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People Were Flabbergasted When Their Partner’s Family Did Or Said These 44 Things To Them
Meeting your partner’s family is a pretty important part of any long term relationship, but some people have had the misfortune of growing up among some downright unpleasant people. Don’t believe me? Well, then prepare to see the worst some families have to offer.
A netizen asked women to share the most disrespectful things they’ve ever experienced from their partner’s family and people did not hold back. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote the wildest ones and be sure to add your own thoughts and experiences in the comments section below.
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#1
When I brought my GF home to meet my parents. I was in the kitchen making lunch while parents talked to her and they made her sit on the floor to talk and talking down at her. I walked in and saw it so we left. Didn’t go back home for 2 years.
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#2
My ex bf’s parents didn’t like the fact that i wasn’t white (I’m asian). His mom literally told him , “she’s super sweet and seems amazing, but too bad she’s not caucasian” and i said “and too bad Susan doesn’t know how to season her food, but here we are!”
#3
a piece of grilled chicken fell on the floor and his step dad said “its okay emma can eat it because shes mexican”. no one defended me.
#4
My MIL told me the family connected better when I wasn’t around and asked me to not attend Christmas dinner as a result… the Christmas dinner that I was cooking & hosting in my home 💀
#5
I wore red lipstick for a dinner and they told me I wore it because I wanted the attention from everyone, wore a bikini to tan in and was asked to change so the dad and brother weren’t “tempted”
#6
Overheard monster in law saying to my then 4 month old baby that baby would have been better off if I died during childbirth
#7
My husband told me to accept my dream job knowing we would have to move 1 1/2 hours away from his family (which he is very supportive of me and my choices🥰) and as we were packing up our things and loading up the vehicle, his dad comes over red faced and angry and told me I was the devil for taking his son away from him…he was 22 at the time. Hubby defended me and our decision to move and has been peaceful (in our lives) since we’ve moved 🥰
#8
My exes mum offered me a cookie and I politely took one and started eating it. He walked in and screamed at her. It was a dog biscuit.
#9
his mum said we cant get married because she doesnt want grandchildren with down’s syndrome bc my sister has it
Sue Denham 5 months ago
"And I don't want a mother-in-law with ignorant b!tch syndrome, but I'm still prepared to marry him."
#10
i had JUST met his uncle for the very first time. we had a sweet bonding moment that i enjoyed until he says “i don’t know why your mother-in-law says you’re manipulative and abusive! you’re so sweet
#11
I had a miscarriage. I drove myself to the hospital bleeding profusely. My partner's mother told me - don't tell him you had a miscarriage, so he doesn't get stressed.
#12
im allergic to cinnamon. his whole family knows. every time he says we are all invited over his mom always has 5 different desserts all with cinnamon. we've been together 6 years.
#13
I have so many examples. First ever being when we were dating, they told him I was with him just for his money (military) - I got him out of debt & he was living in MY house for free🙃 like what
#14
Got told I “ruined the whole family” because I didn’t want to be around smoke while I was pregnant 🙃
#15
his mama was letting him text his ex off HER phone so he wouldn’t get caught on his
#16
His mom blocked me on facebook because I shared a post about my university requiring vaccines…she’s a nurse
#18
wanted us to drive an hour to their house (in the middle of nowhere) right after i just had our first child (refused to come to us) during a massive storm, when we said we didn’t feel safe driving to theirs in the storm with our new baby his mum said “i think the storm arrived 4 years ago” meaning me
#19
They told him to get a DNA test because I was pregnant…after they found out HE had been CHEATING on me.
Glen Ellyn 5 months ago
Someone needs to explain to them how human biology works. Oh, and great son you have there, folks! 🙄
#20
It was his first bday as a husband/dad. I made him his favorite dinner and dessert invited his parents over. They said why don’t you stay home with the baby and we take him to dinner.
#21
When my ex was having an affair, his parents would take the stuff I had at the house, put it in a box & hide it in their bedroom until the girl left the house…then they’d put all my stuff back where it was for when I came over
#22
All his family was gathered together for Thanksgiving and I went to grab a second plate of food and his dad yelled infront of everyone “Lorena you don’t need another plate” and my ex didn’t defend me
#23
Our wedding day was “one of the saddest days ever” according to my MIL
#24
I spilled some water one time and they made me a sippy cup with my name on it
#25
His mom told me it was “my fault our baby had jaundice because I’m white and only white people get jaundice.” He was born early…
#26
His mother told me I would never be good enough for her son, then proceeded to set him up with a lesbian
#27
His dad was my teacher in 4 different French classes prior to us dating, went to their house where he openly spoke out loud in French saying I look like their dog
tresgatos72 5 months ago
I would have cussed him out in Irish or some other language he couldn't understand.
#28
We have a 4 month old baby together and his family doesn’t want me around and has been expecting me to leave my baby with them without me being there 😃
StrangeOne 5 months ago
This sounds sus. Way too sus. I wouldn't trust them bring around my baby at all.
#29
My husband was diagnosed with depression and my in-laws told me I was the reason 😀
#30
His mom reached out to me after finding out that her son bought me lululemon (~$200) and asked me to pay him back
#31
Gave his mum a bracelet and his brother said “ she probably spent 3$ on that”. I brought chocolate, his brother said “ that’s not even a real chocolate “
#32
His parents didn’t speak English and I was actively trying to learn Spanish and his dad would talk really fast to me then go “HUH HUH HUH” and start laughing at me/mocking me bc I didn’t understand.
#33
Did a dna test on my daughter behind my back
#34
After he cheated his family said “if you really love him you’ll accept his apology and move forward from this. You have to be supportive”.
tresgatos72 5 months ago
"I support him leaving so I don't have to see any of you a-holes ever again." I hope you kicked him to the curb!
#35
I took my MIL with us to find out the gender of our baby, and I told her before the appointment “DO NOT TELL ANYBODY” anyway after the appointment as we were getting in the car she said “my family says congrats on the boy!” So yeah I didn’t get to have a gender reveal party
#36
His mom said “I would of gotten you an Easter basket but you’re not family yet” I didn’t even want the Easter basket but prior to that on Christmas she said welcome to the family
#37
His dad thought our son wasn’t his & wanted a DNA Test. He doesn’t know that I know he said that and now he plays grandpa like he never said that.
tresgatos72 5 months ago
I would have said, "Sure, we'll do a DNA test, as long as YOU do one!" And them not let him see the kid until he complied. FAFO.
#38
i’m in college and his dad came to visit one weekend. we were out at the bars and he said to me “if you have a janet jackson moment i won’t look” implying if my bewb fell out HE WOULDNT LOOK. what.
tresgatos72 5 months ago
"If you have another Weinstein moment I"ll kick you where it counts." I hope the SO told the dad off!
#39
i had an ED (well known by my exs family) and for christmas one year they gave me a full set of the santa clarita diet cookbooks
#40
His mom wouldn’t let him come pick me up from being broken down on the side of the interstate in Atlanta (20 min drive for him) and I had to get my grandma to come (2 1/2 hour drive)
#41
He cheated on me with his coworker and his mom said "its normal it happens you need to move on"
#42
his sister commented on his exs tiktok “i miss u we all do” (meaning the family misses her)
MeowZedong 5 months ago
That's not even disrespectful. Maybe his sister was close to his ex and she was well liked by the family. If you don't like it stop following his ex's tictok.
#43
we have this thing called “çeyiz” where the bride gets stuff ready for marriage like the nightgown she’ll wear on the wedding night usually the MIL buys it so when my mom picked a really pretty one my aunt told my grandma “if you buy that don’t ever call me your daughter again” because the nightgown was too good
#44
Were broken up for a few months. I had a cryptic pregnancy (ifykyk) and I had to tell him about his child ofc. He believed me but he told his sisters about the baby first and they automatically
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Pittsburgh rare 5 months ago
Insulting how many of these men didn't stand up for their partners. Surprising how many of them weren't dumped on the spot
Sarah 5 months ago (edited)
I was 19, visiting then boyfriends parents . Overheard the mother say.. don’t tell me a girl who looks like that is a virgin. I was NINETEEN amd shy..I was asked to do model by agencies but I was in no way dressed inappropriately- to shy to wear dresses or shorts, it would have been jeans and a nice top
Beak Hookage 5 months ago
People who obsess over whether other people have had s*x yet - and ESPECIALLY when it's a young girl - are SO f*****g creepy and deranged.
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Bonnie Blue Bird 5 months ago
Was invited to family dinner. Told them ahead of time that I'm vegetarian. They said it was fine that all the sides were veggie. After dinner the mom laughed and told me that she snuck meat into all the side dishes and that I was no longer vegetarian.
Sarah 5 months ago
What a brilliant joke.. she should be on the stage. So we can throw rotten fruit at her
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Pittsburgh rare 5 months ago
Insulting how many of these men didn't stand up for their partners. Surprising how many of them weren't dumped on the spot
Sarah 5 months ago (edited)
I was 19, visiting then boyfriends parents . Overheard the mother say.. don’t tell me a girl who looks like that is a virgin. I was NINETEEN amd shy..I was asked to do model by agencies but I was in no way dressed inappropriately- to shy to wear dresses or shorts, it would have been jeans and a nice top
Beak Hookage 5 months ago
People who obsess over whether other people have had s*x yet - and ESPECIALLY when it's a young girl - are SO f*****g creepy and deranged.
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Was invited to family dinner. Told them ahead of time that I'm vegetarian. They said it was fine that all the sides were veggie. After dinner the mom laughed and told me that she snuck meat into all the side dishes and that I was no longer vegetarian.
Sarah 5 months ago
What a brilliant joke.. she should be on the stage. So we can throw rotten fruit at her
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