Many of us want to be left alone and be by ourselves with just our hobbies and our thoughts from time to time. There’s nothing wrong with that. Your friends and colleagues might have invited you out to a party, but you’re currently having a blast binge-watching Netflix and binge-eating incredibly unhealthy snacks. It’s been a long week after all, and you'll meet up with your pals another time.
These moments of social burnout, isolation, and sometimes even a wariness of opening up to others can feel very relatable to some Pandas. Especially with the seemingly endless lockdowns we had to deal with over the past couple of years. Well, the ‘Antisocial Memes’ Instagram page has a metric ton of digital humor that’s bound to make you chuckle and smile because the jokes hit way, waaaaay too close to home.
Their memes are all about the things running through our heads as we go about our day-to-day lives, and how we sometimes feel that it’s all a tad too much and that we'd prefer life to slow down just a tad, thank you very much. Don’t forget to upvote the memes that you enjoyed the most, dear Readers! And we’d absolutely love to hear which of these pics you related to the most and why, so share your thoughts in the comments.
Bored Panda got in touch with Maria and Lide, the administrators running the ‘Antisocial Memes’ page, and we also reached out to Suzanne Degges-White, a Licensed Counselor, Professor, and Chair at the Department of Counseling and Higher Education at Northern Illinois University. Read on for both interviews about the history of the page, extroversion, and why antisocial behavior isn’t the same as being introverted.
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Thank you! If I'm finally being social I would appreciate taking baby steps instead of immediately being bombarded by an extrovert. Believe me, I have multiple extrovert friends and I love them dearly, but gosh they need to take a chill pill sometimes.
I tell my extrovert husband to shut up in the morning. He wakes up talking a mile a minute. I need 90 minutes of silence with my coffee and laptop. I look at him with The Hound's expression and say, "You're a talker". the-hound-...970e57.gif
I just read this to my husband that never stops talking.
Load More Replies...The fact that introverts and extroverts exist, surely points to the conclusion that anyone who is neither, must therefore be a neutrovert. Imagine that. NOTE: I'm fairly sure I just invented a word there. Yay!
This is because introverts need to come out of their comfort zone to tell them to shut up :)
This statement clearly wasn't made by someone with an office job. I'm being told to be quiet and allow for others all the bloody time.
Or... or maybe you were one of those people who won't shut up. Ever.?
Load More Replies...Hi ambivert here ✋ when I’m slightly extroverted, everyone always tells me to shut up. It’s so annoying.
Maria, who founded the ‘Antisocial Memes’ Instagram account 6 years ago, saw it as the perfect place to express her emotions through memes. What’s more, it was the perfect opportunity to get in touch with people with similar feelings, opinions, and humor.
“I started the Instagram profile to overcome my social anxiety and shyness. I am an introvert and I needed this page to help me accept myself through creating and sharing memes related to introversion, social anxiety, and shyness,” she told us that she was trying to overcome the difficulties she was going through with humor.
“Eventually, people started to follow the page and I realized that I am not alone in this. Actually, many people have the same problems as me. Their support made me feel better and I hope that we make other people laugh and feel a little better. All this made me not quit, but continue creating and sharing content,” she opened up to Bored Panda.
"I've got nothing to say" IS a valid answer! They're all "What do you mean nothing to say?" Cos if I had something to say I'D F***IN SAY IT!
Sounds like something Snape would say. But he’d say it in a flat voice y’know? No emotion.
Also I don't like being at work, what with all the people everywhere.
I actually find it very awkward to be around other introverts. It gets too quiet. Extroverts bring out a more talkative side of me
That's my best friend and I. Also kind of just me in general. Around new people I barely talk, but around my friends I'm a complete chatterbox.
see, im an extrovert but i dont talk in any of my classes except Spanish with that ONE friend in my class. The only other time I will talk is during lunch.
Thus not introverted. Don't place labels on yourselves. If you spend too much time convincing yourself that you are the label you've been given or given yourself you close your mind to being anything you want. The whole world is waiting for you to reject the past and embrace the future. Positive thought leads to positive action. The only thing stopping you is you.
Labels do limit you by telling you that you can't move outside of their box.
Load More Replies...“At the moment, we administrate the page together with my older sister. We also started a YouTube channel—Mental Warrior. Mental health is really important and we are trying to raise awareness about social anxiety, depression, and similar things,” Maria explained that her interests have led her to try and help other people.
According to the founder of the page, there is no secret to the success of ‘Antisocial Memes’. “There is only hard work, persistence, good and healthy humor. We try to use non-offensive humor. We express our feeling and we find that many people in the world feel like us and that makes them follow the page,” she told Bored Panda.
Maria believes that introverts and extroverts have different advantages. “We would not say that extroverts are usually valued more. We all have to find something that we are good at according to our competencies. Our YouTube channel is trying to help people accept themselves, see the positive things in their characters, understand what is happening to them, and encourage them to seek help if they need it and when they need it because no one should be alone.”
I know they devastated a lot of people, but for me, the lock downs just gave me an excuse to do what I wanted to do anyway, and stay home.
Same here. I remember when I went outside for the first time after the country went into full lockdown. No cars or people at all. It was spooky but I enjoyed it. I'm likely not going to experience anything like that again so might as well try to enjoy it.
Load More Replies...I have been at my mom's for 4 months and have not had one minute alone, literally. I an going back to my house today. It is in the country, no neighbors near, etc This will be me in less than 24 hours.Sigh
Ooooh I'm so happy for you, also insanely jealous!
Load More Replies...I keep thinking I should be getting lonely... people have always told me I would, but so far, not so much. Of course, I have the Pandas.
Yep! I literally back away and listen to music as I scroll on BP!
Load More Replies..."Too long" is just another way to say "literally any amount of time." There have been instances where I've just seen someone from afar and thought "Ughh, I'm already tired of people today."
Load More Replies...But not the graduation ceremony, that sucked ass.
Load More Replies...Me too. Constantly hounded to attend "reunions"-never liked them the first time.
I went to my 10-year and decided that a 10-year frequency of seeing those people is too often.
Load More Replies...I used to try going to the library. People were nosy there, too. Always coming up from behind me or snooping on what I was doing on the computer, or trying to taunt me for walking by. Nowhere was safe. And forget about the cafeteria where all the jocks and popular people hung out.
I would've enjoyed leaving if my parents hadn't made me go to graduation.
Meanwhile, Professor Degges-White from Northern Illinois University shared her thoughts about introversion, the effects that the pandemic had, and why introverts aren’t the same as those who are antisocial.
“During the pandemic, people who tend towards introversion were able to grow more comfortable in this identity and were able to disconnect from life's requirements for ‘extroverting behaviors.’ While many extroverts had to spend more time alone, they didn't necessarily grow more introverted, but found more ways to connect to others,” the counselor explained to Bored Panda.
“In fact, research indicates that while the isolation offered ‘comfort’ to introverts and may have stressed out the more extroverted, it was actually the extroverts who ended up coping more effectively with the emotional distress of the pandemic. They stayed in contact with their typically larger social networks so they still were engaging socially even though it was done virtually,” she said that extroverts appear to have had the advantage during the pandemic.
“Introverts, though, while enjoying the ‘lifestyle of their dreams,’ suffered from isolation more acutely because they had smaller social circles to begin with and fewer opportunities to connect with others as well as less skill in doing so due to their introverted patterns.”
When you figure it out let me know. It's so awkward just sitting there.
I just sit there, giggle, look at everyone, giggle again, look at the cake, and repeat
Load More Replies...Blow the little 🥳 horn at the end of each line. It really adds to the experience!
Pick someone to stare at, then creepily mouth the words back to them with a two-second delay. Works every time.
Laugh awkwardly, alternate between manic and 'socially-appropriate' smile, flit your gaze wildly around the room, never landing on anyone's face for more than a second. Usually works for me.
Neither do I! I just sit there and say "uh-huh" and when they say "are even listening you say "No, and I don't care". And in the next convo you say straight up you don't care.
Load More Replies...Was isnt it? I have used, "Thats not something I really care about, I will leave you to it" as an exit a couple of times.
I worked with someone for a few years and would hang out with him and his girlfriend socially. One weekend, a group of us went to the movies. The next day, he wasn't at work. I found out he had quit (and put in notice). After sending a number of unanswered texts, I figured he was done with me. No problem. A year or so later, I ran into him and his girlfriend at a supermarket. They tried to strike up a conversation and I simply said, without breaking stride: "We aren't friends anymore, or maybe we weren't to begin with. Either way, I'm not interested in talking to you." I continued into the store and did my shopping. The End.
Load More Replies...I’ve done this!!! It is SO cathartic, and prevents future conversations! Win/win!
You can always put your hand to your ear and say "What? What? Sorry, I'm going into a tunnel...you're breaking up..."
I will say I had a coworker do this to me and it was very hurtful. I was being friendly and kind to her too. She like thought I was beneath her and refused to talk to me and this was the moment I found out about it.
LinkedIn keeps suggesting i network with my former boss who made my life a living hell and forced me out of the company.
LinkedIn wants to watch the world burn
Load More Replies...I Googled the capitol of Ethiopia ONE TIME (Addis Ababa) and now FB sends me all kinds of "suggested" friends IN ETHIOPIA. (and not one of them are royalty)
The professor stressed that antisocial behavior isn't the same as introversion. “Introverts have interest in connecting and engaging in social relationships whereas antisocial folks tend to just prefer to avoid people at all,” she noted.
“Folks who prefer not to be around people are typically just ‘wired that way,’ and prefer the company of themselves, pets, or simply solitude. While these people are relatively rare in comparison to those who identify as introverts, the pandemic quarantines would have created no stressors whatsoever for those who would be labeled as antisocial,” the professor pointed out that the lockdowns did not lead to more antisocial people.
“Some folks, for whatever reason, don't want to invest the time or energy into forging a significant number of non-essential social relationships. They are truly okay being the ‘odd person out’ and prefer time alone than time to socialize. Introverts like to have friends, romantic relationships, happy collegial connections with folks on the job, etc. Antisocial folks, though, eschew relationships and engage only when circumstances require it,” Professor Degges-White pointed out the difference to us.
Did this yesterday in the supermarket. Had places to be but I walked around the store until I saw them leave checkout
Haha yeah I try this and my dad will drag me from my hiding spot and force me to talk to them.
I'm sorry, that's just wrong. Someone who understands how an introvert feels would NEVER do this.
Load More Replies...I mean seriously who's lucky enough for 3 weeks? I need at least 5.
Load More Replies...LOL I used to go out to karaoke on my own. Just as a way to boast my confidence and practice singing. But I would go home wondering if I just made an idiot of myself and too embarrassed to face society in the morning.
I learned very quickly to not drink while doing karaoke for this very reason lol. Getting past the stage jitters is hard but worth it in my experience. I do it to practice singing as well and also go alone! What's your go-to songs?
Load More Replies...True. I always have the best time when I finally get there, but the thought of going again is just too exhausting.
Go to more crowded events: SO much easier to disappear into the crush and not have to engage in conversation.
Hmmmm. This is the best advice I've had all day! And I'm the one who always pees on company time
However, antisocial behavior should not be confused with antisocial personality disorder. The latter “is what we often think of in terms of sociopathy, such as the Charles Mansons or Ted Bundy's of the world.” The professor said: “Those with antisocial personality disorder disregard and abuse the sanctity of others and their persons. People who are ‘antisocial’ just want to ignore others.”
According to the professor, introversion is a preference for how people want to engage with others and the world. “Being antisocial is a preference (trait) for not engaging with the world unless it cannot be helped. One doesn't necessarily predict the other—and being ‘antisocial’ doesn't necessarily predict that it will turn into any type of dangerous or criminal desires.”
Look up "How to be idle". Being lazy as a philosophy. Don´t agree with everthing but laziness can be virtuous. "Work ethic" is complete BS.
Load More Replies...I mean it's the effects of 1 lazy day multiplied by 7. So super healthy, right?
According to all the science documentaries I saw growing up, we should have cows on the moon by now never mind zero-day-weeks. The way they sold it to me, we would all have a robot butler and a cryo-chamber where I could take myself off for a few years if things got a bit hairy. So in my opinion, yes, 7 lazy days is an absolute minimum.
I did a productive thing before noon today and then I was done. Nap.
Define productive. If getting up and putting on clothes counts as productive then I have 7 productive days a week... ok. maybe 5 a week. If anything more is required, I have zero days per week.
That's what I was thinking! God knew what he was doing! ;)
Load More Replies...Wow, science discovers the reason for the sabbath... took y'all long enough!
I lost that breadcrumb for the main quest line long ago.
Load More Replies...Me too!!! Love it. No more decisions to make and just go with the flow. So peaceful. Mind you, I'm almost 80 so your time might still be coming
That’s the way I like it mostly so I don’t get bored. As long as it’s not trauma
Otherwise, you'll just be disappointed (by people). It's best to be on your own.
I doubt that people have obsessed over me like I've obsessed over them, but whatever
Just remember, it's probably the one you really hope isn't doing it.
Load More Replies...I had a period of about a year or two in my younger days (20s, before I had my kid, aka my Golden Years, lol) when I looked fine with a capital F. I used to sit in the window seat of the local bus when I travelled around town and would sometimes position myself just right with the fantasy that someone might see me go by and fall madly in love with me. Like a sad old French film or something, ya know? Seems so silly now and a million years ago.
If that person knew even the smallest of details of my life they'd run for theirs.
This. That person that stalked me had some Asian fetish. Im AM. They WF. All throughout high school and 1 yr into community college. Yes later i saw them on FB and saw she finally found some poor Korean guy. If he only knew he's some fetish for her.
The ‘Antisocial Memes’ page is very popular. It’s got over 320k followers who are eager for their latest dose of humor. A large part of the Instagram page’s success comes from the fact that its content is incredibly relatable, whether you’re an introvert or an extrovert.
Meanwhile, the account also posts regularly, meaning it ends up in a lot of people’s feeds. And who could say ‘no’ to fresh memes that they can send to their friends?
Previously, Bored Panda spoke about introversion and extroversion with Dr. Andrew Spark, a personality scientist from the Queensland University of Technology (QUT). He researches extroversion and leadership and gave us his insights into the introversion vs. extroversion debate.
Dr. Spark told us that there are specific situations where introversion or extroversion might be more useful or socially acceptable.
All throughout elementary school when I was at a super vulnerable age. Probably why I have mental issues now.
Oh. I still sit that far away from people, and if someone sits next to me I want to hiss, scream, and bite. But I'm to scared to do that. (I don't want to go to prison.)
Load More Replies...Add being called names and bullied and this was me in Jr. High and high school.
That's sad I'm sorry that happened to you. Here, have a flower 🌷
Load More Replies...Uh-oh. I would be the person to casually lean against the wall close to you and check if you’re doing alright. Make sure you don’t feel left out. I hate for people to feel awkward or lonely. If an “extrovert” like me approaches you just say, “I am all people’d out and socially exhausted, but thank you so much I sincerely appreciate you checking on me”. That should do for the average person.
Why should anyone have to respond to you just because you're being nice, just so you can give your ego a boost because you think you "did a nice thing" Entitled humans ugh
Load More Replies...I'm always there. I was asked the other day how I knew so much. Im like I'm invisible nobody knows I'm there and I pay attention.
Add a sign on the wall for the "i hate monica club". Literally. That is when i gave up on having friends.
it happened to me until i actively chose it when given the choice if that makes sense
Make an imaginary friend. That's what I did :(
Load More Replies...Just fake it till you make. And if that doesn't work out just keep faking it. Practice makes perfect.
It kind of just broke me into thousands of little pieces, but hey at least I can still make and take jokes about it
I don't worry about it anymore, I just preface myself as broken up front.
Load More Replies...what doesn't kill you makes you funny, unstable, weird at intimacy and sometimes dangerous.
It also made me able to deal with this pandemic a lot easier than a lotta folx I know.
It didn't make me stronger. It made me an anxious pessimist with bad coping strategies. I'm better at it now but I can't even imagine what I would be without it. Maybe... happier? Less fragile to stress? More time to concentrate on things that matter/benefit me and not constantly have to work on myself? So no, I don't buy the whole "stronger"-thing.
"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger" only works for Saiyans. It usually just leaves you crippled - physically and/or emotionally.
“For example, it’s not a good idea to be highly extroverted in a movie cinema, or when you’re in a meeting and your boss is talking,” he said.
“It can also be a good idea to be more introverted if you are in a leadership role and you have highly proactive team members. Extroverted leaders are more likely to be overly dominant which can disempower followers—not something you want if those followers are actually highly proactive!” he explained to me. However, there is a flip side to this,” the expert continued.
“Conversely, it can be advantageous to be more extroverted if you are trying to be seen as more leaderlike by others and want to get promoted into leadership roles,” Dr. Spark said that extroversion can lead to better career paths.
I need that thing that she’s sitting on. It looks like introvertial heaven.
Not to be depressing but she could be doing very serious work on her ipad
That looks fantastic.. I want that for in front of the T.V. It would take up most of my living room.
The saddest part is that you do it because you have a sinking feeling that you and institutionalization would be like two peas in a pod and you KNOW that's not right.
Yep. I don't think I'd be institutionalized for wanting to hurt myself but I'm not willing to take any chances. Gotta downplay it all. :/
Load More Replies...IKR?!! And they make being in solitary confinement a BAD thing... for me being in general population would be the REAL punishment!
Load More Replies...It's like that sheet you have to fill out when you go to the doc. I never tell them what is really going on inside my head.
If people knew, they'd put me in therapy, and I can't talk to people about my problems, I'll literally have a panic attack and die
Unless I want to catch a bus. But one time I ran so hard, caught the bus and had to get off at the next stop bc I thought I was going to throw up from the unfamiliar exertion :-)
Load More Replies...My lungs: "Hey, remember how you had pneumonia? Don't make me remind you."
I feel this. I had pneumonia after I had Covid....not recommended.
Load More Replies...Dr. Spark told Bored Panda that there is some evidence that extroversion is more valued than introversion in some cultures.
“Possibly more so in the western world, although it is important not to overestimate these differences across cultures,” he said.
“For example, there has been some research out of the UK which showed that mothers of infant children aged 0-12 months rank-ordered extroversion as being more important for their infants than conscientiousness or intelligence. In other words, being introverted (the other end of the extroversion continuum) was not desirable as far as these mothers were concerned,” Dr. Spark said.
Oh God other people do that too? I thought i was the only one because many times I've been almost pushed aside from people that want something that's in front of me
Did that. Stopped doing it. I judge them silently now, casting passive aggressive looks, while I stand at an acceptable distance, far enough not to engage in physical contact but close enough to MAKE SURE they know that THEY are BOTHERING ME. I really really really miss face masks ;-);-)
Load More Replies...No. Dead stare at them is what I do. I want them to be uncomfortable. I'm petite person, don't judge me
Load More Replies...If I did this where I live the geriatrics would never move out the way. A trip for toothpaste would turn into a 10 hour tour.
*looks at nearby product for 2 minutes while waiting* me: this is definitly less awkward. Random other custormer: why is she looking at the condoms for 2 minutes?
And if they look at me I'll smile and say "how's it going?" But we all know that smile never reaches my eyes.
Load More Replies...Nah, cats don't obsess, they just tolerate you living in their space because you know how to open the tuna and clean the litter box. /jk
Load More Replies...I hate the adage, "men are dogs". No, they are cats; out all night, come to the house and want to be fed, and get "stroked".
Load More Replies...I said to someone, "You know how when you don't sleep well your whole body hurts?" And they said, "No." I had a, 'this is not normal' moment.
On a scale of one to ten, I would give it a pi. Low number but never ending.
"Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something." -Dread Pirate Roberts
“The original expectation by many was that the pandemic would be welcome news for introverts because of the lockdown—almost as if the lockdown was geared towards introverts. However, the reality is not so simple. As it turns out, extroverts have fared better than introverts during lockdown,” the expert told us.
“This is probably because extroverts have a higher level of well-being anyway and were probably better at drawing on their social networks with the help of modern communication technologies. Introverts who were by themselves, probably did quite well from a well-being point of view, however for those introverts who were locked down in a busy household, we can’t be so sure!”
honestly i get so frustrated with myself doing this and I feel like im just digging a hole and not getting through to anyone because Im probably not lol
I do to, your not alone. My siblings won't even listen to me tell a story any more if I even studder...
Load More Replies...YES everytime I try to explain ANYTHING or even just write a story, that is a perfect depiction of what it looks like
This is why I can't talk to my dad (an attorney). He wants just the facts and I need to convey every single ancillary piece of information.
Was that directed at ME? It simply expresses a political science/history brain verses an English lit one. Plus, he's an a*****e. He forced my mom to work for him (under the table). She didn't have any social security because her income was never reported. When she finally left him, she had no social security to fall back on.
Load More Replies...I'm teaching my kids about African animals and then somehow taking about dinosaur evolution...
Word are very hard for me I got in my head it just come out so much more different and in more or less detail
I know I don't go out because of people. The only thing that actually keeps me going out is bookstores. And school I guess. But not necessarily by choice.
that's why I shop online. Books and mangas are cheaper online. And you can get some extras when you pre-order :D There's no need to go out and interact with people and that's so good...
Load More Replies...I was finally able to buy a house and now I have a place where no one is allowed to be unless I say so. It's wonderful.
don't let anyone else ruin your day, it's your day! ruin it yourself
I have two extrovert children so....yeah, that's tiring. And awkward.
My parents avoid me as I crawl across the room, mumbling, "my preciousssss..."
I just crawl on the ceiling to get a box of cheese’ its tbh
Load More Replies...I like to say "Oh, you ARE alive!" when my son comes out of his room. Or, if I'm feeling dramatic, "He's aliiiiiive!" ala Dr. Frankenstein!
My mother did that (still does) because I love to sleep in till around 10am.
Load More Replies...One of my very near neighbors said "I thought you moved" the last time they caught me outside.
According to Dr. Spark, some introverts feel pressured to become more extroverted. “In general, this pressure will often feel most powerful when you find yourself in social situations,” he said.
“Stress levels are also elevated if you are also high in other personality traits, particularly trait neuroticism, which governs how sensitive to negative emotion you are. Some of the research my colleagues and I have done in a group leadership context suggests that when we act introverted in social situations, we are more likely to think less of ourselves—it’s almost as if we become extra self-critical.”
Is it me or I also do this in emails? I always apologize.
Load More Replies...Act confused and run away. It's a solid strategy, just not a real good one.
Really2 introvert people: reading this at home and laughing at others meeting others
Load More Replies...I'll give my parents kids, but not biological. I ain't doing the whole pregnancy thing. No thank you.
What’s more, introverts tend to think worse of themselves than what others actually think of them.
“We are harder on ourselves than others are—probably because other people are too busy acting extroverted to pay much attention to us!”
I had a cat who wouldn’t stop attacking my hand; he loved playing rough. I bought thicker leather work gloves and encouraged him to play rough when I wore them. If he tried to attack my hand without the gloves, I’d give a firm “No!” and walk away from him. It only took about a week for him to learn. Pet with hands? Gentle sweetheart. Play with glove on? Rabid tiger!
Ah! I've always done the same thing, but with a sleeve over my hand, and my cats react to it differently than my naked hand (more gentle). The glove seems like a much better idea though.
Load More Replies...It's called abstract body modification please and thank you 😅
Load More Replies...I got scratches like those but they are from my younger brother
I get scratches like this sometimes from feral kittens, It takes time and constant handling to calm them down, but in the early days, even the friendlier ones don't seem to know their own capabilities to inflict pain.
I worked with a woman for 3 years - she was so broken that she was useless at her job. She only showed up about 1/2 the time and was so incompetent the other 1/2. She didn’t want to go on disability and the organization couldn’t fire her for being unwell. It was just miserable for all of us. Finally she quit and we’re at last hiring someone new.
Me in a video game completing side quests while the main boss is in his castle waiting for me-
I love this so much. The picture. Everything is so relatable I want to scream.
Write it down and give it to the sandwich maker! I do this all the time!
Load More Replies...The ancestor can stop judging already. I wouldn't have a single problem just shooting a random pizza in wild and dragging it home. I just hate phone calls.
Oh man, i hate talking on the phone, sometimes i let it ring and don't pick up just so that it hangs and then i sen send a message! ordering online now is wonderful, you don't even have to see the delivery person anymore, they just leave it at your doorstep, just peek until they leave and get your food! LOL
Every time I went to Subway my mother would make me tell them my order myself. I would have a mini heart attack and my stomach would do that thing where it sinks to the floor and ceases to exist. My dad would usually be my savior when I'd just whisper my order in his ear and he'd say it for me. Love my dad. ❤
Love ordering food online because then i know it's 100% their fault if they get it wrong instead of doubting myself and wondering if i mumbled
then disappointment turns to shock when you fight other people to the death for a TV on black friday
Sorry, you need to be at least level 6 to unlock past traumas
I don’t trust anyone for some reason which became a problem when I had to come out. Still working on telling bits of myself to my friends
I can't even share stuff with my mother (dunno why, I guess I just have trust issues, since she's perfectly nice), so I feel this on a spiritual level.
Same. Everybody and my mother are nice but I don’t trust them
Load More Replies...Why I liked the time I spent working in Germany. Felt like a country that gets "distance".
Then there are the "over sharers" that you just meet that flood you with personal info-UGH!
Sometimes I pretend to be deaf (know some sign language).
Load More Replies...That's how I always drove so, if anyone asked me what street something was on I would have no clue but, I could drive them there.
Load More Replies...I have to admit I think I've unintentionally given people the wrong directions more than a few times.
Don't know why you're downvoted. Its not on purpose! And I can see myself making that mistake as well.
Load More Replies...Been here 18 years and I still don't know my way around. I have panic attacks when I have to travel to the other side of the city.
I have one female cat who believes it is her sole responsibility in life to judge me... she finds a high place from which she can look down on me.
Load More Replies...Since mask mandates are gone where I live, I really need to be mindful of my facial expressions.
and then you feel the uselessness of your existence even more as you think about the poor people that have to create useless clothes for cheap, while starving, you cannot do anything though and even if you are being paid good for your job its never gonna change the fact that you are a simple man living a live devoid of meaning and the only salvation are small things and people you love until you realise that you die alone. but yeah its pretty dumb
Load More Replies...The place I do this the most is the movie theater. "Enjoy your movie!" "You too!" ...and then it's all I think about for the next two weeks
Cashier at an aviary gift shop: "Enjoy your visit" Me: "You too" Me for the next year (so far): *this meme*
Or what about, "happy birthday" "you too" lol or "enjoy" (you ordered food or some s**t) "you too" (the person who you ordered from/got served by)
It's not an excuse at all. It can actually be super crippling and hard to deal with. I have social anxiety, and when I try talking to people I don't know I can't even talk half the time.
ATM Cards, That way you don't have to be counting money. I just hate it when they have made a mistake and I have to get my money back.,
Ignorant statements about fears people do not understand are a wonderful way to gauge someone's humanity. Anyone that calls a fear an excuse is subhuman and not worth your time.
I had a panic attack because I tried to pass close by a cafe's occupied table to reach an empty one. I never made it.
I am anything but introverted, but I STILL take it personally when others around me are having a bad day!
It doesn't matter how much I hade my phone at the bottom of my bag so I don't hear it, My husband always manages to dig it out so I can ring that person back.
I would be the one answering with a phone call. I don't text unless I absolutely have to.
Vs when you find a lit series with 1 and a half seasons out of 3 so far and 25 minute episodes: 🥲
Or when you find a series you really got into, finish the 30 or so episodes, only to realize the last season ended on a cliffhanger and then the series got cancelled.
Load More Replies...I'd say this is introverts while expressing with people they don't know. I'm introverted and I express a ton when I'm with people I'm close with.
I express a lot more around my friends, but not a ton per say. I still have issues opening up even to my best friend.
Load More Replies...Was I the only cringing at the imaginary sound of a dry paintbrush running over that wooden fence?
And just because you're paranoid, doesn't mean there's noone out there out to get you LOL I love quotes like these. They just make me smile.
"find problems that weren't there in the first place" should be an option.
Is that why I sweat more around other people? Omg I just had an epiphany.
It is, I'm sure. I avoid blue or grey shirts because I'm in a stressful situation already and then my body is like, 'Hey, how can we make this better?' and so, the most complicated biological machine in the known universe, decides that wetting me is the best solution. A lot. In very obvious places. Thanks brain. Thanks for nothing.
Load More Replies...Unfortunately it was beyond that. Literally running down my chest, back and yes, armpits to which you allude. To butcher your comment, if I may; just KEEP your ASS indoors. lol
Load More Replies...Omg so have to put this cant stop thinking about it now lol. A couple of years ago took the bf and 4 others to a real fancy EXPENSIVE restaurant I've never been to one at all (Rosie's in Toledo oh is amazing) but the couple hrs we were there I felt exactly like that in the pic! Proceeded to throw up about 6 times while there including when outside to take pics then had to leave mid pic hide behind cars to vomit some more 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ At least everyone still had a good time and only 1 knew what i was actually going through and there for me entire time 🥰
If I ever get a cat or maybe dog whenever someone pets them I'll tell them this, even if it's not necessarily true. I know it can make people feel better.
That’s really nice Black Pearl. I’m going to do that too. I’m always looking for ways to cheer people up
Load More Replies...They always agree, no dog has ever refused head rubs.
Load More Replies...No joke, I saw a lady with a pair of greyhounds and she told me how greyhounds are very aloof and don't go up to people - whereupon guess what they immediately proceeded to do while asking for pats? I felt like the specialist person there ever was. :D
It still bothers me there are two socks missing. Hexapus is not a creature.
Translation : this person DGAF about you or your life and was never brought up with the common decency to feign interest or such social niceties. Clearly humaning is a burden for them so by all means leave them in their cave.
Then lots talk about all the people disappointed with that doddering dementia patient running the country right now - how many can we say HE disappointed?
Load More Replies...And for the love of all that is holy, please never ever use the phrase "We need to talk."
imagining myself in 5 years is going to come up with a blurry ass photo
Why ask this question? I end up thinking about every possible route and get confused
Me when I'm in public: Look down. Avoid eye contact. Avoid conversation. Avoid the people.
Never fault the blind for failing to look out. Quick tip : not everybody can see red flags. Not a colour blind joke. Autism includes an almost total blindness to uncodified behavioural queues. Use. Your. Words. It's all we understand.
Think of it this way, when you first meet someone, all the wid, extreme behavior at first seems like good times just turns out to he toxic behavior.
i stress myself out over situations that havent even happened yet and this is the result lol
it's fine, I'm fine, everything is fine. that's what my music teacher says.
Load More Replies...Introverts with bling? You have not understood introverts. Or bling.
I always panic/ pre-plan what I’m going to say and hope I don’t forget my own name.
My granny always used to get me to help her make lavender bags as a kid. The tonnage of lavender that passed through my sticky little fingers would suggests that I should be immune from depression for about 7 lifetimes. It turns out that I'm not, incidentally, but that woman was a lavender bag making machine, I tell you. A machine.
I am trying not laugh out loud in class while I go through this thread. I have come close.
Load More Replies...It’s like when you want to go to sleep your body doesn’t let you. But when you want to wake up ur body just says “Best I can do is make you stare at the ceiling for a few minutes then you will remove you blanket and sit at your bedside for another two minutes and then you will get up and do s**t.”
What is the science behind this? Why does this always happen? It’s so annoying and I hate it
Load More Replies...Roll over and just hope that it isn't going to make you late for work,.
I initially thought they wanted me to sleep for 30 days straight like a hibernating bear and I was not opposed to the idea...
Until you get a craving for chocolate cheesecake , its 29 miles to nearest grocery, and it's winter
Load More Replies...Less forrest around please. I need to be able to see anyone approaching before they enter the premises.
Needs a hammock, a swing and a single level dwelling for me. The house is for the chef, shopper, masseur, cleaner, handyperson that communicates via text and leaves meals for me in a box in the garage
Sure, why don't you add that I have to turn into a mythical creature and summon Cthulhu while we're at it. Oh wait, I just failed again, didn't I. Damnit, I'm trying!!
Oh that's easy. Bulletpoint, flowchart, listing, stream of consciousness, dream log, narrative reconstruction, or just skip to the end and tell you I hold my being alive today against you personally?
My ex-friend had 15 different girlfriends over 2 years while I haven’t even had a crush on anyone
Should my jokes about mental health be concerning or hilarious? If anyone knows please tell me because I can't even tell at this point.
Humour is a coping mechanism, but as noted is it masking or relief? I often scare others with my gallows humour, but it my mood lifter. Also if you haven't watched Chris Titus' stand up, maybe give those a view. He lays it all out on stage. If he can survive, so can I.
Load More Replies...I honestly applaud myself on my sarcasm, like at this point I have to TELL people I'm being sarcastic. People have told me I'm too good at it. To which I respond, "What? Noo, not at all." And then they proceed to tell me that I actually am good and I shouldn't get down on myself for my talents and then I have to tell them I was actually being sarcastic. And then go and have a mental breakdown because of how much social interaction I just had.
I love it when they say, 'Public holidays coming up',, 'You are not rostered on.'
Load More Replies...CUT the message, so it's on your clipboard, and you can courteously listen to them first, maybe respond, and then paste the original thought back in.
Then after a minute the same thing repeats when you try to text again.
Fr. I hate it. Whenever I can't handle emotions or don't know what to do I just start laughing and it's so annoying. Why out of all things does that have to be my fallback. Do you have any idea how many super awkward situations that's put me in? I don't but I know it's a lot!
Feel you there. In serious situations my brain is constantly looking for a humorous out. It'll start thinking of things like 'tutant meenage needle teedles' and I'm laughing like a hyena while I'm supposed to be mourning at funerals (yes it's oddly specific). It's a trauma response. Therapy has helped me a lot with this.
Load More Replies...Then someone turns around and stares at you, asking, 'You find THIS, funneeeee? Go hide again.
i think im broken i watch videos of children falling of bikes and i laugh
People are not getting more annoying, I swear they are getting more stupid.
For the first time in history, we have open access to a wealth of knowledge from the brightest minds to have ever lived and what do we use the internet for? Pictures of our asses. Lot and lots of pictures of asses.
Load More Replies...S**t bit my lip too hard, I think.... yup I'm bleeding. This woman, in that movie... fuuuuuuuuck
i would say a solid both because the ones who are still somewhat smart have to deal with all the ridiculousness around them
Introverts watch the same movies and shows over and over again because they find it comforting. Well, that’s my excuse anyway.
I am a teenager, but I must have watched octonauts more than a thousand times.
Load More Replies...Cuz that way you know you'll enjoy it and you also don't have to pay hella attention to it because you've already watched it so you can zone in and out if you want/need
You also don't have to worry about bad things happening to the characters you get emotionally invested in.
Load More Replies...There's a really good song by AJR about that, it's called "Way Less Sad" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlVhUbGa2pg
Eh. “Not sad” is better than “depressed.” I’ll take it!
Bad idea, cause eventually it stops making any noise and you KNOW it will be even more expensive :(
This is funny because that's what my psychologist used as a hypothetical in relation to mental health- 'you wouldn't ignore it when a warning light comes on in your car would you?'
That or poached eggs on toast and having my mom cut it up for me. Sigh
Load More Replies...Nothing more depressing than when some bastard has to go and "compliment" me. Great, now I get to obsess over how I am in actual fact woefully deficient in whatever characteristic they are complimenting AND feel insulted that they think I'm so stupid/gullible that I'm likely to fall for such a pathetically transparent lie.
THIS! And also, if you made me a compliment it's like "ugh, Now you've made me aware of my body, which I hate, and aware of the fact you acknowledge and see me as an entity with a body. For a blissful moment I had forgotten about it and i was actually comfortable with myself! Uff!".
Load More Replies...WHOA. Okay that hit too close to home. I actually make that face when this happens. Several times a day.
That and does anyone have the urge to just spill everything that you have harboured and cry, but you can't? Cause then people think you are a wierdo?
Load More Replies...Me zoning out when someone is talking to me and pretending I heard what they said.
I don’t even pretend to hear. That’s too much because then they ask you about it later. I just ask them to start again.
Load More Replies...But... that IS friendly. Make-up. clean clothes. She's made an effort to hide what those claws clearly cannot. Give her some tea and offer to listen. Not talk. Listen.
The holy grail is when you can find an alcove!
Load More Replies...My friends and I "chill" by sending memes and links to "cool" articles, while at our own houses, usually either in bed or in the couch lol
Yeah, dinner is around 6pm, although if I'm hungry I guess 9pm is pizza time?
Load More Replies...At my age eating anything past 7pm is a guaranteed all night indigestion
I dont remember learning long division. And im over here doing geometry.
He didn't study or pass anything. He's a moron. That's why he's constantly telling people he's the most genius genius genius person. Because he's afraid people might catch on that he care barely tie his shoes. Someone should really let him know...
A certain number do not seem to have been created by introverts because an introvert is not necessarily depressed.... thank you.
Thank you for that. Introverts can be people who don't need the ego boost provided by validation from other people. So not really introverts as in "stuck in their head" but rather "at peace in their head."
Load More Replies...For the record, not all introverts have social anxiety, are depressed, are unmotivated, or hate people, as some of these seem to imply.
I agree strongly with this statement. I am VERY motivated to stay indoors and away from people.
Load More Replies...I don't have social anxiety, I just don't like being around people because they annoy me. I don't want to have conversations with people I don't or barely know and I don't like crowded areas. I hate when people try to force me to be included. My husband and I are both introverts and are perfectly happy. I don't know why it seems to say introverts are depressed or have anxiety.
"Antisocial" does not mean "shy" or "introvert". It means someone who doesn't follow (or care about) social rules. Yes, I know it's a losing battle, and the term has pretty much crystallized as "someone who doesn't socialise". We all have our windmills.
Yes. A lot of these were about having low self-esteem, not being an introvert.
The difference my wife, who considers herself an introvert, and me, an extremely introverted person, is that she is energized by time with our close friends and I am exhausted by it. It takes me about 30 minutes to learn to talk again, then I’m fine for maybe an hour, then I spend the rest of the time just wondering when I can go home or when they’ll leave. Time spent with acquaintances is just grueling from beginning to end, and meeting strangers? I often simply refuse to do it.
And parties are a strict no! I’ve been to a handful in my life, and they’re just the most god awful torture fests imaginable. Loud music? Dancing? Mingling with strangers? Figuring out what to wear?!! Are you people f*cking insane? Why would anyone do this on purpose?!
Load More Replies...Honestly this article completely misunderstands what an introvert actually is. And since it perpetuates a lot of incorrect, harmful stereotypes, I have to say least liked Panda article
A certain number do not seem to have been created by introverts because an introvert is not necessarily depressed.... thank you.
Thank you for that. Introverts can be people who don't need the ego boost provided by validation from other people. So not really introverts as in "stuck in their head" but rather "at peace in their head."
Load More Replies...For the record, not all introverts have social anxiety, are depressed, are unmotivated, or hate people, as some of these seem to imply.
I agree strongly with this statement. I am VERY motivated to stay indoors and away from people.
Load More Replies...I don't have social anxiety, I just don't like being around people because they annoy me. I don't want to have conversations with people I don't or barely know and I don't like crowded areas. I hate when people try to force me to be included. My husband and I are both introverts and are perfectly happy. I don't know why it seems to say introverts are depressed or have anxiety.
"Antisocial" does not mean "shy" or "introvert". It means someone who doesn't follow (or care about) social rules. Yes, I know it's a losing battle, and the term has pretty much crystallized as "someone who doesn't socialise". We all have our windmills.
Yes. A lot of these were about having low self-esteem, not being an introvert.
The difference my wife, who considers herself an introvert, and me, an extremely introverted person, is that she is energized by time with our close friends and I am exhausted by it. It takes me about 30 minutes to learn to talk again, then I’m fine for maybe an hour, then I spend the rest of the time just wondering when I can go home or when they’ll leave. Time spent with acquaintances is just grueling from beginning to end, and meeting strangers? I often simply refuse to do it.
And parties are a strict no! I’ve been to a handful in my life, and they’re just the most god awful torture fests imaginable. Loud music? Dancing? Mingling with strangers? Figuring out what to wear?!! Are you people f*cking insane? Why would anyone do this on purpose?!
Load More Replies...Honestly this article completely misunderstands what an introvert actually is. And since it perpetuates a lot of incorrect, harmful stereotypes, I have to say least liked Panda article
