Ah, aging — that inevitable, ever-so-subtle process we're all doomed to experience. We may not notice the signs right away, but one day we wake up, and suddenly everything seems just a little bit... different. Maybe it's the creaking joints or the sudden preference for staying in on a Friday night, but you know those age-related changes are happening.
Isn't it crazy how we spend our youth eagerly looking forward to growing up, only to find ourselves yearning for those simpler times once we finally get there? Life has a funny way of sneaking up on us, and as we navigate the choppy waters of adulthood, we can't help but notice how the things we used to love and enjoy, or even those we effortlessly tolerated, have slowly morphed into things we'd rather avoid like the plague.
One day, you're rocking out at a concert with your friends. The next, you’re wondering why on earth you'd want to be in a loud, crowded place when you could be at home, curled up with a good book. As adulting hits us hard, our preferences and priorities shift, sometimes leaving us feeling a little bewildered and, dare we say, old.
But here at Bored Panda, we're all about embracing this journey and finding humor in the quirks of life. Strap in for a nostalgic trip down memory lane because today we're talking about all those innocent things people start to dislike with age (and other signs you're getting old), thanks to the ever-insightful world of Reddit! Because let's face it — we all need a good laugh when we realize we're turning into our parents.
We've gathered anecdotes and insights from people on Reddit who have shared the aging signs that hit them the most. Prepare your cup of tea (or maybe some prune juice if you’ve gotten to that point already), and join us as we laugh, relate, and commiserate a little about growing older!
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"Having to listen to teenagers conversations on public transport. Were we really that thick when we were young?"
Yes.. we were complete morons. I'm surprised we are here to read this. But, I'm happy to say, I never used the term," I know, RIGHT"? I'm a combat Veteran, but hearing that brings my PTSD to a boil.
At least we knew what belts were for, and how to use them properly....
public transport? You mean, like sneakers? Public transport? Like a bike, or a skateboard? But those were not public... We walked or biked wherever we needed to go.
"That my parents are also getting older and the fear of losing them soon terrifies me."
When they pass you are going to be alright! When I lost my mom I was gratefull to take care for her. With a nurse I washed her and clothed her. Then the nurse took out her earrings and put them on me ( never took them of!) and this year she is gone 10 years. Yes I miss her. Just with simple things like she doesn't get to meet our new dog. Things like that. But when you go from... she's gone 6 ours to 6 days, to 6 weeks, your life goes on. And thats it. Your life goes on till you die....And i'd allways thought my life would stop if she died... It did't.. Enjoy them for as long as you can!
Lost my Dad in 1999, still feels raw. But, I have a relationship with my Mom I didn't have when he was alive. A deep friendship, and it's amazing. I wish he was a part of it, but as long as I pass on his memory, and his weird genetic ear thing, he will be standing with my son when he marries one day. God Bless your Mom, and I am happy she lives on!
Load More Replies...Sweetheart, one day you wake up, and you realize you are going to lose everything you love, live for the moment!! Please, don't waste a second. And one completely unfair tragedy.. Dogs don't live forever, and No, Mommy can't promise never to leave. Love now, smile now, laugh now. Never waste anytime to say I love you, it's a beautiful world.
When my father died in 2009, I got very anxious because I am an only child and my mom, good health or not, is going to be the first person since the Old Testament to approach the age of Methuselah. Honestly, she's pretty healthy (80 years old) and we've brought in some cousins and good friends who will help me when I need to take care of her.
"When people are b*tching about the rain and you're thinking 'yeah but it's good for the garden.'"
Rain is a good excuse to stay home. Where I belong. On the sofa. With a glass o'whine. Not a spelling error.
Never complain about the weather.. wait 5 minutes, it will change. Yep, I'm in Ohio.. the land of a menopausal Mother Nature.
If it ain't a downpour, cats and dogs, or buckets then an umbrella isn't necessary.
"The older you get, the faster time starts to fly by. When you're a kid, a year is an eternity."
For me it's TV shows. There are shows I watched as a kid that I'd swear ran for years and years, but now when I discover them on Netflix or DVD, I realize they only aired for one or two seasons.
Summers in the 1970s, as a farm kid, when school was out, and you were too young to drive.. you social life was over.. For what felt like YEARS! Now summer is about 10 minutes long.
Hit 45 recently and it seems like the passage of time doubled in the past 5 years....it's weird
When you are five, your last birthday was 20% of your life ago. When you are 50, it's 2% of your life ago.
I think I read somewhere it's because as a kid everything seems new whereas as you get older it's all repeated and you pay more attention to time. Not sure how true it is.
tovlaila said: "Clothing available for women. Is it too much trouble to ask/make a full t-shirt? Also no I don't want to wear clothing that takes me back to me feeling like I am in elementary school again." Vana21 replied: "And pockets. I want functional pockets, not fake ones or ones I can't even fit a toddlers hand into."
Wish I could. But I am way too curvy. Even womens pants are huge in my waist when they fit butt. Men's are ginormous.
Load More Replies...If you want pockets, stop worrying about style and wear cargo pants. Stylish clothes are about form, not function.
"I'm now getting ready for bed at the time I used to start getting ready to go out."
Yes. Lol. 9pm, would you look at that, it's sleepy time. In my teens it was 9pm? time for soccer lets go.
And 430 am used to be the time you would get in from partying. Now 430 am is my default wake up time
I've been sleeping during the day the last 27 years. My bed time.hasnt changed in all that tim. 7am and I'm ready for sleep.
I'm unconscious on the couch, before the 10o' clock news. That was just getting out of the house time.
"You smile at the sullen goth kids at the mall and they look at you like you're insane and you realize that you look like a soccer mom now and you haven't looked like a mallrat for 15 years. Then you smile at them again because they will be weirdly smiling at kids at the mall in 15 years and that sounds really wrong but hey circle of life."
Omg I feel you 😆 they look back like wtf and I’m like ‘little do you know I was one of you ‘
Gorf_the_Magnificent said: "I’m in my 70’s and it’s the best time of my life. Almost everything I used to dislike, I can easily avoid now." HamboneandFlippy replied: "I’m 40 and I’m starting to dislike people altogether. Any advice on how to keep that from happening?" blargblargityblarg replied: "For me at 53, it was a matter of radical acceptance that humans are a**holes. I cannot change that. What I can change is that I don’t have to excuse myself for being kind and having empathy towards others. I can’t save the whole world but I can sure start by being kind to one person at a time. And maybe they will be kind to the next person etc. etc. etc. I make sure to be me, and I have to let the rest of the world be itself or else I go crazy. So, one kindness at a time."
"I’m 40 and I’m starting to dislike people altogether. Any advice on how to keep that from happening?" Why would you want to keep that from happening? 🙃
I'm 17 and I've already given up my high expectations. It's a harsh reality that I had to learn: people have no standards anymore.
AnzaiOne said: "The songs that you enjoyed during your teenage or growing up years are now part of Throwback Thursday playlist of Spotify or your local radio stations." Commenter replied: "...or the controversial stuff from your teen years is now playing in a grocery store."
The good music is still good but it isn't all as great as we thought it was.
Years ago I was working a trade show in Las Vegas; a group of "youngsters" got on the elevator, raving about the "new" band they had just discovered. They were shocked to hear I'd attended their concerts year ago. The band?? Aerosmith
Or you go back and listen to the music that DIDN'T survive. Listen to that with an objective ear and without nostalgia influencing you. Without that crutch it is some hot garbage and puts the hot garbage kids listen to today in a new light.
I heard a song by The Clash while out food shopping. At least it wasn't "Lost in the Supermarket"
Or all your favorite songs are used to sell junk on tv commercials.
The good stuff is out, and the worse stuff is in. Why did we let our standards fall off a cliff??
Says every old person about new music until the end of time. I used to hang out on the Gen X reddit sub and this was a common refrain but now I hear a lot of millennials starting to say it. Don't get me wrong in the US music changed quite a bit after it became legal to own multiple radio stations because it made music rotations pretty homogeneous but there's still amazing music being made all of the time.
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I_Am_My_Truth said: "People. Nobody knows what respect is. My one friend who repeatedly says they don’t care about people, shows me more respect than almost anyone else. They don’t care about people and even they know how to not be unnecessarily rude and judgmental. Idk why it’s so hard for most people." Sinfullymad replied: "Agree. I can even look past the rudeness and judgy behavior because I honestly don't freaking care anymore. What really gets me is the lack of social awareness, like is it really cool to be up in someone's 'personal bubble,' should I maybe not block an entire supermarket aisle with my cart, maybe not everyone in my vicinity wants to know about my son's w*oring wife. Can we just run our errands and live our lives without inadvertently being intrusive or obstructive? I hate people. Respect has done died."
People have been bemoaning this for centuries. T'aint nothing new.
yeah, but there's way more people around now. Hard to avoid those a-holes when you cant take 2 steps without running into one...
Load More Replies...My husband and I are in our 40s and went to the movies for the first time in a long time. We got there a bit early walked over to our assigned seats and there was a purse sitting in my seat next to a few twenty somethings. I literally had to ask "Is this your bag?" before she would move it...from the seat I paid for and then had the audacity to roll her eyes at me as if it was such an inconvenience. Entitled people come in all ages...I even apologized and then I was like why did I apologize?
I have found there is respect left and it was given to me in the South; Georgia and New Orleans to name 2 instances. Also people I have met from the South as well. However respect is also earned. Give it and alot of the time you get it back.
Universeintheflesh said: "I felt shock when I realized you could be born after 2000 and be old enough to buy alcohol." duchduchduchduch replied: "On my 21st the waitress was almost adamant I wasn't old enough to drink because the my birthday was 2000. She then told me that she felt old lol."
Reading this made me feel old. I was twenty in 20 in 2000
Eborys said: "Humans. Especially humans that forget the world doesn’t revolve around them." IWantToPlayGame replied: "You ever work retail? It makes you hate humanity." Dizzy-Particular-258 replied: "2016-2022 destroyed my belief that most people are good. Apparently a third of the country always had horrible opinions and were proudly ignorant. Everything from (edit: lack of) basic science knowledge to bigotry and racism was out in the open, the worst part was how easily they were manipulated by various media. This year is looking a little better though."
Remember folks diff of opinion or a wrong opinion does not mean there horrible ppl.
"Anywhere that isn’t my bed. If I was always given to option to stay home I would literally never leave my house. That may be the depression talking but I also just don’t like people."
Lol. I call that long term self isolation. 2 dozen years of aoidin society
Reminds me of an Eddie Murphy quote about never leaving the house .. something about his dog I think
truer now than it ever was. Since 2016 it has been a mad house with crazies everywhere shooting their guns and their mouths off. Killing people just to see them die. Makes me feel fortunate that I won't be around too many years more.
captain_housecoat said: "I just increased the font-size on my phone." MercurysOverbite replied: "Damn."
I used to love star gazing and friends and I would even spot satellites slowly gliding by. Even with glasses I can't see those satellites now and the stars don't look the same through a glass screen. I really miss my lazy nights star gazing.
Get some binoculars and I think you will go WOW!
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"When you realize that some of your coworkers weren't even born when you graduated from high school."
When I worked retail during the pandemic, I was in my late 30s (38-40.) Most of my co-workers were in their early 20s. I had a few co-workers who were 17-18, and it was surreal to realize that I was their parents' age. I don't feel like I'm 41.
You should have not accepted the birthday presents and you would still be 19. Strategy, girl!
Load More Replies...When you tell the 23 year old you work with jokingly "hey I'm old enough to be your mum!" And then realise how upset that makes you
I'm a former teacher. I went back to school to do my engineering phd. Some of my labmates and classmates are younger than/the same age as some of the students that I've taught.
Crazycrazycat27 said: "Noise." Forever_Man replied: "I was at a coffee shop yesterday playing some loud techno and noise rock. It would have been my ideal hangout 10 years ago, but it was too loud to have a conversation."
Yep. I've turned into THAT old man. Loud f-ing cars with their thumping speakers and angry "music" blasting. TURN THAT SHïT OFF! That old man.
My mom just turned 74. You can hear her coming from two blocks away. I want to be like her.
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joculator said: "People start calling you sir. This doubly counts if you're a woman." BubblesHootenanny replied: "A woman was walking down the street with her kids the other day and I happened to be waking a bit quicker than them. She said to her kid, 'Come over here and let the nice lady go past.' I genuinely looked around for the lady. Then I realised yes, I'm old enough to be considered a lady. Sh*t."
Being called a lady is fine with me. But the first time that I was called "ma'am" I cried a little inside.
In Texas you begin getting ma'am at 30. A decade later I'm still telling people I'm not a ma'am unless you are my 8 year old
Load More Replies...I'm fine with being called a lady, it's when you call me a birthing person or a menstruating person or a person who creates eggs that your likely to get decked.
Oh, we have something like that in Asia. You're all young and happy til you've graduated from being called "big brother/sister" to being called an "auntie/uncle". I'm still lucky enough to have primary school kids call me "big brother" even though my body is starting to feel more uncle-y.
"Bras. Especially underwire ones."
Ha, nope. I'm done with those. XD I'm 41 and all I wear are MINDD brand bras now. No underwire, I won't die if I fall asleep with them on, but still large and supportive enough for my stupid jahoobies.
Are you saying you don't love it when the wire pierces your armpit? How can you not? 🙃
Load More Replies...I'll do the wire. The alternative is the girls attempting escape and awkward recovery attempts in public.
The MINDD brand bras work and no hooks either. Some of the cheaper knock off brands work too.
Load More Replies...iMac_Hunt said: "Going to bed at a reasonable hour." Gum_Thief replied: "When waking up at 9:00 is sleeping in."
You know, as I've gotten older I find it so difficult to sleep past 6am. If I wake up at 8am I'm all groggy and feel like the day is gone. Gone are the days of waking up at 1pm. Lol
I take care of my 76 yr old mother...she insists on waking up at 4am, sometimes earlier and I really wish she wasn't such a morning person because I am the complete opposite.
Load More Replies...sparksgirl1223 said: "Leaving my house." Chromattix replied: "It's a coin toss as to what kind of day I'm gonna have every time I leave that front door. But if I stay home it's always at least gonna be a decent one."
Razzle-red said: "Forced socializing/networking call it whatever you want." DeathSpiral321 replied: "The awkward happy hours will continue until morale improves!"
"Walking into an empty or near empty bar (or pub) and thinking with relief, 'Hell yeah, this is my kind of bar.'"
How about supermarkets? You be in the line and then the old grannie (no offence) is behind you and you feel like a 25 year old GOD, you let her pass because you da MAN. But in reality you are a 50 yo and have only come to the shop for wine and cat food and can't wait to get home. Or is it just me...?
I'm 43 but that was me today...I literally left the house to but tp, pet food and wine.
Load More Replies...AchyBrakeyHeart said: "Everything slowly 'evolving' into a subscription service. Even heated seats are getting those ffs." KingGeedohrah replied: "This is what kicked off my blu ray collection. It's gotten a little out of hand, but I know in 10 years when you can't watch anything without an ad, I'll be glad I did.."
I'm still collecting dvds and deliberately not watching them right away. I like owning the movie and if the internet fails ill still have my movies.
Just know that when you actually start getting old, it won't matter that you've seen them before.
Load More Replies...I own a bunch of dvds, but my newer laptop doesn't have a disc drive and I was trying to move light so I didn't pack most of the dvds or DVD player.
"Negativity and drama. Life is too short to waste time on those things."
"People wanting me to care about the stuff they care about."
toomanycats21 said: "Concerts. My feet hurt, the music is too loud, I've become very sensitive to the strobe light effects most of them use, the fees to buy tickets are outrageous plus parking... and frankly, I get bored. It could be the greatest show on earth and I still get bored after an hour or so." LordPuddin replied: "And depending on the concert, crowds. I get tired of jockeying for space while sweaty people bump into me or having some 7 foot dude stand in front of me."
The parking and crowds and cost are enough to think twice about going anywhere
When it comes to concerts: What day? Can't do sunday-wed, I'll be too tired for the week. How many bands? I just want to see who I wanna see. So I may show up late. And if their not headlining, I may leave early. Same with movies(unless drive-in is available), I'll just wait til it comes out on streaming.
I think calling a musical performance a “concert” is a huge sign that you are old. I understand that they are now called “events” not concerts.
"Dating. I always wanted to get married but didn’t find the right person. I haven’t dated for three years because of covid but recently went out with someone for like two weeks before breaking it off. I used to find the process exciting but now I find it exhausting and people in general to be users and time wasters. I can see a dead end way further afield now than I could in my 20s. It may bare importance than I’m a straight man. Simply because I think it’s an attitude we are used to hearing more from women which I totally sympathize with. Friends were shocked I dated a gorgeous nurse for two weeks and cut her lose. But I just saw all the signs this was going to get bad and at 36 I’d rather not waste my time and be committed to someone I know won’t work out and therefore not be available for someone that might. But I also hate the whole dating process now, it’s not exciting and I’d rather date someone who wants to get married like ASAP because I’m just sick of wasting time and I don’t really feel I need more than a few months to know if this can work or not after all my experience."
Disclosure: 36 is young to me. This guy sounds like he needs more time to develop.
Nah. I get him. I felt that way at 28 when I began dating my now husband
Load More Replies...For some of us, yeah, and it’s super deep seated like gender. It’s super interesting to explore inside.
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"'Urban vibrancy' and 'density.'
People need trees and space."
Or a nice quiet evening at home with your family. I never was one for the party scene.
bundlebundle said: "Realizing I'm the oldest person in a group." delimeat52 replied: "It's like I was totally unaware of it when it did happen until it started happening more often. Now I notice it pretty quickly and it drives me a bit mad."
I’m always the oldest in a group for some reason. I’m one of the oldest people in my class, one of the oldest kids in the neighbourhood, one of the oldest cousins etc.
andrewclarkson said: "Stuff. All the stuff cluttering up my house and closets. All those things not worth enough to sell and potentially still to useful to throw away." RudeAndSarcastic replied: "The Swedish people have a thing I heard about, maybe its a tradition, or just an old age ritual. They go thru their stuff and figure out what to give away to friends, or donate to places like Goodwill, etc. Just so their family don't have to deal with a ton of stuff when they pass. I have started doing that, and it makes me happy to give stuff to the people I call friends, because they appreciate me thinking of them. I don't expect to die anytime soon, but you just never know. You might consider that."
There is a show about that on Peacock. I just started it...it's really good. "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning". Named after the book on it.
"When something my parents said suddenly makes sense."
One Gal was covered in tattoos and I asked her about one she said "Oh I regret that one, in fact I regret a lot of them" then she asked if I had any, and without thinking I said "No...I knew at that age almost anything i did was stupid" It's amazing how you can fit an entire size twelve shoe in your mouth at once...
"The hangover that lasts more than one day."
I remember my first and only hangover, at 17. Never again. FYI, pedialyte for hangovers, because your just experiencing and exhibiting dehydration. That's what alcohol does to you.
"Thinking going out after work on a weekday is crazy."
Razzler1973 said: "Making an incomprehensible noise when you stand up or sit down." Commenter replied: "Slapping your knee and saying 'Right [then]!' before getting up."
LOVE both of these-it's me, for sure (has someone been peeking in my windows?)
RedditorChristopher said: "Dating. When I was 20, it was fun. Take 10 minutes to get ready and have a good time. Now that I’m older, it’s a whole ordeal and feels more like a job interview." louisianagranite replied: "Everything is a whole ordeal now." Commandrew11 replied: "I'm 23 and it feels like a job interview already. What did you do to make it fun?"
I'm no expert in this field, but maybe... if a date feels like a job interview, maybe it means you're not with the right person?
I think it's because of the reasons people are dating. If you're just going out for a good time you'll have one kind of experience. If you're looking for a life partner you'll have a different experience.
Load More Replies...Youth these days are so quick to adopt a partner and exclusivise him/her. It's so hard to date around.
"The teen stars of your generation now play moms and dads."
Ok_Tumbleweed_7361 said: "Doing things merely out of obligation." ElTigre184698 replied: "Dude... going somewhere because I have to is becoming a huge pet peeve haha."
Mirenithil said: "That first gray hair. Also, when it's noticeably harder to get up from sitting on the floor when you used to be able to bounce up effortlessly thanks to years of martial arts training." Chkldst replied: "Or hair growing out of weird places. Never thought I'd end up with the occasional hair sprouting out of my earlobes, yet it's happens."
I finally dyed mine. I had a Cruella DeVille streak going & I just couldn't stand to see it when I pulled my hair back
i have embraced my gray...i even highlight it more since i am mostly "pepper" and that's dreary looking so the silver streaks are much nicer looking...and i get lots of compliments too...from younger versions of myself!!😍
Load More Replies...Never went grey.....I did however go straight to silvery white about 3 years ago. Been told it'll seem silvery until most of my black hair changes color.
I have not one, but TWO ear and nose trimmers. And the random gray hairs on the body! Head, beard, yeah that’s fine. But my HAND?!?!?!
"Got a heating pad for my birthday. Was excited about it."
I'd be very excited. I've got one in my amazon cart right now. Lol
"MUSIC. My parents always just had the windows down and the music off. That is how I like it now. I wanna hear a gol'dern bird chirpin, dammit. Who cares about a Geetar song?"
Can't relate. I listen to the music I grew up with. 60s to 80s...and I listen to it A LOT. 45 years.old. I live out in the boonies, I hear birds all the time.
"Going to Walmart."
I would probably like it more my mom could ride a scooter rather than pushing her in the wheelchair but she's blind and all the ♿️ spots are always taken anyway...Walmart is a nightmare for me.
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"High schoolers and college kids look younger and younger each year."
Hell, my doctors look like they will be graduating jr high any day now!
Also kids are a lot bigger than they used to be. I was at an elementary school graduation a few years ago and most of these 11-12 y/o kids were at least 5’6”.
Kaskazee said: "The fact that I'm continuing to get older but my brain still thinks that my body is still in my mid 20's." tinyhorsesinmytea replied: "A coworker asked me on my birthday how old I was turning and I said with full confidence and not missing a beat '28.' She laughed. 'Really, you’re turning 28?' 'Wait, did I say that? 38. F*ck…'"
Yeah, your mind thinks one thing and then when you crouch down or bend over your body gives you a reality check.....could be sore up to 2 months because your hip or knee popped wrong. The joys of being 40 something - when you have face reality that age is catching up.
My peeve about getting old (I'm 70) is 38-year-olds thinking that they're anywhere NEAR old.
Fathomnuss said: "Video games, they are getting repetitive and boring." OmaC_76 replied: "Tell me about it... I have a backlog of games that I could only dream of as a kid... l Now I'm older it takes me 20 minutes to decide what game to play for me to just end up watching something in the end."
I bought a console recently thinking, sweet I'm gonna game. I played it like three times and now I haven't played in months.
Aurelian_Lure said: "I've noticed the older I get there are fewer things that I dislike." Independent_Bake_257 replied: "On one hand, that is true for me too. But that's because I just don't really care anymore, can't be bothered. On the other hand, people annoy me more now."
RoosterMysterious said: "Being an adult." Moist-Cod-963 replied: "As a 13 year old, I can confirm this."
Maybe they have s**t parents and they had to become an adult early?
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"Waking up for the continuation of adulting."
The use of the word "adulting" has now started to grate on my nerves. It was funny and cute when I was 25.
"A lack of sleep/pulling all nighters meaning more productivity or hard work."
I don't sleep at night anyway.... That said, staying up multiple days is hard as hell at my age....sooooo not worth it
"Gossip."
Sinister-K1d said: "Dust, it just never goes away. Tips would be appreciated." working_class_tired replied: "My pro tip for dust is when I finish drying my dishes I wipe over my kitchen with the wet towel. Top of fridge, benches etc. Walk towards the laundry to put the towel in the basket wiping all surfaces on the way. It means I never actually have to 'dust' those areas when I'm dusting."
In my bedroom I just flip any dark shirt I take off inside out and wipe the dresser quickly before tossing it in the hamper. In the rest of the house, furniture polish/wood oil/wax helps keep the dust from accumulating as quickly (think of the water beading offf of a newly waxed car)
You get four air filters. Make a square with them, with cardboard closing off the bottom. Stick one of those square fans on top. Make sure it's sucking air into the air filter contraption. BOOM, an easy air purifier, that works way better than any store bought one.
Don’t dust with a dry anything unless it’s a swifter type thing. Use a damp cloth, otherwise you’re just moving the dust from one place to another.
"Long nails. When I was younger age 10 to about 25 I loved long nails. At the age of 30 it's getting on my nervous trying to do anything with them. Wiping, showering changing my kids diapers and cloths cooking everything is impossible with them. And when girls say I can wipe with them, no you can't. Not good enough to be clean. The nails stop you from like really wiping if that makes since."
I've had short nails most of my life. As a craftswoman I find I can do more with short nails Long nails just get in the way.
I returned to college in my mid-40. Prof asked the class if we were aware of having any prejudices. My answer was "long fingernails." It seems to me that prideful people with long fingernails feel the nails are more important that getting necessary tasks done, and use them as a convenient excuse for laziness. I can remind myself I am being unfair, but it does take effort to ignore that first impression. Prof replied, "I have long fingernails, and they don't interfere with anything. I even play softball!" I am in my mid-seventies now. I still wonder what people are thinking to put so much time, effort, and money into crippling themselves, but it is easier to see the actual person, rather than those nails.
"Fast Food."
Can't stand the thought of fast food anymore from anywhere! People don't wash ! Yuck
Home.cooking. prefer to cook my own food. MAYBE I'll get fast food twice a year, if that.
With several members of my family having soy allergies most fast food places are a no go.
"Mother in-law bought me a Dyson. I got home and started vacuuming everything and I was calling people and bragging. After I put it back in the closet as I had vacuumed everything twice I realized what I had done. I can't even look at it now. Luckily my wife has no problems using it."
I recently apologized to my dad for making fun of him falling asleep in front of the television when I was a teenager. Couldn't imagine doing it myself. No prizes for guessing what happens after a full day of work when I relax after dinner...
Reading obituaries has become a new normal. I'm 50+ yrs old. In the last 3 years, my neighbor, her daughter and son-in-law all died within 6 months-I've known them all my entire life. My mom died in 2021, just before Christmas, but my visa was in the process of renewal and I couldn't leave France to attend her funeral. I actually couldn't even afford to send flowers. 2 weeks ago, a friend I grew up with-4 houses down from my house, played kickball, wiffleball with, he went camping with my family, his sister and I were close - died from cancer. I'm living outside of the USA, and don't use social media. Instead, I'll get rando emails from family and friends back in the States giving me the news. Every few months I'm doing an obituary search on friends I've lost touch with since I moved away and I've learned this way about the deaths of so many people I knew and cared about that, if I still lived in my hometown, I'd know.
I recently apologized to my dad for making fun of him falling asleep in front of the television when I was a teenager. Couldn't imagine doing it myself. No prizes for guessing what happens after a full day of work when I relax after dinner...
Reading obituaries has become a new normal. I'm 50+ yrs old. In the last 3 years, my neighbor, her daughter and son-in-law all died within 6 months-I've known them all my entire life. My mom died in 2021, just before Christmas, but my visa was in the process of renewal and I couldn't leave France to attend her funeral. I actually couldn't even afford to send flowers. 2 weeks ago, a friend I grew up with-4 houses down from my house, played kickball, wiffleball with, he went camping with my family, his sister and I were close - died from cancer. I'm living outside of the USA, and don't use social media. Instead, I'll get rando emails from family and friends back in the States giving me the news. Every few months I'm doing an obituary search on friends I've lost touch with since I moved away and I've learned this way about the deaths of so many people I knew and cared about that, if I still lived in my hometown, I'd know.
