People Who Quit Their Jobs Without Really Having A Plan Share What Happened (30 Answers)
Interview With AuthorIt takes a lot of courage to switch jobs. It takes even more to quit your job without a solid backup plan. However, work conditions can sometimes be so horrendous, the workplace environment can be so toxic, you end up giving your notice (or deliberately not even doing this) and packing all of your stuff in a cardboard box ASAP. There’s only so much that people can take!
Twitter user Kierra started up a very interesting thread on the social media platform when she asked people if they’ve ever “randomly” quit their jobs before, having absolutely no backup plan. The thread immediately went viral, getting over 125.8k likes, as Twitter users rushed to spill the tea about their personal experiences in the job industry.
You’ll find their stories about what happened after they decided that they’ve had enough and quit their jobs below. Have a read and let us know which of these you found to be the most inspirational, dear Pandas. Have you ever handed in your resignation without a plan for the future? Share your story in the comments if you’re feeling up to it.
Bored Panda reached out to Kierra to learn more about the inspiration behind her viral thread, what to do if you're planning on changing jobs in the near future, and whether passion or interest in your position is more important. Kierra helps people to pivot into tech, especially data-related roles. In case you're looking for a change in your career, you can check out her newsletter right over here. Scroll down for the full interview, Pandas!

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Dude, nah, my old manager and I BOTH gave our old job the finger! Lucky lady got to retire, and I'm happy with what I'm doing too :p
I quit my job with no new job. It was a toxic place and everybody I like had retired recently. The only people left were d***s. The closest person to me was a bully and the boss didn’t fire him even though he made several women cry, including me. The boss didn’t like any people. Stupid thing is that I didn’t give minimum notice. I worked the busy Christmas period and didn’t get a bonus for it. Wish I’d left ASAP. Biggest regret.
Kierra told Bored Panda a bit about the inspiration behind her viral question on Twitter. "I came up with the question after doing some deep thinking about quitting my current role. I've been working in this current position for some years and I've been looking for a change. The work isn't terrible, but I'm not quite as interested in what I'm doing as when I first started," she revealed that she's been doing some important thinking about the future.
"I feel as though others might be feeling the same way. COVID has been rough on everyone in some aspect of life, even if it's just burnout. So many people are tired of being stuck in their pandemic routines and want a fresh start, something new and exciting... or even freeing."
I was curious to get Kierra's take about whether we should be looking for a new job while still working at our old position or if we should opt for making major changes, not necessarily with a backup plan in mind. According to Kierra, it all depends on the individual's circumstances.
I just love the mentality of some of these employers out there: move for our sake, but we won't support you. Oh, and you need to have 15 years of experience, be proficient in 15 different platforms, hit the ground running (because we are a "fast pace" company) and we'll pay you an entry-level salary. We'll see about benefits. Okiedokie.
Worked for AutoZone. Had SMS (their in house IT) on the phone diagnosing a parts counter printer issue. He tried to tell me the printer didn't have a cutter on it (it did). He threw his phone on the floor ( I could tell from the sound). When he came back on I told him just because I didn't want to move to Memphis and work for SMS doesn't mean I don't know more than he does. Fixed the printer myself.
I did that with my last job. Place was toxic from the get go but I pushed thru. When the situation decended to hell, I resigned with a prayer and walked away. I was unemployed 2.5 months but had several interviews and got a job that paid more with a whole lot more benefits
That is the very definition of "That escalated quickly."
Load More Replies...I've just understood that the "mouse" was not of the living type and I feel relieved though.
Are we sure it was a computer mouse? Dude stabbed HIMSELF in the eye, I wouldn't be surprised if he had a frozen lunch of mouse and chips
Load More Replies...At first glance, I had a mental image of the boss throwing a live mouse, and was preparing to be upset, then the context sank in and I realized it was a computer mouse. Whew!
"I always recommend people to look for a job while they are at their current role, mainly for job security and financial reasons. Searching for a new role can take some time and quitting a role cold turkey without any savings can make the job hunt even more stressful," she said. However, if you find yourself in a truly toxic environment, one that causes you a lot of mental and physical strain, it's best to cut your losses as soon as possible. " I consider that a different situation and I would advise one to leave as soon as they can. Your health is always more important than a job."
In Kierra's opinion, passion isn't incredibly important for one's job. "Sure, it would be wonderful to find a job that you're enamored with and I believe that it definitely could lead to better performance, but it's clear that passion is certainly not the reality for most people who work. I would instead suggest people find a job that they're actually interested in. Something that you don't mind earning a living doing. That interest will hold you over and keep you curious and willing to learn."
The author of the thread shared with Bored Panda that she didn't expect so many people to respond with stories about having quit their jobs. "I was shocked to see that there were many people who have quit jobs multiple times! I learned that people really do treat jobs as an additional part of their lives, almost like jobs are an accessory to happiness. It made me happy to see so many people advocating for themselves."
He refers to everything *we’ve* built. I hope he discussed this with his partner and got their buy-in before making this move.
Yeah, that really bothered me. I mean, yeah, work can suck sometimes but if it was Super Happy Fun Time all the time they wouldn't need to pay people to do it; sometimes you just have to suck it up and make your contribution. Also, almost lost everything in 4 months??
Load More Replies...True, my job in a fortune 100 Insurance company was so stressful I became seriously ill for over a year.
The security guard would of been flattened. Try stopping me from leaving a burning building.
Those security guards must have been ice-cold orcs that had no regard for human life whatsoever - or their own lives, for that matter. This is a horrid example of blind obedience, the sort exhibited by tRump's followers.
Load More Replies...I quit the day after a patient snuck in a sawed off shot gun and a 9mm gun to the hospital I was working in Brooklyn. He took an employee hostage and when all phone attempts failed for his escape he shot the man-he survived. The administrators were so happy to see me go referring to me as a constant troublemaker, they approved unemployment benefits even though I quit. I had no plan at all yet felt no anxiety just relief about getting out of there.
That is on the security guard. No proper training at all. he should have evacuated everyone at once
And next they wonder why the American education system is falling apart. Well, it's because the sane people leave insane institutions.
30 years ago I worked for a company that was instrumental in integrating computers into the manufacturing environment. As a side gig I also taught an introductory class at the local tech school. Of course in those days the industry was dynamic and ever-changing & I was constantly changing the class material to reflect the latest trends. When my class was monitored & I had my evaluation meeting with administration I was penalized for “not following the syllabus”. I explained that I had written the syllabus a couple of years ago & just hadn’t updated it to reflect the current environment. They countered with “but that’s not the way the industry does it”. I told them that I worked for the leading company in the industry & if you called them and asked somebody there how they do it you would literally be talking to me. The dude still wanted to argue. I walked out & never went back. Was only doing the gig as a favor to the tech school in the first place.
I should clarify that I worked in a regional office of an international company whose territory was six US states & one of my jobs was Public Relations Officer for that office. I don’t want to give the impression that I was some kinda big shot.
Load More Replies...I involuntarily lost my job because of the mass hysteria surrounding a disease that doesn't pose a serious risk to the vast majority.
My sis worked for 38+ years in education and finally had enough. When the whole pandemic thing hit, the school board was screamingly desperate to get her (and many others) to come back. Her response was an emphatic "NO".
Earlier, Bored Panda spoke with life coach Lindsay Hanson about toxic and problematic workplaces. According to her, we’re all responsible for setting the boundaries in life for what we’re willing to tolerate. In short, it’s up to each of us to set these boundaries.
Regardless of whether we’ve got the human resources department on our side during times of turmoil, we’ve always got the option of reaching out to our superiors and talking to them. It might be awkward, it might be nerve-wracking, but they’re always there if we want to voice our concerns about the workplace environment. Whether or not changes will happen is a whole separate issue, but starting up some honest-but-diplomatic communication is always a good idea.
"If you feel that there's nothing you can do to change the situation and the company or people involved are unwilling to change, then you have to decide whether you're willing to stay in that environment or not," Lindsay told Bored Panda.
Am I wrong, or am I picking up sarcasm there?
Load More Replies...Man, you could triple my salary I have now and I would never go back to working fast food. Actually, you could offer me millions and it is still not worth working fast food. I have been homeless and I was a lot happier homeless than I was working in fast food. Manage a department in healthcare research now, work is harder...but yet a million time easier than dealing with the type of mistreatment you get as a service worker.
You make it sound like it's some dirty job. WTF is wrong with you? Fast food workers were deemed "essential" over engineers, architects and airline pilots.
Load More Replies...I have walked out of a few jobs in my time, have I ever regretted it? No, not once.
Just did it with Walmart, they are abusive and retaliatory. And one big giant sloppy conflict of interest
Load More Replies..."A good question to ask yourself is, even if this toxic situation were to change, would I still want to work here?" the life coach noted that we have to check in with ourselves and search our feelings for an honest answer to this question.
You bring up a good point. Right now jobs are easy to get. The worm will turn and it will not always be that way. I have lived through times where it was ultracompetitive to get a job at McDonalds. Just a word of caution people. Lots of great stories here, but look at the participants. Its missing those people who might have done the same thing but now stand on their feet all day at Wendy's due to their decision and are not posting. Just saying. YES, nothing is worst than a bad job where you dread waking up in the morning. However, I would suck it up and look HARD for another one, especially if you can't move back home or have any savings. Not meaning to be a father, but I am also that.
You bring up good points but I honestly just upvoted for the phrase "the worm will turn"
Load More Replies..."if you can cope financially" I can barely feed myself on what I make.
You can also look for a new job without quitting the bad one.
Worked for corporate America, really fed up with their BS. Sitting alone again after another hectic day and my phone rings. Owner from a job I'd had before and loved. Se says, "we need to talk" I said yes we do. Interviewed the next day, turned in my notice that evening via text. Next morning manager told me I was terminated immediately. We got into a bit of a snit over unpaid vacation and once HR arrived at 9 and confirmed I would be paid unused vacation I left. Went to new job to tell them I'd be starting 2 weeks sooner than planned, I got hugs from people that didn't even know me yet. That was 10+ years ago and I'm still here and happy.
My hubby's former employer demanded he violate federal law. Hubby quit. Six weeks later, and this was while I was relearning to walk, so no, we had zero income, he had a new employer, loves it, and that's 8 years now. :-)
He wanted your hubby to commit the fraud so he’d have somebody to blame when he got caught. Ever notice that whenever a CEO is getting grilled by a grand jury or congressional committee they claim to know nothing about the company they’re being paid millions to run?
Load More Replies...No job is worth violating the law! Court appearances and jail time will cost a lot more, and in stuff other than money, than heeding an unscrupulous employer. Besides, the "little guys" - and gals - will get the shaft while the Big Bad takes the money and runs.
Any time you are ordered to violate the law on your employer's behalf, quit on the spot. Why? Because if they get caught, guess who takes the rap? Not your boss...
I guess her parents applied for that job, dreading she would stay at home forever :D
As someone who had it all and literally lost everything; life sorts itself. It’s hard, things go wrong, & you hate life - but with effort it always sorts. At some point things will turn around. Fact. The end of routine & security isn’t the end. If anything it’s a fresh start you may not have realized you needed. Perspective.
If you're good at what you do, there are usually people in the industry that know who and where you are. I currently get calls from all over the US because a persons dealer told their customer to call me, I'm known for stocking items other dealers don't.
Lindsay pointed out that we have two options when it comes to workplace environments that are stressful, toxic, or generally difficult. First of all, we can do our best to try and find contentment or happiness in whatever position we have at the company. Secondly, however, we can start looking for a way out, to leave permanently.
Was anyone else expecting to see a link included so "you too can have financial stability".
I experienced a psychotic episode that resulted from all the stress I experienced from my last job. I worked in a call-center in a nursing position. On a good call I'd help people figure out if they needed to go to the ER or if they could get by with a routine doctor appointment. People are relentlessly horrible to anyone who tries to help you over the phone. I ended up in a pysch unit for 16 days.
I hope you're doing better now. Know that, despite all of the hate some people give you, you are loved and always will be. 🥰Love from a stranger
Load More Replies...I already had ptsd, my nursing job made it worse, then worse again. I ended up on disability.
According to the life coach, even though we’re still stuck in the Covid-19 pandemic, we shouldn’t feel limited or imprisoned by this fact. It shouldn’t be the main factor deciding whether or not we’re staying at a company.
"The idea that you can't change your situation due to the pandemic is very limiting. There are still companies hiring. There are still ways to make money on your own. There is always a way to change your current situation—telling yourself you're stuck feels very limiting," Lindsay said.
Its amazing how things work out. This is precisely the article I needed. I did this Monday from a job I've been at for 15 years. For the past decade, I have done everyone else's job, but the one I was hired (and in huge student loan debt) for, due to under (no) staffing. I had a stagnant salary which was blamed on me because there were not enough hours in the week for me to do all support work and my actual profession. Have one wonderful boss (why I stayed) and one that was, is and always will be, verbally abusive. He finally broke me. I'm done. I hope my story works out like so many of these.
I m happy that so many find it easier now to change careers. I never liked 9-5. I love that more people can be creative and spontaneous .
"It comes back to what you're willing to tolerate. You can do everything in your power to bring attention to the toxic situation and attempt to change it. And at the end of the day, you always have control over your own mindset, how you're reacting to the situation, and how much you let it affect you."
Meanwhile, Professor Eddy Ng told Bored Panda that if workplace problems get out of hand, employees might want to consider lodging a human rights complaint, e.g. if there are plenty of derogatory comments and unwanted jokes. “Employers (managers and HR) can be held responsible for inaction," he said.
I can ensure you, you won't get back from burnout in 3 weeks and nobody reading that should feel like failure if it took them months. But I'm guessing you did not mean literal burnout.
Too bad I can only upvote once. There is no way of recovering from a burnout in 3 weeks. Try 3 months minimum and then we'll see from there.
Load More Replies..."If repeated complaints about the toxic workplace to the manager or HR fall on deaf ears, then it is indicative that the employer is not taking the concern seriously and it's the cue that you should switch employers/workplace," the professor told Bored Panda. "If management makes an effort for change, then it would be an opportunity to assist with that change. Many organizations are not addressing systemic discrimination and are engaging with employees with this change."
Yes. More than once. Life is too short for hideous workplaces. Worst was the no leave guy (law gave 15 days plus 11 stat days at the time) None of the men there complained or did anything, even the fired ones. I was told to leave immediately, after I bought up the subject. I took him to employment court. . Got paid put, he went out of business, fled to Australia owing money to companies , and ....became a lawyer.LOL
However, the professor noted that it’s generally easier to look for another job while you still have one. That way, you “don't have to explain gaps in employment or past problems with a prospective employer.” On the flip side, he also pointed out that switching careers might be the perfect time to have a break and “take stock, engage in career planning, and exploration, and transition to new careers.”
Wow, some here are insufferable. English isn’t everyone’s first language or perhaps the phone translated. I hope her job is slapping judgmental jerks
Actually, the saying is “sink or swim”. Sometimes I wonder whether it’s writing skills or the randomness of Spellcheck.
Load More Replies...Been there. Done that. I produce a million gallons of biofuel every year. Wasn't my field, but I learn fast. Sick part is that I only completed 8th grade. True s**t. Got a GED and some votech, and took the ball and ran with it. My electro-mechanical skills are ok, but my math and logistic skills surpass the ISU educated at our company. Some people think out of the box. For others, there never was a box. And for others still, that box is their education, and they'll never know any possibilities outside of it.
She didn't mention how quickly she was removed from the jobs she was unqualified for.
I’ve hired a few guys like you. Cost me a lot of money before I found out they had no clue what they were doing & had lied their way into the job. Finally realized it was cheaper to pay for background checks.
When I see, "hustler", I read it, "ripoff artist looking for a mark."
First sentence needs serious assistance - it makes no sense. Bored Panda needs to do better than this sh!t.
I quit a beer bar that didn't pay properly to work at another across town. When I quit the second (DK why), I filed for unemployment which I got because I said, truthfully, that some fella came in and offered me work in Alaska that didn't pan out. First bar had to kick in their share 'cause I had kept meticulous notes of my hours and had filed for a missing W2 (proof of taxes paid). And my BF was annoyed that I made more on unemployment than he did working PT. Best return on quitting ever.
My mother was my father's backup plan every time he quit. OVer and over and over....
This is an excellent, insightful reply; and no I'm not being sarcastic. For lots of people this was their reality maybe in a time when leaving wasn't an option
Load More Replies...As more than a few can relate to, I had to leave my job near the start of this pandemic (my employer was unsympathetic to the extreme that I had an ailing mother who absolutely could not be exposed to a superbug like COVID; that was the last straw after quite a series of offensive decisions over the last year I'd been working there). A year and a half later, I do not regret the decision one bit. Mom may be gone, but my life is in a much better place than it was working for a company that considered the Americans with Disabilities Act to be a loose suggestion.
Employer was verrry verbally abusive, job got harder and harder for no good reason. After "my DOG could do your job", I spent a week documenting in painful detail exactly how to do my job. A 5 inch tall stack of double sided instructions on every aspect of my day. Stuck a post it on top saying "for (his dog)" on Friday, and never went back. Had a new job Monday thru a temp agency for 25% more pay. Worked temp jobs for another 5 years before I got offered a permanent job in aerospace. Retired from that after a decade at age 40, happily retired since then!
I had to do this 3 times as a teenager: always because the boss was sexually harassing me. I know that it happened to many, many other women in the 70s and 80s😡😡
Upvote in support of you and pointing out this sad truth (that's still too common), not because I "like" what happened. :(
Load More Replies...I was losing as a working mom w the hours and daycare fees. I quit although my husband couldn't afford our lifestyle on one paycheck. Instead of downsizing so I could be at home with my daughter (we were afraid of losing custody to my child's rich father who was dodging child support), my husband took a second job. Worst decision ever. Husband and I still processing that toll.
I had a secure job with accommodation included. I used that salary to secure a mortgage and bought a house. Then I quit the job with about three to four months savings, with no idea of what I was going to do. Except that I always land on my feet. I saw an ad in the local newspaper for a job I could do from home. I have never looked back. Best job of my life and I've been doing it for 17 years.
My husband has been having terrible headaches and migraines in Germany for 20 years (he is originally from the US). We suspected the weather as no doctor could find anything wrong with him. We sold our house, quit our jobs and flew to the US. We bought a travel trailer and travelled the entire USA with our 3 little kids to check out which state he feels best at. We now live in Southern California, no headaches and he is working at his dream company doing his dream job.
Called in sick the day he had planned a meeting with our banker (I was not aware of the meeting, but it didn't matter, I had food poisoning & couldn't be away from my bathroom). He was furious and actually said, "I guess I should just lower my expectations". Imagine his surprise when I starting cleaning out my desk the next day & told him maybe he should just "lower his expectations. Asshole.
I have. 8 years and I just had enough. I was a mess. Took me 2 months before I found another job. I would do it again, but don't need to yet.
My mother was my father's backup plan every time he quit. OVer and over and over....
This is an excellent, insightful reply; and no I'm not being sarcastic. For lots of people this was their reality maybe in a time when leaving wasn't an option
Load More Replies...As more than a few can relate to, I had to leave my job near the start of this pandemic (my employer was unsympathetic to the extreme that I had an ailing mother who absolutely could not be exposed to a superbug like COVID; that was the last straw after quite a series of offensive decisions over the last year I'd been working there). A year and a half later, I do not regret the decision one bit. Mom may be gone, but my life is in a much better place than it was working for a company that considered the Americans with Disabilities Act to be a loose suggestion.
Employer was verrry verbally abusive, job got harder and harder for no good reason. After "my DOG could do your job", I spent a week documenting in painful detail exactly how to do my job. A 5 inch tall stack of double sided instructions on every aspect of my day. Stuck a post it on top saying "for (his dog)" on Friday, and never went back. Had a new job Monday thru a temp agency for 25% more pay. Worked temp jobs for another 5 years before I got offered a permanent job in aerospace. Retired from that after a decade at age 40, happily retired since then!
I had to do this 3 times as a teenager: always because the boss was sexually harassing me. I know that it happened to many, many other women in the 70s and 80s😡😡
Upvote in support of you and pointing out this sad truth (that's still too common), not because I "like" what happened. :(
Load More Replies...I was losing as a working mom w the hours and daycare fees. I quit although my husband couldn't afford our lifestyle on one paycheck. Instead of downsizing so I could be at home with my daughter (we were afraid of losing custody to my child's rich father who was dodging child support), my husband took a second job. Worst decision ever. Husband and I still processing that toll.
I had a secure job with accommodation included. I used that salary to secure a mortgage and bought a house. Then I quit the job with about three to four months savings, with no idea of what I was going to do. Except that I always land on my feet. I saw an ad in the local newspaper for a job I could do from home. I have never looked back. Best job of my life and I've been doing it for 17 years.
My husband has been having terrible headaches and migraines in Germany for 20 years (he is originally from the US). We suspected the weather as no doctor could find anything wrong with him. We sold our house, quit our jobs and flew to the US. We bought a travel trailer and travelled the entire USA with our 3 little kids to check out which state he feels best at. We now live in Southern California, no headaches and he is working at his dream company doing his dream job.
Called in sick the day he had planned a meeting with our banker (I was not aware of the meeting, but it didn't matter, I had food poisoning & couldn't be away from my bathroom). He was furious and actually said, "I guess I should just lower my expectations". Imagine his surprise when I starting cleaning out my desk the next day & told him maybe he should just "lower his expectations. Asshole.
I have. 8 years and I just had enough. I was a mess. Took me 2 months before I found another job. I would do it again, but don't need to yet.
