When you think of it, weddings are the unofficial mirror of our society where if something can go wrong, it surely will. They also bring some of the most memorable and sweet moments that are among the very few life-changing things humans have.
But saying “I do” can be as colorful as the world itself: from people hosting their wedding in the middle of Walmart or a parking lot, or a gas station, or right there in front of a dumpster, and I’m not just making that up. After all, who’re we to judge if this is what makes two lovebirds happy? And sometimes it’s not even them, it’s the guests who forwarded their wedding invitation to a bunch more uninvited guests.
So get your popcorn ready for this compilation of the most “Seriously!?” wedding moments for ensued craziness: the matrimonial edition.
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Not Entirely Sure This Fits But It’s Definitely Odd
YES. Making your wedding about anyone else is weird...
Load More Replies...Cult. it is a cult. And all these stooges who tout him as a savior and his monetary marks. Played them fools like a fiddle.
They seem to forget that Trump STATED that he hates his voters, that they're disgusting (poor) & he hated having to shake hands w/them
Load More Replies...Am I the only one who thinks that will end end most likely a domestic abuse divorce if they divorce
Going by the vibes of the photos I see HER beating HIM and him not daring to leave her because the whole family tells him to "man up" and not be an embarrassment.
Load More Replies...I wonder if the hubby pulls her hair and calls her Donald. Really suspect!
1. this would be weird even if it wasn't maga themed, making your wedding about anything political is odd, but the fact that it's maga makes it worse imo. 2. what's with all the bots in the comments?
My Uncle's Wedding In Las Vegas, Streamed Live On The Internet
This is the greatest wedding photo ever... the longer you look at it, the better it becomes. Look, it's Alan (hangover 2009) in between the couple
My fave is the jilted ex/proud mother of the groom weeping in the back.
Load More Replies...Honestly? Everyone here seems to have gone the extra mile and if that makes them happy they should be proud of what they created
I hate any type of formal gatherings but this one I'd definitely go to.
Best. Wedding. Photo. Ever
I've been to a wedding where the groom got absolutely hammered and it wasn't pretty... They got divorced 6 months later...
That’s me Xmas day, New Year’s Day, thanksgiving, Mother’s Day, my bday....ect
I'm ordained and once I married two people... The groom was weepy because he was drunk and the bride had a huge red wine stain across the front of her white wedding dress. Yeah they got divorced about 3 years later. It was a nice wedding though.
This looks really sad and toxic. I don’t get what people think is so funny. She’s obviously too drunk too soon, and not getting along with the groom. That’s good / funny to you guys?
I would also like to know. What's up with that downvoting?
Load More Replies...No matter what your wedding may look like, it all starts with a meticulous (and for some, spontaneous) planning process. Guest list, catering menu, venue, style, dress, everything puts huge pressure on the newlyweds, so no wonder it may go astray at any time.
Bored Panda talked to Rhiann Janak, the lead wedding planner and CEO of “Lucy Till French Weddings.” Rhiann said that essentially, “If there are too many cooks in the kitchen, you'll have a hard time pleasing everyone and drama will arise.”
At Our Wedding An Usher Had A Rude Girlfriend Who Wanted To Be In The Middle Of Pictures (Dressed In White!) I Got Upset But My Photographer Said "I'll Fix It Later Don't Worry!"
@KitKatLord supporting you grammatically all the way - having said that, thank you for starting the thread with your initial comment because reading the replies has just made my morning - too funny.
Load More Replies...To be fair to the girl who got edited out, she was only wearing a white top with a black skirt so could hardly be mistaken for the bride...
Who is the groom and who is the bride in this picture? (don't mind the crazy), are they even in the picture
No, sometimes there are staged photos of just the attendants.
Load More Replies...Idk, it's fairly simple to just cut a person out of a picture with a plain background when someone's standing in front of them. Probably placed the young bridesmaid in the front on purpose.
Load More Replies...I Was Told This Wedding Invitation Should Be Under Trashy
So if you want to eat vegetarian or kosher, you need to spend at least 1001 dollars on a gift. Well, f*ck me. I'd completely ghost these people.
I wouldn't ghost them. I'd let them know exactly why I wasn't going.
Load More Replies...in this situation, you’re supposed to say ‘yep sure i’ll get you a $5,000 souvenir for a wedding that will last maybe the rest of the month’ and then get them a $5 cupcake. take the lobster, run, and never talk to them again. this has been life advice with twisted.
You're laughing if you prefer chicken anyway! Though I would definitely not go. These aren't the type of people I want in my life.
Load More Replies...I'd request platinum with lobster and show up with 20 bucks. Just a final FU before I cut them from my life.
And before leaving : generously sign a napkin ( "FU- yours xy") You may become a great famous artist some day and this napkin raise its value beyond lobster- so they should be greatful for this unique gift :)
Load More Replies...And yet, this money hungry invitation seems poorly laid out, bad font choices, low quality printing on poor paper stock. Classy all the way
Agreed, although I don’t think you could classy this one up much. A pig wearing lipstick is still a pig.
Load More Replies...Yes, but they asset flipped everything so it's obvious that it's a scam. Also their wedding mines Bitcoin.
Load More Replies...I can't buy this thing being real. I mean seriously... are people THAT obnoxious?!
My Best Friend Finally Mailed Me An Invitation To His Wedding
this right here is a sign of the worlds deepest possible friendship. if y'all are willing to be ridiculous about something like a wedding then you are solid.
Instead, she suggested being aware that “when you are given money to organize your wedding, ask yourself, does this come with expectations to do parts of the wedding a certain way? Are you okay with those expectations?” In reality, only the couple knows how they want their most beautiful day to look, and they should stick to what makes them happy and not everybody else.
And in order to avoid any unnecessary drama, Rhiann recommends a simple trick: “keep the choices you make a secret until the wedding day unless you genuinely want someone's input as it may be different to yours.”
Every Girls Dream Is To Be Carried On Her Wedding Night
Prepared for all eventualities, and she's feeling a little pail. (I really should stop doing that).
I hope this is staged! If someone can't stop vomiting long enough to take an elevator ride (especially if they are unconscious) they might need a hospital instead of a hotel room. Alcohol poisoning is no joke
The bucket is probably just in case she vomits, so it won't be down his back.
Load More Replies...I'll never understand getting drunk at your own wedding. Seems to me it'd be a day where you'd want to relish every moment & remember everything. Reminds me of the couple who went on a cruise for their honeymoon and got smashed at the casino. One ended up passed out in a hallway, the other was never seen or heard from again.
I was at a wedding where EVERYONE got food poisoning. It is possible she's not drunk. Granted she most likely is haha.
Load More Replies...Hey! If you kinda squint your eyes the guy on the left looks like Chris Evans
Mother-In-Law
Mother should get a smoosh to the face. She's too old to be engaging in this type of nonsense.
I think I have seen this at least five times on BP now. Moreover, if you google that Tweet you will see that the story has been debunked (by Ms. Pennza herself) as being massively blown up.
In that case she should have chosen her words for the tweet more carefully. But getting Jimmy Fallon to read it was probably more important to her.
Load More Replies...https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-7163231/Woman-reveals-reason-mother-law-wore-BRIDAL-DRESS-ceremony.html
Thanks for the link Caroline. Glad DIL was okay in the end about it but it still doesn't cut it for me. Who would ever pick a wedding dress to attend someone else's wedding? There would have been far cheaper and better bargains in normal smart clothing. A suit or dress. Why even be looking at wedding dresses? Even if it all turns out okay and the MIL is embarrassed now it's as weird as fu-ck a thing to do - and I really did grow up in poverty. I didn't even buy a wedding dress for my own wedding as I felt them to be too expensive, even the bargains, not for something I would wear once. I simply couldn't rationalise it in my own head. Instead I bought a beautiful but special dress that I could wear again and have. If MIL was so frugal isn't that more likely to fit that characteristic? I get the bargain thing and being extremely careful with money. Seems to me that she absolutely wanted to wear a wedding dress and the rest is a lot of self justifying nonsense.
Load More Replies...This actually has a very sweet backstory that the bride shared when this picture first went viral. The MIL was of modest means. She bought her dress at a thrift store & sincerely didn't know it was taboo to wear white. She apologized profusely when she found out. The DIL went on to say that her MIL is the best mother & grandmother, that she helps the DIL in so many ways, including caring for her & her children when she was sick with the flu.
This has been posted at least 5 times on other posts. It even had its own post with the backstory
Wasn’t this the same photo used when the server accidentally spilled wine on the mil in white at the wedding?
This image is always used when a MIL turns up in white for a wedding. But the story is still a little more wholesome and not as bad as you think it to be. Someone else has posted a link to the entire story and it's worth a read.
Load More Replies...My MIL did the same at my wedding, despite my husband and her friends telling her not to do it. At the reception some of my guests asked me if this didn't bothered me. Of course it did, but I would not let it take my day. Instead, as my husband is from a European country that none of my guests visited, I said to them that it was traditional in his home country. Soon the rumor spread among all my guests and nobody cared anymore. Now it became a fun memory.
Well done! 11/10 for style👍 unnecessary drama elegantly avoided and MIL's "unfortunate" choice generously ignored by most guests.
Load More Replies...Wasn't Expecting To See A Wedding When I Stopped At Wal*mart This Weekend...
I agree but not this. They’re probably poor or met there or just like to joke about the store. As long as they aren’t assholes, it’s good to see two people happy with what they’ve got. And happy with each other.
Load More Replies...There was talks about this in Norway too, as there was less corona restrictions in shops than for private parties. Don't think anyone went through with it, though.
People of Walmart, we are gathered here today to witness the (cheap) union of person and person... (lol pls don’t hate I’m trying hard to be funny)
Ok but as you relationship grew you’d try to forget that point?
Load More Replies...Oooh c'mon, how many people here can say that got married at exactly the same spot they meet ?!??!
there it is. I was looking for a Natalie Portman comment.
Load More Replies...I bet it is because of Covid. I saw a high school graduation in a Walmart because they had could have people attend.
Rhiann recounted one incident about her friend who had a vegan meal in the heart of Texas, BBQ country. “Her mother-in-law spent the entire planning process stressing about the fact that people will be hungry and wearing out the phrase 'what, I can't believe there won't be any meat.'”
“But in the end, everyone, all the guests, and mother-in-law were really happy with the meal,” Rhiann said and added that “sometimes, a bit of surprise is a good thing.” You shouldn’t thoroughly adapt your wedding to the preferences of your guests, and if you take them into account, this should not overturn the things that you feel comfortable with on your wedding day.
That Woman On The Left Is Not The Bride...
Remember the rules we saw earlier? that's why you write rules, for people like this
Reasonable rules though, not DO NOT SPEAK TO THE BRIDE.
Load More Replies...People who wear a wedding dress to a wedding should be turned away at the door
Except for the people actually getting married, of course.
Load More Replies...My sisters mother in law wore white dress to her wedding and I accidentally spilled a glas of red vine on her just as we were leaving for ceremony! :)
She's not the bride, but she is about to be the woman covered in several glasses of red wine
If the girl in the purple dress is the bride....!!!!!!!! Jeez, you guys can’t let people shine on their night!
Has Anyone Seen The Bride? I Can’t Find Her
It just means that he has learned to love himself and has decided to dedicate himself to himself. Self love is beautiful.
Load More Replies...She looks like one of these "you will address me by my husband's rank" ladies.
I will never stop laughing at my own "I can't see them" jokes when someone is in camo.
Haha, me too! Bartending one night and two of my regulars came in and sat in front of me (one wearing camo). I said to the one guy "hey, why are you all by yourself tonight?" He looked at me so confused and then camo guy burst out laughing. So cheesy...
Load More Replies...scarier than the actual service member, maybe they should recruit the bride for special forces?
Load More Replies...So I Saw This Girl Summoning Satan At My Friend's Wedding
Wedding receptions are boring for children. They have to amuse themselves somehow. *shrug*
I thought that was what "decorating" the escape vehicle was for...not that summoning Satan would be a strange thing to see at most of the weddings I've attended.
Load More Replies...It's as simple as kid collected all those led lights from center pieces and just playing with it in a corner.
Load More Replies..."Gracie, what did I tell you? No more summoning Satan! I don't care if he cleans up your messes, he always eats all the food, and I don't like him!"
At the same time, while planning a wedding, you could take others’ opinions into account, especially if it’s someone you have a general bond with and both you and your partner trust. This may be your parents, or other close relatives, who will surely have their opinions on how you handle the wedding planning. This is especially true if you rely on your parents’ finances, which often correlates with how much they're contributing.
The Tackiest Wedding Rules
A wedding coordinator that can't even spell? Yeah, this is the bride herself trying to get money.
Maybe it's a dyslexic wedding planner? I'm married to a dyslexic person so can see how it could happen. Spell check doesn't help unfortunately. The point is that the rules are mostly ridiculous.
Load More Replies...No full face of makeup, got it. But you’re okay if I just do the bottom half?
english is not my first or second language, but my inner grammar nazi is agitated...
Yup...misspell all you like in your daily life but at least bloody spell check your "official" emails.
Load More Replies...Do not talk to the bride??? What kind of wedding are you having where your family and friends can't talk to you?
Seramony? No acceptions? I don't won't to be admited in. Pathetic bride.
I would wear ALL the makeup and I have (which is a lot) and wear my hair like this... big-hair-6...388647.jpg
And you would have looked gorgeous. I miss the 80's. I can still smell my crimper.
Load More Replies...I would have suddenly "remembered" another crucial engagement that day.
Why would the bride not want to talk to the guests she invited? And are we now supposed to toast with Rémy or not? What if I cannot make one of the 2 hair styles with my hair? So many questions.
Autocorrect?
He pooped the question?! Wow mah dude has some talent!
My brother can belch the alphabet, but this is even better
Load More Replies...Oh my gods- they're going to have a gender reveal party at some point that launches animal droppings into the air at some point, I feel sure
Imagine approaching the toilet, shock horror as you realise he forgot to flush. Gagging from the sight and smell, you place your hand on the button ready to flush whilst yelling at your partner in the other room.... You look down as you're about to flush because something shiny catches your eye amongst the sh*t... You get curious.... Have a closer look.. It's a ring. You pull it out and there standing right behind you in your partner on one knee, ready to propose..... You could almost crap yourself from excitement.
Well How Do You Feel Now That You Know She Was ***not*** The Bride
I think the fact that she is wearing it now tells us a lot about why that wont be happening
Load More Replies...Absolutely. Give her a lift home to change into something - anything- else.
Load More Replies...Another mother who doesn't want her 'little boy' to get married, perhaps?
On the other hand, the constructive contribution should not be confused with toxic criticism. If anyone is being harsh with your wedding (and life) choices and openly questioning whether your “I do” is right, whether your wedding is well-planned, it may cause you to lose self-esteem. Be open-minded about opinions, but remember that for some, marrying in Walmart will surely look like the craziest idea on the planet, but you may have your own reasons why such an unusual venue is the place you want to marry. And it’s totally fine.
When The Toppers On Your Toilet Paper Cake Have Masks, But None Of Your Guests Do
I think it's supposed to say "Just Roll With It" because it's supposed to be a roll of toilet paper.
Load More Replies...At this wedding, it was the guests who got the gifts: One free case of COVID each.
...or they live in a country which relieved the mask requirements. Not everybody lives in the US.
I wonder if the drunk chick with little guitar was able to put her tongue back in after getting it stuck in that netting
The Russian Equivalent Of The Maga Wedding
If it's the My Pillow Guy, I want to know how he sleeps at night, LOL.
Load More Replies...Weird Vibes Only
It really is. I can understand admiring and supporting a politician (albeit I can't think of anything admirable about Trump), but elevating him to this bizarre godlike status is incredibly unhealthy and weird.
Load More Replies..."No man, no woman, no commie can stump him" - but a ramp can, and a glass of water can, and the democratic process can, and Stacey Abrams can, and the SDNY can, and basic truth can, and -
Math. Don't forget math. Trump and his trash literally cannot count.
Load More Replies...Gimme a T! Gimme an R! Gimme a U! Gimme an M! Gimme a P! What does that spell? LOSER!
LOL!! Who could possibly believe that Trump's arms look like that? Have they not seen him in his golf clothes? He's a soft, fat, weak old man.
Please I've actually seen Trump trash talking about how awesome Donald Trump looks. This is when you know they are in big trouble.
Load More Replies...Gas Station Wedding
That is a weird way to hug your wife. She looks like a scared hostage, trying to play along and smile, so the weirdo doesn't kill her. He definitely looks like a weirdo.
Frankly, these people live in another world, but I would much rather sit on a table with them for their wedding than with these people who specify minimum gift amounts for their weddings.
That arm choke "hug"at the end, and her face and body. This stuff doesn't mean it's guaranteed of course, but it screams unhealthy relationship to me, that hug especially, closed fist and all. But a photograph is not much without context 🤷♀️
Hugging with an elbow and a clenched fist? Get out now hun, run before you become a statistic!
I think this is cute! It might be where they met or something. Either way, I think it's great that they didn't spend a load of money they maybe didn't have just to look good to a bunch of other people. Every happiness to them.
"With The Power Incested In Me…"
They were waiting for their daughter to be old enough to be a flower girl.
Load More Replies...Same as above. I understand that people may live as they wish if it makes them happy, but the god damn Confederate flag is just ignorantly overboard. To have the f*****g gall to raise a MIA-POW flag alongside it is disgraceful.
Preicsely. And not a USA flag in sight. Tells me all I need to know about them.
Load More Replies..."I now pronounce you husband and wife! Most people will still say brother and sister but this s**t is legal now yall!" - The wedding talker guy lol
IF YOU FLY THE CSA FLAG ---- or modified battle flag, as in this case ---- Yes, it is hate and not heritage. And, no, you are not a good AMERICAN. Fly this flag, you are not a patriot of anything but the CONFEDERATE State of America. Not the United States. ----- the end.
Elaborating, it was the 2nd flag used by the Confederate Navy, between 1863 and 1865. It is representative of hate, people. It IS heritage (as is anything, good or bad, with history; heritage is ours to remember and rectify if needs be), but it IS also hate. It represents racism and supremacists.
Load More Replies...It doesn't matter how simple/casual/whatever the wedding is as long as the couple is happy (and the guests aren't miserable or inconvenienced) but those flags... That flag was never used in battle, for what it's worth. It's an adaptation of the Confederate flag designed by a white supremacist $&_# for racist movements. Many Americans don't know, I only learned that recently. So I won't pass judgment on the outfit choices, the venue, anything, but I will say I'm very sorry for those sweet children being raised in that environment
you sure got a perty mouth for a white townie. Squeal like a piggy boy
Of course they've got to get hitched! She's pregnant with his future daughter/wife!
Great Wedding Photos..
We still have forgotten that Carol Barskin killed her other husband... allegedly
No we haven't. She didnt kill him. ........ she got someone else to drop him out the plane over the sea
Load More Replies...The fact that this is Carole Baskin's wedding photo makes it the best thing EVER. I'm married, all you cool cats and kittens!
I love the fact that these pictures do exist. Not photoshopped or anything
that’s carole baskin and shes the owner of an big cat sanctuary, google her, it’ll help you a lot more than i can also sorry abt my keyboard haha idk what’s going on
Load More Replies...The Groom Took His Laptop To His Wedding To Play A Game On His Computer
This seems fake. This looks like a fun, staged picture at the end of (or before) the wedding day.
There's a candid shot of my new husband checking his phone for the football results on our wedding day. It was after the meal and speeches and during the dancing, so he could get away with it. My reaction was slight jealousy that he managed to find 5 minutes alone to check his phone while I was getting mobbed by various distant relatives and friends! He told me the result and we were happy with it.
Well, you should have had a rule "DO NOT TO TALK TO THE BRIDE AT ALL." at your wedding.
Load More Replies...I would take a laptop to a wedding too. I hate social events, I get anxious. They can be boring too
I think it's a roll of kitchen towel, bit big for tp.
Load More Replies...Considering that there’s no one else in the photo this could be post wedding.
Pretty Trashy For A Wedding
Anyone that’s going to ask for a gun as a wedding gift should be expected to have spelling errors
Load More Replies...Gun fetish for cowardly little men who don't have the sack to defend themselves with their hands nor to join the military.
Load More Replies...Sounds like they're committed enough that they are both willing to settle for either a honeymoon or a murder suicide.
Load More Replies...Considering an AR-15 costs about $600 for an entry level model, he could have got a lot of guns for the price of a wedding.
These Bizarre Wedding Vowels ...
"The grooms vowels from the wedding of a family friend. We are genuinely concerned for her safety"
And The Cringe Award Goes To...
Sorry, but if you think that’s creepy, you should see the original, cringeworthy Micky and Minnie v1.0 costumes from the 1930’s! F99CDFE5-0...7480a.jpeg
My Cousins Wedding Cake...
Well, maybe it's an in joke between the two wedded ppl, or something to do with how they met maybe?
Yeah, if their first date was sharing a beer or something this would be a pretty cute nod to that.
Load More Replies...That was my first thought too, sometimes there's a wedding cake AND a groom cake beside it
Load More Replies...The Cake Is A 'Recreation' Of The Bride Do I Need To Say More?
Why house her face when we can see it in the cake? She's beautiful!
I remember these photos... the bride was beautiful. The baker did her DIRTY
Terrible execution aside, this concept is just so tacky. The wedding is about the COUPLE, not just the bride
Dude Got So Drunk At His Wedding That His New Mother-In-Law Had To Feed Him
This is awful behaviour, his wife must've been so ashamed of him. I bet the mother in law is thinking if she knows any divorce lawyers, while hand feeding him. So gross.
I've seen it with the bride...she was up since six, church was at 11 and we the rest of us went to the reception and had sandwiches, she and her husband were with the photographer for another four hours. Two toasts to the happy couple later, she almost fell down the stairs. Took us a while to get food and soft drinks into her.
Thought This Was The Bride And Groom At First - Nope. Father And Stepmother Of The Bride, Wearing A White-Ish, Beaded Gown With A Train
Creepy. That poor girl is probably getting married to get the hell out of their house.
I would have kicked them both out. Her, for wearing a wedding gown. Him, for not stopping her.
Did Bud Light Sponsor The Wedding?
These are the kinds of marriages that last because these people really know each other
lol well yahhhh, they've been brother and sister for decades
Load More Replies...I love the guy in the tuxedo T-shirt - made the effort. Joking aside, this is how they live so what's wrong with getting married their way?
I agree. The dress is fairly awful, but who cares. They are country folk and they are doing it the way they want to.
Load More Replies...you were looking at his sexy legs and mud-stompin' boots, admit it!
Load More Replies...Inviting 20 Extra People To A Wedding
This is where you say, "Stay home, but send the 18th month old. We must make a sacrifice to the gods."
Load More Replies...I had a couple relatives pull this, too. Several of them added people to their wedding invites, including people we didn't know, and including children even though we specified no children. "But I know that my grandson and his wife would want to be included!" "Surely you don't mean OUR granddaughters!" "What do you mean you can't afford the cost per plate? Fine, I'll write you a check!" "This is a family wedding, so family should be invited, and that includes children!" "Why are you trying to micromanage everything?" Back then, I tried to manage things so there wouldn't be "hurt feelings." Now, I just wouldn't invite most of my family.
My ex-MIL invented 27 extra people without our consent or knowledge and then had the audacity to accuse us of being rude and cheap because we didn’t have enough food to feed all of our (her) guests. That includes the vegan couple who demanded a vegan meal cooked separately from animal based ingredients and preferably in another kitchen.
Load More Replies...My first wedding had an adult only reception. Reception cards read, "adult reception (over 21) to follow ceremony." The reason for this was that the catering hall gave me a discount for having only adults. My husband's cousin, who was sent an invite addressed to Mr. & Mrs. John Doe (no mention of anyone else). The reply card came back with a note saying they could NOT attend, but the wife's Aunt would go and bring their 5 children. I kid you not. Seventy five dollars/plate for 6 people who weren't even invited. And, AND, their gift? $35. It's not about the money, but come on. I wouldn't even give $35 for one person, let alone 6. And then afterwards to complain her kids were bored and question why there wasn't any children's activities? Give me an effing break!
I'm All For People Who Go For Low-Budget Weddings, But Then There's This....
Had to pay by the letter for the customization perhaps?
Load More Replies...It's a bit of fun, better than a boring formal wedding in my opinion.
Man, all these people make us Americans look so stupid. I don't blame you people for making fun of us.
"Bride" and "Groom" are kind of cute...but "Marrier"? If you're going to go to the trouble of ordering custom sweatpants, at least look up the right word
When You Really Shouldn't Drop The Rings
This picture gives me anxiety. I would be traumatised after doing that
The thing is that the ceremony has to be finished in order to get the money! You can't die before that😅😅
Load More Replies...The lack of harnesses is giving me an adrenaline rush
I saw this on TV. The people getting married are the famous tight rope walkers.
We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money
I am staggered at the amount of people who ask for gifts, money or otherwise. I grew up with the idea that a wedding was a covenant between two people who invited those they love to come witness that promise. Gifts are not what make a wedding. Love, and the sharing of love is. I find it tacky as well as greedy to set expectations of monetary gain from a wedding.
Will they take expired coupons instead? I have a drawer full.
No. You can send a wedding announcement to those you didn't invite (we got married, here's some pics) but not ask for money!
If people want to give, they would ask if there's a registry or honeymoon fund, sending out something to people not invited to try and steer them to your fund is just so beggy
Who sends cards informing people they weren’t invited to the wedding?
Someone Hosted Their Wedding Today In The Welfare Office Parking Lot
Well, better wedding in a welface office parking lot than to base your guests' meal choice on their gift size.
I don't know the story behind this, but I would guess it's a homeless couple getting married and the welfare office folks set it up so they could have a nice wedding with guests. Again, just a guess.
I dont see this as tacky, maybe a little sad for them as Im sure its not their first choice but I guess their circumstances dont allow for a fancier wedding
Its because on parking lots there are no limitations on people due to covid.
Buuut it's all pink. What's more likely is that this is a baby shower for pregnant, low income women. Clearly yall don't know about the struggle... 😒
That's what I thought, too. All that pink looks like a baby shower, not a wedding. Maybe for an employee of the welfare center, not a client.
Load More Replies...He Wore This Hat To My Friend’s Wedding
Even if it were an actual Titleist hat that wouldn't really make it any better.
Why Has This Not Been Posted Here Yet? It’s Gold
who knew if any men where even using them
Load More Replies...It is a pissoir and very handy, did they also make some for women? Also advised. If you use straw bales they can last all weekend and can be composted later - a great source of phosphorous and nitrogen for your garden. Seriously not joking, I want pissoirs in my city to deal with urine of all people - especially pregnant women out for walks or gals who've had children and are out and about to increase participation in walking for fitness.
I'd prefer this to one of these plastic chemical toilets, to be honest.
I want to lay one of the drains over the other, and later ask the guys what it was like to cross the streams.
Looks like a rural area, so there's nothing wrong with this, but probably don't need the plastic urinals, just let the guys pee on the grass.
We have dogs, who pee in the garden. Believe me - it's better to dig a hole for urine to be later covered with dirt than look at the yellow burn-spots later. Also - human pee reeks even out on a field.
Load More Replies...Why not just put up a privacy screen and let them pee in the field?
This Was At A Wedding
May The Lord Make Me Less Uncomfortable With This
Do these idiots even have a clue that they're celebrating a distopian horror story???
So which one of the handmaids are they planning to take home and rape?? Talk about utterly clueless!!
Fans of the show are one thing but that filming location they took pictures at is specifically the 'traitor's wall' where dissidents' bodies (including gay people) are displayed after they're executed. The handmaidens in the photo are just an added extremely tacky touch.
Load More Replies...I'm a big fan of the book and the show but there's nothing to celebrate associated with the show. The main theme is misogyny, what an odd thing to tie to your wedding.
Name Send-Off By Tagging A Live Fish. Wait What?!
Yes, because why not make a start of my new life by crippling an actual living creature?
It doesn't harm the fish if done right. I'm pretty sure i know where poster lives and tagging fish has been done for close to 100 years by nature conservation organisations. It is usually done to salmon and northern pike to study fish migration and life span. That being said, i agree with using tagging for study purposes not for name send-offs. There are better ways to do that.
Load More Replies...A "name send off" is where the bride discards their maiden name. This could be via a firework, balloon, etc
It's not the sort of thing to do at a wedding. It's a rare Sturgeon, conservation groups like to tag them to study their movements and growth.
Maybe they did both? An actual conservation-tag and also her name? I would actually think it's pretty cool to know where 'your' fish is swimming along.
Load More Replies...That's a sturgeon. Protected wild species in most places. Maybe this one is farmed and they want to tag their caviar 20 years ahead. Stupid anyway.
A New Take On The Tasteless Cake Topper
For When The Couple Insist On A No Mask Covid Wedding For 150 Guests
Not Exactly A Shotgun Wedding But......
If you pack your weddingdress in your camping backpack....just in case....
How Is The Bride Okay With This..?
Had something similar in the extended friends circle. He made sure from the start „I want to be married to you but I am not big on weddings. So I don’t really care what you plan for the wedding, I go along with it, but I will not under any circumstances wear a suit“. She was okay with that.
lol he's soaking wet... just came out of the ocean for an "I do" and back to it.. "Cause I'm a great white shark Linda!!! You gotta let me swim FREEEEE"
She’s not okay. Her left foot is passive aggressive. 😅 What’s about the hand on her shoulder? 😱
I thought that too, at first. But then I thought that she might just be deeply uncomfortable by getting her photo taken from below, which is defnitely not the most flattering shot. But yes... could also be her husband 😅
Load More Replies...Promoting Your Mlm At Your Wedding
I read mlm as “men loving men” and was confused when I saw a picture full of women O~o
oooof! I own two pairs (I got them for free) and I don't even wear them in public
Classy Wedding Cake
This is a pretty typical grooms cake. Although tasteless, aren’t most groom cakes relegated to a garage or “man cave” and not part of the formal ceremony or reception?
Op Is Mad Her Cousin's "Weird" (Apparently Psychic?) Girlfriend Stole Her Wedding Date She Told No One About
Well... if she had told them her prefered date and theme, she would have been in the right in my opinion.
Load More Replies...It's not 'your day' till you announce it. You can't get annoyed when people don't go along with the plan that exists only in your head.
Has anyone heard of this "Halloween" thing? Is it well-known in most of the Western world? Are their popular rituals and billion-dollar industries tied to it? I must know!
I Get So Misty Eyed At Weddings
He's wearing a wife-beater shirt... at his wedding? Great choice :/
Step-Mother Of The Groom...
And yet the women who do this don't look glam or gorgeous or strong or any of the things they think wearing a de facto wedding dress makes them look. Instead, they look petty, stupid, juvenile, and ridiculous, and there are pictures to last a lifetime documenting that. Just because you regret that didn't get to wear a wedding dress back in 1967 when you got married, Linda, doesn't mean you get to hijack someone else's wedding now.
Load More Replies...My stepmother was going to one of her friends weddings and wanted to buy a white dress for the person marrying them. 🙄 I think this is a step mother thing because I can relate.
There seems to be a trend with step mothers hating the bride or something
This Looks Like He Died? But Apparently It Was Their Decor
This isn't just a job. But that specific setting is usually used as a memorial. It's weird that a firefighter would agree to this.
Load More Replies...Granny Pants Or Diapers?
Ooof
I have said it already. The confederate flag brings shame on all of us and should wiped from the face of the earth. Do you see Germans flying the swastika all over the place? NO because it is illegal. This was a belligerent enemy of the Union in a war that saw 500,000 deaths and innumerable amounts of casualties.
No, but i have a Toucan Sam. Toucan-Sam...58-png.jpg
while i agree that this is tacky, do we really have to bring up weight? i'm not trying to defend these people, i'm just really tired of all the body shaming .
Load More Replies...Nothing Says "I Don't Give A [damn] About My Guests" Like Forcing Them To Sit In The Rain In October For Your Ceremony Because You Couldn't Be Bothered To Have A Backup Plan For Your Outdoor Wedding
I had no back up plan if it rained on my wedding day, which was outdoors, (although I'm sure we would have figured something out). If it rained then it was just bad luck. It was at the start of summer but the day before it pissed down ALL day. Fortunately on the day it was all okay. It didn't start to lightly sprinkle til after the reception and everyone was going home.
I Feel Like This Ranks Up There With Bride Dragging The Groom Cake Toppers
Thought You All Would Appreciate
This person has done this multiple times over many different states in the US. https://www.insideedition.com/serial-wedding-crasher-allegedly-stole-gifts-from-more-than-a-dozen-couples-in-3-states-66464
My mum and dad went to a small country pub for Sunday lunch. There was a wedding reception taking place at the same time and the aged parents walked into the wrong area. Waiters kept going up to them offering drinks and nibbles until it at last sunk into my mum’s head that they were crashing a wedding. As far as I know they didn’t nick any of the gifts though.
It's very sad. This lady may have some real mental issues and needs help, not hate
The Covid Tunnel!
I live in NYC, trust me, no one is worse with masks than rich NYC liberals. You will find better masking at a Trumpapalooza than on the Upper West Side or Park Slope
Load More Replies...Trashy Wedding
I wonder why they didn’t do it at a park or there house. Better location then behind a dumpster.
Exactly my idea. This looks staged. Not an actual wedding but a drunken night out.
Load More Replies...Drunk Guy Peeing Behind Tent At Wedding Reception
"Hey, I Have An Amazing Idea For A Super Unique Pic!"
My thoughts exactly. Jeez, sometimes I think there's only old aunts on this site.
Load More Replies...Hahha at least nobody haed to worry about having ot go tot he bathroom during pics!
My Dad Confirmed He And My Mom Are Anti Vaccination By Declining My Wedding Invitation
True about the kids, they can't get vaccinated (at least not yet). The parents are just idiots.
The FDA should be meeting this week to approve the vaccine (Pfizer) for all teens!
Load More Replies...Maybe they're not anti-vax, they just don't quite trust the covid vaccine yet? It is pretty new. That what my mom is trying to do. We're waiting to see what happens to the people who get the vaccine, and meanwhile, we're quarantining. Seems smart to me, but we don't know if these people are anti-vax or not.
Exactly! I'm not anti vax either but I am not getting the covid vax, a totally new kind of vaccine that has just been developed last autumn.
Load More Replies...Exactly! Also, there are people who actually can't get vaccinated, so if you have a negative Covid-Test from that day, it should be fine, too.
Load More Replies...I don't really see the fault entirely on the parents. Maybe they they have medical history that makes them more scared than usual of side-effects of the vaccine? Maybe they just want to wait? I mean... yeah, I guess I would see that I do anything to attend my child's wedding, but how about a to-date covid-test? So at least for that day, it can be certain they aren't spreading it and also, they are the PARENTS. Some leeway could be given. But since they had the conversation via Whatsapp, I'm not so sure the relationship is that good anyway.
Whose forcing? Don't go. It's sad that people won't get vaccinated. This disease will last forever if we don't. There won't be herd immunity wo it.
Load More Replies...Well Ok Then....
I really like the picture. The jackets are not good, but the setup of the pic is really nice
From A Backyard Wedding In The Trashy College Party Part Of Town
Those are apparently pods with liquid for vaping. How wasteful is it to throw these on the floor? Wow.
Alright, this shows my age so badly. I wouldn't have known what either a lizzo nor juul pods are. 😅 So thanks to the comments (I thought it was some USB-drive kind of thing and thought it's a pretty expensive idea)
Facebook Delivers This Wedding. I Guess They're Pissing? Best Man Is Also Wearing A Sidearm
Not all texans are this crazy! Most of us have normal weddings. Very normal cakes, suits, dresses, and receptions. very normal.
Load More Replies...Just using zip is harder for recently potty trained.
Load More Replies...Toxic people. I didn't know so many existed until they came out of the ground when trump was elected.
Load More Replies...The two guys in the middle can't pee outside, you use the zipper but never drop your trousers.
If you can’t even go to a wedding without having a lethal weapon, you need a mental examination. As someone completely unqualified to say so, I bet there’s some sort of paranoia or anxiety disorder that it stems from.
I can easily spot the ones that are not even really trying to pretend and who incidentally also wear the best jeans but I really can't see the sidearm.
Bridezilla Shamed For Her Bizarre List Of Seven First Dances At Her Wedding. What, Like Including "Costume Changes", Hoverboards And Roller Skating Is Too Much To Ask?
Well she's not asking her guests to do anything bizarre or expensive, just be entertained. Not a Bridezilla, just a bit too eager to share.
Once you read her explanation, it's actually very sweet and is about more than just them.
Sounds like fun, especially with the possibility of cocktails
Load More Replies...Also offering ballroom dance lessons before the event and line dancing during. Sounds awesome tbh, theatrical maybe but hell its their day and seems like fun to me.
Hah.. I had read that as "balloon dance" had to scroll up and double check after reading your comment. It make sense a bit now. Now what's a cloud dance?
Load More Replies...So, her husband died, and so now she's marrying her father in law in case anyone didn't catch that.
I think you got it wrong. Her husband died of cancer, her future husband lost his only child in a car accident. So if FIL = future husband, how do you explain that he lost his ONLY child in a car accident vs cancer?
Load More Replies...Oh, I actually saw the video on Youtube! Didn't hear the wedding advice though.
Veeeery confused. "We became best friends 14 yrs ago. I got married and he passed of cancer." ????????? Who is she talking about? And the only child in a car wreck?? Tf?
Dont think shes marrying her FIL considering she listed him & his wife for the roller dance. Bad spelling aside, it looks like they were friends. She lost her husband to cancer, he lost a child to an accident. They helped eachother & got together in the process...
Load More Replies...Trashy Wedding Cake Topper
Not only is the groom wearing something... rather questionable, but the quality is 😬
But Borat is the class act at comedy shake down, can't go wrong here.
Aww, come on. This is cute! And the cake looks self-made, tbf (but if it isn't, I hope they paid a reasonable price for it and not too much)
If that's supposed to be Zardoz, his outfit should be in red. Plus the names are in the wrong order. Presumably.
I don't find most of these pictures bad. It's people's decision. Let them choose what they want on their special day. If the want to dress up as scary clowns, let them do it.
Yeah- I find it far more trashy to spend $50,000+ of your parents money just for one day. Make your wedding unique to you both and screw anyone who finds it distasteful.
Load More Replies...As much as I love to laugh about things I'd never consider for myself, it really doesn't matter if other people consider venue or outfits as trashy, so long as the Bride and Groom have a great day. It's also nice to see people having weddings within their budget (presumably) rather than getting caught up in all the wedding day hype
Yeah, some of these weddings aren't up a lot of people's allies style-wise, but I don't think they need to be shamed- that being said though, the trump wedding, the corona spreading weddings and the gift requirement and money collector weddings do deserve a lot of shame.
How come we didn't think to have a tyrannosaurus at our wedding? I have to discuss this with my wife.
My best friend's 28 year old daughter is planning a GOT X Star Wars themed wedding this coming October. My friend is desperately hoping something changes b4 then. The groom is great, no change wanted there, just her daughter's taste.
I met Mrs Voice at a metal show, so our first dance song was by a band called Entombed, who were playing when we first ever talked. You should've seen our parents faces when it kicked in, my nieces and nephews had a great time moshing with us, this was the song : https://youtu.be/U8MJFsanLS4?t=61
Half of these are just people doing what they want and not spending a ton of money. I don't understand shaming that.
Call me crazy but a lot of these are not trashy. Some are due to financial constraints, some with inside jokes that a picture cannot convey and some are just a matter of tastes. I really don't see it fit or appropriate to judge a ceremony just based on a photo. A few of them though are rather funny, I have to admit.
I don't find most of these pictures bad. It's people's decision. Let them choose what they want on their special day. If the want to dress up as scary clowns, let them do it.
Yeah- I find it far more trashy to spend $50,000+ of your parents money just for one day. Make your wedding unique to you both and screw anyone who finds it distasteful.
Load More Replies...As much as I love to laugh about things I'd never consider for myself, it really doesn't matter if other people consider venue or outfits as trashy, so long as the Bride and Groom have a great day. It's also nice to see people having weddings within their budget (presumably) rather than getting caught up in all the wedding day hype
Yeah, some of these weddings aren't up a lot of people's allies style-wise, but I don't think they need to be shamed- that being said though, the trump wedding, the corona spreading weddings and the gift requirement and money collector weddings do deserve a lot of shame.
How come we didn't think to have a tyrannosaurus at our wedding? I have to discuss this with my wife.
My best friend's 28 year old daughter is planning a GOT X Star Wars themed wedding this coming October. My friend is desperately hoping something changes b4 then. The groom is great, no change wanted there, just her daughter's taste.
I met Mrs Voice at a metal show, so our first dance song was by a band called Entombed, who were playing when we first ever talked. You should've seen our parents faces when it kicked in, my nieces and nephews had a great time moshing with us, this was the song : https://youtu.be/U8MJFsanLS4?t=61
Half of these are just people doing what they want and not spending a ton of money. I don't understand shaming that.
Call me crazy but a lot of these are not trashy. Some are due to financial constraints, some with inside jokes that a picture cannot convey and some are just a matter of tastes. I really don't see it fit or appropriate to judge a ceremony just based on a photo. A few of them though are rather funny, I have to admit.
