The 30 Biggest Mistakes Most Tourists Make In Major Cities, As Revealed By People Who Travel A Lot (New Answers)
Traveling is one of the most exciting things we can do on this planet. Seeing the beautiful nature of a different country, embracing another culture, and tasting foods we’ve never had before can all be amazing experiences. The logistics of traveling, however, can be a bit overwhelming. When you’re a tourist who doesn’t know much about the country or city you’re in, it can be easy to make embarrassing mistakes or fall into tourist traps.
Luckily for us, Reddit users have been sharing all of their tips for avoiding common tourist mistakes in their countries, so we’ve gathered a list of some of the best tips to help you be a more informed traveler. Whether it’s a way to save you some money, avoid an awkward interaction or ensure you’re not unintentionally rude, this list has got you covered. Keep reading to also find an interview we were lucky enough to receive from author and creator of the blog The Invisible Tourist, Alyse.
And when you’re finished reading these tips, you can check out even more in Bored Panda’s last article on the same topic right here.
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If you're visiting somewhere like Auschwitz, somewhere that a degree of solemnity is required, don't be a total c*nt. Don't be the school kids that decide to practice a gymnastics routine. Don't be the glitzy tarted up women taking pouty faced selfies in front of the glass cases filled with dead people's belongings. Don't be the d*ck who claims to the polish guide that she'd be speaking German it weren't for his country. Learn a little about history and a lot about decorum before going to a place such as this
I am amazed that this even had to be said. Who are these people?
Load More Replies...In 1992, my college jazz band went to the Netherlands, and we all went to the Anne Frank House in Amsterdam. We were mostly just community college punks, but none of us could shake off the solemnity of the place. We barely spoke for an hour after leaving. If you aren't completely wiped out by just being at Auschwitz, there's something really wrong with you.
I want to cry in such places, forget about eating or taking selfies. How can you know the history and behave in such way?
It took me a very long time to visit Dachau. I made it off the train once, and just couldn't step off the platform. My Humanities department chair at UCF was from Dachau, and told me that I needed to go back. I drove this time, but I started sobbing before we made it through the gates. If I had seen anyone disrespecting the place where such tragedy took place, I am not sure that I would have remained calm.
Load More Replies...Saw an article once about a family who was offended because of an inappropriate Pokemon being at Auschwitz during their tour (to be fair, it was just coincidental but pretty bad). And my first thought was why was someone playing Pokemon Go at Auschwitz? Why would adults do that? Why would parents let their kids do that? Talk about disrespectful.
It was a koffing, the... poison gas pokemon... so yes, it was a bit inappropriate
Load More Replies...Also don’t light up a cigarette in there (can’t believe my dad did that)
There is a whole website an artist did where he photoshopped the selfies people took at Auschwitz. It puts them into perspective but I doubt a lot of people pay attention. Nowadays, more and more people just don't care anymore. All they want are their social media upvotes and likes and they'll do anything to get it. https://www.demilked.com/holocaust-memorial-selfies-yolocaust-shahak-shapira/
First person to selfie should get kicked out with a spiked boot up the caboose.
An interesting thing about people who love traveling is that they often hate being perceived as tourists. They don’t want to “dress like a tourist” or go to the most “touristy spots”, and they’re desperate to look like they fit in (until someone speaks to them and realizes they don’t know the local language). We all know the type of tourist they’re probably imagining: proudly strutting around with a selfie stick in one hand and a map in the other, wearing a t-shirt with the name of whatever country their in splashed across their chest. While this person may sound cringey or embarrassing, is there really anything wrong with that type of tourist? They’re just enjoying their vacation!
But if you’re anything like me, you might be interested in some tips to be a more discreet traveler. I aim to be a tourist who finds myself at lesser known restaurants filled with locals and who researches the culture before going anywhere to try to avoid making a fool out of myself. Does it make any difference? Who knows. But I do love traveling, so I’ll be happy to learn a few tips from this list.
Worst mistake: not learning a little bit about the culture ahead of time so you are not accidentally rude.
this needs to be higher since it works in every country around the world
Imagine if we all tried “not to be rude”, where we would be as a society.
If you learn how to say things like "I'm sorry, I'm a stupid tourist" or "This is my first visit to your country" in their language, that can go a long way. Just don't say it to someone whilst haggling, though.
This! I do think this general principle applies for a lot of situations in life, though. Like, I'm a captioner and took on a pro bono job on very short notice for a Deaf association. Before I went, I learned how to sign "court reporter" and that was enough to make it clear who I was and what I was there for and we bridged the communication gap from there by typing on our phones. People are very willing to overlook a lot of social/language errors if it's also clear that you're putting in an effort.
Load More Replies...Decent people care about decorum. Rude people don't care if they are rude.
They suddenly do when they face grave punishment for something "simple".
Load More Replies...The first thing I try to learn in any language is please, thank-you and "I'm very sorry I don't understand". I've literally had panic attacks about going to other countries and not knowing enough language or culture so I can't imagine rocking up with the shout and point technique.
I have ways said this as well as learn local customs and laws. My uncle went to Amsterdam for business and nearly got a ticket for doing the speed limit. Why? "Because there are too many people walking who are not sober" is what the officer said.
It's not always a good advice. I've seen many tourists making fool of themselves in Japan because they thought they knew the rules. They did not. It just makes the situation awkward. So better be polite and keep a low profile. Locals will be much happier to help someone who doesn't try too hard.
When it comes to international travel, it has been steadily rising since the end of World War II. According to the World Tourism Organization, there were 25 million international tourist visits in 1950, rising all the way up to 1.4 billion in 2018. While there are many factors influencing who is traveling abroad, certain destinations are consistently popular for tourists from all over the world. In 2017, France was the top visited country, racking in 87 million visitors. Of course, almost 70 million of them were from other European nations, but it’s still a popular destination for travelers from the Americas and Asia as well. After France, Spain came in next with 82 million visitors, then the US with 77 million and China with 61 million. Also high on the list were Italy, Mexico, the UK, Germany, Thailand and Turkey. And in terms of where all these visitors are coming from, China provides the most tourism abroad, with over 143 million journeys abroad in 2017. This is not surprising, given the country’s wealth and population, but it’s still an impressive amount of traveling.
Asians leaving their bags unattended in Europe. BIGGEST MOST FREQUENT MISTAKE EVER. Not just because their sh*t gets stolen but also in France every unattended baggage is considered as a bomb terror potential and blocks transportation, sightseeing, or frankly any kind of activities for anyone else there.
I know for a fact in Korea if you leave your bag at a metrostation corner and come back 3 hours later it's still gonna be there, same thing as leaving them at cafes unattended but I swear to God, you do that in France, 5 mins later, poof your sh*ts gone or you're brought to the police station for questioning because you become a suspect terrorist. I cannot stress this enough, DONT LEAVE UR SH*T ALONE IN EUROPE!
Yeah, in the UK, it would be taking out with a controlled demolition:)
Yes, suspicious packages have shut down many train stations but they turn out usually to be a left behind biscuit tin or rucksack full of dirty laundry. Still, can't risk the one that isn't.
Load More Replies...It's not just in France that unattended baggage is considered a terrorist threat, the same is true for many other European countries.
And the U.S.. I doubt they'd allow you on a plane if you did this.
Load More Replies...I've always been wondering about the 'please don't leave your bags unattended' anniuncment and who would be such an idiot. Now, I know it's appparently a cultural difference. Thanks for the info, it makes the announcment a little less maddening.
Well, UK is in Europe. So are Norway, Switzerland and Serbia. I'm relatively sure that this post is true for all of those countries, irrespective of their political affiliations.
Load More Replies...I remember years ago (even before 9/11) I was queueing to go through customs at LaGuardia Airport in New York. And I noticed, to one side, an unattended bag. Checked for 10 minutes or so and no-one claimed it. Now I had grown up in and around London at the height of the IRA bombing campaign and felt I should do something. So I approached a cop and explained about the bag. He glanced at it, then back at me "Yeah, someone musta forgotten it," and walked off. I still remember the shock. Guessing things are different now!
Hmmm I don't disagree about bags at airports and train stations, but if you for example forget your laptop at a cafe or loose your wallet, chances are great that someone will find and take it to the nearest lost snd found or police station. Or it will just stay at the cafe you left it in. If you loose a glove/ necklace or similar items, you might find them on the nearest wall or fence, where you lost them. Just saying
Yes, but the advice -- to not leave belongings with the expectation that they will remain untouched -- is still valid.
Load More Replies...This makes me want to visit some Asian countries. Impressive they don't steal each others stuff. I like that.
Horrific, though, that it's become a way of life for us that if it isn't locked down or hidden away, it's stolen. :(
For families traveling, spread out your packing.
If you are a family of four and bringing two suitcases, spread the clothing for each person between both cases. (IE: Half of each person's clothing should be in one case and half in the other.) That way if one suitcase gets lost, then everyone still has at least half the clothing that they need.
Yup. Always put a little in each other's bag cuz you never know how long it could take for your bag to be found. Our longest was 5 days
Load More Replies...Smart, but saying this as a flight attendant, ALWAYS pack a change of clothes in your carry on. The amount of times my checked luggage has gone walkabout over 14 years is crazy.
I learned the hard way when traveling for work to wear work-appropriate attire onto the plane just in case. My colleague and I were supposed to be in court the next morning and neither of our suitcases made it onto the plane. We had to cab it to the Walmart on the other side of Yellowknife first thing in the morning to cobble together something we could wear into court and not look out of place.
Load More Replies...I was told this years ago, by my grandmother, as I went into the work world. It's clever. It's also unnecessary. Good luck in the future.
I once left our luggage at home but managed to get both kids safely strapped in. Noticed it several hours up the road & we figured it was cheaper just to replace clothing than deal with going back.
While international travel has been affected by the Covid-19 pandemic, it’s beginning to see a rise again. During 2020, the months of July, August and September saw tourism levels 64% lower than the same period in 2019. In 2021, however, the year’s tourism increased by over 50% during those same three months. Travel rates are expected to remain lower than they were pre-pandemic during 2022, but The World Travel and Tourism Council reports that arrivals in Europe have already increased 350 percent compared to last year. Restrictions easing up around the world is great for the global economy, but it’s also a plus for those who love traveling and have felt confined over the past couple of years. Now is the perfect time to receive some travel tips before planning out your next trip to one of the countries mentioned in this list.
People that don't speak English also don't speak slower and louder English.
And the insane mime work isn't really helping.
I don't think this is wholly true. I don't speak Italian, but the Italian guy who owned the hotel I stayed in spoke to me slowly and loudly in Italian, and mimed, and I understood.
Exactly, the louder bit is unnecessary, but a few key words and some hand gestures can go a long way. I was at the hotel reception this week, and I don’t speak enough Turkish to ask for what I needed, but because of the man’s body language, I could see what I was asking via his colleague was no problem, and didn’t need any planning. It really makes you look at how you communicate too, which is interesting and fun, as it forces you to be clearer and more direct, unlike in English where we skirt around what we want too much!
Load More Replies...Insane mime work? My own mother (who understands but doesn't speak English) has managed to buy all sorts of stuff while abroad using body language. It does help if you're polite and smile as well.
Hand gestures can actually be quite helpful at times.
This is not true, when I first moved to Germany I spoke a little German but it would have been a sight easier if people spoke loudly and slowly especially with a bit of miming thrown in.
I don't know about that. I speak English. The slower and louder people speak to me, the better I understand it. PS: To all the lunk heads that that are believing this wives tale is true, I've traveled enough to know that everyone speaking an unknown language to me, did/does the exact same thing. It's not germane to the U.S., it's germane to the human population
If im being yelled at in dutch I'm not going to understand,... But i collect dictionaries so i can just hit you with it if you yell at me
Assuming the U.S. dollar is accepted everywhere.
I worked at a very south Canadian bar that had a problem with Americans doing this - so we just started taking USD at par :) the US dollar was higher than CAD at the time, so your $20 CAD meal that you decided to pay with $20 US actually paid me like $25 CAD and I got to pocket the extra $5 as a tip! It was still arrogant of them but satisfying as hell when I told customers we only accepted US cash 1:1 because it’s a huge inconvenience for us, so sure we’ll take it to accommodate them but the inconvenience will cost them. I live next to the WA border and hear too many Americans up here like “oh no we can use American cash in Canada, they don’t care” - please don’t guys. It’s annoying and entitled and idk why we put up with it, it’s always extra steps. I wouldn’t go to Bellingham mall and use Canadian cash because it’s not that country’s currency :/
Load More Replies...US Dollars and Pounds Sterling are accepted in a surprising number of places, as they are stable currencies. You might not be able to spend them in a shop, but you will be able to get them changed into the local currency, often at a more favourable rate than changing them before you go. This can be useful if you are visiting multiple countries in one trip.
Oh really? Because I've never noticed that you could use £ anywhere other than the UK, and no shop is going to give you a favourable rate. Some places with highly unstable currencies will happily accept USD, but my experience is that you pay a much higher rate than if you're paying in the local currency.
Load More Replies...What, people think that? I used to think the same about euros because well we used them in every country we visited... But i never thought i could pay in euros in like Japan or something
I used to work in a touristy pub in London. You'd be surprised how many US Americans thought they could pay with US dollars.
Load More Replies...American credit/debit cards, same story. AmExpress Cards, dollars - worthless, surprise on tourist face - priceless :))
It's not always just tourists on Amex cards. I work in retail in the UK and it's surprising how often I get asked if we take Amex. (Retailers will often not accept it due to the higher processing fees)
Load More Replies...Or even if it is, expecting that you will get USD back in change or a refund if you return something.
So many Americans do that. I worked in Niagara Falls, Ontario for several businesses and they were always pissy about not getting American currency back after purchases. You’re lucky if you got more value at a shop or restaurant for American money, you’re getting Canadian money back and no, if you pay in loose change it’s not worth more. Coin is exchanged at the same rate.
Load More Replies...I once read a story about an American woman who visited the UK, and was very surprised when one of the tourist destinations she visited (I forget where) refused to accept her American money to buy a ticket. When they politely asked her why she hadn't exchanged her currency when she arrived in the UK, she started shrieking about how she shouldn't have to do that, "American money's good everywhere! I get it, you think it's fake money! Now I'm insulted!" She made such a scene that they threw her out, screeching all the while about how "unfair" it was that she had to pay UK admission with UK money.
Yup. I once stood behind a man in Kentish Town tube station who was arguing with the person in the booth that he should be able to buy a ticket with American dollars because 'they're accepted everywhere'. I could forgive the mistaken idea that this was true, but it was the audacity of him arguing that the employee was in the wrong that infuriated me.
Load More Replies...You should automatically be banned from leaving the country if you do something like that. Not the people who don't realize because they've never travelled before and are willing to be educated. But the ones who throw a fit because they can't imagine that the rest of the world doesn't worship the USA. I hate those people. And unfortunately I have to share the same geographical area with many of them.
The sheer arrogance of that assumption is mind blowing. Americans truly are something else.
When it comes to blending in as a tourist, it requires a bit of research. Thankfully, nowadays there are countless travel blogs, vlogs, podcasts and social media accounts to help us along the way. One of which is The Invisible Tourist, a blog by an Australian woman named Alyse, which focuses on the idea of “invisible tourism”. Alyse features many travel tips on her blog and even has published a book titled How to Not Look Like a Tourist: Unlocking Your Hidden Power for Overtourism Solutions.
We reached out to Alyse to gain some insight from a travel expert and hear about any tourist faux pas she has made or witnessed. "The worst travel mistake I made was riding a donkey up the 500+ stairs from the port to Santorini's old town," Alyse told us. "My poor juvenile donkey was so exhausted half way up, tripped, and we both fell to the ground. From that moment I decided to walk the rest of the stairs myself, and vowed not to engage with animals exploited in tourism moving forward."
US - Only visiting New York and/or Florida and then believing they've seen "America."
Obviously you're not going to be able to visit every state and eat in every rural diner, but don't just come to Times Square and then believe you've formed an opinion about life in the US.
Same as visiting London then claiming you've seen "England" or worse "the UK"
Same in Greece. Athens and a couple of islands is not the whole of Greece
Load More Replies...This is so very true but not only of the USA, tourist come to London and have seen UK. The UK has 4 different countries, each with unique landscapes and some amazing towns and cities in each. For a "small " country we have a vast and amazing history
Every 20 miles is a different accent and local customs.
Load More Replies...No, I formed my opinion about life in the US from the news - no healthcare, school and police shootings, no guaranteed annual leave, etc. Did visit once, but now I'm not sure I'd risk taking my child there.
i grew up there and way too many of my friends were dead before i turned 15, the US is great only for the rich
Load More Replies...Same with Germany...just because you've been to Oktoberfest or visited Bavaria doesn't mean you are now an expert on all things German.
Neither if you just visit Berlin, or any other state/ city. Those a very distinctly different places.
Load More Replies...fun fact: i'm italian and for my honeymoon i've done a road trip in the USA! New York to Miami and than to Los Angeles . i rented a car in Washington and my car's plate was from pennsylvania, while in New Orleans someone called me names including " stupid yankee" .. that was fun !
America has A LOT of "cultures".........the south, the DEEEEEP south, East coast, West COast, Pacific NW, etc, etc, etc
Especially, visit the west coast like Washington, Oregon and Northern California. It is very mountainous, green and beautiful. I'm not sure of many more places where you can go to the top of a mountain pass, travel an hour west to see beautiful islands and waters while dining on some of the best seafood, or travel one hour east and see tumble weeds and rattle snakes in the middle of farm country while white water rafting. You travel up and down the coast to experience surfing, boating and wine country. Don't just visit the east coast and think that's the USA. There are hundreds of different cultures here, all worth exploring.
I would actually avoid places like New York City and Florida. *edited to add „city“
Not only is New York City one of the greatest cities in world history, but the vast majority of the state is full of mountains, lakes, farms, orchards, quaint little towns, and one of the biggest "forever wild" parks in the world. But I can see how that wouldn't appeal to anyone.
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Australia. Not putting sunscreen on the back of their knees while going snorkeling on the Great Barrier Reef or just not wearing sunscreen full stop
People who don't wear sunscreen or use a low SPF are idiots. Skin cancer is never going to be summers hottest new look.
I was probably in my early teens (I'm 50 now) before anything above SPF 15 was even available. I'm pale enough, anything below SPF 50 is literally useless--I still get burned to a crisp. A couple of years ago, I went to an outdoor event after liberally spraying myself all over with SPF 100 sunscreen. I was wearing a v-neck dress at the time. The only part of me that got burned at all was a tiny little sliver of my chest, right around the neckline--I must have missed that area when I was spraying. The rest of me? Completely unburned, just as pale as ever.
Load More Replies...My dad had skin cancer on the tops of his ears. He always wore a cap for his head, but forgot about his ears.
Load More Replies...Hawaii has banned all sunscreen that isn't "reef safe". I hope Australia has done the same.
I recently read where they have discovered that sun screen is what is killing the Great Barrier Reef. So maybe wear a wet suit and delete the sun screen?
Or just doing a pass with the spray sunscreen without rubbing it in. One of our favorite games is to sit on the beach and pick out who's going to be red like a lobster tomorrow. It's always the biggest guys. The ones who are like "I'm too tough for sunscreen". Idiots.
Sunscreen is now banned in Hawaii because a chemical in it destroys the reef. Be aware of the rules at your destination before putting on sunscreen.
Make sure when addressing to someone in France to start with a greeting. Not saying Bonjour could be considered very rude.
This goes for other countries as well. Just be polite and greet the waiter, cashier or anyone else
Maybe it's because I'm French, but this seems to be the basics of manners. Wherever I travel to, I learn how to say in the local language "Hello, Please, Thank you and sorry, I don't speak (said local language)". Basic manners to me again.
Load More Replies...It blows my mind when Americans complain about how rude the French are. I've spent a fair amount of time in Paris, and everyone I've spoken with has been so delightful, from people in shops to parks to restaurants. It's because I learned to always, ALWAYS say "Bonjour!" first. Americans, if you think French people are being rude to you, it's because they perceive that you've already been rude first by not greeting them. That tiny cultural awareness makes all the difference.
I think being generally polite and greeting is essential no matter what country you go to. France seems to be less forgiving, but in every other country I have been to even a cultural faux pas will be forgiven if you are being polite and treating everyone around you with respect.
I think it's at least a sign of respect to learn a language, maybe some people will speak my language and that's great, but don't get self-entitled when you're a guest.
You are right of course, but learning a language is not something you can just do. So try to learn the few necessary ones, that say please and thank you.
Load More Replies..."Hello", "Please" and "Thank you" can go a long way to making your experience better.
...and in french preferably. Hello won't suffice in many places :)) you will get an attitude as an answer to your hello
Hello is used in French but in a very laid back way, it's like saying "Salut", so people would be surprised by the level of causal. Bonjour is better indeed ^^
Load More Replies...Good tip. When I was taught French and German at school we were never told to say hello to the server first, when ordering food, but of course it is only polite to do so!
Are you danish by any chance? I ask because I was not told so either.
Load More Replies...As opposed to the US, where approaching a stranger and immediately making demands is the norm. When walking in my home city and subjected to someone screaming "Hey, how do I get to…?" from a car window, I smilingly give them directions to the suburbs, where they belong.
We also asked Alyse to break down her concept of "invisible tourism" for us. "Being an Invisible Tourist is about making a conscious effort to "blend in" as best as possible when travelling. Overall, the aim is to minimize the negative impacts tourism has on local communities, their culture, and the environment." Alyse provided us with a list of ways to blend in as a tourist including: "practicing local customs, etiquette and dressing appropriately to demonstrate our cultural awareness; learning the basics of the local language to help preserve it and show respect; prioritizing local, regulated accommodation over international hotel chains to keep tourism money in the community; immersing ourselves in the local culture through food and experiences; seeking out alternatives to popular spots to dilute our tourist footprints; purchasing handcrafted souvenirs to support local jobs and keep traditions alive; packing reusable items for our trip to minimize waste; and opting for small, locally-owned group tours instead of larger ones when not travelling independently".
"There are many more strategies to add," Alyse says. "But helping to preserve the identities and culture of places we visit keeps them beautifully unique, whilst resulting in positive exchanges between tourists and locals. A win-win for everyone!"
Bringing their 'bad manners' with them and insisting on doing it because its what they normally do back home.
I.e. sh*tting in public, acting like they own the place, no idea how to form a line, causing a disturbance in the area by talking loudly, destroying public property due to ignorance
When I see these signs in a person, I immediately walk the opposite direction.
Not following queuing etiquette in the UK could result in some pretty hard stares, or maybe even get you tutted at. You have been warned!
S**t people need their own island or planet to s**t on collectively so the rest of decent humans have some peace
This is how I feel when people complain about tipping in the US. (We know they should be paid a living wage, but until then, tip your waitstaff FFS)
Or doing things they can't do at home because they'd pay a fine there. Especially with Western Europeans abroad, at home they drive normally and don't litter, they make up for it on their holidays.
Foreign country or not, the above described behavior is unacceptable whereever one happens to be in the world. Including their own country.
Not so much a mistake but something I thought was just obnoxious. At a pub in Ireland and, as they do, a bunch of guys whipped out instruments and just started jamming. It was the type of spontaneous session that perfectly captures the experience of a true Irish pub. This very American couple, at the close of a song, got up to leave. The woman reached over to give one of the musicians some money. He declined as if to say, we aren't buskers looking for handouts, this is just us having fun. She insists, leaves the money in front of him, and says, "it's customary." My buddy and I, also Americans, were so embarrassed. While her intentions were obvisouly good,her gesture just struck us as arrogant. It was if she was saying her customs are superior to the locals. It has stuck with both my buddy and me for almost 20 years. To this day, saying "it's customary" is a way to say someone is being obnoxious.
Yes, I get the point this post is making, but I’d just like y’all to know that if anyone wants to shove some money at me, I won’t be offended, I promise.
This is a good point to remember for international travel: just because YOU would ____, doesn't mean it's okay to do. You are not the central point of reference for cultural norms in someone else's country. So just because YOU are okay with accepting money, taking off your shoes, praying, or wearing certain garments doesn't mean that everyone should assume it's okay to do so. That's literally the arrogance of tourists that is the problem in these scenarios.
Load More Replies...Yeah, that would work! I can understand the man's reaction but when people insist I've just let them and then popped the money into a charity donation box.
Load More Replies...This explains how leaving tips can also be insulting, and knowing when to and when not to is a fine line. Imagine if your friend helped you wash up after a lovely meal and then you *insisted* on giving them a tip. That's what this woman did.
That is so American. So many of them think their customs ARE world customs.
If there was no tip jar on the stage, she should have just offered to buy the band a round. Tacky spans many countries & customs.
maybe I'm just dumb, but.. in all honesty, I absolutely can't understand how some people can refuse money or even feel insulted.. that's beyond me. I would never ASK for money, but if a person for whatever reason and in their full, right and conscious will offers me money, I would NEVER say no!! I'd actually be the happiest person ever and thank them so much!!! HOW does it even cross their mind to refuse it or feel offended by money?!?
People tie pride and esteem to money and the efforts they put forth to earn it. That’s how it can be seen as insulting. Especially when it’s under the guise of “ my custom is more valuable in this situation than yours” or even worse, not knowing that a locations customs to the lint of song something offensive, being corrected yet still doing it. It’s not about the change she offered, but the overall ignorance.
Load More Replies...Maybe she should of phrased it buy a round on me,, I really had a good time listening to your band.
Putting phones in their back pocket. You're just asking to be pick pocketed.
Is this just not a rule for life rather than for tourists? Just don't do this no matter where you are (except if attending the "carrying your phone in your back pocket convention")
I do because i can feel it there and the pockets are big enough for it (girl pants suck)
or having it fall out of your pocket and into the toilet bowl... live and learn
Load More Replies...I'm always super aware of that. Anyone bumps me, I'm checking every single pocket. After I've apologised for 10 mins first.
Was at a concert in "the city" yesterday, so many young women with phones in back pockets..
When asked why international travel is an important experience to have, Alyse told us, "Travelling to other countries... can introduce us to new ways of thinking we haven't been exposed to before. It's an opportunity to extend outside our comfort zones and experience different cultures, sights, cuisines and more that we may never have the chance to at home. Exposure to these things opens our minds and also helps us gain a better understanding of cultural differences. Each is special in their own unique way, and that’s a beautiful thing."
Walking slowly and stopping in the middle of a busy street to take pictures.
This makes me so angry. I walk slow and cannot dodge fast, if someone will walk through me like one comment suggest, I will certainly fall. You wouldn't spot anything wrong with me while walking by and I'm trying to use sides of pavements, but sometimes I hear comments or see people waving hands at me in anger. Also I'm way more tired after trying to walk in a way to avoid disturbing others.
I agree, not everybody has to walk at the same pace. First there's invisible disabilities and mobility issues, of course. But also, there's nothing wrong with just taking a walk through the city. As long as you stay close to the right so that I can pass, and are reasonably aware of what's going on around you, I really don't mind how fast you walk.
Load More Replies...This. I have mobility issues, and now walk slow. I also live in a major city in a tourist area. I keep to the side. I look behind me before I stop. I don't just bumble down the middle of the street and block others.
Load More Replies...Walking slowly is fine - old folk, kids, disabled people, ordinary people enjoying life do it, and shouldn't be shamed anywhere. Your hurry isn't their problem, walk around
The middle? No. Stepping on the side and waiting for a window of opportunity when you're not a nuisance
This. Not everyone is a tourist and might be someone in a hurry, for whatever reason. Be considerate.
Or getting to the top or bottom of an escalator and stopping dead to work out where to go next when there's a huge line of people descending behind you.
When you block others/the flow of regular foot traffic. A city like NYC or London has a high volume of pedestrian traffic from people who already live and work there. We don't have time to stop for five and ten minutes multiple times on our morning commutes so you can try to take pictures. Walk slowly, just keep to the right of the sidewalk.
Load More Replies...It is virtually impossible not to impede sidewalk traffic anywhere I go. There is no clear walk to the right or left pattern, I am slow and not going to jog for you. Usually, I get a break because of my gray hair, and grandma status. I do stop with my back to the wall often to let others pass. But there is not much more I can do.
Florida's kind of an unfamiliar country, right? Protip: It rains in Orlando. A lot. Bring rain gear and don't scream at your kids at Disney World because they're tired and/or wet because you planned poorly.
And Don't Get Mad When A Wave Pool Closes Because Of Lightning !
Or the entire park is closed. We had that on holiday many years back.
Load More Replies...As a former Floridian, I can attest to this. During the summer, you can be sure it will likely rain every single day at least for 10 minutes at random times, but usually in the afternoon.
i know - i lived there. every day. nothing but steam rising off the ground when it stops 10 min. after it started.
Load More Replies...F**k it, I'm British, I'd rather queue than get a handjob
Load More Replies...Florida weather changes every 5 minutes, more during summer. Natives may not always have the a/c set on Antarctic. Learn to live with it. Know that we deal with bugs by ignoring them or squishing them with our bare feet. And you're not considered even close to being a Native until you can intelligently talk about hurricanes & have lived through 3 of them.
Moved here in 1960. Less than 2 months later Hurricane Donna hit. I was 4 and as we lived in front of an orange grove, our house got pummeled by oranges for hours. No water or electricity for 2 weeks, and my dad was unable to come home. He was a lineman. I've been through more than 3 and they say that this season is going to be severe. Yay, Florida.
Load More Replies...We found that, although you get wet, the weather was so pleasant that we dried off in minutes.
Florida is a baked swamp that perfectly summarizes everything wrong with the US, and a must-see for anyone seeking to truly understand American culture.
I live in Florida, despite what the news will tell you we're not all crazy, and you won't truly understand American culture by coming here
Load More Replies...Went to Disney World years ago. Midday there was a short, torrential downpour. After it stopped we went to an outdoor cafe to grab a bite. The tables all had umbrellas. Unfortunately the family behind me decided to get the pooled rain off their umbrella and when the man pulled one side down, it poured directly onto my back. After my initial yelp (it was COLD) he profusely apologized and we all wound up laughing. That would not have been the case had it been my then 4 year old kid. Instead there would have been many tears.
Throwing a piece of fruit at a giant tortoise. I was vacationing in the Galapagos years ago and hanging out with a friend and her study-abroad host family. For most of us, since we were kids we've been building up internal strength to resist the urge to throw things at wild animals. But this family hadn't spent much time in zoos or around wild animals, so that internal strength was a bit lacking. Soon after we arrived in the Galapagos and we encountered on a few wild giant tortoises on a guided hike. As I was marveling at their glacial pace and truthfully hilarious stature, I see something moving in the corner of my eye. I look up, and...is that a passionfruit flying across the sky? Right towards that tortoise? It splashed about a foot in front of the tortoise, who forgot all about his relaxed, leisurely demeanor and sprinted away from us. My friend was mortified. The tour guide was too shocked to deliver the tirade he so clearly wanted to. And it took a solid 10-15 seconds for the mom who'd tossed the fruit to realize that throwing passionfruit at tortoises is frowned upon in the Galapagos Islands.
Again, I am astonished that people have to be told not to do these things. I think I must be an alien.
When I went to Crater Lake in Oregon, we were told on a tour to the center island not to take any of the pumice stones that were there. Shortly after arriving, I see two guys stuffing stones in their pockets. My father was big on conservation and knew why the guide said not to take them..(if enough people did it, there'd be none left.) He told the guide and the man refused to let the guys back on the boat until they emptied their pockets. When we got back to the docks, he took their names and photos so they could be trespassed from the park.
Load More Replies...Sorry, but visualising a tortoise sprinting away touched my funny bone.
Please assure me that wanting to throw things at animals is not normal
Watching a family in a rental row boat on chasing a mama duck and her ducklings. The panicked cheeping was heartbreaking, and this dad and mum are laughing and encouraging their kids to laugh. I lost it from the shore line. I would have thrown a rock at them, except - you know - kids in the boat. Not cool. Now - when I yell, it's from the diaphragm. They stopped chasing the ducks. Everyone around also stopped what they were doing. I got as far as "HEY! Stop chasing the ducks! You're going to hurt them!" when another lady got in on the action of calling them out. The kids starting looking a little scared by that point, and the parents tried to argue back that she was scaring them. Her response? "Now you know how the ducks feel!"
Unless you have purchased special food from a designated vendor at the place, do not ever, ever feed wild animals, anywhere. I thought it was bad enough in places like US National Parks, where idiots grab their kids with one hand and a sandwich with another and make a beeline towards a bear or bears. Then I went on safari in the southwest of Africa, and saw morons do the same thing WITH ELEPHANTS.
In my own mind, throwing fruit at any animal, human, reptile, fish--whatever is rude. Again, wherever one is. Why wouldone even want to?
Mom should have been charged with assaulting an endangered animal. Period.
At a WILD animal...... that's the part that stands out the most to me. Wild animals don't need to be fed by us, hence the term "wild."
Unbelievable the number of people every year who get injured (some badly) because they think it's fun to walk up to a wild bison for a selfie, and actually pat the animal. The odd person has been killed doing this, but the signs are everywhere NOT to even approach these animals, let alone touch them. I think the schools need to teach more reading comprehension.
Load More Replies...Lastly, Alyse wanted to add that, "Prior to 2020, more people were travelling than ever before. This resulted in overtourism issues in popular cities, leading to resentment of tourists. It doesn't have to be that way! By looking back at mistakes of the past, we can learn from them. Tourists ultimately hold the power to drive change within the industry. I always like to say, 'no one likes an annoying tourist.' By changing how we travel and making decisions that leave a positive impact moving forward, we can be tourists the locals will love!"
If you're looking for more tourism tips for blending in, be sure to check out Alyse's blog and book!
Not do their research properly, I mean like average cab fares, average food costs etc. I’ve seen Caucasian tourists come to my country (Malaysia) and get out of a cab paying RM280 for a ride in the city, that’s idk $70 or more USD? The average 1 hour cab ride from my suburb to the airport only costs RM80, maybe 20-30 USD. Tourists get scammed so badly and they don’t even know
The problem is very often that when you are faced with an aggressive cab driver, there’s nothing you can do in the moment. Happened to me in Singapore: I *knew* how much the fare should have been, *confirmed* it before getting in, and then somehow, when we stopped in the middle of nowhere, the fare tripled, because of reasons. I knew that I was being scammed, but the guy got so aggressive, there was nothing I could do that wouldn’t have put my safety at risk.
This is extremely hard for women traveling, especially alone, as well. We know to try to find a local colleague if we are in certain countries, like Singapore, Egypt, or India, to help us navigate things, because otherwise, we'd be raped and dead in under fifteen minutes.
Load More Replies...This reads very much like victim blaming. If someone gets scammed by the taxi driver then the taxi driver is responsible. And the system that allows them to get away with it.
And learn enough of the language so you can have that discussion with the person trying to rip you off. I made a hotel cashier in Paris take out a calendar to count out the days I had stayed there to prove he was trying to charge me for an extra day. It was an unpleasant conversation but he had to concede in the end. Don't feel bad for challenging people who are trying to scam you.
Absolutely. In Kazakhstan, I knew approximately how much the taxi should cost and what they tried to charge my was 10x that. It happened in the Czech Republic too. They expect foreigners won't know their currency and try to charge absurdly higher rates. In Kazakhstan, the driver, and his companion, were actually not aggressive. They took my bag out of the taxi before even asking for money. I knew it was all a red flag, especially when they asked if I wanted to stop at a bank. Luckily, my hostel helped me out. I still paid them more than it should have been, but nowhere near what they wanted.
when i visited lithuania, my friend warned me that the cab drivers, especially at the time i was arriving which was a ridiculous time of the night, might try to fleece me. so he met me at the airport and got in the taxi with me to take me to the hotel to make sure that they didn't take advantage. i was very grateful
It saddens me to see tourists eat in Times Square.
Think it's more that you could literally walk a block over, and find somewhere with the same food at half the price.
Load More Replies...Sure, there’s a million better places to eat, or maybe they’re ticking off their own personal bucket item list and have been walking around the city for a million kilometres and decided to eat at Times Square. Same as people eating in my city overlooking the Sydney Harbour Bridge and Opera House.
There are a couple of good options near/around Times Square, if you want to do the touristy thing, but at NYC institutions instead of the chains. Carmine's is decent family-style Italian food. Yes, there will be a long wait. Also, if you can't get to Brooklyn, there is a Junior's in Times Square, so you can get your brisket and cheesecake on. Chez Josephine is on 46th, IIRC, and is still owned by at least one of the oldest sons of Josephine Baker. It's fine French food, but they have so many of Josephine's artifacts there, including the banana skirt, that it's worth a visit. And oh, I'm still mourning the loss of Carnegie Deli.
It's a much worse and much more expensive version of the same TGIF's or other midlevel chain you have at your mall at home. You could order a massive delivery to your hotel room from any Chinese or Thai or Indian restaurant and have way more food, and much better quality. Those are literally the same M&Ms on clearance in the Easter candy aisle at your home drugstore, don't pay astronomical amounts for a bag of lavender ones from that place in Times Square. Times Square is worth it if only to say "Holy c**p, so THAT'S what it smells like!" and then scoot a couple blocks over for food.
Agreed, go a block or two in any direction and you will find much better food, better prepared and much, much cheaper - Times Square, like every international tourist rip off spot (sorry, hot spot ... ;0)) is a rip off ...
Three blocks over, one block up, and I used to get the most amazing pastrami and corned beef sandwiches from a little shop that's not there anymore. Still stupid expensive -- it's NYC -- but not as much as that mediocre plate of mush at the Times Square Olive Garden.
Load More Replies...As a tourist, I ate at Bubba Gump in Times Square for the novelty, for the ‘safety’ of being around a bunch of people (I was a solo traveler) as well as the food. I had the best time!
I was flying to Switzerland. Within EU countries there's a flat data roaming rate, so I'm not paying more if I use my phone in Portugal, Finland or Czech Republic, BUT as Switzerland is not a part of EU (even though they have border regulations connected to the Schengen Agreement), their data plan rate is crazy high. I knew about it and remembered to switch off data roaming, but behind me on a plane there was this obnoxious, supreme wearing kid swearing like hell to his mom that they will miss their connection. I didn't payed much attention, but the shriek he let out when he turned off the airplane mode after landing (while still seated), and after 15 seconds got a text message from his provider that he exceeded his spending limit for more than 70 EUR was a truly one that only a really tortured soul could made. Remember to check your roaming fees, guys.
Depends very much on your phone provider. I remember paying £2/day to use my UK call and data allowance in Poland. However I got stung in the US with my work phone when it turned out the only way we could get an internet connection to pick up some important document was for me to do it via my phone - cost about $100 to retrieve one file! If you're going to be somewhere for a while, consider buying a local SIM card.
In case it makes you feel better, I as a Swiss, also have to pay a giant roaming fee if I'd cross the border to Germany.
When it comes to tourists, some countries are more notorious than others for being obnoxious. The United States is a particularly divisive nation. Despite the millions of travelers who visit the country every year, many people around the world don’t love it when Americans come to them. Keep in mind there are over 320 million people in the US, so it’s hard to make generalizations about them all. But if you are an American (nothing wrong with that, I’m one too!), we’ve gathered some things to be sure to avoid doing while traveling from Best Life’s list of “20 Countries That Hate Tourists from the United States”.
Walk into tourist trap restaurants.
Do a bit of research first.
It's especially bad in London, stop walking into Angus Steakhouse and Bella Italia people.
There is nothing wrong with Bella Italia, I would not call it a tourist trap. It's just a chain of restaurants where you always know what you get.
People need to stop telling me where to eat/shop/visit when I am on holiday. If I want to wander among local people and eat at a tiny local restaurant I can stay at home. If I go to London I want to see touristy stuff, I don't want to wander around Finchley (lovely though it may be)
They're not telling you off for your choice of eatery, they're trying to save you from an overpriced and disappointing meal! As a rule of thumb, avoid eating at Garfunkel's or anywhere with "Steakhouse" in the name, because their motto is "garbage at crippling prices" (to quote Steve Aylett). Some chains are fine though - there's a restaurant in Leiceister Square called Steak and Co that belongs to a small chain, and it's fine (and surprisingly reasonable considering its prime location).
Load More Replies...Here's the other thing...ask the locals where they like to eat. They will most likely show you the little mom and pop places.
This is my favorite thing to do. That was how I ended up eating the best chocolate mousse of my life at this place in Paris, discovered my favorite coffee in Chicago, and had my first chicken and waffles meal in Los Angeles. Food is such a fun way to experience a city or country, and honestly, if you travel to ____ and only stick to the chains you know from home, you're missing a huge part of the experience. The history of a city is in its food.
Load More Replies...Always check a restaurant on google. It takes few seconds and it can save your money and save your stomach from some issues
Same in any tourist trap city anywhere. Try having a coffee or snack along a major canal in Venice.
Chain restaurants are great for people with allergies because I know what I can eat in any Bella Italia in the country and can also be fairly confident the staff have had consistent training in cross contamination. So many independent places have made me ill that when I am away I stick to chain restaurants.
Why should tourists not eat in a tourist trap?? It's easy to understand, quickly delivered food. My God, this obnoxious attitude towards travel.... We should be GLAD that the majority of tourists stay on the beaten paths and eat at torusity places, because locals would not a have a moment of peace of privacy left, if they didn't. Let people travel the way they want to and stop with the damn judging!
The same restaurant in a different spot 15 minutes away will cost half of what it does in that location. It happens in Niagara Falls all the time. Also, check groupon for restaurant deals in the area you’re going to. You can get great steakhouse dinners for half the price.
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Europeans coming to America and not leaving a tip to the servers, just because it's not the custom in Europe.
That doesn't help the staff. The US employment system sucks in many ways, but tourists making a petty minded and silent "protest" doesn't pay your waitress' rent
Load More Replies...Yeah, it is hard to know who to tip. The server in McDonald's? The cleaner in the bathroom? The receptionist? If you err on the side of caution and tip everyone, you've spent $20 in tips just by buying a coffee.
Exactly, knowing who to tip, when to tip and how much to tip is another level again. No doubt it's obvious to every American but if you're not familiar with the intricacies of it you end up offending people without even realising it
Load More Replies...Yes, they should. But until that happens, tip people who depend on it.
Load More Replies...Even then some aren't grateful. I was in a nice restaurant in New York years ago and my friend and I were unsure how much yup to leave, so we worked out roughly 20% plus a bit extra and left. The waitress literally ran out and chased us down the street saying we didn't leave enough. Appalling.
I don't believe that for one second. Unless you server was insane or on drugs. Or you gravely miscalculated and really only tipped 2%. Servers unfortunately get stiffed all the time. They don't chase people down over it.
Load More Replies...I know and I do tip accordingly but it makes dining out in the US incredibly expensive. Bc the food itself (excluding tips aaaaand of course tax) is not in any way cheaper than here, where both service and tax are included. Not to mention that they will basically throw you out once you've finished the last bite.
Not sure about that last sentence. No restaurant I've eaten at thrown me out after finishing, they give me as much time as I need.
Load More Replies...Well, even as an Aussie, it's normal not to tip. We forget that Americans don't get decent pay and have to survive on tips, and because it's not an everyday thing, we forget to do it. It's like going over to Japan and forgetting to take your shoes off; we don't mean to offend, we're just used to wearing shoes a lot of the time because of our dangerous animals and insects.
I have to admint that I've made a terrible faux pas in the US by walking into an almost empty diner and sitting myself at a table. Somebody from the staff came over and asked me to sit at the bar, whether they would've normally sat me had I waited like I was supposed to. I knew that this was a rule, but lifetime habit just overwrote it. But also, I still don't understand why I had to sit at a bar just because I was on my own (especially since most of the tables were still open when i was leaving). Kinda funny that in the US of all places you don't have the freedom to choose your own table ;)
The waiting to be seated is normal, and if you ask for a table they will typically be accommodating. Places don't normally make you sit at the bar unless they're busy though.
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Women Wearing shorts or showing a lot of skin in a Muslim country... please, people, do your due diligence and then be respectful of other peoples religions/cultures especially if you are in their country.
I am all for being respectful but I also respect women wearing hijabs here in Europe, so it would be nice not to have anyone police my choice of clothes elsewhere, special places (like churches or mosques) excluded.
Not how it works...you should always respect the customs of any country you visit. Using the "well, they wear their hijabs here so I can wear daisy dukes there" is an ignorant argument.
Load More Replies...Just don't travel to countries with such ridiculous and discriminative laws and habits. Let them arrive in the 21st century before supporting any of their economy.
That's my stance as well. Also will never travel to Russia because of their anti-lgbt laws. Even if they decide to boot Putin.
Load More Replies...Frankly, this also applies to people visiting places of worship in Christian countries too - I've seen the major Italian duomos have to hand out paper tabards to cover up the strappy-top/butt-cut shorts/practically-a-bikini crowds who throng in, ignoring the signs asking them to dress decently and show respect in a place of worship. FFS!
Stop spending money to boost the economies of a*****e governments. How about that? Don't go to unsafe places full of dangerous ideologies.
I don't give a f**k about this to be honest. If men are wearing shorts, women should be able to as well, juist like if women get to wear a skirt and a paper thin blouse at work in the summer, I get to wear f*****g shorts, or I'm wearing a kilt.
As someone who just....feels religion is the worst thing we ever invented, it galls me to say this is right. If anyone has such a problem with it? Maybe that place isn't for you to travel. *I* don't like religious doctrine dictating life choices. *They* do. Not my place to come in your home and tell you to respect my choices while there.
Depends. Shorts are fine in the resorts of Turkey and Tunisia, but not in Afghanistan.
If you’re looking to visit the beautiful nation of Australia, be careful how you refer to their beloved, furry koalas. One Australian notes, “I find the most annoying thing that [Americans] do in Australia is to call our wonderful koala by the wrong name. DO NOT add 'bear' to the name. It is simply a koala."
People from other countries are also not usually fond of the American ego. This is in stark contrast to a mindset in Scandinavian countries, that all our equal and nobody is better than anyone else. One Dane complained about Americans, “They feel better than the rest of the world, but in reality we are as good as they are. They simply don't see us as their equal … but we are. Sometimes we are even better than them. But don't tell them." Coming from a nation that has consistently been rated one of the “happiest countries in the world”, I would have to agree with their point that sometimes Denmark is even better than the US.
Not being aware of things like public holidays and try and researching what will be open or planning ahead and be aware that locals may also be travelling. I'm from New Zealand and used to work in the tourism industry - no one seemed to be aware that although the Christmas/New Year period is over summer, the entire country shuts down for around two weeks. That also being said, one thing I came across a lot was that because NZ is a small country, you could get through it easily and quickly by road. It's small, yes - but very rugged terrain mean that distances can be so long, especially in the South Island.
Americans in Europe have trouble with the absence of a slave labor force that works 24/7. So much of what we complain about when traveling is nothing more than the consequence of a culture that doesn't regard wealth as the purpose of existence. For example, we regard the French as morally inferior for taking summers off. Obversely, Italians are bemused by Americans, whom they regard as having no idea what's valuable in life.
I'm not sure if this is going to disappoint you but having lived all my life in Europe I can confidently say in most countries services are largely open 24/7. Sure there're countries eg Germany where shops tend to stay closed on Sundays but even that is changing and to boost economy lots of towns do "open Sundays" aka shops open. In UK there are basically 2 days day in a year (Easter Sunday and Christmas Day) when "everything" is shut, rest of the 363 days it's open. Never lived in France but never heard of any country where people "take the summer off". Of course most people take their vacation when the schools are closed aka summer but that doesn't mean shops/theatres/factories are shut for 2 months. While things differ between country-city, rather religious-less religious countries (keeping Catholic holidays eg), Europe is not the utopian place you might imagine in this regard
Load More Replies...The place-to-place distances in New Zealand may not look like much, but often with many bends and climbs slowing you down. Go light on the accelerator and enjoy the views. Australia, often the reverse!
I always thought it would be better to leave stores open for holidays. Offer triple pay for anyone who volunteers to work it. Seems like a win for everyone. Some people don't have families to celebrate with, others aren't that big on holidays, and most people just like extra cash. My sister is a nurse and she always works holidays for the extra pay.
What tourism place did you work in that closed during the Xmas/New Year holidays?? That’s one of the peak tourism periods.
one thing i almost got very wrong in america was not stopping for the national anthem playing. i was visiting friends who live there, and we were at a huge agricultural fair. to start the day, they played the national anthem. now it was a combination of my friend and i were too busy chatting to notice and the fact that it literally never occured to me that you would stop and stand still (and put your hand over your heart) for the national anthem. it wasn't until we heard an angry 'psst!' from my friends husband that we realised. they didn't make a big deal out of it, but i found it so weird that everyone suddenly stopped.
I wouldn't say it was a bad mistake or anything, but I was in O'Hare (worst airport ever, IMO), in the ladies' room when an Indian woman in a beautiful sari was trying all of the closed stall doors (ignoring the open ones). She had a coin in her hand and was trying to insert it into the locks, because (as I had learned while in Europe), they often have pay toilets there. So I gently redirected her.
The problem is when you have it the other way around and don't have the money necessary!! Though the last time I saw a loo like this people were just holding the doors open for each other as they went out and the person going in avoided having to pay.
Paying a Euro (or less) is how they keep European toilets so clean.
Load More Replies...I'm an American. At my wife's Naturalization ceremony held in Los Angeles at a facility at a country club, I needed to use the bathroom. While approaching the bathroom door I watched several of the recipients exiting with what could best be described as looks of shock and some disgust on their faces while others were laughing. Once inside I realized I needed to take my first ever photo of a urinal. Keep in mind this is where the Naturalization ceremony was held. Welcome to America... MouthToile...5f1aa6.jpg
Just to clarify: Paid toilets are not a thing in every European country, and also not at every establishment in countries where it's common to have paid toilets. I encountered several restaurants and bars in Paris where you had to insert 50 Cents to open the stall door. In many restaurants in Germany they have a cleaning personnel standing in front of the bathrooms who will usually demand 50 Cents as well. In Spain and the UK I've not experienced this yet though.
It's rare in the UK, but not unheard of. I've had to pay to use the loo a couple of times, once in a train station and once in a nature park.
Load More Replies...O’hare in Chicago? I lived there for a few years and can confirm. Midway is a much better place to fly in or out of, but O’hare is nowhere as bad as the airport in Denver, Colorado. I forget the name, but it is a maze of hallways and terminals. Sorry for bad grammar, English is not my first language.
Cracking a nazi joke with Germans you aren't familiar with. Germans do however love cracking nazi jokes, but only with people they know and trust.
I don't know anyone who cracks nazi jokes. Or maybe those are just not people I "know and trust"
I witnessed this several times in Ireland. Don't take me wrong Ireland and Irish are the best, but their dark humour is just not for everyone.
Load More Replies...This. I remember lightly joking that someone was "such a nazi" because they were cracking down on the rules - something people in the UK would totally think was normal - and my new German friend being really shocked and asking why I would talk to this person at all if they were a Nazi. It went deep for her, it is an unforgivable thing to be and not funny to throw around.
No, normal Germans don't love nazi jokes. I'd wonder about the ones you know.
I'm German and I don't know anybody who cracks Nazi jokes. Believe it or not, but in the year 2022 most of us do not constantly have the Nazis and WWII on our mind.
Okay, I'm Australian, but my Opa is German. I can guarantee you that Germans don't crack Nazi jokes. If they're dark humoured individuals, sure, you'll hear 1 or 2 Nazi jokes, but not with general German people. My Opa doesn't even like talking in public because he's scared that an ignorant bastard will call him a Nazi for his accent. It's like how you don't hear Japanese people cracking Kamikaze jokes, or Americans joking about bombing Hiroshima, or the British telling invasion, rape, enslavement and genocide jokes. There are some lines that are not to be crossed, and for German WWII victims, Nazi jokes just remind them of all the innocent families that were ripped apart, slandered, publicly executed and gassed.
Another mistake Americans sometimes make when abroad is not understanding the drinking culture. One woman from Greece said, “Americans go out and get college-girl drunk—it's a big cultural difference. In Greece, we care a lot about what people think, so we grow up trying to do everything in certain ways. Plus, there was never a drinking age here [until recently when they made it 18], so as teenagers, we never felt the need to get wasted because we easily could if we'd really wanted to." I understand wanting to have fun while traveling, but it’s also great to be able to remember your vacation the next morning…
In Sweden, drinking from your wine or beer glass before your host has made a toast. No matter how thirsty you are always wait until you hear “Skål!” then you’re good to go.
Wrong. So I am a Swede. I have lived in Sweden for all of my 50 years. The only time I have encountered this practice is when drinking shnaps in tiny glasses on parties.
As another swede. I can confirm. This is b******t. Unless you are at a formal setting (but in that case you would have a glass of water on the side for just that reason) or at a party like midsummer. But during a midsummer party nobody would care, just point out that you just wanted an extra shot didn't you? And technically, you could call it out when you want yourself. The word translates to "bowl" and the history is that there was a cerimonial bowl that all would drink from. So basically "pass the hooch".
Load More Replies...What if you are not having toast? Or do they have toast with every meal?
Same in Japan. No-one drinks until there's a toast, and everyone says "kanpai".
@DrBronx. Also wrong. That's only during a formal parties in Japan. The main rule is, when you are in a group, you don't pour your own drink. Either a friend, host or staff does it for you. When presented with food in someone's home, you say Itadakimasu (Basically "Let's Eat") afterwards you say Gochisosama (Thank you for the Meal). You can also say it on your own..because it's the equivalent of saying Grace.
Load More Replies...Isn't it common in a lot of countries to toast each other before everyone has a sip? We do it too, even if there is no host. Someone just starts toasting as soon as everyone gets their drinks.
In Australia we only toast for special occasions, and it is a fairly casual toast.
Load More Replies...It's simpler than that. Don't eat or drink until your host has done so, or invited you to do so.
But, how often do Swedes actually invite people over for dinner? There's a whole controversial thread on this happening right now on Reddit & Twitter.
How is that pronounced? Just so I can recognize it. Sweden is on my travel list lol
I would have said Skol, and we actually have a beer in the UK called Skol! https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skol
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Using the money exchange at the airport.
I had a picture somewhere of a rates at Stanstead. 20% spread _each way_. Selling Pound for 4 PLN, buying for 6PLN.
yeah, I was given several hundred euro in counterfeit bills from post office currency conversion in the UK, so beware them also.
Load More Replies...I never bring any currency, I just use the ATM at the airport. Usually you get good conversion rates there.
Not done it for a while, but this is what I used to when travelling for work. The charges for a foreign cash ATM withdrawal and exchange rate with my debit card were far better than even high street exchange bureaus. The ones at the airport were the absolute worst value for money. Just make sure you have warned you bank you will be travelling - I had my card refused at an ATM in the US, followed by an automated call at 4am to verify that it was me and my card hadn't been stolen!
Load More Replies...I don't know how it is in other countries but in the US you can plan ahead and actually order foreign currency from your own bank. BOA, Chase, Citi, etc, all offer the option. This is way you are at least prepared in case you need local currency on arrival.
Why don't you just use ATMs ? You can't get a fake change rate there.
In Cuba, you cannot bring currency from abroad, you have to either exchange at the hotel or at the airport, especially if you want to take a taxi from the airport to the hotel. In Cuba too - leave the tag on your luggage until after you leave the airport, they will question you whether this was be your bag and hold you for a while
Confusing the small Catholic parish church in Canterbury for the Cathedral, and complaining it wasn't as impressive as he expected, and it didn't 'look old enough'.
Lots of folks complain about the Alamo in that way also. So small.....thought it would be more impressive....blah, blah, blah. For goodness sake. If you are at a small Catholic parish church in Canterbury or the Cathedral you are someplace beautiful AND historic in one way or another. Appreciate it and understand many people never get to travel anywhere.
A lot of tourists also don't know that Henry VIII destroyed the shrine to Thomas Becket that the pilgrims were traveling to in Chaucer's Canterbury Tales, so there's just a candle in empty space. There hasn't been a shrine there in over 500 years. That tends to anger a lot of people who didn't even check the city's Wikipedia page before visiting.
This happens in Wells too. We have a lovely 10th century (I think) cathedral not too far from the parish church. The number of (mostly American) tourists you hear grumbling about the cathedral not being as big as they expected is amazing.
Is that St Cuthberts, or the one whose spire blew off in Feb? I love that Wells is the smallest English city, it's basically a village with a small cathedral in it, which annoys my MiL when I say it as she lives there too. It's beautiful though.
Load More Replies...I live in Canterbury and yes... the Cathedral is pretty much visible from every part of the city and for several miles out side of it.
Load More Replies...Could be worse ,i always distrust people from eastern europe who visit Salisbury cathedral🤔
While it's impossible to know the customs of every single country, it's very easy to do a little research before traveling to avoid embarrassing moments. These tips can help you stand out a little less and may even keep you safer during your travels. Enjoy reading the rest of these cultural faux pas, and don't forget to upvote your favorite examples. Then let us know in the comments what the most common mistakes are that you see tourists make in your country!
Not knowing how to use a stick shift in Europe
This is surely an Americanism; and it doesn't mean it's wrong. I would have called it a manual gearbox, but hey, I am a Brit.
Load More Replies...Sometimes you will get an automatic even when you've requested a manual. I will never for get the POS Renault Megane estate that we got in Cyprus. Three speed automatic gearbox mated with a tiny asthmatic engine. It made hard work of the Troudos mountains. Driven the same roads in a manual VW Polo with a 1.2 engine it had no trouble.
Load More Replies...In the US the scarcity of manual transmission vehicles has lead to the joke about it being an "anti theft device". I tweak that to be "anti borrow device". That sort of fails for me since I own a pickup and usually people want you to come with the truck and help haul stuff for them. :-) I was recently at a tire shop getting a flat fixed and the guy who was going to get my truck to take it in the garage had to get someone else to drive it because he didn't know how to drive a manual.
I was at work one day & saw a broken broom in the break room. I turned to my female coworker and said "dang, how are you going to get home now?"
Load More Replies...You can't get a drivers licence in my country without knowing how to drive manual.
Load More Replies...When I was in driver education, the classes were taught using automatic transmission cars. I had been taught on manual, so muscle memory caused me to keep taken my hand off of the wheel and go to the gear lever. The instructor dinged me a point for it, because "you didn't keep both hands on the wheel. I told him, "well that's all well and good for an automatic, but my car is manual." He then asked, "why do you have a manual? Are you going to race or something?" I replied with, "yes, actually. I also plan on going to other countries where automatics are less common, and to be able to get a CDL if I had to."
I'm sure it's my age and my family's lack of money, but my folks almost always bought manual cars in the '60s and '70s because the extra cost of an automatic would mean they couldn't qualify for the loan. And in the '60s, when they were buying Volkswagens, automatic wasn't an option at all.
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My friend telling locals in a poor part of the Dominican Republic that he has a Mercedes-Benz S550 back in NY on top of showing all the most luxurious pictures of what he does in America which then lead people to believe me and him were super rich americans. This may not be the worst but telling people you have a car like that when your a poor country is never a good idea as some of these folks basically will look at you like a walking atm
Your friend is a douche but so are you for assuming all poor people are going to rob you.
Not to mention obnoxious. Best believe those people are making fun of you and your friend behind your backs.
Load More Replies...The thing that is wrong with this is bragging to people in a less fortunate position. This is just plain nasty. What on earth is in his history that makes him need to behave like this?
This is shitty to go around doing period. You can always tell the insecure ones by how much they won't shut up until you pretend to be impressed.
Wearing mariachi hats.
Just don't.
Why? I have seen posts where actually locals were not bothered at all about this, on the contrary.
They are deliberately sold to tourists, aren't they? So why shouldn't they be allowed to wear them?
Load More Replies...Go ahead and wear them. You are supporting the local economy and no one is offended by that except uptight keyboard warriors on the bored panda thread.
I get that it's tacky but if they are sold everywhere you have to expect tourists wearing them.
We need a reason for this. If they are for sale to the general public then people can buy and wear them. Don't walk around in them loudly mocking mariachi bands, but if you just think they're cool go for it.
What else are you going to do with a hat you are planning on putting on a wall back home? Carry it?
I don't mind tourists being tourists by wearing the touristy souvenirs- what's wrong with that? - if it makes you happy
Exactly. I dont mind tourists looking like tourists. If I discover that you're visiting I'll go out of my way to help you have a great vacation.
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When you see tourists being taken in by those street games that are clearly just to get you to stop and be off your guard so someone else can pickpocket you. Worst I saw was in Paris on a bridge, where the guy with the game was at one side of the bridge, you could very clearly tell which person in the group of watchers was the plant who wins some money because he wasn't dressed like a tourist, and you could also very clearly see another sketchy man standing on the other side of the bridge who was watching and waiting for the tourists to get involved in the game so he could slip in and take their wallets.
It's so hard, because tourists are often trying to be polite, and the scammers know it. I'm so grateful to the people who told me about the woven bracelet scam and the gold ring scam at Sacre Coeur in Paris. I learned to yell "Leave me alone/leave me in peace" in French, and that made all the difference. It's a good rule of thumb to just not engage with random people on the street trying to talk to you when you're in another country/culture, but it takes practice to learn not to.
Happens everywhere. Went to a biker's rally in Florida. Famous bar, very crowded. Noticed a guy and his female partner were eyeing the crowd and planning their moves. It was obvious but most people were not paying attention. I had a small purse that I kept slung over my body. Immediately had my guy move his wallet to my purse and I moved my purse to my tummy and kept a firm grip on it. Not everybody lives somewhere that this is common, but we grew up in a city where it is so we knew. In all fairness, you usually learn the hard way. Got ripped off a couple of times when I was younger but it served a good lesson.
Not thinking in relative monetary terms. What might sound 'cheap' to you might be some great pay for a local. Case in point: get to the Bangkok airport, look around for a taxi, get quoted 500 baht by a driver. You're smart, of course, and you do the math: that was like 15 USD at the time, so sure. Heck, that's a long way to go for 15 USD, so you sit back comfortably, thinking you got yourself a slick deal. The taxi driver knows what that route costs, of course, and he's smiling because he's making three times what the meter rate would have been. In Thailand, at least, the bigger they're smiling, the more of a ride you're about to be taken on.
I kind of feel like this is mutual exploitation. I've given up haggling in certain markets fully knowing a local would pay less than half - but it was still pocket change for me. It's a sliding scale but there's a point at which I'm happy to be "ripped off" an extra £2 in order to put money in the pocket of a local trader in a not-very-wealthy country I'm privileged enough to be travelling in.
Friend and his wife were seasoned travelers. Went all over the world and knew what things such as cab rides cost in whatever country they were in. In one place, on their way to the airport with luggage, they were trying to hop a bus. A cab pulled up and my friend asked the cost. Driver was asking for more than double standard and my friend went ballistic and told him NO......what a way to rob people.....etc., etc. His wife was exhausted and told him to agree to pay the fare, but he said no way. He told her he was tired of Americans getting ripped off and taken advantage of. They got divorced shortly after that. In retrospect, likely would have saved him a ton of money to just pay the darn cab fare.
so the same dudes that ask people to over-tip their waiters or they will get their food poisoned also suggest them to pay less in the poor countries that's not livable wage, it's imperialism!
This has been my biggest travel learning curve. Especially in India and SE Asia.
Had all his cash and credit cards in his wallet and did not keep anything as a backup in the hotel. Lost his wallet and immediately called all his banks and cancelled all the cards. Only after this was done did he call the restaurant he was last in and they said they had found the wallet with all cash and cards in it. Got his wallet, but now all his CCs and Debit Card were cancelled and he had a hard time getting replacements sent out from his foreign bank.
Had cash and credit cards in wallet, and kept money belt as a backup in the hotel. Next day I left the place, and left my money belt behind in the hotel, didn't I.
I did that with a pair of suit trousers. Fortunately they didn't have my wallet in them and the hotel was able to post them to me!
Load More Replies...You should cancel your cards even if you do find them later, you don't know what might have happened in the meantime, who might have the numbers, and cancelling them protects you from possible costs.
Keep large amounts in the hotel safe if there is one. Use travelers checks. Take a small locking box with you, keep the key or combination on you. Find a bank that will work with your bank in the states - many are associated - so you can access your accounts if needed. Then you don't need to carry a lot on you. Keep cash and credit cards in your front pocket only. No one can get to it without you knowing
I always keep the money in two different places on me if I'm travelling alone or between me and my husband if we're travelling together. That way if one loses money, we're still not broke. And, we have separate accounts for cards for the same reason.
When I travel, I have a passport case/wallet that I carry around my neck. People have to understand when you go abroad...you are in a FOREIGN country that you are NOT a citizen of. For some reason, people think when they travel abroad, American laws/rights/privileges still apply to them....
Therefore, even if I travel inside my own country, I ALWAYS have enough cash with me to get me home, even if I went there by my own car and don't expect any emergencies. This hasn't safed my life yet, but it did spare me a lot of hassle a few times. I'd not travel outside without that.
A lot of older trains (Europe mainly) the toilets discharge directly onto the tracks. I've seen plenty of plucky canadians, australians, and americans take a poop while the train is at the station and make everyone stand around smell and view their pile o poo.
Those discharge systems have been out of use in most euopean contries for decades. Last time I have used one in Germany must have been in the early 90's. But yes, once in a time you can get a very old train that still has it, especially in parts of eastern europe. That's why it was explicitely forbidden to use the toilets while in a station back then.
Don't go to Croatia then. My daughter was shocked and just held it for an hour.
Load More Replies...Most of our trains have chemical toilets these days but I still NEVER use it when the train is in a station. It's so deeply ingrained in me
That's odd, the toilets are usually locked just before you arrive at a station and not unlocked until after the train leaves the station. Speaking from experience of yearly train travels all over Europe from early 80ies until today.-
The only places you see these now is in more rural areas in eastern europe tbh xP
This was the case 20-30 years ago. But at the time you would be able to look straight down and see the tracks too..
Once in Rome Termini station I noticed the layer of " stuff" covering the ties, the pieces of toiletpaper stuck in it said enough
Trying to speak the language by making up what they think a word is by adding an inflection. For example, passport to passporta instead of pasaporte.
I don't necessarily agree with this one. When I learnt to speak Dutch I often add a Dutch "accent" to an English word to help someone understand me and it is very effective. I call it Dinglish. When I travel to Germany and want to try my (very very bad) German, I do the same using Dutch words and I also do it from Latin and English to Italian when I've travelled there. In my experience, most people are genuinely pleased that you are trying to learn the language. The exception of course Is France. lol. Dont butcher French. I've never made friends with bad french. lol.
Old English sounded much less like english, and more like dutch/scandnavian. I'm half swede, half dutch and grew up in the usa. In school, in history class a recording of Old English was played, I said that I could almost understand it. Was called a lair by the teacher. Found out many years later that they are so close that it would be possible to understand a few words if you knew some basic english,swedish,dutch,german..
Load More Replies...Ha, this works more often than it should. I've heard someone that didn't know the French for bacon just say 'bacon' with a French accent and it worked. And I was once helping some school kids buy sweets in a French shop. When the woman behind the counter couldn't understand what one child was asking for I just said 'Fruitella' with the most over the top French accent and she understood us.
" bacon : from Old French "bacon". it is pronounced more or less the same way in french.
Load More Replies...I think making an effort to communicate is the best you can do for a holiday. Give it a go and be patient.
Actually, in related languages that works wonderfully. If you speak portuguese you can take guesses about spanish, italian, catalan, even (if you know a bit of the language) french
because french, italian, spanish, portuguese, catalan and romanian are the romance languages.
Load More Replies...Sometimes this works! In the UK we would say the word “military” like milli-tree/mili-tre but in Europe I have to say it mil-it—tary and hey presto, I’m now understood!
I've been doing it wrong. I've been saying "La pisepoort".
Load More Replies...I say bull on this one, really depends on the languages. If you know french, you can italianify etc. But you still need a basic understanding of the language. I have even done it with my own language to a language student. I couldn't think of the correct word in swedish, so I took the english word and swedified it. Was called out on it, asked if they would be willing to double check? They did, and the word did exist and I did it and was used correctly, because the root word was correct.
You mean we shouldn't just go for the 'Allo 'Allo School of Languages and start speaking like the policeman? I was pissing by the dour and thought I might poop in.
Living in Japan for over a decade, the most consistently embarrassing thing for me is overhearing tourists in bars who only know the words "Kawaii" and "Sugoi" finding ways to repeat them ad nauseum no matter what the context.
You'd think "Professor" Ueda Jiro wouldn't be such a massive c**t and would know better, but I guess having a "professor" title doesn't mean you have that great of a brain after all. After all, we all know racists are idiots. Kusottare manko...
I was shocked at how truly nasty and xenophobic his comment was. His other comment on this thread was pretty damn anti-foreigner as well. He better get off his damn high-horse. I’m impressed by anyone who takes up the challenge to learn another culture and move abroad for work, family, or a better life. Ueda sounds like a xenophobic jerk.
Load More Replies...I've seen and heard locals speak Japanese and I have NO IDEA how they go so fast. Also it sounds terrifying when the person speaking is angry, IMO.
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I live in New York and every time I see some guy wearing an "I heart NY" hat giving money to a panhandler with one of those dumb cardboard signs with obviously fake stories on them I cringe internally
Same in Scotland, driving through touristy towns and seeing someone wandering about mid afternoon in a kilt or a tartan bonnet, they are everywhere at this time of year.
The worse are the fake Balmoral cap or tam o'shanter with the this shock of fake red hair attached. You can see them in all the shops along the Royal Mile, especially during the Fringe Festival. There's also the low quality towels with some random tartan print on them so if you wrap it around your waist it looks like you're wearing a knock-off kilt.
Load More Replies...Though is ur really a trip to New York without getting one of those shirts? I got one when i went and i wear it all the time
Rumor has it the rule is like the one for concert t-shirts: you don't ever, ever wear it to the location itself (or to see the band itself).
Load More Replies...Why do you care what people wear? I live in Washington DC and I don't throw a fit over tourists with DC apparel. If it makes them happy who is it hurting? The t-shirt vendors need to make a living too.
I am well aware that in my city people asking for change are not likely to buy coffee or a sandwich. Believe me, I've offered actual food and have been turned down. However, if I give somebody enough money to buy themselves a beer or something, so be it.. Sometimes people will ask for some money just for an opportunity to strike up a conversation. We can't always change someone's life, but that does not mean we can't let them know we care. I do contribute to the causes that help the homeless. There are cases where the homeless cannot be helped in the traditional sense. They can still be helped. Give them your attention, give them a bit of your change, give them some gloves or a hat when it's cold. Do what you can as it's all good.
Yeah, cos there's no homelessness in NY. They're all actually really rich.....
pay our servers to allow huge profits for our rich, but don't touch those homeless...
Same in Paris. Also don't buy those Eiffel towers you find on gift shops or those sellers on their rugs (idk what you call them) try to sell you. They often charge you a lot for a dumb thing that's "made in china" and that you can find on websites like Aliexpress for litteral cents of you really want one. Also they oxidize really quick.
One I would add if you're visiting the UK is pack every type of clothing for every type of weather you reasonably can. There's the stereotype it's always raining but in reality our weather is so changeable in just a few hours it's crazy. You can start the day off with torrential rain, by midday it's blazing hot sunshine, thunderstorms in the early evening and then calm and mild at night. That's why Brits talk a lot about the weather, it's like a sentient beast constantly trying to screw with us for a laugh
And sometimes it's significantly warmer at night than during the day.
Load More Replies...Research, research, research! This will save ya! Do it for a few days, not just hour in the afternoon. It'll help ya retain the info better. Things like transportation, currency, foods, sites, museums, what's safe, LAWS, MANNERS, operating hours are essential. And never forget to have at least two backup plans.
As an American in Japan, I witnessed a group of American men, at around 10am, on a train, all with open beers in their hands. Yes, it’s legal to have open alcohol in public, but for the love of all that is holy, do a little research. 1) Day drinking is not a thing unless you’re a drunk or having a beer at lunch. 2) Drinking anything and eating on the train is very much frowned upon and you will get really polite death stares. Especially eating or drinking standing up is a no go here.
Thanks for the tips! But none of these really apply to my trip to Peru in a few days.
Oooh. I was there many years ago. The dont be a**e with haggling rule applies - especially outside of Lima. Peru is a developing country and the few dollars wont mean much to you but will make a big difference to the locals. I'm not sure what its like these days, but scams and pickpockets were pretty rife back then, so dont carry alot of cash, secure your valuables. Peruvian people are really lovely and if you know a little bit of spanish it will go a long way! Have fun!
Load More Replies...And I'd like to add that's it's childish and rude to stare, giggle and/or comment at the naked people on beaches or men in speedos. I mean I'm not used to it in New York but come on people it's not a big deal seeing a guy in a banana hammock or a girl's boobs on the beach. This is normal outside the U.S.; shoot you'll see it sometimes in certain places in the U.S.
That's a wonderful rule for Germany. Here we think, "People are different. If you think there's something wrong with that, there's something wrong with you."
Load More Replies...I would also like to add influencers /foreigners tainting sacred places by getting naked or disrespecting the sacred/religious places. If you wouldn't pose naked in a church, what makes you think that it's right to pose naked at sacred tree in Bali ?
I work in tourism and most of my American clients are great guests. Some are lesser informed than others but they are friendly, open and tip well, if they are happy. And it's easy to make them happy. If anybody is truly arrogant it's boomer Aussis (in myy experience)
I live in central London and tourists seem to treat it like a theme park where you can safetly roam at will, and don't realise that if they aimlessly wander out into the road they will be mown down by a cyclist or taxi. I would guess this is the same in other picturesque European cities too.
I have one! Do not assume everyone who lives somewhere has been to a popular tourist destination, such as a museum or park. I know it seems weird, but a lot of people have assumed I have been up the CN tower, just because I'm Canadian. Also, do not assume everyone knows everything about landmarks and buildings!
In New York City it's almost a point of pride for locals not to have ever been to touristy places like Times Square or the Statue of Liberty.
Load More Replies...What we learned travelling from the US to Europe many years ago. 1)learn a few phrases in the language of the countries you are visiting. At least how to ask if someone speaks English. We always found someone who did, but knowing how to ask politely was helpful, and respectful for that matter. 2)Learn basic exchange rates. My mom offered something like 10 times the amount to pay for a post card. We were at a chapel and the nice nun explained the basics of what each coin/bill was worth.
One I would add if you're visiting the UK is pack every type of clothing for every type of weather you reasonably can. There's the stereotype it's always raining but in reality our weather is so changeable in just a few hours it's crazy. You can start the day off with torrential rain, by midday it's blazing hot sunshine, thunderstorms in the early evening and then calm and mild at night. That's why Brits talk a lot about the weather, it's like a sentient beast constantly trying to screw with us for a laugh
And sometimes it's significantly warmer at night than during the day.
Load More Replies...Research, research, research! This will save ya! Do it for a few days, not just hour in the afternoon. It'll help ya retain the info better. Things like transportation, currency, foods, sites, museums, what's safe, LAWS, MANNERS, operating hours are essential. And never forget to have at least two backup plans.
As an American in Japan, I witnessed a group of American men, at around 10am, on a train, all with open beers in their hands. Yes, it’s legal to have open alcohol in public, but for the love of all that is holy, do a little research. 1) Day drinking is not a thing unless you’re a drunk or having a beer at lunch. 2) Drinking anything and eating on the train is very much frowned upon and you will get really polite death stares. Especially eating or drinking standing up is a no go here.
Thanks for the tips! But none of these really apply to my trip to Peru in a few days.
Oooh. I was there many years ago. The dont be a**e with haggling rule applies - especially outside of Lima. Peru is a developing country and the few dollars wont mean much to you but will make a big difference to the locals. I'm not sure what its like these days, but scams and pickpockets were pretty rife back then, so dont carry alot of cash, secure your valuables. Peruvian people are really lovely and if you know a little bit of spanish it will go a long way! Have fun!
Load More Replies...And I'd like to add that's it's childish and rude to stare, giggle and/or comment at the naked people on beaches or men in speedos. I mean I'm not used to it in New York but come on people it's not a big deal seeing a guy in a banana hammock or a girl's boobs on the beach. This is normal outside the U.S.; shoot you'll see it sometimes in certain places in the U.S.
That's a wonderful rule for Germany. Here we think, "People are different. If you think there's something wrong with that, there's something wrong with you."
Load More Replies...I would also like to add influencers /foreigners tainting sacred places by getting naked or disrespecting the sacred/religious places. If you wouldn't pose naked in a church, what makes you think that it's right to pose naked at sacred tree in Bali ?
I work in tourism and most of my American clients are great guests. Some are lesser informed than others but they are friendly, open and tip well, if they are happy. And it's easy to make them happy. If anybody is truly arrogant it's boomer Aussis (in myy experience)
I live in central London and tourists seem to treat it like a theme park where you can safetly roam at will, and don't realise that if they aimlessly wander out into the road they will be mown down by a cyclist or taxi. I would guess this is the same in other picturesque European cities too.
I have one! Do not assume everyone who lives somewhere has been to a popular tourist destination, such as a museum or park. I know it seems weird, but a lot of people have assumed I have been up the CN tower, just because I'm Canadian. Also, do not assume everyone knows everything about landmarks and buildings!
In New York City it's almost a point of pride for locals not to have ever been to touristy places like Times Square or the Statue of Liberty.
Load More Replies...What we learned travelling from the US to Europe many years ago. 1)learn a few phrases in the language of the countries you are visiting. At least how to ask if someone speaks English. We always found someone who did, but knowing how to ask politely was helpful, and respectful for that matter. 2)Learn basic exchange rates. My mom offered something like 10 times the amount to pay for a post card. We were at a chapel and the nice nun explained the basics of what each coin/bill was worth.
