Millennials And Gen-Z Are Sharing Their Most “Boomer” Opinions, But They Just Make Sense (35 Answers)
To put it mildly, millennials (and to some extent Gen X and Gen Z) aren't fond of baby boomers. Boomers hogged the economy and the world’s resources, we say, and they have no regard for what future generations will inherit.
But when Reddit user u/coolfreeusername asked the question, "Non-boomers ... , what's your most boomer opinion?" it led to a pretty awesome discovery. Turns out, younger generations and baby boomers share quite a few thoughts. Here are some of them.
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Having your kid go “viral” for some stupid thing he did or just crying is a way to humiliate them and you are a disgusting parent for making the whole world laugh at them
That's what's so great about animals. Your dog doesn't care if he's famous for doing something stupid in a viral video, but your child will hate you forever!
people mistreat animals when they laugh at genuine fear instead of helping them. im really sick of this trend
Load More Replies...Aren't most boomer children millinials...so they're the grown up sharing these types of videos. We didn't have videos to post of our kids (unless you count AFV)
They have to have a "bash Boomers or Americans" at least once a day, so this is it, I suppose.
Load More Replies...I cannot even for a second comprehend how the heck parents can put their children on the net... really not the best parenting choice... (I am Gen X)
Be nice to your kids: they'll decide which "Care Home" you'll live in when you're older (since none of them will want you.) :)
I absolutely hate this and wish it was illegal. I plan to share a pic of my baby when she’s born and then maybe holiday/family pics. Some people literally post a pic of their kid everyday. It irritates me because how many pics did the kid consent to be posted? We want them to be less obsessed with technology yet we put it in their faces from day one.
I have decided not to post even that much of my child. I am grateful for very very private childhood and wish to provide the same for my own :)
Load More Replies...I don't have kids but I find all this cruel and a bit sick. It's an extention of people who have to run to social media and do the "AITA: thing or have to post every thought in their head or post every thing they eat and look at for some kind of validation. If you have a child and are a parent, the tantrums, stupid things, annoying things, upsetting things...are all part of raising a child. It's supposed to go from them, to you. Their hearts, their sorrows, their being a little kid, them not having to learn proper behavior and emotions and strength. This is from them to you. Not to run to social media and pass the responsibility on, or the emotion on. Not to mock them. If your mindset is that this is funny or look at the little Assh**s BS I have to put up with, you're an evil parent. It's your job to deal with this. A kid is not a thing, or a pet, or something detached from you. This is abuse.
PULL UP YA DAMN PANTS.
At that point, why bother with pants? Just take 'em all the way off.
particularly when one knows from where that fashion comes from..
Jailers take away belts and shoelaces to prevent suicide (or strangulation of other prisoners). That's why "gangsta" rappers wore pants without belts and ahows without laces. The shoelace thing has gone away, and kids don't know about the belt thing. So they think it's just about having saggy pants and wear belts to hold the pants up.
Load More Replies...This is an old one, but again every generation complains about the next one.
I once saw a dude like this and his penis and balls were visible. It was gross af.
And he's wearing a belt too! Why?! How does he walk? Why does he need to display his entire ass (underwear or not)?
Not everything needs to be filmed and put on the internet
Very true. Some people genuinely don't believe something happened if you don't post it and brag about it. I had that situation with people convincing me that I didn't accomplish something just because they didn't see photos on social networks and therefore concluded beyond any doubt that the event never occured. The paper proof was not sufficient.
You mean i can still get antibodies without posting my vaccination on the internet?? I'm shocked!😅😅just kidding of course
Load More Replies...BP's got a couple of articles today about "Boomer" this and "Millennial" that. It's getting tiresome.
Load More Replies...I honestly failed to see how much people think every day things another human being is doing is a form of entertainment. Unless you’re looking for specific information like on a restaurant meal or how to get a stain out of something or something like that, I fail to see how filming “go shopping with me” or worse showing someone else’s videos and narrating them is entertaining. To me it just seems like these people are desperate for attention.
Some of my favorite videos on YouTube is watching the younger generations listen to music or watch movies that were popular in the 1970s, 1980s and 1990s. First, how did they become an adult without at least knowing something of this previous time, and second, they ask the strangest questions about what is on the computer screen in front of them . it is freaking hilarious. On a side note, watching car crash videos is also a great time.
Load More Replies...I don't give a rat's ass what your dinner looks like. Stop it!
Thing is, depending on what it is, anyone can see it. That includes future employers, people who might do you harm if they figure out where you are, and internet pervs. These are things most people don’t think about when oversharing online.
Omg look at the drowning animal let me whip my camera out to prove to everyone I’m decent but my real motive is the likes. Maybe I’ll even get viral. This is literally the worst. Save the damn animal and put your damn phone down!
Sadly- sometimes it's the only way to make sure BOTH sides of a story is heard/ believed.
I don't want my damn refrigerator connected to the internet. It has one job.
I will never want any smart kitchen thingys. Basically anything connected to the internet can be taken over by a skilled hacker
I heard that the Texas government used the smart function to turn down people’s aircon during the heatwave. That’s enough to put me off smart appliances for life.
Load More Replies...Years ago, I bought a new washer and dryer. I had to argue to convince the salesman that I wanted dials and knobs, not a motherboard. I can fix mechanical appliances; I can't fix broken motherboards. And I was right. A few years later, the dryer's on/off switch broke. I replaced it with a light switch, and it's still working nearly 10 years later.
A touchscreen on/off button probably wouldn't have broken though. Electronics are far more reliable than mechanisms.
Load More Replies...I don't need a smart fridge who tells me how often I opened the door to stare at the content without taking anything...or worse tell me how often I reached for the chocolate bars
But chocolate bars sellers might be very interested in it. Remember that you're sharing all your data.
Load More Replies...Yeah, first your refrigerator gets on the internet. Then it gets on Bored Panda. Then it finds out refrigerators in Europe have a better deal. Next thing you know it's only working four days a week and is planning for six weeks vacation.
Reading the comments below it's apparent that a lot of people don't yet know how the internet of things can be used for crime.
We have no idea how business will use all the information they harness to manipulate us in the future. Surveillance capitalism.
Just because we have access to instant communication doesn't mean I'm obligated to message you back immediately.
I don't think that it's related to one generation. I know very old people, old, middle aged, young, teenagers that only check once or twice a day. And other people from different ages who are always wanting to answer or write immediately. For example, my father and my mother do opposite, and my two sisters, too.
It’s nice to disconnect sometimes, while it’s also nice to keep a conversation going sometimes. I turn my phone off when I go to bed, and screen my calls the rest of the time. If you’ve ever worked the graveyard shift and had to sleep during the day, which is telemarketer prime time, or you work a busy switchboard or any other job that chains you to a telephone, you learn to f*****g hate phones.
Load More Replies...This! I have a cousin who'll text, and if I don't answer within 5 minutes, he'll call in a panic: "Are you all right?!" Yeah, dude. Relax. My phone isn't part of my body; sometimes, I put it down or even shut it off to get some peace.
What did it for me was when a "correct etiquette" for today informed me I was supposed to text someone to get "permission" to call them.
I only do that when I know people are busy with work/school and I'm not. I don't want to get them in trouble because I can't wait and keep my mouth shut.
Load More Replies...Major arguments with my sister over this very subject. MY cell phone is for MY convenience, not yours. My former employer having a fit that I didn't answer my phone immediately and took 10 minutes to call him back. Oh, I'm sorry Jon, did you want to listen to me having explosive diarrhea?
I have a dear friend who always apologizes for not answering my text quickly. I have given up trying to explain to her that I am fully aware that she has a life, and if she doesn't text back for hours it's because she's busy living it. She'll get back when she can. I dont panic that something bad has happened. If there is, I'll hear about it when her husband/son have a chance to let me know during said emergency. Those who always expect an immediate reply, get over yourselves. Your not the top priority in everyone's life.
Just gotta set those expectations. Oh sorry my phone was on charge in the other room. Oh sorry i left my phone on silent. Oh sorry, i got distracted by something else and forgot to reply.
Not very boomer (who get one---two messages a day and are glad)!!! I've got workdays with 200--300 non-spam emails...
I agree , my phone is for My convenience not annoying telemarked and scammers
My phone basically stays in my purse when I get home until someone rings me.
Just because I disagree with your opinion doesn't mean I hate you, I don't need to agree with everything just to be politically correct. You can still disagree and be cordial. We seem to have forgotten that.
It's such an immature way of thinking to conflate disagree with hate. You see it with preschoolers. You can hate the opinion and still like the person (you can also agree with the opinion and hate the person, but that's a different thing).
Curiously, it's not just hating people who disagree, but more often accusing people who disagree of being hateful. "If you don't agree with me about (whatever), it's proof that you hate (whatever) and therefore I am justified in treating you as less than me and mine." You can see this tactic throughout this threat.
Load More Replies...It isn't about being 'politically correct' it is about a fundamental difference in values.
Related to this is stop reading or hearing everything through an "angry filter". Not everything is said or written as a direct attack on you, even if it is possible for it to be taken that way, look for solutions rather than problems!
"It's the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." --Aristotle
Entertaining the concept & agreeing to be friends with someone who believes something cruel or hateful or stupid is the mark of a person with values.
Load More Replies...I don't think this is a generational problem. though I do think Gen Z thinks is someone makes a mistake they should be shamed, missing the chance to teach them
I can't tell you how many times I've tried to teach people that what they believe is hateful and wrong -- backed by facts and citations -- only to have bile and hate spewed at me. And, as I've been alive over six decades, I'm far from a Millennial.
Load More Replies...See, "I don't need to agree with everything just to be /politically correct/" is a red flag for me. This one needs context, because if the thing on which we disagree is in the vein of racism/sexism/homophobia/transphobia, that's not just a difference in opinion. If someone disagrees with the statement that all people deserve the same basic human rights, that's not just a disagreement- that's that person showing their cards and letting you know they're an asshole. I'm not going to waste breath on being cordial with someone like that.
You are the person this entry is about. Your feelings are not what determines whether an opinion on a subject is more than mere opinion. Nor does the subject itself. Being of the opinion that something is wrong is much different than being of the opinion that people who do it should be discriminared against. Learn to refrain from adding intentionality to people's opinions where none has been given. Ask about motives, don't assume them. That is called "communication".
Load More Replies...Too many refuse to respect anyone's opinion if they disagree with us. Too many people destroy friendships because of politics.
When someone's politics grows toxic, people are right to back away from them. Honestly, if you lived in 1940s Germany, would you have been able to say, "Yeah, he's a Nazi and works at a concentration camp and believes that Jews, non-straight people, Gypsies, etc. should all die -- but, hey, he's always been nice to me and he's good to his dog, so we're friends."
Load More Replies...You get to disagree about what to put on pizza. You don’t get to disagree about human rights, facts, or science.
Isn't bored panda one of the platforms that specifically allows for this? "I downvoted you because your opinion isn't mine" seems to be the theme on this website.
The worst example can be found on social Media, especially on Twitter - don't agree with something, well you are "insert any word that end with -ist"
SO true. And that's one reason why I don't have a Twitter account-- or Facebook, for that matter.
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Social Media was a mistake. I genuinely think that it is single-handedly one of if not the most damaging thing to the world that's happened in the past however many years.
As an activist, I can say that social media has changed a lot of things in visibility, meeting people and communication of filmed things that were hidden before. There're also good things.
You can only be an activist if the Social Media Oligarchy say you can be, otherwise they will ban you, and use their pull to keep you from fundraising.
Load More Replies...I think anonymity is more harmful than social media itself. People can post whatever they like on Reddit etc. knowing it will never be linked to them, and then gather into groups of like-minded people and insulate themselves from other ideas. If EVERYTHING you posted online was connected to your real identity, so your family could see what you are posting, a lot of right-wing hate fests would never get off the ground.
Unfortunately I think that the adage “the road to hell is paved with good intentions” is completely applicable here. I think that regulatory departments should have been upgraded and maintained regularly by both companies and our government. It’s sickens me to have learned how much our government has become big brother in America, using fear as a validation to literally a road every single one of our rights. That said just after my leg destroying accident I learned more from my Facebook page on knee reconstruction than I did from any of my medical team
Facebook was cool when people weren't allowed to post links, just photos and text. It let you keep in touch with people. Now it's just people spewing their unsupported opinions at each other, then arguing about them.
No phones when you're eating with someone
I consider it acceptable to look stuff on your phone if someone has a question that can be answered with a quick check, but that's IT. No texting, no facebook, no ignoring your dinner companions.
I agree with you. Also, if there's fun content you are enjoying together. Literally, like, you're both looking at the same screen and interacting with each other about what's there.
Load More Replies...I ditched a friend who used to care more of her mobile than having a real conversation with me. for me it's that easy... bye bye
That's a no for me too and I'm really attached to my phone! But when I'm with company i find it disrespectful to be with my phone! Actually when I'm with company i don't even search for my phone!
Load More Replies...If you absolutely need to answer the phone when you were with another human being excuse yourself first and leave the table. Make the conversation short and make sure it’s more important than the person who is sitting right across from you
I agree with you in general, but I do know people who have a lot of hours when they're on call, where there's always the possibility that if you go out they'll get an after-hours business call when they're with you. So I'll forgive some of that, but yeah, you're totally right in general, like don't leave one friend sitting there ignored in order to chat with another.
Load More Replies...I f.u.c.k.i.n.g. hate how nowadays people of *all* ages will just start scrolling through their phone if there's a lull in conversation. Those lulls happen for a reason. They give people time to think about what else they can talk about and to start new subjects going. They give people breathing space to just 'be' in company. They give a moment to allow people to look around and the surroundings and take in what's what. I genuinely feel insulted that after one second of no one taking anything everyone's just instantly bored with everyone else's company and turns to online conversations instead.
I made this a rule when having the family over for dinner. Unless you're a doctor on call (none of them are) you can disconnect for 2 hours.
No one wants to listen to your music. Turn it down/ roll up your windows, or better yet... both.
No one thinks your loud car/motorcycle is cool. Drive like a normal human being around town. If you want to drive fast, get some track days.
I don't want to listen to my neighbour's screaming kids either, so I turn up de volume.
I hope the kids / dogs of the future will be delivered with volume knobs.
Load More Replies...Just once I'd like to hear one of those overpowered stereos blasting some Dvorak, Mozart, Haydn, Bach, or even Sousa. Get some classical music on those speakers and really let them shine!
Our house is on a main road and people's vehicles are loud enough to startle me awake during the night.
Mine too. We can't even have our windows open when the weather is nice.
Load More Replies...Absolutely. There is a lack of it. Last seen going off somewhere with common sense.
Load More Replies...Some a-hole went past just as I read this. It's also the cyclists who think they have a God given right to play their (lousy) choice of music loudly at 11 at night!!
Children are so coddled and over protected nowadays. Bring back the playgrounds of yesteryear where the monkey bars were sky high and the merry-go-round could go mach 5. If the little f***ers fall and get a bruise, they'll know not to be a dumbass next time (an invaluable life lesson). Teach them how to responsibly handle dangerous objects like knives and garden tools. The way we're raising children today is one of the main reasons we have so many stupid ass adults with no valuable life skills and a god complex cuz they think their actions don't effect them
Those playgrounds are still the norm in Germany, thank God. American parents regularly freak ;)
I don't disagree. However, "back in the day" if you fell and broke something, no big deal to go to the hospital and get patched up. Nowadays going to the hospital could mean financial ruin to some families - and for that reason it's better not to take unnecessary risks.
I may get downvotes to hell for this but children are built to fall down. They are clumsy and uncordinated because they haven't learned how not to be. Evolution has made them resilient for just this reason. We are animals, our bodies are built for the learning curve of growing up. Think about how your kid fell that one time and was just fine but if you took the same fall you'd break. When I worked worked on emergency medicine we would joke that small kids bounce when adults would break. It's dark humor but it's reality in most cases.
Actually its completely True. People are just too worried about every single s**t în this world when Kids will actually be just fine. He has a boo boo? Thats ok, we all did at some point and we are still alive.
Load More Replies...So interesting back story here. In the 80s in nyc several children were seriously injured on the old school style playgrounds. After several lawsuits playgrounds started switching to the current plastic “safe” model. Only issue? Playground injuries have rocketed since then. If you fall off a playground of plastic and hit your head it’s still a serious fall. But now kids are lulled into a false sense of security as are parents and are not as careful causing more injuries. When we were kids we knew those things were dangerous and we better watch out!
There is a reason they got more safe. It's all fun and games until your kid gets a head injury. However, they do need anenvironment to test their limits.
I grew up in the 80s - we all had our own knives, so we could whittle, I handled power tools from about 8 years old, our parents never knew where we were - we came home when it got dark, there was no child safety on anything and not one kid in my town got seriously hurt, most of us didn't even break anything.
Load More Replies...i agree that children should be taught self-sufficiency and be able to make their own mistakes, but not if the consequence to their decision is severely dangerous. there’s nothing wrong with safety measures. kids, especially little ones, can get seriously injured or killed from something as silly as falling off the monkey bars
Yes. More than that, kids always seem to find plenty of opportunities to get hurt on their own, I don't see the point of intentionally retrofitting playground hazards.
Load More Replies...Although I think it is a good thing that the era of the white-hot stainless steel playground slide has passed.
Physical keyboards are better.
Physical keyboards with a standard would be nice, when key spacing and physical size changes *just enough* to make touch typing become a pain in the bum!
That can certainly be a pain, but it's also a benefit for many people. My day-to-day keyboard is a very vintage Dell-branded IBM Model M, which suits me well. Several of my coworkers have keyboards with tighter key spacing, which is ideal for them as they have smaller hands. Similarly, I have a coworker who hunt-and-peck types, not because he never learned to type properly, but because he has enormous fingers, which would benefit from an even larger key spacing.
Load More Replies...Physical keyboards take up a lot of space. It's worth it for some applications, but not for handheld devices. My first smartphone had a physical keyboard but I don't miss it at all.
Probably depends on your preferences. My first smartphone was some old sony xperia with sliding keyboard and I just loved every message written on it - it took little to used to, but afterwards the comfort was uncomparable. And when you wanted just browse web or play games, you just slide it back and that was it. I still miss physical keyboard on my phones today.
Load More Replies...If somebody is disabled and cannot use their hands properly then they need to have a voice recognition system helping them type.
which means you cannot have a private conversation.
Load More Replies...Late to the party but a lot of pop music today is overly sexual, especial Cardi B. I really don’t want to be out at the bar listening to how you suck dick and have a vagina.
I'm not a fan of the Beatles (unpopular opinion, but I had to listen and study a lot of their music during my A Levels and my satiation point was reached a long time ago), but I actually miss the days when lyrics really were as innocent as "I wanna hold your hand".
Also by the Beatles: "Why don't we do it in the road? No one will be watching us."
Load More Replies...Same with TV. I am tired of every fantasy/historical series having a ton of explicit sex scenes. Sex is a natural part of life but I do not want to see it. It is also often very sexist and problematic (looking at you GoT)
Gen X American here - I'm much more put off by the gratuitous violence in media than the overt sexuality. I find The overt glorification of war particularly troubling . But yes, I agree that the sexist bent in many "innovative" shows are problematic for sure.
Load More Replies...Unpopular opinion: not only do I agree I’ll take it a step further. Imagine if the songs cardi wrote were sung by a man. Women would be furious and accuse that man of being sexist and of objectifying women. So simply put, it’s a double standard and I hate it. Don’t get mad at a man for objectifying you if you literally wrote a song objectifying yourself. 💅🏻
There are A LOT of songs sung by men that are worse and I have heard no one drag them for being sexual
Load More Replies...What I miss in much of the current offerings is lyrics that I can actually HEAR. Mostly I simply cannot understand what the singer is actually saying. 60's and 70's artists could actually be understood. One could make out the words. Maybe today there's two many recording tracks on a song and it's all gotten too over-layed and complicated I don't know. Maybe it is just me!
Overly sexual music isn't a new thing...they're just less eloquent about it these days.
Yeah... at least a lot of the older stuff wasn't nearly as blatant.
Load More Replies...Same with rap music - it'S all about the "gangsta" life and how much money and women they have etc. Bonus points if the guy "raised on the streets" comes from one of the richest neighbour hoods and had access to high education
Rap music in the 90s and late 80s was actually enjoyable, nowadays it’s straight up trash.
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I hate how literally everything these days has a stupid app that you need to have in order to use it. Everything from kids toys to freakin cars needs some sort of crappy app these days. Why!? What if you plan on having this item for a long while and the app either gets deleted, gets malware, or just doesn't function due to the company not updating it? You would have to throw it out causing more waste in this world. This is planned obsolescence just disguised as being technologically advanced.
Also, new power adapters with EVERYTHING, without even asking, so all those lovely polluting circuit boards inside end up in landfill!
There are lots of things that don't require a power supply unit (adapter) at first glance, but if you open them up you will find an internal PSU instead. Very few domestic gadgets actually make use of the full 230/240v and we are seeing more and more integrated USB ports in plug sockets which also make use of an internal transformer. The point I am trying to make is that this is not a new problem - we have been throwing transformers and PSUs away for decades. They were just hidden. The problem as I see it is planned obsolescence, non-replaceable batteries in smartphones, and the fact that none of the corporations responsible for this care. I hate to keep kicking the same dog, but it is the rich that are making more money than they can ever spend while at the same time destroying the world. Our planet isn't dying. 5% of its populace are killing it. For money. (I have never kicked a dog and I do not intend to. I once trod on a snail but that was an accident)
Load More Replies...LEGO. They are erasing the construction manual from the boxes and you should use an app. Whole family (3 generations of LEGO-addicts) hate this. You have to unlock the screen every few minutes and the manual gets deleted from the app when the box is older. Good bye f*cking harbor fire station.
We just bought a lawnmower. It's not wifi-capable or anything, yet it still has an app. I can't imagine why, but I'm not cluttering up my phone with megabytes of garbage apps.
I do not have, nor want, a "smart phone." A restaurant that we used to frequent at least once a month, no longer has menus. You either "down load" their menu and order at home, or "download" their menu on your "smart phone" or use your loyalty card to access their menu on their online ordering pads. I had to stand 15 feet away from the menu behind the counter, that was six feet higher. I had to place the order, pick it up, get my own drinks, and bus the table and they wanted a tip. The check for three meals and three drinks came to sixty bucks. In addition, the best thing about this place was their coffee in MUGS. Now they serve it in paper cups. Last time for us.
Not to mention that those apps also require fees or in-app purchases to use. So not only planned obsolescence, but nickel and dime ripoffs as well. Can’t we ever be allowed to pay for something just once and be done with it, instead of having to pay and pay and pay?
Speaking as a Gen X rep, I can confirm that I hate planned obsolescence but have a large collection of PSUs in my shed. So I don't really know where that leaves me except to say that I have and enjoy a number of apps on my phone. Some are better than others is all I've got on that, really. Don't know if I've helped or muddied the waters. Good luck with it either way.
Load More Replies...Agree. It's gotten to the point where my doctor told me I had to get an app to make appointments. I told him to stuff his app where he usually sticks thermometers.
Yeah, I'd much rather spend 10 minutes on the phone on hold. /s
Load More Replies...This, and I'm getting really annoyed by every retailer and every chain store, service, whatever, getting its own app. I have limited space on my phone, I'm not going to keep a bajillion apps I'm likely to use two minutes every three months. I wish these chains just made a.... a Netflix for coupons or something already.
A 9 pm bedtime is perfectly reasonable.
We don’t all work 9a-5p, M-F. My husband starts work at 3am, so goes to bed about 6pm. I had a later bedtime when I was a toddler. I also worked a graveyard shift fir a couple years when I was younger, so would sleep during the day. Whatever time you need to, want to, or have to go to bed is your business, and everyone else can just STFU!
Everyone has a different sleep schedule. I'm a night owl myself, but still manage to get enough sleep.
Stop helicoptering your kids and let them go outside and scrape their knees and drink from the hose.
Exactly. And hosing down a child covered in mud in the garden is not child abuse Dr Phill. I don't have kids, which is probably best.
Can confirm being hosed down in the garden is not abuse, nor is it a punishment, it's just practical.
Load More Replies...Our immune system’s get bored when they don’t have anything to do. As a result all of these kids that haven’t had an opportunity to go out and play in the dirt and eat things are not supposed to and squish their toes in cow patties have over active immune system’s and they’re allergic to everything. Living in a sterile environment is going to make you sick
It has been theorized that may be why digestive problems and cancers are higher in first world countries
Load More Replies...My daughters, now 32 and 35, often thank me for the lack of internet and electronic gadgets in the house during their childhood. They spent time outside! They built clubhouses out of carboard boxes, dug in the dirt, went to playgrounds, road their bikes, built forts in the snow - you get the picture. Today, kids think having to spend time outdoors to entertain themselves is is a punishment.
my sister is 6 we still play together all the time! we always build snow forts.
Load More Replies...i support this. letting kids do their own thing can be beneficial for them and for you.
Decades later and I still think cold water from a hose back then was the best thing I ever drank.
I think it depends on what area you live in. Numerous of children have gone missing or have been accidently shot near me.
Not down to helicoptering. The parents whose kids are outside are the ones that have forced them to relinquish the screen for a while, i.e. are the ones more involved in making decisions for their children. Not blaming the kids, screens are addictive.
TikTok is stupid.
I follow subs on tiktok that are informational the animal videos and some comedic ones and people that make miniatures some cooking ones that are aged 35-to i think the oldest man I follow is in his 80s. I don't ever see anyone dancing or any of the people that are considered famous
Same. They don’t even show up on my fyp. I think the dance videos are stupid anyway.
Load More Replies...Yeah, I heard somewhere that tiktok is collecting too much information. Way more than they need for ad purposes and things like that.
Load More Replies...Please stop dissing TikTok. It's a place where people can go and post videos and keep their horrible little lives away from me. We really don't want them on BP. (As an aside, has anyone else noticed that most of the blindingly obvious/stupid threads on BP are from TikTok? Because I have. They have their site, we have ours. Please miss me with that TikTok shite.)
Depend on what content you are watching, there are some manufacturing operations and tricks I have never learned in Engineering. I got them to know through TikTok.
Kids absolutely shouldn't have cell phones or tablets or whatever thing like that.
Depends on what you let them do with it. My son has an iPad but it is severely restricted. He can’t get to anything but the bbc bitsize website and only has access to the educational apps. At 6.30 in the evening it locks out until 7am the next day.
Similar to my three kids. The older two (9 and 10) also have to spend as much time reading a book as they want to spend on electronics.
Load More Replies...I don't like this one. Cell phones and tablets are a party of daily life and if your kid doesn't learn to use one they're going to be at a disadvantage. Since they're such expensive devices they're also pretty great tools to teach kids the importance of looking after what you have and using it carefully.
They are addictive and kids don't need them. We learned in our 20s or later, they can too.
Load More Replies...Yeah, because it would be so awful if your child had a quick way to reach out to you in case of emergency. I mean, you obviously don't have to buy your child the latest iPhone or something ridiculously expensive, but you are taking this technology demonization way too far.
My thoughts exactly. Back when cell phones became popular, my mother got me one for my birthday, but ended up giving it to me two weeks early after I had been attacked by a dog while I was going for a walk with our own dog. If I ever have kids, they‘ll get a cell phone and be taught what to do in case of an emergency as early as possible.
Load More Replies...I think that it really depends on the age. A child should not have a phone or have unlimited acess to internet. Having a computer or tablet with some games is not a problem as soon as the kid is doing what needs to do before (homework and so).
Agreed. 11-13 is about the age most people start getting their first actual cell phones, but I don't support giving a small child unlimited access to the internet.
Load More Replies...I see so many parents just giving their young kids a tablet so they don't have to deal with them. It's a weird form of avoiding parenting IMHO. Kids need interaction. They need to play. They need to learn to socialize. When they're older they should have some way to contact parents. Granted we've come to a point of over parenting that means people call CPS if kids walk alone to and from elementary school. It's a tough line to walk when it comes to technology. I think it really comes down to finding balance.
My husband and I agreed that when we have children - with the exception of a basic TracFone for safety reasons - until a child can work a job and pay for the phone/contract/airtime, they don't NEED a fancy phone. As for tablets, if the school says they have to have one, the school can provide one. Otherwise, the tablet we will purchase will be something like a Kindle, not a massively expensive iPad.
My little cousin had a cell phone at 5! I was disgusted by that thought until I learned somethings. One it was a special kind of phone that could only call certain numbers and receive calls from certain numbers. Second, his mom is a severe alcoholic. One day she had passed out and he thought she was dead. He was scared and called my aunt (his grandma) and because of that she lost custody. He was saved because of that phone.
People are far too thin skinned. Stop taking everything so personally and learn to handle things you don't like hearing.
And nuances and gradient. It seems people are a lot more binary with their opinions. If you disagree the slightest then you're taken as completely opposing. What's up with that?
Load More Replies...Jokes are subjective and honestly a joke can literally offend anyone depending on the person. Humor is slowly dying because of all the overly sensitive people out there
Well when I’m having a debate with somebody which I enjoy having a good debate with somebody and they resort to calling me a racist pig when we’re talking about Geocaching. I’m not going to take it well, Nor am I going to stand for being abused by somebody I don’t know and can’t punch.
Yeah, that individual, I just stop and walk away mid-conversation. They've proven themselves unworthy of my time or energy
Load More Replies...It's funny watching everyone be offended that I'm not a social person and they call me rude and insult me. And yet I don't get offended but they do?
By not a social person, do you mean an introvert?
Load More Replies...Part of it is confidence. If you think of yourself always a victim, you will feel every little thing. If you are confident in your own self, words can't really do any damage. Because, who cares what others think?
Unfortunately, we seem to be living in the age of the victim
Load More Replies...This is often said by those who have abhorrent beliefs. "Oh, don't be such a snowflake. It's my business if I think whites/men are smarter than blacks/women."
I can't believe you said this. You are so prejudiced against [insert literally any group of people here]. Our next march for action against the oppression of [literally any group] is on [literally any date, none of them matter]. There will be face-painting, a marching band, refreshments and then later, rioting and looting. Next week on the 'I Am Oppressed Show', why people don't care about dates anymore and treat them all the same. It's disgusting. You disgust me. Your kind are not welcome here. Go set up your own protest with blackjack and hookers. IDC! I hate you.
Sooo jerks are finally being called to the carpet, en masse, and you think it is the people who have been bullied for decades that have the issue?
At the same time, realize that just because something does not affect you personally, does not mean that people who are affected are being thin-skinned.
Quit spending money on stupid stuff that you won’t want in a year and put it towards saving for the future.
I would have loved an android to be in this picture
Load More Replies...I can't help but get the feeling that Apple isn't just a tech company, but a cult.
I'm sorry but $1000 for a monitor stand? Is that real? Why? What's it made of?
The word of today: waste. let's waste words complaining aboute waste while we all waste and say how wasteful generations before us were. It's their fault the world is polluted, but we need to own 15 of those 3 dollar mass produced shirts because we need a selfie in every color, right?
People use their phones too much, particularly for texting and social media. Getting upset because your girlfriend/boyfriend hasn't texted you back for a few hours, or hasn't liked your photo, is so unhealthy.
The generation before boomers said the same thing about telephones because how many teenagers waited around the house waiting for their bf/gf to call.
Comparing a telephone call to total immersion in social media is like comparing a drop of water to drowning in the ocean.
Load More Replies...I so dislike seeing people walking around with their phones in their hand like they have to answer it on the first ring or someone dies. Really, aren't the people you're with more important than whoever may be calling?
Being on time for casual social events matters.
I generally agree, but it depends on what's standard for your group of friends. For casual get-togethers at my house, my good friends always show up 15 minutes late. That's because they know I'm running around trying to make everything perfect right up to the last minute, and that 15 minutes gives me a chance to sit down and relax for a moment. On the other hand, we invited a couple for dinner a few weeks ago, and they were more than an hour late (with no text, phone call, or apology). I was really annoyed, but they apparently thought it was pretty standard practice. Maybe in their circle of friends it is.
This doesn't seem to have anything to do with when a person was born. Some people old or young arrive early, some late, some right on time.
I agree entirely. But there's a flip side to this coin. Arriving too early is also inconsiderate. If you arranged 8pm then people are expecting you for 8pm. Please don't turn up at 7:30pm because things may not be ready. When I say 'things' I mainly mean me, but I still may be running around juggling mushroom vol-au-vents at that time. If we say ten minutes either side then we're all happy aren't we? As an aside, I have depression and acute social anxiety so I may be overreacting here. But that's how I feel about punctuality so there you go.
Thank you! My in-laws love to show up early by 30 minutes or more. There's a good chance I'm in the shower when they arrive. Showing up too early is also disrespecting the other person's time.
Load More Replies...If someone doesn't arrive within half an hour, I get up and leave. I've had friends who thought it was fine leaving me in a restaurant or pub for over an hour because they couldn't be bothered to get there on time.
10 minutes, max, unless they message me to say they'll be late.
Load More Replies...We waited 30 minutes for some people to join us on an outing then left without them. Later that day I got a quite "hurt" phone call saying it wasn't fair that we didn't wait for them. My reply was it was a bit unfair of them to have been so late without phoning.
Hard disagree!! Being extra stressed out, especially for someone with anxiety, when you're planning on meeting up for a drink at a friend's place is completely unnecessary and leads to isolation. For a lot of events, timing doesn't matter...so don't construct drama for nothing. But if the event involves one person sitting alone at a bar, or a dinner going cold, then absolutely try to be on time or keep your company updated.
I've left on a few occasions when a friend still hasn't showed up after 20 minutes.
Twerking is trashy.
I love it and it takes a lot of energy to do it so I say do your thing
It’s fun, I just never do it around people. It DOES take a lot of energy! I started learning to twerk as a joke to myself and it wasn’t easy lol.
Load More Replies...I agree. Someone tried to tell me it was an African dance! NO! Tribal dances had meaning, ceremonial for weddings, hunting, celebrations, etc. They usually told a story. Twerking is just shaking your behind. The only meaning behind it is "Oh, look at my butt!"
Stop trying to dictate this kind of stuff, especially with the word "trashy". It's literally just dancing. If you don't like it, that's perfectly fine, but people are not lower than you for enjoying or partaking in it.*
Load More Replies...I think so as well, but I would never interfere with anyone's right to do a trashy dance.
So is constantly sticking out your tongue in pictures (thinking of you, Miley Cyrus). You look like an idiot.
Sending out thank you notes when you receive a gift from someone. My mom was always big on that and I understand why. I bought an expensive gift for my friends birthday and she never messaged me or said thank you for the gift. Saying thank you isn’t that hard and it means a lot to the person.
My godchildren haven’t had gifts for the past two years because of this.
Load More Replies...A pet peeve of mine. If I don't get a Thank You, the gifts stop. I am down to 2 grandchildren who still receive birthday money. All the others screwed up.
The only and correct way to handle it. They don't need to send massive cards and declare their undying gratitude, but a text or a call is sufficient. Also a thanks is a confirmation that they received the gift.
Load More Replies...I'm just happy thank you cards have never been a thing here. Not saying thank you when someone gives you anything is just bad manners, but no need to go over board.
I quit giving my sister in law gifts for her birthday and Christmas because she wouldn’t ever say thank you or acknowledge she got it. I just recently found out she has been cheating on my brother so I’m so glad I didn’t waste my money on her ass.
Same, meaning not even an acknowledgement! Won't be wasting time getting her anything from now on.
Load More Replies...It's when they don't even let you know the present arrived. I have friends, who are otherwise dear to me, whose children never write back and I'm left hoping.
My entitled step daughter once said to me, "Why should I say thank you? I didn't ask for it." I was pretty disgusted with that attitude and made me glad I didn't have kids of my own.
Don't give her anything anymore, and if she asks why, tell her it's bc she didn't ask for it!
Load More Replies...a thank you note? do you guys in the US send presents by mail or what? I say you give me present in person I thank you in person and that's it.
Some of us don't live close enough to see each other or see each other in person easily. Just also super busy lives, it's hard to get together. If the gift is given in person, an in person thank you is plenty except baby showers/weddings.
Load More Replies...I sent a sympathy card to Queen Elizabeth when Prince Philip passed away (and yes, I'm an American - but she lost her husband of 70+ years). A few days ago I received a thank card for my "kind words of sympathy". Totally made my day!
Cancel culture is stupid. Everyone is stupid when they're young and dumb. You make bad decisions sometimes and the you you are today isn't necessarily the you that you used to be. Social media should have a 7 year mandatory erase period. Any tweet or fb post or whatever disappears after 7 years permanently.
The problem is it depends on what was said or done. If someone harrassed people in their younger days and essentially got away with it, I understand the desire to hit back. If a national hero kept slaves, we should acknowledge that they were far from perfect.
Yes, but we also need to acknowledge their current behavior. If the person is willing to own up to it and say "yeah I did crappy things, I'm not perfect, I'm sorry" we need to accept that too.
Load More Replies...How could you possibly know that the norms of your time wouldn’t measure up to those of people who decided what those new standards were long after you made them. Everyone is a work in progress and you live, learn and modify your views over time. To throw a tweet from when they were 13 at someone when they’re 25 is ludicrous BS. I suspect that those doing the cancelling with fall foul of their own rules in ten years time. No one (historical or others) can possibly live up to the impossible moral standards touted by such people.
Just because you don't agree with someone's opinion is not a just cause to cancel someone. Trying to ruin a persons life because they penciled in a single box when voting? pathetic
Interesting isn`t it, how people become the intolerance they claim they want to get rid off....
I may agree with young and dumb shouldn't follow you forever, but when someone in their 30s tweets something entirely egregious, it should follow you when you're 60 and running for office, or making policy calls at major corporations. People should know the caliber of human calling the shots.
Except that in my 50 years of experience, if someone is racist they cannot change. They might say they are changed, but really they still feel the same way about that groups of humans that they felt when they were young. In fact, most racism gets worse as people age.
My dad was a perfect example of that! When he & my mom were first married, he had his own radio & television repair business, and almost all his customers were black - he was one of the few white men who would do business with black people. Over the years, his true nature came out & he was a nasty, vicious racist. He was also emotionally & mentally abusive, and the last 10 years of his life I rarely spent any time with him, and I absolutely do not regret it.
Load More Replies...Cancel culture. In my area of America some overzealous people actually tore down a statue thinking it was a historical figure when it was actually a statue of Don Quixote, They also change the name that had the word Dixie in it because they associated that with the south when in fact that was somebody’s last name. It’s pretty pathetic. We have to keep symbols of our past mistakes in our lives so that we don’t continue to make them. Those symbols should not be in an inappropriate place, To have a symbol of a racist be on the steps of your so called fair and impartial courthouse it’s just a constant reminders of those people whose race are victims that they may continue to be victimized.
Cancel culture is called "the consequences of actions". Every single person in the world has the right to follow/purchase/subscribe/etc. to the things/brands/people they like/support/believe in. When one of the entities they support exhibits bad behavior, then they have the option of no longer supporting them. The term "cancel culture" was created by American Conservatives as way to blame someone else rather than take responsibility for their behavior.
No cancel culture is called "the punishment for something you did so long ago that you aren't even the same person anymore". It may have started off as something good, and hell there may still be a few legitimate cases around but you shouldn't judge someone for something they said 9 years ago when they were a stupid 18 year old. I'm sure I said a lot of crap when I was 20 that I don't believe in anymore and I sure as hell don't deserve to be judged for awful opinions I had due to the environment I was raised in. Just because someone was racist at 19 doesn't mean they're racist at 25. Just because someone was "pro life" at 21, doesn't mean they're still pro life at 30. People's opinions change as they become more informed about the world, and if we keep judging everyone based only on what they did in the past nobody is going to be motivated to be better people.
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Posting your kids on social media
Unrecognizable is ok. You don't want their faces picked up by creeps and used in videos. And yes, that happens.
I'd say it also depends on how you're managing your social media. If you're uploading a picture of your kids to a private facebook profile where you've only got friends and family added there's no issue, easy way to share memories.
Load More Replies...Actually, posting your children on social media can be argued as child endangerment. It's on the individual child and poster.
Child predator's' HEAVEN! We were once told to NOT post children picture. All that has gone by the wayside.
You are posting photos that will follow the child for the rest of their life. They will be searchable. Let children have some privacy
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Our society is wayyyyyyy too materialistic. Most people can't go one year without "upgrading" their phone or buying the latest and greatest GPU. Your last year's model will work just fine.
My gaming pc is 12 years old and still works fine. I upgraded my iPhone a couple of years ago. Went from a 6 to a XS.
Same, I've added a hard drive and some ram, and maybe changed my graphics card once, but fundamentally my PC is nearly 15 years old and can still play anything
Load More Replies...My policy with my phone is - as long as it still works, I'll keep using it. No need to upgrade just to upgrade. That being said - I did just have to upgrade a 5 y/o Galaxy S7 to a Galaxy S21 because the S7 wasn't 4G/5G capable.
Yeah, I have a 5 year old phone now & will have to upgrade before the end of this year because of the 5G thing.
Load More Replies...My laptop and my phone were given to me when I retired along with some other laptops that were written off. All laptops have an Intel i7, 8GB memory and a 500GB SSD. So I'm fine for the next decade or 2.
My car is 16 years old and my laptop is 8. I'm always mystified when I see a younger person with the latest everything, designer bags and shoes, drinking their $8 unicorn drink, posting on IG while taking their 'dream' vacation, and then they complain that they'll never be able to afford a house. That it's all someone else's fault that they can't afford it.
I'm still running a 1080ti in a pc case from 2013 and my phone is a Samsung s8. I did get a new CPU and motherboard (Ryzen 5800X on X570) four months back though along with an NVME drive but that's all i've added to my system in the past few years. My phone, GPU and NVME drive were all bought used.
Our cars are 22 and 20, washing machine is 35, kitchen appliances are 19, Plasma tv is 14 (but starting to go) and 85% of our furniture are inherited from late family members Computer is from 2006 and that I do want to replace, but my 2nd iPad does 90% of what that desktop did. First iPad lasted 6 years and I have a flip phone from 2006.
Flannel shirts are amazing, and should be a part of everybody’s wardrobe for fall/winter
I still have mine from college/university and still fits me!! I also have newer ones, but that was the first I bought for myself with my hard(ly?!?) earned money... :)
Sorry sweeping generalization you try hanging out in Hawaii in December and a flannel shirt. Nope nope nope.
Am 29: If the conversation is going to take more than 3-5 texts (or emails), just call me. Social media is bad for your health. Social media is not real life. Never take anything said on Twitter/Facebook/Reddit seriously. Kids these days need to go play outside more. Participation trophies are stupid. This is coming from someone who had a few as a kid. Taxes aren't hard to figure out, especially if you don't own a house.
"Kids need to play outside more." Society proceeds to make the outside dangerous or illegal to be. "Kids and their stupid phones ..."
Or have Karens policing parents who allow their kids to be “free range”, even if they have boundaries they can’t cross (certain streets or parks, etc). Hell, I was free range as a kid, but had boundary lines of certain streets I couldn’t cross. I remember crossing one once. My mother knew about it before I got home, because there was a network of parents who called each other when they saw the kids doing something they shouldn’t. They weren’t Karens, because they only called when they saw something really against the rules, and only to give a heads up, not dictate.
Load More Replies...The thing with participation trophies for me is that I knew damn well that “participation” meant I lost. I was under no illusions that it was the same thing as winning and I strongly doubt any of my peers were either. As for taxes, what bugs me about that is the number of Americans who blame schools, when the average worker in New Zealand doesn’t have to submit any paperwork about their taxes at all and even a slightly nonstandard worker like me can file my taxes by filling out a few basic details on the IRD website.
1. Calls are terrifying 3. There was a thing talking about why people don't go out anymore.
I dislike calls too. If I wanted to call you I wouldn't have texted you in the first place....if you don't want to have a long text conversation with me just tell me and I'll go find someone else to text with.
Load More Replies...I hate texting so I definitely agree with number 1. Participation trophies are ridiculous and some taxes are harder to figure out even without a house. Our taxes are quite complicated coz hubby is a sub contractor.
1. calling is a lot more time consuming then texts, which you can answer in your own time. 2. social media can be toxic, but it’s another way to connect with friends and there’s variations. it’s not all celebrities dancing on tiktok. 3. plenty of kids play outside. some of them can’t, either because the area they live in is unsafe or any other reason. there’s also A PANDEMIC 4. this whole “pARtiCiPaTiOn TrOPhY” nonsense needs to stop. it’s not the kids who want the trophies, it’s the parents. as a kid, i couldn’t care less about whatever participation trophies i got. they’re all probably in a box somewhere. but i’ve seen parents scream over the fact that x kid got something their kid didn’t. 5. this i agree with, but they take time to figure out and manage. especially as a college student with tons of other stuff on your plate.
Good summary. On 5, there are too many variables to make the claim that taxes are essentially easy.
Load More Replies...I would love to play outside, but unfortunately there's no one to play with. I'm an only child and the only kids around either: are too old for me, my parents don't want me around them, or I'm to shy to talk to them. We live near a small playground and I've asked my parents before if I could go there on my own. But, a predator (who actually kidnapped a little girl) lives nearby the park. So yeah, I could still play outside on my own, but it's not as fun by yourself 🤷♀️
Social media needs to be recognized as a real place, because while it doesn't physically exist it is still a place where people can make connections, lose friends, get bullied, or boost their self-esteem. It's important to recognise the harm of social media, definitely but it is a real place for the people who use.
No, please do not call me. That is the one thing I hate even more than texting. Do NOT ever call me, unless you are dying right now.
There's too many subscription services for s**t.
It's nice to have access to unlimited movies and TV, but like. For the most part I wind up just watching the same sitcom over and over to decompress after work. I wonder how much I could have saved by just getting B99 and King of the Hill box sets instead of paying for Hulu for four years.
And anything where they mail you a box of curated crap every month is absolutely unnecessary, toot f***ing sweet.
Yes! I grew up before channel 5 and usually something to watch, but with 600+ channels of sky TV I'm often stuck because it's all trash or repeats.
My dad worked for the BBC and I grew up awed when I found out that in America there were hundreds of channels (we had only three until I was 17 and Channel 4 started). My dad assured me that they were hundreds of channels of utter crap. Now we too have access to the same amount I know he was speaking the truth. I would hazard a guess that we've gained the equivalent of one or two extra channels of decent content.
Load More Replies...right up there with the 'ugly produce' boxes. total bullshit.
I thought they took produce that grocery stores wouldn't take therefore preventing food waste? Tho tbf it would probably be better used to feed those who have trouble affording food.
Load More Replies...I hope cinemas will heal from their COVID-19 loss and won't go extinct. Disney+ will never give me as much of a thrill as a dark cinema hall with some 3D-Glasses and a pack of popcorn.
We pick 1 service. Netflix. We can't get the other ones. So we pirate as we see fit. Hell If you're not planning to make money out of me anyway, i haven't taken anything from you. Skadoosh.
Most of us quit cable because streaming was cheaper, but now all the networks still want their money so they find it one way or another. Just stop. TVs are already expensive. We have to pay internet monthly. Can’t we just have something for free?
i split netflix cost with three kids. internet too. keeps it manageable. i do without the rest.
I don't like e-books. I only read books that are printed on paper. It's just much more satisfying.
Ebooks take up less space though. And they allow me to bring an entire library with me on a bus or train.
And they are great for people who travel a lot due to work or studies. Between 23 and 26yo I lived in two cities in Spain, two in the netherlands, one in germany and one in belgium. I cant carry my library around all the time so having an ebook was fantastic. Now that I settled I beought ny childhood books and I am building my library
Load More Replies...It IS more satisfying to read a physical book, but if you live in a country with pathetic options of books in English, especially the genres/authors you enjoy, digital is the only option. Lest one is willing to pay ridiculous costs for shipping and import tax.
I completely disagree. Without ebooks and a night mode setting I had difficulty reading. It's more satisfying to be able to read without having to repeat the same sentence over and over.
i just don't want everybody to see what crap i sometimes read :D those books are my gulty pleasure, but i don't need everybody to know :D
I like physical books better too. I tend to be faster and more focused when I read them and my eyes don't hurt.
Eyes don't hurt when using e readers. A smartphone or tablet screens will make your eyes hurt because they flicker. The e ink screens on teh readers don't. It's no different than paper.
Load More Replies...I love paper books. But I read ebooks too. Especially whenever I am traveling or giving blood (or plasma). The luxury of having a light “book“ I can use with one hand... amazing! Plus I can't stand the bad quality and the smell of US paper backs, so whenever I read US books I actually prefer ebooks.
I do prefer printed books but ebooks take up much less space.
Ebooks have their place, but you cant smell and ebook. Nothing like the smell of and old paper book.
I like physical buttons. Not everything needs to be on a touchpad.
Yes! This is where voice tech would’ve been the more logical choice. I don’t know why they went with something you have to look away from the road to use. Even the old low tech buttons and dials could be memorized, but a screen has to be looked at—-and god forbid you hit a bump and your finger taps the wrong command!!
Load More Replies...The good old days when you could write and entire text message without even seeing your phone screen because you could memorize the buttons 😁
Some touchpads don't even register when I'm touching them, because I have chronically cold hands.
When I had a full button mini keyboard, never had a misspelling or autocorrect error 99% of the time (ask anyone I texted back then). Now with freaking swype, half the time is proofreading to make sure i have all the right ducking words.
I miss the number buttons, I could send an entire conversations without ever looking at my phone!
I loved the old iPod with the click wheel, because I could select and change the music without looking at it. Now, I have to stop so I can watch the screen. I'm sure some people just keep driving while looking at the screen, which is frightening.
I miss the old school phones with buttons. I prefer the simpler technology.
Especially in the car. I can't change the station until I'm at a light. It sucks.
That society is slowly putting much more emphasis on people accepting their faults than working on them.
Not working on your faults is also fine...as long as you're willing to accept the consequences that come with that. If I accept the fact that I'm an asshole and don't want to work on it I also need to accept that I'm going to lose friends and alienate people.
I get (and agree) with the general idea, but sometimes it affects people around the person more than the person itself.
Load More Replies...People will admit they have a fault and then that's it. Like if you own up that you are argumentative, then thats ok---because you know it about yourself. Which is bullsh-t.
The people who have "If you can't handle me at my worst..." written on their wall. Just to discover that in real life people don't want to deal with you if you don't know how to be at your best.
It all depends. There are actual bad habits, issues, conditions, and problems that should be addressed (mental issues, drug addiction, etc). But people tend to butt in where there isn’t a problem. I mean, if it’s something like you’re very skinny, but you’re healthy and happy and not anorexic, then I say you should be left alone. But if you’re too skinny, unhealthy, unhappy, and obsessively starving yourself because you see yourself as fat, then there should be an intervention, and you should seek help.
Depends on the faults, who considers them such, and who it's hurting, in all honesty.
I think the body positivity movement has morphed into this. Obviously, no one should be bullied because of their appearance, but don't spread the lie that it's healthy to be obese. Nearly 3 million people die every year because of obesity; it puts undue stress on your bones, joints, and organs.
What kind of faults? The way we look should be accepted as long as we're clean. I feel like we're asking people to be more accepting of all kinds of people while denouncing misogyny racism homophobia. The only thing I see now is a rise in narcissism but maybe people have always been that way we're just now all seeing it on a worldly scale bc of SM and the internet
A culture of immediate gratification and excess of creature comforts begets a spoiled population. There's something to be said for the character that can be built through patience and powering through adversity.
I agree about instant gratification and the importance of patience and hard work, but I also think it's important to separate that from this kind of messed up idea western culture has that suffering makes you a better person. There's a difference between instant access to luxury items vs to necessary resources (affordable food, water, shelter, healthcare, and in this day and age, internet. To clarify, I'm not saying everyone needs social media, I'm saying it is nearly impossible to go to school or work today without access to online resources.)
Then again, YouTube can be 1 of the best learning tools. If you can't find a "how to" there, it doesn't exist.
Load More Replies...There's a great satisfaction and sense of accomplishment in "saving up for" something badly wanted - and it results in pleasure from the things you get.
And, by the time you've saved up for it you've had the time to decide if it's something you really want and should be buying, or not. Plus, deciding if it's a want or an actual need. If you're saving, if the s*** hits the fan you still have that money you were saving for a want available to help with that emergency. Instant gratification can backfire and cause problems in the long run that you will not find any gratification about.
Load More Replies...This has been a complaint from one generation about the next since records began.
America is going to get hammered big-time because of how the feds kept bailing out corporate America since 2015. How it encouraged bad behavior and we will all soon pay for it. I’m thinking 2023 we’re going to get hit hard with an economic kick in the teeth. All because Wall Street got addicted to free money.
It was always like that trough history. The only difference there between us and Egyptians is the number of people affected either way. Withholding gratification for a long time usually brings bitterness, jealousy and anger. Prolonged adversity makes people cruel and unable to change. The few who can come over either being spoiled or put down the ones we usually call a leader. But not all leaders are good people.
Good times create soft people, Soft people create hard times, Hard times create hard people, and Hard people create good times…
You guys aren't channeling boomers; you sound like my grandparents, who were born in the 1890's.
I'm confused by this post. All this has told me is that boomers are the normal ones with their head screwed on. I'm a millennial and couldn't agree more with most of these opinions. If this post is insinuating most genz and millenials disagree.. I officially fear for the future.
Teenagers are scary. Mainly in groups of 3+
I don't agree with scary, but I find them incredibly annoying. And often a bit ridiculous.
Teenagers are awesome! Then again, I work with them every day, so I'm used to them. Try treating them like actual human beings instead of pests, and you'd be surprised at how reasonable teens are. /rant over.
"Kids should go outside more" "but not anywhere i have to see or hear them and definitely not in groups"
Teen guys are the scary ones. Mostly because it doesn't take much for them to decide as a group to do something awful on a whim. ProTip to teen boys out there: getting in the same hot tub as two women with your group of five guys and hitting on them is creepy. So is getting out of the hot tub at the same time they do and following them over to the outdoor shower to watch them rinse off before they leave the pool area.
Any time you have a group of six or more people, the IQ of each of them sinks to the lowest IQ of the group. This number goes to four if there are costumes involved. If the costumes are of pirates, the number is two
whenever i come across of a group of guys who behave or look like my bullies, i still get afraid. it's been 15years and i am an adult but still they scare me.. >.<
You don’t often find men who harass women when they’re alone, they’re almost always with others.
My back hurts
Sorry to have to inform you, but to help prevent it it requires exercising your core muscles to provide support, back, side and abdomen. Stretching too. If muscles can stretch when they need to your less likely to hurt those muscles should they need to stretch and cant. Google good body mechanics. Most people don't know what they are. No guarantee here. I majorly hurt my back even having done all of the above. Herniated disc. Sometimes it just happens. But my recovery was easier because of all that. Too many younger people are having back pain. Try doing these things above and save back pain for old age.
What the hell? lol How did this even make the list? What is wrong with someone's back hurting?
so does mine - along with knees, hips, head and fingers - so? You never know somebody else's pain
The second article sheds light on the generational differences and shared opinions between millennials and baby boomers. Interestingly, it echoes sentiments similar to those expressed in the first article, where millennials reflect on their gradual acceptance of middle-aged behaviors.
This fascinating convergence is reminiscent of millennials embracing certain middle-aged traits, showing how both generations can share similar views as they age.
I’d really enjoy some social security
Yeah the term security is a misnomer. For those of you who don’t know, being on Social Security for any reason is forced poverty. At some point in time in your life you’re going to have to give up all your possessions in order to live on a meager monthly income, you’re going to have to jump through 100 hoops to get it and the government is going to demand some of that income back in order to pay for your health care. And God for bid you make a mistake about any of your living conditions because you will pay for it big time. If you can…stay out of the system for as long as you are able
perhaps the GOP can finally agree to pay the social security trust fund back the three trillion dollars they borrowed --swearing it's just a short term loan, honest -- back when W's dad held sway. that's it, really. if the bastards would make good on their word, and replace that money, social security would be very very solvent...
Get off my lawn.
Not relevant. This response to protestors demanding equality and peace is not the same as this response to a well known and violent street gang.
Load More Replies...The rifle may date to WW2, but it's the Korean war that's important in this context.
Load More Replies...People are way too overprotective of kids these days. It's making for anxious adults who aren't confident in their own abilities. I grew up underneath a helicopter parent, who was WAY too overprotective. I have to actively force myself to not be that way with my kids. Which, maybe I've swung too far in the opposite direction, but I really want my kids to do things on their own and not be 18 years old on the highway having a panic attack because they don't know what to do with a flat tire (not my finest moment). I also want to be able to freakin leave my kids in the car for TWO MINUTES while I step inside the gas station to pay for my gas when the card reader outside is down. To me, it's not worth the damned hassle to get both kids out of the car, herd them inside, make sure they keep their sticky fingers to themselves just to pay for gas. I always end up going to a different station if that's the case. I remember being 8 years old, bored in the grocery store and given my mom's keys to sit in the car and read. Can't do that today, it's child abuse via neglect. Like, come on. I don't do this things, not because it makes my kids safer, but because it lessens the chance that I'll be investigated for something that I don't think is inherently wrong. I sometimes feel like the equivalent of the old lady whining about kids these days. I'll be 33 in a month, btw.
there's a big difference between leaving your 3 month old in the car in the summer with the windows rolled up while you go to the bar, and leaving your 10 year old in the car in the summer with the windows down, water, and a book to read while you shop for groceries. it's so frustrating to me that we, as a society, can't seem to tell the difference.
In the US things have really gotten out of control. There's a difference between being an irresponsible parent and leaving your kids in the car for 2 minutes while you have the keys. But it seems that even letting your children walk home from school unsupervised is enough for the CPS to investigate you. It's quite ridiculous that neighbors call the police because Jimmy from next door is riding his bike while his mother isn't watching him. And the police informs CPS because that kind of bad parenting really needs to be addressed.
100% We used to walk along agriculture maintenance roads in the farmland around my house. Super safe and harmless. Many wonderful adventures were had there as kids. Now they're all fenced and locked, and if they're not some touchy farmer who's watched too much Fox news fear mongering, or stuffed shirt county worker will come threaten to call the police just for kids walking down a dirt road. Then they all complain that kids need to get outside more. Where? The same neighborhood park every day? Kids don't need more safe spaces and playground equipment. They need rocks and sticks and friends and imagination.
I just realised I don’t know what to do with a flat tore in the middle of a highway. Halp.
Or having pedophiles/ child snatchers snatch your kid out of the car. Pedophiles and kidnappers are everywhere these days.
I've never, ever done this.Only when my kids could get out from the car on their own. My car's battery was on fire once. Thank god, nobody was in the car. So never, never let your small kid in the car.
Sure, because some breaks into a locked car, in the middle of the gas station, while you are away for 2 minutes.
Load More Replies...Your life's main focus shouldn't be just about going viral and getting likes on social media. Put your phone down and do something better with your life.
I think the problem is many people crave attention, and doing something ridiculous is the shortest path to get there. I sat down and made two 'good' youtube videos a few years ago. I had no interest in becoming well-known for no reason. I wanted to convey information. A 'like' because you've actually helped convey information to someone is worth 1000x more than a 'like' because you've just entertained someone for a few seconds.
Not everything has to be inclusive of everybody.
it depends on context. public spaces should be accessible to people in wheelchairs or any other disability, but there’s nothing wrong with not inviting someone to brunch because you don’t want to see them.
I think this is more true from the perspective of minority groups (although I don't know which side the author is coming from). Queer spaces don't have to work to include straight/cis people, POC spaces shouldn't cater to white people, disabled spaces shouldn't have to accommodate the finer feelings of abled people. But if you're telling me that we shouldn't be working to make Public spaces accessible and safe for minorities, that's a different problem. Then again, the wording is really vague and this may not be what they were going for at all.
@Osgood, your rationale was used to support segregation. Just so you know
Load More Replies...Sounds like a business owner that didn't want to spring for wheelchair ramps
The internet is ruining kids minds, particularly youtube because of ‘influencers’ I’m glad the youtube I grew up with in 2010-2015 was just mostly harmless stuff Of course people like Jaystation and other influencers existed but they were nowhere near as big as they are now and were a few years back
Well, I grew up in 2000-2005, and back then people claimed Pokemon was ruining kids' minds. There is always something that allegedly ruins kids' minds. I think we should 1)give kids a bit more credit 2) admit that the main contributor to ruined kids' minds is inadequate parenting.
"influencers" have existed in one form or another for all time. In the 18th century it was aristorcrats. In the 20th it was pop musicians. The problem is when the whole system became monetised- and "influencing" became an industry in itself- no longer connected to talent or other means of creative expression. That industrialisation of influence is incredibly harmful, but sadly, just an inevitable product of a capitalist system.
Well if they grew up in 2010-2015 this is not a boomer's opinion? I have no interest in following a single influencer. Or knowing their names. I use YouTube when I want to find a video clip and Google finds it for me on you tube 🤷♀️ I moved out of home in 2005 and I'm not a boomer yet either. This thread is just common sense stuff that is about the negatives of technology really
The thread is "Boomer opinions" from non-Boomers.
Load More Replies...There are actually two "target" age groups for influencers as far as I can see. One is the young set covering makeup and fashion, and the other is cleaning and organising and aimed at an older demographic. What 14 year old is going to be "influenced" by the latest Vax cordless vacuum, or which Big Box store sells the best storage containers? This latter group tend to market themselves as "motivational" rather than influencers, and seem to be mostly of the SAHM Vlogger variety - but it's the same thing as far as I can see: they're still sent some fancy sonic cleaning brush to use on their shower tiles, and show off the brand name of their kettles and whatnot.
My 6 yo nephew is mad of some influencers that play video games and talk about life in general. He has his own tablet and he's there all day since the pandemy started. It's a non return point.
Load More Replies...VLOGBROTHERS and NERDFIGHTER COMMUNITY is the best thing for me.
you seriously took this as an opportunity to plug channels you like?
Load More Replies...Unless you're wealthy enough that the cost is insignificant, no one really needs a $1,000.00 phone.
But today it's not about what you need, it's about what you want so you can show off to people who couldn't care less about you.
This is not just today, this is human nature. Example: rococo.
Load More Replies...“Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy s**t we don’t need.” – Tyler Durden
I had a not-justifiably expensive mobile phone and realized if I did my "homework" I could find an inexpensive carrier and an inexpensive ($165) smartphone with 99% of the features of my old, expensive phone!
My phone is over 10 years old, I have a landline (having a landline saved some peoples lives during the fires in California when the cell phone towers burn down) and my car is from 1993 and I would never buy a new one (I don’t need a car beeping at me because the plant near the parking lot istoo close)
People nowadays are too eager to blame everyone else for their problems. “It’s not my fault I can’t cook, clean, or do my taxes! The education system failed me!” “It’s not my fault I’m out of shape! I have a slow metabolism and need self-care days!” “It’s not my fault I lost the election! The voters are too dumb to know what’s good for them!” “It’s not my fault I lost the election! The other side cheated!” “It’s not my fault I got a useless degree with a low GPA and now can’t find a job! I was lied to!” “It’s not my fault I only speak one language! My parents should’ve taught me!” “It’s not my fault I have no friends! They just don’t understand my genius!” “It’s not my fault women don’t want to date me! They’re all gold-digging bimbos who only sleep with buff Chads!”
I got blocked on a reddit for saying this. the only reason i got a phd was i hated the jobs and pay i had without one. its ok to be uncomfortable. not everyone gets a house and a car when they hit 18. 20-year-olds complaining about pay and saying "you had it so much easier" is absolute dross. anyway, thus is called internal locus of control vs external locus of control and has a clear link with mental health and life fulfillment
But what when you blame yourself too much to understand where you go wrong?
It's a balance. Accountability is important but negative self-talk and low self-esteem are issues also. It needs to be a balance of, "here's what I can do, here's what's out of my hands, let's focus on what I can do." Thus, blaming people for blaming? The irony
This is classic right-wing libertarian thought. EVERYTHING is down to personal responsibilty and choices. NOTHING is systemically unfair, and there is no such thing as collective endeavour. Who whole "American Dream" is based on it. If you're poor, these people say you haven't worked hard enough. It absolutely stinks.
I feel the need to chime in here. There are valid reasons for people to complain about a poor education system in America. There are valid reasons for people to complain about an absolute ineffective government (For 99% of Americans), There are valid reasons for people to complain about and unjust system. There are valid reasons for people to complain about a lack of quality in our healthcare system that’s going downhill fast. When a lot of people are complaining about some thing we need to not tell them to shut up we need to find out if there’s a valid reason for their complaints and then we need to fix that thing that they’re complaining about. I think nine times out of 10 those complaints which are usually perceived as people whining are valid And instead of fixing things we end up blaming victims
It' not my fault I cant get a job that pays a living wage.............*insert generation of choice*....screwed it all up.
For some it really isn't their fault. Like having crackhead parents will really mess a kid up. But for most it's not facing up to their own issues, to not even acknowledging they're there. I see it as a lack of accountability over their own lives.
People have forgotten to take personal responsibility, because we've been infantalized. Always blame something else, like when you were three.
Too much modern music thinks loud and good are the same thing.
Yes!! I honestly hate modern music. It's so repetitive and overly sexual, amongst other bad things.
Too much lack of dynamics Too much Auto-tune Sampling is theft by dim-wits Learn a G**D*** instrument. teach yourself or get proper training if you can afford it. Don't arpeggiate a minor chord and brag about your gold teeth or your car or your junk or what a victim you are...
I took my daughter and her friends to an Ariana grande concert and fell asleep. I can't understand a word she says so it sounds like quiet yodeling through her nose to me.
That would be down to the sound guys not doing their job properly.
Load More Replies...When you have friends over you're not supposed to be on the phone all the time. Just talk, go outside, play games.
This is important. When I meet with friends, we ride bikes, sit outside, catch up, play board games, and just talk. One time at a sleepover we sat around a fire singing bits of random campfire songs, and it was fun!
Absolutely everything is disposable nowadays. Nothing is made to last anymore. If you find something you like, it'll be worn out in a year and probably not made anymore when you want to buy a replacement. It's the absolute worst with clothes and kid's toys. With kid's toys, by giving them such disposable toys, it discourages them from being nice with and taking care of their possessions. Why does it matter when it's going to get worn out so quickly and they'll be bought a replacement. I also think it's a shame that these kids won't have their toys to pass on to their own children because it couldn't last. Fun fact: Jeans originally became so popular because of their durability and affordability. They really appealed to the working-class man whose clothes were constantly getting worn out and didn't have the money to constantly spend on new clothes. Now if you want a pair of jeans of that quality, it's $60+ dollars.
I like to buy secondhand because a lot of stuff nowadays is such poor quality that it basically disintegrates as soon as you start using it. Secondhand stuff at least has proven that it could survive its first use.
I love secondhand clothing! And I find a lot of things that a new w/tags. Plus it's fun to just spend a day going through all the clothes and finding a real gem. Got a Donna Karan LBD for $5 that is drop dead gorgeous.
Load More Replies...One of my least favorite of these disposable items is particle board furniture. Ugh. It's weak, ugly, and doesn't last. I'd rather pick up a dresser made of real wood off the side of the road and refinish it.
I think $60 for a sturdy pair of jeans is actually pretty comparable to the price of original 501s. For example, bricklayers in 1870-1880 made between $2.50 and $3/day, and jeans cost about $1.60. So about half a day's labor. Bricklayers now make between $15 and $50/hour depending on where they work, so even at the lowest end a $60 pair of jeans is half a day's labor.
I found out recently there's someone (or maybe more than one person) that makes a living by searching old gold mines for abandoned denim clothing. The value of these truly vintage items is astounding.
Jeans of the quality of the early Levi's have never been cheap, and $60 is likely something of a price drop in adjusted terms. This was pretty much true for all clothing - if you wanted quality that lasted, you paid more. The difference back when was, there was no expectation that the average person would have a big wardrobe. That's something we need to get back to.
I have a typewriter from the 1950's that still works. I have a new microwave every few years because it burns out.
I wish I could get good jeans for $60. Good Japanese denim is expensive.
Call people if it’s urgent, text if you want a response later. It’s like a house phone and a letter. Lots of young people get anxiety when their phone rings, I see them stare at their phones waiting for the ringing to stop and then text to reply. “Why are you calling?” Because sometimes it’s a better way to relay information and it’s more personal.
Phone calls are scary.It's like someone calling you by your nickname all through their life and suddenly they use your full legal name.
Also if it is that urgent and you call, leave a voicemail. I’ll get back to you a lot quicker.
As someone who calls people regularly to update and confirm appts, I feel that I need to add, that people need to make sure that their voicemail is turned on and isn't full.
Load More Replies...I grew up w/ the phone. Why call when you can text and the person can see immediately what you want to say? Answering the phone (and making calls) gives me A LOT of anxiety. To be fair I did also used to work in a call center and that was pretty traumatizing...
I don't mean to be rude but it's your job to silence your phone when you don't want to be disturbed. I lost my grand parents very young (both and both sides) and I wish they could "bother" me.
Load More Replies...Face and neck tattoos make people look ridiculous.
Tattoos are amazing (I have 9) but I agree that ink is art best displayed below the neck. The only exception I can think of is the nape of the neck.
oh i dunno...they look super hot on certain people. but you have to have a neck actually....
I have seen some very beautiful tattoos. The only thing that's keeping me from getting one is that I CAN'T decide on what design I want
I would like to hope that we have reached the point where old stigmas regarding this sort of thing can fall away. Tattoos do not automatically mean military service, gang affiliation, or other 'scary things' anymore. Its an aesthetic choice.
That's your opinion. People are entitled to do whatever they like with their own bodies. We shouldn't still be gatekeeping this, especially since it's a slippery slope.
If they don't want any comments, then cover them up. The person who is tattooed can't see his or her tattoos, obviously they want others to see them. If you want a tattoo on your face, fine, but I get to dislike it and think it is awful.
Load More Replies...That girls online showing off their bodies to get views isn't a good thing. So many do it. If u just sign up for TikTok for example, it is initially and automatically full of videos of girls showing off their bodies. U gotta keep avoiding those to get it off your fyp. And all of their dances they try and sexualize themselves so people keep watching. I'm 19 btw.
To be honest, people have always done this. The internet is just a newer, broader platform for doing so.
Then society needs to stop teaching little girls that their only true value lies in how much people rate their appearance. It's ridiculous blaming the young for then acting on this. Try for yourself. Stop commenting on the appearance of any females you meet - from babies up to the elderly. Only comment on the appearance of the males you meet. Anything, from 'did you get your hair cut?' through 'new shoes? cool' to 'he's such a handsome little chap'. You can compliment a female on anything else, such as her skills or personality traits like humour or intelligence, and you can compliment her appearance if she brings it up. You are going to be shocked how hard you find both of these. But you are literally going to be part of the solution.
agree... "don't objectify women" they scream...and "here! watch me almost show my bits in public 6x a day!""
Omg how does no one still understand what consent is???? How do you not know what consent is???? What don't you understand???? This is why we need college students to be taught exactly what consent is. People made fun of those classes but they are friggin desperately needed. Other developed countries are teaching children what consent is when they are very young. We need that here in the USA desperately
Load More Replies...Stop being on your phone while you are talking to someone! It is so annoying and rude. I feel like people can't even have a conversation that lasts longer than 5 minutes without staring at their phone. As soon as someone starts looking at their phone while having a conversation, I'm not interested in talking to them anymore. Obviously it's totally okay if it's something super important, but some people just want to text with others, watch videos and like photos while talking to you. So disrespectful.
The person with you is more important thanyour phone ( except some cases of course). Be with him/her.
I was having a conversation the other day when my phone started ringing. I ignored it and kept talking. The person I was talking to looked completely amazed and asked, "Aren't you going to answer your phone?". No, I said, at this moment I'm talking to you and when we're finished, I'll talk to whomever called me. The guy looked like he got a revelation.
Full attention feels intense. I like split attention while someone is talking to me. It is why when my family is talking, we're also doing the dishes, or cleaning something else etc.
Before you have kids, you should have at least 1 of the following: - a stable career - a house you own - a stable partner
Sometimes kids aren't planned, things happen and contraception does fail. I do agree partly but it's not black and white.
Options are available for when contraception fails.
Load More Replies...How about enough money to support and raise your children while still providing for your family. A stable home environment (doesn't mean a spouse/partner bc plenty of families are much more stable with one parent). The maturity (not age...maturity) to realize that kids take a lot out of you. If you can't invest the time to love them and teach and guide them you probably aren't ready for the commitment it takes to raise a child. Also, the willingness to give up some things like time with friends, spontaneous trips with the friends, bar nights or dancing. Sure you can still do those things but it surely won't be as often. Kids take priority over the personal freedoms you had prior to them. Their well being > a new car or new iPhone if you can't afford both.
One isn't enough. Should be at least 2 - -career and house, if you can afford to raise a child alone - okay, plus should be both financially and mentally prepared to raise a child.
You dont really need a partner but for sure you need 1 and money enough to buy or rent a big place
Load More Replies...Why married unless you are religious? My partner and I have outlasted many of our married friends' relationships. It's a modern world, there's no need to get married if it's not your cup of tea
Load More Replies...Mind your own damn business and stop involving yourself in the lives of others you don’t know.
I don't care what anybody does as long as they are not harming anybody else. I'm not even all that concerned about law breakers - if they are not doing anybody else any harm. If they are harming themselves, well, that's their affair.
Weird it's called a boomer opinion. Nobody likes sticking their noses in other people's business more than an older generation.
But it's my right to tell other people what they should do with their body and their life! It's in the bible!
Doing your own handi-work is rewarding and builds character. I've noticed a lot of younger people's first response to things breaking or needing to be replaced is to hire a repair person or to just buy a new item, without attempting to fix it with their own two hands. Doing it yourself teaches you a skill that you can use to help your friends and family, makes you smarter and more well rounded, and will also help keep you calm and cool in thr face of life's frustrations. When bad things happen, it's not the end of the world. You've fixed things before and you can learn to do it again. I'm not suggesting spending hours and hours trying how to handle your own plumbing or electricity, but if your car makes a weird noise, or your walls need a fresh coat of paint or spackle, you can watch a 5 minute youtube tutorial and do it yourself.
I agree with this 1000%. My father used to have me "help" him fix things when I was younger. He would launch into these long explanations about what he was doing and why, and was soooo boring and I hated it. Now that I own my home, I am so thankful that I "helped" when I was younger because there are so many repairs that I can do myself and I save thousands on home repairs and replacements.
Even if you aren't very handy, take a broken appliance as an educational moment. Take the damned thing apart! At least you will have a better understanding of how to disassemble things, insight into the theory of operation of the device, and you may even find what is wrong. My hobby is picking up appliances off the curb and doing this. It's where both my vacuum cleaners came from, my string trimmer, and several fans, and my carpet shampooer. Keep digging deeper until you find what killed it, sometimes you don't even need parts.
The boomer solution - going to the library to get a book on the topic - is an increasingly vanishing resource in some parts of the world. It's a boomer opinion with a Gen X/Millenial solution.
Load More Replies...I recommend learning the basics of plumbing and electrical, though. You shouldn't need a plummer to unclog your toilet, or an electrician to change out a light switch.
"A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects." Even if some of it is a bit silly, Heinlein had a point in all that: do it yourself if you can, learn how if you can't and it's not a huge imposition to do so.
We rely on technology too much. If it all crashes one day no one would know what to do and we'd be stuck.
Because of that technology it's also almost impossible to fix cars on the roadside. Remember the times when your headlight went out and you put in a new lamp in 5 minutes? Today you have to remove the left front wheel to reach the screw that holds the cover to get to the fitting which is secured with 5 torx-screws to replace the lamp.
ok and? the point of technology is to make lives easier. electricity is technology. your car is technology. because of technology, new medicines are discovered. people can live longer. you’re able to reconnect with loved ones far away. of technology crashes, and i mean all technology, you would be just as stuck as your teenage neighbor.
I think there was a Family Guy episode about that...it was hilariously accurate
I hear a paleolithic grampa complaining about neolithic kids: "We're relying on bow and arrows too much these days. Most kids don't even know how to kill an elk with their bare hands anymore"
I hate tipping, just pay your workers a fair wage. Also, I live in a state where servers must be paid at least minimum wage unlike some states that can pay less, so tipping is that much more annoying to me.
i actually quite like tipping...but it shouldn't be the bulk of a person's income by any means.
I was getting my hair cut yesterday and overheard the hair dresser complain about the tip the elderly lady before me left. To the customers face. The elderly lady was saying " what is the problem ? I gave 15 %." All this poor lady was trying to do was get a haircut and instead was tip shamed. I thing tipping needs to be eliminated. We are already paying for the service and the product .
Communities within neighbourhoods would be lovely. My mum talks about it all the time, but it's something I've never experienced myself. Like, we know our neighbours, but that's about it. I'd love to live on a street or in a suburb where people have little get-togethers (street parties for big events) or just generally know and look out for each other on a more meaningful level. Sadly I am but a lowly 23 year old, far off owning my own property, but one day I would love to "be that person" and bake brownies for my little cul-de-sac. Sorry I can't back to all these comments, I'm overwhelmed lol, but I'm taking notes for future me. Currently live on a council estate where not everyone gets on (there's a cockerel war rn) so now is not the time to get cuddly with the neighbours lol.
I am an introvert but if you politely form a community who don't judge each other and are nice and know the concept having space /alone time.Yay,would love them.I always want Grannies for neighbours they Aare the BEST.
I live in a condominium complex. I have neighbors from Brazil, from Tibet, from Japan, from Ireland etc. We all watch each other’s back’s, loan each other things and are supportive. It’s so much nicer to walk over to the Brazilian house and knock on the door and let them know that their party is a little too loud then to have to call the cops on them. I love my neighbors and I will always take the opportunity to get to know my neighbors no matter where I live. I think knowing your neighbors is one of the most important things that you can do in life. In fact they may end up saving your life one day or visa versus. It feels a lot better to know I can trust my neighbors then to be suspicious of them
It's overrated. A lot of these cosy communities become cesspools of envy, gossip and boasting over time.
however that can also be entertaining if you enjoy the drama
Load More Replies...I always kinda frown whenever I read posts like these. The neighborhood I live in is full of people of the same culture, and everybody knows each other and is friends with everyone else--except for me and, like, 4 total other families (whose houses are very spread out and not near each other at ALL) who aren't of the same culture. The people of all the same culture tend to butt everybody else out for whatever reason. So even though it's a townhouse (meaning all the houses are literally connected and only thin walls separate us), we're excluded from any and all other people.
Yesssss I always wanted to live in a little neighborhood like that, because until recently I had no kids that lived nearby me that I could just walk to their house and even now I don't really know the kids but unfortunately I'm still a minor and there's not a lot I can do about that
I grew up knowing a few of our neighbors but we never really did big events in the suburbs, not even really with the ones we were close with. I always thought the idea was neat but my family just wasn’t that way. When our close neighbors died or moved, we never really met our new neighbors and tended to keep to ourselves. We also live on the outskirts of a bad city so I kind of get it. The gangs are bad.
Wokeness is more self-justified bullying and clout-chasing than actually doing good for others.
People's driving is getting progressively worse. I have to honk at someone a few times a week to move at a green light because they have to check Facebook every time they stop.
And it's even more annoying when it appears that they have to check the manual on what to do when the light goes green. " Let's see, it's green. What does a green light mean again? Oh, now I have to drive. Release parking brake? Check. Put your foot on the gas pedal? Check. Push down that pedal an itsy bitsy tiny bit so the car starts moving? Wow, Hey!! I'm moving!!!!" And in the meantime the light has changed to red again.
it is a good thing, that the use of mobile advices is forbidden while driving here in Germany.
They’re illegal in the U.S. too. Trust me, it doesn’t stop the idiots here. The amount of reckless drivers I’ve seen just by being a passenger is astounding. I’ve seen people text, be on the phone, change their clothes, do make up, eat/drink, read a newspaper or book, have a dog or baby in their lap, rummage around in another seat or not looking at the road while talking to a passenger. I’ve even witnessed drunk drivers and people falling asleep at the wheel.
Load More Replies...A signal, while appreciated, doesn't automatically give you the right of way to change lanes nor does it mean that my lane is suddenly empty. My bumper still exists and you're only about an inch away from it. How about I slow slightly and you speed up a bit to give us a buffer zone?
Flipside: people driving recklessly, too fast, constantly changing lanes, running through red lights. There are a couple roads where I live that I try not to drive on because the street racers are so prevalent.
And some people honk if you're not already rolling when the light changes.
People take message apps way to personally. Crying over "being left on read" because someone hasn't responded in a couple of hours is just pathetic. Just because somebody hasn't checked their messages in a day doesn't mean they are ghosting you either. Stop trying to normalize your phone addiction by painting people who aren't as addicted as bad people, or accuse them of neglectful behavior or abandonment. Message apps can be exhausting for some people. Not everyone feels like texting 24/7. If it's a thing that requires immediate response or an emergency, you just call. Phones can do that.
This has costed me relationships. I don't like to look at my phone at all while working which I work 11 hours a day and I've had boyfriends who didn't take that well.
I used to put the phone in plane mode as soon as i would enter the bulding. I kept it for the clock and music but i didnt want to be available
Load More Replies...I think that it comes to many people as a surprise that phones are actually able to make calls. " You mean you don't have snapchat or messenger or zoom? " Yep, you can call me and if I'm in a good mood and it's convenient for me, there might be a chance that I'll answer your call.
Technically, if your message is "left on read", that means they've checked it, but if I'm busy I'll read a message, and if it's nothing important then it's left until later to reply when I'm free.
You should not have your butt showing out from under your shorts when you’re out walking with your family or at the grocery store.
If you wouldn't have stopped, looked and glared, you wouldn't even have noticed it. If you don't want to see this, there are some countries where you're sure you will never see that again.
I wear a sports bra and Crossfit shorts in the summer as I get incredibly warm and I don't understand why it's a problem. I'm a 28 year old professional and a mom. It sure beats sweating profusely and getting irritated due to the heat as I run about with errands. I certainly don't like looking at people who dress like bums or can't dress for their body shape, such as when arm flabs show, can't accentuate their curves, but never do I think or say 'they should not wear that'.
Parents giving their little kids iPads to entertain them is so weird, especially on holidays. Just talk to each other or play something together! It just seems like the parents want to get rid of the kid, it can not be good for the poor child's development.
i think it is okay for a short time like 15-30 Min. but not for hours or days. Otherwise the kids won't learn to entertain themself, to use the fantasy or to get in contact with other kids to make friends to play with.
Oh summer child, I once thought the same. Yes, there are asshole parents who rely on it wwwaaaaaayy too much. But just because you see it, doesn't mean it's the only thing they do.
I worked at a primary school with 900 kids. They all lived very near the school. When school was out, they all disappeared into thin air, I never saw one of them playing outside. Even when the weather was lovely and you'd expect them to go outside.
It seems like everyone these days is trying to find their big break as a youtuber/influencer/Podcaster and it's incredibly annoying. People need to realize that you either need to be incredibly skilled, interesting, smart, or attractive before people will want to watch/listen to you talk about stuff.
I guess I'll never find my big break as a youtuber/influencer/Podcaster.
Also, don't underestimate the value of really good video editing. No one wants to watch you fumble around for 5 minutes before you start with the actual content. Short and sweet, please. (And don't try to accomplish your task with one hand while filming shakily with the other. Get a tripod, ffs.)
I agree. I particularly hate youtube content where some wannabe news caster sits there and shows video clips while making comments. No one wants to hear or see you do this. It is becoming increasingly hard to find legit documentaries or news on YouTube. Every click brings up another of these untalented nobodies pretending to be a legit reported. I stopped using YouTube because if this.
I used to think that way until I came across a social science report that by 2090, only jobs available will be politics, entertainment and engineers due to AI and robots taking over. That's when I started thinking, the younger generations really do see social media as a viable profession
Unnecessarily loud cars
The only boomer opinion I can see myself having is understanding the value of a good orthopedic bed and pillow (my grandad used to talk about this a lot). My chronic pain kicks the crap out of me unless I'm comfortable.
I’m sorry that you’re living in chronic pain especially nowadays when intractable pain patients cannot get the relief they need by taking medicine that can help them a lot because of the opioid epidemic issue. I think the one thing everybody takes for granted no matter what their generation is their health and well-being. You’re never guaranteed a tomorrow
Something I've noticed is that mattresses don't last nearly as long as they used to. Where did the "replace every 8 years" nonsense come from? It's not like they are any less expensive now.
Used to you turned the mattress around every month and flipped it every year. They lasted a lot longer. Now you just have those "fake mattresses" where you don't have a mattress and a box spring, but a relatively thin mattress on top of a something. You cannot turn it over, because there is no solid mattress, just a way to suck more money out of you.
Load More Replies...Most films have absolutely no need to be more than 2 hours long. 90 minutes can be plenty.
If it's a quality movie you become engrossed in, who cares how long it is
People don't have a sense of shame anymore.
And it's okay for men to brag about their penises and how many women they have over at the crib?
Load More Replies...I disagree. I long for the day I can be as shameless as some of the geriatric patients I have worked with over the years. They are the epitome of IDGAF. Just be yourself (as long as you're not a judgey racist bigoted asshole)
No, shame is social tool to keep us from behaving like assholes. Religion just coopted it for control.
Load More Replies...I absolutely despise social media, it’s wrecked peoples’ attention spans and it shows, you can’t even go to the bar or gym with people without them totally ignoring something you say because they’re on their phones checking Instagram or some other pointless trash, and these are the same people saying I’m rude because I don’t respond to messages instantly, take a look in the mirror lol, not like I have a life outside of my phone or anything… It’s not just the people I know, I see it all the time, I’ve been cutting down my usage of all social media because now I just think “what’s the point in this?” it’s just people I don’t give a shit about in real life sharing absolute garbage. I only have Facebook, Twitter and reddit and can barely stand those three, I go on every now and then but it doesn’t last long, rather spend my time doing something I actually enjoy instead of clicking on random posts to get a quick dopamine hit.
I don't have any "actual" social media (such as Facebook, Reddit, Instagram, etc.) besides BP and a different website meant for teaching coding to kids typically high school and under.
Social media has its good points and it’s bad points. I’m not into the self aggrandizement or the bullying or the hyper judge mental as him or the hyper correctional people who love to correct absolutely everything Nor do I appreciate people who pretend to be holier than now or know more than they really do. On the other hand I learned more from social media and people sharing their experiences when they suffered the same medical issues that I did then I ever learned from any of the people that were on my medical team
People have to want to help themselves if they want to do better in life.
This is absolutely true, but it's important to distinguish between 'wanting to' and 'being able to.' Everyone should want to help themselves, even if they or their community lack the ability to see it through.
Oatmeal is an excellent breakfast, especially with some fruit.
I personally love oatmeal and never quite understood why it was so disliked.
I’m sorry. I’ve tired oatmeal in different ways many times but it’s just not for me. At all. I’m happy with eggs.
A lot of music isn’t as good anymore, but rap is REALLY starting to lose its touch. it’s just a bunch of mumbling, same lyrics, flow and beat, etc etc . little to no creativity is put into rap nowadays.
I totally agree! I've never been much of a rap fan, but I definitely prefer older rap songs to modern ones. They're incredibly repetitive, they always just mumble through the whole song, and whenever you CAN actually understand them, they always talk about horrible stuff like drugs, sex, etc.
I just want to live far away from people and not have anyone bother me while I shoot guns, grow my food, and snuggle my partner and dog
That's exactally what my wife and I are trying to do! My dads side of the family hates us for it....
Baby-momma and baby-daddy culture is exceptionally toxic and harmful to everyone involved. I don’t care if you’re two men, two women, a man and a woman, whatever. If you have a child together, you raise that child.
I think is slowly changing. I think people are now recognizing that you don't have to be a successful couple to successfully raise a healthy kid. It is ok to be separate so long as you remain on good terms to raise kids.
Shows seemed a lot better when I was younger
There was a break somewhere in the early 1990s, where they started spending less on writers and more on production. The camera work, lighting, set design, etc. have generally improved across the board. However, poor writing shows right through. Some shows managed to be captivating, even with cardboard sets.
I've been rewatching some old TV shows. And I cannot disagree with this more. Compare Battlestar Galactica and Galactica 1980 with the remake. I still haven't gotten through the original Lost in Space because it's so stupid. Star Trek seemed great in the 70s because we didn't know better. Or maybe, just Sci-Fi has gotten better. One exception, original Twilight Zone stands the test of time.
Eh, there are always some good and some bad, most mediocre throughout television history.
Imagine being this offended over childrens cartoons. Sad.
Load More Replies...Some things don't hold up well, but many older things are much better than they are now.
Load More Replies...Deciding to have children with your significant other is a bigger commitment than getting married. I don't understand couple's who are in their 30s and decide to have children together but refuse to get married because that's too much of a commitment. It boggles my mind. How does sharing a child for the rest of your life not scare you away but signing a legal paper does freak you out? I have a few acquaintances who are in their mid 30s and in long term relationships where they've had kids but refuse to get married because they're afraid of getting divorced.
Ask the kids what they think of "non-legal" marriages. For the most part they feel really insecure. And do not give me that crap that they will feel even more insecure in a divorce. One is that anyone can just walk away, boy that really makes kids feel secure and the other is a commitment that someone cannot live up to for many reasons. Abuse is NOT a reason, it is a crime.
Load More Replies...You can want to stay together for the rest of your lifes and still not want to marry. If you love each other, why would you need some outside institution - be that a church or a registry office - to confirm that? Unless you believe that God is gonna condemn you to hell because living together without being married is an abomination in His eyes, what would actually be the difference between a married and an unmarried couple?
Exactly. My partner and me arent married nor plan to (because of the social pressure to do parties, the family interfering and so). We have been 7y together and plan on being together for as long as we can.
Load More Replies...Choices exist just like the above point said mind your own business and go about your day.
Yeah, choices exist for INDIVIDUALS. But when you make a choice that has a huge impact on another person then it is someone else's business. Children are not toys nor are they accoutrements to your lifestyle. If you cannot make a commitment to a husband or wife, what makes you think you can have a commitment to a child?
Load More Replies...I tend to agree, but that said there may be very real reasons that people do not get married. The ones that come to mind are legal, financial, religious. Had a friend whose "partner" would've lost access to a rather large cash stream if/when she ever married. Given the size of it, I absolutely understood the decision not to.
Those restrictions on inheritance do NOT hold up in court/.
Load More Replies...Country music has gotten worse.
Has it even changed? There all about a girl tractor or beer! I loved hank Williams 3
It's like any music there are good and bad copies of good and LOUSY copies of bad...
Implying that is was only bad at some time. It was terrible from the start and it reached rock bottom with achy breaky heart.
Pop music is trash now.
Pop music has ALWAYS been trash. It's formulated to capitalize on fads and make money, not be a lasting impact on society. For every pop tune that has remained popular for generations, there are a thousand more that were binned along the way.
Disagree. Historically, there are thousands of extremely well-written pop songs. I mean, the Beatles early stuff was all pop, and it's still good today.
Load More Replies...Agree with this mostly, but there is some good pop music out there. It's always been that way
Mumble rap is terrible.
Basically any music with indistinguishable lyrics. You can tell vocalization is going on, but that's about it. Contrast that with 80s/90s rap where distinct lyrics and a clear message were part of the purpose.
Load More Replies...I hate the generic young people I am currently sitting on a bus and there is a herd of teenagers in the back playing bad rap music very loudly for everyone to hear
I hate it when people are walking along playing terrible music as loud as possible. WE DON'T ALL LIKE YOUR S**T MUSIC! HEADPHONES EXIST PEOPLE!!!
Loud music coming from the bar next door while I'm trying to sleep is infuriating.
Yes, and that's why it's so infuriating. It's like city people moving to a rural environment and next taking their neighbors to court because their cows stink. Or the idiots who build houses near a highway and next want a speed limit of 35 on that highway because of the noise that speeding traffic makes. And let's not get started about the morons who buy a house near an airport and next complain about air planes landing and taking off.
Load More Replies...This reminds me of people who buy houses near our local AFB, then complain about the noise of the F-15s. What did you expect?
Accordion is one of the best instruments
My parents succumbed to a door-to-door accordion salesman and I paid the price.
Yeah! Pull out an accordion at "Last Call," and watch the place clear out!!! (I'm kidding!)
Get a job
Easier said than done for many and quite ignorant to think otherwise.
My company offers full benefits with 100% coverage on literally everything and retirement packages PLUS starting pay at $35/hour...has 400 open positions and can't even fill 50 of them. Tell me again it's difficult or that people don't want to work for a non-livable wage?
Load More Replies...My company has over 600 job openings. And we're having trouble finding people to fill them
If you work hard, you’ll be rewarded.
Working harder doesn't change your income. The slacker in your team brings home the same money as you.
My most "boomer" opinion is that you don't need a new car, period. Buy a good model that can survive the Apocalypse, keep it properly maintained, then laugh all the way to the bank when someone with their fancy current-year model tries to shame you for owning a 20-year-old sedan. My car's cost me less keeping it running in 5 years than a new car's lease alone costs in just a single year, and I actually OWN my car.
My millenial opinion is: I don't need any car at all.
Load More Replies...I think we need to really look at whether or not we’re part of the problem when we complain about something but we don’t do anything about helping to resolve our complaints. I myself try not to use the words should and shouldn’t I prefer to invite people to change not tell them to change. I have a good story to relay if you have a minute. Some people were camping in Yosemite on vacation and next to them some people pulled in and turn the stereo up really loud. After and during this for a couple of minutes the dad walked over to the young people with the loud stereo and ask them have you come to Yosemite before? Not really knowing how to react because they were expecting an argument, They started a conversation and one of the things the dad said was we come here to listen to the birds and to listen to the waterfall and to really leave our music at home because we want to hear the music of nature and we would like to invite you for dinner with us tonight.
Part two now both families vacation in Yosemite at the same time every year and they enjoy each other’s company and there’s no loud radio it’s all in how you approach things you don’t need to fight with people to get your point across you don’t need to degrade them demoralized them or tell them that the wrong. Invite change don’t demand it
Load More Replies...Is it me or do they keep changing the title on this one? I have seen three different titles now.
More divisive generational posts. People do realize that the generational labels, boomer, gen x,y,z, millennial, is all made up, that before boomers there were no generational labels, and are all used for marketing purposes. How about we all just leave the labels behind and just exist as people of all different ages.
Because some people are glad to be marketing slave warriors. For free. :)
Load More Replies...I'm a " boomer " and I wouldn't even be aware of the generational thing if it wasn't for Panda and similar media. I'm sure as hell not qualified to tell somebody how to live today. I admit it bothers me a little when they call me sir. I'd much prefer " stud. "
My most "boomer" opinion is that you don't need a new car, period. Buy a good model that can survive the Apocalypse, keep it properly maintained, then laugh all the way to the bank when someone with their fancy current-year model tries to shame you for owning a 20-year-old sedan. My car's cost me less keeping it running in 5 years than a new car's lease alone costs in just a single year, and I actually OWN my car.
My millenial opinion is: I don't need any car at all.
Load More Replies...I think we need to really look at whether or not we’re part of the problem when we complain about something but we don’t do anything about helping to resolve our complaints. I myself try not to use the words should and shouldn’t I prefer to invite people to change not tell them to change. I have a good story to relay if you have a minute. Some people were camping in Yosemite on vacation and next to them some people pulled in and turn the stereo up really loud. After and during this for a couple of minutes the dad walked over to the young people with the loud stereo and ask them have you come to Yosemite before? Not really knowing how to react because they were expecting an argument, They started a conversation and one of the things the dad said was we come here to listen to the birds and to listen to the waterfall and to really leave our music at home because we want to hear the music of nature and we would like to invite you for dinner with us tonight.
Part two now both families vacation in Yosemite at the same time every year and they enjoy each other’s company and there’s no loud radio it’s all in how you approach things you don’t need to fight with people to get your point across you don’t need to degrade them demoralized them or tell them that the wrong. Invite change don’t demand it
Load More Replies...Is it me or do they keep changing the title on this one? I have seen three different titles now.
More divisive generational posts. People do realize that the generational labels, boomer, gen x,y,z, millennial, is all made up, that before boomers there were no generational labels, and are all used for marketing purposes. How about we all just leave the labels behind and just exist as people of all different ages.
Because some people are glad to be marketing slave warriors. For free. :)
Load More Replies...I'm a " boomer " and I wouldn't even be aware of the generational thing if it wasn't for Panda and similar media. I'm sure as hell not qualified to tell somebody how to live today. I admit it bothers me a little when they call me sir. I'd much prefer " stud. "
