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Life is full of disappointments, both large and small. That doesn’t mean that life itself is all misery—quite the opposite. But it’s important to recognize that pain, failure, and dashed expectations are unavoidable parts of being a human being. Learning how to deal with them becomes a necessity.

Reddit user u/Just_Surround_2108 recently went viral after urging the r/AskReddit community to share the biggest things they were disappointed by when they grew up. Similar to how a child might feel when they learn that Santa Claus is not real. You’ll find their honest opinions, touching on everything from work to relationships and beyond, as you scroll down.

Oh, and just for the record—we fully believe that Santa is real. Anyone who tells you otherwise is probably working for the Grinch.

#1

50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Being a hard worker and good at your job doesn't necessarily mean that you'll be rewarded for it.

DorianOrosco , energepic.com Report

Miriam Boyce
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was very religious I got a job at my church. I got paid for a few hours but mostly volunteered to please god. For 10 years I busted a gut running a soup kitchen. For nothing. I had no money set aside for retirement and no formal qualifications, and no savings. I’m glad I gave up religion

Joshua Seaman
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm wondering what this person is doing with a pen and notepad out with LightRoom open on her computer. In all of my time working as a photographer, I've never had a notepad as part of my work flow 🤔

Ralph Watkins
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being a crappy worker & doing a good thing every once & awhile gets you rewarded. Working hard all of time just gets you more work & if you have one bad day, it ruins your career.

I just work here
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just given more work that becomes the new norm..

JK
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And even if you're really good at what you do, if something goes wrong and you're an easy scapegoat, you'll get blamed and let go

Erik Rydbom
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am learning the hard way that "getting your foot in the door" is almost like walking into a non-promotional prison cell.

Richard Newell
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2 years ago

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Tams21
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It usually means that your boss is rewarded.

Anouk Badwolf
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fact! However on the long run you might benefit from it

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    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Finding out that in the US it’s not really democrat vs republican, it’s the rich elites versus the rest of us.

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    BrownTabby
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Republicans are the foot soldiers of the rich elite. Until they themselves learn that the enemy is the rich elite and not minorities, they will act against the best interests of the 99%.

    Donkey boi
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the point is that both parties are the rich elite, and the voters are the 'us'.

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    DB
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why can't the US have a perfect political system like they have in North Korea, China or Russia?

    Limey
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    2 years ago

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    Don’t be snide. There are plenty of other places with a political system that functions far better than here. If anything, we are close (and moving closer) to the dysfunctional ones you mention. In fact The Orange One has made it clear that THOSE are the systems he wishes to emulate.

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    Allen Packard
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is just so obvious. Dismantle the 2-party system. Also say this with me. TERM LIMITS!!!!!!!!!!

    Mathieu Brouwers
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everywhere in the world conditional funding of political parties is called corruption. Except for the USA.

    Tamra
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, but didn't you hear? Recently some politicians denounced "dark money" in politics. And did nothing about it. "Hey, we think this is wrong! Are we trying to pass legislation to prevent it? Ehh...ummm...look over there!"

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    Anna Simonis Rivera
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are a capitalist country, not a democracy. Business interests rule.

    Stylishsidewaysbird
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And unfortunately too many of the rest of us seem to think they are the elite and vote against their own interests.

    Mental Liberals
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An oligarchy runs the corrupt government...

    Maggie Mae
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not just in America But around the Entire World!! Now Greed is Running the Ship!!

    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you are rich, Republican. If you are poor, Democrat. If you are stupid and poor, Republican. Basically, if you have money, you side with other people with money to bribe and cheat the government and the poor so that you keep as much of your wealth to yourself. I literally got into a big argument with my own mother over this. She thinks that Republicans care about her poor self and family. If you aren't rich, Republicans see you as a peasant. Even if you are rich, the richer Republicans will see you as a peasant.

    EarthGrowl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Republicans and MAGA scream about low wages but vilify Unions. They scream about high prices but it's the Republican owned corporations that are making record breaking profits and refuse to lower the prices to punish Americans for voting Democrat. The worse lie Republicans tell, is that Democrats hate White people. When the Democratic Party is 60% White. Christian Extremists have consumed the Republican Party. Unless Americans want to witness an American Inquisition they will stand up to the Christian Taliban.

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    #3

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real If you're intelligent, you have to be quiet because of people who are stupid.

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    iseefractals
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the precise reason that stupidity is running rampant right now. Those who know better sit idly by and allow ignorance and idiocy to be perpetuated.

    General Anaesthesia
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm curious because I agree somewhat with your first sentence. Establishing a fact is easy but what, per your second sentence, do you think can be done to remedy the "my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge" brigade without abridging freedoms?

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    Papa
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can speak up, but it's a rare individual who will listen.

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't reason someone out of an idea they didn't get reasoned into.

    Mental Liberals
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a choice, and a poor one at that...

    Austin L
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call people out for this but not to be insulting, I simply present them with evidence to why they are wrong. It usually doesn't work but at least I feel better about not living the lie.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, f*ck that. Your stupidity is a you problem. I will not dumb myself down to appease your delicate little ego. Sucks to be you.

    Norm Gilmore
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once had someone ask me what the concrete buildings were on top of the hill. I said they were water tanks. I got told that this was b******t and I didn't know what I was talking about. I'd been inside them for maintenance of the control systems....🙄

    FranklySpeaking
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “The fundamental cause of the trouble is that in the modern world the stupid are cocksure while the intelligent are full of doubt.” - Bertrand Russell

    Stylishsidewaysbird
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The issues is that the stupid are stubborn in their incorrect beliefs and feel like any movement to changes their ideas is to validate their stupidity and therefore won’t change their ideas in spite of mountains of evidence to the contrary. Unfortunately it’s not worth my mental health to try and educate the masses that do not want to learn.

    Temporary Dork
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Speaking up is for the bystanders, not for the idiot you happen to address.

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    The expectations that we have for life can massively affect us. For instance, someone who’s naive and happy-go-lucky might think that everything will fall into place and things will just work out somehow. When they fail at something or realize that the world doesn’t work the way they imagined it should, they might have their entire perspective shattered. They’ll have trouble coming to terms with this new reality and might feel frustrated at themselves for having been so wrong.

    On the flip side, someone who’s overly pessimistic or cynical might lose out on genuinely good opportunities because they don’t think much of anything is worth the effort. For them, a lack of justice and fairness is the status quo. But this makes them blind to the positive aspects of life, as well as the ability to fight for change that matters, whether at work or in society as a whole.

    #4

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Sometimes there is no justice.

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    frederick clause
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's called a "legal system" and not a "justice system" for a reason. He who has the best lawyers wins.

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't even need the best lawyers. Sometimes you can just drag it out until the other side runs out of money to pay theirs.

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    ColdSteelRonin
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The law doesn't always provide justice and justice isn't always legal

    The Original Bruno
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I heard Oprah say how she quit being a Christian when she read that God said, "Vengeance is mine." What that verse really means is that humans should never seek vengeance; claiming vengeance is dishonoring God. Because to the extent that justice means vengeance, no-one can ever find justice in this world. One's quest for vengeance will only uncover more that needs to be avenged, including one's own vengeful deeds. Instead, we have to trust that God will bring justice, including punishing the wicked. (So many people think punishing the wicked seems un-Christlike, even though Jesus promised the wicked would be punished so many, many, many times. I think the real reason it seems so ungodly is that human vengeance always begets more hatred. Divine vengeance brings remorse to anyone who isn't pure evil. And that remorse brings mercy.)

    CD King
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You never want to get tangled up in the Justice system. Unless you have a bucket load of money there is an extremely high possibility that bad things will happen wether you have committed a crime or not.

    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *Most times there is no justice. There, fixed it for you.

    Khavrinen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *Usually* there is no justice.

    Jane Hower
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not in this world, but surely in the next.

    Tarryn Ball
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do you think Lady Justice is wearing a blindfold.

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    #5

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real That some friends were never really your friend.

    Kangaroowrangler_02 , Kimson Doan Report

    Multa Nocte
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And of course you never find out until it's crunch time. 😟

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    David Niven said of Errol Flynn "As a friend, Errol was absolutely reliable. He would always let you down."

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    Kare Deter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had friends like that. Friend: "Can you help me?" Me: helped. Same Friend: "Can you help me?" Me: helped. Same Friend yet again: "Can you help me?" Me: sorry, no. I need help this time. Never heard from them again. Lovely people. Or another friend - "I need $200 to get away from my abusive husband". Given. a year later, that friend still with her husband, I asked for a LOAN because I needed to feed my kids. Ghosted. p***k all people like that. Seriously.

    Jared Robinson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everybody wants to be your friend when they need help, but god forbid YOU ever need help or are having a rough time.

    Clarissa
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a harsh lesson, hard to get over it.

    Stylishsidewaysbird
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also when you’ve outgrown your friends, through no fault of anyone but you slowly drift apart. Nothing wrong with that but still sad some times. Sometimes people are only there for certain chapters of your life but aren’t in the whole book

    Poediddy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nor are all of your family members sadly!

    Justme
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I spent years searching for my best friend from high school after we had lost touch. I was so excited to finally find her on facebook and she couldn’t care less.

    Merilyn Horton
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My best friend was after my husband

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    #6

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real When both your parents die. I am in my mid 50’s and had my mom pass on Mother’s Day ‘22. My Dad then was living with us from then, and eventually reached in-home hospice status with a sudden stage IV cancer diagnosis. He died in January of this year, and then I got laid off from my tech job and was unemployed for 10 months. Nothing takes the wonderment and positive outlook from the world than having to empty out your childhood home solo and throw everything you grew up with into a big dumpster and are left to wonder what our lives really mean.

    i_spock , Darya Sannikova Report

    Sebby's Mama
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is just heartbreaking :(

    Kiss Army
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can confirm. My husband is an only child and lost his mom on 07/03/19 and his dad on 09/04/19... it was very hard clearing out their home and it wasn't even the home my husband grew up in. We still have quite a bit in a storage locker because my husband just didn't know what to do with it and didn't have the heart to throw it away.

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    Papa
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was well into my 40's when my father passed away. I was a responsible adult, with a family and a good job, but I suddenly felt like "I guess I have to be a grown-up now." I don't think I explained that well, but I can't think of a better way to put it.

    Tameeza Joyce Lightowler
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ***gentle hugs for everyone here who has gone through this***

    A girl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I struggled with my life's purpose after dad, mom and my older brother died. Like, I take care of people and there was no one left to care for. Sigh.

    devotedtodreams
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The loss of my Dad hit me hard, and even now, 4 years later, I still can't believe he's really gone - still waiting to hear from him again by some confounded miracle. Mom's still here, but I'm terrified of losing her; I have no friends, am very much a loner, and my relationship with my brother is strained, so not sure we could count on each other. I dread the day when we will have to sort out her belongings after she's gone...

    Chrille
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm 43 and my mother died a year ago. It's breaking my heart every day.

    Hilary Mol
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry for your loss, OP. I lost my dad out of the blue in 2014 just after I turned 40. I developed fibromyalgia and had to move in with my mother during the tail end of the second or third major wave of the pandemic and have lost a lot of mobility and ability to do a lot of day to day things on my own. I'm so afraid of what's going to happen when my mom dies, not because she's my right hand and cares for me, but because she's the best person I know. She's a walking encyclopedia, still knows how to read a folding map, understands why drying clothes on a clothesline outdoors is important, is an amazing quilter, and is a whole host of other amazing things that make me love her. I had to empty my father's house... which was my house at the time, too, when I moved. I was 47, and I felt completely lost. I had to throw out the bulk of what was in the house, and somewhere I went from feeling my heart ripped out to numb, then back to lost & ripped open. I'm sorry you're hurting, OP.

    Jean Thompson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My heart goes out to you all I have had exactly the same scenario. We are all the same when suffering comes into our lives. Sending love to you all.

    Tracy Wallick
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lost both my parents before the age of 30. Even though I have lots of other family that love and support me, it really leaves you feeling untethered knowing you don't have your parents to fall back on for help or advice.

    FrogMan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the same vein: the day you realize your parents are at an age you distinctly remember your little old grandparents being. My parents are 81 and 79 and every day I wonder if I’ll get The Call from one of them…

    Sunshine Lady
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel that way for my grandparents, it's terrifying. They are 69 and 75 now

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    So, managing your expectations becomes key to managing your disappointments. You don’t want to hype yourself up, nor do you want to dismiss any positivity either. Through experience, we gain wisdom and slowly start to get a better grasp of how everything works. The main point here is that we accept this reality, instead of wishing that things were a drastically different way. 

    It’s one thing to strive for positive change on a local or even global level. It’s another thing entirely to wish for things to be different without taking any action. In the former case, you’re doing what you can to improve your situation and that of others. It might be hard. You might have to adapt your approach and deal with unexpected roadblocks, but you are putting in the effort to create something better.

    In the latter case, however, you might feel frustrated and disempowered because there is such a huge gap between reality and your idealized vision of what the world should be like. ‘Perfect’ social justice or completely fair workplaces might not be possible… but things can be better and fairer. The key here is to change what you can, even if the end result won’t be as good as you’d like it to be.

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    #7

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Finding out the truth about Mother Teresa

    nynnat , JohnMathewSmith Report

    Little Wonder
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A short version, there's much more, but Mother Teresa allowed her patients to suffer pain and discomfort so they would be "closer to God" and also denied a lot of medical treatment. She herself would fly to California (IIRC) for treatment from world class doctors if she was unwell.

    Jonathan MacFarlane
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, they'll be close to god alright. I think I learned that from ERB.

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    Spittnimage
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When she died I thought it was sad that Princess Diana's death eclipsed hers until I learned the truth about this "saintly" woman.

    Liz the Wanderer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this is how Catholics choose "Saints", I'm even more offended by Catholics...

    Lavern Defazio
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im offended by every religion except for pastafarians.

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    Miss Frankfurter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A nun at my Catholic high school went to India to work with her. This woman was the epitome of a wonderful, genuinely spiritual, kind and loving sister. We didn’t see this coming. In World Religions class we were told that after she came back from India she left the convent. Last sister we ever dreamed would resign. We were all shocked and sad that this had happened. For years I wondered why? Then I found out the truth of this woman. I guess she was capable of destroying even the strongest of faith.

    Negative Nancy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm embarrassed to admit... TIL Mother Teresa was a real d1ck.

    Bruce Zeines
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesn't pull any punches from the late Christopher Hitchens. https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2003/10/the-fanatic-fraudulent-mother-teresa.html

    Ilia Bauer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And some people refuse to accept that she was that horrible of a person. All the documentation, all the evidence, and "you have the right to your wrong opinion about her."

    2x4b523p
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a branch of relatives who are hardcore catholics and I assure you they would never, ever admit anything wrong with The Church no matter what evidence they are faced with. No point wasting time with these people. Also in their eyes nobody has a “right to their wrong opinions” either. They will fight you to defend their one and only “correct” truth till their last breath. If these kind of people at the very least learned to “agree to disagree” the world would be much better place.

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    Russell Rieckenberg
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anytime Mother Teresa's name comes up on the internet you'll find many people still haven't discovered the truth about her.

    BrownTabby
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m lucky, that bandaid got ripped off when I was at a cynical age and didn’t admire anyone. Sully Sullenberger and Richard DeCrespigny better not have any skeletons in their closets, though.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. That one hurt. I was raised Catholic, so saints were a big deal. When I learned she totally didn't deserve to be canonized I was crushed.

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    #8

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real HR is NOT on your side.

    gregsmith0814 , Alex Green Report

    General Anaesthesia
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Human resources, like natural resources, are there to be exploited in corporate processes and the waste products disposed of as cheaply as possible.

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HR is first, last, and always on HR's side.

    DB
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's true. As a manager I can tell you that HR is often not on my side or the employees'. HR has its own agenda. We were a lot better off when it was the Personnel Department.

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    Lily Braunekatze
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you sit at a table for a disciplinary meeting it will be management and HR on one side and you and your union on the other.

    M
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, they sure aren't! They protect the company and their bottom line/reputation, first and foremost.

    John Dilligaf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HR is there to protect the company from legal liability and from financial loss in the personal arena. If siding with the worker accomplishes that goal then that's what they'll recommend the company do. If siding with the company accomplishes that goal, then that's what they'll recommend.

    Leigh James
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Human Resources is neither human nor resourceful - discuss. An old SNL skit

    FranklySpeaking
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HR is code for "protect the company at any cost."

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. Their sole purpose is to cover the company's a*s against lawsuits. Period.

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    #9

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real The money doesn't trickle down. It never did

    mein-shekel , Karolina Grabowska Report

    The Scout
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Money does not trickle down because the top s?cks.

    Maggie Mae
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That includes all Governments who Know How to Steal & never increase or Give out Pensions without Bitching even though They Have Never Paid into a Pension Fund Themselves Having NEVER WORKED in their Lives!! We RAID INTO OUR PENSION FOR 45 YEARS & trudumb Calls it WELFARE as he STEALS the GOLDEN PARACHUTE for F******g Over CANADA!!

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    Monkey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The people who proposed the trickle down knew it was a lie, just like the recent Trump tax cuts were supposed to pay for themselves and they knew it wouldn't. It is the exact same game the same lies the same con and the same idiots that believe it.

    Michael None
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The rich have been trickling on the middle and lower class for decades. Only now it's starting to become more of a stream.

    Erik Ivan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They finally got good treatment for their protstata, so now it flows freely.

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    David Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Blame the "Chamber of Commerce" in the USA for this failure of US society. In many other countries, such as Australia and Japan it does.

    Kat
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's because the system is built on the social concept that the highest paid person in the company can only make a certain percentage more than the lowest paid employee. If the "Top Dog" wants a raise, he has to give everyone a raise. THAT is how a successful trickle down economy is done. Here, in the United States, there is no trickle down there is only, "Oh - More For Me & None For you".

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    April Pickett
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was another post on this issue of BP, it said "Reagan is in hell, waiting for heaven to trickle down." I thought it was very appropriate.

    DC
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The entire concept never was intended to work to begin with. It only had to appear as if it could work for long enough that some, who are also using other criteria for their vote, would not not believe it soon enough to vote against the conmen who came up with this scheme.

    Mathieu Brouwers
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Money trickles down, but not as much as they tell you. If I get money for free to help others, I probably keep most of it. And the next layer does the same. In a normal pyramid the top is small and the base is wide. Even if there are only 6 layers of supervising, the base gets less than 1%.

    Jane Hower
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beg to differ - rich people own companies and businessas and those provide jobs!!!! If you ca't see that, then you are blind and stupid.

    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It trickles down, but only about as much as a microscopic hole in the bottom of a swimming pool trickles down water into the water table. If you want money to flow, you have to do some hole opening and sometimes that means force.

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    ‘Psych Central’ suggests that people learn to let go of the negative emotions they feel after their expectations aren’t met. “Letting go doesn’t mean that you should ignore your emotions. Instead, it means you should acknowledge your feelings and let go as you work to overcome what happened.”

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    It also helps to shift your perspective and look at the bigger picture. You might have been thoroughly disappointed by something that’s happened to you, but there are plenty of other things to be grateful for. Things might be tough at work, but you might still be able to afford a roof over your head, be incredibly healthy, or have a very strong and supportive social circle. Bearing the worst that life throws at you becomes bearable when you take the time to appreciate all the good things that have happened to you.

    #10

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Finding out that someone you have looked up to and admired your entire life is actually a horrible person.

    Papooof4 , Dev Asangbam Report

    Multa Nocte
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't mind the odd affair here and there that you find out about later. These days it seems as if that's all that they did, what the heck (I know this devastates the partner involved, but at least they have limited their damage). What upsets me is when you find out they were actually a fascist (i.e., Henry Ford) or stole or diverted lost of money to themselves (many politicians) or used their money to screw their employees (the owners of most large businesses and corporations) or turned out to be people who lived entirely differently than they appeared to the public (Mother Teresa, Gandhi, etc.). I think that I am as mad at myself for not having done the research to find out the person I previously admired was such a bad person.

    WindySwede
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also pedofiles, rape, sexually assault, hatefullness etc?

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    Khavrinen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lookin' at you, Bill Cosby. There was a time when I had more than one of his comedy albums memorized. :(

    Calvin Smelliott
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My big brother…. Errr, according to him, former brother. I made the mistake of watching my nephew's dogs while he lived with his mother, my brother's ex-wife. He called and texted thousands of times telling me he hates me, that I deserve to die, etc, and then told my family was doing it to him. All while our mom was dying of cancer. She read the texts and listened to his voicemails. She knew the truth.

    Jared Robinson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've discovered everybody, including myself, is a horrible person in one way or another.

    FranklySpeaking
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Start admiring good deeds and stop admiring people. Cults of personality happen due to hero worship.

    Sky Render
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An awful lot of trans kids had this happen with J.K. Rowling...

    Roxy222uk
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The horrible one that came to mind recently was Rolf Harris. A part of my and my husband's childhood, and we used to play his songs in the car, so a part of our children's as well. It was absolutely no surprise to anyone that creepy Jimmy Saville was nasty sexual predator, but Rolf Harris was quite a shock, at least to us.

    Max Fox
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop. Putting. People. On. Pedestals. Admire what people do, and stop believing that there is somebody out there who is Perfection In All Things. Stop looking for Gurus and Messiahs and Masters to follow. Everybody has flaws, and everybody has their dark side.

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    #11

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real You never actually feel like the adult

    Personal-Listen-4941 , Nonsap Visuals Report

    Lizz
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still feel like I'm a teenager pretending to be an adult

    Kiss Army
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am so glad to hear that others feel this way too! I thought it was just me.

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    Paul C.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well I'm 69, and I'm sure I'll feel like an adult soon.

    Mia Black
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely. And my mom is confused too that I was twenty a long long time ago. We still feel nothing had changed its that much since then. That be said, I am thankful that she rocks get daily tasks still with more power I will ever have. I fear the day she can't do all the stuff she is doing now... I don't know how she is doing that without bending the time and just being a strongwoman

    Sky Render
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most adults are just kids with extra responsibility tacked on. Kids just think they're something special because they boss them around.

    CD King
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m 52 and still feel too immature/ uninformed about a lot of thing

    Mike Crow
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Be mature at times and immature at others. The secret is knowing when.

    Em
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've felt like the adult my entire life.

    Jane Hower
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At 28, mother of a 10 hr old son and married 6 yrs I can say that is when I 'realized' I finally felt like an adult, a grown woman. Nice feeling.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? I'm 60 years old and honestly feel like I'm smarter than my 80 year old Mother - not because of technology (although I am the one she calls with problems. My brother has a degree in computer science, but he really talks down to her. DUDE? She taught you how to use a spoon 'k?). Anyway, maybe she's just gotten forgetful & I haven't noticed along the way. As my sister put it - Mom's "Wheel of Fortune" smart, but I'm "Jeopardy!" smart. But I STILL feel like I'm in 8th grade.

    EarthGrowl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah you do, around 50 you do.

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    #12

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Bullies don't always get their comeuppance. In fact, sometimes they achieve great things. Even the presidency.

    Floopydoopypoopy , Keira Burton Report

    Jeannie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of them go into law enforcement. The worst ones go into the military then law enforcement.

    DJR
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't see it that way. From what I can tell, the ex-military LEOs are there because the military never taught them any skill except carrying a gun for the governent. The rest of the LEOs are there because they were bullied as children and want payback on the world.

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    Papa
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want a bully to get his or her comeuppance, you need to provide it yourself. Don't wait for the universe to do it for you.

    Kiss Army
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sad that this is true and that he is trying to do it again... with so many other bullies supporting him.

    Captain McSmoot
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    2 years ago

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    President Joe Biden unfortunately is the only person the Democrats are backing for the next election; so, yes, it looks like indeed he's trying to do it again and with his various support bullies.

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    Roxy222uk
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At the end of the day the one thing you are in control of and responsible for is how **you** behave. How others behave towards you is outside of your control, how you respond to it is what shows the kind of person you really are.

    Jane Hower
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, even gay mustlim non -americans can get to be president!! EVEN with a trannny for a wife. Will wonders never cease!!! OH, maybe - a brain dead on in office now.

    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why I kicked the a*s of my bullies when I was in school. I paid them back a little karma, instilled them with fear of my very existence, and made them second-guess trying that s**t on someone else.

    Cjo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This basically the same as finding out that justice doesn't always happen, right doesn't always win, and karma is wishful thinking. In fact, one might say that one of the main benefits of religion is that because people see no justice in this world, they are hoping that there isn't where justice will be found. Maybe just some more wishful thinking?

    Poediddy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes Biden is kind of a bully isn't he!

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    #13

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Finding out that "reaching retirement" is about hitting a financial number and not reaching an age.

    LeeroyTC , hermaion Report

    Khavrinen
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Finding out that retirement is something I'll never come anywhere close to reaching.

    Funderthuck
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This!! I want to upvote this a million times. It's so true.

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    Kare Deter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My 'retirement plan' is to work until I drop dead since I can't afford to be without the health insurance. US citizen here, knowing I am one serious illness away from losing everything I have worked my entire life for.

    MotherofGuineaPigs
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll be working until noon on the day of my funeral..

    John Murphy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Id like to put "finding out that 22 yrs of active duty service retirement pay is 2,500 a month so you have to work another job for another 20 yrs"

    Robert T
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually age has a lot to do with it. In the UK you can't access your private pension until you reach 55 (possibly soon to become 57), and you don't get the state pension until about 67 (depending upon when you were born). For those without decent private or company pensions, it means you will have to work until 67, and even then, the state pension alone is not enough to live on.

    Cjo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The mistake in the OP is that they forget that "age" also factors into the "financial number". The way most people are hitting that "financial number" is by getting to the age where they can get access to their retirement money in one form or another.

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    Mental Liberals
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Work til yo drop - especially in the US!!

    Lou Cam
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The horror of realising that if you rent you'll never be able to afford to retire. Retirement is based on someone having no rent or mortgage left to pay.

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    #14

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Learning that two people can love each other more than anything in this world and still not be a good fit for a long term relationship. True and pure Love isn’t always enough

    anon , Nathan Dumlao Report

    Green Machine
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately, I'm living this reality at this very moment. Holy c**p it's hard.

    CatLady
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So much this. And realizing that a true love sometimes just isn't in the cards for you.

    UpQuarkDownQuark (he/hey you)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An ex-girlfriend and I were like this. We adored each other, couldn’t get enough of each other. But after a year and half of having absolutely nothing in common, and I mean nothing, we couldn’t sustain it. We broke up something like three times because we couldn’t stay away from each other, but eventually we moved on. If our interests and values had intersected even a little I would have married her.

    Kevin J. Henning
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is true and pure love anyway? Does it even exist or is it another lie that Disney told everyone.

    MotherofGuineaPigs
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd take a good friendship and mutual respect.

    Momo Skarsgård
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My reality right now, it really sucks.

    ROSESARERED
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's me and the love of my life, we have done alot of talking, never married maybe thankfully knew it wasnt quite enough...still very good friends thankfully, I'd do anything for him, and he for me ..😅but if any other women looked his way, my green eyed monster came to visit...we are in our 50s now, so that has calmed down

    Mental Liberals
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know, ask my latest ex...never did want a marriage...

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    #15

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real When you buy an 8-piece tupperware set, 4 of the pieces are lids.

    throwmeawaypoopy , Ello Report

    Multa Nocte
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did this last month. My own fault. I was buying a lot of them because we have little mousies invading our house as winter sets in (we live in the middle of an agricultural area in southwest France and are surrounded by corn, grape, wheat, and sunflower fields during growing time), so I grabbed several stacks of Tupperware without checking. I got the opposite - one set was all bottoms and no lids. However, the upside is that all the mice voted me "Queen of the Harvest" after that and threw a little party for me. 🐁 🥳 🐁 🎉🐁 (Edited for misspelling)

    Sue User
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The mice here in western usa hace been kniwn for chewing through plastic. I was looking for metal tins (thibg of the oast ) and had to buy glass. I hate when i see 10 oiece cookware set and 5 pieces are spatulas ans spoons. A spatula is not cookware.

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    Erin Ward
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And 2 aren't a size you'll ever use

    Sweet Taurus
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just found this out with my 24 piece set. Glad I didn't go with the 12 lol.

    The Original Bruno
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *When you buy an 8-piece set, somehow 23 of the pieces are lids.

    #16

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real That time period when your relationship switches and your parent looks to you for answers and advice, instead them being the one with all the answers.

    Smile_Terrible , Andrea Piacquadio Report

    devotedtodreams
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't mind this; my Mom has done so much for me, I'm always happy when I can help her in return, even if it's a little thing like showing her how to use an app. And I bet if Dad were still around, it'd be the same.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lost my Dad in 2014. Anything I can do for my Mom, I will. I know it's basically count down time.

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    Sharon Spike
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's definitely not that anyone minds giving parents advice and looking after them . It's seeing them deteriorating with age and /or disease and the fact they feel so unsure / confused of themselves. Definitely a privilege too.. .

    Tamra
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can confidently say that, after having my mother AND mother-in-law live with us, I cannot recommend it. Raising parents is hard.

    Brocken Blue
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh I feel this. Down to my soul I feel this. In fact, I’m pretty sure that half the reason I decided to have a kid earlier this year was because what nuisance can an infant diapers and tantrums be compared to adult ones? I’m already cleaning up human shït on the regular, so I might as well add some cute onesies to my laundry load. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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    Kiss Army
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband is an only child and we went through a period where we had to be "parents" to his parents at the end of their lives when his dad had dementia and his mom was in a nursing facility as well for several health issues, this was while we were also parenting our own child. Parenting on both ends was the hardest and most stressful time we ever went through in the 30 years we have been married.

    Lizz
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I need a hack for my MacBook ( my son in law is an IT-er )

    Stygtand
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a so. Of two wonderfull parents. Im damn proud when they ask me for advice. Just means they did a good job and i dint become a full blown maniac, just a part time maniac, like them. ;)

    Erin Ward
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And they don't listen to you!

    LapCat
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like when I got busted by my mom in 1996 for smoking cannabis, then fast forward to approx. 2016 when she called asking where she could find cannabis tinctures for my granny’s back pain.

    Jane Hower
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never really happened with me. I was in my 50's when they passed in their early 80's.

    Szzone
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or, when their answers start not applying to your life situation either because they're in a different mindset due to age, or because the world has changed. And then you realize... the younger generations are mostly still too young, the older generations are already set in their ways and looking back at a different version of the world, it comes down to you, YOU are the adult now.

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    #17

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Realizing organized religion is a bunch of nonsense

    jakoto0 , Guillaume Bleyer Report

    Nerenahd Dhaneren
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disorganised religion, on the other hand, is the sh£t, dude.

    Monkey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh but you can give your money to the church and go to heaven! And you can be a terrible person and do terrible things but you will be forgiven and go to heaven because you "believe." How the hell did this nonsense get traction and why aren't we allowed to laugh at it?

    FranklySpeaking
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know about you, but I've been laughing out loud at religion most of my life.

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish organized religion was as harmless as a bunch of nonsense. But God knows it isn't.

    fluffyacat
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know, I realized this when I was 8 or 9. Once you realize Santa isn't real all of the other nonsensical mythical figures should fall into place.

    Mathieu Brouwers
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just after Columbus many European countries sailed the seas and concurred as many colonies as possible. The ships wrote down which islands and countries they visited and which religions they found. In the ship logs there isn´t a inhabitant place without a form of religion. Conclusions following Darwins theories: "Religion is good for mankind" and "The gods didn´t create the people, but the people created their gods".

    Robin Childers
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't hold a bunch of imperfect people up to a perfect standard and expect not to be let down.

    Maggie Mae
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is Also Held in Buildings Built by MAN Not GOD!! Same with the BIBLE Written by MEN not GOD!!! God is Everwhere except where the Corrupt Claim him to be!!

    David Shaw
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Organized religion has *nothing* to do with faith or belief. It is *all* about power and control.

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    #18

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real One dumb mistake and it could all be over.

    Raan6969 , Jaromír Kavan Report

    Nerenahd Dhaneren
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's what my wife tells me when it's my turn to put the kids to bed.

    Kiss Army
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We're putting my brother to rest tomorrow... it wasn't even his dumb mistake. It was a complication during a very routine surgery.

    Diolla
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I hate driving. You can be dead in 30 seconds.

    Kayla Albert
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep! Someone's dumb mistake to miss a stop sign and t bone us has set us back years! We both had jobs cars and a plan for babies and work! One day took it away the car the plan for work and luckily still got the babies but not as financially secure as we were before that happened!

    Erik Ivan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In traffic, always make sure you have a safe car. Had I taken me and my wifes almost new Volvo that day in 2000, I would not live woth chronic pain today. Instead I took my old dads beat up Nissan. I didn't want dad to sit in our shiny Volvo with his dirty coverall. I had a front to front crash...

    Jared Robinson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    doesn't even have to be your mistake. 4000 people die a day in car accidents.

    BJ Hage
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "We are all one bad decision away from sh.....g in a bucket.". (the cleaner guy on Hoarders)

    Szzone
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For real. One unlucky split-second decision on the highway, one time I don't look before I start running to catch the bus, and it could all end right there, inna second. It terrifies me from time to time. Maybe that's because I'm past 30 now. Also I look back some of the things I did when I was a teenager/early twenties and a shiver runs down my back. One example: We were drunk, this girl climbed on the cables of a bridge over a river, she kinda dared me to climb after her. She was pretty. We made out. The cables were wide and easily climbable, they were holding a huge a*s bridge, five people could easily sit on them in the middle section. But man. That was not smart.

    EarthGrowl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've driven 2 million miles and the only thing I've ever hit are a few poles in a parking lot when I was a rookie. I have an advantage, driving a truck is like driving down the road setting on top of an SUV. I can see everything. The best advice for someone driving a car, keep your eyes on the road, leave space between you and the car ahead of you, always look for an escape route, take evasive action don't just brace for impact. Don't pass trucks on the right, the passenger side of a truck is a blind spot. if you find yourself riding beside a truck hit the gas and MOVE. If you are on an American Interstate, watch the entrance and exit ramps. If a vehicle is on the ramp and a truck is passing that ramp, get out of the trucks way so they can change lanes to let traffic enter the roadway. Don't ride beside Trucks, don't ride beside trucks. You can go faster than that truck. Move. A truck traveling 60 mph needs the length of of an American football field to come to stop.

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Memo to self: Only commit smart mistakes. Nobel Prize winning mistakes, if possible.

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    #19

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real The average salary does not go up equivalent to the inflation rate.

    Mattemattics117 Report

    General Anaesthesia
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's been that way since Saint Ronnie Reagan in the US. Except for the C-suite, which went from 40 times the lowest wage to 400 times the lowest wage, partly thanks to government sanctioned union busting.

    Elio
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's trickle up economics, not trickle down. A fun story, Reagan once helped my Dad win money by betting on horses. My Dad bet on a horse named "The Great Comunicator", which was a nickname for Reagan. My Dad said that he always thought Reagan was a horse's a$$ and the horse ended up winning.

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    DB
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually my salary went up higher than the inflation rate several times. From 1981 to 1988, 1992 to 2000 and 2016 to 2020.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Neither does the average CEO salary. It goes up much more (contributing to the general inflation).

    Jane Hower
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And it won't as long as you keep voting in those stupid lib/tard/commie dems.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? I remember when raises were equal to the cost of living. I got almost 8% one year (late 90s or so).

    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Minimum wage in the 1950s was about the same as $12 an hour today in the USA. The current minimum wage is $7.25 an hour. There are still a lot of companies who think paying $12 an hour is "too much". A LIVING wage, however, varies but is about $25 an hour now. This means you're going to have to make $25 an hour and work 40 hours a week to be able to afford reasonable things like buying a home, buying a car, being able to buy healthy food, raising a family, and doing more than just working, eating, and sleeping. The $15 an hour fight has taken so long that now we need $25.

    Phil Potter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe in Murica. My countries doing great.$22.50 an hour minimum wage

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    #20

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real That the world doesn't stop when someone you love and need dies.

    thiccdaddyroadhog , Brett Sayles Report

    Trainingfortheballetpotteh🇺🇦
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The hardest point of my life so far was when i was 8. My dad died, and my mom couldent take care of me and my little brother for a few months. I stayed with my grandparents, and my little brother stayed with my other grandparents. I started going to a new school, with everyone speacking in a language i knew only a little. It was super hard to deal with greif. And for everyone else, life goes on. No one knows what youre going through.

    Deborah Rubin
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't matter how long, sometimes it hurts forever.

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    Kiss Army
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother passed away October 9, 2023 and I am still feeling this in a big way. I lost may dad ten years ago on October 10, 2013 and I was only just starting to feel "normal" again when this happened. When I see people laughing and happy and carrying on like normal, I feel like yelling at them that it is not right...

    Samantha Smith
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am so sorry for your losses. I hope your heart begins to start to heal again in time, although I understand there will always be a void. Sending hugs.

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    Chrille
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop all the clocks... the saddest poem.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The world doesn't stop - but your world may.

    devotedtodreams
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like in that beautiful song by Skeeter Davis, "The End of the World *sniff*

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    #21

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Finding out people without empathy exist. And they are hard to pin down - even after many years of exposure to them.

    Sweet_Chance_5592 , Paweł L. Report

    Multa Nocte
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly enough, this doesn't mean they are devoid of charm and therefore can do a LOT of damage.

    Robert T
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of them even run for president....

    Ranger Kanootsen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey - I am one of these people. There's always a negative stigma around us. Majority of us aren't monsters, serial killers, or manipulators. I'm just living my life like the rest of you are, I shouldn't be condemned for something I can't change.

    P.A. Yearsley
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. Due to severe childhood abuse I am as an adult unable to emphasize. I'm a normal person just out here living my very boring life.

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want to find out if someone is without empathy, ask them their political and religious views.

    Ranger Kanootsen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, not true. You can't tell the level of empathy from just those things. NOT ALL PEOPLE FEEL EMPATHY. I am one of these people. A huge majority of us aren't bad people. Stop perpetuating this stereotype, because it just makes people hate us more.

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    Jon Steensen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yep especially those who are intelligent enough to convincingly faking it can be hard to spot, and hence they can do a lot of damage in the meantime.

    CD King
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A bit off topic but more and more I’m beginning to think that there are NPC (None playable characters) in this world….. I’m not absolutely sure I’m not one but I don’t think so

    Rodney Bowie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd toss in that actions done or statements made with an empathetic goal can be misinterpreted, even accidentally, and ultimately achieve the opposite effect: that harm was the intent.

    Maggie Mae
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some Can be Found right in Your Own Family Circle too!!

    Ralph Watkins
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People tend to be fooled by those who cry, weep, & even find Jesus despite being stone cold psychopaths. They are that manipulative & charming. Many go very far in life too. I can think of two presidents we have had in recent times. One blatant & one handsome & eloquent.

    KathyT
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they weren't charming they'd have no power.

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    #22

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real When I was a kid I thought adults had everything figured out and couldn’t wait to grow up so I could be like them. HAH.

    Yoga_and_Cats , Simon Abrams Report

    MotherofGuineaPigs
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Adulting is paying the electric bill and being tired all the time.

    Jane Hower
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That one gave me a chuckle!! So true

    EarthGrowl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the secret. Everyone is just making it up as they go. Even our world leaders. They can try to use the past as a guideline but history is full of lies and the people in the past may have covered up problems.

    FranklySpeaking
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was old enough I realized that the only thing the adults had "figured out" was how to bull$hit everyone else that they had everything figured out.

    Andy Frobig
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For better or worse, I was never under that impression

    Monkey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The saddest thing for me was the day I realized my parents don't know what they are talking about. The older I get the more ignorant I realize my mother is. She has zero concept of math, does not understand anything at all about finance or APR or FICO or anything. She keeps claiming bankruptcy over and over again. I could go on but the realization was a shock and it is like a never ending discovery of "are you living under a rock?"

    Jared Robinson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look at that pilot I bet he doesn't sleep when he's flying his plane or nothing. How wrong we were.

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a kid I thought adults knew nothing and couldn’t wait to escape their control.

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    #23

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Recycling is, for the most part, a scam by corporations to move the physical and emotional weight of dealing with the harm their packaging causes off them and on to you.

    FidgitForgotHisL-P , Lisa Fotios Report

    quentariel
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No it's not. Is it what the corporations are trying to do, yes. But still every little act matters. It also depends a lot of the country's recycling infrasturucture. If recycling is made easier, much more people do it. And if bigger amount of people recycle, there are better ways to develop the whole industry. We have every kind of recycling bins in every single apartment complex in the cities, and close in other parts too, so it's just a everyday normal thing to recycle for us. It should be made as easy everywhere.

    Jared Robinson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    look into it.almost 95% of what is "recycled" is packaged up and shipped off for other countries to burn

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    LadySparre
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. In Scandinavia recycling actually means recycling. In the private household we're currently sorting our waste in 6-9 categories depending on local rules. In industry we're at my company currently sorting in 17 categories.that are being for the most part sold.

    Anna Drever
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What I don’t understand, and yes I do but I’m trying to make a point, is why if only certain plastics are allowed to be recycled then why in the heck are the ones that can’t be recycled allowed in shops in the first place. Change the packaging!

    LovingKnuckle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reuse. The amount of plastic recycled globally is about 9%

    Nichole Harris
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the US, it frequently winds up in the same landfill as the trash 🤣

    Jane Hower
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It can work, but only with a few selected items and expercting the population at large to do it right is STUPID. Only large office buildings/corportaions can do it right because they can HIRE someone to make sure it's don't right - only paper here, plastic there, etec. When someone's job is on the line, it can be done right. But 'people' in general are stupid and lazy - makes for a very messy recycle bin and way to expensive to get that stuff sorted and sent to the right plants.

    Phil Potter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My local council has an awesome recycling programme.

    Erik Ivan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is law in a fair number of countries nowadays.

    Austin L
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This mostly applies to plastic and glass; glass because the sand that makes glass isn't rare. Metals can and should be recycled indefinitely.

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    #24

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Working full time and being too drained to chase your actual dream

    Blind_Wolf , Ephraim Mayrena Report

    Kare Deter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dream kept getting downsized until it became more a figment of my imagination.

    Erik Ivan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some dreams can come true: I mean, I always dream of cuddling my own dog. And that is exactly what I have done for almost every day of my 51 years on this earth.

    Anouk Badwolf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Make your dream your work. It's another level of nightmare but still more fulfilling

    Sky Render
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I made my dream happen before I got too entrenched in work. Only to realize later that the books I wrote were not that good. Oh well.

    Flora Wolfe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't worry, you get to the point that the dream has faded and your soul has been crushed and you are just going through the motions because what else is there to do? I actually told someone once about how it would be more fulfilling to smoke crack under a bridge than work for them.

    Max Fox
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most people don't achieve their dreams because they never had the ability to do so from the get go.

    Danny Trejo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats the plan, keep the people busy and exhausted so they cant do anything else

    #25

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Churches are businesses that collect tax free money and provide very few actual services with it.

    costabius , David Besh Report

    trevor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They help prevent the poor from killing the rich.

    FranklySpeaking
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Religion: The original and longest-lasting scam in history.

    CAL
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All money a church receives is 100% voluntary. I wonder what services the OP would want the church to provide? Many provide food pantries for their local neighborhood, divorce care, addiction programs, counseling, grief counseling, to name some. On top of this, many churches also provide funds for some type of humanitarian efforts locally and/or abroad. This is apart from providing an environment for the members to gather and practice their faith together, something most find meaningful if they're participating in it. This post inflames more than it informs.

    Monkey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They spend the money on buying politicians. The church is just a tax fee mafia that uses brainwashing and manipulation to control people into giving their money and loyalty and letting the church tell them what they believe and who to vote for.

    Szzone
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, depends on the church.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was really saddened when Notre Dame Cathedral burnt. BUT - the Catholic Church had the gall to start a "Go Fund ME" campaign? You bastards have more money than any other institution on the planet. WTF???

    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most churches have a somewhat hidden piece of paper or series of papers that you can request to see showing what they spend money on. One local church paid their pastor $45,000 a year about a decade ago and they literally only had to work three days a week.

    Ralph Watkins
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many charities are like this too.. From BLM to Wounded Warriors have been found to use donations on themselves.

    EarthGrowl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone who wants to try to create a peaceful world should run screaming from the religions of Abraham. Any religion that gives you a divine right to kill is a failed religion.

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    #26

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Discovering that you can pay 1700.00/mth rent, but can’t get a 1500/month mortgage

    bigyack , Ketut Subiyanto Report

    iseefractals
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not just a $1500 a month mortgage though. It's property taxes, and insurance, and all the other higher taxes that go along with owning a home. If your roof needs to be replaced, or your pipes burst, you don't get to call the landlord and say "fix it" you've got have the thousands or 10's of thousands on hand to do the repair yourself.

    Spittnimage
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or good credit to get a loan or have a credit card with a high limit.

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    Beachbum
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This drives me insane! And you can't save for a down payment while paying rent...

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha! We moved to Springfield, Oregon in March of 2022 and it was actually cheaper for us to BUY a condo than rent one. A dumpy 2 bed/2 bath apartment was $2400

    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Banks will literally deny you a $800 a month mortgage even if you have been paying $1500 a month in rent for literally years.

    Max Fox
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another person who does not understand "mortgage". The bank wants to know that you will be able to keep on paying $1,500 a month for the next 30 years. The landlord just cares that you have $1,700 a month for the next few months. Those are two very different financial situations.

    Lizz
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You need to be under 30 and have 100.000€ saved before you are deemed eligible to buy property here. After 30 you need a medical certificate to guarantee you will live long enough to pay off your mortgage.

    BrownTabby
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will give grudging props to my country’s banks for that one, and if you look at the interest rates, you’ll understand why. I’m not letting them off the hook for their complicity in WHY the economy is the way it is, but I will acknowledge the fact that at least they didn’t sign me up for a mortgage that I would have ended up being foreclosed on when the interest rates skyrocketed.

    Rupp
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you get an adjustable rate mortgage...?

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    #27

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real The b******t of health insurance

    untouchable_0 , Gustavo Fring Report

    Nerenahd Dhaneren
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The basement of health insurance? Wait. What about it? 🤔

    BrownTabby
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People go to the morgue there because of the extortionate pricing of healthcare

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    Phil Potter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never paid a cent for hospital stays or medication. And my doctor is $19.50 a visit with free prescriptions. Americas a joke

    Limey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    …and the people that vote for the people who are getting financial support from the “healthcare industry” are the very ones who are most vulnerable to the abomination that is US healthcare. And btw for those non US people reading this, our politicians get free healthcare… for life. The people that won’t let the rest of us have it, have it. For life.

    John Dilligaf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The b******t of health insurance - in the United States. Other advanced civilized countries don't have that problem.

    Donkey boi
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend (from New Orleans) showed me his old policy. Then I showed him that I have better cover for my dog here in the UK.

    FranklySpeaking
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For-profit healthcare is a cruel abomination. The U.S. Constitution guarantees the right to "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness," but without the first nothing else matters. For-profit healthcare companies should be outlawed.

    John Dilligaf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    U.S. Constitution does not guarantee anything of the sort.

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    Momo Skarsgård
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    USA sucks!! Just lost my health insurance and have no way of getting my seizures meds. Tried to get some/any help available alls I've gotten is, "sorry we can't help you." Even the "discount cards" are a whole lot of horse shet.

    M
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope you're not on Aptiom. That sht is thousands of dollars a month.

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    Bruce Bardini
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been dealing with cancer for 15 years. Every year, my health insurance out-of-pocket expense is $7,500.00. That's $112,500.00 that I don't have. I still have life insurance, and sometimes feel that my spouse would be better off if I died.

    Tamra
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry, Bruce. It's appalling that our government allows this to happen to so many people.

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    Justine Ludeman
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have been ashamed to be an american for a very long time now. The joke of our "health-care " system is only a grain of sand of disgust I feel for this not do great nation. America is garbage. Out forefathers should be so proud!

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    #28

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real $500 isn't a lot of money

    ThingFromEarth , Jp Valery Report

    The Scout
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is, if you have to spend it on bare necessities.

    Nice Mom Jeans
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's not a lot of money when you own it, but it IS a lot of money when you owe it.

    Khall Khall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An older bp post said it best. $1000 is a lot of money to owe but not a lot of money to have.

    CD King
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A million dollars doesn’t seem to be a lot of money these days

    Robert T
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    $1,000,000 isn't a lot of money. When you look at some of the things that were built in the past - stately homes, skyscrapers, monuments, $1m wouldn't get you the plans to build them these days.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So would you Venmo me $500? After all, it's not a lot of money.

    WindySwede
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depents on, if you get $500 (USD) per hour for a good work. Or this is what you make in a month. Or...

    BlindAres
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe to you. Go be homeless for a large stretch and see if you don't have a better outlook about money in general.

    Nichole Harris
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was homeless for over 5 years and I respectfully disagree.... While I still appreciate it $500 doesn't go far.... But it does take care of my weekly needs 😁 but praise God I haven't got rent (homeowner now) or my lil household would tank

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    Szzone
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is if it's a sudden unforeseen cost like car repair or your heating breaks down, or a number of other things. Since 2021, it feels like you're always a month away from being able to start saving again, it's always next month, it's just always a couple more unforeseen things. And then you go and buy two new shirts and a pair of pants and on a whim, you throw in a set of new socks and you feel guilty like that's the reason why you can't save up that month.

    Flora Wolfe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was when I was a kid. That was a solid months rent plus groceries. Now? I used to joke with people about "if only I could figure out a way to get a million people to give me a dollar", but I can't do that anymore since a million dollars isn't really that much anymore.

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    #29

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real I thought I'd grow up, move out, find my footing in the grown up world and basically switch into cruise mode. Now I'm in my 40s and s**t is confusing as f**k.

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    Claudia Gotthardt
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, in my 40s as well and still wondering when the tutorial will be over.

    Phil N DeBlanc
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait until you hit 60. It's all that but then you realize that now you're closer to death than your 20's.

    Maggie Mae
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my Mid Sixties & still Find it Confusing and Overwhelming!!

    Philly Bob Squires
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    Premium
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you finally learn to read the map, they move the roads!

    Szzone
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not good news. I'm in my 30s. I constantly tell myself "it's okay I got this... don't worry you're fine" but of course I still constantly stress over everything and am constantly confused about how to find the answers.

    Flora Wolfe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There seriously needs to be a sort of "how to manual to life" that is free and constantly updated. Religion is NOT such a thing either. I mean, tell me how the hell to make a lot of money, how to buy a house, how to find love, how to f*****g live with some sort of calm and peace.

    Thomas Helms
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Near 40 and have no idea what I want to be when I grow up. Some of my highschool classmates knew they wanted to be lawyers or doctors and have achieved such; I consider myself fortunate to making some sort of a living.

    Khall Khall
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't worry it gets worse when you hit your 50s.

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    #30

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Finding out that your parents are people, too, with weaknesses or flaws that you were blind to when you were young.

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    devotedtodreams
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really? We knew that long before we were adults. My parents also never adressed each other as "Mom" or "Dad" (or even many pet names like "dear", at least not that we heard) - they wanted us to know their real names and that they had had their own lives before us and still did, to an extent. I know they were never perfect, but they didn't have to be - I would not want any other parents than them ♥

    CD King
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You never know your parents as actual people. My friend,who I have know for 41 year, has two 20 something daughters who will never know her as a the person I know.

    DC
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really? I knew a lot of my parents' shortcomings since ... since I can remember.

    Michael None
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would also add to this "seeing that your own children see you as flawless." It's equally terrifying to be on the other end.

    EarthGrowl
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most people have children in their 20's. The person they were at that time isn't the person they will be in their 50's. Especially guys. Give those run away parents a chance.

    Hippopotamuses
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me, this was probably the hardest lesson.

    Mental Liberals
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't tell my ex! her mom mentally & verbally abused for for 60 years! However, she will not see or admit it! Not my problem!

    Clarissa
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Except that it is your problem because it has adversely affected your wife, impacts how she see the world, how she reacts to things....

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    #31

    As a millenial, I was raised to believe that going to college and getting a degree would guarantee me a good future job that would allow me to live comfortably 🥲

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    Erdot
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *chuckles in poor with a PhD*

    Dumpster Fire
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *chuckles in poor with 2 masters degree from the high school classroom I teach in* I feel your pain, Erdot.

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    Wysteria_Rose
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. Went and go my bachelor's (because any degree "guaranteed" a job!), and didn't get anything. Went and obtained my Master's and now can't find a job in that field at all (and I apply wherever something appears). I'm beginning to think I need to see about a different field of work entirely.

    Linds
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trade school/apprenticeships are either lower cost or free and we NEED tradespeople! I'm a massage therapist w/ a BA degree in business admin and I make way more doing massage. Also way less stressful.

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    Donkey boi
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still think Apprenticeships are the way forward. Sure, there's still no guarantee, but someone that hires an apprentice does so because they usually need the help, so there is a much higher chance of securing the job when you qualify.

    Jeannie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot depends on your major. Art not so much. Engineer more likely. However, two incomes are most often needed.

    Jane Hower
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A push by the liberal a*****e lefestists in the country. Trades are a better choice.

    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was pounded into my head. Mental health kept me from going that path. I am no better off than those with degrees except I have no debt lol.

    Irene Bucior
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lesson #1, There are no guarantees.

    Captain McSmoot
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When everyone is told this and a huge chunk of the population actually does it, there aren't enough jobs to go around. Now it's all trade-based jobs...until a huge chunk does it and fills all the trade jobs. If the U.S. would stop farming out nearly everything to other countries, we'd have enough jobs for our people. People would have to pay more for some things, but at least they'd have money to pay...even though I'm not too sure they'd have to pay more and paying more is a scare tactic. A lot of things were Made in America decades ago and they weren't paying out the whazoo for everything.

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    #32

    That working harder does not equal getting paid more or being promoted.

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Working harder usually means working harder and longer.

    Sven Horlemann
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The more useful you are, the lesser the interest of anyone to have you move to another position. I was told that in an interview. "Yes, we know you are qualified becomin team lead. But who would be doing yours? We need 2, maybe 3 people to do what you do. We do not have the budget for that".

    Philly Bob Squires
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It equals more work for the same pay, someone getting fired and the stock holders getting richer.

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    #33

    Realizing you'll probably never have the, "aha," moment that tells you what you want to do with your life and you'd better just pick the least depressing choice.

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    Nerenahd Dhaneren
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My A-ha moment was in the 80s...I didn't think it would Take on Me, but it did.

    Flora Wolfe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here's the secret: pick something, anything, roll with it. If you change your mind, that is fine too. Roll with the new path. Eventually, you will find yourself doing what you enjoy. If not, at least you tried.

    fluffyacat
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My a-ha moment was that there will never be an a-ha moment for me for a career. Once something becomes work, it's ruined.

    Tracy Wallick
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't have an 'aha' moment, more of a gradual realization.

    Kristal
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The aha moment does exist though. I had it .. a bit late but still came, nonetheless.

    #34

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real For me it was realizing the high school mindset in people never ends see it in 60 yr olds in Facebook now

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    #35

    That your boss probably didn't get where they are because they did your job well.

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    Donkey boi
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Modern workplace hierarchy is more akin to 18th century military. It's rare that someone will be raised from the ranks.

    Austin L
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. Work right now the management qualification is whoever "looks right". Objectives do not matter, only maintaining the facade.

    FranklySpeaking
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the corporate world one rises to their own level of incompetence and remains there.

    fluffyacat
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The president of my company did "work" his way up from the bottom, but he did it by being a politician, not bc he was good (or even competent) at his jobs. Totally feckless yes-man whose opinion, if there's one at all, changes to whichever way the wind is blowing , regardless of how wrong it is (morally or business-decision).

    BJ Hage
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup his footprints sre all over my back

    Maggie Mae
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But The Billionaires CLAIM THEY MADE IT ALL BY THEMSELVES!!

    Ralph Watkins
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the Army we had a saying: Screw up & move up. Too many people who could not do the job they were trained to do. They would make up something to excel at, get promoted, & then be put in charge of people who were good at their job. So many conflicts from that.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My last principal was put in place to punish the faculty. No degrees in education, no professional licenses, no experience. And it was much worse than I could ever have imagined.

    Papa
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In some cases that's true, but not all. I've seen competence and good decision-making pay off for people. By the way, I'm not a manager.

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    #36

    Finding out police don't have to help

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    quentariel
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the country. (Which in not the way it's supposed to be)

    Sand Ers
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then finding out that they're mostly just violent gangs with an official mandate, and illegitimate immunity from being held accountable.

    DJR
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously. "Governent" is just a fancy word that means "the most powerful gang in the region". ...which is why the concept of anarchy is dumb. The government will just be the dude with the most armed friends.

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    FranklySpeaking
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the U.S. the origins of policing began with slave patrols. Enough said.

    Mental Liberals
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    US - correct. they are not required to assist. Only required to lie and get and use whatever they can...

    Jane Hower
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus knowing that when you NEED help in seconds, you 'might' get police in minutes. Better to have a gun and not need it, that to need it and not have it. Protect you and your family YOURSELF!!!!

    jmdirks
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Liberal places like NYC are cutting the police budget. So what is it you are expecting???

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have nothing but the utmost respect for the police, more specifically the King County Sheriffs of SW King County (Seattle). My ex stalked and harassed me for over a year. They did everything they could to catch that MF, but he always managed to slip away just SECONDS before they arrived. He (the ex) was stupid enough to leave a death threat against me and my two children ON MY VOICEMAIL and my caller ID showed that he had called from his parents house. Yeah, they were finally able to arrest him. He went to jail for a year or so. In the meantime, we moved.

    Maggie Mae
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SOMETIMES THEY CREATE MORE HARM!!

    Flora Wolfe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, protect and serve in the USA is basically fluff. Sure, most police will come to your aid, but they will get into absolutely zero trouble if they don't.

    Diolla
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or even worse, they might decline to act because the situation is dangerous and leave ppl to their own devices. Happens over here.

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    #37

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real That going to college and getting a 9-5 wasn’t going to be the fun, creative, latte-filled experience rom coms would have you believe.

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    LooseSeal's $10 Banana
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having worked blue collar and white collar, I can say definitively that blue collar is a hell of a lot more fun and fulfilling.

    Luke Branwen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's because 9-5 five times a week is too damn much. If people worked less, they'd work with much more zeal.

    I just work here
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those are nice chairs. Where I work, a hospital, our chairs are 15+ years old and thrashed beyond comprehension. They care about us :)

    Mental Liberals
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    2 years ago

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    Trade school!! Stay out of the US communist indoctrination centers

    #38

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Finally owning a house, then realising you now have to go through the effort and expense of maintaining it. It's great you've got a house for 100k, now enjoy saving and spending at least half that to stop it crumbling, leaking or falling down over the next decades.

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A house for 100k??? Couldn't find a shed for that in the UK.

    RedRose
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100k??????????? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Flora Wolfe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Used mobile homes either on a private piece of land, a private rented lot, or in a park is the only real way to go now days. I paid $1,000 cash for my older mobile home about a decade ago. It's on a private rented lot. My total housing expenses is 1/4 of the cheapest apartment rent or mortgage in the area. Is it classy? Not at all. But, it's cheap. Being a smaller home of simpler design, repairs are also cheaper and easier than with a house. Put back a few grand in case you ever have to move. I have maybe $5,000 in my mobile home in total (cost plus repairs plus renovation).

    Cjo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Buy a house new, all your money goes into the mortgage payment and other fees. Buy a house used, all your money goes into fixing things.

    Norm Gilmore
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Follow my example. If you wait long enough the paint falls off by itself...🤣

    BJ Hage
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup! Financially, your home is a liability not an asset.

    Maggie Mae
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Houses Near me Starting at $2.5 Million and 1/4 Acre Property $850,000.00 Now!!!

    Maggie Mae
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Finally Good for the Next Forty + Years Now!!

    I just work here
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    AHAHAHA, 100K??? Did you buy that from a crackerjack box?

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    #39

    Working hard will get you advancement in the company. In reality, being a hard worker keeps you exactly where you are. Management will keep you churning out the good work you do without ever paying you any more than they do, and it make them look good.

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    Aidan Campbell
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Keep up the good work" - Not praise but a requirement.

    FranklySpeaking
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Take your hard-earned ability and experience and go somewhere they WILL be rewarded. Those places are out there, you just have to find them.

    Austin L
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is why so many are against remote work. I say let's expose the real dead weight in business: too many and/or incompetent managers that are protected by the rest of them!

    Maggie Mae
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Makes them Feel Special when they SIT in their Counting Houses Counting out their Billions!!

    Dekker451
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you've got a connection like a friend or relative who can put in a good word for you (or better yet, with direct control over hiring), usually your best bet for moving up is moving out too.

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    #40

    A bachelor’s degree is not a coupon redeemable for one (1) full-time job in your field of choice after graduation.

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    trevor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The old joke.... What did one bachelor’s degree holder say to the other bachelor’s degree holder..." would you like fries with that " 😉

    Ralph Watkins
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A college buddy of mine got a BS in Psych. She gets a job working with young special needs adults. Her first job she was handed a diaper & some baby wipes. That was going to be her job.

    Cjo
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the things I think people miss is that companies hire people to do the jobs they need done. Not to put certificates on a wall. In the cases where a degree is needed for the job, then certainly it helps/is required. But if you go out and get a degree for something that no one has need for, you aren't going to that "promised job". And note what jobs need to be done change over time and location.

    Steven
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It varies, depending on the major field of study!

    Jeannie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    May not be a good choice.

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    #41

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real When you finish eating your dinner and there is no magical person to wash the dishes and you have to wash them yourself.

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    Paul C.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A dishwasher....Oh, you mean my wife! It's a joke! Step away from the downvote.😺Look I've even paid a cat tax.

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    Captain McSmoot
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Growing up and even now, I was and am that "magical person".

    Me, Myself, and I
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too so I have a deal with my husband. I shop and cook, he cleans. I don't like cooking either but Oh Well.

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    Fluffy Vegan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why can't we invent a massive dishwashing machine that actually works? I have had 2 hand surgeries because I wash dishes for my family of 4 and we don't eat out much. Need another surgery soon. My hands are ruined

    Roxy222uk
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is no magical person that does anything. If I'm struggling to do something I just literally have to keep going until I achieve it, because no one else is going to step in and help.

    Papa
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    . . . and exactly how old were you when you figured that out?

    Maggie Mae
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I Love the Time Washing Dishes That is my Relaxation Zen Time!!

    Philly Bob Squires
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why my cats are drinking their milk from shotglasses and I'm using old butter tubs for cereal.

    Flora Wolfe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mechanical dishwasher if middle class. Human dishwasher is affordable. Get off your lazy a*s if broke like me.

    CanadianDimes
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *I* am the magical person who does my dishes. Morning me is always very grateful that evening me did them and the kitchen is nice and clean. No one else is going to do this for me, so I might as well be awesome to myself and do it for me!

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    #42

    Finding out your partner doesn't love you anymore, but just has high anxiety about leaving you.

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    parvus.maximus
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am that partner right now 🫣

    troufaki13
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not fair for either of you... Just take a deep breath and do it. It would be so much better in the long run

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    Mental Liberals
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex...love is not enough. Never wanted a marriage, just an activity buddy...I'm flawed, she's perfect...oh well!

    Leesa DeAndrea
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or that we are better off financially if we stay married.

    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Finding out your partner doesn't love you while on your death bed at Christmas, breaking it off with them only to have them then show up less than 24 hours later with a replacement for you. It wouldn't have been hard at all for them to just be truthful instead of expending so much energy in lies and deception. I was literally on the verge of death in the hospital and they wouldn't even come for a visit or call or anything. Even the doctors were mad at them.

    I just work here
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or never really did and was just using you. That causes long term damage. If you can't trust the person who supposedly loves you, who can you trust?

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    #43

    Spending time trying to understand why something happened often doesn't lead to answers, and can only prolong your healing process. Sometimes "closure" is moving forward and not ruminating or trying to figure out why.

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    Fee
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In life there is no such thing as "closure". Things just hurt less as time passes.

    Em
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They don't even do that, they just hurt from further away.

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    CT
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For too long, I've been ruminating a lot about everything and dreaming of "closure." I'm not there yet, but I'm working on it

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Closure" for me has always been "I can't think about that any more because I have something worse to worry about now."

    CatLady
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially after a breakup.

    cryssH
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This needs to be higher. Been there, did that - it works.

    Maggie Mae
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Closure is a Hollywood Sayuing Not a Reality!!! Their is NO CLOSURE while you are Alive & Living in ANYTHING!! ENDINGS YES ...CLOSURE NO!!

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    #44

    That there are no *adults*. Everyone's just doing their best

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    Nerenahd Dhaneren
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No adults, just teenagers pretending to be elders. Or elfs, I don't remember.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If everyone was doing their best, things would be a lot better than they are.

    EarthGrowl
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are people who have been around the block a few times and seen that the world moves in cycles. It's a constant struggle to inform the younger generations. The uproar over Israel and Palestine? They've been killing each other for 75 years. There is nothing else in their lives but the battle. They will never stop. Getting bent out of shape about it isn't going to make it stop. We have disease outbreaks and ecological disasters. When a problem threatens humanity, necessity is the mother of invention. Things people don't consider. Large oil deposits under the Earth's crust are a planetary hazard. Magma and oil are a bad combination. For the last 500 years the 2nd and 3rd decades of a new century have been times of rapid change. We started using oil in the 1920's and 30's and we will stop using oil in the 2020's and 30's. Young people have a huge burden to educate themselves about the past while learning to live in a technologically advanced civilization.

    DC
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being adult means that you are no longer restricted in the means you can use to eff up.

    #45

    There is no justice, no peace, and there never was

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is some, how else would the illusion maintain itself?

    Liz the Wanderer
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one has been the hardest for me.. Disney did not prepare me for reality!

    Mental Liberals
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You need to create your own inner peace...Let the world around you rotate and ignore what you can.

    trevor
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you are an Elite.

    Steven
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Peace and Justice are ideals and the stuff of dreamers and young people. Not to be confused with reality!

    FranklySpeaking
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like everything else that's worth having ya gotta work for it.

    #46

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Christmas Bonuses almost NEVER exist. Worse fantasy than the clause...

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    pep Ito
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Spain we have the “ Paga extra de Navidad “ (Christmas bonus), which is a payment of the same amount as your monthly salary and is paid before Christmas. We also have a “paga extra de verano” summer bonus, which is paid before the summer vacation and is the same amount. If your job includes a variable salary according to your objective, you have an additional extra pay that is a percentage of your salary or a fixed amount determined in your contract.

    fluffyacat
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yet another way life in Europe is better than the US.

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    OogieBoogie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Christmas bonus, taxman rubs hands 'Yoink !'

    Cjo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this one refers mostly to the US, and if that is the case, then this is something that has changed over time, but the "belief" that it still exists hasn't. It is like before my generation pensions were the norm, but they were phased out for "retirement accounts". I think the same is true of the "Christmas bonus". They haven't really been around since 60s.

    LovingKnuckle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But what about my subscription to the jelly of the month club?

    I just work here
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do get a year end bonus, but you have to have worked there I want to say at least 5 years?

    JJ
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    2 years ago

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    #47

    Having to pay tax instead of getting a tax return. First time this happened to me as a teenager shattered my heart. I had so many plans!

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    frederick clause
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that's great. It means I've had the governments money for a year instead of them having mine.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I worked for the IRS, I respected people like you. The only way to play the game.

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    DB
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First time this happened to me a Democrat president was in office. In fact, every time this happened to me a Democrat president was in office. Weird.

    Cjo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe all these people that are complaining about getting an interest free loan from the government. People a refund is when you give the government an interest free loan. As long as you don't have to pay a penalty, you paying taxes at the end of the year, you giving them what you owe them. You aren't paying "extra".

    Cjo
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Calculating the taxes (at least in the US is complicated) and as such that is why you don't know the final number until you to file your taxes, but that number doesn't go up or down depending if you get a refund or not, or pay more in. It is the same number. Let's say that number is $5,000, and you give the government $4,000 in the year, you need to pay $1,000. If you pay them $6,000 then they give you refund of $1,000. One should strive to have to pay the most to the government at the end of the year, provided there are no penalties.

    FranklySpeaking
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone has to pay for the police, fire department, roads, etc., and it sure ain't gonna be the wealthy.

    Captain McSmoot
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not fair that the government didn't take enough, then they ask you to check for them, pay them back, so YOUR hard earned money can be used for anything and everything while some people are 3rd generation moochers of the government teet and nothing, NOTHING is done to apply pressure to make these people work and pull their fair share. It's voluntary slavery and a guaranteed vote, so the government doesn't give a damn. If they don't care, why should the government. Yet they're the first people to show up and loot; surprise surprise that people who are given lifetimes worth of government hand outs also think they are entitled to take other people's property.

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    2 years ago

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    #48

    realizing that by the time you're old enough to retire, social security probably won't exist anymore

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    Mtownmick
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Social Security was never about getting someone else's money, it is about getting your money back. This is not an entitlement but a pension, half paid by your employer. It is paid on first dollar of earnings and stops when you make more. The Republicans want you to believe it is a tax. If it is it is the most regressive tax on the books. How they spent your money is another thing.

    Dekker451
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh no, that's not what it's about. No one except the extremely wealthy could ever afford to pay into it as much as they would eventually be entitled to draw, and they probably would never need to anyway. The way it really works is there are supposed to be enough working people paying into it at any given time to pay for that current period's group of people who are drawing on it, then by the time those first people retire, there are even more working people to pay for them and so on. It's basically a government-run and sanctioned Ponzi scheme, except it's supposed to be sustainable because it's over a much longer term, since unlike investors who can demand a return on their investment at any time, people who want to draw on Social Security have to meet certain requirements (including age usually). And I'm not a Republican, but it's still a tax, because that just has to do with how the funds are raised. It's a government-run pension because of who receives funds and who manages them.

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The people who keep saying that Social Security won't exist in the future are the people who didn't want it to exist in the first place.

    Monkey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have to fight Republicans from stealing our money. They are absolute criminals. The corporations are claiming record profits right now leave our Social Security alone!!!! You already pay next to nothing in taxes.

    Animal lover
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Social Security was only to be used to pay workers a pension when they retired. It was never to be accessed by the Gov't, but once they saw how much money was in there, they raided it to pay off part of the debt and other bills. Now, they are saying that Social Security is going to almost be depleted by 2035, but do they get Social Security, NO. They are set for life with free healthcare and income. If they are in office for two years, they still get the same healthcare and salary. How many people get full benefits for working for just 2 years, but they make their own rules. They really have no governing body to control them except for voters

    FranklySpeaking
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're paying payroll taxes, as your employer should also be doing, it will still exist. People in the U.S. get up in arms about some of the most trivial things, but I would imagine there'd be the biggest revolt in the country's history if money you paid into a retirement system was stolen. It isn't an "entitlement" if I've already paid for it.

    Tim Douglass
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An entitlement is something that belongs to you, that you have title to. So SS is absolutely and unequivocally an entitlement. Food stamps, on the other hand, are not.

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    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The money I paid in better damn well be there when it's time for me to take it or there will be hell to pay.

    EarthGrowl
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People actually have to live to 65. Americans aren't doing a very good job of that. We are working ourselves to death, dying from exposure to pollution, drug overdoses, poor diets, mental illnesses and mass shootings.

    Lizz
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they keep upping the retirement age like they're doing now that is a real possibility

    FranklySpeaking
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Except they can't push it past life expectancy. Can they?

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    iseefractals
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well..average age for a first job in the US now, is 18 (though some don't get one until their 20's) Where as 25 years ago, most opted into getting a job at 14 or 15. While people are entering the workforce later, they're also living longer, and absolutely no one is paying enough taxes to make up the difference. It's a solvable problem, but no one actually wants to take part in the solution.

    FranklySpeaking
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The solution is to remove the income limits that allow the wealthy to stop contributing on massive amounts of income.

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    Mental Liberals
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    2 years ago

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    It always was a scam - money making for the corrupt government!!

    fluffyacat
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only scam is that they stop collecting it once earnings exceed $160K in any given year.

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    #49

    Learning that Santa is real and you're him.

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    Rodney Bowie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is a pretty positive addition to the list.

    Jeannie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Christmas is so stressful for parents. I wanted to make my child excited by at least one of their gifts. Thanksgiving is so much better. All the family none of the gifts

    Philly Bob Squires
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The four stages of life: 1 - You believe in Santa Claus. 2 - You don't believe in Santa Claus. 3 - You are Santa Claus. 4 - You look like Santa Claus.

    Janet Sparrow
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Santa was your mom who cared she much she made Christmas magic.

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    #50

    When you realize basically everyone is just faking it til they make it.

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    WindySwede
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or, till they wreck themselves?

    FranklySpeaking
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fake it 'til you make it, check yourself before you wreck yourself, get rich or die trying. Hmmm, how about finding a way to live within your means and enjoy life instead of making it into some sort of apocalyptic war? No? Never mind then.

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    Dumpster Fire
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm just faking it until I die next March (it's the only thing I can really plan).

    EarthGrowl
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone is a rookie at some point in their lives. Having knowledge is different from implementing that knowledge and just because someone wrote a book doesn't mean their way is the only way. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, there is no such thing as perfect. And be forgiving of other people's mistakes.

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    #51

    Everybody here is being so...real. My adult "Santa's not real" moment was finding out the MythBusters weren't friends off camera.

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    iseefractals
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And shouldn't that be a bit of an inspiring realization? Countless instances of both of them saying they actively disliked one another....yet still had profound respect for one another's minds, skills and talents. You don't need to like everyone, or agree with everyone you interact with about everything in order to respect and work with them. The world would be a much better place if more people had the capacity for that, rather than the virtue signaling, victim obsessed, perpetually outraged hellscape of isolationists we currently have to endure.

    Gavin Johnson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But they are a great example of professionalism, in front of the camera they communicate well, they play to each others strengths and produced informative and often explosive TV. Does their relationship or lack of it off camera matter? No.

    Barbara Skolly
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have gotten along with and respected many people I didn't actually like. I have worked with someone who i disliked on a personal level, not for anything he did to me but how he treated some others outside of work, but he did good work. I didn't mind working with him, he worked hard and could make me laugh which made the day fly by.

    #52

    That one day everything anyone ever did will be swallowed up by the sun.

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    Sand Ers
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But Voyagers 1 and 2 will still be out there hurtling through interstellar space.

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Until they too fly into a star or black hole... [Sorry... Loved your comment though]

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    Amber Fox
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually find this really comforting. No matter how much I screw up, no matter how huge I feel my mistakes are we'll all be stardust again soon enough along with every artist, every dictator, every empire. All equal in the end.

    UpQuarkDownQuark (he/hey you)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Followed a while later (term used loosely) by the heat death of the universe! No life anywhere, ever again! 😃

    Jon Steensen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    well technically we don't know that. It is possible that we one day figure out how to do interstellar traveling and manage to escape, e.g. by cracking the nut of controlled fusion (the uncontrolled version we alread have in the form of an H-bomb), which will make it much easier to make light but still powerful rockets.

    Jared Robinson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hopefully our AI overlords will at least look back on us from time to time and wonder in amazement how such cold cruel evil things could have lasted long enough to actually spread themselves in one form or another throughout the universe. Even if it's AI we will still be its ancestors.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll be dead for tax purposes at that moment, so I won't be concerned.

    devotedtodreams
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eh, that will be way beyond our lifetime. Besides, everything ends eventually.

    Nerenahd Dhaneren
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But, will he chew it first? That's the real question.

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    #53

    Realizing that 1.000$ or even 10.000$ is not much money.

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    Nicole Weymann
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is if you need it. Very similar to 10 minutes being short or long, depending on whether you're inside the bathroom, "meditating", or outside, pounding the door.

    quentariel
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    10.000$ would literally solve like all my problems, and 1000$ relieve my stress so much. Sadly, no additional money in sight.

    #54

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real There are no hot singles in your area.

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    Nerenahd Dhaneren
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, at least there are still lots of cold singles, I'll tell you that.

    troufaki13
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are not even decent looking singles who love cats and want to go out

    Adam Belaire
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was actually a typo in the advertisement. The ad came out in the summertime, so what they meant to say was hot SHINGLES in your area...every roof is filled with them.

    CatLady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd be happy with not severely dysfunctional....

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are no hot singles in your area - and that includes you.

    Rodney Bowie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...which includes you. "You are not IN traffic, you ARE traffic." I include myself in this comment. There are no hot singles in my area...that are going to find me equally as hot.

    Khavrinen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure there are! They're just all dating each other, and are vehemently opposed to having anything at all to do with *ME*.

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    #55

    That fruits and veggies expire mich faster if you pay for it Yourself :(

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    Spittnimage
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know about that. I have a tomato I bought about a month ago and it's just now starting to get squishy.

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    #56

    Finding out that hard work means they give you more work instead of a raise or promotion.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or it gives you a promotion you absolutely don't want.

    #57

    Finding out that security authorities aren't there to actually protect the safety of the people

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    Sand Ers
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're there to protect the money and the monied.

    ROSESARERED
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The odds of good but the goos are odd

    David Paterson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're there to steal as much money from the moneyed as they possibly can, preferably legally but not always.

    #58

    Looking up a friend and finding out they have died.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just happened to me. He was the father of all Dad jokes. /and being an English teacher made him even better at it - and worse. I'll miss the pain of his pun-ishment.

    Adam Belaire
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I haven't experienced that much (though I did find out, not long ago, my best friend growing up was involved with the disappearance and death of a woman back home)

    Barbara Skolly
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went down the google rabbit hole last year trying to find some people. A few had died, all their late 30s to mid 40s.

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    #59

    Seeing your paycheck and all the taxes deducted from it

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    Lizz
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    .......Turns green every time......

    Alyssa Phillips
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personally, I think it would hit people harder if they got their full paycheck and then had to pay the taxes from it themselves. Amounts to the same monetarily, but having to cut that check might get people thinking.

    Mental Liberals
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    40%+ taken out of mine and it's so sad...

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Taxes are better than getting bids from firefighting companies while your house is burning down.

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    #60

    Learning that people will say or do anything just to have sex with you. Learning that your body is a toy to be relentlessly pursued, played with, then discarded like it’s nothing. Wish my dad had told me.

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    Jeannie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a female I would like to know what a male orgasm feels like because of the crazy things men will do to achieve that feeling.

    Captain McSmoot
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's because it's not true. Sorry, but it seems like you're just not good at who you let into that part of your life. Why would someone's dad be responsible for telling their child something that isn't true? It probably never entered into his mind because it's so far off base.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly where can I find these people? Names, addresses, phone numbers. Anything that would help.

    Shes.A.Double.Eleven
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats def never happened to me, and I'm a female. Kind of like the opposite really. Can't get much attention. Would love some.

    Chrille
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kinda weird if your dad tells you...

    #61

    the first two things that came to mind were: how orcas, belugas, dolphins, etc in captivity are treated, and where the meat at the store comes from. i think these can be covered by just generally “how humans treat animals”. like seeing baby chicks get thrown into meat grinders, alive, by the f*****g hundreds. intelligent cetaceans that, for all intents and purposes, have PTSD and personality disorders from decades of torture. seeing Canadian baby seal clubbing. god, that one might be the worst thing i’ve ever seen. hearing them scream out, then the screams just stop. and it’s a goddamn baby, too. i loved nature at a very young age. my favorite thing was going to natural history museums for a long time. loved animals, genuinely enjoyed being around them more than other kids. finding out how they get treated, and realizing the scale of it, that s**t altered my soul.

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    trevor
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is always the " Soylent " solution.

    Ranger Kanootsen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember: Tuesday is Soylent Green day, where all Soylent Green is sold for half price!

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    David Paterson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are two horrible possibilities for the future. An end to humankind. And no end to humankind.

    Captain McSmoot
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's costs a human nothing, absolutely NO F'ING THING to treat an animal with love and respect.

    Trond Hermansen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To think that people can treat other people this way as well boggles my mind. :-(

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    #62

    50 People Reveal The Harsh Truths That Were The Adult Version Of Being Told Santa Isn’t Real Realising that no, we can’t have McDonald’s, coz there is food in the freezer.

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    Amirhossein hajavi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the way grocery prices are zooming it’s gonna be the other way around soon!

    Mental Liberals
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Real food in the freezer...not fattening processed "food" garbage

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    #63

    Realizing just how high the deductible is on your insurance.

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    Nerenahd Dhaneren
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    2 years ago

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    Adam Belaire
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That can you adjust. Yes, it costs a bit more for the insurance but your deductible would be lowered.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True, but that's "Pay me now or pay me later." With a deductable, the later may not happen. The premium payments always will.

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    #64

    For me it was finding out those HGTV shows are all more or less staged.

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    El Cucuy
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ALL reality shows are staged.

    #65

    Discovering all the shows and movies you loved as a child were c**p, and you just enjoyed them because you didn't know any better.

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, someone grew up in the wrong era! If my childhood stuff was so bad, whey do they keep trying to remake it? Nah, I still re-watch a lot of the same shows from my childhood.

    David Paterson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huh? No, they're even more fun to watch with your child.

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    #66

    Realizing NOTHING is free.

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    Danny Trejo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    even dying costs, not for you but your close ones..

    Little Wonder
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Amen. My Aunt died at the start of the year, it has been surprisingly expensive.

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    Vidas Zlioba
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not unless you typed the above on a donated lap top sitting at Starbucks without ordering. And even then you've simply shifted some of the costs (electricity, etc.) to someone else.

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    Captain McSmoot
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can you tell the people lazily mooching of the U.S. government this?! Once the middle class is gone, they won't tax the rich because they ARE the rich. That government gravy train will have an end and that is precisely when the middle class ends. Keep looting and find out.

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    #67

    When you expect your boss to give you a raise for all of your hard work but instead get a pizza party.

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    Nerenahd Dhaneren
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You guys get a pizza party instead of an extra roll of toilet paper? Damn it.

    Khavrinen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You get an extra roll of toilet paper instead of a kick in the shins? Lucky.

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    #68

    Discovering that the “special recipe” for a dish that your parents have always made was just on the back of one of the ingredient’s packages.

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    Nerenahd Dhaneren
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You mean ostrich's saliva mixed with vodka is an ingredient on the back of every package? Damn, dad. 😤

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's usually something that was used as a money saving alternative but they didn't want to say what it was due to pride/embarrassment.

    Jessica Reitzell
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me it was learning I could copy the recipe to the letter and never make it as good because I don't have 40+ years worth of experience

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    #69

    You never really own a house or property. You rent it from the government for the rest of your life.

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    Mental Liberals
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. You will own nothing and be happy - US Corrupt Government

    #70

    Realisation that your parents are not as smart as you once thought.

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    Nerenahd Dhaneren
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Realisation that they are not near as wealthy as I once thought was much more traumatic though. 😂

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The older I got, the smarter my parents seemed.

    Jeannie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is also hard for parents when they can no longer answer your questions.

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    #71

    Finding out it’s the pole that spins not the stripper

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    Nerenahd Dhaneren
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, it depends on how many tequilas I had that day.

    Cora Han
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Found this out the hard way. A girlfriend and I joined another girlfriend and her boyfriend for a jaunt to a stip club for his birthday. It was all done in fun. The manager was so impressed that three women came in that he plied us with swag and asked us if we wanted to try it out. We did, (but kept our clothes on) and I took one swing at the pole, it spun, and I got thrown off the stage and into the bar. Aside from a twisted ankle, and a bruised pride, I was largely unscathed. Lesson learned.

    Erdot
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or all of it is static, and the room spins around.

    #72

    Finding out what parents mean when they say budget.

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    #73

    Finding out that everything you want is not affordable

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    Em
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've found the exact opposite. All depends on what you want.

    #74

    That you’re not going to be financially independent by 30.

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    dandylilah
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This really depends on the choices you make.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My fault for not picking out the right parents.

    Khavrinen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't it surprising how many people make that mistake? Being born to rich parents seems like such an obvious thing to do!

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    iseefractals
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 40. I was financially independent at 16, and by 19 i began the near decade long task of caring for my bed ridden, paraplegic father, while working 1-3 jobs at any given time. It's not that you can't do it, it's that you can't do the same things that would have solved the problem 20 years ago....but that's been true for every single generation of people in modern history.

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    #75

    Credit scores were invented in the 90s.

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    #76

    It’s not a meritocracy.

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    #77

    That the filter on the water jug doesn’t count down to replacement based on usage, it’s just a timer.

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    #78

    Realising that no one in any position of authority is competent..

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    iseefractals
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol....not really. Sure, there are plenty of idiots everywhere, but your idea of "competency" is directly related to whether or not you're benefiting, or at the very least, not being inconvenienced from a given interaction.

    David Paterson
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a fine line between "incompetent" and "corrupt". I've never been good at distinguishing which person in a position of authority is which. The Vice President is always incompetent, it's a necessary prerequisite for the job.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are people in positions of authority who are competent. That competence will be recognized by promoting them until they reach positions in which they are not competent. (The Peter Principle.)

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    #79

    Realizing that god doesn’t exist.

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    Nerenahd Dhaneren
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What do you mean? Clapton is still alive and kicking. 💪

    starkey [he/him]
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if you mean eric clapton, i'm sorry, but that guy is a twatbasket.

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    Jeannie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can prove that if god is real he is a horrible being allowing children to get cancer and older people getting Alzheimer's which then no praise is needed because he's worthless. I can prove all religions are used to guilt and control people. I can prove that religions change the rules having never spoken to god. I can prove that many people have been murdered because of him and that slavery was perpetrated by Christians as well has Hitler being a christian. We all can see that intelligent design had nothing to do with the human form or conscious. Finally, I can prove that if churches were taxed the country would be better.

    BrownTabby
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shoutout to my parents who raised me secular and to my primary school that technically complied with the last dregs of religion-in-school requirements that existed back then but taught it in a sufficiently non-proselytising way that I basically knew Jesus as “like Maui for white people?”

    Mental Liberals
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Untrue. Not the God of what man-made, but a supreme entity that only creates in love and humans have to implement...that's the weak link - Free Will

    Captain McSmoot
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder, do these people ever get tired of posting this c**p? I mean, do they not see that this whole schtick is just the adult version of that goth kid in high school crapping on everyone's good time. If people truly and fully believed there was no god, they wouldn't feel the need to say it so often; almost like saying it enough times will make it truer. I firmly do not believe in fairytales, but I don't think I've felt the need to repetitively state that, especially with every other BP post. Why? BECAUSE I KNOW IT'S NOT REAL and simply live me life without the need to tell people. I swear they are more annoying than sidewalk preachers!!!

    Luke Branwen
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    2 years ago

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    Do you have a proof? Yeah, religious people can't prove god exists, but neither can you prove they don't.

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    #80

    Finding out that you’re getting older, which means getting uglier, less mobile, worse health, etc. You can delay poor health to an extent, but one way or another, it’s coming for us all.

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    Sandra Morison
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You age with grace and fun, you certainly do not get uglier.

    Em
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, that's what old people tell themselves to cope.

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    BrownTabby
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First, your hangups about ugliness are not my problem. Second, there are countless people who are getting f****d over by the way our society treats the old and infirm RIGHT NOW, and demanding better rights for them is also an investment in our own future.

    Papa
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hear a lot of people complaining about getting old, but it beats the hell out of the alternative.

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Speak for yourself! I'm still as gorgeous as I ever was, and just as healthy. I'll admit to being a little slower though.

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