When you master whatever it is that you have to master at work, lots of things about it can feel like common knowledge. You might think that everyone outside of the kitchen knows what’s the difference between a béarnaise and a hollandaise sauce or that everyone’s familiar with how to fix computer-related problems.
However, some things that seem fairly obvious to representatives of that specific profession might be completely out of left field for the rest. That’s what members of the ‘Ask Reddit’ community recently discussed after one user asked them what is common knowledge in their profession that not a lot of people know about. If you’re curious to see what their answers were, scroll down to find them on the list below, and familiarize yourself with the ins and outs of numerous different jobs.
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That my semi-truck can't stop as fast as their car.
I need a couple football fields to slow down from highway speed, and that's in absolutely clear weather... Stop merging 13 feet in front of me & slamming on the brakes for an exit, just stay behind me and wait an extra 2 seconds so I don't kill you and endanger everyone around us.
Side note. Don't hang around too close to us either, even something as simple as one of our tires blowing up can kill/seriously injure you by itself or cause us to completely lose control of our rigs if it's a steer tire.
Sorry for being dark, but people don't realize quite how dangerous semi trucks can be.
And please, if you're approaching an intersection and see that a semi is going to be turning into your lane/direction, please stop well short of the intersection and allow them to swing wide to make the turn! The few extra seconds to allow them easier passage will make everything so much better!
I can only speak for the UK but lorry drivers are taught to straddle both lanes where possible/sensible to prevent people going down the side of them - helps to ensure they are able to manoeuvre safely.
Load More Replies...If semi-truck drivers would avoid cutting over into the left lane (especially at the last second) to pass another semi-truck at only 1 mph faster, that would also be great.
Ah yes, the 15 minute passing maneuver, a classic
Load More Replies...There was an ad campaign where I live a little while ago about this, because so many accidents were happening. Also about giving space when they're turning.
Showing my age here, but there was a video called "The No Zone" we watched in Driver's Ed that outlined all of this and it was fantastic. Trucks aren't something to be toyed with
This. My work vehicle is a 20 ton bucket truck. Everyone is obsessed with getting around me. I get it we’re slow but when you cut me off remember. If I hit you I won’t even feel it but there’s a good chance you’ll be dead. I can’t stop as fast as a civic. I have that follow distance for a reason, I don’t want to hurt anyone. Stop whipping around me just to immediately turn right.
My dad drove OTR for a chunk of my life. I avoid semis as much as possible.
Also, if you are behind a semi and you can't see the driver's mirrors, the driver can't see you.
A lot of trucks in NZ have this exact detail on the back of them, also never undertake or overtake a turning truck - they swing wide for a reason.
Load More Replies...My long-haul trucker BF took me along for a local ride once. The s**t I saw other drivers pull on him made me doubly conscious of how careful I need to be as a car driver.
Was travelling years ago, truck passed us with a wobbly trailer tire. Urged my then girlfriend, now wife, to back off. "Why?" Perfect timing as the trailer tire un treaded and went 20 feet in the air. "how did you know that would happen?" I didn't know when, but that it would.
Reminds me of a "CSI" episode I saw a while ago -- opened with something irregularly round rolling and bouncing along a hilly terrain at night; it came to rest and the camera revealed it was a human head in a motorcycled helmet. The body and the cycle were found several miles along the road in the opposite direction. The CSI team determined that the cyclist had been riding behind a semi when a tire shredded and he was decapitated by the tread flying backwards.
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Mental health worker. Everything you learned on TikTok was a lie. Not wrong. A lie. Take your goddamn meds.
If you are prescribed something then you need it. Take it as directed and don't just stop, some meds need to be gradually reduced.
Everything you learn on tiktok is a lie. <-- you could have stopped here LOL
This is so true, tiktok is the WORST offender of spreading misinformation out there, it somehow manages to be worse than youtube, facebook, twitter and reddit combined!
Load More Replies...I had someone tell me my antidepressants were a "crutch" told him that they were the only thing keeping me from beating the c**p out of him for stupidity.
I've heard that too. I said I have a broken brain, next time you have a broken leg how about I kick your crutch away
Load More Replies...Also: If you start to feel better, that means the meds ARE WORKING, don't stop taking them because then they will NOT BE ABLE TO KEEP WORKING BC THEY WONT BE IN YOUR BODY!! Never stop a medication without discussing it with your doctor, as some meds can make you feel 10x worse if you stop cold turkey
Julie, you are 100% correct! I've been on Prozac/fluoxetine for 30 years. I've tried to taper off and it's not been pretty. The side effects, for ME, have been slight. I am a long-time mental health professional. If meds aren't working or have intolerable side effects SPEAK UP! Please don't just stop taking them. There could be an alternative dosage or med that will work.
TikTok is full of self-help gurus, so-called medical specialists (except for a small group who can actually call themselves that) and other people, some of whom mean well, and others who just say or post something, just for the likes and followers. Watching Tiktok is fine, but taking everything for granted can sometimes not be so good for you.
Advocate for meds here, I'm still functioning and living independently. Bad days, sure, but meds make so much difference.
To paraphrase Penn Teller "If you take medical advice from a magician on the internet (or tik toker) you're an idiot and you deserve to die."
The fashion industry is the second biggest polluter in the world behind the oil industry.
it's ok my underpants are more holes than coverage,but they are comfortable 😁
I do most of my clothes shopping at thrift stores. The massive waste that the fashion industry causes is one reason why.
Load More Replies...If the fashion industry made clothing that lasted more than a couple of months it would help just a little bit. There used to a mill near me that processed massive bales of mostly woollen clothing/textiles. The contents were shredded and then re-spun to make skeins, hanks and balls ready to be used for knitting and re-use in the clothing/textile industries. It was called a shoddy mill. It’s heartening to know that a mill in Dewsbury, West Yorkshire has been reopened to provide this in order to prevent landfill waste.
That's one issue, but a there's a lot of brand new clothing that ends up in landfills as well. It's so cheap for them to make that they can make way to much & just toss what doesn't sell.
Load More Replies...Most o my clothes are older than most o you lot reading this shite.
Nope. I still wear my original Iron Maiden t-shirt on special occasions. And I’m ancient.
Load More Replies...The commercial fishing industry is right behind these guys. There are 5 known, huge garbage patches in our oceans. The largest of which is located between California, USA, and Hawaii, USA. It is about 3 TIMES the size of the country of France. Almost all of it is lost, abandoned, broken ghost gear. Fishing nets alone account for about 50% of the garbage.
Unfortunately that doesn't solve the problem of manufacturers throwing away brand new clothes that didn't sell
Load More Replies...I worked in a clothing store. EVERY top, pants, bag, shirt, skirt, EVERY SINGLE ITEM came in a separate plastic bag and some were 10 items in plastic bags in one pig plastic bag 10 bags in one big bag. So when you go to a store and see all those stacked tops and hanging pants, imagine instead of each of them 1-3 plastic bags. Can we start there maybe?
Probably one of the African open air dumps use by the fashion industry to dump outdated stock...
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Carbohydrates are not “bad”. Carbs are vital to our body and our brain loves them. Ultra-processed food is bad.
I agree - up to a point - ultra processed food will be the death of us - but. Where there are essential amino acids (protein) and essential fats there are no essential carbohydrates. Vitamins, minerals and fibre - all of which are found in vegetables and fruits, but carbs - no. There is a vast difference between plant based whole foods and what a lot of people think of as carbs (pasta, bread, white rice etc.)
Actually, fibre is an essential carbohydrate.
Load More Replies...Carbs are not bad per se, nor is fat, it is the AMOUNT of each that a person consumes each day that matters. With processed foods and fast foods it is so easy to eat several hundred more carbs than you need each day.
The ADA guidelines for daily carbohydrates for diabetics is still too high. For obesity and diabetes type 2 management, greatly restricting your carbs intake is the only real way to make a significant reduction in your weight and blood sugar numbers.
Wrong. Diabetic people need carbs just everybody else, but they lack the insulin to absorb it in the cells to be used as energy. That's why they inject it. Good luck to live without carbs.
Load More Replies...Carbs store energy you can use later on! That’s why you eat a bunch of them before a workout
Depends on the length and intensity of the exercise. Carbs are essential for replenishing glycogen (a form of carbohydrate stored in your muscles) after exercise, and are often better consumed after. Because they are so quickly digested and absorbed, your blood sugar will also fall quickly leading you to potentially feel fatigued and that's not what you want before a workout. Balancing it with lean protein is essential.
Load More Replies...Unless you have had gastric bypass......super low carb diet. Like just a tiny amount or you get dumping syndrom. At least I do. I miss bread. But I am healthy and many things I was worried about are not an issue any longer.
Most people will try anything but reading the instructions. I write the instructions.
You're my favourite person in the world I wish they'd hire you for more stuff I miss instructions!!! (I am one of the only people that reads them)
If something actually HAS instructions, what I've found is that if I read and follow them, people think I'm a freaking genius.
When we got a board game as a present as kids, I was always the one who would sit down and thoroughly read the rules and explain them to my siblings. To this day they haven't realized why I won so often.
I’m always the go to for things like IKEA building. It’s really not even that complicated, people just like putting things together before knowing what exactly they’re supposed to put together.
Maybe if you didn't spend the first ten pages congratulating me on my wise purchase, and the second ten pages fault finding with such gems as "plug it in" I'd read them.
^^This. And also the other 10 pages sandwiched in there telling me how doing anything slightly different to what the instructions say will cause me death.
Load More Replies...Most instructions for Asian made products are badly translated into English.
I speak a few languages (badly), and have had several instances where I had to read the instructions in French or Spanish to understand what the English instructions meant.
Load More Replies...Oh, so you're the one! Actually, I love it when I get detailed instructions. Those pictogram sheets they provide are hopeless. So what if you market in 20 countries and have to provide text in 20 languages. And it's fun afterward to compare and see how to say "Insert screw A into hole Q" in Hungarian or Latvian.
I used to write work instructions for complex and potentially dangerous manufacturing processes. Our standard was to write so that folks with a 7th grade reading level could use them. When I moved on to other factories I often found work instructions that bordered on unreadability. Even the safety sections were obtuse. Scary.
There is this guy on you tube that my hubs likes to watch who tests different things on his channel. The thing is, he tosses the instructions every single time and can't figure out why stuff doesnt work very well. He makes my brain mad. he was trying out popcorn makers and put a paper plate under the air popper and was upset that the popcorn went everywhere. The kind that has the dome, that you flip over and use for a bowl? He took the lid off and couldnt understand why the popcorn fell all over the table, IDIOT!
Honestly, it's probably an engagement tactic. Rage-bait, if you will.
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I work in IT
Computers are magic boxes that sometimes do what I want them to do.
I can fix them but a lot of the times I don't know why what I did worked.
Turn it off and back on again isn't just a funny saying.
It isn't magic, it's the endless permutation of various applications running simultaneously causing unpredictable outcomes. A reboot just starts the chaos over from the beginning.
Oh, that actually makes a lot of sense. It's somewhat infuriating to me how often a problem a fixed by a restart, but your observation here is...really astute. And well said. Thank you.
Load More Replies...This and the IT guy generally just googled your problem anyhow. 16 years in IT and of course we have common issue we know how to fix but everything else we just look it up for people to lazy to do so for themselves. Glad I don’t work in IT anymore.
Or, perhaps they don't have time to look it up themselves? If I'm at work and I'm trying to do x but y is not working, do I spend half an hour googling and trying to find the fix for my specific problem, (which may require administrative access that I don't have) or call the help desk and either get it fixed in 5 min or have them open a ticket so the professional can Google it properly? (Also, perhaps I can fix it if it's some sort of setting or software fluke, but what if it's an issue that would ultimately need a patch? If no one calls the help desk because they fix it themselves, the root cause will never be addressed)
Load More Replies...People get sick of being told to reboot, but they lie and say they already did. Anyone who has done tech support will tell you you have to trick people into rebooting to make sure it's done. I'd tell them it's good that you rebooted, now let's try the next thing: tell me all the lights and buttons you see in the front of your cpu, okay good, push in the large round one for 3 seconds. "Uhh, did you just have me reboot?...hold on, never mind, I fixed it. Didn't need you after all!" Made me hate answering any phone for life.
Turn off and on is the first thing I do, 90% of the time the machine forgets what it was doing wrong and goes back where it should be.
An acquaintance worked as a Microsoft support tech. He mostly Googled to find the solutions.
The lighter the coffee roast, the more caffeine it has. The darker the roast, the less it has.
guyhabit:To elaborate a bit more, the reason dark roasts taste bitter is not because it has more caffeine, but because it’s burnt to shit and that’s just how ash-water tastes. Heat destroys caffeine, so darker roasts have the least caffeine of all.
I'll take my preferred taste over caffeine, I prefer a dark roast.
I have never really been a coffee drinker and people look at me pityingly when I say I prefer mild coffees over those bitter and sour tasting brews they down.
A barista at Starbucks told me this and I've been drinking blonde ever since
I found some Ethiopian Yrgacheffe that tastes amazing. Closest i have found to 100% Kona without paying outrageous costs for Kona. the light roast is so much more robust and flavorful than the medium. Extra caffeine is just a bonus!!
Tanzanian peaberry is pretty close if it's roasted right
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Shocking someone (like an AED or "paddles") doesn't restart your heart, it stops it.
MaroonTrucker28People often assume the heart stops and an AED fires it back up. The heart is contracting, but ineffectively (an arrhythmia, it's basically lethally uncoordinated) and therefore not pumping any oxygenated blood to the body. Which equals death before too long. So the idea is to stop the heart so it'll reset itself to a normal rhythm.
Many films will also show CPR, and the person comes back from unconsciousness. This DOES NOT happen. The only thing CPR does is keeps pressure on the heart to pump oxygenated blood to the rest of the body. CPR is not a treatment, it's a temporary measure to keep the bodily organs oxygenated long enough to get the heart restarted via shock.
Sometimes CPR can restart the heart by giving back the rythm, but it is incredibly rare, and moreover no one can get up after getting CPR and going back to work the day after.
Yep and if the CPR was done properly and you made it, it’s entirely possible you have some broken ribs. I just went through CPR tracing and they say, it’s better to press too hard than too light, it’s ok if you break something, it’s better than dying.
Load More Replies...Also giving someone cpr will almost certainly break a few ribs. The amount of pressure that needs to be applied to give effective cpr makes it inevitable. I get annoyed when I see actors on TV giving cpr with bended elbows and just lightly pushing on the person's chest. I understand they can't do it for real on the actor but it gives so many people the wrong idea about giving cpr. While we're on the subject, no you can't be sued for injuring someone while giving them cpr (not in the UK anyway.)
It always annoys me on TV when someone gasps, sits up, and is absolutely fine after CPR. You were dead! Your ribs are broken! You are not ok!
Load More Replies...Most people don't give CPR long enough because they keep waiting for it to wake the person up. CPR is hard work, get other people in line to take shifts and keep at it until help arrives. Sing one of the songs so everyone uses the same rhythm.
It's like slamming a big book on the desk in a noisy classroom. Stops it all, can restart coordinated.
My dad and I have both survived cardiac arrest. We are some of the lucky few who were given CPR almost immediately and then (successful) AED shocks within 10 mins. Thank goodness for the bystanders who jumped into help and the paramedics and other medical staff and doctors who helped save our lives...mine happened when I was 32, my dad's happened a few years ago when he was 74
That language isn't stationary!
I'm translator and for the last few years my native language (Ukrainian) changing a lot.
We are bringing some old words and rules back and, at the same time, creating new ones, which is awesome.
But, unfortunately, I'm hearing all the time about "truth is only in vocabulary" and "new words aren't real" and sometimes it is really pissing me off.
Languages are changing all the time! It's their nature.
Yes, there's a set of main rules and words but even they are changing from time to time.
People creating new words all the time, some of them are dissapearing with time, some staying for much longer and that's okay.
And learning new words embiggens the smallest man.
Load More Replies...The old rule against ending a sentence with a preposition is a lot of nonsense up with which I will not put.
Do you realise that the word "GULLIBLE"has been removed from the English language?
If a language doesn’t change, it dies. This is one of the reasons English is so successful. Hey, we like that word from your language, we’re taking it. There are more words that disobey that rule, than obey it, let’s get rid of the rule. Hmm, we need a word for the new thing that does the thing, well, just make one up.
Grammar and other rules describe, they don't prescribe.
Load More Replies...This is why dictionaries are constantly being revised. We may mourn the loss of a fine word which perfectly defined a situation, but if we are the only ones to know what the word means, then it is no good. My current dismay is for the very specialized meaning of the word "ENORMITY", as an extremely terrible action, like Stalin's Terror, or the Holocaust. Now it just is used for "extremely big". But since no one apparently uses it in its original meaning, it has morphed into something new.
Everybody sells as much information on you as legally possible. Your bank, credit card company, mortgage company, any website that required a sign on... all of them sell your data. So I can target you with ads based on if you have a hotel booked for a major destination, how many kids you have, if you're due for a new car, where you get your oil change, how much sports you watch, where you spend your time and on and on and on. It's creepy
Last time I moved, I filled out a change of address form with the USPS. While living at my previous address, I married and changed my name. So new house only ever had my married name. But I filled out 2 change of address forms with maiden & married names just in case. Low and behold, I'm getting a significant amount of mail at new address with maiden name. The ONLY people that had my maiden name at new address was post office. CONVINCED they are selling the info!!!!!!!
*Lo and behold… 😉 (I usually ignore these, but it’s a different meaning otherwise. 💕)
Load More Replies...Am I the only one who finds targeted ads useful? I know its creepy but I cant do nothing about them, then at least i'm gonna enjoy the perks.
I like it. I don’t give a c**p who has my data, and I prefer my ads to be about s**t I want
that’s why I put wrong data in the questionnaires. based on them, i'm a a man/woman of 1/189 yo, living in paris/tokyo/anchorage/gondomar/choupwepwe with none and half kids that are my age :)
Well you guys don't target well. I only get ads for tyres AFTER I've bought them
My sister and her husband lived with me for about 6 months. I not only got letters for my brother-in-law for years, at several more houses I lived in later, but I got some for his ex-wife, whom none of us had ever even met, and who lived 1000 miles away. It is so creepy how we are tracked, and not always very accurately.
Of course, this is not new or just because of the internet, but rather, has been going on as long as there has been products and services for sale.
So I click on every ad for corporations selling stuff I will not buy. I get SUV , cruise ship and fast fashion ads.... Screwing with the algorithms and Cutting into polluting industries profits a bit.
Computer clouds are just someone else’s computers. Younger folks generally get this.
That's why I also, along with on the cloud, keep my important stuff on several external USBs
torrents are someone else's computer. Cloud storage is a server farm. Your personal data is not stored on some randoms computer.
A server farm is *still* "someone else's computer". That someone might be a large corporation, but if it's not your computer it's someone else's.
Load More Replies...Yes, it's not some actual storage space somewhere on the internet, as many people tend to think.
isn't it just exactley that? Storage space on a serverfarm that is connected to the internet? Or do you mean it's not just floating around on the "interwebs"?
Load More Replies...An awful lot of older folk too. I thought it was some extra space somewhere.
Load More Replies...Always have more than a backup on physical storage units (usb pen, SD card, external hdd) AND a cloud storage. Better use a well known and solid cloud provider, because they have the best technology and redundant machines, which means the same data stored on more than one device to be sure they don't get lost when one of them breaks. And always remember that physical units can break and anyway have an average life, so change the old ones often.
I had a vice president of major insurance company who literally thought it was stored in the sky
Not true. They are very secure server facilities and their locations are generally kept secret. Does not make sense to use the average person's unsecure computer to store someone's data.
You're missing the point. Those servers are owned by someone else. Don't think your data in the cloud is private, any server monkey employed by those companies has access to your data.
Load More Replies...Younger folks don't get this, neither do older folks, as an IT person I'm sick of explaining that the "cloud " is just a metaphor.
This is quite false. Actual cloud computing involves hundreds of computers that utilize software to scale hardware resources for applications based on user demand. The problem is that basically every company incorrectly calls any remote storage "the cloud", when in fact those are just someone else's computer and not all cloud computing.
Drowning is typically quick and silent. I'm a lifeguard.
There was one ad campaign in Australia that showed someone drowning and was entirely silent, to show the impact. Was creepy to watch and think about!
It is so true. A few years back, I was swimming at a pool at a vacation community (not my cup of tea, but my SIL chose it) it was very busy. My son, who was 3at the time, liked to stay at the edge holding on. Well, we were cruising the edge of the pool, and I just happen to look down. There, right underneath me, was a little boy, around 5, struggling on the bottom of the pool. There had to be at least 5peiple around, and nobody noticed him. I pulled him up. He coughed and threw up, but was ok. I found his guardian and explained what happened. They had been too busy socializing than paying attention to their child who, in their words " he said he could swim" (believe me, I let them have it!) But if I didn't happen to look down, that kid would have more than likely drowned. It was so inconspicuous and silent, it honestly truly upset me for months, and as a nurse for over 22 years, I have seen a lot of f****d up s**t, but this, just still sends me into a slight panic
Load More Replies...Bull. Silent, yes, but it takes minimum three minutes to drown. It's not a split second and your drowned, but a fairly long process.
I slipped into the water once a s child... it was so silent and doubt it lasted even a second. There was not even second that I kept my head above water. It was like a slide to the bottom deeper and deeper. I had no idea how to swim and my instinct (to paddle arms/legs) did not work. To myself I just thought "that's it, no need to resist", relaxed all my muscles while slipping deeper and deeper. Then I cannot explain what force worked but I started to rise (as pushed up to the surface). When my body emerged at the surface, my cousin instantly jumped to me and pulled me out. Apparently family saw what happened and were looking for me under water and on the surface for a good few minutes but without luck. It was lake with low visibility. GUYS, INFLATABLES ARE BULLSHAIT.
Load More Replies...A lot of discussion about "quick" and "silent." Guessing by "quick," they mean the time it takes someone to go under. Once under, it takes a bit of time to drown. I imagine that's pretty quiet for those above the water as well. At any rate, it's a good reminder that someone drowning may not draw much attention.
A few weeks ago, I went swimming at the beach, the waves did not seem dangerous at all. A quite small one was powerful enough to drag me under water and I got turned around and around, every time I tried to get back up on my feet again, another small wave caught me again, my head got pushed under water and smashed on the ground (I was just a few meters away from shore, the water was maybe 1,20m high), this was the first time in 37 years of my life that I truly felt terrified to die. I needed all my energy to gasp for some air between the waves, no chance to call for help. My friend was sitting right in front of me, nobody noticed anything. I was not able to give any signal with my arms, either. Luckily I somehow managed to get back up again and crawl back onto the sand. 50m away I could see an ambulance coming for another swimmer who also got caught up in the tiny waves. It is so scary when you feel that helpless.
But you're still alive...so how long did you keep them underwater until you came up with this hypothesis?🤔🫢
NEGATIVE!! Drowning is frantic, primal struggle to survive! "It is concluded that, in addition to the physical effort to keep the airway above the water, followed by the struggle to breath-hold, there is a period of pain, often described as a 'burning sensation' as water enters the lung" (NIH) I'm a retired lifeguard.
I nearly did drown in a wave pool at a water park. It was silent, and Thank Gawd another swimmer noticed me and pulled me out because the life guard was too busy eye balling the girl in the too tight bikini across the pool. That was almost my last vision.
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Not in hotels anymore, but spent 15ish years there. People die in hotels all the time. Every hotel I've worked at has their stories, and the ones with indoor open atriums are the worst. Sometimes it's just natural causes (I've had twice where someone had a heart attack in the middle of an event) but sometimes it's drug overdoes or suicides.
I once saw a man had fallen out of the window, not in russia, but on my way to work when I walked towards the hotel. Not a good sight early in the morning. First responder were already there.
My boyfriend at the time died in a hotel, in the bath, wasn’t found for a week! I feel so bad for the poor cleaner who found him 😞
Wow, that's a long time. At the hotel where I work, a staff member is required to enter the room every 2nd day of a stay. If someone doesn't want us in the room, we need to make sure all is well.
Load More Replies...I've heard about the Cecil Hotel in Los Angeles. Lots of creepy things and strange deaths (look it up). The worst was a double death: an elder man was found dead on the sidewalk under the hotel windows, with a dead woman upon his body. At first it was regatded as a double suicide. Later police discovered that the two were unrelated but the man had been so unlucky to walk under the hotel windows when the woman committed suicide
I remember coming to work one morning just as they were wheeling a body out.
I worked in hotels for about 4 years. We had at least two deaths that I’m aware of. Thankfully neither were an OD.
My wife used to be office manager at a gun store in the US. Happened at least twice that the hotel's internal "detective" tried to come after the gun store for "liability" because someone bought a gun, went to the hotel, and committed suicide. Surviving family members wanted to blame someone, so the hotel went after the gun store--except, not so much. Not the gun store's fault that they sold a suicide weapon, and they were never found "liable" for any suicides.
There are no guaranteed results with therapy. It’s all subjective and based on what you put into it/the connectedness with the counselor. I say this as many clients have told me they compare it to going to the gym..
From experience, success of therapy does greatly depend on putting into practice what you learn in therapy, so it's not a matter of just passively listening to a therapist and hoping they somehow "fix" you. That said, a good, skilled therapist is essential.
"Learn in therapy"? Are there therapists who try to teach you things? What do you mean "listening to a therapist". I've been to several therapists, and all they mainly do is sit there and listen, which is mostly useless once you get past the getting-to-know-you phase. (My current one does offer some wisdom, but it's few and far between.)
Load More Replies...Sometimes it takes a few tries to find the therapist that's right for you. A mismatch with one is not the reason to give up.
Q: How many psychiatrists dies it take to change a light bulb? A: Only one, but the bulb really must want to change.
The comparison to going to the gym makes sense. Results aren't guaranteed and really depend on what you put into it.
I've been through many therapists over the years and still have not found one I've felt comfortable telling my whole truth to. I wish I could find one that would help me be vulnerable during sessions so that the following sessions can address the actual reasons I need a therapist.
Your comment made me think if it would not be better if therapy sessions were anonym. As one can see, people on the internet have no/ less inhibitions and are more likely to show their true colors.
Load More Replies...yes, because you put your mind on something, and you distracted yourself. But, compared to working out, therapy can help with many other problems, like depression, addiction, and many other stuff.
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Used to be a railroad conductor. Derailments happen all the time. Like multiple per day. You only hear about the major crashes.
To be fair, you don't hear about car fender-benders either. Only sensation makes the news.
I've worked in rail for 12 years. I can count the number of derailments on one hand. they are NOT common. If you have multiple derailments a day, the FRA would shut you down and fine the c**p out of your company as well as other investigative agencies, i.e. CPUC in California
We treat driving against a signal that's set to stop as super duper bad even if nothing happens and it just was a few metres. If something actually happens however minor it gets really big. But yeah, derailments are very uncommon.
Load More Replies...This always scares me. We live beside a train track. They stop and switch tracks about a quarter of a mile from our property, so they are always breaking and stopping by us. There have been a few times it has been so ridiculously loud that I just know it is going to derail, which fortunately it hasn't yet.
lol my younger brother, when we was kids, suggested that trains should have tyres like cars to stop them derailing 🤔..... yeahhhh didn't think that one through
Been done since 1956. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rubber-tyred_metro
Load More Replies...The US has abnormally high derailments per freight ton mile, daily derailments is not normal.
When you brush your teeth, don't rinse with anything afterwards, just spit out the toothpaste. You get more benefit from the fluoride sitting on your teeth than just rinsing it off.
Nope. This is nasty. I need all the bits I've cleaned from my teeth out of my mouth.
Nobody said not to spit. Just don't rinse. There shouldn't be that many "bits" unless you're cleaning too soon after eating. Floss before brushing and you won't have this problem.
Load More Replies...I really hate the taste of toothpaste so rinsing with a bucket of water is essential. Why does toothpaste have to be minty? Anyone remember Cherish toothpaste which was red? I’m not asking for meat flavoured toothpaste, just something that’s not mint. My parents had such a nightmare with trying to brush my teeth.
I relate really hard but I’m the opposite. I can’t feel like I properly brushed my teeth unless the toothpaste was minty. I’m aware that ages ago scrubbing teeth with cinnamon was a thing. Plus other spices. Yet, somehow, I can’t agree to my dental hygienist offering cinnamon, or (shudder) bubblegum flavour. Logically, I know the product will do the same thing. I trust my hygienist that much. I just can’t get past the ingrained notion that minty tastes clean.
Load More Replies...I didn't learn this until l was in my 40s. We were taught to rinse as children. Sigh
Children should really spit and rinse, too much flouride for small people!
Load More Replies...My dental hygienist told me to rinse with Lysteryne after brushing, BUT... the dentist said that would wash away the toothpaste which has 3 to 4 times as much fluoride as the mouthwash, meaning that the mouthwash is actually only to be used when not brushing....
The dentist is correct, I'm frankly shocked to hear of a hygienist actually 1) recommending Listerine and 2) recommending rinsing out toothpaste.
Load More Replies...I don't want to eat glue. that's kindergarteners jobs.
Load More Replies...Brush, rinse, floss, rinse, apply a little more paste and don't rinse.
Can’t. Sensory issues, alas. But thankfully, live in NYC, with fluorinated water!
Cell phones dropped in water. Step Zero: salt water? Forget about it. Step one Do NOT put your phone in rice to dry it out. There are two problems with this. The moisture of your newly damaged phone will strip minerals off the rice, and those minerals will now be free to contribute to the corrosion of the circuits. The other problem is the amount of time rice would remove moisture from your phone is insane. FYI anecdotal evidence perpetuates this myth because sometimes phones work for no reason. Just lucky
Step two, remove the battery. Can't do that at least power the device off asap. Like if your stuff isn't backed up ASAFP. Do not use the device.
Step three, take your phone to a repair shop. They will disassemble it, they will scrub all components with isopropyl alcohol, and heat everything. They will reassemble everything and pray. They will test everything and let you know if more repairs are necessary but more importantly they will attempt to backup any data that isn't in the cloud.
Source: I personally repaired about 5,000 water damaged phones over four years.
Bonus fact. Water resistance is damaged by chlorine and exposure to water in general.
Step 2: Don't set your phone down in the bathroom while you take a shower. My former boss voided her iPhone's warranty and couldn't figure out how it got wet inside.
Load More Replies...Isn't this rather old advice? Step 2 is quite difficult with most modern smartphones - when consumers wanted a slimmer, lighter design, one of the solutions engineers came up with was to install a permanent battery. By ensuring you cannot remove the battery, engineers made the smartphone's case and chassis serve as its protection instead. So skip that and go straight to Step 3 perhaps!
meh. rice works the majority of the time. I don't trust the guy whose advice is "don't do this free and simple thing, bring your phone to me and pay me to fix it!"
Agreed. I've used the method twice - dropped my phone in the pool once and into a large beverage glass full of Coke (don't ask. lol). Leaving my phone in a bag of rice for 24 hours revived it from totally non-functional to fully functional both times.
Load More Replies...Also. Dont lie to the repair person if you dropped your phone in water (i.e.: "it just randomly stopped working") they can easily find out due to moisture sensors in the phone, look like lil white paper or cloth dots, they turn red when exposed to any liquid. Can save them and yourself a lot of headaches
Waterproof cases are cheap and amazing, because they also keep out dust and let hair.
I frequently tell people putting your phone in rice is a harmful myth. Everyone does one of three things. 1) Ignore me, 2) ignore me 3) ignore me.
Step 0 - I personally call BS on that one, my SE K750i got dowsed in seawater one summer on a boat (no repair shops on a boat, duh). Step 1 - skipped, step 2 initiated immediately (so it doesn't short-circuit or something) and I shook all of the water out of it as much as I could manage. It stayed turned off, I cleaned it with alcohol (bc fr now, I didn't expect it to start up again, but it did eventually) and fired uo the badboy 2 days later when I was certain it was thoroughly dry. Bonus: later that same year it got dowsed in white wine at my prom, so I repeated all above-mentioned steps and it worked. It's somewhere at the bottom of my wardrobe to this day and I'm sure if I had a new battery for it, it'd work like a charm
Bookstores do not mark-up the price of the books. The publisher sets the price and we get a discount, usually around 30- 40%, when we order them wholesale. The reason some places can sell them cheaper is either that they buy them in huge quantities for their own warehouses and pay their workers poorly (B&N) or they make ZERO profit off selling books at all and pay their workers even worse (Amazon.)
Also, if an indie bookstore can't get the book you want around the holidays, there's a good chance that Amazon ordering WAY more than they will ever sell and holding them in warehouses in case the book gets popular is the reason. Then Amazon returns everything they didn't use to the publisher in January, f*****g over the publishers who may have put out the money to print more copies they didn't need, the authors who could thought those books had been sold, the wholesale warehouses who now have no space for new releases, and booksellers who dealt with a*****e customers during the busiest time of the year.
I wish people would stop supporting Amazon. I don't think Bezos needs another 500 million dollar yacht.
I'm in a rural area. No cabs, Ubers, dining or grocery deliveries. Running to the store for hardware or other items is a pain. But I can order something on Amazon and have it here the next day, at a cheaper price than if I made a trip. I have NO complaints with Amazon. It also makes sense to see ONE van running around the area than to have everyone jump in their cars and burn the fuel to make individual store runs. Bezo isn't getting all the money, the drivers I talk to are happy to have the paying job.
Load More Replies...This comment is outdated and uneducated. This is not how publishing works today, especially for online sales. For many years now books have been pretty much printed on demand - except the bestsellers that need some stock. That’s the business model of Amazon. When you order a book, if it’s in stock it’s on its way the same day. If not, it’s printed right away and available the day after at the latest. The ONLY books that are returned if not sold are paradoxically the best sellers.
Serious question— why are ebooks only slightly less expensive than hardbacks? Shouldn’t they be half the price (at least) since there’s no labor involved in printing, no paper/ink to buy, and nothing physical to warehouse?
Because people will pay for them. They will charge you as high a markup as they can get away with so they can pocket the rest.
Load More Replies...Hey, did you guys know there's an Amazon alternate that supports small bookstores? I know this sounds like one of those "I make $1200 a day doing xyz" spam things but I promise this is legit. https://bookshop.org/
Many Amazon facilities now use what is called “Print on demand” for books, they print a set of books on site as they are needed or ordered say like a set of textbooks for a college, thus reducing waste and potentially reducing the number of books returned. My husband is a tech with a printer company hired to maintain those machines.
This happens with everything. My experience is pet food. I helped run a veterinary clinic and getting certain foods for independently owned clinics was impossible because chewy, PetSmart, and all of the online companies would buy all of the stock which would make it hard to find Spocks's special food without paying a premium. Big business destroys.
In Germany we have fixed book prices ("Buchpreisbindung"). This means that every dealer sells the book at the same price. Differences can arise due to different versions (hard cover, soft cover, etc.) Some club-like dealers have therefore sometimes had their own versions printed to avoid the binding. There are some exceptions such as defective copies - these may be sold at a lower price, but must be marked as such, for example by a stamp.
I wish I could still hold books long enough to read them. Unfortunately I now read mainly on kindle - even non Amazon books will usually transfer to kindle - I wish there was a better universal e-reader site that had nothing to do with Amazon (even though kindle itself is free)
In Canada, all the major booksellers amalgamated into ONE bookseller. They would over-buy (for various reasons) and return the unsold copies. They wound up driving one of their major suppliers out of business.
Lots of very talented and successful criminal defense attorneys can’t make enough money from retained clients, so they also take on court appointments (not all court appointments go to public defenders, at least in Texas). I’ve seen defendants fire really good court appointed lawyers to hire mediocre attorneys simply because of the misconception that court appointed lawyers are bad. So called “free world lawyers” aren’t always great and some of the best criminal defense attorneys are public defenders.
Or...you are the Orange God and your attorney tells you that you are out of your tiny mind. Amazing he can find one. to rep him.
My BIL was a defense attorney and he’d hang around court on days he was already there to sometimes pick up work. Sometimes, he’d get grabbed by a client or friend/ family of a client that he worked with before if they were appearing for a bail hearing. Occasionally, a judge would see him and assign him a client with Legal Aid. One time, he was sitting in court, going through his papers for his next case due up soon and wasn’t really paying attention. The judge asked a defendant there if he had a lawyer and was going to remand him. Suddenly, the guy yells “that’s him, that’s my lawyer!” And points at my completely surprised BIL who didn’t recognize the guy. Anyway, that’s enough to make him his lawyer and he was able to get moved back in the docket to consult with his new client, who he was able to get bail for. It turns out he had defended the guy a decade previously for a tiny juvenile charge that got quickly dismissed and the guy remembered him.
Public Defenders are OFTEN the best criminal defense attorneys simply because they're in the courtroom so much and have so much more experience on their feet making real arguments and handling real cases. The best private attorneys often come from the PD world or the DA world. They're not the ones who haven't been on the firing line. They have earned the skills that no amount of law school or time in a tie in a corporate office can teach.
I will never, ever, ever believe that there exists, a lawyer, that can’t make “enough” money !
There are far too many lawyers in the US currently. Being a lawyer is not a ticket to making enough money. There are thousands working temporary gigs for very low pay and almost no benefits.
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PLEASE clean off your shoes after you hike, it is SO easy for invasive weeds to hitch a ride on your shoes and nest in the next place you take them (like your backyard)
I have seen this posted at hiking trails with shoe brushes. More places should use these.
no, the forest and natural hiking trails do not need extra things to be installed in them. People should understand that nature is not there to entertain or serve them.
Load More Replies...My yard is full of invasive weeds regardless. I love them. BRING IT ON! 🤨
Make sure to clean your shoes before hiking, then.
Load More Replies...Ditto for outdoor activities like construction-- change your boots before coming in house--there are nasty pathogens trapped therein
Live Soundboard engineers. If everything goes right, no one knows you exist, but the second anything goes wrong it is immediately your fault. One of the most under appreciated jobs out there.
The reason I no longer attend live concerts is that most of the people running the mixer think the sound system should sound like a car stereo with overwhelming bass and deafening sound pressure levels. Translate their mix to just a solo piano and all you would hear would be the bottom octave and maybe a few high notes.
Well, that and you can't see the stage anymore from all the idiots holding up their brightly lit phones to film the concert so they can enjoy a crappy, tinny, Star-Trek-flashed version of it later rathen than enjoy it now.
Load More Replies...My late partner was a sound engineer and for him, it was an art form. He once told me that it depends which frequencies are used and not necessarily the volume.
And an underappreciated pioneer of this were the Grateful Dead. Loud! Of course-but balanced and crystall clear
Stanley Owsley paid for their sound system and was their engineer for awhile. The "Bear's Choice Vol I" is a good example. Crystal clear sound. (Owsley was known as Bear)
Load More Replies...Been there. Luckily I was known as an excellent live sound engineer. Big tips from the bands on top of my hourly. 75 bucks an hour and I would get a cut of their pay from the door as if I was a member of the band. Sir George Martin WAS the fifth Beatle.
Stuart "Dinky" Dawson was one of the best sound engineers in music, working with everyone from Liberace to The Byrds and Steely Dan. His book, Life On The Road, was fascinating.
My dad used to do this when I was a kid. I slept through so many shows 😂
Not all railroad crossings are automatically closed by train approaching (usually some older ones but even brand new types when there is a severe fault), so there's always a small chance you might get hit. These cases are obviously a severe incident that will be investigated and someone will probably get punished, but it will unfortunately be too late for you. If you can, always slow down and look to both sides before you cross.
I want to add, if you've ever seen videos of a train hitting a vehicle, it can seem like the train is not even slowing down. But I can assure you the train driver is actually slamming on the emergency brakes every single time. It just takes forever to stop a 5000 ton train is all.
I was almost l killed at a rural train crossing where I had made a left turn onto a road that was crossing an unmarked railroad crossing hidden by trees.
My best friend in high school stopped on a railroad track waiting on the light to turn onto another country road, even though the 3 of us with him in the car all told him not to, that trains went through there regularly (he lived in a different part of town). We'd barely turned through the intersection after the light changed when a passenger train went flying over the spot We'd
The train always wins. It cannot turn to avoid the accident. I watched a full size SUV get impatient and run around the crossing guards. Killed the entire family and did not slow the train down one bit. Your life is worth the few seconds it takes to look or the few minutes to wait for the gates to rise.
This is why my state government has been removing all the street level crossings in the state. Lines are now sky rail or underground.
I once read that every 13 min in the US a train hits a vehicle at a crossing. NEVER stop on the tracks.
Those $25 t-shirts you buy online cost the company about $0.02 each. They'll buy a case of 500 shirts for about $10.
Sorry, but this is plainly wrong. The raw production costs are around 3 to 4 € per piece, then add the company's logistics and sales costs, that can vary from 2 to more than 5 €, and then add the sales tax. So you are looking around 6 to more than 12 € per t-shirt. However, still not bad :)
Primark sell t-shirts for £3. They are not making a loss on these t-shirts.
Load More Replies...Me too. Jeans and black t-shirt every day.
Load More Replies...That's per-piece cost. Fingers don't work as well as they used to.
Load More Replies...That‘s why I bought t-shirts for 25ct the other day and just gave them to my sister who has some tools for suplementation and plotting (or whatever it is called). My daughter is now very happy about a pink shirt with a gorgeous sparkling Unicorn in vibrant colors (plus others) and my son got some Zelda and Pokemon ones.
Why don't we all just do that then? Oh yes, global trash and worker exploitation. I forgot... for a moment there i thought i was going to be wearing a different t-shirt every day of the year!
Most grocery stores make about 7¢ profit for every $100.00 spent on the "middle" of the store.
Most profit comes from the perimeter departments.
If I remember my reading, it's the other way around. Fresh produce, dairy and meat have very thin margins as they're perishable. That's what the stores throw out the most. The middle is where they make money. Plus 7 cents on a 100 dollar? I call BS. This whole thing is nonsense on stilts.
For the US this is certainly backwards. Also, it’s a simple and well known concept. We “need” things like meat, dairy, produce, etc. Markets skirt the store with these areas to force consumers to walk by thing we don’t need but will buy on impulse. Same concept of end-caps. If you pay attention them you see the ones facing these departments are promotional, change often, and even sneakier will be an item that will make you go down to the center of the store. Like pasta sauce without the pasta. Potato chips and soft-drinks are the most common and the absolutely leave out varieties to get you down to the main isle. Whereas an internal endcap on the inside of the store is usually high volume sale items thrown on the shelf with little effort. If you ever read a grocery store SOP it is literally a how to in psychological warfare :) Oh, and the reason for the low margins on the outside is because agriculture is subsidized and regulated by the government….meat, dairy, produce, etc
That's a ridiculous profit margin and simply not true since inflation and shrinkflation started to generalise.
As other experienced Pandas have pointed out, the profit margin on grocery stores is remarkably thin. Think about it - nearly everything they stock is perishable! By necessity it’s an utterly bonkers business model.
Load More Replies...Food companies also have to buy shelf space or slots for their product at supermarkets so there is some of the income.
Posters using industry jargon without explanation is just a bit annoying
Grocery stores make money not buy the profit on each item but by the number of times the items are sold. It's called "inventory turns."
I wonder if that's the case in just one country or not? I'm guessing the perimeter departments are bakery, deli etc.
Reboot solves 80% of problems.
Or sometimes even a 3rd, 4th, or even 5th reboot.
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Working in delis where you get fresh sliced meat and cheese. A family owned grocery slicer is always more sanitary than a chain deli. Without fail.
Typically, family owned has two slicers, one for meat one for cheese. They always wipe them down between customers. Why? A . Business is slower B. They know all the customers C. Customer is really watching.
Chain grocery rarely wipe down the blade. It's all about the speed of service. It's POLICY to not wipe it down at most chains except on even numbered hours or at the half, even if you just sliced pastrami and are doing Turkey next. One place I worked it was every third hour. So gross. I had to quit.
Family owned is more pricey, better quality.
False. Grocery stores also are supposed to wipe between meats and cheeses.
This depends more on management for a particular store than family-owned vs chain.
Worked multiple deli departments became a manager in the end. Weis and Giant. Giant was better but fda standards which are actually pretty strict is every 4 hours, meat and cheese do not mix ever if you have to use the same slicer for both you do all meats, wipe, all cheese. The benefits of that busy food store is quick turnover on items, dates on opened cheese is 30 days, regular meats is 7 days, cured is 14 days. You can end up buying meat that has been opened for 7 days trashed that night and by 1 or 2 days will be bad in your fridge. Thats when you get s****y meat, not mixed ham and turkey. Ask for a popular item. If its a busy store they open multiple packages a day
This is why I got a little grossed out when Subway announced that they were going to start slicing meats in-store. I've worked with deli slicers and I know how much it takes to keep them clean and sanitary, as well as what builds up where when you don't. With turnover so high due to low pay, there's no way everyone is going to be trained to do it properly.
I use Wally World's deli and at all the stores I have been in I have watched them use two slicers, one for meats and one for cheeses. And the meat ones get wiped down between any meat before doing a ham or turkey order.
Our chain grocery always wipes down the whole machine any time it cuts rare roast beef.
The grocery store where I shopped most often in the US (I'm in the UK now) had two slicers right out on the sales floor in the deli department. One for meat, one for cheese, and they *always* wiped each slicer down inbetween customers. I actually ended up getting free deli meat when I went to the deli late one night (half an hour before the deli closed) and a new worker, whom I'd never seen before, lied to me and told me he "couldn't" cut me any meat, would I like some cheese instead? Clearly he thought it'd be a good idea to clean the meat slicer early, so he could leave promptly at 10. I ended up not getting my meat that night, and when I complained to the store they apologized and let me have my next deli order for free.
It takes almost an hour to clean all the slicers. He didn't lie to you Karen
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The manager is responsible for the horrible requirements on job descriptions, not the recruiter. We try our best to convince them they are ridiculous.
I was a recruitment admin and I can totally confirm this, they don't always listen to good advice
As a recruiter for financial services, I 100 percent corroborate this as well.
This is true but maybe the last statement is a little much. Worked for a Fortune 50. The majority of recruiters were a few years out of college and wouldn't even know it of the descriptions were swapped and create a headaches with their inability to even fully understand requirements. With that said, mid-senior level roles were assigned to senior recruiters and without exception each one knew their stuff. They often has a better understanding of the position i was trying to fill than i did and i relied heavily on their input. By relied i mean they wrote draft and i revised and not the other way around :)
No decent to pro chef remembers recipes (except if it is mandatory or most likely their favorite) most good chefs learn techniques and skills which is far more useful than remembering how to make specific dishes, this of course does not include simple recipes like mashed potatoes and what not.
Confirmed - my husband is a chef and I've been trying for years to get recipes outnof his cooking ... we rarely even eat the same exact dish twice, always depends about ingredients at end, who's joining us, mood of the day, time at hand... it's more like an art.
A chef once riddled me, what do you call someone who follows recipes? A baker
Load More Replies...Makes sense. Lawyers don’t know all the laws by heart, even the ones we deal with regularly. We know how The Law works—how to research the underlying purpose, how to break each regulation into its components, and how to apply common/traditional interpretations to each of those components.
This is definitely true! I can't remember the last time I actually followed any recipe exactly. I've been at it so long that I don't even need to consult recipes for most baked goods; I just know the ratios.
If a column fails then it's very likely the whole building fails.
Was the pic chosen on purpose? If I see a part of the structure of a building starting to bend, I try to get out immediately.
This picture has been around a while. If I recall correctly, a fork lift hit it & it's not structural.
Load More Replies...Unless it's been designed by Sir Christopher Wren perhaps! The Windsor Guildhall in the UK was completed by Sir Christopher Wren in 1690. On close inspection it can be seent that the central columns do not touch the ceiling and tradition has it that the councillors of the time, against Wren’s wishes, insisted on the columns in the interest of safety. Wren, not to be outdone, left the columns an inch short of the ceiling.
Only if the engineer is absolutely incompetent. Buildinga.are designed so there is no single point of failure or progressive collapse.
Just watch a few episodes of Engineering Catastrophes. It happens more often than you think.
IT here. 90% of our fixes come from Google. Even corporate systems can mostly be googled. Most of us have no particular training at the field level. Sure, we pick up tricks along the way, but we largely wing it. Help desk folks are even worse. They largely hire right off the street.
Nope... you better have some knowledge and training when dealing with complicated network issues. Vendor knowledge bases help, but you have to know what you are doing.
Load More Replies...I was in a tech interview and was asked to do something I hadn't even thought about in years. I googled it during the interview to make sure I did it correctly. I got the job because I was the only interviewee who wasn't going to let lack of knowledge keep me from doing what was necessary. I was also the only one who completed the assignment.
Yup. Software Engineer friend spends a lot of the workday Googling. What gets you to the right place is knowing the terminology to Google.
Yes, this! You need to know how the ask the question in the right way to get the answer you want!
Load More Replies...It was more of a challenge in the 80's and 90's! No Google, just message boards. On the bright side, if you called a software vendor and stumped the front line people, you could get through to the developers. Called McAfee anti-virus one time, John McAfee answered the phone. Ah, the good old days. Walked away from the industry about 20 years ago as things started to become rote and akin to running in place.
Can confirm, but some companies are tight with their proprietary software and documentation and make their customers sign NDAs. Those can be difficult to find help for online.
Agreed, everything learned in formal training is mostly used to help you get through the layers of bullsh*t and fake information while Googling solutions, and before Google: trawling BBS message boards. :p
As a jnr software developer I can confirm we just google most things until we find the answer
Most plants you buy in stores are not grown from seeds, but are multiplied by taking a cutting off of a mother plant.
Too many that I've bought have no roots either. The first thing I do now is to check the roots of the plant once I get it home. Others are mainly pot bound from being kept in too small a pot. Poor plants!!
Make some slices through the root ball, shake it off a bit, this usually works enough to give the plant a chance to put out new roots.
Load More Replies...That is also how I get a lot of plants from my mum too. Nothing wrong with it, as long as you know how to look after it.
They are also kept in nutrient free dirt, the cheapest available... barely qualifies as dirt really. Get it out of that stuff as soon as possible after buying... or at least add a layer of compost on top.
…..yes? I use propagation all the time, it’s fun and I also don’t have a grow lamp, so it’s much quicker. It helps save friends’ money, and mine. When we get new plants, we let each other take clippings, and boom, $10 saved
Mine too! I can't grow anything from seeds but give me anything to propagate and I'll get hella roots on that bad boy.
Load More Replies...A lot of plants bought nowadays are also genetically modified to not give seeds so you have to go back and buy another when it dies 😖
It's selective breeding - there hasn't been any actual genetic modification which involves transferring a piece of DNA from one organism to a different organism.
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It's not really a "professional secret" but more people should know; you can use the Inspector on any browser to change the text of anything on any website and have it look 100% genuine. Again not a secret but a lot of people don't know about this. It's noteworthy since a lot of people still will look for mismatched font or spacing or other tells that something has been photoshopped, but that is utterly meaningless. Can make screenshots that look exactly like a real post with 2 seconds of effort.
Check the link to the original reddit post (light grey text to the bottom left below the post). There's much more of an explanation there.
Load More Replies...This post is misleading. You cannot change the text of a website and make it viewable at that url to the public. You can use the inspect or view source option in a browser and look at the code of a site. You can copy and edit that text and save a local copy but it isn’t public.
OP did mention doing this to make a screenshot that looks real. This is also a tactic scammers use to trick people once they get on their system with remote desktop software.
Load More Replies...Sometimes I do this to see what font a site used or something arbitrary like that.
The overwhelming majority of governing in the US is done by literal amateurs - almost all city councils and school boards are volunteers (or get paid a few thousand stipend) and many state legislators don’t make anywhere near a full time salary.
Your local school board and city council hold a meeting each month. It’s 100% free and open to the public. Most are conducted in rooms full of empty chairs.
If you know or care who is president of the United States but do not know the name of your city or village council representative you are getting exactly the government you deserve.
The above mentioned government bodies will frequently look for volunteer citizens to sit on various types of advisory committees. If you’re are interested in how your city/town/school district/ etc. is governed I bet you could find a way to get involved.
Well, of course most small cities and towns are governed by "amateurs" and volunteers, there are few if any career politicians and public servants hanging around. Nothing inherently wrong with this, it actually works if the volunteer open minded, capable of critical thinking, and has the best interest of the community in mind. The big issue recently, in my opinion, are the rightwing religious activist groups taking over school boards, they have no interest in education, only their feeble minded repressive ideas of sex and religion. The US is still feeling the ugly pinch of the Puritans 400 years after their arrival.
But that's the point - they CAN take over because they know nobody wants boring unglamorous jobs, so they exploit that lack of interest to stuff local government with zealots. Those who want to stop them need to step up and take them on, however dull the work is - otherwise, people get the government, locally and nationally, that they deserve.
Load More Replies...So true. Also why it is so important to support local media and to make sure those local government meeting are being reported on to the public. Sire national politics is fun but whoo boy your county commissioners are just as interesting and affect you more directly Get involved.
amateurs doing it is better - otherwise you get a political elite who dont know s**t either.
I just ran for Port Commissioner in my area. Didn't make it past the Primary, but boy did I learn a lot
this is why most cities and towns also have a city manager, who is more likely to be a paid professional, to do the actual day to day administrative work of running the city.
THE Worst board is the school board. They are not teachers, never were, and know nothing about education. Even huge boards that cover multiple cities like in Canada, and the provincial ministry of educations are NOT QUALIFIED!
And yet, it's the "professional" politicians in Washington DC that are among the most corrupt, greedy, and self-centered people on the planet; while the local volunteer governments are actually trying to make changes for the better of the community...
Asked our xchange students Dad about single payer health. "You must watch them every minute"...so, no single payer in USA. We can't be bothered.
I'm a lawyer and people CONSTANTLY argue with me about whether they "winner" in a lawsuit "have to" pay the other side's legal fees (in America, they usually don't). But people will straight up just say I'm wrong... like guys... it's my job. If the loser had to pay, I'd be rich asf. The fact that everyone pays their own fees is FREAKING WHY rich people can abuse the system.
In the US, maybe, but in civil cases in many countries a plaintiff will have to pay the defence fees if they lose the case. It discourages frivolous lawsuits.
I live in Australia and am studying law and yep, that’s often the case over here!
Load More Replies...Legal outcomes definitely depend on which party has the most money to file claims unless the attorneys agree to wait for their fees to be paid out of settlement $$. This is why there are so many ambulance chasers while lawyers that will fight for civil rights are few & far between. Also why the ACLU is so important in the US.
In Ireland, the judge makes a direction on who pays, sometimes it could be split 80:20. No direction means each pays their own fees.
The amount of people who hire us and then try to argue about the law based on their google search is ridiculous.
This is the hidden part of co tingency arrangements in personal injury cases. Sure , the judgement is for $1,000,000, but the plaintiff pays their legal fees from that, usually one third.
That’s not really “hidden” — that’s the whole point of contingency agreements.
Load More Replies...Unless they are a 'no win, no fee' law firm, but they don't take cases they aren't sure they can win
That pretty much everything in a grocery store bakery comes frozen in a box.
In case anyone doesn't know, it is now commonly accepted that bread products are perfectly fine to be defrosted and re-frozen. In fact most things other than meat are okay to do that.
Load More Replies...Then why are there big ovens and the smell of fresh baked bread in some stores?
At least at the store I work at. Breads are still baked. It's baked from frozen dough. And a lot of stuff besides that comes in frozen
Load More Replies...I used to work in a grocery store bakery, and yeah 99% of it comes in frozen. I used to hate having to prep rolls in the evening for the next day's bake; the frozen dough would make your fingers ache, you'd get flour all over your hands, and half the time you had to pry the rolls apart because the box had been left out long enough for them to partially thaw, then freeze together when put back into the walk-in.
My grocery store always labels it as previously frozen.
Load More Replies...Worked in a Walmart bakery. Can confirm. The only difference between the French bread and the Italian bread is the size of the log of dough, and it's all Pillsbury.
My local grocery store (Wegmans on Transit and Maple for those in my area) opened with a huge rotating oven on-site. You could see them putting the bread in this giant brick oven and baking it themselves. The dough might have come in frozen, I don't remember, but they baked almost everything onsite every day. They made a huge deal out of it. It was the centerpiece of their bakery. Until they pulled it out and now run a normal grocery store bakery there where it probably all comes in frozen like op said.
Breathing isn't done the way most people think. Most people think they take a deep breath, and their lungs/chest cavity expands. It's the other way around. We use the muscles in and around our chest to expand our chest cavity, which creates a suction that draws air into our lungs.
Too much tension in those muscles makes them act like a corset and prevents you from breathing deeply. So most people who get stressed and can't breath need to get a real massage more frequently.
If you want to breathe deeply and get enough oxygen into your body, you don't expand your chest when you inhale, but your belly. To become saturated with oxygen (short-term), you exhale excessively - i.e. longer than normal, and inhale deeply in a calm and controlled manner. Hold for 5 seconds and exhale slowly. Repeat this 10x and you will feel your fingertips tingling with the oxygenated blood in your body.
Haha you start breathing like this once you've been in choir for a couple years
Load More Replies...As a choir/band kid, you aren't cool if you didn't know this already. The diaphragm rocks
A massage would set off an anxiety attack. One very high up item on my Nope list.
Really sorry that happens for you because personally, when I"m in a bad mental place, few things relax me as much as a massage.
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Stop using Q-tips to clean wax out of your ears. All you are doing is packing it further in and clogging your ear canals until the wax turns to a rock against your eardrum. Highly recommend using Debrox or some sweet oil and then flushing with warm water instead!
Sincerely,
A doctor
I just can't stand the wet feeling in my ears. I don't use them to clean out wax, I use them to dry off after a shower or swimming.
Same. For me, it's more about drying them.
Load More Replies...My mum (a nurse for almost 50 years) always said, “never put anything in your ears except your elbow”. I almost dislocated my shoulder trying to do it… 😂🤘🏻
Lol! It's never put anything in your ears smaller than your elbow - not put your elbow in!
Load More Replies...No no no, I wash the inside of my ears in the shower, and dry them with cotton buds when I get out. 53 years man and boy and I have never had a problem with earwax or damaging my ears.
right there with ya fella (lol and ain't autism awesome, fellow Asperger 👍)
Load More Replies...It's very much dependent on the shape of your ear canal, so although there's a risk of compacting it, for some people careful use can indeed remove deposits. I don't get a lot of wax build-up normally but occasionally get infections if I don't dry properly after swimming. Antibiotic eardrops are needed, but the deposit is best removed for faster recovery.
Debrox did too good of a job. There is now 0 wax in my ears, which has made the skin dry and very, very itchy
Scratching your ear canal with harder things can also damage your hearing and/or cause tinnitus!
Yep. I am living proof of that. Was a demon Q-tip user most of my life and now have tinnitus in both ears, and an appointment to get my hearing testing.
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I’m an archaeologist, we got a find, I googled what it could be, that's what we wrote down… admittedly a specialist will confirm but there's a lot that we don’t know but hey that’s why we have specialists.
That the hearing implants my company makes do not make your ears work again. They work through vibration through bone conduction.
Pretty sure most people know that any type of hearing device is not magic. :)
I have "headphones"/"earbuds" that use the same technology. It's awesome not have something in or covering my ears.
You're not saving energy/money if you turn off your AC in the summer. Houses are very good at keeping heat in, not letting it out. So when you finally turn your AC on, it's gonna take so long for your system to satisfy/get to the desired temperature that you might as well have kept it on all day. It'll also wear your system out faster because it'll be running for so long If you're really concerned about saving on your electric bills, just turn your AC up between 2-4 degrees higher than you normally would. Even 2 degrees can make a big difference.
OP was referring to summer, not winter. If the sun is giving equal heat to a given area, A box within that area that has walls and a covered roof are almost always hotter. When AC is left running, it does not have to work as hard because the home's walls and contents remain at a steady temp. Any time you turn off that AC in a hot environment, the walls and roof begin to heat from the outside. Cold draws heat, so eventually all of the solid objects that make up a home absorb heat to match the outside temp and have to take hours just to be recooled. Insulation determines how hard that cooling system needs to work to maintain the temperature you select on the thermostat. But good insulation will work against you if you turn off cooling and let the house heat up, because it takes longer for that heat to dissipate, even as the outside temp begins cooling.
Load More Replies...When I go away on a road trip for a month, I put my A/C to 82F, When I get home and bring it down to comfort level, it takes about an hour to get there. If I were to turn it off, it would take 6 to 10 hours to cool the house.
The UK varies enormously. Last year was the hottest on record and had many weeks of brilliant sunshine. This year - summer was in June.
Load More Replies...I do because I unfortunately live in an oven (central Arizona).
Load More Replies...I keep mine set at 76F and if I want it to be cooler I knock it down to max 74F. It resets back to 76 default in an hour or so and it works for me.
You can over lubricate something, too much grease will cause just as much of an issue as no grease in things like bearings.
Same with rosin and a bow. I play violin and if you don’t rosin your bow it becomes scratchy and the same thing happens if you put to much rosin on it.
Often times parents don't want the new, young, inexperienced teacher (speaking solely about elementary). Fresh out of college are the best teachers: educated on newest research, excited, not feeling the burn out yet. The old crotchety ones who think they know best are actually who.you don't want. Also teachers have zero say who a kid gets the next year...
That's not entirely true. In school (middle school I think) my best friend's mom was a science teacher there and she rearranged both of our schedules so that we could be in the same classes.
There will be extraordinary exceptions, but essentially teachers have no say and accept that this is for the best. Can you imagine what a horror show it would be if teachers spent the summer holidays bartering over which students they got?
Load More Replies...I was a pretty rubbish first year teacher (and second and third probably). What you want are teachers who commit to constantly learning new stuff; my first interactive whiteboard, a new syllabus for my subject, lockdown teaching these things made me explore new ways of teaching and made me better 20/30 years after I started.
Right now I'm just grateful to teachers in general. It's absolutely Bananas to me that people are still going into the profession after the poop show that was covid and the fact that they often get low pay. My son has had three consecutive elementary teachers with masters degrees and his soon to be just graduated from college 4th grade teacher is also working on hers. Yes there are bad teachers out there and yes you often have to fight for your kid even in good schools (don't even get me started on the atrocious method of funding schools in the US).
Fresh out of training teachers have yet to experience the soul crushing democracy of a UK academy. They’ll soon get worn down and disillusioned and leave teaching all together. Except my neighbour who’s a teacher at a local private school where they focus on teaching and not league tables.
As in any profession, there are good and bad, both newbies and oldtimers. The difference is there are those that WANTED to be an educator and those that just look at it as a job. That, plus the fact, their hands are tied, they can't really "educate", but only "teach" for state testing. (In my opinion) And yes, depending on the admin, they can have a say who is in their class.
Oh this is so naive. Don't want your kid to have a "burnt out" teacher? Then avoid the new ones - they're the ones who can burn out fastest and hardest. The retention rate for those entering the profession is frighteningly low. I taught for forty years. I'm not saying I was good or bad at the job, but I'm confident that my last ten years were by far my best.
Sorry, no. I've had the opposite experience with both of my kids' young teachers. One thought "The shot heard 'round the world" referred to WWI, when it was the American revolution. My daughter got in trouble trying to correct the teacher. Another didn't know what the Oxford comma was, and was marking down my son's written assignments because "We just don't put commas wherever we want."
The elementary school teacher who changed my life was in her first year of teaching, fresh, enthusiastic, committed, empathetic, determined to get her students to succeed. I had her two years in a row and she's the best thing that happened to me as a student 😊 I'll never forget her.
Merchant processing/consumer credit cards is a scheme that only benefits the rich, the banks, and the card brands (Visa, MC, Discover, Amex). They are a necessary evil for merchants/business owners. Merchants end up paying thousands a month to give their customers the convenience of using credit cards. In the end, goods and services are priced to cover the cost. What is worse, while credit card companies promote that they are the ones offering cash back, sky miles, yada yada- it is actually the merchants (and in turn- cardholders) who pay the higher fees for rewards cards to cover the cost of the consumer benefits. It is an industry built to simply move money around from merchants/consumers to the banks and every middle man in between, all for the "convenience" of buying now and paying later or not carrying cash.
« all for the convenience of buying now and paying later or not carrying cash » That’s not a small convenience at all. And sure it has a price.
Portable card readers have been a game changer for small businesses and lone traders in the UK. They are cheap to run and enable everyone from window cleaners, dog groomers, mobile hairdressers, etc. to take card payments. This is not only much, much safer and more convenient (the nearest bank to here that they could deposit cash in is a 25-30 minute drive), but also saves a load of time dealing with accounts and taxes.
It saves on going to the bank for sure! It doesn't save time on accounts and taxes for me as a business owner as I still need to provide an audit trail for these payments. It can also complicate things as the payment amount has a fee removed from it and so it doesn't match the invoice and not all systems are that good at providing reference details that aid in matching payments (they also sometimes 'lump' payments together for more than one customer). If you have a lot per month and the prices are the same or similar, it can be harder to reconcile. That said, it is still something I'm glad that we, as a business, have as an option for customer payments. Prefer BACS as that is the most straight forward and easiest to reconcile.
Load More Replies...Credit card companies provide a valuable service. Yes, they make money for providing that service. In addition to convenience, credit cards are also more secure than cash. If I carry around a wad of cash and get robbed, they get the cash and there's nothing I can do about it. If I carry around a credit card and get robbed, I call my bank, they block the card and cancel charges made by the robber.
It always amazes me how many people complain about companies making a profit. Credit cards, when used correctly, are a necessary good..
Since Covid, more and more places are adding a 3.xx% charge to cover the cost. So in the end, it's either pay it, go back to writing checks, or pay cash.
Most places charge the same for credit or cash customers. Which means the cash customers are paying credit card fees without getting the cash-back benefits that come with credit cards.
Load More Replies...The rich are rich because they own the world's debt. They get richer by keeping us in debt, making cash inconvenient to the point that just carrying cash can be criminal.
That in industrialized countries, toilet water post-flush flows through a sewer to a treatment plant. At the plant, the water is screened and otherwise cleaned before being discharged into a waterbody. There are so many movies, like Finding Nemo, that seem to have this base assumption that the toilet flows straight to the ocean. If Nemo actually went down a toilet, he'd make it to a treatment plant with a bar screen. That screen would screen him out and throw him into a dumpster.
i think michael phelps did an ad several years back about wasting water while you brush your teeth and while it is something you shouldn't do, you are not actually wasting any water, it gets treated and returned in the system.
In one regard, yeah, you can never really "waste" water. The problem is that it moves into a completely different system. Fresh ground water and river water don't serve the same purpose, so sucking it out of an aquifer that takes 1000 years to recharge and pouring it into a surface body of water is the "wasteful" part.
Load More Replies...UK again - we often can't swim in our seas as there is raw sewage being let into the water - Nemo would be safe with us.
https://www.channel4.com/news/factcheck/factcheck-how-much-sewage-is-dumped-in-englands-rivers-and-on-beaches
Load More Replies...Hahahahaha. Tell this to the UK water companies that have released untreated sewage into rivers tens of thousands of times in the last year alone.
That's why Nemo had to pretend that was the way, because the film wouldn't end well otherwise!
Sushi has been flash frozen. It’s to kill parasites and such... it’s FDA required for raw sushi. Also, the cheaper sushi places have the exact same fish providers as high end places.
« Sushi has been flash frozen » In the us maybe, absolutely not in any decent restaurant in Europe and never ever in Japan. Stop generalizing the obscure practices of your country. Fresh raw fish is not a hazard if handled correctly. « the cheaper sushi places have the exact same fish providers as high end places » B******t. Not the same part of fishes, not the same species, not the same fishermen most of the time. Stop spreading such idioties.
You mean the “obscure” practices that protect more than 300 million people? The rest of the world may not use flash freezing but I’m willing to bet they do SOMETHING to kill the common parasites carried by ALL food animals that are eaten raw — no matter where the animals live or how they are harvested or who they are purchased from. Farmed or wild, nearly every animal comes with a worm, germ, or amoeba that can infect a human host. If it isn’t cooked thoroughly, you’d better pray that it’s been processed properly.
Load More Replies...If you smell fish walking into a sushi place, walk out. Price doesn't mean clean/safe
Assume this is in the US and he’s actually talking about raw fish not all sushi (my daughter’s favourite is cucumber sushi, no need to freeze)… definitely not required in some countries.
Sushi grade fish is not determined by the quality of the fish, but by how deep and how long it has been frozen. Not sure what OP was expecting.
It should. Most restaurants don't offer sushi.
Load More Replies...Even if the sushi is the same, but they're usually not, the upscale restaurants get their sushior fish fresh, suppliers favor them first, then deliver to the rest. For ex in my town sushi is usually delivered on Tuesday Thursday. Plus... The upscale ones keep the sushi better? I've found the local chainstore just freezes their sushi and serves it up slightly frozen with left over ice a few times. Never went there again.
That's because part of the original post is correct - any fish that is intended to be eaten raw *must* be frozen beforehand to kill parasitic worms (eww) and other diseases. On the other hand, the second sentence is clearly untrue - are they trying to say that *every* upscale sushi restaurant everywhere uses the same suppliers as every cheap run-down place? Also, I wouldn't believe anything written by someone who doesn't seem to know that sushi isn't a word for "fish".
Load More Replies...I often wonder how many food poisoning incidents occur from eating any raw foods that do not get reported.
I used to work in fast food. A long time ago we figured out that when people ordered fresh what they really meant was they wanted it hot, so we would just dump it back on the grill or in the fryer for a few seconds and then you’d have a piping hot patty/meat.
I realy think they wanted it fresh. You just fooled them by reheating old stuff.
Worked fast food in my younger days. Usually only did this when people came in 5 minutes to closing time. By that time, we were already cleaning up.
Load More Replies...When I say I want it fresh, I mean I want it fresh. And I *will* be watching you...
No what we really mean is we want one that's newly-cooked, not one that's been under a heat lamp for 20 minutes. How dishonest to just re-heat it when you've been asked for freshly made!
Easiest way to get fresh stuff is ask for an adjustment (just watch for them taking the pickle or tomato or whatever off an old burger) 😝
yep I usually ask for extra pickles,I'm odd like that 😉👍...fresh every time,yes wait a bit longer but no bother
Load More Replies...A chef friend of mine taught me to refresh hot chips. Don't use a microwave, use an air-fryer or oven.
Ok ok I understand the whole thing about wanting it fresh but come on y'all. It's fast food for a reason. If you want quality, go to a quality place
For the love of god please use password managers and generate different random and strong passwords for everything.
The point is different passwords for everything. A hacker gets your information for one site, he's going to try it on other sites. Strong or not, if you use the same password for all your sites, you're screwed.
Load More Replies...or use passphrases. super long, with both numbers, punctuation, lower and upper case, and they're far, far easier to remember. write down passphrases on pen and paper, and nothing else.
So I'll never be able to log into anything again? Just recently a well-known password manager was hacked as well!
Some of my passwords are so esoteric even I don't know what they are....
Fire engines don’t have keys to start them, just a switch or two. Anyone could steal a fire engine fairly easily. Don’t tell the Kia Boyz.
Well, no cop is going to pull you over for speeding or running a stop sign ever again.
Load More Replies...Disability insurance adjuster: There is no quota of claims to decline and we do not get bonuses for declining claims. In fact, it is way easier on our end to accept most claims. Also a bonus one: if you’re off on disability and get a form or request for you to log your activity for a week or so, there is a good chance that the insurance adjuster is gearing up to do surveillance on you and needs to know what you’re saying you can do so they can compare it to what they see you actually doing.
Same with IRS. There is no quota or expectation of additional taxes assessed. My manager judged my on how many cases I closed.
Worked in kitchens for over a decade, working in one now: now bear in mind it’s a vegan place but the amount of things that go through the sniff test is overwhelming. If that’s inconclusive then just taste a little bit of it on the edge of a spoon - it does the trick. Sure we have everything legally labelled and dated but food can be unpredictable.
More often than not in a car accident, the dead person is at fault.
Accident reconstruction is a thing. Traffic homicide investigators are pretty good at figuring out what happened.
Load More Replies...I wish this were true but it's not. Many innocent people are killed by someone else doing something stupid.
Agreed. Also, alcohol tends to loosen up the body and slow reactions so these people tend to not "tense up" when the accident is imminent... the person about to get hit most likely will tense up which can increase odds of injury/death.
Load More Replies...Except impaired drivers, they seem to survive more often (or maybe that just perception?)
I am not sure on this one. I've always heard that the impaired person doesn't tense up during a wreck and that's usually what saves them, but I've probably been lied to.
Load More Replies...Except for drunk drivers-- they always kill others, and emerge relatively unscathed.
This is not a done deal. The coroner and post-mortem may tell you otherwise. The Richard-head driving doped up as high as a kite and three times over the alcohol limit drives into another vehicle killing anyone but him/herself? The dead driver definitely not at fault. Medical episode causing death whilst at the wheel? Hardly fair to apportion blame isn’t it.
We normally consider purchasing replacement print materials after roughly 50-100 checkouts based on demand. Publishers require us to re-buy ebooks and e-audiobooks after 12~26 checkouts.
I didn't know that pixels wear out that fast. Follow me for more things I don't know.
TIL that libraries have to repurchase ebooks and e-audiobooks. This never would have occurred to me, I would have assumed once they owned them, they OWNED them. I know when my husband worked for a video store back in the day, they had to pay a higher cost for the video than the general public because of licensing so I guess this is sort of the same.
Yep. And not every printed book in the world has an ebook/eaudiobook version. Nor do libraries automatically have access to all the ebooks/eaudiobooks in the world. I regularly blow patrons' minds with the fact that we have to purchase the "digital title" just like a physical copy.
The thermal insulation on your new house does make the house warmer but traps moisture and increases dampness/ mould.
Or, you know, open the windows every day for a few minutes.
Load More Replies..."open your windows 10 minutes a day keeps the mould away" said my grandma
Use a dehumidifier folks! They are super cheap to run and prevent black mold, rot, etc. They make it cheap and easy to dry clothes indoors, and in the summer they cut back on a/c costs (if you live in a humid climate).
What? Our flat had a HUGE problem with mold to the point I almost got asthma. Problem disappeared after the whole building was insulated.
But since the air in an insulated house will either be heated or air conditioned isn't most of the air inside at low humidity anyways?
Well, if you cook, take showers, hang your laundry to dry, wash your floors, etc..., and have no ventilation, your house will soon be humid. Even if you only breathe ;-)))
Load More Replies...Sometimes, your lawyer just "googles" the answer. Chances are another lawyer has already written a blog or something about a case similar to yours, and it is easier to do a quick internet search than to look up case law through the usual sources.
Lol depends of the legal system you're in. I work in a civil law system where you should know the law in the first place and then look up how it's applied by the case law.
Just as it's easier to look up case law, i.e. previous cases that have been through the courts, than to look back at the actual laws themselves.
Not to mention actual case law shows how a law has been interpreted in the past
Load More Replies...I dunno what firm this person works for, but this is absolutely not the case in the UK!
Um...this is the legal principle called stare decisis. It's literally the backbone of the law. This one hardly a professional secret.
Most school music programs are more than happy to play for community events, but people requesting them need to consider: 1) what type of ensemble is appropriate; 2) how many students that includes; 3) how loud that ensemble will be (i.e. drumline); 4) what type of music they want; 5) how long the music should last; 6) how to potentially compensate the students and/or music program for their time and expense; and 7) how much lead time is necessary for the students to learn what you need. Please be considerate of the fact that all music programs are diligently working on their own concert and competition requirements. It is not easy to add in other things into the mix, but we enjoy serving the community if we can.
Whenever our local downtown organization needs entertainment of some kind, the high school/community college choirs and bands are usually our first stop. They get experience, we get to support our local musicians.
When my son was in high school he played Taps at the yearly Veterans Day Parade and the yearly Fallen Corrections Officer Memorial Ceremony. He also played Tap at his grandfather and grandmother's joint funeral service and as everyone was filing out her played the M.A.S.H. theme (he and his grandfather used to watch M.A.S.H. together regularly so that was his surprise tribute to him).
Our high school chamber choir often does several community performances per year
Yes you actually DID get D+ in that class, but your teacher felt bad and rounded up to a C-.
Every x-ray has a marker for which side it is. For chest x-rays you just put up a left marker and when you turn the for the lateral (side) view the L is still correct. Markers have the technologists initials. On most systems, when you do the “paperwork” you include the initials and name, regardless of who does the QC.
I didn’t understand any of that, your profession’s secrets are safe with me. :p
All things considered, very few factory cars are worth more than 50 grand.
The auto industry make most of it money through financing anyway. They all have a financing company for buyer to borrow from.
Lots of older trains have high voltage (over 1000V) heaters under the seats or in the walls.
Most off the rack suitings/sport coats/trousers are made of a shorter hair wool. Usually it’s the combing residue from the thick, strong, lustrous long hair that are in quality tailored items. The companies that own their own mills will make a better garment 100 times out of 100. Also, those short hairs feel very similar to the long hairs, so as a cost cutter, to increase margins, an off the rack Hugo Boss for example will use those nice short hairs, and mask really substandard quality of make with seemingly nice feeling fabric. That is more of a “to each their own” thing, but that’s a trick many off the rack suit companies use.
I get around that by not wearing a suit. Works like a charm and Carhartts are SOOOO much more comfortable.
Have a tux made from m y old Carhartt overalls, great for fundraisers where I pointedly remind the construction execs where the money comes from
Load More Replies...Same with jeans. The reason your jeans fall apart more quickly these days than in the past is the use of short-fibre cotton. Short fibres are what cause the edges kf the seams to go 'wooly' after only a few washes. Even previously good brands like Levis now use short-fibre cotton. Jeans can be recycled, but only if they use long-fibre cotton. If you're trying to be eco-friendly, when your jeans need replacing look for a brand that guarantees long-fibre cotton. It won't feel as soft at first, but they will last for years and years and they can be recycled at the end of their life.
When you want to re paint a room in your home you don’t actually need to prime before you paint. It’s redundant.
You need to apply an undercoat if you will be painting a lighter colour over a darker colour.
Or, oftentimes, vice versa. Dark colors often need an undercoat when going over very light colors. I once had to paint black walls (don't even ask) over tan. Took forever to cover the tan up entirely, but that was before sprayers became ubiquitous, so there's that.
Load More Replies...Depends on the material, the paint type, the colours, the existing finish, all sorts of things. Yes, if you have a previously painted surface in good condition that you're covering with a similar type of paint you may not need anything, but trying to get away with this on untreated wood or plaster would result in a disaster.
Agree. But depends on the previous paint a bit and if it's an area with poor ventilation...
You will need to prime if covering a glossy paint because the new paint will not adhere well to a glossy surface. Or at least use a deglosser.
Um, APPARENTLY you can't serve chicken medium rare.... Seriously, though, I'd say it's the fact that you can't take hot food, cover it, and chuck it in the fridge and be free of the risk of food poisoning. It can absolutely happen depending on a few factors.
A well-reared, healthy chicken can be served rare or raw without any more danger than eating rare steak. Unfortunately the US farming system is so poor that there are few, if any, birds that reach this standard. Raw chicken sashimi is served in Japan, where their poultry flock is free of salmonella.
Mind you, chicken sashimi in Japan is still about as rare as kangaroo steaks in the US. Nobody messes with raw chicken in a hot climate.
Load More Replies...There’s no such thing as an “air pocket” when flying.
How can a hot pocket be molten lava and icy at the same time?
Load More Replies...The 16 meter area in a football/soccer field is actually 16.5 meters.
I’ve removed your negative down vote cos I so agree with you.
Load More Replies...The TRUE cost of Solar. You take the kW x 1000 x 1.85 = your true cost. What you're "sold" and the contract you sign off on is all profit and BS for the Solar companies and the lenders. This means that you really need to do your homework and see if solar is something is right for you or if you can pay cash because generally speaking, it's a rip-off.
But, like, say hypothetically, you're a kooky scientist who's decided to do it all herself, no contracts, no companies??? And then you make your own wonky reality show on YouTube where your kids help you do it, but they keep getting it wrong and things occasionally explode??? And maybe you involve an equally kooky friend who gives you all the wrong advice and you accidentally make a walking/talking robot??? And maybe also throw in a love triangle for intrigue. Then would it be cost-effective???(can you tell I didn't get much sleep last night...)
Pitch it to the Discovery network then they'll pay for your solar panels.
Load More Replies...My PV system cost around €5k including installation. I went from around €1,200 per year in electricity bills to zero. And sometimes i end up with credit on my account from when the panels product more units than i'm consuming. Wouldn't call that a ripoff
Always leave your AC activated, even in the Winter. otherwise your AC compressor in your car may seize up or sonething else in the system rots damaged.
Running your defroster is sufficient enough. The defroster also runs your A/C compressor.
I may be wrong, but most newer vehicles regardless of settings will cycle ac compressor occasionally.
Load More Replies...Or (I live in the UK where the weather is usually temperate) don't use it at all and just open the windows.
Only need to turn it on once a month in the winter to get the compressor oil to flow. But many systems have a thermal sensor that will prevent the AC from even turning on the compressor when it gets below a certain temperature.
It is very easy to "turn off" a multimillion dollar rollercoaster and f**k it up for weeks on end. I know that because I did it once on accident.
Sometimes it is about a journey, not a destination
Load More Replies...You get what you pay for. That $100 suit you got on super sale over at Penny's? Garbage. Absolutely f*****g a*s that will absolutely fall apart. You should not be paying less than $400 for a cheap suit and it should be 100% wool. Otherwise you're paying for literal garbage Also, you do not need a black suit even for a funeral. A charcoal will do you just fine and is more versatile. That black suit will likely never get worn again since most weddings are leaning towards blues and grays anymore. Stop buying black suits. The only way they make monetary sense is if you're attending black tie affairs (galas, proms, fancy/high end weddings, etc) or funerals 5 and 6 times a year, get the charcoal suit Give a tailor at least two weeks for your garments. You're not their only client. If you need an inexpensive suit quickly, check Men's Wearhouse or Jos A Bank clearance racks. They're inexpensive but not cheap and their custom programs are halfway decent. IndoChino is the better way to go for custom stuff Buy nothing off Amazon. It's all hot f*****g garbage and you will regret all of that wasted money
I bought a $60 polyester suit, and I've had many compliments on it. Then again, I've worn it like 5 times over the past 20 years. As cool as it would be to have a hand made suit tailored by a wizened old Italian man, there is no f*****g way I'm paying even $400 for a "cheap" suit.
My husband needed a suit to perform my niece's wedding (he got ordained just for the occasion) and we got him a suit at Penny's that cost around $200. I think he looked very nice, he has worn it many times to perform other family wedding and it has held up well. jeff_12-64...8672fd.jpg
I call BS. No one needs to spend that much on a suit (if you want to, fine, it's your money), but actually, studies have shown, that overall, price and quality for many items aren't correlated. The only things to never go cheap on: lawyers, surgery, and toilet paper (based solely on my own life experience and opinions, lol).
I will never, ever call a suit that cost $400 "cheap." The idea of hiring a tailor is completely out of my league. This advice is not written for someone who actually has to buy cheap things.
I like black. I couldn't give a flying monkey's dingle what other people are wearing or leaning towards. And I wear a suit maybe once a year to weddings and such, and the $100-ish suit i got 10 years ago from some Pennys-like place is still looking new so... yeah. No thanks
Maybe for clothing that is the situation. But high end stereo stores specialize in selling rich people overpriced items. Like thousand dollar speaker wires.
High end HDMI cables are total snake oil.Speaker wire is the one point where it actually does make sense. You want low resistance, non corroding wire. Not a thousand dollar worth, but $50-$100 per foot is not unreasonable for thick, silver coated copper.
Load More Replies...I guess I've been wearing garbage all my life. But also now I have the IndoChino whisper stuck in my head.
Lobsters don’t scream - chef.
Lobsters don't scream, but they should *never* be boiled alive. They can be killed instantly with a heavy knife driven through the right spot on the back of their heads.
This is in dispute. There’s evidence that lobsters have multiple “brains” that run along the length of their body. I think the only humane way that’s been definitively established is electrocution, which no everyday person can afford.
Load More Replies...They do with their minds. The lobster god at the bottom of the sea can hear them all. One day once he's large enough he will rise and return that suffering to us in kind.
I'm an artist. Art isn't a talent, it's learned.
I genuinely believe we do have different capacity. Its like being a professional athlete, for example. Not everyone hs the capability. They do work hard to hone their ability, though. Aptitude + hard work = skill (or what we call talent)
I agree. I am a very good jazz pianist and improvisor. But I tried four times at different stages in my life to learn how to sight read sheet music and my brain simply has some kind of a block to learning that skill.
Load More Replies...It does require some basic talent though. The ability to generate or hold a mental image is hugely important for most art forms, so those of us with aphantasia are at a huge disadvantage. Basically I don't know what something looks like in a way that I can transfer that to paper or canvas.
Some of the top animators have aphantasia https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-47830256
Load More Replies...This is true. I am 53 and I also draw (cartoons among other things) and the occasional assignment. I've been drawing since I was 5 years old, and in the beginning it didn't seem like anything. By practicing, practicing and practicing again I got better and better. People do say talent, but most of it is practice and learning. Perhaps it would be better to call it predisposition.
Tell that to my hand that literally cannot draw a straight line using a straight edge.
Any accomplishment is a bit of both. You can learn to draw a recognizable image (pre-photography this used to be taught to officer cadets in many armies). However, to create an image that has life and engages the viewer requires more than good draftsmanship, it requires real talent.
This sounds like an ad for an art school. It is Gate keeping making Folk artist (untrained artist ) sound like that folk artists work is irrelevant just because they aren't professionally trained. I'm not saying training is bad, but this statement sounds arrogant. it is like saying "you didn't go to art school so your art is trash."
Both. It's a lot harder to learn something for which you don't have natural talent, but for many things, it can be done.
Technique is learned. Art is emotion, thought and expression those cannot be learned. There's a huge difference between a da Vinci and your neighborhood graphic designer.
Many homeless have mental heath issues. Some just had bad luck, but most never had anyone role model what responsibility looks like. They never saw what financial stability looks like. They were raised in a negative culture of poverty. Not the more positive “work hard, keep a clean house, self reliant’ culture of poverty. Their children are missing out just like the parents did and homeless will just grow and grow and get on and on until we as a society decide to house and educate people. -Social worker in an apartment building housing 40 families who were homeless and they’re about to be homeless again because they didn’t have to pay rent during the pandemic and now that the rent moratorium is lifted they all owe tens of thousands of dollars in back rent.
BS. Losing a job due to illness causes most cases of homelessness. You don't SEE the homeless who were evicted and are now staying with friends or family either. Get off your high GQP horse and have some compassion for your fellow man. Wait till something unplanned like cancer or an accident hits YOU!!!
All of the articles I pull up say that the lack of trustworthy relationships, addiction, and (get this) the lack of affordable housing are the major causes. Mental illness is still an illness and it does indeed cause homelessness. I know or have known quite a few working individuals that still can't afford a place of their own.
Load More Replies...Homelessness happens because our culture is ran by takers who only care that you have something to take. Everyone is one bad day away from being homeless.
Lack of affordable housing + low wages = homelessness. Yes, some unhoused people have mental health issues; however, you can't tar them all with the same brush.
Reaganomics is still the root cause of depressed wages, and the bosses love it. They don't see the people on the streets who are suffering because of their greed because they're driven everywhere. And wasn't it Reagan who decided to cut the budget by evicting non-violent patients from government-funded institutions? Most of them ended up homeless because they couldn't get jobs and didn't know how to get their meds refilled regularly even if they were willing to take them regularly.
Load More Replies...Tell me you've never experienced homelessness without telling me you've never been homeless.
How few people know more than one language, whether it be spoken, written, or coded.
A quick google suggests that around 43% of the world population is bilingual, so not really "few people"
Another US poster, one assumes. Pretty normal round here in CH that most educated people speak some English and at least one other 'foreign' language passably well.
Load More Replies...I wrote d-i-n-k (think) and it censored it. REALLY?
Load More Replies...Amazes me that in Europe most are at least bi-lingual. We in US should be spanish/english, but...oh nooooo.
Always negative extrude, never positive remove. I'm a CAD man
Herbicides will not hurt or kill you.
Ever hear of Agent Orange? Who the heck are you, a Monsanto exec?
Vinegar is WAY, WAY better than Roundup or any chemical herbicide. Also, it's cheaper and organic. I speak from experience.
Load More Replies...Paraquat is highly toxic to humans; one small accidental sip can be fatal and there is no antidote.
Didn't ChubbyEmu on YouTube just cover this? The dude involved literally took one small sip and had an agonizingly slow death? It's so, so deeply terrible for any living thing, really!
Load More Replies...Not only is this false, anything labeled 'organic' weed killer or herbicide is a run-around. Which means the 'active' ingredient is something like chrysanthemum oil or some $%&! that is harmless, but the other ingredients are labeled as 'carriers' or something else deeply misleading, and are actually very toxic and harmful. Source: I'm a mother-f&^$*@% biochemist and that $%&! pisses me off!
Roundup has to pay out $11 Billion to settle lawsuits as their herbicide causes cancer
Would you like to tell that to my dad? Oh, wait. You can't because Agent Orange finally caught up with him and took him from us in 2013.
US military here, to dispel several misconceptions (with the obvious caveat that there are differences between different countries' militaries): 1) Only a small percentage of the military are boots-on-ground infantry. The overwhelming majority of personnel work in maintenance, healthcare, logistics, administration, etc. 2) We're not a bunch of robotic, unfeeling drones. We're human beings with human feelings, same as civilians. There's an entire culture of military humor. And it's difficult to describe our sense of camaraderie to those who haven't experienced it; you may know nothing about the guy next to you, but you know you'd protect them with your life if it came down to it, and they'd do the same for you. No, the military is not perfect, but neither is any other organization made up of human beings. 3) Please stop calling us murderers and baby killers. Even those in combat positions don't *want* to kill people, but when you're in a situation where your choice is to let someone kill you and your friends or to shoot back... well, you can only know how you would react when you find yourself in that scenario yourself.
Insurance companies want you healthy. I’m not going to defend an entire industry that’s severely flawed but I will defend that point, at least. You are cheaper when you’re healthy. It’s just plain math. Take your meds. Go see your primary care doctor. Get your Obamacare-required one free preventative visit a year and do your mammograms and colonoscopies- which are usually free too. Catching a disease early is much cheaper than having to treat it later. Also, everyone in the US is out to make money on your healthcare. Drs and hospitals can be just as greedy. They just have better PR because they are in the room with you when you get your diagnosis whereas the insurance company is not. Most times your employer chooses how good your insurance coverage is going to be and pays accordingly.
Not all employers offer health insurance. Not all mammograms are free either. Dr. visits can cost $50-$100 now with 15-20,000 deductibles, including separate deductibles for medications, which are another racket. Many people can't afford their meds and insurance companies are denying care more than ever
Load More Replies...Yet another list compiled from just stealing another site's post (DeMilked). Of course, that site doesn't bother with silly things like citing sources.
US military here, to dispel several misconceptions (with the obvious caveat that there are differences between different countries' militaries): 1) Only a small percentage of the military are boots-on-ground infantry. The overwhelming majority of personnel work in maintenance, healthcare, logistics, administration, etc. 2) We're not a bunch of robotic, unfeeling drones. We're human beings with human feelings, same as civilians. There's an entire culture of military humor. And it's difficult to describe our sense of camaraderie to those who haven't experienced it; you may know nothing about the guy next to you, but you know you'd protect them with your life if it came down to it, and they'd do the same for you. No, the military is not perfect, but neither is any other organization made up of human beings. 3) Please stop calling us murderers and baby killers. Even those in combat positions don't *want* to kill people, but when you're in a situation where your choice is to let someone kill you and your friends or to shoot back... well, you can only know how you would react when you find yourself in that scenario yourself.
Insurance companies want you healthy. I’m not going to defend an entire industry that’s severely flawed but I will defend that point, at least. You are cheaper when you’re healthy. It’s just plain math. Take your meds. Go see your primary care doctor. Get your Obamacare-required one free preventative visit a year and do your mammograms and colonoscopies- which are usually free too. Catching a disease early is much cheaper than having to treat it later. Also, everyone in the US is out to make money on your healthcare. Drs and hospitals can be just as greedy. They just have better PR because they are in the room with you when you get your diagnosis whereas the insurance company is not. Most times your employer chooses how good your insurance coverage is going to be and pays accordingly.
Not all employers offer health insurance. Not all mammograms are free either. Dr. visits can cost $50-$100 now with 15-20,000 deductibles, including separate deductibles for medications, which are another racket. Many people can't afford their meds and insurance companies are denying care more than ever
Load More Replies...Yet another list compiled from just stealing another site's post (DeMilked). Of course, that site doesn't bother with silly things like citing sources.
