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30 Things You Should Know Before Visiting The United States For The First Time Ever, According To Americans
The United States is the land of laws and codices; always has and always will be. But on top of that, there are also unwritten rules about the American way of life that are worth knowing whether you're planning to move there or just visit.
Recently, Reddit user Praglik made a post on the platform, saying: "Americans of Reddit, what's something anyone visiting the US for the first time absolutely must know about or be aware of?" And locals flooded the comment section with their answers.
So we compiled them into a comprehensive list in case you plan to go there and need to brush up on your social etiquette.
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#1
You drive five hours in the US: you’re basically still in the same place.
You drive five hours in Europe: everyone’s talking funny and the cheese is different.
Ozacoter 3 years ago
If I drive 5h in my country (Spain) I am only halfway to the opposite part of the country.
Panda in the Fake South 3 years ago
If I drive 5 hours in Florida I'm not even out of this hell hole gestapo state
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Gustav Gallifrey 3 years ago
In Australia, you can drive for four days and still be in same State.
KamCy Ahaka 3 years ago
In Lagos, Nigeria, you drive 7 hours and you're still in the same state. No the state isn't huge, but the traffic jam is 🙂
Chewie Baron 3 years ago
You can drive 30 mins in the UK and everyone is talking funny and the cheese is different,
Šimon Špaček 3 years ago
Sometimes in 5 hours you can only get from one traffic jam to another and travel only 20 kilometers.
Maria Suppe 3 years ago
make it 10 hours and okay, maybe. but you know your neighbors and their language mostly isnt funny anymore and the cheese is just the same cheese with the same name.
To learn more about visiting the United States, Bored Panda got in touch with A Lady in London, an adventurous traveler who has already been to 112 countries.
"As a Californian, when I think of the US, I think of the natural beauty the country offers," she told us. "From stunning coastline to national parks like Yosemite, there are a lot of amazing places to discover."
And that's the beauty of this land; everyone can find a corner within it that will resonate with them. "The US is huge, and there are a lot of amazing destinations to discover. Good places to start include New York City, Yellowstone National Park, and Hawaii. They'll give you an overview of how varied the country is in terms of things to do, see, and experience."
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#2
If you find a Mexican or Asian place/truck where they don't speak english. The foods gonna be good as f**k.
Farid Red 3 years ago
In Malaysia, all the restaurant that sell foreign food (Japan, China, Arab, Korea) is cook by either Bangladeshi / Pakistani.
Lee Kerr 3 years ago
That’s pretty common in my U.K. city especially with takeaways. We have a lot of really good cooks from the Indian subcontinent who’ve branched out into other cuisines.
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Zack Podany 3 years ago
If you find an Asian place where no one looks remotely Asian, they're staffed by teenagers, and they serve chicken nuggets, RUN. The nearest toilet will thank you.
Brina 3 years ago
That's an ignorant statement to make. Especially if you haven't actually researched what the subject matter is. Get off the bandwagon. That shits getting old. Fr
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joe skevis 3 years ago
You're ethnic too. White folks are 9% of the human race. Stop treating people as "the other."
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Jerry Ryan 3 years ago
This kind makes me uncomfortable sometimes like when they're talking look at me laugh and talk more(and I'm thinking are they making fun of me or did they put something in my food)
#3
1. Come to America just before Thanksgiving.
2. Casually mention to American acquaintance that you’re alone on Thanksgiving.
3. Accept immediate invite to whatever Thanksgiving gathering is being held.
Everyone has their own quirky Thanksgiving traditions and we love sharing them
Caro Caro 3 years ago (edited)
I've never been to the USA but have met a lot of americans and they were all very hospitable, open and friendly.
Panda in the Fake South 3 years ago
That's nice to hear. Not all Americans are demon Trumps. Most are just normal people.
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Remi A Paulin 3 years ago
...and you'll be fed a gigantic turkey dinner you'll remember a very long time ! :-)
Jerry Ryan 3 years ago
I'm usually at work on Thanksgiving ( a kind of cool fact) in some places a group will bring a Thanksgiving dinner to you.in to go boxes (turkey breast,green beans, stuffing and a brown and serve roll with a slice of pumpkin pie on the side
Trophy Husband 3 years ago
My family is from Virginia, this would apply there. I'm from Florida, and I've never met anyone here who would be this nice. Thanks for again reminding me how bad my part of the country is!
Paul Z. 3 years ago
Is that the celebration where you commemorate the start of killing native Americans?
Sue Mullen Andersen 3 years ago
This is 100% true! We do not want people to be alone on the holiday. The food quality depends on the cook...but the hospitality will always be the best!
Denise Lewis 3 years ago
i have never gotten an invite from anyone and i live in the usa and everyone knows most of my family has passed away and my children live across the country
CultOfBambi 3 years ago
Would this still be the case if the foreign visitor happened to be a person of colour, LGBTQ, pro choice or atheist, muslim or any other non-christian religion? Would everyone receive this epic hospitality?
Tim 3 years ago
In a general sense, yes. But there would probably be segments of the population who wouldn't extend the invitation to certain people.
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Huddo's sister 3 years ago
My sister has a friend who grew up in America and every year has a thanksgiving meal which sounds amazing. I tried to invite myself but my sister wouldn't let me :)
According to the most recent figures from the World Tourism Organization, France is the number one destination for international tourists with 117 million in 2020, but the United States is in fourth place with 45 million.
However, the country has to step up if it wants to see the number increase. Some researchers estimate that as many as 412,000 travel and tourism jobs in the United States will remain unfilled this year.
1-in-18 industry jobs may have remained vacant during the first half of 2022, highlighting a talent crunch that has plagued the sector since early 2021. An estimated 321,000 positions went unfilled in the January-June period.
#4
As a foreigner I have to add to this thread.
If they like you, you’ll know. Americans are some of the most generous people I’ve ever met.
I’ve only been to florida and every single time people have given me more food than I paid for, their own employee discounts, invited me to their homes for dinner (also, dinner is earlier than you’re used to if your from Latin America, you won’t be eating at 8-10pm, you’ll be eating anywhere from 4pm to 7pm, no later than that), if people like you you’ll be treated as family as soon as they figure you’re not a serial killer.
I love America and you’ve been nothing but great to me. I’m grateful to have met some of the best people I know in America and to have friends there.
Also, I’ve only been to Florida and have yet to meet one of these dangerous creatures called “Florida man”, I know you’re not supposed to feed them or anything but I don’t know if they are “that” harmful or dangerous
ToyWyvern 3 years ago
Florida has a very broad public records law. Part of the reason so many crazy police reports come from Florida is just because they're easier to find.
Tuna Fish 3 years ago
Thank you kind internet stranger. I get really tired of people bashing the US on here. We are not any better here than anywhere else but we are a huge country so of course there are going to be some psychos and flakes around, but like you say, once we know you're not gonna kill us in our sleep we will do anything for you! OK and our healthcare is crazy expensive and our politicians are mostly corrupt and ...well you get the point. :)
lolliegag69 3 years ago
I came to thank them also. I get tired of people bashing us as well.
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B Jean the Jelly Bean 3 years ago
Thank you!! It's nice to see someone actually say something positive about my country, so many Americans don't even do that.
Steven Windfeld 3 years ago
Do you really eat dinner between 8-10pm in Latin America? Don't your kids have to go to bed? In Denmark we usually eat dinner around 6-7pm.
Anaïs Grobin 3 years ago
My mother is from the Caribbean & dinner to her was always 8-9 pm.
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Miguel justino C 3 years ago
I found Florida the rudest state I’ve ever been too and I’ve been everywhere. Old entitled people everywhere, people throw trash and cigarettes out their windows, had an 80 year old woman flip me off because I was going the speed limit.
Anaïs Grobin 3 years ago
It depends on where you go in Florida, it's a huge state. You probably went to an area with snowbirds. I have had great experiences in Eustace & Gainesville.
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Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
I also found this to be true when I was backpacking in Europe in the 80s. A Welshwoman, an Edinburgher, two Germans, and a pack of students from Sicily all invited me over to their homes. The Sicilians insisted I stay for a week!
Aisling Raye 3 years ago
I had the same thing in Germany and in Switzerland. I don't think hospitality is a national or regional thing...it's more of an individual person thing and there are so many amazing people in the world.
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Jacob Stark 3 years ago
This one's big. I often hear from stories of the opposite version of this thread, how most of Europe is convinced that Americans are all rude assholes, so let met tell you all a little secret: That's only because the only Americans you've ever encountered, have been American tourists. It has been quite a long time since the average American could afford to go spend any length of time in a foreign country. It has been GENERATIONS since the average American could do the tourist thing frequently enough to leave an impression. So the only Americans you've been encountering have been the rich people who can actually afford to travel, and we all know how entitled and snobbish the rich tend to be. Trust me, the rest of us can't stand the Americans you've been encountering, either.
Heather Vandegrift 3 years ago
You have ABSOLUTELY met "Florida man", you just were not in the dangerous habitat in which he normally commits his atrocities: a trailer park at 2am on a Saturday
#5
The local burger shops are better than the regional burger chains which are better than the national burger chains.
ADJ 3 years ago
That is true in most of the world. Worst burgers i ever ate were at McDonalds. Best burgers were in local restaurants and food trucks.
Thomas Mack 3 years ago
McDonalds burgers aren't fantastic, but they are consistent. You can go to any country on the planet and order a quarter pounder and it will taste basically the same.
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Mama Panda 3 years ago
I think hands down mom and pop restaurants are so much better than chain restaurants.
Lady of Lunch 3 years ago
Find the nastiest looking dive restaurant and they will have the BEST burgers. Every time.
Janet Graham 3 years ago
My folks had a rule of thumb when we were kids and it is still true today. Eat where the locals eat and it will always be good food at reasonable prices. Eat where the truckers eat and it will be lots of food at a reasonable price. Eay where the tourists eat and you will be sorry.
Jerry Ryan 3 years ago
Yeah I'll put a local gas station's best hamburger up against any of the big fast food chain's best
StarlightPanda! 3 years ago
I've only ever been in the US, but every state I've been to, the best food is usually found at places that aren't chain restaurants. Something about the uniqueness or something. I don't know. Lol
#6
Don't get out of your car if you're pulled over by the police unless directed to do so.
Stephanie Did It 3 years ago
And keep both hands on your steering wheel after you open your window. This is for your safety.
Terry Armstrong 3 years ago
And, more especially, if you aren't the right colour / shade
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Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
My friend is white and her boyfriend is black. He's the one with the master's degree, but he's often been pulled over for DWB (Driving While Black), so she generally drives the car. It's outrageous.
Kate Jones 3 years ago
Also, if they ask you to get out, it's not a suggestion. They ask you to get out for a number of legit reasons, like to see if you are intoxicated or if they feel unsafe because they can't tell what's going on in the car, so they ask you to step out. But a lot of people want to argue. With the racism and fear a lot of black people are dealing with, they don't feel safe around police so it ends up becoming a more intense situation or an argument about rights. Just do what they ask, sue them or blast them on social media for it later if you feel like your rights are being disregarded. Don't risk your life because you don't know if this cop is not well trained, taking out a bad day on you, has ptsd or is just a psycho on a power-trip. It would be nice not to have to worry about that but in the meantime, don't put your life or the people in the car's lives at risk.
Mama Panda 3 years ago
When you see the lights in your rearview mirror, pull over as soon as you safely can, shut your car off, put the keys on the dash. Then after you get out your driver's license, registration and proof of insurance, put both hands on your steering wheel. I would wait to roll down your window until the officer is asking you to do so. This way he/she can see that you are not a flight risk. Then you cooperate with the officer. It's really just that simple.
M Rob 3 years ago
Advice I was given by a cop. When you see the lights ( red white and blue does not equal freedom then), turn on your flashers to notify them you see them and are cooperating, slow down reasonably, go to the 1st Well light, safe spot ( do not try to drive for HRS though). Turn off car and place hands on steering wheel, do not reach for anything before they are at the window and give you instruction, then be courtious and descriptive of what you are about to do. Remember... they are terrified of being shot. Give them NO REASON to be scared and you will be fine.
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Lyne Smith 3 years ago
LOL you really need to believe this one! Years ago driving thru Ohio we were stopped for going too slow and my husband went to get out of the car because he wanted to show the State trooper his concern with the camper ( the reason we were driving a bit under the speed limit). The gun was in his face within seconds. Never never get out of your car!
Emmydearest 3 years ago
I feel that should be written and stated more often in airports, stations, car rentals, etc. It seems to me a really vital (literally) information that not many people would think about beforehand, coming into a "first world" country like the US. I mean, who thinks "I'm taking a vacation into the States, let me check the procedure in case I get pulled over..." ?
María Hermida 3 years ago
Police brutality, no health system, huge inequalities, dreadful public education, virtually zero protection for workers, millions of homeless (lots of them army veterans), death penalty, the highest number of incarcerated population... Do you really think the USA is a "first world" country?
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Creature Cargeaux 3 years ago
& do not allow them to search your car without a warrant or probable cause (they will ask you... but you can say no & they can't do s**t about it unless they have reason to believe you are committing a crime or did commit a crime... so like... a baggie sitting out in the open. Even if it had candy in it... or a pack of cigarettes if you're under 18... or it "smells like weed" even though you never smoked in the car. They use this one to get you to agree to search or they'll give you the option of having a drug dog come out. If you don't have drugs. Say you'll wait for the dog. They have to bring the police dog to you in a reasonable amount of time otherwise it's encroaching on your rights & you are free to leave as long as they have no case for detainment. Honestly... have a lawyer on deck. Our judicial system is a fucken mess & you don't wanna be caught up in it. Even if it's just to give a statement as a witness. Just hire a lawyer.
StarlightPanda! 3 years ago (edited)
You all have no idea..I wish this wouldn't get to me. I was assaulted. They almost make you feel worse/inferior than the person who assaulted you made you feel!! Reporting a crime shouldn't be something someone is afraid to do. I don't feel protected at all. So I just always look over my shoulder and stuff now. =/
Joe Rusynyk 3 years ago
statistically speaking you're more than twice as likely to be killed by the cops in any given police stop if you're a white man as opposed to a black man.
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However, when it comes to the locals, A Lady in London said they can be really accepting of tourists. "It depends where you go. Different parts of the country are known for different things. For example, Southerners are known for their hospitality and Midwesterners for their friendliness. I like to think Americans are pretty welcoming on the whole," she explained.
But if you want to meet them, A Lady in London suggests you start locally and see how it goes from there. "My biggest tip is to remember how big the country is. I recommend seeing one state or region at a time so you can experience it fully and meaningfully," she said. "Then make sure to come back again and see a different part of the country. You'll start to get a feel for how diverse the US is."
#7
Always get health insurance unless you wish to be bankrupt. The US healthcare system is insanely expensive.
Mama Panda 3 years ago
I am diabetic type 2 and my meds are over $600/month without insurance. With insurance, it costs me $16/month. It's so expensive to try to stay alive.
Glynn Reid 3 years ago
This is abhorrent in 2022. You have a first world country with a third world healthcare system. Come live and work anywhere in Europe and for a small tax off your paycheck every month (for money which you never physically see so you never physically miss), you'll get that insulin (and every other medicine, operation or procedure) for nothing at point of contact. Last 12 months? 1 x-ray, 1 MRI, 1 bowel screening, 3 blood tests, 1 anti-depressant daily x 365, 2 anti-anxiety tablets daily x 365, migraine medication as necessary, IBS medication as necessary and that's just what I remember. None of that cost me any more money than my National Insurance deductions from pay. Even better, our contributions cover those who otherwise would die or be made homeless or in be debt for life or physically can't work so that our population is healthier and can each contribute to the productivity of the nation. Why America thinks (socialism) this system is evil, is beyond me. Life is not a competition.
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Leon Malone 3 years ago
I am diabetic type 2. All meds are free. All healthcare is free. I don't have insurance. Living in the UK. Thank you NHS
Kate Jones 3 years ago
you can still go bankrupt with health insurance. they often find loopholes to not pay out, or they won't cover certain meds or procedures. Not to mention you usually have to pay a deductible in the thousands before they even begin to pay anything.
Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
In 1943, it cost $29.50 to give birth in a hospital. Now the *average* is $18,865. It's completely nuts.
Larissa Bailey 3 years ago
$29.50 in 1943 is equivalent in purchasing power to about $505.27 today, an increase of $475.77 over 79 years.
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DennyS (denzoren) 3 years ago
I was talking to a friend about this recently from the US and it's insane. The ride in an ambulance alone blew my mind.
Strawblurries 3 years ago
People also take an ambulance when it's unnecessary
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Russell Frerichs 3 years ago
That is hard to believe. Do you know the percentages?
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#8
While walking down the street, people will randomly make eye contact and then smile. No, you don't know them, this is just their way of being polite. They expect you to smile back and then break eye contact.
Mama Panda 3 years ago
I will always make eye contact and smile. I might even compliment you on something you are wearing if it looks like you are having a bad day. Many times I will even strike up a random conversation with someone while waiting in line or waiting to cross the street. I love meeting new people. But if I get a vibe that you are not willing to talk or whatever, I will just smile and be on my way.
Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
It depends on the part of the country. I do this in Boston, but it's not a typical city thing to do. It's more common in rural places and the south.
M Rob 3 years ago
Chicagoan here and It is normal to give a smile and head nod, or even a hi when passing someone ( not during rush hour though LOL).
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Ray Arani 3 years ago (edited)
This might be universal, but if you are a guy don't expect women to hold eye contact or smile back. They might but they might not. You're better off avoiding eye contact unless they are initiating the interaction, then taking your cues from them. If a guy shows interest in a woman he doesn't know publicly it's often perceived as the threat, because even if you're are just trying to be polite and friendly, a lot of guys get aggressive or violent if their attentions aren't returned to their liking. I'm genderqueer, but when people code me as male, I go out of my way to ensure I don't make women uncomfortable. But this often meant something different when I was living in Mexico than it does in the States.
General Anaesthesia 3 years ago
And other people say, "never, ever make eye contact". Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Heaven Anticipated 3 years ago
They do this even in foreign countries, the smile looks goofy and angelic combined, not possible to avoid smiling back. A little tentative smile because you are not used to it and you are a little shocked. If you live in a country where we only smile at people we know, just before hugging them.
M 3 years ago (edited)
This is only true in small-town America. In most big cities, if you do this to a member of the opposite sex, they may take it as an invitation to hit on you, or as you attempting to hit on them. In cities, just mind your own business. (But don't be afraid to ask for help, in public areas.)
Huddo's sister 3 years ago
I can't make myself look at people's faces unless I'm in a conversation with them (even then maybe not). I wish I was the type of person (like my mum) who smiled and said hi to neighbours or people I walk past on the street but I'm just not. It is common, though maybe less so these days, to do this in Australian country towns, just not as much elsewhere.
#9
In 98% of areas you go to, you’ll need a car. The 2% where you won’t are NYC, Boston, Chicago, and DC.
Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago (edited)
As a lifelong Bostonian, we welcome you! Be sure to get some Italian food on Hanover Street. Also, keep an eye on this page for summer festivals, free concerts, etc.: https://www.thebostoncalendar.com
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Hypoxia Smurf 3 years ago
San Francisco sports a very walkable downtown and neighborhoods. Take a bus or streetcar to cross town when you're tired. Otherwise, hoof it!
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Zack Podany 3 years ago
Minneapolis is very bike friendly and has public bike kiosks where you can rent one.
YetAnotherSarah 3 years ago
But not necessarily your own car. Uber/Lyft etc are available in plenty of places, including small towns.
Mbfsc63 3 years ago
Not so. I didn't need a car in Savannah, GA, Oahu, HI, Charleston SC, San Francisco CA and ponds of other places....
Anthony Nizza 3 years ago
Here in Maine there is public bus service in only 2 cities in the entire state. You have to have a car here.
Reddit user Praglik told Bored Panda they came up with the idea for the post when they were planning a trip to California with their wife. "She's never been to the US," Praglik said. "A little bit later before going to bed I thought about asking this question, and to my surprise, it blew up during the night here in Europe."
"The replies were helpful, they crystallized what I read over the years about the US. Most of them were very similar, falling into 3 categories: danger (don't mess with wildlife), hidden costs (tips, taxes, long-distance travels), and finally people (homemade food is great, they love to share, love to meet foreigners)."
The Redditor said they've been to the US once before. "It was a very short business trip to Colorado. The country seemed very interesting, vast, and full of colorful people. I always dreamt of visiting both coasts, California and New England in particular."
Hopefully, the post will help other travelers too!
#10
Tax is added to the shelf prices at the checkout.
Ladytron 3 years ago
What if you are on a very strict budget? Seems VERY time consuming to add tax to everything when you try to calculate how much it will be to make sure you have enough to pay for everything? Or is it the same tax for every item? When I was a student I had a calculator with me to make sure I was within my budget. This seems to be taking forever if you have to include calculating tax?
Panda in the Fake South 3 years ago
There is a state sales tax, sometimes a local sales tax. Sometimes city sales tax and each state county and city sets their own tax rate. Food and medical essentials aren't subject to sales tax, some items are Grey areas that you don't know if they will be taxed or not.
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Farid Red 3 years ago
U will never know how much to pay until the cashier told you. What a weird system.
Richard Anderson 3 years ago
Most of the time we don't even know how much we paid afterwards either because we are to busy talking to strangers or the cashier to notice. Only slightly joking there. I don't look at prices at the store, just get what I need and go, unless it is a big ticket item then I might pay attention. Also when live doesn't have any sales tax.
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Christopher Hebhardt 3 years ago
Also what is taxed can differ from State to State. Massachusetts does not charge sales tax in clothing unless they individual item costs more than 175$. In NY it is over 110 but with odd exceptions like sports equipment. Basically think of each state as it's own country all under the US Fed Government Union.
Steven Burdette Ellison 3 years ago
The confusion is there by design. Same way as everything ends in 99 cents...it tricks the brain into thinking you're getting a deal.
LadySparre 3 years ago
What's wrong with having the actual checkout price on the shelf?!? In Europe taxes are included in the shelf prices so what you see is what you pay.
Jacques Lacroix 3 years ago
Worse in Canada, we have 2 taxes, 1 federal and one provincial, and guess what, the provincial tax is based on the total of the item + federal tax.
#11
24 hour Diners. According to stuff I read in Reddit, our diners are legendary.
ETA: I’m American and I eat at them a lot. I was just surprised how much visitors from other countries love our diners so much.
DennyS (denzoren) 3 years ago
I'm from the Caribbean and I've always been fascinated with them. Like, we don't have any 24/7 eateries here, also they look so cool in movies...you pull up at like 2am...order food and stare out the window. The whole aesthetic seems cool.
Mer☕️🧭☕️ 3 years ago
It really is. There's a whole mood to 3am grilled cheese, fries, and a coffee slowly eaten while staring out the window. There's a great "hustle bustle" breakfast mood and an entirely different "everyone's tired but glad to be off work" early evening mood. Diners are awesome.
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Can't wait to experience it for the first time. Have no idea why, order than they just look cool and are the basis for so many movie scenes!
Paul Beebe 3 years ago
Yep-good luck finding something fried when yer drunkies at 2 am in Europe...
gerard julien 3 years ago
USA is a country, Europe is a continent. there are 27 countries in the european union and they're all different.
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I've always been curious about Waffle House. It seems to be such a culturally significant place. I'm American but have never even seen one lol.
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Elly Sketchit 3 years ago
I miss diners! I grew up in NJ and we had the most diners in the US in our state lol. I loved the food in some and I'm an insomniac so usually worked nights.
LucyGoosey 3 years ago
I'm sorry, there are diners in the US? I'm American and I've never found one ;w;
Zack Podany 3 years ago
They're not as common here as they used to be. I spent a half hour driving around to locations that used to be open 24h after my shift ended at 11pm. Ended up eating from the gas station, and not the first one I tried.
#12
The McDonalds is not the same as in your country and will most likely make you sick.
Jon Clingenpeel 3 years ago
People from other countries please DO NOT visit fast food places in the US. The reason our country is so overweight/obese is because of places like that. Even the soda is different here and in a bad way.
Andie 3 years ago
My husband is from England and loves KFC there. He came here and wanted to try ours. He threw up all night because of the amount of grease. Unfortunately, he did not learn his lesson and did it again a few months later.
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Crystal galvan mendez 3 years ago
Many of the ingredients in the McDonald's' food in the United states are illegal in other countries. The ingredients list is much different, so, it is absolutely not the same
Jerry Ryan 3 years ago (edited)
I stopped eating at this one burger king I'd get sick with diarrhea half the time I eat there ( one time I waited 40 minutes for fresh fries and I got hard cold fries and the last time I got mushy smelly lettuce that looked like someone pre chewed it then spit back on my whopper
Kevin J. Henning 3 years ago
Gee, I figured fast food places like McDonald's sucked no matter where they are located.
TEDDEHBEAR!!!! 3 years ago
This is only half true, it won't be the same as the McDonald's in your country.
Jose Carlo 3 years ago
Interesting! I had been to a McD in Philippines, Hong Kong, Thailand, China, Vietnam, Australia, England, Scotland - its all good to me!
#13
When we say, "How's it going?" we don't need a literal answer. It's just a greeting. I went to college with a guy from Germany and this confused him quite a bit when he first got here. He thought people wanted to know about his whole day.
Frank Ropen 3 years ago
That's interesting because the german phrase "Wie geht's?" means the same and nobody expects any other answer than "good".
farbenzirkel 3 years ago
Or it's a prelude to silly responses like, "Has to, has to." And, "Bad people are always fine, after all."
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Aline Cahill 3 years ago
Ah here in Ireland they answer "how are you" with another "how are you "
B 🇺🇦🇨🇦 3 years ago
Or in England where they just say “Alright?” Confused me a lot the first time, I was like “…yeah, do I not look alright?” Lol
Load More Replies... Mama Panda 3 years ago
If I ask "how's it going?", typically I get a simple response of "ok". If someone needs to vent or wants to share their whole day with me, I will happily listen.
Ray Heap 3 years ago
Also don’t ask a German how he is if you are not a doctor interested in that persons entire medical history.
Shyla Clay 3 years ago
I have Asperger's, and I have never understood asking a question for which you don't want an answer.
Lyne Smith 3 years ago
Another Americanism I find charming is 95% of the time you say thank you they respond with " uh huh " instead of you're welcome! Love it!
#14
Each state has its own driving laws.
Yettichild 3 years ago
The basic laws are the same, but as an example, it may be legal to go through a yellow stop light if you have time to stop in one state, but not in another.
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Scott Rackley 3 years ago
In Michigan they're mandatory (for left hand turns)
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Glen Cuchine 3 years ago
.....and don't even get us started on use of marijuana or obtaining an abortion...LMAO
Jon Schmidt 3 years ago
And every state expects you to know them backwards and forwards. This is called "Revenue Generation" by our police departments.
Emily 3 years ago
I live in Wisconsin, so we can turn right on red. I have to be careful in other states because most others don't have that rule.
Trophy Husband 3 years ago
Each state has a lot of differences in laws. It's not as dramatic as different countries, but there are major differences. But driving laws are usually the ones to worry about as a tourist. If I'm taking a road trip, I'll look up the different laws from state to state along the way so I don't get a ticket for something dumb like not using headlights when it's barely raining (required in some states but not all).
Rod 3 years ago
I will never forget the first time I drove from Massachusets to New Hamshpire: as I reached the state line, there was a biker riding his Harley next to me and he took off his helmett on the highway....
Anaïs Grobin 3 years ago
Or people on their cell phones in MA, who have to toss them down when crossing the border into CT. Also, right on red, no right on red, right on red, no right on red...... lol
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Susan Reid Smith 3 years ago
The laws are similar, just some small differences. What varies a lot is speed limits and attitudes to them. The speed limits seem to be lower in the eastern parts of the country.
Daffodil 3 years ago
And if you're in California, the speed limit is whatever the other cars on the road are doing and if you're holding up traffic by doing the speed limit, you could be pulled over. (Source, my mother who lived in Cali for like half of her childhood and isn't that old that things would've drastically changed. Also we've been on trips there in the last few years)
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Almost everyone in America thinks your accent is charming, and thinks you're super-fancy just for coming from Cork/Manchester/Kyoto/Lagos/Guangzho/Rio/Mexico City.
90% of native-English-speaking Americans absolutely adore hearing people speak English with an accent and with foreign syntax. English is a wildly flexible language, and we love to hear people flex it by translating their native language into English in ways that sound a little weird in English. We will 100% steal it from you because it's vivid! Shakespeare has infected all of us, we love vivid and surprising language! We absolutely devour non-native speakers because they use English like Shakespeare and Chaucer, in vivid ways that re-illuminate the language. Do NOT be embarrassed; we all want to steal your metaphors and odd phrases and malapropisms, because you are DOING SHAKESPEARE RIGHT THERE IN FRONT OF US. Like, literally offer the awkwardest phrase you've got in English, and a bunch of English speakers will instantly adopt it because it's wildly vivid. They may even steal your Italian or Chinese or Portuguese word, because it says something we can't currently say in American English.
We are also incredibly impressed that you can speak English in addition to other languages! We feel humble and slightly dumb that we can't, and we want to make your English-speaking as painless as possible. Non-native speakers are often embarrassed at their English proficiency, but *literally everyone in America* thinks you are amazing and is hanging on your every word! Most of us don't want to be weird and awkward and signal that you're not a native speaker (especially after the Trump years), so we won't mention it unless you do. But we are all sitting here ADORING your accent and freaking out that you're so good at English.
Visit Chicago. It is by far the most American city, and it is clean, friendly, and everyone will want to hear your story and may possibly invite you to Thanksgiving dinner upon first meeting.
If you are a college student, ask your dorm-mates about Thanksgiving. Someone will invite you home with them, and be super-happy to have the opportunity to do so! We're a hospitable people, Thanksgiving is uniquely American, and we know non-American kids in the dorms may not have somewhere to go! If you mention your dietary restrictions, they will make you vegan or halal or gluten-free Thanksgiving food (it might not be good, but they will try). They will want you to call your mother, and they may want to say hi to your mother, so she knows you're being taken care of on Thanksgiving. Your mother might not know what Thanksgiving is! But your American roommate's mother wants YOUR mother to know that you have a place here, so the two of them will have a very awkward conversation and both leave feeling satisfied that you are loved and cared for.
Kharyss 3 years ago
UK native here. I spent a year in Chicago working for a charity. They put me on the phones for their annual funds drive thinking I’d get more donations with an English accent. Backfired big time as everyone wanted to stay and chat longer and I spent most of my time explaining England rather than getting pledges.
Kristal 3 years ago
Lol that's interesting! I lived in NW US and didn't think I had an accent until I moved to the Midwest. Apparently, I enunciate my words more than typical US people and when I worked at a call center, people thought I was British.
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Kristal 3 years ago
I couldn't finish reading it. But to add a touch of realism: there are people that may not like the accent, so not 'literally' everyone will love it. The vast majority find it interesting, some may have issues understanding but do not let it scare you away from using your English skills!
Justin Palmer 3 years ago
I worked on US bases and my mate from Cali who was very travelled often had to translate for me to other Americans, and I had to translate for my more eccentric English mate. 😂 apparently we don’tleavegapsbetweenthewords when we speak..though English speakers from Africa, Australia etc. etc never had the same trouble… or even many for who English was their 2nd or 3rd language. And don’t start me on my Scottish associates, I was often asked “is he speaking english”?
Load More Replies... Kate Jones 3 years ago
While this is mostly true, I would also say that it's very specific to British, Australian, maybe French and South African. Trust me when I tell you, Spanish/Mexican/Portuguese or latin american accents are not as welcomed and liked. Mostly because of a lot of racism. Also because Australian and British in particular still speak English so it's understandable, but other accents come with a different language that is sometimes coming from someone who's trying their best to speak english, but it causes a lot of frustration to someone trying to understand them.
Justin Palmer 3 years ago
Erm, slight correction: when we English speak to you, we are not speaking English with a foreign accent,…erm, sorry..terribly sorry, but it’s you that are ;)
Alysia Grey 3 years ago
Re: speaking with an accent: if you’re finding that people are having difficulty understanding you (due to accent), don’t give up! Keep paper & pen handy, write it out. Even if it’s not spelled perfectly, a lot of folks will take the time to work with you. Because the country’s so big, every regional accent is strange-to-indecipherable somewhere else in this country.
Wayne Gossman 3 years ago
There are plenty of republicans who are currently terribly embarrassed to even exist but still identify as republicans.
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Cobalt.spike 3 years ago
I have this on an almost weekly rate; never lost my weird Northern/BBC RP hybrid accent and live in Texas (almost 10 years). I was thinking about how Americans love the accent only the other day as I crossed from my car to a store. I dismissed the thought as I entered as a silly bit of narcissism, and literally the first thing the woman at the reception said when I greeted her was "Oh my God, I love your accent so much". I ain't complaining, though I've never quite found an not entirely awkward feeling response (other than a straight thank you) so I usually just follow up with "sometimes I think it's the only reason my wife is still with me".
Justin Palmer 3 years ago
Is that the Englishman’s fear/embarrassment that a compliment may mean flirting and you can’t tell coz she is also smiling,..so you immediately bring your wife up in self defence?
Load More Replies... Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
Sure, open-minded, curious people find foreigners enchanting. (I certainly do.) However, we also have people who will be suspicious and angry that "you're trying to steal our jobs." There's a lot of racism attached to that.
Kyl Glan 3 years ago
Only for certain races and generally only for people they believe to be illegal
Load More Replies... Mama Panda 3 years ago
I absolutely love accents and hearing the different ones. I am not sure I would say Chicago is the most American city tho. I guess it depends on what you like. Sure we have the major cities like NYC, Phoenix, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Dallas, and Miami to name a few and each one of those is a different experience in and of itself. As for Thanksgiving (and any other major holiday), we don't like to see people spend it alone and will make you an honorary member of the family so you will feel better. It's just how we are.
#16
Do not under any circumstances try to bribe a cop depending on where you come from that might seem odd but trust me you will get in trouble if you try.
Gladys Hayes Southerland 3 years ago
Bc in many foreign countries, there is corruption & police do take bribes.
Michael Mccollum 3 years ago
Some countries the copwill tell you to put some money down and walk away and all Is good
GMc 3 years ago (edited)
.... Unless you're part of a lobby group, then most politicians can be bought if you have enough money.
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Jerry Ryan 3 years ago
This goes without saying I never thought doing this you will go to jail.but I've had one or two cops steal from me and got away with it once they took my quick release knife(Wich is legal in my state and once they took d.l.never gave it back and a day later I get pulled over and a ticket for not having my d.l.
#17
Personal space. Do not get right up behind someone standing in line, if you're lucky you'll just make them uncomfortable, unlucky and you may find yourself in a fight.
Mama Panda 3 years ago
Yep, if you stand too close to me , I will fart on you and think nothing of it.
Jerry Ryan 3 years ago (edited)
True I won't stand to close to strangers and I don't like having my personal space being invaded by others.i'll settle for about four foot boundaries but I prefer ten
Trophy Husband 3 years ago
It's the opposite here, and I think COVID made it worse. People crowd like nobody's business. My thought is that the idiots who think they vaccines are evil are trying to be as anti-regulation as possible. If the government would just come out with a mandate that requires people to breathe, I think 1/3 of the country would suffocate themselves, and I'm not sure that would be bad........
Steven Windfeld 3 years ago
But American tourists are usually the people who understands the concept of personal space the least.
Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
In small towns, people expect you to spread out. In NYC, not so much.
Janet Graham 3 years ago
Americans have a larger personal space bubble than many countries. An arm length is usually good enough.
Zack Podany 3 years ago
Frankly, we're still dealing with COVID. Just pretend every American is infectious because, chances are...
Sarah Bell 3 years ago
Iblive in Kentucky and People are usually friendly but that's not why, they just want to be all up in your personal space.
#18
Food and drink portions are HUGE. Order a Coke at a sit-down restaurant and you'll likely get about 32+oz. And when it's mostly gone, they'll just bring you another one.
Mexican restaurants tend to give you 40+oz glasses of your drink.
And speaking of Mexican restaurants... They'll bring chips and salsa until you can't even stand up anymore. Then they'll bring your entree.
General Anaesthesia 3 years ago
To those unfamiliar with Imperial units, 32 ounces is 2.1 soccer balls, according to my crosoft conversion calculator. About 0.946 liter or kilogram. Americans will never go metric because their cowboys would never exchange their 10 gallon hats for 37.85412 liter hats.
SteveO 3 years ago
As an American of the nerdish persuasion, I've been wondering why we didn't adopt the metric system since 1976, and this is easily the most coherent explanation I've encountered in lo these many years! Thank you, General Anesthesia!
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Mama Panda 3 years ago
The monstrosity in the picture is NOT a normal burger. It doesn't even look good to me but that's me.
Yettichild 3 years ago
It's perfectly acceptable to not finish your food and take the leftovers home.
Justin Palmer 3 years ago
Europe too :) in the uk we ask for a doggy bag (scraps to take home for the dog) but they know you mean a takeaway box. They will usually box it up for you in the kitchen.
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Some Cool Guy 3 years ago
That burger is ridiculous. My friend wants to know where you can get one
Justin Palmer 3 years ago
The bishop and the wolf pub on the Scilly isles off the coast of Cornwall, uk. ;)
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Hugo Hackenbush 3 years ago
I've never received a 32 Oz drink at any American sit down restaurant and I'm 55.
Chancey 3 years ago
Me either. I believe a normal size drink would be 16 to 20 ounces.
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1 standard portion in America (generally speaking) is about 3 actual portions of food.
#19
It isn't like the movies and TV shows, which tend to show southern California or New York City. The country is incredibly diverse in environment, political beliefs, accents, economics, etc. If you drive from one side of the country to the other, you will encounter so many differences you won't believe it's the same country. Sometimes you don't even have to drive to see these differences.
If you expect Times Square but fly into North Dakota, you'll be in for a rude awakening. If you visit the beach of Baywatch, you'll be shocked that instead of Pamela Anderson running in slow motion you'll see 100 overweight, middle-aged couples eating fried chicken. If you go 2 blocks off of the Las Vegas Strip, it turns into a regular city... and if you go two blocks in the wrong direction, you may fear for your life. If you think you'll see movie stars in Hollywood, you'll be surprised that it's mostly a disgusting area... and you can go from a ghetto-like environment to the fanciest of fancy Beverly Hills by crossing the street.
Mama Panda 3 years ago
I know a lot of people who are from all over the world thanks to playing mmorpgs online. This is one of the first things I tell them when they ask me about the US. We and our lives are nothing like what you see on TV or in the movies. We all live in very diverse areas. There are all types of people who come from various backgrounds. Various types of religions, politics, races, genders, ages, economic structures, creeds, beliefs, and sizes.
Lee Kerr 3 years ago
Pretty much like that in the U.K.; a few years ago in New York I was told I didn’t sound English. I’m not sure if I was supposed to sound like Daphne from Frazier or Michael Caine 🤣🤣🤣
Load More Replies... Kate Jones 3 years ago
This is all very true. And it drives me crazy because we get such a horrible reputation because people see only what they see on tv. America has some wonderful people and it's beautiful and just like everywhere, there are horrible parts and horrible people. We're all just trying our best to live and make it through. But i promise you we are not the Kardashians or Sex and the City or something. People like that are very, very few. Don't think because you see all these people on youtube or tiktok who are trying to pretend they're like that that everyone is. NYC looks great on TV but it's smelly and overpopulated. LA is not all Hollywood and glamourous. In fact most 'hollywood' people don't live anywhere near hollywood. They live in Calabasas or Santa Barbara, or any number of gated neighborhoods for the ultra wealthy an hour or more away from where the homeless and gang population is in hollywood. Please don't watch any tv shows thinking it's true to life.
Geoffrey Zaun 3 years ago
If you drive from one side of the country to the other, you will encounter so many differences you won't believe it's the same country. - If you just stick to the interstates you will see, Well Interstates... If traveling from NY to CA, don't hesitate to take like rte 66 or some of the other off interstate route. Much more diverse than the truck stops and well, trucks tops along the highway.
Anaïs Grobin 3 years ago
The US is just a collection of 50 mini countries that are all under the same broad government. The culture is drastically different in TX than, say, ME. Every state has its own unique culture & laws, people behave a bit differently. That's what I LOVE about the US! This place can be pretty awesome. And rt 66 is a thing within itself, everyone should drive down it at some point in their lives!
Load More Replies... Trophy Husband 3 years ago
These have been fun. I've read these posts about other countries before, but being on this side of it is fun. When people from other countries visit the US, I just tell them not to judge me after their trip, I'm not typical.
Paul Beebe 3 years ago (edited)
HA! my girlfriends brother came to visit us in Southern California. We went to LA and took in all the spots. When we drove thru Hollywood and Sunset Blvd, he got all quiet in the back seat. Asked him what was wrong and he said "Where are all the movie and rock stars????" He thought he would see celebrities' just walking down the street...
Sathe Wesker 3 years ago
The last one happened to me while in LA. I was like…. How the hell did that happen? Walked into a small store to instantly be greeted with staring faces of definite thugs. I clearly did not belong. Still bought a coke and got my white a*s back to where I was before getting turned around.
Seadog 3 years ago
Diversity exists everywhere and you don't have to go far to see it. The population of the entire city & county where I live is just over 50k and there are places you do not go, do so and if you're lucky someone will tell you you don't belong there and to leave. If you're not lucky, well, you may not live to know it.
René Studer 3 years ago
Depends on the movie you’re watching. If you watch Baywatch Los Angeles looks like paradise. If you watch Predator 2 it looks like the worst place on earth.
Dr. Ankita Pandya 3 years ago
I think the urban- rural differences hold true for any country. And every big city, no matter where in the world, is bound to have a ghetto or a slum right next door!
#20
You can't drive across the country in 12 hours.
Glen Cuchine 3 years ago
You can't drive across Montana in 12 hours (if you obey the speed limit, which we don't)
Some Cool Guy 3 years ago
Almost - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cannonball_Run_challenge#List_of_records
Honu 3 years ago (edited)
I wouldn't call the record of 25 hours close to 12 hours. Of course, that is from New York to Los Angeles. You might do a North/South run in 12. Most people will assume you mean East/West you say "across" the country, though.
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Cynthia Walker 3 years ago
It is the speed you are allowed to drive. It's based on favorable weather conditions. You can drive slower but I wouldn't really advise that. And on interstates you have a minimum speed as well. Going faster than posted speed limit can get you a ticket, fine, or sometimes even arrested
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Paulio 3 years ago
Vertically it takes about 11 hours from central Iowa to I would guess the edge of Texas. Let that be a gauge for driving in America
Kyl Glan 3 years ago
Because I had the choice of going to my state competition for track or the national of another organization I learned from Dallas area it is quicker to drive to the southern tip of Iowa then the southern tip of Texas. Quicker to drive through three freaking states than my own!
Load More Replies... Susan Reid Smith 3 years ago
If you want regular meals and rest, figure five to six days to cross the country, via interstate, not smaller roads.
#21
Drinks come with ice by default.
Nikki Sevven 3 years ago
Not true. Cocktails and soda will generally be served with ice, but there are plenty of drinks that are not: beer, wine, milk, juice, etc.
Aisling Raye 3 years ago
Your coffee won't come with ice, nor will any wine, spirits, beer etc at the bar. You'll get ice in a specialty drink at the bar or in any soda anywhere. If you order soda, just ask for no ice. It's a very common request and no one is going to think it's the littlest bit strange.
Trophy Husband 3 years ago
I think soda tastes better when the ice melts a bit! I have 3 ice makers in my house (regular one in the fridge, special one for ice spheres, and a bulk one for filling coolers in the laundry room). It's 90 F out in the winter and I would die without AC and ice! I really should move north.....
Frances Blades 3 years ago
Same up here. I always say no ice because I take longer to drink my drinks, alcoholic or not, and the ice melting just makes it so watered down its absolutely disgusting. (I just heard the last 3 words in Mrs. Weasley's voice from the Howler🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣).
Gladys Hayes Southerland 3 years ago
If you don't want ice, you def have to say so, clearly. Otherwise at least half of your 🍷 will be ice
#22
Personal space. Americans do not want to be touched. We want to know every single thing about you because we find foreigners fascinating (most of us love foreigners and are simply curious), except for how your breath feels on our face. We have bubbles that must be respected. That is probably why Americans are "loud," we just simply stay farther away from each other.
Ripley 3 years ago
Australians also have a very large personal space. We have a lot less issue with the volume control, though . . . 😄
NOLAHusker 3 years ago
Uhhhhhh, the loudest group I've ever heard in a restaurant, by far, was a group of drunken Aussies.
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Xenia Harley 3 years ago
When I was a teacher, I told kids to extend their arm and to stand about an arm length away! Of course they didn't keep their arms up, just to get an idea. Kids often have no idea of personal space. A generous arm length away is usually good.
R.k. White 3 years ago
Unless you're in the South. We hug everyone and call you sweetheart and darling.❤️
Aboredpanda 3 years ago
Gonna' have to say... This goes for a LOT of countries in the world. And I'm pretty sure there are differences between your states, with the not touching. As far as tourists in my country goes, people from the US are usually loudest and the most dramatic. And seem to think locals don't know english. Or just don't mind it if they disturb others, maybe as they're not home and won't be seeing any of us again? 🤔 Obviously not everyone is like that, but if I'm generalizing... 😅
Mariele Scherzinger 3 years ago
I like personal space. During the pandemic, everyone in Germany adhered to it. Introvert heaven! Corona precautions gone, people instantly forget to respect other people's perosnal space. Germans don't know how to queue. It's not saving anyone's time if you crowd up.
Saara-Elina Kaukiainen 3 years ago
As a Finn I find Americans very touchy feely by our standards. 😅
Chel Bolin 3 years ago (edited)
I think we're just loud because we're always talking over a blaring TV or screaming kids.
#23
The CD is not free, never accept something from someone on a street.
Mama Panda 3 years ago
I have never had this happen to me but I will say that non-food street vendors are pretty aggressive when trying to get you to buy their goods.
Laura Ketteridge 3 years ago
Non-Americans need a bit more information on this one. Why would someone be offering you a CD on the street for free?
Yettichild 3 years ago
It's not free. It's a scam. Similar to the bracelet scam in other countries. The hand you the CD then demand you pay for it and refuse to take it back.
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Trophy Husband 3 years ago
This only happens in big cities. And even when I visited new York, I didn't see this happen at all. I think street vendors other than food ones are more a European thing than American.
M 3 years ago
In NYC, this generally only happens in Times Square, and even there it seems to be an outdated thing.
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TKA 3 years ago
Also don’t accept help on how to use the subway. You ask someone who looks trust worthy. Don’t talk to the people that come up to you asking you if you need help, they will want a tip. The other people don’t expect anything in return.
M 3 years ago
In NYC, you basically ignore ANYone (aside from uniformed workers or police) who just comes up and starts talking to you. They usually want money or for you to take an advertisement for their comedy show. But on the other hand, if you need help, don't be afraid to ask for it -- a native NYer who looks trustworthy will always be willing to give directions.
Load More Replies... Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
In Boston, it's different. Buskers are so great that you hand them money. Then they surprise you by giving you a CD.
William Bass 3 years ago
I've seen the same advice in a post for Americans traveling abroad. Lol
Jean Jacket 3 years ago
THIS lol I had to yell at one of them when he wouldn't leave my dad alone. My dad said i didn't have to be rude to which i replied, "YES I did. Or he would have kept following us."
#24
Food portions are huge, but anything you can't finish can be packed up for later. You just need to ask.
Stimpy 3 years ago
Where is here? In Germany you can do that too, but it is not commonly used and people are often to ashamed to ask (even though it SHOULD be perfectly normal)
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Kate Jones 3 years ago
Food portions are huge but it depends where you go. People make fun of americans for being fat but a lot of the time less healthy food is cheaper and comes in larger portions and that applies to restaurants, too. Canned or packaged foods are cheaper and it starts out when kids are young, so they get used to the salty, fatty foods. They shouldn't make fun, they should feel bad for us. By the time people have enough money to afford healthier foods, they're addicted to that salt and sugar and it becomes a lifetime struggle for some, then they get told something is wrong with them because they can't diet properly. There are a lot of healthy people here and they manage to do it but for some people it's just harder. That burger in the picture costs less than the salad or fish option at the same restaurant guaranteed. In my area produce is expensive and doesn't last very long before it goes bad so you put your money where it will stretch and last the longest.
YetAnotherSarah 3 years ago
Except at the fanciest of places (think artistic plating of tiny bites), I almost always split the meal down the middle and take the second half home.
Honu 3 years ago
Those are usually buffets where you serve yourself, though.
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Leyla Güneş 3 years ago
I worked in restaurants, I even packed leftover sauces for later 🤦🏻♀️
Karen Clark 3 years ago
We call it the "doggy bag", and yeah, when you get your leftovers home, the dog will probably get it....
René Studer 3 years ago
I understand but I really don’t like that. It makes sense if you live there and drive home afterwards but as a tourist I don’t want to carry around massive amounts of food for the rest of the day and stock it in my hotel room.
The Short Lady 3 years ago
This is why I like accomodations with a fridge. Hotel rooms in the US often have a mini-fridge and a microwave oven.
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Most Americans are quite friendly and helpful. That most of them are truly interested in hearing all about you and your country.
Benita Valdez 3 years ago
Not true. Alot of us do have interest beyond our borders.
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In the US, we leave tips for food servers at restaurants and resorts.
It's not automatically included.
Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
Here's something people may not know about this. It's almost universal for restaurants to pay waitstaff LESS THAN THE MINIMUM WAGE that other workers get. For example, in Florida, normal minimum wage is $10.00/hr, but for waitstaff, it's only $3.02/hr. Waitstaff survive on tips. If I'm not willing to tip 20% at a restaurant, I don't eat there.
John Smith 3 years ago
And I am still wondering why that remains legal and how employees allow their managers to get away with that.
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Ray Heap 3 years ago
Paid up and walked out of a restaurant in Kansas, happy, fed and watered. The owner came up to me as I was getting in the car and asked if everything was alright. Great, I assured, he then told me about the tip thing,I thought it strange at the time but gave a good tip. No problem at all.
Hyde and Seek 3 years ago
10-15% is standard . 18-20% is really good service . You always tip always.
Sheila Okanga 3 years ago
Kenya: The Service Industry has a Salary. Tips are appreciation tokens. Your relationship with your Bosses, first, then your customers.....matters.
Lazy Panda (she/her/hers) 3 years ago
For those of you arguing that the tipping system makes no sense or should be abolished: You may be right, but please tip if come to the US. This is the current system and if you don't tip you are not changing the system, you are just making it harder for under-paid hardworking servers to feed their kids and pay their rent.
Zack Podany 3 years ago (edited)
I've had this conversation with many people from many countries. Tipping is expected for deliveries and for restaurants where you are waited on. It is optional but very much appreciated for to-go orders. Just consider it part of the price of the meal, because food service pays far less than a living wage otherwise.
Hyde and Seek 3 years ago
Minimum (unless you're a f*****g a*****e) is indeed 10-15%, excellent service begets at least 18-20% tip.
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Don't be afraid to feel comfortable here. As far as anyone is concerned this is just as much Any foreigners home as ours, we have the occasional a*****e that makes snarky remarks. Don't take it personally if u run into one because chances are he's a d**k head no matter what color you are or culture you have. Just have fun and enjoy your stay and don't let the media brainwash you into thinking that Americans are all just racist pricks. Most of us are pretty nice. Personally I'm from west Virginia, the south what is commonly known as the most racist portion of America. We get Muslims, Mexicans, Asians, all of the above, not a single hate crime report here for decades. I'm even dating an Austrian girl who says America is lovely. Our government just sucks man.
Kristal 3 years ago
I'm going to respectfully disagree with the last portion of OPs statement. I get where they are coming from and it's great to believe but it's not just government because who votes to put individuals in government? The people do. The people can be full of hate and elect others that are too.
just me 3 years ago (edited)
Part of the problem with that isn't really the peoples' fault. Our system is set up so you only have two choices with a chance to win. Someone can win without the most votes. Boundaries are turned into Rorschach tests to give one party or the other the advantage. Money makes sure that your side gets heard over your opponent and the real money comes front corporations and special interests. That means you can spread lies and fear mongering to present yourself as the hero. People's power is a damn smokescreen. The system is out of control and the parts meant to check the corruption are, themselves, corrupt.
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Justin Palmer 3 years ago
Not single hate crime “reported”..eh, no survivors/witnesses in your state eh.
MorgothBauglir 3 years ago
West Virginia is a small place, and the author seems to be speaking about their local area. I wouldn't be surprised.
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S Mi 3 years ago
I wish that last part were true...they happen all over Canada and the United States, to varying degrees. We need to pay attention to what's happening to our neighbors https://www.wric.com/news/crime/racially-ethnically-motivated-hate-crimes-increasing-in-virginia-and-across-u-s/
Cobalt.spike 3 years ago
"Not a single hate crime reported here for decades". Ah-huh, (thick Boston accent) well there's yah problem. They're called "dark figures". And it's weird, because the reported (and sourced) figures for West Virginia seem to paint a different picture https://www.ywcacharleston.org/racismisnotdead
Andrea Steht 3 years ago
Umm…. There are a lot of areas in the North that are super racist, too (I’m looking at you, Indiana),
Daiana Lia 3 years ago
What does dating an Austrian (most likely white) have anything to do with the story?
#28
People will just start talking to you if the line is long enough.
Water refills are always free.
The majority of cities and towns are not walkable.
You don't need a membership to buy alcohol from Costco.
Have at, don't die, smile at people.
Almost forgot: do not be in a Waffle House/Denny's/iHop/Perkins after 10 pm. Especially not Waffle House.
Anaïs Grobin 3 years ago
I worked this shift at 3 different locations over the years. I chose 3rd. All the walkers & dancers would come in between 2-4 a.m. and if you treated them with basic human dignity, you'd end your shift with a fat wallet. Yes, there were fights and weirdos, but there were truckers & strippers too and they were good people with unexpected generosity.
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digitalin 3 years ago
Naw, those places are great after 10pm. In college we'd go to waffle House at 2am because we were hungry and few things were open. Of course, it might depend on the neighborhood.
Miguel justino C 3 years ago
And you were drunk, great for you not the waitress. College town 2 am, you weren’t there to study!
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Celia McReynolds Tinsley 3 years ago
Water refills may be free but that doesn't mean ordering water is free. I've had multiple restaurants charge just as much for a glass of tap water as was charged for a soda.
Benita Valdez 3 years ago
Those are shïtty restaurants. Most places I've been to, glasses of water are free but you have to pay for bottled. In New York it's illegal to charge for tap water but you can be charged a small fee for a take away cup sometimes but not even all the time. All the states along the east coast that I've been to have never once been charged for tap water; been from main down to Florida
Load More Replies... Lea S. 3 years ago (edited)
I worked in a 24 hour restaurant for ten years. Can you tell me the issue with them after 10 pm?
Anaïs Grobin 3 years ago
Agreed. I did it for years and working 3rd was only an option for the experienced servers (or the boss's favorites! ) and the tips were the best buy a long shot. 2nd was good, 1st was the worst. 3rd was where the money's at.
Load More Replies... Denise Lewis 3 years ago
the waffle house dennys i hop perkins they are trying to say don't go there at night thats when they get robbed it happened to my son in law
Colin Ball 3 years ago
You don’t need a membership to use the pharmacy at Costco either and their drug prices are usually significantly lower.
Michelle 3 years ago
A membership is needed to get inside to the pharmacy in Canada. Only the liquor store as well as food court are outside of the members only area. Love running in for a cheap hot dog :)
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Mama Penguin 3 years ago
People will just start talking to you if the line is long enough. Uh, not necessarily. They might grumble, but that's not necessarily an invitation to talk.
Jazz Akins 3 years ago
Um... What waffle house are they going to? Waffle house is for the late night munchs my guy
#29
"Southern Hospitality" is not a carte blanche invitation to act like you own the place. We'll give directions, stop on the side or the road and change your tire, and start conversations for no reason but once you start making absurd demands of strangers you'll hear "bless your heart" before you get punched.
Ian Harac 3 years ago
And having lived in KY for almost 20 years now, after NYC and SF… just get used to the cashiers having long chats with the person ahead of you about Mable and what her husband did at the chruch picnic and little Joe-Bob is almost ready to graduate, can you believe it, how time flies, and how’s your Mom’s knee, is it still acting up, you should rub molasses on it when there’s a full moon, that’s what we always do, and….
Michelle C 3 years ago
I was born and raised in Maryland, so I’m probably a Yankee by most Southern standards. My family has been in the United States since the late 1600s and early 1700s, though, and I was raised exactly as you describe. My part of Maryland is still like this and I’m proud of that!
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Megan Curl 3 years ago
And “Bless your heart” has a very different meaning(s) in the South, and it’s not necessarily nice. As in, “Bless her heart” = good lord she’s dumb.
Hyde and Seek 3 years ago
There are several intonations of bless your heart. I usually stick to the "go to hell" bless your heart while my great aunt sticks to the "oh honey" bless your heart
Load More Replies... Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
My friend from West Virginia informs me there are two kinds of "bless her heart." It either means "God, how terrible that her Mom died. I really feel for her" or "That woman is a grade-A dumbass."
Zeta Thompson 3 years ago
Your friend is sort of correct ever since the code for bless your heart has been revealed, the various regions have started to develop other codes. So now someone from North Ga might insult someone from South Ga inadvertently.
Load More Replies... christine buckley 3 years ago
Yes, this. Hearing *bless your heart* fromm a Southerner is similar to being, politely, cursed.
Sheila Okanga 3 years ago
😂 Life in Kenya! Step over the line and you'll get "Usiniletey" ... translation: Don't bring it for me. No punches, but, enough of a, collective, stare-down for you to stop in your tracks.#nevertakethepiss
#30
When you come to the us prepare for endless amounts of ice in your drink. You might not even get any drink but you will have more ice than you could ever imagine
Robin Roper 3 years ago
Yes, say "Medium coke, no ice." and you will get a medium sized coke with no ice. If you order a medium coke, you will get a medium coke with ice.
Load More Replies... Minath 3 years ago
Perfect for me, I hate it in the UK when I ask for loads of ice and I literally get two cubes.
Danielle Holder 3 years ago
Every single time!! Anywhere in Europe you ask for your drink and a large glass of ice, only to get a tiny cup with 2-3 pieces of ice!!! And weird looks. Grrrrr
Load More Replies... Karen Clark 3 years ago
Just ask for your drink with no ice or very little. Your server will comply.
Gordan Blažević 3 years ago
I am a professional singer and I never drink anything cold, even less with ice...
Mariele Scherzinger 3 years ago
Prepare for indoor facilities (buses, supermarkets, etc.) to be airconditioned down to fridge temperature. You might catch a cold in the middle of summer.
Huddo's sister 3 years ago
They do that in Australia too and I hate it. Any summer day, if I was going to the shopping centre or movies I would bring a jacket or two. Now we have laws being proposed (or have just passed, I was only half listening) limiting how low/high the climate control can be set, because of climate change laws.
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#31
Don't just get BBQ once in one place. Go to all the places and get all the BBQ everywhere.
Patrick McKemie 3 years ago
In North Carolina, the eastern part has vinegar based BBQ. The western part has tomato based BBQ. Both are awesome. South Carolina has mustard based. It's an acquired taste.
digitalin 3 years ago
In California and other parts of the Western US, BBQ means grilling outside, maybe hamburgers. In the Southern US, BBQ means like a shredded, sauced meat. It is delicious and does vary wildly by region.
Terry Tobias 3 years ago
BBQ can also be ribs and chicken. Meat is cooked low and slow in a wood smoker and glazed with a sauce. Real BBQ is delicious!
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#32
If you're travelling in the west, especially in a desert (Arizona, for example), absolutely stock your car entirely f**k-a*s full of water. If you think you have enough, fill up more. If your gas tank isn't full, fill it up. If the sign says there aren't any petrol stations for hundreds of miles, they aren't f*****g with you. Americans have died f*****g that up, and we choose to live here. You *will* die if you don't take me seriously. Also, all that water is great, but electrolytes are also important.
Mama Panda 3 years ago
OMG it's not that bad. Stock a cooler with water and you will be fine. Do be mindful of gas stations and the signs but it's not like you will be crossing the Sahara Desert.
Megan Curl 3 years ago
Remember that downvotes are not the same as dislikes here on BP. 10 or more downvotes can get someone banned from commenting. So, let’s be respectful of this person’s opinion, and just scroll on. Thank you.
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Public restrooms are free…usually. Though, it is common courtesy that if you use the restroom in a store or fast food place, you buy something — even if it's something small.
Jerry Ryan 3 years ago
I've been to places if you don't buy something they'll tell you the restroom is out order
#34
If you visit a National Park, don't mess with the wildlife. Buffalo (even cows) can kill you. Most rabbits carry enough parasites and viruses to make you very ill. Also, carry enough water with you — the parks don't always have drinking water readily available at every rest stop. If water or mud is bubbling and you don't feel heat standing next to it, DO NOT touch it. It can still burn!
Lady Goldberry 3 years ago
OK, ignorant moment: are waterbuffaloes to be found in the US, or is this a bad choice of pic? I always thought buffalo in America were more of the humpy bison types...
Stephanie Did It 3 years ago
You are correct. We have American Bison, not water buffalo.
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Mary G----no 3 years ago
rabbits really don't carry viruses and whatnot... they don't even get rabies.
#35
If you end up in the south east be ready to be smiled at, talked to and have door open for you. That’s how they pick up anyone not from the south.
Michelle C 3 years ago
This is literally how I was raised even though I am probably a Yankee by most Southern standards, having lived in the very upper reaches of the south/on the border (Maryland) for my whole life.
#36
Not sure if you also have this fear but I have a few European friends and they are afraid to visit because they are worried about getting shot and racism. You’ll be fine, trust a stranger on Reddit. Most people are normal and will be nice to you if you’re nice to them
ADJ 3 years ago
We are not afraid of most people, the normal "most". We are afraid of the crazy few who shoot people at random.
TheEndIsNigh🇨🇦and🇬🇧in🇺🇲 3 years ago
As well you should be! You'll die 20 times over from our healthcare sooner than you'll ever be shot by a random gunman.
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Damyon Finch 3 years ago
That's a fair fear! Look at police shootings, mass shootings, lgbt wars, cops vs. citizen, government vs. citizen, and finally racism.
Mama Panda 3 years ago
What you and everyone else needs to remember is that the media is a business first and foremost. They will print stories that are twisted, not completely true and biased (based on the owner and the editor) to sell and make money from distribution, subscriptions and mainly ad space. So what sells? Dangerous situations, negativity, anything that is controversial too. There are 330,150,668 people in the US but the news medias will have us focused on just a few stories (comparatively) that will control our fears and the way we think. It's not as dangerous as they make it out to be.
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This thread is actually making me love the US more. One thing I haven't seen anyone mention, I had a girlfriend from Turkey for a while and her mother came to visit. She was so excited to see beer on the soda machine and couldn't wait to have some. It's root beer, it's non alcoholic. Sorry to disappoint. Still delicious though.
Deborah Harris 3 years ago
I've always wanted to try some, and to ask 'gimme some sarsaparilla' too :)
Load More Replies... Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
Here's another fun fact about root beer. My French friend tried it and started shrieking. Turns out that French toothpaste tastes like root beer. As far as she was concerned, my grandmother had given her toothpaste soda!
Hyde and Seek 3 years ago
Another good tip:get the sodas in the glass bottles that say old fashioned or vintage . They typically taste better
#38
ATMs can charge you extra for withdrawing cash. Figure out what ATMs you should withdraw from with your card.
Šimon Špaček 3 years ago
Same in Europe. Keep your distance especially from Euronet ATM, they will rip you off as much as they can. Check this video for more details. It is from channel Honest guide, his main topic is Prague (and Czech republic in general), but he also shares useful tips for traveling in Europe. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rdYhm__yMQY
Kate Jones 3 years ago
ATMs have to be serviced and it costs money, so surcharge fees apply if you are using an atm that does not belong to your own bank. It's not unreasonable and people complain about it all the time. Use your banks ATM and you generally are not charged fees. Honestly, I have a bigger issue with ATM disputes. If I put 100 in cash into the atm and there's a glitch, you have to file a dispute on that and it can take days to be refunded into your account for no fault of your own, messing up your bills. But liars have made it so we have to investigate every claim and ATMs are not serviced by the bank for security reasons. So we have to wait for that company to come out and pull the machine's info. So annoying. As a banker it's almost as annoying to me as it is to the poor customer.
#39
If the price says for example $5, you need to be aware that is $5 plus taxes.
Terry Tobias 3 years ago
Unless it's food in a grocery store. That's non-taxable. The same for medication.
Mary G----no 3 years ago
depends on the state. my state has tax on food, but less than other stuff. And some junk foods/sodas aren't considered food.
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Michelle C 3 years ago
Sales tax also varies by state. Many have a 5% sales tax, but Maryland has a 6% tax and some states have higher taxes.
Lorraine R 3 years ago
But Maryland does not tax food or prescription drugs. The no-tax on food extends to food plants !like herbs, tomatoes,squash,etc.
Load More Replies... Kristal 3 years ago
... and your opinion does comparatively? No. People can talk about the new places they visit, get over yourself.
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Don’t go to a dangerous urban area because you saw it on some movie or TV show that was filmed there.
#41
We are friendly and will get in your face. We know it's not "real" <insert country here> food.
Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
I went to Thailand and found that the food there was almost identical to what we get at restaurants at home. In big U.S. cities, you can easily get Thai products like coconut milk, galangal, tamarind paste and lemongrass. Delicious!
#42
We have almost any biome here. Forest, snowyness, desert, beach, swamp, rainforest, plains, etc etc. it can be quite confusing.
#43
The vast majority of people are way nicer than the news outlets and the internet make them to be. Chances are someone will randomly start talking to you. Tap Water is safe to drink but tastes terrible. Also, everything is huge. From food portions to distances between places.
Minath 3 years ago
I've heard that tap water in Flint is not safe go drink, is that still the case?
Danielle Holder 3 years ago
Yep, even after Elon Musk's "promise". "Please consider this a commitment that I will fund fixing the water in any house in Flint that has water contamination above FDA levels. No kidding."
Load More Replies... Elly Sketchit 3 years ago
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Mary G----no 3 years ago
not all tap water is safe... there are many places like Flint that have poisonous water. Big cities are usually ok... the small towns are the ones who can't afford to fix their pipes, or big corporations poison their water because they can't afford to fight it.
#44
DO NOT TRUST YOUR GPS IN THE DESERT. Many GPS programs list roads as existing which are actually 4-wheel drive roads, or may not exist at all. ISTR they found the remains of a German family after being missing for over 13 years in Death Valley.
Mama Panda 3 years ago
I think it is wise to have a paper map with you as well. They are that hard to read and it will help if your cell phone dies.
Vinay Pai 3 years ago
"After two days in the desert sun My skin began to turn red And after three days in the desert fun...."
Mama Panda 3 years ago
"I was looking at a river bed and the story it told of a river that flowed. Made me sad to think it was dead."
Load More Replies... Seadog 3 years ago
You don't have to go to the desert for your GPS to fail you. Most can't find the commercial address (on a major highway) where I work unless you enter it incorrectly. As for my house, every one I've ever seen tells you you have arrived as soon as you turn onto my road, you can't even see my house from that point.
Lady Goldberry 3 years ago
As a Brit I read that as 'don't trust your GP's and was wondering what was untrustworthy about doctors in the desert.
Xenia Harley 3 years ago
In rural areas, too! I have seen GPS taking people through some roads that are often seasonal! Closed in winter.
#45
Buffalo are not to be triffled with. Stay away from them.
Yettichild 3 years ago
Respect ALL wildlife. Even deer have killed people under certain circumstances. Moose are mean and will trample you if pissed off. DO NOT MESS WITH BEARS! We also have cougars and wolves. They are all dangerous. Don't put yourself at risk for a photo. Get a zoom lense for your camera.
Xenia Harley 3 years ago
Bears too. Especially true if young are involved. Momma (insert wildlife) will fight to death to protect their young!
Load More Replies... Hyde and Seek 3 years ago
This sounds really creepy:but if you hear a baby crying outside where you're staying at night:do not go looking for it ,it is not a human child and it's probably coyotes or mountain lions
Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
I spent some years in Maine, where you need to watch out for moose. If you have a choice between hitting a moose with your car or driving off the road, drive off the road. A male moose can weigh 1,400 pounds.
#46
Depending on where you're going in the US, be aware of ticks and mosquitoes. They can have Lyme disease and other diseases that can easily get you really sick. And with healthcare costs in the US, you don’t want that.
Rowan/Vin 3 years ago
Doesn't everyone watch out for those? Could be Scottish me but as far as I'm aware most people watch out for midgies and ticks here
Yettichild 3 years ago
There are certain parts of the country that don't have a high number of ticks. In my area it's rare to get one. There are also areas where mosquitoes carry higher concentrations of illnesses transmittable to people. Then there are chiggers, leaches and horse flies among others. It depends on where you are.
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Duane Ringlein 3 years ago
My late wife was a Scot, and mosquitos for some reason loved her, lol. I could be next to her and not be bit, but she would be surrounded by them.
Seedy Vine 3 years ago
A relative of mine died of complications from lyme disease (breast cancer). Please stay healthy. https://www.lymedisease.org/sapi-lyme-disease-cancer-research/#:~:text=When%20examining%20more%20than%20400,breast%20cancer%20development%20and%20metastasis.
#47
You can die climbing Angels Landing at Zion National Park. If you fall, you die, ain’t no one gonna be able to save you.
Alexandru Bucur 3 years ago
Isn't that a given pretty much where there are cliffs and other rock formations even in other countries?
Erla Zwingle 3 years ago
I'm at a loss to understand why this would need to be spelled out. You mean there aren't firemen stationed below with a big net to catch anybody who happens to trip up there? What do you think is going on in the wild? Or do tourists think that if the angels can land, they can too?
Lorraine R 3 years ago
Good rule of thumb: if there is a sign saying "Don't go there" or "Stay on trail" or "DANGER" don't assume it's okay to ignore it.
#48
we don't actually care how you're doing, even when we ask, just say "good" or "doing well, how about you"
Mama Panda 3 years ago
As I said somewhere up there earlier, if you feel like sharing or need to vent, I will actively listen to you. I do care.
Michelle C 3 years ago
I’m one of those that actually does care and we’ll listen for an honest answer. I will also give one!
Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
This is true in conversations with strangers, but a real friend will ask, "How are you doing?" and mean it.
#49
If you want a regular size coffee at Starbucks, order it "short".
Pirates of Zen Pants 3 years ago
And if you want a *delicious* coffee, don't order it at Starbucks!
Richard Anderson 3 years ago
Don't order anything from Starbucks, on my list of life rules.
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#50
People have different personalities depending on what part of the country you’re in. In Louisiana, you have great conversations with folks at the bar. In South Carolina, I might invite you over to their house. In New York City, they’re going to ignore you. In California, they’re only interested if it benefits them.
George Bernard 3 years ago
Drastic oversimplification. There are wonderful people in California who really want to get to know you. There are horrible people in South Carolina who would never invite you to their house. I have family all over t he country and these generalities are stupid.
Erla Zwingle 3 years ago
Agree. Generalizations are useless and even misleading.
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Matthew Moss 3 years ago
NYC people don't ignore you. NYC people aren't rude either. We move fast, we have things to do, we move at a fast pace, like the city-- if you can fit into the rhythm, you'll quickly find New Yorkers are are definitely expressive and also helpful and even sweet too, they just want you to get out the effin' way when your block the subway entrance or not paying attention on the street.
digitalin 3 years ago
In Boston, if you hear people shouting and swearing at each other in the street, they may be angry, or they could just be friends saying hello. People are gruff and sometimes rude, but if are often willing to go out of their way to help strangers, like if there's a car wreck or something. Drivers leave very little space and drive aggressively, but will create space for you to merge if you recognize that that tiny gap is meant for you and drive quickly.
Mama Panda 3 years ago
That is total b******t about California. I have lived here in Norther California for 13 years ( I am a transplant) and have never met anyone that follows this description! Now I am not sure how people are in Southern California but up here everyone is polite, respectful and willing to help if help is needed.
Celia McReynolds Tinsley 3 years ago
I've never been to a bar where the patrons didn't talk to me or the group I was with. While in San Diego a few years back I didn't encounter a single rude person, other than my ex husband's new wife, but we entered the state on the same plane; I brought the rude with me to California.
#51
I think it’s really funny that the CA DMV official drivers manual says, “do NOT make eye contact with another driver, this will make them MORE angry.”
Kate Johnson 3 years ago
I don't see how that's funny. It's a shame that people will think this is funny when it can 100% result in your death.
#52
big country. no high speed rail. if you want to go between states, you fly, and the tickets cost hundreds of dollars extra if you don't book months in advance. do not bring weaponry or combat gear through TSA, they will turn you away.
#53
If you’re in the southeastern US, and you find yourself driving down Martin Luther King Boulevard late at night, you should leave.
digitalin 3 years ago
This is a line from comedian Chris Rock, who is black. Basically he's saying that traditionally Black neighborhoods (which are more likely to have a street named after famous activist Martin Luther King, Jr) are more likely to be high-crime areas. Whether or not this statement is racist is complicated -- it's not suggesting that black people are more violent, but that due to societal factors, they are likely to be areas with higher poverty rates, and therefore more desperation. Generational poverty and lack of access to education and opportunities are major problems in the US. Of course, the person posting it might mean it to be racist.
Erla Zwingle 3 years ago
Speaking as an American, I interpret this to mean that Martin Luther King Boulevard is, by definition, in all or part of the "black" neighborhood. By definition, this means dangerous because the neighborhood is probably also poor, therefore probably also full of drug dealers and other possibly armed individuals prone to prey on the defenseless. Would probably have the same meaning in any city in the US, but "the southeastern US" is code for "unregenerate racism." Pretty ironic, considering all that Dr. King did in the name of non-violence, but here we are.
#54
Whataburger and In N Out Burger are amazing.
Mama Panda 3 years ago
And I am the opposite! In-n-out is nasty while whataburger is the best!
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You're not solving any US political issues during your visit, and you'll just make people think you're an annoying outsider poking their nose in stuff that's none of their business - even if they agree with you. We prefer to talk about the positive things going on in our country. Patriotism may seem weird to you, but it's a thing and people take it very seriously. Be respectful.
Kristal 3 years ago
Uhm ... considering the U.S. controls a large amount of global economy, any person from any country could very well make U.S. politics their business. "Outsiders"? They are called visitors, tourists, foreign nationals, they support our tourism industry, they are not outsiders. Of course it would be I'll advised to get caught up in a protest as a foreign citizen or talk c**p to people but they have every right to discuss, and have interest in, U.S. politics. Patriot my big round butt, that's just grown freaking adults that don't want to hear another person's view if it contradicts their own.
Sanchez Vasile 3 years ago
especially since they themselves make anyone else's politics their own business.
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Nikki Sevven 3 years ago
The US is larger than the EU. You wouldn't plan to visit Barcelona, Helsinki, Dublin, and Bucharest in the same week; you won't manage to visit Boston, Miami, San Francisco, and the Grand Canyon in the same week either.
Emma S 3 years ago (edited)
I've just come back from a 5 day trip in New York and the local people are the rudest people I've ever had the misfortune of meeting. I was screamed at JFK airport because I didn't put my thumb on scanner properly. Fingerprint scanning is not something that is required to enter the UK or most countries actually. I asked man working in booth at subway which train and I had to get and he didn't even speak, just looked at me like I was the stupidest person ever, let out a loud sigh and pointed to the platform. Then when my metro card wouldn't swipe me through turnstile he screamed at me that I hadn't swiped it properly. I'm from a part of the UK that has an underground subway system. I also got screamed at when going to see Beetlejuice on Broadway by a guard because he took so long to scan my eticket that the light had gone off on my phone. There were a few more instances like that but not enough space to discuss here. Such loud, obnoxious people with egos the size of Brazil
Jo Firth 3 years ago
Hmmmm, so many instances of people 'screaming' at you. Wonder what the problem really is?
Load More Replies... Emma S 3 years ago (edited)
New Yorkers really let their city down. The city itself is a great place with lots to see and do but the attitude, entitlement and ego of the people that live there means I never want to go back. I know a few people that have been to New York that say the same thing. A lot of tourist attractions like American Museum History herd people in and shout at visitors like it's a Cat A prison not a museum. I get they want to be safe, but a lot of it is overzealous guards trying to feel powerful. The gun situation made me feel uneasy in US as well.
GFSTaylor 3 years ago
I was friendly with a couple who ran a Star Wars website - exchanging chatty emails etc. I was planning come from the UK to visit another internet friend in New Mexico whom I'd stayed with before. I knew Maki lived in New York, and asked if I could come to them after New Mexico, and spend a week with them. Maki and her husband said yes. They picked me up from the airport and took me to their apartment, which was right in the middle of Manhattan. I had a lovely week with them, been shown around and taken to their favourite food places. They paid for my ticket to see Spamalot on Broadway. A friend of theirs was celebrating his 50th birthday and had invited them and a dozen others to be his guest at a little Italian restaurant. He was happy to include me, a complete stranger, in his party - he was delighted to have an English guest. All through my visit, from the subway to museums, everyone was fine.
Load More Replies... Seedy Vine 3 years ago (edited)
A cousin of mine in the U.S. went to a McDonald's in the South, and because they don't ban many toxic chemicals in their food down there, she got an anaphylactic shock from eating their fries and ended up in the hospital fighting for her life. Please take care out there. Many toxic chemicals in the U.S. are not banned.
Nikki Sevven 3 years ago
The US is larger than the EU. You wouldn't plan to visit Barcelona, Helsinki, Dublin, and Bucharest in the same week; you won't manage to visit Boston, Miami, San Francisco, and the Grand Canyon in the same week either.
Emma S 3 years ago (edited)
I've just come back from a 5 day trip in New York and the local people are the rudest people I've ever had the misfortune of meeting. I was screamed at JFK airport because I didn't put my thumb on scanner properly. Fingerprint scanning is not something that is required to enter the UK or most countries actually. I asked man working in booth at subway which train and I had to get and he didn't even speak, just looked at me like I was the stupidest person ever, let out a loud sigh and pointed to the platform. Then when my metro card wouldn't swipe me through turnstile he screamed at me that I hadn't swiped it properly. I'm from a part of the UK that has an underground subway system. I also got screamed at when going to see Beetlejuice on Broadway by a guard because he took so long to scan my eticket that the light had gone off on my phone. There were a few more instances like that but not enough space to discuss here. Such loud, obnoxious people with egos the size of Brazil
Jo Firth 3 years ago
Hmmmm, so many instances of people 'screaming' at you. Wonder what the problem really is?
Load More Replies... Emma S 3 years ago (edited)
New Yorkers really let their city down. The city itself is a great place with lots to see and do but the attitude, entitlement and ego of the people that live there means I never want to go back. I know a few people that have been to New York that say the same thing. A lot of tourist attractions like American Museum History herd people in and shout at visitors like it's a Cat A prison not a museum. I get they want to be safe, but a lot of it is overzealous guards trying to feel powerful. The gun situation made me feel uneasy in US as well.
GFSTaylor 3 years ago
I was friendly with a couple who ran a Star Wars website - exchanging chatty emails etc. I was planning come from the UK to visit another internet friend in New Mexico whom I'd stayed with before. I knew Maki lived in New York, and asked if I could come to them after New Mexico, and spend a week with them. Maki and her husband said yes. They picked me up from the airport and took me to their apartment, which was right in the middle of Manhattan. I had a lovely week with them, been shown around and taken to their favourite food places. They paid for my ticket to see Spamalot on Broadway. A friend of theirs was celebrating his 50th birthday and had invited them and a dozen others to be his guest at a little Italian restaurant. He was happy to include me, a complete stranger, in his party - he was delighted to have an English guest. All through my visit, from the subway to museums, everyone was fine.
Load More Replies... Seedy Vine 3 years ago (edited)
A cousin of mine in the U.S. went to a McDonald's in the South, and because they don't ban many toxic chemicals in their food down there, she got an anaphylactic shock from eating their fries and ended up in the hospital fighting for her life. Please take care out there. Many toxic chemicals in the U.S. are not banned.
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