this subreddit up so much, it was quite the surprise for me. Thanks to my mod team for keeping this sub together."

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love it that he was random things like animals and gold showers (gold thank you not golden lol), like who were these women like "damn, that goose is sexy!"

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Some people should really be forced to take anatomy before being allowed to go near any hole.

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There’s a deep sense of shame that we feel when we’ve been outed being wrong even though we thought we were in the right. It’s an embarrassment so powerful, it can still make us flush beet-red and cringe years after it happened.

However, there is a possible upside to this. Research has shown that, counter-intuitively, it’s far easier to correct the errors made by people who are extremely confident that they’re right, compared to correcting the mistakes made by those who have ‘low confidence’ that they’re correct.

This is called the ‘hypercorrection effect’ which essentially means that we’re more likely to remember the correct answer to a question if we’re proven wrong when we’re extremely confident that we actually know the ‘right’ answer. Or, in other words, we remember being shocked at how at odds the truth was with our confidence that we were right.

Of course, there are some nuances like how some high confidence errors can ‘reemerge’ if we’re not tested on our newfound knowledge quickly enough. But on the bright side, being confidently incorrect might just be the best way to retain facts and figures after we make complete buffoons of ourselves online. So go out there and don’t be afraid to fail, dear Readers—your newfound knowledge will stick in your mind like a panda in a bamboo grove.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But he is not homeless. That is where he chooses to live and loves it. Omg I am defending a puppet. Never saw that coming lol.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Both are wrong. This is quite unlike how capitalism is supposed to work, but that doesn't make it communist. Also, communism is not simply a lack of capitalism.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It took me a minute to figure this out. Abilgail is a transwoman and Hot Take Harry is unintentionally being super supportive.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The phrase 'slave-class' is really irksome, like what does she mean?

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He Wasn’t Even Italian, He Was Austrian And Born In Modern Day Croatia. Not To Mention He Was Also An American Citizen At One Point

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So many wrongs. Nikola Tesla is a Croatian Serb (minority group). He lived well into the 20th century (not the 1700s). He is not Nikolai or Nicolas, but Nikola. Ford parts mostly come from the EU + Japan, Venezuela, Canada...

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think they teach geography in US schools... I saw a lot of these things online during the elections

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Serious answer: If you can speak (and make a sound), it means you can exhale. It doesn't mean you can inhale.

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Three Perfect Example. Except For, Not

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plus JKR actually got a grant so she could write HP. Guess where the money came from?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder if these guys stare at the keyboard and poke slowly to make sure they pushed the right keys.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd kinda like the commenter to be right. Because then we could pretend that Marjorie Taylor Greene isn't a congresswoman. But she is.

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1 Kilometre Is Less Than A Mile

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait.. we change color according to the color of the man we marry? How does that work? If I marry several men of different color... do I become a rainbow?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Andy: "Sir, I have three sisters and a fiance, and I'm sure they would agree with me that you've been using your tampons incorrectly the whole time."

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Confidently Incorrect About North America

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this really this common that Americans don't know geography outside USA?

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The President Of The United States, Totally Ignorant Of History That Took Place During His Own Lifetime

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Diamonds Are Heavier Than... Diamonds?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok first diamond isn't a metal (it's carbon) and 1g of diamond is still 1g of diamond ( the old question of which is heavier a tonne of feathers or a tonne of lead)

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An Interesting Way Of Adding Percentages....

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